The Sextracurricular Podcast

The Sextracurricular Podcast

Hosted by a former traditionally monogamous couple of over a decade to now an openly married polyamorous couple, we explore the ethical, consensual, sexual non-monogamy lifestyle and talk through our own thoughts and opinions. Whether you're just starting out in this lifestyle or are a veteran, there's something here for everyone. Friendship is the goal, anything more is sextracurricular. Stop by and take a listen!

Episodes

July 4, 2025 62 mins

In this episode, James and Mirage share their perspectives on their first ⁠WIFEY.com⁠ experience. This two-part series covers the entirety of the day-of shoot, the welcoming production team, meeting the talent and director, and all the behind the scenes of a professional porn set.


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In this episode, James and Mirage share their perspectives on their first WIFEY.com experience. This two-part series covers the anticipation, the preparation, and the excitement of being on a professional porn set. Mirage shares her feelings of validation and what it felt like to make her Queen Mirage debut on a professional production.


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In this episode, James shares his experience of living with psychological erectile dysfunction including lessons learned, how he deals with it when it comes up, and what his journey has been as he and Mirage have made new partners along the way.


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In this episode, James and Mirage continue the spicy story of their first west coast sex party. Mirage describes what it was like to participate in her first fivesome as the center of attention and the many connections that came out of that experience. A HUGE thank you to @illuminaughtymembersclub for curating such a welcoming and safe environment. Go check them out! Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a messa...
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In this episode, James and Mirage talk about attending their first sex party on the west coast, the infamous “booty tower”, and the comfort they felt within minutes of diving head-first into a new environment. A HUGE thank you to @illuminaughtymembersclub for curating such a welcoming and safe environment. Go check them out! Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or lea...
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January 3, 2024 56 secs
James and Mirage are back and officially announcing the next season of The Sextracurricular Podcast. Stay tuned for more episodes! Song Credits: "New Beginnings" by Blurred Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app! ⁠james@sextracurricular.com⁠ / ⁠mirage@sextracurricular.com⁠ Twitter: ⁠@sextracurriculr⁠ TikTok: ⁠@sextracurricula...
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December 14, 2022 52 mins

In this episode, James and Mirage share what they've learned as parents in this lifestyle and offer advice on how they make dating work with their busy schedules. They discuss what kind of parenting styles they were raised in, and what challenges they typically face.

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In this bonus episode, James and Mirage discuss what happened after their first full swap experience.

Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app!

james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com

Twitter: @sextracurriculr

TikTok: @sextracurricularpodcast

Instagram: @sextracurricularpodcast

Facebook: @sextracurricularpodcast

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October 8, 2022 49 mins

In this final episode of a three part series, James and Mirage talk about their first full swap experience with their first couple. You don't want to miss the spicy details!

Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app!

james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com

Twitter: @sextracurriculr

TikTok: @sextracurricularpodcast

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October 2, 2022 31 mins

In this second episode of a three part series, James and Mirage meet their first couple for a second date. They talk about what it felt like to have drinks, flirt, and play board games with a new set of friends. The anticipation of what would happen next is something you don't want to miss!


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October 2, 2022 40 mins

In this three-part series, James and Mirage talk about meeting their first couple four months after their first hotwife experience. As a newly swinging couple, they discuss the nerves of meeting an experienced couple and what it was like to learn about their dynamic.


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james@sextracurr...

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In this episode, Mirage shares her upbringing in the Catholic church, her leap into Christianity, and the issues that lead to deconstructing from her faith and the modern Church.

Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app!

james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com

Twitter: @sextracurriculr

TikTok: @sextracurricularpo...

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James wraps up his deconstruction story and talks about where he's at spiritually. **TRIGGER WARNING**: Listener discretion is advised as this episode contains graphic suicidal ideation details. 

Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app!

james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com

Twitter: @sextracurriculr

TikTo...

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In this two-part series, James describes his beginnings of faith, relationship with Mirage, parenting, and issues with his mental health. He talks about his loss of faith in the modern Church, humanity, and Christianity. **TRIGGER WARNING**: Listener discretion is advised as this episode contains graphic suicidal ideation details.

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James and Mirage share their coming out experiences with trusted colleagues, co-workers, and friends along with the support and judgement that comes along with the territory.

Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app!

james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com

Twitter: @sextracurriculr

TikTok: @sextracurricularpodcas...

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In this episode, James and Mirage talk about how the lines of swinging and polyamory have been blurred as they continue to foster their new relationships. Mirage discusses how she's exploring her bisexuality and being fulfilled in a whole new way she never imagined.

Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app!

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August 21, 2022 59 mins

In this episode, Mirage talks about how she became comfortable with creating adult content online. Having started with little to no exposure, she talks about how porn and masturbation provided much needed healing to overcome previous sexual trauma. James and Mirage discuss how their relationship with porn has changed over the years, and how enjoying porn together has facilitated growth in their relationship and their new lifestyle.

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June 24, 2022 41 mins

In this episode, James and Mirage discuss how their relationship changed from hotwife to swinging. Mirage talks about the mental obstacles and insecurities she overcame with the help of a few recommended resources. She also sheds light into her personal relationship with porn and masturbation. In addition, she talks about how this new lifestyle allowed her to understand more of herself and gain confidence to make adult content.

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June 18, 2022 27 mins

In this episode, James and Mirage update their listeners on what's changed since their first sexual encounter described in the previous episode. They both talk about the strengthening of their trust for each other, making adult content online, and briefly touch on what's new in their sex lives. James and Mirage also chat about how much fun they are having as a sexually open, swinging couple and the exciting times ahead!

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This is the episode you have been waiting for where James and Mirage describe their first successful hotwife experience. You don't want to miss this!

Have a question or comment for us? Feel free to send us a message using either email address below or leave us a voice message on the Anchor app!

james@sextracurricular.com / mirage@sextracurricular.com

Twitter: @sextracurriculr

TikTok: @sextracurricularpodcast

Instagram: @sextracurri...

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