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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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And I got my beautiful co-hostwith me.
I don't know what your name is.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
It's me, your girl B
Carrington with the T.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
Yeah, yeah, yeah,
y'all are not tuned in to this
podcast.
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And I want to give madshout-outs to man, the city of
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concert yesterday in the park,the Jay Prisker, whatever park
it is, I don't know.
I know it was a Dope Assconcert anyway.
So B how your week been.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
It's been okay.
It's been okay.
Yeah, that global strike kindof set me back a day.
You know, it took me fromresting to having to drive an
hour away and then an hour back.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
So yeah, I didn't
realize Naperville was that far
yeah it's extremely far.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
And there's nothing
out there and I don't see how
people live out there.
Shit depending on who you talkto.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
A lot of
motherfuckers are thinking
Naperville be bussing.
Really, depending on who youtalk to, I mean, it depends on
what.
What's what's busting to you.
You see what I'm saying.
Like, some motherfuckers, theyneed, uh, they need a lot of
clubs, a lot of bars, a lot oflounges.
Some people, they may feel likeman, just give me a strip mall
with a walmart in it and uh, andI'm good a couple of
(02:01):
restaurants, like I ain't seenno Target or nothing.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Maybe I was just on
the other side the wrong side,
because the company I work fortake up like a whole apartment
complex length.
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Yeah, yeah.
So probably the reason why it'snothing really over there
because of the way the companyis situated.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
What you prefer
Walmart or Target.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I'm a Walmart girl.
I like to get up.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Wait why the fuck is
Walmart to get up?
Speaker 2 (02:30):
It is.
You can go on Walmart and getyou a sale and see somebody
getting their ass kicked.
It's easy.
You can get you someentertainment and catch you a
sale.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
I will say this much
I think Walmart is easier to
kind of get up out of there withsomething extra, if you get
what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
Compared to Target
Target.
They gonna arrest you.
Walmart will slick, let you getaway.
And they be like alright, Iain't studying that Target.
Oh, you going to jail Target on.
And they be like alright, Iain't studying that Target?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Oh you going to jail
Target on your ass Like for real
, like today.
My daughter wanted a bead, likea bead making kit, and I don't
know, I probably need to go seea therapist because it didn't
even cost that much.
But I think it was just theklepto in me.
It kind of felt like I want tosee if I can get away with this
(03:28):
shit.
You know what I'm saying.
So I rang up everything and themotherfucking B making thing
was still in the cart.
So I was just like fuck it.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
I have accidentally
done it before.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
I ain't going to lie?
Was it accidentally?
Speaker 2 (03:47):
yeah, it was actually
the accident and I was like, oh
man, but I'm already at thestore, so I'm like I'm black so
I'm not going back in trying toexplain to them that, hey, I
made a mistake and walked outwith this, can I?
Speaker 1 (04:00):
go pay double for it
you know, I'm like nah, I'm just
gonna go with it, that's how Idid it and when my daughter,
when my daughter held it up, Ithought she was gonna be like
dad we forgot to pay for this.
But she didn't.
So kudos to you, baby.
But yes, it seemed like it'sway easier, so I know you got
(04:24):
some tea for us.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Well, not too much
tea, because I just, I think the
world just had the shock oftheir lives right now, oh,
tomorrow, with Joe Biden.
Yes, joe Biden dropping out ofthe race, and he said he's going
to put everything behind Kamala, which I am going to vote for
her.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
As you should.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Yes, I am going to
vote for her, contrary to
everybody saying that they'renot voting for a woman.
A lot of people not everybody Alot of people saying they're
not voting for a woman.
Do y'all know what's going tohappen if a woman run this
country?
And I'm like do you know what'sgoing to happen if Trump run
this country and they kick inProject 2025?
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Your black 2025, your
black ass going back to the
fields.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
So you know, and the
thing is project 2025 you can
actually look that shit up andit outlines everything.
So you really should get intune with that.
Yeah, so understand what it isexactly.
So I'm just but you know I'mnot so into politics, so I don't
know everything, but I do.
I hate when I'm talking Toniggas and I say niggas Because
you know, yeah, and when you'retalking To niggas and the first
(05:30):
thing you be like so why youvoting for Trump?
And they'll say Because he gaveus A stimulus, check the fuck.
And I be like but your blackass On section 8.
So when, so when Project 2025came in, your black ass ain't
getting no more Section 8.
You ain't getting nothing.
No help, no, nothing.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Well, I'm trying to
remember the stimulus check that
he gave us.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
It was, you know what
you, I thought that was Obama
that did that.
No, they gave it to us duringCOVID.
You know when?
Speaker 3 (06:03):
COVID and everybody
was losing their jobs.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
They gave us $1,400
the first time.
But you had to and I mean theykind of did and they could have
let us sink, but they said hedidn't want to in the first
place because it was supposed tobe $2,800 apiece.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
Really.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
He broke it down to
$1,400.
He was like I'm glad peopledon't need all that.
Damn he was like I'm black,people don't need all that.
Damn man, that 28 up, yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
And then, on top of
that, Instagram told me I bought
me a bag.
Got my 28 Bought me a bag bitch.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Bitch and you know,
and then On top of this you know
his assassination Attempt, I'msorry.
Quote unquote, fake, so Come onnow.
I mean because some peoplethink it's fake, Some people
think it's real.
I thought it was fake because.
I felt like you're 70 someyears old, Like how did you just
(06:58):
pop up like that and just keepit going?
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Exactly.
Like and I'm like Like is thewig made of steel?
Is it a money?
Come on, man.
Like relax, like see what iscrazy, though it's just so crazy
to me what motherfuckers wouldfall for.
You see what I'm saying.
And like people try to put thisshit out there and they try to
talk about black people, likewe're just so fucking ignorant
(07:23):
and and we don't know what thefuck going on, but we know not
to fall for bullshit.
You see what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Some of us do.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Motherfuckers.
We know when somebody trying toshoot your ass, we know that we
saw that shit and we're likenobody trying to shoot his ass.
If a motherfucker was reallytrying to shoot him, they
would've got him they would'vegot them.
What the fuck are you?
Speaker 2 (07:42):
talking about,
especially if the person was
supposed to be like thissharpshooter, this person that
was trained in shooting andstuff like that.
