February 9, 2025 • 41 mins
In this episode…. Of BREAKING GIRL CODE… DDRL and one of the Vaginaz … Bushwacker discuss what an argument is really about and if it is worth keeping a relationship or communicating is through and why women end up with losers what to do to avoid it! #massfollowing @everyone
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Great, I was trying to find the listing.
There it is La La la. Welcome to the deputies
reporting live podcast featuringis the vaginas with bushwalker
in the house. How you doing Bushwalker?
Hello are. We laughing.
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I haven't pressed those buttons in such a long time.
It was so quiet. Before Now we're back to the
button. I don't have more options on
here too. More options?
Yeah. Don't forget the little chipmunk
voice in there, too. No, let's not do.
All right, We'll do chipmunk voice later.
That's someone right there. Thank you.
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Oh my God, thank you. That was just a little.
I got a little chub off of that.I see that, the excitement and I
know, so I can't believe the microphones are working and now
you're going to touch it. Don't touch anything.
So welcome to the WDS Reporting Live podcast.
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Deputies are playing live feature in the vaginas.
But Bushwacker, we are doing breaking girl code and I have
some code to break. How about you about?
Yeah, don't get me started, please.
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We Are Breaking Girl Code is newseries and about how we are
giving the inside scoop about what women think and feel and
and talk about behind men's back.
Like why, why men are really single, Why you know what what
they don't know about women thatwe never tell anyone.
And so that's what we have been doing.
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Bushwacker has been my partner in crime through a lot of this
series. Well, apparently I have a lot of
experience on this. Subject.
Yeah, like saying that I had sexwith 988.
I said just do the math, Debbie.I said do the math.
That was it. Just right.
It was through the math, right? Simple math.
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It was simple math. So I have realized a lot over,
you know, relationships and, youknow, you have as well that I
think you know, the reason why alot of people say to us like
when we lose our standards and they don't.
And they say, why do you, why are you with that guy?
Why are you with the loser? Like why, why, why, why, why?
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Like, you know, and you wonder like in your head, you are well
aware that you're with a loser, you know, like we do know.
Thank you, captain. It's like, you know, I woke up
this morning like, Oh my gosh, I'm so grateful that I'm with a
loser. But you know, that's the reason
why a lot of women are single, because we don't want to be in
with the losers because we have been stuck with them in the past
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and we're trying not to get stuck again.
And the reason why gets stuck is, you know, if you really want
to know how, you know, to get a good, like a girl that kind of
lost her standards for a little bit there and how she gets stuck
with a loser, it's because she lost her standards.
These losers, they lurch along the street and they're like,
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they have feeders, bottom feeders.
Yeah. They have this sense of smell
where they can sense out a vulnerability in a female that's
kind of off her path for temporarily off her path.
And she's just kind of hanging out with the Bron crowd or she's
hanging out, you know, like in the wrong part of town
something. And then they like, they see her
and they like, you know, they goin for the kill and they like,
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they are like, that's our victim.
That's our victim and let's get her.
And that's what the loser does. The loser goes up into, you
know, you know, goes in finesse mode.
Oh tells her everything she needs to hear while she's in
Loserville and hanging out with all the losers.
So, you know, when her state of mind is fragile and you know,
she's just, you know, down about, she's accepting her where
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she's at at the moment. You know, Loserville, she's kind
of like, wow, this guy's kind ofcool.
You know, like he's talking to me and talking to me in like
loser land. And then all of a sudden you're
out of loser land or trying to get out of loser land and you
still have the loser stuck with you.
That's how women get stuck with losers.
I mean, that's basically a roundabout, metaphorically
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correct way. And then once, you know, we
realized we're with a loser thatcame from loser land.
We've already invested some emotions now, unfortunately,
because we have feelings and, you know, while we're still
trying to dust off the standards.
So we're trying to do a lot of things at one time.
And then at the same time, we'rebattling this emotion thing
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because we're intelligently intelligent.
Like our brain is like, listen, bitch, you're with a loser from
loser land. And we're like well aware.
We are well aware brain. But then the emotion side of the
brain is like, listen, we're very emotional and we like loser
for right now, you know, let's stay with loser.
We don't care about standards. Let's just see what happens.
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Let's just go day by day, Yeah, let's just keep going.
But yet intelligent side of the brain is like, listen pitch,
this is not the guy for you. This is a loser from loser land.
Red flag, red flag, orange flag,you know, purple flag, all the
flags are waving in the air likeyou just don't care because the
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emotion side is like, hello, we are more stronger than the
intelligence side right now. So and then the other thing is
like the loser from loser land, he also knows how to play this
game of detachment where he willlatch on even more and he will
be like, Oh no, she's trying to get, you know, her intelligence
side is trying to like overcome her emotions.
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So we need to strike her even stronger.
So loser will come into the picture tenfold.
And then it's like a game of fuckery.
And then you go back and forth and you want to break away from
loser land and the losers. But unfortunately they still
keep coming around like a Germancockroach.
You kill that bitch once and, you know, there's more.
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So yeah. So that's what happens.
Maybe this is a PSA for the ladies for once.
You know, like ladies when we are down and vulnerable and
like, you know, are emotionally just like brushed or whatever
and, and those time periods in our life.
Stay away from loser land. Just say no.
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Just say no, just. Say no, then run.
I mean far, far away. They come in all sizes, shapes
and in like everything. I mean even your vagina friends.
They will be like, hey girlfriend, you're new to the
area. Oh my God, I'm going to be your
bestie. And then that girlfriend sucks
you into loser land and then allof a sudden you're going to
you're surrounded by all her loser friends and loser land.
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Even though you have been warnedof what a loser this person is,
you still want to either try it or change it or something.
You think you're saving the world.
You're not. You're not.
You're wasting your time. You're absolutely wasting your
time. And it's like, I mean, if you
could turn back time, like Sheriff said, back time.
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If I could find a way, run. Don't go to loser land.
Don't. Don't do it.
And you know what? Don't.
Loser lands are all over the maptoo.
Yeah. And it's, it's, it's everywhere.
It really. Is they are yeah.
And you know what? We get judged that you know, you
go down to loser land and all ofa sudden you start to get judged
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too by your other friends and your and your peers and you're
kind of know what the. Yeah.
Or you do, they're like, are youOK?
Did you slip and hit your head somewhere?
Are you on? What drugs are you doing?
Yeah. And then you also, whatever
drugs or reputation those losershave, you now have that same
reputation. Guilty by association.
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Guilty by association. No matter what.
So then, you know, when you hearall these stories about men that
are single and they're looking for the right one and you know,
and they see you and they're like, Oh my gosh, I would love
to be with her, but she's with that loser.
You know, why wouldn't, why don't you date me?
You know, I am have all the boxes checked.
Well, the reason why we don't want to date you is because
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right now we have this thing called a loser in our land and
he we don't want to bring him toyour non loser land.
So we have to get rid of our loser baggage before we can come
to non loser land. Which is not easy.
It is not easy because losers from loser land have this thing
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called psychotic psychosis, narcissistic asshole, you know,
like stalker stalker syndrome and they, you know, keep your
enemies close people because they play with fire.
So it's crazy. Yeah.
I mean, it's like, it's like yousigned yourself up for like, a
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torture treatment when you go toloser land.
I mean, it really is. And why?
Yeah. I don't understand why for for a
little, for a large group of losers that hang out in loser
land that hate each other, they sure do work together when they
want to take down someone that'snot from loser land, they're
like, oh, this bitch is trying to leave loser land.
Get her. Get her.
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Get the bed out. Get the net because this BJ
going nowhere. No, no, no, no.
She's not going nowhere. No time soon.
You're going to be here for a few years.
But then, you know, it's like, but we want to just let
everybody know that, you know, we are, we are aware of the
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loser land decision that we knowwe stumbled upon.
I mean, do you know how you got in yours?
I know how I got in mine. I got in a few of them actually.
Yeah, I know. Yes, I know.
How I got in mind, yeah, 100%. And getting out, I don't know.
That's another story it I don't know.
I mean it's. What happens?
You turn into, I don't know, people and and what the fuck,
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that's how you say. It right, right, right.
Exactly. And then you know what else you
find along the way? When you're with a loser from
loser land? You find out some fuckery that
you didn't think even existed. You find out some things that
you just were innocently never exposed to.
I mean, there is some things that when I traveled to loser
land I have been exposed to thatI didn't think my virgin fragile
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eyeballs would ever be exposed to seeing or doing or hearing.
