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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Man ET Awards.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Yes, the b E T Awards was cracking, happing, Keisha
call I might as well have gene it on you
as much as you look like that right there. Rack.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Unfortunately we couldn't get on the red carpet, but we
got some good moments.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
What's your love language?
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Every single one?
Speaker 1 (00:38):
This is a real one. What are some things you
need to work on?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
The people with my d ms that most women would
lose their mind over. That I ignore. And that's the fact.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Who's the most famous person? I do? This is to
take it over the game? All right? Everybody? Welcome to
(01:18):
Truth after Dark.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Do you think that men or women are more toxic? Hello,
beautiful people, welcome to another episode of the Truth after
Dark with your host Zar Faraday and Paul Pierce.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
What up? What up?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
How you feeling Paul.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Man, I'm feeling good. It was an exciting week. Awards.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Yes, the b ET Awards was cracking happing. So what
did you like the most? Because we saw some performances.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Yeah, man, I got a chance to see like Keisha Cole,
a Shanty Maya, Jim Jones was popping. Oh man, we
had bow Wow in the house. Who oh, I know,
I Miss b two K that was my favor. Yeah,
and they all looked fabulous. They all a shanty.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Maya looks so good.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
And then I got a chance to see the one
O six and Park Crew all Free was in the house,
you know, I know Free Weeek she from Boston. Man.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
I loved that part.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Damn that was lit.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
This was probably one of the best. This was probably
the best BET Awards I've never had a chance to see,
and then I only been one other time. But for
me to go to this was a hell of an experience.
I'm glad I had to be a part of it.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
You know. We had Uncle Snoop, a.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Little wheezy Glrilla, everybody performing. I mean, you just it
was just Mariah Carey.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
It was just NonStop.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
It was classy. It was black excellence. I left every
moment of it. Yeah, who was your favorite moment?
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Though?
Speaker 2 (03:04):
To be honest, I think I agree with you. Like
a shanty. I grew up listening to a shanty, So
all those songs that she came out and sang, it
was like, damn, it took me back. And then Maya
and then Keisha Ko I might as well have geend
on you as much as you would like that right there,
(03:25):
rack Okay, Like all of that was really good. So
being able to see that was amazing. And then obviously
like One on six in Park that takes me back
because I grew up on One on six in Park,
So it was really dope to see all of that
and to like, really, you know, be able to see
these people that are still like they still look amazing,
(03:46):
they're still doing their big one, like all of that,
and that's dope to me. So I had a really
good time. I enjoyed it.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
The culture took a step in a positive direction on
that one. Like Anticipating next year was super dope. Kevin Hart,
the host, ah Man, he did.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Kirk Franklin came out, I was preaching. It was dope
to me. Jamie Fox, he got emotional and cryan like
it was good. And I think that a lot of
people are saying that this Award show was one of
the best.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Yeah, this probably was the best one ever.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Yeah, that's what a lot of people are saying, Like
this one was good. So whoever is behind it, kudos
to you because that was a really good show.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Yeah, I mean, the culture really took a step in
the right direction.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Unfortunately we couldn't get on the red carpet, man, but
we got some good moments that we're gonna show you
yea from our you know, our video and everything, so
we hope you enjoy all of that. But man, the
culture was really popping. I was excited Black Excellence, Kendrick
Lamar winning all those awards, Sizza, Man, you know, we
(04:56):
had a chance to check out you know, Kysanai and
Drusky was sitting right there in front of it.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
They were yeah and whatever, like guy he was imitating
with the rapping.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
He was like, man, I really truly enjoyed that.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
And Doc I'm a fan of Doci. I think her
music is so great. She won another award. She won
like so many Grammys this year or two, so I
already knew. I kept telling Paul it's gonna be she's
gonna win, and she did, and she's just doing her
big one TD So that's your boy. So she's doing
her thing.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Yeah, keep doing it, man, killing the game, top dog,
that's my man.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
She was doing it man.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
So man, I just want to appreciate the culture with
it brought to LA this past week. We appreciate y'all
we had a chance to really experience something special.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
That's part of it for sure.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Man, this is gonna be stuck in my memory for
a long time and I can't wait till next year.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
I can't wait.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Yeah, next year, I hope they bring it like they
did this year.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
They definitely brought it.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
So shout out to the BET Awards, shout out of
the culture, shout out to just everybody who was a
part of it. I know we missing some people in
all of this. We apologize for that, but this was
this was a dope experience. I had a chance because
I haven't been to a BT Awards in probably like
six or seven years. So like for me to come
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out and see it live once again and step out
there and just be a presence, you know, it was
really a dope experience. So man, I appreciate that. Look
forward to doing this again.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Yeah, I love that. Now. We have had a lot
of really dope guests on our shown, you know, and
I like, yeah, it's been popping. We've had people back
to back. So what would you say is one of
your favorite moments from all the people we had, people
from Kevin Gates to g Herbo to doctor Sarah to
(06:56):
Manny and Gwap. You know, we've had a lot of
people come on and it's been amazing and we've been
learning different things. So you know, what would you say,
is some of your favorite moments from the guests we've
had on.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Well, I will tell you this, everybody brought something special.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Yes, for sure, you know.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Because it's it came from so many different like perspectives. Yeah,
you know, because it's like when you watch a lot
of podcasts, it's like you hear the same story, do
you do? And I just feel like we got so
many different perspectives from so many great people. Kevin Gates,
(07:33):
doctor Sarah Whopping, Mandy Carlos, uh Joy, Yeah too, Short
man Gee Herbal, like Joy gave us something special that
I didn't know a lot about Joy. I got to
know her better. Yeah, Short gave us some game. Gee
Herbal told us his life and I was like, oh
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that was deep. That was good. And then you got
doctor Sarah. She just put us on some real last
games she did.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
It was like therapyession.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
And then like Mandy and Guat were super authentic.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
It was like, oh, okay, you know what it's.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
Like, it's hard. It was just hard. For me to
really pick a moment, Kevin Gates was real deep and
spiritual and it was like, oh, it hit me in
a certain way, so I was like, damn, everybody gave
they game. Man, I really can't pick a favorite moment.
But we appreciate y'all what y'all brought to our podcast,
helping us grow and really giving our fans something that
(08:37):
they probably didn't get from other interviews. And we just
hope that we can kind of bring that out and
with our guests weekend and week out. But at the
end of the day, I want y'all to get to
know us too, you know what I'm saying, Paul Azar,
you know, and it's been an amazing ride. We appreciate
(08:59):
the growth, but everybody getting to know the guests, everybody
getting to know me being vulnerable. I just think through
all of this, you know, we've been doing this for
a few months now. I feel like our guests need
to get.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
To know a czar Lord. Yeah, I feel that.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
Like we've been talking about me finding love, We've been
talking about my spirituality, but like, damn, we ain't really
got a chance to talk about you. You know what
I'm saying, You've been the whole mystery behind all of this.
We got to know all these fabulous people, But what's
going on with a czar?
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Like, like, you know what I'm saying, And.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
This is something we talked about in season one, like
you know, are you in a relationship? What you do
outside the podcast? And you know, we get a chance
to hang out and we promote the show. People been questioning, hey,
are you a parbat? Like like listen and we work together,
yeah and everything, but like I think we should direct
(10:06):
some interest in you. Let's get to know you. And
I've come up with some questions, okay, because I've been
questioning this, okay, you know, and everybody's like I feel
like everybody has had a chance to get to know
Paul Pierce away from sports, Yes, but like who is
a bizarre fair to day Okay, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
What is she like?
Speaker 3 (10:29):
What is her views on certain topics? Okay, you know
what I'm saying. So I got a few questions that
I would like to answer. You know, you can answer.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
If you want.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
What are the questions?
Speaker 3 (10:44):
So I like to start off where like you know,
and maybe we mentioned this before, Okay, starting off, but
like what are some of your red flags?
Speaker 2 (10:56):
Like are you saying that I have or that my
red flags like that I possess no or that I
see that other people.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
Haveship with another guy? Yeah, what are some red flags
for you?
Speaker 1 (11:12):
Well?
Speaker 2 (11:12):
Number one, I feel like someone who can't communicate. Communication
is really major to me. I feel like that's the
biggest struggle with a lot of relationships is people can't
just talk. And I feel like the lack of communication
it creates resentment. So people who don't communicate, For instance,
I have been guilty of this. I'll just let things slide,
(11:35):
let things slide because I don't want to create a problem,
but then later on it's like I'm building resentment, where
in reality, if I would have been like, hey, this
makes me feel a way, let's not do this anymore,
and then my partner could be like, Okay, I get that.
Because there's a lot of circumstances that may happen where
someone feels a way about something, but I may not
know that. I may not know that bothered you. I
(11:56):
may not know that that triggered something within you, and
I continue to do it, you know, because I don't
realize that it's hurting you. But I'd rather someone just
be like yo. That makes me feel a way. I
don't like when you do that, And it's an easy
thing for me to be like Yo. If I'm with
somebody and I really rock with them, cool, I ain't
gotta do that no more. It's not worth risking my relationship.
(12:19):
So I feel like when people don't know how to
communicate properly and be like emotionally mature, that already turns
me off because I'm like, we need that in order
to grow as a unit.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
All right, So look, you said your partner communication, so
I think there's levels relationship, right, So I think like
when you talk about communication, I'm gonna talk about this.
So this is after you went past the honeymoon stage, right,
because the honeymoon stage is stage the first stage, right,
(12:52):
and you don't realize the communication.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Yeah, I realize it.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
But it dives into something else.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
Yeah it does. But I realize it from jump because
I'm older now.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
But there's a honeymoon stage. At the beginning the waterfly
there is there's.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
Like touchy philly intimacy, and then once you get past
the intimacy, there's like communications starts to like settle in
something else settles in in the next stage.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
I feel like, yeah, for sure, there's obviously that honeymoon stage.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
And then you don't see the flaws.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
Yeah, but I think I've learned to see the flaws
through the honeymoon stage. I think I've passed that. I
think I can see people for who they are. And
for me, it's really important because I feel like a
lot of people get with certain type of people and
they feel like they can change them, right, Like you
get with a man or a woman and you're like,
you know, they be outside, they do this, do that,
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and then you want them.
Speaker 3 (13:52):
Then your love with what the honeymoon was like, this
is acceptance of them.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
And then there's a stage two. I want to change
what I fell in love with.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
Yeah, but you can't do that. You gotta love. You
can't change nobody.
Speaker 1 (14:06):
So there's an acceptance state.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
You have to realize that a lot of people get
in relationships with people and just want to change them,
right Like, for instance, I always tell people, if you
want a provider, or find a provider, don't find a
man who doesn't believe in providing and try to convince
him to provide. If you want a housewife, find a
woman who believes in cooking and cleaning, don't find a
whole and could try to commiser. To be a housewife,
(14:29):
you have to look for people who are in alignment
with who you are as a person. A lot of
people go outside of that, and then they're frustrated. I
just was telling my homegirl this the other night. Right,
I'm someone like if a man came home at two am,
it does not bother me. People can, you know, crucify
me on the cross for that? But for me, it's
fine because I know I live a certain lifestyle and
(14:49):
I know that a man that I'm with, I'm not
a traditional person where it's like I need all this
stuff to be on point. I'm okay with that you
came home at two am. If I trust you, if
I love you, if I'm with you, it's not gonna
bother me. Yeah. But there's a lot of women who
get with men who know they be outside. Because you
were outside with him, you were out at two am
with him, and now you're at home and you're upset
(15:11):
that he came home at two am. Stop getting with
people who you realize that you don't really want to
be with. You want to change them, Like you gotta
get with people that is in alignment with who you are.
