Dating In A Wheelchair, Paying Child Support, & Why Men Cheat | Truth After Dark - The Truth After Dark

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Since the cook episode, you've been coming with it like
I ain't gonna lie, hair done, nails done, everything big
in the world of society, like.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Society. Yeah, what the fuck does that even mean?

Speaker 1 (00:16):
Y'all?

Speaker 2 (00:17):
Don't you operate from your dick and not from your mind?
Hit every time?

Speaker 1 (00:23):
Trying to hit you with your Ah. It's a layup
where you go up one way and do you go
under like, ah, we're trying to hit you with your
role you theah. You know what I'm saying. We hit
y'all with the had leg. She don't know what we
talk about, you see it.

Speaker 3 (00:41):
I said I had a boyfriend and he was very handsome,
very successful, handsome, fine, attractive, all that.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
Women wanted him all the time.

Speaker 3 (00:47):
When you was too eddy, stop asking when I was
too eddy, I said that motherfucker.

Speaker 2 (00:55):
We're not going to keep it.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
More than Darnell. That's great, hey, you know he was
a linebacker. Loop said it best that you got a
chip on your shoulder, girl, you got on his shoulder.
Said that he gave us a real gay that day.

(01:35):
This is the taking over the game, all right, everybody,
welcome to truth after dark.

Speaker 2 (01:48):
Do you think that men or women are more toxic.

Speaker 3 (01:57):
Hello everybody, welcome to another episode of the Truth After Dark.
I am your host, is our fair day, And of
course we got the viral sensation.

Speaker 2 (02:08):
In the building.

Speaker 1 (02:09):
We building it here, Babby, Hey, everybody fucking with yo.
Look you looking amazing. By the way, man, you just
stepped your game up for the summer whatever.

Speaker 3 (02:20):
Since you said I was cooked, I was like, let
me just remind.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
Game all the way up to let you like. I
feel like you put me. You're trying to put me
in my place. It just feels like that.

Speaker 2 (02:31):
I'm not.

Speaker 3 (02:32):
I'm definitely, but I just had to remind myself.

Speaker 4 (02:36):
You have to let me know.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
Yeah, all right.

Speaker 3 (02:40):
But anyways, so today we're going to talk about a
few different things. But I want to start off by
asking you a few questions. Okay, all right, so what
do you think as a man?

Speaker 2 (02:56):
Is the reason that man? She using one ward? One word?

Speaker 3 (02:59):
You can only use one to answer all these questions.
I'm about to ask you, what are the reasons that.

Speaker 4 (03:03):
Meant she said I need one word for this.

Speaker 2 (03:06):
You have to answer with one word.

Speaker 1 (03:08):
The reason, man, cheat is Wow, that's a good one.
Damn uh, I would say, probably, oh, damn one word
though this is not.

Speaker 4 (03:28):
A one word.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
Yeah, it is like if you had to choose one word, like, uh, insecure, Okay.

Speaker 2 (03:35):
That's the that's what she would say insecurity.

Speaker 4 (03:37):
In security Okay, Yeah, I.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
Would say ego.

Speaker 3 (03:43):
Because I feel like a lot of men operate out
their ego, meaning, for instance, if a man feels like
they're in a relationship with a woman and the woman
is kind of like not making him feel like his
ego is stroke like he's the one, and he sometimes
has to venture ound and be like, Okay, I'm gonna
go be with this motherfucker because she's gonna pump me up,
she's gonna hear all my stories and laugh. She's gonna

(04:03):
make me feel like I'm a king. She don't know
all my extra baggage, and she's gonna be fucking with me.

Speaker 1 (04:09):
All right, I'm gonna change my word.

Speaker 2 (04:11):
What is it?

Speaker 1 (04:14):
Availability?

Speaker 2 (04:18):
So it's based off of a woman is available and
accessible to.

Speaker 4 (04:21):
You when she's unavailable.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
The other one is available.

Speaker 3 (04:29):
That's crazy to me though, It's so unfair because it
feels like with a woman, it's like you can't.

Speaker 2 (04:35):
Go through nothing.

Speaker 3 (04:36):
Don't have a baby, don't be on a period, don't
be having a bad day, don't go through depression, don't
be fucking off your queue for two minutes. Like a
man is just gonna be like, you're not available, So
I'm gonna like, that's just so wild to me because
it's like it doesn't leave space for a woman to
have any error in the relationship. And as a woman,
there's that anxiety on your heart because you know that

(04:58):
you're like, well, damn, if I'm not having sex with him,
if I'm not doing this, if I'm not showing up
in these ways, he's about to just go get it
from someone else, and I have to live with that
or I have to move on one or the other.

Speaker 2 (05:08):
But it just feels so much like pressure on us.

Speaker 1 (05:12):
Okay, So let me ask you this. When there's a man,
this is this is the thing. A man is never unavailable.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
That's not true.

Speaker 1 (05:23):
What that's true?

Speaker 3 (05:26):
If you the man is okay, sexually never unavailable? Okay,
let me explain something to you, though. Let me explain
something to you. A man has a dick that you
stick into a hole. A woman has a vagina that's
being entered. Do you know how much different that is?
Do you know how sacred that is? And do you

(05:48):
know how sometimes as a woman, you're getting pounded and
that ship is sore, it hurts, you're on your period,
you're going through something like, it's not just that, and
then man will come in, throw off your pa. You
have a UTI, you have BV, you got all this
shit going on because you're messing with a man and
I gotta recover because of you. And then now you

(06:09):
oh you're not available. All right, I'm gonna go get
with the next bride. You know how crazy that is
for a woman. And I know women that go through
this multiple times and it's like, damn, I'm dealing with
something because of you, and now you're telling me I'm unavailable.
A man is never unavailable because all you're doing is
sticking a dick into a hole.

Speaker 2 (06:28):
That's very easy.

Speaker 3 (06:29):
You're not getting your vagina stretched out and pounded.

Speaker 2 (06:34):
Like that's a whole different situation. You know what I'm saying, Like.

Speaker 1 (06:37):
See what you go through. I'm seeing, I'm hearing you,
see what I go through. What you're talking about, right,
just like a man, like when a man use sex
for like stress belief, and like you say, what you're
going through? Right?

Speaker 4 (06:56):
Yeah, And that's that's something we'll never understand.

Speaker 2 (07:00):
Run to stand it.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
But the other hand, why there's tension and there's disconnect
is because when we go on the outside world as
a man and the pressure that's on us as a
man every day to provide to do the things that
we especially a black man, there's there's like you like
what you're going through internally? We were going through out

(07:23):
the worldly, so we come home with so much pressure
on us to provide, to give you are all and
to make sure you like are We wake up trying
to feel like, hey, how do I make her happy?
Do the woman think that that on a woman's mindset?
Wake up? Let me see how I can make my happy?
My man happy? Our every day mindset is how can

(07:46):
I make her? Because that's what's trained through us through
television shows, through through movies. We wake up to how
do we please the woman? And that's the pressure for
a man. When a man can't provide and can't do
these things, and the stress level come in and suicide
thoughts come in, it is based on what he can't
do for his woman. You so like the worldly things

(08:08):
that a man go through, and you got your issues
as a woman with your body that we can't understand,
but you can't understand when we walk out this room,
when we walk out this house every day and motherfucker
throwing stones at you doing all this and being black
on top of that. Man, we want to come home
and feel some type of life at ease, and we

(08:32):
feel like sometimes the sexual pleasure kit gets us at
ease for that where that moment is that we can
have that that that that intimacy, intimacy with you, that's
the time where I don't think about all that stuff.
That's the time I'm at ease and for that little
forty five to an hour, however long it last. You
are not an hour. Do you think I'm saying intimacy though?

(08:56):
Because intimacy because of me holding you in the bed,
talking to you for a little did before we get
they could be us watching the movie holding each other.
Intimacy is more than sex.

Speaker 2 (09:05):
So we're talking about sex. It's not last intimacy.

Speaker 1 (09:09):
Now intimacy though, like you you you want to hear
what I'm saying, Like as a man, when my mind
is off these things is through the intimacy. Like the
sex is one thing, but the intimacy, that's where it starts.
They start in the layup line. It start before jump ball,
before the game start like in the locker room. Of
the pregame speech. That's all the intimacy. I'm like, like

(09:32):
like when I play ball, like my mind came off
the stress and pressures of the world once I stepped
into the locker room.

Speaker 4 (09:38):
That's where the intimacy, intimacy start.

Speaker 1 (09:41):
The pregame speech, the worm up, the stretching, that's all
of that, like, and then when I was done with
the game, I'm back to real normal life, Like, damn,
I'm going to really going through some real life ship,
you know what I'm saying. So it start before the sex.
Start with sex is the game. The intimacy is the
lay up line, retching, the pregame speech, all that running

(10:02):
through the hall way, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (10:04):
So what if she's giving you the intimacy but she
can't give you the sexual at that second, does that
mean she's unavailable?

Speaker 1 (10:13):
Nah, because the intimacy is like practiced, then all right,
we not gonna have a game today. But if you
give me the intimacy to where you're kissing on me
and we talking, I'm looking on your eye watching the
Netflix movie and I'm holding you and you hold me,
and I'm sharing different secrets with you. That's still that's
still my mind off it, you know what I'm saying.

(10:34):
That's still giving me the pleasure of like, all right,
I'm in another world for whever how long we gonna
be right here, and I'm looking at you in your eye.
I'm dead all right with you, just like you got
a long eys Dave Man, I'm gonna tell you about
it and then you scratching on a nigga neck or
then we take a bath together.

Speaker 4 (10:51):
That's all part of it.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
You know what I'm saying that that that even without
the sex, when you're doing all that, that's like, man,
a nigga need that, like some shit like that just
to keep his mind off his day to where he
to what he went through.

Speaker 2 (11:04):
Are you taking a bath of bitches?

Speaker 1 (11:07):
No? No, with bitches, just like a woman.

Speaker 2 (11:09):
You're getting in the.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
Bath though, like somebody you're gonna get in the bath.

Speaker 2 (11:15):
Is it a huge bath so you guys both can
fit in there?

Speaker 1 (11:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (11:20):
Yeah, I want to be relaxed.