How did you miss Get?
Speaker 1 (07:50):
the fuck out of here.
That's Daquan and them that'smissing, like that.
You know what I'm saying?
This ain't the motherfuckersthat have been trained and been
through all these numerousfucking field tests.
No, that's bullshit, but it'ssensationalist, in my opinion.
It's sensationalism.
It gets people riled up and itgets the dummies to be even
dumber.
You know what I'm saying.
(08:10):
So they can do dumber shit andbe like, oh, I'm definitely
voting for him now because theytry to take him out.
They hired somebody to.
You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Whatever, and then he
popped up with the holding up
the fist Get the fuck out ofhere hey y'all.
I don't know what that man on,but he, I don't really mess with
him like that, but y'all got it.
Man, he is the funny, he one ofthe funniest people, because
not you got shot and you get updoing this, right, what?
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Get the fuck out of
here and everybody and I
guarantee you, the dumbmotherfuckers ate that shit up.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
You know what I'm
saying?
Speaker 1 (08:48):
look at him he's
still pumping his fist.
Ah, black power, not blackpower, trump power, whatever the
fuck.
That's crazy.
Man like motherfuckers is dumband it's just so fucked.
First of all, you cannot deny,you just can't ignore the fact
that you have a felon that'srunning for president.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
Exactly.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
You know what I'm
saying, like that part right
there.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
But then you have it
where felons can't even vote
Right.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
So I look at it like
this if you talking about making
it, if you talking about whereyou have a felon that's running
for office, I feel like, fromthis point on, you need to take
that question off everyapplication, take that shit off
every application, becauseobviously the shit does not
fucking matter, no more.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
You know what I'm
saying?
Facts, it doesn't fuckingmatter.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Hey yo, we got to
take a break real quick.
Hey man, shout out to all themotherfuckers out there.
Man that read that question.
It was like they knew there wasa felon, but they still checked
.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, we are nowback at the podcast.
We are shooting the shit and uh, we just sitting here talking
about, uh, politics, uh, fakeass, assassinations, uh, and uh
(10:22):
shit.
What it's gonna look like ifyou got.
Uh, what would it look?
What would it look like to havea black woman in office?
Speaker 2 (10:31):
I think that she
would do great.
A lot of people feel like women.
Women in general are veryemotional.
You know I'm saying which weare, we are emotional people.
But I think that she would dogreat because she would have a
lot of male advisors and I'm notjust saying it's just from a
man, man, a male and femaleperspective.
(10:53):
But I'm just saying, like shewould have advisors, people that
she speak to.
You know, hey, how do you thinkthis?
Or if I am angry, I getemotional.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
You know, she may
have somebody to, hey you know
it's like bringing that shitdown yeah you need to.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
This ain't personal.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
You know what?
Speaker 2 (11:09):
I'm saying so, you
know.
So I think that she would dogreat personally, that's what I
think.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Um, when I think
about it, the thing that I think
about the most is I feel like Ihaven't really seen her that
much doing this presidency.
You know what I'm saying.
I've seen Biden way more thanI've seen her, and I think about
past presidencies.
(11:36):
You know the vice president wasvery present.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Were they.
I think, so I don't even beremembering them.
The only person I remember isAl Gore.
Al Gore that's the only personI remember is Al Gore, who was
Bill Clinton's vice president?
Exactly, hold on, who wasGeorge Al Gore?
(12:05):
Was George Bush?
Who was Al Gore vice presidentto what?
Clinton?
Oh, that's the only person Iremember.
Wait, say that again Al Gorewas Clinton's vice president.
Yeah, that's the only person Iremember.
Who was George Bush vicepresident?
Fuck Dick Cheney.
(12:25):
But, who remember that Nick?
Speaker 1 (12:29):
A lot of people.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Y'all remember him.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
That's the
motherfucker who shot the dude.
He shot the motherfucker.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
I'm saying y'all
remember him for that, but do
y'all remember anything that hesaid?
That was profound?
No, Dick Cheney was present.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Dick Cheney was
present.
He made himself very, he madehimself very I don't remember
him saying none profound I mean.
And Biden, to be honest withyou, biden made himself seen
with Obama.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
You know, I didn't
remember Biden until he got up
there.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Really.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
I swear I never
remembered Biden.
When they was like Biden, itwas like I was like who?
Speaker 1 (13:01):
I was like, maybe I
just don't pay attention, but
Biden made himself very, veryvisual during Obama's presidency
, in my opinion.
Speaker 2 (13:11):
But they knew but I'm
going to say this about Biden,
and it's something that I didnot they knew he was too old to
run before he ran, you know whatI'm saying they knew that.
They knew that that man wasfalling asleep a long time ago.
Okay, he was falling asleep along time ago.
Okay, he was falling asleep forgiving people names.
He was doing that prior to that.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Right right.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
When he was running.
So y'all knew he was too old,so to say, right now he too old
to run, and his health and allthat.
Did y'all know when Nick wasfalling asleep.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
I mean shit.
I mean mean to me, I feel likeall that shit is by design
anyway, and and it's just shitthat they kind of let us in on.
You know what I'm saying, like.
So I I definitely feel likeit's stuff that people should
pay attention to, and peopleshould uh use their voice and
speak up.
However, I do think, at the endof the day, all it should is a
(14:07):
smokescreen.
That's just my personal opinion, though, but I do hope Kamala
Harris win over Trump,definitely.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
I don't know.
And on top of that I'm notgoing to lie I am glad America
might have.
We might have our problems inAmerica, but I promise you I
wouldn't want to be from nowhere, but I wouldn't want to live
nowhere.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
But here, really,
there ain't no place else in the
world you want to live outsideof America.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
No, they cause a lot
of them.
They don't have what we havechoices, we can make our choices
, our own choices, right, youknow, I'm saying like regardless
of what yeah, for nowregardless of what people feel.
If I want to get out and go tothe store, I can go outside and
go to the store right you knowI'm saying I don't you know,
(14:56):
whereas a president can turnaround and say the whole country
is on curfew just because hewanted to be on curfew I mean,
they kind of just did that shitwith the pandemic, though.
But that's the pandemic.
Because of that I'm talkingabout.
