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February 14, 2025 79 mins
Rewrite the Rules: Lisa Neigut on Tech, Femininity, and Disrupting the Status Quo

Lisa Neigut isn’t just navigating the tech world—she’s flipping the script. From breaking barriers as a woman in a male-dominated space to redefining what it means to balance intellect and femininity, Lisa brings a bold perspective on success, growth, and connection.

In this thought-provoking conversation, she unpacks the unspoken challenges of dating in tech, the power of emotional intelligence in relationships, and the urgent need for men to find their place in a rapidly evolving society. Through personal reflection and candid insights, Lisa challenges the status quo—offering a fresh take on what it really means to thrive in both career and connection.

This episode is for the rule-breakers, the thinkers, and the ones who refuse to settle for surface-level conversations. Get ready to dive deep into the dynamics of tech, gender, and personal evolution.

In this episode of The Ruby Hour Podcast, you’ll discover:

The Duality of Femininity and Intellect – Why embracing both is key to success in tech and beyond. The Dating Dilemma in Tech – How societal expectations and competition shape modern relationships. Masculinity in Crisis? – The evolving roles of men and what it means for relationships today. Emotional Intelligence & Partnership – The secret weapon for building trust, communication, and deeper connections. Beyond Traditional Success – Why happiness isn’t just about climbing the corporate ladder.

Chapters:

00:00 The Balance of Femininity and Strength

06:16 Navigating the Tech Landscape as a Woman

11:34 The Gladiator Mentality in Relationships

17:00 Finding Security and Freedom in Partnerships

22:39 Understanding Personality Types in Relationships

29:14 Exploring Cultural Perspectives on Marriage

31:59 The Role of Matchmakers in Society

33:51 Defining Personal Criteria for Relationships

36:39 Childhood Social Dynamics and Negotiation

39:20 Reflecting on Early Friendships and Social Status

42:00 Nostalgia and Lessons from Elementary School Experiences

44:59 The Importance of Socialization for Nerds

46:59 Ethics in Technology Development

48:25 The Dark Side of Tech and Masculinity

50:13 Redefining Masculinity in Modern Society

52:02 The Role of Men and Women in Relationships

55:12 Navigating Gender Roles and Expectations

57:17 The Evolution of Gender Roles

01:00:08 Finding Balance in Modern Relationships

01:02:55 Creating Personal Agreements in Partnerships

01:06:59 Choosing Your Hard in Relationships

This is more than just a conversation—it’s a wake-up call. Tune in now and rethink what it means to lead, love, and live with intention.

Ready to break free? Tune in to this powerful conversation and unlock the courage within you.

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