Relationships: Mutual Understanding with Ian

Ian and I explore what it’s like when both people in a relationship are neurodivergent. We dive into how that shared understanding can create a unique bond—sometimes, your partner just gets it without you needing to explain. Whether it’s recognising when you’re overwhelmed, understanding sensory needs, or knowing how to support each other during a meltdown, there’s a natural connection that can feel incredibly validating. But it’s not always smooth sailing. Ian opens up about the moments when over-communication becomes necessary, how giving each other space is just as important as staying connected, and how these dynamics require constant growth and mutual respect. We also talk about the ways neurodivergent relationships can thrive and how to navigate the challenges that come with different neuro-types interacting in close, emotional spaces. Beyond personal experiences, we dive into how friends, family, and communities can better support neurodivergent couples. We share practical ideas on how to create more inclusive, understanding environments for those in neurodiverse relationships—because having the right support system makes all the difference. Join the Unfinished Community WhatsApp. Where you can share your everyday joys, struggles, and differences! Click here to join Sign up to our newsletter where we continue the conversation along with sharing helpful resources and techniques tried out by parents and professionals in the neurodiverse world.  You can know get the episodes on YouTube! Click here to subscribe. Follow the show on all the socials @theunfinishedidea - look for the brain!  Instagram Facebook LinkedIn TikTok Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices