55. Asking My Friends What Lessons They've Learned in Friendship

In this feel-good, laugh-out-loud, get-a-little-teary episode, Jewel sits down with some of her closest ride-or-dies—Kenzie, JP, Nicki, Kyle, Moira, Katey, and Aaron—to spill the real tea on friendship. We’re talking everything from Gen Z vs. Millennial vibes to emotional growth, awkward conversations, and why being vulnerable is basically a superpower.

These chats dive into the weird, wonderful ways friendships evolve—through moves, marriages, careers, kids, Pride parades, and even bad air quality. You’ll hear stories about friendship breakups, makeups, late-night texts, and the lessons that only years (and a few arguments) can teach. There's also a lot of love for emotional intelligence, consistent check-ins, and the unspoken bond of just getting each other.

Whether you're deep in your group chat or feeling a little friend-casual these days, this episode will remind you how magical, messy, and meaningful friendships really are. Come for the feels, stay for the laughs, and leave inspired to call your people.

• 00:00 - Intro

• 01:45 - Kenzie

• 21:29 - Kyle

• 36:10 - Katey

• 47:11 - JP & Nicki

• 01:08:53 - Moira

• 01:25:54 - Outro

  
  

You’ll Learn:

• Confrontation is a normal part of friendships.

• Self-regulation is key to managing anxiety in relationships.

• Friendship can thrive despite distance and time apart.

• Friendship is about accepting each other as we are while encouraging growth.

• Vulnerability is key to deepening friendships.

• The joy of friendship is amplified by shared experiences and support.

• Communication is key in maintaining friendships through changes.

• It's important to confront friends about their struggles.

• Change in friendships doesn't have to be a negative experience.

• Prioritizing friendships can lead to deeper connections and fulfillment.

  
  

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• How to have better conversations: https://youtu.be/MpDdgATxWfM?feature=shared

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