August 18, 2025 • 58 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
We can reverse roles. Will be better at your role
than you will be at our role.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Like the fuck are you talking about? You put your
elbow to it, but you don't look at you.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
You're one hundred percent right. I love that for you. Okay, great, great, great, great?
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Get your husband one day. Now, everybody, you start agreeing
and stuff. Yeah, man, like that? You mind today that
I want to come? I want to come?
Speaker 5 (00:32):
Who Okay, Okay, I don't want to I'm not trying
to come like that.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
It's getting uncomfortable in here.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Yeah, yeah, I'm feisty because what are you saying under
your breath?
Speaker 4 (00:50):
You want to have a man one day? You can't
just react and be cool. Men don't like that.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Be cool. Don't tell me what men like beause I
it don't matter.
Speaker 4 (01:06):
Like, come on now, I don't be doing all that
what to.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
This is the taking over the game, all right? Everybody?
Welcome to Truth after Dark.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Do you think that men or women are more toxic?
Speaker 5 (01:52):
Hello, beautiful people, welcome to another episode of the Truth
after Dark.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
I am your host Zar for to.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Day and your boy Paul Pierce. The Truth is back
in the building.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
He's back in the building.
Speaker 5 (02:07):
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Speaker 4 (02:41):
We didn't hit, we didn't hit hit, we didn't.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Hit hit, and it's really cracking.
Speaker 5 (02:46):
So today we had some fan questions.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
We're going to start out with some just to get
get it going.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
So Love or Girl eighteen, which happens to be my
cousin Jordan, what are your thoughts on women keeping babies
that men say that they don't want.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Man, that's crazy. I mean, you know, at the end
of the day is no, it is. But at the
end of the day, you know, as a woman you
make the choice. You know, it's your body, it's what
you have to go through. It's what you have to
deal with, you know. And men feel like they should
(03:28):
have a say in it, but that's not the case.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
You know. Women are always going to have to final say.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
And you know, if you didn't want it, then you
shouldn't have went in that direction, you know what I'm saying.
And I know it goes both ways, and we always
say it go both ways, and it's fifty to fifty.
But man, if you ready to take on that responsibility
and will come with it, but like half the time,
I'm gonna tell you, like women don't know, you know
when they make that choice a lot of times, what
(04:00):
with bringing another person in the world, like the sacrifice,
the responsibility that come with it, that's a huge life
changing thing that it sounds amazing.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
And birth is another it's a thing.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
But if you ain't got your life together, if you
ain't got your priorities lined up, and you want to
bring another person into a world to where your world
is tricky, that's not really cool. So you really should
be thinking about that.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
And you know it should not be having sex if
you well.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
No, you should be on birth control and you are.
Speaker 5 (04:35):
Having you should be you should be protecting yourself, but
you should also be focused on yourself, Like, I just
don't feel like people should be like struggling that hard
and thinking about sex, Like you should be focused on yourself.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Maybe you need a break from having sex period.
Speaker 5 (04:50):
You shouldn't be exchanging your energies with people when you're
in a broken place or your life is not together,
Like if my life is in shambles, I'm not having sex.
And I also will say this, I think that I
feel like, as long as you're not having the baby,
because you're trying to keep a man, and you really
just feel like, I want to be a mother, whether
this man is in my life, whether he's not, this
(05:12):
is the baby. This is my baby, and you have
that baby, that's one thing. But if you think that
a ballheaded ass baby is going to keep your relationship
or keep a man, you are so wrong. Okay, people
who are actually in happy relationships struggle once they have
a child's so what you think is going to happen
with a man barely wants you right now, it's gonna
make him even more distant. Because people who are married,
(05:33):
who have incredible relationships, they have to go through therapy
and everything once they have a kid, you know what
I mean, because that changes the dynamic of a relationship
and it makes it much harder. So the fact that
you guys, a lot of women they do that to
keep the man and keep him around, whether you know whatever,
whether it's financial or anything else. But there's no really
(05:53):
amount of money that you can give anyone to decide
that you want to keep a baby for the wrong reasons.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
In my opinion, well.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
On that because I've experienced that. That's what you actually
talked about, you know, in love having a kid and married,
like you know, it does change the dynamic. And when
you talk about somebody who is not in love or
not together having a kid, that's a whole nother thing.
(06:22):
So like that's like damn, So you really should like
think about the whole being responsible. I think on both sides.
You know, you got to be more responsible. And I
can't put it all on a woman and I can't
put it all on the man. I just think as
a woman, it's your choice and you got to know
(06:43):
where you at in your life to where it's like, hey,
I can't I'm not ready for a kid. Although because
like a lot of women were like I want a kid.
I want a family, and a lot of the women
have kids just because they have kids and they feel
like time is running out.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Yeah, I know a lot of people say that.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
Who'll be like, you know, I'm gonna have this kid
right now because I'm this age, so I'm just gonna
have it, you know what I mean. And it's like
you end up being so miserable because you're just with
somebody to be with them, or you're in a baby
and I went on and you don't have a family,
and it's like my thing about children is this. I've
always felt motherly and nurturing, and I feel like I'm
(07:18):
nurturing to a lot of people in my life. But
I also always like now at this age because I
am an older lady, right, I do feel like you know,
for me, I decided that I do want to be
a mother, but I don't want to be a mother
at the cost of having a relationship that isn't in
alignment like me and the If I can't have a
(07:41):
relationship where me and the person have the same values,
the same foundation, we believe in the same just the
core important things, then for me, it's like the co
parenting situation is what's hard.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
It's not the kid.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
So I'm not going to put myself or set myself
up for failure when it comes to that.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
So if the situation ain't right, then it is what
it is. I'm cool.
Speaker 5 (08:03):
But anyways, let's move on to the next question at
Wavy Diamond.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
What's your biggest ick about yourself?
Speaker 4 (08:11):
I've been hearing itch a lot. What does that mean?
Speaker 3 (08:13):
You're such an I'm an older lady. It is like, ugh, like.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
Oh, so you're asking me what's my business about yourself?
Like what makes you cringe about yourself that you do that?
You're like, damn, I wish I wasn't didn't do that.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
Okay, that's okay, So like I can.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
Think I have one My biggest th about myself is
that I have a loud voice. And my dad has
a loud voice, and my sister has a lot of voice,
and when they talk, I'd be.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Like, yo, quiet down, like no one wants to hear
all that screaming.
Speaker 5 (08:49):
But then they're just loud, like my dad used to
be on the phone so loud and like yo, And
my sister does that same thing, and I'm like, girls,
shut up, Like she'll come into town and she'll be
staying like with me, and she'll be up because she
gets up at four or five am and she'll just
be on the phone so loud.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Okay, man, So the biggest of all myself. See, this
is the problem. Like if you have an ich about yourself,
should be trying to address that.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Yeah, but you you should. But the is you can
have something anyways, moving on to the next one.
Speaker 5 (09:30):
You should have some X you should have you should because.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
I moving on. Next question?
Speaker 4 (09:37):
What you what?
Speaker 5 (09:38):
No, next question, I'm moving on. I'm moving on. This
is crazy.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
Crazy that she was about to say.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Something as this is our last question.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
She's crazy. Oh my god, you what nothing? I do
have an about myself? Do what is? I hate the
fact that I fucking snore so loud.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
I can see that, right because I hate the people
who SNeW loud are just right.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
I love but it's molly every time. It's like if I,
you know, smoke hookah, has some drinks and stuff.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Man, and you don't snore unless you do those things.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
I don't really know. I mean I don't record myself sleeping,
so okay, I get. I mean, you know it is
what it is. You know. I'm I'm a big guy.
You know, most big guys that I know be snoring
like that. We need to go on a hibernation for
a little bit and then you know we're good.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (10:33):
So uh at smooth eighty five. What is your ultimate
deal breaker when dating?
Speaker 4 (10:41):
My ultimate deal breaker when dating? Yeah, damn.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
So we gotta get to the dating park. So I'm
really big on.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
Being on time. I don't like people messing with my time.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Like if you late, I'm like, really, that's like really,
it's really itching me. And like if you get like
if I say, like, let's go out, I got a
reservation with at eight o'clock and you get there, I
don't care if you get there at eight all five,
I'm over there. I'm kind of like irket about it.
I'm like, you know, you know, you know, damn, I
(11:17):
don't like my time being messed with. That's one thing.
And I'm not sure it's not a I said a
deal breaker, right, Yeah, that's a deal breaker, damn.
Speaker 4 (11:28):
All dating?
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Yes, all right, the deal breaker. If you can't kiss,
then I'm good. I'm good like being late. I probably
could deal with it. But the deal breaker is like, damn,
I'm kissing this week.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
You can't teach. I can tell someone.
Speaker 5 (11:49):
Because it's like you can show them, like move your tongue,
like okay, like this, you can grab.
Speaker 4 (11:54):
You be like different ones.
Speaker 5 (11:55):
Some be too aggressive, people too much, it's too much.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
Like relax yeah, like living much, tongue down the throat
to let it flow.
Speaker 4 (12:05):
So I don't know. I like.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
I like the intimacy of the like passionate kissing and stuff.
If you consistently, I'm like, because you're gonna know off
the first kiss.
Speaker 5 (12:16):
And you said, okay, your answer is done, okay good.
My biggest dating deal break here will probably be inconsistency.
I hate someone who's inconsistent or like doesn't their words
don't match their actions. If your words don't match your actions,
that's the biggest way that I'm not going to fuck
(12:37):
with you, because you didn't have to say that, Like you.
Speaker 4 (12:39):
Know, it's all get to dating. Then inconsistent.
Speaker 5 (12:43):
I'm saying, like, inconsistent consistency in your like what you
say versus what you do. I'm listening to you to
the dating part. If you were, I'm not saying you
don't inconsistent. You see me, but you say things and
you don't follow it through with actions. I don't like
when people do a lot of talking.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
You see that before the dating though.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
No, you don't always see that before the dating, Paul.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
During the conversation, yeah, but not all the time to
call you, don't call you back.
Speaker 5 (13:10):
I'm not talking about that kind of stuff. I'm not
talking about that. I'm not talking about that stuff. And
people have a representative. Have you ever heard of that
people have a representative? Everyone shows up with a representative, okay,
And when they have a representative that's not who they
really are, it takes it takes a few because because
(13:33):
you kissed me, the yeah yeah, yeah, you're the piss
off mark is getting smaller though, it's getting smaller because
it's getting smaller, Paul. And it's like right here now
it used to be it used to be so much
more patience, but now I think it's just getting tighter
and tighter on that ass. So you gotta like, you
(13:54):
gotta pull it together because I'm cool now you're not, though,
because you want to cut me off.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
From so aggressive.
Speaker 3 (14:03):
Okay, you know.
Speaker 5 (14:04):
How like people love to call black women aggressive when
they just want to talk. So you know what, whatever
I'm moving on from the conversation. So anyways, the way
your outfit looks, good.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Man, I ain't gonna like, Yo, you want a streak
right now, you're on a streak. I don't even lie.
Speaker 5 (14:28):
Well, last episode you said that I was giving state energy.
So now everyone on the internet believes that you think
I'm a whore and I'm just fucking.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
Man as soon as I see them. Yeah, well that's
what you say.
Speaker 4 (14:38):
It is what you may let back said the.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
Look, but I understand where our truth out the dark
and we dressed in sexy things, so it.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Was you're sexy, You're sexy.
Speaker 4 (14:51):
I'm feeling sexy.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Are you sexy?
Speaker 4 (14:52):
I'm feeling sexy right now, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (14:54):
I'm feeling looking right, Okay, Okay, you're in the still joints.
You got the slips, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, okay, yeah, okay, okay, okay.
So anyway, I'm moving on from this. So I want
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to talk about and I saw some people talking about
this online and it was trending like should a woman
show up as a wife before they have the ring?
Meaning if I'm in a relationship with a man and
I'm not his wife yet Should I be doing all
of the things though?
Speaker 3 (15:38):
Should I?
Speaker 5 (15:38):
Because there's there it's a it's a debate because some
people are like, okay, if you don't give a man
something to want to make you his wife, meaning like
where what does he get once you're married? If he's
getting everything right now? Like what's the incentive incentive of
marrying you if he can have everything without you even
being a wife, you know? Versus some people say, well,
(16:02):
you do all these things because you're showing a man
like I am a wife. So there's this debate going
on where it's like do I already act like a
wife or I'm not giving this man anything and as
an incentive to marry like some women are like back
in the day where it's like you don't get no
cooochie unless you make me your girlfriend. So then a
man's like, well, I'm a maker my girlfriend, you know
what I mean, because I want to do that.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
And then now you have the commitment from that man.
Speaker 5 (16:26):
So then it's like, Okay, I'm gonna wait to give
him everything until he decides to marry me, so then
he can understand like as a wife. There's other things
that I'll do and I'll show up in different ways
for you as your wife, you'll get more from me.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
All right.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
So that's a great question. It's a loaded question, but
it's a great question. I will say this for you women.
Speaker 3 (16:50):
I think for you women, it's crazy.
Speaker 4 (16:54):
Go ahead, now I say female, you owe me?
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Now?
Speaker 3 (16:59):
Is how you say? Okay? Go go?
Speaker 4 (17:03):
The other week I said female, you say why you
say female?
Speaker 5 (17:06):
Now I say women, and you're right. I am sorry,
I'm sorry, I.
