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Have you ever had that nagging feeling you should turn left instead of right, or check out something that seemed beyond your reach, only to discover it was exactly what you needed? Those nudges and coincidences aren't random—they're breadcrumbs guiding you toward your highest path.

In this episode of Spiritual Grind, we dive deep into the concept of recognizing and following signs from the universe. We share our personal experience of almost missing an incredible opportunity because our initial reaction was "we can't afford that" or "it's not possible." While shopping for a simple part for our motorcoach, we received an intuitive nudge to look at newer models—a nudge we could have easily dismissed. Instead, by following it, we discovered a luxury motorcoach at a price point we never imagined possible, transforming our perspective on what might be available to us.

We explore the concept of the "spiritual spam folder"—that mental filter where we categorize and dismiss potentially life-changing guidance. Just as you might occasionally need to check your email spam folder for important messages accidentally filtered out, we need to regularly examine the nudges, encounters, and opportunities we've dismissed. Sometimes the most profound guidance comes packaged in ways our logical minds initially reject.

The journey of following signs requires balancing discernment with openness. Not every sign demands immediate action—sometimes it simply invites us to expand our awareness of possibilities. When evaluating potential paths, notice if they feel easy and graceful or forced and difficult. True alignment typically unfolds with relative ease, even when challenges arise along the way. Ready to discover what guidance you might be missing? Tune in and learn to recognize the signs that are already all around you.

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Speaker 2 (00:28):
Thank you.
Spiritual grind is back on theair.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
Grinding it out, baby .
Grinding it out One bean at atime.

Speaker 2 (00:39):
Two beans, three beans.

Speaker 1 (00:41):
Maybe four.

Speaker 2 (00:43):
Soup, there it is.

Speaker 1 (00:46):
I was thinking Jack and the Beanstalk.

Speaker 2 (00:48):
I was thinking three bean soup.

Speaker 1 (00:54):
Sometimes it can be a three bean soup.

Speaker 2 (00:57):
I got a special something for you this morning
you did.
Signs, signs, everywhere thesigns.
Nice, you like that?
Yeah, you like my singing.

Speaker 1 (01:04):
I do.
It's pretty good, isn't iteverywhere?

Speaker 2 (01:05):
the signs.
Nice, you like that?
Yeah, you like my singing?
I do.
It's pretty good, isn't it?

Speaker 1 (01:09):
I like the signs, you like the signs?
Yeah, they're exciting.

Speaker 2 (01:13):
That's what my show is about this morning.
Love it Is.
Do we see the signs?

Speaker 1 (01:18):
Do we see the signs?

Speaker 2 (01:21):
Do we accept the signs Even though it may be
something we don't like?
Hmm.
Do we identify the signs, evenif it's something we do like?
Hmm.
Do we allow our human tointerfere way too much because
we have the human emotions basedupon something that we view as

(01:43):
harsh, when it could be threetimes better than we ever
imagined it?
Yeah Well, that's what it'sabout, really.
For me, it's a good topic, man,it is.
It's a pretty big one becauseeverybody seems to do it and
they don't even realize it.
It can be minor things likemaking a right instead of a left
for the stoplight.
It can be driving down a backroad on a motorcycle just to

(02:06):
slow down, going around thecorner, because you get the urge
to slow down and it saves youfrom hitting an animal on the
road, or you know just whatever.
And those are actually examplesthat we have been through.

Speaker 1 (02:20):
Well, yeah, and I mean we experienced that I did
this morning actually.

Speaker 2 (02:28):
So you listened to Tesla this morning.

Speaker 1 (02:29):
Signs, signs everywhere, signs.
No, I listened to you, oh, andyou helped me navigate a
perspective that I had thatwasn't allowing myself to be
open and receptive and see theexcitement and possibility of a
door that popped open for us.

Speaker 2 (02:52):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:53):
I had a perspective that was based on someone else's
actions.

Speaker 2 (03:03):
I want to prelude something real quick.
Sure, I think this morning wasa testament to how awesome our
relationship is.

Speaker 1 (03:09):
Absolutely.

Speaker 2 (03:10):
Because sometimes the monkey mind inspires things and
when you're spiritually open,like as we are, and communicate
well, our communication 99% ofpeople would have.

Speaker 1 (03:23):
Arguments over 99% of people would have arguments
over yeah, and I mean even that,because our life isn't like
that.
I forget to conceptualize that,because to me, what we do is
just the norm and I thinksometimes I find myself thinking
, wow, doesn't everybody do this?
But the reality is that, no,they, they don't.

(03:48):
And you're completely right.
The interaction that we hadthis morning for some would have
turned out into a all-out knockdown drag bar brawl right and
it's the truth.

Speaker 2 (04:00):
you know, uh, when, when there's signs that fall
into your lap and you'respiritually open in your journey
, you have to listen to thosethings, and I'm not really going
to disclose what the signs ofpoppet is this morning because I
don't want to humanly interactwith any of it.

Speaker 1 (04:16):
And.

Speaker 2 (04:17):
I just want to let the energy be open and free to
what does happen.
But when I brought it up orwhen it came into my reality, I
was like, hmm, that's odd.
It was kind of like yesterdaywith our experience with the,
you know, with the motor coachat the motor coach place and
where the I just got a call onthursday from this guy about

(04:38):
doing that, and anyway we were.
We went to the motor coachplace yesterday to get a part
for our motor coach and we endedup looking at a brand new coach
and we made this upgrade.

Speaker 1 (04:48):
We looked at several, yeah, just because we were
curious.

Speaker 2 (04:52):
But this one coach is $300,000 off because it's a
year old and they didn't sell it, and so they're trying to get
rid of their inventory and wewould be stu.
I mean, to me giving up on$300,000 in equity would be
insanity.

Speaker 1 (05:05):
Right, well, and I think the interesting thing
about the journey is that wewent there for a part.

