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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hi, everybody. I'm Christina. I'm back.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
If you've seen the last episode, I was one of
the contestants of this time. I was the main girl
Pierced by Love, and I found me a king, y'all.
I found me somebody who is God fearing, somebody who
is athletic, someone who is kind, literally a giant teddy bear,
and I'm very excited.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
Taking over the game.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
All right, everybody, welcome to Truth after the Dog.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Do you think that men or women are more toxic? Oh,
beautiful people, welcome to another episode of Pierced by Love,
presented to you by Truth after Dark.
Speaker 6 (01:07):
I am your host a Zar.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Faraday and Paul Pierce.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
We got the lovely Christina here, and we got three
cracking bachelors.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
That's ready to get it cracking.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
Hey, listen, I know Christina is gonna feel the vised
with these guys. I had a chance to sit back
in the back and talk to them. They really cracking, Christina.
So listen, this is gonna be tough. I'm telling you, girl,
you ain't gonna be able to go wrong with none
of these. So let's get it popping.
Speaker 6 (01:34):
Exactly, and let's get it popping.
Speaker 5 (01:36):
Yeah, So Christina is beautiful, she's driven, she's athletics, she's
looking for a man that can match her vibe. Okay,
so hopefully that's one of you. Christina, how you feeling tonight?
Speaker 1 (01:52):
I will say it's different being on the side. I
like it.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
I'm in control and I'm really just excited to ask
these questions.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Get down to it.
Speaker 6 (02:00):
Okay, well then let's get started.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
Okay, this is where you can really find out about
these men and see what they are.
Speaker 6 (02:06):
So Christina, but black.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
But before we go, you know what I like about
this is because you know, as men and as women,
we visual so you can look at somebody but I
like them. But now you got to go off they
vibe on what they're saying. Now you got to go
off their conversation.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
Love is blind, baby, Love is all I like? Like
you really because think about this.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
You meet somebody, they look good and everything, but then
when you get on the phone with.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
Them, you're like, talk about another tongue.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
Right, you know you really ain't what I thought you was?
Speaker 7 (02:40):
Right?
Speaker 4 (02:40):
This is this is what makes it real, right exactly,
have a conversation. You asked the questions you can ask
and really see what the vibes is.
Speaker 5 (02:47):
So let's get started with no further I do, Christina,
are you ready to ask one of these bachelors a question?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
I am, I got it. I got some good questions
back here, so I hope they're ready. Let's right to it,
all right, So I'm gonna go out of order. I'm
gonna go with bachelor number three for wow. Okay, So,
I personally would like to know when you take a
woman on a date, how do you court to her?
Speaker 8 (03:16):
Courts?
Speaker 7 (03:16):
Are our courts are?
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Meaning that if you'd like me explain a little bit?
Speaker 7 (03:22):
Yep?
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Yes, so meaning what how is the first date for you?
Like the little things like such as like opening the door,
planning things ahead of time, like is she supposed to
be dressed at a certain time?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Do you lead like according to her?
Speaker 3 (03:36):
So?
Speaker 9 (03:37):
I think for me, it starts off before we get
to the day. Right, So we have a conversation. I
get to know you a little bit more than texting.
Speaker 10 (03:43):
Right.
Speaker 9 (03:43):
We need to talk because I don't think you can
really communicate that well in text. What she's interested in?
If she's an outdoor person, does she like bowling? Things
of that nature? And I'll try to curate really the
day to what she likes, and then once we get there,
of course I'll take control everything. I'm leading, opening doors,
holding hands, make sure everything is good, everything's playing ahead
(04:06):
of time so you don't have to worry about nothing,
and that.
Speaker 7 (04:08):
That way we usually have the best time possible.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
That was good control.
Speaker 6 (04:13):
I like that, he said, take the lead. Like that.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
I like that. I'd like to go bachelor number one.
So how would you court to a woman for your date?
Speaker 11 (04:28):
Uh?
Speaker 8 (04:29):
See, you figure out what you like and don't like.
Speaker 12 (04:32):
Uh, definitely tell you what time I want to pick
you up or the uber excel black. I walk closest
to the curb, right, you know, just for protection close
mind is mind on such and that? Yeah, just have
a good time, food, nice outing, weather, be sports, concert,
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things of that nature.
Speaker 8 (04:58):
I'm our museum anything. Really, it's all about the you know,
intellectual conversations. Yeah, pretty pretty simple. But you know, to
the point.
Speaker 5 (05:07):
Oh that was nice, he said, the our museums. That's
what got me, he says, the intellectual walls.
Speaker 6 (05:20):
Yes, of course I love. I'm an artist, so you.
Speaker 8 (05:28):
Know, okay, Jordan, I'm thirty two years old.
Speaker 12 (05:32):
Instagram JORDI got it came to Peers by love, the
fine love.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
I guess it's bachelor number two. That's the last one
that's not least.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Yes, do you want to ask me the question? When?
Just go ahead and hear the question again?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (05:47):
Yeah, I want to hear a little bit more.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Yeah, yeah, So how how would you court to the
woman that you're dating?
Speaker 1 (05:55):
How would you go about it?
Speaker 7 (05:56):
Man?
Speaker 11 (05:57):
You know what my love is, something that's really spat
for me. I ain't gonna lie, but you know, even
on the first date, vibe like I'm already gonna be
talking to you. You know, I'm already know what your
favorite color is. So whatever your favorite color is, I'm
gonna get you those flowers like color you feel me.
And then what you like to do, whether you want
to get some dinner, whether you want to go to
the beach on a little picnic, you know you want
to go whatever you want to do, I'm already gonna
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know we're gonna do it.
Speaker 8 (06:18):
I make sure you know exactly what you need to wear, so.
Speaker 7 (06:21):
That way you're ready for it.
Speaker 11 (06:23):
We go to dinner, you spill a little something on
your dress, We're gonna go to Zars get you something else.
Speaker 7 (06:27):
You know, we don't keep it we don't keep it pushing, We're.
