SEASON 4 EPISODE 3

NAW NIIEEEE....TAP IN SPILLERS! -MRS. WILSON

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
I don't have not ya. I'm always broke when I
was learning Boots on the ground. You got a couple
of fans coming in, so please please Hey world, Welcome

(00:29):
to The Spell Podcast, your favorite podcast feature, your favorite
podcast host, me, your girl, Missus Wilson. Welcome back, Spillers
to episode to Me, episode three of season four The
Spell Podcast. We are back with another real episode where

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we cultivate black bonus, one real conversation at a time,
which is a spill podcast mission for those who don't know.
Did you know those mission about I have my best friend,
my best friend, my ride up, my man, my ma,

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and my minion, my husbany husband, the residential host himself
back in the building, mister Wilson, Welcome back, pim pim pim.

Speaker 2 (01:21):
Pimy Spiller what you mean welcome back. I've been on
the Lab three, you've been on.

Speaker 1 (01:29):
There been a little episode and so we skipped a
little bit. But you know, are you excited to be back?

Speaker 2 (01:37):
Though?

Speaker 1 (01:39):
You excited to be back in a way? Okay, you
know why.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
I like that.

Speaker 1 (01:43):
I'll take that. I'll take that because you've been talking
a lot of cash money this evening. Anyway, Spillers, let's
go ahead and get into it. We have a few
things that we are going to talk about. Y'all already know.
I got to get my disclaimer before we go any further.
Y'all know, when mister Wilson is in the building, we
don't I don't converse with him what my topics or
anything is going to be, or what we're gonna discuss,

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what the dialogue is.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
So what the disclaiming is the YouTuber saw his face.

Speaker 1 (02:16):
Whatever he says, literally take it to the head and
take it to the heart. I don't know what to
tell you to take it. But he's just y'all know,
he's very transparent and nothing generic about him. So it's
gonna come out how it's gonna come out, and hey,
be prepared to drop your mouths like I am prepared
every single day has been almost six years later, still

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just appalled about the things that he said. It's okay,
before we go any furtherest, feelers, you know what time
it is. It is our mental health check in time,
the time of the episode where we do our self love,
self awareness mental check. Connect with your emotions, identify with
your feelings to determine how you are feeling. From the inside,

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not on outside, but how you are, how you're feeling
on the inside. So spiller stop, pause for the costs.
Do yourself mental check. How are you doing, how are
you feeling? What's the move, what's the vibe? What's the check? Okay, so,
mister Wilson, you know how it goes. I know it's
been a minute. He's just sit here looking at me.
Don't do that. Come on, act right, give us spillers

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a mental check. Updates, sir, please? How you doing.

Speaker 2 (03:28):
I'm doing well mentally, mentally, do well physically. I'm a
look tag. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (03:37):
But praise the Lord. Will you look well? You look good?

Speaker 2 (03:41):
Yeah, I say, I'm tad. I ain't gonna say yeah.

Speaker 1 (03:46):
Yeah. You know, we speak those things that are not
stuff that we don't want. We're good. Well, you look
good even if your body, if you feel like your
body is a little weary, you don't look weary. Honey,
you look good.

Speaker 2 (03:58):
Well, Thank you Dad? You look that's like a baby.
Say well, of course you're gonna tell meut I'm pretty.
I'm your baby.

Speaker 1 (04:07):
Yeah, that's what I say. For some reason, she think
we sugarcoat things with her, But we really don't you
know you got the reference, but.

Speaker 2 (04:22):
No, I'm doing well. I've been h how you been
because I really you know, I really ran off you.

Speaker 3 (04:31):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (04:32):
I have never been asked that on the spill podcast
fourth seasons. This is the fourth season Spillers like the
sixteth something recorded episode, and I've never been asked how
I being thank you? That means a lot because I
normally just say yeah. It always means a lot when
a person asks you how you're.

Speaker 2 (04:53):
Feeling, well, you know, not till I know how you feeling.
I just be scared of a because you know, don't
you do your own You're not to stop on your
own spellings.

Speaker 1 (05:06):
He says, I be talking a lot, but when he
asks me, I feel like that's an opportunity for you
to let it out. Like you know, I don't get
those opportunities often, so when I get them, I take
advantage of them. But thank you for asking, honey. All
is well with me? Praise the Lord, hallelu thank you Jesus.

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I've been saying that this year that I'm going to
speak into existence the reality of what I want things
to be. This is the year release for me, which
means I'm letting go of things that I actually I
don't have any physical, mental, social, emotional, spiritual, financial control
of it like that, ain't got none of me. Get
somebody getting none to do with me, Get somebody else

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to do it. And it's a year of gratitude. I
want to be more grateful. And although a lot of
things are happening, I don't that's McKenzie's teep kettle. A
lot of things are happening. I don't want them to
bother me in any way other than that all is well.
I'm grateful that all is well with me. Again, this
is a season where we're not complaining. I was talking

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to a few of my peers. It's just the last
couple of days. Close my door, y'all. I'm okay. Let
me just tell y'all that in the middle of me
doing my mental check in, Mackenzie is making her some
herbal tea and our tea kettle it of course, whistles
like all tea kettles does, and HER's just starts whistling,
and we hear her say whoop and mister Wilton, she

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cracks the door opening the podcast room and laugh. Anyway,
that's neither here nor there all is well. Again, I'm
intentional about my complaining. I was like, I was saying this,
people been talking about the time change, and I really
just couldn't relate to the complaints because, for one, I'm
not in the spirit of complaining, Like, I really am
grateful and what have you done that has affected more?

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But what have you done that has affected me?

Speaker 2 (07:02):
Up? I said, girl, we got you said.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
The time moved up. But see the reason why I
can't relate Speelers because after church on Sundays, what do
I normally do, Mister Wilson, I give you permission to day.

Speaker 2 (07:17):
You said first?

Speaker 1 (07:19):
So on so on Sundays, Speelers, after church, I eat
and I go to bed. My brother comes over here
every Saturday. We do withmosas. Sundays we'll do about a
little small bottle of champagne. Mimosas will exchange dinner. Whatever

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I cook, he brings, well, he whatever I cook, I
give to him. Whatever he cooks he brings to me.
At the bottle hour, Player, you gotta get on down
because I'm ready to curl up in my bed by
twelve thirty one o'clock and I'm literally under the covers
all day. I don't sleep all day, but I sleep
off and on say no, you say why you got

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a whisper. You can say something, God Man.

Speaker 2 (08:09):
And you was just telling us yesterday you do not sleep.

Speaker 1 (08:12):
I said, I don't sleep all day on Sundays, I
don't sleep all day anyway.

Speaker 2 (08:17):
I let you go ahead Atien at first, So yeah,
she ain't.

Speaker 1 (08:26):
So yeah, Sundays are my days to where literally after
worship Baby, I have a mighty good time in the
Lord and I'm coming home. I might have me a
little champagne. The times that I don't, please believe, I'm
under them covers in the bed. Oh, and I love it.
I just feel like that's that's my sabbath. I feel
like that's today. The Lord gives me to really rest

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and to be lazy lazy. And when I say I'm
lazy lazy, I'm lazy lazy.

Speaker 2 (08:52):
Oh you think he just get you that day to
do it.

Speaker 1 (08:55):
Yeah, that's the only day that I have.

Speaker 2 (08:57):
I have like all day, so you make your own day.

Speaker 1 (09:00):
That's the only day I have. The other days, every
chance I get where I can go, get in the
bed early. That's what I'm gonna do. But and it's
crazy because I'm normally the type that likes to be out.
I'm a social butterfly, so I love to go out.
I love social events, y'all. I don't know if it's
because a little rough event I had earlier in the year,
but I'm really loving being at home, like especially weekends.

