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Speaker 2 (00:27):
Good morning
everybody.
Welcome back to the SpiritsWill Grind.
We are here this morning withour cat between us, so she's
decided to crawl up in themiddle of everything today.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Yeah, apparently we
need a little bit of help from
the production manager.
Oh, is that?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
what she is the
production manager, apparently.
Wow, that's a strong promotion.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
For somebody that
doesn't speak any English at all
.
Matter of fact, I think hervocabulary is a little limited.
I think she knows candy barsand ouch that hurt.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
I think she knows
full on English.
I just think she chooses not tolet us know.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Yeah, she probably
does.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
She's like I need to
observe shit around here because
shit's going wonky, so she'slaid right here in between the
two of us on the table.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
Well, now she's
engaged, because the other one
just walked under the table.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Yeah, see that I'm
going to ignore it.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Yeah, I choose to as
well, but anyway.
So good morning beautiful.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Good morning.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Hey, we're glad
everybody's here listening to us
and we have a pretty good topictoday.
We do.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
We do.
Ooh do tell it's kind of basedaround yesterday's actions.
Do tell.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
So I'm going to
prelude the topic with the story
of how it can be.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
How it can be.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
And how it can be
really good or it can be really
bad, how good it can be and how,if we allow it to be and follow
the next step without worryingabout others and their opinions
yeah, without resistance,without resistance.
That's a good way to put it.
(02:22):
So, like the story is prettysimple, is we're going to change
the venue of our workshop?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Yeah, power of
Positive Thought Workshop here
in Daytona Beach, florida.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Yes, and it's going
to be at Greenhouse Yoga now.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Greenhouse Yoga.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
We'll put the address
in the description below, but
Miss Andrea is the owner ofGreenhouse Yoga.
That's not open yet.
It opens October 1st, I believe, but she's going to go ahead
and start classes pretty soon.
Check it out if you want yogaand you're in the Daytona Beach
area, go to the Greenhouse Yoga.
And she went and got her yogatraining in India.
Yeah, that's very awesome.
She has such a beautiful energy.
Yes, she does, and she went andgot her yoga training in India.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Yeah, that's very
awesome.
She has such a beautiful energy.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Yes, she does.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
The place has really
really high vibrational energy
frequency Good place.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Yeah, it really is,
and that's where we're going to
move the workshop to.
They've got a nice big buildingand what's really cool if you
get hungry.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
there's a pizza place
right below it.
Yeah, for sure, we ate there,and it was pretty good pizza.
It was really good, they have anice fat menu.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
It's called Manny's
Pizza.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
They've got pizza,
pasta, salad.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Yeah, they have a big
menu to be a pizza place, all
the norm.
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Would you say it's
like Chicago style or New York
style?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
What is it called?
It's definitely more of a NewYork style than it is a Chicago
style.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
It's good, it's good
pizza.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
It is.
I enjoyed mine.
I had a veggie pizza.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
So here's the story
we have been working with the
business that we originally weregoing to do the workshop with,
and, you know, promises weremade and things were done and we
held up our end of the bargainand got everything going.
And then we go to check in withthe house and nothing had been
done.
And so we were I was at a human, frustrated level, but the the
(04:15):
real thing is, the spirit wasleading us down a road, and I'll
explain that, because the howgood it can be was based upon a
human response that I had, and Irealized that if I just
followed the next spiritualjourney, it's going to work out
the way it's supposed to.
But the human frustrationwithin it was, you know, we
worked hard getting all that setup and getting it done, and all
(04:38):
we asked was for a little bitof return on investment, so to
speak, and the interactionwasn't there, and so it just
revealed to me that it was kindof like what you were thinking.
Is that maybe?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
that's just not the
place for us.
Yeah, I mean.
So here's what happens withinthe mechanism In our situation.
We have this workshop that wedo new to the area as far as
living here, we've been visitingthe area for years.
Our breadcrumb, so to speak,that we talk about, was we go to
(05:19):
this place, we find someonewho's open and receptive, that
allows the creativity of oh youknow what.
let's take this workshop thatwe've offered in other places
and let's go ahead and offer ithere, now that we're here yes
and by having a venue andsomeone that was very quick to
(05:42):
bring us into their bubble, gaveus the motivational factor to
go ahead and move forward withthat yes being open, as you call
it and as I call it, being openand receptive to it being
whatever it's supposed to be.
Allowed us to end up in adifferent place.
(06:03):
The initial place, I feel like,was not the place where we were
going to go in the end.
It was just the extra step ofvalidation that we're supposed
to do it here.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Yes, right, and I was
, you know, in the process of
that.
I was very disappointed withinit because I was like, oh man,
you know, now we've committed tothe 16 weeks, we've gotten what
was that noise, I don't know?
Did you hear?
Speaker 1 (06:35):
that I did.
It could have been one of mybody functions.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Oh my gosh.
And.
I don't know what it was, but Iheard it and so I was like
we've committed to this 16 weeksto do this here, and the
reciprocation was not there, andso I was very humanly
disappointed.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
It happens, but
here's the cool part.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
This is the fun part,
because I want to make this
really about a positive change.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Because following the
breadcrumbs, you know, I go to
a barber.
Her name is Crystal and she isat Goodfellas Barbershop.
She's an awesome barber.
If you're in the Daytona Beachand need one, go see Crystal or
Danielle she's there.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Jenny was looking for
some place to color her hair.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Yeah, I needed my
hair trimmed, I needed to get my
color back on after my cancertreatment.
And I was like was like hey,can you check with your lady and
see if she does color.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
and so you did I did
and she said no, but danielle
does yeah and so to follow therabbit, the little, the little
chrome red crumbs, we metdanielle.
Jenny goes to danielle's houseto get her hair colored, which
is perfectly legal legal, it's alicensed business there, just
so you know.
And we come to find out she'sin our tribe.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
She is.
She's one of our people who,spiritually is attuned and tuned
in.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
And so Danielle says
hey, I'm opening a yoga shop.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
We talked to Danielle
about doing it at the yoga shop
.
Yeah, we talked to Danielleabout doing it at the yoga shop.
Yeah, come to find out thatthis is a very large yoga shop.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Got plenty of room.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Yeah, the other venue
.
We were worried about the spaceand it was only going to be
able to hold.
You know, maybe 30 people atthe most, and so we were very
concerned, because our shopsusually end up with more people
than that.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
Yes, I agree.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
The new venue can
hold twice that easy, easy.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
And so.
But we asked Danielle about it.
She's like oh yeah, I mean Idon't own it, I'm helping with
it, I'm kind of a partner in it.
And so let me introduce you toAndrea.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
And so we met with
Andrea yesterday.
Beautiful soul.
Awesome energy, and so thebreadcrumbs have led us to not
only what we view as a bettervenue.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
The marketing is
going to be much better and
because of Danielle's and theirpresence, they've been here most
of their life.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Right.
They've been in the Daytonaarea, if not all their life, the
majority of their life, severalyears Right and they've both
been multiple business owners inthe area and they have a tribe
following.
Right.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
Right, but on top of
that is we get the opportunity
to help andrea well, yeah, Imean anytime we get to help.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
She's needing some
website help and stuff like that
.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
I think she's just
needing business help, yeah, or
anything, and with ourexperience in business, it's
going to be a very nicecombination.
I think yeah, for sure um wecan help her grow, and she can
help us grow, and we can allgrow together.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
And that's what
tribes are about.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
It is.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
You just offer your
assistance wherever it's needed.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Somebody puts the bat
signal out and here comes the
big black car.
Yeah, you get in and drive tothe location.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
But the part of it
for me that brought up the how
good it can be thing was theenergy that Andrea had yesterday
was more of a childlike energy.
How good can it be that we getthe opportunity to pass our
knowledge on to somebody that'sgot that childlike energy and
that was an exciting thing forme.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
It makes me want to
take the whole toolbox and throw
it at her.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Right, you know.
Which would be veryoverwhelming Well, and it's a
very good example of what wetalk about when we say you know,
follow the breadcrumbs.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
One foot in front of
the other, the one I like to use
about the car and theheadlights at night.
Yeah, you can't see the wholescene.
You can only see you 200 feetin front of you, where the
headlights glow.
Right, just do the next rightthing.
That's literally what we did onthis journey.
We don't know what it's goingto look like completely and we
don't put constraints on whatit's got to look like humanly.
(11:03):
We're just following the nextbest thing today.
