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We're going to change the intro song.
Welcome everybody to Season 3.
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Season 3 Chapter 1 Volume 5.
Right now it is February 6th and we are a week late.
In my head, I was going to be like, 2025 was our year.
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We were going to come in hard.
I don't know what they expect of us.
We're drunks.
Drunks are never on time.
That's true.
We're actually living by our word.
So I already broke my New Year's resolutions.
We didn't talk about our New Year's resolutions.
First let's cheers.
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You just completely interrupted me.
Because we hadn't talked about our New Year's.
Were you just going to tell a joke or was it your real name?
I had jokes.
Okay, give your joke.
Babe, it's too late now.
Was your New Year's resolution that you broke?
No, you don't fucking care.
I care so hard.
I wanted to give you your own segment.
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Cheers.
Cheers.
Cheers.
Cheers.
Cheers, my friend.
Well, I'll let you go first.
What are you drinking?
I am drinking a lemon cello spritz.
Spritz.
Spritz.
And you made it on ice so it's on ice.
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Was it not supposed to be?
It's questionable because usually spritzes are in a wine glass.
All right.
Well, it would have been a lemon cello.
But I think they do put ice actually when it's in a wine glass.
A lot of regulars.
You got the rocks version.
I'm not a regular spritz drinker.
So what's in it?
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Tell the thousands and millions of listeners we have what exactly is in your drink.
Lemon cello.
Which is?
Lemon cello.
Which is what?
A lemon the core.
Thank you.
Perseco.
You got to tell me how much.
Oh, I don't know.
I didn't make it.
You made it.
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Hold on.
It's two ounces.
Let me see what I texted you.
Two ounces of lemon cello.
Four ounces of Perseco.
Every quarter ounce of lemon juice and two ounces of soda water.
Facts.
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And you like it.
I do.
You said it's refreshing.
It is refreshing.
The recipe actually called for a garnish of time in a lemon wheel.
However, you failed to do that.
So.
We don't have those.
Here we are.
My less fancy drink.
No, it's good.
Good for you.
I am drinking a tsunami.
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So.
It's it's just a random Facebook drink.
Terrible.
It's an it's a terrible drink made by AI.
Yes, it's an ounce of.
It probably has a regular name like a bar name, but it's an ounce of vodka, ounce of
Malibu or coconut rum, but in this case it's Malibu, an ounce of peach schnapps and an
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ounce of blue curacao.
So this recipe called for no mixer.
It was just four shots of liquor.
Very weak liquor.
But they tasted like ass in that combination.
And if you listen to it was an ounce of blue curacao.
I eat ass.
You do.
And you like it.
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So then you should like this drink.
No, this is bad ass.
So was he said an ounce of blue curacao?
I think I trimmed this one down to three quarter.
Yeah, that's because it took over.
I think it took a lot.
So I ended up adding probably about three ounces of Sprite to cut it and it made it palatable.
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It's not good.
I'm not enjoying it.
So I'm kind of in a little bit of a bad mood at the moment.
Your poop's going to be blue tomorrow.
My what?
Your poop's going to be blue tomorrow.
I don't think I drink enough.
To get the Smurf poop, I think you have to have like one or two audio or at least two
to three audios and that first.
But anyways, enough about my poop.
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So today is Thursday the sixth and we got something coming up here in two days.
Or should I say I got something coming up.
Yes.
You want to know what you have going on in two days?
What's that?
Whatever you have going on in two days, fuck my shit up over here.
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My whole setup was all jacked up because you got all these wires and speakers and all this
other random shit hooked up in here.
All right.
So if you guys didn't hear in the past podcast, I got my band back together and we have our
first show coming up on this coming Saturday the eighth.
And what is my man cave slash studio is also where I bring my music equipment in when it's
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time to rehearse.
So I got drum sets in here.
I got pedals everywhere and I got a little extra wires because I'm in rehearsal mode right
now.
Not my drink over with your wires.
So I'm looking for a new co-host.
This one has become a true pain in my ass.
Facts.
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Ditto.
So yeah, if you guys, if you guys, I know there's a lot of people that listen to our
podcast that are actually coming to this event as first timers that we haven't met.
And I didn't realize how many there were.
There's a shit ton of people that said they're coming to the event, but you always have to
take RSCPs with the grain of salt.
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When you have people that are RSCP in Pennsylvania, unless they're paying for it in advance, you
don't really know.
So yeah, a lot of people RSCP, I don't know, is like the RSCP for cloud.
But I mean, it's, I don't know.
I don't get it.
If, if, if I RSCP for something, we're going to be there.
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Maybe just to see the guest list.
You can see the guest list without RSCP and you can't comment on the wall or like things
without RSCP.
Maybe they want to like things.
And I think some people, they do it as a favor to like make your event look like boost it,
make it look like it's more popular.
And if you're coming from that angle, I appreciate it.
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But me, I'm like, if, if we're on the RSCP, we're going, if something happens, we can't
make it.
I removed myself from the RSCP.
So yeah, so I mean, according to the RSCP, though, there's a lot of, a lot of people
come in and a lot of people, I apologize, everybody.
We have a community on Cassidy.
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It's called the sweet side of life.
It's a community.
If you're on Cassidy, you know what it is.
I don't get notifications.
I don't get any type of anything when people comment on that or join in.
I don't know what happened.
I maybe have to check the settings, but we've got like a whole lot more people within the
last couple of weeks and people are like, yeah, we're coming to see you.
Can't wait.
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I'm like, wow, like, sorry.
I just went through today and like, I liked a bunch of them like shit.
I did not even know these messages existed.
But I'm going to do my best or no, can't say that.
I'm going to try to do better at checking that community.
And, and also we're part of the, the discord with the swinger's couch podcast.
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They have a discord.
I believe it's called a swinger's paradise though.
Now they, they kind of, instead of just being like a community or a discord community based
on their podcast, they're trying to create something bigger.
So they called it now swinger, um, what did I say was paradise and they have a bunch of
different like rooms.
If you've ever been in discord, there's like the main channel and then there's a bunch
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of subcategories.
So there's a NSFW, SFW, um, ask us anything.
There's a bunch of categories so you can post in whatever is most, most relevant.
Um, I had to remove notifications on it cause one night they were getting cray in there.
My phone was going ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.
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It was sounding like we were in a fucking casino with my phone.
So I muted it and then I went, I forgot I muted it and I went back in a couple of days
later and I was like, so I'm going to try to, I'm going to try it again.
I'm not going to do my best.
I'm going to do, try to do better at paying attention in there.
That's very like, I'm going to try to do better.
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No promises.
Yeah.
It's very like, we'll see.
That's all I can get right now.
So yeah, there's a lot of that going on and we got a shit ton coming up in the next couple
of months, but what I wanted to do in this particular episode was, um,
Well, first, what's your, what was your New Year's resolution?
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Um, to give more ass.
Oh, I love that for you.
Um, no, my New Year's resolution was to, uh, be better with the broadcast.
Was it?
Excuse me.
Excuse you.
Um, to be better in a sense of try to be more on time.
Cause right now we're kind of, you're failing right out the gate.
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I had some friends say you guys said you were going to do weekly.
I was like, did we?
No, that was an oversell.
No, it was, it's always been a bi-weekly, bi-monthly, whatever you want to call it.
So there was one time about a year ago where we did a month of weeklies.
Just we kind of like, just, just try it.
Oh, we were just trying to do it.
Yeah.
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It was like in December and we're like, let's just do it.
And we did one, I think for, uh, every, for like a month.
But that was it.
I've never said that.
I mean, I would love for it to be a weekly thing.
Um,
They have to be shorter.
Well, well, here's the thing is, uh, what's the name of that podcast?
Like I'm having a complete brain fart right now.
You're going to have to be more specific than that podcast to me, considering I don't really
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listen to podcasts.
Oh my God.
Swing nation.
I'm like, um, they, they, they do two shows a week.
They're, they have what's called Tuesday talks.
But it's their job.
Yeah.
But what I'm saying is, I'm like, don't compare us to that.
Let me finish my thought.
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They do Tuesday talks, which is a typically a 15 minute.
It's in and out.
And then they do their normal.
Are you still, um, are you still there's a bit of controversy?
What?
Yeah.
All right.
So, oh, you brought it up.
All right.
So anyways, so swing nation, um, Lacey and Dan been listening to their podcasts for a
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long time and, and they're, they have a great community and, um, all that stuff.
So a couple of months back, they, uh, they started their Tuesday talks episodes, which
is just 15 minutes.
They answer like a single question from a voicemail or whatever.
So move along.
I'm trying.
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Again, I'm looking for a new, a new co-host.
Um, don't you have like a drink to make or something?
Like, give me a minute with the people.
No, not everybody.
A lot of people, some of our friends, your fucking talk, well, then you, maybe you should
have not fucking interrupted me.
God damn it.
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So anyways, a lot of people work backwards.
So, um, anyways, Tuesday talks, they did this thing where they're like, Hey, we're
looking for a, a jingle, like an intro for our thing.
So me being a musician, I'm like, fuck yeah, this is right up my alley.
You know, so I wrote a cute little jingle and, uh, they played it.
They loved it.
And then they kind of like said, all right, Hey, this is cool.
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Let's, let's see what people can do.
And they started, everybody started, you know, doing some jingles.
Um, from what I could tell and from what they seemed like they said, everything was AI though,
which you know what, it's fine.
Do your AI.
But I wrote mine with my own sweat, blood and tears.
Yup.
You wrote the lyrics.
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You've recorded all the instruments.
I did it all.
You recorded the vocals.
I did it all.
And, um, uh, Lacey said she loved it from the get go.
And then all these, all these AIs were coming through and Dan was all about it.
He's like, Oh, give me the, and she's just like enough with the fucking jingles.
Like we need to just pick one and be done with it.
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And she has said multiple times in the past that, uh, I liked the original one, which was
mine because I included a little excerpt of them, uh, laughing at the end.
They're like, it's, it's really personal.
And that's why I did it like that.
So he's like, all right, fine.
We'll stick with one.
And then, so he, um, on the last Tuesday talks, he, he queued what I think he thought
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was going to be mine, the original cause he, cause he said, um, all right, Lacey, I chose
this one.
It's the original one.
You liked it.
Cause it had our laughing at the end, but he, he played their damp, damp, damp, their normal
intro.
Oh, so I think he just placed the wrong one.
The wrong file.
Cause when he's like, but it was all damp, damp, but it was like a shortened version.
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And it like faded out.
And then there was like a five second pause before they talked.
So I'm like, clearly there was some type of thing because the way he described it, the
way he described it, it was mine, but that was not mine.
So I don't know.
So maybe next week, I don't know.
I'm going to have to talk to some of these lawyers.
Um, Jen and Lacey, if you're listening, they haven't listened to it.
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They don't know yet.
They, they had said, um, when it first came out that they were, they were going to give
us a list the next time they were on their long road trip.
So either they didn't listen or they did and they didn't like it.
So they're like, we're not going to mention, they're like, maybe this guy should just stick
with the jingle.
Yeah.
So, um, so yeah, the Charlie Sheen of the, the, the L S community.
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If you need a jingle, it's not Charlie Sheen.
It's Charlie Harper.
Oh, but it was Charlie.
It was Charlie Harper character.
Yes.
Exactly.
So anyways, um, but speaking of Dan and Lacey, they, we have to make it out to one of their
events eventually, but they're always like Nashville, Atlanta, Florida.
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Most of their events are planned months in advance and they sell out.