Speaker 4 (17:13):
Got some caramel. But all right, So great question.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Yes, Uh, those women that you're talking about that do
what you're talking about?
Speaker 3 (17:24):
Which part.
Speaker 1 (17:26):
Holding back and saying you'll get more? And then that's
some military type ship. Like you know what I'm saying.
I think you need to be who you are because
if you not who you are and you hold back
from a man, then he'll leave you. Like I want
(17:47):
to see who you really are. I don't want to
put the ring on you. And then paperwork come into
play and then you become because it could go either way,
it can go left or right. Once the paperwork come
you can say all right, I'm gonna give you more
when get married. But then we get married, now you've
come into this. Now you put your big dog shoes on,
and now you're like holding everything back where he was
(18:09):
trying to convince me to I would be like this
if you marry me. Now, this is the problem that
women will do that to a man, to trap a man,
a marriya. Women to do this thing to a man
because they like the idea of being married, and they
got siblings and friends and parents. Now that I'm married,
I'm married now, so I'm an official, like you know,
(18:31):
just the idea that America has put upon us that
like you're a solidified lady, you're a respectable lady because
you're married now, and women will soak that up and.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
Do that just for that yah and.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
Change for sure, you know what I'm saying, Like that's
weak as hell, Like, oh, I'm a wife. And then
you're looking down in your friends who ain't married, and
then you're looking down on your siblings who ain't married
or kid but you married. But now you've changed, so
now they him he's looking like, damn, I thought we
was getting married because I was gonna get all this
extra stuff, but really when everything just went the other way. Now,
(19:07):
but you married because you like the ideal of getting
married and your social status. I will be that shouldn't
be an incentive. That should be be yourself, Be who
you really gonna be. You know what I'm saying, Let
me see who you are. Take take take that sheep's
clothing off, let me see the wolf in you. Let
(19:29):
me see who you really are or are you really
a sheep?
Speaker 3 (19:32):
Like?
Speaker 4 (19:32):
Come on, be real.
Speaker 5 (19:34):
So this is what I will say, because there's a
lot of women who are like Cis, don't cook for
that man and do all this for that man when
you listen to what I'm saying, listen to what I'm
saying when he's just your girl, right, And then this
is what I will say. I think that there's a
lot of women who felt that because you're like, I'm
doing all these wifely things for a man who's not deserving.
But the problem that comes in with these conversations is
(19:56):
there's a lot of women that choose the wrong men.
And when you're choosing the wrong man, you can have
a skewed opinion on how you should treat him because
you're true, you're with a man who treats you horribly,
may hit you, may do this, who may do that,
dogs you out and then you're like, I'll never do
that for a man. No, you should never do that
for that man. But when I speak, I speak from
(20:16):
a space of a man that's deserving of my time,
I love, my energy and all of those things. So
at the end of the day, it's like, you should
only do that with a man who you love and respect,
and you should only be in a relationship with a
man you love and respect, period. So I think that
there is a space where you can show up as
that person, because I definitely show up as that person
(20:37):
and I'm myself in relationships. But you have to know
who's deserving of your time and your energy. And that's
a problem with discernment, and that's a problem with not
understanding your worth. And I just want to put that
out there because so many women will be like, girl,
I'm not doing that for him.
Speaker 3 (20:53):
He da da da da da.
Speaker 5 (20:54):
That's because you're with a trifling man. You're with a bum,
you're with a dog.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
As I say about you, exactly birds of a feather flock, right,
that's a.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
Reflection of you.
Speaker 5 (21:05):
And I think that a lot of people when they
get with these fucked up people, they need to look
within themselves.
Speaker 3 (21:09):
Why am I attracting this person?
Speaker 5 (21:12):
There's either a weakness in me or something within me
that actually likes this behavior.
Speaker 3 (21:16):
And I need to check that.
Speaker 4 (21:19):
This is what I gotta say today. And this has
been on my mind.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
Okay, for all you men who stand up, men who
go out there and put your elbow into making a woman,
make sure she's straight and hard working and respectable, chest up,
cheering out men, and you really on the grind and
you really got ambition. Man, leave these little pretty girls alone. Bro,
(21:50):
they don't put their elbow in it. I'm gonna keep
it one hundred over there looking at Oh she bad?
Oh look at her Instagram? Oh she a na, she'll no.
I'll get you a far six. Who's gonna put some
elbow into it? Ain't gonna be down for you on
some one hundred. You know what I'm saying. They gonna
look at you like why he with her? Don't worry
about whild with her, because she gonna do everything you
(22:12):
ain't doing one hundred percent. That's the new way we
should be on fellas, Like, man, I forget all that
how you look when you with your arm around her?
Speaker 4 (22:20):
Now she ain't she ain't got no substance to her.
Speaker 3 (22:22):
She ain't.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
Man, it look good when you out and people see you,
all right, But then after that you go home, you arguing,
you ain't get no foot rubs, massage, You ain't getting
no food you like, Man, we off that. Now, this
is the new way. It's twenty twenty five, y'all. Don't
be embarrassed by your chick. Get you one that's gonna
get her elbow into it. Like, man, we good on
all that other stuff. Man, make her feel like a queen,
(22:46):
her attitude of queen. But these other ones when they, oh,
it's all gliss and glamour, it's all shiny and look
all good. And when you in the window and it
look cool out when you out about, and when it's
my heind closed doors. Man, you miserable as hell, But
you get you like a five or six, maybe a seven.
Speaker 4 (23:03):
Baby squeeze a seven in the baby.
Speaker 1 (23:08):
Tooth and nail with you, hard hat with you, not
no blue collar ship.
Speaker 4 (23:12):
Man. I don't keep it one hundred.
Speaker 1 (23:14):
Man, I ain't like so your fellas out there got money,
don't got money? Man, the ones and this simmer I
put it into another form. Think about this if I'm
in the hood and I'm selling nickels. Right, I'm gonna
sell more nickels than hunts all day. They gonna keep coming.
(23:35):
The hunt's gonna come once in a while, but you're
gonna have a dry spell. That's the same as having
a ten then having the fives, because the fire is
gonna keep They gonna keep going, you feel me.
Speaker 4 (23:46):
So that's what I gotta say about.
Speaker 3 (23:47):
I think it's all about attitude and who you choose. No,
it's not.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
Not.
Speaker 5 (23:51):
Every pretty woman is a fucking weirdo like you. Yeah,
saying that all good women and pretty women get you
a five?
Speaker 3 (24:00):
You a six.
Speaker 5 (24:00):
I get you someone you're attracted to that you fuck with, period,
point blank. Stop trying to great women on a scale.
How about you get someone that you actually attracted right,
I'm off the looks, Okay, then stop rating them as
a five or six, because I would hate to be
with a man who thought I was a five or six.
Speaker 4 (24:18):
I got with you.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
You don't look that great your fires.
Speaker 5 (24:20):
You're pretty average, but you put your elbow into I
wish I wish a man would like, the.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
Fuck are you talking about? You put your elbow to it,
but you don't look that get you somebody else, because
I wish you would like that's crazy.
Speaker 3 (24:44):
Let me tell you. Let me tell you a story
of that. I'll never forget. I have my ex had
a friend. He was an NBA player, right boom. He
had a wedding and everything with this girl.
Speaker 5 (24:54):
Mind you, his baby mama is a model whatever whatever
like light and girl, all the curly hair or whatever.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
Has made mama. The girl that he's.
Speaker 5 (25:05):
With, looks you know, like to me, I think she's
a beautiful girl, but like she's obvious like busting. Just
say it's yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, But she's not busted.
Speaker 3 (25:18):
No, she's not. She's not busted.
Speaker 1 (25:19):
I think.
Speaker 4 (25:22):
The point is all right, she's a six.
Speaker 5 (25:25):
He would come around me and my ex and he
would sit there at our house and he'd be like, man,
let me take some bizarre and I'll.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
Be like, what's that?
Speaker 1 (25:32):
Like.
Speaker 3 (25:32):
The thing is is like I'm not attracted to her
right physically.
Speaker 4 (25:37):
So she caught me, you know, fucking.
Speaker 5 (25:39):
Around, but she knows it's okay because she does other
things and she brings other things to the table. But
I don't physically. I just don't want her, you know what.
I mean, but like we're married, this is my wife.
But like if you look at my baby mama though,
that's my type. And he would just say this, and
I'll be like, oh, Like, if I'm ever with a
man who feels like I'm not the best at his
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motherfucking bitch, don't be with me.
Speaker 3 (26:02):
Don't be with me. Don't be with me.
Speaker 5 (26:03):
Don't be me because I'm putting my elbow into it.
Speaker 3 (26:06):
Like I'm not putting my elbow into Listen.
Speaker 4 (26:09):
And listen to this. He's an idiot. You know why.
Speaker 1 (26:15):
You know why he's an idiot to say he's not
physically attracted to you, because when somebody is mentally attracted
to somebody, you physically attracted.
Speaker 3 (26:26):
Yeah, you could say this.
Speaker 4 (26:29):
You speak, you spoke, Okay, No.
Speaker 3 (26:31):
Don't point at me. Do not point at me. Do not.
I'm saying this attitude today because I'm.
Speaker 5 (26:38):
Going they're telling me that I got to stand up
to you.
Speaker 4 (26:42):
You're just standing up to nothing.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
Tony said, I had to stand up cal.
Speaker 4 (26:48):
Got.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
But what I'm saying is when you're mentally stimulated by somebody,
the physical attraction is way better.
Speaker 3 (26:59):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
And somebody who looked like they got the perfect body.
But can I speak today?
Speaker 3 (27:06):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (27:06):
Yes, hard today?
Speaker 3 (27:08):
Okay, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (27:08):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (27:09):
If I be coming at you hard and you feel
a certain way and you gotta you know, you gotta
exploit your masculinity today, I'm sorry. You gotta do that today,
all right, But I'm just trying to get a point
across that. Like she could be SpongeBob square Pants, but
if she mentally got me, I don't give a damn.
(27:31):
I'm gonna be physically mentally attracted to work man, because
it's ones out there like that, and you're gonna look
at a dude that that look cracking, and you're gonna
look and you're gonna look how you look, and you
a bad one? Like why she with him? Because you
can't do the things mentally to him that he needs you.
(27:53):
Just an outside attraction. You were outerly looks, and that's
gonna wear off. That's gonna wear off when I'm sitting
on when you didn't been with somebody so many times.
Speaker 4 (28:02):
That's gonna wear off.
Speaker 1 (28:03):
When we sit on the couch and we ain't got
nothing to talk about it, and you ain't got nothing to
do around now, and you ain't that's gonna wear off,
I'm telling.
Speaker 5 (28:10):
You, but it also wears oftentimes when you're not mentally
into someone and you look at them, you're like you
are not cute. Like I've been with someone that I'm
just like, you are not attractive, and I'm looking at
them when.
Speaker 3 (28:19):
We're sitting on the couch and I look over and I'm.
Speaker 5 (28:21):
Just like, ooh, this is an ugly motherfucking boy. And
the thing is, it's okay. I like to be with
ugly man. Actually I like medium ugly men, because I
don't like a man that's like looking in the mirror
more than me and all this. But I just want
to say this, calm down, you go no, because I
have to hurry up and say don't.
Speaker 3 (28:37):
But you just us don't tell me.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
Down.
Speaker 4 (28:41):
I'm sorry. Just like talk. I'm talking Paul yelling at me, though.
Speaker 3 (28:47):
I wasn't yelling.
Speaker 4 (28:49):
The people in the comments say yes, okay.
Speaker 3 (28:51):
Okay, the people that you want me to talk about.
What the people say.
Speaker 5 (28:54):
We're talking people in the comments. Now you want to
condone the people so they can go dude, I'm saying
that sometimes too. I do believe that the mental attraction
is important, and I will say this, there's a lot
of pretty women who get cheated on by men, and
(29:15):
the women that they cheat on with look crazy, and
there's a reason for that because they're listening to them.
They're not entitled, they're doing things for them, they're cooking
for them. And that's why the men always shoot with
these women that look a mess, because it's like they're
doing the things that other women who feel like entitled
are not willing to do, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (29:36):
And yes, because we're giving you the answers to the
test and you still failing. And that's why they're doing that.
We give you the answers to the test, and you
still fail. So when you say stuff like that, like yeah,
they're going with these other girls because they're listening and
(29:57):
doing Yeah, that's the yeah, because I gave you the
answers and you how y'all give you the answers is
right here and you still put b with it's a
like come on, now, come but I don't even make
those sense that that's crazy, So you know there is
a disconnecting. So like moving forward in twenty twenty five,
twenty six, fellas, it's time for us to hold in
(30:20):
the whole go into a whole nother direction. All these
barbies that y'all think is barbies. Waan't really like that
all these wow, our babies will be cute. All that
throw out out the window, bro, because you're gonna be
in a lifetime of hell being with them. This what
you have to understand. Like, there's a market for everything. Yeah,
(30:44):
So there's men in the world that like obest ladies,
there's men in the world that like skinny ladies. There's
there's a type for everybody. And there's men in the
world that like the girls that get the booths and
the It's just is what it is, and you have
to deal with that. So don't have to That's just
(31:06):
what it is. I go to the supermarket and there's
ten lanes and like, I like what I like over
here is like like how we eat our.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
Food, but what is the supermarket?