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It ain't nothing like a Friday night in the city
and like, oh Jesus, anyway. Other than that, spillers, all
is well with me? Look, I'm like Kevin Gates. If
it's too much for my mental I don't have time
for this. Have you seen that video? I gotta send
it to you, Kevin Gates said, listen, if it's too
much for my mental if it affect my mental health,
I'll walk away quick. I don't have time for this.

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This is affecting my mental health. That's me at this
big forty plus one years almost one years of age.
I pray all is well with these, Spillers. If all
is not well, say something so that we can do something. Remember,
mental health both is wealth, and in order to be wealthy,
you must first be healthy. Would you like to add
something to that, mister Wilson. All right, spillers, this is

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Speaker 2 (11:12):
I ain't got no social media stuff.

Speaker 1 (11:15):
The Lord, we know, we know. Do you want to
add anything to you want to boost my you want
to hype up my social media all that stuff?

Speaker 2 (11:28):
You just I don't know. I podcast all.

Speaker 1 (11:33):
Right, we gotta move on, baby.

Speaker 2 (11:34):
This is this.

Speaker 1 (11:37):
Is a smell tree topic time. This is the time
of the episode where we talk about all things that
are spilling in the black, black, black of tea, black culture. Listen,
this is not a podcast where we spill tea. We
just talk about things that affects our culture, culture, whether
it's positively or negatively, and we just create dialogue on it. Okay,

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so listen. Since the last episode, I know it was
you know black, he's three months since we air. Now
it's women's he's three months. Shout out to the women,
and I ain't girl. I I'm gonna try to touch
on a couple of things as much as possible. What
why you tell them you look over alls and white

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girls and them diamonds smelling? Just want to thump your
all right, Yeah, because we're missing your I ain't gonna
see it out loud.

Speaker 2 (12:29):
Yeah, number one.

Speaker 1 (12:31):
Exactly because where yours at, you hadn't even done it.
But anyway, if she did hers, she wanted to keep
her in her room. Yeah, you just hadn't done yours
vision board that is, But that's another day and another subject. Spillers.
We do want to start off by sending our condolences
in our prayers to the Queen of ne Oh Soul,
The good Good Angie Stone Baby. You know Angie Stone

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black Brother wrong to know that I my bad to
I hip you. And then she's saying my son Shaan
Haska and she was she went with the Angelo back
in the day. I think they got a.

Speaker 2 (13:17):
Person.

Speaker 1 (13:20):
Yeah, I missed that part. Rest in peace, Angie Stone.
She was tragically killed a weekend, a little bit over
a week and a half ago in an accident traveling
unfortunately from one of her shows. Allegedly she was sixty
three years old. And that makes me so sad. You
go in a correct you know, but all of the Lord,
you know, Lord, I'm not questioning. You ain't saying nothing.

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Shortly after she transitioned Dwayne Wiggins from Tony Tony Tone.
You know it's Sarah Anniversary, the guitar player. He was
one of the producers. He actually signed Beyonce nam Bestiny
Shower to Come Columbia Records. Like he was a major
influence in and Destiny Child, Beyonce, Kelly Them Life and

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LaToya and LaTavia. I think it was before Michelle allegedly,
I think so. But yeah, he went out. He was
sixty four. No one knew he was sick. He was
surrounded by his family and friends. I'm assuming they probably
was well. I don't know. I'm not gonna assume nothing.
But nobody really knew that he was sick because I
read a post that Beyonce's mama shared and she said

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that they didn't know that he was as sick as
he was, and so his death came as a shock,
so not only them, of course to a lot of
people in the music world. So prayers for them and
their families and definitely and then the young man Jalen Wilson.
I don't know if you've heard about this one, mister Wilson.
He was an African American boy at the HBCU, the

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Black College Southern University in Louisiana, was doing a quote
unquote Greek ritual, a hazing ritual that's not legal off campus.
He was trying to be in a fraternity and was
punched in a chest one time, and they said he
died on the spot at h It's super sad the

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young man that was accused of doing it, Allegedly his
picture and stuff had been posted. He graduated, so I'm like,
why he even doing undergrad stuff like that for real?

Speaker 2 (15:18):
For real?

Speaker 1 (15:18):
But he graduated. I'm saying, like, when I say why
he doing undergrad stuff, I'm saying, why is he so
affiliated with it? Like why are you so intertwined that
you just gotta like we get it? Big bruh. Back up.
But anyway, they show videos of him stepping and stumping
at his graduation. But anyway, this young black man seemed
to have a promising future. He was in the band,

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he was an engineering major and wanted to be a
part of a brotherhood that's unfortunately allegedly responsible for his death.
So prayers to him, his family, his community, his friends.
I know that's sad. I heard that there was a
very somber feeling on the campus of Southern I'm not there,
but I I am an HBCU alum, and I am

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a part of the D nine family, and I do
want to say that this accident does not represent anything
that the Divine Nine stands for. Our founders did not
break their backs or barriers for things like this to
happen or to be happening. So our prayers are definitely
out to Jalen Wilson and his family. And I you know,

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I just I don't take Wilson so lightly when I
hear people with names like Wilson, because that's really not
a common last name. I don't take it lightly. So
I was like, what if that's my husband cousin? Well,
I know, Will, Okay, we're going that, I know we
moving on spills. I'm just not even gonna go into that.

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Next forty seven did his presidential address a few days ago.
My husband was so annoyed because it was like, why
is that still all? Why you ain't even why you did.

Speaker 2 (16:54):
It because you watched it the whole time to complain.

Speaker 1 (17:00):
Was I really complaining? Though, don't don't Will. I was
talking stuff, but I wasn't complaining. And there's This's there's
a difference.

Speaker 2 (17:07):
I wasn't complaining.

Speaker 1 (17:10):
I have been screaming and shatt law anyway, or President
Barrock or President Bying or President Clinton or even President
Bush at this moment. But anyway, I was not watching
it spillers because I support him or I agree with
anything that he's doing. However, I want to hear from

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the horse's mouth, and I like to stay prevy on
things that are going on, you know, in our country,
in the community, in our culture. Like I'm not a
social media politician. I don't get my politics or my
information from social media. I like to watch the news.
I like to watch the government. My husband can tell you, baby,
I'm gonna wake up, do some devotion, watch the news,

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do some more devotion. Wash the news again. I'm gonna
come in from work the days that I do cook,
I'm gonna watch the news while i'm cooking. Put on
a little davy merely look at his facials. I'm just saying,
I'm a news watcher and i'm a government watcher. So
that's why I watched it. I wanted to see for myself,
which what mister Wilson. Anyway, during the address to me,

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I felt like there was a lot of bragging. There
was a lot of gas lighting when it come to
him taking full responsibility for the choices, the chaos, and
the things he's made that has negatively affected our economy
in our country thus far. As matter of fact, I
was watching on the news earlier where the stock markets
and all that stuff has dropped nine hundred some and

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it's bad and it wasn't good. Anyway, I like to
watch that stuff. I felt like he had a couple
of TV props, a couple of people on there that
he used this is my opinion. You know that he
used to try to deflect from what's really going on
or how he really feel about certain people. And yeah,

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there was some things that make you go, things that
make you go. It was a lot of that. It
was some things that I was like, Okay, well I
hear it. You know what I'm saying. I need a
little more. But AnyWho, God blessed him, his family, his cabinet, Congress,
the entire administration, and politicians local and nationwide all over

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the world. But he be like Father, please bless America.
And the last topic I want to talk about, mister Wilson.
We have been to DC a couple of times. Our
daughter wants to go to college in DC. And I
love DC anyway, the Chocolate City. I love everything DC.
Mayor mural Browser removed the Black Lives Matter mural that

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was on the streets in the district, in the Central
District in DC. And when she was asked why did
she move this remove the mural, she said that the
White House was not happy about it and basically told
her she didn't remove it, she would lose a lot
of federal funding. She's the mayor of DC. African American

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she's a system.