So you kind of have to commit to it well in advance, which this particular next, yeah,
next four or five, six months are pretty busy.
But like I said, if this was my full time job, fuck yeah.
Well, maybe if you did it more often, it could be monetized it somehow.
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Well, my, my only fans didn't really take off like I had hoped.
So I got one subscriber and it's you just so you can tag me.
So it didn't really work out.
Um, but anyways, excuse you.
So anyways, um, so a lot of our, a lot of our podcasts, you're not going to ask me what
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my news resolution is.
I already know.
Well, they don't, they don't care.
All right.
What is your, what is your revolution?
Not revolution resolution.
What is your new year's resolution?
My new year's resolution was boring.
Yeah.
Boring.
You just won.
Yeah.
Just for boring.
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Um, be more boring.
Be more boring.
I feel like I have a feeling some people who listen to this and know me in person are going
to be very sad about that.
Um, my new year's resolution is to be is, I don't want to say be more positive for one,
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but like when I think somebody, something about a woman to say it, I hesitate because
I'm not traditional, like bisexual, like, so I don't want to, I'm spaghetti.
So I don't want to lead people on, but I also want to lift women up.
So that's what I struggle with.
So I want to make sure that like, if I think like, oh, she looks really good or she's got
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really pretty eyes or she's got really nice hair or whatever it is, like great tattoos
or whatever it is to say something to her because I know when people compliment me,
I feel that like feel good.
And sometimes it can take me out of like a mindset of like, I feel bloated, I feel gross,
I feel like, I don't even want to be wearing this and I'm like trying on 50 fucking outfits
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and I don't feel good in anything.
And then I go out and somebody compliments me and you always compliment me, but I'm married
to you.
It's kind of your job.
It's, it is a known fact that, you know, getting compliments from your SO don't mean
shit.
I know it's not that it doesn't mean anything, but it means it means it means what it means,
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but it definitely is elevated when you hear from a stranger where, you know, because they
have no like skin in the game.
Well, they do.
I mean, yes, they do, but it is different.
Yeah.
So I know that it can take me out of like a feeling like to feeling like better about
myself.
So for sure, I definitely want to put aside like my weirdness about like, oh, well, they
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think I'm hitting on them, are they going to expect me to do XYZ or they expect this
of me just to put the compliment out there and leave it.
Yeah.
No, that's a, that's a good, that's a good thing.
That's a good resolution.
Yeah.
I've, I'm kind of, it's not really a resolution, but I've, I'm trying to get better with that,
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that exact thing.
Yeah.
You have a hard time.
Hard time complimenting people.
Yeah.
In general.
Yeah.
And then now complimenting, you know, I don't want to say strangers, but people that aren't
my wife has always been a struggle for me.
I've definitely gotten better, better, but I do want to continue to get better about
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that.
Yeah.
Like, yeah, like compliment, just complimenting whatever it is, like your ass, whole looks
delicious.
Your ass looks delicious.
Do you mind?
But no, uh, yeah, I think that's a great, that's a great revolution to have.
It's a resolution, not a revolution.
You're weirdo.
Give me one second.
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I got to fix my headphones.
So keep talking to the people.
Okay.
Well, anyway, so what else was I going to say?
Hmm.
I think that's it.
I think that's all I had to say for today.
Move it.
Move it.
You just closed out the show.
All right.
So I'm going to enjoy this kidding.
Just shut it down.
All right.
My, my headphone cord was like getting all coil.
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There we go.
I told you this whole studio fucked up my shit.
Anyways, so, um, chords everywhere, chords everywhere.
So yeah.
So anyways, most of our, most of our podcast, um, to date have been fairly, uh, story, personal
stuff based.
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Um, but I wonder what I wanted to try to do this year, part of my 2025 resolution is to,
um, try to be more timely.
Um, I do want to try to have.
Finish a thought.
I do want to try to, um, have more informational shows, not, not lessons, but just more informational
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like, um, we've had some friends ask us to give, you know, insight on how to prep for
our first party or what to expect when you're going to a meeting, greed, how to act and,
you know, and those were all things kind of initially when we started the podcast, like
we were still learning, but I feel like we've been doing it now for a while and we've interacted
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and had enough of these type of venues and all that.
We kind of have a pretty good idea what to expect at most and.
Yeah.
And every time you say what to expect.
I think of what to expect when you're expecting like, I don't know why that just goes into
my brain.
So you're telling me to finish the thought and here are the peanut gallery over here.
Squirrel, squirrels are messing up the wire.
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You're saying, um, no, you're fucking with me.
So what to expect when expecting and I'm not saying every show is going to be like that,
but I do want to touch on a few on those.
And then I also want to do some more interviews.
Yeah.
We did an interview with our friends from Michigan the other day and we're all I felt
it was like a month ago.
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Yeah.
I felt it went pretty good.
It was, it was kind of fun, you know, having like a different insight and all that stuff.
We need to get more of their stories.
We get more of their stories and I do want to, she's always like, how much do you want
me to tell them?
Like, tell what you want to tell, tell whatever you're comfortable telling you.
Just remember it's out there.
Say more or not less.
Once it's out there, it's out there.
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And I do, you know, I do want to do some more FaceTime video, you know, calls with people
out and about because I mean, we got a lot of people, you know, especially swing or
scotch podcast, they, they want to, you know, have us in and we want to have them in and
you can't.
Are you done?
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And then I, we have a lot of local friends that they all have some great stories and
I'd love to bring them in and put them here on our swingers couch in the rehearsal studio
and let them tell their stories.
So that's kind of my goal is a little bit.
So starting that, that train of thought, this show, I wanted to really focus on Southern
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California and also we're going to touch a little bit of Vegas because we got a big
Vegas trip coming up.
So, you know what, before, before we go any further into this whole list of freaking things
I got, let's, let's put out some stuff really quick.
So you guys can reach us at the sweet side of life podcast at outlook.com.
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No, I need you to stop.
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That is our sweet side of life hotline.
So you can text us there and there's a good chance I'll text you back.
We take pictures there.
Is it your voice on the, on the voicemail?
It's our voice on the voicemail.
I talked.
On the voicemail?
Yeah.
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Did I?
Yeah.
Talk for a second.
Let me pull this up.
It's pretty fucking funny.
I don't recall talking and I can't believe you never played it before.
Are you kidding me?
I don't.
You recorded it.
Did I?
Oh, I don't know.
I feel like you drug me and then you just make me do things.
Just kidding.
You shouldn't say that all along.
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Fair enough.
Joking.
Speaking of drugging though.
I bought this stuff.
Hold on.
I'm gonna take a look at it.
Okay.
Hello?
You have reached the sweet side of life podcast voicemail.
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What's on your mind?
Say less.
Too.
So yeah, we recorded that in our kitchen.
I don't remember that.
You were sober.
That sounds right.
But anyways, what were you saying?
Oh, no, I just bought this stuff that was like, I put it on the internet so it can't
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be like illegal.
I'm pretty sure.
That it's like mushroom juice.
Oh, mushroom juice.
I don't know.
It's called a...
I haven't tried it yet.
I'm kind of scared because I don't do drugs.
I don't do drugs.
I don't do drugs.
I mean, I looked at the reviews and some people are like, I didn't feel anything.
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Other people are like, I tasted colors.
So it's like, there's really no...
I wanted to use color.
There's like no medium.
I've never done...
What is it called?
I've done the marriage of Juana.
But I've never done...
We did marriage of Juana in Jamaica and we saw backstage of Everybody Loves Raymond.
They didn't invite us.
They didn't.
It was through our TV.
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We could see backstage.
We did tell that story and I think the second or third episode.
But yeah, I want to check it out.
I want to see backstage of a TV show again.
We'll have to try one of these.
I told you on one night you can do it and then I'll be the sober one.
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I thought about doing it tonight.
Wouldn't have been a good idea.
Wouldn't have been a good idea.
Maybe tomorrow night you can do it.
But anyways, so...
I was like, oh yeah.
See, this is why we need a freaking...
Like a whole checklist.
What?
What?
So before we get into the...
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You made a checklist.
It's not a check.
Stop talking.
Before we get into the nitty-gritty of this.
Excuse me.
That is the point of this show.
It's to talk.
Not you.
Oh.
Thank you.
Rude.
So we got my show, the February 8th coming up and then we have...
If you guys are in the area and you get this in time and you know Rick,
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that name rings a bell, he's holding his world famous Super Bowl party.
So make sure you go there.
And then what?
February 21st, Friday, we are going to be going to what's it called?
The Cove for Sayless Productions, meet and greet.
Sammy and Cole.
Yeah.
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So we're going to be there.
So make sure you check that out.
But what I wanted to do in this episode was we live in SoCal, like we've talked about before.
And there is a lot of places, a lot of venues, a lot of meet and greets,
a lot of parties to do here in SoCal.
But a lot of people don't know what to look for.
No, I see on Facebook all the time.
Yeah, there's like people that say, what's... I can't find anything.
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I'm like, bitch, where can't you find everything?
How do you look?
How do you actually look?
So what I did is I put together a list.
It's like a man trying to find ketchup in the refrigerator.
Exactly.
Did you really...
Did you move the milk?
Did you move anything to find it?
Well, the eggs aren't going to be a problem now because they're so expensive.
It's there.
So I put together a quick list of places that I know of personally, that we've been to personally,
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or that were part of their community.
So I'm just going to kind of go down this list by region and just throw out names.
So you kind of know what to look for.
If you want to Google it, if you're on Cassidy, all of these places either have a community or a profile.
If you're not on Cassidy, you can just Google it and then just start following links
and then you'll eventually end up where you want to be.
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So let's start in San Diego, which is south.
Again, this is not the only places.
These are just the places I'm aware of.
But if there's another party, like a house party, a place that does meeting reads, anything like that,
that I don't name, please email us.
Shoot me a text, voicemail, whatever it is because I want to know.
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I want to know it all.
So starting in San Diego.
We haven't really been to any places in San Diego, which is so weird because we love San Diego.
We love San Diego, but so first and foremost in San Diego is one of the oldest, oldest LS clubs, house parties, Thads, T-H-A-D-S.
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Thads has a long history. It's one of the only, from what I understand, it's one of the only legal, like LS house party clubs or whatever you want to call it in San Diego.
What does that even mean, legal?
They have some type of permit that is not issued anymore.
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I don't know.
It's grandfathered this particular house.
It's got a long history and they've been doing this shit for years.
So we've never been there.
We almost went there the other, like maybe eight, 10 months ago, I feel like.
But Thads has a new rule.
Like you basically have to walk in and disrobe from what I understand.
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That's what we hear.
We've never been there because that's what people said about Sea Mountain.
But it's very similar is men have to disrobe. Women can do lingerie, but they do have special theme events, which you can dress in theme.
And then during the winter months when it's colder, you are allowed to wear a robe and they do.
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They have events like throughout the week, you know, Tuesday, Wednesday, they have like by nights and they have all this very inclusive place.
Again, I've never been there, but we'll check it out at some point.
House of Black.
That is in San Diego County.
It's more towards, I want to say like it's not Escondido, but it's a little bit further south.
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You don't need to give directions. If they want to find it, they'll find it.
So what you're going to want to do is take the 15th south, get off on the 52 West.
That's going to be like a 45 minute review of just your list.
I told you this was going to take a minute, which is why you're like, we can do this. I'm like, I don't think so.
Because yeah, it's a long list.
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Get through it. Don't give directions to every location.
Babe.
We.
Okay.