Speaker 1 (31:25):
So there's people who like meat, and there's people that
are vegetarians. There's people who are pesscatarians. Don't get mad
at the people who like the stuff you're reacting today
(31:45):
like I don't. Let's changed keep saying, so I don't
get mad at them. Don't call them out and say
you use ms.
Speaker 4 (31:55):
We be the man. No, that's just what they like.
Speaker 3 (31:58):
No, they like meat. So, like you said, there's men
who like me, there's men like.
Speaker 4 (32:03):
That's just what they like. Don't get mad at them.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
I'm not mad.
Speaker 5 (32:06):
I just want men who bash women online all day
to be realistic that they may not want.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
If that's what they do, they're consistently doing that, then
let them do that.
Speaker 3 (32:15):
I am. I'm just saying that.
Speaker 1 (32:16):
There's women who bash women too. Yeah, okay, does that
mean what? What does that mean? There's women that bash
men that like men? Still not really, that's the topic
of conversations in all girls groups. Y'all go get together,
go to dinner, bash y'all, men's go home and have
sleep with y'all men like.
Speaker 3 (32:38):
Come on now, First of all, I'm talking about when
women bashed men is based off of.
Speaker 1 (32:42):
The topic of conversation every day amongst women's groups.
Speaker 4 (32:47):
Is that not the truth?
Speaker 1 (32:48):
So don't try to put it on us and say
if we bashing women that we should like man.
Speaker 4 (32:53):
Y'all bash men every day. That's all.
Speaker 1 (32:55):
That's all y'all can really talk about when y'all get together.
When I watch these Real Housewives or whatever about watching
all them all they do is go out and bash
their men.
Speaker 4 (33:02):
But they go home to their men.
Speaker 5 (33:04):
But you're comparing regular women to a reality show based.
Speaker 3 (33:10):
To create it and scripted to to.
Speaker 1 (33:11):
Create a steakhouse tonight, and they'd be like a woman
full of eight at a table.
Speaker 4 (33:17):
What they talking about? What you think the subject of
the conversation.
Speaker 3 (33:20):
Is okay, But even if it is men, the point.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
Is, y'all ain't talking about Hey, girl, I was at work.
We got this billion dollar corporation. Now y'all over here
bashing men every time?
Speaker 3 (33:31):
Okay, great, moving on. What would you like to talk about? Now?
Speaker 4 (33:35):
What's on the key car?
Speaker 3 (33:38):
You are whatever you win, I don't care. That's not
my point.
Speaker 5 (33:42):
My point is is that women talk about men from
a different standpoint. Women talk about when there's men on
the internet infatuated with bringing down women, when men are
supposed to be leaders. Men and women are not equal.
I am not equal to a man, period, point blank.
Men are superior. Men are leaders. Men were supposed to
follow you. Men are supposed to create the energy. Men
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are not with this the world I live in. I
create the world I live in. So at the end
of the day, when I see men who are not
in that space. And I'm supposed to look to you
to lead, I'm supposed to look to you to build.
I'm supposed to look to you to create this world
that we live in because men created this world, because
they built.
Speaker 3 (34:18):
This shit, they did all of this.
Speaker 5 (34:20):
Men are leaders and they're superior, period, point blank. So me,
as a woman who knows that and knows that I'm
not equal to a man, I look at a man
to be superior.
Speaker 3 (34:29):
So stop comparing a man to a woman. You just
did that and that's not the case.
Speaker 5 (34:34):
So a man who's sitting there bashing women who while
women bring y'all niggas into this world, check yourself, because
we're looking to you.
Speaker 3 (34:44):
Trust me.
Speaker 5 (34:45):
All of this shit that was created and everything that's
going on where women are city girls and talking shit
about men's because of y'all. All these women who are
getting bbls because they don't feel good about your their
body is because of y'all. It's because y'all talk about
a certain body type and because y'all categorize women with Spongebild,
square pass and nobody as a five or a four
and make women feel low about themselves. So don't ever
(35:08):
get that twisted. Men are the ones.
Speaker 3 (35:10):
Why are you laughing?
Speaker 5 (35:11):
I'm The point is is men sit here and talk
about how women are not equal to men all day
and I agree with that. They hate feminists because feminist
feels like men and women are equal. So at the
end of the day, if y'all want to claim to
be the superior person, and you guys are leaders, and
you guys are the ones who build this and more this,
then you guys would be so surprised if y'all shifted
(35:32):
how the way you talk about women, how you treat women,
how you describe women, And if you shifted that, you
would see how other things would follow behind that.
Speaker 4 (35:39):
You know, the thing is about man and women.
Speaker 3 (35:43):
Yes, please tell me, like.
Speaker 1 (35:46):
We can reverse roles. Will be better at your role,
then you will be at our role.
Speaker 3 (35:54):
You mean men. So wait, listen, listen, I'm trying to
hear it.
Speaker 1 (35:59):
Listen, Like now we say women, y'all do what we do,
and we'll do what you do.
Speaker 4 (36:05):
We can do what y'all do.
Speaker 3 (36:09):
So y'all could be feminine.
Speaker 4 (36:11):
Listen to what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (36:12):
We can do y'all roles as women like y'all don't
do the heavy lifting. Y'all not gonna build the Staples Center. Yeah,
y'all like we can't get a thousand women to build
the pyramids we like, but men, we can do the women's.
Speaker 4 (36:30):
Roles all day.
Speaker 3 (36:33):
That's not true.
Speaker 4 (36:34):
What you mean tell me something that a man came.
Speaker 5 (36:36):
A man can't tap into the emotions like a woman
can and be as nurturing as a woman. And that's
the fact. A man can't breastfeed a motherfucking child. A
man can't give birth to children and populate the motherfucking universe.
Speaker 3 (36:48):
Get okay, So y'all can y'all can give virtual people?
Y'all can? This universe will die? You just said physical labor?
Speaker 4 (36:56):
You physical, so we can't give birth.
Speaker 5 (36:59):
But I'm saying, oh, that's the biggest thing, right, So
you killed it off. What else can you do as
a woman because you can't give birth and that's the
main thing a woman does, So keep it above. Okay, Yeah,
try because you're really bad at it, and so.
Speaker 4 (37:13):
Is most men.
Speaker 5 (37:15):
Most men are not naturally nurturius. You can't try, But
y'all are not tapped into emotions the same. When y'all
deal with something, you're like, Okay, I'm a problem.
Speaker 3 (37:22):
Solve it.
Speaker 5 (37:22):
It's gonna be all right. Like, I never had a
conversation with any man, including you, where you can give
advice and you're great and you're all of that, but
you're not sitting there really digging deep with a woman
and being, like you just said on the last episode
when a woman cries and kills the fucking mood and
you hate that, Like, let's keep it real so a
woman can listen to a motherfucker cry.
Speaker 3 (37:42):
No, because you try to come for me.
Speaker 4 (37:44):
All you like when I come for you.
Speaker 3 (37:52):
You come for me every second that I'm.
Speaker 5 (37:53):
Liveing, you come for me, and I never said for you.
Speaker 4 (38:00):
I'm not coming for you.
Speaker 3 (38:01):
Well, I'm coming for you today.
Speaker 4 (38:02):
Your mind today that.
Speaker 3 (38:04):
I want to come, I want to come.
Speaker 4 (38:07):
Whoa? That was crazy?
Speaker 1 (38:09):
That was that was wid That was crazy.
Speaker 4 (38:14):
Oh damn.
Speaker 5 (38:15):
Okay, Okay, I don't want to whoa. I'm not trying
to come like that.
Speaker 4 (38:20):
It's getting uncomfortable in here.
Speaker 3 (38:25):
I didn't mean I wanted to come Jesus.
Speaker 5 (38:27):
Okay, okay, okay, literally anyways, okay.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
Getting hot here, uncomfortable. Let's go along with you. He's
spicy tonight.
Speaker 3 (38:45):
I was spy because I wore the bread. I had
to get spicy.
Speaker 4 (38:48):
You must be going out tonight.
Speaker 5 (38:50):
Well, I don't ask about my personal life. So anyways,
I'm moving on because.
Speaker 3 (38:57):
Crazy, I'm crazy.
Speaker 5 (38:59):
I might be a little crazy, but I will say
that like everything I do and everything I say is
from a love and place in this place, this show
would be this show will be boring.
Speaker 3 (39:08):
People don't understand that I did it cut up the
way that I did it.
Speaker 4 (39:11):
I didn't cut up.
Speaker 3 (39:12):
And then you want to get on your phone.
Speaker 1 (39:14):
I was looking at ok Yeah, I was like, you know,
I was trying to figure out. Uh, I mean, we
have such a good dynamic. It's not we don't even
need to keep cars, truthfully. But I'll just set up
then we tap into everything, you know.
Speaker 5 (39:28):
Yeah, so one last question that I was going to
ask you, and then we can go into playing a.
Speaker 3 (39:34):
Little game that we have.
Speaker 5 (39:35):
Okay, So, so you feel like a woman should act
as a wife prior to getting married.
Speaker 3 (39:42):
Do you feel the same for a man like he
should show up?
Speaker 1 (39:45):
You should be yourself and not think about it, because
when you start holding things back, like if you love,
if you're in a relationship and you love somebody, then
everything is going to show you know what I'm saying,
you can't go on. But the ones who hold back,
(40:06):
you don't love that person. You just you just like
the thought of being a relationship, and you like the
thought of being with a man or a woman, and
like true love is letting go and you're really not
gonna be thinking about all that other stuff, like I
ain't gonna give him this to myn I ain't gonna
be cooking.
Speaker 3 (40:23):
We're talking about the man. Stop going back to the women.
I asked your question about.
Speaker 4 (40:27):
All right, so the man on. Men don't do that.
Men don't hold nothing back. We like you because we
want to be with you.
Speaker 1 (40:38):
Unconditionally, okay, and women be with us under a condition.
It's just what it is. Oh, he ain't driving this.
I don't like him because he's driving that. That's crazy.
A man, you you you got a bug. A ma
ain't gonna still mess with you. You got you walking,
you catching on the bus.
Speaker 4 (40:58):
Stop.
Speaker 3 (41:00):
But let's not talk about financial.
Speaker 5 (41:02):
What it is a lot of men are gonna mess
with you if the physical is not there.
Speaker 4 (41:06):
It's not true. That's totally not true.
Speaker 3 (41:10):
So you think that a man.
Speaker 4 (41:13):
Gonna mess with a woman because he really like her
and really.
Speaker 3 (41:15):
Yeah, but there's conditions to that, because.
Speaker 4 (41:17):
It's a conditions.
Speaker 3 (41:18):
Okay, so if I'm two hundred eighty pounds, you're still
go with me.
Speaker 4 (41:20):
Two hundred and eighty. You didn't been with a man
you when.
Speaker 5 (41:23):
You were say you want to be with a woman
who was too eighty? Yes, you mull take he said that.
He said that that's lazy. I don't like that. That's
a different type of laziness. And I would never be
with a woman like that. You said that you could
pull up the clip all right.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
If I did say that, then that would probably be
some of the reasons of that. Well, because if she
I think, they're like, she's not motivated, because I'm a
motivated the condition more like me. People say things like
motivation is not a condition, like motive, Like.
Speaker 5 (41:59):
You're not motivated is the biggest condition. If a woman
said that to the man, you'd be like, wow, woman
said he's.
Speaker 4 (42:04):
Not motivated the money life, that's.
Speaker 5 (42:07):
Likely, and so is a man being like ship together.
You shouldn't have.
Speaker 1 (42:11):
Nothing to do with what I have or got. This
is a life trade. I want somebody that's motivated like
you could be too eighty. But if you that's telling
me something I said a lot like, all right, let
me see if you if you can be too eddy
and I can message you, but if you showing me
you working toward doing better for yourself.
Speaker 3 (42:31):
There's conditions. Okay, there's conditions.
Speaker 1 (42:34):
I have heart attacks. It's people that's diabetic, but overweighth. Yeah,
so I think as me being a health conscious dude,
work toward being better.
Speaker 4 (42:46):
Man.
Speaker 3 (42:47):
Come on, there's conditions, my love.
Speaker 1 (42:50):
But that has nothing to do about money and your
status and your kind of car you drive like most women.
Speaker 5 (42:56):
But women want a man that's motivated to that's not lazy.
And as a man, what is the leading thing that
men want is money? So if you they has nothing
to do with how much money you have is it
has everything to do with confidence.
Speaker 3 (43:07):
Broke men are not confident.
Speaker 5 (43:09):
They usually hate themselves and they hate the other motherfuckers
around them.
Speaker 3 (43:13):
A lot of broke men lack confidence.
Speaker 4 (43:15):
That's not true. Okay, you're telling me when I was
in high school.
Speaker 5 (43:19):
You were in high school, Paul, You were never grown
ass man. You were never You don't know how that feels.
Speaker 4 (43:26):
To be in the hood that walk around there like
they got a million.
Speaker 1 (43:31):
Yeah, but they gonna yeah, what's happening?
Speaker 4 (43:36):
Never know like men, we don't move like y'all.
Speaker 5 (43:39):
There's a lot of men who do, though you I've
seen it on our first hand.
Speaker 3 (43:43):
I've seen it and.
Speaker 4 (43:46):
Don't have confidence.
Speaker 5 (43:47):
Not every man. I can't speak for every person in
the world. When I'm speaking for a lot of men.