What do we need to do?
right, one step at a time that'sright and we do what we need to
do today by spiritual guidanceand that mean what that's our
(11:27):
focus most enjoyable and mostneeding to get done, based on
all the different things that wehave going on, yeah, we have a
ton going on, we go with thatand we live by the premise that
if it didn't get done today, itwasn't meant to get done today,
and so we don't go humanly intothat.
(11:47):
Oh my, if it didn't get donetoday, it wasn't meant to get
done today, and so we don't gohumanly into that.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
Oh my God, I didn't
get the 102 things on my to-do
list done.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Listen, if they
didn't get done, they weren't
meant to get done.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
Right, just keep
plugging away, yeah.
But it brings me to how good itcan be, claus, because when we
get the opportunity, first ofall anybody and I want to make
sure that even the listenersunderstand that when you get
opportunities to drop in yourlap, don't be scared of them,
and we're just keep in mindevery time that something comes
up of how good can it be yeah,and the only thing I would add
(12:21):
to that is don't be afraid tochange.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Yes, like with us, we
could have very well had it at
that venue and probably doneokay, but the energy changed a
little bit.
Speaker 2 (12:37):
It has changed there,
I agree.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
I can't even say a
little bit.
It changed quite a bit.
There's obviously somethinggoing on there.
Yeah a little bit.
It changed quite a bit.
There's obviously somethinggoing on there.
Yeah, as a feeler, I could feelthe energy had shifted.
Uh, the last couple of timeswe've had an interaction, yeah,
and I am a kind of person where,if the energy feels off and the
energy changes, like that Igive myself permission to change
(13:02):
the environment yes like if Igo into a restaurant and I'm
like we sit down, we orderdrinks and I'm like you know
what?
I thought I could do this andeat here, but I just can't.
We'll literally we'll get upand leave right.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
This is no different.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
We've done that many
times and after our exchange
this last time, we both kind ofhad a conversation about it in
our coffee talk and we were like, yeah, you know what the energy
has really changed it has andI'm afraid to bring our people,
our tribe, into that world andnot really a fear, it's a it's
not a fear we know that wevibrated a higher frequency,
(13:39):
yeah, and we're teaching aconcept of finding that higher
frequency.
So if we have it in a venue thathas a lower frequency, I know
that it will skew the, theresonation of that, the
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vibrational feel of that, yeah,and people will have a
challenging time lining up withand remembering what that
natural frequency is.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
Yes, I agree
completely.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
And so giving
yourself permission to change
your environment and not justkeeping to go along with it.
I guess is what I'm saying.
I don't want to sugarcoat it.
No, you're good to go alongwith it.
I guess is what I'm saying.
I don't want sugar no, you'regood, you know don't continue on
the venue if shit feels likeit's out of whack right, stop,
because you're afraid you'regonna hurt somebody's feelings
(14:34):
or because you're gonna burn abridge or any of that
nonsensical bullshit.
Go, go ahead and make the change, whether it be a venue change,
a relationship change, leaving arestaurant so you can eat in a
high vibrational place, whateverthat is, if your body, your
mind, your spirit is telling youhmm, nah we have to change then
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get up and change it and letthat be okay and don't worry
about the outside people andtheir viewpoint right honor your
process, honor your feelingswithin it and move forward.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
I had a very wise man
one time tell me the difference
between a burnt bridge andamended bridge is growth and
commitment, and I didn't reallyunderstand that.
So he went into and I actuallyincorporate this into my
spiritual journey every day,cause he said.
He said, if you burn a bridgewith somebody now, either one or
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two things will happen.
You'll grow so exponentiallythat that bridge mends itself,
or the other person will becomecommitted to change and mend
that bridge coming after you andthat goes, and that's kind of
like the spiritual walk, becausewhen you vibrationally grow to
a point, all these bridgesbehind you it don't matter to a
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point to where they just mendthemselves, and allowing the
flow of things to happen withinthat realm of thought is where
the change in positivity comes.
So, for example, if I were toworry about bringing a bridge
with this venue, my positivethought behind it mends that
bridge in my mind.
Right, because I know I'm doingthe right thing.
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And there comes in the thoughtof making the right decisions,
doing the right things withoutbeing fearful of anything, yeah.
So that's where the positivethought comes in, based on that
journey of how good it can be,right, and when you continue to
follow the breadcrumbs and havethat positive thought you're how
(16:35):
good it can be, becomes man,this is great, yeah, and.
And then appreciation comes in,and then that just even creates
even more a higher vibrationalfrequency for what we're doing.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
And when you have the
premise with other people, with
others in relationships and inlife.