Speaker 1 (11:21):
I want to be.

Speaker 2 (11:22):
Yeah, And what is going on in the bath?

Speaker 3 (11:24):
Is it sexual or is it rubbing down different little.

Speaker 1 (11:28):
This is the like that's part of the intimacy right there,
when you hold me, Like the dude gonna be in
the back, he's gonna be laying on top. He gonna
be just leaning his head bag. It's warm water. It sucks.
It sucks thinking he grabbing on your breast or whatever,
your thighs. He's just like, damn it. Just like, man,
y'all have a conversation. It's water like, that's water, lights off,

(11:55):
knowing I don't.

Speaker 2 (11:56):
Think I've ever done that. That's a cracking vibe.

Speaker 1 (11:59):
I could. I never been in.

Speaker 3 (12:00):
SuDS and waters. Man, No, I never did that before.

Speaker 1 (12:04):
That's crazy.

Speaker 3 (12:04):
I'm a virgin, so like a lot of things have
happened for me. Nothing anyway. So I have another question.

Speaker 2 (12:11):
Lie, I'm not lying. There's a thing that.

Speaker 1 (12:15):
Have just.

Speaker 4 (12:17):
You're a virgin of that, Okay, say that.

Speaker 2 (12:21):
The like what and if I was a virgin, what's
the problem.

Speaker 1 (12:26):
I'm saying, Like, you're an older woman, Okay, you're.

Speaker 2 (12:33):
I'm not an older woman.

Speaker 3 (12:35):
I am not an older I think an older woman
is like thirty eight up.

Speaker 2 (12:39):
Like, let's let's be real, I'm not thirty eight up.
I'm not even thirty five.

Speaker 3 (12:44):
Don't give me no older woman title because no, And
to you, young sir, I'm younger than you, ma'am, because
i'm thirteen forteen, you're younger than you.

Speaker 1 (12:54):
Are you a man?

Speaker 2 (12:56):
I don't care, but I'm going to tell you right now, I'm.

Speaker 1 (12:58):
Not an older woman. Do that I'll take, sir.

Speaker 3 (13:01):
But no one's going to say she's an older lady.
It doesn't give that older lady.

Speaker 1 (13:06):
Yeah, yeah, you're a older lady. Why not? You don't
want to be an older lie.

Speaker 2 (13:12):
I'm not an older lady. Older lady has to be
thirty eight.

Speaker 1 (13:15):
You're mature, mature.

Speaker 2 (13:22):
You're not mature. So anyway, sure you're mature, not mentally.

Speaker 3 (13:26):
Because you come and say anything like I'm not an
older woman.

Speaker 1 (13:31):
You're not.

Speaker 3 (13:31):
Everyone's going to be like, she's a woman, older woman
because anything you say they want.

Speaker 1 (13:35):
To go for you're an older one.

Speaker 3 (13:37):
Fine, I'm an older woman compared to whom a twenty
one year old?

Speaker 1 (13:43):
Well, because when are you considered a woman?

Speaker 4 (13:45):
What age are you considered a woman?

Speaker 2 (13:47):
A woman is like twenty eight?

Speaker 3 (13:49):
No, no, because you don't become a woman woman.

Speaker 1 (13:52):
You're not a little girl at twenty one, if you
can drink and drive, you're not a little woman. You're
you're You're a woman.

Speaker 2 (13:59):
Fine, I'm dealt with the age is older wine, I'm
an older woman.

Speaker 3 (14:02):
Like whatever, You're burnt out, So let's get to the
next topic.

Speaker 2 (14:06):
Because you are, You're rude, and I'm done.

Speaker 1 (14:09):
O ca't you can't. You gotta be able to accept reality.

Speaker 3 (14:13):
I think that what reality is is, like, let's be honest.

Speaker 2 (14:16):
Is thirty four really an older woman? Though?

Speaker 3 (14:19):
Like, seriously, I don't think that thirty four is an
older woman. An older woman is like forty plus thirty
eight plus, Like I don't really think that. I'm like
considered like that's an older woman.

Speaker 2 (14:31):
Maybe when I turn thirty five, but like, at least
have thirty four. Let me at least be cool, like
she's just a woman.

Speaker 1 (14:40):
Yeah, okay, so listen, like when when you reach older
women's status, when you go to the club, you don't
dance anymore.

Speaker 2 (14:49):
I just wasn't dancing when I was twenty. I was
at the.

Speaker 1 (14:53):
Most women that's your age, y'all not dancing. So the
older women are over there.

Speaker 2 (14:58):
The older women are not in the club. It shouldn't
be in the clubs.

Speaker 4 (15:01):
The older women are definitely in the club.

Speaker 2 (15:02):
I don't like that. I'm not as an older woman.

Speaker 1 (15:05):
No, you don't go to the club.

Speaker 2 (15:06):
I'm not an order period. Once I hart thirty five
and up, I could be considered that. I don't want to.

Speaker 1 (15:13):
I'm not what age is too much for the club?

Speaker 2 (15:17):
Like thirty seven.

Speaker 1 (15:20):
You shouldn't be in the club for a woman. For
a woman, what about a man?

Speaker 2 (15:23):
A man is being the club at seventy eight, I
don't know a man. Just do anything.

Speaker 5 (15:27):
I never said once you, once you pass twenty nine,
don't be in the club.

Speaker 1 (15:30):
Please.

Speaker 2 (15:30):
Girls, So the girls can't have fun anymore.

Speaker 4 (15:35):
Yeah, but go to the hotel, bar, to the lounge.

Speaker 3 (15:39):
So limit what women do because they're plus age. But
men can be seventy eight going in the club. Still,
I can't Ooh this is anyways, I'm going to move
on to that stuff because I'm not about to disrupt
my flow in this motherfucker y'all want to say all
this about me.

Speaker 1 (15:55):
I'm in the club, But don't go in the club
after thirty. You're doing it too thirsty when you get.

Speaker 2 (16:03):
But what if you're in there with your man?

Speaker 4 (16:05):
Go to the lounge, go to the rooftop.

Speaker 2 (16:07):
But if you want to go to the club and
get lit, like the fun.

Speaker 1 (16:10):
To the lounge. Just places to get lit. It's a
lot of places to get list. I'm going to the
club where it's too much. It's too much. If you
ain't dancing and shaking that us. Just go sit down
over here at the lounge.

Speaker 2 (16:23):
I don't go to the club anyways, but do that.

Speaker 1 (16:25):
It's time for you to sit down. Club is for you.
If you're still ready to dance. If you've done dancing,
go to the lounge.

Speaker 2 (16:33):
Are you dancing in the club.

Speaker 1 (16:35):
No, I'm sitting down, So why are you in there?
I'm not in the club. Go to the t app
and see if where Paul Pierce has not is not
in the club.

Speaker 2 (16:44):
They're not talking about you on that app.

Speaker 1 (16:46):
You're older.

Speaker 3 (16:47):
They're not discovering what you're going You're older, man, So
let's move on.

Speaker 2 (16:52):
So anyways, by the way, don't.

Speaker 4 (16:57):
This is good, no game up.

Speaker 2 (17:01):
Don't come out here.

Speaker 1 (17:02):
I ain't gonna lie no no no, no no no no
no no, I ain't gonna lie no no, no, don't
know what is what? I don't know? Since the cook episode,
you've been coming with it, like I ain't gonna lie,
hair done, nails done, everything, big, Yeah you want to.

Speaker 2 (17:17):
Okay, I'm an older woman, so I guess, but.

Speaker 1 (17:19):
You're an older woman, so you know it's okay being
an older woman, except your role. This is the thing. No, No,
that's what I'm saying. There's a like you gotta understand,
like in the world of society.

Speaker 6 (17:34):
Like.

Speaker 3 (17:36):
World of society, what the does that even mean?

Speaker 4 (17:41):
You gotta play a part.

Speaker 2 (17:42):
I play my part, Bless my heart. I'm moving on.
So anyways, I have a question for you.

Speaker 3 (17:49):
I want to talk about this whole situation with the
child support and the school supply. So there's a viral
thing on the internet and they're talking about like how
people are like, we can't afford these school supplies. It's crazy.
So yeah, this is crazy. So the women are saying this.
So what's happening is is I like there's a whole

(18:11):
thing a breakdown, right, Like there's a woman who went
viral and I guess her baby daddy came up on
fifty thousand dollars for something I can't remember what it was.
And yes, and then she got the bread because it
was child support, right, so he didn't get to see
that money. So she told her homegirl, like, let's hit it.

(18:32):
We about to go out, like hit up her homework.
We went out the country.

Speaker 1 (18:36):
Right.

Speaker 3 (18:36):
So my question is is like where is this child
support being delegated?

Speaker 2 (18:41):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (18:42):
And I feel like if women, if men are giving
all this child support up to these women, then there
should be a place where you have to show what
you're spending this child support on because you are not
the child. This is to support the child's okay, you
are not the child. And I see too many women
taking this money and going on trips and getting their
shit done and buying outfits, and then they still asking

(19:04):
the baby daddy, I need help for this. I need
school supplies, I need this. And I'm confused because it's
like where is this money really going?

Speaker 1 (19:13):
All right? So, like as a man that's dealt with
giving child support, and when you're with a woman for
a long time and they don't understand the finances when
they start getting in charge of the finances, Like.

Speaker 4 (19:36):
A lot of women don't know how to deal with
money or how to manage money.

Speaker 1 (19:40):
Or how to ask the right questions to be honest
with you, and a lot of them live check to check.
So a lot of the times the money where I
think it should go. As a man, I think that
you should open up a life insurance policy for the kids,
put money into that bank account, put money into that.
But unfortunately it goes towards the women's lifestyle wanting to

(20:03):
be upgraded. So like, if you've given out two five thousand,
half of that's going to run, half of that's going
to the outside food and everything, whereas like there's no
savings for it and trips all of that. So then
then when it come to extra money to where it's

(20:26):
like all right, school supplies, shoes, clothes, the girls are
starting to ask for extra money for the out like
you can't help like and so as a man, you
like THEMN where the money going for the child support.
Then I paid child support, I shouldn't, you know. And
I'm in a situation to where I do pay child support,

(20:47):
but then I still get asked for extra for other things,
which I have no problem with, and I.

