Freedom Friday: Why Your Best Life is Waiting for You to Create Space

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The time has come to break free from limiting narratives that keep us trapped in cycles of stagnation and disappointment. We must dig deep to identify and extract the thoughts that make us believe nothing will ever change in our lives.

• Stop building mental frameworks that support your old life
• Understand that the way you speak about your desires shapes your reality
• Actively create space for the blessings you're expecting to arrive
• Set tangible representations of your faith (like an extra dinner plate or a budget)
• Celebrate others receiving what you're still waiting for
• Replace deficit thinking with expectancy and hope
• Build your life as if your breakthrough is already here
• Recognize that 2025 will be a year of manifestation and abundance

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:09):
what's up everybody and welcome to the unlearned
podcast.
This is freedom friday, wherewe come together to talk about
something that we have unlearnedrecently.
I'm your girl, jaquita.
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Listen, a lot has beenhappening and I am so glad that

(00:31):
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Okay, friends, listen.
So I was thinking today I'vebeen thinking for a while,
actually that here in this bigyear okay, of 2025, all right,

(01:18):
there is just such a differencebetween the life we had before
and the life we're about toenter into, and I think the
mistake that a lot of us can getentrapped in is the idea that
our life will always be the same.
It is a narrative, it is athought that will create a

(01:38):
pattern, right, that we willalways continue to recreate the
life that we actually don't want, the life that we're actually
asking God to deliver us from,the life that we're actually
actively trying to escape fromor to build with or to see
something different.
But there is this narrativelying.

(02:01):
Understanding this narrativethought, right, this thing
that's underneath our dirt.
Right, this thing that is rightunderneath the surface that is
telling you nothing's ever goingto change, right, your life
will continue to be exactly asit has always been.
And what I want us to do inthis year of, in the year of our

(02:25):
Lord, 2025, is I want you todig down into the depths of
yourself, right?
I want you to dig down into thedepths of your being, into the
depths of your understanding,into the depths of your
perception of life.
I want you to dig down, I wantyou to find that thought where
it's been residing, right?

(02:46):
It's something that may havecome from your past.
It's something that may havecome from your experiences
growing up.
It's something that may havecome right, Because you might
have been in your 20s and youwere struggling right.
Then you got to your 30s.
You're like I thought 30s issupposed to be different.
I'm still struggling, whereverit is, wherever it's residing in
the inside of your heart,somewhere in your mind.

(03:08):
I want you to take that thoughtand I want you to get some
tweezers you know them goodtweezers and I want you to pluck
it right out, because it iscausing you to rebuild and
restructure right andreformulate the exact life that
you say you don't want.
And what I came here on thisFreedom Friday to tell you today

(03:31):
is trouble don't last always.
You are about to see a shift inyour life like you've never
seen before.
There is a brand new day coming, and I don't want you to be
presented with your best lifeand slap the hand of God because

(03:52):
you're not ready to receive it.
It is time for all of us to getour mindset right, to get our
feet planted in hope and infaith and in trust.
It is time, right now, for usto believe again, for us to hope
again, for us to see.
I can see the light.

(04:12):
I can see the light of day.
I want you to see it, I wantyou to believe it.
I want you to hope for it and Iwant you to start building as
if that thing is already here.
Too many times, we wait for ourblessings to come knock us over
the head.
We wait for the things thatwe've been asking God for the

(04:33):
things that we've been prayingGod for.
We wait for them to come to us.
But what I'm telling you isbuild it and it'll come right.
Whatever you're praying for,right.
Whatever you're asking God for,I want you to start building a
life that looks like that thingis already here.
Right, if you waiting on aspouse and you live by yourself,

(04:56):
that's what I want you to do.
I want you to set a plate outfor them on the table.
Okay, say, somebody going to bethere, somebody coming to sit
in that spot, because I'm notgoing to keep eating these good
dinners by myself.
That I done spent all my singleyears learning how to cook.
Okay, Somebody's coming,something's coming.
If you're waiting on more money,I want you to make a budget.

(05:17):
I want you to make a budget.
I want you to make a budget forthe thing that you're asking
God for, for the amount thatyou're hoping for.
I want you to create room.
I want you to make room on theinside of yourself.
I want you to make room in yourthoughts.
I want you to make room in whatyou're meditating on.
I want you to make room, makeroom, make room because the

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thing is coming, and I want youto stop building frameworks that
support your old life.
Stop building mental frameworks.
Mental framework may look likeno one is ever going to love me.
That's a mental framework thatis building a reality up in your
life.
All right, a mental frameworkis I never have enough money.

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That's a mental framework thatis building up a reality in your
life.
We all be here, girl, you knowI'm broke.
A mental framework that isbuilding up a reality in your
life.
I want you to change how youspeak about it.
I want you to change how youengage around the topic.

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Right.
When someone, if you waiting onGod to do something in your life
and somebody else brings it up,I want you to start celebrating
right.
If somebody else gets it beforeyou, I want you to sow good seed
.
I want you to celebrate.
I want you to help them with it.
Right.
If you know you're waiting on aspouse and your best friend get
it before you.

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I want you to say girl, what doyou need?
I'm here for you, I got you.
I'm excited about this thing.
I'm praying you through.
I want you to sow good seed,because nothing has jarred your
expectation that this thing isactually going to happen in your
life.
And what I am here to tell youis is that the thing that you've

(07:02):
been waiting on, the changethat you've been waiting on.
This is the year, this is theseason, this is the time.
The things are coming, thepeople are coming, the provision
is coming right.
The goodness of the Lord, wewill see it in the land of the
living.
It's coming.
It's coming.
It's coming.

(07:22):
Build the frameworks, build themindsets, build the heart,
build the attitude right.
Build your expectations back upright, so that we can begin to
build a framework for what it isthat we're actually hoping to
see, and not continue to build aframework that supports the
cycles that have kept us fromour land of abundance.

(07:46):
I am excited about what God isabout to do in your life, friend
, and I want you to tell me allabout it, right, because we are
about to start building somethings.
Tell me all about it, right,because we are about to start
building some things, and I'mtelling you the things that you
are building a place forsomething's about to come and
sit in that spot, right.
So build up your expectations,build up your hope, build up

(08:08):
your faith, because I cannotwait to see everything that God
does for us in 2025.
It's time to unlearn thatdeficit mindset and it's time to
get ready.
Get ready, get ready, becauseit's on the way.
Okay, y'all, thank you so muchfor allowing me to hang out with
y'all for Freedom Friday.
Right, this has been your girl,jaquita, and I want us to

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continue to keep unlearningtogether so that we can
experience more freedom.
Peace, y'all.

Speaker 2 (08:43):
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