October 6, 2025 • 55 mins
Truth After Dark family, we are back! Did you miss us? Paul tells you his list of the most unattractive things about women, and then they discuss a list of “what-ifs:” What if a guy sent your girl a drink, would you be mad if she drank it? We can't wait to hear your answers! We also dive into some of the current events like Steph Curry defending his wife Ayesha, Brittany Renner asking for $35,000 in child support, and so much more! So make sure you tune in, subscribe, and enjoy the show!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What do men actually find unattractive in women? What a
lot of men are saying is I have seen those
lace fronts with them big big baby hairs, y'all gotta
that's too much.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Once I feel the product, test the product, and I
see what it's really given, and I got it in
my hand, and it's like, oh no, I'm good.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
How do you feel? Test the products and put it
in your hand.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Like if your girl was at a bar and around
them man was like, oh, let me pay for her
mail right there, that's cool with you two?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Or you're good with that, okay.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Look like this is my thing? Okay, Like let a
trick trick?
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Hello?
Speaker 4 (00:37):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
There's not one friend or homeboy that I have that
is worth being fighting over for my relationship.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Like any friend I have you could kick rock.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
These women have, these babies have child support and it's
blowing me, like do you want the kid or do
you want the child support? Like I'm so confused at
what's going on in this society.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Like if a man asks you like, hey, you know
a woman want money, She got the money and give
me two hundred what like what like giving is crazy?
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Okay? But give a woman.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
I'm saying a woman would give a man two hundred.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Women ain't doing that. Women ain't doing that. Though you're
looking good tonight with the Castle girl. The glasses is
not a suit. You have heard you've been in the
gym lately. He's still been in the gym.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
The boots is booting, The boots is booting.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Glasses, glasses and looks. The smile and smiling. This is
(01:58):
the taking over the game.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
All right, everybody, Welcome to Truth after Dark.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Do you think that men or women are more toxic? Hello?
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Everyone, welcome to another episode of the Truth after Dark.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
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Speaker 4 (02:44):
With, giving me real cat woman vibes.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Okay, cat woman, I'm a Halloween.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
Right, let's talk.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Let's talk. I've been great.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
How are you it's a week We're back, Yeah, we're back.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
We cracking.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
So I'm going to start off with a question that
is circling the internet, and I will tell you what
the most popular answers were, but I'm curious to see
if yours are similar. So what do men actually find
unattractive in women?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
For me, the most unattractive thing for a woman is like, uh,
the way, like that's a good one because it's like this,
if you had a nasty attitude. I'm looking at your personality.
Speaker 5 (03:38):
Yeah yeah, that.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
Like you could be a bad one.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Everything your looga, good boots, I'll fit, hair nails, everything, everything. No,
for real, you can have all of that sit down
at the table. Then I'll have I'll start sparking off
a conversation with you, and then you just sound like
it's just like, oh no, that's like off the like
first five minutes, I could be like that's attractive, Like damn,
like you you're toxic in a kind of a way.
(04:05):
Like to keep it one, Like you know, it don't
even matter, like what you got right there, because all
the glitz and glamour and the windows shopping gonna turn
into something I'm not gonna buy once I feel the product,
test the product, and I see what it's really given
and I got it in my hand, and it's like,
(04:26):
I'm good.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
How do you feel test the products and put it
in your hand.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
That's what I'm saying. You got to like the thing is.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
So you feel her, you touch her.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Like, no, you talk to her.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Okay, So you're saying you feel the energy.
Speaker 4 (04:40):
No, no, no, you the conversation is gonna tell you everything.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Right, so you feel her out. Basically you're not feeling
her and touching her okay, actual touch yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Okay, or having her in her hand.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Yeah, it's it's more of a conversation than and it's
just like you're gonna be like, you know what, this
ain't really my type, like because your.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Views on stuff. Okay, it's just I.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Don't even know how to explain it. But like you,
you can hear a girl conversation. You can hear they
start sounding a certain way, and it's just like and
I could play it off at dinner, you know what
I'm saying to where we can keep the day going.
It's not gonna be like me showing facial expressions and
I'm be like, yeah, you know, I'm gonna ask you
certain questions. You're gonna ask me certain questions, right, and
(05:27):
then I'm gonna get a feel for you. And then
like when you're getting a feel for me and I'm
getting a feel for you, I'll be like, oh, you know,
this ain't really it or this is it, or or
you know I could work with this and everything, and
you know, the look is just to get you on
the date. The look is just to get you in
the conversation through the door, through the door, to get
you in the car, to get me to pay for
this meal. But the conversation is what's gonna keep me
(05:53):
around a little bit longer, you know what I'm saying.
Then if the conversation bomb, it's like, oh okay, I'm
feeling her vibe, her mental capacity to all of this,
and it's like damn, just on a spiritual on a
mental level, on a like certain type of level.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
To where you just like.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Damn, okay, I like like we can hold We could
just be on some kickback of conversation. And this is
a vibe that's a vibe in itself more than just
a date or the sex. Like, the vibe is the
conversation really, because that's gonna last longer and all that
other stuff, it's gonna last longer than it looks. It's
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gonna last longer than the sex. The vibe of what
y'all have and the conversation of what y'all have is
gonna always last longer than all of that. I'm trying
to tell you. I can't explain it, but like you know,
every girl gonna look good with the first like if
you if you have if you're.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
Cute with no no, no, no, the but like you can,
we can.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Y'all all can get the same type of outfits. You know,
you all can get the same type of hair.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Dudes, you know you all can look good.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
But like the thing that's gonna withstand the test of time,
it's gonna be like the the mental.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
The Yeah, I think we got it.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
I think we understand what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, No, I mean you explained it very well,
so he shouldn't be frustrated.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
He said everything.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
So some of the things that the men said, just
so you know, is the internet says lace fronts.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
Hey, what was the question.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Is what do men actually find unattractive?
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Yeah, so they said lace fronts, like wigs, like baby hairs,
like them lace fronts and in them big ass baby hairs.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
Huh, Well, men can't. All right, So this is what
I'm gonna say.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Men can't be hypocrites on this because like that's part
of our culture that women get weaves and weaves about wigs.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
Why I wasn't done keeping, but like that's.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Part of the culture that you women wear weaves, lace
fronts with my mama world wig like, like all of
that is cultural with us, Like you know, that's part
of our what we do. So don't be cool with
braids and then not be cool with lace fronts or
wigs or like you know, like you gotta be cool
(08:29):
with all of it. I feel like, you know what
I'm saying. That's all I'm saying because I like that ship.
If you're doing shit like that and it's just the hair,
I'm cool with the hair part of it because that's
natural thing that women do within our culture.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Well, I will say this what a lot of men
are saying is I have seen those lace fronts with
them big big baby hairs. Y'all gotta that's too much,
And I'm gonna keep it real. I love weaves, I
wear I never wore a wig, but I do wear weaves, ponytails,
little things. But then place runs with that big baby
(09:08):
hair coming down, and you don't gotta do all that.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
That's a lot.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
So I get what they said, there's a market for it,
but a lot of women market dress for women and
not men. So that's why this question was funny because
even in the comments, all the women are saying what's
unattracted for men? And the men are like, yo, they're
asking us, y'all think you know what we are thinking
is unattractive.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
We're telling you what we think looks crazy.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
That's a certain demographical man that's saying he don't like that.
But when there's a certain demographical man that's into that,
they're doing that for that man.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Yeah, there's always gonna be someone who's into something. So
another thing that they said would be extra long nails,
big eyelashes.
Speaker 3 (09:53):
Smoking. They said, if a woman smokes, it's.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
A turnoff, thigh cigarette or we some of them said
weed too, like a smoker weed because they were like
women who smoke a lot, we have dark lips and
they smell like weed and they don't smell feminine.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
That was the thing that I was seeing a lot
thigh and chest tattoos. So many people said that chest.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Yeah, like chest chattoos right here on women, or like
I can get through that, you can fuck with that,
I can get through it.
Speaker 4 (10:28):
Okay, that doesn't like steer me off the.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
Path of liking Okay, being independent?
Speaker 4 (10:36):
That turns you off? Being independent?
Speaker 5 (10:38):
Yeah, that's one of the things a lot of men independent.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
That's what a lot of men said.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
But then at the same time, if a woman wants
you to pay for something, you're also mad, So make
it make sense. You don't want them to be independent,
but then you don't want them to ask you for
no money because now they're going digger?
Speaker 3 (10:52):
Which one is it? Do you want me independent? Or
do you not?
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Like men be confused as hell, like they want a
woman to be for you and modern at the same time,
it is blowing me, like you want me to go
fifty fifty on the bills with you, but then you
want me to also clean, cook, take care of you
while I'm at work every day tired too, Like, how
does that make.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
I'm good enough for a woman being able to get
her own uber? I loved enough.
Speaker 3 (11:18):
That's cool, That's that's all you need to be able
to do? Okay, cool?
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Yeah, a lot of men said that, but it's just
blown me because it's like I think they just don't
like that they want to have that control and then
having too many male friends.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
That's a red flag.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
That's what they said is unattractive.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
Talking to the girl, she's like, oh, my homeboy, all
my homeboy, all my home Like damn, what.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
If I was like all my homegirl.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
Yeah, that's a lot like.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
All this like we go out, all this is my homeboy. Yeah,
Like what if I was doing that? Yeah, I'm not
about to introduce a girl I'm with that. This is
all my homegirls. Nah, that ain't that.
Speaker 4 (12:00):
Man.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
At some point you gotta be like get out that
that mindset and not that stage of your life. Like
if you're trying to build something with a female or
you're trying to build something with a male as a girl,
you gotta be like, all right, I gotta let these
motherfuckers go, because like, is it any kind of Like
I know there was my boy and all this before
(12:21):
I had to do, but like what benefits is it
helping your relationship if you're trying to build something long
term with him or her? Like is he really like
your brother? Like at least step in front of a
bullet for you, or he's just waiting in the wings
in case something happened between you and him to where
(12:41):
he can slide it like you knows so many You know.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
You're right too, because there's a viral clip right now
that's going crazy and this one woman she comes out
and she's like, listen, a girl saying that she has
a boyfriend is not ever enough. Like a man will
check up on every like few months, you see you still,
Like I've had men do that, like you single again,
like you're still the relationship was up, Like they'll check
(13:06):
up constantly, and it's like yes, And I feel like
where I'm at in my life, there's not one friend
or homeboy that I have that is worth being fighting
over for my relationship. Like any friend I have, you
could kick rocks, like it's never gonna come before what
I'm doing in my relationship. But a lot of women
will be like, this is my best friend. Is my brother,
(13:27):
this is this and you know you had sex with him,
now that's your brother, Like Kno, get the fuck off.
Y'all are not brothers and sisters unless you're on some
weird ancestral shit.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
I got a question, sure, So like you said, and
I'll pay attention to what you be saying.
Speaker 4 (13:42):
Yes, you said.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
A lot of men will check up yeah, to say
hey you have a boyfriend or anything.
Speaker 4 (13:49):
But like all right, say like you with a man.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Man you look at his phone and something come up
on the text, like, hey you still got a girlfriend?
Speaker 4 (14:00):
Is that an argument? No, Hey you still got a girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
You see that from you know, her name is like whatever,
Christina whatever? You know, Hey, you still with your girl.
And you see that, you're gonna be like, the first
thing gonna say is who is that?
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (14:18):
And then and then he's gonna be like, oh, that's
the home girl, right right? Is that cool? Is that cool? So?
Speaker 2 (14:30):
Now if the home if your dude look at your
phone and say, hey you still got a man? Steal
from Demetris. He looking right there like oh like yeah,
who is Demetris? Oh that's the homeboy? Ask him if
you still got a man? That's cool?