Speaker 4 (20:54):
Don't really ask where the money goes.

Speaker 1 (20:57):
But it gets to the point sometimes you figure like
damn you know, and I don't even have to ask
because I think and I know that it probably though
most likely ninety percent of the time, it don't go
to the kids. When I speak to my friends about
it in their situations, they don't like I think child
support should be like, hey, there's a bank account for

(21:19):
the kids, and certain money goes to them to where
they can when they get to a certain age, like
you know, when getting high school. Shit, they should be
like buying their own lunch or have their iPhone for
their cards. You know what I'm saying, how they Apple
pay on their phone. You should have some type of
money they can spend on their own, you know. But
it's unfortunate that the females actually spend it on themselves

(21:44):
and they lifestyle because they want to look.

Speaker 4 (21:46):
A certain way?

Speaker 3 (21:47):
Can you stop saying the females, which I'm saying, it's
just it's like women like the females is just it's
not giving that. Okay, women, thank you, go ahead and
keep going.

Speaker 1 (21:58):
So these women, uh, they spend it on their lifestyle,
you know, And unfortunately when the kid get older, it's
just like damn, they come back to the baby daddy like, hey,
can you get her a car? Can you get like
because the money ain't being saved up, it's going towards

(22:19):
something else. So it is what it is like for
me in my situation. It's different than everybody else's. Everybody
go through different It's just a different type of support circumstances, right.

(22:42):
You know, some women use the money to invest and
have a business and understand that this ain't gonna be
going a long time, so I better like invest it
or open up accounts. But unfortunately, you know, I think
there needs to be like some guidance in that area. Like, man,
maybe I should open up a baby Mama's app to

(23:02):
like what you need to do with your cheese because
a lot of them don't do the right thing.

Speaker 2 (23:06):
And what would be on the app.

Speaker 1 (23:09):
How to like so that appould be like, hey, helping
like single mothers who get child support on what to
do the money with the money to invest, to grow
it and to like really like, you know, take advantage
of these whatever many years you got it at, you know,
because a lot of times it's just going towards the
lifestyle of the girl.

Speaker 3 (23:29):
But do you feel like with child support it should
also support the woman or should the woman be able
to support herself and this should just be for the kids.

Speaker 4 (23:37):
I think that the woman should be for herself.

Speaker 2 (23:40):
And I feel like.

Speaker 1 (23:41):
A kid because like why when the kid get eighteen,
they got nothing exactly, and this should be some bank
accounts should be open for the kids.

Speaker 3 (23:48):
I feel like women get delusional too, because I feel
like the concept of being like there's too many women
that are single, meaning they don't have a partner, they
don't have a man, and they're like, I'm a single parent.
You're not a fucking single parent. Your relationship status is single.
You have a man. I mean, you don't have a man,
but you have a baby daddy who supports you, who

(24:10):
supports the child.

Speaker 2 (24:11):
So stop saying. I hate the narrative of like I'm
a single mother.

Speaker 3 (24:15):
No motherfucker, you're single because you don't have no relationship,
but you're not a single mother, and.

Speaker 1 (24:21):
That like there's guys that like, have these kids and
that want no part of their life.

Speaker 2 (24:28):
No, that's fine, that's what a single mother is.

Speaker 3 (24:31):
But then there's people who have split time with the
children and they say they're a single mother. And Tia
Maury to Tia or Tamyra one of them, Tia, I
think you know she got divorced and all this to
Corey the Hardwick the guy, and she just talked about
this because she's like, I say I'm a single mother,
and people be on me about that because I have
a present baby daddy that takes care of the kids too.

(24:53):
But I'm just saying that I'm single and that every
day like I have my kids by myself. I do
understand that, but at the time time, it's like there's
this a narrative where it's like I'm a single mother
and oh my god. But then they're getting twenty thousand
dollars a month thirty whatever for child support.

Speaker 2 (25:09):
It's like, that's not a single mother. I know single mothers.

Speaker 3 (25:12):
I know single mothers who don't have no baby daddy
in the picture, who don't have no child support, who
don't have nothing going and they're raising that kid on
their own.

Speaker 2 (25:20):
That is a single mother.

Speaker 3 (25:22):
You're not a single mother if you have child support
coming in a house.

Speaker 2 (25:26):
This man more like, that's not a single mother, bro.

Speaker 1 (25:29):
It's just not like the definition of single is like
nobody else like child support. Don't mean you got like
you know what I'm saying, This is just a listen,
go ahead. You said you're not a single mother if
you got child supports that's just.

Speaker 2 (25:45):
And if you have a no, if you have a
present father that also takes care of.

Speaker 1 (25:49):
The kids, Okay, you're I'm a present father.

Speaker 3 (25:52):
Yeah, you're confusing your relationship status with your parental status.

Speaker 2 (25:56):
Your parental status is co parenting, it's not single. Like
what is confusing?

Speaker 1 (26:03):
Well, if you're not in the relationship with your baby daddy,
you single?

Speaker 2 (26:08):
Okay, you don't get what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (26:10):
No, you're not because the relationship status is not single mother.

Speaker 2 (26:15):
You could say the reason.

Speaker 1 (26:16):
Girls say single mother because they're looking for the relationship.

Speaker 4 (26:19):
Okay, they're thirsty.

Speaker 2 (26:21):
Why does everyone have to be thirsty though?

Speaker 1 (26:24):
Because everyone is.

Speaker 2 (26:27):
Females is thirsty. Do you hear? That's why we don't
have people watching women watching us.

Speaker 6 (26:32):
You.

Speaker 2 (26:32):
Females is thirsty like they are.

Speaker 3 (26:35):
Men are thirsty because men are thirsty as hell. I
know men that are so goddamn parched.

Speaker 4 (26:42):
All right, So who's thirsty?

Speaker 1 (26:44):
Or men? Or women? Men?

Speaker 2 (26:47):
Because men want to fuck and they want to call.

Speaker 1 (26:49):
Like, women will fly to Summer League, women will fly
to All Star Weekend, women will fly to the Super Bowl.
Niggas ain't doing all that for female else we ain't
flying nowhere because it's gonna be a gang of females,
y'all flying to us. Just y'all over here looking at
y'all calendar. Oh, it's All Star weekend. Girl, let's pack up,

(27:13):
let's go like. That's thirsty.

Speaker 2 (27:16):
Just because.

Speaker 1 (27:19):
I am right.

Speaker 2 (27:20):
No, just because you're screaming don't make you right. I
don't know who you're screaming at on this camera.

Speaker 1 (27:25):
Girl. Hey, it's the Pro Bowl. It's coming in two months.
We're gonna fly, go, stay. All the niggas is staying here.
We're gonna get a room. It's gonna be ten of
us in one room. That's thirsty.

Speaker 2 (27:36):
That's white women doing that.

Speaker 4 (27:37):
No, No, don't say that.

Speaker 3 (27:38):
Yeah, because they like to poach these men. I feel like,
at the end of the I have never by life.

Speaker 1 (27:44):
No, stop speaking for you because you don't speak for
this population to win.

Speaker 2 (27:48):
No, this population of woman is fine because you.

Speaker 1 (27:50):
Don't do none of the stuff that we talk about.
So we're gonna talk about the majority. You not shaking
your ass on Instagram? You ain't like we're not talking
about you, all.

Speaker 2 (28:00):
Right, that's what we want to know because talking to.

Speaker 1 (28:06):
Me, we're yelling at the women that what I'm talking.

Speaker 2 (28:07):
To Okay, then don't direct it at me. Baby.

Speaker 3 (28:12):
I gotta know you in the gray suit and all that.
Don't come over here with that. We're not doing that tonight,
aren't you When.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
When you do it and popping your hands.

Speaker 2 (28:21):
And doing all this, listen, that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (28:26):
I'll be sitting there and listen to you.

Speaker 2 (28:27):
You do, and I listened to you all the time.

Speaker 1 (28:29):
Girls thirsty? This is like they got memes on Instagram
girls summer league and somebody.

Speaker 3 (28:34):
Even know what summer league is. But anyways, okay, they
go there. The point is is, this is what I'm saying,
men are also thirsty because the only reason why the
women go there is because y'all are thirsty, period, because
y'all are ready for the girls to be there, and
you're ready to look at any girl that is there.

Speaker 2 (28:51):
Thirsty asses. If y'all wasn't thirsty, you wantn't know that,
you wantn't care about it.

Speaker 3 (28:55):
The only reason why you know is because then flew out,
and now you know them bitches is.

Speaker 1 (29:00):
Gonna fly out.

Speaker 2 (29:01):
So now let's peop which one is bad?

Speaker 1 (29:02):
Oh she's bad?

Speaker 3 (29:03):
I want her no go to dinner. This baby daa
like y'all do.

Speaker 1 (29:09):
All of that. Yeah, going there, because okay, this is
how thirsty we we.

Speaker 3 (29:18):
Y'all fly women out just to get some cat. Yeah,
and y'all are just as thirsty. Listen, the thirst is mutual. Yeah,
the thirst is mutual. The thirst is mutual. If you
attracting a thirsty motherfucker, you're thirsty ass motherfucker too.

Speaker 2 (29:35):
And that's just the truth, y'all. Two thirsty people, you need,
you need a.

Speaker 4 (29:39):
Drink more than guys.

Speaker 3 (29:41):
I don't think so. I think men are thirsty as fuck.
Y'all swear because y'all are.

Speaker 2 (29:47):
The bread women's they're the pussy holders.

Speaker 3 (29:50):
So at the end of the day, you hold a pussy,
you hold a bread insert here, motherfucker.

Speaker 2 (29:54):
And and that's how that goes.

Speaker 3 (29:56):
So you have the bread, they have the pussy, okay,
and they say, you got the bread for the pussy.
I got the pussy for the bread, okay. And that's
how that ship goes. So stop playing around because men
do everything. What do jay Z say, we keep our haircut.
We just fly for the p U S s y.
That's why we do it, baby. The power of the
p U S s y is why niggas get haircuts,

(30:19):
they try to dress fly jay z let a nigga
know thirst That's why y'all do it for a motherfucking
pussy cat. Stop playing around, Stop trying to act like
that's not the truth.

