December 4, 2024 • 45 mins
Guess who's back? We are back! The episode you never knew you needed, or is it? LOL Happy Thanksgiving! In this episode we discuss upcoming events and some awesome parties just around the corner, What's your plan for NYE? You should join us down in San Diego at the Plush party! We are going to be doing some podcasting from this event so let us know if you're coming!
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Yes, I was born ready.
Welcome back everybody.
We are the Sweet Side of Life podcast, all the way from Southern California.
What are you looking at?
The computer to make sure it's recording.
I'm looking for waveforms to make sure that all tracks have been engaged.
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Interesting.
Yes.
So anyways, it's been a minute.
Yeah, I feel like it's been forever.
It's been like two and a half weeks, I think.
But we've been busy.
We got the Thanksgiving thing that just happened.
Happy Thanksgiving, everybody.
I hope you ate all the turkeys.
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We were going to try to do an episode just before Thanksgiving, but it didn't work out.
And then we were going to try to do an episode hitting the streets with the sweets.
Wow.
At Thanksgiving.
At Thanksgiving vacation.
That didn't work out.
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So we're here.
It's Tuesday, December 3rd.
Welcome back.
And now you want to be lame.
I want to be lame.
You want to be lame.
That's what you told me earlier.
No.
Tonight we're going to do a catch-up life update.
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We've got some things coming up, some things going on, some things have happened.
And I'm tired.
We need to figure out a better way of recording these.
Instead of trying to record these at 10, 11 o'clock at night when I'm tired.
Yeah, we could just do midday cocktails.
In the middle of work.
I'm down.
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When I'm at work and I'm listening to someone else's podcast and I get like...
You have so much energy to do it.
I get it.
You're biggerated.
I'm like, okay, cool, cool.
And you come home and I tell you, all right, tonight's the night.
You know, fasten in, baby.
Tonight's the night.
And then like the hour start ticking and then all of a sudden it's 10.
I'm like...
90.
And you're like, you said we were going to do it.
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90 knots.
So we're here.
We just make sure you all didn't forget about us.
We are Mr....
We didn't forget about you.
We didn't.
So quick recap.
Cheers.
Yeah, that's...
I always forget that.
Cheers, my love.
Come on, bring it in.
Cheers.
And your drink is AI created.
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It's...
What was it called?
The tropical...
I don't remember.
But you put it into chat GPT.
You're all about that lately.
So yes, let me see.
Let me see what this fucking thing called.
Tropical Breeze cocktail.
So it's nothing fancy.
So you can put...
What did you do in chat GPT to get your drink?
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I said, make me a cocktail using these ingredients.
So it just put all your ingredients in a cocktail?
It's...
I mean, it sounds...
Yeah.
It gave it a name.
So you're like...
Make a drink making a Sprite, Malamoo and vodka.
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And it's all, okay.
Put it in the cocktails.
Sprite, Malamoo and vodka.
And then call it a tropical, what?
Tropical Breeze.
Babe, I don't know.
So for those that have...
And they say AI is going to take over the world.
I disagree.
One drink at a time.
For those of you that have been listening from the get go and to those of you that are
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fairly new.
When we first started off this podcast, I mean, it still is a drinking podcast.
We still get drunk.
I mean, the last episode, I think we were pretty drunk because I was like slurring a
lot.
Really?
Yeah.
When I was listening back at the edit, like the next morning, I'm like, ooh.
But hey, that's what we do.
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So but anyways, when we first started this, we keep track, we try to do a different cocktail
every single podcast.
And it initially started with like, you know, very crazy cocktails, very tiki-tastic.
Very common cocktails.
And we've kept them on our little notepad.
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We kept a list.
So I mean, it started, you know, we had everything from painkillers, mehanas, woo-woo's, rum
runners, fat hookers, Jamaican me crazies, sand in your shorts, a WAP, liquid, novocaine,
console tickler.
These are all drinks that we've been making.
So we're starting to run out of cocktails.
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So first of all, text us if you have a good cocktail we should try.
Give us a recipe.
Yeah.
If you guys have a good cocktail, it can be anything like, you know, we have a.
You're a typically, you know what, I actually just realized I actually haven't done a whiskey
sour.
No.
No, it's not listed.
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I'm not sure.
Hmm.
Interesting.
I did a lemon cello whiskey sour.
Oh, yeah.
Not a regular whiskey sour.
Okay.
Anyway, um, we, what was I saying?
Well, you interrupted me.
Oh yeah.
No.
Well, yeah, of course I did, but we will accept your recipes.
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Oh, what I was going to say is you're typically a clear liquor type of guy, but no tequila.
I don't do tequila.
Yeah, but you'll do vodka, rum, you'll do gin, like some gins.
If it's not the base of the main thing.
Um, and then I, I'm just balls out.
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Like I will do any, I will do anything.
You're like, yeah, I will do anything.
Did you hear that beard?
Shout out to beard.
I will do anything.
So yeah.
So tonight I'm drinking the tropical breeze, which is just a lot of Malibu rum and sprite.
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And you are drinking a shower.
No, a whiskey sour.
I thought I had already, it wasn't Buffalo though.
Oh yeah.
It was bourbon.
I thought I had already done a whiskey sour and I thought I was being lame, but I'm not.
You're still being lame.
Look at me.
Um, but actually this one I made, I was, I was actually going to point out the, I thought
I already did a whiskey sour.
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So I was going to point out the fact that I, that it was a little bit different because
what I do with this one was I did half like a, like a low, like a nonch, like a fake sugar
and then a regular syrup.
Oh yeah.
It's okay.
But, um, I prefer regular simple syrup, but the calories in it don't prefer me.
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Um, so yeah, my drink is a, I prefer Buffalo trace, but I got the Costco bourbon recently
and it's not bad.
No.
Um, you said you couldn't really taste too much of a difference.
Yeah, I didn't taste too much of a difference.
So it's that it's the Costco one actually.
And then, um, lemon juice.
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I do a kind of traditional, traditional lemon juice.
And then the simple syrup.
There you go.
So this time I did like half and half simple syrup.
I did like half actual sugar simple syrup and half non, which is, I'm sure everybody
listening is very enthralled with eight minutes in and six minutes of that.
And I've already put them to sleep.
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You're talking about the choice of simple.
So anyways, um, our text number is 951-226-5261.
You can shoot us a text there and you can also call and leave a voicemail.
Um, if you shoot a text, there's a good chance I'll text you back.
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I will not call you back.
If you want to send us a cocktail recipe though, text it.
It'll be way easier than us trying to listen to the decipher voicemail over and over again.
But speaking of voicemail, so we did receive a voicemail the other day.
Where is it?
Oh, oh, it was somebody who just like hung up, right?
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Like said, like something and then they, they, they called and you heard like he kind of
grunted or something.
And then you heard him clear his throat.
Like he was getting ready to say something.
I don't know if, if he was confused by the beep, but he, he said belly and then hung up.
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It was just like belly hung up.
It was the weirdest thing.
And I'm like, I showed it to you and I'm trying to make sense of it.
So if you're belly out there, um, call back and leave us the rest of the message.
Your phone number was.
You did give some good texts though.
Yeah, I got, I got more boobies.
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You got more boobies with liquor, right?
She took a picture with her covering all of her spots.
Some friends of ours, they were doing a throwback on from our podcast.
We were talking about our crown royal whiskies and they had just gotten a peach and a salted
caramel and they were holding or she was holding them over some of her bits, but some of her
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bits were sneaking out.
And I saw some of her bits and I liked her bits.
So thank you.
Something else we like is those small, small, really small fireball things.
So if you want to try to take another picture with very tiny,
with one of those, please, mini fireball.
Um, uh, but yes, that was our phone number.
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I'll read it out to you one more guys, one more time.
Just so it's also in our, in our show links, 951-226-5261.
That's our sweet side of life podcast for all you sweetums out there.
And um, uh, you can also reach us at the sweet life, the sweet side of life podcast at outlook.com.
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So got all that out of the way.
You know what I was thinking last night?
I'm sure it's, it is.
I was thinking I should do, cause I know you said you wanted to do like a, uh, like if
you're new to lifestyle type of podcast, like to say like what to get, what to do, etc, etc.
Which was an idea suggested by the couple.
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Oh yeah.
So one of the couples hadn't recommended that as a podcast, which we can do.
Shout out.
Um, but I was thinking what might be better.
And like I could put on a tick talk is, but I mean, I'm like, can I put, okay, anyway,
let me just tell you, and then I can give you my, please finish the thought.
Yeah.
So squirrel, um, is doing a tick talk, but showing like our party bag and like what we
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carry in it and what we have.
Well, you know, we could actually do, we could do a, a simul kind of thing.
Cause hold on.
I got the, we have a, uh, we just got a, um, uh, new iPad that we're going to utilize
for our remote, um, interviews.
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And I got like an iPad mount for our studio.
