May 29, 2025 • 29 mins
This week is a solo where I talk about navigating change, questioning your path, or learning to sit in the space between who you were and who you're becoming.
In this episode, I talk about:
- Why spaciousness can be disorienting (and healing)
- The identity shift of being a mom since 23
- How our nervous system and emotions guide us back home
- The astrology behind this moment and what it’s revealing
- How the 6th line in Human Design shows up in my storytelling and integration
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Welcome to the Rochelle Christian podcast,
formerly the Emotional Masterypodcast.
I'm Rochelle, your host.
I'm here to help you come backto your body, take charge of
your emotions and live life onyour terms.
This podcast is a space for raw, real conversations about what
it means to trust yourself, leaninto your power and create a
life that feels aligned andalive.
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We'll explore human design,astrology and other tools to
help you understand your uniqueenergy.
More importantly, though, we'regoing to talk about what it
means to actually live andembody these aspects.
So, each week, I'm going toshare stories, lessons, guidance
to help you navigate life'schallenges and really own your
magic.
So if you're ready to step up,take control and show up as the
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most authentic version of you,let's begin.
Welcome to the podcast.
This week is really one of thoseepisodes where I have no agenda
.
I have so much to say, so muchI've been moving through, and
this is going to be just one ofthose like grab a cup of coffee,
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grab a tea, whatever yourdesired drink is, and let's just
move through it, let's justtalk about it.
I feel like there was asituation that I have been
alluding to, I've been talkingabout, but not like fully
talking about that I feel likeI'm ready to talk about, because
I've moved through my wavemultiple times, I've gotten
clarity on it and there's just alot going on, as there always
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is, astrologically, individually, and just more clarity on
certain things.
That, yeah, that I just feelready to come here and process
through, or or rather I'veprocessed through it and now I'm
ready to share it.
That six line is like let's go.
Let let's fully share thesituation.
My kids left today, as I'mrecording this, for about five
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weeks and this has beensomething that we started three
years ago, so this will be thethird summer, the first time
that they left for this amountof time.
I had not been alone for morethan three days in 14 years and
it was wild.
It's like you know, like we getso in our routine, right In our
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daily life.
We go to work If you're aparent, then you have kids you
have to clean, you have to cook,you have to do all of these
things that like we have to doI'm air quoting and when the
thing that you put the mostenergy to is taken out of the
equation.
And, of course, like I'm stilla mom, I'm still answering phone
calls.
I'm still like all that kind ofstuff.
I'm still communicating with mykids every day.
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It's not like, no, no contactwith my kids for five weeks, but
the daily ins and outs.
Like I can literally go sit onthe couch and read for six hours
uninterrupted if I want to.
It's wild and that sounds likethe first time this happened.
I was like whoa, this is whatsingle people experience,
because I got pregnant at 23.
So I've literally been a momsince I was 23 years old.
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There's not been.
You know, a lot of my friendsgot to experience their 20s with
freedom and kind of doingthings that are, I guess,
traditional again, air quoting,traditional of like getting the
job, finding the partner,getting engaged, having the
children and so, like a lot ofmy friends or people I know are
at my age now, either notparents still or parents of
young children or like gettinginto that, and so it's just
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really interesting because thenI'm going to be in my 40s, child
free.
Of course my kids are stillgoing to be, you know, adults
and around, but essentiallychild free, able to live the
life that I didn't live in the20s.
And what's really cool aboutthat actually is because, like I
feel like I've really come tounderstand who I am so much more
that when I am in my 40s and mykids are graduated and adults,
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it's going to be so fun becauseI just love myself so much more
now than I did in my 20s,because I didn't know who I was
in my 20s like at all.
I couldn't have told you what Iwanted to do with my life.
I had no direction.
I was just trying to getthrough the day as a new young
mom which, like traditionally incertain cultures, you know, the
parents would live their lifeand the grandparents would take
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care of the children and then,when the children had children,
then the parents would turn intothe grandparents and it was
just this cycle.
And like they say, it takes avillage to raise a child.
It truly does.
And I think in our culture, inour society we're so, we value
so much this hyper independenceand it's really hard, like I
don't think this is the waywe're meant to be parenting and
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doing life right.
We're meant to have a supportsystem, and so that first year
was again so confronting.
I did not know who I was, Ididn't know what to do with
myself, I didn't know, I didn'trealize how much I was
distracting myself or avoidingor just not facing because I was
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a busy mom, myself and myshadows and the things that
wanted to come up and the thingsthat wanted to work on.
So then last year I had afriend stay with me for the
summer, so I had the freedom,but I had someone this summer
I'm not dating anyone, my kidsare not here.
I just got a job, like a parttime job that I plan on just
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working through as much as I canover the next like five weeks,
and so there's all this spacefor just me.
It's a really interestingperiod and I intentionally,
before they left, I set theintention that, a I would do
something new every week Doesn'thave to be anything big or
whatever, just something to likepush me out of my comfort zone
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a little bit and B that I wasgoing to really lean in and do
the work, because Jupiter movesinto cancer on the 9th and
Jupiter is an area of your chartas a planet.
Right, it's expansion, it's luck, it's the guru planet, it is
the biggest planet in the sky.
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So I've always seen Jupiter asa sort of like pulsating energy,
and wherever Jupiter is in yourchart is where you have the
most opportunity for growth andexpansion.
Of course, the shadow of thatis overindulgence in whatever it
is.
Whatever your vices right canreally be a Jupiter thing.
I have Jupiter square Venus, soI noticed a lot that
overindulgence in like spending,like shopping or eating
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especially with my Taurus sun Ican definitely.
I love the fine, like finedining to me, I love it, I'm
obsessed.
I love the creativity, I lovethe presentation.
That's that Venus, that likeaesthetic that I love.
But again, that can come backto like Venus and Jupiter just
overindulging in things that itdoesn't need to overindulge in.
But when you are in yourhighest expression, right, like
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Jupiter is an area that you havethe most opportunity for growth
in your chart.
And so, with Jupiter movinginto Cancer on the 9th, this to
me speaks of a really deepopportunity to do the work right
.
The moon rules Cancer.
Cancer is about your innerexperience, the moon, your inner
experience, your inner world.
This is your family, this isyour ancestors.
So this feels a lot of likechildhood healing, like inner
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child healing, really facingthat, reparenting yourself,
ancestral work, right, likehealing your ancestral lineage
or connecting with yourancestors, understanding that
better, nurturing yourself,taking care of yourself.
But of course, everything hasequal and opposite, right?