Speaker 2 (30:28):
Y'all go crazy, y'all will do anything.

Speaker 1 (30:32):
Both, No, I don't say that, all right, So we're
gonna turn your turn. We get haircuts, what else we get? You? Fly?

Speaker 2 (30:43):
You got the car, you got to bust down, wah.

Speaker 1 (30:48):
Bust down, watch car, haircut gear. So what the women doing?

Speaker 2 (30:54):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (30:55):
The women get makeup, eyelashes, hit hair claw. That doing
way more than us, way more. Yeah, But y'all putting
on yall, y'all putting on y'all best, y'all putting on
your best.

Speaker 3 (31:07):
Both are doing it. Both are doing it. I don't
know why you can't accept that as the truth. Both
are doing it. You got the bread for the pussy,
That got the pussy for the bread. That's just the
that's just the fact. You want to deny that all
you want because you want to be right instead of
understanding my point.

Speaker 4 (31:22):
Who's all right? So who's.

Speaker 1 (31:25):
Is it? The trap or the like? All right? So
who's more thirsty? If I'm the the trap with the cheese,
who's more thirsty somebody trying to get? Like the mouse?
Let's say the mouse trap. I'm the mouse trap and
I just sit in the corner. I'm not even moving,
I'm just sitting over here. Who's more thirsty? Well, the

(31:48):
mouse coming over there to get?

Speaker 3 (31:50):
But who's going up to who? Because most men are
coming up to women. I never went up to no man.
Men are approaching women. And if that's just.

Speaker 2 (31:59):
Period, man, are what's that baby? What's up with you?
Dah la la lah?

Speaker 3 (32:02):
They're sitting there looking pretty and to trapped your ass
nigga with a baby with a child support, with all
that ship, we trapped your ass.

Speaker 2 (32:11):
Niggas is getting trapped.

Speaker 3 (32:12):
If you want to talk about a mouse trapped, niggas
is getting trapped every day.

Speaker 2 (32:17):
Yeah, yeah, get into that. You want to play that.

Speaker 3 (32:23):
It's the niggas getting trapped because the women are not
getting trapped.

Speaker 2 (32:26):
They're not getting trapped with a baby, y'all. Are You're
not gonna trap with child support?

Speaker 1 (32:30):
Y'all?

Speaker 2 (32:30):
Are y'all are the ones getting trapped every day?

Speaker 3 (32:32):
And you still fall for the okie dog because you
still want that motherfucking cat. You still fall for the
oki do because you still want to feel that motherfucking pussy.
You still fall for the oki do because you still
want to see what this is over here feeling like
stop playing, Y'allna felt thirty thousand Captain. You still gotta
keep going because you want us to want variety in
your life.

Speaker 2 (32:52):
Stop fucking playing. Period.

Speaker 1 (32:55):
I'm done.

Speaker 2 (32:59):
I look up.

Speaker 1 (33:00):
She thinks she one today?

Speaker 2 (33:02):
What you can't lie like? Men are getting way more
trapped than women.

Speaker 1 (33:07):
And that's the bottom line.

Speaker 2 (33:08):
You can't track.

Speaker 4 (33:11):
Look at the trap, y'all.

Speaker 3 (33:13):
We're not looking at y'all don't have the opportunity.

Speaker 1 (33:16):
We're not looking the trap though, y'all. It's like you
guys go trap war because we're not looking at the trap.

Speaker 4 (33:23):
We more on somethinesse.

Speaker 1 (33:25):
Yeah, but.

Speaker 2 (33:28):
Every time trying to hit you with.

Speaker 1 (33:29):
Your a's a layup where you go up one way
and do you go under like, ah, we're trying to
hit you with your role you the yah. You know
what I'm saying. We hit you'all with the had Ley.
She don't know what we talk about. You see what
I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (33:47):
This is all I'm saying. This is all I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (33:49):
This is all I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (33:52):
Your roll. Get you with that, y'all. That's what y'all
was going on. She don't know what none of that is.
The high step, the pump fake you trying to hit
you with that? She lost, she lost, She's like, what's that?

(34:19):
That's what niggas we get you with jump they jump,
jump for it. She's still got her on gut her.

Speaker 2 (34:29):
I don't know what you talk about.

Speaker 6 (34:30):
You, I know you don't know what the pump fake
niggat context like, I get it, you don't get it.

Speaker 1 (34:42):
Yeah, get this one. Like when I go up, when
I'm getting to the lane, I show the ball. You
jump for it? Did I go under the arm. That's
that's what we do. We're gonna lay your ass and
then we are out of there.

Speaker 3 (34:57):
But you're not out of there because it is a
trapped baby, So stop playing. Y'all are still falling for
the okie.

Speaker 2 (35:05):
Doke every time.

Speaker 1 (35:07):
Yeah, that's the that's the new players is falling for
the trap.

Speaker 3 (35:10):
Nah goes all waited whatever, y'all all falling for a
lawsuits traps.

Speaker 2 (35:16):
This that he choked me?

Speaker 3 (35:17):
Bit you wanted to be choked all that ship is
all the oakie doke that y'all getting fucked over with,
and y'all still do it. It's like, are y'all slow
because it happens every time you continue.

Speaker 1 (35:28):
To follow It happens a thousand.

Speaker 2 (35:30):
No, it doesn't.

Speaker 3 (35:31):
I could name thirty men right now that went through
this situation.

Speaker 1 (35:36):
Thirty men. Yeah, I went through many men.

Speaker 3 (35:39):
I'm saying I could just name that off rid. It's
a lot of men go through that because y'all don't
you operate from your dick and not from your mind.

Speaker 1 (35:48):
What y'all operate from from emotion?

Speaker 2 (35:51):
Probably emotion. Women operate off of emotion.

Speaker 1 (35:55):
A lot we operate off of You operate off emotion.

Speaker 2 (35:58):
A lot of women do.

Speaker 1 (36:00):
Yeah, so is that a good thing.

Speaker 3 (36:02):
No, I'm not saying it's a good thing. You offerate,
you operate off our d's when.

Speaker 1 (36:07):
We go off, we just go off like, oh yeah,
she got one of them, like I'm trying to get down. Yeah,
for sure, that's what I approached through life. A lot
of people.

Speaker 3 (36:16):
Yeah, unless the man is disciplined enough. There's very when
you meet a man that's disciplined I mean disciplined man.
But I see that too.

Speaker 1 (36:25):
I was looking at the last episode and you was
on something like, yeah, I'm around there, some around that.

Speaker 2 (36:30):
That's why I just said, I see disciplined man.

Speaker 3 (36:31):
I just said that, you see disciplined man. What don't
you get asked? What kind of man do I see
and be around? I said, disciplined man. I see that.
I come from that. I come from a disciplined man.
I see that all the time. That's what I'm telling you.
What's confused?

Speaker 1 (36:49):
A older woman?

Speaker 2 (36:51):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (36:52):
No, I'm just asking. I'm asking as an older woman. Yeah,
what type of man are you looking for?

Speaker 3 (36:58):
I'm not looking for a man, period. Next question, Damn,
just you off it.

Speaker 2 (37:06):
I'm not off it. I'm not looking for a man.

Speaker 1 (37:10):
Okay, I'm that's fair, that's it.

Speaker 3 (37:13):
A man is definitely looking for me, though, but I'm
not looking for a man.

Speaker 2 (37:17):
I'll tell you that right now.

Speaker 3 (37:19):
A man is definitely looking for me multiple so definitely.
I've always had options though my whole entire life. I've
never lived a life lacking. Even when I was a
big girl, I had options. I was too eighty. If
you ain't too eighty, you ain't a lady.

Speaker 1 (37:34):
If you ain't too eighty. You ain't no lady, talk
to him, talk to.

Speaker 3 (37:40):
And I had cool I was first I was in
a relationship, and then when I was seeing.

Speaker 2 (37:44):
It was cool, like I had coolniggas always.

Speaker 1 (37:47):
But yeah, I was What does insecurity mean for a woman?

Speaker 3 (37:55):
Insecurity for a woman is really dangerous because when you
my sister always told me, like when you date a
black man, you got to be very strong. That's not
for the week, it's not you know what I mean,
especially like the type of man that I would attract,
you know, they would be doing well for themselves, handsome,
whatever the case. I had a boyfriend and he was
very handsome, very successful, handsome, fine, attractive all that.

Speaker 2 (38:18):
Women wanted him all the time.

Speaker 1 (38:19):
When he was to.

Speaker 3 (38:22):
Stop asking when I was too eighty, I said that
motherfuckerd you want to keep I was eighty, I was
to eighty.

Speaker 2 (38:30):
Yeah that's a load, that's what a load. Yeah it
was even when you was when I was had a man.

Speaker 4 (38:37):
I know, you said you had a man, but you like.

Speaker 2 (38:45):
He was a cool man, was cool, very he's a was.

Speaker 1 (38:49):
He big too?

Speaker 4 (38:50):
No, he was in shape.

Speaker 3 (38:52):
He was in shape, he was tall, he was handsome,
he was this was your man, my man.

Speaker 2 (38:56):
We lived together, Like what you mean?

Speaker 3 (38:58):
He was successful, he was all the things, so he
cheated on me.

Speaker 1 (39:04):
Y'all lived.

Speaker 2 (39:05):
Yeah, I lived with took care of me every.

Speaker 1 (39:09):
How many hours a day was he gone? Not a lot?

Speaker 3 (39:12):
He was with me a lot. We took a lot
of trips together. We spent a lot of time together.

Speaker 1 (39:16):
My family family, living a separate life.

Speaker 3 (39:21):
You can say what you want to say, but my
personality or.

Speaker 4 (39:27):
You went to to Eddie when you was.

Speaker 3 (39:30):
He I was a little smaller before and then I
got like I probably came likewounds, thirty.

Speaker 1 (39:36):
Pounds when I was he was forty. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (39:38):
I was still like a thicker girl, I think forty Yeah,
and then we got together.

