December 28, 2024 • 48 mins
For our last episode of 2024 and season 2 we bring on some special guests all the way from Michigan! Please welcome Tom and Liz on their maiden voyage on the Sweet Side of Life love yacht. Merry Xmas and Happy New Year!
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Any opinions or advice that we give on this show should not be taken too seriously, as
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Alright everybody, welcome back to the sweet side of life podcast, all the way from beautiful
Southern California.
Why do you always talk like that?
Why do I not talk like this more often?
I don't know.
That's a great question.
Babe, it's been a minute.
I know.
It's, it's, it's, well first off, Merry Christmas.
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Merry Christmas, happy Hanukkah.
Happy Kwanzaa.
Happy Kwanzaa.
There's a few we're missing, we should probably should have planned that out better.
Happy Festivus.
So guys, this is a special episode for a few different reasons.
One, I regret to inform you, this is our last episode for 2024.
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Yep.
Ding, ding, ding.
Very last one ever.
Very last one for 2024.
So we're going to go big on this one.
We've been, we are.
We got, we got, we got shit to cover.
Yeah we do.
So we went to a party, shit went down, but we're not going to talk about that.
No.
We're saving that one for the new year.
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Because we have been talking about having people on.
We have.
For a year now.
Yes.
And we finally figured it out for our last show of 2024.
This is going to be the biggest show of December.
So we have friends.
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Friends.
And I think I want to say seven or eight years.
IRL.
In real life.
Yes.
And we were vanilla friends with them.
Yep.
And then we sprung on them one day during a rousing game of Cars Against Humanity that
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we are in the lifestyle.
Yes.
And after she yelled at me for not telling her sooner, they accepted what we had to say
and then somehow they got into it.
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But we're going to give that story.
We'll let them tell that story.
Again, welcome everybody to center stage.
Tom and Liz from Michigan.
Hello, hello, hello.
That would be your cue.
We told them we'd give them a cue and they would know.
And hopefully that was enough.
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I think in post I'm going to do a drum roll.
Do you want to know what I want to say is.
All right guys, thank you so much for having us continue.
Yes.
Well, okay.
Yes.
Thank you so much for having us on.
But I do want to say I think we were one of the first people you had discussed in your
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podcast for January, 2024.
So what a full circle.
I know we're at the end of the year, the last show of the year.
And I think we were in like the first one.
The first show.
You were great.
You were because it was.
Bookends for the year.
I love it.
You guys are bookends.
It's because you guys were, you were definitely the first ones of the year because you guys
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came out for my birthday.
And that's when you first had your first experience.
What?
Spoiler alert.
That sure is.
What's the point of even having them on?
You're like going to tell their story.
So guys, this is what happened.
But we have to cheers first.
We do have to cheers.
So really quick, really, really quick.
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So who's drinking what?
Mr. Suites.
I had a 99 problems with a pineapple eight one.
That was a 99.
You know the 99 bananas that that old that that thing.
They have a 99 pineapple punch.
So that mixed with OJ and what's it called pomegranate juice, which is very special from
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you.
Yeah, juicing pomegranates for most of the day.
All day.
All day, son.
Okay, so I'm having a pomegranate pineapple jalapeno margarita.
So it is.
That make clear my breath.
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It is my freshly squeezed pineapple.
I mean, pomegranate juice.
Pineapple juice, jalapeno, costumigos tequila.
And then I rimmed my glass with salt and sugar.
So yeah, pomegranate pineapple tequila.
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Oh, and then some agave, a little bit of agave.
All right.
Yeah.
And Tom and Liz, what are you guys drinking tonight?
We are both drinking a blood orange gin fizz, which is some gin, blood orange juice, not
freshly squeezed though.
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I didn't pour it out of a bottle because I'm lazy.
Still very good.
Still very good.
Some simple syrup, heavy cream, egg whites and lemon juice.
You did the egg white portion too.
Yeah.
Oh, and freshly squeezed lemon though.
I did not skip there.
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Closotos.
Well, then that makes it.
And a splash of clomsona.
Cheers, everybody.
Cheers.
Cheers.
Cheers.
It's glass.
It's where.
All right.
So before we get down to business.
I'm going to talk about my ASMR ice chewing.
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Really quick.
We have a listener that texted us a couple of weeks ago.
His name is James from South Carolina, and he's a blind dude, and he loves our podcast.
He's not currently in the LS, but he's looking to get into it.
So cheers to James.
Wanted to throw his name out there.
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And also A and C from Texas.
They like to text us.
I was calling them liquor bits.
Liquor bits.
Because they text pictures of liquor bottles covering her bits.
So there was some one with a salted caramel.
And then the recent one was she was holding a little mini fire, fireball whiskey.
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They weren't covering much.
They weren't covering her whole lot.
And then there was one in the shower where she was holding her liquor.
And then there was one in the shower where she was holding up her phone with our podcast logo on it.
Speaking of logos.
The newest logo.
You're just rolling along here.
Chew Chew motherfucker.
I'm trying to get rid of business really quick.
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Speaking of logos.
We've talked about our new logo.
You've probably seen our new logo.
Well, Tom here is actually the graphic designer of that logo.
Thank you very much, Tom.
You're very welcome.
He only charged us $6,500, which I think is a bang-in deal.
If you haven't seen it, it's an upside-down pineapple with glasses and a beard.
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It's designed to resemble me and I think it fits pretty well.
Thanks, Natya.
Thank you, Tom, so much for that.
And Liz, you haven't done anything yet for the podcast, so what's next?
What are your skills?
Oh, well.
You can make an appearance on your non-existent TikTok.
Well, I found out I'm pretty talented in BDSM.
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BDSM.
Okay.
I think we have our next episode.
Do you want to be spanked?
I like it.
I enjoy spanking and I've had some women challenge me.
And I enjoy it.
I don't like it when I feel like they got hurt, though.
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Absolutely not.
All about consent.
Well, they consented, but...
That's what you're supposed to do.
You got to talk through it, though.
No.
When you do the BDSM thing, do you do the red, yellow, green, or what do you...
I don't use words.
I talk to them about clothes and personal.
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I walk around.
No, no, no.
It's almost like a safe word version.
If you hit them once, they'll say it's green if you want harder.
Green, it was harder, yellow.
Or they just say they want it harder.
We went to a BDSM thing and that was kind of what they said.
If you say green, like if I ask you how you're doing and you say green,
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then I know I can hit you harder, but if you say yellow,
then I probably will back off a little bit.
And if you say red, then I went too far.
So they use that to like...
What do you normally do, Tom?
Do you say red or...
I normally just watch.
You're like red, red, red.
As soon as it comes out, I see the whip, red, red, red.
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No, but he's also found that he really enjoys partaking in the giving aspect as well.
I can spank all day.
I like both.
I like both, the giving and receiving.
However, yes, so I'm very much a switch.
I would say I haven't used any like safe words or anything.
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We've not done any like green, yellow, reds.
Like I said, if the person that I am with is, let's say, on a St. Andrew's Cross,
I will walk around the Cross and talk to them and look at their face and just pick up on their cues.
And you can tell.
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Tears.
You know.
I don't get that far.
However, if they want me to, if they do tell me, I'm all about communication, you need to talk to me.
So just make sure you tell me.
I've never had any negative experience with that.
I had people walk up and ask me to do it to them.
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And I don't even know them.
And that is that's a really fun experience.
Yeah.
Yeah.
It's a great experience.
I also was gifted a 3D printed paddle with Legos on it.
Legos.
Yeah.
So you throw it on the ground and you have people walk on it.
No.
That's their function.
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Yeah.
Do you own your own equipment yet?
Yes, we do.
Do you have a bag?
Do you have a bag dedicated to your tools of the trade?
Yes, we do.
Yes, I do.
Is it a home control bag?
It is not.
Whips and chains.
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Actually, it was a broken Victoria's Secret pink bag, if you must know.
But now it is a teal duffel bag.
And I don't know.
I'd like to call it more green to go.
Green to go.
Let's go.
Do you bring it to everything you guys go to or do you just take it out every once in a while?
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We bring it to the hotel takeovers we go to.
Okay.
I have gotten that.
If you guys, if you guys can't see, okay, it's just for people who are listening because
I know they can't see.
We're doing it at the beginning of the podcast.
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Mr. sweets told them to stay in their chairs and don't move.
And Tom had already told us Liz was going to have a problem with that, which we already
knew.
And so in this whole time when she just paused, it was because she started spinning in her
chair and Tom like grabbed her shoulder and was like, stop spinning.
