December 7, 2024 • 29 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Here's what's coming up on the show.
This is crazy that, like you'reout there flirting with women,
you know you have a very, very,very small dick and yet you're
out there flirting aroundthinking that you're going to
have this really fun wild night.
I think guys with small, micropenises are like wildly deluded
in what they think theirpossibilities are.
(00:22):
Because, like, what's going tohappen?
I know you're all horny andyou're excited in your mind what
they think their possibilitiesare.
Because, like, what's going tohappen I know you're all horny
and you're excited In your mind.
You think, like you're going tohave this nice fuck session
with this woman and stuff likethat.
But like, what are you doing?
This is the Venus Cuckoldrispodcast, a place to learn all
things cuckolding for thecurious, for the passionate and
(00:45):
for the sexually empowered womanwho wants it all.
Let's go.
Hello everybody, thanks so muchfor joining me on the show
(01:07):
today.
I'm your host, venus.
Let's go.
When fans get to call into theshow with their comment, their
question or their confession andit is always tons of fun If you
(01:28):
want to send in your comment,question or confession to the
show, you just go tovenuscuckledresscom, click on
the podcast link and there is alittle, just a little button
there that you just need topress and you have up to five
minutes to record and it mightbe used on the show.
But before that, before we jumpin, I just have a couple of
(01:51):
things to go over.
I'm going to be doing a livePillow Talk event on Crowdcast
with my friend, doc Chocolate.
This is going to be December19th at 1 pm Pacific, that's 4
pm Eastern, and this is going tobe a special, fun year-end
review.
So come with your questions, ifyou have them, come to enjoy
(02:12):
the laughs that I'm sure you'llhave, because it's always a ton
of fun when it's myself and DocChocolate together.
And we're going to be talkingabout what this year has been
like for us.
So that is December talkingabout what this year has been
like for us.
So that is December 19th a liveon Crowdcast.
It's not recorded.
(02:33):
Well, it is, but it's just.
The replays are available inthe Queens Quarters community
for the fan tiers if yousubscribe to those to support
the show.
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If you want to join for thislive event, you just have to go
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There'll be a little link whereyou can join and you'll get an
(02:56):
email reminder 10 minutes beforeit starts that it's about to
start, so you can join in on thefun that is Pillow Talk, the
last one of 2024.
And I just want to give a headsup to everybody.
I can't announce it yet becauseit's not quite ready, but it's
almost ready and I'm so excitedabout it.
So there is a big announcementcoming soon regarding the show
(03:20):
and I'm just like I can't waitto tell you guys but I can't yet
, so I'm just putting it outthere that there is something
exciting coming.
There is a new, excitingannouncement on the way, so stay
tuned for that.
Once I'm able to announce itreal, real soon, I'll announce
it on my social.
(03:40):
So that's Blue Sky.
My handle is at Cuckoldress Vor you can catch me on Instagram
, the Venus Cuckoldress podcast.
So yeah, that's where you'llhear.
I'm not on Twitter anymore.
I decided fuck Elon, I'm out ofthere.
So I joined the sexiness andwent to Blue Sky, which, by the
(04:01):
way, is fucking awesome.
I know I've talked about thison the show before, but, like,
went to Blue Sky which, by theway, is fucking awesome.
I know I've talked about thison the show before, but like,
what a great place so far.
I am loving it 100%.
Better than Twitter Overallnicer experience, great people,
lots of engagement.
It's just.
It's just got a vibe.
It's really.
It really does.
It's got a vibe.
Okay, that's it forannouncements.
(04:24):
Now let's jump into today'sConfessions episode.
Get ready, because here we go.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Hello, my name is Jeff and I'd like to know what
your thoughts on telling a womanthat you're small on the first
or second date, so that she'snot disappointed in the reveal.
I've had situations where womenhave accused me of letting them
(04:55):
fall in love with me beforethey actually saw my small dick
and thought it was dirty and abad move because now they had
feelings for me and they had todeal with my small dick.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Okay, first of all, let me just say, um, I know that
there's, like you know, bigdick energy that goes along with
it, like a nice deep voice, andit's very sexy with bulls and
stuff like that.