Speaker 2 (05:13):
Yes, that was it.

Speaker 1 (05:14):
That's why we went there.
And in going there we both gotthe nudge to hey, because when
you go they always have motorcoaches set up so you can just
walk in and look at them.
And there was a couple ofdifferent.
There was a Winnie that waslike ours, but it was newer.
And then they had two othersthat were a different brand,

(05:38):
different flavor, set up.
And we were like, hey, just forfun, let's just go see.
We got that nudge to go and seewhat they look like on the
inside.
We could have very well said uh, you know what.
We have things to do.

Speaker 2 (05:58):
I can't pay for that, and why would I even look at it
?

Speaker 1 (06:00):
Right, or I've got tasks I want to get done today.
I don't have time to do thatInstead of listening to the sign
or the nudge right Sign, signs,everywhere the signs.
But because we didn't let thosethings dictate our reality, as
most of the time we don't.
We went in and looked around atthe brand new Winnie.

Speaker 2 (06:22):
Yeah, we looked at the brand new Winnie and it's a
2025.

Speaker 1 (06:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (06:24):
It's the same model of ours, not upgraded as much.
Right right right, and it was$298,000.

Speaker 1 (06:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (06:32):
And then we go look at another Integra coach, which
in the motor coach worldIntegra's are, like you know,
the creme de la creme.

Speaker 1 (06:39):
Creme de la creme de la creme.

Speaker 2 (06:44):
And because you can actually custom order them and
everything, and that's what mostof the famous celebrities use
Creme de la creme.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
That's the word of the day.

Speaker 2 (06:53):
So we looked at this one coach and we weren't
impressed with it at all.
Actually, we looked at theother, integra Anthem Right.
It's a 2024 year old.

Speaker 1 (07:02):
And it was nice.

Speaker 2 (07:03):
Oh, it was very nice.
And then we get off and go lookat the other integra.
There was a 2025 and smallerand we didn't think it was
anywhere near as nice, but itwas right, but the but.

Speaker 1 (07:13):
At that point we were guessing.
We were actually playing aguessing game on how much we
thought that it was they werewanting for it right, yeah, and
you were guessing very, veryhigh and I was, I was like nah?
Surely not.

Speaker 2 (07:25):
Well, I thought the first one was probably going to
be around $800,000 to $1.3million Right, right, right.
And the second, Integra, welooked at when I saw the price
tag because I was verydisappointed with it.

Speaker 1 (07:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (07:36):
I was like wow.

Speaker 1 (07:37):
It's hardly not.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
And then I looked at the price tag and 76, I was like
what shut the front door?

Speaker 1 (07:43):
what's going on?

Speaker 2 (07:44):
so, then, that sparked an interest on wanting
to know what the price of theother one was yeah, and so we
went back in after we got done,looking at all three of them,
and I asked the lady at thefront desk.
And then she yells across theroom with richie and richie says
, uh, 440 000, what?

Speaker 1 (08:00):
what, what?

Speaker 2 (08:02):
what did you say?
Yeah no way it knocked oursocks off and he said, yeah,
there's a special deal on itbecause it was last year's
inventory and if you finance it,then then you get another.
It's like 60 000 off.
Blah, blah, blah blah.

Speaker 1 (08:15):
I was like no kidding it was a very good example of
what we talk about on a regularbasis and following the signs we
could have very well listenedto the lie that was created of,
oh you know what.
It's probably close to amillion.

Speaker 2 (08:33):
This is a million dollar motor coach.

Speaker 1 (08:34):
We ain't got that laying around.
We've got a motor coach.
Let's just move on, get ourpart and go on.

Speaker 2 (08:39):
And don't get me wrong, I love our motor coach.
I love our little WinnebagoAdventure.
Love that thing.

Speaker 1 (08:46):
I don't think it's.

Speaker 2 (08:47):
There is a couple things that I wanted.
It doesn't have.

Speaker 1 (08:49):
It's not little by any means.

Speaker 2 (08:51):
No, it's not little.

Speaker 1 (08:52):
But it's cute to say little Winnie.

Speaker 2 (08:56):
Yeah, because we used to have a mini Winnie.

Speaker 1 (08:57):
We did have a mini Winnie.

Speaker 2 (09:06):
But the thing about it was is is when he said
440,000, I like to fell out ofmy shoes because I remember
looking at one similar to thatlast when we first looked around
.
What a year ago maybe, when wewere there for something, I
don't remember.

Speaker 1 (09:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (09:13):
And it was like 994 or something.

Speaker 1 (09:16):
Right.

Speaker 2 (09:16):
And I was like when he said 440, I literally Timing
Almost could have fainted, andif we'd listened to our monkey
mind and not seen the signs.

Speaker 1 (09:31):
When we got out of the jeep we wouldn't look at it
at all.
Right, we just we just wentback to the parts and then came
back and yeah, and so I, I thinkthe I think that what we're
sharing this for is just to geteverybody to remember that
sometimes, when you leave thehouse and you have these to-do
lists and these objectives, ifyou're not careful, you will
forget to see the signs and tojust kind of go with the flow,

(09:52):
sometimes Because you may bemissing out on a life-changing
event.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
You just don't ever know.

Speaker 1 (09:56):
Those nudges come in all different flavors and colors
.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
Because the prelude to that also was on Thursday I
got a call from our financepeople that we financed our
current coach through and theguy said you know, almost
everybody upgrades in the firstyear and when you decide you
want to do that, just give me acall.

Speaker 1 (10:13):
And y'all have been longtime customers.

Speaker 2 (10:15):
Oh yeah, he said, because we've used them for many
things.
Right, we've used them over theyears I bought two Harleys
through him, yeah, and them overthe years I bought two Harleys
through them, yeah, and so hejust randomly, out of the blue,
reached out.
On Thursday, just randomly outof the blue, it was like why is
Iron Horse calling me?