Speaker 1 (43:51):
Black man, we're the most confident in the world. We
move like that, were kings out here.
Speaker 3 (43:57):
There's a lot of black men kings out here.
Speaker 1 (43:59):
We walk out here, white tea whatever, jeez broke, but
were moving like yeah, yeah, what's happening. You better recognize girl,
you're out here. You I don't know what world you
live in, Shue, you must be on the where you
be in the suburbs. Just trying to tell you when
the hood man kings out here, better recognize that shoe.
Speaker 4 (44:23):
I'm telling you the truth from the truth.
Speaker 3 (44:28):
Okay, Paul, you're one hundred percent, You're one hundred percent right.
I love that for you. Okay, great, great, great, great,
thank you. Anyways, we're moving on to the segment like that.
Speaker 4 (44:40):
You talk like that, we're moving on to get your
husband one day.
Speaker 5 (44:44):
Please don't talk to me and moving on to the
next thing we're going to talk about.
Speaker 3 (44:49):
We're gonna play No, I do not like you.
Speaker 4 (44:52):
Qualities. Can you start agreeing and stuff? Yeah? Man't like that.
I'm gonna all right, let's talk.
Speaker 1 (45:02):
Let's talk about you on your you, on your you
on your one two today? Yeah, you know you put
me back, pushed me back today. I like that feisty.
Speaker 3 (45:15):
Okay. Anyways, we're gonna play against. What's the game we're
gonna play?
Speaker 4 (45:20):
Well grown man, I don't really play games, but come on.
Speaker 5 (45:23):
We've played games on this show multiple times. So now
you want to say that's the little comments, I can't.
Speaker 4 (45:29):
Let's do it.
Speaker 3 (45:30):
Okay, So we're gonna play it. And we haven't played
this game in a while. Last time we played this
game on had to click. That still going viral to
this day. So I'm gonna tread lightly. Never have I ever. Huh.
What's the little under the breath? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I'm
feisty because what are you saying under your breath?
Speaker 1 (45:49):
I want to have a man one day. You can't
just react and on.
Speaker 3 (45:56):
Cool.
Speaker 4 (46:00):
Don't like that?
Speaker 3 (46:00):
Be cool? Don't tell me what man like because I don't.
It don't matter, like.
Speaker 4 (46:05):
Come on now, I don't be doing all that.
Speaker 1 (46:09):
What trip tripping got a calm down?
Speaker 4 (46:19):
Stupid twisted out here, that's show question.
Speaker 5 (46:26):
First of all, you are, you are different. I'm dealing
with someone who comes from me on a daily basis.
So you don't have me in my feminine. You don't
have me in my femininity because you say I'm a
wounded doug, I first night energy, I'm an older.
Speaker 3 (46:39):
Lady, I'm cooked.
Speaker 5 (46:41):
How many times you tell me you ain't you come
for me and everyone sees it. So when I'm around you,
I'm not feminine, but trusted belle. When'm around my motherfucking
man baby, it's giving femininity all day.
Speaker 3 (46:51):
Baby.
Speaker 4 (46:51):
What do you need?
Speaker 3 (46:52):
What do you want? What do you like? It's giving submission,
it's giving all of those things.
Speaker 5 (46:55):
But around you, you have me in my masculine because
I have a defense up and I have a hard up.
Speaker 3 (47:00):
Because you don't give that for me. You're not giving me.
Speaker 5 (47:03):
Oh, I can let loose and be my Femilye because
every minute you're coming from me left right, left, right
up for job under kept.
Speaker 4 (47:09):
We're in a podcast.
Speaker 5 (47:11):
We're in a podcast exactly, So don't compare to my
life and who I have in my man and what
I do to this.
Speaker 3 (47:17):
Okay, thank you.
Speaker 5 (47:19):
Never have I ever disretracted someone so bad on a pod.
Speaker 1 (47:24):
Go ahead on a podcast like you See how you
talk like that to me? And I'm cool under pressure?
See that I'll just take cool.
Speaker 3 (47:33):
Well, yeah, and I and hopefully.
Speaker 4 (47:35):
Then I come back with the game winner.
Speaker 3 (47:37):
Yeah. I hope that I can learn from you and
you can leave me as a man, you know, and
allow me to be in my feminine anymore when I'm
around you.
Speaker 5 (47:44):
Yeah, whoa, whoa, No, No, I'm saying while we're on
this pH as my co host on this podcast.
Speaker 3 (47:53):
You know what I'm saying, like leading.
Speaker 5 (47:55):
Me in that direction so I can feel more like
I could let my gown, I could be softer, and
I appreciate that.
Speaker 3 (48:04):
And I want to be better too, because I don't
want to come like that. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (48:08):
We're gonna work on it, Okay, you talking about Never
have I ever stayed in a relationship with someone I
knew I would never marry.
Speaker 3 (48:18):
All Right, so you drink if you have done that,
I'm gonna drink too.
Speaker 4 (48:26):
Mm hmmm, Damn I did.
Speaker 3 (48:32):
Damn you got one or no, I have one.
Speaker 4 (48:35):
Well damn, you didn't give me no. Oh okay, okay,
never have ever? Yeah okay, so.
Speaker 3 (48:41):
We just played it any drink Okay, So damn Never
have I ever?
Speaker 1 (48:49):
Never have I ever? This is for you, I'm telling you. Yeah,
all right, so this is directed towards you. Right, yeah, okay.
So never have I ever went out with one guy
and left with another guy?
Speaker 3 (49:05):
I never did that?
Speaker 4 (49:06):
What? No, Okay, so drink.
Speaker 3 (49:10):
I never did that, meaning did that drink? Here you go.
See what I'm saying. I got to put.
Speaker 4 (49:18):
I never went out on a date with one guy.
Speaker 1 (49:20):
He was tricky, Yeah, he was turned off, but then
you saw another dude like, man, let's go somewhere else.
Speaker 4 (49:26):
Never I didn't see that happen a lot.
Speaker 3 (49:29):
I never did.
Speaker 4 (49:29):
No, so you just finished out the day. It was
like I'm off you. Yeah, okay, that's respectful though, all right,
I feel you.
Speaker 3 (49:37):
Never have I ever told someone I love you without
meaning it?
Speaker 5 (49:44):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (49:45):
That's different forms of love though.
Speaker 3 (49:47):
You know what love.
Speaker 5 (49:47):
I'm talking about a relationship love in love with you.
Speaker 3 (49:52):
I'm telling you that and I'm not and I don't
mean it.
Speaker 1 (49:56):
Everybody I told I love because that's hard for me.
I ain't telling nobody I love that. I don't love you, know,
not like like because they're like I could say I
love you, but like if I say I'm in love
with you, that's different, you know what I'm saying. I
could say, I could tell any of my my, my
close friends, I love you, dog or a girl like
love you, I love you, but like in love is
(50:18):
two different loves and loving somebody because it just is,
you know what I'm saying. You know the difference. So
never have I ever Damn, I wish I had this
prepared like you have them. You have, oh yeah on
(50:39):
my phone right here, let me see. But I want
to think of a unique one. I gotta think of
a unique one.
Speaker 3 (50:45):
Lord, all right.
Speaker 1 (50:49):
Never have I ever went out on a date without
my makeup or weave?
Speaker 5 (50:59):
No, I'm that before. Yeah, like if it was my
man and we go out, like I don't wear makeup
every day to dinner though, Yeah, I don't wear makeup
of a man.
Speaker 3 (51:10):
I don't wear a weave.
Speaker 4 (51:11):
But man, that's tough on these girls. That's tough. I'm
actually girls ain't doing that.
Speaker 3 (51:17):
I posted that I go.
Speaker 1 (51:18):
To the gym, and girls got full makeup that gym.
That's crazy.
Speaker 5 (51:23):
I went to I posted something the other day on
Instagram story and I didn't have any makeup on, and
I was just talking about something and like the amount
of people who are like, you're so pretty without makeup,
your freckles, you're this Like, I don't like to wear
makeup like that, and if it's a hot day, I
won't wear a makeup at all.
Speaker 4 (51:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (51:40):
I have a lot of freckles.
Speaker 4 (51:42):
They don't like the show.
Speaker 3 (51:44):
I do show them. I show them all the time.
You've seen them.
Speaker 4 (51:47):
I remember, I'm so sick.
Speaker 5 (51:51):
This is a sick bigger man, this is a sick one.
Speaker 4 (51:59):
You crazy, all right, Okay?
Speaker 3 (52:03):
Never have this is just out the blue.
Speaker 5 (52:06):
Never have I ever thought about someone else by while
having sex with another person.
Speaker 4 (52:14):
That's tough.
Speaker 3 (52:18):
That's sick.
Speaker 4 (52:19):
I had to close my eyes and be like.
Speaker 2 (52:21):
Oh.
Speaker 3 (52:24):
Have you done it?
Speaker 4 (52:25):
To be honest, that's crazy though.
Speaker 1 (52:29):
That's why I think a man man that's tough. For
a man, it's easier for a woman than a man
to do that, because a man, when he in the
middle of it an action and so he just gone
full throttle and just be you know, he I don't
think he gonna No, that's tough for a man. This
is more women do that.
Speaker 3 (52:49):
Yeah for sure.
Speaker 1 (52:50):
Yeah yeah, okay, So never have I ever? Have you ever?
Speaker 3 (53:01):
No?
Speaker 4 (53:02):
Let me see damn, that's like, this is a good one.
Speaker 3 (53:04):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (53:06):
Uh have you walked out of a man in the
middle of a date? Maybe like I'm out of here?
This is weak.
Speaker 3 (53:16):
Almost, But I didn't do it. No, no, no, but
I kind of just like I got like I'm good. Yeah,
I know I never did it, but I for show
rapped it short. And even when I went to the bathroom, he.
Speaker 5 (53:30):
Was like, I thought you were going to leave, and
I'm like, but he was, he was crazy.
Speaker 1 (53:36):
No, but what I'm saying, have you ever like? Okay,
so another one like, have you ever like supposed to
meet up with a guy and then you you're just
like I'm on the way and you said I'm here,
but you wasn't there or so like like he was
gassed up.
Speaker 4 (53:52):
Like I'll beat here in a second and he was there. Wait,
no you and you just didn't show up.
Speaker 3 (54:07):
Okay, I'm gonna drink.
Speaker 5 (54:12):
It wasn't a situation where I was trying to stand
anybody up.
Speaker 3 (54:15):
It was a situation I don't.
Speaker 5 (54:17):
Even have nothing to di It wasn't even a situation
we're trying to stand anybody.
Speaker 3 (54:21):
Yeah, yeah, I told you that story.
Speaker 5 (54:23):
I was just you know, I was just going through
a lot, okay, And I apologize to that person because
it wasn't like that, and I actually with that person.
So anyways, let's see, let's do like one more each
and then we're done. Never have I ever entertained someone
(54:45):
else while I was in a committed relationship.
Speaker 4 (54:51):
I think we all have done that.
Speaker 3 (54:53):
No, we have not all done that?
Speaker 5 (54:56):
Like the fuck is wrong with you?
Speaker 1 (55:09):
Come on, now, don't do that? What does that mean?
Entertain somebody else? What does that mean? First of all,
entertain like talk to somebody.
Speaker 5 (55:20):
Do something that your partner wouldn't want, you wouldn't want
them to see you doing.
Speaker 4 (55:24):
Apologize, Yeah I did that.
Speaker 3 (55:26):
Okay, what's your Never have I ever You got one?
And then we're done. Oh, make it.
Speaker 4 (55:32):
Good, make it good so for you. Never have I ever.
Speaker 1 (55:40):
Introduced my date or boyfriend to somebody that I slept with.
Speaker 3 (55:50):
No, I never did that before someone I slept with.
Speaker 4 (55:54):
Or had like a sexual encounter with.
Speaker 1 (55:56):
Maybe oost he met somebody that you did, and it
was because of you.
Speaker 4 (56:10):
Drink, drink.
Speaker 5 (56:12):
Because I'm trying to I don't think I did that.
Speaker 4 (56:16):
Drinking too long.
Speaker 3 (56:17):
I'm drinking too long.
Speaker 4 (56:18):
You're taking too long on me.
Speaker 3 (56:19):
No, I don't think I did that. I don't think
I've done that. I don't think I've done that.
Speaker 1 (56:23):
You don't think or you know, because this is you're
with a guy or dating a guy.
Speaker 4 (56:29):
And you're like, hey, this is uh, this is him.
Speaker 3 (56:36):
So like, let's for instance, like.
Speaker 4 (56:38):
I just said it. You don't have to.
Speaker 3 (56:39):
I just told you to see how you talk to me,
See how you talk.
Speaker 5 (56:42):
To mend see how you talk to me, because to
see how you talk.
Speaker 1 (56:46):
To me, you're beating around the question, be like yeah,
I said it. So it's a yes or no.
Speaker 3 (56:53):
I don't think so. No, I don't know because I
can't recall.
Speaker 4 (56:58):
Then it's a bit.
Speaker 3 (57:00):
I plead the fifth. I'm not lying.
Speaker 4 (57:02):
I'll thank y'all. Another elisos all like tonight.
Speaker 1 (57:07):
I mean, huh, No, I was just trying to close
us out.
Speaker 4 (57:16):
You do a good job.
Speaker 3 (57:17):
You can take the lead.
Speaker 4 (57:18):
No, you good? You good? I like what you take.