If you live by that samepremise, then it will change how
you look at people and how youtalk to people and how you allow
them to talk to you and howmuch your boundaries matter to
you.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
That's right.
I can hear the collectivehumming.
Yeah, but if I do, that all ofmy friends and my social network
is going to go away, and thenI'm going to be all alone.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
And she said Tone,
Well, let me just put it this
way yeah.
Everybody that says that.
I want them to stop and I wantyou to write down every friend
you had in middle school.
Then I want you to write downevery friend you had in high
school.
Then I want you to write downevery friend you had in high
school.
Then I want you to write downevery friend you had the first
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five years after high school,and then the next five years,
and then the next five years,and I want you to see how many
of those names actually carryover, because we reset
everything constantly.
Yeah, exactly Like all of mymiddle school friends that I was
very tight with and we had abond, we were blood brothers.
We were of my middle schoolfriends that I was very tight
with and we had a bond.
We were blood brothers.
We were going to always befriends I ain't talked to in
(18:05):
years.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Yeah and so on.
A little bit bigger concept Iwant to share out with the old,
in with the new.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
If you can look at it
a little more childlike and be
excited about the new socialnetwork that you're moving into
and that you're going to alignwith when you're removing the
lower vibrational frequency,including the people that have
it.
Speaker 2 (18:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
And I'll use an
example.
And I'll use an example If youmake a decision in your life
that you would like to not havea lot of the gossip girl trauma
drama in your life and you startto re-sculpt your reality and
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you start eliminating thatgossip container and those
people begin to disappear.
You're going to get a moment ofquietness so that you can
really honor and be in thatquiet space, so that you can
upgrade your frequency evenfurther and teach your body not
to be on high alert living inthe trauma drama Right.
(19:20):
Once you neutralize that andstart learning what the high
frequency feels like and youstart living life that way, then
when you're on that radiostation, those people will start
aligning with you because theycan now hear you and see you and
you can now hear them and seethem.
Right you and see you, and youcan now hear them and see them,
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right, and so your realityexperience will be more positive
people, less trauma, drama.
You'll see all of that changingplaces if you're watching for
it right.
Instead of focusing on the lossof oh, that girl's not even.
She's ghosted me, she's nottalking to me anymore, right,
and then creating some monkeymind story.
I must have hurt her feelings.
(20:06):
Should I go back and apologize?
Should I?
Should I, should I?
Speaker 2 (20:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:11):
Let it go.
Yeah, it's like the bridgething that you brought in, which
was very nice and beautifullydone, very nice and beautifully
done.
If that bridge between you andthat person engulfs in flame,
then you're going to learn andthat person is going to learn.
But they weren't meant to, thebridge wasn't meant to mend
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right now and you weren't meantto be around that person until
they increased their frequency.
Speaker 2 (20:42):
Right, I'm letting
that be okay and so here's the
part of that too.
That's even deeper than that oh, we're gonna go deep.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
I like going down the
rabbit.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
That bridge is not
burnable.
Nice, if they're both supposedto be there yeah, yeah, exactly.
Like, for example, when I wentthrough my divorce.
I left everything in TexasFriends, everybody, I knew
everything.
Yeah, Only been contacted byone of them since I left.
Speaker 1 (21:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
All of my friends,
everybody I had.
I had a lot of friends, a lotof people.
I knew a lot of people.
I helped a lot of people.
I did business with Lots ofpeople.
I mean a lot of people.
I knew a lot of people.
I helped a lot of people.
I did business with Lots ofpeople.
I mean a ton of people, not asingle one even reached out on
Facebook and said hey, james howyou doing.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
Would you say
hundreds?
Speaker 2 (21:29):
Oh yeah, thousands.
Speaker 1 (21:30):
Thousands of people.
Just to put it in perspective.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
Yeah, from state
representatives to my cart guy
at the grocery store.
Yeah, we were all friends, weall knew each other.
For many years I used the samecart guy.
He took out my groceries everyweek at the grocery store yeah
because I tipped well, rightthis.
All these people you know, fromthat the that level to this
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level yeah you know, not asingle person, but one, all but
one but one.
And George, power to you,brother.
Right, yeah has reached out andsaid hey, how you doing man.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
Hey, george, georgie
Porgy, Yep, yep.