Speaker 8 (06:29):
Gonna have a great time.
Speaker 11 (06:30):
Like I'm gonna look out for you, baby, you know
what I'm saying, Like, that's just how I am, That's
how I raised, you feel me.
Speaker 7 (06:34):
So I'm gonna keep it pushing and We're gonna have
a great time.
Speaker 11 (06:43):
That's up, everybody. My name is Jalen I g handled
J Smooth. I'm locrom California, twenty nine, turn of thirty
next month and now working entertainment in real estate.
Speaker 6 (06:52):
Oh yo, that was crazy.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 6 (06:55):
They really come on with us. Now, how you feeling
about those answers?
Speaker 2 (07:00):
I am a woman of detail, so there's a couple
of things that really did catch my eye and I
really did like to hear in that.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
Okay, So now let's get to the second question for
these bachelors to me.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Okay, this one's more if you. I kind of want
to see how if you are a man in action.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
So let's just say that we are out to dinner
for the first part of our date, and I spilled
something on my white dress, and we have a next
stop we supposed go to a concert, So how would
you handle that?
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Bachelor number one, where you.
Speaker 12 (07:35):
Want to go pick up what you like to wear,
like obviously for the occasion, so we would yeah, obviously
I would ask questions, see what you kind of fit
you with like stopping then go.
Speaker 8 (07:47):
It's pretty simple, so go and.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
All right and Bachelor number two, shoot, you know.
Speaker 7 (07:56):
We already covered that.
Speaker 11 (08:01):
We go into a little bit more detail for you,
and I'm gonna looking you know what colored nails you
got on?
Speaker 3 (08:05):
You know, we don't, we don't, we don't take it.
We're gonna make it to a nice at the mall.
Speaker 8 (08:08):
So whatever color nows you got, we meet your address.
Speaker 11 (08:10):
That imagines that, okay, line, get your nice little you know,
whatever treat you want the mall. You know you can
be vegan. We want a little bigger spot. You ain't big,
and we're gonna get whatever you feel me. So whatever
you want, we're gonna get that. We have a great time.
I love doing the days personally, I do.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
Okay, okay, all right, all right, that's their number three.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
That's the number three.
Speaker 9 (08:30):
So I think, like the first thing is to make
sure you're good to even like walk out of where
we're at, right, Like if you spill something on your dress.
If I got a jacket or something that can cover
that up. That way you you you straight to walk out,
you know what I'm saying. And then we're gonna stop
by where we can stop by if it's closed. You know,
we can run to the crib. If you're not coming
with me, knowing where you live, I'll get you over
to the crib and then meet you out again for
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the next spot.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
She ain't that jawn, That was a good one. I'm
not gonna lie.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Team.
Speaker 5 (09:00):
It's a tough pristina. Don't look, you got one answer
to one question. Excuse me to ask these men before
you need to eliminate one of them. This is tough
because I already it's one more question.
Speaker 7 (09:15):
You know what, No, you know what.
Speaker 6 (09:16):
I'm gonna let you live a little. We'll do we'll
do another round.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
So this is pressure.
Speaker 5 (09:22):
Go ahead and ask someone more question and then we'll
give them something a little competitive after that.
Speaker 6 (09:27):
Okay, you'll eliminate. Okay.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
So this has to do with you know, your last relationship,
the last person you might have been with, whether you know,
just your last active relationship that you say, like I
really dated that person, I talked to that person right.
If I were to talk to her when I'm one,
what would she tell me that I should be aware
of or look out for.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
Oh my gosh, that's tough, and I would like to
go with bachelor number two.
Speaker 11 (10:01):
Okay, man, that's a great question.
Speaker 7 (10:06):
I'm why to let you ask that too.
Speaker 11 (10:09):
I guess for me, like as far as like things
that I need to work on, like I've been working
on it though it's probably just a little bit more
you know, communication, you know, like because you can tell
I'm a great communicator, but in relationship you got to
go a little deeper, you know.
Speaker 7 (10:23):
So lately I've really been working on going deeper.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
So that's stuff that you will say I need to work.
Speaker 11 (10:27):
On that, But I have been working on that, and
you know, I've been you know, I appreciating the women
that I've dated, that I've been with. You know, they're
all wonderful, they're all special. So you know, we all
got somebody for us, you know what I'm saying. So yeah,
I say that would just be that would be one
of the ones. It's just communication because I'm great at communicating,
but also you know, I want to you know, tend
a little bit better to her needs, you know. So
(10:47):
that's stuff that I'm going to continue to work on,
you know, do better going forward.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
Beautiful.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
I like that transparency right.
Speaker 3 (10:56):
On that right for me that this is good, This
is good.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
All right, let's go with bachelor number three.
Speaker 9 (11:05):
I think my last ex would probably say that I'm
an extremely passionate person, a fun person, a person that
loves to travel, and I'm also very I'm a fixer.
Speaker 7 (11:22):
Right, so whenever.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
When the question is not what you do?
Speaker 7 (11:27):
Good? Now? She said what to look out for? Right?
Speaker 3 (11:30):
What's the question? Let's get the question back.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
Let's get the question back and be the question. He
gives all the positives, now, what's the question?
Speaker 3 (11:38):
More time? Like what you gotta look out for? Now?
But come on now, let's keep it one like you did.
What's the question one more time?
Speaker 1 (11:46):
To give it to one more time?
Speaker 2 (11:47):
If I were to sit the last person you had
a relationship with right in front of me, what would
she warn me about warned you?
Speaker 7 (11:54):
That's a different question.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
That's what I said, right, What was she warned you?
Speaker 6 (12:00):
She phrased it a little differently the first time, giving right.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Right, That's why I have to get back, Yeah, give.
Speaker 9 (12:06):
The right, go ahead, so I would say, yeah, I
would really go back to the passion thing because like
I get like locked in on something and I'm all
in on it, whether that's like the relationship or anything
going into my life, and sometimes it gives me a
little tunnel vision, which could be a good or bad thing.
But it's also something that I've always been able to.