So if we're expanding on allthose beautiful nurturing, you
know, sensitive, watery sides ofcancer, then there is that
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other side of cancer, that hardshell that keeps people out,
right?
So it's like what are youchoosing to focus on?
What are you choosing to expandon?
I was in the car with my sonyesterday, or no.
We were taking a walk and hesaid point your finger at
something in the sky.
So I pointed my finger atsomething in the sky.
He said close one eye.
So I closed my eye.
Then he said now, open that eyeand close the other eye.
So I closed the other eye.
He goes you're not pointing atthe same thing.
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And it was such a to me it feltlike such a clear example of
perspective, right.
And I went on to explain thisto him, which he quickly changed
the subject because he's eight,he doesn't care about that, but
hopefully it's stored somewherein his brain.
But two people can see theexact same thing and see two
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completely different things,right?
And so it's so much aboutperspective and Jupiter.
It's like it's enhancing, it'sexpanding what you're focusing
on.
So if you're focusing onnurturing yourself, taking care
of yourself, connecting withyour ancestors, whatever it is.
That's what it will enhance on,that's what it will expand on.
Remember, cancer is also supermoody, right, like cancer is I,
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like the moon, the tides, thedivine feminine is always
changing and it's not a badthing we have this whole.
I've realized how moody I am,like I've always known it and
but it's always been a shadow,because everybody's like, oh,
walk on eggshells and I'memotional authority and things
like that.
But I also feel like when I'mconnected to my feminine and and
it's a matter of emotionalintelligence that I did not have
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before to know that maybe Ineed to remove myself from the
situation, especially making adecision, because I'm going to
cycle through things multipletimes and sometimes it's going
to feel like the worst thing inthe world, sometimes it's going
to feel like the best thing inthe world, and if you're not
emotionally defined, you willnot understand the nuance and
the dynamic of that right.
And so I am a terrible liar.
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I really have a hard timefaking things.
So I have to really just beaware of my energy and how I'm
presenting it and who I'm aroundand how they're going to
perceive it, because if I'm in alow, it's really hard for me to
like fake a smile and you know,like I just I can't.
I've never really been able to.
And I see people who are justlike always happy and always
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putting on a smile regardless ofwhat's happening on inside, and
I think it's a beautifulquality.
It's just not me and a lot of myjourney over this year has been
just like shedding and pullingoff these pieces of myself that
don't feel good anymore and notto say that being, you know,
optimistic doesn't feel good.
But if I'm in a mood, like I'min a mood, like I'm in a mood,
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it's who I am.
I'm old enough now tounderstand that about myself,
that that's just who I am andit's going to change.
It literally could be fiveminutes from now and I'm totally
fine.
But in the moment it's reallyhard for me to put on a smile if
that's not what I'm internallyfeeling.
And of course, being in theservice industry, like you have
to, obviously I'm not going tobe going to work crying and
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moping around and things likethat.
But within reason, right, Ijust it's really hard for me to
fake being in a good mood if I'mnot.
And again, this year has reallybeen this shedding, releasing
things that don't feel good,releasing labels, releasing
caring what people think,because I think, with a Libra
South node, I'm very good atpeople pleasing, I'm very good
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at giving you what you want tohear.
And I was sitting with anastroneedra on Sunday night I
think it was before the new moonand I kept falling asleep
during this one I, and it wasbeautiful and there was.
You know, I've done it for thelast three nights and I've, more
or less over the last threenights, caught varying parts of
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the astronegia, but I just keptfalling asleep.
But I woke up, came to like atthe end of this the first night,
and she posed a question oflike, what is it that you've
been avoiding?
That you know you need to do?
And I think we all know theanswer to that, right, we all
know the answer to that.
It's for me, that's boundaries,it's saying no, it's speaking
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my truth and just releasing Like.
I do think that we can obviouslyset boundaries in a loving way.
It doesn't have to be cold anduncaring and unkind, and I think
that we're taught as obviouslydepends on your family dynamics
and everything but I think thatwe're taught when we're young,
that setting boundaries is coldand uncaring and selfish, and
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you know there are so manymessages out there, which I
think is why we have to be socareful about social media and
what we're consuming.
I was listening to GaryVaynerchuk today and he was
talking about, first of all,parents coming to him, being
like you're telling them to geton TikTok and this, that and the
other thing, and my 14 year oldshouldn't be on TikTok, and
he's like, well, be a parent anddelete it off their phone.
Like, don't come at me, right?
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But also just that what theexample before, like perspective
, is everything what you seeyou're going to find evidence of
.
So if you're going into socialmedia and if you're watching
things that are negative, thatare dramatic, that are
propaganda, that are spreadingfalse narratives, like of course
you're going to think socialmedia is bad.
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I try and be really intentionalabout what.
And also, little tip if youdon't, if you didn't know it,
you can actually erase yoursearch history.
You can erase, like as a clearslate.
Do that on Instagram I can'tremember exactly where it is,
but it's in your settingssomewhere.
You can go in there, google it,but you can literally clear
your search history just andthen go search.
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What do you want to search?
You want to search astrology.
You want to search spirituality.
You want to search gratitude.
You want to search positivevibes, like.
Put those in and just like, gothrough and like and watch a
whole bunch of them.
I did that and I was in thiswhole um, I mean, I'm still in
the whole romantic phase, but Icleared all my searches and then
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I was watching like romanticreels, like books and stuff like
that, and then all that wascoming up for a while was sex,
which is like people talkingabout sex and you know there was
relationship stuff and it wasactually kind of humorous.
And then I quickly like notquickly, but I filtered in.
You know, again you could clearyour slate, and point being
that you are the algorithm, andthat's what he was saying was
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like social media is just areflection.
The algorithm is just areflection of you, and so often
we don't want to takeresponsibility for ourselves and
we don't want to takeresponsibility for the things
that we're putting out andcalling in, right.
So if you think that socialmedia is bad air quote right
then change the algorithm,delete your search history and
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only look at things that arepositive and you'll realize
quickly.
Maybe you want the drama.
I think as humans, it'scompletely normal that we thrive
a little bit on drama.
I think we're used toconnecting over drama and when
you remove that it can bechallenging because you're again
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, a lot of people might leaveyour life.
That Again, a lot of peoplemight leave your life.
That don't resonate, you don'tclick anymore.
Yeah, point being, perspectiveis everything, and I think the
universe is always working foryou.
So when you decide that youwant something to change in your
life, the universe will giveyou opportunities to call that
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in and they're not going to feelcomfortable.