Speaker 3 (20:09):
Now.

Speaker 1 (20:09):
The thing is, this is why I'm just kind of
like riding her with this. You know. I heard her
doing an interview and she was like, she has bigger
fish to fry, because if she would have kept that
mural there, then a lot of the funds that the
government does give them with that being threatened, that would
literally affect the citizens and citizens in that city. And
she was like, listen, I'm trying to do too much.

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We got we don't get money like states get. You
know what I'm saying. We get moneies like cities get,
and it's like big like a state, but we don't
get enough. And I'm not about to let them take
the little money that we get from a mural. So
she did put something instead, like liberty something something, But
she did remove that mural, and it made a lot
of people say, but as a citizen, well I'm not

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a citizen of DC, but just you know, a person
just watching, I can see why she did what she
had to do, you know, and I hate that. Unfortunately,
that's just the country that we're living in. And then,
of course, with the White House being on seventeen hundred
Pennsylvania Avenue right down the street from themror. She just
had to do what she had to do. So prayers
out to mayor browser chin up girl in better days

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are counting that we said we were diving, We did not.
We didn't go see that when we were there, we didn't.
We did a lot, but we didn't go by to Meryl.
And I hate that now because that would have been,
you know, just a good time stamp. Anyway, that is it?
Why are you looking all crazy?

Speaker 2 (21:38):
All right?

Speaker 1 (21:39):
So that is our trim topic time. Basically, the first
Amendment to me is conditional based on some of the
things that I just discussed. Just make sure that whatever
it is that you're deciding to do to think about
what the government may feel. And it's unfortunately unfortunate that
we have to think like that now, but you know,

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it is what it is, all right. We are now
moving on, moving on what I hope not. It's a

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little warm spillers. This is now our spill topic time.
Now now slight spillers, now listen. It is not Father's
Day yet, and this is not the podcast that we
discuss fathers that are not active in their lives, that
are inactive in their children lives. We don't do all that.

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You know, we just have great dialogue based on narratives
that are public and that's it, right. But since mister
Wilson is here, I did want to talk about it.
So first earlier last week, I think it was like
later met last week a couple of things, mister Wilson.
So I need you actively listen, like I tell my
students actively listening. I saw a father announced publicly, and

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I'm sure I'm almost positive y'all that this man did
not mean for it to go viral, but it did
because the remember earlier I said things that make you
go hm. That was one of those moments, things that
make you go home. But anyway, he posted a picture
of him and twin girls, stating he was at their
tenth birthday party. He had dodged them all of their
lives and finally decided to step up after ten years.

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He stated, over the course of those ten years he
had been had bad luck, never caught a break. It
was if it wasn't one thing, it was another, blah
blah blah. And he alleges it's up from here on
out with these cheerdren, meaning he ain't been there, don't
know nothing. Back to cheerdren cheer, don't know nothing bay him.
But ten years later, baby, if it's some, then it's stuck. Okay,

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then spill us. We're gonna get into both of this,
mister Wilson. I'm gonnareak it down, Anthony Ellwis show. I
know it's to of them, the chocolate one and a
light skinned one in the NBA, but we're talking about
the dog one. He didne have his fourth child within
one year by his fourth baby mama, and he has

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allegedly made it publicly known and legally known that he
wants nothing to do with those kids or their mama's ever,
like you know they've been then had his baby been pregnant.
About it, he said, I'm signing my rights solver. I
pay child support, but I don't want none to do
yiad or I'm cheering, that's y'all. I'm gonna I just
want to be with me and my girl. You know,
it's just me and my girl. Even posted the one

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of the children's mother even posted their text message chat
where he told her she was absolutely sick for bringing
a baby in a world that won't have a father,
which kind I kind of agree with it, but anyway,
that's here, neither here nor the area, but it was
a lot much more anyway. All of this really blew
my mine because with everything that's going on spill is
in our country, in the world, the stripes that the

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black man already already has as black men. No, that
ain't too funny, y'all. And you would think when you
have black cheering, you would want what you probably didn't
have as a black man, or you probably wouldn't want
to have as a black man, and that's to protect
your kids at all costs. But it seems like a

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lot of people don't take fatherhood serious or I don't
know if it's the morals. I don't know what it is.

Speaker 3 (25:33):
Lord.

Speaker 1 (25:33):
I'm just like, where you're hot at, do a heart check.
That's one of my favorite sayings. Heart check. Mister Wilson
the first man that decided that after all these years,
the bad look and foolishness he wanted to he didn't
want to be a part of anymore, which influenced him
or inspired him to now be a part of his
twin girls life. Do you think he's taking a step

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in the right direction or do you think it's too late?

Speaker 2 (26:00):
He been out there life ten years? How old are
the ten year? Said? They were fourteen?

Speaker 3 (26:05):
Ten?

Speaker 1 (26:05):
No, ten years.

Speaker 2 (26:06):
I wasn't. I wasn't active listener to.

Speaker 1 (26:08):
Them, Oh you want to actively listen and listen.

Speaker 2 (26:11):
But to me, it sounds like a good thing because
if the man would have stayed gone that long and
them kids would hate him, they wouldn't accept him right now.
So if them kids accepting him, anything is possible. Now
the mama, she can ruin it.

Speaker 1 (26:32):
Why can't Why can't mama ruin it?

Speaker 2 (26:34):
Because if he ain't ruined it in ten years and
he just come back in their life and don't know,
the mama can ruin it, especially if them girls get
closed on.

Speaker 1 (26:41):
Okay, so do you so, So we're not going to
talk about the mama or the daddy right now. We're
gonna talk about the kids for a second.

Speaker 2 (26:47):
Oh what I'm saying if the kids accepting now, I
ain't seen the picture, I ain't read nothing, But if
they look happy on this picture, and you seeing plenty
more pictures of them that you ain't never seen.

Speaker 1 (26:55):
No, it was just one. It's just based off one picture.
But my question is after ten years later, study show
I did child psychology and undergraduate and I did it
in graduate school. But study shows that the kids or
children never really have emotional connection or feelings until they're
about six or seven years old. So we're talking about

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from zero to ten, so that means from six, we'll
even say seven, from seven to ten years old, they
have no emotional connection, no emotional nothing with the man
that is responsible for them being alive. Do you feel
like it's possible for them to have a really really

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deep connection, like with him, like we ain't never seen him?

Speaker 2 (27:42):
Maybe all the time. I can tell that what I'm saying,
if they starting off this good, it's a possibility, because
if it wouldn't, he wouldn't have been able to come
to the party. That's what I'm saying. You tell you
you're talking about the kids. The kids can only do
what the parents are.

Speaker 1 (27:55):
Last exactly and obviously the mama last year.

Speaker 2 (27:58):
That what I'm saying. So she allowed, if she allowed
to go, he can go somewhere. It don't matter how
long it's been, It don't matter what he's done. If
them girls accept him, because kids look at look at
things different and grown fold. They ain't looking at him
like we you ain't been around us in ten years,
if they ain't. Nobody been talking about it. They don't

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see that. But whoever the man that the woman had
in their life, if ten year it was.

Speaker 1 (28:25):
A man around, he can believe that he may have
had a relationship with them. You know, he may not.

Speaker 2 (28:30):
He might have had for them to accept this other
man like that, I'm saying they they hadn't been around
the father. Fact that they'd have been around a male
to accept him called if they ain't been around, I
won't go around.