(12:26):
I'm aware of, I'm very aware of it, and I'm
always always working through that.
Speaker 6 (12:30):
And I ask the follow up question to that, of course, yes,
of course.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
So would you say that your person becomes your whole world?
Like do you become super cleany or is that something
that is that your main focus? That is that what
becomes the center of your life.
Speaker 9 (12:45):
Now, I've never done that because I think if you
lose yourself in a relationship, that's not really healthy, right
because you still have relationships outside your relationship, relationship with
your beliefs, relationship, friends, relationship, family. I don't think it
becomes clean because that's not healthy. I've never personally done that.
He's more so like if I'm think I'm right about
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a situation or something's going on in my life, I'm
kind of focus and locky.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
In on that, Okay, Okay, I like that.
Speaker 10 (13:16):
Okay, and Bachelor number one, my ex would say, I'm
impatient and also too blunt, just because I'm very direct
and just to the point, because the ain't no point
of being around the bush.
Speaker 12 (13:28):
Just what anything in life, you know, whatever that matter
may be. I just feel like a lot of people
they don't know theirselves, so they get offended.
Speaker 8 (13:36):
But it's something I'm working on though.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
Okay, I do have a follow up question for you.
Speaker 8 (13:41):
Okay, how would you.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
How would you go ahead and say dealing with a
woman who is.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
Like a very.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Emotional empathy wise, because I would say I'm in that category.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
So I dealt with men that are blunt, and.
Speaker 12 (14:00):
Yeah, I'm blunt, but I'm also emotional too, you know
what I'm saying. Like, I know how to I was
raised right, two parent households, so I got that tough
love and soft love, so I know how to turn
off and on, like when you know, be an asshole
to the world, come home, be soft, sweet, concaren, things
of that nature.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
I like that.
Speaker 6 (14:21):
I love an asshole man.
Speaker 5 (14:23):
Don't be out too friendly now and that's not gonna work.
Speaker 8 (14:28):
Like respect, yeah.
Speaker 5 (14:29):
Exactly, respect, but never not too fucking much. Okay, because
that friendly she gotta go. Okay, man don't want a
friendly woman. We don't want to friendly as man either,
you know. Okay, all right, so let's get it, Christina.
Now I want you to ask the contestants about each other. Okay,
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So give me a few questions for them to help
you make your decision.
Speaker 6 (14:55):
Because they see each other, they.
Speaker 5 (14:57):
Were chopping it up but before before you even got here,
so they know a little bit about each other. So
why don't you ask them some things about each other
to help you make your decision?
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Okay, So let me see, let me think here, we're
gonna go and order this time.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
And to start about number one.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
I like it.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
If one of you had to go home right now,
who would it be?
Speaker 3 (15:25):
Not me?
Speaker 8 (15:28):
I think all of us.
Speaker 12 (15:29):
I would say, you know, we're all good, outstanding gentlemen.
Just when we was talking, everyone got a good head
on their shoulder. You know, got a lot of things
going on for theirself. I'm not I'm not the person
to ask who should go home. That's your choice. I
could just say that all of us are outstanding gentlemen
(15:52):
and uh god like men. I would say, do the
conversation uh.
Speaker 10 (15:59):
Just not me.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
Circle back around.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
Listen, listen, your life is on the line, sitting one
of them all? What you want? Two or three? Your
life is on the line.
Speaker 7 (16:13):
What you're gonna do?
Speaker 8 (16:14):
Fris three?
Speaker 6 (16:19):
Okay, three?
Speaker 1 (16:22):
He got to you asked.
Speaker 3 (16:25):
Everybody got to answer the same question.
Speaker 8 (16:27):
Now, Yeah, Okay, it's a game.
Speaker 10 (16:33):
It's a.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
Game, all right, all right, and bachelor number two.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
We gotta go. Oh, this is pressure, right, they can
both go. They can both go. You know, they my dogs.
You know we've been chopping up cold.
Speaker 11 (16:55):
You know they both I'm not mad.
Speaker 8 (16:58):
That makes the winner there the fact.
Speaker 6 (17:03):
A number three, I.
Speaker 9 (17:06):
Just I can get my leak back. I'll say the
more that's.
Speaker 3 (17:16):
Right, right right, make it kind of even though the
side still.
Speaker 6 (17:20):
Okay, Christilla, you got another one for him?
Speaker 1 (17:23):
I do have one more.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
Okay, So which bachelor here do you think is your
biggest competition.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
I'm gonna start in the middle. Number two.
Speaker 3 (17:41):
We outside were having a good time. But to be honest, man,
whoever you choose you.
Speaker 11 (17:45):
Going, you're gonna get a good dealer with a good dude.
You know what I'm saying, Like I ain't, but not neither.
You know what I'm saying, but it's just a good
ass time. You know about this, I remember the question.
I'm just talking the biggest competition, you know. But to
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be real about the choose between the two, yeah, neither.
Speaker 7 (18:10):
I can't choose.
Speaker 3 (18:11):
I think it's I'm so confident in myself.
Speaker 8 (18:14):
It's just like confidence is keen on.
Speaker 11 (18:15):
You know, it ain't no competition you. You know when
you are in tune with yourself. You know you love God,
you love your family. You feel me so after this,
you feeling I still kicking with the gods. You feel
me like everyone's cool. You feel me not cool in
the room produce the same thing.
Speaker 1 (18:29):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7 (18:29):
We have a good time.
Speaker 4 (18:32):
So I'm just here just to show out, you know,
cater to you.
Speaker 7 (18:37):
You feel me, So I say neither to be honest.
Speaker 6 (18:39):
Okay, Okay, who's the next one?
Speaker 2 (18:44):
I'm sorry you did too, so you won't want Yes,
let's go one.
Speaker 8 (18:49):
The only competition is myself so little to height.
Speaker 7 (18:52):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 8 (18:56):
I can't speak for them. They don't I'm not looking
at them. I'm looking straight so that I can say, really.
Speaker 7 (19:07):
Very much.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
So and Bachelor number three.