Speaker 5 (14:49):
Is that cool?
Speaker 4 (14:50):
I you're wrong, I don't see so you're wrong.
Speaker 3 (14:54):
I answer it.
Speaker 4 (14:57):
You you answered it. You said no, no.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
No, no, that's not my that's not my answer. Let me answering, no, no,
let me answer, but.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
Listen, let Paul, let me talk for two seconds. I
don't think that it's wrong for the person. Like, if
you're getting a text from a woman that says that
you're not in control of that, she obviously knows you
have a girl, so you already set that boundary.
Speaker 3 (15:23):
If she's circling the block to see if you still
have a.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Girl, she's being thirsty and in your you have to
say yes and move forward. But like as a woman,
I know if I go somewhere and I'm like, oh,
this is my man, and it's a girl that's on you,
and I'm like, this is my man, there's no way
in my mind that I think that's stopping her from
still wanting to fuck with you. It's the man's responsibility
to set that boundary, and it's the woman's responsibility set
(15:48):
that boundary in her relationship.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
Pier point blank.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
You can't control someone circling the box trying to see
if you're available.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
Okay, So to me, oh that question don't get asked
is like, hey, I got a girl.
Speaker 4 (16:03):
You shouldn't be calling me or texting me period.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
So if you're texting me that, and then my girl
sees that or a guy is texting you that, I
feel like you didn't give him that message. You left
the door open for him that they continuously every three
months asks you.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
That I don't be understand because I have told man
in my past relationships. Hey, men are more assertive and
aggressive than women at times. Like you could be like, hey,
I'm in a relationship, don't call me no more, and
a man three months later will literally call you like hello,
you're still in that relationship, like, don't call me bro.
(16:40):
Like you could tell a man that, but men are
like super aggressive and assertive, and they literally like there's.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
Memes about that.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
They'll wait and stock your page to see if you posted,
if you took a picture down and your man so
he can holler at you like okay, so.
Speaker 4 (16:53):
If we're playing checkers or we're playing.
Speaker 5 (16:57):
Chess, okay, what do you do about him? Blocked?
Speaker 3 (17:01):
Period?
Speaker 4 (17:02):
So that means you left the door open if you
don't block.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Him, and he can still do that the second time.
So the first time you could be like, hey, I
have a man, don't.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
Ever hit me up, and you did that already.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Right, and then the second time he comes through, you
block and you never talk to me.
Speaker 3 (17:17):
You block him. I think you block them.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Okay, that's my opinion, you're getting blocked un because you're
not respecting my relationship and you're blocked at this point.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
Yeah, because we're in a time and an age to
where like it ain't like it was when I'm young,
like you, like you ain't. You can block somebody and
lose contact, but you can always find that person down
the road. Like in my generation, you you lost a person,
you lost him, Like it's hard, you know what I'm saying, Like.
Speaker 4 (17:50):
You should be at it.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
It's easier in a relationship to say, hey, I'm done
with you, I'm blocking you, and like if the door
will always be open, because like in ten years from now,
if I don't talk to you for ten years, I.
Speaker 4 (18:03):
Can go to your page and be like, hey, how.
Speaker 3 (18:05):
You being right on Facebook? Instagram?
Speaker 2 (18:09):
So many avenues getting in touch with somebody, so like
daddy right there, yeah, you know, whereas like Niggas held
on the girls because he was like maybe down the
road iking like you know, I'm always gonna keep doing yeah,
Like now you can always double back after losing them
and blocking them and losing their number because you can
(18:30):
go through so many outlets to try to find them.
It's more outle find people now, So like you should
be able to do that. It should be easy to
be like, all right, I'm good, I'm blocking you.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
Period, I agree, I agree. I think you're absolutely right.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
So a question that Another question is, let's say you're
in a relationship and your girl gets a lot of
requests from just random man or like people, and they're like, hey,
you're beautiful. Let me send you a cash app. Let
me pay for your now house, let me cash app
you Instagram. Oh here's my cash app? Is that foul?
Speaker 4 (19:11):
Oh? Run that home?
Speaker 2 (19:15):
I need of that baby? How much he sent you
a hundred? I need a dub he sent you five hundred. Okay,
that's gonna cost you a hundred.
Speaker 4 (19:24):
Could run that to me?
Speaker 2 (19:25):
So if you feel comfortable a sept the money from guys,
give me some and then were good with it, so
I can feel comfortable.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
So I'm gonna say this, I was in a really I'm.
Speaker 4 (19:37):
Good with that. Were making with that. Don't go past that.
I'm good.
Speaker 3 (19:43):
So this is that's the thing.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
So I was in a relationship one time, and I
remember I was at South Beverly Grill, sitting at the
bar and there was like a guy sitting next to
me right and I'm on the phone my dude, Da
da da da, and he's like, hey, telling the bartender
because I'm at the bar. He's like, hey, I want
to pay for her meal. So he overheard that. He's
like what, like he wants to pay for your meal?
(20:05):
And I was like yeah, I guess and I'm like no, no, no, you.
Speaker 3 (20:07):
Don't have to do that. And the dude was pissed
because he was like, I wouldn't. Never. I didn't accept it.
I was on the phone with him, but I was like,
I would never.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
He's like, if you accepted that, that would be so
disrespectful to our relationship because a man doesn't just stop
at buying you a meal. Then he's gonna ask your number,
this and that, and now it looks like I'm not
taking care of you as a man and I'm not
doing my job, like I'll pay for this whole meal
right now. I send you the money. You know, you
don't have to like work for nothing or need nothing,
So why would you accept that?
Speaker 3 (20:39):
So, like, what is your thoughts on that?
Speaker 1 (20:41):
Like if your girl was at a bar and a
random man was like, oh, let me pay for her
meil right there?
Speaker 3 (20:44):
That's cool with you two, or you're good with that, okay, like.
Speaker 4 (20:48):
This is my thing, okay, like let a trick trick.
Speaker 5 (20:53):
Hello, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
But if you gonna go past that, the line crossed
where you now? It's like, listen, you offer to pay
for my meal. I accepted it. That don't give you
the open door to have a conversation. I appreciate you, bro,
but I have a man, so I thank you.
Speaker 5 (21:16):
Now I gotta go now.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Is it the same for if you're at a bar
and the man sends you a drink. Can she drink
that drink?
Speaker 2 (21:25):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (21:26):
Hey, he sent you a drink from across the bar.
Here you go.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
I'm not really into that because I don't know what's
in that drink. I need to see the port. You
know what I'm saying. I don't know if he you know,
put the and then you know what I'm saying. I'm
not a fan of drinks being sent to me, like
if I didn't see him port. You know what I'm saying,
unless I know the person, like as somebody I don't
know they sending you a drink? Come on, bro, that's
(21:51):
like you're not even you're playing like, come on, you're
playing around with me. No, No, you might do some
foul shit. No, I'm not doing that. That's not that's
not cool. You gotta you gotta you gotta like be aware.
Speaker 4 (22:01):
Of your soundings. You know what I'm saying. You gotta
be smart out here, Like dude, want to buy you
a drink?
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Okay, good look, all right, I gotta dude, I gotta
I gotta girl, a girl like I got girls offer
me drinks like all right, cool, good look, hey toss, Hey, yeah,
what's your name?
Speaker 4 (22:17):
All right?
Speaker 2 (22:17):
Yeah, that's cool. I got a girl. But you know,
I appreciate it. I know, you know whatever. All right,
I'm over here now, I'm gonna move though. I'm gonna
move around. You know what I'm saying. I'm not gonna
sit in the same spot either, right if they're doing that, nah,
but like like it's hard for something like somebody to
do that for me. That's gotta be in a restaurant,
like like we in another spot, like you know, it's hard,
(22:42):
like you ain't just buying me, like most of the
people buy me drinks as fans.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
Like I remember one time I was with my axent.
We were at the bar at an event holiday party
and this girl came up and she knew him or whatever,
but they were like, we're vibe and she was were buying.
He was buying us drinks and she was like, no,
I'm gonna buy his drink. And I was pissed because
he accepted the drink and I'm like, you're thirsty to me,
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Like and now the bitch is trying to smile in
your faces whole time and talk to you, and like,
I didn't know how to fuck with that as a man.
Speaker 4 (23:16):
You said.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
I was with my man and we're at the bar,
he's buying us drinks, and then some girl hella thirsty
me and him drinks.
Speaker 3 (23:25):
This girl had nothing to do with it. It was
me and him.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
She comes up all thirsty on him, like oh my god,
like fanning out or whatever, and she's.
Speaker 3 (23:33):
Like, oh, I miss you. He's not famous at all.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
He's just like someone likes popular, and like she likes
his work and what he does for a living, like
but it's not but she knows him.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
They know each other.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
It's not just he's not he's not you, like, he's
not famous like that. No, he's not famous at all.
And she came up and was like, oh my god,
like I miss you so much, like, let me buy
your drink. D and saw me right here and he
was like, oh this is my girl. She's like cool, yeah,
I'll get his drink. Whatever he wants is on me,
and like did the most and he took the drink.
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Mind you, But five minutes before that, he told me
there was a photoble there and he was like, you
better not take a picture with no niggas like and
I'm like, I'm not gonna do that, but you took
a drink from a girl, Like I just think there's
certain boundaries that need.
Speaker 3 (24:21):
To be said.
Speaker 4 (24:21):
I think that's okay. If she came over and bought.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
Exactly what I said.
Speaker 1 (24:27):
I said, if I'm right here, if you're going to
offer a drink, you should buy both drinks. But you
like cutting me off, like whatever, girl, I'm buying him
a drink. He should have been like, I'm good. Yeah,
you made it so about him, made it about common sense,
That's what I was so like, she I.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
Would like if they bought both y'all drinks. It was, ah, yeah,
I'm a fan of his, but all you with him, Okay,
I'll get.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
Both y'all, thank you, thank you. That's exactly what I said.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
And I want to have a problem with that, But don't
cut me out and like dismiss me, like I'm not nobody,
Like I've been with this motherfucker for four years, Like,
don't do that. So I think that that was crazy.
But anyways, so another question is if your partner's friends,
So you're in a relationship and your girls' friends don't
like you, and.
Speaker 4 (25:16):
Girls the girl I'm with her friends.
Speaker 3 (25:18):
Don't like you, and she still defends.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
Them to you, like no, they're this or that. Is
that considered loyalty? Is that loyalty to her friends or
is that betrayal to you?
Speaker 4 (25:30):
So if I'm with a girl but the friends don't like.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
Me, and y'all are locked in and the friends are
like always talking shit, say little slick comments, and you
not feeling the friends.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
So, based on my experience, like most of the times
that the friends don't like me, they single.
Speaker 5 (25:48):
And they're jealous and jealous yeah yeah, so like.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
But how do you feel if you're girls defending them
all the time, like Noah, and they're kind of like
trying to put a seat of doubt her head about.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
So the thing is, this is what's gonna be happening
in this relationship. It's like, because I'm with you and
your friends don't like me, I'm gonna be constantly telling
you not to fuck with them, and they gonna be
constantly telling you not to fuck with me, you know
what I'm saying. So now it's like a tug and pull.
(26:21):
It's like a it's like tug of war. But it's
just like, you know, who do you value more? Like?
Speaker 4 (26:29):
Look, what do you value more? Like? What's gonna last longer?
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (26:35):
If you feel like this relationship can last longer and
you feel like I can build something with this man,
I need to get aligned with him and what we're doing.
So maybe I need to get more aligned with girls
that are in relationships too.