And I had to have that reality check last year
where I realized, like, this might be a good guy,
or this might be someone who's like perfect and he
looks good on paper, but in reality, it's not in
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alignment with who I am in my lifestyle and what
I want. Okay, So it may be someone who's untraditional.
It may be someone who might come home at two am,
but that's okay with me, you know, like I'm okay
with that. I could rock with that because there's other
things that I look for.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
All Right, here we go, We're gonna move along.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
The next question, what's your love language?
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Every single one I feel like I want. I like
all of them. So for me, it's like, I'm someone
who loves words of affirmation. You know, I need reassurance
sometimes and I feel like I love words of affirmation.
But I love quality time, Like I really feel like
quality time is important to me, like being with my partner,
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spending time with them and doesn't have to be every day,
but like just having that connection with someone is super
important to me. And acts of service, you know, I
love that one too, like, and I acts of service
means like someone who like shows up for you, like,
oh you need baby, Like I see your tire is flat.
I'm gonna take you to like get the tire fixed. No,
(16:43):
but that's a love language. Acts of service is a
love language. And then because there's gifts, there's acts of service,
there's words of affirmation, damn, and there's two more I
can't think of them, gifts, reassurance, words of gifts, words
of affirmation, acts of sert oh, quality time and physical touch.
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And I'm physical touch too though. I mean I like
all of those things. That's why I said it's not
one that I can truly pick. But if I was
to like like put them in order, I would probably say,
like quality time, acts of service.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Yeah, Okay, I'm getting to know you now, gifts. Yeah,
have been around you for like.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
Almost a year, and I'm just I know more about
you today than I knew the last year. All right,
So now moving on?
Speaker 1 (17:35):
Okay, what are what is one thing.
Speaker 3 (17:41):
You've always wanted to try but never had a chance to?
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Mm we get beat, now, we get beat?
Speaker 2 (17:51):
Now? What is this pertaining to like a relationship?
Speaker 3 (17:55):
Whatever you want in life? Like you want the bungee jump,
you're jump out the plane.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
No, I don't want to do it. I don't feel
like risking my life at this age is a good idea.
But I you wanted.
Speaker 1 (18:08):
To try, but never had a chance to. We can
come back to it, though.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
I would just say, like betting on myself one hundred.
You know, like I've always put my energy in my
time and other people, and I never really just took
the time to be like this is you bet on you?
Like you know, and I feel like now I'm having
the opportunity to do that. So yes, I haven't. It's
just a recent thing where I'm like, you know what,
bet on you? You know?
Speaker 3 (18:35):
All right, we're getting to know it's a little bit y'all.
Look look, look all right. You can have any superpower.
What would it be and how would you use it?
On the first date I heard this ques.
Speaker 2 (18:54):
My superpower would be to teleport anywhere that I want
to go.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
So if the day they crack it.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
I'm like, I'm going to ma you know what, by.
Speaker 1 (19:12):
That's crazy show, I.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Would teleport out all these holes like.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
On the first day.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
Yeah, because sometimes no, because sometimes them dates is exhausted,
Like what do you do? What do you like to
do for fun? Like it's boring. I don't want to
deal with that. Like I'm one of those people with
the date thing, like I either have to have a
connection with you and we're vibing or I don't, Like
I'm not sitting there. What do you do for Like
I don't care about none of that, Like if we're
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it's a it's an energy thing, Like I don't want
to sit up, and you question me about thirty million
things I don't like on them, questions you.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Know, after the first date or how many dates to take?
Speaker 2 (19:55):
I know, after the first date, if I can rock
with somebody or not.
Speaker 3 (19:58):
But have you been on the first day? It was
like I don't know, but they went on the second?
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Yeah, I have okay, because I feel like the first
if you don't know, give it one more chance. If
the second is fucked up, there, okay, it's a dub,
but you you give it to two good chances. But
I also have a low tolerance and I don't like
a lot of people. So I'm on or I'm off.
If I'm on with you, I'm locked in. There's no
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one else I see. I don't give it damn, Like
it doesn't matter. Everyone all my homegirls know nothing about me.
If I'm locked in with you, it's a rap. Anyone
can get it. Oh bye, I don't care about nobody.
If I'm not, it's either on for me, I'm an aries,
it's onorus off, baby, Like if I'm on, I'm locked in.
I'm on. And if you play with me, that's one
(20:44):
thing about the aries and me, Like if you play
with me, you really hurt me, Like I'm done and
I'll never rock with you again.
Speaker 3 (20:50):
Have you ever been on the first day and be like, oh,
he can get it first date?
Speaker 2 (20:55):
Yeah, I have. But it's like it's not it's not
a physical thing. It's a mental thing. It's a bye.
It's not about like ooh he fine, like like because
I'm never a woman who feels like ooh, I wonder
like like I don't think about physicality. I think about
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like energy, it's about energy, it's about mental. If the
mental is there, then the I'm like flowing, you know
what I mean. It's like you don't even have to
touch me, and it's going, it's going. But if the
mantle is not there, then it's like, nah, I'm cool
and I know if the mental is there, because like
I'm a spiritual person, I'm an energetic person, and I
(21:37):
could feel it from rid like do I want this man?
Or do I not like it? It's very easy for
me to tell pretty much, like and then I get
nervous because if I really want somebody, I'm like a lord,
I just know, Like if I'm locked in with somebody,
I hate it because I know I'm just like so
in love.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
Yeah, guys, get y'all game together? What is going on
out here?
Speaker 3 (21:59):
This is a day she's locked into her spirituality period.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 3 (22:06):
All right, describe yourself in three words? What would they be?
Speaker 2 (22:16):
Lord? I would probably say pure, Okay, I have a
really pure heart, like and I have not been tainted
by all the things that I've been through, And I
feel like that's extremely special, genuine. I'm extremely genuine, Like
(22:36):
I'm not a fake person. If I don't like you,
you're gonna know, like and if I fuck with you,
you're gonna know. And loyal Mmm, loyalty. I have major loyalty.
My loyalty runs deep, okay, Like I'm a very loyal person.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
Okay, I like that you're coming off, Hey, gosh a'all
right down, all right, last question, What is the most
spontaneous thing you've ever done?
Speaker 2 (23:10):
Just went to Costa Rica, like randomly and moved to Atlanta. Yeah.
I moved to Atlanta so quickly that I remember I
told my best friend and I was told him. My
best friend's like a guy. His name is Kevin, but
he's a gay guy and we were best friends ince
with my kids, and I told him. I was like, Kevin,
I'm moving to Atlanta and he was like, no, you're
(23:30):
not out the blue. The next day my car got
shipped to atl and he was like he couldn't believe
that I was really moving. And I'm like, no, I'm
moving because when I make a decision, I stick to it.
And so I moved from LA to Atlanta, and like
literally if I just made the decision randomly, and I
was like I'm going to go I was twenty years old.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
Was it for a guy?
Speaker 2 (23:51):
No, it was just for my sister lives there and
her husband, and I was like, I'm going to go
out there and work for the family business. And I
just was like, yeah, I'm out of there, and I left.
I left in like a week. Is a big move
for four years. I was so devastated. I hated it
out there.
Speaker 3 (24:11):
All right, this is, this is, this is, this is
gonna get the guys tuned in right now.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
Are you ready for this?
Speaker 2 (24:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
You ready?
Speaker 2 (24:22):
No, go ahead, this.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
Is a real one. What are some things you need
to work on?
Speaker 2 (24:32):
I would say, hmm. I would say sometimes I'm impulsive.
I move quickly and I feel like I need to
and I'm working on it actively. But I feel like,
you know, sometimes I need to like assess everything before
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I make a move, or don't be so reactive, you know,
like I don't have to react to everything, you know,
And that's I think that it's a big thing about me,
Like sometimes I could be extremely reactive, but I'm working
on that and you know, you actually helped me with
that because you've told me about that. So for me,
you know, like I feel like not being so reactive
(25:14):
and impulsive about things. Yeah, so that's a big one
for me. Not being defensive, you know, like understanding that
you know, you can, like being self aware enough to
understand that, like I'm not perfect. There's things that I
need to work on, and being able to listen to
somebody else's perspective and understand where they're coming from and
(25:36):
try to understand like how they feel is really important.
And that's something that I feel like I've been working
on heavily and not coming from a defensive place but
a loving place instead.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
Man, hey, gosh, I'm sick. All right, here we go,
Oh God.
Speaker 3 (25:56):
There we go. Non negotiables in a relationship, Uh huh.
It's like we ain't negotiate this.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
I would say, I already said this, but like someone
who's well. Number one is like I'm spiritual, So like
I don't want to be with someone who's not spiritual,
who's not God fearing, who doesn't pray, So like that's
big for me because I pray every day, like I'm
a God fearing woman and being with someone who doesn't
have that. No, it doesn't mean you have to be
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religious at all or call the church, but having a
relationship with God is important, you know, because that's the
center of any relationship that I want to have, because
I feel like if we keep God at the center,
we can grow. So that's a non negotiable for me.
The second non negotiable is just being able to laugh
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and vibe with someone if I don't have that connection
like where we can just be cracking up, vibing, enjoying
each other's company, Like I just can't do it. Like no,
that's a big one for me. Like yeah, Like I've
been with people where I'm just like this is dry,
Like I don't even feel this, Like and I've literally said, like, yo,
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why don't we have a vibe? Like do you not
feel this?
Speaker 3 (27:11):
Shit?
Speaker 2 (27:11):
But I feel like some people don't prioritize that, Like
there's men who don't care about having a connection and
a vibe. They're like, you're a woman. You do what
you do. I do what I do, And I don't
like that, Like I want to vibe with y'all. Want
to be able to go out with you have a
good time, crack up, travel like hit it. Like if
we can't do that, then what is the point of
being together?
Speaker 1 (27:31):
You know?
Speaker 2 (27:32):
Like to me, it's just dry at that point, and
I'm cool, Like I don't see the thing about me
is I rather be alone than be lonely within my relationship.
I rather not be with somebody that I feel like
I can't connect with, I can't vibe with. And too
many people operate from a place of desperation. Too many
people want to be with somebody so bad that they
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compromise all the things that make them happy. I don't
care to be with someone enough. So if I'm with somebody,
it means that I really rock with them, means that
they really are special. Because I'm not thirsty to be
in a relationship. I'm not thirsty to be with anybody.
So if I'm in a relationship, trustingly that person is
somebody extremely special. That's just the truth.
Speaker 3 (28:16):
Guys, you listen to take notes. All right, All right,
here go, this is my last question. I know I've
been grilling you.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
No, this is good.
Speaker 1 (28:28):
Though we're trying to get the nose on. We ain't
never got a chance to get the noise on.
Speaker 2 (28:32):
Get it?
Speaker 3 (28:32):
Yeah, who is this fine woman who over here? Got
a strong opinion? Who's very like?
Speaker 2 (28:40):
Who's very like?
Speaker 1 (28:41):
What self?
Speaker 2 (28:42):
Like?
Speaker 1 (28:43):
Like you're like you're.
Speaker 3 (28:46):
You have a strong opinion, You're a strong woman. Like
you really come across like confident. Yeah, you really come
across like I know what I want. And it's like
men are intimidated by that, Like you know what I'm saying.
I can understand, Like, man, you you are intimidating really like, yeah,
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you can be because you have a loud voice.
Speaker 1 (29:13):
Not like that.