Speaker 1 (10:31):
Right, exactly, we didn't ask for it, humanly.

Speaker 2 (10:36):
He said everybody finds out that there's stuff on
these that they want, that theydidn't buy, yeah, and so they
end up upgrading within thefirst year, normally.
Right, right or, and so theyend up upgrading within the
first year, normally Right,right and or they'll go to a
whole different coach.
And he said when you decide youwant to do that, let me know,
because you will Just give me acall.

Speaker 1 (10:50):
Yeah, I mean you know .
The reality is is that you knowthat's our higher self saying
okay, embrace the concept,because you're ready for the
next thing?
Right, you're ready for thenext thing.
Next thing, right, you're readyfor the next thing.
I think it's also a very goodexample that we try to teach of
you are where you are, followthe breadcrumbs and take the

(11:13):
next best step.
because at the time when webought the, the motor coach we
have, we weren't even able toget from where we were yeah to
the 400 and thousand or whatevermark right, we just weren't
there yet, right and so you'vegot to take the stepping stones
on whatever the topic is, andthat's a good example of what

(11:37):
that looks like you know for hadto buy the coach that we have
now in order to open thatvibrational frequency of being
able to see it, being able tosee the signs because we weren't
well, you know and part of thatwas my fault, because, you know
, just six years ago um, kind ofgive you a history I had a zero

(11:59):
credit score because I paid allmy bills off for like 10 years
and I bought everything in cash.
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (12:05):
And so we.
I went to buy a bed and the guywas like are you, can I see
your credit card?
Cause I've never seen a man ofyour age that that has a zero
credit score.
Are you hustling me?

Speaker 1 (12:17):
Right?
Are you doing something illegal?

Speaker 2 (12:19):
He literally thought we were doing something Right
and I was like no, I justhaven't bought anything on
credit in like 12 years.
Not, you know, they didn'tteach us back then that credit
goes away, it just disappearsand your credit score disappears
.
I had no clue.
I thought my awesome creditscore was going to be in place
still, right, but anyway.
So, to make a long story short,we go through all this, we

(12:41):
finally we get a financing for aJeep Renegade and we're working
on building my credit back up.

Speaker 1 (12:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (12:45):
And when we go to buy this motorhome.
This was the really first largeloan that we had, even though
we did get approved for amortgage, and that was kind of
an eye-opening event, and so wewent through the processes and

(13:06):
following the signs of things.
I mean, the reason why wedidn't buy the house in daytona
is because we're gonna buy thismotorcoach right and so we're
just follow the signs and followthe the realm of it, and
sometimes we miss them too.
But right, yeah, I mean, butyeah being open to whatever it
leads you to.
Okay, why is this in ourreality?

Speaker 1 (13:27):
Yeah, and what we use to identify whether we should
continue forward or not is ifit's easy and graceful.
If it begins to kind of feelhard and kind of like a struggle
this many years of doing ourprocess, against a kind of feel
hard and kind of like a strugglethis many years of doing our
process.
We know that just because thedoor opened to give us insight

(13:51):
doesn't mean necessarily thatwe're supposed to go all the way
with it.

Speaker 2 (13:54):
Right.

Speaker 1 (13:55):
Yeah and and like the house thing, you know, we put a
contract on it didn't pan out.
We're like, okay, it's, it'sturned, the winds have turned
into this no longer kind offeels fun, it feels kind of
forced, it feels kind of umwhich?

Speaker 2 (14:15):
would have been a great deal if the lady would
have.

Speaker 1 (14:17):
Yeah definitely, but the doors were just not opening.
The ease and grace of it kindof dissipated.
So instead of beingdisappointed that we didn't get
that house, we looked at it froma perspective of okay, that
particular event got us frompoint A to point B.

(14:38):
Release the assumption and theinsistence that we've got to
have that house which leaves youopen to okay, what's the next
breadcrumb.
What's the next stepping stoneof where we're supposed to go
with it.

Speaker 2 (14:53):
What's next on the list?

Speaker 1 (14:53):
Because I don't know about you, but me, whenever I
was looking at these 20 houses,I mean we looked at house after
house after house, house afterhouse after house, and never in

(15:14):
my mind was the concept ofbuying a mobile unit.

Speaker 2 (15:15):
But now that I have one, it's opened so many
different yeah, you can takeanywhere possibility of of of
many topics you don't just havea beach house, you have a mobile
beach house.

Speaker 1 (15:26):
Or a.
Country, camping Countryglamping or a what do you call
it, when you go to the snowplace?

Speaker 2 (15:36):
Skiing, yeah Ski resort.

Speaker 1 (15:38):
Oh yeah, you see you have a mobile ski resort.
Yeah, I mean, you can just takeit anywhere.

Speaker 2 (15:44):
Yeah, that's really cool.

Speaker 1 (15:45):
And it is.
The other thing is you know Ican office out of it.
I can see clients out of it.

Speaker 2 (15:53):
We can podcast out of it.

Speaker 1 (15:54):
Anywhere I want to be .

Speaker 2 (15:56):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (15:56):
So if I've got a passive clients that are on the
other side of the state, I justlove my little hermit crab house
up and I go over there and seeclients for a while.

Speaker 2 (16:05):
She calls it the hermit crab.
Maybe that's what you shoulddecorate it in, maybe.

Speaker 1 (16:10):
Maybe I should paint it like a hermit crab shell.

Speaker 2 (16:13):
I know that hermit crab shell has got some polish
issues that I'm dealing with.
Yes, I need that hermit crab tobe a little bit more clean.

Speaker 1 (16:22):
Anyway, it's got a little bit of a wax buildup.

Speaker 2 (16:25):
That's not no, whoever anyway.

Speaker 1 (16:28):
But that is a perfect example of what we teach as far
as just being open andreceptive to the crumbs and
following the crumbs and notbeing insistent about how it has
to look and following youremotional guidance system when
it starts to feel not funanymore or it starts to kind of

(16:50):
feel yucky, releasing it.