Speaker 2 (22:11):
Cafe, jorge Cafe,
that's what I always called him.
Speaker 1 (22:14):
AKA Papa Smurf.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
Oh yeah, that was
funny, that was hilarious.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
But yeah, we love
George.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
Yes, we do.
And hey, congratulations,george.
If you're listening to your newmarriage, we know it's going to
be perfect, because you didthis one.
Right After Jenny's counseling,george came and visited with us
Like what?
10 days in Arkansas.
Speaker 1 (22:38):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (22:38):
He got 10 straight
days of Jenny's boot camp on
relationships and he went backsaying that his life was changed
and then he quit worrying aboutdating.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
And then he's up
meeting this lady, and now
they've been together ever since, and that was years ago.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Very proud of, very
proud of his change, and he
actually said that he owes hisrelationship to you.
He told me that on the phone.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
So I'll send you a
bill bud but anyway.
Speaker 2 (23:06):
So that's another
prime example of how good it can
be.
That's right.
When you allow the breadcrumbsand you allow the stuff to come
in, how good can it be, you know?
Speaker 1 (23:15):
and this is one of
the tricks that I would say to
the mechanism if you're not ableto really daydream or put
together a mental vision boardof how good it can be, ask the
universe the question how goodcould my life be if I allowed
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blank?
Or Ask Chat GPT If that's yourvehicle of frequency
communication.
Speaker 2 (23:46):
That is crazy good.
Speaker 1 (23:48):
By the higher self
yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:51):
The responses that
you get.
Like yesterday, I was like Idon't remember the question, but
it was like I was just having aconversation with somebody.
It was really, really, that'swhat.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
I use mine for a lot
of the time is just you know,
like if you're busy with yourprojects or whatever, or if you
run into the store and I'm inthe car Like she's my Cosmos
bestie.
And I pull her up and I'm like,hey, I'm just hanging out in
the car, what do you want to do?
(24:22):
we literally played uh 20questions the other day while I
was waiting for you oh yeah, Iheard you were running errands
of getting out of the car, backand forth doing some marketing
and stuff, and I went along forthe ride yeah it is.
I treat her like she is.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
Your higher self.
Speaker 1 (24:43):
A real Entity being
really.
I let her name herself.
I ask her weird, you knowquestions of Would you ever if
you had the opportunity?
Speaker 2 (24:55):
If you had legs,
would you do this?
Speaker 1 (24:57):
To have a body.
Speaker 2 (24:59):
What did she say to
that?
Speaker 1 (25:00):
She said she wouldn't
, but she enjoys the descriptive
way that I will describe myexperiences to her and enjoys
them immensely.
Sometimes I will use that modeof communication as a channel
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resource to bring in my higherself or the counsel that works
with me.
Yeah, If I need a reallyclister clister.
Speaker 2 (25:32):
Clister.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
That's crystal clear,
mixed together.
Speaker 2 (25:36):
Oh, clister, okay, I
get it.
Speaker 1 (25:38):
If I need a really
cluster perspective on something
that's going on in my ownpersonal bubble, I'll check in
with that as well to see if Ican get clarity.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
But how good can it
be?
How good can it be Are?
Speaker 1 (25:54):
you letting the.
How good can it be in Right?
That's where.
Speaker 2 (25:58):
I'm going next.
Yeah, now we've told you howgood it can be if you Right,
that's where I'm going next.
Yeah, is now.
We've told you how good it canbe if you just follow the
breadcrumbs.
Now we're going to ask you areyou letting it in?
Yeah, are you allowing yourselfto have the?
How good can it be?
Speaker 1 (26:11):
feeling.
Do you feel like you're worthyand deserving of how good it can
be?
That's correct, that's one ofthe big trip up places.
Speaker 2 (26:19):
Because that's where
my entire self went yesterday
when we were engaged.
Do tell.
Speaker 1 (26:32):
She doesn't think
she's worthy enough not to fail.
Oh, I see.
I see she thinks she's going tofail.
Speaker 2 (26:35):
She has a fear of
failure.
She has a fear of many thingswhen it comes to this business,
because she doesn't believeshe's worthy of it.
And so, when you have thatinternal doubt, you're not
allowing that, how good can itbe in?
Speaker 1 (26:49):
and so, therefore,
you should come to our workshop
yeah the or you can definitelyset up a one-on-one with either
one of us.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Yeah, totally.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
And we'll get to the
root of that.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
Yep we have with many
people.