Just you wake up one day andyou know what I don't want
nobody on the street at the nine.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
Just because I'm
pissed.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Just because I'm
pissed.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
Right.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
Oh, they didn't speak
to me.
Everybody back in the house.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
Oh my God, we're
overpopulated no more than two
kids to a household.
Oh yeah, yeah, shit pullingjack nigga you you know.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
So it's like I ain't
gonna lie like women.
Oh, you can't do anything.
You know because in somecountries women can't even.
They have no opinion.
They have no opinion, you can't.
They can't even go into arestaurant.
If it's men in the restaurant,you got to take your husband
with you.
If you got one, or a man got togo with you, well, otherwise
(15:54):
you can't go in there you knowwhat that makes me think about.
Speaker 1 (15:59):
If kamala harris do
win, how how will she be
received?
And some of these global, uh,these global events I was
thinking that too, you know whatI'm saying, like I didn't look
at you like, uh, you know,because you don't know what
you're talking about in somecountries where men don't think
women are intelligent at all,like they don't listen to you.
(16:22):
They don't care what you gottasay right you don't count, but
you know that's funny, uh,because lately I've been having
these conversations about menand women, right?
So, and I think about itbecause, you know, I don't know
if I'm having theseconversations because my
(16:45):
situation changed.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (16:47):
I mean I am having
fuck that shit.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
I am having
conversations because my
situation changed, so I'm seeingthings a little bit different.
You know what I'm saying.
So sometimes I do think aboutno, not sometimes a lot.
I think about the rational partof it who thinks?
More rational, right, yeah whothinks women, but you just say
(17:12):
I'm more emotional emotionalversus rational.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
Yeah, I can be
emotional, but I can also be in
the.
In the times of me beingemotional, I can be a rational
thinker as well.
Does that go together?
Yes, it does, because I can't,like I can, be a rational
thinker as well.
Does that go together?
Yes?
Speaker 3 (17:25):
No, it don't.
Yes, it does, it does.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
Because I can
literally be upset.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
And make a sound
decision, and make a sound
decision.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
I swear I can.
When he, when Don Do you think?
Speaker 1 (17:37):
most women do that.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
No, I don't Thank you
, and I'm going to say that
Because what I'm saying, when myhusband wrecked his car or his
truck, I swear I was mad.
You know.
I'm saying I was like you know,fuck this, you know I was, I
was mad and I still I said okay,well, you know what, let's
think this thing out, let'sfigure it out.
now I was still pissed, I didn'twant to sit next to me or
nothing go over there, but let'stalk about what we're gonna do,
(18:00):
right you know, and so it waslike in that moment I still had
to make a rational decision, nomatter if I'm mad I don't want
you talking to me but we stillgot to figure it out.
That's true because there'sstill going to be the same issue
in the morning, no matter ifI'm mad or not right and I'm
still mad.
You know, not right, notserious, not right now, but like
, even if I'm still mad, I'mstill gonna make that decision
(18:23):
that's and you know what.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
That's awesome and I
commend you for that.
I think I guess I just kind offeel like I look at certain
situations and certain thingsthat motherfuckers say and
certain decisions that's madeand I'd be like you thought that
was a good decision.
Like you thought that throughyou know what I'm saying Like
you, you thought that was a gooddecision.
(18:45):
Like you thought that throughyou know what I'm saying like
you really thought that was thebest choice, you know.
And not to say that, not to saythat men can't make fucked up
ass decisions too y'all make alot okay, yeah, and we do, we do
.
But who do you think is moreemotional, though?
(19:10):
You said women.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
Women are more
emotional, but men I'm going to
say this I be feeling likesometimes y'all don't use
critical thinking.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
Y'all don't use y'all
critical thinking skills
whatsoever.
You know what I'm saying.
It's like y'all don't thinkabout certain things before you
eat, when it's time to do.
You know right, just do stuff.
Like if you gotta pay forsomething at the house, it's
like why you just didn't go andpay it or why you just didn't do
this.
It's like we have to talk y'allinto doing certain things.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
I'm like where is it
responsible yeah, be responsible
yeah, we're gonna take a breakreal quick.
Yo shout out to all my dudesout there man, that putting a
little bit on the light bill anda little bit it's just podcast.
Speaker 3 (19:59):
Man, it's the shit
this comedian, comedian Marnie P
checking in from the ShitsPodcast.
Speaker 1 (20:07):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah.
We are now back at the ShitsPodcast and I think we are at
the portion where we arestarting some shit.
That's what we are on right now.
So we're talking about rationalthinkers, rational and
emotional thinkers.
Who is normally the rationalthinkers and emotional thinkers?
(20:27):
And really you just can't sayit's just women.
You really can't say it's justmen, because it can vary.
It's all about a person'scharacteristics and a person's
mindset.
I personally feel likesometimes the options that men
have given women have put us ina really fucked up situation,
(20:49):
meaning I'll explain, Okay, yeahelaborate.
I'll explain it.
We have been raised to feellike you got to provide
everything for the woman, justyour job.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (21:01):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
That's what we have
been taught, right.
So that means that we're goingto pay for the, you know, the
bills, the rent, the hair, thenails, the meal.
What else am I missing?
That's it, you're fine that'sit you're fine, you're there
(21:29):
with all that being said, let meask you this question what does
the man get after all that?
Speaker 2 (21:36):
we carry your babies.
Okay, okay, we carry yourbabies.
Alright, you're supposed to beyour peace.
Speaker 1 (21:48):
Stop right there.
Let me stop you right there.
So when you said we carry yourbabies, I am 100%.
I am in 100% agreeance with youon that.
Now, after that shit starts toget murky, after that shit
starts to get murky, after thatshit starts to get murky because
(22:09):
you said we supposed to, y'allsupposed to be our peace right,
yeah okay, what else?
What else do we get?
Speaker 2 (22:16):
we supposed to be
your friend.
Okay, come on next.
Next, we supposed to be thechef, next.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
Uber Eats.
Uber Eats sales have went thefuck up, so please don't tell me
that.
So come on next one.
Chef, wait because you throwingme out Because you hearing it
yourself.
You out here to go.
What's the next one?
