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Speaker 2 (00:28):
Good morning
everybody.
Welcome back to the SpiritualGrind.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
We are here and doing
another episode for our beloved
listeners.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
I'd say for ourselves
as well.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
enjoy it, I think,
just as much as I hope they do
so we have a request today we dowe do from the lady at the Jeep
dealership and she went to ourpodcast and started following us
right there because she listensto podcasts every day and she's
been looking for a new onebecause the other one they just
(01:06):
quit doing podcasts the one thatshe really liked.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
And I was telling her
about the power of positive
thought workshop that we'redoing at the holistic house in
Holly Hill starting October 3rd.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
And uh, she said well
, can you give me a little sneak
peek?
I said you know we're about torecord a podcast here as soon as
I get back.
And she said, well, I'd love toand I'll listen to it whenever
you all post it.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
A sneak peek into
what.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Into the workshop.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Oh, okay, gotcha.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
So because here's a
little back story, we kind of
kind of you know me and mysocial interactions.
When I talk to other people Ikind of dive into their life.
She tried doing the affiliatemarketing stuff without a
following and she did this.
Uh, amazon f, fba stuff yeahand she literally has her entire
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second bedroom of her house,where her kids live, full of
stuff from Amazon.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
Oh my.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Because she did her
own fulfillment.
She took her entire lifesavings and bought inventory.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Oh, goodness me.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
And it's sitting in
her apartment and she hasn't had
a sale in over seven months andnow she's kind of down to dump
her about it and I said well,you know what you need.
You need to change your thoughtprocess for sure and so I asked
her.
I was like what kind of productyou sell?
Healthy beauty?
Because it's like the numberone thing on fba.
That's exactly why you don't doit, because everybody's doing
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it.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Well, yeah, but now
that she's invested her entire
life, savings into it.
We've got to move that productfirst, so that we can recuperate
that money back.
Has she thought about going tothe little flea market and
opening a booth to sell herstuff?
Speaker 2 (03:06):
I did ask her if she
had tried doing the flea market
thing and she said that sheworks on Fridays and Saturdays.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Right, but even
though she works on Friday and
Saturday, she could appoint amanager who goes and manages the
booth and does the sales forher.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Yeah, so her name's
Angela, and so I'm going to tell
you Angela and manages thebooth and does the sales for her
Yep.
So her name's Angela and so I'mgoing to tell you Angela, if we
listen to this, which is goingto comment and post your store
in the comment section on here.
Yeah, and then we're going toask all our listeners to go help
the lady out, let her move thisproduct, and so we can get her
moved on to something else.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Right.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
And you know, I don't
care, go buy a dollar lipstick.
I have no idea what herproducts are.
She just said health and beautystuff.
And you know, and she said, andthe one thing I didn't think
about when I did all this wasexpiration dates.
Oh, and so she has a lot of herproduct that is, you know, it's
getting close to, within a year, it's expiring.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
And she's like I
could just lose everything Right
firing.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Yeah, and she's like
I could just lose everything and
right and but anyway, shewanted to touch on the power of
positive thought okay, and andso, yeah, so the power of
positive thoughts great and it'sthe core work that needs to be
done.
We got to change the thoughtprocess correct, but on the
layered component of that we'vegot to work through the top
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layer, which is okay.
I have all this product in myhome.
It's taking up space, it'sabout to expire, emergency,
emergency, emergency.
Batman signal up.
So the first thing that's onthe agenda to worry yourself
sick about is shit.
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I've used all my money aboutall this product and it's
sitting here literally notmaking me any money and that's
what I you're.
you're going exactly right,we've got to deal with that
first, before her mind, body andsoul will ever even let her get
to a place of being able to getto the thought of positivity.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Got to deal with the
reality, and that's a good
example of how the process kindof works.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
What's the loudest,
most noisiest aspect right now?
That's got you distracted,right, because you can't sit
down and have a belief sessionwith an individual when they're
so distracted with the contentthat is literally ticking away
sitting in their house remindingthem every day of a decision
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that they made.
That's not working out.
So every day when she goes home, that is a trigger, and so
every day when she goes home,she sees that trigger,
especially when she goes to puther children to bed.