I mean, for example, I would just get this is a brief example
publicly ran around the streets and open to the public Roosters
I hated like chickens and shit. I have never been to a
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residential home before where I saw livestock, you know, just
chilling around yards. And you're so funny.
You're. Definitely a city.
Baby, I know I have not seen that before and that was like
very non what we should say gated community to me.
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Gee, Debbie, what was your firstsign of that?
Oh, there was a chicken in the front.
Yard. I mean, there's a there's a just
start. That's where it started.
He is. Not from the country.
I mean, if that's where it starts and from that point I got
exposed to a lot of things wherethat's where our standards start
getting a little bit more distant even because it's like,
wow, we're putting ourselves in these environments where we are
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not from this. I mean, it's not just physical
stuff either. It's not just, you know, the
Roosters and all that. It's like also the the language,
the education, the etiquette, all of these things that loser
Land has. All the things that you're
expecting that you're not going to get, it's the price that
comes, Yep. When you want to go like see if
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the grass is greener on the other side on loser land, let me
tell you, they don't even have grass over there.
They got dirt. Chickens.
Yeah, they have chickens back inthe ground.
They got dirty feet and they've got no soap in bathrooms.
I mean, come on now. Hey, so it is it's it's like
just a whole other world out there.
So if you are, I mean, I'm telling you, you got to choose
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some things in life. You got to choose to either be
single or you have to choose to like go to the wild side.
If you're going to like and there's a risk there, like
single is safe SNS, single safe single safe s s or you can.
Take a walk on the wild. The wild side.
The wild side is also called loser land sometimes, yeah.
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It's called Loser Lane all the. Time, the Big L double L yeah, l
^2 I there is, but it's also an experience.
I mean, you do learn a lot from there.
It made me learn a lot. Like I mean I did not want to
live there. I know, no, I mean, I don't
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know. I, I was on the farm for the
last, I don't know, 25 years so see chickens in the yard and
shit that was. Well, I mean.
Horses and cows and all that good stuff that was for me was
normal soap in the bathroom. Now that's the, that's the,
that's the definite. You've got to have soap in the.
Bathroom. But chickens though, I mean,
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were your chickens in like cagesand did they have razor blades
on their feet and did you fight them?
Probably not. I mean.
Fighting chickens would be. Illegal.
It is illegal. And I didn't know that either.
And like, here I am like lookingat these chickens and I'm like
Roosters, cocks, whatever they're called.
And I'm just, I'm videotaping it.
And I'm like blasting in on the social and all of a sudden I get
yelled at by the world and, you know, and I'm like, what?
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Like, what's the big deal? I didn't know that, You know,
that was, yeah, like, I didn't even know that that was a thing.
I mean, I had no idea that worldexisted.
And I could live the rest of my life not knowing that world
existed. See, now you have learned
something. Yeah, but let me tell you
something else that really pisses me off.
When you have a loser that comesfrom loser land come into your
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non loser environment, they don't know how to have etiquette
and like, what's the words I'm looking here?
They don't know how to act manners, manners and respect and
they just don't get it. I mean, it's kind of like you
have to train a loser puppy. Like you get a loser puppy and
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the loser puppy shits and pissesin your house constantly and you
are like, Oh my gosh, I keep training it not to shit and piss
in your but he keeps doing it over and over again.
And you want to get rid of it and you try to get rid of it,
but he gives you like these puppy dog loser eyes, you know,
at the pet or the the zoo or whatever you drop it off at and
then you like. It's called the pound, not the.
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Pound just dropping off the zoo and you drive away and you're
like, man, I feel a little guilty.
So you go back and get the loserpuppy and bring it back home
thinking it's going to change and it doesn't.
It shits and pisses again in your house.
I mean, and then you just sort of like, when's enough?
Like when is enough? So when is enough?
I mean when? Do you decide when do you throw
in the? Towel, I think you get to a
point where you just exhaust your exhaustion.
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I mean, I don't. Know is the win enough when it
becomes dangerous for you or when is it enough?
Is it, I mean, most of the time are these these like loser
relationships happen or like when like prison or jail
separates a lot of it, like you're forced by the law to be
separated. And then I mean, there's
injunctions like domestic violence.
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Yeah. Usually that's like the extreme
case where that's how a relationship is forced to be
separated, or a family member steps in, or something happens
where a law like binds the two so that they can't be together.
Definitely see that. Yeah, it's true.
I mean, it's a blessing in disguise too.
It kind of gives you an opportunity to be forcefully
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away from each other instead of being brainwashed and still
around loser land. But.
I'm not a fan of the loser. Land, I mean, do you think these
losers in loser land are actually just like leeches that
prey upon the women that are notin loser land so they could have
a better life? Like they like kind of sugar
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Mama their way over to us. I mean, but definitely,
definitely barked up the wrong tree.
So but I know what deep pockets are you looking at, bitch?
I mean, I mean this, I mean there's there's also there's a
soul in us too. I mean, just because we don't
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come from loser land doesn't mean that we don't have a soul.
You know, I don't judge people by their covers.
And maybe I need to motherfuck it start because I mean, not
judging people by their covers is something that, you know,
you, you look down upon somebodyor you look, you know, like,
hey, don't be judging me by my cover.
But bitch, if you don't judge people by their cover, then
you're putting yourself out there for vulnerability and you
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might end up slipping down loserland.
And I mean, that's that's probably what we need to do is
start judging some books by their covers.
I mean unfortunately. Makes sense?
I mean, I just know that I had asituation with a, a loser from
loser land and this was not too long ago.
And I invited him over to my home and we had a, you know,
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good time hanging out and everything.
It was a little little like different worlds because
obviously he's from loser land and he brought over his
collection of pennies, brought over his collection of pennies.
And I guess this is his prized possession or he wanted to brag
about or he wanted me to help sell them.
I don't know what the goal was. And he brought over this
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telescope thing with it, all this stuff, and he kept it in
this little briefcase like this.You know, it was a ratchet
briefcase. So I gave him a little briefcase
and I noticed in the, you know, time he was here, he carried the
briefcase everywhere he went in my house.
Kind of like us women with our purses, like we carry our purses
everywhere. But when we're comfortable, we
put our purses down, you know, and we're just like blah, blah,
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blah. Like we have like diamonds and
shit in there. You know, we don't give a fuck.
I mean, we do, but we don't. So I noticed he was carrying
this bitch everywhere, like everywhere, everywhere.
And I said something, I'm like, bro, like do you think I'm going
to steal your fucking pennies out of your little briefcase
that I just gave you? You know, you're in my house in
my gated community where there'slike 0 like violence in here and
0 crime. And there's US marshals that
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live in here, state troopers. And yet you are carrying around
this briefcase of your collection of pennies from room
to room to room. And then it got to a point where
I let it go. And then I just saw it happen
once again. And he went in to take a shower
and brought the briefcase of pennies into the shower with
him. And I literally lost my freaking
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mind. I usually can keep my cool and
I'm I'm pretty I and anger management is under my belt.
I've like been Co ordered to that class so many times, but I
I'm older and like calmer now, but I lost it.
I was I mean I called him every name in the book.
I was like, how dare you like try to like come into my home
and think that I'm going to steal from your stupid ass penny
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collection. And, and when you're in my own
home, like, I mean, what, who are you to come in my own home
and bring a product of your, of your whatever question or hobby
you have and then carry it around like I'm going to steal
from you when you're exposed to everything in my home that I
own, you know, it's like, I guess.
I don't understand that first ofall.
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And then and then I call you outon it and you want to deny it
and say that I'm crazy, like I'mcrazy.
Yeah, I like that too. I mean it's like what the fuck
narcissistic loser are you talking about?
So those are those moments like that though make me think wow
like you know I checked myself before I wrecked myself even
more because it's like Debbie SMHSMH like what the fuck are we
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doing? Why is this loser from loser
land in your house and not why how did why did you show him
where you live? Why is he here?
He's never going to go away. Yeah.
Now he's like, now, you know, ifwe live show up here, right?
We can't go in public with this person.
We can't do nothing. I mean, like, why is a loser
here? Like the neighbors can't see
this. You'll get another violation.
I mean it's. Just I don't know.
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Violation like why do we do? Do we like the bad boys or
something? Is that what it is?
I mean do we are so against having a normal guy that
actually has a shit together versus these losers?
I mean, what is wrong with? Us.
I don't know what is wrong with us.
Why do we keep settling? Is there a pill that we can take
I. Wish there was a pill that we
could take for that. I mean, I I question myself all
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the time. I mean, when these situations
arise, like, what the fuck am I thinking?
Like, we know what's right, what's wrong.
Yeah, of course. A. 100.