Speaker 2 (22:43):
Chef, let me see um a
shoulder for you to you know,
cry on so now you just said it.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
You're supposed to be
a shoulder for us to cry on,
but then again it's like theseniggas too sensitive.
Well, I don't want to try tohear all that shit.
Nigga, just alright.
So next, what else?
Speaker 2 (23:04):
that's all I got for
right now.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
So when you think
about all that, when you think
about all that, that's why Isaid that we have played a part
in that.
Men have definitely played apart in that, because we have
been taught to be, in my opinion, I think we have been taught to
feel like you're not supposed,you're really not, you're not
(23:29):
entitled to shit.
That's what we've been taught.
We have been taught that youare supposed to provide this
shit and hopefully you get allthe shit that you just said.
Now, them babies I can give youSometimes.
Sometimes women feel like Idon't want no fucking kids.
Speaker 3 (23:47):
You know what I'm
saying.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
But all the rest of
that shit.
That's a maybe, nigga, that's,that's a maybe, maybe.
Or is it because of the people,the women that y'all choose?
See a lot of a lot of menchoose women solely based off
looks that that is solely basedoff looks.
They don't find out if she uh,you know, I'm saying they don't
find out nothing about her,except that she got a fat ass
(24:17):
and a pretty face that's apretty feet okay pretty feet
because men are visual right sobefore y'all even get to a
personality, y'all done.
Seen her, me, when I say me andvisual, y'all are visual to the
point where she could be shefine as hell dumb as fuck yeah,
boring as hell, dumb as hell,but she fine though.
(24:40):
So y'all are put up withcertain shit, right, because
that woman look good.
That's how some not all men,but some men are very much so
visual.
And when I say visual, um, Ihave heard men say if a woman
ain't got a certain style, ifshe's not dressed a certain like
stylish, they don't want todeal with her, you know, I mean,
she could be beautiful, shecould have everything that they
(25:03):
want in a woman, but the bitchcan't dress.
So now he don't want to be, hedon't want to mess with her.
Like, damn, you can't do that,you can't.
They feel like they can't fixstyle.
I'm like, yes, you can, butwhat you can't do is make a
person be a chef.
You can't make a person, youknow I'm saying, be a great
mother.
You know I'm saying be able to,you know, help you with your
businesses or be the show to cryon, or you can't.
(25:25):
You can't fix that.
You fix style.
You can fix a person who may befat and you're like, oh, she's
beautiful, she's just a littlechunky.
You can fix that.
You can say baby, let's go tothe gym.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
Or keep it the way it
is.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
Bbws ain't bad at all
, you can keep it the way it is,
but I'm just saying like theylook at men are very shallow.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
Some men yeah men are
very shallow.
Speaker 2 (25:56):
Some men, yeah, some
men are very shallow.
Some men, yeah, yeah, yeah,very good point.
That's how y'all end up withand I that's how most men end up
with a bitter baby mama, ohbecause, they have chosen
someone based off of looks andthey just so happened to get
that person pregnant and she hadall the red flags.
She was a walking red flag, butyou still walk red flags.
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What's the red?
Speaker 1 (26:18):
flags.
That, you, that, you that youwould say, as a woman what's the
red flags?
Speaker 2 (26:22):
okay, you missed her
phone call.
Oh, you didn't text her rightback.
She didn't call you.
A bunch of bitches and hoes andcuss you out and talk crazy to
you, but you still stay with her.
You didn't care about theirrespect.
You thought it was cute at thetime.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
Oh, she like me, she
like y'all on my dick.
Speaker 2 (26:44):
She had a baby with
her.
She had the police at your doortalking about some.
I want my baby at their house.
Speaker 1 (26:48):
Oh, or she had a baby
with her.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
She had the police At
your door Talking about I want
my baby Out the house, oh, orshe put or she put the Snickers
In your gas tank, yeah, or shebust out your windows and some
people.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
Or she bust or she
Slash three tires.
Speaker 2 (26:56):
Right For the
insurance.
Speaker 1 (26:59):
Right yeah.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Yeah, insurance ain't
Gonna pay for them, damn.
So at the end of the day, likewe tell men, tell women to
choose better, because people betalking women, be talking about
dead, be daddies and stuff likethat, we tell y'all y'all
should have chosen better choosebetter.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
You know, like that's
a good point.
I mean, like I kind of feellike certain things, certain
things you can see from the jump.
You know I'm saying um withpeople and it's like like when
you start to have a conversationwith a motherfucker and you be
like damn like you say yourconversation boring as fuck,
like you don't even know how tohave a conversation, like how
(27:37):
long we gonna keep this shitgoing exactly, you see what I'm
saying.
Or like you know it's not funhanging out with you, you know
what I'm saying.
Like it's cool to fuck you, youknow what I'm saying.
But after that it's likealright, see you tomorrow,
whatever.
You know what I'm saying.
Like it's cool to fuck you, youknow what I'm saying.
But after that it's like allright, it's all right, see you
tomorrow, whatever.
You know what I'm saying, I'llget your call.
But I feel like it's a bigdifference and maybe I just feel
(27:58):
this way.
You know, getting older it's abig difference.
And when you can have somebodyto occupy your time and your
space, and have somebody tooccupy your time and your space
and you like it and it seemslike the time is not dragging,
you know I'm saying like youlook up, it's two, it was two
o'clock in the morning and it'slike man, we've been kicking it
this long, I didn't realize thatyou know.
I'm saying yeah so compared toyou know, after you didn't fuck
(28:21):
them off, and it's like oh shitit's 10, 30, 10, 36.
I gotta get up.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
I gotta get up early
at 1 pm tomorrow.
You know what I'm saying soI'll let you.
Speaker 1 (28:37):
I mean yeah, I think
I think that's, that's that's
definite something, that'sdefinitely something that I
think men don't always thinkabout.
You know what?
I'm saying because we just belike yeah, we are visual, you
know, we see a fat ass.
That shit would.
That shit would turn your head,I mean.
But for some women too, I'veseen women.
I've seen some women be likedamn, she got nice ass yes, but
like okay.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
So it's a show called
uh, pop the balloon.
Y'all probably have heard of it.
If not, you should look it up.