That trigger slaps her back inthe face and puts her right back
in that vibrational frequency.
Yeah, so we've got to give hera solution that is viable and
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that's working, that takes thattrigger and turns it into
possibility.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Yes, and see, that's
where our conversation went was.
You know, she said in thebeginning she was spending the
money for the campaigns and shewas making just a little bit of
money on it.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Um, but it wasn't.
It didn't.
It wasn't paying for the nextrun.
Yeah, and I was, and she's likenow let's get to a point where
I just I don't know what to do.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Right.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
I said and what are
you doing?
Are you doing anything?
And she said no.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Probably not.
She's overwhelmed.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Yeah, she didn't know
what to do.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
She doesn't so let me
give a couple of pointers on
the first level of getting ridof that trigger and what to do
about it.
Some ideas Okay, we talked aboutthe flea market option, doing a
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temporary little booth havingsomeone like a friend or family
member, run it on the Fridaysand Saturdays when you aren't
able to.
Option B would be to do agarage sale type thing at your
house.
Have a garage sale, yeah, andsee if you can move the product.
Option three is do you have anyacquaintances or friends that
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have a store of a different kindthat would let you put a little
kiosk or a little table orsomething in there to put your
product on to?
Try and move it on consignment,or a variation of a couple of
those options.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
You know, rent the
booth for a month and go put
your product out there, asks afriend or family to run it on
Friday, saturday, put it insomebody's store that they've
already got going on aconsignment part of it.
I don't know how much productshe has.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
I don't know either.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
She wasn't that
descriptive when it came to it
Are you allowed to take it towork and sell it at work?
Speaker 2 (08:07):
I don't know, you
know, because our conversation
went in a completely differentway with it.
Okay, it wasn't about creatingsolutions for this.
It was about getting over theblock and the overwhelming
emotional connection to.
I failed at this, and so whenshe gets in that headspace, she
does nothing.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
I get it, but what
I'm trying to walk you through
is how to untangle that, step bystep.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
So when she walks in
the door of her house, I assure
you, if she was sitting here infront of us we could have this
conversation, and if I'm wrong,then put it in your comments.
When you walk in the house, youautomatically feel the energy of
this product sitting in thisbedroom that I have to look at,
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I have to think about, I getreminded of, probably daily, of
my choice and it puts her rightback in that vibrational mindset
of I feel overwhelmed, I don'tknow which way to turn, I don't
know what to do.
Until you give solutions tothat trigger, you cannot free
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yourself to be able to work onthe belief systems because your
mind will say oh, that's just alie.
Affirmation hell, I can see theproduct sitting in my freaking
bedroom ticking away at theexpiration date.
So everything is working outand all things are good and I
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can do whatever I want with mylife and I'm safe and taken care
of.
Your mind is going toautomatically reject that and
tell you you're a fucking liar,because I can go down the hall,
pass all this product that's inmy house and your mind is going
to say see, I told you.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
I told you so, I told
you.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
So there's a
validation right there in your
face.
Seeing it is believing it, andso it's going to invalidate any
positive thoughts you give her,any mantras, any work that you
try to do, unless you first givethe monkey mind a viable couple
of options for solutions on theplace where she finds herself
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currently.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
Yeah, and you know,
we got into the conversation of
why she did what she did and Isaid so do you?
And I, you know, said, well,what do you love to do?
And she's like, well, I'm from,because she's from Jamaica.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
And where's she from
Jamaica?
I think it was Jamaica, butanyway, she said well, I was
always on sports and I lovesports all my life and you've
seen her energy.
I've seen her energy justbrighten up.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:04):
And then when you
would talk about the products
that she's selling, it, like youknow, right, and so I was like
you see, that's the differencewhen you do what you love, you
love what you do, and that'swhere the definition of true
abundance comes into play rightbecause abundance is not about
money, it's not about what youown, it's about.
It's not about that.
Abundance comes from a feelingand that's what generates the in
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the intended intended resultsof, of outcome, of what happens
when you start loving, doingwhat you love yes and I was like
okay, so let's be more specific, let's talk, let's dive into it
.
Oh, I like tennis, I was atennis player, I love tennis, I
love to watch tennis.