Speaker 2 (16:54):
Right, it's okay.
Like yesterday, the very firstthought I had was this is doable
, and I want to throw a littledisclaimer out there.

Speaker 1 (17:03):
Sure.

Speaker 2 (17:04):
When you all have a sign like that and say it's like
if you were to use themotorhome thing, or if you're at
a car lot and you're going toget a part and you end up
looking at a new car or whateverthat is, it doesn't mean that
you absolutely have to staythere, be staunch and get that
new car, get that new thingright then, right now.

(17:25):
It does not mean that it couldjust mean that your higher self,
your spiritual guidance, yourGod, whatever that is is putting
that energy into your reality.

Speaker 1 (17:35):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (17:36):
And it's just opening your mind to a different
thought process.

Speaker 1 (17:39):
Right, Because societally we've been taught to
be a.
I'll believe it when I see it.

Speaker 2 (17:45):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (17:46):
And so sometimes, when you're trying to align with
the reality of you having it,it's good to go and touch it,
taste it, smell it, feel it.

Speaker 2 (17:59):
Lick it.
That's what I did.
I called dibs.

Speaker 1 (18:03):
Oh my God, Okay, I call dibs.
Oh my God, okay, listen guys,if you're out there at lazy days
, looking at the motor coach,and you grab the handle.
My husband could have very welllicked the handle.
So wash your hands.

Speaker 2 (18:19):
Excuse me.

Speaker 1 (18:20):
That brings in a whole nother yeah that's kind of
funny.
I feel like I need you to havea button.
That's the crowd booing.

Speaker 2 (18:28):
Oh yeah, no, I put dibs.
I ain't booing my dibs.

Speaker 1 (18:32):
No, but the crowd is knowing that you licked some
door handle of some RV somewhere.

Speaker 2 (18:39):
How funny is it though.
The parts lady said, yeah, ifwe take a nap in one of the
motorcoaches, they have to sellit as used.

Speaker 1 (18:46):
I know, isn't that crazy.

Speaker 2 (18:48):
It is crazy.

Speaker 1 (18:48):
So we went to the parts department and I don't
know we got to gabbing aboutdifferent things and she said
they get in trouble, big trouble, yeah, for going in the motor
coaches themselves.
And she shared with us that ifthey get caught by a customer

(19:09):
asleep in one, it then has to besold as a used unit, even if
somebody hasn't like like.
I would think you would atleast have to pee in the pot or
drive it or something.
Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (19:23):
I mean I don't know what qualifies motor coaches for
being classified as new and notnew.
You know like, because I knowin cars there's like so many
miles right and then they can doa program, because that once I
do that it can go to a programcar or whatever yeah and then it
has to go to use, but it's.
I was surprised by that I wasextremely surprised.

Speaker 1 (19:43):
So that's the secret.

Speaker 2 (19:44):
If you want to buy a motor coach, go squat in one of
them overnight.

Speaker 1 (19:47):
No, and then they have to sell it used.
I don't think it's you thatdoes the squatting.
Oh, it's got to be somebodyelse.
Oh, okay, I squatted in this,so now it's used.
So now sell it to me for use.

Speaker 2 (19:59):
I don't think it rolls like that.
It don't work that way, no.
I think somebody else has to doit, even if you put dibs on it
too.

Speaker 1 (20:05):
Yes, no, I don't think so.
So the key would be to paysomebody to go fall asleep in it
.
You find them and then go fromthere.

Speaker 2 (20:15):
Like you know what are we teaching exactly.
About watching the signs?
No, no.

Speaker 1 (20:21):
And so we've kind of been.

Speaker 2 (20:24):
So we've kind of been , I mean we're we're kind of
teaching people how to beunethical.
Well, we're just giving theinformation.
What they do with it is up tothem.

Speaker 1 (20:31):
Here's the loophole, ladies and gentlemen.

Speaker 2 (20:34):
But uh, so I want to talk about this as well.
Let's see in the sciencebecause, um, everybody does this
, Like everybody has a spamfolder.
Yeah, and we have a human spamfolder.
Yeah, and we have a human spamfolder yeah.
And things will come into usand we just like pop it over
into spam.

Speaker 1 (20:53):
Oh, good analogy.

Speaker 2 (20:55):
I like it and so every now and then we need to go
back and check our spam folder.

Speaker 1 (20:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (20:59):
Because you'd never know, you know, you never know
what will pop up in the spamfile.

Speaker 1 (21:03):
What are you putting in your spam folder of life?

Speaker 2 (21:07):
Because when you identify things like, you'll
have people that come into yourreality and say things and you
may not think of it aslife-changing or a journey.
A what do they call that?
Radius Trajectory?
No, when you go from point A topoint B, what's that called?

Speaker 1 (21:28):
A line.

Speaker 2 (21:32):
Journey.
I think it's called a radiusright.

Speaker 1 (21:36):
No, radius is around Anyway.
Okay, can we get all thegeometry folks to?

Speaker 2 (21:42):
come in.
But when those things come intoyour reality, you may hear it
and you'll put it over in a spamfile and then you never look at
it again.
And so stop and say to yourselfI'm going to open my spam file
today and find out like why didthis random guy walk up to me at
Walmart and say you have coolshoes Right.

Speaker 1 (22:04):
Does that have some meaning?
It doesn't have a meaning to itand do it from not only literal
but symbolically.
Look at it from both angles.

Speaker 2 (22:15):
Because it could be showing you a belief.
It could be showing historicalevent something.

Speaker 1 (22:18):
Or your next step.
Or your next step?
It could be the breadcrumb, itcould be a shoe sale.
Take it literally and then takeit from the symbolic.
What does it represent?
What does it stand for?
Right.