So now what we can do is record a podcast with that recording and then put them on both,
both a tick talk and you know what I mean?
So you'll get the audio and then you also see us going through the, the whole thing.
So it'll be the same thing, just a video version and audio version shortened obviously
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for tick talk.
What?
Are you, you want to do a whole podcast and I don't understand.
Okay.
Let's break this down.
I'm going to have an iPad here.
Yeah.
And we're going to be sitting here in the podcast.
We're going to just sit here and talk about items in our bag.
We're going to go through our bag and we're going to make it.
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Yes.
It's going to be a video and audio.
You know what?
Just went in my brain.
It's not my bag, baby.
It's not my bag, baby.
So when we released a tick talk, it'll just be the little two to, you know, two to three
minute of the video of the thing.
Cause obviously during that, we can't, you know, say anything.
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Yeah.
So what I was, yeah, exactly.
You can't.
And then what I was wondering though, which this is my side thought, a squirrel thought
was, can I even put like, can you put a vibrator on tick talk?
I don't think so.
What if I call it a massager?
Personal massager.
Yeah.
Um, it look, it's actually on Amazon is advertised as a personal massager.
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Cause I was looking for one when it broke and I was like vibrator.
I was like searching and I'm like, I know we've purchased this before.
And then I finally was like, Oh yeah, it was personal massager.
And that's where we found it.
And that's what I found.
Yeah, I was looking for all the things and I couldn't.
I will say out of all the, the, uh, it doesn't look like a podcast.
Um, tick tocks I follow.
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I don't feel like I've ever seen a physical represent vibrator.
But it doesn't look like a dick.
It doesn't.
Um, so I don't know.
We can, we can play with it and get banned.
We can play with it.
Wow.
Wow.
Definitely can't do that.
So, but yeah, we had definitely massage your shoulders with it.
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Okay.
You know what?
I think that'll be funny.
It'll be worth getting banned.
Let's do it.
So anyways, so yes.
I'll give you a head massage with it.
Add some music in the background.
Don't.
Don't.
Don't.
Don't.
Don't.
Don't.
Speaking of music.
Okay.
Uh, the swing nation podcast.
Um, I think it's a good idea.
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Speaking of music, okay, uh, the swing nation podcast, um, if you haven't listened to, they're
like one of the OG ones.
I definitely recommend it.
Look it up swing nation.
But anyways, um, a couple of episodes ago, we talked about how I had a jingle that they
used on the Tuesday talks.
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And my jingle actually stayed their jingle for about three to four weeks.
However, today my jingle was replaced by AI.
Um, and it was actually a pretty cool jingle and it was like, sounded like really well
produced.
I was like, okay, I got some competition.
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And then they later revealed that it was AI.
So week.
I, yeah.
You actually recorded your guitar.
I did it all.
Your drums.
But you know what?
It's driving me.
I'm, uh, I was already working on one version, but now I changed my mind.
I'm going to do another one and I'm going to try to beat the AI.
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So I have some ideas.
I think I might be able to get back up on top there, but competition drives me.
So ladies and gentlemen.
Did you hear that ladies?
It is on.
So hopefully here in the next week or so I should have another, uh, another Tuesday talk
jingle going, but anyways, um, let me see what else that I want to discuss here.
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Um, so it is December 3rd.
Yes.
What are we doing this weekend?
We're doing a date night.
We have a date night going on.
That's right.
Saturday night.
We have a date night.
Could be vanilla.
It could get crazy.
But the most vanilla date nights end up to be the crazy ones.
Yes.
Um, I did originally have a gang bang on the calendar.
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He did gang bang cream pie on the calendar.
And I knew that wasn't true.
So I deleted it.
Rude.
Sadly.
Wow.
So you went from a gang bang to a gang bang cream pie.
Is there a difference?
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Oh yeah, there is.
A huge difference.
You're face.
Come shots all around.
So yes, there's a big, quite, quite a big difference.
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So um, so yeah, we got a date night and then, uh, but what else is going on Saturday that
we are unfortunately not able to go to, but I'm going to go ahead and plug them on the
set.
Oh, oh, uh, San B.
Yeah.
If you guys listened to our last podcast we talked about, we went to our first San B
party in San Bernardino.
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Well, they're having another one on the seventh.
So if you win the San Bernardino area, check it out on Cassidy.
They had a really good setup as we spoke about last time we were on and stuff your stocking
party.
I think I would wear this one.
Yeah.
How would you dress for that?
If we were to go, how would you dress for that?
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You would stuff, you'd wear a noran's stuff it?
I didn't even think about it, but possibly I think I would wear what I'm wearing to the
other party we're going to.
What is stuff you're stocking for a girl though?
What would I do?
I think it's just a play on Christmas.
I don't think it's an actual like stuff, something.
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I think you're digging way too deep on this theme.
Because I don't really have a lot of places to stuff.
No.
My tits are already big.
My ass is big.
And I really don't want to look like I have a dick.
So I'm really confused by the theme.
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I think you're overthinking the theme.
Kind of like.
What did they put on their ideas?
No, I didn't even just Christmas stuff.
Okay, you were taking this away.
All I literally want to know.
Go look at the fucking event then.
All I wanted to do was advertise the party for them a little bit.
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Beyond that, I know zero details.
So if you guys are interested, check it out.
The Sanby, I think it's just a Sanby community on Cassidy.
For some reason, you can't find it.
You can always shoot me a text and I can give you the direct link to it.
Or message us or whatever.
Speaking of Cassidy, on Cassidy, we also have a community there.
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If you search for the sweet side of life, it will take you to our community.
And join up there as a member.
And then from that page, you can actually see what our Cassidy profile name is.
And that is Top Secret.
So you guys want to find out what it is.
You can actually just join that community and you should be able to figure it out at
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that point.
So what else do we have coming up?
We have date night.
Date night.
And we have a private party next weekend.
Yes, what, the 14th, right?
The 14th.
That is a LS party.
An LS private party.
It's a Kinky Santa party.
But that is a private invite only.
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So we're not going to give any details on that.
But if you are in the Southern California area and you are looking for a party that
is not private, there are lots going on that night.
There's a shit ton that night.
One that we've previously gone to and you've previously done the music for.
But for this one, because we're going to a different party, but is the LS party.
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DTF community.
DTF community.
So if you're...
It's always a fun party.
In the area.
And I'll tell you guys, we weren't at the last one either, but we heard that one got
cray.
It turned into an orgy.
Something like that.
So...
Yeah, everyone was too cold outside.
So everyone came inside and then...
And then we did it.
Everybody got so hot that they took their clothes off.
So I mean, it makes sense.
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Yeah.
So yeah, that's also going on the 14th.
DTF community.
Swing hearts, right?
Swing hearts is having a party.
On the 14th.
There's a lot of parties on the 14th.
I think that was the day.
The avidas having a party.
People picked.
So there's another Vixen Playhouse.
Oh yeah.
You just showed me their video and there...
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I really feel like we need to figure out...
I know it'll be like an overnight thing because it's not close to us.
Super close.
It's driving distance, but not like...
Yeah.
Ubering distance.
And as you all know, we don't drink and drive.
So if it's not ubering distance, we stay the night.
So that one, we would have to do that.
But...
It's in the San Fernando Valley.
Yeah, Los Angeles area.
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You showed me a video and they have a really cool setup.
I would be really interested to go there.
I don't know when we can make it because we have a lot going on coming up, but...
I don't see that happening until...
March or April.
At best.
Yeah.
I keep saying everything's going to happen in March.
I just keep like...
I keep saying like over...
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Like every party, I'm like, oh, we probably won't make it back until March.
We probably won't make it back until March.
But then March, we're gone for two weeks.
I know.
That's what I'm saying, like I just keep saying that, but it's like wishful thinking because
we kind of have like so much shit going on.
But yeah, so we have that.
So we have...
So the 14th, if you need a party in your own Southern California, like you could throw
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a dart and find a fucking party.
Just...
There's a shit ton.
Yeah, there's a shit ton.
And then of course Christmas and all the things are going on.
I'm sure everybody's spending time with their families as we will be.
And then New Year's hits and it's like, fuck family, I'm going to party again.
Exactly.
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Speaking of that, New Year's, what are we doing on New Year's?
So we are doing, which we've already talked about like a bazillion times, but it's...
I wanted to bring it up for a special reason.
It was really fun.
We're doing plush parties, New Year's weekend.
So it's like three days.
Non-stop action.
Non-stop fun.
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Saturday, Sunday, Sunday.
No, it's more like Sunday, Monday, Tuesday.
Yes.
But so yeah, we're doing plush the whole weekend or a week, whatever, the whole holiday time.
We're going up on Sunday.
Yeah.
Sunday and then they're having a special pre-party Sunday night and then we're there on Monday,
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which they're having a daytime party and then another pre-party.
And then Sunday, they have a daytime party.
No, Tuesday.
Oh, Tuesday.
Tuesday, they have a daytime party and then the New Year's party.
Yeah, so it's going to be cray.
So here's the deal.
We are going to do our podcast from there.
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Are we?
I'm going to bring the mixer.
So what we did last time, we have a portable bar we like to take and whenever we go to
a hotel room, we always bring our...
Actually, I posted today on TikTok a video that showed kind of our portable bar a little
bit from when we were at Bia Vita.
So it was like a throwback to the summer, but it showed our you setting up our bar essentially
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at Bia Vita.
That's right.
So we are going to have that up in the room and then I'm also going to bring our podcast
set up.
So I figured if we talk to somebody that's interested and they want to run up to the room,
have a drink and then we can just do like a quick, you know, pa, pa, pa.
And then you remember...
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It's too loud in the main area.
Yeah, I was thinking about like taking like our travel mics and trying to do it, but
it's...
Maybe it's very distracting.
It is.
I mean, we could probably...
It was super crowded, but maybe on the patio.
I'm thinking we could probably take like our travel mics and then just kind of walk around
like, Hey, are you guys ready for...
Like that time, just a really quick hit, you know, not like an actual like interview.
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You have lots of thoughts and then we get drunk and then they don't happen.
I know.
I'm a thought master.
Yeah.
So, but so we could do that.
And then I was talking to you.
Remember the...
I'm not going to...
I'm not going to say his name, but the guy that said, if you guys ever want to interview
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me about my poly dynamic...
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
They're going to be there.
Yeah.
So I actually wrote them back today and I said, Hey, you know, I just...
Now I'd love to talk to you more about that.
And I said, maybe we can do an interview in the room.
And so that kind of got me thinking.
I'm like, well, maybe I could bring this.
Oh, yeah.
So they always do pre parties.
I don't think he said that he said they're not going to do it this year though.
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Yeah, that's right.
The pre party to the pre party, the pre party to the party after the pre party party to the
pre to the party.
So we might be able to sneak off and do something with him and I almost said him and his mate,
him and his partner.
So yeah, that could be interesting.
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And then so yeah, just got me thinking.
So if you guys are going to this party, shoot us a message, let us know and we'll make sure
that we meet up with you and maybe, you know, do an interview or something.
If you want to.
If you're interested enough.
Or if you want to.
Or if you want to.
Most people in the lifestyle are pretty interesting.
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And they also are normally pretty, I don't want to say secretive, but what's the word
I'm looking for?
Discrete.
Discrete.
But if you aren't and you want to talk a little bit, you don't ever say names though.
Yeah, we don't.
Well, you've obviously heard us.
Yeah.
We only mentioned names of people that say they want or we have nicknames for them and
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they may sound like real names, but they're probably not.
So anyways, so yeah, if you guys are going to that, definitely hit us up.
I know of a couple of couples, a couple of couples that are going.
Starlett and Vic, the ones that got me that awesome.
Oh, they're going.
They're going.
Beard and butt.
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Beard and butt are going.
Sam and Cole.
Sam and Cole are going.
Batman and cat.
Batman and cat are going.
I'm just going to repeat it.
Your memory is better.
I know.
So yeah, some of our friends that we've already had some, some actually we haven't had any
of them on our podcast.
We've actually not had anybody on our podcast.
So you talked.
Well, okay.
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We had Sam.
Sam and Cole.
We had a.
No, we had Sam on.
Yeah.
And then we had, um, no, we had Sam and Cole at the, the, the, the party.
Oh yeah.
Yeah.
We did Sam and Cole.
Sam was the say less.
Yeah.
That one where the girls went down on each other.
Um, so yeah.
And then, but anyways, we're just rambling.
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So yeah.
Well, that's what a podcast is.
If you guys are going to be there and you have any interest in, in meeting us, if we
don't already know you and, or if you want to be on the podcast, let us know and I can
kind of have an idea.
Are you going to post a whole thing about how to come and give us, get a hug?
Of course.
That's your thing.
Of course.
Yeah.
So yeah, have we talked about that?
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I don't think so.
So what I like to do anytime we're going to party, if I have, if, yeah, um, close your
ears, if you've already heard this, um, uh, earmuffs.
So what I like to do on the party RCP walls for like parties we're going to is I'll say
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like, if you see us and if you want to meet us, a catchphrase.
So I'll say like, come up and wink while saying, you know, what's a stupid dumb joke?
Like how's that cream pie treated in you or something?
This is, it's just a random phrase, but it's meant to be a, uh,
Um, icebreaker, icebreaker, which it works.
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It works a lot.
I've actually had some people say it's the best.
Like I feel like I come up and like say something stupid and I immediately meet you and it's
not awkward.
Yeah.
I mean, it's awkward as fuck.
Don't get me wrong, but it's always fun.
It's awkward.
So it's really cool.
It's awkward.
You know what the most awkward part is 99% of the time I don't know what the catchphrase
is.
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I don't know.
I'm never on Cassidy and I don't go to the events.
Like I go to the events that I don't go to the event pages, I never look at any of that
stuff.
So 99% of the time I don't know what the catchphrase is.
So someone will just come up to me and be like watermelon seeds and I'm like, what?
And then I, then it'll dawn on me like, Oh, this is probably the phrase that pays that
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I'm like hugs for this phrase or whatever.
So yeah, I will definitely have, uh, probably a different phrase for every day.
So yeah, let us know.
Um, see, was there anything else I want to talk about at New Year's Eve?
I don't think so.
I don't know.
But then after that, our January shot, January, family stuff, but then we were going to celebrate
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my birthday.
Yes.
That's right.
That's probably the next big thing, right?
Yeah.
So I think we might be able to get something in in January.
Like yeah, I'm sure we're going to, we're definitely going to have some, some event.
But nothing too crazy because in February, actually over Valentine's Day weekend, February
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14th through the 17th, we are going to Vegas.
This is going to be a, it's going to be a minute.
You want to know what the hold on before we talk about Vegas.
You want to know what the hold on, like you're the only one talking and you just stopped
yourself.
You don't want to know what the hold on because I was, we were talking about the Vixen place.
What was it called?
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They, oh yeah, Vixen Playhouse.
Vixen Playhouse.
And I didn't get to finish my thought about that.
And I just thought, rethought about it.
Continue.
So I do want to visit that place because you showed me a video.
I don't know if they had on YouTube or where it was.
It was on the internet.
It was a tour of their place and it looked like so well done.
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So nice.
Lighting was great.
The setup looked great.
They had rooms that like had windows where you could have like voyeurism, but then you
could close the curtains and if you wanted it to be private, like it was very, I don't
know, not transitional, but just like it could be anything for you.
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You know, they had like spanking rooms and they had a great lounge with the DJ area.
Yeah, they had like a really cool, yeah, exactly.
A really cool bar.
It looked like a professional lighting system.
Yeah, it looks really nice.
Stuff like that is what I'm interested in.
Do they, they were at Plesh last year, right?
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I believe they were, yes, yes they were.
Yeah, we were hanging out with them at the Playboy party.
They're the couple, she was a nurse and he had the, but hanging out at the party we went
to for Halloween, right?
Yeah.
Okay.
They must have staff then because they're, they list parties every Friday and Saturday
night, but I still see them at some stuff.
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Yeah, I don't, I don't know a hundred percent what, what it is.
I don't know if it's, if it's a venue, if it's a personal residence that they've transformed.
I don't know yet.
Next time we see them, I want to, I want to talk to them more because now that I've,
now that I've seen the setup, now I have questions because they sent us a personal
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invite to the grand opening, but I had told them, I think it's for the invite.
We definitely want to visit, but that weekend didn't work for us and they didn't want to
move the weekend.
So, selfish.
So, so yeah, definitely got to make it out there at some point.
Yeah.
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It's just, it's a, it's a trek for us.
Yeah.
So yeah, we'd have to do it overnight.
So again, that's why I'm like, I keep saying March, but you're right.
We do have like, we're gone for like two weeks in March too.
So, yeah.
Um, we're hopefully we can meet up with Carlos, your Latin lover.
My Latin lover Carlos.
I'm not going to say he's mine because he's definitely your Latin lover.
Yes.
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And Autumn, right?
Yes.
Yeah.
Autumn sins.
We're going to meet up with the sins hopefully because.
I don't think we will be able to, but I hope so.
If, if we, if we will, it's going to be only because they made it happen.
Yeah.
So basically what it is, is we are with my family and then we sail out of Miami on a
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cruise and we are going the day before the cruise to Miami.
Yeah.
And it's like a Tuesday.
Yeah.
It's a random day.
It's a, I don't know the date yet.
Yeah.
It is a Tuesday because the, the cruise goes out.
Yeah.
It's a what the cruise goes out on.
So they keep saying like, you know, we need to get the date from them from us and, and
I'm like, yeah, as I'm listening to them say it.
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You have the date.
I don't know what the date is.
It's the 26th of March.
26th of March.
Yeah.
Cause we, we cruise out on the 27th.
Are you sure?
I'm quite sure.
Let me see.
I mean, you can look at it.
26th of March is a Wednesday.
Okay.
So it's the 25th of March.
See, you didn't fucking know.
No, I think it is the 26th of March though.
We cruise out on a Thursday, maybe.
Uh, it says right here Wednesday, 311 cruise baby.
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So I would have to, anyways, it's, so it's either the 25th or the 26th, which is a Tuesday
or Wednesday.
Oh yeah.
So it's the 25th Tuesday of March.
And we're basically going to be in Miami from probably midday through the night.
We're going to be staying at a hotel.
But um, yeah, we're, we're basically getting to Miami so we can be ready for the cruise.
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So if you guys, Carlos my lad, lover, and like Burr Plays and Autumn Sins are able
to make it on that day, I mean, it's, it would be insane if you can cause they're like up
near Orlando and it's like a five hour drive.
Oh, seriously?
Seriously.
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Seriously.
Seriously.
So I understand there's like a train or something that can like get you there in a couple hours.
But again, um, if you guys are able to make it happen, fantastic, but that's a lot.
What about from where we're going to be with family is it's closer, right?
Two hours.
We're going further Orlando.
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Um, you know what actually, let me see Orlando to, cause maybe just one night, that's about
three hours, I think from Orlando to Fort Myers.
Maybe I don't know.
We'll figure it out.
We're like getting our like travel plans on, on air.
Shoot.
You know, if March and March and Florida, you know, maybe, hey, maybe we go to secrets
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on the 22nd.
Where is that?
Orlando.
Oh, we just, we can just kiss me, but it's like right by Orlando.
We just meet them and that's really close to them.
Oh, there we go.
And that's, but see Florida weather and March.
I wonder if secrets is going to be, anyways, we're getting ahead of ourselves.
So, so anyways, uh, yeah, like I have a friend in Orlando.
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I need to go visit for one night only.
My Latin lover, my Latin lover.
Um, anyway, okay.
We digress.
We have digressed like a mother fucker.
Okay.
So Vixen's Playhouse.
Yes.
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Do they have a Cassidy?
Um, I'm going to go on.
Do they have a page or group or a community?
I'm pretty sure we actually just joined the community.
Give me one second.
I was not ready for this.
Come on.
They have like cube lighting chairs.
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Yeah.
So if you go up on your community, actually you can go to www.vixenclub.com.
That'll take you to a website, which I'm assuming has links and all that stuff, but the community
is Vixen Playhouse on Cassidy.
So if you go into communities and look that up and, um, I wonder if she's ever there.
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I don't know.
I don't know.
So yeah, check it out.
It's, um, it looks like a dope place and we know the people running it and those are
dope people.
They're always fun.
So, yeah, super fun people.
I have no doubt it's going to be a blast.
Yeah.
So we will make it out there.
Just don't know when.
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Yes.
Um, but in February, what we were going to talk about was we're going to, um, for Valentine's
Day weekend and it's also President's Day weekend.
So a lot of people have multiple days off, which is why it worked out perfectly.
And it's the weekend after Super Bowl, so it's not the super extensive weekend.
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Yes.
It checks a lot of boxes.
Um, we're doing Vegas.
And we never, we haven't done Vegas for my birthday in a long time.
I feel like we go for your birthday, but my birthday being that it's in January again,
we're celebrating in February, but it's in January is not ideal Vegas time because you
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can't do bullshit.
However, however I was on Tik Tok or whatever I was on.
And of course, if you just say the word Vegas, your phone picks it up and all of a sudden
I'm getting all this Vegas shit, you know, so Marquis has a dome pool club.
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So basically they do bullshit all year long.
And I don't know, I was literally telling you this today.
I don't know why they're the only ones in Vegas that did this.
Vegas building the most extraordinary outlandish.
I mean, they have the fucking Eiffel Tower there.
They have the sphere.
But why is there only one place that thought, Hey, maybe I should put a freaking dome over
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my pool so we can use it all year round.
You're getting very upset.
It's just insane to me.
And why did I not think of it?
You're trying to read.
You're getting really upset.
It's just weird.
Cause I like, I was telling you earlier, I'm like, these clays places have these pools
that sit vacant.
Yes.
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They're the late part of October until May.
Yep.
That is wild.
Yes.
Yet Marquis thought, Hey, they figured it out.
If I put a freaking dome over it, it's kind of like the great woof lodge for adults.
Yeah.
Then I can do it all year long because I control the temperature inside.
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Mind blown.
So anyway, and they were going to do that one day because I was just like, what the heck?
There's a lot.
And because it's winter, they're doing like all these specials.
Like I looked it up and it was like for like VIP access, it was $100 a person.
However, you got $100 credit for booze and like drinks and food.
And I'm like, well, then it's free because I definitely am spending, we definitely spend
(40:38):
$100 in a day.
Well let's hope that there's other people that are as excited about this.
I know.
So we're not like the only ones there.
Yeah.
We're like, woohoo.
We got a pool.
Now I'm promoting it that weekend.
All right, everybody.
I know.
They do DJs and stuff.
I would imagine there's more than just us that would know about.
I mean, it's Vegas.
There's, yeah.
And I want to know how long was the dome there?
I don't know.
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I feel like I'm on a lot of TikToks for Vegas and this is the first time I've seen it.
I don't know.
That's probably been around for like 13 years.
Maybe.
I know Marquis has been around, but I don't know.
Maybe they just added the dome.
But it's genius.
So we have a whole bunch of things we can do out there.
This, we're talking about doing this on Sunday.
We have to check in with whispers because it will probably do a party there because
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they want us to come back in the summer and do our podcast.
Yeah.
They hit us up a couple of months ago and said, would you be interested in doing a live
podcast from the pool?
And I said, of course they said they have mics set up and we just basically hook up
with the DJ and yeah, just kind of do like a live deal.
So that'd be fun.
So I told her like, I definitely want to do it.
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I'll come check it out.
Like in the off season.
Yeah.
I'll do that.
So I haven't hit her back yet because I wasn't all sure about it, but yeah.
So we'll probably do a whispers.
I really want to check out Playhouse LV, but I don't know.
I mean, we're only going to be there for four days.
Playhouse and flirts.
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Yeah.
They're both same owners.
Well, flirts I don't think does anything during the summer or the winter because it's
a pool.
I don't think it's just a pool.
Do they do a club at night?
I think I still get stuff all about it.
Maybe.
Sure.
You would know better than I do.
You are right.
I thought it was just a pool, but maybe they just do pool parties, but they do clubs, a
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club at night too.
Yeah.
There's still doing events this weekend and so maybe I just yawned.
So maybe flirts because they're the ones that you can do the liquor.
Yeah.
Playhouse is the one where you, I don't know exactly their setup, but yeah.
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Flirts is the one.
It's BYOB.
Yeah.
So yeah, we have a lot of things to do and then of course we have my favorite strip club
to hit and drink as well.
It's not your birthday friend.
It's always my birthday anyways.
It's my birthday.
So yeah, and then we got the cruise in March.
You'll have to hit up your stripper another day.
I don't know how much time she has left.
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It's true.
But anyways, so it's been fun.
It's been real.
It's been real fun.
Your face.
Before we close this out, is there anything you'd like to say to the listeners?
I would like to say that I had every intention of talking about our beard and butt exhibition
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like a month and a half ago.
But you did not want to talk about it.
Your beard and butt and the dink couple.
Yes.
That sounds bad.
Mr. and Mrs. dink.
The dinkies.
We will get there.
But you lameed out on me.
I told, I said tonight is not the night.
I have to be primed.
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What's going to happen though is that we're going to go to this party in two weeks and
our podcast is going to be in again in two weeks and then we're going to just talk about
the Christmas party and we're not, again.
So it's going to be basically next pool season or you discuss the situation.
It'll happen if it's supposed to happen.
I hate you.
You don't mean that.
I don't mean it.
(44:21):
So outside of that.
So if you feel like this podcast was lame, you can blame Mr. Sweets for that because
I wanted to talk about it.
Yeah.
All right.
So from this point on, we are going to try to.
Do you want to ask me again if there's anything I want to say?
So from this point on, we're going to try to get back into our bi-weekly schedule because
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we don't have any holidays coming up or anything.
So we'll see how that goes.
But in the meantime.
Yeah, this season is kind of like wild, huh?
Yeah, it was like going on.
Yeah.
All right.
Close it out, baby.
When enjoying the sweet side of life, keep your pineapples upside down, believe in unicorns
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and keep shaking it up.
Love you, baby.
I love you too.
Sometimes.
If you would like to get in contact with us, please email us at the SweetsideOfLife podcast
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Or you can always find us on any one of our socials that are listed in the podcast links.
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Any opinions or advice that we give on this show should not be taken too seriously, as
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With that being said, make yourself a drink and join us on our journey as a married couple
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Yes, I was born ready.