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I can't help it.
Her brain had to reset.
Yeah, they have a microphone in the center of them and the concept is keep, you know,
keep the audio level.
But yeah, she's like on a roller coaster and spinning around the circles.
She is wandering.
It's so bad, especially since this is this chair spins.
Oh gosh.
The APD is really winning this battle.
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For the next next time we need to get her in like a chair, just like nail to the floor.
I need a straight jacket.
Just put me in one.
I'll gladly, I'll gladly do that.
Don't you have restraints?
Yeah, I go to the restraints.
I need to get the restraints out.
Go get the teal bag.
Seriously.
Maybe you should.
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Let's go.
So this is kind of funny because podcasts are crazy.
Conversations are wild because you never know where you're going to go.
I mean, the concept was to start at the beginning of your journey, but we just went straight.
To BDSM.
And we're going to work backwards apparently.
So, so that's funny because you recently changed your hair color and your hair color now definitely
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fits like that, that dumb kind of mistress look.
Is that what you were going for?
I have just enjoyed just the change in my life.
I have just embraced everything.
I've lost what, 40 pounds and decided, you know what, screw it.
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I'm just going to dye my hair.
Yeah, I'm going to dye it for fun.
Let's go crazy.
I got tatted up like, let's, let's go.
I need some more tattoos.
I need to do my hair.
Let's do it.
Is this a midlife crisis?
I would say that's normally what they call that.
Do you have a sports card now?
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Yeah, you guys are a little early for a midlife crisis.
A little young for that.
So really quick.
Why don't you guys describe each other so the listeners can kind of have an idea.
So Tom, you describe Liz and Liz, you describe Tom.
Physically?
Yeah, so the listeners can get an idea of what you guys look like.
You kind of just touched on some things, but yeah.
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Hmm.
And go.
You first or me first?
I'll go first.
So Tom, my sexy husband, he is a six foot four.
Very 90s shag hair, ginger beard.
I wouldn't say ginger hair, more like Auburn hair, bright blue eyes.
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He's very, he's got a baseball butt.
He was a division one baseball pitcher.
Baseball butt?
Yeah, that rotten baseball butt.
Give me a booty.
Perfect for spanking.
Yes.
Everyone want me anyway.
Yeah, what a handsome man six foot four.
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He's been told people want to climb him.
It happens as a tall man that people do want to climb you.
Yeah, especially pool parties.
People like to climb tall guys at pool parties.
Got it.
But you guys live in Michigan, you don't have a pool season.
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We have a humid season, which it's gross.
Anyway, yeah, no, he's a very, very handsome man.
How big are his feet?
Does he wear large socks?
Oh my gosh.
Sure does.
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All right, Tom.
Oh gosh.
I'm so curious to see what you have to say now.
Me?
Yeah.
She's got a baseball butt.
It's more of a softball one.
But let's see, well Liz, as we've already discussed, has changed her hair color three times in
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probably the last like three months.
But we're currently rocking the copper.
About five, six.
Nice, nice round butt.
Thanks babe.
You're welcome.
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We like to keep things awkward here.
It's what the people want to know.
How big are her boobs?
Let's be honest.
I don't have any tatas.
The kiddos, they took those babies.
You got boobies.
You got boobies.
All boobies are good boobies.
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I've never met a booby I didn't like.
Exactly.
They'll be bigger soon.
All right, so she's tatted up.
Once we win that lottery on Friday.
You're hitting the lottery?
Yeah, we're working on tatted up.
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We're working on a new sleeve now.
We got a big back piece.
Re-doing the back piece.
What have I told you about my back piece?
She likes it on her back, is that what I'm...
Yeah, I'm like nah, let's see how well you can color inside the lines.
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That's nice. Awesome. Alright, so we're gonna we're gonna reset the clock here really quick. So we we see kind of where we're at right now with the BSM and all that stuff, you know, freaks.
Let's rewind back all the way to the very first time. We we kind of told you guys what it is that we partake in. So wait, so you got rewinding all the way back. You're obviously all the way back married,
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ethically non monogamous couple. You guys were high school sweethearts, right? And have been together for how long? No, yeah, 15 years, 15 years together 15 years. Yeah.
Okay, so that's where you guys started. And then you've been on this journey for now about a year. Mm hmm. Okay, so now you can tell us. I wanted to give people a little background because some people like to know that.
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Yeah, for sure. For sure. Yes. How long people have been together before they get into this and what kind of led them here? Married eight together for 15 year in the L.S. It's been a fun ride.
Few rides.
So, so how did you feel the first time we kind of dropped that bomb on you? I kind of remember, like, you were like, I'm down and he was like, what? I don't even. It was like, yeah.
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Shocking and yet not surprising. All at the same time. It's it your schedule started to make a lot.
And how we're always busy. Hindsight was definitely 2020. Like, it was like, oh, yeah, that is why you guys are going in these places all the time. I get it.
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But I mean, like, there was no judgment whatsoever. It was more me just like, for me, I know you're the same because you told me later. You just were like, I'm so curious. We were just so curious as to like what it is that you were doing.
Like, we wanted to learn more about it. Yeah. It was very intriguing. And we had already already knew that your marriage was rock solid.
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And the fact that this wasn't a negative, you didn't paint it in that light. Yeah. So we were just like, I want to know more. We wanted to know more about that.
And we wanted to hear about your experiences and like what was so positive about it. And the fact that you were just so like open and willing to share, not details, but like about like the places you've went, the lovely couples you've met.
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Like, yeah, just friendships. What you talk about, but not like full details. Just, it's just very open. It's very welcoming. Like, it's all about consent. It's just a wonderful community.
Yeah.
And that just intrigued us from day one.
And have you guys, you guys have found that to be the case for you guys, right?
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Absolutely.
Absolutely. Yes. Yes. 100%. I'm just like, I wish we did it sooner. I mean, come on.
Well, you guys are still young.
Don't you?
I was like, I love so strange.
I know.
Wait, what did you say? I didn't hear.
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It would have been a lot nicer if we started this in Southern California.
Yeah.
But we did.
Well, you technically did start in Southern California.
I'm sorry, but I did.
I did.
I think Mr. Sweet had more, a little more to play in that.
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Oh, yes. Yes. He did.
On what?
He did.
I'm trying to, I'm trying to, oh, the kind of pick up what you're putting.
Yeah, the first experience there was.
The couple is at my birthday.
The couple then. Yeah.
And you got their number and they, well, they got, I don't know,
you guys exchanged numbers or something.
I didn't even know that.
At the table at the bar. Yeah.
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Yeah.
Because you were playing with, you're playing with your 3D printed present.
Yeah.
My 3D printed present.
And they decided, yeah, they thought, they thought the group looked fun.
Yeah, we looked fun. So they got your number.
And then you told them, yeah, you told them what bar we were going to next.
And that's where they met up with us.
And then that's where they met you guys.
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Yeah.
I will admit, I was a little jealous.
What?
I, that chick, she was my type.
So when the numbers were passing around, I was like, okay,
but then I realized they were actually after you guys.
I was like, what?
Okay, that's fine.
That's fine.
Move on.
Move on.
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Move on.
But, uh,
I was too wasted that night to do anything anyway.
Yeah.
I had literally liquor in my eyeballs.
You did.
Oh my gosh.
That was the longest bathroom time ever.
Yeah, we had to pass them off to somebody.
I actually found out she was really my type in the bathroom.
Yeah.
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Yeah.
Interesting.
I did not hear that side of the story.
Nah.
Um, so, all right.
So that was your, was that your first, first, like experience?
Experience.
Yes.
Yeah.
Mm-hmm.
Cause I know you guys went back to their room.
No, I brought them to mine.
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That's what I said.
Yes.
I said you went back to your room.
Oh, I thought you said their room.
Oh, maybe I did.
Maybe I did.
I could have swiped it to yours.
Anyways.
I think two women just told you you were wrong.
Yeah, I don't know.
You probably were.
I'm automatically wrong in that group of women.
But, um, so yes, so you took them back to your room.
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Yes.
And that, that was the first experience you guys had together in the LS.
Yes, it was.
And then we, we talked about that, I think a little bit on the, uh, the last, last podcast
back in January.
Yeah, I don't know how.
We didn't go into much detail.
Cause I, it's, was it my story to tell?
Mm-hmm.
Um, would you guys like to share more about that story about your first?
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I will gladly share that.
Unless you would like to share.
I feel like I'm always the shareer.
You are the, well that's sharing as Karen.
All right.
I will gladly tell you.