And she was just lighting upagain.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
And I was like well,
why didn't you do something with
tennis?
I was like, you know, start aYouTube channel, you know, and
then purchase the products, thetennis products.
You can actually hold up theproduct If you're going to
warehouse and be your ownaffiliate or your own
fulfillment center, then hold upthe product and say, look, this
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is the product of the week fortennis.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Right, and you know,
because tennis is a big niche.
Not only that, but especiallyif it's a product she's used
right, and she likes the way itfunctions and what it does, yeah
, then she is not only her ownconsumer advocate because she's
used it and knows how it works,but she likes the way the
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product works in that niche.
Yep, then she can be her ownadvertisement of hey.
I used it.
If you're a tennis player outthere or you're just getting
started, I highly recommend thisproduct.
And then if you're a beginnerand you don't know where to
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start, let me tell youbudget-friendly ways to get
started or high-end ways to getstarted, and she can actually
walk people through, uh, thedifferent aspects of the tennis
market and, like you said,advertise the products right and
then you get, then when youstart moving a lot of somebody's
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product you that they come toyou right then they want you to
sponsor, but then the product inher house popped back into the
picture and she was like.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
She was like.
So you just seen her shoulder.
Good, but I'm an introvert notno no, this is my response to
her.
Was you don't have a?
I mean, it's not like you're ina studio audience, you're by
yourself.
You're talking to a computerscreen that looks like you you.
You're talking to yourself,yeah, and all you do is create
the YouTube channel that way.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
Right.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
And she's like oh, I
didn't even think about that.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Right.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
And so, anyway, to
make a long story short, it
became more about the energyflow of all of it, and it's
almost like she had turned offthe switch to that thing and she
didn't really care about any ofthat anymore.
She just was ready to dosomething different and thing,
and she didn't really care aboutany of that anymore.
She just was ready to dosomething different, right, and,
and wanted to change her energyabout it and so I invited her
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to the workshop and gave her ourcard right and she pulled our
website up, started followingour podcast right there, yeah,
and and so this is.
But this is kind of the podcasttheme I think for the day is
because we had a conversationthis morning about our new
business endeavor.
Speaker 1 (14:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:25):
That kind of put me
into a place of of little bit of
a rocky road humanly.
Um, I say rocky road, I say it.
It put a little speed bump inthe road.
It wasn't really that rocky tome, um it was.
It was almost like I um knewsomewhere down the road that was
going to happen.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
I just didn't expect
it this quick yeah For us, you
know, because we've been doingthis long enough.
We don't have those big gianthurdles or those big huge,
incredibly uncomfortable bumpsin the road.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
We do have little
speed bumps, oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
But we look at them
differently and we experience
them differently than mostpeople, only because we've been
doing our practice for years.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
Agreed.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
And we know that.
You know it's changeable Right.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
It is.
You can change your reality.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Yeah, right now well,
and you know, like in the
meeting we had this morning, um,what you're referring to is
essentially gonna have a higherupfront cost yes and, instead of
that, us allowing ourperspective of that to make that
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into a big, huge mountain.
Oh my God moment, we arepracticed enough at it that it
is just a speed bump, because wedo trust the divine flow and
our higher self to provide whatwe need when we need it, and
we've had validation of that forpeople starting out or just
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beginning.
Those little things like thatthat we view as small and and
doable can look insurmountable.
They can look huge.
They can actually put them in aplace of uh, deer in the
headlight.
Syndrome of oh my god, I don't,I don't know, should I go right
, should I go left?
Should I go straight?
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Like, what do I even do right?
And so you brought up a verygood um starting point by asking
her what is it that you love todo right?
That would be the firstquestion when you find yourself
in the same spot as what was hername?
Angela?
As Angela and thank you, angela, for letting us use you as a
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little example, we love you somuch when you find yourself in a
place where you don't reallyknow what the next step is, or
you're confused about what to dowith your life, that would be
the first question I would sayis is okay, what is it that I do
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enjoy?
Slide everything aside, move it, move money away, move your
current job away, get rid of allof that.
Find a moment in your day be itwhen you get off work or
something and really get to aspace where you can meditate on
or really contemplate thisquestion.