Speaker 2 (22:28):
Kind of break that down yeah, and you'll be.
Maybe you're inventing the nextnew shoe, who knows?

Speaker 1 (22:34):
Who knows?

Speaker 2 (22:40):
It could put you into a journey of craziness and fun.

Speaker 1 (22:41):
I mean just him commenting on the shoes could be
hey, here's your next step.
Symbolically, open your eyesbecause your next step is headed
in your direction.
Yep, and you're going to likeit.

Speaker 2 (22:56):
So when those signs pop in, like for me this morning
, it was kind of like hmm, whyis this in my reality?
And what a cool place to beyeah, for sure because it just
opens more doors yeah you know,um listening to the because, and
there's always secondarymeaning to these signs.

(23:17):
There's always something thatyou don't see right and it again
.
Right, and it can.
What's that Was that?

Speaker 1 (23:26):
What are you doing?
I swear on my Listen.
We need to get a video.
He's over here looking at hisbody part as it flings about
when he waved his arm.

Speaker 2 (23:37):
Do we clarify that's my arm, not my.
Yeah, okay, anyway, as itflings about, but is it not
Naked Podcast?
Well, okay, anyway as it flingsabout what?

Speaker 1 (23:46):
is it Not Naked Podcast?
Well, you're sitting therewaving your wing about not?

Speaker 2 (23:50):
liking the way it flew.
I felt like I had a little fatjiggle in there.

Speaker 1 (23:56):
You may have.
No, there's no fat right thereMight need to do some push-ups,
Something maybe.

Speaker 2 (24:02):
I don't know.
I felt like my wing flapped.

Speaker 1 (24:06):
Squirrel.

Speaker 2 (24:08):
But there's always a secondary purpose behind these
things.
Normally.

Speaker 1 (24:12):
What do you mean?

Speaker 2 (24:13):
Like, for example, we were looking at buying a house.

Speaker 1 (24:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (24:19):
And when that didn't work out, we just kind of moved
on about life and the secondarypurpose of us looking to buy a
house was to open our energy upto buy the motor coach.

Speaker 1 (24:29):
Yeah, buying a house, but being open to and not be
insistent that it had to be.

Speaker 2 (24:38):
Right, because that's what we did.
We humanly interjected into it.
It had to be this way in thisplace.

Speaker 1 (24:46):
Like a secure place?
Like what do you call that?
Like a non-movable land home?
Oh, a Open up to whatever thathouse looks like?
Right, and release that.
It's got to be this one.

Speaker 2 (25:01):
Or it's got to look like this, and if we'd have
really stopped and logicallythought through it.
A motor coach makes more sensefor us it really does, we just
yeah, we just weren't there.
Yeah, we didn't run in thatmindset, I didn't even trust my
mind.

Speaker 1 (25:15):
Yeah higher self had to get us there and we trust in
that wholeheartedly.
100 and so whenever that didn'twork out, we was like, okay,
whatever that's supposed to looklike.

Speaker 2 (25:28):
So I think a key to this seeing the signs is
trusting in your own higher selfor your spiritual guidance,
because a lot of times, peoplewill see the signs and they'll
be like why would I waste mytime doing that?
Or I've already done thatbefore, or you don't know, maybe
you're going to have a newexperience within the same
experience, or it's somethingthat your guidance is going to

(25:52):
open doors for you, right?
Get you from point A to point B,you have to be able to trust
yourself and trust your higherself and trust your spiritual
leader and whoever that is, God,whoever- you have to be able to
trust, because we are taught,like you said earlier, by
society to seeing as believing,and then when you go to church
on Sunday, they teach you tohave faith.

(26:16):
By what is it?
How's that verse go?
You have faith by, or youbelieve in God through faith,
not by sight, and so it's aconfusing little bit of a
conflicting belief system thatyou get taught.

Speaker 1 (26:34):
It's definitely a double belief when you're
running both those programs.
You trust through faith, not bysight.
That's the verse.

Speaker 2 (26:41):
And that's where the trip up comes in it could be
definitely, Because that's twototally different perspectives.
On the same item, same topicRight and it could affect a lot
of different things.
It can, and so trusting in yourhigher self.

Speaker 1 (26:56):
Yeah, I mean I think that on this topic and our own
personal life example, just agood reminder of stop and listen
to the spam.
The spam program and just belighthearted about it and if
it's nudging you to go and lookat this thing that you feel like

(27:19):
is even outside of what youhave a perspective of being able
to afford, even just take a funlittle journey quickly and and
and go in that direction for aminute and see what happens.

Speaker 2 (27:30):
That's exactly what happened to me yesterday.
Yeah, it was one point that Iwas thinking it was like a
million dollars.

Speaker 1 (27:35):
I'm like I can afford that and then it was fun to
look at it, yeah.

Speaker 2 (27:39):
And he gave me a number that we can afford what.
Where did?
Gave me a number that we canafford what.
What did that?
You know that was.
That's a prime example of that.

Speaker 1 (27:46):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (27:47):
It's trusting.
This went through the processand something told me to go in
there and ask what the price wasRight, and so I did.

Speaker 1 (27:52):
Yeah, yeah, I mean that was higher self saying okay
.
I'm going to surprise you now,little boy go see what the price
is, so that I can show you themagnificence of where I'm trying
to take you.

Speaker 2 (28:05):
Yeah, it's kind of great.
It was really cool.
I mean this thing is awesome.
But it's awesome New, it's gotair leveling air ride.
All you do is hook up the poopline and electronically dumps
the tanks for you.
It's like insane.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
Disembarking poop.
Now, please stand.

Speaker 2 (28:22):
They don Disembarking poop now.
Please stand by Don't justdisembark it pulverizes
everything, combines the tanks,cleans them, leans the coach and
then pumps it uphill.

Speaker 1 (28:32):
Right, it's a whole coach.
That's AI.
Will it drive itself?

