September 22, 2025 • 61 mins
Truth After Dark family, we are back!!! In today’s episode, we hit some of the most trendy topics in the media today such as: Cam’ron kicking Adrien Broner out his studio, Ciara changing her & Future’s son’s last name to Wilson, women proposing to men, girls trips vs guys trips and so much more! Turn off the lights, light up a candle and get ready for another spicy episode of Truth After Dark!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What I will not do is get on the need
and propose to it.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Man.
Speaker 1 (00:03):
The only thing I'm doing on my knees is that's what.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
That doesn't make sense. You should only spend a dub
on the first day about that.
Speaker 4 (00:12):
Dub men forgive cheating as long as their homies don't
know yes or no, like.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Let me go through it.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Ah, they gonna they gonna post it all on this nigga.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Chris Brown concert, Right, what are you doing?
Speaker 4 (00:28):
If your girl goes on stage and she's like, oh
my god, it is Chris he choking her route, they
boom boom bam bam bam bam bam grinding.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
If it's me, You're you're done. Like Paul Pierce, You're
not embarrassing me. But I'm talking about for Ray Ray
and the hood. You gotta swallow that moneygg And she's like,
lixen lovem famous. Now like Ray Ray, you gotta go
home and be like you was on stage with Chris Brown.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
I don't spend the night just like lose at different
people's house. I'm too I need to have my own
ship going on at.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
The Homie Home Girl House, at the Homie.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Deer, the Homie Home girl house.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
So anyways, last topic because we're about to wrap it up.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
The Homie homegirlse If the Hobie there. This is the
(01:43):
taking over the game, all right, everybody, Welcome to Truth
after Dark.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Do you think that men or women are more talk?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Hello, beautiful people, welcome to another episode of the Truth
after Dark.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Damn, Paul, what are you doing? Bro? Like?
Speaker 1 (02:17):
This is crazy?
Speaker 4 (02:21):
But beautiful people, Paul, this is crazy, Like.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Put the no no. I was looking at these score Damn.
I was trying to get to these scores. Now you
know what, Let's chop. I'm ready to chop.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Chopping. Let's go.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
Hello, beautiful people, welcome to another episode of the Truth
after Dark. I am your host Iszar Faraday and true
the Truth.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
You know what I'm talking about. Understand things that understanding
that not to be said.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Okay, yeah, clocked in.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
So today we are going to talk about some current
events and some things that are happening within the media.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Let's start out with Adrian Bronner. Is that his name?
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Okay, So he was on Cam's and Mace's podcast and
they have a co host who's a woman, Treasure right,
Treasure will soon yeah, yeah, and they kicked him out
of the podcast. Cam did because he was being disrespectful,
like being honor and her Man was there.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
How do you feel about that?
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Yeah, yeah, well I kind of watched the clip and
I understand where Cam was coming from. And then I
was keeping the conversation with Adrian, and then I was
looking at like, damn. I'm not sure she was flattered
or was just laughing it off because it was a guest.
But at the same time, you know, when Cam say like, hey,
(03:51):
you know her Man is here, then you got to
you gotta slow it down a little bit, you know
what I'm saying. And so I got it to a
certain degree. I wish Treasures would have been like not
as laughing about.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Well, I'm a woman and I have a nervous laugh too,
And sometimes as a woman, when you're in a male
dominated space, if you say anything other than a laugh
or be shy and nervous, you're aggressive, you're masculine her
all these things, and a lot of women it's hard,
like it's awkward, and when you're awkward, you.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Laugh sometimes, And I've laughed at people just like having
serious conversations because I'm nervous. So I could see that,
but also to she did say like my man is here.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Yes, she was like he's here.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Camn just stood on business.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
And protected her. And he was drunk. The Adrian I thought,
I thought he had like too many.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Yeah, I'm not going to assume what it was, but
like I like that Cam like stood on business, he
kept a professional uh and was like you know that
ain't really right, stood on his co host. You know, yeah,
that was that was real. It was real. So I
think I kind of would have did the same thing,
like come on, bro, like you know, you can't be
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you know, and you.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Know how Adrian is.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Adrian is a personality in the Boston world and the
culture that sometimes a little bit go overboard, and we
loving we support him, but sometimes you go a little
bit overboard, and he got a scale back. But I
think cam on the most part did the right thing.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
All right, all right, So let's move on.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
So Sierra is changing her son's name, So future Junior,
when she has a baby with future Sierra, she's married
to Russell Wilson. Now she's changing his last name to Wilson.
What do you think about that?
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Her future son, she's legally changing his last name to Wilson.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
So her current husband.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Yeah, next Now I don't know what the tea is,
but obviously, like they say that future is in a
present father and Russell's really doing his biggest one with
that kid. And I, you know, I don't know. I
really don't know because I don't have children, So it's
hard for this week on that.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
I feel like that's kind of like spiteful to somebody.
And regardless if somebody is not prison with their children,
let the child dictate that when they get older, you
know what I'm saying, because they might have a relationship
later in life, you know, maybe or not not might
not be The emotions is flaming right now and everything
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is bitter and and uh, you know, it's a lot
of emotions involved because he's not there. But like, you
ain't got to do that because that's his son.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Period. I don't care.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
It's always like it's always gonna be his son, whether
I care for him or not, he cared for him
or not, that's his son. But that's like, but but
go ahead, what Russ takes care of him like it's
his son.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
I get it.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
That's between a sperm donor and a father.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
No, no, but listen to this, listen to listen to this,
or I get it. He's in the home with you
full times here and Russ and you father him like
that your kid.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
I get it.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
But at the end of the day, that's still his son.
So it's gonna be and you never know what's gonna
happen later in life, because later in life, y'all, can
they can come together have the best relationship.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
I don't seen this happen.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
We can, Like, man, I know it wasn't cool young
and maybe we and we wasn't born out of love.
But like man, like as you get older, like you
still my son, Like what if he decided he want
to be with his dad later in life, But like, dude,
that's not your father. I had you or I even
though I ain't was there early because I gotta a man,
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always got the story. I'm gonna tell you this, when
it comes to the kids in marriage, the kid is
always gonna be it's always gonna be lopsided because the
kid always gonna hear the mother story because the mother
is always there every day, so it's gonna be implanted
in the kid a certain story.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
But there's always two sides to the story.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
And like.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
Future one day is probably gonna be able to tell
his side of the story on what it was to
where the kid have a better understanding on why it
is how it is. So I don't really agree with that,
you know, Like it's my situation, Like I'm a Pierce.
My other brothers is different last names, my mom different
last name. I never met my father, but my mama
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still kept my father last name.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
My father, from what I know, is still alive. Like
I can still holler at him if I won't, but
like at least give me that, like, you know, like
the kid can be sixteen and he gonna be believing
that Russ is his real father, Like tell him the truth.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
Though I'm pretty.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
A cousin that was adoptor he didn't know he was
adopted too now, but.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
That son knows because he was around his father. I'm
sure he knows.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
But what I will say is this, I understand there's
two sides of a story, and I understand that the
woman is the more present. Typically, the woman is the
more present one, so she can implant whatever story she
wants in a kid's head.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
But I also do.
Speaker 4 (09:20):
Strongly believe that there's only limited excuses on why you're
not showing up to be a parent period. Like I
was in a I was dating a man who had
two different baby moms and both were so crazy that
he couldn't see both of the children. And I'm like,
that don't really make sense to me, Like, you have
two different bay momas that definitely won't let you see
(09:43):
the kids. But nah, like you didn't raise none of
your children, and that to me is just a red flag.
And a man like, yeah, I ended up being really
close to his daughter. His daughter still hits me up
to this dad, Yeah I did. I have talked to
the mom. Yeah, they said he was lying and the
kids were grown enough to reach out to them himself
(10:04):
and they will be reaching out like and he would
just be like, oh, I don't feel like like it
would always be an excuse of something. And my opinion
is like, there are circumstances that do There are women
who keep their kids away from the father, and I
do not agree with that in the slightest unless the
father is like going to be abusive in any way
or harming that child. Other than that, there's no excuse
(10:26):
for that. I do know women do that. But I
do also know that there's again limited excuses and not
fight for your kids.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
It's men in that situation with the kids. Mothers get.
And the reason the man be bitter a lot is
because the women only texting when it's about money.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
I understand that.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
That's like, like, come on, man, like you like you
text only about money. That's the only conversations. And so
like the man be feeling a certain way, like then
was this money driven or was this a money play?
And so the man can get and the woman can
get like bitter.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Yeah, and it's just like, yeah, I.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
Don't want no relationship with her because there's money driven,
you know what I'm saying. It could be just all
types of stories to it, and I don't have a
lot of time to go in the full detail of it,
but it just it just happens like that.
Speaker 4 (11:24):
Yeah, I get that. And I think that a lot
of things is convenience too. Like I know a lot
of men who have other children with other people, but
they're married to one person and they're more president in
those kids' life because it's easier. I understand there's a
lot of reasons. I come from a blended family myself,
so I've seen it firsthand. But you know, I wouldn't
personally change my kid's name, last name.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
I'm not a mother man. It feels like and I
don't know here like that. I don't know Russ like that.
If it's a resentment thing, or maybe Russ said it
because of how you feel about the kid.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
It can be that.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
So but like at the end of the day, that's
still his kid, and like what if he gets to
be like when he started making his own choices? Think
of that, Like that's what the parents or the women
who care for the kids who take the custody, you
have to remember, like it's going to be a point
to where the kid can make his own decision. What
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if the kid is like fifteen to be like I
want to go live with my daddy, you know what
I'm saying, Like, and it just gets to the point
where it's so volatile because that happens and they're like
I want to go live with my dad, and now
you take them in and it's like, damn, that's my kid,
But like, why you do that to my son or daughter?
(12:43):
Put another dude. I get he was taken care of,
but it's at the end of that's still my blood.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Okay, well we get it. Let's let's move it along.
Speaker 4 (12:53):
So, Bellathorne, she proposed to her fiance.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
What do you feel about phone? Man?
Speaker 4 (13:00):
Damn, what do you think about she's from here? What
kind of what kind of Y's white? She's a white lady. No,
So what do you think about women proposing to man?
Speaker 2 (13:14):
I feel like that's how it should be.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Truthfully, you think that a woman should propose to a man.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
I mean I feel like if men are the prize, why.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
Men are the prize?
Speaker 3 (13:27):
That's what I feel. We had this on other episodes.
I said, like when you said who's the prize, the
man is the prize because at the end of the day,
it's no benefits to us to marry a woman, because
when a woman marries us as a man, regardless if
we're minimum wage, middle class or other class, it's you
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get the kid, you get everything, you get the kids,
you get the money. Like, like, why is it ad
advantageous to me to marry I feel like I'm the
prize because you all get the vantages go to your
So y'all should be been the knee like Game of Thrones.
Speaker 4 (14:06):
Me personally, I'm gonna say this, I would never propose
to a man in a million years. I like a
man who's a leader, and I want him to lead me.
And that goes for everything. When he's ready to.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Marry, Like I'm the leader, proposed no, when my told
you no.
Speaker 4 (14:23):
If he a man who's a real leader, ain't gonna
say that, they're never going to have their girl get
on me and give him a ring. Like that's some corny.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
That's what America brainwashed us.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
No, that's not America. That's in the Bible.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
What the Bible says the Bible is a.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
Man is the leader. I'm not going off of the
Bible propose no. But it also doesn't say that.
Speaker 4 (14:43):
It doesn't put a woman in a position to be
the person that's proposing to a man, like a man
is the person.
Speaker 3 (14:49):
Who God or a man not if you're going by
the Bible. Since we going by the Bible, you know,
I don't know religions. Everybody's out there, but we're going.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
By the Bible.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
Man was made first. He's so the nigga was out
doing whatever he was in the wild. He needed some help,
so he created the woman, right help.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
The woman is a helper and at the end of
the day, I feel like a man should. I don't care.
Speaker 4 (15:19):
I think that it's very masculine for a woman to
propose to a man. It would make me feel like
I'm not in my femininity as whatsoever. And I feel like,
at the end of the day, I'm not getting on
a knee to propose to a big ass man.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
I think that that's not cute.
Speaker 4 (15:34):
And I think that at the end of the day,
if that's the case, we don't have to be married
because I'm not going to propose to you, and not
because I feel like the man has to do this
grand gesture. But I'd rather us come to an agreement
together and be like, should we get married because it
makes sense for this to happen, And that's happen, and
we are committed to each other and we do want
to be with each other for the rest of life.
Anything happens to me, I would want you to be
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able to do, you know, be the one to handle
that like that would be a collective decision and we
can make that together. It doesn't have to be some
grand proposal. What I will not do is get on
the need and propose to a man. The only thing
I'm doing on my knees is that's.
Speaker 2 (16:11):
What that doesn't make sense because.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
I'm saying that doesn't make be fucking for real on
this podcast, saying this like, don't like if you can
really imagine a girl getting got her niece with a
brig like baby, I'll let you know.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Everything else, why wouldn't it be for a ring?
Speaker 1 (16:33):
That's weird. I'm moving on from this. Yeah, that's out
of control.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
Like I'm just like you said it.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
You said, I'm getting for something else for my man.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
For something else, get on their needs for something else.
Speaker 4 (16:50):
By anyways, I'm moving up. That's ridiculous. That is it
that like you not you.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
It's crazy that men want women to be this submissive
woman involved.
Speaker 3 (17:05):
Door for the man when he walks through the door,
when he walks up to the car. Women should be
opening the door.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
This is what you're spewing to people.
Speaker 4 (17:13):
And so when your daughter dates a man, you want
them to be like, make sure you're opening the door
for these men. Make sure they're not doing nothing for
you when you get all your knees and propose to them.
That's the advice you give your daughters.
Speaker 3 (17:23):
Well, if you got a man that says, hey, babe,
I'm gonna take care of you the rest of your life.
You don't have to work, you don't have to do
all these other things. I'm gonna get us a house,
cars and everything, and ye'ah, I'm gonna take care of you.
Why not open the door. I'm gonna make sure there's
no fifty to fifty in this baby.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
The bills. You know, I got dinner.
Speaker 1 (17:48):
You know how I got?