Speaker 4 (26:52):
Yeah, you know, because like.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
It's hard when you have a couples that's kicking it
with single friends, Like couples need to kick it with
couples because couples is gonna build each other and make
the relationship stronger because y'all gonna go through the same
things and relate to each other. Where it's like single
friends don't relate to a couple of friends because they
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single and you couple and they're like they're gonna it's
gonna be too many questions to where it's like when
you go through a bad patch and you got a
friend that's a couple, like, well, girl, I've been through that.
Well you know this is what this is, and that
can help you get through ship And if it's a
good relationship, it's strong and it's powerful and it's connected
where it's like girls who kick it with single girls
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that's a recipe for the like the end, you know.
So I just feel like like if you're in a relationship,
you should have friends that's in relationship and do shit together.
Speaker 4 (27:46):
Like we talked about this.
Speaker 2 (27:47):
A week or two ago, like like a couple trips
a relationship, like do relationship trips. Like it could be
a situation to where the men they go golf or
they go over to the pool and y'all can go
have y'all massage, girls say on the beach, and that's
(28:07):
like y'all can do a girl thing over there, but
like eight to.
Speaker 4 (28:11):
Ten hours, we ain't tripping.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
That's still a girls trip over there for ten hours
together and then at night we go to dinner and
we just do it as a couple. Like that's still
a girls trip and a boys trip at the same
you knocking both of them out at the same time,
and so it's just more healthier, you know. Then a
girl's having a girls trip and a married couple, and
maybe two of the girls is single, maybe two of
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them married and you married or have a man.
Speaker 4 (28:38):
It's just it's just too much dysfunction.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
It's too many different cultures or too many different.
Speaker 3 (28:46):
Mindsets.
Speaker 2 (28:47):
Yeah, just coming together because you you like, the single
girls is like, let's go out to the club to
see what's out here.
Speaker 4 (28:55):
Where the manion girls is like, I want to go in.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
So it's just like, you know, you got to kick
you with people who are like minded and who in
the same type of situation to build your ship up,
not to like peace at your ship or put like
teared or cracks in what you already got, because that's
what relationships do. The more friends you have that are
single in your relationship, Say, if I got five friends
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that's single and I'm in relationship, that's not a recipe
for a long lasting relationship. I need to have five
friends that are in a relationship that I can be like,
I can bounce it off of because more so than not,
if they in a relationship, they can help me get
through it. You know what I'm saying to where it's
a single dude, like, man, fuck her. You know you
(29:41):
don't need to be with her because you sing, because
you want to go out, because you want to because
you did because now you know. Yeah, So now it's like,
you need to be around more people that are in
the same type of situation and like minded like you.
And I think that's the recipe for longevity. But if
you single and you got single friends, y'all kick it
(30:01):
all right. Then once you get a.
Speaker 4 (30:02):
Girl, you should be around motherfuckers. That's like that's been
around a long time.
Speaker 1 (30:07):
So I have a homegirl too, and recently we were
having this conversation because she was out and about with
two of her other single homegirls, and she was like,
I'm annoyed because you know, my man keeps wanting me
to check up on like communicate and tell me where
I'm at. Right and we're all having fun, we're not worried.
And I said, you know what you're gonna end up doing.
You're gonna fuck around and be single like them, while
(30:29):
they wish they were you. They wish they had a
motherfucker that wanted to know where they were at, that
was concerned about them, that wanted to check up with them.
And you overhear busy wanted to be out with these
motherfuckers that they're only out because they don't got nobody
for real, because if they were in your position, trust me,
they would be much more happy. Like them single girls,
(30:49):
they want to be in a relationship so bad, and
you over here, you have one, and you're willing to
jeopardize that because you want to be out with your homegirls.
Speaker 2 (30:56):
The problem and the generation that we're in, we're in
a generation to where girls wants the sense of security
of a man that can take care of them, but.
Speaker 4 (31:07):
To be able to do what they want.
Speaker 2 (31:10):
And that's and what I mean by that is like, damn,
I should be able to just like flirt with other
men or.
Speaker 4 (31:20):
Be out at the club and still do this.
Speaker 2 (31:22):
But I you know, that's still got the but I
still got the security of a man. But because that's
why girls. But but like I'm telling you, it sounds crazy,
but it's in reality and That's why when girls marry
and get divorced and you have a man that pays
alamoi or child sport, and they use the money for
(31:43):
their like lifestyle and because they want the lifestyle without
the man. Yes, you know what I'm saying. They enjoy
the lifestyle while they're with the man, but.
Speaker 3 (31:55):
Then but.
Speaker 2 (31:57):
They don't enjoy the man, and they want to like that,
but they enjoyed the lifestyle. And the reason they with
the man is because of the lifestyle. If he creates
a higher lifestyle or a certain standard or put you
on like a certain level to where you wasn't before,
it's like you like that, but then it gets to
the point to where I want to enjoy this still
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but without you.
Speaker 4 (32:21):
And then it's like it's frustrated for the.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
Man to see that, and he like, Dawn, you know,
he upgraded your lifestyle and did all this and you
really didn't. And then the man feel like you really
didn't want me for the beginning, right you know, And
it just feels like that. So and that's why I'll
be saying, like, man, get who like you, who really
(32:46):
like you? And then it ain't got to be the
baddest vision in the world, and it ain't got to
be like you know, it's just got to be somebody
you can bond with, you can have a conversation with,
and you can she can come to your level, you.
Speaker 4 (32:59):
Can go to her level.
Speaker 2 (33:00):
And it's out there whether you rich, poor, uh, middle
class or when everything is out there for for everybody.
It's just the like circles that you put yourself in
and where you hang out at and where in what
you do in your life to like, you know, if
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you want to be at all the VIP ship, that's
where all the groupies is gonna be.
Speaker 4 (33:26):
That's gonna want you for your money.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
But if you want to be at all the like
status type ship, like where do you go, like if.
Speaker 4 (33:35):
You're not a list?
Speaker 2 (33:37):
And because a list, you know, it's just like they
go where actors get with actors and rappers give with
other rappers and you know, hoopers get.
Speaker 4 (33:47):
With like actors like that.
Speaker 2 (33:49):
Like, but y'all really don't even like relate to each
other on the bonding level. It's just like y'all are
the y'all still y'all still y'all just at a social
level together and it's not real, you know, And that's
like when we see a lot people at the same
social level as far as economic level, but it's like
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and it make it easier probably to deal with them,
but it's like it's never gonna happen, like only real
love come from like people on the same economic levels
off it Like no, and what I mean by that
not not not at the top, more at the bottom.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
So speaking of all of that, we'll get into a
few current events. Britney Renner in PJ Washington, she's actually
seeking to increase her child support the thirty five thousands
she currently gets fifty five hundred. She argues that the
child deserves a lifestyle equal to Pj's wealth, and him
and his wife are basically living this lavish luxury lifestyle.
Speaker 3 (34:58):
With the other children, and she feels like the fifty.
Speaker 1 (35:00):
Five hundred, I can't live this lavish lifestyle like you're
living Pj's his wife actually like responding with a bunch
of like laughing faces emojis, and then she posted like
going shopping da da da da, like with another picture
like girl by.
Speaker 3 (35:19):
So my thing is is like these women.
Speaker 1 (35:23):
Have these babies to have child support and it's blowing me,
Like do you want the kid or do you want
the child support? Like I'm so confused at what's going
on in this society. Like it's really crazy to me
because it's like there's nobody who can knock me up.
And I'm having the kid because I want child support.
Like I'm having a child because I love this person
and I want to build a family and an empire.
Speaker 3 (35:43):
Together and I want to have a kid.
Speaker 1 (35:46):
And I feel like a lot of women are doing
that and they're realizing the money is not abouty and
it wasn't worth it for them, Like they're like, damn,
I got this kid. I gotta take care of this kid.
I gotta do this, I gotta do that, And now
the money ain't money how it should have.
Speaker 5 (36:01):
Been, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (36:03):
He's trying to understand, like why the man have to
be the full financial support.
Speaker 5 (36:09):
Right or the woman that they're not even with.
Speaker 2 (36:12):
That, you know, like regardless, right, Like and because he's
living a certain lifestyle, so say like he live in
a ten thousand square foot manchiain with his new girl.
Speaker 4 (36:24):
Why his or his wife?
Speaker 2 (36:26):
That means the kid of your mother should live like
that too, I mean, what what what's the laws in
all of this? Like you know what I'm saying, Like
I think it's like it takes two to tangle. Like
he had a kid with her and she had to
carry it nine months, which is a burden, you know,
(36:48):
I not get it. And you have to carry and
you go through it and the kid is probably with
you more than the father. And but a lot of times,
what you understand, the father, he's filing for half of
the custody, So like if he fouled. In some cases,
when the male foil for half of the custody, it
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should be half of the price for everything, like damn,
Like if it's school costs, you know whatever, you're going
to private school, it should be half. Like I don't know,
it's just like I feel like the society that we
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live in is set up for women to trap men
that's in a great situation to where it's advantageous to
the women and that shouldn't be fair because you're a
father and you're a mother, Like that's like I'm the father,
so like I have equal responsibilities and as you you know,
(37:56):
but then there's some cases to where you know, she
lives in one state, he lives in another state. So
how do we come to a medium to where it's like, damn,
why is the financial burden always on the man?
Speaker 1 (38:16):
You know, well, I would think that if a man
wasn't present in the baby's life. I always thought that
child support was like, they live out of state, You
don't even take care of this child.
Speaker 3 (38:26):
Here's the money, Like, but it doesn't.
Speaker 1 (38:28):
It never made sense to me where a father is
equally present and involved in their child's life, but they
also have to pay this large lump sum of money,
Like how does that make sense to me? Like, if
I'm equally doing the same work that you're doing, why
is it my responsibility to pay my equal work?
Speaker 2 (38:47):
Because the mother is always gonna do more work most
of the time. You know, let's keep it one hundred.
Y'all gonna wake up with the kid, change more diapers,
rest feed y'all gonna give way more than the man
gonna give because we are not built the same way
as women. Y'all built this. This person came out of
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your body, you know what I'm saying. So you more
attached than a man?
Speaker 5 (39:13):
Is you?
Speaker 4 (39:15):
You?
Speaker 2 (39:15):
You? This is a certain love that you carried like
and I have to see this, you know what I'm saying.
I had to see this a lot, and I don't
understand because I'll never understand that to where your barey
get bid, your body changed, and then you spill a
kid and then you breastfeed, and this is the most
carrying thing for you, right, And it's like God, I'll
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never have the spiritual or the connect with my kids
that a mother will have because I didn't carry you.
And I can love you and I know you come
from me, but like when you, I'll never understand that
carrying of it because you going through days whereas kick
in and you up and you can't sleep and you
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feel the whole situation all.
Speaker 4 (40:06):
The way through.
Speaker 1 (40:07):
It's crazy you say this because in an episode before
you said that men can do every single thing a
woman can do, and women can't do nothing a man
can do.
Speaker 2 (40:16):
No, I said that as far as terms is like
in a world lea view.
Speaker 3 (40:24):
No, you said nurturing because I.
Speaker 2 (40:26):
Brought up at it wasn't about this just had nothing
to do about kids, because man can never carry a kid.
Speaker 3 (40:32):
No, but I did bring that up.
Speaker 4 (40:34):
But that's something different, like a man can't give life.
Speaker 1 (40:37):
Right, we all know that, so a man can never
fulfill a woman's world.
Speaker 4 (40:40):
But there's certain things that men can do that women
can't do either. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (40:45):
I never argue that point.
