The Shepherd's Toolbox
Welcome to The Shepherd's Toolbox, a podcast to equip pastors with clinical counseling skills they can effectively use in ministry. Dr. Lance Flood blends professional training, biblical insight, and practical application to help you care for your congregation with wisdom, confidence, and compassion. New episodes every Tuesday at 6:00 AM CT. For more resources, visit floodlegacy.org
Episodes
Most pastors want to help people. The problem is they skip the most important step. Before advice, before Scripture, before solutions, people need to feel heard. In this episode, Dr. Flood breaks down the clinical skill of validation, what it actually is, what it isn't, and why it may be the single most healing thing you can offer someone who is hurting.
You'll learn the critical difference between normalizing someone...
The first five minutes of any counseling conversation determine whether someone will trust you, open up, and actually hear what you have to say. In this episode, Dr. Flood teaches you how to build rapport quickly, set the right tone, and create safety before diving into problems.
You'll learn how to set up your physical environment for vulnerability, greet people in ways that communicate warmth and competence, gather information...
Pastors are taught to be available, sacrificial, and servant-hearted, but without boundaries, those good things will destroy you. In this episode, Dr. Flood teaches you how to protect your time, emotional health, and integrity without coming across as cold or uncaring.
You'll learn the three types of boundaries every pastor needs, when dual relationships cross the line, how to recognize when you need to refer someone out, a...
Words only account for 7% of communication. The other 93%? Tone and body language. In this episode, Dr. Flood teaches you how to read what people aren't saying.
You'll learn the basics of body language, how to spot microexpressions that reveal genuine emotion in less than a second, what different types of silence actually mean, and why incongruence between words and body language is where you find the truth. Plus, practical...
The first thing someone tells you is almost never the real issue. In this episode, Dr. Flood teaches you how to ask strategic questions that move people from surface-level statements to deeper truth.
You'll learn the five types of questions every pastor needs, how to get past the first answer, and why the question behind the question is where the real counseling work happens. Plus, practical tools for working with clients who g...
Pastors are trained to teach, preach, and fix problems, but very few are trained to actually listen. In this episode, Dr. Flood breaks down what active listening really is, why nodding and waiting to talk does not count, and how rushing to solutions quietly shuts people down instead of helping them heal.
You will learn the three components of active listening, how reflective listening works in real counseling conversations, and ...
Pastors are expected to counsel everyone, but most have never been trained how to do empathy without drowning in it. In this inaugural episode, Dr. Lance Flood breaks down the difference between empathy and sympathy, introduces the three components of clinical empathy, and gives you five practical tools for being fully present without being fully consumed.
You'll learn about the empathy window, recognize the red flags of com...
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