Speaker 3 (17:50):
You asked me right now, I'm telling you I got
the dinners, I got, you know the bills, I got
the heavy lifting. And when the heavy lifting becomes a
baron on me, I'm not even gonna complain about it
and bring it to you.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
So heavy lifting and clues. Opening a door, that's it.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
Do. Yeah, you're right the door, like.
Speaker 3 (18:13):
Like a woman opening the door. That should be nothing right, right,
So what's the problem. I gotta do everything.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
It's not that you have to do everything a woman could,
like you can live in a world. And unfortunately, I'm
really I feel bad that all your experience leads you
to believe that you have to do everything in a relationship.
But my experience speaks very differently from that, because as
a woman, I bring a lot to the table. Like
I said, I'm gonna anticipate my man's knees. I'm gonna
know what he needs before he knows what he needs,
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and I'm going to provide that. There's so many things
that a real woman and a good woman can bring
to the table. So I feel sorry for.
Speaker 4 (18:51):
You that you have never got the opportunity to experience that.
And I really do hope that you meet someone that
can show you that differently. Until then, you'll have your opinion,
and that's okay, I'm willing to agree to disagree with that,
But I do know differently. I know that a man
could buy a house, but a woman could make it
a home, and she could make it into the something
that a man could never do. She con could provide
that comfort, she can have the candles and this that
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everything going in a BIS.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
Just a little less aggressive.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Yeah, sure, I didn't mean to be aggressive. I'm just talking.
I get passionate, but I'm just saying.
Speaker 3 (19:23):
I'm just you're saying what per woman, the women can
do for the man. So because it's triggering.
Speaker 1 (19:29):
Me, why is it triggering?
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Because it's the aggressiveness of the tone about what you're saying,
So if you say it a little more pleasant, I
can accept it. So what is it again.
Speaker 4 (19:39):
That the I'm not going to repeat it, but I
will say that there's a lot of things that a
woman can bring.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
And like I said, but the men, for us, as
masculine men, we trying to minimize.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
Your list of things you can bring because we.
Speaker 3 (19:59):
Just feel as sense of pride, that's the pride of
the pride the lions. We want to take care of
a lot of different things so the women have their
life easy because we know when y'all birth children, that's
the most blessing of blessings that can ever happen. Because
like that, you guys bring life to the world. So
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we appreciate that, you know what I'm saying. So that's
why we like all right, because the women what y'all
bring to the table. As far as life, there will
be no life without y'all. So we're willing to do
all these things, take care of you, make sure you're
in a safe nest. We don't want harm or danger
(20:43):
to come to you. So like we just be like, well,
minimize the list for you. But like when y'all start
trying to step up and thinking you over the man.
Speaker 1 (20:59):
Right, and making that decision.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
That's a good thing. That's why women.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
That's crazy.
Speaker 4 (21:06):
Okay, anyways, let's move on because I can't keep going
back and forth about that.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
That's the most ridiculous thing.
Speaker 2 (21:11):
It's not the most ridiculous.
Speaker 4 (21:13):
Yeah, because if a woman proposed to you, imagine how
thirsty this is. You're with a woman, y'all, don't even
you don't even know that you want to get married again,
and she's making the decision to get on her knee
and propose to.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
You with a ring. As a man, you're supposed to
make that decision.
Speaker 2 (21:26):
The hell.
Speaker 3 (21:28):
So there's laws in America, right, and then there's laws
in other country.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
Right.
Speaker 3 (21:35):
We look at other countries like you guys deal with that.
We don't deal with that. So that's ridiculous that like say,
like in other.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
Countries, you can you can do.
Speaker 3 (21:56):
Like things that you can't do in America, right, Like
I don't know what like, because there's laws, different laws everywhere, right,
and there's different structure.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
Uh, And so we look at it.
Speaker 3 (22:13):
It's things that are ridiculous in our country that are
not ridiculous in other countries.
Speaker 4 (22:20):
They're not proposing to people in other countries. Fall, that's
not what they're doing.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
The men are actually creating families, religion, what doesn't matter.
They're not doing that in other countries, period, point blank.
That's not at all.
Speaker 3 (22:34):
Like let me ask chat GPT what marriages last longer
when the women propose?
Speaker 2 (22:41):
This basis towards the because ninety nine point nine of
the men proposed.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
But I wonder what that zero point one relationship status
is when the women do?
Speaker 2 (22:54):
I do? I want to know? That's that?
Speaker 4 (22:55):
Okay, well we'll look it up, so we'll move on
from that subject. So you know, ge Herbal, which we
love him down. He was on our show. He recently
made a public post because I know he been going
back and forth with the mother of his child and
all of this, and he shut it down. Baby, He said,
any woman that thinks they know me or thought she
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knew me, does not know me.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Period.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
I am trying to marry my woman.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
I accept all accountability for what I might have done
in the past, but that is the past and I'm
leaving it there.
Speaker 1 (23:27):
I do not have time to block anyone. I am
chasing money. Just do not call me. There is too
much money on the line for me. To be changing
my number.
Speaker 4 (23:36):
Okay, he put that out there for the public for
the woman to know. Baby listen, I might have been
cheated and I might have been a dog in the past,
but don't ever hit me up no more because this
is my wife. And he's been Hella posting his girl
now and he's just like letting he's shutting it down.
And people feel conflicted because they feel like, well, he
was just dogging her out or whatever, like cheating or whatever.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
He had a drama. I personally loved you, Herbal, and.
Speaker 4 (24:02):
I think the mother of a child is beautiful and
I think they're a good little match.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
What are your thoughts.
Speaker 3 (24:09):
I can't wait to cut and paste that and put
my name in front that it.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
Also, he's a Libra like you, maybe y'all relate.
Speaker 3 (24:18):
I can't wait to cut and paste instead of g
Herbal saying that, I want to be saying that. Okay,
that's what I think about that, and hopefully you know,
I can be saying.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
That real soon. I love that.
Speaker 4 (24:30):
Yeah, I fuck with you, Herbal and his baby mama's
at aries like me, so they look like they have
a vibe and maybe having fun.
Speaker 1 (24:36):
So I do love that.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
For them.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
I really hope that you know, they do their biggest one.
Speaker 4 (24:41):
So anyways, moving on, So relationship expert An war White.
He said that his name is Ann war White. He
said that dinner is a bad first date because women
just want to test if you're a provider, and they're
more into analyzing the atmosphere and the aesthetic than they
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are the compatibility and the connection. And they feel like
you know, a lot of men agreed, and so that
men are really being used for the vibe and the
ambiance and not the connection of what they really have
with a person. And there's a lot of men that
says they date women and they can't go They always
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have to be doing something like going to a fancy
dinner taking them there.
Speaker 2 (25:32):
They can never just be chilling, take them to like
a carnival and get a chili cheese GLIZZI. That's not
that's not.
Speaker 1 (25:44):
No, that's not that's that's not all right.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
So first off, and and are White, Well, I feel like.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
Should like tell us what's a good first date. What
does he say?
Speaker 1 (26:04):
He said, coffee dates?
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Okay, that's not bad.
Speaker 1 (26:08):
Like go to coffee, have a conversation.
Speaker 4 (26:11):
Yeah, you guys connect, See if you guys vibe okay
or maybe you know what I mean. I agree, and
I think that also another good first date could be
like a drink, like come for a drink or something that's.
Speaker 3 (26:24):
Not a good first because they would drink. You know,
it's so crazy. I was hooping today. I was playing
pick up and I was telling the young guins because
I'm the og and the hoop runs. I was like,
y'all know what this good first date is? Because I
had to think about it, I said, I swear to god,
I said this today. I said, dog with y'all. Y'all,
y'all should do this for a first date. You should
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just be like, hey, uh, you know, let's go for
a walk or a hike or a workout, you.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
Know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (26:56):
Or a workout, Hey, coming to my trainer, let's work
out for or I got a hike, we can go on.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
Let's go do that.
Speaker 1 (27:03):
My only objection, Oh sorry, go ahead.
Speaker 2 (27:08):
I'm trying to because I'm trying to tell you that.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
Okay, damn, I said, all right, take them out to workout,
or like say all right, let's say hey, like, let's
go on this hike.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
I got a dope ass hike.
Speaker 3 (27:19):
It's an hour, and then after we go to Starbucks.
And I was like, that'll be a cool first day
because that day probably only gonna cost you about dub
because think about it, the hike free and then you
go to Starbucks, get a couple of coffee and some
egg bites or whatever, cracking, and then you have a
conversation after that like Cat's be going off spending three
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four hundred and be like, man, I'm never talking to
her again.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
Like damn, because the Covo is blowing you three some
nice more. Because you go to dinner and you take
it to the club, that's another.
Speaker 3 (27:53):
Five going to the club because you already had it
planned out already, was like, already, we're going to dinner,
We're going to this club.
Speaker 1 (28:01):
But that's the problem. Don't be clanning out to things
you trying.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
To impress somebody so you didn't know, but like a
hike and coffee and egg.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
Bites, I'll say this, the egg I'll say this, though.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
You should a dove on the first day.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
I feel like this.
Speaker 4 (28:19):
I don't want to do like a hiker working out
or like a movie because like then I'm not going
to be able to talk to you and get to
know you. I want something that I could get, so
maybe like a stroll and like a.
Speaker 1 (28:29):
Coffee or something.
Speaker 4 (28:32):
I'm not mad at that. I'm gonna say this, and
I'm gonna be very clear. Listen to what I'm saying
because you're running me. So I'm gonna say this. When
I really like a man, it doesn't matter what I do.
I will roll with this man to go get his
motherfucking haircut. I will roll with this guy anywhere to
run an errand, Like, oh baby, you want to come
with me, I gotta run these errands.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
Absolutely, I'm with you. I'm sitting in the thing for me.
Speaker 4 (28:58):
It's honestly like I'm one of I'm an energetic person.
I know very quickly if I fuck with someone or not,
so I could go wherever and I'll know because that's
what i'm saying.
Speaker 1 (29:08):
So like, if we do a go to.
Speaker 2 (29:10):
The beach real quick.
Speaker 1 (29:11):
Yeah I'll go.
Speaker 2 (29:12):
I'll go for a walk and talk and then I'm
gonna drop you off.
Speaker 4 (29:16):
Yeah, you're not gonna drop me off because I don't
want you to know where I live. You shouldn't ober
me anyways, because I don't want you to know where
I live. I'll create my own transportation. How about we
do something that's cool. But I know, off rip if
I fuck with you or not from the first date,
I promise you I have a connection off bat. If
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I don't have that connection and viving that energy off back,
I most likely will not date you again, because that's
just how I roll like.
Speaker 1 (29:46):
I don't want to waste anybody's time. I'm very mindful
of that.
Speaker 4 (29:49):
So, you know, I think that men and women should
start doing more less extravagant dates. And you have to
consider if you're going on a date with the woman
that wants to do all of that, is she really
into you or does she want to an experience or
is the motherfucker hungry? Because that's that's something as well.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
So anyways, you have any more thoughts on that?
Speaker 2 (30:10):
Good?
Speaker 1 (30:11):
You're good over there.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
On first date? Yeah? Yeah, I feel like twenty dollars
is enough for the first day. Okay, so did you
coffee and egg bites?
Speaker 1 (30:22):
I'm not I don't like egg bites.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
All right, we'll get the croissant.
Speaker 1 (30:27):
I shouldn't be.
Speaker 2 (30:29):
God, breakfast dates.
Speaker 3 (30:30):
Is the best because breakfast is that man stop taking
them to the dinner take them.
Speaker 1 (30:36):
To break You want to know what's crazy.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
You want to know breakfast?
Speaker 4 (30:42):
Because I met my ex at the Highlight Room, which
is a club, and he took me to breakfast the
next day.
Speaker 2 (30:48):
That's the move.
Speaker 3 (30:49):
And he was like, because y'all was at the Holling
Room and then y'all stayed there till two three, then
y'all win.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
No, we didn't break No, we didn't see each other.
I went home home and now no. I went home
and he was like, I loved meeting you. I would
love to see you in the morning.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Would you like to go to breakfastfast?
Speaker 1 (31:10):
Who's breafast?
Speaker 2 (31:11):
Like?
Speaker 4 (31:11):
Ten am, I didn't go home at two? You're making
things up. I don't leave a club when it closes, baby.
I left room twelve. I went there to an appearance, okay,
and I got there at eleven thirty. I left at
twelve thirty. Why stop being on here calling me a liar. Anyways,
we went to breakfast for our first day and then
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we were We were together after that for a long
so anyways, ooh, you're spicy.
Speaker 1 (31:39):
What's the crash?
Speaker 4 (31:41):
And honey, yeah, I get a drink or something to
calm these nerves because you are acting crazy.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
Touch wow.
Speaker 1 (31:50):
Okay, so let's let's get into the next topic.
Speaker 2 (31:53):
We'll talk about.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
So I want to tell this story. This is the
craziest thing.
Speaker 4 (31:56):
So there's a woman she's going viral, right, and she
basically put her son up for adoption when he was
a baby, and later on, fast forward to now, she
met a man, she had sex with him, created a
relationship with him, and had children with this man. This
man is her adopted son. He knew the whole time
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that that was his mother.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
No, this is this is this is a real story.
Speaker 2 (32:23):
Old age difference, you know.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
I don't know the age difference.
Speaker 4 (32:27):
The lady she obviously had the kid very young, she said,
that's why she put him up for adoption.
Speaker 3 (32:32):
So if she had him at minimum sixteen, okay, so
she thirty six, he twenty or thirty seventy twenty one.
Speaker 1 (32:40):
Yeah, women are doing that for show.
Speaker 2 (32:43):
Us the black Yes, yeah for sure.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
Wait what does that mean? So why does that sound
like black.
Speaker 3 (32:52):
Sep especially don't sound like some I mean that sounds
like that could be that could be any race action.
Speaker 1 (32:57):
Yeah, that don't sound like black shit. Why are you
saying that?
Speaker 3 (33:00):
No, it could be any race that could be. That
could be white black in the end.
Speaker 1 (33:04):
Yeah, because in Wisconsin they knowingly having sex with their
daughter success that.