Speaker 4 (40:47):
Yeah, but that's all I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (40:49):
But like you know, this is not no bash on
women and all that, because y'all are have an amazing
ability to create life and do all these other things.
Speaker 4 (40:57):
That's amazing.
Speaker 2 (40:58):
And I don't want this show to ever be about
me trying to put women down.
Speaker 4 (41:05):
A lot.
Speaker 2 (41:06):
It's not that this is the show is about me
just giving a man's point of view, and you know,
sometimes it's harsh, and sometimes they don't come out the
right way, and sometimes it's like men feel like we
deserve more, and so it looks that way, you know,
you know what I'm saying. And then like because we
feel sometimes we are unappreciated we we do.
Speaker 4 (41:32):
From our women, and you know, it just comes out
that way.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
And you know what a lot of people, like when
I have my last post work about men, they still
were bashing.
Speaker 3 (41:43):
And saying whatever.
Speaker 1 (41:44):
But there's a lot of people that hit me ever
and were like, men aren't just hurt by women, and
we know this, and they take their grievances out on me,
which is not right because I'm not the woman that
hurt you, my brother, but I wish you the past,
you know, but this is.
Speaker 3 (41:57):
A show to talk about that.
Speaker 1 (41:59):
But you know, we have a predominantly male viewership, and
even at people who watch each other like this is
Paul Pierce show, She's just there. Fuck her, this is
not her show, and it's like all of this stuff. No,
but listen, listen because it's good to talk about this
because I feel like women hearing these things that you're
saying and hearing the side will be more inclined to
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want to watch because I know you think good things
about one.
Speaker 2 (42:23):
Yeah, of course, because like we feel as men like.
Speaker 4 (42:31):
And a relationship.
Speaker 2 (42:32):
And when you look at the divorce rate, men don't
divorce the women, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (42:39):
So we're always the one happening here.
Speaker 2 (42:45):
And it's like and you know, we go through both
phases of like hateing each other and going through it.
And but at the end of the day, a man
will stay with a woman, but.
Speaker 4 (42:57):
You can more times than.
Speaker 1 (42:58):
Not, you can not victimize yourself in that way. And
the reason I say that is because a man will
not leave a woman, but he'll do a lot of
things to make her live.
Speaker 4 (43:08):
You and that's the same thing.
Speaker 1 (43:12):
But historically men have been the one to cheat, abuse
lie her.
Speaker 2 (43:18):
Men have been the ones who get caught. But still
women would do the same thing. But we don't look
as much as y'all. We don't investigate where it's in
a relationship. You like, it could be women that cheat
on their man a long time ago, and then the
one time he cheats and you you you find out
because he didn't look he gonna get victimized. But you
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probably did that shit a long time ago, you know
what I'm saying, because he ain't on the same shit
you want.
Speaker 4 (43:48):
You know what I'm saying. So like that happens a lot.
Speaker 1 (43:51):
I can believe that. I'm not saying that I would
say that that happens. I could imagine that happening, but
I would stay Historically, a lot of women they were
in relationships and marriages to where they were having to
take care of kids full time and take care of
the house full time and didn't really have the capacity
or the time to even cheat if they wanted.
Speaker 3 (44:10):
To, and men were doing their big one.
Speaker 1 (44:12):
So we can't sit here and just blame men for saying, oh,
they'll never leave in the relationship. Yeah, but men will
do a lot of things to make you want to leave.
They ask for show, you know, whether it's not just cheating,
but it's like men can do those things. Moving on
to the next topic. So, Aisha Curry is on a
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lot of platforms doing podcasts, and she has said some
things in past interviews where she said she feels like
she's overlooked or she feels stuck with her kids and
she just feels like, you know, she admitted wanting attention
from men outside her marriage, like she wishes that like
other men found her sexy basically, and so.
Speaker 2 (44:59):
Killing basic female train. Basic, So that's level one of
a female train.
Speaker 1 (45:06):
So basically, some guy on TikTok went and was like,
how many interviews is Aisha Curry gonna do?
Speaker 3 (45:12):
Putting down Steph Curry?
Speaker 1 (45:13):
Like this is getting crazy at this point because every time,
So this is what the guy on TikTok said, right,
So Killer Mike came on the show, came on the
comment and was like, man, at this point, she wants
to believe be Glo Rilla, Like, man, she doing my
my dog Steph bad for real, for real? Like he
was like saying whatever he said and Steph came back
(45:36):
defended his wife and was like, damn, why would you
like I not from.
Speaker 3 (45:42):
You, bro?
Speaker 1 (45:42):
Like out of everyone, why would you come on here
and say that? Like so killer Mike just recently went
our club Shaysha, and he issued an apology to them
and was like, you know what, Steph Curry did what
he was supposed to do defending his wife. My wife
had to check me, like I was wrong. I shouldn't
have got involved in that. It was up and it
was really dope. A lot of people are really like
(46:05):
He just commented back and was just like yo, bro,
like not from you. This is crazy, like and he
like basically was like nah, like.
Speaker 3 (46:13):
That ain't it?
Speaker 1 (46:14):
You know, like this is my marriage and whatever the
case is. He knows the ins and outs of people
of his marriage. I think it's hard when you're in
the public eye and sometimes you get on podcasts and
you get comfortable and you can say certain things that
are taken in a certain way that are not necessarily
like trying to bring a man down or anything. But
(46:34):
it's like, this is what I've been feeling in my relationship,
you know, And a lot of people are just dragging
her for that.
Speaker 2 (46:41):
And well, the toughest wife in the world is a
wife of one of the most iconic people.
Speaker 5 (46:49):
Yeah, and all of the world.
Speaker 2 (46:52):
When you talk about guys like Steph Curry and Lebron
James and Bernardou and.
Speaker 4 (46:59):
Puff and jay Z.
Speaker 2 (47:02):
Like, when you start talking about guys of that nature,
to be the wife of people like that, it's immense
pressure on the wife and eyeballs on them and every
word they hang on to you and you see the
attention that your spouse gets and it can be overwhelming, yeah,
(47:24):
you know, and it's just like damn, like everywhere he
go he can probably have any woman he wonts, you know,
but it's vice versa for the woman too because they
get the attention, but they in the back burner.
Speaker 1 (47:39):
And yeah, they feel overlooked, maybe because they go out
and you.
Speaker 2 (47:44):
Know, they the thing is the girl most of the time.
And when we look at this situation, they don't even
see it coming. Like Ayaisha was with him before he
became Steph Curry, that magnitude.
Speaker 3 (48:01):
You didn't sign this.
Speaker 2 (48:02):
You didn't know And there's no booklet on how to
like say, prepared to be the wifey of somebody like that.
The magnitude of what it is to where it's like
you get criticized, he get criticized, but then you look
at yourself a certain way and he wants you to
be a certain way where you looked at yourself and like, well.
Speaker 4 (48:24):
I was cracking.
Speaker 2 (48:26):
You know, I'm cracking too, but like, but since he's
so his magnitude of cracking is so big. It overwhelms
everything that you know that you have going on, and
you like, damn, it overshadowed everything I wanted to do
in my life because I wanted to be this or
that and everything. And I understand it, but like, damn,
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when you become a wife, when you become a mother,
all the plans changed. You became a mother, you became
a wife. So like you like, yo, that's like who
you are and that's you know, what you decided to be.
(49:08):
And you know now it's like you're the wife of
him and it's not fair, but that's the way our
society is and that's the way you view the point.
Speaker 4 (49:21):
Oh, that's like they.
Speaker 2 (49:22):
Like most people are like think about this and with
the women have to understand more. People know your name
based on what you're with, who you with and it's like,
that's not what you want it, but that's just what
it is, and that's what comes with this. So you know,
(49:45):
sometimes you just got to play the background and be
like not get caught up in the hype and not
get caught up in the And it's the pressure, you know,
of wanting to be more than who you are. It's
just like, you know what I'm in this a beautiful family.
I got a dope ass husband, and you know, I'm
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gonna support him because I know he support me. And
this is the life I chose, and you know, it
is what it is. You know, it's just tough. You know,
that's you know, women want more for themselves and women
want to be you know, make a name and do
their own thing and carve their own path sometimes but
(50:29):
then like when the husband is carving a path that's
like iconic. It's just that's crazy. It's like you don't
see that coming sometime.
Speaker 1 (50:37):
Yeah, So that so I get what you're saying completely,
you know, which ties into a statistic, which I know
you hate statistics, but basically now they're saying seventy seventy
two percent of women admitt they rather be single, and
a lot of women now are like not wanting to
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get married, not want to have kids, like they're saying statistically,
especially with this new generation. They feel like they also
don't have an interest in being tied to a man
that makes them feel unsafe emotionally or financially, and they
really don't have an interest in being in a relationship anymore.
And the funny thing is is the more I talk
to a lot of women, I notice that now, like
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they're like, I'm cool, Like I don't really want to fuck.
Speaker 5 (51:26):
With a guy.
Speaker 2 (51:27):
Yeah, they want to fuck with a guy, but they
want to be single with the money because when they
don't got the money.
Speaker 1 (51:37):
A lot of women are getting their own money now
in this society, Like they getting brand deals, they doing this,
they doing that, Like I've.
Speaker 3 (51:44):
Seen it now like women are being bosses. Women are
making their own money.
Speaker 1 (51:48):
And I think the more money women make, the less
appealing a man is to them.
Speaker 5 (51:53):
And I've noticed that with a lot You'll.
Speaker 2 (51:56):
Be crazy though, Like a man make the money and
he's supposed to like take care of the woman and
give the woman the money. But when the woman make
the money, she ain't want to get nothing to the man.
That's the craziest shit, Like I don't get it if
a man asks you, Like if a man asks you like, hey,
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you know a woman with money.
Speaker 4 (52:20):
She got the money and give me two hundred what
like what?
Speaker 3 (52:25):
Like crazy? But I'm saying a woman would give a
man two hundred, Like women.
Speaker 4 (52:35):
Ain't doing that.
Speaker 2 (52:36):
Women ain't doing that though, women that don't spend money
on men like that.
Speaker 3 (52:41):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (52:42):
Okay, Nah, women ain't spending money on men like that.
It's like we're taught to make the money for the
women and the women who get the money to be
independent or taught to keep it and not give it
to the man or give a man no love in it.
I mean, it's just true. It's like I don't know
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why society is like that, Like I just don't know.
Like like when a woman get money, she want another
dude with money. But when a man get money, he
ain't tripping off a girl having money. You know what
I'm saying, He he he'll take care of you. The
woman ain't never thinking I'll take care of a dude.
I don't need a dude with money now when I
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got money, that's you know what I'm saying. It's like
it's crazy, but that's just the way it is.
Speaker 1 (53:31):
You know, that's just the way it is. Well, I
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Speaker 2 (53:39):
That was a good conversation though, Like you know, you're
looking good tonight with the castle.
Speaker 4 (53:45):
Girl the glasses.
Speaker 3 (53:46):
It's not a suit.
Speaker 4 (53:51):
I heard you been in the gym lately. He's still
been in the gym. The boots is booting, The boots
is booting.
Speaker 5 (53:58):
The glasses glasses.
Speaker 4 (54:03):
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Speaker 2 (55:38):
All right, everybody, welcome to Truth after Dark.
Speaker 3 (55:43):
Do you think that men or women are more toxic
What do men actually find unattractive in women? What a
lot of men are saying is I have seen those
lace fronts with them big big baby hairs, y'all gotta
that's too much.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Once I feel the product, test the product, and I
see what it's really given, and I got it in
my hand, and it's like, oh no, I'm good.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
How do you feel? Test the products and put it
in your hand.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Like if your girl was at a bar and around
them man was like, oh, let me pay for her
mail right there, that's cool with you two?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Or you're good with that, okay.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Look like this is my thing? Okay, Like let a
trick trick?