When you see men and womenthat's on there looking for love
or whatever they're doing andthey're popping the balloon of
the person that they don't, youknow, that they don't find
attractive or whatever, when youhear some of the reasoning
(29:18):
behind it, you realize that, ohmy god, these, this is how
people think and this is why alot of people are, and I'm not.
I don't want to think single isa bad thing, but that's why a
lot of people are single, or whythey choose horrible mates.
Because you have people onthere popping a balloon.
The young lady came out and shesaid I like to garden.
(29:39):
She was a engineer, you know,and she read books.
The moment that she says shelikes to read and she likes to
stay at home, men startedpopping their balloon.
They didn't want them.
They didn't want them the fuck,they said.
She seemed boring, she had nokids.
She was 26 years old, engineer.
(29:59):
She said she loved guys.
She wanted a man of God.
She didn't even have a type.
Speaker 1 (30:04):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (30:05):
She didn't even care
if you were short or not.
Just be a good guy.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
And they was popping
the balloon.
Speaker 3 (30:10):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (30:10):
Now they gonna go for
the Megan Thee Stallion type.
That's gonna run your pocketsand you can't even go to
Applebee's with the motherfucker.
You gotta go to a five-starjoint, motherfucker.
I like Applebee's, I likeChili's, I like.
Speaker 3 (30:25):
Red Lobster.
I like Red.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
Lobster, the Cheddar
Bay Biscuits, anyway, my bad,
but damn, that's fucked up.
That's real.
Hey, we got to take a breakreal quick.
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do like girls who can read,even if your dumb ass can't read
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, we're notback, that's 872-225-2680.
Speaker 1 (31:30):
Yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah, we're not back, it's just
podcast, with your host, monstaRop, and the fabulous Pete
Carrington Always laying shitdown, telling y'all how it is.
And we're in this motherfuckingman, so okay.
So we talked about the redflags in a relationship and what
people should look for.
Um, like, I want to talk aboutyou know, the whole, the whole
(31:54):
idea and concept of beingconnected, because I think
that's what people miss.
You see what I'm saying.
Um, like, so we talk about whatpeople look for in somebody and
you know people like I've seenwomen write down, uh, their
requirements, that that they mayas well to have, and I've been
reading this shit.
I'll be like you ain't got noneof that shit.
(32:15):
You have none of it.
You know I'm saying one throughone through eight, you have
none of it.
But you can't focus somebodyunless they got that.
So it'd be like idiotic to meanyway.
But people make these listsabout what a person is supposed
to have in order for them to bewith them, and then I'll be
sitting there thinking about it,like, do you think a person
(32:37):
having all that stuff is gonnamake you feel connected to them?
You get what I'm saying,because the thing about it is
sometimes you just like oh,sometimes I feel like you really
can't tell.
You really can't tell if you'regoing to feel that way about a
person.
It comes from you hanging outyou know what I'm saying.
It comes from you engaging inconversation with a motherfucker
(33:00):
, like I don't just think thatyou know.
When somebody pop up and theylook good, you be like oh, I'm
connected to this motherfuckeroh, that's lust right there,
that is that's lust.
Right there, that is that'scalled lust, you know.
So, once that nut is bust, youknow, sometimes shit, a lot of
times shit really change.
Speaker 3 (33:17):
Right.
Speaker 1 (33:20):
But yeah, I was just
thinking about that and like the
whole concept of people beingconnected, and then I thought
about it even further.
So just say, like with LightCompany, the Light Company will
send you a notice that says yourshit about to get disconnected,
right.
So I'm sitting there thinkinglike what if there was some way
(33:43):
a motherfucker can get a noticethat their connection with that
person was possibly about to end?
Speaker 2 (33:48):
You got one.
It's called a text message.
Speaker 1 (33:51):
No.
Speaker 2 (33:51):
Okay, explain.
Speaker 1 (33:52):
Elaborate.
Elaborate.
Speaker 2 (33:55):
It's a simple text.
Hey, you know, I loved our date, I loved going out with you and
everything.
It's just we just don't have aconnection.
You know, and I don't want tohold up any more of your time
because I want you to find whoyou're looking for so you saying
this after a date or afterafter some time?
It could be after a day orafter some time so okay.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
So what about?
Is there any okay?
So let's say, like after sometime, like some years, like is
there some like the signs thatsomebody could send and say, hey
, I feel like, I feel like welosing this you know, yes, I
think that couples, I feel likewhen someone has been with
somebody for a long time, um,you have times where you
(34:42):
actually don't like that person.
Speaker 2 (34:44):
People don't want to
admit it.
You don't like mate.
If you've been with somebody 10years, one of those years you
couldn't stand their ass.
A whole year Shit.
Maybe you know what I'm saying.
You couldn't stand them.
You know what.
I mean, but y'all managed tomake it work.
And when I say that y'all endup maybe talking and saying what
(35:05):
the issue was and stuff likethat, because I've had my own,
you know, with my husband, I'vehad, we've had that discussion,
you know, I'm saying why I waslike man, you so boring now you
know, I mean like we didn't havethat talk so it's so.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
It's stuff like okay,
we're losing that connection.
Yeah, we're losing thatconnection.
How can we get it back?
Speaker 2 (35:24):
yeah, because I think
you're boring, but see, that's
how we talk to each other,though me and him.
Him and I, we talk to eachother like that, right, so I
don't get offended.
He doesn't get it offendedeither.
You know, um, I would tell himlike I want to go somewhere.
You know I'm saying like Idon't care, we ain't got to pay
for it, but I want to gosomewhere I want to be out, yeah
(35:44):
, like all you do is work, work,work, work, work and shit.
Your ass gonna be sleeping atthat motherfucker, you know what
I'm saying.
And he's like okay, well, cool,want to go out this weekend,
you know so that's it, he's likeI'm sorry I made you feel that
way and uh yeah let's go out,it's fine so it's.
Speaker 1 (36:01):
So.
What I'm hearing is it's thatit's that whole communication
piece that can help you can getan indicator of yeah, we kind of
losing that connection.
Speaker 2 (36:09):
Yeah and then figure
out what the connection is that
you're losing, like it's severalthings you know.
I'm saying, maybe are you notattracted to them anymore.
Speaker 3 (36:20):
Um have they let?
Speaker 2 (36:21):
they self go.
You know, um, are y'all notgoing out enough?