Speaker 2 (33:09):
Yeah, you're right, that could be.
Speaker 4 (33:11):
But how come The crazy part about it that's blaw
me is that he knew the whole time and did that,
And I wonder, like, why would you do that?
Speaker 3 (33:19):
I think, like, I think we gotta dig deep into
that to really see if that's a fact, because that
don't even sound right because if he know, like, what's
the odds of y'all being in the same city.
Speaker 4 (33:31):
Him tracked her down to specifically have this relationship, she's.
Speaker 2 (33:36):
Still bad or something or she was cooked.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
So whether she was bad or not, why would that
that's your mother? Broh.
Speaker 3 (33:44):
No, that's why he trifling And that's why we live
in a inner net. We live in a viral driven
society that like you would even do know shit like that?
Speaker 2 (33:56):
Bro? That's nasty. Bro. You did that to go viral
pretty much, because that's what it sounds like.
Speaker 4 (34:04):
Well, she's not the one coming out. She's coming out
and saying, so, how is that going viral?
Speaker 3 (34:09):
I think this is an act. I think we need
to fact check this. I don't even think that's real.
It doesn't even sound real to me.
Speaker 4 (34:15):
Well, I've heard stories like this a lot of different times,
of different things going on like this, so I don't know,
but it's not I mean, think about everything that goes
on in the world. It's not that far fetched.
Speaker 1 (34:26):
People are sick, people are sick anyways.
Speaker 4 (34:32):
Studies show that men forgive cheating as long as their
homies don't know. Do men care more about the betrayal
or how it looks to others?
Speaker 2 (34:41):
I think women care more about how.
Speaker 4 (34:43):
We're not talking about women. We're talking about a statistic
about men. Men forgive cheating as long as their homies
don't know. Do men care about the portrayal or how
it looks to others?
Speaker 1 (34:58):
Yes, I'm asking you about men. There's a statistic that
show that.
Speaker 2 (35:03):
My answer, I answer it. So if I want to
throw women my.
Speaker 1 (35:08):
Answer, okay ahead, I can, right, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:12):
This is my answer.
Speaker 3 (35:15):
So I believe that's a woman's trait that they worry
about more of what their friends think than men, because
men will tell their friends, damn what you think I
should do?
Speaker 5 (35:30):
That?
Speaker 2 (35:30):
Man? No woman's here that right, But I still love
her and everything what you think like?
Speaker 3 (35:37):
But man ain't gonna go off with they man think
they just want to hear what they just want to
hear it, because it's just like, man, we don't leave
women statistically, you know what I'm saying, Think about it,
We don't leave women statistically. It's always the women breaking
up the man. And the men get influenced from the
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they friends, and they take that information from their friends
and they're stronger at Like, man, I ain't worry about them,
whereas women it's too much to overcome because like with
the more and more of your friends power on the like, girl,
you need to not be with him. Girl influences the
the the girl more so, girls are more influential than
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men as far as that they more get convinced from
their friends. You know what I'm saying, Like you need
to take more advice from the people who are more
in your position, but girls take more advice from the
people who not in their position, Like a married woman
taking advice from an unmarried woman. That don't make sense
to me, Like, and you'll take advice from a girl
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who not in a relationship and not hear the girl
that's been in a relationship and the reason she in
that relationship because she dealt with certain shit. But the
one that's that's making you have doubts is the one
that's not in the relationlationship.
Speaker 1 (37:01):
M hm.
Speaker 3 (37:02):
And that don't make sense to me because the one
that created the doubt in your head ain't figured it out.
Speaker 2 (37:08):
So the thing is like.
Speaker 3 (37:10):
If you want to know to learn how to fly,
go like, don't talk to a nigga that fly paper airplanes.
Talk to the motherfucker that actually fly planes. But women
follow motherfuckers who fucked up, who ain't in the relationship,
who don't want you to be in the relationship because
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they miseraly, miser miser misery loves.
Speaker 2 (37:39):
Company, right, you know what I was gonna say, yes.
Speaker 4 (37:46):
So you didn't answer the question do men forgive cheating
as long as their homies don't know?
Speaker 1 (37:52):
Yes or no? Like you went on a world went
about what women do? And I love that for you
and I do agree with what you're saying, But what
is the answer.
Speaker 2 (38:01):
Our man gave the answer?
Speaker 3 (38:02):
If you rewind this, I told you men do men.
I told you that men don't leave their women. Did
you not pick that that we.
Speaker 5 (38:10):
Have someone because that's the same thing, that's the same
thing we forgive you because we ain't going nowhere, because
when when when when the women go through it, they
gonna they want to post it all on this nigga.
Speaker 2 (38:28):
Like, come on, man, this is the world we live in.
Speaker 3 (38:30):
Niggas ain't doing like we ain't posting you know the
crazy thing we ain't posting like like like, come on, man,
we get cheated on. We're gonna keep it low. Girls
get cheated on. They want the world to know. And
that's what's gonna blow it all up and make y'all
break up. We're gonna keep it low so we can
stay together because like we break them.
Speaker 1 (38:51):
Out answering the question that we gonna.
Speaker 2 (38:53):
Keep it, We're gonna keep it.
Speaker 1 (38:55):
Homies won't know, so y'all could stay together.
Speaker 3 (38:57):
The homies gonna talk like that the homies that I'm
gonna tell, Like we got five homies. I might tell
one of the homies that I know that ain't gonna
tell the other homies because I wanted this to still go.
Like I'm embarrassed by it, but like you know what,
I love her, so I'm gonna keep it moved. I'm
gonna keep that. I'm gonna I'm gonna brush that off
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and I'm gonna keep it moving because I love what
she brings to the table. I know, you know, And
then go back to our last episode when like, if
that's the case, then is relationships built off of sex?
Speaker 2 (39:30):
Period? Is it? Yes or no?
Speaker 3 (39:32):
Because if it is, if we breaking up over me
having sex with somebody else, and then that other shit
didn't mean nothing, that all the other things that.
Speaker 2 (39:40):
I gave.
Speaker 1 (39:43):
That doesn't make sense to me do make sense.
Speaker 4 (39:45):
And you're honest everywhere else, right, And I've been trustworthy
and I've been honest, and I decide to have sex
with you, I mean sex with another person in chat,
why would that break up the relationship?
Speaker 1 (39:56):
Right?
Speaker 3 (39:56):
But the thing is like, if a man can move forward,
I'm saying, man, I'm moving.
Speaker 2 (40:01):
Forward with a girl cheating on him than women.
Speaker 4 (40:03):
But what I'm saying is I get where you say
the thing about like sex can kill relationships. You say, well,
if I'm honest and trustworthy about everything else and I
just go do this over here, why would that kill
our relationship? Well, if I'm honest and trustworthy in my
life and I love and care about everybody, but I
kill somebody.
Speaker 2 (40:19):
Y'all don't like honesty truthfully.
Speaker 4 (40:21):
But listen, if I kill somebody, but guess what, I
was honest everywhere else.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
Let's still go take me with yoe. If I never
stole from nobody, but I robbed the bank, but listen,
and everywhere else, I never stole fromh Like, it doesn't
make sense. You can't compartmentalize.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
There's no car partmentalizing nothing.
Speaker 3 (40:38):
There's like certain things that don't have there's a non negotiable,
like stealing from my partner is non negotiable. Yeah, that's crazy,
Like lying, you could probably deal with more than stealing, right, Okay,
I can deal with lying more so than stealing. Stealing
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is the worst thing you can do to me, more
than even cheating.
Speaker 1 (41:03):
Yah, ceiling is found.
Speaker 2 (41:04):
I don't Stilling is the lowest of the lower to me.
Speaker 1 (41:08):
I agree.
Speaker 2 (41:09):
So that's my phone, that's your phone.
Speaker 1 (41:11):
That's literally your fault lighting up.
Speaker 2 (41:14):
No, but like what I'm saying is like this.
Speaker 1 (41:17):
Is crazy, Like what was the question? Let's move on?
So I love it. So now let's get to the.
Speaker 4 (41:23):
Next because you're just like on once tonight. I don't
know what's going on, but your energy is like intense.
So anyways, next next scenario, Chris Brown concert, Right, what
are you doing? If your girl goes on stage and
she's like, oh my god, it is Chris He choking
her route they boom boom, bam, bam bam bam bam,
(41:46):
grinding all on stage. It's popping, and she's like, babe, babe, babe,
you don't understand.
Speaker 1 (41:53):
I love Chris.
Speaker 4 (41:54):
I grew up listening to Chris Brown. This is like
my favorite artist in the world. Like, to cut up
on stage is my dream.
Speaker 3 (42:03):
All right, So I'm gonna speak for me, yeah, and
I'm gonna speak for just the normal, average person who's
not famous.
Speaker 2 (42:11):
Yeah. If it's me, You're you're done.
Speaker 3 (42:16):
Like Paul Pierce, You're not embarrassing me, but only talking
about for Ray Ray in the Hood. You gotta swallow that,
my neg and just she's like, look said, I'm famous now,
like Ray Ray. You gotta go home and be like
you was on stage with Chris Brown, Like yeah, Ray Ray.
If your girl went up there, Demetrius like the homies
(42:37):
in the Hood that your girl got put on stage
and Chris Brown, that's you better flick up and put
it on Instagram. You flick up and put it on Instagram.
And you keep it pushing, like but it's still my
girl because you didn't go home with them. But for me,
that's more public embarrassment because now it's like Paul Pierce's
girl was like Chris was doing that. So now that's
gonna be on the blogs, that's gonna be in conscussions.
Speaker 4 (42:59):
But if you had a private relationship people didn't know
it was your girl, would it still bother you?
Speaker 2 (43:05):
Yeah, they gonna know that's my girl.
Speaker 1 (43:07):
No, what if people did not know, They're gone, I know, Okay,
this is what I'm gonna say.
Speaker 3 (43:13):
No, Like no, I'm not like walking around like people
know who Paul Pierce is and they gonna like once
see like show everybody like that's this girl. They're gonna
be like, oh, that's Pete girl, Like that's tricky Pete.
Now my DNS is gonna be Now I'm gonna be
walking to all yo girl, Oh Chris Brown. Nah, but
the hommie who was down the street, you just like
you take flick up and you you go on Instagram
(43:35):
be like, yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:36):
She was on stage with Chris Brown. She's cracking. Now
she could create the only fans and make y'all millions.
Speaker 4 (43:41):
Now I'm gonna say this. No, let me say this though,
Chris Brown. So this is what I'm gonna say. I
never been like a starstruck type of person. But regardless,
if I have a man, Chris Brown is not calling
me up on stage to grind on him.
Speaker 1 (43:58):
I think that I don't care.
Speaker 4 (43:59):
I don't even like celebrity passes because if I have
a celebrity crush, I could fuck with them. So I'm
not about to have like no passes for any type
of man because that's crazy. Like, I just think that
if I was in a relationship, whether it was with
someone who was famous or unfamous, it's the respect thing
as a woman, like, you do not disrespect your man
in that way, and that is an embarrassment because if
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a man did that to a woman, she would be
so traumatized by that and she would never be the same.
Speaker 1 (44:27):
So I just think that it's like, no, that's not
a good look. I don't like that. If you're single, though,
do your biggest one period. Okay, so.
Speaker 4 (44:39):
This is what we're gonna talk about now. So there
has been this viral clip on Instagram and this girl
talks about how a girl's night out ruins more relationships
than a guy's night out. Basically, when a girl goes out,
she is in a mating ground, meaning like if men
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go out for rest and relaxation with their boys, is
what she's saying. And women go out and if they're
out in a bar or they're out somewhere in a club,
it's like a mating ground for men to approach her,
to talk to her, to get her number, and all
of these things.
Speaker 1 (45:17):
What are your thoughts?
Speaker 3 (45:18):
Yeah, so I think that's after the true because men
nights out they can consist of many different things, because
like when you get a group of girls, like five
six girls who are out, that's like.
Speaker 2 (45:34):
Being in a that's like bait for men.
Speaker 3 (45:37):
Like because when men we see five sists girls, the
men approach women, you know what I'm saying, Like, women
don't really approach men like that. So men's nights out
are a little more like chill than a women's night out.
So like when y'all get a group of girls together,
that's a sign for men to be like, oh yeah,
the homies just together. Let's see what's going on at
this table. Let's see it going They got a dinner
(45:59):
going on. Let's go over there. They got they over
at a top golf let's go over there, or like,
think about what are girls doing on girls nights out?
Speaker 2 (46:08):
Thought?
Speaker 4 (46:08):
I have a question though, this is a real question.
If men's nights out are about rest and relaxation, then
who are the niggas hollering at the girls when they're out?
Since men are not doing that? Where are there? Who
are those How does it make sense if men are
not hollering at women when they're out because they're going
they're chilling, and they're relaxing. Then when I go out
with my girls, who are the men that are approaching me?
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Because you're saying that men go out and they're just chilling,
they ain't tripping, right, So who are these men that
are approaching me? Because if men are going out and
they're not worried about that, and they're going out with
their boys, who's the group of boys that are coming.
Speaker 1 (46:44):
Up to the group of girls.
Speaker 4 (46:46):
Okay, but I'm just saying it's a lot more single
men than unsingle men. I'm sure some of those men
coming up to those women are not single either, And
I feel like a lot of men they revolve a
lot of things around.
Speaker 1 (46:59):
Okay, but I don't know.
Speaker 4 (47:01):
I feel like there's a lot of men who revolve
everything they do around women, how they look, how they dress,
the cologne they have on, what chain they have on,
what jewelry they have on, whether they're with their boys
or whatever. They go out, and nine times out of ten,
one of those men in those groups once a woman.
Speaker 1 (47:17):
That woman is with a group of girls.
Speaker 4 (47:19):
So guess what, We're just going to bring all these
girls to the table with y'all.
Speaker 2 (47:25):
So, say you got a group of men.
Speaker 3 (47:28):
Who married, right and a married man approach you sometime,
which probably has happened.
Speaker 2 (47:38):
I'm gonna tell you.