Speaker 7 (19:11):
I mean, yeah, same for me. I mean, I mean
I'm in competition with no man. Like my day to
day life, I don't.
Speaker 9 (19:15):
I don't look at the people's competition because I'm on
my own name and my own way. So it's always
gonna be different with me no matter what.
Speaker 5 (19:26):
Christina, do you have a very vulnerable question for these
guys before we have to go to the elimination round.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
Let me think a vulnerable question.
Speaker 4 (19:41):
This is gonna be a live Christine, that this is
gonna be tough because I think these contestants they cracking.
Speaker 3 (19:49):
They all got swag, and me as a you know
the o G.
Speaker 4 (19:53):
When I when I'm peeping them and I went in
the back with them, I'm like, damn they are. I
think like, y'all all of match. When I look I
look at you and I look at them, I think
y'all all the match. So I know this is gonna
be tough. So man, this this question, make it count?
Speaker 8 (20:10):
This question?
Speaker 6 (20:12):
Why do you will need to know before you make
this elimination something?
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Something that's really really important to me is.
Speaker 2 (20:20):
Dealing with a man when he is angry and how
he deals with confrontation. How do you handle an argument
with your significant other? Talking to number one.
Speaker 5 (20:36):
Sorry, he's going first.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
Sorry.
Speaker 8 (20:43):
How do I do with conflict?
Speaker 7 (20:46):
Uh?
Speaker 8 (20:48):
You know, walk away, cool off, come back, have a conversation.
Speaker 12 (20:52):
I don't like going to bed man and waking up
the next day angry, So we got to figure that
out before we go to sleep.
Speaker 7 (20:59):
M hmm.
Speaker 8 (21:00):
Yeah, conversation for real. Uh yeah, I just need to
I just need a minute, maybe an hour or two.
Come back, see where your head is at. If you
need some more time, get your space.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 5 (21:14):
That's a great answer, honestly that I do not like
to go to better angry period.
Speaker 6 (21:18):
We got to resolve this.
Speaker 1 (21:20):
Who's next contested Number two?
Speaker 11 (21:25):
That's a great question, you know. The first thing that's
something you know, asked about dealing with my anger. First thing
I thought about was just you know, so that'sn't the
word that the anger is in the heart of a fool.
And you know, Jim and I ain't no fool, but
also human, you know, so if things did get hot,
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and we've all.
Speaker 3 (21:48):
Been in a relationship, we've all been in no situations.
Let's be real.
Speaker 7 (21:51):
Hand of us.
Speaker 3 (21:51):
We don't like it.
Speaker 11 (21:53):
It ain't it ain't fruitful, you know, don't nothing come
from it, you know. So the tactics that I've learned
is just you know, trying to get to the room
of it as soon as possible, you know, and if
we can't get to the root of it, then you know,
we can gracefully just.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
Walk away and talk about it and we call down,
you know, because that's the only way to deal with it.
Speaker 7 (22:10):
You know, it's like, get to the root of it.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
We can't get to the root of it.
Speaker 8 (22:13):
There's there's no point in going back and forth.
Speaker 7 (22:15):
You know, things get hot, we're gonna resolve it, or we're.
Speaker 11 (22:18):
Gonna walk away and come back resolve it at some point,
because you know, I just hate the piggyback off of
you know what anyone said, But no one wants to
go to sleep like at night, you know, like with anger.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
In your heart all this is grow You don't you
don't want that.
Speaker 7 (22:30):
You don't want that anything. So that's my answer.
Speaker 4 (22:32):
You give me some game because I didn't have, you know,
I done went in the other room and fell asleep angry,
you know, in a relationship like you know, if I
had a loan what y'all was telling the game, then
I probably would have still been But anyway, that's a
big game, y'all.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
That's a good game. Just just moving forward. Go ahead, y'all,
go ahead.
Speaker 5 (22:49):
That's an older said that, and that's where people get
that from. Its older couple came and said, if there's
any advice that can give younger people to never go
to bed?
Speaker 4 (23:00):
Yeah, that's kind of wake up and still is awkward, Right,
it's awkward you wake up, you're looking like.
Speaker 6 (23:07):
Lift the Bachelor number three and what you got?
Speaker 9 (23:11):
So for me, I try to figure out. I think
communication is key in that. A lot of times it's
like if I'm we get upset, it's like, you're not
really upset that I left the toilet seat, Look like
what you're really mad about? And I think also in
the moment, addressing things is key instead of letting it fester,
right and letting it build up.
Speaker 7 (23:29):
And then I try to see myself.
Speaker 9 (23:30):
I try to take it out of myself and see
from the other person's perspective, right, like all right, like
let me look at it from her view point of
view to try to get an understanding.
Speaker 7 (23:39):
So we kind of meet in the middle. It's not
about winning or losing.
Speaker 9 (23:42):
It's about like meeting that person where they're at and
then on top of that, changing behavior going forward, right, Like,
if it's something I did and you communicate that made
you upset, then I'm gonna know in the future to
not do it. So it's just really communicating with that
person and uh, that way kind of results of going forward.
Speaker 5 (24:01):
M that's a real that was hard, Christina. How are
you feeling about these men?
Speaker 7 (24:07):
You know?
Speaker 1 (24:07):
Don't believe it or not, I'm favoring two more than
the three I have. I have two in mind that
I do want to keep.
Speaker 6 (24:16):
Okay, So you're ready to make an elimination now, I am.
Speaker 13 (24:19):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
I'm attention to detail and during all the questions, there
are some things that really really did stick to me.
I think all three are wonderful. There's it's just you've
had some things that.
Speaker 1 (24:30):
Really click with me and what I'm looking for.
Speaker 6 (24:33):
Okay, go ahead, Christina, it's time to elimination.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
It's not personal, it's not.
Speaker 4 (24:42):
You. You can't see them, so it's fair game. It's
all y'all.
Speaker 1 (24:48):
I am so sorry. Bachelor number two.
