47. How the 4 Attachment Styles Behave in Friendships

🎙️ In this episode, Jewel dives headfirst into the fascinating world of attachment styles—but with a twist! She’s zooming in on how these patterns play out in our friendships (yep, not just romantic relationships!). From the calm and confident secure type to the rollercoaster of the anxious, the chill-but-distant avoidant, and the wild card disorganized, Jewel breaks down each style with clarity and heart.

✨ But she doesn’t stop there—Jewel shares practical, real-life tips for each attachment style, helping you build stronger, deeper, and more secure bonds with your friends. Whether you're figuring yourself out or just want to show up better for the people you love, this episode is packed with insight, aha moments, and good vibes. Get ready to level up your friendship game! 💖👯‍♀️

• 00:00 - Understanding Attachment Styles In Friendships

• 07:52 - Exploring Anxious Attachment

• 12:05 - Navigating Avoidant Attachment

• 15:52 - Disorganized Attachment: The Push-Pull Dynamic

• 23:09 - Outro

  
  

You’ll Learn:

• Attachment styles influence all relationships, not just romantic ones.

• Understanding your attachment style can enhance self-confidence and relationships.

• Secure attachment is characterized by emotional availability and support.

• Anxious attachment leads to over-apologizing and fear of rejection.

• Avoidant attachment prioritizes independence and may avoid emotional closeness.

• Disorganized attachment combines anxious and avoidant traits, leading to relationship challenges.

• Building internal safety is crucial for anxiously attached individuals.

• Avoidant individuals should practice emotional expression to foster intimacy.

• Disorganized individuals need to recognize and name their triggers with compassion.

• Creating safe, consistent friendships helps rewire attachment patterns.

  
  

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