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Hello?
Speaker 4 (00:37):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
There's not one friend or homeboy that I have that
is worth being fighting over for my relationship.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Like any friend I have you could kick rock.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
These women have, these babies have child support and it's
blowing me, like do you want the kid or do
you want the child support? Like I'm so confused at
what's going on in this society.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Like if a man asks you like, hey, you know
a woman want money, She got the money and give
me two hundred what like what like giving is crazy?
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Okay? But give a woman.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
I'm saying a woman would give a man two hundred.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Women ain't doing that. Women ain't doing that. Though you're
looking good tonight with the Castle girl. The glasses is
not a suit. You have heard you've been in the
gym lately. He's still been in the gym.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
The boots is booting, The boots is booting.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Glasses, glasses and looks. The smile and smiling. This is
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the taking over the game.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
All right, everybody, Welcome to Truth after Dark.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Do you think that men or women are more toxic? Hello?
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Speaker 4 (02:50):
Right, let's talk.
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Speaker 1 (02:57):
How are you it's a week We're back, Yeah, we're back.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
We cracking.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
So I'm going to start off with a question that
is circling the internet, and I will tell you what
the most popular answers were, but I'm curious to see
if yours are similar. So what do men actually find
unattractive in women?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
For me, the most unattractive thing for a woman is like, uh,
the way, like that's a good one because it's like this,
if you had a nasty attitude. I'm looking at your personality.
Speaker 5 (03:38):
Yeah yeah, that.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
Like you could be a bad one.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Everything your looga, good boots, I'll fit, hair nails, everything, everything. No,
for real, you can have all of that sit down
at the table. Then I'll have I'll start sparking off
a conversation with you, and then you just sound like
it's just like, oh no, that's like off the like
first five minutes, I could be like that's attractive, Like damn,
like you you're toxic in a kind of a way.
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Like to keep it one, Like you know, it don't
even matter, like what you got right there, because all
the glitz and glamour and the windows shopping gonna turn
into something I'm not gonna buy once I feel the product,
test the product, and I see what it's really given
and I got it in my hand, and it's like,
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I'm good.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
How do you feel test the products and put it
in your hand.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
That's what I'm saying. You got to like the thing is.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
So you feel her, you touch her.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Like, no, you talk to her.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Okay, So you're saying you feel the energy.
Speaker 4 (04:40):
No, no, no, you the conversation is gonna tell you everything.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Right, so you feel her out. Basically you're not feeling
her and touching her okay, actual touch yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Okay, or having her in her hand.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Yeah, it's it's more of a conversation than and it's
just like you're gonna be like, you know what, this
ain't really my type, like because your.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Views on stuff. Okay, it's just I.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Don't even know how to explain it. But like you,
you can hear a girl conversation. You can hear they
start sounding a certain way, and it's just like and
I could play it off at dinner, you know what
I'm saying to where we can keep the day going.
It's not gonna be like me showing facial expressions and
I'm be like, yeah, you know, I'm gonna ask you
certain questions. You're gonna ask me certain questions, right, and
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then I'm gonna get a feel for you. And then
like when you're getting a feel for me and I'm
getting a feel for you, I'll be like, oh, you know,
this ain't really it or this is it, or or
you know I could work with this and everything, and
you know, the look is just to get you on
the date. The look is just to get you in
the conversation through the door, through the door, to get
you in the car, to get me to pay for
this meal. But the conversation is what's gonna keep me
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around a little bit longer, you know what I'm saying.
Then if the conversation bomb, it's like, oh okay, I'm
feeling her vibe, her mental capacity to all of this,
and it's like damn, just on a spiritual on a
mental level, on a like certain type of level.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
To where you just like.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Damn, okay, I like like we can hold We could
just be on some kickback of conversation. And this is
a vibe that's a vibe in itself more than just
a date or the sex. Like, the vibe is the
conversation really, because that's gonna last longer and all that
other stuff, it's gonna last longer than it looks. It's
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gonna last longer than the sex. The vibe of what
y'all have and the conversation of what y'all have is
gonna always last longer than all of that. I'm trying
to tell you. I can't explain it, but like you know,
every girl gonna look good with the first like if
you if you have if you're.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
Cute with no no, no, no, the but like you can,
we can.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Y'all all can get the same type of outfits. You know,
you all can get the same type of hair.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Dudes, you know you all can look good.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
But like the thing that's gonna withstand the test of time,
it's gonna be like the the mental.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
The Yeah, I think we got it.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
I think we understand what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, No, I mean you explained it very well,
so he shouldn't be frustrated.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
He said everything.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
So some of the things that the men said, just
so you know, is the internet says lace fronts.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
Hey, what was the question.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Is what do men actually find unattractive?
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Yeah, so they said lace fronts, like wigs, like baby hairs,
like them lace fronts and in them big ass baby hairs.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
Huh, Well, men can't. All right, So this is what
I'm gonna say.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Men can't be hypocrites on this because like that's part
of our culture that women get weaves and weaves about wigs.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
Why I wasn't done keeping, but like that's.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Part of the culture that you women wear weaves, lace
fronts with my mama world wig like, like all of
that is cultural with us, Like you know, that's part
of our what we do. So don't be cool with
braids and then not be cool with lace fronts or
wigs or like you know, like you gotta be cool
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with all of it. I feel like, you know what
I'm saying. That's all I'm saying because I like that ship.
If you're doing shit like that and it's just the hair,
I'm cool with the hair part of it because that's
natural thing that women do within our culture.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Well, I will say this what a lot of men
are saying is I have seen those lace fronts with
them big big baby hairs. Y'all gotta that's too much,
And I'm gonna keep it real. I love weaves, I
wear I never wore a wig, but I do wear weaves, ponytails,
little things. But then place runs with that big baby
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hair coming down, and you don't gotta do all that.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
That's a lot.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
So I get what they said, there's a market for it,
but a lot of women market dress for women and
not men. So that's why this question was funny because
even in the comments, all the women are saying what's
unattracted for men? And the men are like, yo, they're
asking us, y'all think you know what we are thinking
is unattractive.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
We're telling you what we think looks crazy.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
That's a certain demographical man that's saying he don't like that.
But when there's a certain demographical man that's into that,
they're doing that for that man.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Yeah, there's always gonna be someone who's into something. So
another thing that they said would be extra long nails,
big eyelashes.
Speaker 3 (09:53):
Smoking. They said, if a woman smokes, it's.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
A turnoff, thigh cigarette or we some of them said
weed too, like a smoker weed because they were like
women who smoke a lot, we have dark lips and
they smell like weed and they don't smell feminine.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
That was the thing that I was seeing a lot
thigh and chest tattoos. So many people said that chest.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Yeah, like chest chattoos right here on women, or like
I can get through that, you can fuck with that,
I can get through it.
Speaker 4 (10:28):
Okay, that doesn't like steer me off the.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
Path of liking Okay, being independent?
Speaker 4 (10:36):
That turns you off? Being independent?
Speaker 5 (10:38):
Yeah, that's one of the things a lot of men independent.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
That's what a lot of men said.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
But then at the same time, if a woman wants
you to pay for something, you're also mad, So make
it make sense. You don't want them to be independent,
but then you don't want them to ask you for
no money because now they're going digger?
Speaker 3 (10:52):
Which one is it? Do you want me independent? Or
do you not?
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Like men be confused as hell, like they want a
woman to be for you and modern at the same time,
it is blowing me, like you want me to go
fifty fifty on the bills with you, but then you
want me to also clean, cook, take care of you
while I'm at work every day tired too, Like, how
does that make.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
I'm good enough for a woman being able to get
her own uber? I loved enough.
Speaker 3 (11:18):
That's cool, That's that's all you need to be able
to do? Okay, cool?
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Yeah, a lot of men said that, but it's just
blown me because it's like I think they just don't
like that they want to have that control and then
having too many male friends.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
That's a red flag.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
That's what they said is unattractive.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
Talking to the girl, she's like, oh, my homeboy, all
my homeboy, all my home Like damn, what.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
If I was like all my homegirl.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
Yeah, that's a lot like.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
All this like we go out, all this is my homeboy. Yeah,
Like what if I was doing that? Yeah, I'm not
about to introduce a girl I'm with that. This is
all my homegirls. Nah, that ain't that.
Speaker 4 (12:00):
Man.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
At some point you gotta be like get out that
that mindset and not that stage of your life. Like
if you're trying to build something with a female or
you're trying to build something with a male as a girl,
you gotta be like, all right, I gotta let these
motherfuckers go, because like, is it any kind of Like
I know there was my boy and all this before
(12:21):
I had to do, but like what benefits is it
helping your relationship if you're trying to build something long
term with him or her? Like is he really like
your brother? Like at least step in front of a
bullet for you, or he's just waiting in the wings
in case something happened between you and him to where
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he can slide it like you knows so many You know.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
You're right too, because there's a viral clip right now
that's going crazy and this one woman she comes out
and she's like, listen, a girl saying that she has
a boyfriend is not ever enough. Like a man will
check up on every like few months, you see you still,
Like I've had men do that, like you single again,
like you're still the relationship was up, Like they'll check
(13:06):
up constantly, and it's like yes, And I feel like
where I'm at in my life, there's not one friend
or homeboy that I have that is worth being fighting
over for my relationship. Like any friend I have, you
could kick rocks, like it's never gonna come before what
I'm doing in my relationship. But a lot of women
will be like, this is my best friend. Is my brother,
(13:27):
this is this and you know you had sex with him,
now that's your brother, Like Kno, get the fuck off.
Y'all are not brothers and sisters unless you're on some
weird ancestral shit.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
I got a question, sure, So like you said, and
I'll pay attention to what you be saying.
Speaker 4 (13:42):
Yes, you said.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
A lot of men will check up yeah, to say
hey you have a boyfriend or anything.
Speaker 4 (13:49):
But like all right, say like you with a man.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Man you look at his phone and something come up
on the text, like, hey you still got a girlfriend?
Speaker 4 (14:00):
Is that an argument? No, Hey you still got a girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
You see that from you know, her name is like whatever,
Christina whatever? You know, Hey, you still with your girl.
And you see that, you're gonna be like, the first
thing gonna say is who is that?
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (14:18):
And then and then he's gonna be like, oh, that's
the home girl, right right? Is that cool? Is that cool? So?
Speaker 2 (14:30):
Now if the home if your dude look at your
phone and say, hey you still got a man? Steal
from Demetris. He looking right there like oh like yeah,
who is Demetris? Oh that's the homeboy? Ask him if
you still got a man? That's cool?
Speaker 5 (14:49):
Is that cool?
Speaker 4 (14:50):
I you're wrong, I don't see so you're wrong.
Speaker 3 (14:54):
I answer it.
Speaker 4 (14:57):
You you answered it. You said no, no.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
No, no, that's not my that's not my answer. Let me answering, no, no,
let me answer, but.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
Listen, let Paul, let me talk for two seconds. I
don't think that it's wrong for the person. Like, if
you're getting a text from a woman that says that
you're not in control of that, she obviously knows you
have a girl, so you already set that boundary.
Speaker 3 (15:23):
If she's circling the block to see if you still
have a.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Girl, she's being thirsty and in your you have to
say yes and move forward. But like as a woman,
I know if I go somewhere and I'm like, oh,
this is my man, and it's a girl that's on you,
and I'm like, this is my man, there's no way
in my mind that I think that's stopping her from
still wanting to fuck with you. It's the man's responsibility
to set that boundary, and it's the woman's responsibility set
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that boundary in her relationship.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
Pier point blank.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
You can't control someone circling the box trying to see
if you're available.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
Okay, So to me, oh that question don't get asked
is like, hey, I got a girl.
