As a technician in the power industry, TJ Mackenzie was part of a “manly” profession in which stress was high and talking about emotions was discouraged. It nearly destroyed his marriage. Through counseling, he got the help he needed and now provides counseling and relationship coaching for men in similar situations. TJ talks this week about his journey and what he’s learned about sharing emotions honestly.
Segments/chapters
0:00 How TJ went from electrical technician to minister and counselor
10:57 TJ’s spiritual background/What does redemption mean to you?
14:00 Why many men become disconnected from their spouses
23:50 A path to rebuilding marriages in crisis
30:52 Encouragement and resources for men having severe marriage problems
35:16 The difference between “being emotional” and being in touch with our emotions
41:46 What TJ is most grateful for in his marriage today
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