Approaching every aspect of life as a zero-sum game not only adds unnecessary pressure, but it chops off our creativity and forces us to operate from a scarcity mindset.
In this MVP episode, I'm joined by Clayton Olson to talk about the limitations of having a zero-sum game mindset, how it impacts our professional and personal lives, and how to avoid being trapped in it.
Our conversation revolves around how we are socially conditioned to operate from a zero-sum game mindset, the debilitating and daunting tendency of setting external mile markers, and the distinction between what we need and what we want. We also touch on how the zero-sum game mindset affects our sentimental, professional, and personal lives and what are the most effective motivators to reach our goals.
In addition, Clayton shares a powerful framework to transform external mile markers into internal ones by celebrating small victories and focusing on the path behind us.
In this episode, we cover:
- What the zero-sum game mindset is and how it affects the way we approach our goals and challenges in life
- How the zero-sum game mentality affects us in our relationships
- How external mile markers hold us back
- What can we do to avoid falling into the zero-sum game mentality trap
- We are so busy trying to get there that we don't realize we already are there
Resources:
- Book: Daniel H. Pink - Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us
Links:
Business Owner Hero Type Quiz: https://lucidshiftcoaching.com/quiz/
The Mindset Gym: https://lucidshiftcoaching.com/the-mindset-gym
Connect with Clayton :
Website: https://claytonolsoncoaching.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtKW9swe4-j596iCIh2_nrA
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/claytonrolson/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/claytonolsoncoaching/
Connect with Ben:
Website: https://lucidshiftcoaching.com/
Lucid Shift Coaching IG: https://www.instagram.com/lucid_shift_coaching/
This podcast helps business owners reduce overwhelm, beat imposter syndrome, and lead with confidence and clarity by diving into practical strategies for breaking through self-imposed ceilings, tackling the fear of not being good enough or worthy enough, and overcoming the fear of failure. Learn how to become more efficient with your day, stop procrastinating, and manage insecurity, while also mastering delegation, growing your team, and expanding your bandwidth for greater success. If you've ever felt slowed down by self-doubt, this podcast is your guide to breaking free and achieving more.
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