Speaker 4 (16:03):
You shouldn't be calling me or texting me period.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
So if you're texting me that, and then my girl
sees that or a guy is texting you that, I
feel like you didn't give him that message. You left
the door open for him that they continuously every three
months asks you.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
That I don't be understand because I have told man
in my past relationships. Hey, men are more assertive and
aggressive than women at times. Like you could be like, hey,
I'm in a relationship, don't call me no more, and
a man three months later will literally call you like hello,
you're still in that relationship, like, don't call me bro.
(16:40):
Like you could tell a man that, but men are
like super aggressive and assertive, and they literally like there's.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
Memes about that.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
They'll wait and stock your page to see if you posted,
if you took a picture down and your man so
he can holler at you like okay, so.
Speaker 4 (16:53):
If we're playing checkers or we're playing.
Speaker 5 (16:57):
Chess, okay, what do you do about him? Blocked?
Speaker 3 (17:01):
Period?
Speaker 4 (17:02):
So that means you left the door open if you
don't block.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Him, and he can still do that the second time.
So the first time you could be like, hey, I
have a man, don't.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
Ever hit me up, and you did that already.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Right, and then the second time he comes through, you
block and you never talk to me.
Speaker 3 (17:17):
You block him. I think you block them.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Okay, that's my opinion, you're getting blocked un because you're
not respecting my relationship and you're blocked at this point.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
Yeah, because we're in a time and an age to
where like it ain't like it was when I'm young,
like you, like you ain't. You can block somebody and
lose contact, but you can always find that person down
the road. Like in my generation, you you lost a person,
you lost him, Like it's hard, you know what I'm saying, Like.
Speaker 4 (17:50):
You should be at it.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
It's easier in a relationship to say, hey, I'm done
with you, I'm blocking you, and like if the door
will always be open, because like in ten years from now,
if I don't talk to you for ten years, I.
Speaker 4 (18:03):
Can go to your page and be like, hey, how.
Speaker 3 (18:05):
You being right on Facebook? Instagram?
Speaker 2 (18:09):
So many avenues getting in touch with somebody, so like
daddy right there, yeah, you know, whereas like Niggas held
on the girls because he was like maybe down the
road iking like you know, I'm always gonna keep doing yeah,
Like now you can always double back after losing them
and blocking them and losing their number because you can
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go through so many outlets to try to find them.
It's more outle find people now, So like you should
be able to do that. It should be easy to
be like, all right, I'm good, I'm blocking you.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
Period, I agree, I agree. I think you're absolutely right.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
So a question that Another question is, let's say you're
in a relationship and your girl gets a lot of
requests from just random man or like people, and they're like, hey,
you're beautiful. Let me send you a cash app. Let
me pay for your now house, let me cash app
you Instagram. Oh here's my cash app? Is that foul?
Speaker 4 (19:11):
Oh? Run that home?
Speaker 2 (19:15):
I need of that baby? How much he sent you
a hundred? I need a dub he sent you five hundred. Okay,
that's gonna cost you a hundred.
Speaker 4 (19:24):
Could run that to me?
Speaker 2 (19:25):
So if you feel comfortable a sept the money from guys,
give me some and then were good with it, so
I can feel comfortable.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
So I'm gonna say this, I was in a really I'm.
Speaker 4 (19:37):
Good with that. Were making with that. Don't go past that.
I'm good.
Speaker 3 (19:43):
So this is that's the thing.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
So I was in a relationship one time, and I
remember I was at South Beverly Grill, sitting at the
bar and there was like a guy sitting next to
me right and I'm on the phone my dude, Da
da da da, and he's like, hey, telling the bartender
because I'm at the bar. He's like, hey, I want
to pay for her meal. So he overheard that. He's
like what, like he wants to pay for your meal?
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And I was like yeah, I guess and I'm like no, no, no, you.
Speaker 3 (20:07):
Don't have to do that. And the dude was pissed
because he was like, I wouldn't. Never. I didn't accept it.
I was on the phone with him, but I was like,
I would never.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
He's like, if you accepted that, that would be so
disrespectful to our relationship because a man doesn't just stop
at buying you a meal. Then he's gonna ask your number,
this and that, and now it looks like I'm not
taking care of you as a man and I'm not
doing my job, like I'll pay for this whole meal
right now. I send you the money. You know, you
don't have to like work for nothing or need nothing,
So why would you accept that?
Speaker 3 (20:39):
So, like, what is your thoughts on that?
Speaker 1 (20:41):
Like if your girl was at a bar and a
random man was like, oh, let me pay for her
meil right there?
Speaker 3 (20:44):
That's cool with you two, or you're good with that, okay, like.
Speaker 4 (20:48):
This is my thing, okay, like let a trick trick.
Speaker 5 (20:53):
Hello, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
But if you gonna go past that, the line crossed
where you now? It's like, listen, you offer to pay
for my meal. I accepted it. That don't give you
the open door to have a conversation. I appreciate you, bro,
but I have a man, so I thank you.
Speaker 5 (21:16):
Now I gotta go now.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Is it the same for if you're at a bar
and the man sends you a drink. Can she drink
that drink?
Speaker 2 (21:25):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (21:26):
Hey, he sent you a drink from across the bar.
Here you go.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
I'm not really into that because I don't know what's
in that drink. I need to see the port. You
know what I'm saying. I don't know if he you know,
put the and then you know what I'm saying. I'm
not a fan of drinks being sent to me, like
if I didn't see him port. You know what I'm saying,
unless I know the person, like as somebody I don't
know they sending you a drink? Come on, bro, that's
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like you're not even you're playing like, come on, you're
playing around with me. No, No, you might do some
foul shit. No, I'm not doing that. That's not that's
not cool. You gotta you gotta you gotta like be aware.
Speaker 4 (22:01):
Of your soundings. You know what I'm saying. You gotta
be smart out here, Like dude, want to buy you
a drink?
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Okay, good look, all right, I gotta dude, I gotta
I gotta girl, a girl like I got girls offer
me drinks like all right, cool, good look, hey toss, Hey, yeah,
what's your name?
Speaker 4 (22:17):
All right?
Speaker 2 (22:17):
Yeah, that's cool. I got a girl. But you know,
I appreciate it. I know, you know whatever. All right,
I'm over here now, I'm gonna move though. I'm gonna
move around. You know what I'm saying. I'm not gonna
sit in the same spot either, right if they're doing that, nah,
but like like it's hard for something like somebody to
do that for me. That's gotta be in a restaurant,
like like we in another spot, like you know, it's hard,
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like you ain't just buying me, like most of the
people buy me drinks as fans.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
Like I remember one time I was with my axent.
We were at the bar at an event holiday party
and this girl came up and she knew him or whatever,
but they were like, we're vibe and she was were buying.
He was buying us drinks and she was like, no,
I'm gonna buy his drink. And I was pissed because
he accepted the drink and I'm like, you're thirsty to me,
(23:09):
Like and now the bitch is trying to smile in
your faces whole time and talk to you, and like,
I didn't know how to fuck with that as a man.
Speaker 4 (23:16):
You said.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
I was with my man and we're at the bar,
he's buying us drinks, and then some girl hella thirsty
me and him drinks.
Speaker 3 (23:25):
This girl had nothing to do with it. It was
me and him.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
She comes up all thirsty on him, like oh my god,
like fanning out or whatever, and she's.
Speaker 3 (23:33):
Like, oh, I miss you. He's not famous at all.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
He's just like someone likes popular, and like she likes
his work and what he does for a living, like
but it's not but she knows him.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
They know each other.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
It's not just he's not he's not you, like, he's
not famous like that. No, he's not famous at all.
And she came up and was like, oh my god,
like I miss you so much, like, let me buy
your drink. D and saw me right here and he
was like, oh this is my girl. She's like cool, yeah,
I'll get his drink. Whatever he wants is on me,
and like did the most and he took the drink.
(24:08):
Mind you, But five minutes before that, he told me
there was a photoble there and he was like, you
better not take a picture with no niggas like and
I'm like, I'm not gonna do that, but you took
a drink from a girl, Like I just think there's
certain boundaries that need.
Speaker 3 (24:21):
To be said.
Speaker 4 (24:21):
I think that's okay. If she came over and bought.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
Exactly what I said.
Speaker 1 (24:27):
I said, if I'm right here, if you're going to
offer a drink, you should buy both drinks. But you
like cutting me off, like whatever, girl, I'm buying him
a drink. He should have been like, I'm good. Yeah,
you made it so about him, made it about common sense,
That's what I was so like, she I.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
Would like if they bought both y'all drinks. It was, ah, yeah,
I'm a fan of his, but all you with him, Okay,
I'll get.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
Both y'all, thank you, thank you. That's exactly what I said.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
And I want to have a problem with that, But don't
cut me out and like dismiss me, like I'm not nobody,
Like I've been with this motherfucker for four years, Like,
don't do that. So I think that that was crazy.
But anyways, so another question is if your partner's friends,
So you're in a relationship and your girls' friends don't
like you, and.
Speaker 4 (25:16):
Girls the girl I'm with her friends.
Speaker 3 (25:18):
Don't like you, and she still defends.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
Them to you, like no, they're this or that. Is
that considered loyalty? Is that loyalty to her friends or
is that betrayal to you?
Speaker 4 (25:30):
So if I'm with a girl but the friends don't like.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
Me, and y'all are locked in and the friends are
like always talking shit, say little slick comments, and you
not feeling the friends.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
So, based on my experience, like most of the times
that the friends don't like me, they single.
Speaker 5 (25:48):
And they're jealous and jealous yeah yeah, so like.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
But how do you feel if you're girls defending them
all the time, like Noah, and they're kind of like
trying to put a seat of doubt her head about.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
So the thing is, this is what's gonna be happening
in this relationship. It's like, because I'm with you and
your friends don't like me, I'm gonna be constantly telling
you not to fuck with them, and they gonna be
constantly telling you not to fuck with me, you know
what I'm saying. So now it's like a tug and pull.
(26:21):
It's like a it's like tug of war. But it's
just like, you know, who do you value more? Like?
Speaker 4 (26:29):
Look, what do you value more? Like? What's gonna last longer?
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (26:35):
If you feel like this relationship can last longer and
you feel like I can build something with this man,
I need to get aligned with him and what we're doing.
So maybe I need to get more aligned with girls
that are in relationships too.
Speaker 4 (26:52):
Yeah, you know, because like.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
It's hard when you have a couples that's kicking it
with single friends, Like couples need to kick it with
couples because couples is gonna build each other and make
the relationship stronger because y'all gonna go through the same
things and relate to each other. Where it's like single
friends don't relate to a couple of friends because they
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single and you couple and they're like they're gonna it's
gonna be too many questions to where it's like when
you go through a bad patch and you got a
friend that's a couple, like, well, girl, I've been through that.
Well you know this is what this is, and that
can help you get through ship And if it's a
good relationship, it's strong and it's powerful and it's connected
where it's like girls who kick it with single girls
(27:38):
that's a recipe for the like the end, you know.
So I just feel like like if you're in a relationship,
you should have friends that's in relationship and do shit together.
Speaker 4 (27:46):
Like we talked about this.
Speaker 2 (27:47):
A week or two ago, like like a couple trips
a relationship, like do relationship trips. Like it could be
a situation to where the men they go golf or
they go over to the pool and y'all can go
have y'all massage, girls say on the beach, and that's
(28:07):
like y'all can do a girl thing over there, but
like eight to.