Percent, but like, maybe we justare not putting ourselves out
there enough. Maybe we're not putting
ourselves like, in the right environments to, you know, not
ever think about loser land again.
More of a comfort. That's a comfort.
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Zone it's kind of like a comfortzone that you've reached a point
where you could probably piss and shit in front of this person
and like, you know, you guys, you know, it's one of those over
those. I mean, I'm still kind of
awkward in that, but like it's, you know, you can burp near
whatever, you know what I mean? You're getting.
Used to each other, right? Certain things you can probably
do. In front of this person and
you're and we're so stressed outin life that we, you know, with
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the economy, with the new president, you know, and all
this other shit going on that wejust don't have and money.
We're all broke, you know, or struggle or hustle there, hustle
there. And we're striving to stay just
afloat financially that when it comes to relationships, we're
exhausted. We're exhausted of like, you
know, the whole dating is like exhausting period.
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Extremely. I mean, you got to go through
that whole like, let's go to dinner, let's do this.
Let's go to walk, hold hands at the beach, let's watch the
sunset. I want to go right in for that.
Let's go fishing. Let's get I don't wear no
makeup. I don't want to brush my hair
today, right? I'm with.
I don't want to have to go through that whole impression
stage, you know, I mean, it's the honeymoon.
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I mean, I think the honeymoon can stay longer than they
anticipate. I think it's the impression
impression state, like, you know, where you want to make
sure that they like you for whatyou do.
You know, honeymoon is more intimate, I think.
I think it's still, it's still, it's me.
It's just three months. I mean, yeah, the first.
Three months. If you're going to do something,
you're going to do it within thefirst three months.
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It usually comes on. Month 4 is when you figure out
that this person is a real pain in the ass.
You don't want to be around themanymore, right?
Because now all their true colors are coming out and I see
three months. I agree.
I agree. Three months is, you know, a
good mark for for sure. I mean, do you have sex in those
three months? I mean, I know I would.
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I mean, like, me too. I mean, a lot of people are
trying to be Celbic, you know why?
What's his name? Lenny Kravitz, Self torture.
He literally was a man whore. And he totally went on this nine
year kick of not having sex withany women.
And he said he found his soul again.
He found like this new like sideof him.
And I totally like, kind of like, yeah.
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I get it, I get it. I respect it.
I understand. I respect it too, understand.
It it's just not for me. I mean, it's not for me, but I
guess if you're that of a man whore, you know, and I know, I
know some losers in loser land that are man whores or you know,
or at least were back in the day, but you know, stick that
thing in any hole. I mean, like the weird.
I know. It's like, wow, you are amid
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those things and. Then I wouldn't personally.
But I mean, I wouldn't either. And the fact that they have and
I've heard it, I don't know, like I'm having like one of
those like, what the fuck moments right now, you think?
Yeah, you and me, bro. I mean, I'm gonna.
Yeah, yeah, you did that. Yep, Yep.
And you're still doing that. And yes.
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And you're. Peeing.
Repeat. It just keeps going on, Mom.
I mean, if you want us to babysit your kids, I think you
should think twice because we're.
Yeah, I know, right? Not even the dog.
We're not making good. Sitting.
We're not dog sitting. We are failing at this right
now. But maybe I mean, it's, it's
it's society's fault that like what we are on this search for,
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you know, where you are on this search for this perfect
relationship, a perfect marriage, a perfect partner.
And it's, it's like you're supposed to grow, quote UN
quote, grow old with somebody. But why don't you can grow old
with your girlfriend, You can grow old with like your dog.
I mean, it's just the compatibility.
But what exactly is compatibility?
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Is it being miserable with a loser?
No, I don't think it's that. I think it's that you're getting
along with the other other people that you actually get
along with, that there's not a daily struggle and not a daily
argument. It doesn't have to be dramatic,
but Oh my gosh. I think we should have instead
of all these chat groups about, you know, oh, it's fine, our
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perfect partner. I think we should have chat
groups about what did you fight about in your relationship?
You know, so we can kind of because I wonder, you know,
there's nobody else that has a fight like this.
Whenever I have a fight or argument in a relationship, I'm
thinking to myself, this is it. I'm not, this is the end of this
relationship. I'm not getting back with this
person. We are breaking up, you know,
and then I have to realize that people have fights and arguments
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in relationships. But like what is enough in a
relationship? When's the fight drawing the
line? Like when is that fight?
Like, yo, you both, we both crossed lines or you crossed the
line. This relationship is over.
It's a wrap. Like, I mean, when does when
does that happen? Like what's the what are the
signs of that type of argument? Because I feel like I have those
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all the time. When I like, when I do have an
argument, I feel like that's I like, I don't ever have these
calm, you know, arguments. It's always like a very
devastating hit. You know, someone not like
physically anymore, but like, but like it's just like I feel
like that person had done something so bad that I should
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not be with them again because of their actions.
But is that just cause an argument?
Like, are we supposed to work through that or is it the end of
the road? I mean, how do you know when an
argument is safe to work through?
I don't know. That's a good question because
like it's what do you call it? Truce or yeah.
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Compromise, I don't know. Communication, but literally
like if you, if you're with that, you're say you're with
your man and he disrespects you in front of in front of
strangers and you get into an argument and then you take that
argument home and then you work it out.
Is that is that a relation? Is that a situation where you're
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supposed to work it out? Or is that a situation where
you're supposed to be like, he disrespected me, he's going to
do it again. Fuck this shit.
He should know better. I don't give a fuck what you
say. We're over, you know, and then
like, what is it? Like what?
I have no idea because I would like to know that that myself
because. Because if that's the case, I
mean, I would like to know what a real argument really is about.
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Like, Oh no, you ate the last bite of the tacos.
That was supposed to be my last bite, you know, and then you
argue about who ate the last bite of a Taco.
I can understand that's a, you know, a little bit of a little
petty argument, but arguments are not normally like that.
Arguments are because someone got feelings got hurt or someone
didn't get validation or there was not like a compromise met or
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somebody did something to hurtful.
So what we're supposed to work through, like how many arguments
make a relationship state is what I want to know.
Because then if I knew that number, I would probably be a
little bit more able to probablyunderstand relationships a
little bit better. Like I would be able to maybe
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feel like I can get through or be solid in one, or I would want
to be in one more stable. Because I know that arguments
are something that I don't know.Maybe I just need like a list of
things that you like to have in my back pocket that tell me,
hey, these are going to be some possible things you fight about.
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And if I have that list, I will be like, OK, well then I guess
I'm supposed to compromise and meet in the middle and
communicate, you know, because this is one of those arguments
that's on the list. But if it's not on the list,
then I know, listen, it's time to go sayonara.
I mean, I think that I think that would be a good idea that
would help me. I don't know if that would help
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you. It would it help you?
I would. Say, yeah, probably.
I mean everything. I don't know.
Everything's so crazy. Right now, I mean everything
could be up and down like if he like cheating, would cheating be
on that list? You know if he or she cheats on
you, should you work it out and stay in that relationship?
I. Think it depends on what the
situation is. To me, it's all in what?
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What are you going to put up with?
Are you going to put up with himcheating?
Because if he does it once, he'sgoing to do it twice.
He's going to do it 10 million times.
Well. So you have to keep that in your
mind if you're going to just be cheated on for the rest of the
relationship. I mean, they do the cheating
thing, you know, once a cheater,always a cheater, they say, but
they the cheating thing is is a huge thing.
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It's like you either. I mean, I would be like, no, you
know, if you cheated, why? Like, I mean, why be with
somebody if you're going to cheat?
But it's also women cheat actually more than men, believe
it or not. And I.
Believe it. Yeah, so it's like if guys get a
thrill out of it, they just wanttheir Dick sucked.
They just want to, you know, something like it's a cheap
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thrill for them. No emotions attached.
Women have a little bit more of emotional attachment when they
cheat because they're not getting it at home.
So therefore they feel they needthat connection.
We're emotional. Men just want to go stick a Dick
in something you know, and go cheat.
So it's like two different worlds of cheating.
But then you feel like the the trust is broken, the loyalty is
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broken. Do you still continue to work on
that relationship? Yeah, I think it depends on if
that's the thing. How much time do you have
invested in this person? Do you do you feel like it's
worth it? When do you throw in the towel?
What? What red red flags do you have
to see before you finally say and I can't do this anymore?
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I think there's a lot that playsinto that, or at least there is
for me. Yeah.
Some people may not be as might be as picky or difficult as I
am. I'm a very picky person.
I don't know, I just want I would like to have a pure
relationship. Like I'm in a relationship where
I literally like my soul is cleansed.