Speaker 3 (29:14):
Everyone says I'm loud, but you.
Speaker 2 (29:18):
Know my dad is loud, and my sisters are loud.
Like you know my sister, we have like a projecting
loud voice. I have to work on it.
Speaker 1 (29:25):
I Triberry can be intimidated.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
I'm loud.
Speaker 3 (29:30):
You're a customer for them anyway, All right, this is
my last Okay, what is it, Paul?
Speaker 1 (29:37):
How can anyone add value to your life?
Speaker 2 (29:42):
I think that people add value when they're not taking away.
So I've been with people who have. My dad always
says this, right. My dad taught me this from a
very young age. He was like, when you get with somebody,
you never want to be one. A lot of people
say I want to be one. We just want to
be one, right, And my Dad's like, you need to
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have somebody that's different from you. They don't possess all
the same qualities that you have. Meaning, go ahead, what
do you mean you don't want to be one? I mean, listen,
if you're one person, no, listen what I'm saying. If
you're partner one, yeah, but listen what I'm saying. If
you're one, right, okay, and we think the same. When
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you're one, it's like we think the same, we have
everything the same, we're locked in. We're just one person.
But if you're one and I'm one, that's eleven, and
eleven is a master number, and that's much more powerful
than one. So if I'm different from you and you're
different from me, and you possess traits like I might
be reactive, but you might think and think about things
and be patient and just like resonate with stuff, and
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I might be ready to be reactive, then there is
a power couple within that, because that's someone who balances
each other out. That's someone where it's like you may
do this, or this person might not be good at this,
but I'm amazing at it. So then I contribute where
you lack, And that is to me more powerful than
just trying to be the same person. Like why do
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we want to be exactly the same? I want to
partner that possessive qualities that I don't possess, that has
things that I don't have, Because at the end of
the day, if we're exactly the same, then what the
fuck are we doing? Like we're just the same person.
Then we just have all the same thoughts, we think
all the same things, like we have all the same
traits and qualities. Then how are we contributing to each other?
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Because you already have everything I have. I want to
be with someone who doesn't have the things I have,
who knows more than I know, who understands things that
I may not understand, who could teach me, who can
help me grow, and I could teach you and help
you grow in ways that you don't know how to.
You know, like it's it's to me, it's like that
balance of bringing two people together that have two different
walks of life, that may have experienced two different things,
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that may be on two different pages, but it's like
when you come together. Imagine being with someone who lacks
everything that who has as everything that you lack. Imagine
how powerful y'all are so basically together, we have everything
because you you have everything that I lack.
Speaker 3 (32:11):
Okay, you said eleven, right, Yeah, so this is my
thought on back. Please, Well, two ones are two different things,
and becoming one I believe you guys don't think alike.
Whereas my what I think about becoming one becoming one
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is not the same. For me because becoming one means
you can feel different about what I feel and we
have a middle ground the one we're not because when
you're two separate, there's argument between. There's a spacing. Even
this is what eleven is right.
Speaker 2 (32:53):
Yeah, there's space in between what you're saying space.
Speaker 1 (32:56):
I get it between.
Speaker 2 (32:58):
Yeah, I do get it.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
So when we become one doesn't mean we have to
agree with everything.
Speaker 3 (33:02):
Yeah, you can still not agree on things, but we
can have a compromise.
Speaker 2 (33:08):
I can rock with that.
Speaker 3 (33:09):
Here, there's no compromise because you's going to be what
I feel and you can.
Speaker 1 (33:15):
Look that space.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
I get that.
Speaker 3 (33:17):
We can go say hey, I want to go here,
now you want to go there, or let's compromise this.
Speaker 2 (33:23):
Yeah, I get that. I get that.
Speaker 1 (33:25):
That's what I feel. I look at it a little different.
Speaker 2 (33:28):
No, I get what you're saying, like we're not the same,
but you know everyone you're saying what I'm saying is
the same. But it's just different ways to look at it.
But I'm not against what you're saying. I do get
what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (33:40):
Yeah, it's the space.
Speaker 2 (33:44):
I get what you're saying. You don't want to say,
but you know a lot of couples. What I realize
has happened and even with me in the past, is
it's like with couples, you have to remember this that
it's us against the problem, not us against each other.
And I think when people fight, it's like me against you,
when in reality it should be me and you against
the issue, Like what's the problem, what's the problem at hand? Like,
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let's stick together and figure out how to battle that
together on the same page and not be like against
each other, you know. And I think that that's the
biggest thing too. It's like learning to work together and
having a friendship.
Speaker 1 (34:21):
Yeah, that's that's important.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
I think it's having a friendship every couple that I've
talked to, even my sister and brother who've been married
for so long, it's very important to understand that that
friendship is what brings you, guys back to reality. It's
like knowing we rock with each other and we can
be like, yo, this is what's really crazy, and like
just talk it out.
Speaker 3 (34:41):
So this is my thoughts on a relationship. And I
wrote these things down for like like this is what
the downfall of relationships are when I feel like they
come to the end, Like when the.
Speaker 1 (34:57):
Effort is not reciprocated.
Speaker 2 (34:59):
Absolutely.
Speaker 3 (35:00):
I wrote that when you know when the lady is
not ready, as a man, I want a woman that's ready.
Speaker 1 (35:14):
To be led.
Speaker 3 (35:15):
Yeah, so like when a lady is not ready to
be led, men have to recognize that, and I think
men try to force it because like when like this
is my thing, when a guy.
Speaker 1 (35:30):
And you have to have a respect for a.
Speaker 3 (35:35):
Guy to where he's like exactly trying to give you guidance.
You look like if you look at his guidance like control,
it ain't gonna work.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
But it's not even that I'm gonna say this.
Speaker 3 (35:47):
And then that's when the narcissism this stuff come in,
like he's just trying, like even when a guy mutually
like wants to help, Like think about this. A man
loves a woman genuinely, like he ain't like what what
do you want from a woman?
Speaker 1 (36:04):
What sex? He can get that from? Whoever? What do
he won't? Like think clean and cook? He can play
somebody for that, like.
Speaker 2 (36:14):
Like some men can't.
Speaker 3 (36:15):
But I can do that, but they won't love nursery, respect, respect.
Speaker 2 (36:23):
I will say this, and I have a viral clip
about this, but I truly mean this when I say this,
if a woman doesn't respect a man, they need to
let him go, because where respect lies is where you
can let a man lead you. Like, for instance, if
I respect it, I want to be led. As a
woman in relationships, I'm more submissive. I have a strong personality,
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but I love the idea of a man leading me
and a man like showing me and teaching me things,
and that's what turns me on. That's what makes me
feel good in my relationship. But I've been with men
where I lose respect for them because I see them
do corny shit or weird things that are just like
feminine or just I don't trust it. And when I
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been with those type of men, I realize like, Okay,
I don't respect you and I don't trust you to
lead me. And where women stay in those relationships and
after a while, the man gets broken down in that
relationship and then that's when they start to say, oh,
you're controlling me, you're doing this, you're doing that, because
there's no respect there. And I feel like when a
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woman respects a man to lead is when the relationship
and the dynamics is balanced. You have to be with
a woman who respects you, and a man has to
be with a woman who gives that respect period. If
that's lacking in the relationship, it's not going to work
because then the gender rules are reversed and it's just
it's not a good look, period, point blank. So as
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a woman, if you don't respect the man, you need
to leave him. Yeah. I feel like people stay in
relationships past the expiration date because they so badly want
to have a relationship, willing to just stay, and at
the end of the day, that does way more damage
than it does good. Period. And I think if a
lot of people left relationships when they knew it was
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time to leave, they would be in a much more
beneficial situation.
Speaker 3 (38:13):
So, man, this is what I'm gonna tell you. If
you're in a relationship and you trying to lead your woman,
if she rejects like feedback and constructive criticism and she's
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not ready to be led, like, you should be able
to give your woman's constructive criticism. You should like if
you really love this person, and if she ignores direction
and looks at it like yeah narcissists, like bro, like
(39:05):
we end this together. Yeah, Like, I'll never never try
to control.
Speaker 2 (39:09):
A woman, you know, what my sister taught me. So
my sister's been married to 'smen for like thirty years, right,
and she was like, you know what you have to know?
She was like, I have to trust my man, right,
because there's some things he's gonna tell me that if
I didn't trust him, I would be like, well, he's
a hater. Why is he saying this? But there's some
things that as a man, he just knows intuitively and
he feels and he knows that, hey, I don't want
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you to do this. And if I didn't trust him
to be my leader, then I would be like what, No, No,
why don't you want me to do this? You're a hater. No,
he doesn't want you to do this because he sees
something that you don't see. You know, he understands something
that you don't understand. And I feel like that's the
important thing. A lot of women getting these relationships with
men where they don't respect or trust them, and then
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when a man tells you something, you're like, what, you
just want to control me. You are hating on me.
You don't want me to do this because you're jealous.
But in reality, man, just like women can see things
that we don't see. They can understand things that we
don't understand. And I'm a strong believer that the man
is the head of the household. I believe that I
stand by that. I grew up with parents who are
still married to this day. My dad has always been
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the head of a household and I've seen that and
I wouldn't want it any other way. And I feel
like women they want to act like they want to
be led, or they want to be submissive, or they
want to have a man that tells them what to do.
But when it comes down to it, they aren't ready
to get into submission. They aren't ready to let a
man lead. And that is one of the biggest problems
that we have. And if you don't trust a man,
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and if you think he's corny or silly or goofy,
then don't be with him. Simple.
Speaker 3 (40:39):
I've been called a narcissist and controller real, but then like,
I feel like that's a word I get thrown around
too easily.
Speaker 2 (40:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (40:48):
Absolutely, But then I was like, hey, you know, as
a lady I was with and I was like, man,
these girls ain't your friends.
Speaker 1 (40:58):
Yeah right, It was just like oh no, I got.
Speaker 4 (41:04):
I literally got like extracized. Yeah, I got attacked for it,
and I was like, you know, I'm just I'm not.
I don't I'm on the outside looking in, and I'm
with you.
Speaker 3 (41:15):
Right. Three months later, she's not friends with them no
more exactly, And I was just like, damn, that's crazy
that I said this because I saw something and I
was around them, and I see how they talked to you,
that you was in it and didn't see it.
Speaker 2 (41:33):
The problem is that too many people are in relationships
with people they don't trust. When I talk about like
what I would do for somebody, I was with people,
women always like, why would you do that for a man?
Because the man that I choose is going to be
the man that I trust, that I rock with, that
I will let lead me. I'm not choosing somebody that
I don't have those things with. Y'all choose so many
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men that really trot me. Yeah, she didn't trust you,
that's the problem. She didn't trust you, so she thinks
that you're attacking her. She goes into defensiveness. But also
that is another level of emotional maturity. Another thing is
that people go in a automatic defense mode because they
think that everyone is attacking them the world revolves around
them and everyone wants to see them lose. That's not
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the reality. Some people actually want to see you win,
they want to see you grow, and they're trying to
help you. And the fact that you can't take constructive
criticism says more about you than the person that's giving it.
And that's the truth, Ain't the truth? Yeah? And I
feel like at the end of the day, we have
to remember that you gotta get with someone that you
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rock with for real, because that's the problem. I think,
the gender war, the people hating each other, the people
that feel like they can't be in relationships, and men
hate women and women hate men. It's all because you
keep staying in relationships that are overdue, that are done.
You keep staying with people who are not worthy of
your time and your energy, and then you're bleeding on
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people who did not cut you with men or women,
and you're taking out all your traumas on them. And
it's not other people's responsibility to tiptoe around your triggers.