This is something I'm realizingso much.
I feel like things have beenfalling away and things have
been feeling uncomfortable.
And again, when I was asked thatquestion in that astronegia,
like what is the thing thatyou've been avoiding that you
know you need to do, I wasimmediately, in the last three
days, given opportunities toshow up and do that thing.
So the universe is constantly.
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It's like Saturn return, right,like Saturn return, like these
lessons we need to learn.
If we don't learn them throughthat Saturn return, our next
Saturn return, those same themesare going to show up.
We're consistently going toface the thing that we don't
want to, or we were consistentlygoing to face the thing that we
need to heal over and, over andover again.
Right, and it's so easy to belike, oh well, I failed that
test and here I'll give you myexample of like what happened
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recently for me that I'm likeready to kind of talk about.
I went on a date with somebodywho I had known before I'd known
for a while before and it waslike great, literally, it was
like I felt like it waseverything I've been looking for
, like everything emotionallyavailable, physically
affectionate, like listens,words of affirmation, like
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literally everything.
It was like everything thathappened.
I was like, whoa, this is likeanother check in my, in my box
of like things that I've beenlooking for.
And so it was great.
And I think, because I hadknown this person prior to that
date, it felt like more thanjust one date and I was like so
and this is another thing withJupiter, and I don't know what
the Jupiter transits werelooking at that time, but this
is just coming to me too.
But when you're in like thehighest expression of Jupiter,
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you can feel like buzzy andenergetic and like really
excited.
That's kind of like thatJupiter energy.
But that's how I felt for likea week around this date, just
like everything was like.
I felt like it was anothercheckbox.
I was like whoa, I didn't knowthat it actually existed.
And so I told myself and maybeI maybe it was like a
self-fulfilling prophecy, butthings were like going really,
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really good.
And then I could feel I had thatjust overly anxious high energy
where I was just like buzzingand I was distractible.
Is that a word?
I was distractible because Iwas like so like, just like so
excited and I knew I was goingto crash, because it's just the
way it is Everything is cyclical.
What goes up must come down.
And so I knew I was going tocrash.
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I knew I was going to crashhard, but I was like you know,
I've done the work, it's fine,it's going to be whatever when
it happens.
And when I tell you like itcrashed so hard and I remember I
can't remember I think it wason a new moon call and she was
saying that like trauma is toofast, too hard, too soon.
And this was like after I hadsort of self-sabotaged because I
had asked a question and theywere kind of like well, are you
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thinking this is more than it is?
Like we've only gone on onedate?
And I was like, well, realitycheck.
And then I felt like an idiotand I was really embarrassed.
But it is what it is Right.
And then we tried to like kindof make it work after that and
it just like fell away, whichwas disappointing, because I
felt like again, I felt likethere was, I feel like there was
so much potential and it wasreally cool.
But also then it was to me theway I reframed it in my mind,
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because perspective iseverything.
I was like, okay, the universewas trying to give me what I've
been asking for.
My nervous system wasn't quiteready for it and I
self-sabotaged it's as simple asthat Now for me.
For a while I was like, oh mygosh, like I kind of beat up on
myself a little bit.
But then when I rephrase it, youknow, it's like there are eight
billion people on this planetto think that that was my one
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opportunity to find arelationship, please.
Like no, right, like we have toreframe these things, we have
to zoom out a little bit, like,yes, it was super disappointing.
Yes, I do feel like it was anexpander moment.
The universe is like lookwhat's possible, like the thing
that you've been asking for isout there, it's, it's possible.
You don't have to stay in thistoxic cycle.
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So it was like it gave me.
It was like it pulled back thecurtains and to show me what's
possible, and the fact thatthings fell off, like it just
wasn't meant to be right, like Itruly believe if what is meant
to be will be, and it wasn't,and that's totally fine.
But again, it was a totalexpander moment for me and
that's how I choose to view it,because the alternative is just
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to like, you know, I mean, again, in hindsight, it was one date
I felt like, again, I knew theperson.
So it felt like more than Iguess where it was, or there was
a lack of communication orsomething happened, and it's all
fine.
But again it was just thatmoment where I was like, okay,
this sucks, it sucks, you know.
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Okay, um, this sucks, it sucks.
You know I've been single forgoing on eight years now.
No, seven years, seven.
My son is nine.
Yeah, seven, eight years,almost eight years, which is a
long time.
I mean, like I've dated peopleand I've had situations and you
know, whatever, but there is apart of me that really desires
to be in a relationship and notin like a frantic.
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I can't be without it.
I'm going to be depressed kindof way, like no, but having that
like dangling carrot showed mehow much I really want to be in
a relationship.
And so now I know, withcontrast, right now I know that
when I approach a situation, Idon't care if it's date one or
two or three, like just havingthe intention of like yes, like
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obviously I don't know what thisis, but like I do want a
relationship.
So if I'm going to be datingyou, if I'm going to be showing
up for you, it's going to bewith the intention that we're
moving things forward right,like even like assessing after
like three months.
And so, yeah, it was just it wasa really challenging period of
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time, but also, like I said, itwas an expander moment where
it's like it's possible, it'sout there, and that was the
first time that I had seensomeone or met someone or been
not a relationship, but justyeah, where I saw, seem to
believe Right, I saw somebodywho was like super nice,
considerate, respectfulgentleman, like all those things
and which it felt easy.
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I felt peace, other than when Ihad my chaos moment, but like
being together, like I feltpeace in the in in.
We saw each other twice.
I saw peace in those two times.
So, yeah, it just again, I canchoose how I'm going to view it.
I can choose my perspective, mylens, and I choose to see that
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as opportunity and expander.
And so whatever happens happensand it's fine.
And this summer, while I havelike five weeks to myself, I
really plan on just like divingin and doing the work,
especially again with Jupitermoving into Cancer, it's giving
us an opportunity to really dothat in our work and to heal
those parts of ourselves and toface those parts of ourselves
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Because, like I said, we tend tolike we get in the routine of
our daily life, whatever thatlooks like for you, and there's
a monotony to it and there's astructure to it, and so it's
sometimes it's like looking atthe habits and the routines that
you have set, like do theyactually support your growth of
wherever it is that you want toend up, wherever it is that you
want to go?
Do they support that or don'tthey?
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You know there's there's nolike right or wrong.
And I think again, when we'recomparing ourselves to other
people, when we're gettingdistracted by all the noise
whether it's on social media oraround you, or like your parents
are like you should be doingthat, you should be doing this,
there is no right or wrong.
And I think about thatsometimes.