Should I just, should you just excuse yourself because you're ruining my vibe right now?
House of Black. It is a, again, a Ellis place. It's geared towards kink. So they have a lot of that type of stuff there.
Club Safeward.
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I know nothing about Club Safeward. It's been on my, my watch list now for a while.
I don't know if they take over a club or what it is, but I'm part of the community. We just have not been there yet.
Paradox, prism, production.
I would imagine Club Safeward is also kink.
It could be. I mean, with the words, I mean the sound of it, but I have no idea.
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Paradox, paradise, paradox, prism, productions is a community by Anastasia.
We remet her this past weekend.
If you guys, you might know her. She's, she's a host at many different clubs here in Southern California, but this is her own little venture.
And she does like private house parties and stuff like that in the San Diego County.
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So I'm going to move all the way up and over to Los Angeles. This is an interesting market.
Oh my God.
I can't.
We don't, again, we don't, we're not huge fans of Los Angeles. It's, it's just hard to get in, hard to get out.
Expensive. Did you say that?
Yeah, of course I did.
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So I'm just going to touch on some places that I know is up there. Club Joy Top. It's one of the top LS places out there in LA.
Everybody knows about it. It's been around for a while. Some of our friends go to the Thursday night hot wife things they do there sometimes, but we've never been there.
Vixen Playhouse. That is a San Fernando Valley brand new place that some of our friends do. Again, we've never been there, but I've heard really good things about it.
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We watch the tour. We do have to do it.
Yeah. We talked about it in a couple, couple episodes ago.
Yeah. It looks really nice.
And then we always talk about plush. Plush does typically hotel takeovers, but they do some events in the Huntington Beach area and then in the Anaheim area.
So they also do Havasu. They do Vegas. They do San Diego.
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They do it all. But they seem to have a monthly residence at some place in Anaheim. I don't know if it's a mansion party, but plush, look it up, follow them.
There's one place I want to go to called the famous Love Shack. It's a house party, but it's been around for a while.
Love Shack, babe.
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And you're saying I'm taking one.
And then Swing Hearts, which we've never been to Swing Hearts. No, we have been to Swing Hearts.
We were at Swing Hearts.
Swing Hearts is up in the Northridge area. It was a great house party. We had a really good time there. You can check our review back probably 10 episodes, 12 episodes back.
We did a party there and had a really good time. So Riverside County. This is kind of our area. This is kind of where we hang. This is our zone.
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Are you ready? There's a shit ton of places out here.
Are you ready for it?
I'm going to name a name and you're going to review it really quick. Athena's Fontana, go.
It's a house party all outside. They have a very good nice spread. They have one inside playroom and then everything else is in like gazebos, kind of like pseudo tenti gazebos outside, but they all have beds.
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It's fun party better, I think, in the summer because it is.
It's more resort style. Resort style. Again, it is all outside. They have two bars. They always have bartenders. The bartenders are good until they get drunk.
It's a good vibe.
Yes. Club Taboo. We haven't been there.
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Mira Loma. This place has been around for a long time. We almost went there, but I saw that they were doing something funky on the guest list. So I'm like, I'll leave it at that.
We've heard good things about Club Taboo and I would like to check it out at some point, but with so many...
We'd also like their guests to be current.
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Exactly.
Not deceased.
You know what? I'm going to touch on that. So Club Taboo. They've been around for a long time, like I said.
And if you go in Cassidy, they have flyers, they have event infos, and then RACPs and all that stuff.
So you can go at any point in time, see who potentially is going to that party.
So they had this one party and they had like 350 people going. I'm like, damn, we got to go check this place out.
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And I start looking at the RACPs and there's people that are going to this party that have not been online for three to five years, which does not work.
Because you couldn't RACP to a party unless you were online.
Unless you're online.
So what it looks like they were doing was they created a party event five, six years ago.
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And then every party, they just changed the date, but they keep the same everything.
So the RACP list carries over.
So of course there's 350 people that have.
That's how many have ever RACP in the entire time they've had parties in the last six years.
So I was like, I busted you buddy.
Is it Taboo?
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Club Taboo.
Taboo. Taboo. Taboo.
But we have a friend of ours that said they used to go there and they enjoyed it.
So I don't, I'm not, I don't want to talk smack, but that was, that was kind of shady.
Taboo.
Because we were like literally, we were going, we were going to get it.
We were going to get an Uber.
We were going to book a room.
You were shady, shady.
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But then I'm like, that don't look right.
I may have been, see, I may have been born during the day, but not yesterday.
Okay, Boomer.
All right.
There is another one called Swinger Empire.
We have not been to this one.
It's in Riverside.
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They specialize in, how do you say it, anal?
I don't know.
Is it corridors?
Corridos?
It's like the Spanish music and cumbias and stuff.
But anyways, this particular event has a live band.
They have like live mariachi bands and they really specialize in that kind of, that, that
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vibe and stuff.
Yeah.
So we want to check that out, but again, Hispanic.
I don't speak the greatest Spanish.
And so not to say we don't have lots of great friends, but I just don't know if that's my
whole vibe.
The entire night.
Yeah.
I love me a good cumbia.
I love me a good cumbia.
Not five hours of cumbia.
Yeah, I'm not sure about that.
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There's a place called a newer house party.
I believe it is called Key Club in San San Jacinto.
That's questionable.
We, we get invited to this party.
They're listeners.
Jesus.
San Jacinto's questionable, but I'm down.
Yeah.
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So we haven't made it out there yet.
But yeah, it's called the Key Club.
They seems to be a house party from what I could tell.
Okay.
So there is a promoter, Eric, Eric with a club elation.
He's had this community for a long time.
And I'm pretty sure pre COVID, he did like house parties and stuff like that.
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And I know he's been trying to get together like a physical building for a while.
But as far as I know, that hasn't happened yet.
He's still working on it, but he does do various meeting greets throughout the communities
and stuff like that.
If you kind of want to know, like he, he kind of co sponsors a lot of different events.
So if you follow his community, you'll see all types of these events because he, like
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I said, he co sponsors them and he puts on his own meeting greets and all that stuff.
So check it out.
Club elation.
And then of course there's the pink taco meeting greet, which is the second Tuesday of every
month at club Alice club Alice is I thought it was club outs.
It's not Alice something.
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Should have thought this through friend.
I thought it was club outs.
You can figure it out.
It's a bar.
Alice in Wonderland.
That's what comes up first in Riverside.
But anyways, it's the pink taco meetup.
It's a, it's a community.
And the second Tuesday of every month, they kind of take over the, the upstairs area of
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this bar.
And it's a great meeting.
Great.
We try to go there when we can.
Lake Alice trading company.
Lake Alice trading company.
And of course, San B parties, San but parties, which is the, the one we reviewed just a couple
of parts episodes ago with the snake in the room.
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Great party.
We got to go again.
Their next party is actually this Saturday, the same day as my gig.
Otherwise we'd be going to the San B party.
And then in Elsinore, you have be a Vita, which is like a outside pool resort type house party.
It's more, we'll call that a resort because it's not house part.
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It's a resort.
So be a Vita pool, be a Vita and MNPP.
They, they kind of coexist on the same property.
They all have their own different parties.
Check it out.
Check it out.
And of course we got DTF productions, which you've heard about that.
They put on all the less parties in Menafee.
Check them out.
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Say less productions, which is the meeting greet that we just got done talking about that we're
going to be going to on February 21st.
Yes.
You can look them up on communities.
And then mountain side and champions meeting greet, which is another fun one.
Look them up.
You can exhaust it.
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So many things.
We're getting towards the end of the list though.
Good.
Good.
Our friends that know me, they know how annoyed I am right now.
And that's what they're laughing at.
Our friends that know me know that I'm exhausted.
No, it was your idea.
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It was not my idea.
So one of our, our other favorite places to visit is Palm Springs.
So, um, there's a couple of different Palm Springs places.
SMI, C mountain in is a basically a full nude resort, LS resort.
That is a resort.
You can stay overnight.
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You can stay overnight.
They have a handful of rooms.
Um, the basic rules are is you have to get nude.
You get it.
You could, they, they give you some time to kind of, you know, drop down and get comfortable.
But for the most part, you're expected to be nude.
You can wear a towel.
Women can wear sarongs and stuff like that.
Um, Dewey, great guy.
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He always makes sure you're having a great time there.
Um, and I think we're going to have to visit that place more this summer because of
sadly, some of the more news coming up.
So you've heard us talk about EDR.
Sad.
Sad.
It was, I'll speak for myself.
It was probably my favorite place to go to, um, in regards to like a resort style.
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Yeah.
Cause they had multiple rooms.
They had it all.
They had pools.
They had jacuzzi's.
Um, they have, you know, great restaurants around just downtown Palm Springs in itself
is great.
So I always really enjoyed, um, Palm Springs and EDR.
However.
Can I have, can I have your attention, please?
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Fuck that place.
So the owners of EDR over the past six months have been given a lot of mixed messages, mixed
signals to the LS community.
Um, originally it started with just some, you know, we're going to bring into public
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and have a quick party and, but no, we're LS and then it turned into this, this, this
and all of a sudden they had, they had something happen there, quote unquote, where we can't
do, uh, public, um, sex anymore.
And then it turned into topless only.
And then it turned into no nudity and a no, no, no, but, but we still support our LS
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community.
And then it turned into, yeah, fuck y'all.
We're just going to turn into you guys can have sex in your own rooms.
Yeah.
Any fucking hotel.
I can do that.
Exactly.
So they, they have now downgraded to, you know, one of the top LS resorts in Palm Springs
to just a quote unquote boutique, cute boutique resort in Palm Springs, ain't nothing fucking
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cute about that resort.
We tolerated the fact that our freaking room had missing floor tiles because of all the
other things we could do there.
All the other people that were there missing floor tiles, but there's a ply piece of plywood
in our room covered with a carpet.
Yeah, exactly.
That's what I'm saying.
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My point.
Exactly.
We tolerated a lot of like the amenities not being great because of the fact that it was
the people who we met there were so great.
The environment was so friendly.
And it was a resort that supported our community.
Yeah.
It was a resort that supported our community.
We'll rub your back.
You rub ours type thing.
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Yeah.
Like it wasn't overly priced.
It was like it was just such a vibe.
It was a party.
So sadly.
So in their final message to us, it was like, yeah, we decided we had to do this to be able
to keep our doors open.
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And since we've made this change, we've been packed lies.
It's all lies.
And then they said our our goal is to put a bunch of money into the rooms and at some
point return as your bullshit LS.
Yeah, whatever.
Fuck you.
Bullshit.
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Yeah.
Yeah.
You're toyed with my feelings.
You hurt my you hurt my feelings.
So yeah.
Fuck you.
So do we stoked?
Right.
I know they were probably his biggest competition.
100% because they were clothing optional.
As opposed to mandatory nudity.
And that was a big thing for a lot of people.
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Me.
Yeah.
I was going to call you out.
But I am.
I prefer to, you know, get nude when I'm ready to get new, which it typically happens.
But I like to set my own boundaries there.
But yeah, you know what?
That just leaves room for more people.
So there's two other resorts right now in the Palm Springs areas.
I want to touch on one of them is called Secret Springs resorts.
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This place is, I think we've mentioned them before, but I want to say they're around a
year or so old.
I don't know if they've gone through a full summer season or yet, but I've heard great
things and we definitely have to check it out.
So we will hopefully be getting out there soon.
And then there's another place called Hotel O2.
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I don't know much about this place.