You get, you get very excited to share this part of the story.
Yeah.
So I was like, I stayed.
We kind of clicked.
We kind of clicked at the bar.
Clicked on the click.
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Well, yes, we did.
We brought them back to our room.
I decided, Hey, what happened to shower with me?
Really quick, really quick.
Was Tom aware that obviously he was there, but was this prediscussed between you guys
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that Hey, we're open to this or was this very, very fluid?
It was very fluid.
It was very like go with the flow.
It was very in the moment.
Tom knew that.
Tom knew that.
Oh yeah.
He was in a chair guys.
I mean, like you guys had enough conversation beforehand that it wasn't, he wasn't sitting
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there like, Oh my God, like what is happening?
Wait, so let's rewind.
What was the night before you talk?
Okay.
Well, the night before kind of said it was Mrs. Sweet's birthday party at the bar.
And you guys gave us the heads up before because coming in, we were still the vanilla
friends that like, Hey, these are our LS friends and you just should be aware of that because
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they're probably going to try and be flirty because that's just who they are.
Very flirty, very friendly.
So if you are flirty back, you know, whatever energy you give, they will just take and they
will give it back to you.
And so you should be aware that things could speed up pretty quick on you.
So like have the conversation before about like, if you're interested at all in pursuing
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so we definitely had that before.
And we were just like, okay, we're just going to go and we're going to kind of have an open
mind.
We're going to sit in the corner and we're going to just observe and it's going to be
a lot of fun.
And we were in that corner for a very long time.
We definitely had people trying to get us out of that corner.
Like the woman who said she wanted to climb you like a tree.
The woman who said she wanted to climb you like a tree.
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That was fun.
So we kind of knew what we were getting into going into that and then kind of after that
night, we're like, all right, well, that was somehow different than what we expected.
Like just way more inviting and not like, you know, it wasn't like, oh, hey, everyone's
just here because we just want to fuck each other.
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It wasn't super aggressive.
No, it was like everyone was there because they just wanted to go out to a bar and have
fun and like meet up with their friends.
It's just like any other get together except people are taking their tits out.
So like Mrs. Sweet.
It never happened.
It never happened.
So that's kind of like, like after that night, we were kind of like, all right, that was
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like way more fun and just like a inviting experience than we expected.
Like, you know, that might be fun to try again.
Like even if we're just going there to just, just hang out and dip our toes in again and
just see what it's like.
And I think we kind of, we kind of skip past the dip in toes.
Yeah.
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Yeah, we kind of fast forwarded.
We just will ferrule like, like, man, came involved in.
All right, cool.
Yeah.
All right.
So I just wanted to touch on that, that a little bit.
And like you guys definitely had a conversation going into it.
So then back to where you were at with the girl.
Yeah, so I brought them into the room.
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I asked her to take a shower with me so we could discuss like, okay, what's going to
happen.
Also, I wanted to make out with her.
So I did.
And then I was like, Hey, can we just take this to the bed?
And she was like, hell yeah, we can.
So we did.
I can be more detailed, but I mean like, hmm.
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We ended up having like, it was a soft swap parallel play.
Very fun time, very positive experience.
I can't believe how positive and how great of a first experience it was to be honest,
hearing, hearing how other couples honestly, like don't have a lot of positive experiences.
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I'm very, very surprised, very, very pleasantly surprised, very, very happy with what had happened.
We will say it was almost a full swap.
However, we did not plan accordingly.
We did not have the proper protection.
So, hello LS friends, make sure you always protected.
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Just to plug there.
The best advice now that we've received from Mr. and Mrs. Sweet is to just always have
to go back.
Yes, at least I'm sure it's ready to go get something with you.
Yeah, you know what?
But it was a very positive experience.
Those are great words of advice, but we have been in that situation millions of times now
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where like, oh shit, the bags downstairs in the backpack.
We're upstairs.
Oh shit.
And it's like.
It's so annoying.
And then you have to like pause and run around and, you know, try to find somebody.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So, yeah, but I mean, luckily everyone's like I said, the LS community is so great.
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Everyone's so willing to just be like, Hey, yeah, I got you.
Like, yeah, or like if you go to a hotel takeover, there's just like a bowl.
Yeah, I love that condoms on a bowl in a bowl.
Very positive.
Very positive.
Next to the bowl where you put your keys in.
Exactly.
So, yeah, that was our first experience.
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We definitely just took like a cannonball in and then what was it at the drive home?
We were just talking to you and I don't know as soon as we had that experience, we just
dove right in.
You did.
You went home and you just dove.
Dove right in.
Yes.
We kind of also a little bit pushed in as Mr. sweets was, I think by the time we landed
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had sent us three different.
In our area.
I wanted to give you resources.
Hey, we only went like guys, there's a party next weekend.
Oh yeah, sure.
Let's sign up for that one.
So speaking of that, because we do like we said have listeners in different areas of
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the world in the United States.
So what are some groups that are in your guys area that you would highly recommend for people?
I know you've been to a couple parties and.
We have gone to a few hotel takeovers and some club takeovers.
We highly recommend Angel Entertainment and play champagne.
They are in like Metro Detroit area.
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Are they?
Yeah, play champagne is more like a Midwest.
Yeah, more broader reaching.
Indiana, Ohio, Michigan.
Yeah, Angels more.
Metro Detroit.
Yeah, more Michigan based in general, but southeastern.
Are they on Cassidy?
Yeah, they are on Cassidy.
We are on Cassidy as well.
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However, I will say Cassidy is not as big in Michigan.
That's what Angel Entertainment.
Angel Entertainment, please champagne.
There is 616.
There's also a bar called Wild Walkers, which also has a website as well.
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So is it like a full time LS bar?
Do they just do like events or meeting greets there?
It's a full time LS bar.
Yeah, it's a full time LS bar.
They have events.
I think it's Thursday through like Saturday.
They have themed events.
Very positive place.
They've got a dance floor.
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Their drinks are very well priced.
I will say it's not like craft cocktails.
However, it's like more like dive bar.
So you buy liquor there, but then is there play on site?
At the Wild Walkers?
No.
But if you do, I would say play.
Play is on site at the hotel takeovers.
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So if you go to a hotel takeover with Angel Entertainment and play champagne,
that is play on site.
They have play rooms.
If you go to like the club takeovers or the bar, it's not play on site.
However, they always give you hotels that are very close by where you can book and play your heart out.
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So they're kind of like meet and greets more.
Essentially.
Yeah.
But they're full takeover meet and greets.
And then there's just area.
There's just hotels in the area that you guys can go back to if you decide to.
Yes.
Yes, absolutely.
Okay.
And then are those those communities though have Cassidy?
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I know you said Cassidy is not that big or their, their own communities.
Like you search their websites.
I would say the couples actually have the Cassidy site.
Like what is it?
Angel Entertainment.
They're a couple and they have their business Angel Entertainment.
So is it a website or on Cassidy?
The couple, I believe it's on Cassidy, but they also plug their business on Cassidy.
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So how did you find them?
Like how would someone else find them to find their parties?
Mr. Sweet or their website?
Mr. Sweet.
No, through their website.
Okay.
So Angel Entertainment website.
Yeah.
Here let me, let me give you the website info.
Yeah.
Mr. Sweet can put it in our, our description.
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Yeah.
It's, it's great.
It's for the podcast.
Tom's got it pulled up if you want.
Yeah.
Go ahead and get rid of it off here.
Yeah.
Angel Entertainment.club.com.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
And then play champagne is play champagne.com.
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Now what is, I know you guys are signed up on a lot of different socials out there.
We are.
What, what do you find you get the most action from?
What's like the most popular in your area?
In my, in our area, it's Angel Entertainment, I would say.
But there are quite a few couples that, excuse me, that, sorry, that, that, yes, it was,
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I apologize, excuse me.
I need to swallow.
Three.
There's quite a few couples that don't want to, of course, pay for the membership because
they do get expensive.
Yeah.
We also are on field and three F we also, oh, completely forgot about SLS.
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Okay.
We're also on SLS.
So SLS also has Angel Entertainment play champagne while blockers is featured on there as well.
So, and that's a broader site that's throughout the US.
Okay.
Yeah.
Sounds like you've got a lot of activities out there.
We only, we're only on Cassidy.
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Yeah.
All of our communities are with, based on Cassidy.
Well, it's in Southern California.
It's pretty big.
So I would be overwhelmed if we were on anything else.
You don't, you don't handle any of it anyway.
I know.
We definitely have.
But you're on TikTok too.