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And the question is what is itthat you enjoy doing?
right and when you come up withthat answer, or those three or
four answers because there maybe more than one then you begin
to look at those through aperspective, like you said, of
how can I turn that into a jobthat I love and how can I get it
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to a place of making me money,so that it doesn't feel like a
job, so that it doesn't feellike I have no purpose, so that
it doesn't feel like I'm goingin no direction at all well,
that's, that's where I took herwas is doing what you love and
don't do it for the purpose ofthe money.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
Do it because you
love to do it that's right,
because the money, the benefits,the friendship, the growth, the
everything that comes out ofthat it comes with from a whole
different energy and it it'llwork itself out.
And it all works itself out.
That's right Because it willcreate.
It will create abundance infriendship, abundance in love,
abundance in social interaction,abundance in money, abundance
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in.
You know it'll create whenyou're doing it for the right
reason.
If you're doing it with thesole purpose of I want to make
money, I need to make money, Ihave to make money, I have to
make money, that is a wholedifferent vibrational energy
that causes, you know, theconstant need to make money, an
expectation well, not only that,but you're putting out the
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energy of.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
I need to make money,
then you will continue to
vibrate at that frequency of Ineed to make money, so so you'll
never have enough money.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
Right.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
You will never
generate more than enough money.
You'll keep yourself at thatstatic frequency because that's
what you're putting out into theuniverse is I am doing this
because I need to make money,because I got to pay my bills.
You got to.
You got to do a littlewordsmithing.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
Right.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
A little bit of word
wizardry, if you will, and
you've got to change the spellor the conversation that you're
having with yourself.
Right, yes we know that we havebills and we know that we need
bills and we know that we needto make money.
Everybody has bills there's noreason to continue to have that
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conversation that's a given yeah, everybody in the world has
bills.
We live on an earth, in aconstruct that we designed right
by design that we havedifferent things electric,
electric water, home car food,blah, blah, blah Shoes.
That all has to be paid for.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
Pedicures.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
So there's no point
in continuing to tell yourself
oh my God, I have to go to workbecause I got to make money.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
You know, I think
when I was going through all
this, one of the changing pointsfor me is when I was just
really getting started out inthe business world and in my own
business and one of the citymanagers I was talking to.
He said you know, it's crazy,Every year I do the budget for
the city, the budget grows, theincome grows, but the gap
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between them always stays thesame.
And I was like huh Nice.
And he said you know, that waskind of a turning point for my
thought process and so I starteddoing research and what I
learned was those people that Iidolized and I wanted to be like
and those millionaires and allthat stuff.
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You know, like one of the mostfamous millionaires in the world
, he spends $84 million a monthin bills.
$84 million a month that isinsanity.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:17):
When you put it in
perspective.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
So what did he do to
close the gap?
Speaker 2 (21:21):
Well, no, he wanted
to grow the gap.
He wanted to grow theprofitability more.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
Right, reverse the
gap.
Speaker 2 (21:26):
Yeah, he wanted to
reverse the gap and I want more
money coming in than goes out he, and he said that the trick to
it that he did is he just quitworrying about it yep and all he
did was continue to do what hedid, um, continue to build the
presence, yep and and justdidn't think about it, didn't,
didn't even worry about it,didn't put it on the back burner
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, none of that stuff.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
He just let it go and
the first step to doing that is
to stop having the conversation.
Right, just stop talking aboutit.
Stop talking about it insideyour head, yeah.
Stop talking about it to others.
Stop making the comments,because yourself is listening to
what you say can I clarify onthat comment?
Speaker 2 (22:06):
sure, I don't think
it's about stop talking.
It's stop allowing the negativethoughts to come through you
can't okay and so when?
What I mean by that is maybelet me clarify a little better
it's um, it's not about nothaving the conversations,
because then you're not dealingwith the emotional turmoil
behind it, correct?
Speaker 1 (22:27):
Well, I mean, that's
a way to go about it, and if
that works for you, then so beit.
But I would give you thepermission to entertain it a
little bit differently if you'llgive me the platform for a
second.
