What do you do when your child comes out to you?
How do you support a transgender or nonbinary child — especially when it feels unfamiliar, overwhelming, or even scary?
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Lulu, also known as The Momatrician — a pediatrician, parent coach, gender and sexuality educator, and the proud mom of a transgender child. But her journey didn’t begin with full understanding and acceptance.
Dr. Lulu opens up about:
Her honest, emotional response when her child came out
Growing up queer in a conservative Nigerian Catholic household
Why parental affirmation is life-saving for LGBTQ+ youth
The difference between accepting your child and truly affirming them
How parents can grow, even if they make mistakes
Whether you're a parent, educator, or someone seeking to understand the transgender experience better, this conversation will touch your heart and expand your perspective.
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📘 Dr. Lulu’s Book: About Your Black Transgender Child: Answers to Most of Your Burning Questions
🎙️ Podcast: Moms for Trans Kids
YouTube Podcast: Moms 4 Trans Kids
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Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
03:10 Dr. Lulu’s story of growing up queer
08:45 How she responded when her child came out
14:20 Understanding gender identity vs. biological sex
22:00 What it truly means to affirm your LGBTQ+ child
30:50 Advice for parents just starting this journey
Struggling with anxiety in your family? If anxiety is causing tension, fights, or disconnect in your home, you don’t have to face it alone. I help parents bring more peace, confidence, and connection to their families. Let’s talk—schedule a free consultation today or email me: ccoufal@cynthiacoufalcoaching.com
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