Your soul is cleanse. It's a fresh clean slate.
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And there is like this like rocksolid loyalty and there's this
security and there's this, you know, stableness of it.
And that's what I want. If I can find that, then I
would. I'm all in like, but I'm not
really looking either. So I mean, I don't really want
to look because of all the shit that we just.
(31:29):
Talked about jeez, because it's just very difficult and nobody
wants to be honest and everybodyhas an agenda.
Right which? Doesn't fit my agenda.
And to get hurt when you are emotionally attached, even if it
is from a loser, from loser land, you know, it hurts to have
that detachment and that emotionlike, you know, right, get
attacked. It really does.
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And it's a hard beast to detach that emotional feeling.
You know, you could say all day long, I'm over him, I am over
him and he's loser by loser. But at the end of the day, you,
you will like still have this feeling of a connection of, of,
of that person, even though theymay have did you wrong.
So it's like takes two weeks to form a habit.
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Maybe it takes two weeks to deform a habit.
I thought it was 30 days. I.
Think 30 days. I think it is 30 days honestly,
because from experience I know you just can't forget about
somebody overnight. No, it's not.
And it's not easy if you and if you at one time or still do love
that person, it's it makes it more difficult.
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Even if you feel like you are soangry at them, you still like.
Very angry, but you still love them.
I mean, it's like, I don't know what's then you think of what
what's wrong with this person? What have they been through?
What made them this way? Can it be fixed or should you
just? Move.
Well, you don't want to. You don't want to go down that
fixing people route that doesn'tget anywhere good.
(32:53):
But what about the fact of, you know, wait, what did you just
say before that? You said about what?
About fixing someone? Yeah.
Do you want to fix them? You said something else before
that. What was the thing you said
before that flat line for a second?
Oh my gosh. I know.
I don't know. I just feel like just this easy
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relationship. There's no easy answer.
Yeah, I guess it's a it's self, a self journey.
I think yeah, if you become likefriends with somebody first, you
know, opposite sex or whatever you are and you know, that
relationship to me is more solidand more of a promising non
threat relationship that could blossom into something then
coming out and saying let's go on a date.
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Like, I mean, I would be feel more open to hearing somebody
say that to me then having them like, hey, you want to go to
dinner and go on a date, Then I feel like the pressure's on.
The pressure's on. And then if I don't like you or
if we don't have any connection or chemistry, I'm going to tell
you the truth right up the bat. And then you're going to get
butt hurt. And then all of a sudden we
could have been friends. But now you kind of don't like
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me because you think I'm a bitchbecause I don't like you.
I mean, sad but true. That's a vicious cycle.
It is a cycle. It's just how it's become.
I mean, yeah. I think we want it that way, but
that's just the way it is. That's, that's just the way it
is. Something's never changed.
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That's just the way it is. It is what it is.
But I don't know, I, I don't know why I just constantly get
asked all the time to, you know,do you have a boyfriend or are
you marriage or are you really, you know, are you single or
this? And I, as much as I I appreciate
compliments and stuff, I hate getting asked that question all
the time because sometimes I am kind of talking to somebody and
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I don't want that exposed publicly because I don't know if
it's a stable thing yet. Like I don't want to, I don't
want to come out and publicly. Say.
Right. I want to make sure that whoever
I'm with is like a solid, stableperson, and then I would be more
public about it. But why put myself and whoever
I'm kind of talking to out therein public when it's going to
flake away or something? Then I look like I just go
(35:02):
through men like 988 times, Yeah.
Well, see the man. See the Man.
Do the math, do the math. Speaking of some sort of math,
Bushwhacker over here has put together some Valentine's
chocolates over here since she is the chef of all fucking
(35:22):
chefs, I tell you that. I mean, she made these egg rolls
tonight that were like, whoa, you would think she's like Asian
or some shit. A little bit.
I mean, but taller. Then she came out with these
strawberries, not chocolate. Like it's vanilla, it's vanilla,
(35:46):
vanilla chocolate. It's vanilla chocolate, right?
It's. A.
It is a hard candy shell that isa vanilla flavored.
Vanilla flavored? Is it still considered
chocolate? I don't know, but it's a.
It's a. It's white chocolate.
There you go. Yeah, white chocolate.
It could be white chocolate. We'll go with that.
It's white chocolate. She had white chocolate
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strawberries, my neighbor, the big ones too, They weren't like
this tiny little like like all the other fruit that is coming
out in the produce section. It's like all these like
miniature little like oranges. You got like these big lahuna
strawberries and I. Wanted some when I want some
strawberries, yeah. When you want something big, you
want it big. I just go get it myself, damn
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it. But you literally put the choc
or the white chocolate around itand melted it on it perfectly
that it reminds me of this chocolate like company in
Pennsylvania called Polacos. And they made this sponge
chocolate can't sponge candy or something.
It would RIP out one of your teeth.
You got me. It's one of those ones that
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would RIP out. Yeah.
Like if you had a filling in there, goodbye, You know, it
would RIP it out. It's so good.
But they would make chocolate covered strawberries for
Valentine's Day and all that. And totally reminded me of that
when you when you brought that over.
I don't even know how you meltedthat on there.
I'm not going to. Tell you but did you it was like
you professional yeah it was smooth and everything is delish
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you'd. Be surprised that the things
that seemed so difficult, but yeah.
I know, right? They're not that difficult.
They're difficult for me. Yes, Debbie, I've seen you in
the kitchen. Everything is difficult.
I deserve. I belong back here in the
microphone. Yes, I will agree with that.
So we are going to be selling some last minute Valentine's
gifts or all y'all that are lastminute Valentine's shoppers
(37:31):
which are most of all of us. And we have the secret sexy gift
boxes, which include a basicallya date night with a loved one or
date night with anyone yourself.And it comes with, it comes with
the whole kit for an intimate and sexy night.
It has like adult toys in it, has candles, has some
aromatherapy and has some like little cute little spa stuff in
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there. You know, everything's included
in the box for 50 bucks. And we also have free local
delivery. We have up to like, what is it
up to a couple miles for free? Yeah, for delivery up to 10
miles. I think so.
I thought we were only like 5. I don't know.
I don't know. There was 5 or 10.
Yeah, something like that. But there was. 1. 1.5 and then
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we have also the spa bags that are 25 bucks and those come with
like pampering and real. It's everything is super, super
cute. We have some also some flowers
and for Valentine's that you cangive.
They are like artificial flowersdecor.
Yes, they're very cute. And then Bushwhacker is going to
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come to the table with her chocolate covered strawberries
and the white ones, white chocolate, white, white
chocolate strawberries. What else are you doing?
Covered I can do it. Cheesecake Cheesecake red.
Velvet let's see my grandmother's chocolate chip
cookies. Nice.
They're really good and I think we're going to do this on
Wednesday, right? Yes.
(39:06):
We're going to do it Wednesday. If you are in the Apollo Beach
or Ruskin area, come hit her. Yeah, we.
Will be. Somewhere we'll be on the
street. We'll be on the street corners,
baby. That sounds dangerous, but yeah,
we're going to have the other vaginas with us.
Miller Mac isn't getting me in the house.
She's got this balloon arch biz that is she's launching.
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Gosh, be with her with those fingernails.
Like she's like, I love doing this, but my fingernails are
like, I'm like, girl, I'll support you, but like, I can't
be tying of balloons like that. That's a lot of balloons to be
tying, but she's doing a good job with it.
But Bushfacker, I just feel thatthis conversation just kind of
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like, meh, you know? Well, yeah, cuz that's what it
is. Yeah.
Meh, just that. And.
Everybody wants to talk about it, but you know it's right
there in your face. So you have a choice to talk
about it. But.
It's a bunch of bullshit and it's bullshit.
And I don't want to deal. With it.
So you know what, losers out there in loser land, stay the
fuck away from us and stay in your lane over in loser land.
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Because even when we are vulnerable, we're going to train
those bitches that are vulnerable not to come into your
loser lanes over there and get swamped up by your loser Ness.
Yeah, let's not. And you know who you are.
You're in one of you. If you think that she's too good
(40:31):
for you, then she's too good foryou.
If you think she's out of your league, she's out of your
league. Stay in your lane and lose her
land away from us. Know your role.
Know your role, bitch. This is Debbie Diaz reporting
live, featuring the vaginas and bushwacker.
It's always, always a blessed tohave you here with me.
Oh, thanks. And you're cooking just.
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Like my strawberries? I like your berries.
Yes I do. Peace out, bitches, Peace out.
Great, I was trying to find the listing.
There it is La La la. Welcome to the deputies
reporting live podcast featuringis the vaginas with bushwalker
in the house. How you doing Bushwalker?
Hello are. We laughing.
(00:41):
I haven't pressed those buttons in such a long time.
It was so quiet. Before Now we're back to the
button. I don't have more options on
here too. More options?
Yeah. Don't forget the little chipmunk
voice in there, too. No, let's not do.
All right, We'll do chipmunk voice later.
That's someone right there. Thank you.
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Oh my God, thank you. That was just a little.
I got a little chub off of that.I see that, the excitement and I
know, so I can't believe the microphones are working and now
you're going to touch it. Don't touch anything.
So welcome to the WDS Reporting Live podcast.
So this is your first time listening.
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Deputies are playing live feature in the vaginas.
But Bushwacker, we are doing breaking girl code and I have
some code to break. How about you about?
Yeah, don't get me started, please.
(01:52):
We Are Breaking Girl Code is newseries and about how we are
giving the inside scoop about what women think and feel and
and talk about behind men's back.
Like why, why men are really single, Why you know what what
they don't know about women thatwe never tell anyone.
And so that's what we have been doing.
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Bushwacker has been my partner in crime through a lot of this
series. Well, apparently I have a lot of
experience on this. Subject.
Yeah, like saying that I had sexwith 988.
I said just do the math, Debbie.I said do the math.
That was it. Just right.
It was through the math, right? Simple math.
(02:34):
It was simple math. So I have realized a lot over,
you know, relationships and, youknow, you have as well that I
think you know, the reason why alot of people say to us like
when we lose our standards and they don't.
And they say, why do you, why are you with that guy?
Why are you with the loser? Like why, why, why, why, why?
(02:56):
Like, you know, and you wonder like in your head, you are well
aware that you're with a loser, you know, like we do know.
Thank you, captain. It's like, you know, I woke up
this morning like, Oh my gosh, I'm so grateful that I'm with a
loser. But you know, that's the reason
why a lot of women are single, because we don't want to be in
with the losers because we have been stuck with them in the past
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and we're trying not to get stuck again.
And the reason why gets stuck is, you know, if you really want
to know how, you know, to get a good, like a girl that kind of
lost her standards for a little bit there and how she gets stuck
with a loser, it's because she lost her standards.
These losers, they lurch along the street and they're like,
(03:40):
they have feeders, bottom feeders.
Yeah. They have this sense of smell
where they can sense out a vulnerability in a female that's
kind of off her path for temporarily off her path.
And she's just kind of hanging out with the Bron crowd or she's
hanging out, you know, like in the wrong part of town
something. And then they like, they see her
and they like, you know, they goin for the kill and they like,
(04:03):
they are like, that's our victim.
That's our victim and let's get her.
And that's what the loser does. The loser goes up into, you
know, you know, goes in finesse mode.
Oh tells her everything she needs to hear while she's in
Loserville and hanging out with all the losers.
So, you know, when her state of mind is fragile and you know,
she's just, you know, down about, she's accepting her where
(04:25):
she's at at the moment. You know, Loserville, she's kind
of like, wow, this guy's kind ofcool.
You know, like he's talking to me and talking to me in like
loser land. And then all of a sudden you're
out of loser land or trying to get out of loser land and you
still have the loser stuck with you.
That's how women get stuck with losers.
I mean, that's basically a roundabout, metaphorically
(04:48):
correct way. And then once, you know, we
realized we're with a loser thatcame from loser land.
We've already invested some emotions now, unfortunately,
because we have feelings and, you know, while we're still
trying to dust off the standards.
So we're trying to do a lot of things at one time.
And then at the same time, we'rebattling this emotion thing
(05:09):
because we're intelligently intelligent.
Like our brain is like, listen, bitch, you're with a loser from
loser land. And we're like well aware.
We are well aware brain. But then the emotion side of the
brain is like, listen, we're very emotional and we like loser
for right now, you know, let's stay with loser.
We don't care about standards. Let's just see what happens.
(05:31):
Let's just go day by day, Yeah, let's just keep going.
But yet intelligent side of the brain is like, listen pitch,
this is not the guy for you. This is a loser from loser land.
Red flag, red flag, orange flag,you know, purple flag, all the
flags are waving in the air likeyou just don't care because the
(05:53):
emotion side is like, hello, we are more stronger than the
intelligence side right now. So and then the other thing is
like the loser from loser land, he also knows how to play this
game of detachment where he willlatch on even more and he will
be like, Oh no, she's trying to get, you know, her intelligence
side is trying to like overcome her emotions.
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So we need to strike her even stronger.
So loser will come into the picture tenfold.
And then it's like a game of fuckery.
And then you go back and forth and you want to break away from
loser land and the losers. But unfortunately they still
keep coming around like a Germancockroach.
You kill that bitch once and, you know, there's more.
(06:36):
So yeah. So that's what happens.
Maybe this is a PSA for the ladies for once.
You know, like ladies when we are down and vulnerable and
like, you know, are emotionally just like brushed or whatever
and, and those time periods in our life.
Stay away from loser land. Just say no.
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Just say no, just. Say no, then run.
I mean far, far away. They come in all sizes, shapes
and in like everything. I mean even your vagina friends.
They will be like, hey girlfriend, you're new to the
area. Oh my God, I'm going to be your
bestie. And then that girlfriend sucks
you into loser land and then allof a sudden you're going to
you're surrounded by all her loser friends and loser land.
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Even though you have been warnedof what a loser this person is,
you still want to either try it or change it or something.
You think you're saving the world.
You're not. You're not.
You're wasting your time. You're absolutely wasting your
time. And it's like, I mean, if you
could turn back time, like Sheriff said, back time.
(07:40):
If I could find a way, run. Don't go to loser land.
Don't. Don't do it.
And you know what? Don't.
Loser lands are all over the maptoo.
Yeah. And it's, it's, it's everywhere.
It really. Is they are yeah.
And you know what? We get judged that you know, you
go down to loser land and all ofa sudden you start to get judged
(08:01):
too by your other friends and your and your peers and you're
kind of know what the. Yeah.
Or you do, they're like, are youOK?
Did you slip and hit your head somewhere?
Are you on? What drugs are you doing?
Yeah. And then you also, whatever
drugs or reputation those losershave, you now have that same
reputation. Guilty by association.
(08:21):
Guilty by association. No matter what.
So then, you know, when you hearall these stories about men that
are single and they're looking for the right one and you know,
and they see you and they're like, Oh my gosh, I would love
to be with her, but she's with that loser.
You know, why wouldn't, why don't you date me?
You know, I am have all the boxes checked.
Well, the reason why we don't want to date you is because
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right now we have this thing called a loser in our land and
he we don't want to bring him toyour non loser land.
So we have to get rid of our loser baggage before we can come
to non loser land. Which is not easy.
It is not easy because losers from loser land have this thing
(09:05):
called psychotic psychosis, narcissistic asshole, you know,
like stalker stalker syndrome and they, you know, keep your
enemies close people because they play with fire.
So it's crazy. Yeah.
I mean, it's like, it's like yousigned yourself up for like, a
(09:26):
torture treatment when you go toloser land.
I mean, it really is. And why?
Yeah. I don't understand why for for a
little, for a large group of losers that hang out in loser
land that hate each other, they sure do work together when they
want to take down someone that'snot from loser land, they're
like, oh, this bitch is trying to leave loser land.
Get her. Get her.
(09:50):
Get the bed out. Get the net because this BJ
going nowhere. No, no, no, no.
She's not going nowhere. No time soon.
You're going to be here for a few years.
But then, you know, it's like, but we want to just let
everybody know that, you know, we are, we are aware of the
(10:11):
loser land decision that we knowwe stumbled upon.
I mean, do you know how you got in yours?
I know how I got in mine. I got in a few of them actually.
Yeah, I know. Yes, I know.
How I got in mind, yeah, 100%. And getting out, I don't know.
That's another story it I don't know.
I mean it's. What happens?
You turn into, I don't know, people and and what the fuck,
(10:33):
that's how you say. It right, right, right.
Exactly. And then you know what else you
find along the way? When you're with a loser from
loser land? You find out some fuckery that
you didn't think even existed. You find out some things that
you just were innocently never exposed to.
I mean, there is some things that when I traveled to loser
land I have been exposed to thatI didn't think my virgin fragile
(10:57):
eyeballs would ever be exposed to seeing or doing or hearing.
I mean, for example, I would just get this is a brief example
publicly ran around the streets and open to the public Roosters
I hated like chickens and shit. I have never been to a
(11:18):
residential home before where I saw livestock, you know, just
chilling around yards. And you're so funny.
You're. Definitely a city.
Baby, I know I have not seen that before and that was like
very non what we should say gated community to me.
(11:40):
Gee, Debbie, what was your firstsign of that?
Oh, there was a chicken in the front.
Yard. I mean, there's a there's a just
start. That's where it started.
He is. Not from the country.
I mean, if that's where it starts and from that point I got
exposed to a lot of things wherethat's where our standards start
getting a little bit more distant even because it's like,
wow, we're putting ourselves in these environments where we are
(12:03):
not from this. I mean, it's not just physical
stuff either. It's not just, you know, the
Roosters and all that. It's like also the the language,
the education, the etiquette, all of these things that loser
Land has. All the things that you're
expecting that you're not going to get, it's the price that
comes, Yep. When you want to go like see if
(12:24):
the grass is greener on the other side on loser land, let me
tell you, they don't even have grass over there.
They got dirt. Chickens.
Yeah, they have chickens back inthe ground.
They got dirty feet and they've got no soap in bathrooms.
I mean, come on now. Hey, so it is it's it's like
just a whole other world out there.
So if you are, I mean, I'm telling you, you got to choose
(12:45):
some things in life. You got to choose to either be
single or you have to choose to like go to the wild side.
If you're going to like and there's a risk there, like
single is safe SNS, single safe single safe s s or you can.
Take a walk on the wild. The wild side.
The wild side is also called loser land sometimes, yeah.
(13:06):
It's called Loser Lane all the. Time, the Big L double L yeah, l
^2 I there is, but it's also an experience.
I mean, you do learn a lot from there.
It made me learn a lot. Like I mean I did not want to
live there. I know, no, I mean, I don't
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know. I, I was on the farm for the
last, I don't know, 25 years so see chickens in the yard and
shit that was. Well, I mean.
Horses and cows and all that good stuff that was for me was
normal soap in the bathroom. Now that's the, that's the,
that's the definite. You've got to have soap in the.
Bathroom. But chickens though, I mean,
(13:47):
were your chickens in like cagesand did they have razor blades
on their feet and did you fight them?
Probably not. I mean.
Fighting chickens would be. Illegal.
It is illegal. And I didn't know that either.
And like, here I am like lookingat these chickens and I'm like
Roosters, cocks, whatever they're called.
And I'm just, I'm videotaping it.
And I'm like blasting in on the social and all of a sudden I get
yelled at by the world and, you know, and I'm like, what?
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Like, what's the big deal? I didn't know that, You know,
that was, yeah, like, I didn't even know that that was a thing.
I mean, I had no idea that worldexisted.
And I could live the rest of my life not knowing that world
existed. See, now you have learned
something. Yeah, but let me tell you
something else that really pisses me off.
When you have a loser that comesfrom loser land come into your
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non loser environment, they don't know how to have etiquette
and like, what's the words I'm looking here?
They don't know how to act manners, manners and respect and
they just don't get it. I mean, it's kind of like you
have to train a loser puppy. Like you get a loser puppy and
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the loser puppy shits and pissesin your house constantly and you
are like, Oh my gosh, I keep training it not to shit and piss
in your but he keeps doing it over and over again.
And you want to get rid of it and you try to get rid of it,
but he gives you like these puppy dog loser eyes, you know,
at the pet or the the zoo or whatever you drop it off at and
then you like. It's called the pound, not the.
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Pound just dropping off the zoo and you drive away and you're
like, man, I feel a little guilty.
So you go back and get the loserpuppy and bring it back home
thinking it's going to change and it doesn't.
It shits and pisses again in your house.
I mean, and then you just sort of like, when's enough?
Like when is enough? So when is enough?
I mean when? Do you decide when do you throw
in the? Towel, I think you get to a
point where you just exhaust your exhaustion.
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I mean, I don't. Know is the win enough when it
becomes dangerous for you or when is it enough?
Is it, I mean, most of the time are these these like loser
relationships happen or like when like prison or jail
separates a lot of it, like you're forced by the law to be
separated. And then I mean, there's
injunctions like domestic violence.
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Yeah. Usually that's like the extreme
case where that's how a relationship is forced to be
separated, or a family member steps in, or something happens
where a law like binds the two so that they can't be together.
Definitely see that. Yeah, it's true.
I mean, it's a blessing in disguise too.
It kind of gives you an opportunity to be forcefully
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away from each other instead of being brainwashed and still
around loser land. But.
I'm not a fan of the loser. Land, I mean, do you think these
losers in loser land are actually just like leeches that
prey upon the women that are notin loser land so they could have
a better life? Like they like kind of sugar
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Mama their way over to us. I mean, but definitely,
definitely barked up the wrong tree.
So but I know what deep pockets are you looking at, bitch?
I mean, I mean this, I mean there's there's also there's a
soul in us too. I mean, just because we don't
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come from loser land doesn't mean that we don't have a soul.
You know, I don't judge people by their covers.
And maybe I need to motherfuck it start because I mean, not
judging people by their covers is something that, you know,
you, you look down upon somebodyor you look, you know, like,
hey, don't be judging me by my cover.
But bitch, if you don't judge people by their cover, then
you're putting yourself out there for vulnerability and you
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might end up slipping down loserland.
And I mean, that's that's probably what we need to do is
start judging some books by their covers.
I mean unfortunately. Makes sense?
I mean, I just know that I had asituation with a, a loser from
loser land and this was not too long ago.
And I invited him over to my home and we had a, you know,
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good time hanging out and everything.
It was a little little like different worlds because
obviously he's from loser land and he brought over his
collection of pennies, brought over his collection of pennies.
And I guess this is his prized possession or he wanted to brag
about or he wanted me to help sell them.
I don't know what the goal was. And he brought over this
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telescope thing with it, all this stuff, and he kept it in
this little briefcase like this.You know, it was a ratchet
briefcase. So I gave him a little briefcase
and I noticed in the, you know, time he was here, he carried the
briefcase everywhere he went in my house.
Kind of like us women with our purses, like we carry our purses
everywhere. But when we're comfortable, we
put our purses down, you know, and we're just like blah, blah,
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blah. Like we have like diamonds and
shit in there. You know, we don't give a fuck.
I mean, we do, but we don't. So I noticed he was carrying
this bitch everywhere, like everywhere, everywhere.
And I said something, I'm like, bro, like do you think I'm going
to steal your fucking pennies out of your little briefcase
that I just gave you? You know, you're in my house in
my gated community where there'slike 0 like violence in here and
0 crime. And there's US marshals that
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live in here, state troopers. And yet you are carrying around
this briefcase of your collection of pennies from room
to room to room. And then it got to a point where
I let it go. And then I just saw it happen
once again. And he went in to take a shower
and brought the briefcase of pennies into the shower with
him. And I literally lost my freaking
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mind. I usually can keep my cool and
I'm I'm pretty I and anger management is under my belt.
I've like been Co ordered to that class so many times, but I
I'm older and like calmer now, but I lost it.
I was I mean I called him every name in the book.
I was like, how dare you like try to like come into my home
and think that I'm going to steal from your stupid ass penny
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collection. And, and when you're in my own
home, like, I mean, what, who are you to come in my own home
and bring a product of your, of your whatever question or hobby
you have and then carry it around like I'm going to steal
from you when you're exposed to everything in my home that I
own, you know, it's like, I guess.
I don't understand that first ofall.
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And then and then I call you outon it and you want to deny it
and say that I'm crazy, like I'mcrazy.
Yeah, I like that too. I mean it's like what the fuck
narcissistic loser are you talking about?
So those are those moments like that though make me think wow
like you know I checked myself before I wrecked myself even
more because it's like Debbie SMHSMH like what the fuck are we
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doing? Why is this loser from loser
land in your house and not why how did why did you show him
where you live? Why is he here?
He's never going to go away. Yeah.
Now he's like, now, you know, ifwe live show up here, right?
We can't go in public with this person.
We can't do nothing. I mean, like, why is a loser
here? Like the neighbors can't see
this. You'll get another violation.
I mean it's. Just I don't know.
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Violation like why do we do? Do we like the bad boys or
something? Is that what it is?
I mean do we are so against having a normal guy that
actually has a shit together versus these losers?
I mean, what is wrong with? Us.
I don't know what is wrong with us.
Why do we keep settling? Is there a pill that we can take
I. Wish there was a pill that we
could take for that. I mean, I I question myself all
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the time. I mean, when these situations
arise, like, what the fuck am I thinking?
Like, we know what's right, what's wrong.
Yeah, of course. A. 100.
Percent, but like, maybe we justare not putting ourselves out
there enough. Maybe we're not putting
ourselves like, in the right environments to, you know, not
ever think about loser land again.
More of a comfort. That's a comfort.
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Zone it's kind of like a comfortzone that you've reached a point
where you could probably piss and shit in front of this person
and like, you know, you guys, you know, it's one of those over
those. I mean, I'm still kind of
awkward in that, but like it's, you know, you can burp near
whatever, you know what I mean? You're getting.
Used to each other, right? Certain things you can probably
do. In front of this person and
you're and we're so stressed outin life that we, you know, with
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the economy, with the new president, you know, and all
this other shit going on that wejust don't have and money.
We're all broke, you know, or struggle or hustle there, hustle
there. And we're striving to stay just
afloat financially that when it comes to relationships, we're
exhausted. We're exhausted of like, you
know, the whole dating is like exhausting period.
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Extremely. I mean, you got to go through
that whole like, let's go to dinner, let's do this.
Let's go to walk, hold hands at the beach, let's watch the
sunset. I want to go right in for that.
Let's go fishing. Let's get I don't wear no
makeup. I don't want to brush my hair
today, right? I'm with.
I don't want to have to go through that whole impression
stage, you know, I mean, it's the honeymoon.
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I mean, I think the honeymoon can stay longer than they
anticipate. I think it's the impression
impression state, like, you know, where you want to make
sure that they like you for whatyou do.
You know, honeymoon is more intimate, I think.
I think it's still, it's still, it's me.
It's just three months. I mean, yeah, the first.
Three months. If you're going to do something,
you're going to do it within thefirst three months.
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It usually comes on. Month 4 is when you figure out
that this person is a real pain in the ass.
You don't want to be around themanymore, right?
Because now all their true colors are coming out and I see
three months. I agree.
I agree. Three months is, you know, a
good mark for for sure. I mean, do you have sex in those
three months? I mean, I know I would.
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I mean, like, me too. I mean, a lot of people are
trying to be Celbic, you know why?
What's his name? Lenny Kravitz, Self torture.
He literally was a man whore. And he totally went on this nine
year kick of not having sex withany women.
And he said he found his soul again.
He found like this new like sideof him.
And I totally like, kind of like, yeah.
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I get it, I get it. I respect it.
I understand. I respect it too, understand.
It it's just not for me. I mean, it's not for me, but I
guess if you're that of a man whore, you know, and I know, I
know some losers in loser land that are man whores or you know,
or at least were back in the day, but you know, stick that
thing in any hole. I mean, like the weird.
I know. It's like, wow, you are amid
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those things and. Then I wouldn't personally.
But I mean, I wouldn't either. And the fact that they have and
I've heard it, I don't know, like I'm having like one of
those like, what the fuck moments right now, you think?
Yeah, you and me, bro. I mean, I'm gonna.
Yeah, yeah, you did that. Yep, Yep.
And you're still doing that. And yes.
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And you're. Peeing.
Repeat. It just keeps going on, Mom.
I mean, if you want us to babysit your kids, I think you
should think twice because we're.
Yeah, I know, right? Not even the dog.
We're not making good. Sitting.
We're not dog sitting. We are failing at this right
now. But maybe I mean, it's, it's
it's society's fault that like what we are on this search for,
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you know, where you are on this search for this perfect
relationship, a perfect marriage, a perfect partner.
And it's, it's like you're supposed to grow, quote UN
quote, grow old with somebody. But why don't you can grow old
with your girlfriend, You can grow old with like your dog.
I mean, it's just the compatibility.
But what exactly is compatibility?
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Is it being miserable with a loser?
No, I don't think it's that. I think it's that you're getting
along with the other other people that you actually get
along with, that there's not a daily struggle and not a daily
argument. It doesn't have to be dramatic,
but Oh my gosh. I think we should have instead
of all these chat groups about, you know, oh, it's fine, our
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perfect partner. I think we should have chat
groups about what did you fight about in your relationship?
You know, so we can kind of because I wonder, you know,
there's nobody else that has a fight like this.
Whenever I have a fight or argument in a relationship, I'm
thinking to myself, this is it. I'm not, this is the end of this
relationship. I'm not getting back with this
person. We are breaking up, you know,
and then I have to realize that people have fights and arguments
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in relationships. But like what is enough in a
relationship? When's the fight drawing the
line? Like when is that fight?
Like, yo, you both, we both crossed lines or you crossed the
line. This relationship is over.
It's a wrap. Like, I mean, when does when
does that happen? Like what's the what are the
signs of that type of argument? Because I feel like I have those
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all the time. When I like, when I do have an
argument, I feel like that's I like, I don't ever have these
calm, you know, arguments. It's always like a very
devastating hit. You know, someone not like
physically anymore, but like, but like it's just like I feel
like that person had done something so bad that I should
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not be with them again because of their actions.
But is that just cause an argument?
Like, are we supposed to work through that or is it the end of
the road? I mean, how do you know when an
argument is safe to work through?
I don't know. That's a good question because
like it's what do you call it? Truce or yeah.
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Compromise, I don't know. Communication, but literally
like if you, if you're with that, you're say you're with
your man and he disrespects you in front of in front of
strangers and you get into an argument and then you take that
argument home and then you work it out.
Is that is that a relation? Is that a situation where you're
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supposed to work it out? Or is that a situation where
you're supposed to be like, he disrespected me, he's going to
do it again. Fuck this shit.
He should know better. I don't give a fuck what you
say. We're over, you know, and then
like, what is it? Like what?
I have no idea because I would like to know that that myself
because. Because if that's the case, I
mean, I would like to know what a real argument really is about.
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Like, Oh no, you ate the last bite of the tacos.
That was supposed to be my last bite, you know, and then you
argue about who ate the last bite of a Taco.
I can understand that's a, you know, a little bit of a little
petty argument, but arguments are not normally like that.
Arguments are because someone got feelings got hurt or someone
didn't get validation or there was not like a compromise met or
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somebody did something to hurtful.
So what we're supposed to work through, like how many arguments
make a relationship state is what I want to know.
Because then if I knew that number, I would probably be a
little bit more able to probablyunderstand relationships a
little bit better. Like I would be able to maybe
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feel like I can get through or be solid in one, or I would want
to be in one more stable. Because I know that arguments
are something that I don't know.Maybe I just need like a list of
things that you like to have in my back pocket that tell me,
hey, these are going to be some possible things you fight about.
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And if I have that list, I will be like, OK, well then I guess
I'm supposed to compromise and meet in the middle and
communicate, you know, because this is one of those arguments
that's on the list. But if it's not on the list,
then I know, listen, it's time to go sayonara.
I mean, I think that I think that would be a good idea that
would help me. I don't know if that would help
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you. It would it help you?
I would. Say, yeah, probably.
I mean everything. I don't know.
Everything's so crazy. Right now, I mean everything
could be up and down like if he like cheating, would cheating be
on that list? You know if he or she cheats on
you, should you work it out and stay in that relationship?
I. Think it depends on what the
situation is. To me, it's all in what?
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What are you going to put up with?
Are you going to put up with himcheating?
Because if he does it once, he'sgoing to do it twice.
He's going to do it 10 million times.
Well. So you have to keep that in your
mind if you're going to just be cheated on for the rest of the
relationship. I mean, they do the cheating
thing, you know, once a cheater,always a cheater, they say, but
they the cheating thing is is a huge thing.
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It's like you either. I mean, I would be like, no, you
know, if you cheated, why? Like, I mean, why be with
somebody if you're going to cheat?
But it's also women cheat actually more than men, believe
it or not. And I.
Believe it. Yeah, so it's like if guys get a
thrill out of it, they just wanttheir Dick sucked.
They just want to, you know, something like it's a cheap
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thrill for them. No emotions attached.
Women have a little bit more of emotional attachment when they
cheat because they're not getting it at home.
So therefore they feel they needthat connection.
We're emotional. Men just want to go stick a Dick
in something you know, and go cheat.
So it's like two different worlds of cheating.
But then you feel like the the trust is broken, the loyalty is
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broken. Do you still continue to work on
that relationship? Yeah, I think it depends on if
that's the thing. How much time do you have
invested in this person? Do you do you feel like it's
worth it? When do you throw in the towel?
What? What red red flags do you have
to see before you finally say and I can't do this anymore?
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I think there's a lot that playsinto that, or at least there is
for me. Yeah.
Some people may not be as might be as picky or difficult as I
am. I'm a very picky person.
I don't know, I just want I would like to have a pure
relationship. Like I'm in a relationship where
I literally like my soul is cleansed.
Your soul is cleanse. It's a fresh clean slate.
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And there is like this like rocksolid loyalty and there's this
security and there's this, you know, stableness of it.
And that's what I want. If I can find that, then I
would. I'm all in like, but I'm not
really looking either. So I mean, I don't really want
to look because of all the shit that we just.
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Talked about jeez, because it's just very difficult and nobody
wants to be honest and everybodyhas an agenda.
Right which? Doesn't fit my agenda.
And to get hurt when you are emotionally attached, even if it
is from a loser, from loser land, you know, it hurts to have
that detachment and that emotionlike, you know, right, get
attacked. It really does.
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And it's a hard beast to detach that emotional feeling.
You know, you could say all day long, I'm over him, I am over
him and he's loser by loser. But at the end of the day, you,
you will like still have this feeling of a connection of, of,
of that person, even though theymay have did you wrong.
So it's like takes two weeks to form a habit.
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Maybe it takes two weeks to deform a habit.
I thought it was 30 days. I.
Think 30 days. I think it is 30 days honestly,
because from experience I know you just can't forget about
somebody overnight. No, it's not.
And it's not easy if you and if you at one time or still do love
that person, it's it makes it more difficult.
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Even if you feel like you are soangry at them, you still like.
Very angry, but you still love them.
I mean, it's like, I don't know what's then you think of what
what's wrong with this person? What have they been through?
What made them this way? Can it be fixed or should you
just? Move.
Well, you don't want to. You don't want to go down that
fixing people route that doesn'tget anywhere good.
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But what about the fact of, you know, wait, what did you just
say before that? You said about what?
About fixing someone? Yeah.
Do you want to fix them? You said something else before
that. What was the thing you said
before that flat line for a second?
Oh my gosh. I know.
I don't know. I just feel like just this easy
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relationship. There's no easy answer.
Yeah, I guess it's a it's self, a self journey.
I think yeah, if you become likefriends with somebody first, you
know, opposite sex or whatever you are and you know, that
relationship to me is more solidand more of a promising non
threat relationship that could blossom into something then
coming out and saying let's go on a date.
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Like, I mean, I would be feel more open to hearing somebody
say that to me then having them like, hey, you want to go to
dinner and go on a date, Then I feel like the pressure's on.
The pressure's on. And then if I don't like you or
if we don't have any connection or chemistry, I'm going to tell
you the truth right up the bat. And then you're going to get
butt hurt. And then all of a sudden we
could have been friends. But now you kind of don't like
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me because you think I'm a bitchbecause I don't like you.
I mean, sad but true. That's a vicious cycle.
It is a cycle. It's just how it's become.
I mean, yeah. I think we want it that way, but
that's just the way it is. That's, that's just the way it
is. Something's never changed.
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That's just the way it is. It is what it is.
But I don't know, I, I don't know why I just constantly get
asked all the time to, you know,do you have a boyfriend or are
you marriage or are you really, you know, are you single or
this? And I, as much as I I appreciate
compliments and stuff, I hate getting asked that question all
the time because sometimes I am kind of talking to somebody and
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I don't want that exposed publicly because I don't know if
it's a stable thing yet. Like I don't want to, I don't
want to come out and publicly. Say.
Right. I want to make sure that whoever
I'm with is like a solid, stableperson, and then I would be more
public about it. But why put myself and whoever
I'm kind of talking to out therein public when it's going to
flake away or something? Then I look like I just go
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through men like 988 times, Yeah.
Well, see the man. See the Man.
Do the math, do the math. Speaking of some sort of math,
Bushwhacker over here has put together some Valentine's
chocolates over here since she is the chef of all fucking
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chefs, I tell you that. I mean, she made these egg rolls
tonight that were like, whoa, you would think she's like Asian
or some shit. A little bit.
I mean, but taller. Then she came out with these
strawberries, not chocolate. Like it's vanilla, it's vanilla,
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vanilla chocolate. It's vanilla chocolate, right?
It's. A.
It is a hard candy shell that isa vanilla flavored.
Vanilla flavored? Is it still considered
chocolate? I don't know, but it's a.
It's a. It's white chocolate.
There you go. Yeah, white chocolate.
It could be white chocolate. We'll go with that.
It's white chocolate. She had white chocolate
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strawberries, my neighbor, the big ones too, They weren't like
this tiny little like like all the other fruit that is coming
out in the produce section. It's like all these like
miniature little like oranges. You got like these big lahuna
strawberries and I. Wanted some when I want some
strawberries, yeah. When you want something big, you
want it big. I just go get it myself, damn
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it. But you literally put the choc
or the white chocolate around itand melted it on it perfectly
that it reminds me of this chocolate like company in
Pennsylvania called Polacos. And they made this sponge
chocolate can't sponge candy or something.
It would RIP out one of your teeth.
You got me. It's one of those ones that
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would RIP out. Yeah.
Like if you had a filling in there, goodbye, You know, it
would RIP it out. It's so good.
But they would make chocolate covered strawberries for
Valentine's Day and all that. And totally reminded me of that
when you when you brought that over.
I don't even know how you meltedthat on there.
I'm not going to. Tell you but did you it was like
you professional yeah it was smooth and everything is delish
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you'd. Be surprised that the things
that seemed so difficult, but yeah.
I know, right? They're not that difficult.
They're difficult for me. Yes, Debbie, I've seen you in
the kitchen. Everything is difficult.
I deserve. I belong back here in the
microphone. Yes, I will agree with that.
So we are going to be selling some last minute Valentine's
gifts or all y'all that are lastminute Valentine's shoppers
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which are most of all of us. And we have the secret sexy gift
boxes, which include a basicallya date night with a loved one or
date night with anyone yourself.And it comes with, it comes with
the whole kit for an intimate and sexy night.
It has like adult toys in it, has candles, has some
aromatherapy and has some like little cute little spa stuff in
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there. You know, everything's included
in the box for 50 bucks. And we also have free local
delivery. We have up to like, what is it
up to a couple miles for free? Yeah, for delivery up to 10
miles. I think so.
I thought we were only like 5. I don't know.
I don't know. There was 5 or 10.
Yeah, something like that. But there was. 1. 1.5 and then
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we have also the spa bags that are 25 bucks and those come with
like pampering and real. It's everything is super, super
cute. We have some also some flowers
and for Valentine's that you cangive.
They are like artificial flowersdecor.
Yes, they're very cute. And then Bushwhacker is going to
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come to the table with her chocolate covered strawberries
and the white ones, white chocolate, white, white
chocolate strawberries. What else are you doing?
Covered I can do it. Cheesecake Cheesecake red.
Velvet let's see my grandmother's chocolate chip
cookies. Nice.
They're really good and I think we're going to do this on
Wednesday, right? Yes.
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We're going to do it Wednesday. If you are in the Apollo Beach
or Ruskin area, come hit her. Yeah, we.
Will be. Somewhere we'll be on the
street. We'll be on the street corners,
baby. That sounds dangerous, but yeah,
we're going to have the other vaginas with us.
Miller Mac isn't getting me in the house.
She's got this balloon arch biz that is she's launching.
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Gosh, be with her with those fingernails.
Like she's like, I love doing this, but my fingernails are
like, I'm like, girl, I'll support you, but like, I can't
be tying of balloons like that. That's a lot of balloons to be
tying, but she's doing a good job with it.
But Bushfacker, I just feel thatthis conversation just kind of
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like, meh, you know? Well, yeah, cuz that's what it
is. Yeah.
Meh, just that. And.
Everybody wants to talk about it, but you know it's right
there in your face. So you have a choice to talk
about it. But.
It's a bunch of bullshit and it's bullshit.
And I don't want to deal. With it.
So you know what, losers out there in loser land, stay the
fuck away from us and stay in your lane over in loser land.
(40:11):
Because even when we are vulnerable, we're going to train
those bitches that are vulnerable not to come into your
loser lanes over there and get swamped up by your loser Ness.
Yeah, let's not. And you know who you are.
You're in one of you. If you think that she's too good
(40:31):
for you, then she's too good foryou.
If you think she's out of your league, she's out of your
league. Stay in your lane and lose her
land away from us. Know your role.
Know your role, bitch. This is Debbie Diaz reporting
live, featuring the vaginas and bushwacker.
It's always, always a blessed tohave you here with me.
Oh, thanks. And you're cooking just.
(40:51):
Like my strawberries? I like your berries.
Yes I do. Peace out, bitches, Peace out.
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