Speaker 4 (28:11):
Ten hours, we ain't tripping.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
That's still a girls trip over there for ten hours
together and then at night we go to dinner and
we just do it as a couple. Like that's still
a girls trip and a boys trip at the same
you knocking both of them out at the same time,
and so it's just more healthier, you know. Then a
girl's having a girls trip and a married couple, and
maybe two of the girls is single, maybe two of
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them married and you married or have a man.
Speaker 4 (28:38):
It's just it's just too much dysfunction.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
It's too many different cultures or too many different.
Speaker 3 (28:46):
Mindsets.
Speaker 2 (28:47):
Yeah, just coming together because you you like, the single
girls is like, let's go out to the club to
see what's out here.
Speaker 4 (28:55):
Where the manion girls is like, I want to go in.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
So it's just like, you know, you got to kick
you with people who are like minded and who in
the same type of situation to build your ship up,
not to like peace at your ship or put like
teared or cracks in what you already got, because that's
what relationships do. The more friends you have that are
single in your relationship, Say, if I got five friends
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that's single and I'm in relationship, that's not a recipe
for a long lasting relationship. I need to have five
friends that are in a relationship that I can be like,
I can bounce it off of because more so than not,
if they in a relationship, they can help me get
through it. You know what I'm saying to where it's
a single dude, like, man, fuck her. You know you
(29:41):
don't need to be with her because you sing, because
you want to go out, because you want to because
you did because now you know. Yeah, So now it's like,
you need to be around more people that are in
the same type of situation and like minded like you.
And I think that's the recipe for longevity. But if
you single and you got single friends, y'all kick it
(30:01):
all right. Then once you get a.
Speaker 4 (30:02):
Girl, you should be around motherfuckers. That's like that's been
around a long time.
Speaker 1 (30:07):
So I have a homegirl too, and recently we were
having this conversation because she was out and about with
two of her other single homegirls, and she was like,
I'm annoyed because you know, my man keeps wanting me
to check up on like communicate and tell me where
I'm at. Right and we're all having fun, we're not worried.
And I said, you know what you're gonna end up doing.
You're gonna fuck around and be single like them, while
(30:29):
they wish they were you. They wish they had a
motherfucker that wanted to know where they were at, that
was concerned about them, that wanted to check up with them.
And you overhear busy wanted to be out with these
motherfuckers that they're only out because they don't got nobody
for real, because if they were in your position, trust me,
they would be much more happy. Like them single girls,
(30:49):
they want to be in a relationship so bad, and
you over here, you have one, and you're willing to
jeopardize that because you want to be out with your homegirls.
Speaker 2 (30:56):
The problem and the generation that we're in, we're in
a generation to where girls wants the sense of security
of a man that can take care of them, but.
Speaker 4 (31:07):
To be able to do what they want.
Speaker 2 (31:10):
And that's and what I mean by that is like, damn,
I should be able to just like flirt with other
men or.
Speaker 4 (31:20):
Be out at the club and still do this.
Speaker 2 (31:22):
But I you know, that's still got the but I
still got the security of a man. But because that's
why girls. But but like I'm telling you, it sounds crazy,
but it's in reality and That's why when girls marry
and get divorced and you have a man that pays
alamoi or child sport, and they use the money for
(31:43):
their like lifestyle and because they want the lifestyle without
the man. Yes, you know what I'm saying. They enjoy
the lifestyle while they're with the man, but.
Speaker 3 (31:55):
Then but.
Speaker 2 (31:57):
They don't enjoy the man, and they want to like that,
but they enjoyed the lifestyle. And the reason they with
the man is because of the lifestyle. If he creates
a higher lifestyle or a certain standard or put you
on like a certain level to where you wasn't before,
it's like you like that, but then it gets to
the point to where I want to enjoy this still
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but without you.
Speaker 4 (32:21):
And then it's like it's frustrated for the.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
Man to see that, and he like, Dawn, you know,
he upgraded your lifestyle and did all this and you
really didn't. And then the man feel like you really
didn't want me for the beginning, right you know, And
it just feels like that. So and that's why I'll
be saying, like, man, get who like you, who really
(32:46):
like you? And then it ain't got to be the
baddest vision in the world, and it ain't got to
be like you know, it's just got to be somebody
you can bond with, you can have a conversation with,
and you can she can come to your level, you.
Speaker 4 (32:59):
Can go to her level.
Speaker 2 (33:00):
And it's out there whether you rich, poor, uh, middle
class or when everything is out there for for everybody.
It's just the like circles that you put yourself in
and where you hang out at and where in what
you do in your life to like, you know, if
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you want to be at all the VIP ship, that's
where all the groupies is gonna be.
Speaker 4 (33:26):
That's gonna want you for your money.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
But if you want to be at all the like
status type ship, like where do you go, like if.
Speaker 4 (33:35):
You're not a list?
Speaker 2 (33:37):
And because a list, you know, it's just like they
go where actors get with actors and rappers give with
other rappers and you know, hoopers get.
Speaker 4 (33:47):
With like actors like that.
Speaker 2 (33:49):
Like, but y'all really don't even like relate to each
other on the bonding level. It's just like y'all are
the y'all still y'all still y'all just at a social
level together and it's not real, you know, And that's
like when we see a lot people at the same
social level as far as economic level, but it's like
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and it make it easier probably to deal with them,
but it's like it's never gonna happen, like only real
love come from like people on the same economic levels
off it Like no, and what I mean by that
not not not at the top, more at the bottom.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
So speaking of all of that, we'll get into a
few current events. Britney Renner in PJ Washington, she's actually
seeking to increase her child support the thirty five thousands
she currently gets fifty five hundred. She argues that the
child deserves a lifestyle equal to Pj's wealth, and him
and his wife are basically living this lavish luxury lifestyle.
Speaker 3 (34:58):
With the other children, and she feels like the fifty.
Speaker 1 (35:00):
Five hundred, I can't live this lavish lifestyle like you're
living Pj's his wife actually like responding with a bunch
of like laughing faces emojis, and then she posted like
going shopping da da da da, like with another picture
like girl by.
Speaker 3 (35:19):
So my thing is is like these women.
Speaker 1 (35:23):
Have these babies to have child support and it's blowing me,
Like do you want the kid or do you want
the child support? Like I'm so confused at what's going
on in this society. Like it's really crazy to me
because it's like there's nobody who can knock me up.
And I'm having the kid because I want child support.
Like I'm having a child because I love this person
and I want to build a family and an empire.
Speaker 3 (35:43):
Together and I want to have a kid.
Speaker 1 (35:46):
And I feel like a lot of women are doing
that and they're realizing the money is not abouty and
it wasn't worth it for them, Like they're like, damn,
I got this kid. I gotta take care of this kid.
I gotta do this, I gotta do that, And now
the money ain't money how it should have.
Speaker 5 (36:01):
Been, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (36:03):
He's trying to understand, like why the man have to
be the full financial support.
Speaker 5 (36:09):
Right or the woman that they're not even with.
Speaker 2 (36:12):
That, you know, like regardless, right, Like and because he's
living a certain lifestyle, so say like he live in
a ten thousand square foot manchiain with his new girl.
Speaker 4 (36:24):
Why his or his wife?
Speaker 2 (36:26):
That means the kid of your mother should live like
that too, I mean, what what what's the laws in
all of this? Like you know what I'm saying, Like
I think it's like it takes two to tangle. Like
he had a kid with her and she had to
carry it nine months, which is a burden, you know,
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I not get it. And you have to carry and
you go through it and the kid is probably with
you more than the father. And but a lot of times,
what you understand, the father, he's filing for half of
the custody, So like if he fouled. In some cases,
when the male foil for half of the custody, it
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should be half of the price for everything, like damn,
Like if it's school costs, you know whatever, you're going
to private school, it should be half. Like I don't know,
it's just like I feel like the society that we
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live in is set up for women to trap men
that's in a great situation to where it's advantageous to
the women and that shouldn't be fair because you're a
father and you're a mother, Like that's like I'm the father,
so like I have equal responsibilities and as you you know,
(37:56):
but then there's some cases to where you know, she
lives in one state, he lives in another state. So
how do we come to a medium to where it's like, damn,
why is the financial burden always on the man?
Speaker 1 (38:16):
You know, well, I would think that if a man
wasn't present in the baby's life. I always thought that
child support was like, they live out of state, You
don't even take care of this child.
Speaker 3 (38:26):
Here's the money, Like, but it doesn't.
Speaker 1 (38:28):
It never made sense to me where a father is
equally present and involved in their child's life, but they
also have to pay this large lump sum of money,
Like how does that make sense to me? Like, if
I'm equally doing the same work that you're doing, why
is it my responsibility to pay my equal work?
Speaker 2 (38:47):
Because the mother is always gonna do more work most
of the time. You know, let's keep it one hundred.
Y'all gonna wake up with the kid, change more diapers,
rest feed y'all gonna give way more than the man
gonna give because we are not built the same way
as women. Y'all built this. This person came out of
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your body, you know what I'm saying. So you more
attached than a man?
Speaker 5 (39:13):
Is you?
Speaker 4 (39:15):
You?
Speaker 2 (39:15):
You? This is a certain love that you carried like
and I have to see this, you know what I'm saying.
I had to see this a lot, and I don't
understand because I'll never understand that to where your barey
get bid, your body changed, and then you spill a
kid and then you breastfeed, and this is the most
carrying thing for you, right, And it's like God, I'll
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never have the spiritual or the connect with my kids
that a mother will have because I didn't carry you.
And I can love you and I know you come
from me, but like when you, I'll never understand that
carrying of it because you going through days whereas kick
in and you up and you can't sleep and you
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feel the whole situation all.
Speaker 4 (40:06):
The way through.
Speaker 1 (40:07):
It's crazy you say this because in an episode before
you said that men can do every single thing a
woman can do, and women can't do nothing a man
can do.
Speaker 2 (40:16):
No, I said that as far as terms is like
in a world lea view.
Speaker 3 (40:24):
No, you said nurturing because I.
Speaker 2 (40:26):
Brought up at it wasn't about this just had nothing
to do about kids, because man can never carry a kid.
Speaker 3 (40:32):
No, but I did bring that up.
Speaker 4 (40:34):
But that's something different, like a man can't give life.
Speaker 1 (40:37):
Right, we all know that, so a man can never
fulfill a woman's world.
Speaker 4 (40:40):
But there's certain things that men can do that women
can't do either. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (40:45):
I never argue that point.
Speaker 4 (40:47):
Yeah, but that's all I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (40:49):
But like you know, this is not no bash on
women and all that, because y'all are have an amazing
ability to create life and do all these other things.
Speaker 4 (40:57):
That's amazing.
Speaker 2 (40:58):
And I don't want this show to ever be about
me trying to put women down.
Speaker 4 (41:05):
A lot.
Speaker 2 (41:06):
It's not that this is the show is about me
just giving a man's point of view, and you know,
sometimes it's harsh, and sometimes they don't come out the
right way, and sometimes it's like men feel like we
deserve more, and so it looks that way, you know,
you know what I'm saying. And then like because we
feel sometimes we are unappreciated we we do.
Speaker 4 (41:32):
From our women, and you know, it just comes out
that way.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
And you know what a lot of people, like when
I have my last post work about men, they still
were bashing.
Speaker 3 (41:43):
And saying whatever.
Speaker 1 (41:44):
But there's a lot of people that hit me ever
and were like, men aren't just hurt by women, and
we know this, and they take their grievances out on me,
which is not right because I'm not the woman that
hurt you, my brother, but I wish you the past,
you know, but this is.
Speaker 3 (41:57):
A show to talk about that.