Yes.
We've definitely like, like toned down our activity on, on most of them.
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And we tend to just focus mostly on like Angel or play champagne, like when they have a party
in our area.
So we love the who viewed me.
Yeah.
It can, it can be a lot.
Like when we first started, we were definitely like, what do we do?
Like, oh gosh, on all of them, checking them all the time.
I remember, I think the week after you guys got back, you guys told us all the profiles
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and like, wow, you're like $200 a month profile.
Yeah, it was a lot.
Like most people are Netflix and showtime.
You're like SLS, STC, LSS, S.com, MySpace.com, Craigslist.
You got like profiles everywhere.
Oh gosh.
And even Facebook too.
Yeah.
I would say it was, it definitely like, it didn't help that like we didn't know anyone
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in the area that was into it.
So like we couldn't have anyone tell us like.
Complete fresh start.
Yeah.
It was like, oh yeah, go to this one.
Don't use that one.
We didn't have that.
We kind of had to figure it out on our own.
Yeah.
So yeah, there's probably some wasted money in there.
But you know.
I wouldn't call it wasted because we have a good friend group now.
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Yeah.
It wasn't wasted, but definitely a couple of unnecessary sites that we went through.
Subscriptions.
So what are you guys doing for New Year's Eve?
Any big plans?
We do not have big plans.
We're trying to go to a takeover on January 4th.
Just got to find a sitter.
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January 4th.
Is that like.
So after New Year's.
Is that like the poor man's New Year's Eve?
Yeah.
You guys did a Christmas party though, right?
A Christmas takeover or something.
We went to, we did not.
What did we do?
No, it was the play champagne.
It was the casino one.
Oh, we went to the casino right now.
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That was the 11th?
Yeah.
So I was just, was that that?
Yeah.
Casino Real.
It was the 11th or something.
Oh, it was the 11th of December.
Yeah.
11th of December.
Yeah.
You sure?
Well, anyway, the date doesn't matter.
I don't know.
We don't need exact confessions here.
That's irrelevant.
I just was saying you guys went to a party recently.
Anyway.
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So that was.
There were some like, yeah, there were some Christmas ones that we just like could not
make it work.
Yeah, it's hard this year.
Cause we got family in town.
It's hard to do that stuff.
But yeah.
We are planning on going to a club takeover with Angel on the 11th of January.
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What is it called?
It's diamonds and desires.
Diamonds and desires.
We're doing a New Year's Eve party.
And one of the things is diamond diamonds.
And I cannot this.
Like the out.
What is it?
Denim and diamonds and like.
I cannot think of the outfit I'm struggling.
I'm still struggling and it's like.
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Guess what?
I can tell you right now.
You gotta get the diamond tata and denim booty.
Yeah.
I have some shorts I might wear and then I got the ones with the multiple holes in
the butt.
Yeah.
They're like ripped in the butt.
And then I've got some.
There's some fans of people.
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Some denim pasties and then like a diamond mesh shirt.
But I don't know how it's all going to look together.
I'm just like.
Well, figure it out.
You'll figure it out.
Maybe cut the tata's.
Cut out the tata's.
No, the shirt is like.
Regina George.
The shirt is like mesh.
So it's like, it's like a, it's like a cover up for a bathing suit.
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But I'm going to wear it as a shirt.
I think.
And it's diamond.
It's like it's like a new style.
I think it's too late for you guys to come out for New Year's Eve.
I would love to.
I mean, it's just a couple of days away.
You got to take it.
Last minute, red eye.
No, Frontier has got that sale going.
There we go.
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Seriously.
So we're doing three days for New Year's for plush.
So it's like a lot.
And it's a hotel takeover.
It's a hotel takeover?
Three days.
Okay.
So you're doing Thursday.
No, it's Friday.
It's on a Tuesday.
So it's Sunday, Monday, Tuesday.
No.
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Yep.
Yeah.
Monday, Tuesday.
Yeah.
We're going out on Sunday to the plush New Year's.
Oh, they were coming home Wednesday.
Coming home Wednesday morning.
Yeah.
We're coming home Wednesday.
So Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday morning.
That's an experience couple right there.
Yeah.
I bet you get there.
We're still like after one hotel takeover night, we're like.
Okay.
It's struggling to function the next day.
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We have, we are not great at pacing ourselves.
Yeah.
You got to rally.
What had happened to us is we went to New Year's Eve plush last year.
And we just did the two nights and then we walked into basically on the day before on
the 30th, they have a big daytime party and it's in a lobby of this hotel.
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So we walked in with full luggage and just walked into this like.
Sober.
Just dead sober.
This huge party.
And then like some friends were already there to hit them running up to us and they were
drunk.
And it was just a lot to handle.
Yeah.
So this year we said, let's, let's go at our own pace.
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Let's go in a night before and they're actually having a pre pre pre pre pre pre party.
Yeah.
On the night of the 29th.
It's not the takeover on the 29th.
So it's like a little black dress party.
So a little more conservative.
But yeah.
So then in the morning on the actual start of everything, we will be there and be ready
on terms.
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Mamosas in our bodies.
Not loading our luggage in.
And this year we're actually bringing our podcast equipment there too.
So we might bring some people and do some podcasts from the room.
We always say that.
We bring it, but then we end up, you know, getting drunk and we just forget.
Drunk and just.
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Okay.
Wait.
So when are you going?
Sunday.
Because we're off.
We're going Sunday the 29th all the way through Wednesday the morning.
Oh my God.
Don't give me that.
I want to give it to you.
Tom is looking at Liz like, don't.
I know.
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Think about it.
We have them on FaceTime, so we're watching them and they're watching us.
We can see she is the crazy one in a relationship.
And I, you can see her brain is like spinning like she's spinning in her chair and you can
tell her brain is trying to figure out, can we make this happen?
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And he is kind of like looking at her like, oh, here she goes again.
But ultimately he will, he will go with whatever she wants to do.
You would love it.
I would love it.
They're selling, they're selling a single day tickets right now.
Unfortunately, I have to be the financially responsible party at the moment.
And the deadie down.
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They have these awesome things called credit cards.
And you can just pay it off.
There you go.
You just paid it off.
You have an empty credit card.
Make one call it the LS card and that's how you do all your stupid shit.
I don't know.
We'll just connect it to a fake business and I'll just declare bankruptcy.
There you go.
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Oh my God.
Financial advice.
But, um, so anyways, it's been great having you guys on.
We got a lot, a lot of stories we want to go through with you guys, but we can't do
it all in one because your journey, much like ours has a lot of a lot of roller coasters
(45:41):
and a lot of ups and some downs and we definitely want to kind of capture all that, but we don't
want to rush through it.
So now that we have this whole FaceTime audio video things set up, we can definitely have
you guys on more often.
Can't wait.
So, but first I want to, I want to get reviews and if people don't like you, then we'll probably
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know how you want it again.
So, nothing against you guys.
You just host us again and then never post it.
We like you guys.
We like you guys.
Let's make it a series.
So make sure you watch and rewatch or sorry, listen and re-listen.
And don't forget to like, subscribe and five stars.
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Yes.
Getting fizzy with Tom and Lizzie.
Hey.
That's the segment.
Yes, we're getting what?
Giggles.
Yeah, you came up the name.
Giggles, gangbangs.
We didn't talk about the gamebangs though.
Yeah, we didn't touch on the gangbangs.
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Well, that's for next time.
Have you been in a gangbang?
I have, I directed one.
Directed one?
I have a t-shirt that says orgy referee.
So it sounds like a huge...
I was not a referee.
I was the director.
And I was a part of it.
Gentlemen, gentlemen, we have a hole over here that needs to be filled.
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Pronto, pronto.
I was that filler, sir.
All right, so there's a story that we're going to apparently have to have you guys back on for.
Yes.
But is there anything you guys would like to say to the thousands and thousands and thousands of people that are here?
People that are listening to this cast right now.
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Well, they're not listening right now.
Well, I guess when they're listening, they are listening right now.
Well, Mr. and Mrs. Sweets, for the absolute best.
If you want to come back for some giggles and gangbangs and gym physicists,
get your booties listening to this podcast, man.
It is a good time.
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They're a good time.
And hopefully we'll be back so you can talk about that gangbang.
All right, sounds good.
I'm looking forward to it.
When enjoying the sweet side of life, keep your pineapples upside down, believe in unicorns and keep shaking it up.
I love you, baby.
Love you too.
Bye.
Bye.
Bye.
I think our dog just farted.
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Stupid.
The podcast you're about to listen to is for adults only.
