No More Dancing! Translating Tragedy into Systems of Change with Coach Carlos

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Content Warning: This episode includes a brief mention of suicide in the context of personal experience and healing. Listener discretion is advised.

In this powerful and heartfelt episode, Dr. Ramona is joined by Carlos J. Malave—author, dynamic speaker, and creator of the Restorative Power Program. They dive deep into Carlos’s transformative evolution: a journey of letting go, standing in his truth, and using his voice to spark change in leadership, education, and beyond.

Carlos opens up about the moment he stopped avoiding authenticity and committed to leading with vulnerability. His insights reveal how embracing discomfort can be the gateway to lasting impact and personal liberation.

This conversation is especially for educators, mentors, parents, and creatives who want to live and lead with intention. If you're feeling stuck or unsure about how to step into your true self, this episode will provide clarity and inspiration.

🔑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✅ The real meaning behind "No More Dancing"—and how it shapes leadership
✅ How asking the right questions and building genuine relationships can create organic success
✅ The mindset shift that helped Carlos transition from burnout to thriving entrepreneur
✅ Why silence and self-reflection are crucial for finding your authentic voice
✅ The importance of embracing vulnerability and walking through hard work with others

💡 Memorable Quotes:
"Stop dancing around your truth—people are waiting for the real you." – Carlos
"Successful people want to build relationships, not just sell themselves." – Carlos
"Your pain has purpose—but you’ve got to choose to use it." – Carlos

👤 Guest Bio:
Carlos J. Malave is the author of Translating Your Success and the creative force behind the Restorative Power Program. After more than ten years as a K–12 educator, Carlos transitioned into curriculum development, coaching, and keynote speaking. His tools equip students and facilitators with the language and mindset to foster compassion and courage.

He’s been featured on ABC 13 News, recognized by Texas lawmakers for his role in bringing Restorative Practices into public education, and has supported curriculum clients in generating over $1 million in revenue.

Based in Houston with his wife and daughter, Carlos continues to elevate restorative learning globally through thoughtful programming and educational consulting.

👉 Want to dive deeper into Carlos’s work?
🔗 Connect with Carlos:
Instagram: @cjmotivation
Website: https://cjmotivation.com/

🎧 Ready to transform your life and leadership? Don't miss out on this powerful episode! Tune in now to discover how embracing vulnerability and authenticity can unlock your true potential. Listen and take the first step tow

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