Somebody told me the name, I looked it up and it is a new, it is a clothing optional
resort.
The website itself doesn't like tag itself as like an LS paradise.
It doesn't, but it is a clothing optional and it has a bunch of like different themed
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rooms and stuff.
And again, we'll check it out.
It's up in the desert Springs area, which is right over there by SMI and also Secret
Springs resort.
So we got some new places to check out.
It just sucks cause they're not like in Palm Springs.
Yeah, they're not cause we do, we like go into all the Tiki bars and yeah, like we know
like SMI is in the middle of like the mountains and the neighborhoods and not a whole lot.
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There's like a 7-Eleven down the street.
That brings us to Vegas, which I saved this for last because we got a big Vegas trip coming
up.
Nope.
What are we doing in Vegas?
Where are we going in Vegas?
When are we going to Vegas?
We're going to Vegas.
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We're going to Val, well, president's day or Valentine's day weekend, whichever you
want to call it.
It's one in the same.
And we are going to try flirts.
Yes.
We haven't gone to any of those flirts or play house ever.
They're owned by the same company or people or whatever.
So we're going to do flirts.
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And then on Friday.
The 14th.
14th on Valentine's day.
We're going to flirts.
And then on the 15th, we're going to go to whispers Saturday.
Saturday.
We've been to whispers.
Yep.
Many times.
So we're going to go there and do their nighttime party because last time we went was during
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the summer.
It was dirty Vegas.
The end of dirty Vegas and I'm so hungover.
So yeah, we're going to do a nighttime party again, which we haven't done for I think like
two years since your birthday.
Yeah.
And we're going with a nice group of people.
So they're in the area.
Yeah.
If you guys are going to the area.
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Yeah.
We have a quite a bit of listeners out there in the Las Vegas area.
You got our number.
I said it earlier in the podcast.
You can shoot us a text and say, Hey, we're actually going to be there on that night.
Or Hey, we're going to be going on there on that night or whatever the case might be.
We'd love to meet you.
Love to hang out.
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If you got boobies, I'd love to see them.
If you got NAS, you'd like to eat it.
Baby.
You never know.
Catch me at the right time.
We're just, this happened.
But I am kind of on like a thing right now.
I'm starting to get known for it.
So yeah.
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And then on Sunday, well during the day on Saturday, we're going to hit all of our favorite
tiki bars out there and we got some friends coming in from out of town.
It's going to be great.
Sunday, we're thinking about doing the indoor pool party.
The dome pool party.
I can't remember what hotel it's at, but it's not LS.
It's just a dorm.
So if you guys have ever done that, so you have to wear top.
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Yes.
Shoot us an email or a text or something.
Let us know your review.
Is it worth it?
It looks like it might be fun, but I don't know.
Like during the winter months, it's, I know the weather and the temperature and everything
is good, but do the, do the people actually go out?
I think they would.
It's Vegas.
It's all people who go to Vegas to do shit.
You know what I mean?
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Yeah.
Like it's, it's not like, I mean, yeah, I don't know.
I feel like everybody's there on vacation.
So they would go to a pool party.
Okay.
I think so.
I hope you're right.
I do too.
I feel like they wouldn't do it if it wasn't profitable, right?
One would imagine.
And then on Monday, I think Monday we're going to pretty much have to ourselves.
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I think a lot of our friends are leaving either Sunday, late night or like Monday early and
we decided to stay instead of like, you know, trying to bust ass home.
Honestly, it was because the flights were way cheaper on Tuesday than Monday.
Then Monday, being the holiday.
So we're staying all the way till Tuesday morning.
So we're staying in old town.
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Old town.
Old town, downtown, downtown Fremont Street.
That's where I feel most at home with all the freaks.
I know me too.
I'm like, I enjoy seeing half naked nuns getting spanked.
I know.
I feel like it's just my life.
I bought us a circle.
Did you?
We can do our act.
I'm supposed to do weird shit in a circle.
I'm going to, I'm going to eat ass on Fremont Street.
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And get tips.
Hopefully.
I think we could get some tips.
Figure it out.
You're, I just thought of you eating just random people's ass on Fremont Street.
They better tip me.
Fuck.
Especially if they want to throw up.
I'm going to throw up.
Anyways.
So in Vegas, we, we've only done whispers when it comes to LS clubs.
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Like you said, we're going to try flirts.
Playhouse is probably not going to make it this trip, but we definitely want to try it.
But there is a handful of other clubs out there that we don't, we've heard things about
it.
Things, but some people swear by these places.
Yeah.
Actually recently um, one of them is the green door.
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The green door is one of them.
Yeah.
So um, some friends were going with, they love the green door.
Um, actually Sam and Cole.
Oh, Sam and Cole love it.
Cole was like what?
It's the best.
There's rooms.
It's clean.
He's like, you can go into like a box and it's like windowed.
He said, and then like basically you just do whatever the fuck you want in there.
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And you're on display.
For everybody so I mean that's a vibe, but it's very free to makers
Yeah, there was a there was a there was a there's was a mirror a two-way or one-way or two-way mirror
Whatever it was. How do you say anyway? He was all about it and I was like well. I don't think this trip
Who knows I've heard I've heard things about grain door, but I've as of recent. I've heard more positive
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Yeah, maybe they're cleaning up their act
Hopefully they're cleaning up
Clean and then I've heard about the Red Rooster and then our other friends
Dr. Feelgood and
Mrs. Feelgood
They like the Red Rooster right that's what they said they initially were gonna do it's one of those two
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Then they said they were gonna meet some friends at Red Rooster. I think it was Red Rooster
Yeah, they decided
They said it was because it was a more mature crowd. Yeah, that's what they said. I'm I don't know I
Again, we heard some like I've heard some weird things from like other people that they hire
prostitutes to come in and like body the club and then to take single men around
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Bachelor parties and stuff to watch
That's that's all like that's just things we hear. I don't know exactly. I mean, obviously we've never been there
but then again like I said, I'm dr. Feelgood and
Mrs. Feelgood
They were all they they like it. So yeah, I mean, but also everybody has their own thing, right?
Exactly. I don't want to yuck anybody's young exactly. So who knows
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But yeah, it sounds like they're gonna do whispers with us instead, but I mean so we have friends that like all those places
We might love those places because yeah, we might we we'd like we really did enjoy club FA
Yeah, and part of the the allure of club FA was it was very it wasn't dirty, but it had that great grit to it
Yeah, and I mean everything I hear sounds like these places have a grit like it's they've seen some shit
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Yeah, so if the walls could only talk
The walls are ball gag
So I would say yeah, I mean at some point I want to try I want to try them all
Because you know, I hate Yelp reviews. I don't trust Yelp reviews. Yeah
Typically Yelp review for no, no, I'm just saying like in general. I
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Don't I don't typically wait it out yourself. You've just reviewed your child's dentist. So you've also reviewed red
Not what I expected you can see on someone's profile all the things you can look at their
Dude, this taco shop is shit, but the Red Rooster
The Red Rooster taco shot tacos are awesome
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No, it was kind of like just thinking of like I don't I don't put a lot of stock into reviews
I'll take it into consideration, right, but I do want to try it myself for sure
So at some point and there's also another place I just actually stumbled across tonight called club 5150
It sounds like it's been a while round a while
I know zero about it. So if you guys are listeners out there, you know anything about it shoot us a text an email
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the sweet side of life podcast at
Outlook.com and you can find our number in our in our links. I'd love to hear your guys's opinion on any of these places that we've never been
Good bad or whatever. I'd love to hear
And I think we're gonna be wrapping this one up, babe
We're hitting that hour mark right now. So I don't think we're gonna get to tell our story
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No, I want to make sure we give our stuff time to really dive in
Are you nervous about what Saturday? No, you said you were I'm nervous for different reasons
I'm nervous
I'm not for playing. I'm nervous because playing has a different meaning. Yeah, right?
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No, I I'm playing on stage. I'm just petrified of getting sick because
I'm one of the singers in this band and singing when you have any type of illness sucks and
Anytime I'm sick the very first place it hits me is my throat. Yeah, and
it's gonna be
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Two years since I've like done a full performance. So my throat is already gonna be struggling. Yeah, so
Sounds like a normal Saturday night for me. Exactly
As of right now, I feel great
So, you know knock on wood
We had some events this past weekend and you know, I I tried to be as responsible as I could
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Oh shit. I was good. I was a good boy
I was good. I was a good boy
I was trying to be as responsible as I could and
You know not overdoing it with the ass eating and I did a really good job
So I feel like you should be proud of me
So as of right now, you know Thursday night if I'm feeling pretty good
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So yeah, I'm not nervous for the performance part of it because it's gonna be fun, you know getting all my friends in one room
Could be bad, but
Yeah, I
Don't think this club knows what's coming. I don't either
If even half of the people show up that are on this RSVP list plus
All the other people that we know that are coming plus the people that just normally go out there on a Saturday
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Yeah, it's gonna be pretty crazy. Yeah
Get there early if you want a table unless you want to sit outside. Yep Old Town Blues Club. We go on at 830
There's a band that plays just before us. They finish at seven
So there is gonna be an hour and a half of time where
There's gonna be a changeover some of the older people are gonna leave the inside
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But there are gonna be people that are sitting there that are there for the night
So if you really want to see you know, they got a bunch of high-top tables and I got chairs everywhere
There's a whole bunch of outdoor seat in beautiful patio. They got TVs and speakers outside
So if you're not able to make the inside crowd, there's full area outside
The TV show the band TVs all the TV show the live band playing which is us and then um, like I said, they're speakers that it's outside as well
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It's a full bar
They've been specialized and lately and like Bourbons and whiskeys. They really like gotten to that
And they have beer and wine. They don't have any food per se. They just have like little charcuterie boards
And like snacks like I think pretzels or something like that
So don't come hungry
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Come thirsty come very thirsty and let's have a good time for this
Yeah
We got some friends that are coming in from out of town getting hotel rooms who knows are my the after parties
to stay in the loop and
You guys know I'm gonna be on the stage playing the guitar and
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and my wife will be in the crowd so
You can come talk to us and then hang out with us at this particular meeting greet band show
There's gonna be no formal identification on somebody asked actually asked this on the
Party wall
There's gonna be no formal identification of people of the Ellis people
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No wristbands or anything like that, but it's gonna be kind of obvious
So you're gonna see like people having fun and then people sitting there not having fun
We're the LS people are gonna be the ones having fun
Probably randomly making out with different people and then you'll see and I have to be careful
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Try not to out myself to everybody so
So yeah, if you see anybody just come up and ask like are you guys here for the the meeting greet?
Or are you guys here for the special event?
Any one of those words will like make a person go. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah, and if they're not they'll be like
What the fuck you talking about and then that's your cue to walk away
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Unless they're cute and you can try to change them, but so yeah, it's gonna be a great night. Hope you guys can come out
I'm gonna put this out. It's gonna
Come out Friday morning and then yeah, hope see you guys there. We got another one coming up March 1st. I believe right
Mm-hmm. I'll make that into a whole thing once this one's done
So I think that's gonna be it for this episode
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All right, take it away when enjoying the sweet side of life
Keep your pineapples upside down believe in unicorns and keep shaking it up. Love you, baby
Love you, okay
Okay
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We're going to change the intro song.
Welcome everybody to Season 3.
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Season 3 Chapter 1 Volume 5.
Right now it is February 6th and we are a week late.
In my head, I was going to be like, 2025 was our year.
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We were going to come in hard.
I don't know what they expect of us.
We're drunks.