If you're triggered by something, that's not my responsibility to
tiptoe around that. You gotta work on that, you gotta
get therapy. You gotta figure that shit out. It ain't
my fault that someone broke your heart and cheating on you,
(43:19):
because you gonna fuck around and miss out on a
good person. Because I'm not a cheater. But you question
to me for cheating on me every two seconds, Keisha
Kall might as well have cheated on you, like the
way you know me. Like. People come in relationships and
they have all these emotional triggers and pains, and they
expect you to have to be the one to be like, oh,
(43:39):
tiptoeing around it. It's not my responsibility. You a grown
ass man, or you're a grown ass woman. It's your
responsibility to figure out how to heal those triggers or
at least deal with them. Don't come over here with
all that pain and expect me to be the one
to heal it. That's your responsibility. I'm not the one
who cuts you. Don't bleed on.
Speaker 1 (43:57):
Me what you're looking for a man?
Speaker 2 (44:07):
I don't cry it. Well, I would say that I
don't look for a man. But if I was, no,
I'm not no, because I feel like.
Speaker 1 (44:19):
The cuts are too deep.
Speaker 2 (44:21):
No, no, no, the cuts aren't too deep. The cuts
aren't too but for me, yeah, you had cut. I'm
not going to say that I haven't had deep cuts.
Like I've been in relationships that hurt me deeply. I've
been cheated on, I've been lied to, I've been having
I have all those things. But I've also been committed
to healing myself. And I'm very committed to understanding that
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the things that I've been through are not somebody else's responsibility.
So for me, I've taken the time out to make
sure that I've healed the things that hurt me because
I'm not going to bring that into a new relationship,
like it is not another person's reponsibility to figure out
what's wrong with me. And there's times where maybe I
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feel like, damn, I'm feeling a certain way, I'm being
triggered by something, and I'll reflect on that. I won't
bring that to my partner. I won't bring that to
someone else. I'll sit with it and figure out, Okay,
I'm feeling this way. Let's kind of dig deep to
figure out where the system is from. Oh, this might
be something from the fact that the last relationship, when
this situation happened, he was cheated or he was doing this,
but that doesn't mean that this person is doing that
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and you have to understand that. And I feel like
a lot of the time people just don't do the work.
You get into relationship after relationship after relationship, and you're
not doing the work. You're being avoidant, you're going out,
you're trying to numb the pain with other people or
what other things or substances. And it's like, I have
been committed to not doing that. I've been committed to
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really understanding myself as a woman and understanding that I
know that what I bring to the table is valuable.
I know who I am as a woman. I know
that I'm a quality woman and I'm not like a
lot of women out here, and I know that anyone
who was to be with me is lucky. But that's
because I've done the work and I've done the things.
And that's by no means means. It doesn't mean I'm perfect,
because I'm not. But it means that I'm willing to
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do the work, and it means that I'm willing to
understand who I am and be self aware enough to
correct it. And I'm not defensive. If someone comes to
me and says this hurt me, it actually makes me
feel so so loved because you would come to me
and tell me that you feel safe enough to tell
me the way that I made you feel. This is
a safe space. So I'm going to make sure that
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you feel comfortable enough to understand that I'm going to
listen to what you said and fix it and do
the work to make you feel better in that situation.
Speaker 3 (46:42):
Like me and you been knowing each other for like
a year now, we've been doing the podcast, and yeah,
you always tell me about like all these celebrities DM
that you like, decipher or how do you choose to like,
like what like.
Speaker 1 (47:03):
Off the chain?
Speaker 2 (47:05):
Well, I'm not impressed by a lot of things. The
things that impressed me is super different from most women,
Like I don't care what kind of followers you have,
who you are, your success, that has nothing to do
with me. That's great for you, but that's not a
prerequisite for what I need to be with a man.
You don't got to be this, you don't got to
be that. But what you do have to be is
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a good person. What you do have to be is loyal.
What you do have to be is have a genuine
and pure heart. Those are the things that I look
for so any person that can come into my DMS
is cool, great, But again, I'm not moved by that.
There's a lot of people in my DMS that most
women would lose their mind over that I ignore, and.
Speaker 1 (47:43):
That's a fact, famous person.
Speaker 2 (47:45):
No, I'm not doing I'm not blastatom. Yeah, I would
never do that. But the point is is like, I
don't care, like I'm dead ass, I don't care about
how much money you have. I don't care about who
you are. I love that for you, you became successful for yourself,
and I think that's incredible and amazing. Congrats, kudos to you.
(48:08):
That has nothing to do with me, That has nothing
to do with why I feel like I should mess
with you. What makes me feel like I should mess
with you is the way you approach me, the way
you come at me, the way that you talk, our
energy and our exchanges of energy, the way that I
feel like you move you know, like, I don't like
flashy man. I don't like men who do too much.
Like I like a low key man more than anything.
(48:29):
Like I don't need all of that, And I feel
like too many women can be bought. My soul cannot
be bought. This is not for sale, period point blank.
I am not for sale. There's no amount of money
that you can buy me with, period point blank.
Speaker 1 (48:45):
Is there somebody you like right now?
Speaker 2 (48:47):
There is?
Speaker 1 (48:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (48:50):
I yes, there definitely is someone that I like. Yeah,
that's private.
Speaker 1 (49:00):
The last two seasons now it's.
Speaker 2 (49:02):
Very private, but there is somethe that has my heart
and I'm available. But yeah, yeah, but you know it
is crazy, definitely, But yeah, that's when IM out with it.
I hope everybody has learned something about me.
Speaker 3 (49:18):
All right, Well, I feel like today we got a
chance to learn a lot about a bizarre fairy day. Yeah,
there's been a lot of speculation on who she is.
Hey men, y'all found a lot about her, So get
your game up. Is there anything else you want to share?
Speaker 2 (49:35):
No, I don't have anything else to share. I think
I've talked enough for this episode. This was, but I
do want to play a little game before we end
the episode. Okay, we're gonna do a would you rather okay, Okay,
let's do it.
Speaker 1 (49:48):
Would you rather get.
Speaker 2 (49:49):
Okay, so boom? Would you rather be cheated on and
never find out or find out and stay? Uh?
Speaker 1 (49:59):
I rather find out and say?
Speaker 2 (50:01):
Okay? Why?
Speaker 3 (50:03):
I mean if I'm locked in with you, I feel
like you know that that because I think with love
is not I feel like love is more about what
you can take than what you can give.
Speaker 2 (50:22):
Damn. Okay, some people can misinterpret that because what you
can take to mean like what can I take from you?
Drain from you? I get what you're saying. I get
what you're saying.
Speaker 3 (50:32):
If I can take you're cheating on me. If I
can take yo indiscretions, I really love your ass. You
understand what you can give me. It's what I can
take that's show real true love.
Speaker 2 (50:48):
So if I was to answer the question to be cheated,
I'll never find out or find out and say I
would probably say be cheated. I'll never find out because
like when Mario did the song, I don't want to
know if you're cheated, keep it on the low. I
when I was young, I was like I want to know.
Now I'm like, please, baby, keep it on the low.
I can't take it no more.
Speaker 1 (51:09):
I'm not looking though, Like every.
Speaker 2 (51:12):
Time I'm not looking, I don't want to know.
Speaker 1 (51:14):
The time I found something, it was just face.
Speaker 2 (51:18):
Okay, so the next one boom, would you rather have
a deep emotional connection without sex or would you rather
have amazing sex but no emotional bond?
Speaker 3 (51:32):
I mean what we're trying to do here, I rather
have a deep emotion. I'm just saying no, no, no, But
I'm saying what I'm trying to do with this person
that's you. Yeah, I'm trying to be I want a
deep emotional connection me too.
Speaker 2 (51:44):
But what if you're not getting pleased in the bedroom.
Speaker 1 (51:47):
The deep emotional connection is going to be pleasing.
Speaker 2 (51:51):
I feel like if I have a deep emotional connection
with you, there is no not having the sex. Like,
if I'm deep with you, the sex is going to hit.
That's how I.
Speaker 1 (52:02):
Got me there.
Speaker 2 (52:04):
Okay, I feel like I know this answer. But would
you rather be adored by someone you don't respect or
respect someone who doesn't adore you?
Speaker 1 (52:14):
You have to say that one word.
Speaker 2 (52:17):
Would you rather be adored by someone you don't respect?
Speaker 1 (52:21):
Somebody you don't respect or.
Speaker 2 (52:23):
Respect, someone who doesn't adore you.
Speaker 3 (52:30):
Respect somebody that doesn't I could respect somebody that don't
adore me, like I'm never like, you don't have to
adore me for you to respect for me to respect you,
I might just respect somebody like you don't have to
adore me though, but like I'm never gonna like deal
with disrespect.
Speaker 1 (52:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (52:50):
Absolutely, Okay, this is the one I know the answer
that I would say. But would you rather be with
someone who's emotionally safe but boring or exciting but inconsistent?
Speaker 1 (53:03):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (53:05):
Exactly, me too. Have a partner who forgives everything or
challenges everything.
Speaker 3 (53:14):
Challenges everything or forgives everything.
Speaker 2 (53:19):
Everything anything everything you do, or someone who challenges you
and who like is like, I'm gonna challenge you. You
said this, but.
Speaker 3 (53:27):
I'm gonna I'd rather be with somebody that challenges and then.
Speaker 2 (53:31):
Forgives will mask the question that the question.
Speaker 3 (53:39):
I think challenges bill character me too, you know, and
it builds a stronger bond.
Speaker 2 (53:45):
I agree, So probably that God, Yeah, I feel like
exactly that's why. Yeah, No, I agree. I feel like
challenging is important, and I feel like amazing things come
from challenging something. I feel like you should always challenge it.
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You should always be the devil's advocate, Like, okay, bo,
how can we make it grow? Yeah? It helps you
grow one hundred one hundred percent. So I feel like
that's my last question. Do you have any questions?
Speaker 3 (54:19):
No, I really appreciate this session because I really got
to know you better. I hope our audience got to
know you better.
Speaker 1 (54:29):
Man.
Speaker 3 (54:30):
I really love our vibe, you know, and I just
want people to get used to our vibe.
Speaker 1 (54:35):
You know.
Speaker 3 (54:35):
We have guests from time to time, but at the
end of the day, Paul and the Czar Truth after Dark,
I feel like this was a special segment to real
we got to know Aizar, so we this segment is
getting to know Azar.
Speaker 2 (54:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (54:49):
And I feel like people.
Speaker 3 (54:51):
You know, look at her and say her talk about
her beauty and her strong personality, loud voice.
Speaker 2 (54:57):
And you know what else, everyone says, it's my big mouth.
Everyone's like, she got that mouth. I don't even know
what that means. She got that mouth. I don't get that.
And everyone puts that and I'm like, don't talk about
my mouth. But I think my mouth is genetic, Like
my sister has a big like I think I have
a big mouth. But it's fine. I never had no complaints.
Speaker 1 (55:20):
It's all good. Man.
Speaker 3 (55:21):
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Dark period. Make sure you like a subscribe. Man. We
love y'all. We appreciate everything you've brought to what we bring.
Speaker 2 (55:35):
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to be tapped in with us.
Speaker 1 (56:05):
There you have it. We love y'all.
Speaker 3 (56:24):
This is to take it over the game, all right, everybody,
welcome to Truth after Dark.