Speaker 1 (28:43):
But this is we cannot say that they've accepted accepted.
We're just creating a dialogue based on a narrative that
was from a picture, and we don't know the party
with them. Yeah, but that's how we know. We just
saw a picture that he posted. We don't know if
that picture is a year old two We don't know
what happen during it in the You know what I'm saying,
how long ago that? That's what I'm saying, mister Wilson.

(29:05):
We have no idea a picture.

Speaker 2 (29:06):
I'm saying, when y'all, when you've seen the picture, how
long has been since you've seen the picture?

Speaker 1 (29:10):
No day, honey, That's what I'm saying to you, My
question is not about the picture. My question is about
the girl's emotional feelings or if you think that's something
that's possible, because again, I don't know nothing. I don't
know how long it.

Speaker 2 (29:28):
Might take him ten years to get them there. Say
long as it's starting a telling. You said, it's a
picture going up like he's sitting there with the twins.

Speaker 1 (29:38):
Yeah, he was sitting. He was at their birthday party,
and he posted a picture at their birthday.

Speaker 2 (29:41):
Okay, so whatever day you've seen it. If you've seen
it and and they have been given so much shit
about it after that day that if it's been three
days ago, it's been some more. Ship said, it's what
I'm saying a lot of But had a mama or anybody,
has she said anything bad besides the other folks on
the outside looking in, I don't know. I wasn't following
my It was probably gonna work if I'm just because

(30:05):
most women, if the man ain't been there in ten years,
it ain't done nothing, and you just pop up on
their tenth birthday. You got some women that's good hearted
that'll let him come. Yeah, but after he posted what
he posted, she read it, she will correct this shit.
She ain't gonna just lit this slide like you was
a good dadd She ain't gonna do that.

Speaker 1 (30:24):
And see, I hadn't seen none of that. So that's
why I can't That's why I can't agree with you,
and I can't disagree with you because I hadn't seen
a post where she posted he did good, or he's
doing good, or he's horrible, or that was just for show.
I hadn't seen anything. I just saw the picture, and
I just immediately went.

Speaker 2 (30:43):
To dang ten of years to put yourself as the
mother that I ain't seeing this man and your baby,
your twins turned ten. You gonna allow him to come
and do take these pictures with him.

Speaker 1 (30:55):
I have a conversation with my girls and I would say, hey,
you know, I'll give them the autonomy to want their relationship. Listen,
I been, but I'll give them the autonomy to want
to decide what it is if they want to do.
If this is what you want to do, you want
to be a part of I support you one thousand percent.

(31:17):
That's that's what I gotta say. And it's possible because
I literally I have I have somebody that I know
that I deal with that most eighty percent of the
week and they hadn't seen their apparent in six years.
And this person shared with me and was so excited,

(31:38):
and I was excited for them. They said. I said, well,
where what does the other parent live? This person said, oh,
blah blah blah, which is about ten minutes from them,
And I was like, hey, y'all ain't seen them in
ten Like I said, oh, okay, Well, I hope it
all works out. Our prey, it all works out. Check
in with me Monday so that we can And today,

(32:01):
when I say, one of the happiest how did it
go this weekend? And I knew it went something was
good because the key it was just different, you know
what I'm saying. I was like, well, how did it go?
And the person was like, we had so much fun. Oh,
we just went in And I was like, okay, so
that is possible. And these people are at thirteen, you
know what I'm saying. So my only concern would be

(32:23):
the child's emotional well being. I just pray.

Speaker 2 (32:26):
I mean yeah, I mean, like I say, it can
work to me because all the mama gotta do is
be for real, and I mean be for real, Like
I say, now, if you ain't seeing him in ten years,
you still got you got you got a restriction. You
can't just come get him and leave with them. You
ain't been around him in ten years. I mean, it's
gonna take a minute. But what I'm saying, when them
little girls get a hold on them, it ain't gonna

(32:49):
be no stopping it because he still got hope. They Tendah,
that ain't.

Speaker 1 (32:54):
A lot of hope. Yeah, still yeah.

Speaker 2 (32:56):
And I feel like it wouldn't have went nowhere if
he when I mean, I feel like it's gonna go
somewhe because you sent that picture. Now I can see
if he'd have been on that scene. Ay man, I
went my baby mama. He ain't got nobody in the picture.
Baby mama. She wouldn't let me see him. But I'm trying.
He ain't doing it. He there, So it's uh And.

Speaker 1 (33:14):
That may be motivation for him too, because even if
you didn't do it, because you feel like you want
to do it, you put it on social media. So
now negro we holding you aga.

Speaker 2 (33:23):
I know you say this women money, but you got
some trifling and you listen, and she can't be that
trifling to let that man come, it's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (33:32):
I don't agree. I don't think she's trifling by far,
but I've been her after ten.

Speaker 2 (33:37):
Years wed like you, like you was when you got
a parent child, when you got a parent that want
that child to have that relationship with their father. It
ain't it ain't bout what we didn't want. Yeah, it
ain't what the nigga didn't do, it's what he would
try to do.

Speaker 1 (33:56):
And I've always been that parent that I'm an advocate for. Listen,
I had two daddies. You know what I'm saying. Neither
one of them were perfect, but they were perfect in
my life. Three who the third one? This was a

(34:19):
serious conversation. The youtubeer saw him. The movie just made
Oh goodness, gracious. I had a student got his words
right today. He was like he beat his chest and
then the most of the move like you just did.
And I looked at him like, boy Lord, have mercy.

Speaker 2 (34:35):
What was I saying?

Speaker 1 (34:36):
I just can't no, I was not. He threw me out,
But I'm saying I've always been an advocate for children
having both parents, Like I don't care what the issues

(34:56):
the mama got, what issues the daddy half? I feel like,
allow the child or children the opportunity or the autonomy
to decide if that's a relationship they want to pursue
or not.

Speaker 2 (35:10):
When you see me laughing, that don't mean you laugh
because I know you because something you don't know what
I'm thinking.

Speaker 1 (35:19):
I don't know, but I know whatever you're thinking ignorant
is hell, and I don't need to know what you're
thinking of. And I got a laugh to keep from
thinking about what you're thinking because I know it's I
know you anyway. So I've always been an advocate, y'all
for real, for kids, and it's imperative. Like people don't
be understanding, but they can have a mental effect on
your life. As you get older, you'll have trauma that

(35:41):
you know that you didn't have, you never realize that
you had. You will end up in situations that you
shouldn't be in, but you're in those situations because you
didn't have either or it's just so.

Speaker 2 (35:53):
When you was reading, I heard a couple of them
you saying, dude saying what he didn't do? Did he
ever say he? Well, did he have they didn't have
no contact for ten years?

Speaker 1 (36:03):
He never mentioned that he didn't have contact with him.
He never mentioned. His exact words were, I've dodged my
responsibilities of being a father to my twin girls for
ten years, and I promise you the entire ten years
that I've dodged it, I've had bad luck. It was
always one thing after another. Nothing good ever happened to me.

(36:26):
And I'm tired of running. I'm tired of this. He didn't.
She was saying, be serious for me. He didn't. I
put a go on me. Yeah, but he didn't put
a goal for me. He just said he's no longer
He did not. He didn't, but he said he's no
longer running from his responsibility. He's no longer living that

(36:47):
type of life. He wants to be a part of
his girl's life from now on out. But I wonder
if he was like and I was trying to look
through comments, and I was like searching him. Y'all know,
because we wait for the listen when we see a
little t on social media, and if names are on there,
we're gonna go to the pages of the names. And

(37:08):
when I went, I couldn't find like if it was
like child support or you know what I'm saying, Like
I couldn't see no t T for real, for real.
So when I didn't see nothing, I was like, Okay, God.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
Been locked up.

Speaker 1 (37:22):
And that's what I'm saying. That's why I said.

Speaker 2 (37:23):
But no, he wasn't wunication.