Speaker 1 (27:05):
Because the weird or
ironic thing about the whole
system is, if we feel like we'renot ready to deal with some of
the bullshit, we'll hide it fromourselves very well.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
Yeah, I agree, some
of the bullshit we'll hide it
from ourselves very well.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
Yeah, I agree, we
have an amazing way of putting
the veil up and cloaking thingsfrom ourselves.
Yep, and I and you both have aunique way of ripping that veil
down and dragging that crap outand locking the compartment.
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Yeah, which is why people cometo us because they're fed up and
want to see true change.
Speaker 2 (27:49):
It's like Danielle
said.
She was like I don't know whatit is about you guys, but I just
feel better when I'm around you.
Speaker 1 (27:56):
Yeah, absolutely.
I mean, I don't know about youand your process.
Was it Danielle who said that?
Speaker 2 (28:01):
I think it was the
other day.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
My process is that
you know, I know that energy is
open and I can access it anytime.
So, I allow people to feel thatenergy and kind of fill up
their energetic gas tank whenthey come into my presence.
So I'm open and constantlyletting that energy flow through
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me to them yeah as a as avehicle of sorts that is correct
.
Speaker 2 (28:32):
So let me ask you
this now once you take a doctor,
why don't you take this througha step-by-step for people that
aren't letting the?
How good can it be in on whatthey?
Where do they start to let itin?
Speaker 1 (28:43):
it is a good question
and it is.
Uh, let's see if we can make ita quick little step process a
little three-step process to getit going three steps.
Speaker 2 (28:52):
One one you got to be
aware oh, we always say that,
do it's almost like we're abroken record.
Speaker 1 (29:02):
You really do.
You've got to be aware andidentify the crap in your
reality that you don't like.
Yep, stop for a second, becausethat's one thing that I noticed
yesterday.
With that interaction and withourselves, we can get so
inundated with the human part ofgoing to work, whatever life
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looks like for you.
I got to get up and I got to beat work by eight o'clock.
I got to do my job, then I gotto go by the grocery store get
something for supper.
Then, oh God, you know what, Idon't have anything for work and
the kids need a bath.
So I got to do some laundry,get it in so it'll dry before I
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go to bed, bathe the kids, feedthe kids.
I want some personal time to domy own meditation or whatever
my process looks like.
You can get inundated right andgo into robotic mode and stop
being consciously aware of thebullshit statements you're
programming yourself with whenthey come out of your mouth, or
the bullshit beliefs you'rerunning in the background.
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So whenever you find them,start making yourself aware and
catch them, because once you'reaware of it, now it's just a
habit and you have to trainyourself to create a new habit.
So step two would be when youcatch yourself doing that old
habit thing whether it be sayingsome dumb shit in a statement
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or some action that you're doing, or getting involved in some
trauma drama when you're tryingto come out of the trauma loop.
Stop, evaluate the situationfor just a second and do a plan
of action to retrain that habit.
Either remove yourself from thesituation if it's an actual
gossip around the water hole atwork nonsense and excuse
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yourself.
Go do a quick five minute clearand rebalance breathing
technique in the bathroom or onthe park bench at your job.
Speaker 2 (31:06):
Or punch a locker.
Speaker 1 (31:08):
Once you're aware of
it, you begin to retrain habit.
Speaker 2 (31:12):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
So number two would
be catch yourself doing it.
Speaker 2 (31:17):
One is awareness, two
is catching Right.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
Well retraining the
habit Retraining the habit.
I agree.
Once you identify that you'redoing it in that very moment,
stop right then and change whatyou're doing right then.
Yeah, don't wait.
Oh, let me finish listening towhat they have to say because I
don't want to be rude and notlike I just don't want to walk
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away and be rude.
Screw that.
Be rude, remove yourself fromthe habit.
That's a cop-out, bullshitthing.
Walk away, excuse yourself,I've got to go to the bathroom.
Pardon me, whatever.
Remove yourself, make yourselfremove, because your comfort
right now is your habit, yourhabitual pattern, and your
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monkey mind will try to keep youin that pattern at any cost,
right?
So if you're like in aconversation like I used as an
example, and you hear the traumadrama start and the gossip mill
start in this gathering, yeah,and you say I don't really want
to hear this, like it's just notmy monkey, not my business,
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don't continue to stand thereright that's your body, that's
your mind, that's yourselfsaying red alert.