Sure, if you are constantly inthe mindset of saying, oh in my
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head, I really hate my job, butI got to go to work because I
got to pay bills, if that's whatyou constantly are saying to
yourself and having a new mantrain place where you read it off
of a piece of paper that says Ilove money and money loves me
and all is well, that's going tofeel like a big fat lie, right.
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I agree, your habit currently iswhen you're sitting there in a
mindless state, like I'll giveyou an example when I go take a
shower and then I get out and Ibegin to put my clothes on, my
makeup on, do my hair, I kind ofgo into this just mindless
state but there's mental chattergoing on, where I think about
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things yep and if my monkey mindis in full force because it's
payday and I am subconsciously,without thinking, thinking I
okay, so tomorrow's payday, Igotta make sure.
Okay, so this is due, this isdue.
Gosh, I really don't want to goto work today, but I gotta pay
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the bills.
I gotta have that paycheckbecause, you know, little jimmy
needs this and I need this andJimmy all of that.
Stop it you.
You just are not allowing me tofinish this thought process.
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Go ahead.
I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
Anyway, if you're
constantly having that chatter,
it, you're just remindingyourself that, okay, I have
bills to pay, that's a givenlike what I'm saying is there's
no point in even talking aboutthat inside your head or with
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other people, because it's agiven.
There's no need to continue torepeat it, so just stop having
the conversation.
Sometimes that is easier to dothan what you were suggesting,
which was I was giving you anopportunity to pipe in and get
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back in the game.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
You know, my thing is
how I view this perception is
we're here to learn things, andmy viewpoint on this topic is a
little different than yours, andso you know.
The whole point of it for mewas we're here to learn things,
we're here to go through things.
The whole point of it for mewas we're here to learn things,
we're here to go through things,and transmuting things from
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negative to positive for me is alittle easier than most, I
would assume.
But when you teach, when peoplehave those thought processes
like and I'm going to use anexample she went into the store
with great positive energy andI'm going to use it for this.
She went into the store withgreat positive energy and I'm
going to use it for this.
Speaker 1 (25:49):
She went into what
store?
Speaker 2 (25:50):
she built this, this
amazon store oh, gotcha with
great positive energy and had anexpectation of results which
were well, I don't know, I'mjust saying.
I just know that she expected.
She said I expected it to beawesome okay and said but in the
back of my mind I had thatdoubtfulness, energy in the back
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of your head of is this reallygoing to be true?
Is everything they say is true?
And because of that transmutednegative side of that, you are
allowing your energy to bestifled, because we're here on
earth to learn things and ifyou're not supposed to be
successful in something you did,then that's going to happen.
And saying that not saying thatthat happens every time, but I
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am saying that when you can turnthose thoughts into positivity
and say to yourself like, yeah,you're start stopping the
conversation, like you said.
But I only stopped the negativeside.
I'm like I don't want to createdoubt.
I'm going to trust that I'm onthe right spiritual path.
I'm going to trust that I'mdoing the right thing and I'm
going to have positive thoughtsabout it.
I'm going to, I'm going to gointo it with an out and
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expectation, but with positivity, and have fun doing it no, I
understand.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
I understand, but
until you can get to the point
of having positive conversation,right, that doesn't feel like a
lie the first step in it wouldbe to stop having the negative
conversation and, when it popsup, tell your little monkey to
sit down and be quiet.
Damn monkey.
That's all I was saying.
Speaker 2 (27:21):
My monkey likes to
pop in way too much.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
Like we know, we have
bills to pay Right.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
No, I agree.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
So when you start
that chatter of, oh I got to pay
the bills, and la, la, la, la,just stop and talk about
something else in your head.
Speaker 2 (27:37):
Catch yourself doing
it because it's a habit, I agree
.
Speaker 1 (27:41):
And talk about
something else, because you know
that it's going to happen andevery payday you're going to go
to to happen.
Every payday You're going to goto your little payday station
and you're going to pay yourdumb ass fucking bills and
you're going to be out of moneybecause that's the reality.
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You have going that in.
But when you find yourselfhaving that dumb conversation of
I can't pay my bills, I got tohave a job, I don't know what my
life purpose is, try toconsciously be aware that you're
having that conversation andstop the conversation is what I
was saying.