Speaker 2 (56:36):
Do you think that men or women are more toxic
Man ET Awards.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Yes, the b E T Awards was cracking, happing, Keisha
call I might as well have gene it on you
as much as you look like that right there. Rack.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Unfortunately we couldn't get on the red carpet, but we
got some good moments.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
What's your love language?
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Every single one?
Speaker 1 (00:38):
This is a real one. What are some things you
need to work on?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
The people with my d ms that most women would
lose their mind over. That I ignore. And that's the fact.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Who's the most famous person? I do? This is to
take it over the game? All right? Everybody? Welcome to
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Truth after Dark.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Do you think that men or women are more toxic? Hello,
beautiful people, welcome to another episode of the Truth after
Dark with your host Zar Faraday and Paul Pierce.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
What up? What up?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
How you feeling Paul.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Man, I'm feeling good. It was an exciting week. Awards.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Yes, the b ET Awards was cracking happing. So what
did you like the most? Because we saw some performances.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Yeah, man, I got a chance to see like Keisha Cole,
a Shanty Maya, Jim Jones was popping. Oh man, we
had bow Wow in the house. Who oh, I know,
I Miss b two K that was my favor. Yeah,
and they all looked fabulous. They all a shanty.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Maya looks so good.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
And then I got a chance to see the one
O six and Park Crew all Free was in the house,
you know, I know Free Weeek she from Boston. Man.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
I loved that part.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Damn that was lit.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
This was probably one of the best. This was probably
the best BET Awards I've never had a chance to see,
and then I only been one other time. But for
me to go to this was a hell of an experience.
I'm glad I had to be a part of it.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
You know. We had Uncle Snoop, a.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Little wheezy Glrilla, everybody performing. I mean, you just it
was just Mariah Carey.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
It was just NonStop.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
It was classy. It was black excellence. I left every
moment of it. Yeah, who was your favorite moment?
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Though?
Speaker 2 (03:04):
To be honest, I think I agree with you. Like
a shanty. I grew up listening to a shanty, So
all those songs that she came out and sang, it
was like, damn, it took me back. And then Maya
and then Keisha Ko I might as well have geend
on you as much as you would like that right there,
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rack Okay, Like all of that was really good. So
being able to see that was amazing. And then obviously
like One on six in Park that takes me back
because I grew up on One on six in Park,
So it was really dope to see all of that
and to like, really, you know, be able to see
these people that are still like they still look amazing,
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they're still doing their big one, like all of that,
and that's dope to me. So I had a really
good time. I enjoyed it.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
The culture took a step in a positive direction on
that one. Like Anticipating next year was super dope. Kevin Hart,
the host, ah Man, he did.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Kirk Franklin came out, I was preaching. It was dope
to me. Jamie Fox, he got emotional and cryan like
it was good. And I think that a lot of
people are saying that this Award show was one of
the best.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Yeah, this probably was the best one ever.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Yeah, that's what a lot of people are saying, Like
this one was good. So whoever is behind it, kudos
to you because that was a really good show.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Yeah, I mean, the culture really took a step in
the right direction.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Unfortunately we couldn't get on the red carpet, man, but
we got some good moments that we're gonna show you
yea from our you know, our video and everything, so
we hope you enjoy all of that. But man, the
culture was really popping. I was excited Black Excellence, Kendrick
Lamar winning all those awards, Sizza, Man, you know, we
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had a chance to check out you know, Kysanai and
Drusky was sitting right there in front of it.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
They were yeah and whatever, like guy he was imitating
with the rapping.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
He was like, man, I really truly enjoyed that.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
And Doc I'm a fan of Doci. I think her
music is so great. She won another award. She won
like so many Grammys this year or two, so I
already knew. I kept telling Paul it's gonna be she's
gonna win, and she did, and she's just doing her
big one TD So that's your boy. So she's doing
her thing.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Yeah, keep doing it, man, killing the game, top dog,
that's my man.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
She was doing it man.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
So man, I just want to appreciate the culture with
it brought to LA this past week. We appreciate y'all
we had a chance to really experience something special.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
That's part of it for sure.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Man, this is gonna be stuck in my memory for
a long time and I can't wait till next year.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
I can't wait.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Yeah, next year, I hope they bring it like they
did this year.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
They definitely brought it.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
So shout out to the BET Awards, shout out of
the culture, shout out to just everybody who was a
part of it. I know we missing some people in
all of this. We apologize for that, but this was
this was a dope experience. I had a chance because
I haven't been to a BT Awards in probably like
six or seven years. So like for me to come
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out and see it live once again and step out
there and just be a presence, you know, it was
really a dope experience. So man, I appreciate that. Look
forward to doing this again.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Yeah, I love that. Now. We have had a lot
of really dope guests on our shown, you know, and
I like, yeah, it's been popping. We've had people back
to back. So what would you say is one of
your favorite moments from all the people we had, people
from Kevin Gates to g Herbo to doctor Sarah to
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Manny and Gwap. You know, we've had a lot of
people come on and it's been amazing and we've been
learning different things. So you know, what would you say,
is some of your favorite moments from the guests we've
had on.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Well, I will tell you this, everybody brought something special.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Yes, for sure, you know.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Because it's it came from so many different like perspectives. Yeah,
you know, because it's like when you watch a lot
of podcasts, it's like you hear the same story, do
you do? And I just feel like we got so
many different perspectives from so many great people. Kevin Gates,
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doctor Sarah Whopping, Mandy Carlos, uh Joy, Yeah too, Short
man Gee Herbal, like Joy gave us something special that
I didn't know a lot about Joy. I got to
know her better. Yeah, Short gave us some game. Gee
Herbal told us his life and I was like, oh
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that was deep. That was good. And then you got
doctor Sarah. She just put us on some real last
games she did.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
It was like therapyession.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
And then like Mandy and Guat were super authentic.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
It was like, oh, okay, you know what it's.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
Like, it's hard. It was just hard. For me to
really pick a moment, Kevin Gates was real deep and
spiritual and it was like, oh, it hit me in
a certain way, so I was like, damn, everybody gave
they game. Man, I really can't pick a favorite moment.
But we appreciate y'all what y'all brought to our podcast,
helping us grow and really giving our fans something that
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they probably didn't get from other interviews. And we just
hope that we can kind of bring that out and
with our guests weekend and week out. But at the
end of the day, I want y'all to get to
know us too, you know what I'm saying, Paul Azar,
you know, and it's been an amazing ride. We appreciate
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the growth, but everybody getting to know the guests, everybody
getting to know me being vulnerable. I just think through
all of this, you know, we've been doing this for
a few months now. I feel like our guests need
to get.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
To know a czar Lord. Yeah, I feel that.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
Like we've been talking about me finding love, We've been
talking about my spirituality, but like, damn, we ain't really
got a chance to talk about you. You know what
I'm saying, You've been the whole mystery behind all of this.
We got to know all these fabulous people, But what's
going on with a czar?
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Like, like, you know what I'm saying, And.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
This is something we talked about in season one, like
you know, are you in a relationship? What you do
outside the podcast? And you know, we get a chance
to hang out and we promote the show. People been questioning, hey,
are you a parbat? Like like listen and we work together,
yeah and everything, but like I think we should direct
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some interest in you. Let's get to know you. And
I've come up with some questions, okay, because I've been
questioning this, okay, you know, and everybody's like I feel
like everybody has had a chance to get to know
Paul Pierce away from sports, Yes, but like who is
a bizarre fair to day Okay, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
What is she like?
Speaker 3 (10:29):
What is her views on certain topics? Okay, you know
what I'm saying. So I got a few questions that
I would like to answer. You know, you can answer.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
If you want.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
What are the questions?
Speaker 3 (10:44):
So I like to start off where like you know,
and maybe we mentioned this before, Okay, starting off, but
like what are some of your red flags?
Speaker 2 (10:56):
Like are you saying that I have or that my
red flags like that I possess no or that I
see that other people.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
Haveship with another guy? Yeah, what are some red flags
for you?
Speaker 1 (11:12):
Well?
Speaker 2 (11:12):
Number one, I feel like someone who can't communicate. Communication
is really major to me. I feel like that's the
biggest struggle with a lot of relationships is people can't
just talk. And I feel like the lack of communication
it creates resentment. So people who don't communicate, For instance,
I have been guilty of this. I'll just let things slide,
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let things slide because I don't want to create a problem,
but then later on it's like I'm building resentment, where
in reality, if I would have been like, hey, this
makes me feel a way, let's not do this anymore,
and then my partner could be like, Okay, I get that.
Because there's a lot of circumstances that may happen where
someone feels a way about something, but I may not
know that. I may not know that bothered you. I
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may not know that that triggered something within you, and
I continue to do it, you know, because I don't
realize that it's hurting you. But I'd rather someone just
be like yo. That makes me feel a way. I
don't like when you do that, And it's an easy
thing for me to be like Yo. If I'm with
somebody and I really rock with them, cool, I ain't
gotta do that no more. It's not worth risking my relationship.
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So I feel like when people don't know how to
communicate properly and be like emotionally mature, that already turns
me off because I'm like, we need that in order
to grow as a unit.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
All right, So look, you said your partner communication, so
I think there's levels relationship, right, So I think like
when you talk about communication, I'm gonna talk about this.
So this is after you went past the honeymoon stage, right,
because the honeymoon stage is stage the first stage, right,
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and you don't realize the communication.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Yeah, I realize it.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
But it dives into something else.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
Yeah it does. But I realize it from jump because
I'm older now.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
But there's a honeymoon stage. At the beginning the waterfly
there is there's.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
Like touchy philly intimacy, and then once you get past
the intimacy, there's like communications starts to like settle in
something else settles in in the next stage.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
I feel like, yeah, for sure, there's obviously that honeymoon stage.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
And then you don't see the flaws.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
Yeah, but I think I've learned to see the flaws
through the honeymoon stage. I think I've passed that. I
think I can see people for who they are. And
for me, it's really important because I feel like a
lot of people get with certain type of people and
they feel like they can change them, right, Like you
get with a man or a woman and you're like,
you know, they be outside, they do this, do that,
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and then you want them.
Speaker 3 (13:52):
Then your love with what the honeymoon was like, this
is acceptance of them.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
And then there's a stage two. I want to change
what I fell in love with.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
Yeah, but you can't do that. You gotta love. You
can't change nobody.
Speaker 1 (14:06):
So there's an acceptance state.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
You have to realize that a lot of people get
in relationships with people and just want to change them,
right Like, for instance, I always tell people, if you
want a provider, or find a provider, don't find a
man who doesn't believe in providing and try to convince
him to provide. If you want a housewife, find a
woman who believes in cooking and cleaning, don't find a
whole and could try to commiser. To be a housewife,
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you have to look for people who are in alignment
with who you are as a person. A lot of
people go outside of that, and then they're frustrated. I
just was telling my homegirl this the other night. Right,
I'm someone like if a man came home at two am,
it does not bother me. People can, you know, crucify
me on the cross for that? But for me, it's
fine because I know I live a certain lifestyle and
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I know that a man that I'm with, I'm not
a traditional person where it's like I need all this
stuff to be on point. I'm okay with that you
came home at two am. If I trust you, if
I love you, if I'm with you, it's not gonna
bother me. Yeah. But there's a lot of women who
get with men who know they be outside. Because you
were outside with him, you were out at two am
with him, and now you're at home and you're upset
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that he came home at two am. Stop getting with
people who you realize that you don't really want to
be with. You want to change them, Like you gotta
get with people that is in alignment with who you are.
And I had to have that reality check last year
where I realized, like, this might be a good guy,
or this might be someone who's like perfect and he
looks good on paper, but in reality, it's not in
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alignment with who I am in my lifestyle and what
I want. Okay, So it may be someone who's untraditional.