Speaker 2 (28:37):
Almost, I know right.
It's got electronic steering init and it's got lane mitigation
and everything.
Yeah, it's got lane mitigationand everything.
Yeah, it's got 360 degreecameras.
One of them comes with.

Speaker 1 (28:47):
Rosie, the little robot from.

Speaker 2 (28:50):
It does have a vacuum .
That will make the bed andstuff.
It would be nice it does.
It's got a walk-in closet in it.

Speaker 1 (28:57):
It's a vacuum in the wall, all you gotta do is just
sweep the crap to the little.

Speaker 2 (29:01):
And it does have a thing to a normal thing you hook
up yeah that's pretty cool.

Speaker 1 (29:05):
It's got some pretty major features that are amazing
got theater seating yeah it'sgot a walk-in closet it does.
I am eyeballing that closet.
You know me in closet space manyeah, it's pretty nice it is,
the closet is beautiful.

Speaker 2 (29:22):
Italian white leather .

Speaker 1 (29:24):
Yeah, marble flooring , marble flooring, yeah, pretty
elegant.

Speaker 2 (29:29):
It's got all LED lighting.
Oh, the coolest part is theunderbelly.
It's air conditioned, it'sclimate controlled.

Speaker 1 (29:36):
Climate controlled underbelly, even humidity.

Speaker 2 (29:38):
Yeah, that's insanity .

Speaker 1 (29:41):
You could literally stow away under there.

Speaker 2 (29:44):
Got an automatic under bed.
Two knocks means.

Speaker 1 (29:47):
I'm hot.

Speaker 2 (29:48):
One knock means I'm cold.

Speaker 1 (29:50):
Three knocks means I'm hungry, send food.

Speaker 2 (29:55):
They got automatic tray system in it too.
You open the door and you pushthe button in the tray.
It slides out, Right?
I'm just like, yeah, this islike the best of the best it is.

Speaker 1 (30:07):
It's an amazing piece , for sure.

Speaker 2 (30:09):
It would be amazingly fun to play with yeah, and
seeing it's got that eight, it'sgot air leveling, automatic air
leveling yeah, with the airbagswith the airbags, or you can
use the eight hydraulic jacksystem, yeah, and you can
actually lift the entire unitoff the ground with that system.
Yeah, if you need to changetires, rotate tires, whatever

(30:31):
which I wouldn't be doing that,I'd pay somebody to do it, but
because those things are heavy,yeah, those are heavy, heavy

(30:57):
tires, air brakes.

Speaker 1 (30:57):
Good topic though Seeing the signs.
The way that we go about that isgiving space for each other to
have the human moment, talkingabout it, so that you give the
energy circuit a place to makethat whole circuit ground out,
get rid of that energy, so thatyou can actually see and embrace

(31:21):
the true story.
Yeah, and embrace the truestory, because essentially I was
creating some crap that wasbasically just a lie and it was
just kind of hanging out inthere and I didn't really even
know it was there.
It was kind of that next layerleftover garbage about some
topics that I thought werecleaned up and gone.
And that conversation broughtthose up and I was able to

(31:45):
communicate about it and free upthe energy, give it back to the
universe to process and putbetter things in place that are
aligned with what we now are.

Speaker 2 (31:59):
You put your hair up under your hat.

Speaker 1 (32:01):
Yeah, and go to work.

Speaker 2 (32:04):
Went in to ask him why.

Speaker 1 (32:07):
I don't know what that is.

Speaker 2 (32:09):
Long hair freaky people Need not apply.

Speaker 1 (32:13):
Oh, the signs.
Okay, I'm with you.
Now the song.

Speaker 2 (32:17):
So I put my hair up under my hat and I went in to
ask him why.

Speaker 1 (32:22):
Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (32:23):
So every now and then you got to put your hair up
under your hat and just go askthat's right, just go follow the
signs.

Speaker 1 (32:29):
Or leave your hair down.

Speaker 2 (32:31):
Sometimes it's fun to pull it out afterwards.

Speaker 1 (32:33):
The hair.

Speaker 2 (32:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (32:35):
Like out of its follicle Under the hair when
you're bald.

Speaker 2 (32:38):
Under the hair, under the hat.
I mean, he put his hair upunder his hat and he went in to
ask him why, and so after theend of it he pulls his hair back
out of his hat.

Speaker 1 (32:46):
Oh cause, long hair wasn't acceptable.

Speaker 2 (32:48):
That's right.
Long hair freaky people neednot apply.

Speaker 1 (32:51):
Oh, I gotcha.

Speaker 2 (32:54):
It's the signs, man.
Yeah, it's the signs, though.

Speaker 1 (32:57):
Yeah, yeah.
So take those, take thoseexperiences out of your spam
folder and investigate them.

Speaker 2 (33:04):
Yeah, totally, you know, just be open-minded to it.
And you know even the urges tosometimes just go ask questions
or whatever those are.
That's all signs to dosomething.

Speaker 1 (33:13):
Yeah, and you know, just to plug the Merck Center
and kind of what I do as aholistic coach.
That's what I do.
Is I listen to you?

Speaker 2 (33:24):
Here's your sign.
Conversate.
Here's your sign.
Call her.

Speaker 1 (33:27):
And yeah, Plug in that Merck Center.

Speaker 2 (33:32):
I'm open.

Speaker 1 (33:32):
I'm ready for clients .
New clients Got spots available, but that's what I do is.

Speaker 2 (33:39):
And so do I.

Speaker 1 (33:40):
Go Right Okay.

Speaker 2 (33:42):
I'm obviously not supposed to plug.
No go, no plug, Plug away.

Speaker 1 (33:46):
I was just jumping into yeah, I wanted to jump in
Interrupting you.

Speaker 2 (33:50):
How rude.
I am not a cow, you're stilldoing it.
I am not a cow.
How rude.
Okay, I'll sit up and look thisway.