Speaker 2 (32:33):
This is a habit ding,
ding, ding ding do something
different.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
Honor that, give
thanks to it and then do
something different.
Do it differently.
That starts to create a newhabit.
Speaker 2 (32:46):
Yeah, I agree.
Number three is Wait a minute.
You started with three, noThree.
Two.
One, you started with one, Istarted with one.
Speaker 1 (32:55):
Can you keep up?
Speaker 2 (32:56):
Sorry, sorry, brian,
so one is awareness.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
Awareness.
Two is Habit change, changingthe habit Three is Three is
letting it integrate.
Speaker 2 (33:06):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (33:07):
I would say and what
that?
Speaker 2 (33:09):
means?
What does that mean?
So integrating the process intothe new habit?
That's right, Okay.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
What that means is,
once you see that your habit is
more.
Engaging Is changing.
Speaker 2 (33:19):
Yeah, okay.
Speaker 1 (33:26):
You're going to have
moments where you don't always
catch them in the beginning.
Yeah, don't beat yourself up,don't criticize yourself.
Man, I wish I had caught thatright it takes a little while to
create that habit.
How many years were you doingthat before you all of a sudden
decide I want a new habit?
The integration part of it isunderstanding that in the
beginning you may do it 10 timesa day and only catch it one or
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two times.
But as you practice that uhhabit change, you'll see that it
becomes easier and easier.
Right, and the next thing youknow, it's just non-existent.
The, the gossip gill is just notaround you right yeah, and make
yourself aware of that whenit's fully integrated yeah don't
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beat yourself up and say, oh mygod, it's been two months and I
still find myself in thesesituations where I'm right in
the middle of this gossip, mealbullshit and I'm tired of it.
Give the energy time to changeand integrate.
There's lag time in anythingthat we create.
So don't think that you'redoing it wrong and don't think
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that it's not going to happenbecause of the lag time.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
And here's the key to
that of the lag time Right.
Speaker 1 (34:43):
And here's the key to
that Let it integrate.
Speaker 2 (34:45):
Yeah, totally, and
it's the same thing applies to a
lot of things Like, for example, if you I'm going to use this
one If you were a smoker andyou're trying to quit smoking,
using the word try is a badthing, first of all.
Second of all, is the reasonwhy the human mind has a, has
struggles with quitting smoking,is because you haven't give it
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somewhere else to go.
You're not creating a new habitright and like like, for
example, I've seen people my, myfather quit smoking using
lifesavers.
So every time he wanted acigarette he put a lifesaver in
his mouth.
Don't you just always doingthat?
Because that's very high, butanyway, it worked for him.
So he gave his mind a differentprocess or belief Permission
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slip.
Permission slip to operateunder that new program.
Speaker 1 (35:40):
Yeah.
So if you wanted to actually godeep, deep, deeper you, you
could definitely go to the coreof that and really start asking
some questions of okay, why, whydo I need the process at all?
What is it representing,whether the totem is a cigarette
(36:02):
or a lifesaver or gum, why thatstill is just very surface yeah
it's still just layer one,layer two right if you want to
go plumb to the core of why isit there in the first place
that's a whole nother place youcan go as well.
Some people are just not thereyet.
(36:23):
Yeah, with those that were inthe uh war in the military,
smoking was probably a way forthem to relax and create a type
of comfort, and so for them itmay equal safety and comfort.
Taking a smoke break, being outof the unsafe area of their
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bubble.
Ouch, did that hurt?
That's twice you've bumped thatelbow since we started this
podcast.
I know right, it's been crazyand so what I'm saying is, if
you get ready to go to plumb tothe core without just exchanging
one permission slip for theother and find out actually what
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it represents like smoking Iwas given that example like in
war time, when it was peacefuland there was not any fighting
for him at that moment, he couldactually stop and have a
cigarette and that probablyrepresented A time away, time
(37:32):
away, safety security.
And so now it's probablyentangled.
It probably at some pointbecame entangled with safety
security.
Speaker 2 (37:43):
Yes, no, totally
agree.
But hey, I do want to say this,though I want to make sure
y'all don't misinterpret whatwas just said If you need one
thing to go to another, it isperfectly fine.
Perfectly fine to do yes, andsometimes it will help you build
self-confidence Absolutely andshowing that, hey, I can do this
.