Speaker 1 (39:42):
Yeah, he was a linebacker. No, no, that's ridiculous, that's crazy.
You know, I played at two thirty five my whole career,
and I'm like, damn, I'm six seven and you was
too four.

Speaker 4 (39:56):
I'm trying to think, like, damn, I was big.

Speaker 2 (39:59):
I was big, but you know, yeah he was.

Speaker 4 (40:02):
Yeah, he was love.

Speaker 3 (40:04):
He did love me, and he would take me hiking
with him and like not hiking, but we would like
work out together.

Speaker 2 (40:09):
We would go on like little walks and stuff.

Speaker 1 (40:11):
And like, you know, you got to get a shape.

Speaker 3 (40:14):
Yeah, he would try to help me, and then I did.
I lost when I watched one hundred pounds.

Speaker 1 (40:17):
When I was with him.

Speaker 4 (40:18):
Well, you was with him while you break up with him.

Speaker 3 (40:20):
Because he was just cheating on me, and like I
just felt like too disrespected at that point.

Speaker 1 (40:25):
So he helped your journey.

Speaker 2 (40:28):
Yeah he did.

Speaker 3 (40:29):
He helped my journey in the sense of, like, you know,
I felt like really when he was cheating on me,
like it hurt me real bad, and like I would
see the women and I'm like damn, and I was
so insecuring low. I was like, I don't blame him,
Like look how I look. I felt bad about myself
because I never was that size my whole life. I
grew up always with a perfect body because I always
had a big butt in a small way. So growing

(40:51):
up I was always.

Speaker 1 (40:54):
It before to forty and eighty, before that sixty and
like how long did it? Just over time you just
crew into that.

Speaker 2 (41:07):
It was like a year. It would happen quick.

Speaker 1 (41:09):
I got it.

Speaker 3 (41:09):
Yeah, I was really depressed. I was in a really
you know how some people go to liquor and they
go depression.

Speaker 1 (41:14):
I was like food.

Speaker 2 (41:16):
I went to food and I was just.

Speaker 3 (41:17):
Eating, eating, cooking, eating, like just everything, and I just
was like that was my thing. If I was sad,
if anything, have it, like it was just eating, eating, eating.

Speaker 2 (41:25):
And I just went to food.

Speaker 3 (41:27):
And as I looked up, I was huge, and it
was just like, oh my god. In all my life
it was hard because my looks not like that. But
my looks were like a big thing because everyone's like,
you're so beautiful, and I had a big butt, small,
tiny waiste like everyone my whole life was like fetishizing
my body, like your body is perfect?

Speaker 2 (41:46):
You this, how do you have this?

Speaker 1 (41:48):
And so like for me to get.

Speaker 3 (41:50):
So big, you know, and have to go through that journey,
you know, and even now, like I still have reminders
and scars of like everything that I've been through, yeah,
and that you know, really it's unfortunate that it happened,
but it shaped me too as a person because I
learned so much about the woman that I am and
like being in that dark place and being depressed and

(42:10):
being insecure, you know, like it taught me a lot
about the darkest, like the darkest things about me. I
had to like really address, and I had to really
like see it up front and be like, damn, you know,
take all the looks away. Coming from someone who led
with her looks her whole life, Like take that away.
Even though I was still a beautiful girl like I

(42:31):
really was, I still had a lot of men interested
in me, but it just was like I didn't feel
good about myself. I was really like Damn, I hated
looking in the mirror. I hated taking a picture. I
hated if anyone took a picture of me. I would
just look at it and be like, oh my god.

Speaker 4 (42:46):
What motivated you to make the turnaround?

Speaker 2 (42:49):
To be honest?

Speaker 3 (42:50):
In the relationship that I was in, I was with
the man who cheated on me, and I saw the women,
you know, and they were like so beautiful, and they
kind of looked how I used to look, Like how
maybe I look now, you know, And it just like
broke my heart. And I remember thinking like, you know what,
I'm gonna make you regret this shit, and I'm gonna

(43:10):
make you feel this shit until this day.

Speaker 2 (43:12):
He does for a fact, because he's.

Speaker 3 (43:14):
Still be on my line trying to be like what
and I'd be like nothing, no response, Like he was
emailing me, WHATSAP, like calling people try to get to me,
like no, like you're not about to have me at all,
and you access is revoked. But like you know, I remember,
and that's not the best motivation. But I always say

(43:34):
I'll use anything as motivation. I don't give a fuck
what it is. Like, if it's gonna motivate me, it's
gonna motivate me. And that motivated me. And I remember
the day I made the decision. I was like, I'm
not I'm not living like this no more. And you know,
I just changed my lifestyle completely. But I'm a very
determined person. So when I make my mind up about
something like, there's nothing that's gonna stop me from getting that.

Speaker 1 (43:57):
Ladies, y'all hear that. Man, I hope that bizarre can
be inspiration. Look at her, beautiful she talking about two
forty to eighty. Look at her now, Man, look at you, Guzar.
I hope that you know that your inspiration. For a
lot of these ladies that's watching our show. Hopefully they
can be inspired by you because you are an inspiration.

(44:22):
Look look man to eighty was like whoa, And now
look at her. She put it in that work though
but that's dope. I'm glad you ever to share that story.
I'm glad we talked about it, and I hope you
will open up about that a little more because I
think that's like something that like our audience should know
about you. Yeah. Sure, that's dope, that's dope. You know

(44:45):
you had some mental health issues, you got through it,
you powered through it, and you became who you are today,
one of the best people on the mic, looking, good hostess,
truth after dark. Everybody want to fuck with you? Now,
Well that's dope.

Speaker 3 (45:01):
But you know two things I'll say. I always remember
who tried to shit on me when I was big.
I'll never fuck with you again, no matter who it was,
like a woman, a man. It's not even about like
someone trying to voke me, anyone who made me feel away.
I'm always remember that shit like I'm someone like that,
Like I'll never forget even no big, small, whatever, anyone

(45:21):
who shits on me, You'll never get access to me again.
That's number one. I always say that. And number two is,
even after I dropped the weight, I want to be
very clear that the insecurity still lived within me. Yeah,
it wasn't just because I looked super vib at that
point that like, and again that's why I always say, like,

(45:43):
I could be flattered that this man or that man
wants me, but that never dictates how I feel about
myself as a woman. Because I had that and oh
everyone was on me this and that, and for me,
my insecurity still lives within me because I didn't focus
on the mental. The mental was what I had to
dig deep into in order to change how I wanted

(46:05):
to be. And you have to retrain your subconscious mind.
Everything we do is eighty five percent subconscious. So for me,
we do things on autopilot every single day, and it's
because of how we subconsciously been taught to be. We
we form our subconscious mind from when we are infants,
from very young.

Speaker 2 (46:23):
Those are very very impactful times of our lives.

Speaker 3 (46:26):
So if you want to change who you are as
a person, you have to retrain your subconscious So for me,
I had to go into a rigorous retraining of who I.

Speaker 1 (46:34):
Was, what I thought, and what I did on autopilot. Ooh,
Glop set it best that you got a ship with
your shoulder, girl on his shoulder.

Speaker 7 (46:50):
Stupid With that, he gave us some real gay that day,
gave us some when you coming back.

Speaker 1 (47:00):
Need you do we do to come back? What else
is going on? Man? What are we talking about?

Speaker 2 (47:05):
So another thing to talk about.

Speaker 1 (47:08):
Is but that was a great story. By the way,
I'm glad you get that out there. You should get
that out there every so often that people know.

Speaker 2 (47:13):
Yeah, for sure, I love that.

Speaker 1 (47:15):
You're a beautiful woman. Thank you came a long way.
Thank you, you preserve, you persevered to where it's like, damn,
if you could do it, anybody could that lady?

Speaker 4 (47:25):
Look at her?

Speaker 1 (47:25):
She was too aim Damn, I know a couple of
three hundreds out there. You could do it too. Hey, listen,
ain't that wrong with that? You You just gotta put
in the work. You gotta put it. You get your
mindset and you can make that recovery. You know what
I'm saying. We all go through our things, we all
be in dark places. But then like man, you gotta
figure it out. Who's gonna be your inspiration? Find that

(47:47):
guy and do it. Let's do it period period.

Speaker 3 (47:52):
So something that I've been seeing trending. Talk to me,
would you rather have a ten? So like a woman
who looks bad as fuck? Ten all across the bad
out this, yeah, physically or would you rather have a
strong five that does everything for you?

Speaker 1 (48:13):
All right, let's explain. Give me the nuances of everybody
what they're doing.

Speaker 3 (48:17):
Okay, so the strong ten, finest fuck body tea. Everything
is on point, right when it comes to physicality, Yeah,
this is your girl. When it comes to physicality, everything
is on point. But when y'all are kicking it, she
feels entitled because my physical is there. I don't gotta
do shit except look cute fuck here and there, here

(48:37):
and there, like here and there like yeah, like sometimes
it's like women like that, like Okay, I'm gonna give
you some pussy baby like here cool.

Speaker 5 (48:46):
You know what I'm saying, girl, Yeah, So it should
be like when.

Speaker 2 (48:52):
We whenever you want it?

Speaker 1 (48:54):
Well, my girl, right right? It should be a mutable thing.
Like I feel like that if you deny your man
sexual activity, it just feels like you're doing something else,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (49:08):
That's not true though, I mean I don't deny my
man of sex ever, but I do feel like, you know,
there is circumstances.

Speaker 1 (49:16):
So I said denying what.

Speaker 2 (49:22):
Nothing?

Speaker 1 (49:22):
So you said something?

Speaker 3 (49:26):
You just I'm going off with you my man, I
would not deny him have sex. The point is is,
if I had a man, I would not deny him.

Speaker 1 (49:34):
You had a man, world, man, I don't know what's
going on. She got.

Speaker 3 (49:40):
So the point is is I would not deny my
man of sex. That's the truth. I've never deny my
man of sex.

Speaker 1 (49:45):
It's just like four in the morning, leaning over started, Yeah.

Speaker 2 (49:48):
I put it in baby from the damn the side.
What you're doing?

Speaker 1 (49:55):
So?

Speaker 2 (49:56):
You know this was got a chip on his joulder.