Speaker 2 (28:26):
Oh no, I agree with
you.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
And then purposely
train yourself to have a new
habit Agreed, and at first it'sgoing to be uncomfortable.
At first it's going to feellike your monkey mind is going
to say oh, you're just a lyingbitch, that's not even true.
Here, come with me hand in handand let me go and take you to
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the bedroom where all this crapis.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
See, it's a lie,
right, but until you can get to
that place it, you've got topractice a new habit agree, I
totally agree with you and and Ithink that within my, like I
was saying earlier, what changedmy thought process on it is I
viewed these, you know, thesemulti-millionaire people in my
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life as successful.
They didn't have any problems,they don't have any bills.
That you know.
And thinking myself in my headand that's not, wouldn't reality
, that's not reality and it'snot like.
I always see the bell go off onpeople's energy when I tell
them the difference between youright now and you and your
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millionaire is absolutelynothing.
Speaker 1 (29:34):
Right.
Speaker 2 (29:35):
Other than your
thought process will be
different.
Speaker 1 (29:39):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (29:40):
And because you're
still going to have bills.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
You still take you
with you.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
That's correct and
the light goes on when you tell
them you know millionaires.
They make a million dollars ayear.
Let's say you know a guy thatmakes a million dollars a year.
He may spend $800,000 in billsRight.
Just like you.
You may make $50,000 a year andyou spend $40,000 in bills.
Speaker 1 (30:03):
And somewhere there's
somebody that makes $20 a year
and spends 5 000 a month right,and somewhere there's somebody
that makes 10 000 a year andspends 500 a month, right like
there's all different levelsthat's right and you can look in
both directions and get a muchdifferent perspective.
(30:25):
And you remember when our soncame to live with us while he
was kind of figuring things out.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (30:34):
And I reminded him
when you first went into the
workforce.
you went to work at Chili's and$20 to you was a lot of money,
yep $20 to you was a lot ofmoney, yeah, and you then got
used to and normalized with 20bucks in tips and that no longer
(30:55):
was a lot of money to you.
You were not happy unless youstarted, unless you were
bringing home $50 in tips.
And then he was like I want tomove into a new apartment, but
it's eight hundred dollars amonth and I'm currently paying
five.
And we took him down thatjourney of okay it all works
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itself out it does.
It all will work itself out andsubconsciously you'll figure out
ways to move your money aroundto make that $800 rent work, and
you'll do it.
Almost unconsciously You'll doit.
If that's where you're supposedto be and that's where you're
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divinely guided and meant to be,then go in that direction.
I'm not saying by any means tospend outside of your financial
limitations.
I'm saying that if it is inbudget and you're trying to make
a decision, just know that itworks itself out and you will
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figure out a way to make ithappen.
How does this relate to Angelaand her concept or her situation
she's going through If she'sdetached completely from the
product that is in her home andshe just is ready to find her
true passion, her true love,whatever she's wanting to do,
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figure out what your budget is.
Figure out what you can takefrom that current budget to
apply to that thing that youlove and for her she identified
that it's tennis and figure outhow to put yourself out there as
a tennis connoisseur andinfluencer, or even educator.
Speaker 2 (32:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (32:45):
If you love tennis
and you used to play tennis,
you've got valuable informationinside your head that somebody,
somewhere, will find value inbeginner tennis players,
mid-level tennis players I don'tknow what her extent of her
tennis experience and knowledgeis.
(33:06):
But even if she's a mid-leveltennis player or tennis
informationalist, there'sbeginners out there that will
pay for her knowledge and hertraining and her educational
expertise, not only on how toget started playing it from
physically what do I do with mybody but also from a product
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standpoint of what products do Ineed to start with?
And it could be that I am a I'ma tennis beginner who is on a
budget.
She can then take them throughand say, well, for the money
that you are able to spend,these are the best products.
If you have really no budgetand you're just wanting to learn
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how to be in the tennis game,here are the average level
products.
Here are the high-end products.
All of that knowledge andexperience has and can be
monetarized.
Speaker 2 (34:08):
Agreed.
Speaker 1 (34:09):
It's just a matter of
getting someone to change their
perspective and see that andlook at it from that direction,
and that's exactly where I wentwith her.
Speaker 2 (34:19):
You know, it's not
about creating a place of income
.