Speaker 8 (24:54):
So you are holding down boy?
Speaker 3 (24:56):
All right? Going to show himself, Go and show yourself.
Speaker 4 (25:15):
Okay, still strong, he was strong in the game.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
I thought he hadn't he came with the word.
Speaker 4 (25:32):
I thought he was sorry. I thought he had the
blue peel and everything I thought he was.
Speaker 11 (25:37):
To be honest, I didn't for no kind of way
to be real, because you know, I'm coming to represent
my family, kind to represent myself and uh most importantly
represent the King, you know. So I'm just trying to
have a good time, vibe about and keep it pushing.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
Honestly, I love that.
Speaker 5 (25:52):
When you come back to be the man of the hour.
Speaker 1 (25:57):
What are you looking.
Speaker 6 (25:58):
For in women?
Speaker 11 (25:59):
I'm looking for a woman of God. You know, somebody
can go to church with us when I can kick
it with you know, I have to do. I'm so multifaceted,
like I get along with so many different people. I
just wanted to help make you know what I'm saying.
So you know, I take my time with it. I
don't resided to nothing. I'm kind of new to the area.
So one day at the time, y'all, One day at
the time, Okay.
Speaker 6 (26:24):
How do you feel about your your decision? You feel good?
Speaker 7 (26:28):
I do.
Speaker 2 (26:29):
To my heart and God as little prayers in between.
I don't see who's over there. You know, I'm going
off of how I feel like how you ords are
very making me feel like, Okay, this is.
Speaker 6 (26:44):
I love that.
Speaker 5 (26:44):
So now I want you to ask these gentlemen some
personal questions that's really going to help you make this decision.
Speaker 6 (26:50):
We're gonna give you a.
Speaker 5 (26:51):
Few questions and then you do have to pick a
final guy. So make them worth it and really just
figure out what you want to know so you can
move forward.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
I'm gonna go ahead and be a s if you
will please a little spice.
Speaker 1 (27:13):
Okay, so.
Speaker 6 (27:15):
This is one of my something.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
I really just do need to know what is the
most pendeous.
Speaker 1 (27:24):
Or ridiculous reason? And you better be so truthful. Why
the need to ghost a woman?
Speaker 8 (27:31):
Oh yeah, I stare on a date.
Speaker 3 (27:37):
Number spicy, mm hmm.
Speaker 7 (27:42):
So what is it's like? What is ghosting? You feel me?
Speaker 6 (27:45):
Like?
Speaker 7 (27:46):
I don't think I really ghost anybody before.
Speaker 6 (27:48):
I love that, Okay, Like if I'm.
Speaker 9 (27:50):
Not interested, I ain't I'm not gonna play nobody because
I'm at I'm at this big age where like I
ain't got I'm not gonna waste my time.
Speaker 7 (27:55):
It hurts feel me.
Speaker 9 (27:57):
So if I get somebody's number with intention and I
always have pursued it, if I'm not an injury, I
just won't.
Speaker 7 (28:04):
I just won't even I'll just say, hey, how you doing?
Keep pressing?
Speaker 8 (28:07):
Okay, oh yeah, I ghosted to be fun shorty. I
ain't gonna like you. I listen. I'm the type to reciprocate,
you know. I like my energy reciprocated. So like, if
I'm like taking.
Speaker 12 (28:19):
Time out of my day just to send a quick text,
whether if you're busy or not, I think a quick response,
Hey I'm busy, I'll hit you later, you know, just
little stuff like that.
Speaker 8 (28:26):
But I think the pettiest thing I did I was
on a date. She was on her phone.
Speaker 12 (28:32):
You know, I'm a I'm a conversationalist, so I like
I like to see where woman's head is.
Speaker 8 (28:37):
She was on her phone the whole time.
Speaker 12 (28:39):
You know, I just got up, put a little bit,
put my little card down and just bounced. I was
I'm going to the bathroom, and I just left, you know,
because it's just like that's disrespectful.
Speaker 8 (28:48):
You know, we're on a date and you just on
your phone the whole time.
Speaker 12 (28:50):
It's just like, okay, I'm wasting my time at this point,
so now I got to waste stores you know it's
so I love at the end of the day, but
I'm I'm bill on respect.
Speaker 3 (29:00):
You know, that's disrespectful for shure.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
That's the follow up question with your date that you
have that you're just telling.
Speaker 8 (29:08):
You want to follow up question on her, I ask
you something. Oh yeah, for sure, absolutely so.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
Did you at any point in time during that they
communicate that you felt disrespected with her on her boote?
Speaker 12 (29:19):
Why should I have to you a grown woman, I'm
a grown man, like this is this is the actual
Davy adults.
Speaker 8 (29:25):
I shouldn't have to explain anything.
Speaker 7 (29:27):
You know.
Speaker 8 (29:27):
It's if he wasn't raised that way, then you just
not for me.
Speaker 3 (29:32):
Okay, whoa, that's that's I feel that.
Speaker 1 (29:35):
Whoa.
Speaker 6 (29:36):
That's intense.
Speaker 3 (29:37):
So you can the city right here, bro, what you're doing.
Speaker 5 (29:40):
It's just like, but also, don't you feel like as
a man, if you're you should communicate maybe.
Speaker 12 (29:46):
Many But if I do and you're still doing it,
then you're then at that point.
Speaker 4 (29:51):
She's still yeah, Okay, So that's that makes a difference.
This difference you communicated that and she still did it. Okay, Yeah,
that makes a difference.
Speaker 6 (29:59):
Now yeah she still does it, then it's like, yeah,
all right by.
Speaker 8 (30:02):
But she's just not interested.
Speaker 4 (30:04):
You should just say that how much was the meal
that night?
Speaker 5 (30:10):
Don't He's like, I don't read that, patty now holding
on to day.
Speaker 3 (30:17):
Almost fifty.
Speaker 6 (30:21):
But you know what, respectful you didn't stick her with
the bill?
Speaker 3 (30:23):
Yeah, exactly, Okay, that was respected that super respectful would have.