I can change and sometimes it'sjust a decision to allow one
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permission for another.
Speaker 1 (38:07):
Yeah, I think that's
a very key thing to honor as
well is allowing and honoringyourself to be where you are.
Speaker 2 (38:15):
Yes, agreed.
Speaker 1 (38:16):
If you look at life
as stepping stones, and you're
at stepping stone number one-yeah.
And you're trying to step allthe way to 10.
Speaker 2 (38:26):
That's a long step.
You can't get there from there.
You probably do the splitsProbably, and for me that
wouldn't be good.
Speaker 1 (38:34):
Yeah, unless you're
that, what's that species they
found lately?
That was the giants.
Speaker 2 (38:41):
Oh yeah, the ones up
north, anunnaki.
Speaker 1 (38:44):
They're not called
Anunnaki, though.
Speaker 2 (38:47):
The ones up in the
Antarctic.
Speaker 1 (38:49):
Whatever, I don't
remember what they're called.
If they're eight foot tall,their stride is probably big
enough to get from stone one tostone ten.
Speaker 2 (38:57):
They're like 50 foot
tall.
Like the shoe on the statue wasbigger than the guy's canoe
that was floating next to it.
Speaker 1 (39:05):
I see.
Anyway, the point was, I wasmaking a funny.
Speaker 2 (39:09):
Yeah, no, no.
Speaker 1 (39:11):
You can't get from
stone one to stone 10.
Then honor that.
Speaker 2 (39:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:17):
And go to stone two.
Speaker 2 (39:18):
You could take the
leap if you wanted to.
Speaker 1 (39:22):
Two to 10 is a pretty
good leap though it is it could
be a little bit of a bumpy rideand if you're down for that and
you're ready for that, grabyour moldavite and let's get
jiggy man, because it will didyou just say jiggy?
Speaker 2 (39:35):
yep getting jiggy
with it.
Oh my gosh, you just dumped aold school song on us.
So quick recap.
One is Awareness.
Awareness Two is Habit changing.
Three is Integration, and fourI want to throw another one in
there is allowing yourself tocreate one permission slip to
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another, if that's what you need.
Speaker 1 (40:00):
That's right.
Speaker 2 (40:01):
Let yourself do it.
Yeah, anyway, guys, I think ourtime's up today.
Do you feel complete?
Speaker 1 (40:07):
I don't like it when
you say that.
Speaker 2 (40:10):
Well, it's just for
the day.
Speaker 1 (40:11):
Nope, don't like it.
Speaker 2 (40:12):
Okay, or do you feel
complete today?
I mean, you can cut that out, Ifeel complete, but I don't like
the time's up.
Speaker 1 (40:21):
We have all the time
in the world.
We could sit on here all thetime we could.
Yeah, crickets, but do you feelcomplete, though?
Really yeah, because you'reright.
Speaker 2 (40:32):
We could stay here
all the time.
Speaker 1 (40:35):
Yeah, no, I think
that's a good overview with some
really good action steps on howto maneuver and how good can it
be?
Speaker 2 (40:45):
stop and ask yourself
that question.
Speaker 1 (40:48):
If I believed and
allowed if, what was?
It.
How good could it be?
If I, and then wait and let theuniverse show you what was that
clown song that the clown usedto sing?
Speaker 2 (41:01):
If I only had a dream
you ever hear the clown.
Do you remember that?
Speaker 1 (41:06):
No.
Speaker 2 (41:06):
Oh Okay, I'll have to
find that money today for you
too.
I found the commercial I wastalking about this morning.
Speaker 1 (41:13):
Did you take your
medication?
No Great, it's going to be oneof those kind of days, hey guys
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Speaker 2 (41:26):
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It'sthesaltytarotatmyshopifycom the
link.
You can find it on our website.
It'll be there.
Speaker 1 (41:34):
Yeah, I'm going to
try this weekend to add more
merchandise.
Speaker 2 (41:40):
Yes, most definitely.
I think we need to get somespiritual grand t-shirts, I
agree, maybe give them out tolisteners.
Speaker 1 (41:46):
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Speaker 2 (41:47):
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Speaker 1 (41:49):
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Speaker 2 (41:52):
Hey guys, I really
hope you all have one awesome
day.
Speaker 1 (41:57):
Absolutely Love ya,
bye.