Speaker 1 (37:27):
I just said, I'm.

Speaker 2 (37:29):
Thinking of something from my brother corbut I already probably
came up something for the sisters.

Speaker 1 (37:34):
Well, Ike, I said, he said he been dodging and
running from this responsibility on some alcohol.

Speaker 2 (37:43):
You know, probably had a monkey on his back for
ten years. We went and got him some help.

Speaker 1 (37:47):
Well, he definitely was dodging and running with that market.
We thank god that he decided to try to give up,
and I pray that he's actually doing he's supposed to do.
And I say this because Phil, you know when people
say girls with daddy issues, like that's really a real thing.
You know what I'm saying, that's nothing that I don't

(38:08):
feel like it's to be played with or taken lightly,
because I feel like a father is a girl's first
real love. That's her first love for you know, her
first understanding her.

Speaker 2 (38:21):
And then from a father's point, she's your you, her
first servant.

Speaker 1 (38:33):
Look at baby, because the father's baby. When it comes
to them, girls, baby make a week to their knees.
You know, I don't know if you ever heard, but
they say a mother's son is a mother's first real
love and her first last real love.

Speaker 2 (38:49):
She had three sons. Listen to.

Speaker 1 (38:59):
Bay means that love one of y'all the most don't
know it was you, K, little K. But but you
was that little baby.

Speaker 2 (39:09):
I don't believe. I don't believe that though I don't
see that. I can see it from the female's point
of view, I mean, from the baby girl's point of view,
But me being a mama baby, I don't, Yeah, because
because KB was her first. But then she had Kelly,
you know what I'm saying. Then she had me, so
she probably did think. You know, I don't know. I

(39:31):
wouldn't really see the rest of the niggas before me.
I ain't seen what Ken. I don't even remember being
that little and being around my mama like that. That
what I'm saying. I don't know, but I know Keller
and Kevin was that's that one.

Speaker 1 (39:50):
Be sleeping a minute anyway, Thank you for that. So yeah,
but I do feel like a girl's first real true
love is her father. He doesn't listen even if it's
not her biological dad. If it's her stepdad, her papa,
her big brother, her uncle, the first man that really
shows her love and how to be treated like a princess.

Speaker 2 (40:13):
He's just showing her, just showing her love. Ain't just spoiling.

Speaker 1 (40:17):
Yeah, it's correcting and all of that.

Speaker 2 (40:20):
Yeah, buy them anything they want.

Speaker 1 (40:23):
And well that's that's a part of it.

Speaker 2 (40:25):
But that's that's how most of get him to love.
You don't want that, though, because when you ain't buying,
they ain't listening to you, and its spending. Yeah, now
you're gonna listen to me.

Speaker 1 (40:34):
What they're gonna be grown dollar, baby dollar ain't nobody's
but nothing Daddy will to say. But we're grateful that
you're always there for them because you don't. But anyway,
kudos to him. I pray that he is actually stepping
up and doing what he's supposed to do as a father,

(40:58):
as a male figure, as an inspiration for those girls.
Because living in different I'm gonna say different.

Speaker 2 (41:06):
Times, I ain't gonna say I would I say to
each his own, But to me, a man is really
trying to do something, well, I guess because I just
ain't no social media dude, because a lot of things
ain't for social media. Man, if you just started trying
to get your life right with your kids, start with them,
you you just spread it there. Well, now, any little

(41:27):
slip up you do, they're gonna look at you like
it's a problem. You should have waited until it till
it got good enough to where the kids can say
something to you.

Speaker 1 (41:36):
I wish I could have said, bleep on.

Speaker 2 (41:38):
I didn't want to because you time you started off,
you give a disclaim, a disclaim.

Speaker 1 (41:45):
What if the pastor and the preachers and stuff. Listen,
know they can look at me and you ain't never
cussed around.

Speaker 2 (41:54):
But the wrong If the first it catched me out, God,
then me the wrong question. I might go, but it's
not cussing that them. I might but say I don't know's.

Speaker 1 (42:04):
You might say.

Speaker 2 (42:08):
You ad you something the church. They almost you said something.

Speaker 1 (42:11):
I said, look at my friend, they're gonna meet you
me and you said, I mean, girl, you almost made
me CUsing this church. I just bowed my head meet
you because why is he like this? Why? Okay, Well
shout out to that dad. We pray that all is
going well. G God, he ain't had one. I ain't

(42:33):
see it. I wouldn't have gave it anyway, but God
bless those girls, those twin girls. And then I looked
at it too. I'm gonna say this, and we're moving
on to the next thing. It was two of them.
So I feel like, when God give you twins, especially
twins are the same sex, what be it girls or boys?
Girl and boy twins have an amazing connection. But I
feel like if it's the same sex twin, I feel like, baby,

(42:55):
that connection right.

Speaker 2 (42:56):
There and then and then not on that, no say it,
you don't got the.

Speaker 1 (43:03):
People stirred up.

Speaker 2 (43:08):
I forget.

Speaker 1 (43:13):
We're moving on. Okay, So God bless him and God
bless those girls. And that's my prayer to every girl.
Every father, if you have children, be a part of
your kids life, because I promise you like that man said,
he didn't get no blad. Look, God, don't play about
the children and the elderly. Baby, you ain't gonna never
have no good look messing around with the people that
can't help it and its children and elderly because they

(43:34):
can't help it. Mess around and find out what was
you gonna stay crazy?

Speaker 2 (43:38):
You know they say kids and dolls can tell good
hearted people if them girls felt anything bad about him,
it'll be something. I mean, if that's the truth, kids
can tell God, but dolls can't. I don't think dolls
can because you can be scared of that doll. And
the dog is still trying to tear around.

Speaker 1 (43:56):
But that's because he smelled here, I know. But they
do say animals can. Animals and babies, animals, elderlyes and
babies have like the same heart. And I feel like
this guy being intentional with helping them.

Speaker 2 (44:10):
I'm just speaking for myself. I don't know. They can't
remember too much of nothing.

Speaker 1 (44:14):
Well, that's when they go through like all Tim's dementia
is because just kind of older people period, especially if
you try and like if say, for example, something happened
to a person that you need to be there for.
No save for example, somebody, something happened to a person
that you know and they're a little older and you
need to be there for. You need to you want
to reach out to them to help them. I feel

(44:36):
like God will bless them with a spirit to discern
if you are trying to help them because you genuinely care,
or if you're trying to help them because you have
a motive becausem.

Speaker 2 (44:51):
Like that.

Speaker 1 (44:53):
Jesus. But anyway, we're moving on. Anthony Edwards black, blacked,
black and black. He black is your hoodie black. Matter
of fact, he has had four children within the last year.
Three of them he has a this is a girlfriend

(45:14):
allegedly he has a girlfriend allegedly that they have like
a one and a half year old or something like that.
With these other three ladies are all just different, random
chicks that he was missing with unprotected sex. NBA player,
just foolish in all his ways, all little three of
them here. He didn't want none of them. Matter of fact,

(45:35):
one of the children's mother posted on Facebook their text messages,
the screenshot of their text messages, and she was trying
to ask him a question like why are you treating
me like this?

Speaker 3 (45:47):
Do you hate me?

Speaker 1 (45:48):
And he was like no, but I hate that you
bringing a baby in this world that's not gonna have
a father. You're sick for that. And he Now, that's
one thing I'll say the man.

Speaker 2 (45:59):
Don't hate the man. Y'all know how many girls out
here trying to get pregnant. Boy, these players, I was
gonna bring it up to I was gonna bring it
up to ball Blair.

Speaker 1 (46:08):
He is, but does that justify him having unprotected So
with these girls being pregnant, that means that he allegedly
ejaculated into each one of them.