Speaker 3 (47:38):
Within that married group, sometimes that group and I've never
been amongst that because I've never been out with like
four or five different married men right now, I don't
even know what that's about. Like most of the time
I'm out like one, two guys married, we just have dinner. Yeah,
But I will say this, I think most of these
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married men will approach and start hollering at girls, say hey,
what's up.
Speaker 2 (48:06):
You know you got a man?
Speaker 3 (48:08):
We'll get your number, and then go back to his
boys like yeah, I told you I still got it.
Speaker 2 (48:13):
Then he throw her number to crash you know what I'm.
Speaker 3 (48:18):
Saying, be doing stuff like that, and I thought, just
like I told you, I still got it. I just
want to see all right back to let's having dranks, chill.
I'm never gonna see her, call her or never went
into her again.
Speaker 4 (48:31):
But a lot of the times that's where the men
find their side pieces to help them through their marriage.
Like you said, where they finding their side pieces help
through the marriage where they.
Speaker 2 (48:40):
At because it's the girl that's aggressive.
Speaker 1 (48:43):
Yeah, I'm telling you just said that the girls don't
approach that.
Speaker 3 (48:46):
I don't think most side pieces come from the man
approaching the girl.
Speaker 1 (48:50):
But you just said that the men don't.
Speaker 3 (48:51):
I just telling you, I don't think most side pieces
come from the man, the married man approaching the girl.
Speaker 1 (48:58):
Okay, it comes from the girl approaching the girl throws
herself on him.
Speaker 2 (49:04):
Yep.
Speaker 3 (49:05):
And he just was like oh and it's just like damn.
Speaker 2 (49:10):
It was so much.
Speaker 3 (49:11):
And then he was like damn, she is fine and
everything like damn. Then he just gave in. I think,
like damn. Instead of him pulling himself out of that spot,
you know, he fell into the wayside because at the
time that that that he hollered at her he was
probably going through something with her because in a happy place.
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You know, I don't think it comes from a happy
place in the I think it comes from like a
dysfunctional place where y'all at an argument or something where
y'all going through it to where that creeps in.
Speaker 2 (49:44):
Right.
Speaker 4 (49:46):
But you know that's scary too as a woman, because
it's like you're gonna have adversity in a relationship and
there's gonna be hard times that you both have to
go through. So every hard time that we have and
every adversity that we face, a woman have to be
in fear that her man is going to be with
another woman. You know, Like it's like, yeah, I guess right,
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I understand that.
Speaker 3 (50:10):
But if I should just nip it in the butt
and be like, you know, I don't apologize.
Speaker 4 (50:15):
You know, there's a statistic that show that it's not
about how happy you are in a relationship, your connection
or anything.
Speaker 1 (50:21):
It's about how fast you can get over an argument.
Speaker 4 (50:25):
Like how fast can you be like, you know what,
this was crazy, but I got you.
Speaker 1 (50:29):
Let's move on.
Speaker 4 (50:30):
That's the most important thing they say when it comes
to a relationship, because letting shit linger is when you
allow space for these things to go on. So I
feel like not going to be mad and nipping that
shit in the butt is important. So if a girl's
night out ruins more relationships as a man, what do
you feel like you would be comfortable with your woman
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doing when she wants to connect with her girls, Like, Hey,
I want to go out with my homegirls, my best
friend da da da, she's getting married when I kick
it or whatever the cases, what would you be like? Okay,
Like I feel secure, I feel comfortable.
Speaker 3 (51:06):
Well, I feel like this when girls get together and
say let's have a nice out. Yeah, what does that
really consist of? That consists of y'all coming together? Yeah,
getting cute, smelling good, putting your outfits on right. Okay,
So like if y'all all married, you know what as
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me as a husband or a boyfriend, won't y'all just
come to the crib?
Speaker 1 (51:33):
I leave? Okay? And what are you doing going out
smelling good?
Speaker 2 (51:38):
No? No, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (51:39):
I'm gonna have my sweat. Who don't go into the
hommy house. I'mna have a homie, Like, I'm gonna be
over here at the homyhouse. You don't address you know
his number? When y'all done, I'm gonna pull back up.
Y'all had a crib to y'allself, y'all can drink. I'm
gonna order y'all extra liquor. I'm gonna order y'all food.
As a matter of fact, If y'all want me to
cook for y'all and leave, y'all can just chill out
the crib in the backyard, go ahead, and then I'm
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gonna be at the homey house right here to where
you know where I'm at. You got to address the
phone number. Y'all want to chill and chop it up
and talk shit about us? Cool, go ahead, do that.
Speaker 2 (52:10):
Then I don't want me to come home. You call me.
I'm answering, all right, I'll be back, Okay.
Speaker 1 (52:14):
I'm not mad at that. I'm not mad at that
at all.
Speaker 3 (52:17):
Like damn a healthy relationship, Like all right, we want y'all.
Why y'all got to go somewhere, Like you know what
I'm saying, that's cool to go somewhere, go to dinner.
Speaker 2 (52:26):
Then where y'all going go to dinner?
Speaker 1 (52:27):
What I'm saying, like, what would be like going to dinner?
Speaker 2 (52:30):
Cool?
Speaker 1 (52:30):
Yeah, all right? Cool?
Speaker 2 (52:32):
What dinner?
Speaker 3 (52:32):
But then after dinner, we y'all want to go do hookah,
and then y'all want to do all this other sh
start blowing. It's start blowing down, like y'all we got
hook at the house, baby, like y'all couplets due like
them because y'all always do dinner. But then the plans
changed because the homegirl convinced y'all. The single homegirl convinced
(52:54):
y'all let's go here. Yeah that's hell.
Speaker 1 (52:57):
Yeah, okay. So another thing.
Speaker 3 (53:01):
When you come home and you jump into bed and
you want to have sex, He's like, I'm good because.
Speaker 2 (53:07):
I know what you was on.
Speaker 1 (53:09):
What was it on?
Speaker 3 (53:10):
Because now you're drunk at four in the morning. When
a girl come home at.
Speaker 2 (53:14):
Four in the morning, four in the morning.
Speaker 3 (53:16):
Listen though, when a girl come home at four in
the morning drunk, niggas ain't. I don't know if nigga's
really trying to have sex because he feels like it
was it's something was it was tricky.
Speaker 1 (53:28):
Well, four in the morning is a tricky time. Close
that two three is a tricky time too.
Speaker 2 (53:35):
You have a young behavior.
Speaker 1 (53:36):
Yeah, I agree, you do.
Speaker 4 (53:38):
What time do you think is a reasonable time if
a woman went out for dinner and kicked it with
her friends. Okay, I agree, twelve, I can agree even
for me, Yeah, I can agree with.
Speaker 2 (53:48):
But if I'm going to the homie house that you know?
So what if? What if this that I can come
home at three four?
Speaker 1 (53:55):
So what if this?
Speaker 4 (53:56):
So what if I'm like, let's say, like you have
a girl and she's like, Babe, I'm gonna go to
my homegirls house. She We're gonna kick it at the house, whatever, whatever, whatever,
And then I call you and I'm like, yo, like
I call my man, how would you feel about this?
Speaker 1 (54:10):
Yo? I'm lit.
Speaker 4 (54:12):
I'm so lit, I can't even drive, baby, I'm just
gonna spend the night over here?
Speaker 1 (54:16):
Is it spend the night crazy with my car?
Speaker 2 (54:22):
All right?
Speaker 1 (54:22):
So just leave my car at this house? Okay?
Speaker 2 (54:28):
I got I love you that much. I'm gonna come
get you, my girl.
Speaker 1 (54:31):
But what if you're like, I'm so tired and you're
not feeling it?
Speaker 2 (54:35):
You my wife, my girl?
Speaker 1 (54:37):
Yeah, your girls not even.
Speaker 2 (54:39):
Concerned about you, and you're acting like you and you're
gonna do this normally, I'm gonna come get you.
Speaker 1 (54:44):
So is a spend the night off limits?
Speaker 2 (54:47):
Like anywhere at your Homegirls house, who's married.
Speaker 1 (54:51):
Yeah, yeah, or like anywhere just what if she's not?
Like just anyway, spend the.
Speaker 2 (54:56):
Night like come get you. If you turned down, I'll come.
Speaker 1 (55:00):
Get you your trickerations.
Speaker 3 (55:02):
That's a trick if you turn down, because I'm gonna say,
I'll come get you. If you turn that down, that's trick.
You can't turn down to your man said after you
said that, you turn that down. Now you start boiling
into like untrustworthy zones.
Speaker 4 (55:20):
I think as a woman, me, as a grown woman,
single or not single, I don't spend the night nowhere
unless it's like my my partner's house. I don't spend
the night just like lose at different people's house.
Speaker 1 (55:30):
I'm too grown. I need to have my own shit
going on.
Speaker 3 (55:33):
We only spend at the homie homegirl house if the
homie deer.
Speaker 1 (55:38):
The homie Homegirl house.
Speaker 4 (55:40):
So anyways, last topic, because we're about to wrap it up.
Speaker 2 (55:47):
The homie Homegirl house. If the hobie there that said
that's blowing the homegirl house of the homie there.
Speaker 4 (56:02):
Then you should start living there and get your items.
Well come scooy, Yeah, I'm coming.
Speaker 1 (56:08):
Where's it? Yeah? It's uber, is it?
Speaker 4 (56:11):
All types of call the uber and you don't have
to feel like you're gonna get taken advantage of an uber.
Speaker 1 (56:16):
You will grow Dow's okay.
Speaker 4 (56:18):
So the last question, and it kind of ties into everything,
and this is a big thing topic actually online. What
are the girls? What are the what is your thoughts
on women going on girls trips? All their girls bikinis
hitting it trip.
Speaker 1 (56:35):
Oh, me and my girls are going on a trip.
Speaker 2 (56:38):
What's my relationship?
Speaker 1 (56:39):
It's a girlfriend. It's your girl, it's your woman.
Speaker 2 (56:42):
It's how.
Speaker 1 (56:45):
You're to gather.
Speaker 4 (56:46):
You're in love your buot up. I don't know that's
your girl. You ever like what she's going on today?
Speaker 2 (56:52):
We got this girl's trip.
Speaker 1 (56:54):
Yeah, my girls want Jamaica, Mexico.
Speaker 3 (57:02):
All right, I'm gonna just get a house like two
miles away, chill in case you'll.
Speaker 2 (57:06):
Need something so you can do that. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (57:12):
No, I'm just saying, like, because the girls trip, I
know what, Like, I feel like when you're in a
relationship that girls trips shouldn't be that it shouldn't be the.
Speaker 4 (57:23):
Most men say that there should be no girls trips
when you're in a relationship.
Speaker 2 (57:27):
Relationship, we should go on couples.
Speaker 1 (57:29):
That's what people are saying in the comments about this.
Speaker 2 (57:31):
It shouldn't be girls.
Speaker 4 (57:33):
What if it's what if this is an exception. What
if it's your your homegirl. I mean, what if it's
her one of her best friends and she's having a
bachelorette party out of town.
Speaker 3 (57:43):
Once you get married and have an exclusive relationship, you
do couples trips.
Speaker 4 (57:48):
I'm saying, what if it's your best friend and she's like,
You're like, babe, this is she's having a bachelor party.
Speaker 1 (57:52):
It's out of town.
Speaker 4 (57:54):
It's all girls were going to get lit and to
celebrate the fact that she's getting married, you know, clubs
and that because she wants to go out because she's
not going to be you know, bachelorette is to celebrate
the fact that you're no longer single, you're about to
be married.
Speaker 2 (58:06):
You can go to a bachelor red party.
Speaker 4 (58:09):
What I'm saying is that because everyone in the comments
are saying it's a red flag if a girl goes
on a girl's trip.
Speaker 3 (58:15):
Yeah, but like if you go to a bachelor red party,
this is my thing. If I'm with a girl, I'm
gonna trust her to do the right thing until she
don't do the right thing.
Speaker 1 (58:29):
Okay, you don't know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (58:30):
Yeah, I'm not. I don't got time to be just like.
Speaker 3 (58:37):
Every fucking little thing you doing, like, I'm gonna trust
you to be I'm not even gonna be calling a
check on you, bro, you should be responsible enough to
be like, go ahead.
Speaker 1 (58:50):
Like, but you just said a girl's trip is out.
Speaker 3 (58:53):
No, yeah, a girls trip is out because we should
be on a couples trips. But like a bachelor party, yeah,
okay that's different.
Speaker 1 (59:01):
That's different.
Speaker 2 (59:02):
Yeah, but like I'm not a micro I don't like
the microman.
Speaker 4 (59:05):
What about like the clubs, Like, okay, we're going out
to the table, we have a club, We're we're vibing.
Speaker 1 (59:12):
Our clubs off.
Speaker 3 (59:14):
Go ahead, okay, mentally draining.
Speaker 6 (59:19):
Me me, go ahead, Like I'm not even like dude,
just don't like just I'm.
Speaker 3 (59:30):
Not searching for you to fuck up. That's a bar
like things is always gonna come to like when they're supposed.
Speaker 1 (59:40):
The lightness comes the darkness.
Speaker 2 (59:42):
Because what's happened to me every time.
Speaker 1 (59:44):
It always happens to me too.
Speaker 3 (59:46):
So I'm like, go ahead, like it's gonna show. Yeah,
I trust you to be my lady, I trust you
to make the right decisions until you don't. So like
like I'm at an age. I'm like, I'm gonna go
to I'm gonna sleep good when you're out. I'm not
the age to where I'm gonna be up waiting for
(01:00:07):
you to come on.
Speaker 2 (01:00:07):
Yeah, when you come on me.
Speaker 1 (01:00:09):
Nah.
Speaker 3 (01:00:10):
Like it's relationships to where they girl go out they
can't sleep, or your man go out, you don't sleep
until he get home.
Speaker 2 (01:00:16):
That's real, that's real.
Speaker 1 (01:00:18):
Crazy.
Speaker 3 (01:00:19):
I'm at the stage to where I'm gonna knock out.
I don't know what time you even gonna get home,
because if you're gonna do some bullshit, it's gonna come
to light and it's gonna hurt.
Speaker 2 (01:00:29):
You more than me.
Speaker 1 (01:00:30):
So I'm like whatever, good, Okay, Well, thank you for
all your thoughts. I appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (01:00:41):
Yeah, that was a good one. That was good. He
made some good topics.
Speaker 1 (01:00:46):
Okay.
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Speaker 1 (01:01:43):
Do you think that men or women are more toxic
What I will not do is get on the need
and propose to it.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Man.
Speaker 1 (00:03):
The only thing I'm doing on my knees is that's what.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
That doesn't make sense. You should only spend a dub
on the first day about that.
Speaker 4 (00:12):
Dub men forgive cheating as long as their homies don't
know yes or no, like.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Let me go through it.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Ah, they gonna they gonna post it all on this nigga.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Chris Brown concert, Right, what are you doing?
Speaker 4 (00:28):
If your girl goes on stage and she's like, oh
my god, it is Chris he choking her route, they
boom boom bam bam bam bam bam grinding.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
If it's me, You're you're done. Like Paul Pierce, You're
not embarrassing me. But I'm talking about for Ray Ray
and the hood. You gotta swallow that moneygg And she's like,
lixen lovem famous. Now like Ray Ray, you gotta go
home and be like you was on stage with Chris Brown.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
I don't spend the night just like lose at different
people's house. I'm too I need to have my own
ship going on at.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
The Homie Home Girl House, at the Homie.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Deer, the Homie Home girl house.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
So anyways, last topic because we're about to wrap it up.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
The Homie homegirlse If the Hobie there. This is the
(01:43):
taking over the game, all right, everybody, Welcome to Truth
after Dark.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Do you think that men or women are more talk?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Hello, beautiful people, welcome to another episode of the Truth
after Dark.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Damn, Paul, what are you doing? Bro? Like?
Speaker 1 (02:17):
This is crazy?
Speaker 4 (02:21):
But beautiful people, Paul, this is crazy, Like.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Put the no no. I was looking at these score Damn.
I was trying to get to these scores. Now you
know what, Let's chop. I'm ready to chop.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Chopping. Let's go.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
Hello, beautiful people, welcome to another episode of the Truth
after Dark. I am your host Iszar Faraday and true
the Truth.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
You know what I'm talking about. Understand things that understanding
that not to be said.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Okay, yeah, clocked in.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
So today we are going to talk about some current
events and some things that are happening within the media.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Let's start out with Adrian Bronner. Is that his name?
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Okay, So he was on Cam's and Mace's podcast and
they have a co host who's a woman, Treasure right,
Treasure will soon yeah, yeah, and they kicked him out
of the podcast. Cam did because he was being disrespectful,
like being honor and her Man was there.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
How do you feel about that?
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Yeah, yeah, well I kind of watched the clip and
I understand where Cam was coming from. And then I
was keeping the conversation with Adrian, and then I was
looking at like, damn. I'm not sure she was flattered
or was just laughing it off because it was a guest.
But at the same time, you know, when Cam say like, hey,
(03:51):
you know her Man is here, then you got to
you gotta slow it down a little bit, you know
what I'm saying. And so I got it to a
certain degree. I wish Treasures would have been like not
as laughing about.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Well, I'm a woman and I have a nervous laugh too,
And sometimes as a woman, when you're in a male
dominated space, if you say anything other than a laugh
or be shy and nervous, you're aggressive, you're masculine her
all these things, and a lot of women it's hard,
like it's awkward, and when you're awkward, you.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Laugh sometimes, And I've laughed at people just like having
serious conversations because I'm nervous. So I could see that,
but also to she did say like my man is here.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Yes, she was like he's here.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Camn just stood on business.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
And protected her. And he was drunk. The Adrian I thought,
I thought he had like too many.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Yeah, I'm not going to assume what it was, but
like I like that Cam like stood on business, he
kept a professional uh and was like you know that
ain't really right, stood on his co host. You know, yeah,
that was that was real. It was real. So I
think I kind of would have did the same thing,
like come on, bro, like you know, you can't be
(05:04):
you know, and you.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Know how Adrian is.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Adrian is a personality in the Boston world and the
culture that sometimes a little bit go overboard, and we
loving we support him, but sometimes you go a little
bit overboard, and he got a scale back. But I
think cam on the most part did the right thing.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
All right, all right, So let's move on.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
So Sierra is changing her son's name, So future Junior,
when she has a baby with future Sierra, she's married
to Russell Wilson. Now she's changing his last name to Wilson.
What do you think about that?
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Her future son, she's legally changing his last name to Wilson.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
So her current husband.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Yeah, next Now I don't know what the tea is,
but obviously, like they say that future is in a
present father and Russell's really doing his biggest one with
that kid. And I, you know, I don't know. I
really don't know because I don't have children, So it's
hard for this week on that.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
I feel like that's kind of like spiteful to somebody.
And regardless if somebody is not prison with their children,
let the child dictate that when they get older, you
know what I'm saying, because they might have a relationship
later in life, you know, maybe or not not might
not be The emotions is flaming right now and everything
(06:25):
is bitter and and uh, you know, it's a lot
of emotions involved because he's not there. But like, you
ain't got to do that because that's his son.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Period. I don't care.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
It's always like it's always gonna be his son, whether
I care for him or not, he cared for him
or not, that's his son. But that's like, but but
go ahead, what Russ takes care of him like it's
his son.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
I get it.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
That's between a sperm donor and a father.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
No, no, but listen to this, listen to listen to this,
or I get it. He's in the home with you
full times here and Russ and you father him like
that your kid.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
I get it.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
But at the end of the day, that's still his son.
So it's gonna be and you never know what's gonna
happen later in life, because later in life, y'all, can
they can come together have the best relationship.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
I don't seen this happen.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
We can, Like, man, I know it wasn't cool young
and maybe we and we wasn't born out of love.
But like man, like as you get older, like you
still my son, Like what if he decided he want
to be with his dad later in life, But like, dude,
that's not your father. I had you or I even
though I ain't was there early because I gotta a man,
(07:45):
always got the story. I'm gonna tell you this, when
it comes to the kids in marriage, the kid is
always gonna be it's always gonna be lopsided because the
kid always gonna hear the mother story because the mother
is always there every day, so it's gonna be implanted
in the kid a certain story.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
But there's always two sides to the story.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
And like.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
Future one day is probably gonna be able to tell
his side of the story on what it was to
where the kid have a better understanding on why it
is how it is. So I don't really agree with that,
you know, Like it's my situation, Like I'm a Pierce.
My other brothers is different last names, my mom different
last name. I never met my father, but my mama
(08:34):
still kept my father last name.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
My father, from what I know, is still alive. Like
I can still holler at him if I won't, but
like at least give me that, like, you know, like
the kid can be sixteen and he gonna be believing
that Russ is his real father, Like tell him the truth.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
Though I'm pretty.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
A cousin that was adoptor he didn't know he was
adopted too now, but.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
That son knows because he was around his father. I'm
sure he knows.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
But what I will say is this, I understand there's
two sides of a story, and I understand that the
woman is the more present. Typically, the woman is the
more present one, so she can implant whatever story she
wants in a kid's head.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
But I also do.
Speaker 4 (09:20):
Strongly believe that there's only limited excuses on why you're
not showing up to be a parent period. Like I
was in a I was dating a man who had
two different baby moms and both were so crazy that
he couldn't see both of the children. And I'm like,
that don't really make sense to me, Like, you have
two different bay momas that definitely won't let you see
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the kids. But nah, like you didn't raise none of
your children, and that to me is just a red flag.
And a man like, yeah, I ended up being really
close to his daughter. His daughter still hits me up
to this dad, Yeah I did. I have talked to
the mom. Yeah, they said he was lying and the
kids were grown enough to reach out to them himself
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and they will be reaching out like and he would
just be like, oh, I don't feel like like it
would always be an excuse of something. And my opinion
is like, there are circumstances that do There are women
who keep their kids away from the father, and I
do not agree with that in the slightest unless the
father is like going to be abusive in any way
or harming that child. Other than that, there's no excuse
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for that. I do know women do that. But I
do also know that there's again limited excuses and not
fight for your kids.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
It's men in that situation with the kids. Mothers get.
And the reason the man be bitter a lot is
because the women only texting when it's about money.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
I understand that.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
That's like, like, come on, man, like you like you
text only about money. That's the only conversations. And so
like the man be feeling a certain way, like then
was this money driven or was this a money play?
And so the man can get and the woman can
get like bitter.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Yeah, and it's just like, yeah, I.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
Don't want no relationship with her because there's money driven,
you know what I'm saying. It could be just all
types of stories to it, and I don't have a
lot of time to go in the full detail of it,
but it just it just happens like that.
Speaker 4 (11:24):
Yeah, I get that. And I think that a lot
of things is convenience too. Like I know a lot
of men who have other children with other people, but
they're married to one person and they're more president in
those kids' life because it's easier. I understand there's a
lot of reasons. I come from a blended family myself,
so I've seen it firsthand. But you know, I wouldn't
personally change my kid's name, last name.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
I'm not a mother man. It feels like and I
don't know here like that. I don't know Russ like that.
If it's a resentment thing, or maybe Russ said it
because of how you feel about the kid.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
It can be that.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
So but like at the end of the day, that's
still his kid, and like what if he gets to
be like when he started making his own choices? Think
of that, Like that's what the parents or the women
who care for the kids who take the custody, you
have to remember, like it's going to be a point
to where the kid can make his own decision. What
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if the kid is like fifteen to be like I
want to go live with my daddy, you know what
I'm saying, Like, and it just gets to the point
where it's so volatile because that happens and they're like
I want to go live with my dad, and now
you take them in and it's like, damn, that's my kid,
But like, why you do that to my son or daughter?
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Put another dude. I get he was taken care of,
but it's at the end of that's still my blood.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Okay, well we get it. Let's let's move it along.
Speaker 4 (12:53):
So, Bellathorne, she proposed to her fiance.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
What do you feel about phone? Man?
Speaker 4 (13:00):
Damn, what do you think about she's from here? What
kind of what kind of Y's white? She's a white lady. No,
So what do you think about women proposing to man?
Speaker 2 (13:14):
I feel like that's how it should be.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Truthfully, you think that a woman should propose to a man.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
I mean I feel like if men are the prize, why.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
Men are the prize?
Speaker 3 (13:27):
That's what I feel. We had this on other episodes.
I said, like when you said who's the prize, the
man is the prize because at the end of the day,
it's no benefits to us to marry a woman, because
when a woman marries us as a man, regardless if
we're minimum wage, middle class or other class, it's you
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get the kid, you get everything, you get the kids,
you get the money. Like, like, why is it ad
advantageous to me to marry I feel like I'm the
prize because you all get the vantages go to your
So y'all should be been the knee like Game of Thrones.
Speaker 4 (14:06):
Me personally, I'm gonna say this, I would never propose
to a man in a million years. I like a
man who's a leader, and I want him to lead me.
And that goes for everything. When he's ready to.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Marry, Like I'm the leader, proposed no, when my told
you no.
Speaker 4 (14:23):
If he a man who's a real leader, ain't gonna
say that, they're never going to have their girl get
on me and give him a ring. Like that's some corny.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
That's what America brainwashed us.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
No, that's not America. That's in the Bible.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
What the Bible says the Bible is a.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
Man is the leader. I'm not going off of the
Bible propose no. But it also doesn't say that.
Speaker 4 (14:43):
It doesn't put a woman in a position to be
the person that's proposing to a man, like a man
is the person.
Speaker 3 (14:49):
Who God or a man not if you're going by
the Bible. Since we going by the Bible, you know,
I don't know religions. Everybody's out there, but we're going.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
By the Bible.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
Man was made first. He's so the nigga was out
doing whatever he was in the wild. He needed some help,
so he created the woman, right help.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
The woman is a helper and at the end of
the day, I feel like a man should. I don't care.
Speaker 4 (15:19):
I think that it's very masculine for a woman to
propose to a man. It would make me feel like
I'm not in my femininity as whatsoever. And I feel like,
at the end of the day, I'm not getting on
a knee to propose to a big ass man.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
I think that that's not cute.
Speaker 4 (15:34):
And I think that at the end of the day,
if that's the case, we don't have to be married
because I'm not going to propose to you, and not
because I feel like the man has to do this
grand gesture. But I'd rather us come to an agreement
together and be like, should we get married because it
makes sense for this to happen, And that's happen, and
we are committed to each other and we do want
to be with each other for the rest of life.
Anything happens to me, I would want you to be
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able to do, you know, be the one to handle
that like that would be a collective decision and we
can make that together. It doesn't have to be some
grand proposal. What I will not do is get on
the need and propose to a man. The only thing
I'm doing on my knees is that's.
Speaker 2 (16:11):
What that doesn't make sense because.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
I'm saying that doesn't make be fucking for real on
this podcast, saying this like, don't like if you can
really imagine a girl getting got her niece with a
brig like baby, I'll let you know.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Everything else, why wouldn't it be for a ring?
Speaker 1 (16:33):
That's weird. I'm moving on from this. Yeah, that's out
of control.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
Like I'm just like you said it.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
You said, I'm getting for something else for my man.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
For something else, get on their needs for something else.
Speaker 4 (16:50):
By anyways, I'm moving up. That's ridiculous. That is it
that like you not you.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
It's crazy that men want women to be this submissive
woman involved.
Speaker 3 (17:05):
Door for the man when he walks through the door,
when he walks up to the car. Women should be
opening the door.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
This is what you're spewing to people.
Speaker 4 (17:13):
And so when your daughter dates a man, you want
them to be like, make sure you're opening the door
for these men. Make sure they're not doing nothing for
you when you get all your knees and propose to them.
That's the advice you give your daughters.
Speaker 3 (17:23):
Well, if you got a man that says, hey, babe,
I'm gonna take care of you the rest of your life.
You don't have to work, you don't have to do
all these other things. I'm gonna get us a house,
cars and everything, and ye'ah, I'm gonna take care of you.
Why not open the door. I'm gonna make sure there's
no fifty to fifty in this baby.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
The bills. You know, I got dinner.
Speaker 1 (17:48):
You know how I got?