Speaker 3 (57:22):
Now you like when I take? Okay, thank you everybody
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Speaker 4 (58:01):
Night, your sister taking over the game.
Speaker 1 (58:27):
All right, everybody, welcome to Truth after Dark.
Speaker 3 (58:31):
Do you think that men or women are more toxic
We can reverse roles. Will be better at your role
than you will be at our role.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Like the fuck are you talking about? You put your
elbow to it, but you don't look at you.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
You're one hundred percent right. I love that for you. Okay, great, great, great, great?
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Get your husband one day. Now, everybody, you start agreeing
and stuff. Yeah, man, like that? You mind today that
I want to come? I want to come?
Speaker 5 (00:32):
Who Okay, Okay, I don't want to I'm not trying
to come like that.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
It's getting uncomfortable in here.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Yeah, yeah, I'm feisty because what are you saying under
your breath?
Speaker 4 (00:50):
You want to have a man one day? You can't
just react and be cool. Men don't like that.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Be cool. Don't tell me what men like beause I
it don't matter.
Speaker 4 (01:06):
Like, come on now, I don't be doing all that
what to.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
This is the taking over the game, all right? Everybody?
Welcome to Truth after Dark.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Do you think that men or women are more toxic?
Speaker 5 (01:52):
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Speaker 4 (02:41):
We didn't hit, we didn't hit hit, we didn't.
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Hit hit, and it's really cracking.
Speaker 5 (02:46):
So today we had some fan questions.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
We're going to start out with some just to get
get it going.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
So Love or Girl eighteen, which happens to be my
cousin Jordan, what are your thoughts on women keeping babies
that men say that they don't want.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Man, that's crazy. I mean, you know, at the end
of the day is no, it is. But at the
end of the day, you know, as a woman you
make the choice. You know, it's your body, it's what
you have to go through. It's what you have to
deal with, you know. And men feel like they should
(03:28):
have a say in it, but that's not the case.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
You know. Women are always going to have to final say.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
And you know, if you didn't want it, then you
shouldn't have went in that direction, you know what I'm saying.
And I know it goes both ways, and we always
say it go both ways, and it's fifty to fifty.
But man, if you ready to take on that responsibility
and will come with it, but like half the time,
I'm gonna tell you, like women don't know, you know
when they make that choice a lot of times, what
(04:00):
with bringing another person in the world, like the sacrifice,
the responsibility that come with it, that's a huge life
changing thing that it sounds amazing.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
And birth is another it's a thing.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
But if you ain't got your life together, if you
ain't got your priorities lined up, and you want to
bring another person into a world to where your world
is tricky, that's not really cool. So you really should
be thinking about that.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
And you know it should not be having sex if
you well.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
No, you should be on birth control and you are.
Speaker 5 (04:35):
Having you should be you should be protecting yourself, but
you should also be focused on yourself, Like, I just
don't feel like people should be like struggling that hard
and thinking about sex, Like you should be focused on yourself.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Maybe you need a break from having sex period.
Speaker 5 (04:50):
You shouldn't be exchanging your energies with people when you're
in a broken place or your life is not together,
Like if my life is in shambles, I'm not having sex.
And I also will say this, I think that I
feel like, as long as you're not having the baby,
because you're trying to keep a man, and you really
just feel like, I want to be a mother, whether
this man is in my life, whether he's not, this
(05:12):
is the baby. This is my baby, and you have
that baby, that's one thing. But if you think that
a ballheaded ass baby is going to keep your relationship
or keep a man, you are so wrong. Okay, people
who are actually in happy relationships struggle once they have
a child's so what you think is going to happen
with a man barely wants you right now, it's gonna
make him even more distant. Because people who are married,
(05:33):
who have incredible relationships, they have to go through therapy
and everything once they have a kid, you know what
I mean, because that changes the dynamic of a relationship
and it makes it much harder. So the fact that
you guys, a lot of women they do that to
keep the man and keep him around, whether you know whatever,
whether it's financial or anything else. But there's no really
(05:53):
amount of money that you can give anyone to decide
that you want to keep a baby for the wrong reasons.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
In my opinion, well.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
On that because I've experienced that. That's what you actually
talked about, you know, in love having a kid and married,
like you know, it does change the dynamic. And when
you talk about somebody who is not in love or
not together having a kid, that's a whole nother thing.
(06:22):
So like that's like damn, So you really should like
think about the whole being responsible. I think on both sides.
You know, you got to be more responsible. And I
can't put it all on a woman and I can't
put it all on the man. I just think as
a woman, it's your choice and you got to know
(06:43):
where you at in your life to where it's like, hey,
I can't I'm not ready for a kid. Although because
like a lot of women were like I want a kid.
I want a family, and a lot of the women
have kids just because they have kids and they feel
like time is running out.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Yeah, I know a lot of people say that.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
Who'll be like, you know, I'm gonna have this kid
right now because I'm this age, so I'm just gonna
have it, you know what I mean. And it's like
you end up being so miserable because you're just with
somebody to be with them, or you're in a baby
and I went on and you don't have a family,
and it's like my thing about children is this. I've
always felt motherly and nurturing, and I feel like I'm
(07:18):
nurturing to a lot of people in my life. But
I also always like now at this age because I
am an older lady, right, I do feel like you know,
for me, I decided that I do want to be
a mother, but I don't want to be a mother
at the cost of having a relationship that isn't in
alignment like me and the If I can't have a
(07:41):
relationship where me and the person have the same values,
the same foundation, we believe in the same just the
core important things, then for me, it's like the co
parenting situation is what's hard.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
It's not the kid.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
So I'm not going to put myself or set myself
up for failure when it comes to that.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
So if the situation ain't right, then it is what
it is. I'm cool.
Speaker 5 (08:03):
But anyways, let's move on to the next question at
Wavy Diamond.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
What's your biggest ick about yourself?
Speaker 4 (08:11):
I've been hearing itch a lot. What does that mean?
Speaker 3 (08:13):
You're such an I'm an older lady. It is like, ugh, like.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
Oh, so you're asking me what's my business about yourself?
Like what makes you cringe about yourself that you do that?
You're like, damn, I wish I wasn't didn't do that.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
Okay, that's okay, So like I can.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
Think I have one My biggest th about myself is
that I have a loud voice. And my dad has
a loud voice, and my sister has a lot of voice,
and when they talk, I'd be.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Like, yo, quiet down, like no one wants to hear
all that screaming.
Speaker 5 (08:49):
But then they're just loud, like my dad used to
be on the phone so loud and like yo, And
my sister does that same thing, and I'm like, girls,
shut up, Like she'll come into town and she'll be
staying like with me, and she'll be up because she
gets up at four or five am and she'll just
be on the phone so loud.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Okay, man, So the biggest of all myself. See, this
is the problem. Like if you have an ich about yourself,
should be trying to address that.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Yeah, but you you should. But the is you can
have something anyways, moving on to the next one.
Speaker 5 (09:30):
You should have some X you should have you should because.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
I moving on. Next question?
Speaker 4 (09:37):
What you what?
Speaker 5 (09:38):
No, next question, I'm moving on. I'm moving on. This
is crazy.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
Crazy that she was about to say.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Something as this is our last question.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
She's crazy. Oh my god, you what nothing? I do
have an about myself? Do what is? I hate the
fact that I fucking snore so loud.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
I can see that, right because I hate the people
who SNeW loud are just right.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
I love but it's molly every time. It's like if I,
you know, smoke hookah, has some drinks and stuff.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Man, and you don't snore unless you do those things.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
I don't really know. I mean I don't record myself sleeping,
so okay, I get. I mean, you know it is
what it is. You know. I'm I'm a big guy.
You know, most big guys that I know be snoring
like that. We need to go on a hibernation for
a little bit and then you know we're good.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (10:33):
So uh at smooth eighty five. What is your ultimate
deal breaker when dating?
Speaker 4 (10:41):
My ultimate deal breaker when dating? Yeah, damn.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
So we gotta get to the dating park. So I'm
really big on.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
Being on time. I don't like people messing with my time.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Like if you late, I'm like, really, that's like really,
it's really itching me. And like if you get like
if I say, like, let's go out, I got a
reservation with at eight o'clock and you get there, I
don't care if you get there at eight all five,
I'm over there. I'm kind of like irket about it.
I'm like, you know, you know, you know, damn, I
(11:17):
don't like my time being messed with. That's one thing.
And I'm not sure it's not a I said a
deal breaker, right, Yeah, that's a deal breaker, damn.
Speaker 4 (11:28):
All dating?
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Yes, all right, the deal breaker. If you can't kiss,
then I'm good. I'm good like being late. I probably
could deal with it. But the deal breaker is like, damn,
I'm kissing this week.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
You can't teach. I can tell someone.
Speaker 5 (11:49):
Because it's like you can show them, like move your tongue,
like okay, like this, you can grab.
Speaker 4 (11:54):
You be like different ones.
Speaker 5 (11:55):
Some be too aggressive, people too much, it's too much.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
Like relax yeah, like living much, tongue down the throat
to let it flow.
Speaker 4 (12:05):
So I don't know. I like.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
I like the intimacy of the like passionate kissing and stuff.
If you consistently, I'm like, because you're gonna know off
the first kiss.
Speaker 5 (12:16):
And you said, okay, your answer is done, okay good.
My biggest dating deal break here will probably be inconsistency.
I hate someone who's inconsistent or like doesn't their words
don't match their actions. If your words don't match your actions,
that's the biggest way that I'm not going to fuck
(12:37):
with you, because you didn't have to say that, Like you.
Speaker 4 (12:39):
Know, it's all get to dating. Then inconsistent.
Speaker 5 (12:43):
I'm saying, like, inconsistent consistency in your like what you
say versus what you do. I'm listening to you to
the dating part. If you were, I'm not saying you
don't inconsistent. You see me, but you say things and
you don't follow it through with actions. I don't like
when people do a lot of talking.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
You see that before the dating though.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
No, you don't always see that before the dating, Paul.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
During the conversation, yeah, but not all the time to
call you, don't call you back.
Speaker 5 (13:10):
I'm not talking about that kind of stuff. I'm not
talking about that. I'm not talking about that stuff. And
people have a representative. Have you ever heard of that
people have a representative? Everyone shows up with a representative, okay,
And when they have a representative that's not who they
really are, it takes it takes a few because because
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you kissed me, the yeah yeah, yeah, you're the piss
off mark is getting smaller though, it's getting smaller because
it's getting smaller, Paul. And it's like right here now
it used to be it used to be so much
more patience, but now I think it's just getting tighter
and tighter on that ass. So you gotta like, you
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gotta pull it together because I'm cool now you're not, though,
because you want to cut me off.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
From so aggressive.
Speaker 3 (14:03):
Okay, you know.
Speaker 5 (14:04):
How like people love to call black women aggressive when
they just want to talk. So you know what, whatever
I'm moving on from the conversation. So anyways, the way
your outfit looks, good.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Man, I ain't gonna like, Yo, you want a streak
right now, you're on a streak. I don't even lie.
Speaker 5 (14:28):
Well, last episode you said that I was giving state energy.
So now everyone on the internet believes that you think
I'm a whore and I'm just fucking.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
Man as soon as I see them. Yeah, well that's
what you say.
Speaker 4 (14:38):
It is what you may let back said the.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
Look, but I understand where our truth out the dark
and we dressed in sexy things, so it.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Was you're sexy, You're sexy.
Speaker 4 (14:51):
I'm feeling sexy.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Are you sexy?
Speaker 4 (14:52):
I'm feeling sexy right now, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (14:54):
I'm feeling looking right, Okay, Okay, you're in the still joints.
You got the slips, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, okay, yeah, okay, okay, okay.
So anyway, I'm moving on from this. So I want
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to talk about and I saw some people talking about
this online and it was trending like should a woman
show up as a wife before they have the ring?
Meaning if I'm in a relationship with a man and
I'm not his wife yet Should I be doing all
of the things though?
Speaker 3 (15:38):
Should I?
Speaker 5 (15:38):
Because there's there it's a it's a debate because some
people are like, okay, if you don't give a man
something to want to make you his wife, meaning like
where what does he get once you're married? If he's
getting everything right now? Like what's the incentive incentive of
marrying you if he can have everything without you even
being a wife, you know? Versus some people say, well,
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you do all these things because you're showing a man
like I am a wife. So there's this debate going
on where it's like do I already act like a
wife or I'm not giving this man anything and as
an incentive to marry like some women are like back
in the day where it's like you don't get no
cooochie unless you make me your girlfriend. So then a
man's like, well, I'm a maker my girlfriend, you know
what I mean, because I want to do that.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
And then now you have the commitment from that man.
Speaker 5 (16:26):
So then it's like, Okay, I'm gonna wait to give
him everything until he decides to marry me, so then
he can understand like as a wife. There's other things
that I'll do and I'll show up in different ways
for you as your wife, you'll get more from me.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
All right.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
So that's a great question. It's a loaded question, but
it's a great question. I will say this for you women.
Speaker 3 (16:50):
I think for you women, it's crazy.
Speaker 4 (16:54):
Go ahead, now I say female, you owe me?
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Now?
Speaker 3 (16:59):
Is how you say? Okay? Go go?
Speaker 4 (17:03):
The other week I said female, you say why you
say female?
Speaker 5 (17:06):
Now I say women, and you're right. I am sorry,
I'm sorry, I.