Speaker 1 (41:59):
But you know, we have a predominantly male viewership, and
even at people who watch each other like this is
Paul Pierce show, She's just there. Fuck her, this is
not her show, and it's like all of this stuff. No,
but listen, listen because it's good to talk about this
because I feel like women hearing these things that you're
saying and hearing the side will be more inclined to
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want to watch because I know you think good things
about one.
Speaker 2 (42:23):
Yeah, of course, because like we feel as men like.
Speaker 4 (42:31):
And a relationship.
Speaker 2 (42:32):
And when you look at the divorce rate, men don't
divorce the women, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (42:39):
So we're always the one happening here.
Speaker 2 (42:45):
And it's like and you know, we go through both
phases of like hateing each other and going through it.
And but at the end of the day, a man
will stay with a woman, but.
Speaker 4 (42:57):
You can more times than.
Speaker 1 (42:58):
Not, you can not victimize yourself in that way. And
the reason I say that is because a man will
not leave a woman, but he'll do a lot of
things to make her live.
Speaker 4 (43:08):
You and that's the same thing.
Speaker 1 (43:12):
But historically men have been the one to cheat, abuse
lie her.
Speaker 2 (43:18):
Men have been the ones who get caught. But still
women would do the same thing. But we don't look
as much as y'all. We don't investigate where it's in
a relationship. You like, it could be women that cheat
on their man a long time ago, and then the
one time he cheats and you you you find out
because he didn't look he gonna get victimized. But you
(43:42):
probably did that shit a long time ago, you know
what I'm saying, because he ain't on the same shit
you want.
Speaker 4 (43:48):
You know what I'm saying. So like that happens a lot.
Speaker 1 (43:51):
I can believe that. I'm not saying that I would
say that that happens. I could imagine that happening, but
I would stay Historically, a lot of women they were
in relationships and marriages to where they were having to
take care of kids full time and take care of
the house full time and didn't really have the capacity
or the time to even cheat if they wanted.
Speaker 3 (44:10):
To, and men were doing their big one.
Speaker 1 (44:12):
So we can't sit here and just blame men for saying, oh,
they'll never leave in the relationship. Yeah, but men will
do a lot of things to make you want to leave.
They ask for show, you know, whether it's not just cheating,
but it's like men can do those things. Moving on
to the next topic. So, Aisha Curry is on a
(44:33):
lot of platforms doing podcasts, and she has said some
things in past interviews where she said she feels like
she's overlooked or she feels stuck with her kids and
she just feels like, you know, she admitted wanting attention
from men outside her marriage, like she wishes that like
other men found her sexy basically, and so.
Speaker 2 (44:59):
Killing basic female train. Basic, So that's level one of
a female train.
Speaker 1 (45:06):
So basically, some guy on TikTok went and was like,
how many interviews is Aisha Curry gonna do?
Speaker 3 (45:12):
Putting down Steph Curry?
Speaker 1 (45:13):
Like this is getting crazy at this point because every time,
So this is what the guy on TikTok said, right,
So Killer Mike came on the show, came on the
comment and was like, man, at this point, she wants
to believe be Glo Rilla, Like, man, she doing my
my dog Steph bad for real, for real? Like he
was like saying whatever he said and Steph came back
(45:36):
defended his wife and was like, damn, why would you
like I not from.
Speaker 3 (45:42):
You, bro?
Speaker 1 (45:42):
Like out of everyone, why would you come on here
and say that? Like so killer Mike just recently went
our club Shaysha, and he issued an apology to them
and was like, you know what, Steph Curry did what
he was supposed to do defending his wife. My wife
had to check me, like I was wrong. I shouldn't
have got involved in that. It was up and it
was really dope. A lot of people are really like
(46:05):
He just commented back and was just like yo, bro,
like not from you. This is crazy, like and he
like basically was like nah, like.
Speaker 3 (46:13):
That ain't it?
Speaker 1 (46:14):
You know, like this is my marriage and whatever the
case is. He knows the ins and outs of people
of his marriage. I think it's hard when you're in
the public eye and sometimes you get on podcasts and
you get comfortable and you can say certain things that
are taken in a certain way that are not necessarily
like trying to bring a man down or anything. But
(46:34):
it's like, this is what I've been feeling in my relationship,
you know, And a lot of people are just dragging
her for that.
Speaker 2 (46:41):
And well, the toughest wife in the world is a
wife of one of the most iconic people.
Speaker 5 (46:49):
Yeah, and all of the world.
Speaker 2 (46:52):
When you talk about guys like Steph Curry and Lebron
James and Bernardou and.
Speaker 4 (46:59):
Puff and jay Z.
Speaker 2 (47:02):
Like, when you start talking about guys of that nature,
to be the wife of people like that, it's immense
pressure on the wife and eyeballs on them and every
word they hang on to you and you see the
attention that your spouse gets and it can be overwhelming, yeah,
(47:24):
you know, and it's just like damn, like everywhere he
go he can probably have any woman he wonts, you know,
but it's vice versa for the woman too because they
get the attention, but they in the back burner.
Speaker 1 (47:39):
And yeah, they feel overlooked, maybe because they go out
and you.
Speaker 2 (47:44):
Know, they the thing is the girl most of the time.
And when we look at this situation, they don't even
see it coming. Like Ayaisha was with him before he
became Steph Curry, that magnitude.
Speaker 3 (48:01):
You didn't sign this.
Speaker 2 (48:02):
You didn't know And there's no booklet on how to
like say, prepared to be the wifey of somebody like that.
The magnitude of what it is to where it's like
you get criticized, he get criticized, but then you look
at yourself a certain way and he wants you to
be a certain way where you looked at yourself and like, well.
Speaker 4 (48:24):
I was cracking.
Speaker 2 (48:26):
You know, I'm cracking too, but like, but since he's
so his magnitude of cracking is so big. It overwhelms
everything that you know that you have going on, and
you like, damn, it overshadowed everything I wanted to do
in my life because I wanted to be this or
that and everything. And I understand it, but like, damn,
(48:48):
when you become a wife, when you become a mother,
all the plans changed. You became a mother, you became
a wife. So like you like, yo, that's like who
you are and that's you know, what you decided to be.
(49:08):
And you know now it's like you're the wife of
him and it's not fair, but that's the way our
society is and that's the way you view the point.
Speaker 4 (49:21):
Oh, that's like they.
Speaker 2 (49:22):
Like most people are like think about this and with
the women have to understand more. People know your name
based on what you're with, who you with and it's like,
that's not what you want it, but that's just what
it is, and that's what comes with this. So you know,
(49:45):
sometimes you just got to play the background and be
like not get caught up in the hype and not
get caught up in the And it's the pressure, you know,
of wanting to be more than who you are. It's
just like, you know what I'm in this a beautiful family.
I got a dope ass husband, and you know, I'm
(50:05):
gonna support him because I know he support me. And
this is the life I chose, and you know, it
is what it is. You know, it's just tough. You know,
that's you know, women want more for themselves and women
want to be you know, make a name and do
their own thing and carve their own path sometimes but
(50:29):
then like when the husband is carving a path that's
like iconic. It's just that's crazy. It's like you don't
see that coming sometime.
Speaker 1 (50:37):
Yeah, So that so I get what you're saying completely,
you know, which ties into a statistic, which I know
you hate statistics, but basically now they're saying seventy seventy
two percent of women admitt they rather be single, and
a lot of women now are like not wanting to
(51:00):
get married, not want to have kids, like they're saying statistically,
especially with this new generation. They feel like they also
don't have an interest in being tied to a man
that makes them feel unsafe emotionally or financially, and they
really don't have an interest in being in a relationship anymore.
And the funny thing is is the more I talk
to a lot of women, I notice that now, like
(51:22):
they're like, I'm cool, Like I don't really want to fuck.
Speaker 5 (51:26):
With a guy.
Speaker 2 (51:27):
Yeah, they want to fuck with a guy, but they
want to be single with the money because when they
don't got the money.
Speaker 1 (51:37):
A lot of women are getting their own money now
in this society, Like they getting brand deals, they doing this,
they doing that, Like I've.
Speaker 3 (51:44):
Seen it now like women are being bosses. Women are
making their own money.
Speaker 1 (51:48):
And I think the more money women make, the less
appealing a man is to them.
Speaker 5 (51:53):
And I've noticed that with a lot You'll.
Speaker 2 (51:56):
Be crazy though, Like a man make the money and
he's supposed to like take care of the woman and
give the woman the money. But when the woman make
the money, she ain't want to get nothing to the man.
That's the craziest shit, Like I don't get it if
a man asks you, Like if a man asks you like, hey,
(52:18):
you know a woman with money.
Speaker 4 (52:20):
She got the money and give me two hundred what
like what?
Speaker 3 (52:25):
Like crazy? But I'm saying a woman would give a
man two hundred, Like women.
Speaker 4 (52:35):
Ain't doing that.
Speaker 2 (52:36):
Women ain't doing that though, women that don't spend money
on men like that.
Speaker 3 (52:41):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (52:42):
Okay, Nah, women ain't spending money on men like that.
It's like we're taught to make the money for the
women and the women who get the money to be
independent or taught to keep it and not give it
to the man or give a man no love in it.
I mean, it's just true. It's like I don't know
(53:04):
why society is like that, Like I just don't know.
Like like when a woman get money, she want another
dude with money. But when a man get money, he
ain't tripping off a girl having money. You know what
I'm saying, He he he'll take care of you. The
woman ain't never thinking I'll take care of a dude.
I don't need a dude with money now when I
(53:24):
got money, that's you know what I'm saying. It's like
it's crazy, but that's just the way it is.
Speaker 1 (53:31):
You know, that's just the way it is. Well, I
appreciate your feedback. Thank you guys for tuning in.
Speaker 2 (53:39):
That was a good conversation though, Like you know, you're
looking good tonight with the castle.
Speaker 4 (53:45):
Girl the glasses.
Speaker 3 (53:46):
It's not a suit.
Speaker 4 (53:51):
I heard you been in the gym lately. He's still
been in the gym. The boots is booting, The boots
is booting.
Speaker 5 (53:58):
The glasses glasses.
Speaker 4 (54:03):
The smile is smiling.
Speaker 3 (54:04):
Thank you. The leopard is leopard.
Speaker 4 (54:09):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I came with the lea.
Speaker 5 (54:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (54:12):
We're coming out soon with the Truth at the Dark
brand merch as far as like we're gonna cook y'all
man up to where we're gonna give y'all these hot
pajamas and to where you could just be on some
sexy ship with your girl on some night vibes.
Speaker 4 (54:28):
This is coming out, so look out soon.
Speaker 2 (54:30):
We're gonna give you the sexy look silk boxers or whatever,
or the good price too, holler at us.
Speaker 4 (54:37):
And I'm gonna give you the sunglass look too, and we're.
Speaker 3 (54:40):
Gonna do the glasses. Got the glasses.
Speaker 1 (54:42):
Everyone always asks me where my glasses are from They're
from coming.
Speaker 2 (54:48):
We're gonna be branding all these outs, so look for
us soon and next, you know.
Speaker 5 (54:53):
The next few next, yeah for sure.
Speaker 3 (54:55):
All Right. We love y'all so much. Thank you for
tuning in.
Speaker 1 (54:58):
Thank you for all the support at the constant growth,
everyone who is continuing to just listen to our show.
We're so grateful. We love y'all through and through. Thank
you so much. Thank you for tuning in.
Speaker 4 (55:10):
Peace listens to taking over the game.
Speaker 2 (55:38):
All right, everybody, welcome to Truth after Dark.
Speaker 3 (55:43):
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