Is it just Because some peoplehave kids, multiple children,
and their lives starts to besurrounded Around the kids?
Don't get me wrong.
I love my daughter.
I love her to death.
But, baby, please, we ain'tfinna, we not doing that.
(36:44):
I want to have day and nightand stuff like that, because we
still have to Nurture ourrelationship at the same time
because if we don't, then it'snot going to be a good dynamic
for the household right you know, we just going to just be going
through the motions, like, okay, you go to work, I go to work,
we pick up the babies, right,you drop her off, you know it.
(37:05):
You cook, I cook, you knowwhatever.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (37:08):
We eat dinner.
Speaker 2 (37:09):
It's just a routine.
Nobody wants to just Go throughthat constant.
I see it with a lot of peoplewho end up having children.
Speaker 3 (37:16):
Right.
Speaker 2 (37:17):
They kind of lose
Themselves.
They don't want to go Out oftown Without the kids.
They don't want to go Withoutthe kids.
Everything is without the kids,right, they, everything is
without the kids.
They scared.
Without the kids, it's likedamn, y'all gonna be with the
kids forever.
Y'all don't do nothing.
It doesn't make you a badparent because you feel like I
want to go to Miami and live itup with my husband.
Speaker 1 (37:38):
Right, right, right.
That's what I want to do.
I'm supposed to be able to dothat.
Speaker 2 (37:40):
I'm supposed to be
able to do that.
We take care of y'all all yearthat makes sense.
Speaker 1 (37:45):
I mean, like those,
those cup, those couple, those
couple vacations, uh, theyshould be the best vacations,
Cause you get the opportunity tobe adults and do adult shit.
You see what I'm saying, Likeyou know, like there's a,
there's a certain um, there's acertain beauty and being able to
(38:05):
be with that other adult andhang out late and just do adult
shit you know, whether it'srecorded or not straight up, you
know what I'm saying like andhave fun, because a lot of
couples don't have fun.
Speaker 2 (38:18):
Me and my husband, we
laugh all the time, right, we
got jokes, we tell jokes, hetalk about me and the fact that
I you know he say stuff about me, I say stuff about him, like we
have plenty of jokes like that.
I don't want to say we'reattached to the hip with each
other, but he is literally mybest friend so I gossip with him
(38:38):
.
Speaker 1 (38:38):
Right.
So you know, it's interestingthat you say that, because I
hear I hear women say that morethan I hear men say that.
I've rarely heard a man say,yeah, you know, my girl's my
best friend.
I think it's great, like, don'tget me wrong, no, don't get me
wrong.
I think it's great.
I think it's great when it'ssaid but me and my boy, tron,
(39:00):
talk about this all the time.
It's like I don't know if mygirl could be my best friend,
because I don't know if I cansay everything too.
I don't know that, but I willsay this much I do feel like in
today's society, relationshipsare evolving and relationships
are fucking changing, and I'llsay it this way first of all,
(39:22):
you have relationships wherethreesomes are not taboo no more
, you know what I'm saying.
And it's like them.
Motherfuckers are sometimessuggested by more.
You know what I'm saying.
And it's like them,motherfuckers are sometimes
suggested by the woman.
You know what I'm saying.
So I think that part is likethat mindset is kind of changing
, like that's not you have.
It's like yeah, we do ittogether.
You see what I'm saying.
I also think that you know likethe lifestyles are kind of
(39:52):
becoming a little bit more, uh,acceptable like you have, uh,
like the swingers, and you know,I'm saying people that they
they feel like I do everything.
Well, not, we do everythingtogether.
So I think, in situations likethat, I think it may be possible
to be like, yeah, this is mybest friend because we do
everything together you can havea best like.
Speaker 2 (40:13):
I'm, just not a
sensitive person right so when
Don say something to me or hesays something, we've always
been like that from thebeginning of our relationship,
like we say I say anything, youknow, I'm saying that's.
I've always been that type thatI'm going to say anything, okay
, um, he didn't know that.
(40:34):
I was like that when I firstmet him, until I actually said
anything and he was like Whoa,wait, wait, I didn't know we
could talk to each other likethat.
You know what I'm saying and sothen it made him comfortable
with you know saying certainthings around me, and then now
we just say whatever to eachother.
I'm trying to get to the pointwhere we kind of we think alike.
(40:54):
When I say we think alike, Icould be thinking something and
he'll bust out and say it.
Speaker 1 (40:59):
Right.
Speaker 2 (41:00):
And we'll both start
laughing.
Speaker 1 (41:02):
So let me ask this
question, though what?
What happens when, oh, I'lltake a break and man know what?
What happens when, oh, I'lltake a break and man shout out
to uh all the couples out thereman is, you know, doing adult
shit and uh getting arrested foruh public intoxication and uh
fucking in the back seat of thewendy's?
Speaker 3 (41:17):
yes, it's just
podcast.
Where did it just?
Speaker 1 (41:19):
mean it's yeah, it's
just podcast.
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(41:42):
shit left off.
Speaker 2 (41:54):
So now we're not
gonna be able to yeah, I enjoy
all moments like when you I wastelling him, like telling down
when, when I was younger, whenwe young, we don't think about
death as much.
Right, because we're young, wedon't understand it.
Speaker 1 (42:10):
You know, I'm saying
so you just don't want to think
about it well, you just want.
Speaker 2 (42:13):
But when we seven,
eight, it's kind of like, okay,
so cousin passed away, who thehell is that you know?
I'm saying like you don't knowthem, like that you know.
I mean, you know them, but youdon't know them.
But as you start getting olderin our age group, people start
passing yeah people gone, peoplegone, and then your parents
start leaving, your grandparentsstart leaving, so I started
(42:35):
thinking about the moments thatI could enjoy more.
Yeah, that's what you're sayingbecause now they ain't here and
I can't go back to those moments.
So with him going to the gasstation, with him, that's a
moment, because guess what if he, once he's gone, I'm not going
to be able to when I go pastthat gas station.
(42:56):
Guess what?
Speaker 1 (42:57):
I'm only had memories
, that's it, damn, but you know
what?
But that that's.