Speaker 4 (17:13):
Got some caramel. But all right, So great question.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Yes, Uh, those women that you're talking about that do
what you're talking about?
Speaker 3 (17:24):
Which part.
Speaker 1 (17:26):
Holding back and saying you'll get more? And then that's
some military type ship. Like you know what I'm saying.
I think you need to be who you are because
if you not who you are and you hold back
from a man, then he'll leave you. Like I want
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to see who you really are. I don't want to
put the ring on you. And then paperwork come into
play and then you become because it could go either way,
it can go left or right. Once the paperwork come
you can say all right, I'm gonna give you more
when get married. But then we get married, now you've
come into this. Now you put your big dog shoes on,
and now you're like holding everything back where he was
(18:09):
trying to convince me to I would be like this
if you marry me. Now, this is the problem that
women will do that to a man, to trap a man,
a marriya. Women to do this thing to a man
because they like the idea of being married, and they
got siblings and friends and parents. Now that I'm married,
I'm married now, so I'm an official, like you know,
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just the idea that America has put upon us that
like you're a solidified lady, you're a respectable lady because
you're married now, and women will soak that up and.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
Do that just for that yah and.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
Change for sure, you know what I'm saying, Like that's
weak as hell, Like, oh, I'm a wife. And then
you're looking down in your friends who ain't married, and
then you're looking down on your siblings who ain't married
or kid but you married. But now you've changed, so
now they him he's looking like, damn, I thought we
was getting married because I was gonna get all this
extra stuff, but really when everything just went the other way. Now,
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but you married because you like the ideal of getting
married and your social status. I will be that shouldn't
be an incentive. That should be be yourself, Be who
you really gonna be. You know what I'm saying, Let
me see who you are. Take take take that sheep's
clothing off, let me see the wolf in you. Let
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me see who you really are or are you really
a sheep?
Speaker 3 (19:32):
Like?
Speaker 4 (19:32):
Come on, be real.
Speaker 5 (19:34):
So this is what I will say, because there's a
lot of women who are like Cis, don't cook for
that man and do all this for that man when
you listen to what I'm saying, listen to what I'm
saying when he's just your girl, right, And then this
is what I will say. I think that there's a
lot of women who felt that because you're like, I'm
doing all these wifely things for a man who's not deserving.
But the problem that comes in with these conversations is
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there's a lot of women that choose the wrong men.
And when you're choosing the wrong man, you can have
a skewed opinion on how you should treat him because
you're true, you're with a man who treats you horribly,
may hit you, may do this, who may do that,
dogs you out and then you're like, I'll never do
that for a man. No, you should never do that
for that man. But when I speak, I speak from
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a space of a man that's deserving of my time,
I love, my energy and all of those things. So
at the end of the day, it's like, you should
only do that with a man who you love and respect,
and you should only be in a relationship with a
man you love and respect, period. So I think that
there is a space where you can show up as
that person, because I definitely show up as that person
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and I'm myself in relationships. But you have to know
who's deserving of your time and your energy. And that's
a problem with discernment, and that's a problem with not
understanding your worth. And I just want to put that
out there because so many women will be like, girl,
I'm not doing that for him.
Speaker 3 (20:53):
He da da da da da.
Speaker 5 (20:54):
That's because you're with a trifling man. You're with a bum,
you're with a dog.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
As I say about you, exactly birds of a feather flock, right,
that's a.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
Reflection of you.
Speaker 5 (21:05):
And I think that a lot of people when they
get with these fucked up people, they need to look
within themselves.
Speaker 3 (21:09):
Why am I attracting this person?
Speaker 5 (21:12):
There's either a weakness in me or something within me
that actually likes this behavior.
Speaker 3 (21:16):
And I need to check that.
Speaker 4 (21:19):
This is what I gotta say today. And this has
been on my mind.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
Okay, for all you men who stand up, men who
go out there and put your elbow into making a woman,
make sure she's straight and hard working and respectable, chest up,
cheering out men, and you really on the grind and
you really got ambition. Man, leave these little pretty girls alone. Bro,
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they don't put their elbow in it. I'm gonna keep
it one hundred over there looking at Oh she bad?
Oh look at her Instagram? Oh she a na, she'll no.
I'll get you a far six. Who's gonna put some
elbow into it? Ain't gonna be down for you on
some one hundred. You know what I'm saying. They gonna
look at you like why he with her? Don't worry
about whild with her, because she gonna do everything you
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ain't doing one hundred percent. That's the new way we
should be on fellas, Like, man, I forget all that
how you look when you with your arm around her?
Speaker 4 (22:20):
Now she ain't she ain't got no substance to her.
Speaker 3 (22:22):
She ain't.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
Man, it look good when you out and people see you,
all right, But then after that you go home, you arguing,
you ain't get no foot rubs, massage, You ain't getting
no food you like, Man, we off that. Now, this
is the new way. It's twenty twenty five, y'all. Don't
be embarrassed by your chick. Get you one that's gonna
get her elbow into it. Like, man, we good on
all that other stuff. Man, make her feel like a queen,
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her attitude of queen. But these other ones when they, oh,
it's all gliss and glamour, it's all shiny and look
all good. And when you in the window and it
look cool out when you out about, and when it's
my heind closed doors. Man, you miserable as hell, But
you get you like a five or six, maybe a seven.
Speaker 4 (23:03):
Baby squeeze a seven in the baby.
Speaker 1 (23:08):
Tooth and nail with you, hard hat with you, not
no blue collar ship.
Speaker 4 (23:12):
Man. I don't keep it one hundred.
Speaker 1 (23:14):
Man, I ain't like so your fellas out there got money,
don't got money? Man, the ones and this simmer I
put it into another form. Think about this if I'm
in the hood and I'm selling nickels. Right, I'm gonna
sell more nickels than hunts all day. They gonna keep coming.
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The hunt's gonna come once in a while, but you're
gonna have a dry spell. That's the same as having
a ten then having the fives, because the fire is
gonna keep They gonna keep going, you feel me.
Speaker 4 (23:46):
So that's what I gotta say about.
Speaker 3 (23:47):
I think it's all about attitude and who you choose. No,
it's not.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
Not.
Speaker 5 (23:51):
Every pretty woman is a fucking weirdo like you. Yeah,
saying that all good women and pretty women get you
a five?
Speaker 3 (24:00):
You a six.
Speaker 5 (24:00):
I get you someone you're attracted to that you fuck with, period,
point blank. Stop trying to great women on a scale.
How about you get someone that you actually attracted right,
I'm off the looks, Okay, then stop rating them as
a five or six, because I would hate to be
with a man who thought I was a five or six.
Speaker 4 (24:18):
I got with you.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
You don't look that great your fires.
Speaker 5 (24:20):
You're pretty average, but you put your elbow into I
wish I wish a man would like, the.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
Fuck are you talking about? You put your elbow to it,
but you don't look that get you somebody else, because
I wish you would like that's crazy.
Speaker 3 (24:44):
Let me tell you. Let me tell you a story
of that. I'll never forget. I have my ex had
a friend. He was an NBA player, right boom. He
had a wedding and everything with this girl.
Speaker 5 (24:54):
Mind you, his baby mama is a model whatever whatever
like light and girl, all the curly hair or whatever.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
Has made mama. The girl that he's.
Speaker 5 (25:05):
With, looks you know, like to me, I think she's
a beautiful girl, but like she's obvious like busting. Just
say it's yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, But she's not busted.
Speaker 3 (25:18):
No, she's not. She's not busted.
Speaker 1 (25:19):
I think.
Speaker 4 (25:22):
The point is all right, she's a six.
Speaker 5 (25:25):
He would come around me and my ex and he
would sit there at our house and he'd be like, man,
let me take some bizarre and I'll.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
Be like, what's that?
Speaker 1 (25:32):
Like.
Speaker 3 (25:32):
The thing is is like I'm not attracted to her
right physically.
Speaker 4 (25:37):
So she caught me, you know, fucking.
Speaker 5 (25:39):
Around, but she knows it's okay because she does other
things and she brings other things to the table. But
I don't physically. I just don't want her, you know what.
I mean, but like we're married, this is my wife.
But like if you look at my baby mama though,
that's my type. And he would just say this, and
I'll be like, oh, Like, if I'm ever with a
man who feels like I'm not the best at his
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motherfucking bitch, don't be with me.
Speaker 3 (26:02):
Don't be with me. Don't be with me.
Speaker 5 (26:03):
Don't be me because I'm putting my elbow into it.
Speaker 3 (26:06):
Like I'm not putting my elbow into Listen.
Speaker 4 (26:09):
And listen to this. He's an idiot. You know why.
Speaker 1 (26:15):
You know why he's an idiot to say he's not
physically attracted to you, because when somebody is mentally attracted
to somebody, you physically attracted.
Speaker 3 (26:26):
Yeah, you could say this.
Speaker 4 (26:29):
You speak, you spoke, Okay, No.
Speaker 3 (26:31):
Don't point at me. Do not point at me. Do not.
I'm saying this attitude today because I'm.
Speaker 5 (26:38):
Going they're telling me that I got to stand up
to you.
Speaker 4 (26:42):
You're just standing up to nothing.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
Tony said, I had to stand up cal.
Speaker 4 (26:48):
Got.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
But what I'm saying is when you're mentally stimulated by somebody,
the physical attraction is way better.
Speaker 3 (26:59):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
And somebody who looked like they got the perfect body.
But can I speak today?
Speaker 3 (27:06):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (27:06):
Yes, hard today?
Speaker 3 (27:08):
Okay, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (27:08):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (27:09):
If I be coming at you hard and you feel
a certain way and you gotta you know, you gotta
exploit your masculinity today, I'm sorry. You gotta do that today,
all right, But I'm just trying to get a point
across that. Like she could be SpongeBob square Pants, but
if she mentally got me, I don't give a damn.
(27:31):
I'm gonna be physically mentally attracted to work man, because
it's ones out there like that, and you're gonna look
at a dude that that look cracking, and you're gonna
look and you're gonna look how you look, and you
a bad one? Like why she with him? Because you
can't do the things mentally to him that he needs you.
(27:53):
Just an outside attraction. You were outerly looks, and that's
gonna wear off. That's gonna wear off when I'm sitting
on when you didn't been with somebody so many times.
Speaker 4 (28:02):
That's gonna wear off.
Speaker 1 (28:03):
When we sit on the couch and we ain't got
nothing to talk about it, and you ain't got nothing to
do around now, and you ain't that's gonna wear off,
I'm telling.
Speaker 5 (28:10):
You, but it also wears oftentimes when you're not mentally
into someone and you look at them, you're like you
are not cute. Like I've been with someone that I'm
just like, you are not attractive, and I'm looking at
them when.
Speaker 3 (28:19):
We're sitting on the couch and I look over and I'm.
Speaker 5 (28:21):
Just like, ooh, this is an ugly motherfucking boy. And
the thing is, it's okay. I like to be with
ugly man. Actually I like medium ugly men, because I
don't like a man that's like looking in the mirror
more than me and all this. But I just want
to say this, calm down, you go no, because I
have to hurry up and say don't.
Speaker 3 (28:37):
But you just us don't tell me.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
Down.
Speaker 4 (28:41):
I'm sorry. Just like talk. I'm talking Paul yelling at me, though.
Speaker 3 (28:47):
I wasn't yelling.
Speaker 4 (28:49):
The people in the comments say yes, okay.
Speaker 3 (28:51):
Okay, the people that you want me to talk about.
What the people say.
Speaker 5 (28:54):
We're talking people in the comments. Now you want to
condone the people so they can go dude, I'm saying
that sometimes too. I do believe that the mental attraction
is important, and I will say this, there's a lot
of pretty women who get cheated on by men, and
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the women that they cheat on with look crazy, and
there's a reason for that because they're listening to them.
They're not entitled, they're doing things for them, they're cooking
for them. And that's why the men always shoot with
these women that look a mess, because it's like they're
doing the things that other women who feel like entitled
are not willing to do, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (29:36):
And yes, because we're giving you the answers to the
test and you still failing. And that's why they're doing that.
We give you the answers to the test, and you
still fail. So when you say stuff like that, like yeah,
they're going with these other girls because they're listening and
(29:57):
doing Yeah, that's the yeah, because I gave you the
answers and you how y'all give you the answers is
right here and you still put b with it's a
like come on, now, come but I don't even make
those sense that that's crazy, So you know there is
a disconnecting. So like moving forward in twenty twenty five,
twenty six, fellas, it's time for us to hold in
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the whole go into a whole nother direction. All these
barbies that y'all think is barbies. Waan't really like that
all these wow, our babies will be cute. All that
throw out out the window, bro, because you're gonna be
in a lifetime of hell being with them. This what
you have to understand. Like, there's a market for everything. Yeah,
(30:44):
So there's men in the world that like obest ladies,
there's men in the world that like skinny ladies. There's
there's a type for everybody. And there's men in the
world that like the girls that get the booths and
the It's just is what it is, and you have
to deal with that. So don't have to That's just
(31:06):
what it is. I go to the supermarket and there's
ten lanes and like, I like what I like over
here is like like how we eat our.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
Food, but what is the supermarket?
Speaker 1 (31:25):
So there's people who like meat, and there's people that
are vegetarians. There's people who are pesscatarians. Don't get mad
at the people who like the stuff you're reacting today
(31:45):
like I don't. Let's changed keep saying, so I don't
get mad at them. Don't call them out and say
you use ms.