Drunks are never on time.
That's true.
We're actually living by our word.
So I already broke my New Year's resolutions.
We didn't talk about our New Year's resolutions.
First let's cheers.
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You just completely interrupted me.
Because we hadn't talked about our New Year's.
Were you just going to tell a joke or was it your real name?
I had jokes.
Okay, give your joke.
Babe, it's too late now.
Was your New Year's resolution that you broke?
No, you don't fucking care.
I care so hard.
I wanted to give you your own segment.
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Cheers.
Cheers.
Cheers.
Cheers.
Cheers, my friend.
Well, I'll let you go first.
What are you drinking?
I am drinking a lemon cello spritz.
Spritz.
Spritz.
And you made it on ice so it's on ice.
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Was it not supposed to be?
It's questionable because usually spritzes are in a wine glass.
All right.
Well, it would have been a lemon cello.
But I think they do put ice actually when it's in a wine glass.
A lot of regulars.
You got the rocks version.
I'm not a regular spritz drinker.
So what's in it?
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Tell the thousands and millions of listeners we have what exactly is in your drink.
Lemon cello.
Which is?
Lemon cello.
Which is what?
A lemon the core.
Thank you.
Perseco.
You got to tell me how much.
Oh, I don't know.
I didn't make it.
You made it.
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Hold on.
It's two ounces.
Let me see what I texted you.
Two ounces of lemon cello.
Four ounces of Perseco.
Every quarter ounce of lemon juice and two ounces of soda water.
Facts.
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And you like it.
I do.
You said it's refreshing.
It is refreshing.
The recipe actually called for a garnish of time in a lemon wheel.
However, you failed to do that.
So.
We don't have those.
Here we are.
My less fancy drink.
No, it's good.
Good for you.
I am drinking a tsunami.
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So.
It's it's just a random Facebook drink.
Terrible.
It's an it's a terrible drink made by AI.
Yes, it's an ounce of.
It probably has a regular name like a bar name, but it's an ounce of vodka, ounce of
Malibu or coconut rum, but in this case it's Malibu, an ounce of peach schnapps and an
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ounce of blue curacao.
So this recipe called for no mixer.
It was just four shots of liquor.
Very weak liquor.
But they tasted like ass in that combination.
And if you listen to it was an ounce of blue curacao.
I eat ass.
You do.
And you like it.
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So then you should like this drink.
No, this is bad ass.
So was he said an ounce of blue curacao?
I think I trimmed this one down to three quarter.
Yeah, that's because it took over.
I think it took a lot.
So I ended up adding probably about three ounces of Sprite to cut it and it made it palatable.
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It's not good.
I'm not enjoying it.
So I'm kind of in a little bit of a bad mood at the moment.
Your poop's going to be blue tomorrow.
My what?
Your poop's going to be blue tomorrow.
I don't think I drink enough.
To get the Smurf poop, I think you have to have like one or two audio or at least two
to three audios and that first.
But anyways, enough about my poop.
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So today is Thursday the sixth and we got something coming up here in two days.
Or should I say I got something coming up.
Yes.
You want to know what you have going on in two days?
What's that?
Whatever you have going on in two days, fuck my shit up over here.
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My whole setup was all jacked up because you got all these wires and speakers and all this
other random shit hooked up in here.
All right.
So if you guys didn't hear in the past podcast, I got my band back together and we have our
first show coming up on this coming Saturday the eighth.
And what is my man cave slash studio is also where I bring my music equipment in when it's
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time to rehearse.
So I got drum sets in here.
I got pedals everywhere and I got a little extra wires because I'm in rehearsal mode right
now.
Not my drink over with your wires.
So I'm looking for a new co-host.
This one has become a true pain in my ass.
Facts.
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Ditto.
So yeah, if you guys, if you guys, I know there's a lot of people that listen to our
podcast that are actually coming to this event as first timers that we haven't met.
And I didn't realize how many there were.
There's a shit ton of people that said they're coming to the event, but you always have to
take RSCPs with the grain of salt.
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When you have people that are RSCP in Pennsylvania, unless they're paying for it in advance, you
don't really know.
So yeah, a lot of people RSCP, I don't know, is like the RSCP for cloud.
But I mean, it's, I don't know.
I don't get it.
If, if, if I RSCP for something, we're going to be there.
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Maybe just to see the guest list.
You can see the guest list without RSCP and you can't comment on the wall or like things
without RSCP.
Maybe they want to like things.
And I think some people, they do it as a favor to like make your event look like boost it,
make it look like it's more popular.
And if you're coming from that angle, I appreciate it.
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But me, I'm like, if, if we're on the RSCP, we're going, if something happens, we can't
make it.
I removed myself from the RSCP.
So yeah, so I mean, according to the RSCP, though, there's a lot of, a lot of people
come in and a lot of people, I apologize, everybody.
We have a community on Cassidy.
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It's called the sweet side of life.
It's a community.
If you're on Cassidy, you know what it is.
I don't get notifications.
I don't get any type of anything when people comment on that or join in.
I don't know what happened.
I maybe have to check the settings, but we've got like a whole lot more people within the
last couple of weeks and people are like, yeah, we're coming to see you.
Can't wait.
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I'm like, wow, like, sorry.
I just went through today and like, I liked a bunch of them like shit.
I did not even know these messages existed.
But I'm going to do my best or no, can't say that.
I'm going to try to do better at checking that community.
And, and also we're part of the, the discord with the swinger's couch podcast.
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They have a discord.
I believe it's called a swinger's paradise though.
Now they, they kind of, instead of just being like a community or a discord community based
on their podcast, they're trying to create something bigger.
So they called it now swinger, um, what did I say was paradise and they have a bunch of
different like rooms.
If you've ever been in discord, there's like the main channel and then there's a bunch
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of subcategories.
So there's a NSFW, SFW, um, ask us anything.
There's a bunch of categories so you can post in whatever is most, most relevant.
Um, I had to remove notifications on it cause one night they were getting cray in there.
My phone was going ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.
(09:37):
It was sounding like we were in a fucking casino with my phone.
So I muted it and then I went, I forgot I muted it and I went back in a couple of days
later and I was like, so I'm going to try to, I'm going to try it again.
I'm not going to do my best.
I'm going to do, try to do better at paying attention in there.
That's very like, I'm going to try to do better.
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No promises.
Yeah.
It's very like, we'll see.
That's all I can get right now.
So yeah, there's a lot of that going on and we got a shit ton coming up in the next couple
of months, but what I wanted to do in this particular episode was, um,
Well, first, what's your, what was your New Year's resolution?
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Um, to give more ass.
Oh, I love that for you.
Um, no, my New Year's resolution was to, uh, be better with the broadcast.
Was it?
Excuse me.
Excuse you.
Um, to be better in a sense of try to be more on time.
Cause right now we're kind of, you're failing right out the gate.
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I had some friends say you guys said you were going to do weekly.
I was like, did we?
No, that was an oversell.
No, it was, it's always been a bi-weekly, bi-monthly, whatever you want to call it.
So there was one time about a year ago where we did a month of weeklies.
Just we kind of like, just, just try it.
Oh, we were just trying to do it.
Yeah.
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It was like in December and we're like, let's just do it.
And we did one, I think for, uh, every, for like a month.
But that was it.
I've never said that.
I mean, I would love for it to be a weekly thing.
Um,
They have to be shorter.
Well, well, here's the thing is, uh, what's the name of that podcast?
Like I'm having a complete brain fart right now.
You're going to have to be more specific than that podcast to me, considering I don't really
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listen to podcasts.
Oh my God.
Swing nation.
I'm like, um, they, they, they do two shows a week.
They're, they have what's called Tuesday talks.
But it's their job.
Yeah.
But what I'm saying is, I'm like, don't compare us to that.
Let me finish my thought.
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They do Tuesday talks, which is a typically a 15 minute.
It's in and out.
And then they do their normal.
Are you still, um, are you still there's a bit of controversy?
What?
Yeah.
All right.
So, oh, you brought it up.
All right.
So anyways, so swing nation, um, Lacey and Dan been listening to their podcasts for a
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long time and, and they're, they have a great community and, um, all that stuff.
So a couple of months back, they, uh, they started their Tuesday talks episodes, which
is just 15 minutes.
They answer like a single question from a voicemail or whatever.
So move along.
I'm trying.
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Again, I'm looking for a new, a new co-host.
Um, don't you have like a drink to make or something?
Like, give me a minute with the people.
No, not everybody.
A lot of people, some of our friends, your fucking talk, well, then you, maybe you should
have not fucking interrupted me.
God damn it.
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So anyways, a lot of people work backwards.
So, um, anyways, Tuesday talks, they did this thing where they're like, Hey, we're
looking for a, a jingle, like an intro for our thing.
So me being a musician, I'm like, fuck yeah, this is right up my alley.
You know, so I wrote a cute little jingle and, uh, they played it.
They loved it.
And then they kind of like said, all right, Hey, this is cool.
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Let's, let's see what people can do.
And they started, everybody started, you know, doing some jingles.
Um, from what I could tell and from what they seemed like they said, everything was AI though,
which you know what, it's fine.
Do your AI.
But I wrote mine with my own sweat, blood and tears.
Yup.
You wrote the lyrics.
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You've recorded all the instruments.
I did it all.
You recorded the vocals.
I did it all.
And, um, uh, Lacey said she loved it from the get go.
And then all these, all these AIs were coming through and Dan was all about it.
He's like, Oh, give me the, and she's just like enough with the fucking jingles.
Like we need to just pick one and be done with it.
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And she has said multiple times in the past that, uh, I liked the original one, which was
mine because I included a little excerpt of them, uh, laughing at the end.
They're like, it's, it's really personal.
And that's why I did it like that.
So he's like, all right, fine.
We'll stick with one.
And then, so he, um, on the last Tuesday talks, he, he queued what I think he thought
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was going to be mine, the original cause he, cause he said, um, all right, Lacey, I chose
this one.
It's the original one.
You liked it.
Cause it had our laughing at the end, but he, he played their damp, damp, damp, their normal
intro.
Oh, so I think he just placed the wrong one.
The wrong file.
Cause when he's like, but it was all damp, damp, but it was like a shortened version.
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And it like faded out.
And then there was like a five second pause before they talked.
So I'm like, clearly there was some type of thing because the way he described it, the
way he described it, it was mine, but that was not mine.
So I don't know.
So maybe next week, I don't know.
I'm going to have to talk to some of these lawyers.
Um, Jen and Lacey, if you're listening, they haven't listened to it.
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They don't know yet.
They, they had said, um, when it first came out that they were, they were going to give
us a list the next time they were on their long road trip.
So either they didn't listen or they did and they didn't like it.
So they're like, we're not going to mention, they're like, maybe this guy should just stick
with the jingle.
Yeah.
So, um, so yeah, the Charlie Sheen of the, the, the L S community.
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If you need a jingle, it's not Charlie Sheen.
It's Charlie Harper.
Oh, but it was Charlie.
It was Charlie Harper character.
Yes.
Exactly.
So anyways, um, but speaking of Dan and Lacey, they, we have to make it out to one of their
events eventually, but they're always like Nashville, Atlanta, Florida.
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Most of their events are planned months in advance and they sell out.
So you kind of have to commit to it well in advance, which this particular next, yeah,
next four or five, six months are pretty busy.
But like I said, if this was my full time job, fuck yeah.
Well, maybe if you did it more often, it could be monetized it somehow.
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Well, my, my only fans didn't really take off like I had hoped.