That's very interesting thatyou said, because it really
makes me think about theimportance of creating memories,
and I think that sometimespeople take that for granted
because they get so caught up inmaking the money or they get so
(43:17):
caught up in the status thatthey don't understand the whole
concept of making the memoriesnot just with your significant
other, but making the memorieswith the children, the kids,
your friends all that likeactually living.
You know I'm saying so and it'slike it's it's like stacking up
those core memories.
Yes, you know, like, and it'sto me it's kind of feel like the
(43:40):
more positive core memories youhave, the the the happier,
happier you are.
Yes, you know.
So I think that I think thatshit is very important.
But I think that goes back tothe whole concept of connections
.
Speaker 2 (43:55):
And that's why I said
, because I'm like that's my
best friend.
So when we in the car we riding, and he got me listening to a
new song or something, I'mthinking like one day, damn he
ain't going to have it.
He ain't going to have it, meor damn he ain't gonna have it,
me or him ain't gonna have it.
Whether we live to be 80 or 90,at some point we're gonna
(44:17):
realize that back in our 30s and40s we took this ride down 79th
and we was, we was in the mix,we was high as hell.
We gonna be talking about that.
It's just gonna be.
We, oh, we're gonna be older.
You know, I mean, we just haveto.
I love him.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
You know, I mean I
love him I feel like I should
have music playing in thebackground while you're saying
that.
Speaker 2 (44:41):
Go ahead, though yeah
, I love him, even if we didn't
work out right.
I told him that we are still,still always be friends, because
I actually love I actually yeah.
I'm in love with him, but Iknow that if it's not working
out, I do have to.
I would have to let him go tofind his happiness, but you're
stealing my dog that part, thatpart.
Speaker 1 (45:04):
If it's not working
out, I not.
I can't be mad at you, I gottalet you.
I gotta let you go to find yourhappiness, you know what I'm
saying Because obviously,obviously, I didn't get the
disconnection notice that youwas sending me Exactly.
Speaker 2 (45:18):
You know what I'm
saying.
Speaker 1 (45:19):
I didn't get it.
You know what I'm saying.
I should have, or maybe youdidn't get the disconnection
notice that I was sending youand you didn't pick up on it.
You know I'm saying because ifyou did, you'd have been like
hey, well, let me call them andput something on it.
Speaker 2 (45:31):
You know, I'm saying
or maybe we just grew apart,
maybe it's nobody did anythingwrong right maybe it's just like
we've been together so long.
Right, just who we were back 10years ago.
Speaker 1 (45:46):
We're not those
people anymore Now I will say
this even with that, I kind offeel like there still should
have been.
I think there still were somesigns there that we would not
have of what we were becoming.
You get what I'm saying,because I don't think it's just
(46:08):
because it's not just overnight.
You know what I'm saying.
Like you said, it's over theyears, it's over the years.
So over the years, you know, wewere going different ways.
I just kind of feel like at somepoint, if you would have gotten
the disconnection notice, youcould have been like hey, why
are you going that way?
You could have been like hey,why you going?
(46:29):
Why you going that way?
What is it about that way?
You know, I'm saying, and youwould have had the opportunity
to be like okay, I don't want togo that way, so let me just end
it right now.
You know, I'm saying oractually, I don't mind going
that way, so let me, I'm gonnawalk with you.
That's how I look at it.
So when I I do feel like it is,I do feel like it is possible
for people to just grow apart.
However, I feel like you growapart, when you don't get the
(46:54):
disconnection notice.
You see what I'm saying.
When you don't pay attention tothe disconnection notice, yeah,
we starting to drift.
But if you paid attention, youwould notice that we starting to
drift and you can ask thequestion well, what's going on?
You see what I'm saying?
Because I think that's thedifference, because in a
relationship, let's say like sixmonths to a year, if you notice
something's different, you'regonna be like if you really give
(47:14):
a fuck, you're gonna be like,hey, what's up?
You know what I'm saying.
I don't hear from you as much.
You know what I'm saying.
Or, yeah, I don't hear from you, I don't hear from you, I don't
see you that much.
Like what's going on.
Somebody could tell you well, Idon't know, I got pissed at
this, or I just don't, or youboring.
You get what I'm saying and ifyou really give a fuck, you can
(47:37):
be like all right, well, let metry to do something else, let's
go out to this, let's do that.
You see what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (47:43):
Or it's something
that's just, is a non-negotiable
and some people not going tochange.
Like case in point.
I ain't bringing up celebrities, but I am Jenny Mai and her
ex-husband.
When they first got together,both of them said they didn't.
She said she didn't want anychildren.
He said he didn't want anychildren.
(48:03):
When they first got together,10 years within the marriage, he
started saying I think I wantsome kids and she don't, and she
still didn't want any kids.
But pause, they divorced, shegets with jesus and has a baby.
So, with that being said, it'skind of like this man was asking
you for kids.
Right, you said you didn't wantany children, but I'm gonna
(48:26):
tell you what she did for him,though she did let him go right
at that point in time she didn'twant any children.
He did right.
And so she said you know I hatefor us to part ways, but this
is something that I know wewould have to do because just in
the last I think he said, shesaid that last year he had been
saying that he wanted kids andshe knew she didn't want none.
(48:48):
She didn't want none.
So it wasn't even her comingback and saying, well, maybe we
can think about it.
She specifically said it's okay, you can go.
I don't, you can go.
Speaker 1 (49:00):
And it was
non-negotiable.
Then she got with Jeezy, had ababy, then he divorced her.
Speaker 2 (49:06):
Right.
Speaker 1 (49:09):
That's the universe
doing, what the universe do,
okay.
Speaker 2 (49:12):
Yeah, but to that
point.
Her ex-husband has a beautifulfamily.
He got remarried, yeah, has twobeautiful children.
Speaker 1 (49:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (49:23):
You know and is doing
great.
Speaker 1 (49:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (49:25):
And that's what he
wanted.
He wanted that family, so sheknew that.
And that's what he wanted.
He wanted that family, so sheknew that and she got what she
wanted regardless that he senther this this, this
disconnection notice, orcommunicated that.
Well, she said at that time Ididn't want any children, so I'm
gonna let him go.
I'm not gonna drag this on forthree or four more years having
him on the back burner sayingmaybe, maybe, right, we'll try
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tomorrow, okay, maybe.