Speaker 4 (31:55):
We be the man. No, that's just what they like.
Speaker 3 (31:58):
No, they like meat. So, like you said, there's men
who like me, there's men like.
Speaker 4 (32:03):
That's just what they like. Don't get mad at them.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
I'm not mad.
Speaker 5 (32:06):
I just want men who bash women online all day
to be realistic that they may not want.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
If that's what they do, they're consistently doing that, then
let them do that.
Speaker 3 (32:15):
I am. I'm just saying that.
Speaker 1 (32:16):
There's women who bash women too. Yeah, okay, does that
mean what? What does that mean? There's women that bash
men that like men? Still not really, that's the topic
of conversations in all girls groups. Y'all go get together,
go to dinner, bash y'all, men's go home and have
sleep with y'all men like.
Speaker 3 (32:38):
Come on now, First of all, I'm talking about when
women bashed men is based off of.
Speaker 1 (32:42):
The topic of conversation every day amongst women's groups.
Speaker 4 (32:47):
Is that not the truth?
Speaker 1 (32:48):
So don't try to put it on us and say
if we bashing women that we should like man.
Speaker 4 (32:53):
Y'all bash men every day. That's all.
Speaker 1 (32:55):
That's all y'all can really talk about when y'all get together.
When I watch these Real Housewives or whatever about watching
all them all they do is go out and bash
their men.
Speaker 4 (33:02):
But they go home to their men.
Speaker 5 (33:04):
But you're comparing regular women to a reality show based.
Speaker 3 (33:10):
To create it and scripted to to.
Speaker 1 (33:11):
Create a steakhouse tonight, and they'd be like a woman
full of eight at a table.
Speaker 4 (33:17):
What they talking about? What you think the subject of
the conversation.
Speaker 3 (33:20):
Is okay, But even if it is men, the point.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
Is, y'all ain't talking about Hey, girl, I was at work.
We got this billion dollar corporation. Now y'all over here
bashing men every time?
Speaker 3 (33:31):
Okay, great, moving on. What would you like to talk about? Now?
Speaker 4 (33:35):
What's on the key car?
Speaker 3 (33:38):
You are whatever you win, I don't care. That's not
my point.
Speaker 5 (33:42):
My point is is that women talk about men from
a different standpoint. Women talk about when there's men on
the internet infatuated with bringing down women, when men are
supposed to be leaders. Men and women are not equal.
I am not equal to a man, period, point blank.
Men are superior. Men are leaders. Men were supposed to
follow you. Men are supposed to create the energy. Men
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are not with this the world I live in. I
create the world I live in. So at the end
of the day, when I see men who are not
in that space. And I'm supposed to look to you
to lead, I'm supposed to look to you to build.
I'm supposed to look to you to create this world
that we live in because men created this world, because
they built.
Speaker 3 (34:18):
This shit, they did all of this.
Speaker 5 (34:20):
Men are leaders and they're superior, period, point blank. So me,
as a woman who knows that and knows that I'm
not equal to a man, I look at a man
to be superior.
Speaker 3 (34:29):
So stop comparing a man to a woman. You just
did that and that's not the case.
Speaker 5 (34:34):
So a man who's sitting there bashing women who while
women bring y'all niggas into this world, check yourself, because
we're looking to you.
Speaker 3 (34:44):
Trust me.
Speaker 5 (34:45):
All of this shit that was created and everything that's
going on where women are city girls and talking shit
about men's because of y'all. All these women who are
getting bbls because they don't feel good about your their
body is because of y'all. It's because y'all talk about
a certain body type and because y'all categorize women with Spongebild,
square pass and nobody as a five or a four
and make women feel low about themselves. So don't ever
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get that twisted. Men are the ones.
Speaker 3 (35:10):
Why are you laughing?
Speaker 5 (35:11):
I'm The point is is men sit here and talk
about how women are not equal to men all day
and I agree with that. They hate feminists because feminist
feels like men and women are equal. So at the
end of the day, if y'all want to claim to
be the superior person, and you guys are leaders, and
you guys are the ones who build this and more this,
then you guys would be so surprised if y'all shifted
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how the way you talk about women, how you treat women,
how you describe women, And if you shifted that, you
would see how other things would follow behind that.
Speaker 4 (35:39):
You know, the thing is about man and women.
Speaker 3 (35:43):
Yes, please tell me, like.
Speaker 1 (35:46):
We can reverse roles. Will be better at your role,
then you will be at our role.
Speaker 3 (35:54):
You mean men. So wait, listen, listen, I'm trying to
hear it.
Speaker 1 (35:59):
Listen, Like now we say women, y'all do what we do,
and we'll do what you do.
Speaker 4 (36:05):
We can do what y'all do.
Speaker 3 (36:09):
So y'all could be feminine.
Speaker 4 (36:11):
Listen to what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (36:12):
We can do y'all roles as women like y'all don't
do the heavy lifting. Y'all not gonna build the Staples Center. Yeah,
y'all like we can't get a thousand women to build
the pyramids we like, but men, we can do the women's.
Speaker 4 (36:30):
Roles all day.
Speaker 3 (36:33):
That's not true.
Speaker 4 (36:34):
What you mean tell me something that a man came.
Speaker 5 (36:36):
A man can't tap into the emotions like a woman
can and be as nurturing as a woman. And that's
the fact. A man can't breastfeed a motherfucking child. A
man can't give birth to children and populate the motherfucking universe.
Speaker 3 (36:48):
Get okay, So y'all can y'all can give virtual people?
Y'all can? This universe will die? You just said physical labor?
Speaker 4 (36:56):
You physical, so we can't give birth.
Speaker 5 (36:59):
But I'm saying, oh, that's the biggest thing, right, So
you killed it off. What else can you do as
a woman because you can't give birth and that's the
main thing a woman does, So keep it above. Okay, Yeah,
try because you're really bad at it, and so.
Speaker 4 (37:13):
Is most men.
Speaker 5 (37:15):
Most men are not naturally nurturius. You can't try, But
y'all are not tapped into emotions the same. When y'all
deal with something, you're like, Okay, I'm a problem.
Speaker 3 (37:22):
Solve it.
Speaker 5 (37:22):
It's gonna be all right. Like, I never had a
conversation with any man, including you, where you can give
advice and you're great and you're all of that, but
you're not sitting there really digging deep with a woman
and being, like you just said on the last episode
when a woman cries and kills the fucking mood and
you hate that, Like, let's keep it real so a
woman can listen to a motherfucker cry.
Speaker 3 (37:42):
No, because you try to come for me.
Speaker 4 (37:44):
All you like when I come for you.
Speaker 3 (37:52):
You come for me every second that I'm.
Speaker 5 (37:53):
Liveing, you come for me, and I never said for you.
Speaker 4 (38:00):
I'm not coming for you.
Speaker 3 (38:01):
Well, I'm coming for you today.
Speaker 4 (38:02):
Your mind today that.
Speaker 3 (38:04):
I want to come, I want to come.
Speaker 4 (38:07):
Whoa? That was crazy?
Speaker 1 (38:09):
That was that was wid That was crazy.
Speaker 4 (38:14):
Oh damn.
Speaker 5 (38:15):
Okay, Okay, I don't want to whoa. I'm not trying
to come like that.
Speaker 4 (38:20):
It's getting uncomfortable in here.
Speaker 3 (38:25):
I didn't mean I wanted to come Jesus.
Speaker 5 (38:27):
Okay, okay, okay, literally anyways, okay.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
Getting hot here, uncomfortable. Let's go along with you. He's
spicy tonight.
Speaker 3 (38:45):
I was spy because I wore the bread. I had
to get spicy.
Speaker 4 (38:48):
You must be going out tonight.
Speaker 5 (38:50):
Well, I don't ask about my personal life. So anyways,
I'm moving on because.
Speaker 3 (38:57):
Crazy, I'm crazy.
Speaker 5 (38:59):
I might be a little crazy, but I will say
that like everything I do and everything I say is
from a love and place in this place, this show
would be this show will be boring.
Speaker 3 (39:08):
People don't understand that I did it cut up the
way that I did it.
Speaker 4 (39:11):
I didn't cut up.
Speaker 3 (39:12):
And then you want to get on your phone.
Speaker 1 (39:14):
I was looking at ok Yeah, I was like, you know,
I was trying to figure out. Uh, I mean, we
have such a good dynamic. It's not we don't even
need to keep cars, truthfully. But I'll just set up
then we tap into everything, you know.
Speaker 5 (39:28):
Yeah, so one last question that I was going to
ask you, and then we can go into playing a.
Speaker 3 (39:34):
Little game that we have.
Speaker 5 (39:35):
Okay, So, so you feel like a woman should act
as a wife prior to getting married.
Speaker 3 (39:42):
Do you feel the same for a man like he
should show up?
Speaker 1 (39:45):
You should be yourself and not think about it, because
when you start holding things back, like if you love,
if you're in a relationship and you love somebody, then
everything is going to show you know what I'm saying,
you can't go on. But the ones who hold back,
(40:06):
you don't love that person. You just you just like
the thought of being a relationship, and you like the
thought of being with a man or a woman, and
like true love is letting go and you're really not
gonna be thinking about all that other stuff, like I
ain't gonna give him this to myn I ain't gonna
be cooking.
Speaker 3 (40:23):
We're talking about the man. Stop going back to the women.
I asked your question about.
Speaker 4 (40:27):
All right, so the man on. Men don't do that.
Men don't hold nothing back. We like you because we
want to be with you.
Speaker 1 (40:38):
Unconditionally, okay, and women be with us under a condition.
It's just what it is. Oh, he ain't driving this.
I don't like him because he's driving that. That's crazy.
A man, you you you got a bug. A ma
ain't gonna still mess with you. You got you walking,
you catching on the bus.
Speaker 4 (40:58):
Stop.
Speaker 3 (41:00):
But let's not talk about financial.
Speaker 5 (41:02):
What it is a lot of men are gonna mess
with you if the physical is not there.
Speaker 4 (41:06):
It's not true. That's totally not true.
Speaker 3 (41:10):
So you think that a man.
Speaker 4 (41:13):
Gonna mess with a woman because he really like her
and really.
Speaker 3 (41:15):
Yeah, but there's conditions to that, because.
Speaker 4 (41:17):
It's a conditions.
Speaker 3 (41:18):
Okay, so if I'm two hundred eighty pounds, you're still
go with me.
Speaker 4 (41:20):
Two hundred and eighty. You didn't been with a man
you when.
Speaker 5 (41:23):
You were say you want to be with a woman
who was too eighty? Yes, you mull take he said that.
He said that that's lazy. I don't like that. That's
a different type of laziness. And I would never be
with a woman like that. You said that you could
pull up the clip all right.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
If I did say that, then that would probably be
some of the reasons of that. Well, because if she
I think, they're like, she's not motivated, because I'm a
motivated the condition more like me. People say things like
motivation is not a condition, like motive, Like.
Speaker 5 (41:59):
You're not motivated is the biggest condition. If a woman
said that to the man, you'd be like, wow, woman
said he's.
Speaker 4 (42:04):
Not motivated the money life, that's.
Speaker 5 (42:07):
Likely, and so is a man being like ship together.
You shouldn't have.
Speaker 1 (42:11):
Nothing to do with what I have or got. This
is a life trade. I want somebody that's motivated like
you could be too eighty. But if you that's telling
me something I said a lot like, all right, let
me see if you if you can be too eddy
and I can message you, but if you showing me
you working toward doing better for yourself.
Speaker 3 (42:31):
There's conditions. Okay, there's conditions.
Speaker 1 (42:34):
I have heart attacks. It's people that's diabetic, but overweighth. Yeah,
so I think as me being a health conscious dude,
work toward being better.
Speaker 4 (42:46):
Man.
Speaker 3 (42:47):
Come on, there's conditions, my love.
Speaker 1 (42:50):
But that has nothing to do about money and your
status and your kind of car you drive like most women.
Speaker 5 (42:56):
But women want a man that's motivated to that's not lazy.
And as a man, what is the leading thing that
men want is money? So if you they has nothing
to do with how much money you have is it
has everything to do with confidence.
Speaker 3 (43:07):
Broke men are not confident.
Speaker 5 (43:09):
They usually hate themselves and they hate the other motherfuckers
around them.
Speaker 3 (43:13):
A lot of broke men lack confidence.
Speaker 4 (43:15):
That's not true. Okay, you're telling me when I was
in high school.
Speaker 5 (43:19):
You were in high school, Paul, You were never grown
ass man. You were never You don't know how that feels.
Speaker 4 (43:26):
To be in the hood that walk around there like
they got a million.
Speaker 1 (43:31):
Yeah, but they gonna yeah, what's happening?
Speaker 4 (43:36):
Never know like men, we don't move like y'all.
Speaker 5 (43:39):
There's a lot of men who do, though you I've
seen it on our first hand.
Speaker 3 (43:43):
I've seen it and.
Speaker 4 (43:46):
Don't have confidence.
Speaker 5 (43:47):
Not every man. I can't speak for every person in
the world. When I'm speaking for a lot of men.
Speaker 1 (43:51):
Black man, we're the most confident in the world. We
move like that, were kings out here.
Speaker 3 (43:57):
There's a lot of black men kings out here.