Speaker 6 (30:27):
Her with the bill.
Speaker 5 (30:28):
Yeah, you made sure to say you still put your Yeah,
kill him.
Speaker 6 (30:34):
I was because you're not on that petty level. Because
the petty level will be like, yeah.
Speaker 4 (30:39):
I stuck with you, trying to think of what I
would have did if you on your phone. I'm thinking
like you need to get off your phone. Hey, we's
what you're doing?
Speaker 3 (30:49):
You know?
Speaker 6 (30:51):
Man, my petty level, he's petty bad. Yeah, he's petty.
Speaker 4 (30:57):
If you patty to me, I'm gonna be super. I'm
I'm double. I'm not looking to be petty. No, but
you will be, Yeah, I will be. I don't like
disrespect either. I will not deal with disrespect. You can
cuss me out, you can, you can do whatever, but
do not disrespect me that.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
You don't have to like me, you don't have to
love me. Don't disrespect me. You know, let's go.
Speaker 6 (31:28):
Give another one.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
Okay, this one, I would like to ask what is
your love language?
Speaker 1 (31:38):
How do you like to receive?
Speaker 3 (31:40):
As well?
Speaker 1 (31:40):
So what do you like to give? And what do
you like to receive? And I'm gonna go with content.
Speaker 9 (31:47):
Oh so what I like to give is a quality
time for sure? Would I like to receive? I would
say physical touch?
Speaker 6 (32:00):
M hmm, a physical touch okay?
Speaker 7 (32:05):
And then why she has why and too she has one.
Speaker 3 (32:08):
Backscratches head all that, So I.
Speaker 7 (32:12):
Would say why is it just like we're if we're
spending time together.
Speaker 9 (32:16):
I think we can really get to know each other, right,
Like we can really figure out if we're aligned. We
got the same interest, We're going to the same places
in life, we like the same things, and.
Speaker 7 (32:24):
That really helps you pick right.
Speaker 9 (32:27):
And as far as receiving physical touch is for a
woman to really give you, that shows that she's really
locked in with you, she really cares about you, because
hopefully she ain't doing that with everybody, you know what
I mean. So it makes you feel like special in
a way if she's giving.
Speaker 7 (32:43):
That to you, for sure.
Speaker 3 (32:46):
And number.
Speaker 8 (32:50):
Uh, what I like to give words of affirmation because
I feel like I want to know your dislikes what
you like with takes you off. So just just conversation.
I really want to like have a stimulating conversation. Also
physical touch, That's what I like to give, because if
I ain't touching you, then you're just not for me.
(33:11):
Uh what I like to receive? Shoot all of them.
Everything just shows me how much you care about me.
It's just the little things. Honestly, I don't ask for
a lot. Uh, conversation, physical touch, words of affirmation, just
just things that simple, just simple stuff.
Speaker 3 (33:30):
We simple were simple. We won don't cost nothing, but
they won't cost everything.
Speaker 8 (33:38):
I feel like you really, if you really fuck with me,
you're gonna ask me questions.
Speaker 6 (33:42):
Yeah, you're gonna get to know.
Speaker 5 (33:44):
You're gonna anticipate his needs before he even tells you
what he needs.
Speaker 6 (33:47):
I already know, baby, I already know.
Speaker 7 (33:52):
Your part.
Speaker 6 (33:52):
I already got you.
Speaker 7 (33:58):
My man.
Speaker 6 (33:59):
Don't even got to ask baby. Okay, so on there.
Speaker 3 (34:06):
The counsel, my grub and I smell good in here.
You got this man. We don't want much. Simple girl
figured out, that's what Christina.
Speaker 6 (34:17):
You do have a final question for these gentlemen.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
I do, Okay, I do, And it released to me
about every day of my life.
Speaker 1 (34:26):
Okay, very very important.
Speaker 13 (34:30):
How often do you be in this gym?
Speaker 1 (34:35):
Because I will not if it was somebody who was
not in the gym, keep.
Speaker 3 (34:40):
It a hunt. They look out of shape. Right now.
Speaker 8 (34:46):
I'm every day I got I got two degrees and khesiology,
health science.
Speaker 7 (34:51):
You know I'm ready.
Speaker 8 (34:52):
I live a healthy actor lifetough every day.
Speaker 5 (34:54):
That's contesting number one, by the way, every day.
Speaker 6 (34:57):
Yeah you got what are your degrees in es, health science,
sports therapy and sports therapy.
Speaker 10 (35:05):
Wow, that's a healthy active I he good too.
Speaker 8 (35:11):
Everything I don't I don't mess with red meat.
Speaker 3 (35:18):
Yeah I can't.
Speaker 8 (35:19):
I don't do the.
Speaker 3 (35:22):
Yeah, we can't do nothing. Okay, wow.
Speaker 6 (35:25):
Contested number one. He has two degrees.
Speaker 5 (35:27):
Sports medicine, some other ship that I can't pronounce.
Speaker 6 (35:31):
What about.
Speaker 5 (35:36):
Right here on that one, I'm gonna keep it up.
That was like whoa all right? Contested number three?
Speaker 7 (35:44):
Uh, I mean I got a trainer.
Speaker 9 (35:45):
I'll be my trainer three or four days a week
and then at the crib another one of two days.
Speaker 7 (35:52):
I've always played sports.
Speaker 9 (35:53):
I work in sports, played basketball, there's swimming, so athleticism
is always been a part of my life.
Speaker 7 (36:00):
Healthy has been always part of my life. Same thing
with him.
Speaker 9 (36:01):
I don't I don't eat red meat, but we try
to eat as healthy as possible, try to avoid like eating.
Speaker 7 (36:08):
I've never had McDonald's in my life. Honestly, I don't
even do the fast food.
Speaker 3 (36:13):
We never had.
Speaker 9 (36:14):
We just never like droke, like growing up mom and
like cook, I just developed the palate.
Speaker 7 (36:20):
I never developed palate for it.