And then years pass and youstill ain't got.
You know you know she let him gowhen she found out that he
wanted some kids.
Yeah, let him go right there,and I I applauded her for that,
because she let him go be happyI feel you well, even though you
(50:10):
had a baby you got divorced.
You probably would have, if youwould have had one with your
ex-husband you would probablystill be together, but that
ain't what you wanted but atleast he's happy though.
Speaker 1 (50:22):
There it is.
Hey, listen, listen, I havelearned, I have learned.
And how long has it been withina four, four to five months
span?
Hey, man, sometimes you justgotta give a motherfucker what
(50:43):
they want.
That's it, that's all.
That is all you can do.
Give a motherfucker what theywant.
That's it.
That's all.
That is all you can do.
Give a motherfucker what theywant.
This is what you want.
Okay, okay, you got it.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (50:53):
Life went oh.
Speaker 1 (50:55):
Hey, we got to take a
break.
We'll be back.
Hey, man, shout out to all themotherfuckers, man that fuck it
what they want.
It's just podcast, man, it'sthe shits hey everybody.
Speaker 2 (51:07):
It's comedian
Stephanie Robertson with the
shits Come check it out.
Speaker 3 (51:10):
You can follow me on
Instagram at Stephanie
underscore underscore Robertson.
Speaker 2 (51:15):
I will see you there.
Make sure to follow.
Speaker 1 (51:17):
We are not begging to
shoot this podcast.
We're shooting the shit,starting some shit, picking up
what shit left off.
We are picking up what she leftoff, what you about to say.
B.
Speaker 2 (51:27):
I was gonna say, when
you was saying you gotta give
people what they want, I wasgonna say, like some women, you
know, and men but I'm justspeaking for women, cause I'm a
woman Sometimes women think thatthe grass Growing on the other
side or they gonna get, you know, something different From the
what, from a different man Thanthe man that they have.
You know what I mean?
Because the man that they met,you know he seems like a great
(51:52):
guy and this, this, and thatYou've only been talking to him
For maybe Three or four monthsand he's checking off All the
boxes, he's doing everythingthat your ex did not do.
So you say Right.
But then, when you get with him,he start doing the same thing
that your ex did, so sometimesthe grass ain't greener On the
other side.
You just need to Water your owngrass.
(52:14):
You know what I'm saying.
Water your grass, you know.
Fix your garden up.
You know what I mean.
And not try to go find it Insomeone else Because I see it so
many, so much you know, like,oh, you don't have.
And not try to go find it insomeone else because I see it so
much, you know, like, oh, youdon't have that man, he ain't
got a good job right now.
He don't have this and that,but he's in college, you know,
(52:36):
he's finishing his master's orsomething or whatever.
He finished his bachelor's.
That woman to leave that manalone and say, hey, no, he ain't
got enough for me, I needsomebody to get it right now.
Okay, she, nah, he ain't gotenough for me, I need somebody
that got it right now she getwith that man that got it right
now.
He got three other ones.
He dogging her, but the manthat all you had to do was wait
(52:56):
just a little longer, be patient, and he was gonna give you the
world.
He was good to you andeverything, but you decided that
you want to go over there tosomebody else cause you wanted
it right now.
Right now.
You didn't want to wait.
Speaker 1 (53:11):
Welcome to the Shark
Tank.
God damn it.
That's my boy, dave saying it.
He called it the Shark Tank.
My nigga Ne-Yo said he was likedon't.
He said for dudes.
The advice he would give dudesis don't forget who you are.
I say that too, Don't forget,like don't lose sight of who you
(53:33):
are.
He said he was like when you,when you lose sight of who you
are, she will too, real talk.
You know what I'm saying?
You're going to find yourselfin a whole different situation.
Um man, hey y'all.
I gotta say it's always apleasure, uh, conversing with b,
because you got so much insight.
(53:55):
I think you are a very, very,very intelligent person and it's
like you keep shit 100.
Um yo, uh, any shots out beforewe get up out of here?
Speaker 2 (54:06):
no, just just follow
me on all my socials.
Be Carrington on TikTok and beCarrington on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (54:15):
For sure.
I'm going to leave y'all withthis.
I don't know what need to hearthis, but hey, don't forget
about you.
Real shit.
As soon as you forget about you, your ass lost.
That applies to men and women.
Don't forget about you, realshit.
Uh, as soon as you forget aboutyou, your ass lost.
That applies to men and women.
Don't forget about you.
Don't forget about what makesyou happy.
Don't forget about what getsyou out of bed in the morning.
(54:37):
Don't forget about the shitthat pisses you off.
You know I'm saying you don'talways have to slap shit out
somebody over it, but don'tforget about it.
Be aware of it.
Be aware of yourself.
Be in tune with yourself,because when you're not in tune
with yourself, somebody can comealong and make you think you
are whatever they want you to be.
You see what I'm saying.
So realize who the fuck you are.
(54:59):
And if you are that person, ifyou're a person that's out there
looking for somebody else, it'sgonna be hard for you to find
somebody.
But you don't know who the fuckyou are, you know.
So if you a nerd, you steady,trying to fuck with the thugs,
that shit ain't gonna pan out.
If you a thug and you trying tosteady fuck with the nerds that
shit ain't gonna pan out causethey read too much for your
(55:21):
stupid ass.
You know what I'm saying.
But anyway, y'all can find me onInstagram at Monson Staraw,
that's S-T-A-R-A-W or the ShitsPodcast, that's the S-H-I T-T-S
Podcast, also TikTok.
Also Facebook, man, y'all makesure y'all check out the podcast
(55:42):
on Spotify, apple Podcast,anywhere you get your podcast at
.
Y'all, make sure y'all check itout and, man, we will be back.
I want to leave it out withthis.
Make fans, not followers.
Followers will get you clout,fans will get you work.
Respect the process, trust theprocess, appreciate the process,
because it's making you intowho you are.
(56:04):
Be patient, be passionate, bepurposeful and, man, we will
holler at y'all later.
It's been one shout-out toDecker Durst for everything he
do for the podcast and for thecity of Chicago for the beats.
Y'all, make sure y'all checkhim out and we are out of here.
It is the Shoots Podcast, theShoots Peace.