Speaker 2 (46:22):
He had fun, But what I'm saying here the man
had fun, but still well, he said he will sign
over his rights.

Speaker 1 (46:33):
Well before he said that, he said he want to.

Speaker 2 (46:35):
Get they want to get it. So he know they
want money, So why why why take himself through eighteen
years of hell back and forth with them when he
know what he got. Just gonna do what you do.
And if he the kids gonna get the norm, they
gonna know their dad a superstar. They don't want nothing
to do. I want nothing to do with them, but
it'll be up to them.

Speaker 1 (46:55):
And I just prayed that the Lord make one of
them kids have the most serious.

Speaker 2 (47:02):
But I don't know. I don't knock him for what
he's doing because the girl should have had the girl
should have had abortion. I guarantee you he probably tried
to pay for all of them isself. The one you
were talking about there first with his girlfriend. Yeah, I mean,
he probably been having yeah things with them, but he
just fel felt he probably used the condiment and then

(47:23):
after you get to normal take it on. I don't
know how the boys do it. I won't end. I'm like,
so they might put on it.

Speaker 1 (47:33):
Who is m J?

Speaker 3 (47:37):
Michael Jordans Michael Jordan allegedly, Oh you're talking about m
J didn't have no he don't even know his athletes.
And oh Magic Johnson allegedly had HIV M They say,
because it's a couple of m J, because you had

(47:57):
me lost. We don't even know if that's true or not.
Probably anyway spectacular stuff.

Speaker 1 (48:05):
But if it is true, we you.

Speaker 2 (48:07):
Know, allegedly how old is these babies?

Speaker 1 (48:10):
They yeah, within three all of them within a year.
Four of them were like.

Speaker 2 (48:19):
Young what they call them little horses, horses out there.

Speaker 1 (48:22):
The juveniles what they call young bull Yeah, it be rich.
But my thing is, even if they decide and I
don't agree with the listen, ladies, if the man tell
you him want it and I see some of them
trying to get a meal ticket, get your male ticket,

(48:44):
just be ready to deal with the emotions. Hard to
have a boy neither or yeah that part, that part, baby,
Thank you for that, because I didn't think about that.
I literally was thinking about it from a different perspective.

Speaker 2 (48:56):
So for the ones that have more, I wouldn't have
my heart a boy bank out there. That's what the
other ones, that's what all the other womens are shown.

Speaker 1 (49:05):
Anyway. So for the ones who actually have morals and
didn't want an abortion and having to deal.

Speaker 2 (49:10):
With this, we heard them about them.

Speaker 1 (49:14):
We don't know, baby, we don't know if that's why
they didn't have the abortions. I'm just saying, so, we
don't know why you laughing. We don't know if that's
why they if they didn't have the abortions because of
their morals, they.

Speaker 2 (49:28):
Heard about them. Okay, So anyway, we hear about the
one that had a baby's after.

Speaker 1 (49:33):
You decide to keep the baby because morally, I don't
believe in abortions. I would never kill murder anyone a baby,
especially like, are you okay morally in your character and
in your morals? Was saying, okay, well that's on you.

(49:55):
You keep that baby, the baby between you and God.
I don't want none to do with it.

Speaker 2 (49:59):
Is like you one thing, him being a basketball player,
he wasn't gonna spend too much time with him. Anyway,
They're gonna get up of money him being a start.

Speaker 1 (50:08):
I ain't gonna get to, but I'm saying, just just
more than one.

Speaker 2 (50:11):
Year old he got. He probably seen that one year
old part of the heart to day. You said the
baby year.

Speaker 1 (50:16):
And a half, Yeah, that's the one with the girlfriend.

Speaker 2 (50:19):
Yeah, he probably ain't seen them kids that much nowhere
like that. I think he did them a favor.

Speaker 1 (50:25):
By telling him he didn't want to because.

Speaker 2 (50:26):
He automatic got to get all his I mean, they
gonna get the child support, they're gonna get the baby
taking care of, and they ain't got to worry about
if this man playing game with him and I he
told y'all he don't want it. He don't want no,
he don't want no. Pause.

Speaker 1 (50:40):
But that makes me think back about back to the
first black man that said that he had bad look
and all of this stuff, Like you don't think that
suff don't have bad look.

Speaker 2 (50:52):
All of them do the same, damn ship, all the
man kids that you had, like this the first time
this happen, this is the first man. He's supposed to
break the cycle, that's what you're thinking. Yea, he had
two while he had one, already had two. Come you say,
got four?

Speaker 1 (51:08):
Yeah, he had three. After the one. But my thing
is the fact that I feel like he could have
stopped it because you see what has happened prior to you.
You see things that your peers have been through, You
see things that have gone on, you know how it goes.
We don't know nothing about it. That's that's my concern,
because I'm just like for you to for a woman

(51:30):
to tell you, no, I'm not having no kids. And
let's assume that they're not having these kids because of
their moral beliefs. I'm not having no kids because I
don't believe in abortions. Right, they had these kids, and
you still decide I don't want them to do with
them because I told you not to have them.

Speaker 2 (51:49):
Look at his background you got. We don't know nothing
about that because if his dad, if he just say
he was a daddy boy, mama's gone, and he he's
seeing his daddy being child's poor for another baby and
seeing how mad that daddy was getting when he paying
his money and he can't see the kid when he
wants to the wife bring a drop off what she wants.

(52:09):
Just all the thold books. He probably you don't know
how the man was raised, but been around so him
seeing all that, do you they's not gonna make him
put no condo?

Speaker 1 (52:17):
Mom, However, do you not think it would make him
want to change the way that he the trajectory and.

Speaker 2 (52:25):
The way he res. He probably does like that, but
probably why he with the one with the one year Well,
I'm gonna say something to you, I ain't got no kid.

Speaker 1 (52:34):
Exactly, but your daddy wasn't who you wanted your daddy
to be. And how was you with your baby?

Speaker 2 (52:40):
But they ain't had none doing matter because I didn't
know my daddy exactly.

Speaker 1 (52:43):
That you didn't know him.

Speaker 2 (52:46):
In fact, me not know him didn't make me gonna
be in they life, because if my mama would have
took me, if my baby mama would have took me
through the ship, my mama took my daddy through, I
probably wouldn't have been there. You know what I'm saying.
It's more to it than just it's more to it,
and that if you gave, if you got stumbling blocks
in the way, you got stumbling blocks in the way,
and some of them is just too strong. You can't

(53:07):
get bound, especially when you in the house with them.
You can't get by the now. I ain't but I
ain't taken up for the dude. But you just got
to look at a person's background. I had male figures
around me. That's why I didn't even think about my daddy.
I had four five fallow figures around me and my
mama family was big. I ain't have time to think
about him until I got older and realized, ain't my dad.

(53:31):
The boy did it. They did everything a father was
supposed to do. So what I'm saying, if he but
if he was with his daddy and he seen his
daddy get dog, he seen had daddy went through any
daddy and have the money he got up in there
because for dude to do that, he's not cold harder
because he got the first one.

Speaker 1 (53:51):
But if he was the first one was with his
girlfriend though, like he said, I cheated on my girlfriend
with all these other people, I'm only gonna deal with
my girlfriend and the baby. I guess with her. I
don't want no dealings with nobody.

Speaker 2 (54:04):
Else, and probably had been messing with the mother girl.
I don't think he just did it.

Speaker 1 (54:10):
Yeah, I definitely think it was multiple times for the
last one to say, do you like there's a it's publicly,
it's public that there's a whole text communication. She screenshot it,
and she asked him like, why are you like this?
Do you hate me? You know what I'm saying? And
he was like, because you bringing the baby in the
world that ain't gonna have no probably a lot.

Speaker 2 (54:31):
Of most stuffing. He probably told you, hates you in
your faith while you're on social media or whatever you're
asking them for.