It may be someone who might come home at two am,
but that's okay with me, you know, like I'm okay
with that. I could rock with that because there's other
things that I look for.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
All Right, here we go, We're gonna move along.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
The next question, what's your love language?
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Every single one I feel like I want. I like
all of them. So for me, it's like, I'm someone
who loves words of affirmation. You know, I need reassurance
sometimes and I feel like I love words of affirmation.
But I love quality time, Like I really feel like
quality time is important to me, like being with my partner,
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spending time with them and doesn't have to be every day,
but like just having that connection with someone is super
important to me. And acts of service, you know, I
love that one too, like, and I acts of service
means like someone who like shows up for you, like,
oh you need baby, Like I see your tire is flat.
I'm gonna take you to like get the tire fixed. No,
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but that's a love language. Acts of service is a
love language. And then because there's gifts, there's acts of service,
there's words of affirmation, damn, and there's two more I
can't think of them, gifts, reassurance, words of gifts, words
of affirmation, acts of sert oh, quality time and physical touch.
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And I'm physical touch too though. I mean I like
all of those things. That's why I said it's not
one that I can truly pick. But if I was
to like like put them in order, I would probably say,
like quality time, acts of service.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Yeah, Okay, I'm getting to know you now, gifts. Yeah,
have been around you for like.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
Almost a year, and I'm just I know more about
you today than I knew the last year. All right,
So now moving on?
Speaker 1 (17:35):
Okay, what are what is one thing.
Speaker 3 (17:41):
You've always wanted to try but never had a chance to?
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Mm we get beat, now, we get beat?
Speaker 2 (17:51):
Now? What is this pertaining to like a relationship?
Speaker 3 (17:55):
Whatever you want in life? Like you want the bungee jump,
you're jump out the plane.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
No, I don't want to do it. I don't feel
like risking my life at this age is a good idea.
But I you wanted.
Speaker 1 (18:08):
To try, but never had a chance to. We can
come back to it, though.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
I would just say, like betting on myself one hundred.
You know, like I've always put my energy in my
time and other people, and I never really just took
the time to be like this is you bet on you?
Like you know, and I feel like now I'm having
the opportunity to do that. So yes, I haven't. It's
just a recent thing where I'm like, you know what,
bet on you? You know?
Speaker 3 (18:35):
All right, we're getting to know it's a little bit y'all.
Look look, look all right. You can have any superpower.
What would it be and how would you use it?
On the first date I heard this ques.
Speaker 2 (18:54):
My superpower would be to teleport anywhere that I want
to go.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
So if the day they crack it.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
I'm like, I'm going to ma you know what, by.
Speaker 1 (19:12):
That's crazy show, I.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Would teleport out all these holes like.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
On the first day.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
Yeah, because sometimes no, because sometimes them dates is exhausted,
Like what do you do? What do you like to
do for fun? Like it's boring. I don't want to
deal with that. Like I'm one of those people with
the date thing, like I either have to have a
connection with you and we're vibing or I don't, Like
I'm not sitting there. What do you do for Like
I don't care about none of that, Like if we're
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it's a it's an energy thing, Like I don't want
to sit up, and you question me about thirty million
things I don't like on them, questions you.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Know, after the first date or how many dates to take?
Speaker 2 (19:55):
I know, after the first date, if I can rock
with somebody or not.
Speaker 3 (19:58):
But have you been on the first day? It was
like I don't know, but they went on the second?
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Yeah, I have okay, because I feel like the first
if you don't know, give it one more chance. If
the second is fucked up, there, okay, it's a dub,
but you you give it to two good chances. But
I also have a low tolerance and I don't like
a lot of people. So I'm on or I'm off.
If I'm on with you, I'm locked in. There's no
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one else I see. I don't give it damn, Like
it doesn't matter. Everyone all my homegirls know nothing about me.
If I'm locked in with you, it's a rap. Anyone
can get it. Oh bye, I don't care about nobody.
If I'm not, it's either on for me, I'm an aries,
it's onorus off, baby, Like if I'm on, I'm locked in.
I'm on. And if you play with me, that's one
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thing about the aries and me, Like if you play
with me, you really hurt me, Like I'm done and
I'll never rock with you again.
Speaker 3 (20:50):
Have you ever been on the first day and be like, oh,
he can get it first date?
Speaker 2 (20:55):
Yeah, I have. But it's like it's not it's not
a physical thing. It's a mental thing. It's a bye.
It's not about like ooh he fine, like like because
I'm never a woman who feels like ooh, I wonder
like like I don't think about physicality. I think about
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like energy, it's about energy, it's about mental. If the
mental is there, then the I'm like flowing, you know
what I mean. It's like you don't even have to
touch me, and it's going, it's going. But if the
mantle is not there, then it's like, nah, I'm cool
and I know if the mental is there, because like
I'm a spiritual person, I'm an energetic person, and I
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could feel it from rid like do I want this man?
Or do I not like it? It's very easy for
me to tell pretty much, like and then I get
nervous because if I really want somebody, I'm like a lord,
I just know, Like if I'm locked in with somebody,
I hate it because I know I'm just like so
in love.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
Yeah, guys, get y'all game together? What is going on
out here?
Speaker 3 (21:59):
This is a day she's locked into her spirituality period.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 3 (22:06):
All right, describe yourself in three words? What would they be?
Speaker 2 (22:16):
Lord? I would probably say pure, Okay, I have a
really pure heart, like and I have not been tainted
by all the things that I've been through, And I
feel like that's extremely special, genuine. I'm extremely genuine, Like
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I'm not a fake person. If I don't like you,
you're gonna know, like and if I fuck with you,
you're gonna know. And loyal Mmm, loyalty. I have major loyalty.
My loyalty runs deep, okay, Like I'm a very loyal person.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
Okay, I like that you're coming off, Hey, gosh a'all
right down, all right, last question, What is the most
spontaneous thing you've ever done?
Speaker 2 (23:10):
Just went to Costa Rica, like randomly and moved to Atlanta. Yeah.
I moved to Atlanta so quickly that I remember I
told my best friend and I was told him. My
best friend's like a guy. His name is Kevin, but
he's a gay guy and we were best friends ince
with my kids, and I told him. I was like, Kevin,
I'm moving to Atlanta and he was like, no, you're
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not out the blue. The next day my car got
shipped to atl and he was like he couldn't believe
that I was really moving. And I'm like, no, I'm
moving because when I make a decision, I stick to it.
And so I moved from LA to Atlanta, and like
literally if I just made the decision randomly, and I
was like I'm going to go I was twenty years old.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
Was it for a guy?
Speaker 2 (23:51):
No, it was just for my sister lives there and
her husband, and I was like, I'm going to go
out there and work for the family business. And I
just was like, yeah, I'm out of there, and I left.
I left in like a week. Is a big move
for four years. I was so devastated. I hated it
out there.
Speaker 3 (24:11):
All right, this is, this is, this is, this is
gonna get the guys tuned in right now.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
Are you ready for this?
Speaker 2 (24:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
You ready?
Speaker 2 (24:22):
No, go ahead, this.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
Is a real one. What are some things you need
to work on?
Speaker 2 (24:32):
I would say, hmm. I would say sometimes I'm impulsive.
I move quickly and I feel like I need to
and I'm working on it actively. But I feel like,
you know, sometimes I need to like assess everything before
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I make a move, or don't be so reactive, you know,
like I don't have to react to everything, you know,
And that's I think that it's a big thing about me,
Like sometimes I could be extremely reactive, but I'm working
on that and you know, you actually helped me with
that because you've told me about that. So for me,
you know, like I feel like not being so reactive
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and impulsive about things. Yeah, so that's a big one
for me. Not being defensive, you know, like understanding that
you know, you can, like being self aware enough to
understand that, like I'm not perfect. There's things that I
need to work on, and being able to listen to
somebody else's perspective and understand where they're coming from and
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try to understand like how they feel is really important.
And that's something that I feel like I've been working
on heavily and not coming from a defensive place but
a loving place instead.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
Man, hey, gosh, I'm sick. All right, here we go,
Oh God.
Speaker 3 (25:56):
There we go. Non negotiables in a relationship, Uh huh.
It's like we ain't negotiate this.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
I would say, I already said this, but like someone
who's well. Number one is like I'm spiritual, So like
I don't want to be with someone who's not spiritual,
who's not God fearing, who doesn't pray, So like that's
big for me because I pray every day, like I'm
a God fearing woman and being with someone who doesn't
have that. No, it doesn't mean you have to be
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religious at all or call the church, but having a
relationship with God is important, you know, because that's the
center of any relationship that I want to have, because
I feel like if we keep God at the center,
we can grow. So that's a non negotiable for me.
The second non negotiable is just being able to laugh
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and vibe with someone if I don't have that connection
like where we can just be cracking up, vibing, enjoying
each other's company, Like I just can't do it. Like no,
that's a big one for me. Like yeah, Like I've
been with people where I'm just like this is dry,
Like I don't even feel this, Like and I've literally said, like, yo,
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why don't we have a vibe? Like do you not
feel this?
Speaker 3 (27:11):
Shit?
Speaker 2 (27:11):
But I feel like some people don't prioritize that, Like
there's men who don't care about having a connection and
a vibe. They're like, you're a woman. You do what
you do. I do what I do, And I don't
like that, Like I want to vibe with y'all. Want
to be able to go out with you have a
good time, crack up, travel like hit it. Like if
we can't do that, then what is the point of
being together?
Speaker 1 (27:31):
You know?
Speaker 2 (27:32):
Like to me, it's just dry at that point, and
I'm cool, Like I don't see the thing about me
is I rather be alone than be lonely within my relationship.
I rather not be with somebody that I feel like
I can't connect with, I can't vibe with. And too
many people operate from a place of desperation. Too many
people want to be with somebody so bad that they
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compromise all the things that make them happy. I don't
care to be with someone enough. So if I'm with somebody,
it means that I really rock with them, means that
they really are special. Because I'm not thirsty to be
in a relationship. I'm not thirsty to be with anybody.
So if I'm in a relationship, trustingly that person is
somebody extremely special. That's just the truth.
Speaker 3 (28:16):
Guys, you listen to take notes. All right, All right,
here go, this is my last question. I know I've
been grilling you.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
No, this is good.
Speaker 1 (28:28):
Though we're trying to get the nose on. We ain't
never got a chance to get the noise on.
Speaker 2 (28:32):
Get it?
Speaker 3 (28:32):
Yeah, who is this fine woman who over here? Got
a strong opinion? Who's very like?
Speaker 2 (28:40):
Who's very like?
Speaker 1 (28:41):
What self?
Speaker 2 (28:42):
Like?
Speaker 1 (28:43):
Like you're like you're.
Speaker 3 (28:46):
You have a strong opinion, You're a strong woman. Like
you really come across like confident. Yeah, you really come
across like I know what I want. And it's like
men are intimidated by that, Like you know what I'm saying.
I can understand, Like, man, you you are intimidating really like, yeah,
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you can be because you have a loud voice.
Speaker 1 (29:13):
Not like that.
Speaker 3 (29:14):
Everyone says I'm loud, but you.
Speaker 2 (29:18):
Know my dad is loud, and my sisters are loud.
Like you know my sister, we have like a projecting
loud voice. I have to work on it.
Speaker 1 (29:25):
I Triberry can be intimidated.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
I'm loud.
Speaker 3 (29:30):
You're a customer for them anyway, All right, this is
my last Okay, what is it, Paul?