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Anyone under 18, please turn on Kitsbop right now.
Any opinions or advice that we give on this show should not be taken too seriously, as
we are not professionals at all.
With that being said, make yourself a drink and join us on our journey as a married couple
and join the lifestyle in beautiful Southern California.
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Alright everybody, welcome back to the sweet side of life podcast, all the way from beautiful
Southern California.
Why do you always talk like that?
Why do I not talk like this more often?
I don't know.
That's a great question.
Babe, it's been a minute.
I know.
It's, it's, it's, well first off, Merry Christmas.
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Merry Christmas, happy Hanukkah.
Happy Kwanzaa.
Happy Kwanzaa.
There's a few we're missing, we should probably should have planned that out better.
Happy Festivus.
So guys, this is a special episode for a few different reasons.
One, I regret to inform you, this is our last episode for 2024.
(01:38):
Yep.
Ding, ding, ding.
Very last one ever.
Very last one for 2024.
So we're going to go big on this one.
We've been, we are.
We got, we got, we got shit to cover.
Yeah we do.
So we went to a party, shit went down, but we're not going to talk about that.
No.
We're saving that one for the new year.
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Because we have been talking about having people on.
We have.
For a year now.
Yes.
And we finally figured it out for our last show of 2024.
This is going to be the biggest show of December.
So we have friends.
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Friends.
And I think I want to say seven or eight years.
IRL.
In real life.
Yes.
And we were vanilla friends with them.
Yep.
And then we sprung on them one day during a rousing game of Cars Against Humanity that
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we are in the lifestyle.
Yes.
And after she yelled at me for not telling her sooner, they accepted what we had to say
and then somehow they got into it.
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But we're going to give that story.
We'll let them tell that story.
Again, welcome everybody to center stage.
Tom and Liz from Michigan.
Hello, hello, hello.
That would be your cue.
We told them we'd give them a cue and they would know.
And hopefully that was enough.
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I think in post I'm going to do a drum roll.
Do you want to know what I want to say is.
All right guys, thank you so much for having us continue.
Yes.
Well, okay.
Yes.
Thank you so much for having us on.
But I do want to say I think we were one of the first people you had discussed in your
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podcast for January, 2024.
So what a full circle.
I know we're at the end of the year, the last show of the year.
And I think we were in like the first one.
The first show.
You were great.
You were because it was.
Bookends for the year.
I love it.
You guys are bookends.
It's because you guys were, you were definitely the first ones of the year because you guys
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came out for my birthday.
And that's when you first had your first experience.
What?
Spoiler alert.
That sure is.
What's the point of even having them on?
You're like going to tell their story.
So guys, this is what happened.
But we have to cheers first.
We do have to cheers.
So really quick, really, really quick.
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So who's drinking what?
Mr. Suites.
I had a 99 problems with a pineapple eight one.
That was a 99.
You know the 99 bananas that that old that that thing.
They have a 99 pineapple punch.
So that mixed with OJ and what's it called pomegranate juice, which is very special from
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you.
Yeah, juicing pomegranates for most of the day.
All day.
All day, son.
Okay, so I'm having a pomegranate pineapple jalapeno margarita.
So it is.
That make clear my breath.
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It is my freshly squeezed pineapple.
I mean, pomegranate juice.
Pineapple juice, jalapeno, costumigos tequila.
And then I rimmed my glass with salt and sugar.
So yeah, pomegranate pineapple tequila.
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Oh, and then some agave, a little bit of agave.
All right.
Yeah.
And Tom and Liz, what are you guys drinking tonight?
We are both drinking a blood orange gin fizz, which is some gin, blood orange juice, not
freshly squeezed though.
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I didn't pour it out of a bottle because I'm lazy.
Still very good.
Still very good.
Some simple syrup, heavy cream, egg whites and lemon juice.
You did the egg white portion too.
Yeah.
Oh, and freshly squeezed lemon though.
I did not skip there.
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Closotos.
Well, then that makes it.
And a splash of clomsona.
Cheers, everybody.
Cheers.
Cheers.
Cheers.
It's glass.
It's where.
All right.
So before we get down to business.
I'm going to talk about my ASMR ice chewing.
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Really quick.
We have a listener that texted us a couple of weeks ago.
His name is James from South Carolina, and he's a blind dude, and he loves our podcast.
He's not currently in the LS, but he's looking to get into it.
So cheers to James.
Wanted to throw his name out there.
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And also A and C from Texas.
They like to text us.
I was calling them liquor bits.
Liquor bits.
Because they text pictures of liquor bottles covering her bits.
So there was some one with a salted caramel.
And then the recent one was she was holding a little mini fire, fireball whiskey.
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They weren't covering much.
They weren't covering her whole lot.
And then there was one in the shower where she was holding her liquor.
And then there was one in the shower where she was holding up her phone with our podcast logo on it.
Speaking of logos.
The newest logo.
You're just rolling along here.
Chew Chew motherfucker.
I'm trying to get rid of business really quick.
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Speaking of logos.
We've talked about our new logo.
You've probably seen our new logo.
Well, Tom here is actually the graphic designer of that logo.
Thank you very much, Tom.
You're very welcome.
He only charged us $6,500, which I think is a bang-in deal.
If you haven't seen it, it's an upside-down pineapple with glasses and a beard.
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It's designed to resemble me and I think it fits pretty well.
Thanks, Natya.
Thank you, Tom, so much for that.
And Liz, you haven't done anything yet for the podcast, so what's next?
What are your skills?
Oh, well.
You can make an appearance on your non-existent TikTok.
Well, I found out I'm pretty talented in BDSM.
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BDSM.
Okay.
I think we have our next episode.
Do you want to be spanked?
I like it.
I enjoy spanking and I've had some women challenge me.
And I enjoy it.
I don't like it when I feel like they got hurt, though.
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Absolutely not.
All about consent.
Well, they consented, but...
That's what you're supposed to do.
You got to talk through it, though.
No.
When you do the BDSM thing, do you do the red, yellow, green, or what do you...
I don't use words.
I talk to them about clothes and personal.
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I walk around.
No, no, no.
It's almost like a safe word version.
If you hit them once, they'll say it's green if you want harder.
Green, it was harder, yellow.
Or they just say they want it harder.
We went to a BDSM thing and that was kind of what they said.
If you say green, like if I ask you how you're doing and you say green,
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then I know I can hit you harder, but if you say yellow,
then I probably will back off a little bit.
And if you say red, then I went too far.
So they use that to like...
What do you normally do, Tom?
Do you say red or...
I normally just watch.
You're like red, red, red.
As soon as it comes out, I see the whip, red, red, red.
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No, but he's also found that he really enjoys partaking in the giving aspect as well.
I can spank all day.
I like both.
I like both, the giving and receiving.
However, yes, so I'm very much a switch.
I would say I haven't used any like safe words or anything.
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We've not done any like green, yellow, reds.
Like I said, if the person that I am with is, let's say, on a St. Andrew's Cross,
I will walk around the Cross and talk to them and look at their face and just pick up on their cues.
And you can tell.
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Tears.
You know.
I don't get that far.
However, if they want me to, if they do tell me, I'm all about communication, you need to talk to me.
So just make sure you tell me.
I've never had any negative experience with that.
I had people walk up and ask me to do it to them.
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And I don't even know them.
And that is that's a really fun experience.
Yeah.
Yeah.
It's a great experience.
I also was gifted a 3D printed paddle with Legos on it.
Legos.
Yeah.
So you throw it on the ground and you have people walk on it.
No.
That's their function.
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Yeah.
Do you own your own equipment yet?
Yes, we do.
Do you have a bag?
Do you have a bag dedicated to your tools of the trade?
Yes, we do.
Yes, I do.
Is it a home control bag?
It is not.
Whips and chains.
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Actually, it was a broken Victoria's Secret pink bag, if you must know.
But now it is a teal duffel bag.
And I don't know.
I'd like to call it more green to go.
Green to go.
Let's go.
Do you bring it to everything you guys go to or do you just take it out every once in a while?
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We bring it to the hotel takeovers we go to.
Okay.
I have gotten that.
If you guys, if you guys can't see, okay, it's just for people who are listening because
I know they can't see.
We're doing it at the beginning of the podcast.
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Mr. sweets told them to stay in their chairs and don't move.
And Tom had already told us Liz was going to have a problem with that, which we already
knew.
And so in this whole time when she just paused, it was because she started spinning in her
chair and Tom like grabbed her shoulder and was like, stop spinning.
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I can't help it.
