Marriage is hard, right? Is there such a thing as happily ever after?
In this beautiful and honest conversation, I sit down with my sweet friend Cara Nitz, a woman with such a tender heart for helping couples grow stronger in their marriages. Cara shares her journey in marriage ministry and opens up about the real, raw, and redemptive work of fighting for your marriage—not just surviving it.
We talk about the power of communication, the importance of healing past wounds, and how understanding the dynamic of masculinity and femininity can bring so much clarity and peace into a relationship. Cara also speaks truth into some of the common struggles couples face—like shame, resentment, and disconnection—and how we can begin to overcome them with intention, grace, and the support of community.
This episode is for anyone who desires a marriage that doesn’t just “make it,” but flourishes. Whether you’re in the thick of it or simply longing to reconnect on a deeper level with your spouse, you’ll feel seen, encouraged, and equipped.
💛 What We Talk About:
Why dreaming together is essential for a thriving marriage
How shame often affects men, and how resentment weighs on women
The role of healing and forgiveness in deepening connection
Learning to truly be present in your relationship
The beauty of embracing our differences as men and women
Why mentorship and community matter in your marriage journey
What it means to fight for each other, not against each other
✨ A Few Powerful Reminders from Cara:
“Dreaming for your marriage is so special.”
“Love is in those little details.”
“You can get through it and come out as pure gold.”
“We don’t have to live triggered all the time.”
“Marriage is a beautiful thing—but it’s real.”
If this episode speaks to your heart, I’d be so grateful if you’d share it with a friend, leave a review, or comment below with what resonated most. Your story matters, and we’re in this together. 💫
Let’s keep showing up for the sacred hustle—one day, one choice, one conversation at a time. 💕
—Rachel
🌸 Stay connected:
→ Instagram: @iamrachelearp and @the_sacred_hustle
Grab the FREE Devotional called "The Sacred Words: a Guide to speaking and listening with more intention" at https://rachelearp.com/freebies
Watch the episode LIVE on Youtube HERE
This episode is sponsored by OneShare Health, a faith-based health care sharing ministry helping individuals and families find affordable, compassionate alternatives to traditional health insurance. Learn more HERE
Learn more about Cara and how to connect with her HERE
Follow Cara @cara.nitz on Instagram
Find Cara on YouTube @thewayforlove
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