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July 24, 2024 69 mins

On this episode, we’re diving into the profound topic of empowerment and choice, especially when it comes to parenthood decisions.

Joining us is our special guest, Genna Howard. Genna is an incredibly talented tattoo artist, painter, ceramics teacher, and strongman athlete. We’ve been friends for nearly 20 years, ever since our younger years from attending the same shows in NYC.

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(and see all of their amazing tattoo work and ceramics!)

In this episode, we discuss Genna and I both getting bilateral salpingectomy surgery, a permanent form of birth control. Genna's openness on social media about their experience with this surgery was a revelation for me and inspired me to consider this option for myself. Without Genna's vocal advocacy, I wouldn't have known this was even an option. Together, we share our stories to empower others, normalizing the idea that it’s okay to know that having children isn’t for you.

WHAT WE'RE TALKING ABOUT:

  • Our bisalp (bilateral salpingectomy) surgeries: What led up to them, our decisions, and our surgical experiences.
  • The (high-level) differences between bilateral salpingectomy, tubal ligation, and hysterectomy, and what happens to your menstrual cycle with each.
  • How people were either very supportive or not at all, and the stigmas surrounding childfree people.
  • Societal norms, expectations, and pressures regarding parenthood.

We hope this episode provides insight and inspiration for those considering their own choices about parenthood. Remember, everyone’s path is different, and it’s all about making the decisions that are right for you. If you have any personal stories or questions, we’d love to hear from you!

Tune in and join the conversation on empowerment and choice in parenthood!

Parenthood Choices, Empowerment, Bilateral Salpingectomy, Permanent Birth Control, Childfree Life, Women's Health, Reproductive Health, Birth Control Options, Societal Norms, Childfree Stigma, Personal Stories, Mental Well-Bein


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