Speaker 4 (36:21):
But yeah, just had a French one black person that
had to have you had.
Speaker 7 (36:29):
To Chick fil Air.
Speaker 3 (36:33):
But yeah, yeah, you got some good parents.
Speaker 7 (36:36):
Yeah, take care of yourself. It's like it's your.
Speaker 3 (36:39):
Parents are strict that amos cooking, moms cooking. That's real.
Speaker 5 (36:45):
Okay, Christina, you got two bachelors here and it's time
for you to make a decision.
Speaker 6 (36:53):
Do you want to ask him.
Speaker 1 (36:54):
One more question?
Speaker 6 (36:56):
What is your astrological sign? I'm just kidding. Do you
want to ask one more question? Or do you what
you're feeling?
Speaker 3 (37:04):
But Chris, this is a tough Onekay, here we go.
Speaker 2 (37:12):
How would you describe your relationship with your mother?
Speaker 3 (37:18):
Who are you talking to?
Speaker 7 (37:20):
Three?
Speaker 3 (37:20):
Okay, there we go.
Speaker 7 (37:22):
We locked in.
Speaker 8 (37:23):
Uh.
Speaker 9 (37:24):
I wouldn't say my mom's born now like that, But
I love my mom to death. We talked three four
times a week on the phone. We text every day,
if night, every other day.
Speaker 7 (37:35):
I'm just a.
Speaker 9 (37:36):
Family wented person in general. Like me and my dad,
my pops, we locked in. My parents still married. I
talked to my siblings pretty much every day. Family is
a big, a big part of my life. So and
those people have saved my life in so many different ways, you.
Speaker 7 (37:51):
Know what I mean. So uh, and my mom.
Speaker 9 (37:54):
Is just like a person I respect, you know what
I'm saying, Like she sacrificed so much to get me
where I'm at, and so it's just a person that
I'm always locked in with, you know.
Speaker 8 (38:03):
I love.
Speaker 12 (38:03):
That's her number one damn vulnerability.
Speaker 8 (38:09):
Okay, my relationship with my mom is great. I talk
to my mom every day because you just never know
when it stayed time to go.
Speaker 12 (38:17):
So whether it's just a quick text, see how her
day is going to piggyback kind of off of him.
Speaker 8 (38:24):
But like, my mom has been there for me through
my roughest times in my life.
Speaker 12 (38:28):
So how I treat my mom is how I treat
my lady like respect. You know, she showed me how
to actually treat a woman like just being soft and vulnerable,
I guess.
Speaker 8 (38:42):
But yeah, my mom is like, that's my number one,
but also my lady's my number one, so my mom
got to take a back seat. Still love her though,
but yeah she's It's a great relationship, more so friendship
than a mother. But now that I'm older.
Speaker 3 (38:59):
Here so listen. Now it's a decision part of the show.
Speaker 4 (39:08):
And I know you have to make an elimination. But
at the same time you may be having something on
your mind or who you want to eliminate or who
you want to keep. But this is the opportunity in
the show to where you can call a friend and
I know you you have a friend in the studio.
Speaker 3 (39:27):
If you want to ask some advice, you can or not.
Speaker 6 (39:29):
They want to know if they can ask her one question.
Speaker 3 (39:33):
This is a twist this question.
Speaker 8 (39:40):
As a woman, I'm surprised you a social relationships like
with God.
Speaker 13 (39:45):
I love that relationship with God everything through the whole Bible,
future every Sunday because I need her.
Speaker 6 (39:57):
Just Number one said he needs.
Speaker 1 (39:58):
You, Nike, I read in the morning, I go to
me and my.
Speaker 2 (40:05):
Mom are locked in every everything in my life with God.
Speaker 1 (40:10):
He's the center.
Speaker 3 (40:13):
All right?
Speaker 8 (40:14):
Moving forward?
Speaker 6 (40:15):
All right?
Speaker 4 (40:18):
Wait, Contestant number one had a questions, So we give
opportunity to contestante to ask any question.
Speaker 7 (40:23):
You want to ask you all right?
Speaker 4 (40:25):
If he got one, so he got a question, you
got to think and give him some time. That's fine,
it's fine, but it's fair game. Now he can't ask
something now he came. Now give him something.
Speaker 9 (40:34):
Yeah, what would if if I called your best friend?
What would she say about you?
Speaker 6 (40:42):
That's a good one.
Speaker 1 (40:47):
That is a really good one. I think that.
Speaker 2 (40:51):
She would tell you to take care of my heart
and just be patient.
Speaker 4 (40:56):
Because okay, all right, So now I got a question
four Christine.
Speaker 3 (41:05):
Okay, this is a wrinkle we put in this show.
Speaker 4 (41:10):
This is some new stuff now, and I'm gonna ask
the men all of this because I think it's fair.
Speaker 3 (41:15):
So I'm gonna go with the men first.
Speaker 4 (41:18):
So contested number three, what's the how long was the
longest relationship you.
Speaker 3 (41:25):
Ever been in?
Speaker 7 (41:26):
Three years?
Speaker 3 (41:27):
Okay, same question number one?
Speaker 7 (41:29):
For four years?
Speaker 3 (41:30):
Christina? You two? Okay, two, that's that's a good two
four three two three.
Speaker 6 (41:36):
Four all right, okay, So that's.
Speaker 4 (41:39):
That's that's you know, just to give a base to
where like they are they long term guys.
Speaker 3 (41:44):
Or they break up. You know that's the thing because
for me, I've been into it.
Speaker 4 (41:48):
I've been in a nine, I've been in a fourteen,
and my my youngest is my lowest is four. So,
like you know, I'm a longevity nigga.
Speaker 6 (42:03):
Okay, it's not about Paul.
Speaker 1 (42:08):
For that.
Speaker 5 (42:08):
He's not a combatant. So Christina, how are you feeling
right now?
Speaker 3 (42:13):
What are you?
Speaker 6 (42:13):
What are you still?
Speaker 5 (42:16):
You gotta make a decision, girl, This is your time.