I'm like why do I care?
Because, at the end of the day,nobody lives in my mind, nobody
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experiences what I experience.
I truly create my reality, Icreate my life, I create my
perspective.
So I'm taking that veryseriously.
Maybe is the word.
I recently picked up somebartending shifts and my ego was
fighting me so hard and I waslike who cares?
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Who cares what anybody thinksabout the fact that I'm doing
what I have to do right for myfamily?
Like I also get to do this parttime and then I get to do that
part-time.
Like this is my main and thenthat's my part-time, it's my
supplemental supporting income.
But like, how many people cantruly say that?
Like they're actually doing thething that they love?
Like I can actually say that Ican actually say that I am doing
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the thing that I absolutelylove and that is so cool?
Like I'm growing, I'm healing.
I'm growing this thing intosomething that's sustainable and
also the reality of it is.
I have to supplement right nowand my ego was fighting me
really hard, like I was going infor to train and I was just
like I was dragging my feet.
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And then I just started beingintentional.
I was sitting in my car beforeI went in I was like today's
going to great, it's gonna beeasy, it's gonna be fun.
Like I get to meet new people,I get to connect, because I
truly do as an MG, I think beingout in the world offers me a
lot of opportunities and I hadfound that I was spending a lot
of time just in my house and Ithink that generators,
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specifically because we'reresponding to things around us,
can be expanded more.
Being out around people and so,even if it's just a few days a
week, um, whatever, like beingout and and, yeah, being around
people and and getting thatenergy, um, it's also been
exhausting.
I've been so tired because I'vebeen so out of practice, like
being on my feet, um, that I'mlike I'm tired, but it's all
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good, right.
Like I do truly believe thatwe're exactly where we're meant
to be learning what we're meantto be learning.
The universe is offering usopportunities to heal and to
grow and we're either going totake them or we're going to
leave them, and if we leave them, it's fine.
It's going to come back around.
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If that continue, if youcontinue to have the same goals,
the same dreams, the sameaspirations, the universe is
going to continue to give youthe same lessons to get you
there.
And so, like I've been sayingon social media and I'm sure
I've said it here on the podcast, like practice in micro moments
, like in little moments of theday, when little things come up
that you maybe don't think arethat big of a deal, but you feel
that little like feeling oflike, oh, I don't want to do
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that or I need to set a boundarythere that's not going to blow
up in your face or it's notgoing to cause you massive
confrontation.
Just practice in those moments,because when you practice in
those moments, then the biggerthings are going to become
easier.
But we have to start somewhere.
It's like one foot in front ofthe other, right, one step in
front of the other.
Practice and it will get youthere.
You will begin to move theneedle and it's not supposed to
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be easy, right?
If it was easy, everybody wouldbe doing it.
And so, just coming intoyourself, listening to your body
, practice, grounding, tools,whatever that looks like for you
, whether it's meditation,whether it's breath work, going
out for a walk, whateverPractice that, pull it into your
daily life and just see whereit takes you.
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Coming into your body, I feellike, is the answer Trusting
yourself, knowing yourself,honoring yourself yeah, I think
that is the answer.
Trusting yourself, knowingyourself, honoring yourself yeah
, I think that's the answer.
And, if you're interested, Ihave a 30-day container that I'm
starting June 5th.
It's specifically for emotionalauthorities, because the
emotional wave has been one ofthe most challenging things of
my life and I feel like over thelast year I've really come to
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understand deeply how it works,how it works in my body, the
nuances of it, how it'sconnected, how it's hooked up,
how it shows up.
It's a deep practice of beingconnected with your emotional
authority.
So this container, 30-daycontainer there's four live
calls.
We're going to talk about PHSgoing into the body.
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We're going to talk aboutemotional authority, the
mechanics of it, practices thatwe can have to come into the
body.
There'll be a Q&A in there, ofcourse type, strategy and
authority, like the basics.
The foundation will be the veryfirst week of just like coming
in and really like practicingwith that.
But we're going to go deep intothe mechanics of the solar
plexus.
We're going to go deep intocoming into your body through
the variables, because whenyou're in your body in that way
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like between type strategy andauthority and variables, like
things will begin to flow andyou'll make that connection with
yourself.
So the end goal is to justreally be connected with your
emotional wave and understandhow to support yourself, how to
wait through a wave and justlike the slowness being able to
slow down that's a big themethat's been coming up lately too
is just slow down.
There is no rush.
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There truly is no rush.
I think that we think thatthere is because of the way like
society is structured, whereit's like if you're not working
harder, if you're not workinglonger, if you're not doing this
, like you're not going to besuccessful, and oh my gosh, and
there's so many commercials andso many like everything.
We're just this like comparisonsociety and it's like there is
no comparison, like if you'rehappy.
I feel like that's also been abit a lot of the work for me
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over the last year.
Let's say it's just like Idon't care about the amount of
my bank account.
Now I care in the sense that,like, I want to be able to do
things, I want freedom, I wantto travel.
Those things are important, butat the end of the day, that's
not going to make a differenceif I'm not happy, right.
And so I've gotten in thepractice of just like in little
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ways.
Like today my son, like therewas a quarter on the ground, he
kicked it and I was like, whywould you kick that?
What if that was $100 bill?
He's like well, I wouldn't kickthat.
I'm like but what you do, thatyou're going to do to $100 bill.
So let's just pick it up and begrateful and put it in the coin
.
Helpful.
So I think that's most of whatI have been, what it's been on
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my mind, what I've been cyclingthrough.
I feel like it's going to Idon't know.
I feel like it's going to be aquiet month, but who knows, who
knows, and I'm sure I'll be hereto tell you all about it.
My six line is really callingme lately to just share, to
process, to share, to connect,to like all the things of the
six line.
So if you're interested, I havethe telegram group.
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Um, the link will be in theshow notes.
This is pay what you feel youor pay what you can.
Um, it's just I drop in thereonce a week, every few days,
whatever is feeling called, andI dropped a little just like
downloads, um, things that I'vechanneled through, things that
are my heart, that I want totalk about Not as long as a
podcast episode, but some ofthem are like 10, 15 minutes, so
that is down in the show notes.
Again, that 30-day container,your sacred unraveling.
We're really going to go andunravel the conditioning around
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our emotional authority andHolistic Human Design Academy is
always available for aself-paced course.
So this goes deep into humandesign, astrology, the gene keys
.
It is the basics, but it's somuch more than the basics.
So all the ways that you canwork with me find me on social
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I thank you so much for beinghere for listening and I will
catch you next week.