It's not about creating a placeof I feel safer here, right.
It's about a place of creatingthat passion inside of you that
creates the other things.
It doesn't intentionally.
Speaker 1 (34:38):
Yeah, and you know,
one of the other things you and
I do is we have a motto whenit's okay to stay, it's okay to
go, and so another beneficialthing for people is getting to a
place where they're okay.
Where they're at will free themup and allow them to create a
new adventure or a newexperience to have Right and
(35:03):
you've come to a place where youknow what I am, where I am, I'm
happy, I'm whole, I'm healthy.
Speaker 2 (35:15):
I'm safe inside of me
.
Speaker 1 (35:17):
It'll open up a sense
of freedom to be able to see
life from a differentperspective.
Speaker 2 (35:27):
Dolphins, what Whales
?
You said sea life.
I was telling you you wantedexamples.
Speaker 1 (35:33):
Oh sea, life Sea as
in ocean.
Speaker 2 (35:37):
Yes, I'm sorry, I was
making it funny.
Nicely done sir, you like that,play that was a good play I do,
nicely done.
But you know, when theconversation ended, when we went
out and she handed me myItalian sports car as a loaner,
I was like, wow, this is nice.
She's like I take care of thegood people.
(35:58):
I said to her I expect to hearfrom you, I expect to see you.
And she said, oh, you will.
I said great.
I said no, what are you goingto do different tomorrow?
No, and she just looked at meblank face.
I said tonight, before you goto bed and this is right before
I was getting in the car rightbefore you go to bed, I want you
to go to bed thinking about onething that you're going to
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change in your life tomorrow ina positive way.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (36:23):
And we can start
there.
You know, I said everybody willteach you that you need to work
on getting rid of all thisstuff first, and you really
don't Now.
You need to work on getting ridof all this stuff first and you
really don't Now.
There is a time in your lifethat you'll have to face those
things, but you can start withthis one positive thing in your
life.
Speaker 1 (36:41):
You know, and one of
the things if somebody truly
doesn't know what first step totake, you can stop for a second
and take a piece of paper andI'm going to take you through,
like know, pre pre-k steps here.
Get a piece of paper, writedown three things on it that are
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positive about the life thatyou're living right this minute.
Find three things that arepositive.
And then that big question ofwhat's that one thing that I am
going to work on changing fortoday or for the next couple of
days.
What habit, what pattern am Igoing to try to reprogram by
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practicing it every day.
And when you get up, read thatlist.
When you go to bed, read thatlist.
Create a new habit on purposeuntil you can do it a new habit
subconsciously yeah, and that'swhat I told her.
Speaker 2 (37:37):
I said you know,
right now you're in a spot that
the um, you seem to be doingokay for yourself and you are
not.
You know, we didn't really godeep into that conversation.
I'm like, well, you don't seemlike you're doing too bad, but
what you have to do is is get inline with and whatever that is
you want to do, and just createone positive thing a day, create
(37:57):
one positive thought a day.
And that's the basics kind ofthe Power Positive Thought
Workshop is understanding,because a lot of people just
don't understand the thoughtprocesses in the mind and how
they work, yeah, and they don'tunderstand the belief systems
and how that triggerssubconscious thought and how
your subconscious thought is acreature or your subconscious
(38:19):
mind is a creature of habit, andthey just don't understand.
And when you can teach them andeducate them on these things,
then it can change their lives.
It will change their life Ifyou go through this entire
workshop.
It will change your life.
Speaker 1 (38:31):
And I think the other
key thing is is that getting
used to utilizing your emotionalguidance system, yeah, If it
feels yucky, find out why.
Speaker 2 (38:42):
If it is dirty, if it
smells dirty and looks like
it's dirty, it probably is dirty.
Speaker 1 (38:46):
Yeah, I mean, utilize
your emotional guidance If
you're doing something or havinga thought and it doesn't feel
good, explore why.
Why did that experience make mefeel that way?
Why did that thought make mefeel some sort of emotional way?
Because by doing that you'retuning into the frequency world,
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the energetic world of learninghow to read the frequency of
where you're at, because theuniverse works on frequency.
The universe and the constructof this manifestation and
changing your thought doesn'thave ears.