Speaker 3 (17:50):
You asked me right now, I'm telling you I got
the dinners, I got, you know the bills, I got
the heavy lifting. And when the heavy lifting becomes a
baron on me, I'm not even gonna complain about it
and bring it to you.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
So heavy lifting and clues. Opening a door, that's it.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
Do. Yeah, you're right the door, like.
Speaker 3 (18:13):
Like a woman opening the door. That should be nothing right, right,
So what's the problem. I gotta do everything.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
It's not that you have to do everything a woman could,
like you can live in a world. And unfortunately, I'm
really I feel bad that all your experience leads you
to believe that you have to do everything in a relationship.
But my experience speaks very differently from that, because as
a woman, I bring a lot to the table. Like
I said, I'm gonna anticipate my man's knees. I'm gonna
know what he needs before he knows what he needs,
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and I'm going to provide that. There's so many things
that a real woman and a good woman can bring
to the table. So I feel sorry for.
Speaker 4 (18:51):
You that you have never got the opportunity to experience that.
And I really do hope that you meet someone that
can show you that differently. Until then, you'll have your opinion,
and that's okay, I'm willing to agree to disagree with that,
But I do know differently. I know that a man
could buy a house, but a woman could make it
a home, and she could make it into the something
that a man could never do. She con could provide
that comfort, she can have the candles and this that
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everything going in a BIS.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
Just a little less aggressive.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Yeah, sure, I didn't mean to be aggressive. I'm just talking.
I get passionate, but I'm just saying.
Speaker 3 (19:23):
I'm just you're saying what per woman, the women can
do for the man. So because it's triggering.
Speaker 1 (19:29):
Me, why is it triggering?
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Because it's the aggressiveness of the tone about what you're saying,
So if you say it a little more pleasant, I
can accept it. So what is it again.
Speaker 4 (19:39):
That the I'm not going to repeat it, but I
will say that there's a lot of things that a
woman can bring.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
And like I said, but the men, for us, as
masculine men, we trying to minimize.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
Your list of things you can bring because we.
Speaker 3 (19:59):
Just feel as sense of pride, that's the pride of
the pride the lions. We want to take care of
a lot of different things so the women have their
life easy because we know when y'all birth children, that's
the most blessing of blessings that can ever happen. Because
like that, you guys bring life to the world. So
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we appreciate that, you know what I'm saying. So that's
why we like all right, because the women what y'all
bring to the table. As far as life, there will
be no life without y'all. So we're willing to do
all these things, take care of you, make sure you're
in a safe nest. We don't want harm or danger
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to come to you. So like we just be like, well,
minimize the list for you. But like when y'all start
trying to step up and thinking you over the man.
Speaker 1 (20:59):
Right, and making that decision.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
That's a good thing. That's why women.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
That's crazy.
Speaker 4 (21:06):
Okay, anyways, let's move on because I can't keep going
back and forth about that.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
That's the most ridiculous thing.
Speaker 2 (21:11):
It's not the most ridiculous.
Speaker 4 (21:13):
Yeah, because if a woman proposed to you, imagine how
thirsty this is. You're with a woman, y'all, don't even
you don't even know that you want to get married again,
and she's making the decision to get on her knee
and propose to.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
You with a ring. As a man, you're supposed to
make that decision.
Speaker 2 (21:26):
The hell.
Speaker 3 (21:28):
So there's laws in America, right, and then there's laws
in other country.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
Right.
Speaker 3 (21:35):
We look at other countries like you guys deal with that.
We don't deal with that. So that's ridiculous that like say,
like in other.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
Countries, you can you can do.
Speaker 3 (21:56):
Like things that you can't do in America, right, Like
I don't know what like, because there's laws, different laws everywhere, right,
and there's different structure.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
Uh, And so we look at it.
Speaker 3 (22:13):
It's things that are ridiculous in our country that are
not ridiculous in other countries.
Speaker 4 (22:20):
They're not proposing to people in other countries. Fall, that's
not what they're doing.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
The men are actually creating families, religion, what doesn't matter.
They're not doing that in other countries, period, point blank.
That's not at all.
Speaker 3 (22:34):
Like let me ask chat GPT what marriages last longer
when the women propose?
Speaker 2 (22:41):
This basis towards the because ninety nine point nine of
the men proposed.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
But I wonder what that zero point one relationship status
is when the women do?
Speaker 2 (22:54):
I do? I want to know? That's that?
Speaker 4 (22:55):
Okay, well we'll look it up, so we'll move on
from that subject. So you know, ge Herbal, which we
love him down. He was on our show. He recently
made a public post because I know he been going
back and forth with the mother of his child and
all of this, and he shut it down. Baby, He said,
any woman that thinks they know me or thought she
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knew me, does not know me.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Period.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
I am trying to marry my woman.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
I accept all accountability for what I might have done
in the past, but that is the past and I'm
leaving it there.
Speaker 1 (23:27):
I do not have time to block anyone. I am
chasing money. Just do not call me. There is too
much money on the line for me. To be changing
my number.
Speaker 4 (23:36):
Okay, he put that out there for the public for
the woman to know. Baby listen, I might have been
cheated and I might have been a dog in the past,
but don't ever hit me up no more because this
is my wife. And he's been Hella posting his girl
now and he's just like letting he's shutting it down.
And people feel conflicted because they feel like, well, he
was just dogging her out or whatever, like cheating or whatever.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
He had a drama. I personally loved you, Herbal, and.
Speaker 4 (24:02):
I think the mother of a child is beautiful and
I think they're a good little match.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
What are your thoughts.
Speaker 3 (24:09):
I can't wait to cut and paste that and put
my name in front that it.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
Also, he's a Libra like you, maybe y'all relate.
Speaker 3 (24:18):
I can't wait to cut and paste instead of g
Herbal saying that, I want to be saying that. Okay,
that's what I think about that, and hopefully you know,
I can be saying.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
That real soon. I love that.
Speaker 4 (24:30):
Yeah, I fuck with you, Herbal and his baby mama's
at aries like me, so they look like they have
a vibe and maybe having fun.
Speaker 1 (24:36):
So I do love that.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
For them.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
I really hope that you know, they do their biggest one.
Speaker 4 (24:41):
So anyways, moving on, So relationship expert An war White.
He said that his name is Ann war White. He
said that dinner is a bad first date because women
just want to test if you're a provider, and they're
more into analyzing the atmosphere and the aesthetic than they
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are the compatibility and the connection. And they feel like
you know, a lot of men agreed, and so that
men are really being used for the vibe and the
ambiance and not the connection of what they really have
with a person. And there's a lot of men that
says they date women and they can't go They always
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have to be doing something like going to a fancy
dinner taking them there.
Speaker 2 (25:32):
They can never just be chilling, take them to like
a carnival and get a chili cheese GLIZZI. That's not
that's not.
Speaker 1 (25:44):
No, that's not that's that's not all right.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
So first off, and and are White, Well, I feel like.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
Should like tell us what's a good first date. What
does he say?
Speaker 1 (26:04):
He said, coffee dates?
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Okay, that's not bad.
Speaker 1 (26:08):
Like go to coffee, have a conversation.
Speaker 4 (26:11):
Yeah, you guys connect, See if you guys vibe okay
or maybe you know what I mean. I agree, and
I think that also another good first date could be
like a drink, like come for a drink or something that's.
Speaker 3 (26:24):
Not a good first because they would drink. You know,
it's so crazy. I was hooping today. I was playing
pick up and I was telling the young guins because
I'm the og and the hoop runs. I was like,
y'all know what this good first date is? Because I
had to think about it, I said, I swear to god,
I said this today. I said, dog with y'all. Y'all,
y'all should do this for a first date. You should
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just be like, hey, uh, you know, let's go for
a walk or a hike or a workout, you.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
Know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (26:56):
Or a workout, Hey, coming to my trainer, let's work
out for or I got a hike, we can go on.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
Let's go do that.
Speaker 1 (27:03):
My only objection, Oh sorry, go ahead.
Speaker 2 (27:08):
I'm trying to because I'm trying to tell you that.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
Okay, damn, I said, all right, take them out to workout,
or like say all right, let's say hey, like, let's
go on this hike.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
I got a dope ass hike.
Speaker 3 (27:19):
It's an hour, and then after we go to Starbucks.
And I was like, that'll be a cool first day
because that day probably only gonna cost you about dub
because think about it, the hike free and then you
go to Starbucks, get a couple of coffee and some
egg bites or whatever, cracking, and then you have a
conversation after that like Cat's be going off spending three
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four hundred and be like, man, I'm never talking to
her again.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
Like damn, because the Covo is blowing you three some
nice more. Because you go to dinner and you take
it to the club, that's another.
Speaker 3 (27:53):
Five going to the club because you already had it
planned out already, was like, already, we're going to dinner,
We're going to this club.
Speaker 1 (28:01):
But that's the problem. Don't be clanning out to things
you trying.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
To impress somebody so you didn't know, but like a
hike and coffee and egg.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
Bites, I'll say this, the egg I'll say this, though.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
You should a dove on the first day.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
I feel like this.
Speaker 4 (28:19):
I don't want to do like a hiker working out
or like a movie because like then I'm not going
to be able to talk to you and get to
know you. I want something that I could get, so
maybe like a stroll and like a.
Speaker 1 (28:29):
Coffee or something.
Speaker 4 (28:32):
I'm not mad at that. I'm gonna say this, and
I'm gonna be very clear. Listen to what I'm saying
because you're running me. So I'm gonna say this. When
I really like a man, it doesn't matter what I do.
I will roll with this man to go get his
motherfucking haircut. I will roll with this guy anywhere to
run an errand, Like, oh baby, you want to come
with me, I gotta run these errands.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
Absolutely, I'm with you. I'm sitting in the thing for me.
Speaker 4 (28:58):
It's honestly like I'm one of I'm an energetic person.
I know very quickly if I fuck with someone or not,
so I could go wherever and I'll know because that's
what i'm saying.
Speaker 1 (29:08):
So like, if we do a go to.
Speaker 2 (29:10):
The beach real quick.
Speaker 1 (29:11):
Yeah I'll go.
Speaker 2 (29:12):
I'll go for a walk and talk and then I'm
gonna drop you off.
Speaker 4 (29:16):
Yeah, you're not gonna drop me off because I don't
want you to know where I live. You shouldn't ober
me anyways, because I don't want you to know where
I live. I'll create my own transportation. How about we
do something that's cool. But I know, off rip if
I fuck with you or not from the first date,
I promise you I have a connection off bat. If
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I don't have that connection and viving that energy off back,
I most likely will not date you again, because that's
just how I roll like.
Speaker 1 (29:46):
I don't want to waste anybody's time. I'm very mindful
of that.
Speaker 4 (29:49):
So, you know, I think that men and women should
start doing more less extravagant dates. And you have to
consider if you're going on a date with the woman
that wants to do all of that, is she really
into you or does she want to an experience or
is the motherfucker hungry? Because that's that's something as well.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
So anyways, you have any more thoughts on that?
Speaker 2 (30:10):
Good?
Speaker 1 (30:11):
You're good over there.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
On first date? Yeah? Yeah, I feel like twenty dollars
is enough for the first day. Okay, so did you
coffee and egg bites?
Speaker 1 (30:22):
I'm not I don't like egg bites.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
All right, we'll get the croissant.
Speaker 1 (30:27):
I shouldn't be.
Speaker 2 (30:29):
God, breakfast dates.
Speaker 3 (30:30):
Is the best because breakfast is that man stop taking
them to the dinner take them.
Speaker 1 (30:36):
To break You want to know what's crazy.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
You want to know breakfast?
Speaker 4 (30:42):
Because I met my ex at the Highlight Room, which
is a club, and he took me to breakfast the
next day.
Speaker 2 (30:48):
That's the move.
Speaker 3 (30:49):
And he was like, because y'all was at the Holling
Room and then y'all stayed there till two three, then
y'all win.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
No, we didn't break No, we didn't see each other.
I went home home and now no. I went home
and he was like, I loved meeting you. I would
love to see you in the morning.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Would you like to go to breakfastfast?
Speaker 1 (31:10):
Who's breafast?
Speaker 2 (31:11):
Like?
Speaker 4 (31:11):
Ten am, I didn't go home at two? You're making
things up. I don't leave a club when it closes, baby.
I left room twelve. I went there to an appearance, okay,
and I got there at eleven thirty. I left at
twelve thirty. Why stop being on here calling me a liar. Anyways,
we went to breakfast for our first day and then
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we were We were together after that for a long
so anyways, ooh, you're spicy.
Speaker 1 (31:39):
What's the crash?
Speaker 4 (31:41):
And honey, yeah, I get a drink or something to
calm these nerves because you are acting crazy.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
Touch wow.
Speaker 1 (31:50):
Okay, so let's let's get into the next topic.
Speaker 2 (31:53):
We'll talk about.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
So I want to tell this story. This is the
craziest thing.
Speaker 4 (31:56):
So there's a woman she's going viral, right, and she
basically put her son up for adoption when he was
a baby, and later on, fast forward to now, she
met a man, she had sex with him, created a
relationship with him, and had children with this man. This
man is her adopted son. He knew the whole time
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that that was his mother.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
No, this is this is this is a real story.
Speaker 2 (32:23):
Old age difference, you know.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
I don't know the age difference.
Speaker 4 (32:27):
The lady she obviously had the kid very young, she said,
that's why she put him up for adoption.
Speaker 3 (32:32):
So if she had him at minimum sixteen, okay, so
she thirty six, he twenty or thirty seventy twenty one.
Speaker 1 (32:40):
Yeah, women are doing that for show.
Speaker 2 (32:43):
Us the black Yes, yeah for sure.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
Wait what does that mean? So why does that sound
like black.
Speaker 3 (32:52):
Sep especially don't sound like some I mean that sounds
like that could be that could be any race action.
Speaker 1 (32:57):
Yeah, that don't sound like black shit. Why are you
saying that?
Speaker 3 (33:00):
No, it could be any race that could be. That
could be white black in the end.
Speaker 1 (33:04):
Yeah, because in Wisconsin they knowingly having sex with their
daughter success that.
Speaker 2 (33:09):
Yeah, you're right, that could be.
Speaker 4 (33:11):
But how come The crazy part about it that's blaw
me is that he knew the whole time and did that,
And I wonder, like, why would you do that?