Welcome to the Rochelle Christian podcast,
formerly the Emotional Masterypodcast.
I'm Rochelle, your host.
I'm here to help you come backto your body, take charge of
your emotions and live life onyour terms.
This podcast is a space for raw, real conversations about what
it means to trust yourself, leaninto your power and create a
life that feels aligned andalive.
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We'll explore human design,astrology and other tools to
help you understand your uniqueenergy.
More importantly, though, we'regoing to talk about what it
means to actually live andembody these aspects.
So, each week, I'm going toshare stories, lessons, guidance
to help you navigate life'schallenges and really own your
magic.
So if you're ready to step up,take control and show up as the
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most authentic version of you,let's begin.
Welcome to the podcast.
This week is really one of thoseepisodes where I have no agenda
.
I have so much to say, so muchI've been moving through, and
this is going to be just one ofthose like grab a cup of coffee,
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grab a tea, whatever yourdesired drink is, and let's just
move through it, let's justtalk about it.
I feel like there was asituation that I have been
alluding to, I've been talkingabout, but not like fully
talking about that I feel likeI'm ready to talk about, because
I've moved through my wavemultiple times, I've gotten
clarity on it and there's just alot going on, as there always
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is, astrologically, individually, and just more clarity on
certain things.
That, yeah, that I just feelready to come here and process
through, or or rather I'veprocessed through it and now I'm
ready to share it.
That six line is like let's go.
Let let's fully share thesituation.
My kids left today, as I'mrecording this, for about five
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weeks and this has beensomething that we started three
years ago, so this will be thethird summer, the first time
that they left for this amountof time.
I had not been alone for morethan three days in 14 years and
it was wild.
It's like you know, like we getso in our routine, right In our
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daily life.
We go to work If you're aparent, then you have kids you
have to clean, you have to cook,you have to do all of these
things that like we have to doI'm air quoting and when the
thing that you put the mostenergy to is taken out of the
equation.
And, of course, like I'm stilla mom, I'm still answering phone
calls.
I'm still like all that kind ofstuff.
I'm still communicating with mykids every day.
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It's not like, no, no contactwith my kids for five weeks, but
the daily ins and outs.
Like I can literally go sit onthe couch and read for six hours
uninterrupted if I want to.
It's wild and that sounds likethe first time this happened.
I was like whoa, this is whatsingle people experience,
because I got pregnant at 23.
So I've literally been a momsince I was 23 years old.
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There's not been.
You know, a lot of my friendsgot to experience their 20s with
freedom and kind of doingthings that are, I guess,
traditional again, air quoting,traditional of like getting the
job, finding the partner,getting engaged, having the
children and so, like a lot ofmy friends or people I know are
at my age now, either notparents still or parents of
young children or like gettinginto that, and so it's just
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really interesting because thenI'm going to be in my 40s, child
free.
Of course my kids are stillgoing to be, you know, adults
and around, but essentiallychild free, able to live the
life that I didn't live in the20s.
And what's really cool aboutthat actually is because, like I
feel like I've really come tounderstand who I am so much more
that when I am in my 40s and mykids are graduated and adults,
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it's going to be so fun becauseI just love myself so much more
now than I did in my 20s,because I didn't know who I was
in my 20s like at all.
I couldn't have told you what Iwanted to do with my life.
I had no direction.
I was just trying to getthrough the day as a new young
mom which, like traditionally incertain cultures, you know, the
parents would live their lifeand the grandparents would take
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care of the children and then,when the children had children,
then the parents would turn intothe grandparents and it was
just this cycle.
And like they say, it takes avillage to raise a child.
It truly does.
And I think in our culture, inour society we're so, we value
so much this hyper independenceand it's really hard, like I
don't think this is the waywe're meant to be parenting and
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doing life right.
We're meant to have a supportsystem, and so that first year
was again so confronting.
I did not know who I was, Ididn't know what to do with
myself, I didn't know, I didn'trealize how much I was
distracting myself or avoidingor just not facing because I was
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a busy mom, myself and myshadows and the things that
wanted to come up and the thingsthat wanted to work on.
So then last year I had afriend stay with me for the
summer, so I had the freedom,but I had someone this summer
I'm not dating anyone, my kidsare not here.
I just got a job, like a parttime job that I plan on just
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working through as much as I canover the next like five weeks,
and so there's all this spacefor just me.
It's a really interestingperiod and I intentionally,
before they left, I set theintention that, a I would do
something new every week Doesn'thave to be anything big or
whatever, just something to likepush me out of my comfort zone
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a little bit and B that I wasgoing to really lean in and do
the work, because Jupiter movesinto cancer on the 9th and
Jupiter is an area of your chartas a planet.
Right, it's expansion, it's luck, it's the guru planet, it is
the biggest planet in the sky.
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So I've always seen Jupiter asa sort of like pulsating energy,
and wherever Jupiter is in yourchart is where you have the
most opportunity for growth andexpansion.
Of course, the shadow of thatis overindulgence in whatever it
is.
Whatever your vices right canreally be a Jupiter thing.
I have Jupiter square Venus, soI noticed a lot that
overindulgence in like spending,like shopping or eating
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especially with my Taurus sun Ican definitely.
I love the fine, like finedining to me, I love it, I'm
obsessed.
I love the creativity, I lovethe presentation.
That's that Venus, that likeaesthetic that I love.
But again, that can come backto like Venus and Jupiter just
overindulging in things that itdoesn't need to overindulge in.
But when you are in yourhighest expression, right, like
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Jupiter is an area that you havethe most opportunity for growth
in your chart.
And so, with Jupiter movinginto Cancer on the 9th, this to
me speaks of a really deepopportunity to do the work right
.
The moon rules Cancer.
Cancer is about your innerexperience, the moon, your inner
experience, your inner world.
This is your family, this isyour ancestors.
So this feels a lot of likechildhood healing, like inner
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child healing, really facingthat, reparenting yourself,
ancestral work, right, likehealing your ancestral lineage
or connecting with yourancestors, understanding that
better, nurturing yourself,taking care of yourself.
But of course, everything hasequal and opposite, right?
So if we're expanding on allthose beautiful nurturing, you
know, sensitive, watery sides ofcancer, then there is that
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other side of cancer, that hardshell that keeps people out,
right?
So it's like what are youchoosing to focus on?
What are you choosing to expandon?
I was in the car with my sonyesterday, or no.
We were taking a walk and hesaid point your finger at
something in the sky.
So I pointed my finger atsomething in the sky.
He said close one eye.
So I closed my eye.
Then he said now, open that eyeand close the other eye.
So I closed the other eye.
He goes you're not pointing atthe same thing.
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And it was such a to me it feltlike such a clear example of
perspective, right.
And I went on to explain thisto him, which he quickly changed
the subject because he's eight,he doesn't care about that, but
hopefully it's stored somewherein his brain.
But two people can see theexact same thing and see two
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completely different things,right?
And so it's so much aboutperspective and Jupiter.
It's like it's enhancing, it'sexpanding what you're focusing
on.
So if you're focusing onnurturing yourself, taking care
of yourself, connecting withyour ancestors, whatever it is.
That's what it will enhance on,that's what it will expand on.
Remember, cancer is also supermoody, right, like cancer is I,
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like the moon, the tides, thedivine feminine is always
changing and it's not a badthing we have this whole.
I've realized how moody I am,like I've always known it and
but it's always been a shadow,because everybody's like, oh,
walk on eggshells and I'memotional authority and things
like that.
But I also feel like when I'mconnected to my feminine and and
it's a matter of emotionalintelligence that I did not have
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before to know that maybe Ineed to remove myself from the
situation, especially making adecision, because I'm going to
cycle through things multipletimes and sometimes it's going
to feel like the worst thing inthe world, sometimes it's going
to feel like the best thing inthe world, and if you're not
emotionally defined, you willnot understand the nuance and
the dynamic of that right.
And so I am a terrible liar.
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I really have a hard timefaking things.
So I have to really just beaware of my energy and how I'm
presenting it and who I'm aroundand how they're going to
perceive it, because if I'm in alow, it's really hard for me to
like fake a smile and you know,like I just I can't.
I've never really been able to.
And I see people who are justlike always happy and always
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putting on a smile regardless ofwhat's happening on inside, and
I think it's a beautifulquality.
It's just not me and a lot of myjourney over this year has been
just like shedding and pullingoff these pieces of myself that
don't feel good anymore and notto say that being, you know,
optimistic doesn't feel good.
But if I'm in a mood, like I'min a mood, like I'm in a mood,
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it's who I am.
I'm old enough now tounderstand that about myself,
that that's just who I am andit's going to change.
It literally could be fiveminutes from now and I'm totally
fine.
But in the moment it's reallyhard for me to put on a smile if
that's not what I'm internallyfeeling.
And of course, being in theservice industry, like you have
to, obviously I'm not going tobe going to work crying and
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moping around and things likethat.
But within reason, right, Ijust it's really hard for me to
fake being in a good mood if I'mnot.
And again, this year has reallybeen this shedding, releasing
things that don't feel good,releasing labels, releasing
caring what people think,because I think, with a Libra
South node, I'm very good atpeople pleasing, I'm very good
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at giving you what you want tohear.
And I was sitting with anastroneedra on Sunday night I
think it was before the new moonand I kept falling asleep
during this one I, and it wasbeautiful and there was.
You know, I've done it for thelast three nights and I've, more
or less over the last threenights, caught varying parts of
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the astronegia, but I just keptfalling asleep.
But I woke up, came to like atthe end of this the first night,
and she posed a question oflike, what is it that you've
been avoiding?
That you know you need to do?
And I think we all know theanswer to that, right, we all
know the answer to that.
It's for me, that's boundaries,it's saying no, it's speaking
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my truth and just releasing Like.
I do think that we can obviouslyset boundaries in a loving way.
It doesn't have to be cold anduncaring and unkind, and I think
that we're taught as obviouslydepends on your family dynamics
and everything but I think thatwe're taught when we're young,
that setting boundaries is coldand uncaring and selfish, and
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you know there are so manymessages out there, which I
think is why we have to be socareful about social media and
what we're consuming.
I was listening to GaryVaynerchuk today and he was
talking about, first of all,parents coming to him, being
like you're telling them to geton TikTok and this, that and the
other thing, and my 14 year oldshouldn't be on TikTok, and
he's like, well, be a parent anddelete it off their phone.
Like, don't come at me, right?
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But also just that what theexample before, like perspective
, is everything what you seeyou're going to find evidence of
.
So if you're going into socialmedia and if you're watching
things that are negative, thatare dramatic, that are
propaganda, that are spreadingfalse narratives, like of course
you're going to think socialmedia is bad.
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I try and be really intentionalabout what.
And also, little tip if youdon't, if you didn't know it,
you can actually erase yoursearch history.
You can erase, like as a clearslate.
Do that on Instagram I can'tremember exactly where it is,
but it's in your settingssomewhere.
You can go in there, google it,but you can literally clear
your search history just andthen go search.
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What do you want to search?
You want to search astrology.
You want to search spirituality.
You want to search gratitude.
You want to search positivevibes, like.
Put those in and just like, gothrough and like and watch a
whole bunch of them.
I did that and I was in thiswhole um, I mean, I'm still in
the whole romantic phase, but Icleared all my searches and then
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I was watching like romanticreels, like books and stuff like
that, and then all that wascoming up for a while was sex,
which is like people talkingabout sex and you know there was
relationship stuff and it wasactually kind of humorous.
And then I quickly like notquickly, but I filtered in.
You know, again you could clearyour slate, and point being
that you are the algorithm, andthat's what he was saying was
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like social media is just areflection.
The algorithm is just areflection of you, and so often
we don't want to takeresponsibility for ourselves and
we don't want to takeresponsibility for the things
that we're putting out andcalling in, right.
So if you think that socialmedia is bad air quote right
then change the algorithm,delete your search history and
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only look at things that arepositive and you'll realize
quickly.
Maybe you want the drama.
I think as humans, it'scompletely normal that we thrive
a little bit on drama.
I think we're used toconnecting over drama and when
you remove that it can bechallenging because you're again
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, a lot of people might leaveyour life.
That Again, a lot of peoplemight leave your life.
That don't resonate, you don'tclick anymore.
Yeah, point being, perspectiveis everything, and I think the
universe is always working foryou.
So when you decide that youwant something to change in your
life, the universe will giveyou opportunities to call that
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in and they're not going to feelcomfortable.
This is something I'm realizingso much.
I feel like things have beenfalling away and things have
been feeling uncomfortable.
And again, when I was asked thatquestion in that astronegia,
like what is the thing thatyou've been avoiding that you
know you need to do, I wasimmediately, in the last three
days, given opportunities toshow up and do that thing.
So the universe is constantly.
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It's like Saturn return, right,like Saturn return, like these
lessons we need to learn.
If we don't learn them throughthat Saturn return, our next
Saturn return, those same themesare going to show up.
We're consistently going toface the thing that we don't
want to, or we were consistentlygoing to face the thing that we
need to heal over and, over andover again.
Right, and it's so easy to belike, oh well, I failed that
test and here I'll give you myexample of like what happened
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recently for me that I'm likeready to kind of talk about.
I went on a date with somebodywho I had known before I'd known
for a while before and it waslike great, literally, it was
like I felt like it waseverything I've been looking for
, like everything emotionallyavailable, physically
affectionate, like listens,words of affirmation, like
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literally everything.
It was like everything thathappened.
I was like, whoa, this is likeanother check in my, in my box
of like things that I've beenlooking for.
And so it was great.
And I think, because I hadknown this person prior to that
date, it felt like more thanjust one date and I was like so
and this is another thing withJupiter, and I don't know what
the Jupiter transits werelooking at that time, but this
is just coming to me too.
But when you're in like thehighest expression of Jupiter,
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you can feel like buzzy andenergetic and like really
excited.
That's kind of like thatJupiter energy.
But that's how I felt for likea week around this date, just
like everything was like.
I felt like it was anothercheckbox.
I was like whoa, I didn't knowthat it actually existed.
And so I told myself and maybeI maybe it was like a
self-fulfilling prophecy, butthings were like going really,
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really good.
And then I could feel I had thatjust overly anxious high energy
where I was just like buzzingand I was distractible.
Is that a word?
I was distractible because Iwas like so like, just like so
excited and I knew I was goingto crash, because it's just the
way it is Everything is cyclical.
What goes up must come down.
And so I knew I was going tocrash.
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I knew I was going to crashhard, but I was like you know,
I've done the work, it's fine,it's going to be whatever when
it happens.
And when I tell you like itcrashed so hard and I remember I
can't remember I think it wason a new moon call and she was
saying that like trauma is toofast, too hard, too soon.
And this was like after I hadsort of self-sabotaged because I
had asked a question and theywere kind of like well, are you
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thinking this is more than it is?
Like we've only gone on onedate?
And I was like, well, realitycheck.
And then I felt like an idiotand I was really embarrassed.
But it is what it is Right.
And then we tried to like kindof make it work after that and
it just like fell away, whichwas disappointing, because I
felt like again, I felt likethere was, I feel like there was
so much potential and it wasreally cool.
But also then it was to me theway I reframed it in my mind,
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because perspective iseverything.
I was like, okay, the universewas trying to give me what I've
been asking for.
My nervous system wasn't quiteready for it and I
self-sabotaged it's as simple asthat Now for me.
For a while I was like, oh mygosh, like I kind of beat up on
myself a little bit.
But then when I rephrase it, youknow, it's like there are eight
billion people on this planetto think that that was my one
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opportunity to find arelationship, please.
Like no, right, like we have toreframe these things, we have
to zoom out a little bit, like,yes, it was super disappointing.
Yes, I do feel like it was anexpander moment.
The universe is like lookwhat's possible, like the thing
that you've been asking for isout there, it's, it's possible.
You don't have to stay in thistoxic cycle.
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So it was like it gave me.
It was like it pulled back thecurtains and to show me what's
possible, and the fact thatthings fell off, like it just
wasn't meant to be right, like Itruly believe if what is meant
to be will be, and it wasn't,and that's totally fine.
But again, it was a totalexpander moment for me and
that's how I choose to view it,because the alternative is just
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to like, you know, I mean, again, in hindsight, it was one date
I felt like, again, I knew theperson.
So it felt like more than Iguess where it was, or there was
a lack of communication orsomething happened, and it's all
fine.
But again it was just thatmoment where I was like, okay,
this sucks, it sucks, you know.
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Okay, um, this sucks, it sucks.
You know I've been single forgoing on eight years now.
No, seven years, seven.
My son is nine.
Yeah, seven, eight years,almost eight years, which is a
long time.
I mean, like I've dated peopleand I've had situations and you
know, whatever, but there is apart of me that really desires
to be in a relationship and notin like a frantic.
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I can't be without it.
I'm going to be depressed kindof way, like no, but having that
like dangling carrot showed mehow much I really want to be in
a relationship.
And so now I know, withcontrast, right now I know that
when I approach a situation, Idon't care if it's date one or
two or three, like just havingthe intention of like yes, like
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obviously I don't know what thisis, but like I do want a
relationship.
So if I'm going to be datingyou, if I'm going to be showing
up for you, it's going to bewith the intention that we're
moving things forward right,like even like assessing after
like three months.
And so, yeah, it was just it wasa really challenging period of
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time, but also, like I said, itwas an expander moment where
it's like it's possible, it'sout there, and that was the
first time that I had seensomeone or met someone or been
not a relationship, but justyeah, where I saw, seem to
believe Right, I saw somebodywho was like super nice,
considerate, respectfulgentleman, like all those things
and which it felt easy.
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I felt peace, other than when Ihad my chaos moment, but like
being together, like I feltpeace in the in in.
We saw each other twice.
I saw peace in those two times.
So, yeah, it just again, I canchoose how I'm going to view it.
I can choose my perspective, mylens, and I choose to see that
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as opportunity and expander.
And so whatever happens happensand it's fine.
And this summer, while I havelike five weeks to myself, I
really plan on just like divingin and doing the work,
especially again with Jupitermoving into Cancer, it's giving
us an opportunity to really dothat in our work and to heal
those parts of ourselves and toface those parts of ourselves
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Because, like I said, we tend tolike we get in the routine of
our daily life, whatever thatlooks like for you, and there's
a monotony to it and there's astructure to it, and so it's
sometimes it's like looking atthe habits and the routines that
you have set, like do theyactually support your growth of
wherever it is that you want toend up, wherever it is that you
want to go?
Do they support that or don'tthey?
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You know there's there's nolike right or wrong.
And I think again, when we'recomparing ourselves to other
people, when we're gettingdistracted by all the noise
whether it's on social media oraround you, or like your parents
are like you should be doingthat, you should be doing this,
there is no right or wrong.
And I think about thatsometimes.
I'm like why do I care?
Because, at the end of the day,nobody lives in my mind, nobody
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experiences what I experience.
I truly create my reality, Icreate my life, I create my
perspective.
So I'm taking that veryseriously.
Maybe is the word.
I recently picked up somebartending shifts and my ego was
fighting me so hard and I waslike who cares?
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Who cares what anybody thinksabout the fact that I'm doing
what I have to do right for myfamily?
