Episode 2 | How Comparison is Killing Your Faith (& How to Fix It!)

The True Grit Podcast | Episode 2 | How Comparison is Killing Your Faith (& How to Fix It!)

Episode Summary: In this episode of the True Grit podcast, I delve into the insidious and pervasive issue of comparison, particularly in the realm of faith. I share my own struggles with comparison and how it can damage our authentic connection with God. I challenge listeners to identify the sources of influence in their faith and focus on what helps them personally connect with the Lord, rather than falling into the trap of comparing themselves to unrealistic standards.

Key Points with Timestamps: Introduction and Podcast Purpose 0:00:00 - I introduce the True Grit podcast and its mission to help listeners seek, find, and live an abundant life with Jesus. Challenges in Recording the Episode 0:01:52 - I open up about the technical difficulties and lack of focus I faced in recording this episode due to being up since 11:30 PM. Impact of Social Media on Comparison 0:03:17 - I discuss how social media has exacerbated the issue of comparison, particularly with idealized content from influencers and unrealistic beauty standards. Historical and Biblical Context of Comparison 0:07:38 - I trace the origins of comparison back to the story of Eve and the original sin in the Garden of Eden, highlighting its pervasive nature in human life. Comparison in Faith 0:10:17 - I shift the focus to comparison in the realm of faith, noting the many "shoulds" that can influence our personal faith journey. The Role of Social Media in Faith Comparison 0:16:48 - I acknowledge the positive aspects of social media while warning about its negative impact on faith, leading to comparison and unrealistic standards. The Importance of Authentic Connection 0:22:17 - I emphasize the need for authentic connections in both personal relationships and with God, and how comparison can be toxic to these connections. Practical Steps to Eliminate Comparison 0:28:08 - I challenge listeners to identify the sources of influence in their faith, compare them to scripture, and focus on what helps them personally connect with God.

Mentioned Links: Download the ⁠free guided journal ⁠I created to help you find, identify, and make a plan to eliminate sources of noise and chaos in your life. It'll only take one hour and will give you the tools to deepen your connection with God while reclaiming a bit of your sanity.

Supporting Verses: "I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing." (John 15:5 ESV) - This verse supports the importance of maintaining an authentic, connected relationship with God, as opposed to comparison which can damage that connection.

Social Media Links: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachel.grit/⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@rachel.grit⁠

Action Steps:

1. Reflect on the sources of influence and inspiration that are informing your faith.

2. Identify what helps you personally connect with God and focus on that, rather than comparing yourself to others.

3. Download the free guided journal ⁠One Hour to Cut the Noise⁠ from Rachel Grit's website to help with this process.

Topics Covered:

• Comparison in faith

• Christian faith

• Social media and its impact on Christians

• Authentic connection with God

• Personal growth as a Jesus follower