Speaker 3 (33:19):
I think, like, I think we gotta dig deep into
that to really see if that's a fact, because that
don't even sound right because if he know, like, what's
the odds of y'all being in the same city.
Speaker 4 (33:31):
Him tracked her down to specifically have this relationship, she's.
Speaker 2 (33:36):
Still bad or something or she was cooked.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
So whether she was bad or not, why would that
that's your mother? Broh.
Speaker 3 (33:44):
No, that's why he trifling And that's why we live
in a inner net. We live in a viral driven
society that like you would even do know shit like that?
Speaker 2 (33:56):
Bro? That's nasty. Bro. You did that to go viral
pretty much, because that's what it sounds like.
Speaker 4 (34:04):
Well, she's not the one coming out. She's coming out
and saying, so, how is that going viral?
Speaker 3 (34:09):
I think this is an act. I think we need
to fact check this. I don't even think that's real.
It doesn't even sound real to me.
Speaker 4 (34:15):
Well, I've heard stories like this a lot of different times,
of different things going on like this, so I don't know,
but it's not I mean, think about everything that goes
on in the world. It's not that far fetched.
Speaker 1 (34:26):
People are sick, people are sick anyways.
Speaker 4 (34:32):
Studies show that men forgive cheating as long as their
homies don't know. Do men care more about the betrayal
or how it looks to others?
Speaker 2 (34:41):
I think women care more about how.
Speaker 4 (34:43):
We're not talking about women. We're talking about a statistic
about men. Men forgive cheating as long as their homies
don't know. Do men care about the portrayal or how
it looks to others?
Speaker 1 (34:58):
Yes, I'm asking you about men. There's a statistic that
show that.
Speaker 2 (35:03):
My answer, I answer it. So if I want to
throw women my.
Speaker 1 (35:08):
Answer, okay ahead, I can, right, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:12):
This is my answer.
Speaker 3 (35:15):
So I believe that's a woman's trait that they worry
about more of what their friends think than men, because
men will tell their friends, damn what you think I
should do?
Speaker 5 (35:30):
That?
Speaker 2 (35:30):
Man? No woman's here that right, But I still love
her and everything what you think like?
Speaker 3 (35:37):
But man ain't gonna go off with they man think
they just want to hear what they just want to
hear it, because it's just like, man, we don't leave
women statistically, you know what I'm saying, Think about it,
We don't leave women statistically. It's always the women breaking
up the man. And the men get influenced from the
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they friends, and they take that information from their friends
and they're stronger at Like, man, I ain't worry about them,
whereas women it's too much to overcome because like with
the more and more of your friends power on the like, girl,
you need to not be with him. Girl influences the
the the girl more so, girls are more influential than
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men as far as that they more get convinced from
their friends. You know what I'm saying, Like you need
to take more advice from the people who are more
in your position, but girls take more advice from the
people who not in their position, Like a married woman
taking advice from an unmarried woman. That don't make sense
to me, Like, and you'll take advice from a girl
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who not in a relationship and not hear the girl
that's been in a relationship and the reason she in
that relationship because she dealt with certain shit. But the
one that's that's making you have doubts is the one
that's not in the relationlationship.
Speaker 1 (37:01):
M hm.
Speaker 3 (37:02):
And that don't make sense to me because the one
that created the doubt in your head ain't figured it out.
Speaker 2 (37:08):
So the thing is like.
Speaker 3 (37:10):
If you want to know to learn how to fly,
go like, don't talk to a nigga that fly paper airplanes.
Talk to the motherfucker that actually fly planes. But women
follow motherfuckers who fucked up, who ain't in the relationship,
who don't want you to be in the relationship because
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they miseraly, miser miser misery loves.
Speaker 2 (37:39):
Company, right, you know what I was gonna say, yes.
Speaker 4 (37:46):
So you didn't answer the question do men forgive cheating
as long as their homies don't know?
Speaker 1 (37:52):
Yes or no? Like you went on a world went
about what women do? And I love that for you
and I do agree with what you're saying, But what
is the answer.
Speaker 2 (38:01):
Our man gave the answer?
Speaker 3 (38:02):
If you rewind this, I told you men do men.
I told you that men don't leave their women. Did
you not pick that that we.
Speaker 5 (38:10):
Have someone because that's the same thing, that's the same
thing we forgive you because we ain't going nowhere, because
when when when when the women go through it, they
gonna they want to post it all on this nigga.
Speaker 2 (38:28):
Like, come on, man, this is the world we live in.
Speaker 3 (38:30):
Niggas ain't doing like we ain't posting you know the
crazy thing we ain't posting like like like, come on, man,
we get cheated on. We're gonna keep it low. Girls
get cheated on. They want the world to know. And
that's what's gonna blow it all up and make y'all
break up. We're gonna keep it low so we can
stay together because like we break them.
Speaker 1 (38:51):
Out answering the question that we gonna.
Speaker 2 (38:53):
Keep it, We're gonna keep it.
Speaker 1 (38:55):
Homies won't know, so y'all could stay together.
Speaker 3 (38:57):
The homies gonna talk like that the homies that I'm
gonna tell, Like we got five homies. I might tell
one of the homies that I know that ain't gonna
tell the other homies because I wanted this to still go.
Like I'm embarrassed by it, but like you know what,
I love her, so I'm gonna keep it moved. I'm
gonna keep that. I'm gonna I'm gonna brush that off
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and I'm gonna keep it moving because I love what
she brings to the table. I know, you know, And
then go back to our last episode when like, if
that's the case, then is relationships built off of sex?
Speaker 2 (39:30):
Period? Is it? Yes or no?
Speaker 3 (39:32):
Because if it is, if we breaking up over me
having sex with somebody else, and then that other shit
didn't mean nothing, that all the other things that.
Speaker 2 (39:40):
I gave.
Speaker 1 (39:43):
That doesn't make sense to me do make sense.
Speaker 4 (39:45):
And you're honest everywhere else, right, And I've been trustworthy
and I've been honest, and I decide to have sex
with you, I mean sex with another person in chat,
why would that break up the relationship?
Speaker 1 (39:56):
Right?
Speaker 3 (39:56):
But the thing is like, if a man can move forward,
I'm saying, man, I'm moving.
Speaker 2 (40:01):
Forward with a girl cheating on him than women.
Speaker 4 (40:03):
But what I'm saying is I get where you say
the thing about like sex can kill relationships. You say, well,
if I'm honest and trustworthy about everything else and I
just go do this over here, why would that kill
our relationship? Well, if I'm honest and trustworthy in my
life and I love and care about everybody, but I
kill somebody.
Speaker 2 (40:19):
Y'all don't like honesty truthfully.
Speaker 4 (40:21):
But listen, if I kill somebody, but guess what, I
was honest everywhere else.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
Let's still go take me with yoe. If I never
stole from nobody, but I robbed the bank, but listen,
and everywhere else, I never stole fromh Like, it doesn't
make sense. You can't compartmentalize.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
There's no car partmentalizing nothing.
Speaker 3 (40:38):
There's like certain things that don't have there's a non negotiable,
like stealing from my partner is non negotiable. Yeah, that's crazy,
Like lying, you could probably deal with more than stealing, right, Okay,
I can deal with lying more so than stealing. Stealing
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is the worst thing you can do to me, more
than even cheating.
Speaker 1 (41:03):
Yah, ceiling is found.
Speaker 2 (41:04):
I don't Stilling is the lowest of the lower to me.
Speaker 1 (41:08):
I agree.
Speaker 2 (41:09):
So that's my phone, that's your phone.
Speaker 1 (41:11):
That's literally your fault lighting up.
Speaker 2 (41:14):
No, but like what I'm saying is like this.
Speaker 1 (41:17):
Is crazy, Like what was the question? Let's move on?
So I love it. So now let's get to the.
Speaker 4 (41:23):
Next because you're just like on once tonight. I don't
know what's going on, but your energy is like intense.
So anyways, next next scenario, Chris Brown concert, Right, what
are you doing? If your girl goes on stage and
she's like, oh my god, it is Chris He choking
her route they boom boom, bam, bam bam bam bam,
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grinding all on stage. It's popping, and she's like, babe, babe, babe,
you don't understand.
Speaker 1 (41:53):
I love Chris.
Speaker 4 (41:54):
I grew up listening to Chris Brown. This is like
my favorite artist in the world. Like, to cut up
on stage is my dream.
Speaker 3 (42:03):
All right, So I'm gonna speak for me, yeah, and
I'm gonna speak for just the normal, average person who's
not famous.
Speaker 2 (42:11):
Yeah. If it's me, You're you're done.
Speaker 3 (42:16):
Like Paul Pierce, You're not embarrassing me, but only talking
about for Ray Ray in the Hood. You gotta swallow that,
my neg and just she's like, look said, I'm famous now,
like Ray Ray. You gotta go home and be like
you was on stage with Chris Brown, Like yeah, Ray Ray.
If your girl went up there, Demetrius like the homies
(42:37):
in the Hood that your girl got put on stage
and Chris Brown, that's you better flick up and put
it on Instagram. You flick up and put it on Instagram.
And you keep it pushing, like but it's still my
girl because you didn't go home with them. But for me,
that's more public embarrassment because now it's like Paul Pierce's
girl was like Chris was doing that. So now that's
gonna be on the blogs, that's gonna be in conscussions.
Speaker 4 (42:59):
But if you had a private relationship people didn't know
it was your girl, would it still bother you?
Speaker 2 (43:05):
Yeah, they gonna know that's my girl.
Speaker 1 (43:07):
No, what if people did not know, They're gone, I know, Okay,
this is what I'm gonna say.
Speaker 3 (43:13):
No, Like no, I'm not like walking around like people
know who Paul Pierce is and they gonna like once
see like show everybody like that's this girl. They're gonna
be like, oh, that's Pete girl, Like that's tricky Pete.
Now my DNS is gonna be Now I'm gonna be
walking to all yo girl, Oh Chris Brown. Nah, but
the hommie who was down the street, you just like
you take flick up and you you go on Instagram
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be like, yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:36):
She was on stage with Chris Brown. She's cracking. Now
she could create the only fans and make y'all millions.
Speaker 4 (43:41):
Now I'm gonna say this. No, let me say this though,
Chris Brown. So this is what I'm gonna say. I
never been like a starstruck type of person. But regardless,
if I have a man, Chris Brown is not calling
me up on stage to grind on him.
Speaker 1 (43:58):
I think that I don't care.
Speaker 4 (43:59):
I don't even like celebrity passes because if I have
a celebrity crush, I could fuck with them. So I'm
not about to have like no passes for any type
of man because that's crazy. Like, I just think that
if I was in a relationship, whether it was with
someone who was famous or unfamous, it's the respect thing
as a woman, like, you do not disrespect your man
in that way, and that is an embarrassment because if
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a man did that to a woman, she would be
so traumatized by that and she would never be the same.
Speaker 1 (44:27):
So I just think that it's like, no, that's not
a good look. I don't like that. If you're single, though,
do your biggest one period. Okay, so.
Speaker 4 (44:39):
This is what we're gonna talk about now. So there
has been this viral clip on Instagram and this girl
talks about how a girl's night out ruins more relationships
than a guy's night out. Basically, when a girl goes out,
she is in a mating ground, meaning like if men
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go out for rest and relaxation with their boys, is
what she's saying. And women go out and if they're
out in a bar or they're out somewhere in a club,
it's like a mating ground for men to approach her,
to talk to her, to get her number, and all
of these things.
Speaker 1 (45:17):
What are your thoughts?
Speaker 3 (45:18):
Yeah, so I think that's after the true because men
nights out they can consist of many different things, because
like when you get a group of girls, like five
six girls who are out, that's like.
Speaker 2 (45:34):
Being in a that's like bait for men.
Speaker 3 (45:37):
Like because when men we see five sists girls, the
men approach women, you know what I'm saying, Like, women
don't really approach men like that. So men's nights out
are a little more like chill than a women's night out.
So like when y'all get a group of girls together,
that's a sign for men to be like, oh yeah,
the homies just together. Let's see what's going on at
this table. Let's see it going They got a dinner
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going on. Let's go over there. They got they over
at a top golf let's go over there, or like,
think about what are girls doing on girls nights out?
Speaker 2 (46:08):
Thought?
Speaker 4 (46:08):
I have a question though, this is a real question.
If men's nights out are about rest and relaxation, then
who are the niggas hollering at the girls when they're out?
Since men are not doing that? Where are there? Who
are those How does it make sense if men are
not hollering at women when they're out because they're going
they're chilling, and they're relaxing. Then when I go out
with my girls, who are the men that are approaching me?
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Because you're saying that men go out and they're just chilling,
they ain't tripping, right, So who are these men that
are approaching me? Because if men are going out and
they're not worried about that, and they're going out with
their boys, who's the group of boys that are coming.
Speaker 1 (46:44):
Up to the group of girls.
Speaker 4 (46:46):
Okay, but I'm just saying it's a lot more single
men than unsingle men. I'm sure some of those men
coming up to those women are not single either, And
I feel like a lot of men they revolve a
lot of things around.
Speaker 1 (46:59):
Okay, but I don't know.
Speaker 4 (47:01):
I feel like there's a lot of men who revolve
everything they do around women, how they look, how they dress,
the cologne they have on, what chain they have on,
what jewelry they have on, whether they're with their boys
or whatever. They go out, and nine times out of ten,
one of those men in those groups once a woman.
Speaker 1 (47:17):
That woman is with a group of girls.
Speaker 4 (47:19):
So guess what, We're just going to bring all these
girls to the table with y'all.
Speaker 2 (47:25):
So, say you got a group of men.
Speaker 3 (47:28):
Who married, right and a married man approach you sometime,
which probably has happened.
Speaker 2 (47:38):
I'm gonna tell you.
Speaker 3 (47:38):
Within that married group, sometimes that group and I've never
been amongst that because I've never been out with like
four or five different married men right now, I don't
even know what that's about. Like most of the time
I'm out like one, two guys married, we just have dinner. Yeah,
But I will say this, I think most of these
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married men will approach and start hollering at girls, say hey,
what's up.