Like I also get to do this parttime and then I get to do that
part-time.
Like this is my main and thenthat's my part-time, it's my
supplemental supporting income.
But like, how many people cantruly say that?
Like they're actually doing thething that they love?
Like I can actually say that Ican actually say that I am doing
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the thing that I absolutelylove and that is so cool?
Like I'm growing, I'm healing.
I'm growing this thing intosomething that's sustainable and
also the reality of it is.
I have to supplement right nowand my ego was fighting me
really hard, like I was going infor to train and I was just
like I was dragging my feet.
(22:58):
And then I just started beingintentional.
I was sitting in my car beforeI went in I was like today's
going to great, it's gonna beeasy, it's gonna be fun.
Like I get to meet new people,I get to connect, because I
truly do as an MG, I think beingout in the world offers me a
lot of opportunities and I hadfound that I was spending a lot
of time just in my house and Ithink that generators,
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specifically because we'reresponding to things around us,
can be expanded more.
Being out around people and so,even if it's just a few days a
week, um, whatever, like beingout and and, yeah, being around
people and and getting thatenergy, um, it's also been
exhausting.
I've been so tired because I'vebeen so out of practice, like
being on my feet, um, that I'mlike I'm tired, but it's all
(23:46):
good, right.
Like I do truly believe thatwe're exactly where we're meant
to be learning what we're meantto be learning.
The universe is offering usopportunities to heal and to
grow and we're either going totake them or we're going to
leave them, and if we leave them, it's fine.
It's going to come back around.
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If that continue, if youcontinue to have the same goals,
the same dreams, the sameaspirations, the universe is
going to continue to give youthe same lessons to get you
there.
And so, like I've been sayingon social media and I'm sure
I've said it here on the podcast, like practice in micro moments
, like in little moments of theday, when little things come up
that you maybe don't think arethat big of a deal, but you feel
that little like feeling oflike, oh, I don't want to do
(24:28):
that or I need to set a boundarythere that's not going to blow
up in your face or it's notgoing to cause you massive
confrontation.
Just practice in those moments,because when you practice in
those moments, then the biggerthings are going to become
easier.
But we have to start somewhere.
It's like one foot in front ofthe other, right, one step in
front of the other.
Practice and it will get youthere.
You will begin to move theneedle and it's not supposed to
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be easy, right?
If it was easy, everybody wouldbe doing it.
And so, just coming intoyourself, listening to your body
, practice, grounding, tools,whatever that looks like for you
, whether it's meditation,whether it's breath work, going
out for a walk, whateverPractice that, pull it into your
daily life and just see whereit takes you.
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Coming into your body, I feellike, is the answer Trusting
yourself, knowing yourself,honoring yourself yeah, I think
that is the answer.
Trusting yourself, knowingyourself, honoring yourself yeah
, I think that's the answer.
And, if you're interested, Ihave a 30-day container that I'm
starting June 5th.
It's specifically for emotionalauthorities, because the
emotional wave has been one ofthe most challenging things of
my life and I feel like over thelast year I've really come to
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understand deeply how it works,how it works in my body, the
nuances of it, how it'sconnected, how it's hooked up,
how it shows up.
It's a deep practice of beingconnected with your emotional
authority.
So this container, 30-daycontainer there's four live
calls.
We're going to talk about PHSgoing into the body.
(25:56):
We're going to talk aboutemotional authority, the
mechanics of it, practices thatwe can have to come into the
body.
There'll be a Q&A in there, ofcourse type, strategy and
authority, like the basics.
The foundation will be the veryfirst week of just like coming
in and really like practicingwith that.
But we're going to go deep intothe mechanics of the solar
plexus.
We're going to go deep intocoming into your body through
the variables, because whenyou're in your body in that way
(26:18):
like between type strategy andauthority and variables, like
things will begin to flow andyou'll make that connection with
yourself.
So the end goal is to justreally be connected with your
emotional wave and understandhow to support yourself, how to
wait through a wave and justlike the slowness being able to
slow down that's a big themethat's been coming up lately too
is just slow down.
There is no rush.
(26:38):
There truly is no rush.
I think that we think thatthere is because of the way like
society is structured, whereit's like if you're not working
harder, if you're not workinglonger, if you're not doing this
, like you're not going to besuccessful, and oh my gosh, and
there's so many commercials andso many like everything.
We're just this like comparisonsociety and it's like there is
no comparison, like if you'rehappy.
I feel like that's also been abit a lot of the work for me
(27:01):
over the last year.
Let's say it's just like Idon't care about the amount of
my bank account.
Now I care in the sense that,like, I want to be able to do
things, I want freedom, I wantto travel.
Those things are important, butat the end of the day, that's
not going to make a differenceif I'm not happy, right.
And so I've gotten in thepractice of just like in little
(27:22):
ways.
Like today my son, like therewas a quarter on the ground, he
kicked it and I was like, whywould you kick that?
What if that was $100 bill?
He's like well, I wouldn't kickthat.
I'm like but what you do, thatyou're going to do to $100 bill.
So let's just pick it up and begrateful and put it in the coin
.
Helpful.
So I think that's most of whatI have been, what it's been on
(27:43):
my mind, what I've been cyclingthrough.
I feel like it's going to Idon't know.
I feel like it's going to be aquiet month, but who knows, who
knows, and I'm sure I'll be hereto tell you all about it.
My six line is really callingme lately to just share, to
process, to share, to connect,to like all the things of the
six line.
So if you're interested, I havethe telegram group.
(28:06):
Um, the link will be in theshow notes.
This is pay what you feel youor pay what you can.
Um, it's just I drop in thereonce a week, every few days,
whatever is feeling called, andI dropped a little just like
downloads, um, things that I'vechanneled through, things that
are my heart, that I want totalk about Not as long as a
podcast episode, but some ofthem are like 10, 15 minutes, so
that is down in the show notes.
Again, that 30-day container,your sacred unraveling.
We're really going to go andunravel the conditioning around
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our emotional authority andHolistic Human Design Academy is
always available for aself-paced course.
So this goes deep into humandesign, astrology, the gene keys
.
It is the basics, but it's somuch more than the basics.
So all the ways that you canwork with me find me on social
media at rochellechristian.
R-o-c-h-e-l-l-e dot.
C-h-r-i-s-t-i-e-n-e.
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Website is rochellechristiancomand YouTube is at Rochelle
Christian Podcast.
Of course, all the links aredown in the show notes.
I thank you so much for beinghere for listening and I will
catch you next week.
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