Speaker 1 (54:37):
And then, like you said earlier, like I don't I
can't say because I was listening to a different podcast
prior and someone was saying that, you know, we have
to not be so naive when it comes to women,
you know what I'm saying, messing with athletes and men
of you know, great esteem.

Speaker 2 (54:54):
That you should have. Michael Michael Jordan got these women
Tiger Wood.

Speaker 1 (54:58):
You said, Michael Geordan that he do girls and left
them dudes long and Michael Jordan's because I'm playing with
girl with.

Speaker 2 (55:07):
The white Manionaire dude. He just broke over with his wife.
She like, fifty three big worked, fifty three big bezos
made another little because what was he doing. But somebody
in his head like that man, you might won't cut
out the tame man just going it's easier to get
into a young dude head. If you are crooking, you

(55:28):
want to be. It's so many things that probably got
this dude saying this, y'all on you just don't know.
He probably got more to lose in the game he
looking at it.

Speaker 1 (55:39):
I don't agree with nothing, mister Wilt.

Speaker 2 (55:42):
I'm saying for you to agree, I'm just thinking, definitely
say for you to agree. I don't agree on it.
I'm just saying it ain't it. Probably it probably didn't
happen at all. But for you the brings some questions
up and asked me, you ain't got to agree on
my opinion, like your opinion, yes, with two different people,
and we think totally totally. So I don't care if
you don't agree, because I'm like.

Speaker 1 (56:05):
What the hell?

Speaker 2 (56:08):
Yeah bad?

Speaker 1 (56:10):
Yeah, well no, I'm not trying to make nobody look cycle.

Speaker 2 (56:17):
Cheer the older woman that Drea Drell Gretta had six
that she's supposed to broke the cycle. What did you
messing with this young boyfriend? The Greta had the baby
that got breagnant by the basketball player, the one you
be watching.

Speaker 1 (56:27):
On the they're still together, but he loves they just
got she said.

Speaker 2 (56:32):
She forever ever.

Speaker 1 (56:34):
He said, this is it, Yeah, right there, but she
white watching the old show, she was she right there
now though, Yeah, she was definitely right there in them shows. No,
and she good with that because she just had that
brand new baby and he like, this is my for
el NBA. She's not going back on She already said

(56:57):
she's not going back on reality TV for what she
got approved to nobody. She knows what.

Speaker 2 (57:04):
Wife, her own shack.

Speaker 1 (57:06):
Wife does Seanne and I have a reason to have
started her own stuff. Yeah, because I mean you brought
it up because if we are talking about it, allegedly
talks about all the time, how he the one that
messed up and he regrets to this day that he messed.

Speaker 2 (57:22):
Up with missed up to.

Speaker 1 (57:24):
He definitely missed up with that woman. To what we
ain't him.

Speaker 2 (57:30):
Black? That man money?

Speaker 1 (57:32):
Well for.

Speaker 2 (57:35):
Who who was black? They have the money.

Speaker 1 (57:38):
She got more than half joy She should have gotten
Tiger Wood's wife exactly. Needa should have got it because
Jana was with her, was with him when when North
Carolina wouldn't give him a minute in the game about that.

Speaker 2 (57:56):
Yeah, like around because you think you you you be
into this downside to it, but when you come ask
me a question. I'm answering for me, like it happen
not here.

Speaker 1 (58:07):
I appreciate I appreciate it. Okay, so my last question
is from you. From her question, Yeah, I wish I
could see him me squeezing him. Listen as a father.
Even though I know that you don't deal with this
type of stuff. This is something you've never been privy
to because you are super blessed, like you're blessed. What

(58:30):
all this type of stuff like when it comes to
the drama not.

Speaker 2 (58:35):
Caut them girls are thirty and twenty two. I better
not if I deal with or now that means I'm
doing something came for twenty three, Okay, make emteen.

Speaker 1 (58:48):
Okay, yeah, because seems real.

Speaker 2 (58:50):
Yeah, but listen, you lost it.

Speaker 1 (58:57):
If you were and listen, the daddy of the twin shoes,
how would you feel if you hadn't had a relationship
with them after ten years? And okay, that ain't ten
years now it's time foring to get a relationship with them.

(59:18):
That's the first question. And then the second question. If
you were well off and you had three girls that
got pregnant outside of you and your girlfriend's relationship, would
you be okay with saying, yeah, I don't want them
do y'all of them kids, but let me go and.

Speaker 2 (59:38):
Pay these chair. I support no, because I was raised different, Okay,
plain and simple. I was brought up around dudes that
had babies penth on them that wasn't the els, and
they still took her of them kids, you know what
I'm saying. So I was raised different. Yeah, but I
was also raised out to be a fool. You know
what I'm saying. They weren't no fool for what they
was doing. They did that because they was already in

(01:00:00):
them kids, like they was already in the mama line.
It wasn't no one night staying or two things and
then this your baby, take care of her now. It
wasn't nothing like that. So what I'm saying, I was
raised different. So if that was me with the dude
with the three kids, nah, I probably wouldn't do that
because I probably have. And then he yell as I said,
my mama was still alive. See you know what I'm saying.
You could tell he ain't got that type of background

(01:00:21):
because the mamas would have stood up. But said something,
I want my grandkids in my life. Even if I
didn't my mom be like Christmas, you bring all them
kids over here to the house. So I would have
seen them. Now, it wouldn't have been but if I
was a start in gone all the time. Yeah, we
just seen each other on But and then now the

(01:00:44):
other dude, that's the one with the un that's the
That's why I was just talking about it. Yeah, no
one with the twin Now, Like I said, if I
was here, I think like this. I don't think the
man was just after life for ten years completely, because

(01:01:04):
if he was, he wouldn't even have the nerves to
go back. He wouldn't even know how to go back.
He wouldn't even know if they were going to sell them.
He don't know. It's just been a lot of if, well,
what if this happened that? But then he might have
had me. I would have win. I ain't standing the
baby mama, I don't grat The kids don't know me.
You look like you figure, you know. We said to

(01:01:25):
get talking right here. Look at that picture. Now look
at this now, who y'all think y'all look like? Yeah,
we said to be a conversation. We're gonna sit there,
we're gonna talk. They'd be like, Mama, who is this dude? Yeah,
I'm your dad at Yeah that's yeah, That's how I
would have went. But I, like I said, I don't

(01:01:45):
I don't think dude was just out of their life. Yeah,
I don't think he was out of there like completely.
He probably didn't do and didn't step up like he
was supposed to, then show up like he was supposed to,
like games and stuff like that. He probably didn't do
a lot of that. And now he he probably realized,
you know, because some dudes do grow up. Everybody ain't
just bad. You got the music home, mm hmm, heard

(01:02:08):
some music.

Speaker 1 (01:02:10):
Everybody just ain't bad.

Speaker 2 (01:02:11):
What Everybody just ain't bad? You know, you just got
to let them. Some of them grow out of us,
some of them don't up.

Speaker 1 (01:02:18):
So the last question, what advice would you give to
the young men who are not fathers yet but maybe
putting themselves in a situation to where it may be sticky,
maybe it's a possibility you may have you better sit
down somewhere, or even to the ones that has not
been a part of their child's lives, but now they're

(01:02:41):
trying to figure out where to go from now.