Speaker 1 (34:00):
Anyway, good podcast, good topic.

Speaker 2 (34:04):
Yeah, it is a good topic Watch for the signs.
And I'll finish it, since shewants to be upset with me.

Speaker 1 (34:12):
I'm not upset.

Speaker 2 (34:13):
I'm an interrupting cow.

Speaker 1 (34:14):
If it was meant for me to say it, it would have been
a little easier to say it.
I see the signs.

Speaker 2 (34:19):
I'm utterly disgusted With what?
Because I'm an interrupting cow.

Speaker 1 (34:26):
What is there to be disgusted about Cows are?

Speaker 2 (34:29):
cute.
I'm utterly disgusted.

Speaker 1 (34:30):
There's a new whole series of cow art, you didn't
hear my joke.
I'm utterly disgusted, it wentin my spam folder.

Speaker 2 (34:41):
Apparently, apparently, because I'm utterly
disgusted Because I wasmuttering.
Okay well, move on.
So you know, this is kind of afun podcast.
I'm kind of enjoying this one,kind of enjoying it, the sounds,

(35:09):
peaceful, quietness, just enjoyit.

Speaker 1 (35:13):
If you're driving, you might want to tap yourself
on the head to wake back up.

Speaker 2 (35:19):
No, this is good.

Speaker 1 (35:21):
You're putting people to sleep.

Speaker 2 (35:22):
No, not at all.

Speaker 1 (35:24):
Because there's crickets.
Oh, because of the cricketsyeah people may be listening to
this to get them through theirlast eight-hour stint of driving
on their Eight-hour stint Holycow.
To their vacation spot and theygot that last eight-hour run to
go and they're looking forsomething to pep them up and get

(35:44):
them going and do the last legof the journey so they can get
there and vacation.

Speaker 2 (35:49):
That's what the signs are for when you go down the
road.
Read the signs.

Speaker 1 (35:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (35:55):
Signs, signs, everywhere, the signs Right, and
so, anyway, when the signs comeinto your reality and you and
you pay, start paying moreattention to them.
The more you allow yourself tobe open, the more they're going
to come.
And do you agree with that?

Speaker 1 (36:10):
Absolutely.
Yeah Well, it's a vibration,it's a frequency.

Speaker 2 (36:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (36:15):
And so if you start teaching yourself the habit of
stopping and listening, then thefrequency of that is okay,
they're going to listen.
Let's give them more of that.
It's a frequency, and so ifyou're aligned with the
frequency of listening to thesigns following the breadcrumbs,

(36:43):
then that puts you in thatcurious, excited, exploratory
frequency.
And so therefore, more of thoseclues will come in and come at
you and be provided and itbecomes very fun, Kind of like
hunting Easter eggs at Easter.
It's very fun.

Speaker 2 (36:55):
Very fun.

Speaker 1 (36:56):
Never know what you're going to find.

Speaker 2 (36:57):
Yeah, sometimes those eggs have cool things in them.

Speaker 1 (36:59):
Yeah, the golden egg with the prize.

Speaker 2 (37:03):
Got the money in it Always right.
Our golden egg growing up,never mind, Ours always had
money in it.
Yeah, we never had money eggs.

Speaker 1 (37:14):
You never had money.

Speaker 2 (37:15):
Only when we went to other people's.

Speaker 1 (37:17):
Wow, we used to eat them.
Ours always had big money in it.

Speaker 2 (37:20):
No, I always knew that we didn't find all our eggs
, because all of our eggs werereal and they were hard-boiled
and we colored them with regularfood coloring.
There were one egg and then twoweeks later, when I was mowing
the lawn, I'd find them.

Speaker 1 (37:34):
And it was stinky.

Speaker 2 (37:35):
Oh my God, it's the most rotten smell you ever
smelled in your life.
When you're out there in theheat for two weeks.

Speaker 1 (37:42):
Oh yeah, that's the smell you'll never forget.

Speaker 2 (37:45):
Yeah, it's kind of like finding the dead bodies.

Speaker 1 (37:49):
Oh my God, so morbid.

Speaker 2 (37:51):
It's a sign.

Speaker 1 (37:53):
A sign of what.

Speaker 2 (37:54):
The smell.
Here's a sign, a sign of whatthe smell.
Here's a sign that a lot ofpeople don't think about.
Have you ever been cravingsomething and then you suddenly
start smelling it?
Have you ever done that?
That happened to me the daybefore yesterday.
That's how my body goes.

Speaker 1 (38:13):
I mean, that's how I maneuver my eating is that my
body will have me crave, as youcall it, a particular kind of
food, because it has logged thatthis particular kind of food
will provide the variousnutrients that my body needs at

(38:34):
that time.
And so then, yes, I will evengo into a place where not only
can I smell it, but I can tasteit.
I can identify exactly what itis.
And at this point I've beendoing it for so many years.
If I'm craving, for instance,blackened mahi, I can go even

(38:57):
deeper and usually I can figureout by being able to smell it or
even taste what in that mixtureexactly my body is needing.
And it may be the paprikacomponent of it.
And then I look up paprika andit does blah, blah, blah and I'm

(39:17):
like, oh yeah, because I'mgoing through a little
experience of needing exactlythose components just to
validate.
And it's every time,consistently, without fail.

Speaker 2 (39:28):
That happened to me the other day.

Speaker 1 (39:29):
It's pretty cool.

Speaker 2 (39:30):
First got up, I was like I don't like cinnamon rolls
.
And then I walk out and I smellcinnamon and then the chef is
actually making cinnamon bread.
I'm like score.
So I went and got a piece ofcinnamon bread and two glasses
of milk.

Speaker 1 (39:48):
And the day was perfect.

Speaker 2 (39:50):
The morning started out pretty good yeah.

Speaker 1 (39:53):
Just the signs.
Nicely, nicely, I smelted it,so pay attention to pretty good,
yeah, just the signs.