You gotta let her make a decision.
Speaker 6 (42:20):
This is your time.
Speaker 5 (42:20):
I'm putting putting you to you got nothing left, honey,
can't you can't.
Speaker 3 (42:25):
Call a friend.
Speaker 6 (42:25):
And it's time for you to make a decision. Christina.
And I know this is going to be tough. You
gotta girl, ask God.
Speaker 1 (42:40):
He said. I think they both as really really well
to get us the detail. My heart in my mind
is telling me one thing, and.
Speaker 3 (42:55):
Said saying one thing. You got to those.
Speaker 2 (42:59):
Yeah, I feel it in my death in West.
Speaker 1 (43:04):
My decision is, you know, my decision.
Speaker 3 (43:07):
But we can say something else.
Speaker 1 (43:12):
Oh my gosh. And it's really hard. But I appreciate
both of you. But for some reason, I think consistent
number three. So I want to stick with.
Speaker 6 (43:21):
Oh wow, I'm shot by that actually amazing. Give shot
and he's handsome.
Speaker 4 (43:32):
To show yourself, show yourself.
Speaker 6 (43:41):
Now, this is what I want to do.
Speaker 5 (43:45):
I want you to come out, Christina, come on, and
I want contested number three to come out.
Speaker 3 (43:49):
Come on.
Speaker 6 (43:49):
I want you to meet each other.
Speaker 4 (43:51):
Come on, yeah, come on, come on, nervous, come on
the number three. Yeah, all the contestants come back. Y'all back,
bring y'all back, Bring the contestants back.
Speaker 3 (44:10):
All right. So, now this is a twist in this show.
We got contesting number one, two, and three.
Speaker 4 (44:18):
She honestly chose contestant number three off the answers he gave.
Now we're bringing the contestants out, but we're gonna give
you the opportunity to say, hey, you can change up
right now, right now, listen, Right now is the time.
(44:41):
This is the twist. You can say, hey, you know
what I think. I want to go a different route.
Speaker 6 (44:48):
Okay, so let her, let her make a decision. You come,
look at these men.
Speaker 3 (44:52):
Right here, right now.
Speaker 1 (44:53):
That's a lot of pressure.
Speaker 4 (44:57):
We got the we got the voice and the answers,
but now the physical comes out.
Speaker 3 (45:04):
So now you put the fiscal with the.
Speaker 6 (45:06):
Voice Now, this was number one.
Speaker 3 (45:09):
This was number one.
Speaker 6 (45:10):
He was the one was number.
Speaker 4 (45:13):
You can choose different now, Hey, what you're gonna do?
Speaker 2 (45:18):
You then I'm gonna I'm just gonna stick with my
decision because I was going completely how I felt, So
I'm gonna stick with all right.
Speaker 5 (45:29):
Amazing, All right, then, so listen, y'all, this was amazing.
Christina has been pierced by love. Okay, she's with chance
and hopefully they'll take a chance on love. Yeah, so
we are going to sponsor you guys to go on
(45:49):
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Speaker 3 (45:51):
So we're going to give.
Speaker 6 (45:54):
Also going to give you gentlemen one as well, so
you can go.
Speaker 10 (45:59):
Maybe me.
Speaker 5 (46:01):
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Speaker 6 (46:15):
We are super.
Speaker 5 (46:16):
Excited for you guys to enjoy this day and we
will fall up to see if they really got it
popping or if she decided to double back on one
of these other.
Speaker 6 (46:25):
Okay, because that didn't happen to me. Dark I want
her last shows. They doubled back.
Speaker 5 (46:29):
Okay, So yeah, you guys have a good evening.
Speaker 3 (46:32):
Thank you so much, Thank you so much for joining us.
Continue to like, subscribe.
Speaker 6 (46:36):
Yes, comment, all the all the truth.
Speaker 8 (46:39):
After dark I eliminated. It felt uh well, disappointed, but.
Speaker 7 (46:45):
It was cool.
Speaker 8 (46:45):
You know, fighting living the other day?
Speaker 6 (46:47):
Did you when you saw her, were.
Speaker 1 (46:49):
You like damn?
Speaker 8 (46:51):
I was like damn, damn.
Speaker 6 (46:56):
So if it don't work out with the guys he chose,
you think you're gonna try.
Speaker 8 (46:59):
To I'm back doing for shure.
Speaker 7 (47:03):
I feel good.
Speaker 9 (47:05):
I came here kind of last minute, just look for
a good time, and I think I met somebody really
dope and I'm just looking forward to getting to know
them better.
Speaker 6 (47:14):
So now that you chose the guy that you're excited.
Speaker 2 (47:17):
To go on your day, I am he seems very
very kind and that's exactly what I look for.
Speaker 1 (47:22):
Gentle giant. Literally, I love that.
Speaker 2 (47:25):
I just want to say that again. I was the
first person to be on both sides. I'm setting records here.
I started it first meet that girl me period being
a contestant, was I feel like more on the nerve
working side, just because you aren't in control, so you're
getting asked questions, you're being put on the spot, and
not only that, you don't really know if you're going
to go for a second or third, which is also
(47:46):
very anticipating. But it is a very it's like a
game almost being a contestant on this side, but it
is very fun. After you know, you get things going,
the nerves go away and it's more like bantering in
a conversation very organically. I feel like it happened and
being the girl on the other side, where I was
in control and I had the questions and I was
(48:07):
being able to go ahead and ask what I really
wanted to know and what I was looking for, I
feel like that just fits me and my character because.
Speaker 1 (48:13):
I'm an alful woman. I like to be in control.
Speaker 2 (48:15):
So being able to direct how I wanted the conversations
to go and how I wanted to get to know
the gentleman was a lot of fun.
Speaker 1 (48:24):
I'm Christina and I have been pierced by love.
Speaker 4 (48:44):
This is to take it over the gain, all right, everybody,
welcome to truth after Dog.
Speaker 5 (48:57):
Do you think that men or women and are more
toxic
Speaker 8 (49:05):
H