Welcome back everybody.
We are the Sweet Side of Life podcast, all the way from Southern California.
What are you looking at?
The computer to make sure it's recording.
I'm looking for waveforms to make sure that all tracks have been engaged.
(01:14):
Interesting.
Yes.
So anyways, it's been a minute.
Yeah, I feel like it's been forever.
It's been like two and a half weeks, I think.
But we've been busy.
We got the Thanksgiving thing that just happened.
Happy Thanksgiving, everybody.
I hope you ate all the turkeys.
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We were going to try to do an episode just before Thanksgiving, but it didn't work out.
And then we were going to try to do an episode hitting the streets with the sweets.
Wow.
At Thanksgiving.
At Thanksgiving vacation.
That didn't work out.
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So we're here.
It's Tuesday, December 3rd.
Welcome back.
And now you want to be lame.
I want to be lame.
You want to be lame.
That's what you told me earlier.
No.
Tonight we're going to do a catch-up life update.
(02:18):
We've got some things coming up, some things going on, some things have happened.
And I'm tired.
We need to figure out a better way of recording these.
Instead of trying to record these at 10, 11 o'clock at night when I'm tired.
Yeah, we could just do midday cocktails.
In the middle of work.
I'm down.
(02:39):
When I'm at work and I'm listening to someone else's podcast and I get like...
You have so much energy to do it.
I get it.
You're biggerated.
I'm like, okay, cool, cool.
And you come home and I tell you, all right, tonight's the night.
You know, fasten in, baby.
Tonight's the night.
And then like the hour start ticking and then all of a sudden it's 10.
I'm like...
90.
And you're like, you said we were going to do it.
(03:01):
90 knots.
So we're here.
We just make sure you all didn't forget about us.
We are Mr....
We didn't forget about you.
We didn't.
So quick recap.
Cheers.
Yeah, that's...
I always forget that.
Cheers, my love.
Come on, bring it in.
Cheers.
And your drink is AI created.
(03:23):
It's...
What was it called?
The tropical...
I don't remember.
But you put it into chat GPT.
You're all about that lately.
So yes, let me see.
Let me see what this fucking thing called.
Tropical Breeze cocktail.
So it's nothing fancy.
So you can put...
What did you do in chat GPT to get your drink?
(03:46):
I said, make me a cocktail using these ingredients.
So it just put all your ingredients in a cocktail?
It's...
I mean, it sounds...
Yeah.
It gave it a name.
So you're like...
Make a drink making a Sprite, Malamoo and vodka.
(04:07):
And it's all, okay.
Put it in the cocktails.
Sprite, Malamoo and vodka.
And then call it a tropical, what?
Tropical Breeze.
Babe, I don't know.
So for those that have...
And they say AI is going to take over the world.
I disagree.
One drink at a time.
For those of you that have been listening from the get go and to those of you that are
(04:32):
fairly new.
When we first started off this podcast, I mean, it still is a drinking podcast.
We still get drunk.
I mean, the last episode, I think we were pretty drunk because I was like slurring a
lot.
Really?
Yeah.
When I was listening back at the edit, like the next morning, I'm like, ooh.
But hey, that's what we do.
(04:55):
So but anyways, when we first started this, we keep track, we try to do a different cocktail
every single podcast.
And it initially started with like, you know, very crazy cocktails, very tiki-tastic.
Very common cocktails.
And we've kept them on our little notepad.
(05:16):
We kept a list.
So I mean, it started, you know, we had everything from painkillers, mehanas, woo-woo's, rum
runners, fat hookers, Jamaican me crazies, sand in your shorts, a WAP, liquid, novocaine,
console tickler.
These are all drinks that we've been making.
So we're starting to run out of cocktails.
(05:39):
So first of all, text us if you have a good cocktail we should try.
Give us a recipe.
Yeah.
If you guys have a good cocktail, it can be anything like, you know, we have a.
You're a typically, you know what, I actually just realized I actually haven't done a whiskey
sour.
No.
No, it's not listed.
(06:01):
I'm not sure.
Hmm.
Interesting.
I did a lemon cello whiskey sour.
Oh, yeah.
Not a regular whiskey sour.
Okay.
Anyway, um, we, what was I saying?
Well, you interrupted me.
Oh yeah.
No.
Well, yeah, of course I did, but we will accept your recipes.
(06:21):
Oh, what I was going to say is you're typically a clear liquor type of guy, but no tequila.
I don't do tequila.
Yeah, but you'll do vodka, rum, you'll do gin, like some gins.
If it's not the base of the main thing.
Um, and then I, I'm just balls out.
(06:43):
Like I will do any, I will do anything.
You're like, yeah, I will do anything.
Did you hear that beard?
Shout out to beard.
I will do anything.
So yeah.
So tonight I'm drinking the tropical breeze, which is just a lot of Malibu rum and sprite.
(07:09):
And you are drinking a shower.
No, a whiskey sour.
I thought I had already, it wasn't Buffalo though.
Oh yeah.
It was bourbon.
I thought I had already done a whiskey sour and I thought I was being lame, but I'm not.
You're still being lame.
Look at me.
Um, but actually this one I made, I was, I was actually going to point out the, I thought
I already did a whiskey sour.
(07:29):
So I was going to point out the fact that I, that it was a little bit different because
what I do with this one was I did half like a, like a low, like a nonch, like a fake sugar
and then a regular syrup.
Oh yeah.
It's okay.
But, um, I prefer regular simple syrup, but the calories in it don't prefer me.
(07:52):
Um, so yeah, my drink is a, I prefer Buffalo trace, but I got the Costco bourbon recently
and it's not bad.
No.
Um, you said you couldn't really taste too much of a difference.
Yeah, I didn't taste too much of a difference.
So it's that it's the Costco one actually.
And then, um, lemon juice.
(08:15):
I do a kind of traditional, traditional lemon juice.
And then the simple syrup.
There you go.
So this time I did like half and half simple syrup.
I did like half actual sugar simple syrup and half non, which is, I'm sure everybody
listening is very enthralled with eight minutes in and six minutes of that.
And I've already put them to sleep.
(08:36):
You're talking about the choice of simple.
So anyways, um, our text number is 951-226-5261.
You can shoot us a text there and you can also call and leave a voicemail.
Um, if you shoot a text, there's a good chance I'll text you back.
(08:56):
I will not call you back.
If you want to send us a cocktail recipe though, text it.
It'll be way easier than us trying to listen to the decipher voicemail over and over again.
But speaking of voicemail, so we did receive a voicemail the other day.
Where is it?
Oh, oh, it was somebody who just like hung up, right?
(09:17):
Like said, like something and then they, they, they called and you heard like he kind of
grunted or something.
And then you heard him clear his throat.
Like he was getting ready to say something.
I don't know if, if he was confused by the beep, but he, he said belly and then hung up.
(09:38):
It was just like belly hung up.
It was the weirdest thing.
And I'm like, I showed it to you and I'm trying to make sense of it.
So if you're belly out there, um, call back and leave us the rest of the message.
Your phone number was.
You did give some good texts though.
Yeah, I got, I got more boobies.
(09:59):
You got more boobies with liquor, right?
She took a picture with her covering all of her spots.
Some friends of ours, they were doing a throwback on from our podcast.
We were talking about our crown royal whiskies and they had just gotten a peach and a salted
caramel and they were holding or she was holding them over some of her bits, but some of her
(10:22):
bits were sneaking out.
And I saw some of her bits and I liked her bits.
So thank you.
Something else we like is those small, small, really small fireball things.
So if you want to try to take another picture with very tiny,
with one of those, please, mini fireball.
Um, uh, but yes, that was our phone number.
(10:44):
I'll read it out to you one more guys, one more time.
Just so it's also in our, in our show links, 951-226-5261.
That's our sweet side of life podcast for all you sweetums out there.
And um, uh, you can also reach us at the sweet life, the sweet side of life podcast at outlook.com.
(11:05):
So got all that out of the way.
You know what I was thinking last night?
I'm sure it's, it is.
I was thinking I should do, cause I know you said you wanted to do like a, uh, like if
you're new to lifestyle type of podcast, like to say like what to get, what to do, etc, etc.
Which was an idea suggested by the couple.
(11:26):
Oh yeah.
So one of the couples hadn't recommended that as a podcast, which we can do.
Shout out.
Um, but I was thinking what might be better.
And like I could put on a tick talk is, but I mean, I'm like, can I put, okay, anyway,
let me just tell you, and then I can give you my, please finish the thought.
Yeah.
So squirrel, um, is doing a tick talk, but showing like our party bag and like what we
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carry in it and what we have.
Well, you know, we could actually do, we could do a, a simul kind of thing.
Cause hold on.
I got the, we have a, uh, we just got a, um, uh, new iPad that we're going to utilize
for our remote, um, interviews.
(12:17):
And I got like an iPad mount for our studio.
So now what we can do is record a podcast with that recording and then put them on both,
both a tick talk and you know what I mean?
So you'll get the audio and then you also see us going through the, the whole thing.
So it'll be the same thing, just a video version and audio version shortened obviously
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for tick talk.
What?
Are you, you want to do a whole podcast and I don't understand.
Okay.
Let's break this down.
I'm going to have an iPad here.
Yeah.
And we're going to be sitting here in the podcast.
We're going to just sit here and talk about items in our bag.
We're going to go through our bag and we're going to make it.
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Yes.
It's going to be a video and audio.
You know what?
Just went in my brain.
It's not my bag, baby.
It's not my bag, baby.
So when we released a tick talk, it'll just be the little two to, you know, two to three
minute of the video of the thing.
Cause obviously during that, we can't, you know, say anything.
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Yeah.
So what I was, yeah, exactly.
You can't.
And then what I was wondering though, which this is my side thought, a squirrel thought
was, can I even put like, can you put a vibrator on tick talk?
I don't think so.
What if I call it a massager?
Personal massager.
Yeah.
Um, it look, it's actually on Amazon is advertised as a personal massager.
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Cause I was looking for one when it broke and I was like vibrator.
I was like searching and I'm like, I know we've purchased this before.
And then I finally was like, Oh yeah, it was personal massager.
And that's where we found it.
And that's what I found.
Yeah, I was looking for all the things and I couldn't.
I will say out of all the, the, uh, it doesn't look like a podcast.
Um, tick tocks I follow.
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I don't feel like I've ever seen a physical represent vibrator.
But it doesn't look like a dick.
It doesn't.
Um, so I don't know.
We can, we can play with it and get banned.
We can play with it.
Wow.
Wow.
Definitely can't do that.
So, but yeah, we had definitely massage your shoulders with it.
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Okay.
You know what?
I think that'll be funny.
It'll be worth getting banned.
Let's do it.
So anyways, so yes.
I'll give you a head massage with it.
Add some music in the background.
Don't.
Don't.
Don't.
Don't.
Don't.
Don't.
Speaking of music.
Okay.
Uh, the swing nation podcast.
Um, I think it's a good idea.
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Speaking of music, okay, uh, the swing nation podcast, um, if you haven't listened to, they're
like one of the OG ones.
I definitely recommend it.
Look it up swing nation.
But anyways, um, a couple of episodes ago, we talked about how I had a jingle that they
used on the Tuesday talks.
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And my jingle actually stayed their jingle for about three to four weeks.
However, today my jingle was replaced by AI.
Um, and it was actually a pretty cool jingle and it was like, sounded like really well
produced.
I was like, okay, I got some competition.
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And then they later revealed that it was AI.
So week.
I, yeah.
You actually recorded your guitar.
I did it all.
Your drums.
But you know what?
It's driving me.
I'm, uh, I was already working on one version, but now I changed my mind.
I'm going to do another one and I'm going to try to beat the AI.
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So I have some ideas.
I think I might be able to get back up on top there, but competition drives me.
So ladies and gentlemen.
Did you hear that ladies?
It is on.
So hopefully here in the next week or so I should have another, uh, another Tuesday talk
jingle going, but anyways, um, let me see what else that I want to discuss here.
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Um, so it is December 3rd.
Yes.
What are we doing this weekend?
We're doing a date night.
We have a date night going on.
That's right.
Saturday night.
We have a date night.
Could be vanilla.
It could get crazy.
But the most vanilla date nights end up to be the crazy ones.
Yes.
Um, I did originally have a gang bang on the calendar.
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He did gang bang cream pie on the calendar.
And I knew that wasn't true.
So I deleted it.
Rude.
Sadly.
Wow.
So you went from a gang bang to a gang bang cream pie.
Is there a difference?
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Oh yeah, there is.
A huge difference.
You're face.
Come shots all around.
So yes, there's a big, quite, quite a big difference.
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So um, so yeah, we got a date night and then, uh, but what else is going on Saturday that
we are unfortunately not able to go to, but I'm going to go ahead and plug them on the
set.
Oh, oh, uh, San B.
Yeah.
If you guys listened to our last podcast we talked about, we went to our first San B
party in San Bernardino.
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Well, they're having another one on the seventh.
So if you win the San Bernardino area, check it out on Cassidy.
They had a really good setup as we spoke about last time we were on and stuff your stocking
party.
I think I would wear this one.
Yeah.
How would you dress for that?
If we were to go, how would you dress for that?
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You would stuff, you'd wear a noran's stuff it?
I didn't even think about it, but possibly I think I would wear what I'm wearing to the
other party we're going to.
What is stuff you're stocking for a girl though?
What would I do?
I think it's just a play on Christmas.
I don't think it's an actual like stuff, something.
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I think you're digging way too deep on this theme.
Because I don't really have a lot of places to stuff.
No.
My tits are already big.
My ass is big.
And I really don't want to look like I have a dick.
So I'm really confused by the theme.
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I think you're overthinking the theme.
Kind of like.
What did they put on their ideas?
No, I didn't even just Christmas stuff.
Okay, you were taking this away.
All I literally want to know.
Go look at the fucking event then.
All I wanted to do was advertise the party for them a little bit.
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Beyond that, I know zero details.
So if you guys are interested, check it out.
The Sanby, I think it's just a Sanby community on Cassidy.
For some reason, you can't find it.
You can always shoot me a text and I can give you the direct link to it.
Or message us or whatever.
Speaking of Cassidy, on Cassidy, we also have a community there.
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If you search for the sweet side of life, it will take you to our community.
And join up there as a member.
And then from that page, you can actually see what our Cassidy profile name is.
And that is Top Secret.
So you guys want to find out what it is.
You can actually just join that community and you should be able to figure it out at
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that point.
So what else do we have coming up?
We have date night.
Date night.
And we have a private party next weekend.
Yes, what, the 14th, right?
The 14th.
That is a LS party.
An LS private party.
It's a Kinky Santa party.
But that is a private invite only.
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So we're not going to give any details on that.
But if you are in the Southern California area and you are looking for a party that
is not private, there are lots going on that night.
There's a shit ton that night.
One that we've previously gone to and you've previously done the music for.
But for this one, because we're going to a different party, but is the LS party.
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DTF community.
DTF community.
So if you're...
It's always a fun party.
In the area.
And I'll tell you guys, we weren't at the last one either, but we heard that one got
cray.
It turned into an orgy.
Something like that.
So...
Yeah, everyone was too cold outside.
So everyone came inside and then...
And then we did it.
Everybody got so hot that they took their clothes off.
So I mean, it makes sense.
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Yeah.
So yeah, that's also going on the 14th.
DTF community.
Swing hearts, right?
Swing hearts is having a party.
On the 14th.
There's a lot of parties on the 14th.
I think that was the day.
The avidas having a party.
People picked.
So there's another Vixen Playhouse.
Oh yeah.
You just showed me their video and there...
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I really feel like we need to figure out...
I know it'll be like an overnight thing because it's not close to us.
Super close.
It's driving distance, but not like...
Yeah.
Ubering distance.
And as you all know, we don't drink and drive.
So if it's not ubering distance, we stay the night.
So that one, we would have to do that.
But...
It's in the San Fernando Valley.
Yeah, Los Angeles area.
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You showed me a video and they have a really cool setup.
I would be really interested to go there.
I don't know when we can make it because we have a lot going on coming up, but...
I don't see that happening until...
March or April.
At best.
Yeah.
I keep saying everything's going to happen in March.
I just keep like...
I keep saying like over...
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Like every party, I'm like, oh, we probably won't make it back until March.
We probably won't make it back until March.
But then March, we're gone for two weeks.
I know.
That's what I'm saying, like I just keep saying that, but it's like wishful thinking because
we kind of have like so much shit going on.
But yeah, so we have that.
So we have...
So the 14th, if you need a party in your own Southern California, like you could throw
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a dart and find a fucking party.
Just...
There's a shit ton.
Yeah, there's a shit ton.
And then of course Christmas and all the things are going on.
I'm sure everybody's spending time with their families as we will be.
And then New Year's hits and it's like, fuck family, I'm going to party again.
Exactly.
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Speaking of that, New Year's, what are we doing on New Year's?
So we are doing, which we've already talked about like a bazillion times, but it's...
I wanted to bring it up for a special reason.
It was really fun.
We're doing plush parties, New Year's weekend.
So it's like three days.
Non-stop action.
Non-stop fun.
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Saturday, Sunday, Sunday.
No, it's more like Sunday, Monday, Tuesday.
Yes.
But so yeah, we're doing plush the whole weekend or a week, whatever, the whole holiday time.
We're going up on Sunday.
Yeah.
Sunday and then they're having a special pre-party Sunday night and then we're there on Monday,
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which they're having a daytime party and then another pre-party.
And then Sunday, they have a daytime party.
No, Tuesday.