Speaker 1 (49:58):
River God, then they got a chip on this to
eighty going back to you got a chip on this
shoulder to eighty damn. Okay, the heaviest I've ever been
was to sixty and you're six nine.

Speaker 2 (50:14):
Eighty five six damn.

Speaker 4 (50:19):
That's that's a stand up for lift people.

Speaker 2 (50:22):
See No, I'm not standing up on this. I'm not
standing up on.

Speaker 1 (50:26):
This stand up. Let everybody see like you know, Okay, I.

Speaker 2 (50:30):
Don't want to. I don't feel comfortable.

Speaker 1 (50:32):
So that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (50:35):
Why is that crazy?

Speaker 1 (50:37):
Crazy? That's crazy. That's good to eighty though, Damn, we're
not going to keep it more than Darnell. That's crazy. Hey,
you know he was a linebacker. You out here like
Miles Garrett. Hell, he was. That's crazy, you see how

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looking like J. J. Watt.

Speaker 2 (51:05):
I don't know any of these people's names.

Speaker 1 (51:07):
I'll talk about the top linebackers in the NFL. They was,
they did it was one of the top linebackers.

Speaker 5 (51:15):
And now what now you're one of the top models?

Speaker 1 (51:19):
No bottles? What you need to be on somebody's show. Girl,
ain't gonna lie. Okay, you need to be the host
in the show of Love Island right now. The way
your vibe and your look is right now, girl, Yeah
you Didnet did that one too?

Speaker 2 (51:34):
Thank you?

Speaker 1 (51:36):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (51:36):
Stop because Peo would like to say she's blushing. I'm
not blushing. I just thank you.

Speaker 1 (51:42):
Get flowers. You know. I might be saying you this
and that, but I'll mix you up. I'll be mixing
you up though, I'll put you up to anyways.

Speaker 3 (51:51):
The point is, let's get back to the subject. So
would you rather have a strong ten that looks physically
attractive or would you have a five six that does
everything for you? Meaning like she cooks, she cleaned, she fucks,
she sucks, she goes, she does, she adds value to
your life.

Speaker 2 (52:08):
She like helps you with your business shit.

Speaker 3 (52:10):
She's making doctors women, she's making this, she's making that
like she's cracking when it comes to all of that.
But she's only a five or six average type of ride,
Like you know, she's below average when it comes to
the physical looks. She's not like anyone that you would
go out and be like, damn she fine, baby.

Speaker 2 (52:35):
All right crying? I say, I stay focused.

Speaker 1 (52:40):
No, listen, she could be a three based on all
the things.

Speaker 2 (52:45):
Could she be a to eighty?

Speaker 1 (52:48):
I can't do too eight. You can't wait, you can't
wait ward.

Speaker 2 (52:51):
So she can't be too eight? Could she be too forty?

Speaker 1 (52:54):
You know? Because too eighty is a sign to be
a lazy.

Speaker 2 (52:57):
Yeah, I can see that.

Speaker 1 (52:59):
A lazy girl because I get up and I work
out and I don't want laziness.

Speaker 2 (53:03):
Yeah, I can see that.

Speaker 1 (53:04):
You know what I'm saying. I need somebody who motivated
about themselves and everything. And I know like people go
through like I just I feel like that's a decision.

Speaker 3 (53:15):
So you can't. So she can't. So it can't be
that she's big. It just has to be that she's not.

Speaker 1 (53:20):
She's doing all that and not attractive. She's what when
I come on daddy, beat a sandwich, Get daddy a
sandwiching rub, massage? Bag?

Speaker 2 (53:32):
Are you taking her on the red carpet?

Speaker 1 (53:35):
We can watch the ship on TV. What you mean
we ain't got to go on the red carpet?

Speaker 2 (53:45):
She's like, babe.

Speaker 3 (53:45):
But what she's like babe, Like there's this event that
you're doing, and it's like, I want to come.

Speaker 2 (53:51):
Can I come with you? Daddy?

Speaker 1 (53:53):
We're gonna lie stream that at the crib and the
baby gonna give me a massage.

Speaker 3 (53:56):
But you're going you have to go, daddy.

Speaker 2 (53:59):
I I just want to go.

Speaker 1 (54:03):
Come on, baby, girl? She and are you good to
one of these? One out of TM? Okay?

Speaker 2 (54:07):
And you're taking a picture.

Speaker 1 (54:08):
She looks talk take these pictures man? Whatever, whatever, whatever,
let's go boom red carpet? Baby? Yeah? Yeah? So are
you say? Y'all over here? Got the look? But when
y'all go home, y'all gonna be arguing. She look cool
right here. When you get home, I'm getting a foot rub, massage,
bath food, chicken wings ready because.

Speaker 3 (54:31):
I'm gonna keep it real my homegirls. Brother, she got
a girl and she just looks crazy.

Speaker 2 (54:36):
Can she be doing everything?

Speaker 1 (54:38):
All right?

Speaker 3 (54:38):
Cool?

Speaker 1 (54:38):
I'm cool with that. I'm cool with that.

Speaker 2 (54:41):
But are you taking her out in public like public affection? Damn?

Speaker 1 (54:43):
Yeah yeah yeah yeah, come on, you sit on my lap. Yeah,
I'm getting these wings when I get home, rubbed down
neck roll. What you're gonna do, she's gonna pass out
on you leave? Yeah, she gonna Man what she coming home?

Speaker 3 (54:55):
What does she Okay? What if you have a woman
she's in a wheelchair. She her arms are missing and
so but she's doing everything with her feet.

Speaker 2 (55:05):
So she's grabbing stuff.

Speaker 1 (55:07):
I have her before that and she came.

Speaker 2 (55:10):
Didn't have her before that. You met her.

Speaker 3 (55:12):
She's grabbing it with her feet. She's gripping it with
her toes. She's getting everything cracking with them feet. And
she's like, that's tough.

Speaker 2 (55:21):
She could do everything though, she could still fuck.

Speaker 1 (55:24):
And the thing is is like, first of all, how
we gonna meet?

Speaker 3 (55:28):
Because she came up to you, she said, I love
it you met on Instagram.

Speaker 1 (55:32):
You saw her face Instagram. That's a lie.

Speaker 5 (55:35):
That's a motherfucking a wheelchair on Instagram.

Speaker 2 (55:39):
She didn't have the wheelchair information there. I'm telling you
the scenario.

Speaker 1 (55:44):
Oh you're gonna blow me when we meet then, so
now you love her. You over the phone, facetop face
the phone.

Speaker 2 (55:53):
You like her. She's a vibe. She gives energy.

Speaker 1 (55:56):
When I see you lie to me.

Speaker 2 (55:58):
Now because it wasn't a lie.

Speaker 1 (55:59):
Why does the big because you came out as a lie,
big lie. If you see me, we've been talking all
these you come on, pull up on you. And I
got one leg that ain't gonna blow you. It's gonna
I had that happen. Well, it blew you and it
blow me.

Speaker 2 (56:19):
Because he had a fake leg and a foot.

Speaker 4 (56:22):
And you don't know it, and you didn't know it,
and did that know this man?

Speaker 3 (56:26):
And the thing about him is you might know this man.
I think he might be in jail now, but he's popping.
And the thing is is he's tall, he's handsome, he's
killing him and he has one blunt shoe, one Gucci shoe,
and I said, what do you do with the other shoe? Though,
that's what's my biggest concern. But anyways, he's really girls be.

Speaker 1 (56:45):
Worried about a fake leg and shoe.

Speaker 2 (56:47):
I don't mind a fake leg.

Speaker 1 (56:48):
I'll come out here with the fake everything.

Speaker 2 (56:50):
I don't mind a fake leg.

Speaker 1 (56:53):
I don't I will deal with y'all come out with
more fake ship than dudes, and then y'all mad when
we come out with some fing You were mad when
with a fake leg, would fake leg, but y'all got
fake ten thousand.

Speaker 3 (57:03):
Things you could hear would have legs crazy.

Speaker 2 (57:09):
I'm just saying, I don't mind the fake leg with
a man.

Speaker 3 (57:12):
I don't mind a little fake arm or a disabled
arm and a disabled leg. I could deal with it.
I could deal with it. I would do with fake leg.
And then the one flake leg. Man, I knew he
was walking and he was grooving, he will be like
he would be grooving dancing.

Speaker 4 (57:30):
What kind of leg was this?

Speaker 1 (57:32):
It was? It was? It was?

Speaker 2 (57:33):
It was something like it wasn't there.

Speaker 3 (57:36):
He had the little like doing like electric electric because
he had the money, so it was an electric situation.

Speaker 2 (57:43):
He had to He would be like he would be rhythm.

Speaker 1 (57:48):
Why rhythm he was?

Speaker 2 (57:51):
He had more rhythms.

Speaker 1 (57:53):
Leg.

Speaker 3 (57:54):
The rhythm was crazy and he's dancing on Instagram.

Speaker 2 (57:57):
That was his ship like okay.

Speaker 1 (58:00):
Okay, So he had what part of the leg was fake?
This money he got shot. He's from comfort, so like
you know what I'm saying, what part of the leg
was fake? Like this much.

Speaker 3 (58:07):
I never got that far to know, because I didn't
get into the paths coming up. No, I didn't do
that because we wasn't vibing on that level.

Speaker 1 (58:16):
He's a vibe.

Speaker 2 (58:17):
He was an aries like me and I chilled.

Speaker 4 (58:20):
You couldn't see the fake leg in bed.

Speaker 3 (58:22):
I don't know, because I never went in bed because
you have to take it off when we get there,
which is.

Speaker 1 (58:26):
Fine because with a dude that was in the wheelchair. No,
but I.

Speaker 3 (58:31):
Would do that if it came down to it and
it was my man and I had to get on top,
I would get on there because you just have to
get on there.

Speaker 2 (58:39):
That's it.

Speaker 1 (58:40):
And it's his legs.

Speaker 2 (58:46):
Oh like he has to get up huh on the bed.

Speaker 1 (58:54):
But he still had hip thrust. He still got him.

Speaker 2 (58:56):
I could do it. I could do it.

Speaker 1 (58:57):
I could do it, still have some hip thrust.

Speaker 3 (58:59):
I could do the hips dress, I could do the
hiptos because really I could do it.