Speaker 1 (29:37):
How can anyone add value to your life?
Speaker 2 (29:42):
I think that people add value when they're not taking away.
So I've been with people who have. My dad always
says this, right. My dad taught me this from a
very young age. He was like, when you get with somebody,
you never want to be one. A lot of people
say I want to be one. We just want to
be one, right, And my Dad's like, you need to
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have somebody that's different from you. They don't possess all
the same qualities that you have. Meaning, go ahead, what
do you mean you don't want to be one? I mean, listen,
if you're one person, no, listen what I'm saying. If
you're partner one, yeah, but listen what I'm saying. If
you're one, right, okay, and we think the same. When
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you're one, it's like we think the same, we have
everything the same, we're locked in. We're just one person.
But if you're one and I'm one, that's eleven, and
eleven is a master number, and that's much more powerful
than one. So if I'm different from you and you're
different from me, and you possess traits like I might
be reactive, but you might think and think about things
and be patient and just like resonate with stuff, and
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I might be ready to be reactive, then there is
a power couple within that, because that's someone who balances
each other out. That's someone where it's like you may
do this, or this person might not be good at this,
but I'm amazing at it. So then I contribute where
you lack, And that is to me more powerful than
just trying to be the same person. Like why do
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we want to be exactly the same? I want to
partner that possessive qualities that I don't possess, that has
things that I don't have, Because at the end of
the day, if we're exactly the same, then what the
fuck are we doing? Like we're just the same person.
Then we just have all the same thoughts, we think
all the same things, like we have all the same
traits and qualities. Then how are we contributing to each other?
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Because you already have everything I have. I want to
be with someone who doesn't have the things I have,
who knows more than I know, who understands things that
I may not understand, who could teach me, who can
help me grow, and I could teach you and help
you grow in ways that you don't know how to.
You know, like it's it's to me, it's like that
balance of bringing two people together that have two different
walks of life, that may have experienced two different things,
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that may be on two different pages, but it's like
when you come together. Imagine being with someone who lacks
everything that who has as everything that you lack. Imagine
how powerful y'all are so basically together, we have everything
because you you have everything that I lack.
Speaker 3 (32:11):
Okay, you said eleven, right, Yeah, so this is my
thought on back. Please, Well, two ones are two different things,
and becoming one I believe you guys don't think alike.
Whereas my what I think about becoming one becoming one
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is not the same. For me because becoming one means
you can feel different about what I feel and we
have a middle ground the one we're not because when
you're two separate, there's argument between. There's a spacing. Even
this is what eleven is right.
Speaker 2 (32:53):
Yeah, there's space in between what you're saying space.
Speaker 1 (32:56):
I get it between.
Speaker 2 (32:58):
Yeah, I do get it.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
So when we become one doesn't mean we have to
agree with everything.
Speaker 3 (33:02):
Yeah, you can still not agree on things, but we
can have a compromise.
Speaker 2 (33:08):
I can rock with that.
Speaker 3 (33:09):
Here, there's no compromise because you's going to be what
I feel and you can.
Speaker 1 (33:15):
Look that space.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
I get that.
Speaker 3 (33:17):
We can go say hey, I want to go here,
now you want to go there, or let's compromise this.
Speaker 2 (33:23):
Yeah, I get that. I get that.
Speaker 1 (33:25):
That's what I feel. I look at it a little different.
Speaker 2 (33:28):
No, I get what you're saying, like we're not the same,
but you know everyone you're saying what I'm saying is
the same. But it's just different ways to look at it.
But I'm not against what you're saying. I do get
what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (33:40):
Yeah, it's the space.
Speaker 2 (33:44):
I get what you're saying. You don't want to say,
but you know a lot of couples. What I realize
has happened and even with me in the past, is
it's like with couples, you have to remember this that
it's us against the problem, not us against each other.
And I think when people fight, it's like me against you,
when in reality it should be me and you against
the issue, Like what's the problem, what's the problem at hand? Like,
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let's stick together and figure out how to battle that
together on the same page and not be like against
each other, you know. And I think that that's the
biggest thing too. It's like learning to work together and
having a friendship.
Speaker 1 (34:21):
Yeah, that's that's important.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
I think it's having a friendship every couple that I've
talked to, even my sister and brother who've been married
for so long, it's very important to understand that that
friendship is what brings you, guys back to reality. It's
like knowing we rock with each other and we can
be like, yo, this is what's really crazy, and like
just talk it out.
Speaker 3 (34:41):
So this is my thoughts on a relationship. And I
wrote these things down for like like this is what
the downfall of relationships are when I feel like they
come to the end, Like when the.
Speaker 1 (34:57):
Effort is not reciprocated.
Speaker 2 (34:59):
Absolutely.
Speaker 3 (35:00):
I wrote that when you know when the lady is
not ready, as a man, I want a woman that's ready.
Speaker 1 (35:14):
To be led.
Speaker 3 (35:15):
Yeah, so like when a lady is not ready to
be led, men have to recognize that, and I think
men try to force it because like when like this
is my thing, when a guy.
Speaker 1 (35:30):
And you have to have a respect for a.
Speaker 3 (35:35):
Guy to where he's like exactly trying to give you guidance.
You look like if you look at his guidance like control,
it ain't gonna work.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
But it's not even that I'm gonna say this.
Speaker 3 (35:47):
And then that's when the narcissism this stuff come in,
like he's just trying, like even when a guy mutually
like wants to help, Like think about this. A man
loves a woman genuinely, like he ain't like what what
do you want from a woman?
Speaker 1 (36:04):
What sex? He can get that from? Whoever? What do
he won't? Like think clean and cook? He can play
somebody for that, like.
Speaker 2 (36:14):
Like some men can't.
Speaker 3 (36:15):
But I can do that, but they won't love nursery, respect, respect.
Speaker 2 (36:23):
I will say this, and I have a viral clip
about this, but I truly mean this when I say this,
if a woman doesn't respect a man, they need to
let him go, because where respect lies is where you
can let a man lead you. Like, for instance, if
I respect it, I want to be led. As a
woman in relationships, I'm more submissive. I have a strong personality,
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but I love the idea of a man leading me
and a man like showing me and teaching me things,
and that's what turns me on. That's what makes me
feel good in my relationship. But I've been with men
where I lose respect for them because I see them
do corny shit or weird things that are just like
feminine or just I don't trust it. And when I
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been with those type of men, I realize like, Okay,
I don't respect you and I don't trust you to
lead me. And where women stay in those relationships and
after a while, the man gets broken down in that
relationship and then that's when they start to say, oh,
you're controlling me, you're doing this, you're doing that, because
there's no respect there. And I feel like when a
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woman respects a man to lead is when the relationship
and the dynamics is balanced. You have to be with
a woman who respects you, and a man has to
be with a woman who gives that respect period. If
that's lacking in the relationship, it's not going to work
because then the gender rules are reversed and it's just
it's not a good look, period, point blank. So as
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a woman, if you don't respect the man, you need
to leave him. Yeah. I feel like people stay in
relationships past the expiration date because they so badly want
to have a relationship, willing to just stay, and at
the end of the day, that does way more damage
than it does good. Period. And I think if a
lot of people left relationships when they knew it was
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time to leave, they would be in a much more
beneficial situation.
Speaker 3 (38:13):
So, man, this is what I'm gonna tell you. If
you're in a relationship and you trying to lead your woman,
if she rejects like feedback and constructive criticism and she's
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not ready to be led, like, you should be able
to give your woman's constructive criticism. You should like if
you really love this person, and if she ignores direction
and looks at it like yeah narcissists, like bro, like
(39:05):
we end this together. Yeah, Like, I'll never never try
to control.
Speaker 2 (39:09):
A woman, you know, what my sister taught me. So
my sister's been married to 'smen for like thirty years, right,
and she was like, you know what you have to know?
She was like, I have to trust my man, right,
because there's some things he's gonna tell me that if
I didn't trust him, I would be like, well, he's
a hater. Why is he saying this? But there's some
things that as a man, he just knows intuitively and
he feels and he knows that, hey, I don't want
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you to do this. And if I didn't trust him
to be my leader, then I would be like what, No, No,
why don't you want me to do this? You're a hater. No,
he doesn't want you to do this because he sees
something that you don't see. You know, he understands something
that you don't understand. And I feel like that's the
important thing. A lot of women getting these relationships with
men where they don't respect or trust them, and then
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when a man tells you something, you're like, what, you
just want to control me. You are hating on me.
You don't want me to do this because you're jealous.
But in reality, man, just like women can see things
that we don't see. They can understand things that we
don't understand. And I'm a strong believer that the man
is the head of the household. I believe that I
stand by that. I grew up with parents who are
still married to this day. My dad has always been
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the head of a household and I've seen that and
I wouldn't want it any other way. And I feel
like women they want to act like they want to
be led, or they want to be submissive, or they
want to have a man that tells them what to do.
But when it comes down to it, they aren't ready
to get into submission. They aren't ready to let a
man lead. And that is one of the biggest problems
that we have. And if you don't trust a man,
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and if you think he's corny or silly or goofy,
then don't be with him. Simple.
Speaker 3 (40:39):
I've been called a narcissist and controller real, but then like,
I feel like that's a word I get thrown around
too easily.
Speaker 2 (40:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (40:48):
Absolutely, But then I was like, hey, you know, as
a lady I was with and I was like, man,
these girls ain't your friends.
Speaker 1 (40:58):
Yeah right, It was just like oh no, I got.
Speaker 4 (41:04):
I literally got like extracized. Yeah, I got attacked for it,
and I was like, you know, I'm just I'm not.
I don't I'm on the outside looking in, and I'm
with you.
Speaker 3 (41:15):
Right. Three months later, she's not friends with them no
more exactly, And I was just like, damn, that's crazy
that I said this because I saw something and I
was around them, and I see how they talked to you,
that you was in it and didn't see it.
Speaker 2 (41:33):
The problem is that too many people are in relationships
with people they don't trust. When I talk about like
what I would do for somebody, I was with people,
women always like, why would you do that for a man?
Because the man that I choose is going to be
the man that I trust, that I rock with, that
I will let lead me. I'm not choosing somebody that
I don't have those things with. Y'all choose so many
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men that really trot me. Yeah, she didn't trust you,
that's the problem. She didn't trust you, so she thinks
that you're attacking her. She goes into defensiveness. But also
that is another level of emotional maturity. Another thing is
that people go in a automatic defense mode because they
think that everyone is attacking them the world revolves around
them and everyone wants to see them lose. That's not
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the reality. Some people actually want to see you win,
they want to see you grow, and they're trying to
help you. And the fact that you can't take constructive
criticism says more about you than the person that's giving it.
And that's the truth, Ain't the truth? Yeah? And I
feel like at the end of the day, we have
to remember that you gotta get with someone that you
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rock with for real, because that's the problem. I think,
the gender war, the people hating each other, the people
that feel like they can't be in relationships, and men
hate women and women hate men. It's all because you
keep staying in relationships that are overdue, that are done.
You keep staying with people who are not worthy of
your time and your energy, and then you're bleeding on
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people who did not cut you with men or women,
and you're taking out all your traumas on them. And
it's not other people's responsibility to tiptoe around your triggers.