(39:30):
There's not some big giant earson the universe's proverbial
head.
Speaker 2 (39:36):
Right.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
It works on frequency
, and so if you're putting out a
frequency vibe that's on thelower end of the spectrum,
that's what you're going to getback.
Speaker 2 (39:47):
You're going to get
that back.
I watched this.
I was talking about that.
I watched this thing thismorning and there's a new
technology out called Leolighting and I'll have to show
it.
I saved it for you becauseyou're going to be really
interested in this.
Speaker 1 (39:59):
Am I going to be
aggravated or am I going to be
interested?
Speaker 2 (40:02):
No, you're totally
interested.
Speaker 1 (40:04):
Because I have my
other little invention waiting.
Speaker 2 (40:07):
No, it doesn't have
anything to do with your
invention Okay, but what it isis in the thing he said.
Somewhere they came up with astudy that every cell in the
body creates microelectricalsurges that have a frequency on
them, and they created a lightsystem that you put in your
(40:29):
house, that sits beside yourchair or whatever that emits
this light and it changes andmoves around and it does
everything, and yeah, I'm notreading that article why but?
because it's gonna irritate meoh, okay, this light changes and
(40:50):
he actually showed it under amicroscope on this video changes
the movement of the cells.
Speaker 1 (40:57):
Of course it does.
I already know that.
Speaker 2 (41:01):
And so all it is is a
light.
It's like one of the pyramidsthat sits right here.
Speaker 1 (41:04):
Just keep rubbing it
in.
Speaker 2 (41:06):
But I didn't know you
created something like that.
That's not what you created.
What's that look for?
You did a whole different.
Okay, anyway, uh, the the coolpart about it was is the science
behind it and he showed theelaborate, the laboratory work
and how it proves what it does,and it was really cool, really
cool process.
(41:26):
But you know, talking aboutthat frequency, part of it is is
he is.
They said that they'recurrently experimenting with
changing the vibrationalelectrical frequency of the
cells with the light to adifferent level.
Speaker 1 (41:42):
Exactly.
Yeah, that's what my producthas the ability to do.
I've written articles on it.
Mm-hmm written articles on it.
If you can pinpoint the naturalfrequency of the cell, you take
readings on a regular basis andthe minute the cell is putting
off a frequency that's outsideof baseline, you can actually
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catch it.
When it's beginning to becomedis-eased, give it a boost of
light, energy or some sort ofenergy frequency to put it back
to its natural state of being,which will completely
disintegrate the dis-ease ordisease in the cell, causing
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people not to have to experienceillness, disease, discomfort.
Well, you know.
Speaker 2 (42:35):
Basically they were
saying that they're working on
being able to change moods andall sorts of things with it.
And it was a pretty interestingread for me this morning.
Speaker 1 (42:47):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (42:49):
I don't know why
you're irritated.
I'm just telling you what Iread.
I don't know, okay, how do youfeel you?
What I read.
I don't know how do you feel?
Don't ask, oh, do you feelcomplete or do you want to rant
about that a minute?
Speaker 1 (43:04):
No, I'll rant in
private.
These people don't want to hearme rant.
I don't know.
You had the interaction with.
Angela and did that answer herquestion?
I?
Speaker 2 (43:15):
think that she's
going to come to the workshop
anyway, so I don't feel likethere's anything left to say.
Speaker 1 (43:20):
Okay, then I guess we
are complete.
Speaker 2 (43:23):
Well, and I want to
thank you for allowing me to
share your story today a littlebit.
Angela and I appreciate theinteraction that we had because
she made a comment to me rightbefore I left.
She's like you just changed theway I thought today.
Speaker 1 (43:35):
Perfect.
Speaker 2 (43:36):
I was like, I did my
job.
Speaker 1 (43:37):
I'm out, that's right
, that's what this is all about.
We always say if we change,just one person then we've done
what we came here to do.
Speaker 2 (43:46):
It was a very
delightful conversation and I
want you to know I enjoyed itand I can't wait till you get to
meet the wife, because he waslike I can't wait to meet the
wife either because I wastelling her about you Anyway.
So hey, don't y'all, weappreciate y'all.
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