Speaker 2 (59:05):
I could do it.

Speaker 3 (59:05):
It wouldn't be variety, but I could ride it on
top and then I could turn around on top, boom back.

Speaker 1 (59:11):
That's what I'm saying. But he ain't. He can't get
up on it. He can't get up on his own
on his knees.

Speaker 4 (59:18):
He's gonna have to just be like on.

Speaker 2 (59:19):
You know, he's laying down.

Speaker 1 (59:21):
His legs ain't working, but he the hip thos. He
cracking though.

Speaker 2 (59:29):
I could do it. I could do it. I could
do it.

Speaker 1 (59:31):
Cracking though I could.

Speaker 2 (59:32):
Do it, because then I know he's not going nowhere.

Speaker 1 (59:35):
I'm trying to think, Man, I remember this girl. Man,
I ain't gonna even lie when I was. It was
this girl that was in the club back in the
day when the early two thousands, like we was out
every day. She was cold.

Speaker 4 (59:48):
I ain't gonna even lie.

Speaker 1 (59:49):
She was bad. She was bad, she was always up.
She was in a wheelchair right on my mama. I'm
trying to tell you she was cold. I'll be looking like, yeah,
I want to get at her, but don't want everybody
to see me getting at her. I'm talking about she
was a bad one here oh here like creep status,

(01:00:09):
like like damn.

Speaker 2 (01:00:11):
I want to holler at her because you could pick
her up like damn.

Speaker 1 (01:00:14):
But I don't want niggas to really be seeing me
holler at her like that, Like but I want to
get at her. So there, so look so I go
to Vegas, right, he gonna be this nigga gonna be
mad with me. He gonna see this. So we go
to I go to the club in Vegas. Man, she
on the dance floor. She was in there. She was

(01:00:34):
one of the baddest females in La. I'm trying to
tell you. I'm trying to tell you that I know
castles on her head. So I go to this club
in Vegas and she in her wheelchair and I see
Shock dancing with her. Yeam, Shock, you a cold nigga.
All right, look at nigga. He wasn't tripping. I was
like Diesel. I was looking at Diesel like damn. He

(01:00:54):
wasn't embarrassed. I was like, damn, Diesel jumped on her.
You know who I'm talking about. I swear we shout
go see this. You know I don't know her name, though,
you gonna know who I'm talking about. This girl's early
two thousand and the baddest females in LA. I swear
everybody knew her. All the celebrities knew her. Everybody. They
was like, I.

Speaker 2 (01:01:13):
Wasn't born yet.

Speaker 1 (01:01:15):
No, No, I'm telling you this. I'm talking It was.
It was almost like seeing motherfucking Beyonce in this wheelchair.
Motherfuckers on her. I'm trying to tell you.

Speaker 3 (01:01:24):
So are you gonna suck in the wheelchair? Let's say,
let's say I came in the wheelchair. I just didn't
want to in front of everybody, So you're embarrassed.

Speaker 1 (01:01:33):
I just I didn't know how to react. You know,
this was different. This was no social media time like today.
I would have been on.

Speaker 3 (01:01:39):
That what social media have to do? The issue even
be better because no one can record.

Speaker 1 (01:01:43):
You better because everybody was like, oh, damn, a viral.
You know what I'm saying, Oh, he got a bad
got a bad one.

Speaker 3 (01:01:53):
So if she rolls up in a wheelchair, baddest fuck
I'm talking.

Speaker 1 (01:01:56):
About, doll. It was. It was undeniable bad. I'm talking
about like God damn. It was like you're gonna be
looking at her and you're like, oh, so listen, so
listen to this twist. So I told the homie about this,
the homie that grew up in that era. So you
remember that girl in the wheelchair. He was like, yeah,
you know what he told me. This is ain't gonna

(01:02:17):
even lie to you. He said she could walk. Now,
I said, nigga, what oh my, mama, oh my, I
can't make this up. And I was like, he showed
me the picture of her, and then he showed her
today and she walks today. Well listen, it's amazing. I
swear I can't make this up. I'm not making this up,

(01:02:39):
as I promise you. She was in a wheelchair, but
I was on her today she could walk, and I
was like, what was wrong with her? He was like, Nigga,
the homie is on her now, she walking? She live out?
She was like, she live out in uh out in
Orange County with this dude. She walked now.

Speaker 2 (01:02:54):
So listen, if you're watching this, do remember that story.

Speaker 1 (01:03:01):
D hold on. I just thought about it day. Yes, yes, yes,
I'm not making this south ever. Hey hey, but the
hary called her right call. Hey, I'm telling.

Speaker 3 (01:03:14):
You, so listen, if you're watching this, the girl in
the wheelchair that could walk now real cold.

Speaker 2 (01:03:20):
She's trying to fuck with you.

Speaker 1 (01:03:22):
No, I'm not trying to funk with her. I don't
know she listened twenty years ago. No, is just a story.

Speaker 3 (01:03:31):
No, I'm saying you might come out the wool works.
She might come out the woolworks like what's up?

Speaker 1 (01:03:36):
She be crazy if she walked in here with a
dress with some high heels on and I ain't never
seen her like that, gotta be crazy, got to be
crazy'll be like.

Speaker 2 (01:03:45):
Damn, listen, she might be. She might say, what's up?

Speaker 1 (01:03:50):
So listen talk to me.

Speaker 3 (01:03:52):
I would personally, yes, I would deal with a disabled man,
depending on the disability and if he had if I
needed to help him out a little bit, I would,
and I would fuck.

Speaker 2 (01:04:03):
Him in the wheelchair to make it easy. You don't
have to get on the bed.

Speaker 1 (01:04:08):
Would you hang out midget?

Speaker 2 (01:04:10):
No, I'm not dating to midget? Thought, that's not racist? Like,
what the fuck is wrong with you? Is a race?

Speaker 3 (01:04:20):
Like you're.

Speaker 2 (01:04:23):
You need help? I'm racist.

Speaker 3 (01:04:26):
But last time, when I asked you if you were
dated mission motherfucker, you said no, So now I'm racist.

Speaker 2 (01:04:31):
Yeah, I asked you that.

Speaker 3 (01:04:32):
I asked you that last thing, and you said, now,
would you date a midget?

Speaker 1 (01:04:37):
Yeah? Yeah, he's nothing wrong with that.

Speaker 2 (01:04:40):
The human you just said you wouldn't date it.

Speaker 3 (01:04:43):
What what else would they be there? The animals? Like,
I'm confused.

Speaker 1 (01:04:47):
Yeah, but we always look at people you.

Speaker 2 (01:04:49):
No, no, no, no, no, I'm sick of you.

Speaker 3 (01:04:52):
Bro, you come on the pod and you backtrack every
other day, like.

Speaker 2 (01:04:57):
One day you're dating midgets. One day cooked me and
you like cook food.

Speaker 3 (01:05:00):
The other day cook means you're all desperate and thirsty,
Like which one is it?

Speaker 2 (01:05:04):
Because we're tired of the backtrack.

Speaker 3 (01:05:06):
I'm tired pull up the cliffs where he straight up
set a midget is a no go. He's not dealing
with no midget now today they're humans. We gotta fuck
with the humans.

Speaker 1 (01:05:15):
Stop different phase of my life.

Speaker 2 (01:05:17):
That was two days ago. That was two days ago, motherfucker.

Speaker 4 (01:05:22):
I'm not a different phase of my life now.

Speaker 3 (01:05:23):
Youent phase of my life now days later?

Speaker 1 (01:05:28):
Yeah, why not?

Speaker 2 (01:05:30):
So now you're fucking midget.

Speaker 4 (01:05:33):
Stop putting words in my mind.

Speaker 2 (01:05:35):
Would you.

Speaker 3 (01:05:35):
You've just said they're humans and you'll deal with the midget.

Speaker 1 (01:05:39):
See this is what you do. I said I'll date
a midget right now. I don't know if the sexual
encounter will happen, Like, let's see when you have I
don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:05:50):
You think it would be fun to just throw them
up in the air. You could bounce him on.

Speaker 3 (01:05:54):
There like it might be a vibe, bounce them on
there everything. But you think that their vagina is small,
you know what I mean? I know seriously, it.

Speaker 2 (01:06:08):
Might be a tiny one, so that might hurt.

Speaker 1 (01:06:12):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:06:13):
I don't know, but I wonder.

Speaker 3 (01:06:14):
You know what I'm saying, maybe you should experiment and
find out and come back and tell us if there's
any midgets looking for loob.

Speaker 2 (01:06:22):
It's not racist.

Speaker 3 (01:06:23):
I love midgets period, No I do.

Speaker 2 (01:06:30):
I do love midgets. And I said I would be
with someone disabled.

Speaker 1 (01:06:33):
What is the problem?

Speaker 2 (01:06:35):
Adet is different than a widgett.

Speaker 3 (01:06:39):
I'm an kick up and carry my man like, but.

Speaker 2 (01:06:45):
That's a tiny man me. I'm I'm a whole lot
of women over here. I need a man. I need
a grown masculine like.

Speaker 5 (01:06:55):
I need a man to be like baby, what if
you had a midget but he had one of them
long things?

Speaker 3 (01:07:00):
I don't care about the side of it. I don't
like that, and I'm scared. Why are you this small
and the biggest?

Speaker 2 (01:07:06):
Like is it dragging on the floor? Do we have
to tape it up?

Speaker 1 (01:07:10):
Like?

Speaker 3 (01:07:10):
I don't like those things going on. I think that
a midget is great. I love midgets, but for me, personally,
I don't want to be with the midget simply because
I don't want to have to pick up my man.

Speaker 1 (01:07:21):
You don't have to pick him up.

Speaker 2 (01:07:22):
They can. What are talking about? I'm saying, what are
we going to do sexually with a man with a midget?

Speaker 1 (01:07:29):
What do you mean? I have a whole lot of ass.
I have a lot. Don't take care of all that
human beings.

Speaker 3 (01:07:38):
So he's right here, but we can't even kiss while
we're having because he's down here, right there.

Speaker 2 (01:07:45):
He's down here.