Oh, Tuesday.
Tuesday, they have a daytime party and then the New Year's party.
Yeah, so it's going to be cray.
So here's the deal.
We are going to do our podcast from there.
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Are we?
I'm going to bring the mixer.
So what we did last time, we have a portable bar we like to take and whenever we go to
a hotel room, we always bring our...
Actually, I posted today on TikTok a video that showed kind of our portable bar a little
bit from when we were at Bia Vita.
So it was like a throwback to the summer, but it showed our you setting up our bar essentially
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at Bia Vita.
That's right.
So we are going to have that up in the room and then I'm also going to bring our podcast
set up.
So I figured if we talk to somebody that's interested and they want to run up to the room,
have a drink and then we can just do like a quick, you know, pa, pa, pa.
And then you remember...
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It's too loud in the main area.
Yeah, I was thinking about like taking like our travel mics and trying to do it, but
it's...
Maybe it's very distracting.
It is.
I mean, we could probably...
It was super crowded, but maybe on the patio.
I'm thinking we could probably take like our travel mics and then just kind of walk around
like, Hey, are you guys ready for...
Like that time, just a really quick hit, you know, not like an actual like interview.
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You have lots of thoughts and then we get drunk and then they don't happen.
I know.
I'm a thought master.
Yeah.
So, but so we could do that.
And then I was talking to you.
Remember the...
I'm not going to...
I'm not going to say his name, but the guy that said, if you guys ever want to interview
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me about my poly dynamic...
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
They're going to be there.
Yeah.
So I actually wrote them back today and I said, Hey, you know, I just...
Now I'd love to talk to you more about that.
And I said, maybe we can do an interview in the room.
And so that kind of got me thinking.
I'm like, well, maybe I could bring this.
Oh, yeah.
So they always do pre parties.
I don't think he said that he said they're not going to do it this year though.
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Yeah, that's right.
The pre party to the pre party, the pre party to the party after the pre party party to the
pre to the party.
So we might be able to sneak off and do something with him and I almost said him and his mate,
him and his partner.
So yeah, that could be interesting.
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And then so yeah, just got me thinking.
So if you guys are going to this party, shoot us a message, let us know and we'll make sure
that we meet up with you and maybe, you know, do an interview or something.
If you want to.
If you're interested enough.
Or if you want to.
Or if you want to.
Most people in the lifestyle are pretty interesting.
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And they also are normally pretty, I don't want to say secretive, but what's the word
I'm looking for?
Discrete.
Discrete.
But if you aren't and you want to talk a little bit, you don't ever say names though.
Yeah, we don't.
Well, you've obviously heard us.
Yeah.
We only mentioned names of people that say they want or we have nicknames for them and
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they may sound like real names, but they're probably not.
So anyways, so yeah, if you guys are going to that, definitely hit us up.
I know of a couple of couples, a couple of couples that are going.
Starlett and Vic, the ones that got me that awesome.
Oh, they're going.
They're going.
Beard and butt.
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Beard and butt are going.
Sam and Cole.
Sam and Cole are going.
Batman and cat.
Batman and cat are going.
I'm just going to repeat it.
Your memory is better.
I know.
So yeah, some of our friends that we've already had some, some actually we haven't had any
of them on our podcast.
We've actually not had anybody on our podcast.
So you talked.
Well, okay.
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We had Sam.
Sam and Cole.
We had a.
No, we had Sam on.
Yeah.
And then we had, um, no, we had Sam and Cole at the, the, the, the party.
Oh yeah.
Yeah.
We did Sam and Cole.
Sam was the say less.
Yeah.
That one where the girls went down on each other.
Um, so yeah.
And then, but anyways, we're just rambling.
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So yeah.
Well, that's what a podcast is.
If you guys are going to be there and you have any interest in, in meeting us, if we
don't already know you and, or if you want to be on the podcast, let us know and I can
kind of have an idea.
Are you going to post a whole thing about how to come and give us, get a hug?
Of course.
That's your thing.
Of course.
Yeah.
So yeah, have we talked about that?
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I don't think so.
So what I like to do anytime we're going to party, if I have, if, yeah, um, close your
ears, if you've already heard this, um, uh, earmuffs.
So what I like to do on the party RCP walls for like parties we're going to is I'll say
(28:39):
like, if you see us and if you want to meet us, a catchphrase.
So I'll say like, come up and wink while saying, you know, what's a stupid dumb joke?
Like how's that cream pie treated in you or something?
This is, it's just a random phrase, but it's meant to be a, uh,
Um, icebreaker, icebreaker, which it works.
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It works a lot.
I've actually had some people say it's the best.
Like I feel like I come up and like say something stupid and I immediately meet you and it's
not awkward.
Yeah.
I mean, it's awkward as fuck.
Don't get me wrong, but it's always fun.
It's awkward.
So it's really cool.
It's awkward.
You know what the most awkward part is 99% of the time I don't know what the catchphrase
is.
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I don't know.
I'm never on Cassidy and I don't go to the events.
Like I go to the events that I don't go to the event pages, I never look at any of that
stuff.
So 99% of the time I don't know what the catchphrase is.
So someone will just come up to me and be like watermelon seeds and I'm like, what?
And then I, then it'll dawn on me like, Oh, this is probably the phrase that pays that
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I'm like hugs for this phrase or whatever.
So yeah, I will definitely have, uh, probably a different phrase for every day.
So yeah, let us know.
Um, see, was there anything else I want to talk about at New Year's Eve?
I don't think so.
I don't know.
But then after that, our January shot, January, family stuff, but then we were going to celebrate
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my birthday.
Yes.
That's right.
That's probably the next big thing, right?
Yeah.
So I think we might be able to get something in in January.
Like yeah, I'm sure we're going to, we're definitely going to have some, some event.
But nothing too crazy because in February, actually over Valentine's Day weekend, February
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14th through the 17th, we are going to Vegas.
This is going to be a, it's going to be a minute.
You want to know what the hold on before we talk about Vegas.
You want to know what the hold on, like you're the only one talking and you just stopped
yourself.
You don't want to know what the hold on because I was, we were talking about the Vixen place.
What was it called?
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They, oh yeah, Vixen Playhouse.
Vixen Playhouse.
And I didn't get to finish my thought about that.
And I just thought, rethought about it.
Continue.
So I do want to visit that place because you showed me a video.
I don't know if they had on YouTube or where it was.
It was on the internet.
It was a tour of their place and it looked like so well done.
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So nice.
Lighting was great.
The setup looked great.
They had rooms that like had windows where you could have like voyeurism, but then you
could close the curtains and if you wanted it to be private, like it was very, I don't
know, not transitional, but just like it could be anything for you.
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You know, they had like spanking rooms and they had a great lounge with the DJ area.
Yeah, they had like a really cool, yeah, exactly.
A really cool bar.
It looked like a professional lighting system.
Yeah, it looks really nice.
Stuff like that is what I'm interested in.
Do they, they were at Plesh last year, right?
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I believe they were, yes, yes they were.
Yeah, we were hanging out with them at the Playboy party.
They're the couple, she was a nurse and he had the, but hanging out at the party we went
to for Halloween, right?
Yeah.
Okay.
They must have staff then because they're, they list parties every Friday and Saturday
night, but I still see them at some stuff.
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Yeah, I don't, I don't know a hundred percent what, what it is.
I don't know if it's, if it's a venue, if it's a personal residence that they've transformed.
I don't know yet.
Next time we see them, I want to, I want to talk to them more because now that I've,
now that I've seen the setup, now I have questions because they sent us a personal
(32:45):
invite to the grand opening, but I had told them, I think it's for the invite.
We definitely want to visit, but that weekend didn't work for us and they didn't want to
move the weekend.
So, selfish.
So, so yeah, definitely got to make it out there at some point.
Yeah.
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It's just, it's a, it's a trek for us.
Yeah.
So yeah, we'd have to do it overnight.
So again, that's why I'm like, I keep saying March, but you're right.
We do have like, we're gone for like two weeks in March too.
So, yeah.
Um, we're hopefully we can meet up with Carlos, your Latin lover.
My Latin lover Carlos.
I'm not going to say he's mine because he's definitely your Latin lover.
Yes.
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And Autumn, right?
Yes.
Yeah.
Autumn sins.
We're going to meet up with the sins hopefully because.
I don't think we will be able to, but I hope so.
If, if we, if we will, it's going to be only because they made it happen.
Yeah.
So basically what it is, is we are with my family and then we sail out of Miami on a
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cruise and we are going the day before the cruise to Miami.
Yeah.
And it's like a Tuesday.
Yeah.
It's a random day.
It's a, I don't know the date yet.
Yeah.
It is a Tuesday because the, the cruise goes out.
Yeah.
It's a what the cruise goes out on.
So they keep saying like, you know, we need to get the date from them from us and, and
I'm like, yeah, as I'm listening to them say it.
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You have the date.
I don't know what the date is.