Speaker 2 (39:56):
Nicely, nicely done.
I smelted it.
So pay attention to your signs,guys.
That's really.
You know, this is not a reallong podcast, but I think I feel
pretty good about it, yeahcheck that spam folder of life,
man Always follow up Get thosesigns out, because you know how
does that happen.

Speaker 1 (40:12):
We're conditioned.
We're conditioned to stay ontask, stay on target, stay on
goal and if you're processingthose little signs, or the lack
thereof, not processing them,and they're just noise wishing
rabbi Noise yeah.
If you've got them defined asthey're just not purposeful

(40:37):
noise, they'll go right intothat spam folder and you'll be
clueless and it'll be like oneof those situations where you
walk in and it's like you didn'tread the room.
Chuck.

Speaker 2 (40:48):
Right.

Speaker 1 (40:49):
And you start talking about something that is.

Speaker 2 (40:51):
Because you know what happened, not for the room you
don't have a sign.
Come in and your human willactually send your sign over to
the junk mail.

Speaker 1 (40:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (41:00):
And it interferes.
With it.
So check that junk mail, checkthis PAM.

Speaker 1 (41:03):
Yeah, being aware, I think, is always the first key
to any of this, I agree.
Making yourself consciouslyaware.
I agree, consciously aware, Iagree Because that unawareness
state is what we've been taughtto live life through that
unawareness, and so just gettingin the habit and practicing

(41:24):
being aware.

Speaker 2 (41:25):
What does underwear have to do with it?

Speaker 1 (41:28):
I didn't say underwear, unless it gives you
confidence to wear your underoosyou said underwear, it is yeah
anyway, your superhero underwearprobably gives you confidence,
man, that that superman underoos.

Speaker 2 (41:46):
I used to fly around the house like I was really
clark kent yeah I'd slick myhair back with Vaseline.

Speaker 1 (41:57):
Dad, come at Jimmy.
Where's my Vaseline?
I need to put it on my corns.
Is that what your mom said?

Speaker 2 (42:04):
No, they'd get mad, because then?

Speaker 1 (42:05):
I'd go wash it out and it got all over the bathtub.
Back in the day, my grandmotherused to put Vaseline on
everything that, or use somecream.

Speaker 2 (42:15):
Yeah, I mean my dad and my uncle used to put
Vaseline on everything that oruse some cream.
Yeah, I mean my dad and myuncle used to use Vaseline too.

Speaker 1 (42:18):
My lips are chapped.
Here have some Vaseline.

Speaker 2 (42:20):
Yeah, it's kind of like that Windex on that movie.

Speaker 1 (42:23):
Or you go out to the shop and granddad's putting
Vaseline on some part to greaseit up.

Speaker 2 (42:30):
What are you walking on your granddad doing?
No, not a part.
Oh, oh.

Speaker 1 (42:39):
Oh my God, TMI.
I don't even want to know thatvisual no like if he's trying to
get the cog to work with thecomponent on a metal feature, he
would use Vaseline to grease itup.

Speaker 2 (42:58):
Yours.

Speaker 1 (42:58):
I'm just digging yeah , you're digging right into that
hole, yeah I'm like grandpagreasing his cog oh my god,
you're so bad, you can do it.
You did it you said it.

Speaker 2 (43:11):
I'm just telling you what you said and you're making
it fit right in there.

Speaker 1 (43:15):
You can take things and go in such directions that
are, oh my heavens Okay, grandpa, he's laughing his ass off for
sure, hey guys we appreciate youall listening to us and

(43:35):
laughing with us.
For sure.

Speaker 2 (43:38):
You know we have a website, wwwthemerccentersorg,
that's M-E-R-C-C-E-N-T-E-R-S,and that's where you can find
out more about us and what we do, and you can call that phone
number that's up there under theContact Us tab and book an
appointment for either one of us.
Um, we do.

(43:58):
We are accepting new clientsand it can can have the Merck
experience.
The Merck experience is greatand you see us on social media
as well, and that's at the Merckcenters.

Speaker 1 (44:12):
Um, I saw a thing on Facebook.
Mind you, I don't know how towork Facebook, but I saw a thing
on Facebook.
Mind you, I don't know how towork Facebook, but I saw a
little tag that said somethingabout 44,000 posts and that
we're in some new category.

Speaker 2 (44:27):
Oh, we are.
I have to look.
I don't know, maybe we've had44,000 views.

Speaker 1 (44:31):
Maybe you need to have a celebration or a party.

Speaker 2 (44:34):
Maybe 44,000 views.
I we need to have a celebrationor a party, maybe 44,000 views
is pretty good.

Speaker 1 (44:38):
I may be interpreting it incorrectly, though.

Speaker 2 (44:39):
I don't know how to work Facebook.
Maybe I'll have to look and seethat's your area of expertise.
I'll have to look and see.
We have a social media lady forthat.

Speaker 1 (44:48):
We do.
She's amazing.

Speaker 2 (44:50):
She is.

Speaker 1 (44:53):
She is for hire.
She is a freelance and takesclients herself, so her name is
chloe.
If you want some informationabout what she does, you can
reach out to us and we'll shareher info.

Speaker 2 (45:07):
She's amazing yes, she is all right.
Uh, don't forget to like,follow and share.

Speaker 1 (45:14):
And ring that bell, because what?
Ring that bell.
Isn't there a song aboutringing the bell?

Speaker 2 (45:21):
Ringing the bell.
That was a good show.

Speaker 1 (45:25):
It was a pop song.

Speaker 2 (45:27):
There was.

Speaker 1 (45:28):
Ring my bell, oh my.
Ring my bell.

Speaker 2 (45:31):
All right, y'all have an awesome day.
Ring my bell.
All right, y'all have anawesome day.
Ring my bell.

Speaker 1 (45:42):
Love you.
We'll see you next time.
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