Speaker 1 (43:59):
We walk out here, white tea whatever, jeez broke, but
were moving like yeah, yeah, what's happening. You better recognize girl,
you're out here. You I don't know what world you
live in, Shue, you must be on the where you
be in the suburbs. Just trying to tell you when
the hood man kings out here, better recognize that shoe.
Speaker 4 (44:23):
I'm telling you the truth from the truth.
Speaker 3 (44:28):
Okay, Paul, you're one hundred percent, You're one hundred percent right.
I love that for you. Okay, great, great, great, great,
thank you. Anyways, we're moving on to the segment like that.
Speaker 4 (44:40):
You talk like that, we're moving on to get your
husband one day.
Speaker 5 (44:44):
Please don't talk to me and moving on to the
next thing we're going to talk about.
Speaker 3 (44:49):
We're gonna play No, I do not like you.
Speaker 4 (44:52):
Qualities. Can you start agreeing and stuff? Yeah? Man't like that.
I'm gonna all right, let's talk.
Speaker 1 (45:02):
Let's talk about you on your you, on your you
on your one two today? Yeah, you know you put
me back, pushed me back today. I like that feisty.
Speaker 3 (45:15):
Okay. Anyways, we're gonna play against. What's the game we're
gonna play?
Speaker 4 (45:20):
Well grown man, I don't really play games, but come on.
Speaker 5 (45:23):
We've played games on this show multiple times. So now
you want to say that's the little comments, I can't.
Speaker 4 (45:29):
Let's do it.
Speaker 3 (45:30):
Okay, So we're gonna play it. And we haven't played
this game in a while. Last time we played this
game on had to click. That still going viral to
this day. So I'm gonna tread lightly. Never have I ever. Huh.
What's the little under the breath? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I'm
feisty because what are you saying under your breath?
Speaker 1 (45:49):
I want to have a man one day. You can't
just react and on.
Speaker 3 (45:56):
Cool.
Speaker 4 (46:00):
Don't like that?
Speaker 3 (46:00):
Be cool? Don't tell me what man like because I don't.
It don't matter, like.
Speaker 4 (46:05):
Come on now, I don't be doing all that.
Speaker 1 (46:09):
What trip tripping got a calm down?
Speaker 4 (46:19):
Stupid twisted out here, that's show question.
Speaker 5 (46:26):
First of all, you are, you are different. I'm dealing
with someone who comes from me on a daily basis.
So you don't have me in my feminine. You don't
have me in my femininity because you say I'm a
wounded doug, I first night energy, I'm an older.
Speaker 3 (46:39):
Lady, I'm cooked.
Speaker 5 (46:41):
How many times you tell me you ain't you come
for me and everyone sees it. So when I'm around you,
I'm not feminine, but trusted belle. When'm around my motherfucking
man baby, it's giving femininity all day.
Speaker 3 (46:51):
Baby.
Speaker 4 (46:51):
What do you need?
Speaker 3 (46:52):
What do you want? What do you like? It's giving submission,
it's giving all of those things.
Speaker 5 (46:55):
But around you, you have me in my masculine because
I have a defense up and I have a hard up.
Speaker 3 (47:00):
Because you don't give that for me. You're not giving me.
Speaker 5 (47:03):
Oh, I can let loose and be my Femilye because
every minute you're coming from me left right, left, right
up for job under kept.
Speaker 4 (47:09):
We're in a podcast.
Speaker 5 (47:11):
We're in a podcast exactly, So don't compare to my
life and who I have in my man and what
I do to this.
Speaker 3 (47:17):
Okay, thank you.
Speaker 5 (47:19):
Never have I ever disretracted someone so bad on a pod.
Speaker 1 (47:24):
Go ahead on a podcast like you See how you
talk like that to me? And I'm cool under pressure?
See that I'll just take cool.
Speaker 3 (47:33):
Well, yeah, and I and hopefully.
Speaker 4 (47:35):
Then I come back with the game winner.
Speaker 3 (47:37):
Yeah. I hope that I can learn from you and
you can leave me as a man, you know, and
allow me to be in my feminine anymore when I'm
around you.
Speaker 5 (47:44):
Yeah, whoa, whoa, No, No, I'm saying while we're on
this pH as my co host on this podcast.
Speaker 3 (47:53):
You know what I'm saying, like leading.
Speaker 5 (47:55):
Me in that direction so I can feel more like
I could let my gown, I could be softer, and
I appreciate that.
Speaker 3 (48:04):
And I want to be better too, because I don't
want to come like that. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (48:08):
We're gonna work on it, Okay, you talking about Never
have I ever stayed in a relationship with someone I
knew I would never marry.
Speaker 3 (48:18):
All Right, so you drink if you have done that,
I'm gonna drink too.
Speaker 4 (48:26):
Mm hmmm, Damn I did.
Speaker 3 (48:32):
Damn you got one or no, I have one.
Speaker 4 (48:35):
Well damn, you didn't give me no. Oh okay, okay,
never have ever? Yeah okay, so.
Speaker 3 (48:41):
We just played it any drink Okay, So damn Never
have I ever?
Speaker 1 (48:49):
Never have I ever? This is for you, I'm telling you. Yeah,
all right, so this is directed towards you. Right, yeah, okay.
So never have I ever went out with one guy
and left with another guy?
Speaker 3 (49:05):
I never did that?
Speaker 4 (49:06):
What? No, Okay, so drink.
Speaker 3 (49:10):
I never did that, meaning did that drink? Here you go.
See what I'm saying. I got to put.
Speaker 4 (49:18):
I never went out on a date with one guy.
Speaker 1 (49:20):
He was tricky, Yeah, he was turned off, but then
you saw another dude like, man, let's go somewhere else.
Speaker 4 (49:26):
Never I didn't see that happen a lot.
Speaker 3 (49:29):
I never did.
Speaker 4 (49:29):
No, so you just finished out the day. It was
like I'm off you. Yeah, okay, that's respectful though, all right,
I feel you.
Speaker 3 (49:37):
Never have I ever told someone I love you without
meaning it?
Speaker 5 (49:44):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (49:45):
That's different forms of love though.
Speaker 3 (49:47):
You know what love.
Speaker 5 (49:47):
I'm talking about a relationship love in love with you.
Speaker 3 (49:52):
I'm telling you that and I'm not and I don't
mean it.
Speaker 1 (49:56):
Everybody I told I love because that's hard for me.
I ain't telling nobody I love that. I don't love you, know,
not like like because they're like I could say I
love you, but like if I say I'm in love
with you, that's different, you know what I'm saying. I
could say, I could tell any of my my, my
close friends, I love you, dog or a girl like
love you, I love you, but like in love is
(50:18):
two different loves and loving somebody because it just is,
you know what I'm saying. You know the difference. So
never have I ever Damn, I wish I had this
prepared like you have them. You have, oh yeah on
(50:39):
my phone right here, let me see. But I want
to think of a unique one. I gotta think of
a unique one.
Speaker 3 (50:45):
Lord, all right.
Speaker 1 (50:49):
Never have I ever went out on a date without
my makeup or weave?
Speaker 5 (50:59):
No, I'm that before. Yeah, like if it was my
man and we go out, like I don't wear makeup
every day to dinner though, Yeah, I don't wear makeup
of a man.
Speaker 3 (51:10):
I don't wear a weave.
Speaker 4 (51:11):
But man, that's tough on these girls. That's tough. I'm
actually girls ain't doing that.
Speaker 3 (51:17):
I posted that I go.
Speaker 1 (51:18):
To the gym, and girls got full makeup that gym.
That's crazy.
Speaker 5 (51:23):
I went to I posted something the other day on
Instagram story and I didn't have any makeup on, and
I was just talking about something and like the amount
of people who are like, you're so pretty without makeup,
your freckles, you're this Like, I don't like to wear
makeup like that, and if it's a hot day, I
won't wear a makeup at all.
Speaker 4 (51:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (51:40):
I have a lot of freckles.
Speaker 4 (51:42):
They don't like the show.
Speaker 3 (51:44):
I do show them. I show them all the time.
You've seen them.
Speaker 4 (51:47):
I remember, I'm so sick.
Speaker 5 (51:51):
This is a sick bigger man, this is a sick one.
Speaker 4 (51:59):
You crazy, all right, Okay?
Speaker 3 (52:03):
Never have this is just out the blue.
Speaker 5 (52:06):
Never have I ever thought about someone else by while
having sex with another person.
Speaker 4 (52:14):
That's tough.
Speaker 3 (52:18):
That's sick.
Speaker 4 (52:19):
I had to close my eyes and be like.
Speaker 2 (52:21):
Oh.
Speaker 3 (52:24):
Have you done it?
Speaker 4 (52:25):
To be honest, that's crazy though.
Speaker 1 (52:29):
That's why I think a man man that's tough. For
a man, it's easier for a woman than a man
to do that, because a man, when he in the
middle of it an action and so he just gone
full throttle and just be you know, he I don't
think he gonna No, that's tough for a man. This
is more women do that.
Speaker 3 (52:49):
Yeah for sure.
Speaker 1 (52:50):
Yeah yeah, okay, So never have I ever? Have you ever?
Speaker 3 (53:01):
No?
Speaker 4 (53:02):
Let me see damn, that's like, this is a good one.
Speaker 3 (53:04):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (53:06):
Uh have you walked out of a man in the
middle of a date? Maybe like I'm out of here?
This is weak.
Speaker 3 (53:16):
Almost, But I didn't do it. No, no, no, but
I kind of just like I got like I'm good. Yeah,
I know I never did it, but I for show
rapped it short. And even when I went to the bathroom, he.
Speaker 5 (53:30):
Was like, I thought you were going to leave, and
I'm like, but he was, he was crazy.
Speaker 1 (53:36):
No, but what I'm saying, have you ever like? Okay,
so another one like, have you ever like supposed to
meet up with a guy and then you you're just
like I'm on the way and you said I'm here,
but you wasn't there or so like like he was
gassed up.
Speaker 4 (53:52):
Like I'll beat here in a second and he was there. Wait,
no you and you just didn't show up.
Speaker 3 (54:07):
Okay, I'm gonna drink.
Speaker 5 (54:12):
It wasn't a situation where I was trying to stand
anybody up.
Speaker 3 (54:15):
It was a situation I don't.
Speaker 5 (54:17):
Even have nothing to di It wasn't even a situation
we're trying to stand anybody.
Speaker 3 (54:21):
Yeah, yeah, I told you that story.
Speaker 5 (54:23):
I was just you know, I was just going through
a lot, okay, And I apologize to that person because
it wasn't like that, and I actually with that person.
So anyways, let's see, let's do like one more each
and then we're done. Never have I ever entertained someone
(54:45):
else while I was in a committed relationship.
Speaker 4 (54:51):
I think we all have done that.
Speaker 3 (54:53):
No, we have not all done that?
Speaker 5 (54:56):
Like the fuck is wrong with you?
Speaker 1 (55:09):
Come on, now, don't do that? What does that mean?
Entertain somebody else? What does that mean? First of all,
entertain like talk to somebody.
Speaker 5 (55:20):
Do something that your partner wouldn't want, you wouldn't want
them to see you doing.
Speaker 4 (55:24):
Apologize, Yeah I did that.
Speaker 3 (55:26):
Okay, what's your Never have I ever You got one?
And then we're done. Oh, make it.
Speaker 4 (55:32):
Good, make it good so for you. Never have I ever.
Speaker 1 (55:40):
Introduced my date or boyfriend to somebody that I slept with.
Speaker 3 (55:50):
No, I never did that before someone I slept with.
Speaker 4 (55:54):
Or had like a sexual encounter with.
Speaker 1 (55:56):
Maybe oost he met somebody that you did, and it
was because of you.
Speaker 4 (56:10):
Drink, drink.
Speaker 5 (56:12):
Because I'm trying to I don't think I did that.
Speaker 4 (56:16):
Drinking too long.
Speaker 3 (56:17):
I'm drinking too long.
Speaker 4 (56:18):
You're taking too long on me.
Speaker 3 (56:19):
No, I don't think I did that. I don't think
I've done that. I don't think I've done that.
Speaker 1 (56:23):
You don't think or you know, because this is you're
with a guy or dating a guy.
Speaker 4 (56:29):
And you're like, hey, this is uh, this is him.
Speaker 3 (56:36):
So like, let's for instance, like.
Speaker 4 (56:38):
I just said it. You don't have to.
Speaker 3 (56:39):
I just told you to see how you talk to me,
See how you talk.
Speaker 5 (56:42):
To mend see how you talk to me, because to
see how you talk.
Speaker 1 (56:46):
To me, you're beating around the question, be like yeah,
I said it. So it's a yes or no.
Speaker 3 (56:53):
I don't think so. No, I don't know because I
can't recall.
Speaker 4 (56:58):
Then it's a bit.
Speaker 3 (57:00):
I plead the fifth. I'm not lying.
Speaker 4 (57:02):
I'll thank y'all. Another elisos all like tonight.
Speaker 1 (57:07):
I mean, huh, No, I was just trying to close
us out.
Speaker 4 (57:16):
You do a good job.
Speaker 3 (57:17):
You can take the lead.
Speaker 4 (57:18):
No, you good? You good? I like what you take.
Speaker 3 (57:22):
Now you like when I take? Okay, thank you everybody
for joining. Another episode of the Truth after that bleasure.
Speaker 1 (57:31):
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Speaker 4 (58:01):
Night, your sister taking over the game.
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