Speaker 2 (01:02:44):
Long as the child elect you alet you yeah, along
with that child, except you and let you be and
they like you can be in it. But if you
if you ain't, if you just a dog, that that
that go for the mother because you got some you
got some fathers out here that got their kids and
the mother you know, so it go for his vice

(01:03:05):
versus them. If the kids, if the mama coming over
or the parents that ain't in their life coming over
and the kids is crying out the time they nerve
they now you keep this it away from them, you
can't make it work. Now if they come over and
they they're a little timber, they trying to get the norm.
They ain't scared to go to them do like the
mama you got. Some kids ain't stand they mama, mama

(01:03:27):
come over. They cry and think for the don't let
her take me. She can't take you into father because
of it. But and the ones that ain't got kids,
like say right now, I wouldn't even I don't want.
This ain't the era to have kid the kid dying,
They dying from anything and everything from the baby food,

(01:03:49):
the WMA do I'm talking about it's so much. I mean,
it's a blessing to raise one, so you shouldn't be
mad how this sucker turn out. I mean, as long
as you're right, long as you did Joja coming up,
you'll be good. But then I ain't got no advice
for nobody. I ain't got no kid because they ain't
gonna listen. They ain't got no kid.

Speaker 3 (01:04:10):
You know that.

Speaker 2 (01:04:11):
Man, They can't tell me nothing. I ain't got no kid.
And then the ones that ain't in the life, Like
I said, I definitely want to say that, cause it
be I'd have seen so much drama when it comes
from the the baby mama or the baby daddy. When
they got control over women, it be so much drama. Dude,
I'm talking about now. You can't see they play with you.

Speaker 1 (01:04:31):
With them, they because they in their feelings.

Speaker 2 (01:04:34):
Yeah or whatever it is, it don't matter. But you
could be taking care of the kid, but they still play.
I think they can. They still. I mean, you know,
it's just too much. Like like I'm saying, for my daddy.
I don't know why this nigga ain't gonna round. I
don't know, but I said I was young. My mama said.

(01:04:54):
The last time I seeing him, I was nine. I
didn't think of the reason why I raised my kids
where I raised mind because I I was around all
my cousins, all my uncles. Yeah, all these old all
my folks older, they in they sixties and stuff. So
I was around all them and I seen how they
they took care of all of us. It wasn't no,
this is my favorite. You know what I'm saying. They

(01:05:15):
everybody that was in that house. It was a big house,
and everybody was in the house. Them dudes came through,
now they stayed in through it. They was some food.
But when they come around us, it was different. So
I said, I didn't I didn't think about it. I
ain't used to ask my mama, no question, my mom
my dadd and I asked none of that because I
had my older brother. But once I turned twenty six,
she called me and said, go see your daddy. He

(01:05:37):
having surger, like like a nigga fail to die. I said,
what's wrong with him? Only doing I was just go
out there and seeing me having surgery?

Speaker 1 (01:05:45):
What kind of surgeon was it?

Speaker 2 (01:05:47):
It served on the foot. But she knew and then
she knew the type of person I was. She knew
I ain't she no, I ain't got no feels. So
she know all mind going now, Like you said, he
wasn't there for you. That's what hurt me the most
because he didn't he didn't get to enjoy you. You
enjoyed a lot of but he didn't get to enjoy you.
And then for you to go to him now and

(01:06:09):
he still wouldn't come to you, she said, So I
had to make you go. I just wanted y'all to
see each other, even if it didn't work, because I
know what type of doue you here, And she knew
I would keep pushing, and once I met him, I
just kept kept going to see my dad. I ain't
mad as I know your ass ain't been there. I
asked you for no money. I can't get it out
before I say I paid you. Mama Child's report to
you twenty fi twenty fat twenty six. I didn't know

(01:06:34):
that means you late?

Speaker 3 (01:06:35):
Right?

Speaker 1 (01:06:37):
Why you' saying it? You didn't pay it because you
wanted to your pick because you add to And by
the time they caught up.

Speaker 2 (01:06:42):
With you, you was by but me and him talking.
Then I say, it's so to the person I had
a sense of human I'm not the old grudges and
when I said him that we talked laster all we
told me a couple of stuff, and he was like, Man,
I ain't got no excuse why I didn't come around you,
But I got plenty of reasons your family and I
feel where he was coming from. They was old protective nigga.

(01:07:04):
You played with me once when I was nine. They
probably weren't gonna let you do it. No more so
if my mama probably wasn't saying y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:07:15):
See him feeling study.

Speaker 2 (01:07:18):
I don't know, but really it's all up to the
way you raise them. Yeah, the environment. You know what
I'm saying you and when you're coming up, so so
do you?

Speaker 1 (01:07:28):
This is my last question to take five seconds. Do
you agree that if you could have a positive influence
on your child's life if your parents are there, whether
his mama daddy are there or not there, because I
feel like some people be miss screwed, miss conscrewing things
thinking that people with both their parents, because I know
people then had both their parents and then had kids

(01:07:51):
baby and then when a walk.

Speaker 2 (01:07:53):
When you were saying that, when you were saying that
the child need both parents, girl, both parents, a bunch
of children up hell single single parents are raid them
better than both parents. So I don't know. I ain't
gonna ain't gonna say that first, I say, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:08:10):
Okay, Well, thank the Lord got us all he does that?
How that's definitely baby's fools and the old elderly. Thank
you Lord, won't he do it? Thank you, mister Wilson.
I appreciate you. I go no, because I need you
to stay for the spill encouragement. Then you can go.
Did you want to add anything?

Speaker 2 (01:08:27):
Encouragement?

Speaker 1 (01:08:29):
Something you need to listen to. Did you want to
add anything to the end of that? I want to
add anything?

Speaker 2 (01:08:34):
No, man, I don't want to take it. I i'mnna
say bye. God's finish. Sit in here, he yes, just.

Speaker 1 (01:08:40):
Gonna take one more minute. You can stay in here
so you can here. Stop on the YouTube. Come on now,
Why I gotta be saying AUTI.

Speaker 2 (01:08:48):
To see the backs behind the scenes.

Speaker 1 (01:08:51):
I do want them to see it. That's why I
need you to be in here.

Speaker 2 (01:08:54):
You want me?

Speaker 1 (01:08:56):
Yeah, cut it off when I finished? All right, all right, spillers,
thank you so much for tuning in. Mister Wilson, thank
you so much. Can you tell the spillers by alight.

Speaker 2 (01:09:09):
And me since you don't know what she.

Speaker 1 (01:09:13):
I name all my spellers, but I named her because
you was I was saying you was almost saying a
bad word at churches today. Anyway, Spillers, this is our
spill trend encouragement time Matthew seven twelve and Luke SIG's
thirty one tells us to do unto others as we
will want them to do unto us. That is the
golden rules, Spillers. I know it's easier said than done,

(01:09:33):
but listen, I am a witness. If you want to
experience the fullness of the peace of God that surpasses
all understanding, then you must take heed. We often get
cut up, caught up one to be right, being reactive
instead of proactive when it comes to responding or clapping
back to others, being mean, vindictive, the my way of

(01:09:56):
a highway attitude, not holding ourselves account and also one
to play victim. We have to change our mentality, spillers.
It does not matter if you disagree, don't like it,
or them, whatever the situation is. Always humble yourselves to
put yourselves in and put yourselves in other people's shoes. Again,

(01:10:19):
it does not matter if they are wrong. You know
what's right, Spellers, and you also know how wrong feels
and the pain that stems from it. So show grace,
show mercy, because it's shown to you all day, every day.
Thank you Lord, Be kind despite of be quiet even
when you're right, and allow God to fight your battles

(01:10:42):
that are beyond your control. But until then, always respond
proactively and react in a manner that honors you by
doing what you would want done to you, and by
honoring God by being obedient. Spillers, thank y'all for it
tapping in, thank you, opportuning in. I know the last

(01:11:03):
episode the air roys were a little clogged up, but
I thank y'all for going to the YouTube and listening in.
Thank you all for your support. I love you so much.
Thank y'all for rocking with the spiel Podcast. This is
your girl, Missus Wilson, And until next time, Spillers, I
am signing out.