Her brain had to reset.
Yeah, they have a microphone in the center of them and the concept is keep, you know,
keep the audio level.
But yeah, she's like on a roller coaster and spinning around the circles.
She is wandering.
It's so bad, especially since this is this chair spins.
Oh gosh.
The APD is really winning this battle.
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For the next next time we need to get her in like a chair, just like nail to the floor.
I need a straight jacket.
Just put me in one.
I'll gladly, I'll gladly do that.
Don't you have restraints?
Yeah, I go to the restraints.
I need to get the restraints out.
Go get the teal bag.
Seriously.
Maybe you should.
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Let's go.
So this is kind of funny because podcasts are crazy.
Conversations are wild because you never know where you're going to go.
I mean, the concept was to start at the beginning of your journey, but we just went straight.
To BDSM.
And we're going to work backwards apparently.
So, so that's funny because you recently changed your hair color and your hair color now definitely
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fits like that, that dumb kind of mistress look.
Is that what you were going for?
I have just enjoyed just the change in my life.
I have just embraced everything.
I've lost what, 40 pounds and decided, you know what, screw it.
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I'm just going to dye my hair.
Yeah, I'm going to dye it for fun.
Let's go crazy.
I got tatted up like, let's, let's go.
I need some more tattoos.
I need to do my hair.
Let's do it.
Is this a midlife crisis?
I would say that's normally what they call that.
Do you have a sports card now?
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Yeah, you guys are a little early for a midlife crisis.
A little young for that.
So really quick.
Why don't you guys describe each other so the listeners can kind of have an idea.
So Tom, you describe Liz and Liz, you describe Tom.
Physically?
Yeah, so the listeners can get an idea of what you guys look like.
You kind of just touched on some things, but yeah.
(15:35):
Hmm.
And go.
You first or me first?
I'll go first.
So Tom, my sexy husband, he is a six foot four.
Very 90s shag hair, ginger beard.
I wouldn't say ginger hair, more like Auburn hair, bright blue eyes.
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He's very, he's got a baseball butt.
He was a division one baseball pitcher.
Baseball butt?
Yeah, that rotten baseball butt.
Give me a booty.
Perfect for spanking.
Yes.
Everyone want me anyway.
Yeah, what a handsome man six foot four.
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He's been told people want to climb him.
It happens as a tall man that people do want to climb you.
Yeah, especially pool parties.
People like to climb tall guys at pool parties.
Got it.
But you guys live in Michigan, you don't have a pool season.
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We have a humid season, which it's gross.
Anyway, yeah, no, he's a very, very handsome man.
How big are his feet?
Does he wear large socks?
Oh my gosh.
Sure does.
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All right, Tom.
Oh gosh.
I'm so curious to see what you have to say now.
Me?
Yeah.
She's got a baseball butt.
It's more of a softball one.
But let's see, well Liz, as we've already discussed, has changed her hair color three times in
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probably the last like three months.
But we're currently rocking the copper.
About five, six.
Nice, nice round butt.
Thanks babe.
You're welcome.
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We like to keep things awkward here.
It's what the people want to know.
How big are her boobs?
Let's be honest.
I don't have any tatas.
The kiddos, they took those babies.
You got boobies.
You got boobies.
All boobies are good boobies.
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I've never met a booby I didn't like.
Exactly.
They'll be bigger soon.
All right, so she's tatted up.
Once we win that lottery on Friday.
You're hitting the lottery?
Yeah, we're working on tatted up.
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We're working on a new sleeve now.
We got a big back piece.
Re-doing the back piece.
What have I told you about my back piece?
She likes it on her back, is that what I'm...
Yeah, I'm like nah, let's see how well you can color inside the lines.
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That's nice. Awesome. Alright, so we're gonna we're gonna reset the clock here really quick. So we we see kind of where we're at right now with the BSM and all that stuff, you know, freaks.
Let's rewind back all the way to the very first time. We we kind of told you guys what it is that we partake in. So wait, so you got rewinding all the way back. You're obviously all the way back married,
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ethically non monogamous couple. You guys were high school sweethearts, right? And have been together for how long? No, yeah, 15 years, 15 years together 15 years. Yeah.
Okay, so that's where you guys started. And then you've been on this journey for now about a year. Mm hmm. Okay, so now you can tell us. I wanted to give people a little background because some people like to know that.
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Yeah, for sure. For sure. Yes. How long people have been together before they get into this and what kind of led them here? Married eight together for 15 year in the L.S. It's been a fun ride.
Few rides.
So, so how did you feel the first time we kind of dropped that bomb on you? I kind of remember, like, you were like, I'm down and he was like, what? I don't even. It was like, yeah.
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Shocking and yet not surprising. All at the same time. It's it your schedule started to make a lot.
And how we're always busy. Hindsight was definitely 2020. Like, it was like, oh, yeah, that is why you guys are going in these places all the time. I get it.
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But I mean, like, there was no judgment whatsoever. It was more me just like, for me, I know you're the same because you told me later. You just were like, I'm so curious. We were just so curious as to like what it is that you were doing.
Like, we wanted to learn more about it. Yeah. It was very intriguing. And we had already already knew that your marriage was rock solid.
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And the fact that this wasn't a negative, you didn't paint it in that light. Yeah. So we were just like, I want to know more. We wanted to know more about that.
And we wanted to hear about your experiences and like what was so positive about it. And the fact that you were just so like open and willing to share, not details, but like about like the places you've went, the lovely couples you've met.
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Like, yeah, just friendships. What you talk about, but not like full details. Just, it's just very open. It's very welcoming. Like, it's all about consent. It's just a wonderful community.
Yeah.
And that just intrigued us from day one.
And have you guys, you guys have found that to be the case for you guys, right?
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Absolutely.
Absolutely. Yes. Yes. 100%. I'm just like, I wish we did it sooner. I mean, come on.
Well, you guys are still young.
Don't you?
I was like, I love so strange.
I know.
Wait, what did you say? I didn't hear.
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It would have been a lot nicer if we started this in Southern California.
Yeah.
But we did.
Well, you technically did start in Southern California.
I'm sorry, but I did.
I did.
I think Mr. Sweet had more, a little more to play in that.
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Oh, yes. Yes. He did.
On what?
He did.
I'm trying to, I'm trying to, oh, the kind of pick up what you're putting.
Yeah, the first experience there was.
The couple is at my birthday.
The couple then. Yeah.
And you got their number and they, well, they got, I don't know,
you guys exchanged numbers or something.
I didn't even know that.
At the table at the bar. Yeah.
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Yeah.
Because you were playing with, you're playing with your 3D printed present.
Yeah.
My 3D printed present.
And they decided, yeah, they thought, they thought the group looked fun.
Yeah, we looked fun. So they got your number.
And then you told them, yeah, you told them what bar we were going to next.
And that's where they met up with us.
And then that's where they met you guys.
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Yeah.
I will admit, I was a little jealous.
What?
I, that chick, she was my type.
So when the numbers were passing around, I was like, okay,
but then I realized they were actually after you guys.
I was like, what?
Okay, that's fine.
That's fine.
Move on.
Move on.
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Move on.
But, uh,
I was too wasted that night to do anything anyway.
Yeah.
I had literally liquor in my eyeballs.
You did.
Oh my gosh.
That was the longest bathroom time ever.
Yeah, we had to pass them off to somebody.
I actually found out she was really my type in the bathroom.
Yeah.
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Yeah.
Interesting.
I did not hear that side of the story.
Nah.
Um, so, all right.
So that was your, was that your first, first, like experience?
Experience.
Yes.
Yeah.
Mm-hmm.
Cause I know you guys went back to their room.
No, I brought them to mine.
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That's what I said.
Yes.
I said you went back to your room.
Oh, I thought you said their room.
Oh, maybe I did.
Maybe I did.
I could have swiped it to yours.
Anyways.
I think two women just told you you were wrong.
Yeah, I don't know.
You probably were.
I'm automatically wrong in that group of women.
But, um, so yes, so you took them back to your room.
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Yes.
And that, that was the first experience you guys had together in the LS.
Yes, it was.
And then we, we talked about that, I think a little bit on the, uh, the last, last podcast
back in January.
Yeah, I don't know how.
We didn't go into much detail.
Cause I, it's, was it my story to tell?
Mm-hmm.
Um, would you guys like to share more about that story about your first?
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I will gladly share that.
Unless you would like to share.
I feel like I'm always the shareer.
You are the, well that's sharing as Karen.
All right.
I will gladly tell you.