Speaker 2 (48:06):
You know you got a man?
Speaker 3 (48:08):
We'll get your number, and then go back to his
boys like yeah, I told you I still got it.
Speaker 2 (48:13):
Then he throw her number to crash you know what I'm.
Speaker 3 (48:18):
Saying, be doing stuff like that, and I thought, just
like I told you, I still got it. I just
want to see all right back to let's having dranks, chill.
I'm never gonna see her, call her or never went
into her again.
Speaker 4 (48:31):
But a lot of the times that's where the men
find their side pieces to help them through their marriage.
Like you said, where they finding their side pieces help
through the marriage where they.
Speaker 2 (48:40):
At because it's the girl that's aggressive.
Speaker 1 (48:43):
Yeah, I'm telling you just said that the girls don't
approach that.
Speaker 3 (48:46):
I don't think most side pieces come from the man
approaching the girl.
Speaker 1 (48:50):
But you just said that the men don't.
Speaker 3 (48:51):
I just telling you, I don't think most side pieces
come from the man, the married man approaching the girl.
Speaker 1 (48:58):
Okay, it comes from the girl approaching the girl throws
herself on him.
Speaker 2 (49:04):
Yep.
Speaker 3 (49:05):
And he just was like oh and it's just like damn.
Speaker 2 (49:10):
It was so much.
Speaker 3 (49:11):
And then he was like damn, she is fine and
everything like damn. Then he just gave in. I think,
like damn. Instead of him pulling himself out of that spot,
you know, he fell into the wayside because at the
time that that that he hollered at her he was
probably going through something with her because in a happy place.
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You know, I don't think it comes from a happy
place in the I think it comes from like a
dysfunctional place where y'all at an argument or something where
y'all going through it to where that creeps in.
Speaker 2 (49:44):
Right.
Speaker 4 (49:46):
But you know that's scary too as a woman, because
it's like you're gonna have adversity in a relationship and
there's gonna be hard times that you both have to
go through. So every hard time that we have and
every adversity that we face, a woman have to be
in fear that her man is going to be with
another woman. You know, Like it's like, yeah, I guess right,
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I understand that.
Speaker 3 (50:10):
But if I should just nip it in the butt
and be like, you know, I don't apologize.
Speaker 4 (50:15):
You know, there's a statistic that show that it's not
about how happy you are in a relationship, your connection
or anything.
Speaker 1 (50:21):
It's about how fast you can get over an argument.
Speaker 4 (50:25):
Like how fast can you be like, you know what,
this was crazy, but I got you.
Speaker 1 (50:29):
Let's move on.
Speaker 4 (50:30):
That's the most important thing they say when it comes
to a relationship, because letting shit linger is when you
allow space for these things to go on. So I
feel like not going to be mad and nipping that
shit in the butt is important. So if a girl's
night out ruins more relationships as a man, what do
you feel like you would be comfortable with your woman
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doing when she wants to connect with her girls, Like, Hey,
I want to go out with my homegirls, my best
friend da da da, she's getting married when I kick
it or whatever the cases, what would you be like? Okay,
Like I feel secure, I feel comfortable.
Speaker 3 (51:06):
Well, I feel like this when girls get together and
say let's have a nice out. Yeah, what does that
really consist of? That consists of y'all coming together? Yeah,
getting cute, smelling good, putting your outfits on right. Okay,
So like if y'all all married, you know what as
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me as a husband or a boyfriend, won't y'all just
come to the crib?
Speaker 1 (51:33):
I leave? Okay? And what are you doing going out
smelling good?
Speaker 2 (51:38):
No? No, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (51:39):
I'm gonna have my sweat. Who don't go into the
hommy house. I'mna have a homie, Like, I'm gonna be
over here at the homyhouse. You don't address you know
his number? When y'all done, I'm gonna pull back up.
Y'all had a crib to y'allself, y'all can drink. I'm
gonna order y'all extra liquor. I'm gonna order y'all food.
As a matter of fact, If y'all want me to
cook for y'all and leave, y'all can just chill out
the crib in the backyard, go ahead, and then I'm
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gonna be at the homey house right here to where
you know where I'm at. You got to address the
phone number. Y'all want to chill and chop it up
and talk shit about us? Cool, go ahead, do that.
Speaker 2 (52:10):
Then I don't want me to come home. You call me.
I'm answering, all right, I'll be back, Okay.
Speaker 1 (52:14):
I'm not mad at that. I'm not mad at that
at all.
Speaker 3 (52:17):
Like damn a healthy relationship, Like all right, we want y'all.
Why y'all got to go somewhere, Like you know what
I'm saying, that's cool to go somewhere, go to dinner.
Speaker 2 (52:26):
Then where y'all going go to dinner?
Speaker 1 (52:27):
What I'm saying, like, what would be like going to dinner?
Speaker 2 (52:30):
Cool?
Speaker 1 (52:30):
Yeah, all right? Cool?
Speaker 2 (52:32):
What dinner?
Speaker 3 (52:32):
But then after dinner, we y'all want to go do hookah,
and then y'all want to do all this other sh
start blowing. It's start blowing down, like y'all we got
hook at the house, baby, like y'all couplets due like
them because y'all always do dinner. But then the plans
changed because the homegirl convinced y'all. The single homegirl convinced
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y'all let's go here. Yeah that's hell.
Speaker 1 (52:57):
Yeah, okay. So another thing.
Speaker 3 (53:01):
When you come home and you jump into bed and
you want to have sex, He's like, I'm good because.
Speaker 2 (53:07):
I know what you was on.
Speaker 1 (53:09):
What was it on?
Speaker 3 (53:10):
Because now you're drunk at four in the morning. When
a girl come home at.
Speaker 2 (53:14):
Four in the morning, four in the morning.
Speaker 3 (53:16):
Listen though, when a girl come home at four in
the morning drunk, niggas ain't. I don't know if nigga's
really trying to have sex because he feels like it
was it's something was it was tricky.
Speaker 1 (53:28):
Well, four in the morning is a tricky time. Close
that two three is a tricky time too.
Speaker 2 (53:35):
You have a young behavior.
Speaker 1 (53:36):
Yeah, I agree, you do.
Speaker 4 (53:38):
What time do you think is a reasonable time if
a woman went out for dinner and kicked it with
her friends. Okay, I agree, twelve, I can agree even
for me, Yeah, I can agree with.
Speaker 2 (53:48):
But if I'm going to the homie house that you know?
So what if? What if this that I can come
home at three four?
Speaker 1 (53:55):
So what if this?
Speaker 4 (53:56):
So what if I'm like, let's say, like you have
a girl and she's like, Babe, I'm gonna go to
my homegirls house. She We're gonna kick it at the house, whatever, whatever, whatever,
And then I call you and I'm like, yo, like
I call my man, how would you feel about this?
Speaker 1 (54:10):
Yo? I'm lit.
Speaker 4 (54:12):
I'm so lit, I can't even drive, baby, I'm just
gonna spend the night over here?
Speaker 1 (54:16):
Is it spend the night crazy with my car?
Speaker 2 (54:22):
All right?
Speaker 1 (54:22):
So just leave my car at this house? Okay?
Speaker 2 (54:28):
I got I love you that much. I'm gonna come
get you, my girl.
Speaker 1 (54:31):
But what if you're like, I'm so tired and you're
not feeling it?
Speaker 2 (54:35):
You my wife, my girl?
Speaker 1 (54:37):
Yeah, your girls not even.
Speaker 2 (54:39):
Concerned about you, and you're acting like you and you're
gonna do this normally, I'm gonna come get you.
Speaker 1 (54:44):
So is a spend the night off limits?
Speaker 2 (54:47):
Like anywhere at your Homegirls house, who's married.
Speaker 1 (54:51):
Yeah, yeah, or like anywhere just what if she's not?
Like just anyway, spend the.
Speaker 2 (54:56):
Night like come get you. If you turned down, I'll come.
Speaker 1 (55:00):
Get you your trickerations.
Speaker 3 (55:02):
That's a trick if you turn down, because I'm gonna say,
I'll come get you. If you turn that down, that's trick.
You can't turn down to your man said after you
said that, you turn that down. Now you start boiling
into like untrustworthy zones.
Speaker 4 (55:20):
I think as a woman, me, as a grown woman,
single or not single, I don't spend the night nowhere
unless it's like my my partner's house. I don't spend
the night just like lose at different people's house.
Speaker 1 (55:30):
I'm too grown. I need to have my own shit
going on.
Speaker 3 (55:33):
We only spend at the homie homegirl house if the
homie deer.
Speaker 1 (55:38):
The homie Homegirl house.
Speaker 4 (55:40):
So anyways, last topic, because we're about to wrap it up.
Speaker 2 (55:47):
The homie Homegirl house. If the hobie there that said
that's blowing the homegirl house of the homie there.
Speaker 4 (56:02):
Then you should start living there and get your items.
Well come scooy, Yeah, I'm coming.
Speaker 1 (56:08):
Where's it? Yeah? It's uber, is it?
Speaker 4 (56:11):
All types of call the uber and you don't have
to feel like you're gonna get taken advantage of an uber.
Speaker 1 (56:16):
You will grow Dow's okay.
Speaker 4 (56:18):
So the last question, and it kind of ties into everything,
and this is a big thing topic actually online. What
are the girls? What are the what is your thoughts
on women going on girls trips? All their girls bikinis
hitting it trip.
Speaker 1 (56:35):
Oh, me and my girls are going on a trip.
Speaker 2 (56:38):
What's my relationship?
Speaker 1 (56:39):
It's a girlfriend. It's your girl, it's your woman.
Speaker 2 (56:42):
It's how.
Speaker 1 (56:45):
You're to gather.
Speaker 4 (56:46):
You're in love your buot up. I don't know that's
your girl. You ever like what she's going on today?
Speaker 2 (56:52):
We got this girl's trip.
Speaker 1 (56:54):
Yeah, my girls want Jamaica, Mexico.
Speaker 3 (57:02):
All right, I'm gonna just get a house like two
miles away, chill in case you'll.
Speaker 2 (57:06):
Need something so you can do that. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (57:12):
No, I'm just saying, like, because the girls trip, I
know what, Like, I feel like when you're in a
relationship that girls trips shouldn't be that it shouldn't be the.
Speaker 4 (57:23):
Most men say that there should be no girls trips
when you're in a relationship.
Speaker 2 (57:27):
Relationship, we should go on couples.
Speaker 1 (57:29):
That's what people are saying in the comments about this.
Speaker 2 (57:31):
It shouldn't be girls.
Speaker 4 (57:33):
What if it's what if this is an exception. What
if it's your your homegirl. I mean, what if it's
her one of her best friends and she's having a
bachelorette party out of town.
Speaker 3 (57:43):
Once you get married and have an exclusive relationship, you
do couples trips.
Speaker 4 (57:48):
I'm saying, what if it's your best friend and she's like,
You're like, babe, this is she's having a bachelor party.
Speaker 1 (57:52):
It's out of town.
Speaker 4 (57:54):
It's all girls were going to get lit and to
celebrate the fact that she's getting married, you know, clubs
and that because she wants to go out because she's
not going to be you know, bachelorette is to celebrate
the fact that you're no longer single, you're about to
be married.
Speaker 2 (58:06):
You can go to a bachelor red party.
Speaker 4 (58:09):
What I'm saying is that because everyone in the comments
are saying it's a red flag if a girl goes
on a girl's trip.
Speaker 3 (58:15):
Yeah, but like if you go to a bachelor red party,
this is my thing. If I'm with a girl, I'm
gonna trust her to do the right thing until she
don't do the right thing.
Speaker 1 (58:29):
Okay, you don't know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (58:30):
Yeah, I'm not. I don't got time to be just like.
Speaker 3 (58:37):
Every fucking little thing you doing, like, I'm gonna trust
you to be I'm not even gonna be calling a
check on you, bro, you should be responsible enough to
be like, go ahead.
Speaker 1 (58:50):
Like, but you just said a girl's trip is out.
Speaker 3 (58:53):
No, yeah, a girls trip is out because we should
be on a couples trips. But like a bachelor party, yeah,
okay that's different.
Speaker 1 (59:01):
That's different.
Speaker 2 (59:02):
Yeah, but like I'm not a micro I don't like
the microman.
Speaker 4 (59:05):
What about like the clubs, Like, okay, we're going out
to the table, we have a club, We're we're vibing.
Speaker 1 (59:12):
Our clubs off.
Speaker 3 (59:14):
Go ahead, okay, mentally draining.
Speaker 6 (59:19):
Me me, go ahead, Like I'm not even like dude,
just don't like just I'm.
Speaker 3 (59:30):
Not searching for you to fuck up. That's a bar
like things is always gonna come to like when they're supposed.
Speaker 1 (59:40):
The lightness comes the darkness.
Speaker 2 (59:42):
Because what's happened to me every time.
Speaker 1 (59:44):
It always happens to me too.
Speaker 3 (59:46):
So I'm like, go ahead, like it's gonna show. Yeah,
I trust you to be my lady, I trust you
to make the right decisions until you don't. So like
like I'm at an age. I'm like, I'm gonna go
to I'm gonna sleep good when you're out. I'm not
the age to where I'm gonna be up waiting for
(01:00:07):
you to come on.
Speaker 2 (01:00:07):
Yeah, when you come on me.
Speaker 1 (01:00:09):
Nah.
Speaker 3 (01:00:10):
Like it's relationships to where they girl go out they
can't sleep, or your man go out, you don't sleep
until he get home.
Speaker 2 (01:00:16):
That's real, that's real.
Speaker 1 (01:00:18):
Crazy.
Speaker 3 (01:00:19):
I'm at the stage to where I'm gonna knock out.
I don't know what time you even gonna get home,
because if you're gonna do some bullshit, it's gonna come
to light and it's gonna hurt.
Speaker 2 (01:00:29):
You more than me.
Speaker 1 (01:00:30):
So I'm like whatever, good, Okay, Well, thank you for
all your thoughts. I appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (01:00:41):
Yeah, that was a good one. That was good. He
made some good topics.
Speaker 1 (01:00:46):
Okay.
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page about certain relationships.
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