So I got one subscriber and it's you just so you can tag me.
So it didn't really work out.
Um, but anyways, excuse you.
So anyways, um, so a lot of our, a lot of our podcasts, you're not going to ask me what
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my news resolution is.
I already know.
Well, they don't, they don't care.
All right.
What is your, what is your revolution?
Not revolution resolution.
What is your new year's resolution?
My new year's resolution was boring.
Yeah.
Boring.
You just won.
Yeah.
Just for boring.
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Um, be more boring.
Be more boring.
I feel like I have a feeling some people who listen to this and know me in person are going
to be very sad about that.
Um, my new year's resolution is to be is, I don't want to say be more positive for one,
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but like when I think somebody, something about a woman to say it, I hesitate because
I'm not traditional, like bisexual, like, so I don't want to, I'm spaghetti.
So I don't want to lead people on, but I also want to lift women up.
So that's what I struggle with.
So I want to make sure that like, if I think like, oh, she looks really good or she's got
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really pretty eyes or she's got really nice hair or whatever it is, like great tattoos
or whatever it is to say something to her because I know when people compliment me,
I feel that like feel good.
And sometimes it can take me out of like a mindset of like, I feel bloated, I feel gross,
I feel like, I don't even want to be wearing this and I'm like trying on 50 fucking outfits
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and I don't feel good in anything.
And then I go out and somebody compliments me and you always compliment me, but I'm married
to you.
It's kind of your job.
It's, it is a known fact that, you know, getting compliments from your SO don't mean
shit.
I know it's not that it doesn't mean anything, but it means it means it means what it means,
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but it definitely is elevated when you hear from a stranger where, you know, because they
have no like skin in the game.
Well, they do.
I mean, yes, they do, but it is different.
Yeah.
So I know that it can take me out of like a feeling like to feeling like better about
myself.
So for sure, I definitely want to put aside like my weirdness about like, oh, well, they
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think I'm hitting on them, are they going to expect me to do XYZ or they expect this
of me just to put the compliment out there and leave it.
Yeah.
No, that's a, that's a good, that's a good thing.
That's a good resolution.
Yeah.
I've, I'm kind of, it's not really a resolution, but I've, I'm trying to get better with that,
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that exact thing.
Yeah.
You have a hard time.
Hard time complimenting people.
Yeah.
In general.
Yeah.
And then now complimenting, you know, I don't want to say strangers, but people that aren't
my wife has always been a struggle for me.
I've definitely gotten better, better, but I do want to continue to get better about
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that.
Yeah.
Like, yeah, like compliment, just complimenting whatever it is, like your ass, whole looks
delicious.
Your ass looks delicious.
Do you mind?
But no, uh, yeah, I think that's a great, that's a great revolution to have.
It's a resolution, not a revolution.
You're weirdo.
Give me one second.
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I got to fix my headphones.
So keep talking to the people.
Okay.
Well, anyway, so what else was I going to say?
Hmm.
I think that's it.
I think that's all I had to say for today.
Move it.
Move it.
You just closed out the show.
All right.
So I'm going to enjoy this kidding.
Just shut it down.
All right.
My, my headphone cord was like getting all coil.
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There we go.
I told you this whole studio fucked up my shit.
Anyways, so, um, chords everywhere, chords everywhere.
So yeah.
So anyways, most of our, most of our podcast, um, to date have been fairly, uh, story, personal
stuff based.
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Um, but I wonder what I wanted to try to do this year, part of my 2025 resolution is to,
um, try to be more timely.
Um, I do want to try to have.
Finish a thought.
I do want to try to, um, have more informational shows, not, not lessons, but just more informational
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like, um, we've had some friends ask us to give, you know, insight on how to prep for
our first party or what to expect when you're going to a meeting, greed, how to act and,
you know, and those were all things kind of initially when we started the podcast, like
we were still learning, but I feel like we've been doing it now for a while and we've interacted
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and had enough of these type of venues and all that.
We kind of have a pretty good idea what to expect at most and.
Yeah.
And every time you say what to expect.
I think of what to expect when you're expecting like, I don't know why that just goes into
my brain.
So you're telling me to finish the thought and here are the peanut gallery over here.
Squirrel, squirrels are messing up the wire.
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You're saying, um, no, you're fucking with me.
So what to expect when expecting and I'm not saying every show is going to be like that,
but I do want to touch on a few on those.
And then I also want to do some more interviews.
Yeah.
We did an interview with our friends from Michigan the other day and we're all I felt
it was like a month ago.
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Yeah.
I felt it went pretty good.
It was, it was kind of fun, you know, having like a different insight and all that stuff.
We need to get more of their stories.
We get more of their stories and I do want to, she's always like, how much do you want
me to tell them?
Like, tell what you want to tell, tell whatever you're comfortable telling you.
Just remember it's out there.
Say more or not less.
Once it's out there, it's out there.
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And I do, you know, I do want to do some more FaceTime video, you know, calls with people
out and about because I mean, we got a lot of people, you know, especially swing or
scotch podcast, they, they want to, you know, have us in and we want to have them in and
you can't.
Are you done?
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And then I, we have a lot of local friends that they all have some great stories and
I'd love to bring them in and put them here on our swingers couch in the rehearsal studio
and let them tell their stories.
So that's kind of my goal is a little bit.
So starting that, that train of thought, this show, I wanted to really focus on Southern
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California and also we're going to touch a little bit of Vegas because we got a big
Vegas trip coming up.
So, you know what, before, before we go any further into this whole list of freaking things
I got, let's, let's put out some stuff really quick.
So you guys can reach us at the sweet side of life podcast at outlook.com.
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We love your emails.
Send us questions.
We'll do our best to address it.
And then we also have a phone number.
You can text us or call us and leave a voicemail at 951-226-5261.
Once again, that's 951-2, do you need to blow your nose?
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No, I need you to stop.
951-226-5261.
That is our sweet side of life hotline.
So you can text us there and there's a good chance I'll text you back.
We take pictures there.
Is it your voice on the, on the voicemail?
It's our voice on the voicemail.
I talked.
On the voicemail?
Yeah.
(24:24):
Did I?
Yeah.
Talk for a second.
Let me pull this up.
It's pretty fucking funny.
I don't recall talking and I can't believe you never played it before.
Are you kidding me?
I don't.
You recorded it.
Did I?
Oh, I don't know.
I feel like you drug me and then you just make me do things.
Just kidding.
You shouldn't say that all along.
(24:45):
Fair enough.
Joking.
Speaking of drugging though.
I bought this stuff.
Hold on.
I'm gonna take a look at it.
Okay.
Hello?
You have reached the sweet side of life podcast voicemail.
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What's on your mind?
Say less.
Too.
So yeah, we recorded that in our kitchen.
I don't remember that.
You were sober.
That sounds right.
But anyways, what were you saying?
Oh, no, I just bought this stuff that was like, I put it on the internet so it can't
(25:31):
be like illegal.
I'm pretty sure.
That it's like mushroom juice.
Oh, mushroom juice.
I don't know.
It's called a...
I haven't tried it yet.
I'm kind of scared because I don't do drugs.
I don't do drugs.
I don't do drugs.
I mean, I looked at the reviews and some people are like, I didn't feel anything.
(25:53):
Other people are like, I tasted colors.
So it's like, there's really no...
I wanted to use color.
There's like no medium.
I've never done...
What is it called?
I've done the marriage of Juana.
But I've never done...
We did marriage of Juana in Jamaica and we saw backstage of Everybody Loves Raymond.
They didn't invite us.
They didn't.
It was through our TV.
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We could see backstage.
We did tell that story and I think the second or third episode.
But yeah, I want to check it out.
I want to see backstage of a TV show again.
We'll have to try one of these.
I told you on one night you can do it and then I'll be the sober one.
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I thought about doing it tonight.
Wouldn't have been a good idea.
Wouldn't have been a good idea.
Maybe tomorrow night you can do it.
But anyways, so...
I was like, oh yeah.
See, this is why we need a freaking...
Like a whole checklist.
What?
What?
So before we get into the...
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You made a checklist.
It's not a check.
Stop talking.
Before we get into the nitty-gritty of this.
Excuse me.
That is the point of this show.
It's to talk.
Not you.
Oh.
Thank you.
Rude.
So we got my show, the February 8th coming up and then we have...
If you guys are in the area and you get this in time and you know Rick,
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that name rings a bell, he's holding his world famous Super Bowl party.
So make sure you go there.
And then what?
February 21st, Friday, we are going to be going to what's it called?
The Cove for Sayless Productions, meet and greet.
Sammy and Cole.
Yeah.
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So we're going to be there.
So make sure you check that out.
But what I wanted to do in this episode was we live in SoCal, like we've talked about before.
And there is a lot of places, a lot of venues, a lot of meet and greets,
a lot of parties to do here in SoCal.
But a lot of people don't know what to look for.
No, I see on Facebook all the time.
Yeah, there's like people that say, what's... I can't find anything.
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I'm like, bitch, where can't you find everything?
How do you look?
How do you actually look?
So what I did is I put together a list.
It's like a man trying to find ketchup in the refrigerator.
Exactly.
Did you really...
Did you move the milk?
Did you move anything to find it?
Well, the eggs aren't going to be a problem now because they're so expensive.
It's there.
So I put together a quick list of places that I know of personally, that we've been to personally,
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or that were part of their community.
So I'm just going to kind of go down this list by region and just throw out names.
So you kind of know what to look for.
If you want to Google it, if you're on Cassidy, all of these places either have a community or a profile.
If you're not on Cassidy, you can just Google it and then just start following links
and then you'll eventually end up where you want to be.
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So let's start in San Diego, which is south.
Again, this is not the only places.
These are just the places I'm aware of.
But if there's another party, like a house party, a place that does meeting reads, anything like that,
that I don't name, please email us.
Shoot me a text, voicemail, whatever it is because I want to know.
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I want to know it all.
So starting in San Diego.
We haven't really been to any places in San Diego, which is so weird because we love San Diego.
We love San Diego, but so first and foremost in San Diego is one of the oldest, oldest LS clubs, house parties, Thads, T-H-A-D-S.
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Thads has a long history. It's one of the only, from what I understand, it's one of the only legal, like LS house party clubs or whatever you want to call it in San Diego.
What does that even mean, legal?
They have some type of permit that is not issued anymore.
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I don't know.
It's grandfathered this particular house.
It's got a long history and they've been doing this shit for years.
So we've never been there.
We almost went there the other, like maybe eight, 10 months ago, I feel like.
But Thads has a new rule.
Like you basically have to walk in and disrobe from what I understand.
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That's what we hear.
We've never been there because that's what people said about Sea Mountain.
But it's very similar is men have to disrobe. Women can do lingerie, but they do have special theme events, which you can dress in theme.
And then during the winter months when it's colder, you are allowed to wear a robe and they do.
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They have events like throughout the week, you know, Tuesday, Wednesday, they have like by nights and they have all this very inclusive place.
Again, I've never been there, but we'll check it out at some point.
House of Black.
That is in San Diego County.
It's more towards, I want to say like it's not Escondido, but it's a little bit further south.
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You don't need to give directions. If they want to find it, they'll find it.
So what you're going to want to do is take the 15th south, get off on the 52 West.
That's going to be like a 45 minute review of just your list.
I told you this was going to take a minute, which is why you're like, we can do this. I'm like, I don't think so.
Because yeah, it's a long list.
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Get through it. Don't give directions to every location.
Babe.
We.
Okay.