You get, you get very excited to share this part of the story.
Yeah.
So I was like, I stayed.
We kind of clicked.
We kind of clicked at the bar.
Clicked on the click.
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Well, yes, we did.
We brought them back to our room.
I decided, Hey, what happened to shower with me?
Really quick, really quick.
Was Tom aware that obviously he was there, but was this prediscussed between you guys
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that Hey, we're open to this or was this very, very fluid?
It was very fluid.
It was very like go with the flow.
It was very in the moment.
Tom knew that.
Tom knew that.
Oh yeah.
He was in a chair guys.
I mean, like you guys had enough conversation beforehand that it wasn't, he wasn't sitting
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there like, Oh my God, like what is happening?
Wait, so let's rewind.
What was the night before you talk?
Okay.
Well, the night before kind of said it was Mrs. Sweet's birthday party at the bar.
And you guys gave us the heads up before because coming in, we were still the vanilla
friends that like, Hey, these are our LS friends and you just should be aware of that because
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they're probably going to try and be flirty because that's just who they are.
Very flirty, very friendly.
So if you are flirty back, you know, whatever energy you give, they will just take and they
will give it back to you.
And so you should be aware that things could speed up pretty quick on you.
So like have the conversation before about like, if you're interested at all in pursuing
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so we definitely had that before.
And we were just like, okay, we're just going to go and we're going to kind of have an open
mind.
We're going to sit in the corner and we're going to just observe and it's going to be
a lot of fun.
And we were in that corner for a very long time.
We definitely had people trying to get us out of that corner.
Like the woman who said she wanted to climb you like a tree.
The woman who said she wanted to climb you like a tree.
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That was fun.
So we kind of knew what we were getting into going into that and then kind of after that
night, we're like, all right, well, that was somehow different than what we expected.
Like just way more inviting and not like, you know, it wasn't like, oh, hey, everyone's
just here because we just want to fuck each other.
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It wasn't super aggressive.
No, it was like everyone was there because they just wanted to go out to a bar and have
fun and like meet up with their friends.
It's just like any other get together except people are taking their tits out.
So like Mrs. Sweet.
It never happened.
It never happened.
So that's kind of like, like after that night, we were kind of like, all right, that was
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like way more fun and just like a inviting experience than we expected.
Like, you know, that might be fun to try again.
Like even if we're just going there to just, just hang out and dip our toes in again and
just see what it's like.
And I think we kind of, we kind of skip past the dip in toes.
Yeah.
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Yeah, we kind of fast forwarded.
We just will ferrule like, like, man, came involved in.
All right, cool.
Yeah.
All right.
So I just wanted to touch on that, that a little bit.
And like you guys definitely had a conversation going into it.
So then back to where you were at with the girl.
Yeah, so I brought them into the room.
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I asked her to take a shower with me so we could discuss like, okay, what's going to
happen.
Also, I wanted to make out with her.
So I did.
And then I was like, Hey, can we just take this to the bed?
And she was like, hell yeah, we can.
So we did.
I can be more detailed, but I mean like, hmm.
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We ended up having like, it was a soft swap parallel play.
Very fun time, very positive experience.
I can't believe how positive and how great of a first experience it was to be honest,
hearing, hearing how other couples honestly, like don't have a lot of positive experiences.
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I'm very, very surprised, very, very pleasantly surprised, very, very happy with what had happened.
We will say it was almost a full swap.
However, we did not plan accordingly.
We did not have the proper protection.
So, hello LS friends, make sure you always protected.
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Just to plug there.
The best advice now that we've received from Mr. and Mrs. Sweet is to just always have
to go back.
Yes, at least I'm sure it's ready to go get something with you.
Yeah, you know what?
But it was a very positive experience.
Those are great words of advice, but we have been in that situation millions of times now
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where like, oh shit, the bags downstairs in the backpack.
We're upstairs.
Oh shit.
And it's like.
It's so annoying.
And then you have to like pause and run around and, you know, try to find somebody.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So, yeah, but I mean, luckily everyone's like I said, the LS community is so great.
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Everyone's so willing to just be like, Hey, yeah, I got you.
Like, yeah, or like if you go to a hotel takeover, there's just like a bowl.
Yeah, I love that condoms on a bowl in a bowl.
Very positive.
Very positive.
Next to the bowl where you put your keys in.
Exactly.
So, yeah, that was our first experience.
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We definitely just took like a cannonball in and then what was it at the drive home?
We were just talking to you and I don't know as soon as we had that experience, we just
dove right in.
You did.
You went home and you just dove.
Dove right in.
Yes.
We kind of also a little bit pushed in as Mr. sweets was, I think by the time we landed
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had sent us three different.
In our area.
I wanted to give you resources.
Hey, we only went like guys, there's a party next weekend.
Oh yeah, sure.
Let's sign up for that one.
So speaking of that, because we do like we said have listeners in different areas of
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the world in the United States.
So what are some groups that are in your guys area that you would highly recommend for people?
I know you've been to a couple parties and.
We have gone to a few hotel takeovers and some club takeovers.
We highly recommend Angel Entertainment and play champagne.
They are in like Metro Detroit area.
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Are they?
Yeah, play champagne is more like a Midwest.
Yeah, more broader reaching.
Indiana, Ohio, Michigan.
Yeah, Angels more.
Metro Detroit.
Yeah, more Michigan based in general, but southeastern.
Are they on Cassidy?
Yeah, they are on Cassidy.
We are on Cassidy as well.
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However, I will say Cassidy is not as big in Michigan.
That's what Angel Entertainment.
Angel Entertainment, please champagne.
There is 616.
There's also a bar called Wild Walkers, which also has a website as well.
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So is it like a full time LS bar?
Do they just do like events or meeting greets there?
It's a full time LS bar.
Yeah, it's a full time LS bar.
They have events.
I think it's Thursday through like Saturday.
They have themed events.
Very positive place.
They've got a dance floor.
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Their drinks are very well priced.
I will say it's not like craft cocktails.
However, it's like more like dive bar.
So you buy liquor there, but then is there play on site?
At the Wild Walkers?
No.
But if you do, I would say play.
Play is on site at the hotel takeovers.
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So if you go to a hotel takeover with Angel Entertainment and play champagne,
that is play on site.
They have play rooms.
If you go to like the club takeovers or the bar, it's not play on site.
However, they always give you hotels that are very close by where you can book and play your heart out.
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So they're kind of like meet and greets more.
Essentially.
Yeah.
But they're full takeover meet and greets.
And then there's just area.
There's just hotels in the area that you guys can go back to if you decide to.
Yes.
Yes, absolutely.
Okay.
And then are those those communities though have Cassidy?
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I know you said Cassidy is not that big or their, their own communities.
Like you search their websites.
I would say the couples actually have the Cassidy site.
Like what is it?
Angel Entertainment.
They're a couple and they have their business Angel Entertainment.
So is it a website or on Cassidy?
The couple, I believe it's on Cassidy, but they also plug their business on Cassidy.
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So how did you find them?
Like how would someone else find them to find their parties?
Mr. Sweet or their website?
Mr. Sweet.
No, through their website.
Okay.
So Angel Entertainment website.
Yeah.
Here let me, let me give you the website info.
Yeah.
Mr. Sweet can put it in our, our description.
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Yeah.
It's, it's great.
It's for the podcast.
Tom's got it pulled up if you want.
Yeah.
Go ahead and get rid of it off here.
Yeah.
Angel Entertainment.club.com.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
And then play champagne is play champagne.com.
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Now what is, I know you guys are signed up on a lot of different socials out there.
We are.
What, what do you find you get the most action from?
What's like the most popular in your area?
In my, in our area, it's Angel Entertainment, I would say.
But there are quite a few couples that, excuse me, that, sorry, that, that, yes, it was,
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I apologize, excuse me.
I need to swallow.
Three.
There's quite a few couples that don't want to, of course, pay for the membership because
they do get expensive.
Yeah.
We also are on field and three F we also, oh, completely forgot about SLS.
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Okay.
We're also on SLS.
So SLS also has Angel Entertainment play champagne while blockers is featured on there as well.
So, and that's a broader site that's throughout the US.
Okay.
Yeah.
Sounds like you've got a lot of activities out there.
We only, we're only on Cassidy.
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Yeah.
All of our communities are with, based on Cassidy.
Well, it's in Southern California.
It's pretty big.
So I would be overwhelmed if we were on anything else.
You don't, you don't handle any of it anyway.
I know.
We definitely have.
But you're on TikTok too.
Yes.
We've definitely like, like toned down our activity on, on most of them.
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And we tend to just focus mostly on like Angel or play champagne, like when they have a party
in our area.
So we love the who viewed me.
Yeah.
It can, it can be a lot.
Like when we first started, we were definitely like, what do we do?
Like, oh gosh, on all of them, checking them all the time.
I remember, I think the week after you guys got back, you guys told us all the profiles
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and like, wow, you're like $200 a month profile.
Yeah, it was a lot.
Like most people are Netflix and showtime.
You're like SLS, STC, LSS, S.com, MySpace.com, Craigslist.
You got like profiles everywhere.
Oh gosh.
And even Facebook too.
Yeah.
I would say it was, it definitely like, it didn't help that like we didn't know anyone
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in the area that was into it.
So like we couldn't have anyone tell us like.
Complete fresh start.
Yeah.
It was like, oh yeah, go to this one.
Don't use that one.
We didn't have that.
We kind of had to figure it out on our own.
Yeah.
So yeah, there's probably some wasted money in there.
But you know.
I wouldn't call it wasted because we have a good friend group now.
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Yeah.
It wasn't wasted, but definitely a couple of unnecessary sites that we went through.
Subscriptions.
So what are you guys doing for New Year's Eve?
Any big plans?
We do not have big plans.
We're trying to go to a takeover on January 4th.
Just got to find a sitter.
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January 4th.
Is that like.
So after New Year's.
Is that like the poor man's New Year's Eve?
Yeah.
You guys did a Christmas party though, right?
A Christmas takeover or something.
We went to, we did not.
What did we do?
No, it was the play champagne.
It was the casino one.
Oh, we went to the casino right now.
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That was the 11th?
Yeah.
So I was just, was that that?
Yeah.
Casino Real.
It was the 11th or something.
Oh, it was the 11th of December.
Yeah.
11th of December.
Yeah.
You sure?
Well, anyway, the date doesn't matter.
I don't know.
We don't need exact confessions here.
That's irrelevant.
I just was saying you guys went to a party recently.
Anyway.
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So that was.
There were some like, yeah, there were some Christmas ones that we just like could not
make it work.
Yeah, it's hard this year.
Cause we got family in town.
It's hard to do that stuff.
But yeah.
We are planning on going to a club takeover with Angel on the 11th of January.
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What is it called?
It's diamonds and desires.
Diamonds and desires.
We're doing a New Year's Eve party.
And one of the things is diamond diamonds.
And I cannot this.
Like the out.
What is it?
Denim and diamonds and like.
I cannot think of the outfit I'm struggling.
I'm still struggling and it's like.
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Guess what?
I can tell you right now.
You gotta get the diamond tata and denim booty.
Yeah.
I have some shorts I might wear and then I got the ones with the multiple holes in
the butt.
Yeah.
They're like ripped in the butt.
And then I've got some.
There's some fans of people.
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Some denim pasties and then like a diamond mesh shirt.
But I don't know how it's all going to look together.
I'm just like.
Well, figure it out.
You'll figure it out.
Maybe cut the tata's.
Cut out the tata's.
No, the shirt is like.
Regina George.
The shirt is like mesh.
So it's like, it's like a, it's like a cover up for a bathing suit.
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But I'm going to wear it as a shirt.
I think.
And it's diamond.
It's like it's like a new style.
I think it's too late for you guys to come out for New Year's Eve.
I would love to.
I mean, it's just a couple of days away.
You got to take it.
Last minute, red eye.
No, Frontier has got that sale going.
There we go.
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Seriously.
So we're doing three days for New Year's for plush.
So it's like a lot.
And it's a hotel takeover.
It's a hotel takeover?
Three days.
Okay.
So you're doing Thursday.
No, it's Friday.
It's on a Tuesday.
So it's Sunday, Monday, Tuesday.
No.
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Yep.
Yeah.
Monday, Tuesday.
Yeah.
We're going out on Sunday to the plush New Year's.
Oh, they were coming home Wednesday.
Coming home Wednesday morning.
Yeah.
We're coming home Wednesday.
So Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday morning.
That's an experience couple right there.
Yeah.
I bet you get there.
We're still like after one hotel takeover night, we're like.
Okay.
It's struggling to function the next day.
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We have, we are not great at pacing ourselves.
Yeah.
You got to rally.
What had happened to us is we went to New Year's Eve plush last year.
And we just did the two nights and then we walked into basically on the day before on
the 30th, they have a big daytime party and it's in a lobby of this hotel.
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So we walked in with full luggage and just walked into this like.
Sober.
Just dead sober.
This huge party.
And then like some friends were already there to hit them running up to us and they were
drunk.
And it was just a lot to handle.
Yeah.
So this year we said, let's, let's go at our own pace.
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Let's go in a night before and they're actually having a pre pre pre pre pre pre party.
Yeah.
On the night of the 29th.
It's not the takeover on the 29th.
So it's like a little black dress party.
So a little more conservative.
But yeah.
So then in the morning on the actual start of everything, we will be there and be ready
on terms.
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Mamosas in our bodies.
Not loading our luggage in.
And this year we're actually bringing our podcast equipment there too.
So we might bring some people and do some podcasts from the room.
We always say that.
We bring it, but then we end up, you know, getting drunk and we just forget.
Drunk and just.
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Okay.
Wait.
So when are you going?
Sunday.
Because we're off.
We're going Sunday the 29th all the way through Wednesday the morning.
Oh my God.
Don't give me that.
I want to give it to you.
Tom is looking at Liz like, don't.
I know.
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Think about it.
We have them on FaceTime, so we're watching them and they're watching us.
We can see she is the crazy one in a relationship.
And I, you can see her brain is like spinning like she's spinning in her chair and you can
tell her brain is trying to figure out, can we make this happen?
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And he is kind of like looking at her like, oh, here she goes again.
But ultimately he will, he will go with whatever she wants to do.
You would love it.
I would love it.
They're selling, they're selling a single day tickets right now.
Unfortunately, I have to be the financially responsible party at the moment.
And the deadie down.
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They have these awesome things called credit cards.
And you can just pay it off.
There you go.
You just paid it off.
You have an empty credit card.
Make one call it the LS card and that's how you do all your stupid shit.
I don't know.
We'll just connect it to a fake business and I'll just declare bankruptcy.
There you go.
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Oh my God.
Financial advice.
But, um, so anyways, it's been great having you guys on.
We got a lot, a lot of stories we want to go through with you guys, but we can't do
it all in one because your journey, much like ours has a lot of a lot of roller coasters
(45:41):
and a lot of ups and some downs and we definitely want to kind of capture all that, but we don't
want to rush through it.
So now that we have this whole FaceTime audio video things set up, we can definitely have
you guys on more often.
Can't wait.
So, but first I want to, I want to get reviews and if people don't like you, then we'll probably
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know how you want it again.
So, nothing against you guys.
You just host us again and then never post it.
We like you guys.
We like you guys.
Let's make it a series.
So make sure you watch and rewatch or sorry, listen and re-listen.
And don't forget to like, subscribe and five stars.
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Yes.
Getting fizzy with Tom and Lizzie.
Hey.
That's the segment.
Yes, we're getting what?
Giggles.
Yeah, you came up the name.
Giggles, gangbangs.
We didn't talk about the gamebangs though.
Yeah, we didn't touch on the gangbangs.
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Well, that's for next time.
Have you been in a gangbang?
I have, I directed one.
Directed one?
I have a t-shirt that says orgy referee.
So it sounds like a huge...
I was not a referee.
I was the director.
And I was a part of it.
Gentlemen, gentlemen, we have a hole over here that needs to be filled.
(47:09):
Pronto, pronto.
I was that filler, sir.
All right, so there's a story that we're going to apparently have to have you guys back on for.
Yes.
But is there anything you guys would like to say to the thousands and thousands and thousands of people that are here?
People that are listening to this cast right now.
(47:31):
Well, they're not listening right now.
Well, I guess when they're listening, they are listening right now.
Well, Mr. and Mrs. Sweets, for the absolute best.
If you want to come back for some giggles and gangbangs and gym physicists,
get your booties listening to this podcast, man.
It is a good time.
(47:53):
They're a good time.
And hopefully we'll be back so you can talk about that gangbang.
All right, sounds good.
I'm looking forward to it.
When enjoying the sweet side of life, keep your pineapples upside down, believe in unicorns and keep shaking it up.
I love you, baby.
Love you too.
Bye.
Bye.
Bye.
I think our dog just farted.
(48:15):
Stupid.
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