It's the 26th of March.
26th of March.
Yeah.
Cause we, we cruise out on the 27th.
Are you sure?
I'm quite sure.
Let me see.
I mean, you can look at it.
26th of March is a Wednesday.
Okay.
So it's the 25th of March.
See, you didn't fucking know.
No, I think it is the 26th of March though.
We cruise out on a Thursday, maybe.
Uh, it says right here Wednesday, 311 cruise baby.
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So I would have to, anyways, it's, so it's either the 25th or the 26th, which is a Tuesday
or Wednesday.
Oh yeah.
So it's the 25th Tuesday of March.
And we're basically going to be in Miami from probably midday through the night.
We're going to be staying at a hotel.
But um, yeah, we're, we're basically getting to Miami so we can be ready for the cruise.
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So if you guys, Carlos my lad, lover, and like Burr Plays and Autumn Sins are able
to make it on that day, I mean, it's, it would be insane if you can cause they're like up
near Orlando and it's like a five hour drive.
Oh, seriously?
Seriously.
(35:18):
Seriously.
Seriously.
So I understand there's like a train or something that can like get you there in a couple hours.
But again, um, if you guys are able to make it happen, fantastic, but that's a lot.
What about from where we're going to be with family is it's closer, right?
Two hours.
We're going further Orlando.
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Um, you know what actually, let me see Orlando to, cause maybe just one night, that's about
three hours, I think from Orlando to Fort Myers.
Maybe I don't know.
We'll figure it out.
We're like getting our like travel plans on, on air.
Shoot.
You know, if March and March and Florida, you know, maybe, hey, maybe we go to secrets
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on the 22nd.
Where is that?
Orlando.
Oh, we just, we can just kiss me, but it's like right by Orlando.
We just meet them and that's really close to them.
Oh, there we go.
And that's, but see Florida weather and March.
I wonder if secrets is going to be, anyways, we're getting ahead of ourselves.
So, so anyways, uh, yeah, like I have a friend in Orlando.
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I need to go visit for one night only.
My Latin lover, my Latin lover.
Um, anyway, okay.
We digress.
We have digressed like a mother fucker.
Okay.
So Vixen's Playhouse.
Yes.
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Do they have a Cassidy?
Um, I'm going to go on.
Do they have a page or group or a community?
I'm pretty sure we actually just joined the community.
Give me one second.
I was not ready for this.
Come on.
They have like cube lighting chairs.
(37:11):
Yeah.
So if you go up on your community, actually you can go to www.vixenclub.com.
That'll take you to a website, which I'm assuming has links and all that stuff, but the community
is Vixen Playhouse on Cassidy.
So if you go into communities and look that up and, um, I wonder if she's ever there.
(37:37):
I don't know.
I don't know.
So yeah, check it out.
It's, um, it looks like a dope place and we know the people running it and those are
dope people.
They're always fun.
So, yeah, super fun people.
I have no doubt it's going to be a blast.
Yeah.
So we will make it out there.
Just don't know when.
(37:59):
Yes.
Um, but in February, what we were going to talk about was we're going to, um, for Valentine's
Day weekend and it's also President's Day weekend.
So a lot of people have multiple days off, which is why it worked out perfectly.
And it's the weekend after Super Bowl, so it's not the super extensive weekend.
(38:19):
Yes.
It checks a lot of boxes.
Um, we're doing Vegas.
And we never, we haven't done Vegas for my birthday in a long time.
I feel like we go for your birthday, but my birthday being that it's in January again,
we're celebrating in February, but it's in January is not ideal Vegas time because you
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can't do bullshit.
However, however I was on Tik Tok or whatever I was on.
And of course, if you just say the word Vegas, your phone picks it up and all of a sudden
I'm getting all this Vegas shit, you know, so Marquis has a dome pool club.
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So basically they do bullshit all year long.
And I don't know, I was literally telling you this today.
I don't know why they're the only ones in Vegas that did this.
Vegas building the most extraordinary outlandish.
I mean, they have the fucking Eiffel Tower there.
They have the sphere.
But why is there only one place that thought, Hey, maybe I should put a freaking dome over
(39:30):
my pool so we can use it all year round.
You're getting very upset.
It's just insane to me.
And why did I not think of it?
You're trying to read.
You're getting really upset.
It's just weird.
Cause I like, I was telling you earlier, I'm like, these clays places have these pools
that sit vacant.
Yes.
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They're the late part of October until May.
Yep.
That is wild.
Yes.
Yet Marquis thought, Hey, they figured it out.
If I put a freaking dome over it, it's kind of like the great woof lodge for adults.
Yeah.
Then I can do it all year long because I control the temperature inside.
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Mind blown.
So anyway, and they were going to do that one day because I was just like, what the heck?
There's a lot.
And because it's winter, they're doing like all these specials.
Like I looked it up and it was like for like VIP access, it was $100 a person.
However, you got $100 credit for booze and like drinks and food.
And I'm like, well, then it's free because I definitely am spending, we definitely spend
(40:38):
$100 in a day.
Well let's hope that there's other people that are as excited about this.
I know.
So we're not like the only ones there.
Yeah.
We're like, woohoo.
We got a pool.
Now I'm promoting it that weekend.
All right, everybody.
I know.
They do DJs and stuff.
I would imagine there's more than just us that would know about.
I mean, it's Vegas.
There's, yeah.
And I want to know how long was the dome there?
I don't know.
(40:59):
I feel like I'm on a lot of TikToks for Vegas and this is the first time I've seen it.
I don't know.
That's probably been around for like 13 years.
Maybe.
I know Marquis has been around, but I don't know.
Maybe they just added the dome.
But it's genius.
So we have a whole bunch of things we can do out there.
This, we're talking about doing this on Sunday.
We have to check in with whispers because it will probably do a party there because
(41:21):
they want us to come back in the summer and do our podcast.
Yeah.
They hit us up a couple of months ago and said, would you be interested in doing a live
podcast from the pool?
And I said, of course they said they have mics set up and we just basically hook up
with the DJ and yeah, just kind of do like a live deal.
So that'd be fun.
So I told her like, I definitely want to do it.
(41:42):
I'll come check it out.
Like in the off season.
Yeah.
I'll do that.
So I haven't hit her back yet because I wasn't all sure about it, but yeah.
So we'll probably do a whispers.
I really want to check out Playhouse LV, but I don't know.
I mean, we're only going to be there for four days.
Playhouse and flirts.
(42:02):
Yeah.
They're both same owners.
Well, flirts I don't think does anything during the summer or the winter because it's
a pool.
I don't think it's just a pool.
Do they do a club at night?
I think I still get stuff all about it.
Maybe.
Sure.
You would know better than I do.
You are right.
I thought it was just a pool, but maybe they just do pool parties, but they do clubs, a
(42:25):
club at night too.
Yeah.
There's still doing events this weekend and so maybe I just yawned.
So maybe flirts because they're the ones that you can do the liquor.
Yeah.
Playhouse is the one where you, I don't know exactly their setup, but yeah.
(42:46):
Flirts is the one.
It's BYOB.
Yeah.
So yeah, we have a lot of things to do and then of course we have my favorite strip club
to hit and drink as well.
It's not your birthday friend.
It's always my birthday anyways.
It's my birthday.
So yeah, and then we got the cruise in March.
You'll have to hit up your stripper another day.
I don't know how much time she has left.
(43:09):
It's true.
But anyways, so it's been fun.
It's been real.
It's been real fun.
Your face.
Before we close this out, is there anything you'd like to say to the listeners?
I would like to say that I had every intention of talking about our beard and butt exhibition
(43:36):
like a month and a half ago.
But you did not want to talk about it.
Your beard and butt and the dink couple.
Yes.
That sounds bad.
Mr. and Mrs. dink.
The dinkies.
We will get there.
But you lameed out on me.
I told, I said tonight is not the night.
I have to be primed.
(43:57):
What's going to happen though is that we're going to go to this party in two weeks and
our podcast is going to be in again in two weeks and then we're going to just talk about
the Christmas party and we're not, again.
So it's going to be basically next pool season or you discuss the situation.
It'll happen if it's supposed to happen.
I hate you.
You don't mean that.
I don't mean it.
(44:21):
So outside of that.
So if you feel like this podcast was lame, you can blame Mr. Sweets for that because
I wanted to talk about it.
Yeah.
All right.
So from this point on, we are going to try to.
Do you want to ask me again if there's anything I want to say?
So from this point on, we're going to try to get back into our bi-weekly schedule because
(44:46):
we don't have any holidays coming up or anything.
So we'll see how that goes.
But in the meantime.
Yeah, this season is kind of like wild, huh?
Yeah, it was like going on.
Yeah.
All right.
Close it out, baby.
When enjoying the sweet side of life, keep your pineapples upside down, believe in unicorns
(45:08):
and keep shaking it up.
Love you, baby.
I love you too.
Sometimes.
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