Should I just, should you just excuse yourself because you're ruining my vibe right now?
House of Black. It is a, again, a Ellis place. It's geared towards kink. So they have a lot of that type of stuff there.
Club Safeward.
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I know nothing about Club Safeward. It's been on my, my watch list now for a while.
I don't know if they take over a club or what it is, but I'm part of the community. We just have not been there yet.
Paradox, prism, production.
I would imagine Club Safeward is also kink.
It could be. I mean, with the words, I mean the sound of it, but I have no idea.
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Paradox, paradise, paradox, prism, productions is a community by Anastasia.
We remet her this past weekend.
If you guys, you might know her. She's, she's a host at many different clubs here in Southern California, but this is her own little venture.
And she does like private house parties and stuff like that in the San Diego County.
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So I'm going to move all the way up and over to Los Angeles. This is an interesting market.
Oh my God.
I can't.
We don't, again, we don't, we're not huge fans of Los Angeles. It's, it's just hard to get in, hard to get out.
Expensive. Did you say that?
Yeah, of course I did.
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So I'm just going to touch on some places that I know is up there. Club Joy Top. It's one of the top LS places out there in LA.
Everybody knows about it. It's been around for a while. Some of our friends go to the Thursday night hot wife things they do there sometimes, but we've never been there.
Vixen Playhouse. That is a San Fernando Valley brand new place that some of our friends do. Again, we've never been there, but I've heard really good things about it.
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We watch the tour. We do have to do it.
Yeah. We talked about it in a couple, couple episodes ago.
Yeah. It looks really nice.
And then we always talk about plush. Plush does typically hotel takeovers, but they do some events in the Huntington Beach area and then in the Anaheim area.
So they also do Havasu. They do Vegas. They do San Diego.
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They do it all. But they seem to have a monthly residence at some place in Anaheim. I don't know if it's a mansion party, but plush, look it up, follow them.
There's one place I want to go to called the famous Love Shack. It's a house party, but it's been around for a while.
Love Shack, babe.
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And you're saying I'm taking one.
And then Swing Hearts, which we've never been to Swing Hearts. No, we have been to Swing Hearts.
We were at Swing Hearts.
Swing Hearts is up in the Northridge area. It was a great house party. We had a really good time there. You can check our review back probably 10 episodes, 12 episodes back.
We did a party there and had a really good time. So Riverside County. This is kind of our area. This is kind of where we hang. This is our zone.
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Are you ready? There's a shit ton of places out here.
Are you ready for it?
I'm going to name a name and you're going to review it really quick. Athena's Fontana, go.
It's a house party all outside. They have a very good nice spread. They have one inside playroom and then everything else is in like gazebos, kind of like pseudo tenti gazebos outside, but they all have beds.
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It's fun party better, I think, in the summer because it is.
It's more resort style. Resort style. Again, it is all outside. They have two bars. They always have bartenders. The bartenders are good until they get drunk.
It's a good vibe.
Yes. Club Taboo. We haven't been there.
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Mira Loma. This place has been around for a long time. We almost went there, but I saw that they were doing something funky on the guest list. So I'm like, I'll leave it at that.
We've heard good things about Club Taboo and I would like to check it out at some point, but with so many...
We'd also like their guests to be current.
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Exactly.
Not deceased.
You know what? I'm going to touch on that. So Club Taboo. They've been around for a long time, like I said.
And if you go in Cassidy, they have flyers, they have event infos, and then RACPs and all that stuff.
So you can go at any point in time, see who potentially is going to that party.
So they had this one party and they had like 350 people going. I'm like, damn, we got to go check this place out.
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And I start looking at the RACPs and there's people that are going to this party that have not been online for three to five years, which does not work.
Because you couldn't RACP to a party unless you were online.
Unless you're online.
So what it looks like they were doing was they created a party event five, six years ago.
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And then every party, they just changed the date, but they keep the same everything.
So the RACP list carries over.
So of course there's 350 people that have.
That's how many have ever RACP in the entire time they've had parties in the last six years.
So I was like, I busted you buddy.
Is it Taboo?
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Club Taboo.
Taboo. Taboo. Taboo.
But we have a friend of ours that said they used to go there and they enjoyed it.
So I don't, I'm not, I don't want to talk smack, but that was, that was kind of shady.
Taboo.
Because we were like literally, we were going, we were going to get it.
We were going to get an Uber.
We were going to book a room.
You were shady, shady.
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But then I'm like, that don't look right.
I may have been, see, I may have been born during the day, but not yesterday.
Okay, Boomer.
All right.
There is another one called Swinger Empire.
We have not been to this one.
It's in Riverside.
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They specialize in, how do you say it, anal?
I don't know.
Is it corridors?
Corridos?
It's like the Spanish music and cumbias and stuff.
But anyways, this particular event has a live band.
They have like live mariachi bands and they really specialize in that kind of, that, that
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vibe and stuff.
Yeah.
So we want to check that out, but again, Hispanic.
I don't speak the greatest Spanish.
And so not to say we don't have lots of great friends, but I just don't know if that's my
whole vibe.
The entire night.
Yeah.
I love me a good cumbia.
I love me a good cumbia.
Not five hours of cumbia.
Yeah, I'm not sure about that.
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There's a place called a newer house party.
I believe it is called Key Club in San San Jacinto.
That's questionable.
We, we get invited to this party.
They're listeners.
Jesus.
San Jacinto's questionable, but I'm down.
Yeah.
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So we haven't made it out there yet.
But yeah, it's called the Key Club.
They seems to be a house party from what I could tell.
Okay.
So there is a promoter, Eric, Eric with a club elation.
He's had this community for a long time.
And I'm pretty sure pre COVID, he did like house parties and stuff like that.
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And I know he's been trying to get together like a physical building for a while.
But as far as I know, that hasn't happened yet.
He's still working on it, but he does do various meeting greets throughout the communities
and stuff like that.
If you kind of want to know, like he, he kind of co sponsors a lot of different events.
So if you follow his community, you'll see all types of these events because he, like
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I said, he co sponsors them and he puts on his own meeting greets and all that stuff.
So check it out.
Club elation.
And then of course there's the pink taco meeting greet, which is the second Tuesday of every
month at club Alice club Alice is I thought it was club outs.
It's not Alice something.
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Should have thought this through friend.
I thought it was club outs.
You can figure it out.
It's a bar.
Alice in Wonderland.
That's what comes up first in Riverside.
But anyways, it's the pink taco meetup.
It's a, it's a community.
And the second Tuesday of every month, they kind of take over the, the upstairs area of
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this bar.
And it's a great meeting.
Great.
We try to go there when we can.
Lake Alice trading company.
Lake Alice trading company.
And of course, San B parties, San but parties, which is the, the one we reviewed just a couple
of parts episodes ago with the snake in the room.
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Great party.
We got to go again.
Their next party is actually this Saturday, the same day as my gig.
Otherwise we'd be going to the San B party.
And then in Elsinore, you have be a Vita, which is like a outside pool resort type house party.
It's more, we'll call that a resort because it's not house part.
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It's a resort.
So be a Vita pool, be a Vita and MNPP.
They, they kind of coexist on the same property.
They all have their own different parties.
Check it out.
Check it out.
And of course we got DTF productions, which you've heard about that.
They put on all the less parties in Menafee.
Check them out.
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Say less productions, which is the meeting greet that we just got done talking about that we're
going to be going to on February 21st.
Yes.
You can look them up on communities.
And then mountain side and champions meeting greet, which is another fun one.
Look them up.
You can exhaust it.
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So many things.
We're getting towards the end of the list though.
Good.
Good.
Our friends that know me, they know how annoyed I am right now.
And that's what they're laughing at.
Our friends that know me know that I'm exhausted.
No, it was your idea.
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It was not my idea.
So one of our, our other favorite places to visit is Palm Springs.
So, um, there's a couple of different Palm Springs places.
SMI, C mountain in is a basically a full nude resort, LS resort.
That is a resort.
You can stay overnight.
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You can stay overnight.
They have a handful of rooms.
Um, the basic rules are is you have to get nude.
You get it.
You could, they, they give you some time to kind of, you know, drop down and get comfortable.
But for the most part, you're expected to be nude.
You can wear a towel.
Women can wear sarongs and stuff like that.
Um, Dewey, great guy.
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He always makes sure you're having a great time there.
Um, and I think we're going to have to visit that place more this summer because of
sadly, some of the more news coming up.
So you've heard us talk about EDR.
Sad.
Sad.
It was, I'll speak for myself.
It was probably my favorite place to go to, um, in regards to like a resort style.
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Yeah.
Cause they had multiple rooms.
They had it all.
They had pools.
They had jacuzzi's.
Um, they have, you know, great restaurants around just downtown Palm Springs in itself
is great.
So I always really enjoyed, um, Palm Springs and EDR.
However.
Can I have, can I have your attention, please?
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Fuck that place.
So the owners of EDR over the past six months have been given a lot of mixed messages, mixed
signals to the LS community.
Um, originally it started with just some, you know, we're going to bring into public
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and have a quick party and, but no, we're LS and then it turned into this, this, this
and all of a sudden they had, they had something happen there, quote unquote, where we can't
do, uh, public, um, sex anymore.
And then it turned into topless only.
And then it turned into no nudity and a no, no, no, but, but we still support our LS
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community.
And then it turned into, yeah, fuck y'all.
We're just going to turn into you guys can have sex in your own rooms.
Yeah.
Any fucking hotel.
I can do that.
Exactly.
So they, they have now downgraded to, you know, one of the top LS resorts in Palm Springs
to just a quote unquote boutique, cute boutique resort in Palm Springs, ain't nothing fucking
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cute about that resort.
We tolerated the fact that our freaking room had missing floor tiles because of all the
other things we could do there.
All the other people that were there missing floor tiles, but there's a ply piece of plywood
in our room covered with a carpet.
Yeah, exactly.
That's what I'm saying.
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My point.
Exactly.
We tolerated a lot of like the amenities not being great because of the fact that it was
the people who we met there were so great.
The environment was so friendly.
And it was a resort that supported our community.
Yeah.
It was a resort that supported our community.
We'll rub your back.
You rub ours type thing.
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Yeah.
Like it wasn't overly priced.
It was like it was just such a vibe.
It was a party.
So sadly.
So in their final message to us, it was like, yeah, we decided we had to do this to be able
to keep our doors open.
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And since we've made this change, we've been packed lies.
It's all lies.
And then they said our our goal is to put a bunch of money into the rooms and at some
point return as your bullshit LS.
Yeah, whatever.
Fuck you.
Bullshit.
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Yeah.
Yeah.
You're toyed with my feelings.
You hurt my you hurt my feelings.
So yeah.
Fuck you.
So do we stoked?
Right.
I know they were probably his biggest competition.
100% because they were clothing optional.
As opposed to mandatory nudity.
And that was a big thing for a lot of people.
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Me.
Yeah.
I was going to call you out.
But I am.
I prefer to, you know, get nude when I'm ready to get new, which it typically happens.
But I like to set my own boundaries there.
But yeah, you know what?
That just leaves room for more people.
So there's two other resorts right now in the Palm Springs areas.
I want to touch on one of them is called Secret Springs resorts.
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This place is, I think we've mentioned them before, but I want to say they're around a
year or so old.
I don't know if they've gone through a full summer season or yet, but I've heard great
things and we definitely have to check it out.
So we will hopefully be getting out there soon.
And then there's another place called Hotel O2.
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I don't know much about this place.
Somebody told me the name, I looked it up and it is a new, it is a clothing optional
resort.
The website itself doesn't like tag itself as like an LS paradise.
It doesn't, but it is a clothing optional and it has a bunch of like different themed
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rooms and stuff.
And again, we'll check it out.
It's up in the desert Springs area, which is right over there by SMI and also Secret
Springs resort.
So we got some new places to check out.
It just sucks cause they're not like in Palm Springs.
Yeah, they're not cause we do, we like go into all the Tiki bars and yeah, like we know
like SMI is in the middle of like the mountains and the neighborhoods and not a whole lot.
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There's like a 7-Eleven down the street.
That brings us to Vegas, which I saved this for last because we got a big Vegas trip coming
up.
Nope.
What are we doing in Vegas?
Where are we going in Vegas?
When are we going to Vegas?
We're going to Vegas.
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We're going to Val, well, president's day or Valentine's day weekend, whichever you
want to call it.
It's one in the same.
And we are going to try flirts.
Yes.
We haven't gone to any of those flirts or play house ever.
They're owned by the same company or people or whatever.
So we're going to do flirts.
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And then on Friday.
The 14th.
14th on Valentine's day.
We're going to flirts.
And then on the 15th, we're going to go to whispers Saturday.
Saturday.
We've been to whispers.
Yep.
Many times.
So we're going to go there and do their nighttime party because last time we went was during
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the summer.
It was dirty Vegas.
The end of dirty Vegas and I'm so hungover.
So yeah, we're going to do a nighttime party again, which we haven't done for I think like
two years since your birthday.
Yeah.
And we're going with a nice group of people.
So they're in the area.
Yeah.
If you guys are going to the area.
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Yeah.
We have a quite a bit of listeners out there in the Las Vegas area.
You got our number.
I said it earlier in the podcast.
You can shoot us a text and say, Hey, we're actually going to be there on that night.
Or Hey, we're going to be going on there on that night or whatever the case might be.
We'd love to meet you.
Love to hang out.
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If you got boobies, I'd love to see them.
If you got NAS, you'd like to eat it.
Baby.
You never know.
Catch me at the right time.
We're just, this happened.
But I am kind of on like a thing right now.
I'm starting to get known for it.
So yeah.
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And then on Sunday, well during the day on Saturday, we're going to hit all of our favorite
tiki bars out there and we got some friends coming in from out of town.
It's going to be great.
Sunday, we're thinking about doing the indoor pool party.
The dome pool party.
I can't remember what hotel it's at, but it's not LS.
It's just a dorm.
So if you guys have ever done that, so you have to wear top.
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Yes.
Shoot us an email or a text or something.
Let us know your review.
Is it worth it?
It looks like it might be fun, but I don't know.
Like during the winter months, it's, I know the weather and the temperature and everything
is good, but do the, do the people actually go out?
I think they would.
It's Vegas.
It's all people who go to Vegas to do shit.
You know what I mean?
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Yeah.
Like it's, it's not like, I mean, yeah, I don't know.
I feel like everybody's there on vacation.
So they would go to a pool party.
Okay.
I think so.
I hope you're right.
I do too.
I feel like they wouldn't do it if it wasn't profitable, right?
One would imagine.
And then on Monday, I think Monday we're going to pretty much have to ourselves.
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I think a lot of our friends are leaving either Sunday, late night or like Monday early and
we decided to stay instead of like, you know, trying to bust ass home.
Honestly, it was because the flights were way cheaper on Tuesday than Monday.
Then Monday, being the holiday.
So we're staying all the way till Tuesday morning.
So we're staying in old town.
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Old town.
Old town, downtown, downtown Fremont Street.
That's where I feel most at home with all the freaks.
I know me too.
I'm like, I enjoy seeing half naked nuns getting spanked.
I know.
I feel like it's just my life.
I bought us a circle.
Did you?
We can do our act.
I'm supposed to do weird shit in a circle.
I'm going to, I'm going to eat ass on Fremont Street.
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And get tips.
Hopefully.
I think we could get some tips.
Figure it out.
You're, I just thought of you eating just random people's ass on Fremont Street.
They better tip me.
Fuck.
Especially if they want to throw up.
I'm going to throw up.
Anyways.
So in Vegas, we, we've only done whispers when it comes to LS clubs.
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Like you said, we're going to try flirts.
Playhouse is probably not going to make it this trip, but we definitely want to try it.
But there is a handful of other clubs out there that we don't, we've heard things about
it.
Things, but some people swear by these places.
Yeah.
Actually recently um, one of them is the green door.
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The green door is one of them.
Yeah.
So um, some friends were going with, they love the green door.
Um, actually Sam and Cole.
Oh, Sam and Cole love it.
Cole was like what?
It's the best.
There's rooms.
It's clean.
He's like, you can go into like a box and it's like windowed.
He said, and then like basically you just do whatever the fuck you want in there.
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And you're on display.
For everybody so I mean that's a vibe, but it's very free to makers
Yeah, there was a there was a there was a there's was a mirror a two-way or one-way or two-way mirror
Whatever it was. How do you say anyway? He was all about it and I was like well. I don't think this trip
Who knows I've heard I've heard things about grain door, but I've as of recent. I've heard more positive
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Yeah, maybe they're cleaning up their act
Hopefully they're cleaning up
Clean and then I've heard about the Red Rooster and then our other friends
Dr. Feelgood and
Mrs. Feelgood
They like the Red Rooster right that's what they said they initially were gonna do it's one of those two
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Then they said they were gonna meet some friends at Red Rooster. I think it was Red Rooster
Yeah, they decided
They said it was because it was a more mature crowd. Yeah, that's what they said. I'm I don't know I
Again, we heard some like I've heard some weird things from like other people that they hire
prostitutes to come in and like body the club and then to take single men around
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Bachelor parties and stuff to watch
That's that's all like that's just things we hear. I don't know exactly. I mean, obviously we've never been there
but then again like I said, I'm dr. Feelgood and
Mrs. Feelgood
They were all they they like it. So yeah, I mean, but also everybody has their own thing, right?
Exactly. I don't want to yuck anybody's young exactly. So who knows
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But yeah, it sounds like they're gonna do whispers with us instead, but I mean so we have friends that like all those places
We might love those places because yeah, we might we we'd like we really did enjoy club FA
Yeah, and part of the the allure of club FA was it was very it wasn't dirty, but it had that great grit to it
Yeah, and I mean everything I hear sounds like these places have a grit like it's they've seen some shit
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Yeah, so if the walls could only talk
The walls are ball gag
So I would say yeah, I mean at some point I want to try I want to try them all
Because you know, I hate Yelp reviews. I don't trust Yelp reviews. Yeah
Typically Yelp review for no, no, I'm just saying like in general. I
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Don't I don't typically wait it out yourself. You've just reviewed your child's dentist. So you've also reviewed red
Not what I expected you can see on someone's profile all the things you can look at their
Dude, this taco shop is shit, but the Red Rooster
The Red Rooster taco shot tacos are awesome
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No, it was kind of like just thinking of like I don't I don't put a lot of stock into reviews
I'll take it into consideration, right, but I do want to try it myself for sure
So at some point and there's also another place I just actually stumbled across tonight called club 5150
It sounds like it's been a while round a while
I know zero about it. So if you guys are listeners out there, you know anything about it shoot us a text an email
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the sweet side of life podcast at
Outlook.com and you can find our number in our in our links. I'd love to hear your guys's opinion on any of these places that we've never been
Good bad or whatever. I'd love to hear
And I think we're gonna be wrapping this one up, babe
We're hitting that hour mark right now. So I don't think we're gonna get to tell our story
(57:00):
No, I want to make sure we give our stuff time to really dive in
Are you nervous about what Saturday? No, you said you were I'm nervous for different reasons
I'm nervous
I'm not for playing. I'm nervous because playing has a different meaning. Yeah, right?
(57:26):
No, I I'm playing on stage. I'm just petrified of getting sick because
I'm one of the singers in this band and singing when you have any type of illness sucks and
Anytime I'm sick the very first place it hits me is my throat. Yeah, and
it's gonna be
(57:49):
Two years since I've like done a full performance. So my throat is already gonna be struggling. Yeah, so
Sounds like a normal Saturday night for me. Exactly
As of right now, I feel great
So, you know knock on wood
We had some events this past weekend and you know, I I tried to be as responsible as I could
(58:13):
Oh shit. I was good. I was a good boy
I was good. I was a good boy
I was trying to be as responsible as I could and
You know not overdoing it with the ass eating and I did a really good job
So I feel like you should be proud of me
So as of right now, you know Thursday night if I'm feeling pretty good
(58:33):
So yeah, I'm not nervous for the performance part of it because it's gonna be fun, you know getting all my friends in one room
Could be bad, but
Yeah, I
Don't think this club knows what's coming. I don't either
If even half of the people show up that are on this RSVP list plus
All the other people that we know that are coming plus the people that just normally go out there on a Saturday
(58:57):
Yeah, it's gonna be pretty crazy. Yeah
Get there early if you want a table unless you want to sit outside. Yep Old Town Blues Club. We go on at 830
There's a band that plays just before us. They finish at seven
So there is gonna be an hour and a half of time where
There's gonna be a changeover some of the older people are gonna leave the inside
(59:19):
But there are gonna be people that are sitting there that are there for the night
So if you really want to see you know, they got a bunch of high-top tables and I got chairs everywhere
There's a whole bunch of outdoor seat in beautiful patio. They got TVs and speakers outside
So if you're not able to make the inside crowd, there's full area outside
The TV show the band TVs all the TV show the live band playing which is us and then um, like I said, they're speakers that it's outside as well
(59:48):
It's a full bar
They've been specialized and lately and like Bourbons and whiskeys. They really like gotten to that
And they have beer and wine. They don't have any food per se. They just have like little charcuterie boards
And like snacks like I think pretzels or something like that
So don't come hungry
(01:00:09):
Come thirsty come very thirsty and let's have a good time for this
Yeah
We got some friends that are coming in from out of town getting hotel rooms who knows are my the after parties
to stay in the loop and
You guys know I'm gonna be on the stage playing the guitar and
(01:00:30):
and my wife will be in the crowd so
You can come talk to us and then hang out with us at this particular meeting greet band show
There's gonna be no formal identification on somebody asked actually asked this on the
Party wall
There's gonna be no formal identification of people of the Ellis people
(01:00:54):
No wristbands or anything like that, but it's gonna be kind of obvious
So you're gonna see like people having fun and then people sitting there not having fun
We're the LS people are gonna be the ones having fun
Probably randomly making out with different people and then you'll see and I have to be careful
(01:01:15):
Try not to out myself to everybody so
So yeah, if you see anybody just come up and ask like are you guys here for the the meeting greet?
Or are you guys here for the special event?
Any one of those words will like make a person go. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah, and if they're not they'll be like
What the fuck you talking about and then that's your cue to walk away
(01:01:38):
Unless they're cute and you can try to change them, but so yeah, it's gonna be a great night. Hope you guys can come out
I'm gonna put this out. It's gonna
Come out Friday morning and then yeah, hope see you guys there. We got another one coming up March 1st. I believe right
Mm-hmm. I'll make that into a whole thing once this one's done
So I think that's gonna be it for this episode
(01:02:00):
All right, take it away when enjoying the sweet side of life
Keep your pineapples upside down believe in unicorns and keep shaking it up. Love you, baby
Love you, okay
Okay
(01:02:22):
ASMR is how you said it
Bye
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