Speaker 1 (01:07:45):
Okay, So it's waist is right there, his face is
in your No, it's not legs. Just reach your levees.
That's it.

Speaker 2 (01:07:52):
Okay. Well, if there's any midges looking for love.

Speaker 1 (01:07:56):
Let us know, come on our show.

Speaker 2 (01:07:57):
Come on our show Midgets and love.

Speaker 1 (01:08:00):
Pierce my love the show. We take them all midgets, black, white, Chinese.

Speaker 3 (01:08:07):
You're racist, like you're racist, and to say that I
am midget, but I like midgets.

Speaker 2 (01:08:15):
I like midgets. And you said that you don't like.

Speaker 1 (01:08:20):
You did?

Speaker 2 (01:08:20):
Please pull the clip where Paul said he don't, I really.

Speaker 3 (01:08:24):
Need to, he lies pull the Darnell's gonna have to
pull this clip up because I promise you. Okay, Darnell
pulled the clip up. He's gonna say that and when
it pulls up.

Speaker 2 (01:08:37):
What do you owe me? You owe me something to.

Speaker 4 (01:08:40):
Take it to a nice little steak dinner.

Speaker 2 (01:08:42):
I don't want that.

Speaker 3 (01:08:43):
I want something else, and not not in a sexual way.

Speaker 1 (01:08:46):
I just want no.

Speaker 2 (01:08:48):
I don't want that either. I already have all that
taken care of.

Speaker 1 (01:08:52):
Yeah, what's so? I want you to be honest on
this podcast for once.

Speaker 3 (01:08:56):
No, I want you to come on here and not
lie like a fucking dog, and then we could talk
about it. I want you to come on here and
not degrade women, American women, older women, cooked women, Black
women when you come on here.

Speaker 1 (01:09:11):
That's what I want. I don't degrade no women. I
just speak reality. And then when you can't handle the reality,
it hits a different way. That's your problem because you
think I'm over here the grading women. You think I'm
telling what the demographics of the women are and I
don't want to hear the things that you want to hear.
You take offense to it. That's the problem all of you.

(01:09:36):
That's a problem when you when we say something, When
I say something, does it.

Speaker 3 (01:09:40):
Feel good to feel like you're like Kevin Samuels or something.

Speaker 2 (01:09:44):
Say that. They say you're recarnated.

Speaker 3 (01:09:48):
Everyone says that that way not on my level.

Speaker 1 (01:09:53):
Well he's dead whatever he was doing this ship when
in the last five years, I've been doing this ship
the last No. No, but I've been in the game
longer than him. He just had a platform for I
had my platform way before the great women. I'll just
be telling like it is. It's not the great women.

(01:10:14):
I know, the great one. I love women.

Speaker 5 (01:10:16):
I just tell them, no, no, I just tell them
how it is and how it's supposed to be, and
as a man, as a king, as somebody who's a
man's man, like this is what it is like.

Speaker 1 (01:10:29):
You ain't about to run over me. You ain't about
to be talking to me like you, oh, come take me,
all right, whatever you're talking to the wrongs, all right, cool.
I'm from the old school and I got old school value.
So all these new these new casts that they had
to that's the reason this desiety is today because these
females who see all the new money coming in and

(01:10:50):
they want to talk hard, talk to the new money
like that. But no, the old money ain't gonna never change.
You ain't gonna talk to the old money.

Speaker 2 (01:10:57):
Like thats.

Speaker 1 (01:11:00):
Money gonna stay all money, and you're gonna get your place,
whatever you want to call it. But the old school,
me and my circle, we ain't going. We ain't going
go ahead and talk to these this new money or
whatever they get their money because they ain't used to
face to face. And then I came up in the

(01:11:20):
air pinning pad. We're gonna come out here and talk
to you in your face. See what you are talking about.
I'm coming up on you mayby a baby A yeah, yeah, yeah,
what's happening? All this online? You can't see me or
you can see me online. Then we're getting when you
get in front of them, they don't know what to say.
This is that's that's that's that's different type of money.
They don't know what to say to these females. And
then they they didn't they did they the tricks, so

(01:11:43):
they gotta throw money out at the females. Nah, that
ain't that ain't my error, Nah, that ain't us We
penning pad, that's what that's what this app gonna be called.

Speaker 4 (01:11:52):
Penn and pad.

Speaker 1 (01:11:54):
Yeah. If he's toes penning path. If this new money, y'all, Oh,
how you make money? All? I'm up influencer a stream.
I live in front of a computer. So when they
getting a human the human aspect of everything. They don't
know what to say.

Speaker 2 (01:12:12):
A human aspect.

Speaker 1 (01:12:14):
Yeah, the face to face human aspect of it, not
the typing and and and the like, Oh I showed you,
I liked you, and I commented and I want to
do What's what's the term they use on the Love
Island when they want to talk for a chat? Put
you for a chat? And then what what's the terms?

Speaker 4 (01:12:37):
Explora connection?

Speaker 1 (01:12:38):
That's what they be doing online. Now I'm exploring connection
in your person, in your face. So you're gonna be like, damn,
all right, I know who this is. Then he really
spending some game. He really saying something instead of oh
I got that Jack. As a matter of fact, Jack
PT is talking to you. You don't even know who
you're talking to half the time. Now, now I'm gonna

(01:12:59):
give you some face to face words. No. So now
the females is food females Now, yeah, y'all food out
here because y'all go out. Y'all went off that look
and y'all went off that what you what he said online?

Speaker 4 (01:13:13):
And then now he he.

Speaker 1 (01:13:16):
Played your ass?

Speaker 2 (01:13:17):
Yeah, he plays you called Yeah, so that's the wow, you're.

Speaker 3 (01:13:20):
So honestly, you're so smart, Like you really amazed me
every day. No, no, no, no, no, you amaze me
every day. And like, honestly, I'm really blast to be
with someone who has so much game, from the old school,
from the old money. And then you're telling me about
these females and it's like, I'm blown every day when

(01:13:42):
I hear about these females.

Speaker 1 (01:13:43):
Because you want of them females that have to go
through it that this is what you.

Speaker 2 (01:13:47):
I don't have to go through none of those.

Speaker 1 (01:13:49):
This is what the guys is giving.

Speaker 3 (01:13:50):
I'm not No, guys are not giving me that baby
like I'm an older woman. Remember, I don't deal with
no chat GBT. You ain't coming to me on the
internet talking about none of that ship you face. You're
coming in my person.

Speaker 1 (01:14:02):
But this is not a disrespect.

Speaker 3 (01:14:04):
It is a disrespect because if you have to say
it's not a disrespect, dispract I don't want to hear it.

Speaker 2 (01:14:08):
I don't care.

Speaker 1 (01:14:08):
I'm saying guys are coming at you like that.

Speaker 2 (01:14:11):
No, the guys that are coming with me, they come
at me.

Speaker 5 (01:14:13):
Correct, the older guys, all the guys, the young ones to.

Speaker 1 (01:14:20):
This one. No one's coming at me like that online.
I don't know because I don't check that.

Speaker 2 (01:14:28):
So at the end of the.

Speaker 1 (01:14:29):
Day, you every day I'm seeing you.

Speaker 2 (01:14:31):
You don't see me. You don't know what I do,
So get off of me. Get off of me.

Speaker 3 (01:14:36):
Anyways, long story short, I just wanted to say that
I was so impressed by you. You're so smart, You're
so clever, Like, I'm blessed to be here. No gas,
it's not no gas. Okay, I'm not giving you gas.
I like running on e I'm telling you that I
am so blessed.

Speaker 2 (01:14:58):
I'm definitely blessed.

Speaker 1 (01:14:59):
Stand up, Bye, Paul, You're definitely blessed. Girl. Let everybody
let the world know you' a tzar parent day and
you let her know who.

Speaker 3 (01:15:16):
I was trying to have a serious moment, really say
that I was blessed to be your presence.

Speaker 2 (01:15:19):
But you know what, you want to district me. I appreciate.

Speaker 4 (01:15:24):
This is appreciation.

Speaker 2 (01:15:25):
Appreciation. Yeah, to stand up.

Speaker 1 (01:15:29):
Let the world know. Yeah, they gonna be like, what
give them the Patreon stand up?

Speaker 2 (01:15:38):
I'm not standing up all right.

Speaker 3 (01:15:40):
So anyways, thank you guys so much for tuning into
another chaotic episode. No clue what we talked about, but
I do feel like you know you can learn something
from Paul Pierce. I mean Aizar, He's in the flash,
she got the Gray Seal bust down.

Speaker 4 (01:15:58):
Look at that.

Speaker 2 (01:15:59):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:15:59):
I keep looking real, you know, fresh tonight, you know,
and that's just the truth.

Speaker 1 (01:16:06):
So make sure you follow us and actually coming up
Pierced by Love Dating Show.

Speaker 3 (01:16:12):
Make sure y'all if you're interested in being on our
dating show, make sure that you are in the Los
Angeles area. You are someone who is looking for love
and you are camera ready and if you're interested, DM
us a picture, dm is your age, your occupation, a
hobby of yours, and what you're looking for in love,

(01:16:32):
and you will be considered as a candidate. We're really excited.
We can't wait. We're gonna be the matchmakers of so yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:16:40):
So the purpose of this, We're gonna Matchmrker. It's gonna
take one day. This is not a series. This is
one day more like speed dating. We're gonna find a
perfect one for you where you can get to know
somebody in one day. And that's gonna be part of
our new segment coming up. So make sure y'all tune
in tooth after Dark Piers by Love.

Speaker 3 (01:16:59):
Let's get it and make sure you guys are locked
into our Patreon. We have a lot of exclusive content
that we're sharing on there that you can't see anywhere else,
So make sure you guys look below.

Speaker 1 (01:17:11):
We got the link.

Speaker 2 (01:17:12):
All of that sign up.

Speaker 1 (01:17:14):
Like subscribe to our YouTube. That's important for us. We
love y'all. We appreciate y'all following and continue to give
you that great content.

Speaker 2 (01:17:23):
Amen.

Speaker 4 (01:17:25):
All right, love y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:17:44):
This is the taking over the game. All right, everybody,
welcome to Truth after Dark.

Speaker 2 (01:17:56):
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