If you're triggered by something, that's not my responsibility to
tiptoe around that. You gotta work on that, you gotta
get therapy. You gotta figure that shit out. It ain't
my fault that someone broke your heart and cheating on you,
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because you gonna fuck around and miss out on a
good person. Because I'm not a cheater. But you question
to me for cheating on me every two seconds, Keisha
Kall might as well have cheated on you, like the
way you know me. Like. People come in relationships and
they have all these emotional triggers and pains, and they
expect you to have to be the one to be like, oh,
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tiptoeing around it. It's not my responsibility. You a grown
ass man, or you're a grown ass woman. It's your
responsibility to figure out how to heal those triggers or
at least deal with them. Don't come over here with
all that pain and expect me to be the one
to heal it. That's your responsibility. I'm not the one
who cuts you. Don't bleed on.
Speaker 1 (43:57):
Me what you're looking for a man?
Speaker 2 (44:07):
I don't cry it. Well, I would say that I
don't look for a man. But if I was, no,
I'm not no, because I feel like.
Speaker 1 (44:19):
The cuts are too deep.
Speaker 2 (44:21):
No, no, no, the cuts aren't too deep. The cuts
aren't too but for me, yeah, you had cut. I'm
not going to say that I haven't had deep cuts.
Like I've been in relationships that hurt me deeply. I've
been cheated on, I've been lied to, I've been having
I have all those things. But I've also been committed
to healing myself. And I'm very committed to understanding that
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the things that I've been through are not somebody else's responsibility.
So for me, I've taken the time out to make
sure that I've healed the things that hurt me because
I'm not going to bring that into a new relationship,
like it is not another person's reponsibility to figure out
what's wrong with me. And there's times where maybe I
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feel like, damn, I'm feeling a certain way, I'm being
triggered by something, and I'll reflect on that. I won't
bring that to my partner. I won't bring that to
someone else. I'll sit with it and figure out, Okay,
I'm feeling this way. Let's kind of dig deep to
figure out where the system is from. Oh, this might
be something from the fact that the last relationship, when
this situation happened, he was cheated or he was doing this,
but that doesn't mean that this person is doing that
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and you have to understand that. And I feel like
a lot of the time people just don't do the work.
You get into relationship after relationship after relationship, and you're
not doing the work. You're being avoidant, you're going out,
you're trying to numb the pain with other people or
what other things or substances. And it's like, I have
been committed to not doing that. I've been committed to
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really understanding myself as a woman and understanding that I
know that what I bring to the table is valuable.
I know who I am as a woman. I know
that I'm a quality woman and I'm not like a
lot of women out here, and I know that anyone
who was to be with me is lucky. But that's
because I've done the work and I've done the things.
And that's by no means means. It doesn't mean I'm perfect,
because I'm not. But it means that I'm willing to
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do the work, and it means that I'm willing to
understand who I am and be self aware enough to
correct it. And I'm not defensive. If someone comes to
me and says this hurt me, it actually makes me
feel so so loved because you would come to me
and tell me that you feel safe enough to tell
me the way that I made you feel. This is
a safe space. So I'm going to make sure that
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you feel comfortable enough to understand that I'm going to
listen to what you said and fix it and do
the work to make you feel better in that situation.
Speaker 3 (46:42):
Like me and you been knowing each other for like
a year now, we've been doing the podcast, and yeah,
you always tell me about like all these celebrities DM
that you like, decipher or how do you choose to like,
like what like.
Speaker 1 (47:03):
Off the chain?
Speaker 2 (47:05):
Well, I'm not impressed by a lot of things. The
things that impressed me is super different from most women,
Like I don't care what kind of followers you have,
who you are, your success, that has nothing to do
with me. That's great for you, but that's not a
prerequisite for what I need to be with a man.
You don't got to be this, you don't got to
be that. But what you do have to be is
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a good person. What you do have to be is loyal.
What you do have to be is have a genuine
and pure heart. Those are the things that I look
for so any person that can come into my DMS
is cool, great, But again, I'm not moved by that.
There's a lot of people in my DMS that most
women would lose their mind over that I ignore, and.
Speaker 1 (47:43):
That's a fact, famous person.
Speaker 2 (47:45):
No, I'm not doing I'm not blastatom. Yeah, I would
never do that. But the point is is like, I
don't care, like I'm dead ass, I don't care about
how much money you have. I don't care about who
you are. I love that for you, you became successful for yourself,
and I think that's incredible and amazing. Congrats, kudos to you.
(48:08):
That has nothing to do with me, That has nothing
to do with why I feel like I should mess
with you. What makes me feel like I should mess
with you is the way you approach me, the way
you come at me, the way that you talk, our
energy and our exchanges of energy, the way that I
feel like you move you know, like, I don't like
flashy man. I don't like men who do too much.
Like I like a low key man more than anything.
(48:29):
Like I don't need all of that, And I feel
like too many women can be bought. My soul cannot
be bought. This is not for sale, period point blank.
I am not for sale. There's no amount of money
that you can buy me with, period point blank.
Speaker 1 (48:45):
Is there somebody you like right now?
Speaker 2 (48:47):
There is?
Speaker 1 (48:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (48:50):
I yes, there definitely is someone that I like. Yeah,
that's private.
Speaker 1 (49:00):
The last two seasons now it's.
Speaker 2 (49:02):
Very private, but there is somethe that has my heart
and I'm available. But yeah, yeah, but you know it
is crazy, definitely, But yeah, that's when IM out with it.
I hope everybody has learned something about me.
Speaker 3 (49:18):
All right, Well, I feel like today we got a
chance to learn a lot about a bizarre fairy day. Yeah,
there's been a lot of speculation on who she is.
Hey men, y'all found a lot about her, So get
your game up. Is there anything else you want to share?
Speaker 2 (49:35):
No, I don't have anything else to share. I think
I've talked enough for this episode. This was, but I
do want to play a little game before we end
the episode. Okay, we're gonna do a would you rather okay, Okay,
let's do it.
Speaker 1 (49:48):
Would you rather get.
Speaker 2 (49:49):
Okay, so boom? Would you rather be cheated on and
never find out or find out and stay? Uh?
Speaker 1 (49:59):
I rather find out and say?
Speaker 2 (50:01):
Okay? Why?
Speaker 3 (50:03):
I mean if I'm locked in with you, I feel
like you know that that because I think with love
is not I feel like love is more about what
you can take than what you can give.
Speaker 2 (50:22):
Damn. Okay, some people can misinterpret that because what you
can take to mean like what can I take from you?
Drain from you? I get what you're saying. I get
what you're saying.
Speaker 3 (50:32):
If I can take you're cheating on me. If I
can take yo indiscretions, I really love your ass. You
understand what you can give me. It's what I can
take that's show real true love.
Speaker 2 (50:48):
So if I was to answer the question to be cheated,
I'll never find out or find out and say I
would probably say be cheated. I'll never find out because
like when Mario did the song, I don't want to
know if you're cheated, keep it on the low. I
when I was young, I was like I want to know.
Now I'm like, please, baby, keep it on the low.
I can't take it no more.
Speaker 1 (51:09):
I'm not looking though, Like every.
Speaker 2 (51:12):
Time I'm not looking, I don't want to know.
Speaker 1 (51:14):
The time I found something, it was just face.
Speaker 2 (51:18):
Okay, so the next one boom, would you rather have
a deep emotional connection without sex or would you rather
have amazing sex but no emotional bond?
Speaker 3 (51:32):
I mean what we're trying to do here, I rather
have a deep emotion. I'm just saying no, no, no, But
I'm saying what I'm trying to do with this person
that's you. Yeah, I'm trying to be I want a
deep emotional connection me too.
Speaker 2 (51:44):
But what if you're not getting pleased in the bedroom.
Speaker 1 (51:47):
The deep emotional connection is going to be pleasing.
Speaker 2 (51:51):
I feel like if I have a deep emotional connection
with you, there is no not having the sex. Like,
if I'm deep with you, the sex is going to hit.
That's how I.
Speaker 1 (52:02):
Got me there.
Speaker 2 (52:04):
Okay, I feel like I know this answer. But would
you rather be adored by someone you don't respect or
respect someone who doesn't adore you?
Speaker 1 (52:14):
You have to say that one word.
Speaker 2 (52:17):
Would you rather be adored by someone you don't respect?
Speaker 1 (52:21):
Somebody you don't respect or.
Speaker 2 (52:23):
Respect, someone who doesn't adore you.
Speaker 3 (52:30):
Respect somebody that doesn't I could respect somebody that don't
adore me, like I'm never like, you don't have to
adore me for you to respect for me to respect you,
I might just respect somebody like you don't have to
adore me though, but like I'm never gonna like deal
with disrespect.
Speaker 1 (52:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (52:50):
Absolutely, Okay, this is the one I know the answer
that I would say. But would you rather be with
someone who's emotionally safe but boring or exciting but inconsistent?
Speaker 1 (53:03):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (53:05):
Exactly, me too. Have a partner who forgives everything or
challenges everything.
Speaker 3 (53:14):
Challenges everything or forgives everything.
Speaker 2 (53:19):
Everything anything everything you do, or someone who challenges you
and who like is like, I'm gonna challenge you. You
said this, but.
Speaker 3 (53:27):
I'm gonna I'd rather be with somebody that challenges and then.
Speaker 2 (53:31):
Forgives will mask the question that the question.
Speaker 3 (53:39):
I think challenges bill character me too, you know, and
it builds a stronger bond.
Speaker 2 (53:45):
I agree, So probably that God, Yeah, I feel like
exactly that's why. Yeah, No, I agree. I feel like
challenging is important, and I feel like amazing things come
from challenging something. I feel like you should always challenge it.
(54:06):
You should always be the devil's advocate, Like, okay, bo,
how can we make it grow? Yeah? It helps you
grow one hundred one hundred percent. So I feel like
that's my last question. Do you have any questions?
Speaker 3 (54:19):
No, I really appreciate this session because I really got
to know you better. I hope our audience got to
know you better.
Speaker 1 (54:29):
Man.
Speaker 3 (54:30):
I really love our vibe, you know, and I just
want people to get used to our vibe.
Speaker 1 (54:35):
You know.
Speaker 3 (54:35):
We have guests from time to time, but at the
end of the day, Paul and the Czar Truth after Dark,
I feel like this was a special segment to real
we got to know Aizar, so we this segment is
getting to know Azar.
Speaker 2 (54:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (54:49):
And I feel like people.
Speaker 3 (54:51):
You know, look at her and say her talk about
her beauty and her strong personality, loud voice.
Speaker 2 (54:57):
And you know what else, everyone says, it's my big mouth.
Everyone's like, she got that mouth. I don't even know
what that means. She got that mouth. I don't get that.
And everyone puts that and I'm like, don't talk about
my mouth. But I think my mouth is genetic, Like
my sister has a big like I think I have
a big mouth. But it's fine. I never had no complaints.
Speaker 1 (55:20):
It's all good. Man.
Speaker 3 (55:21):
Make sure y'all continue to follow us Truth out the
Dark period. Make sure you like a subscribe. Man. We
love y'all. We appreciate everything you've brought to what we bring.
Speaker 2 (55:35):
Exactly, and if there's any topics that you want us
to talk about discuss, let us know. If there's any
guests that you think we should bring on, let us know.
You know, all of that jazz we plan on, like
bring you guys more exclusive content like Patreon all that stuff,
maybe going live and everything. So if there's anything that
you guys want to see from us, make sure you
guys comment, you know, subscribe all that jazz. We're super
(55:57):
excited from all the support that we've been getting because
so new, it's been an amazing journey. So yes, continue
to be tapped in with us.
Speaker 1 (56:05):
There you have it. We love y'all.
Speaker 3 (56:24):
This is to take it over the game, all right, everybody,
welcome to Truth after Dark.
Speaker 2 (56:36):
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