But there is definitely somesmall dick energy.
When it comes to Cox voices,you definitely have it, it's
like the Mike Tyson voice, butanyway, it's fine the way it is.
I'm just saying, I'm justpointing it out, like there's
(05:35):
something about your voice thatdefinitely just portrays the
small dick energy, which is,like I said, it's fine.
It's fine.
But I'm just saying, okay, do Ithink that you should come out
to your partner about your smalldick before she falls in love
with you?
Like, I think.
(05:56):
So I think that that would belike a good thing.
I mean, you know, if you have asmall dick, you know that
you're going to be lacking inthat department.
I mean, there's a lot of womenout there who are not size
queens, who don't mind a smallerdick.
But if you've got like a micropenis, like a little little
bitty, itty bitty dick, like alot of guys do, then yeah, you
(06:19):
need to, you need to saysomething.
It's not fair for you to justdrop it on her, like you know, a
few months into therelationship, pull down your
pants and be like here it is andshe's gonna have a reaction.
You know she is.
But for cucks I would say, likefor a lot of you small dick
(06:39):
cucks out there, you havelearned to compensate and learn
how to eat pussy like anabsolute champ, like learn how
to do outer course, basicallyeverything else to do with sex.
That's not dick in vagina ordick and ass, whatever, like
learning about all of the otherstuff.
I think having a small dick iskind of a good thing in some
(07:03):
ways, because it forces you toreally think outside of the box
of traditional, regular piv sexwhich, let's face it, a lot of
women are not getting off tohetero piv sex, but they are
getting off with other women.
So there are parts of our bodythat men need to learn how to be
(07:24):
good at satisfying and having asmall dick can make you do that
.
It can make you really good ateating pussy.
It could make you want to learnhow to do pussy massage or
sensual body massage.
It can help you learn how touse toys or a strap on or
whatever.
What do they call it?
Like a, a strap on or whatever.
(07:45):
What do they call it?
Like a dick extender orwhatever?
Like there's so many fun thingsthat you can learn if you have a
small dick that you have to belike OK, I'm going to learn how
to do this, you can learn how tobe a better lover.
This is going to be shockingThen, somebody who has a big
dick and just does PIV Because abig dick is great for a size
(08:07):
queen, it feels good andeverything.
It hits all the right spots andeverything like that.
But it is really a basic onetype of sex and there's so much
more out there available thatwomen desire we don't even know
it when, when it comes to sexthat you can be a much more
well-rounded lover if you justtake the time to explore all of
(08:31):
these other ways to have sex.
And so there you go.
I think that you should hintthat you are good at these other
things in bed, that you'velearned about all of these other
things like pussy massage andeating pussy and like toys and
all that you've tried all ofthese, that you're good at, that
you're very open-minded aboutlearning about these things, and
(08:53):
that her pleasure comes first,and but you should be saying
things.
Like you know, when it comes to, like, traditional penetration,
that's not been my strong suit,but I'm so good at all these
other things and that if you saythat that's going to make her,
oh OK, like I get it, you don'thave to just like flat out come
(09:16):
and say, like I have a micropenis, it's super small, I'm
never going to be able tosatisfy you.
I know that's like really hotfantasy talk, but, like when it
comes to a new relationship,it's probably like not the way
to say it.
So focus on all of the otherstuff that you've learned, all
the other skills that you'velearned, and drop those hints
(09:38):
instead.
Okay, next one.
Speaker 4 (10:04):
Hi Venus, first of all, I'd just like to thank, to
be involved in it, if they'renot already, and it just needs
to be more open, and I'm gladyou're able to do that on your
platforms.
But, that being said, I justhave a little story, a little
confession, I guess, that I wantto share.
(10:26):
It's probably the most.
I'll go with the most recentone.
I've had quite a few in my past, um, but this one I'll I'll use
just because it is the mostrecent, most fresh on my mind.
But, um, it was about six monthsago or so, um, so I had been,
you know, working all weekpretty hard and come Friday
(10:48):
night, uh, I figured, you know,I'd go out, go out alone to this
little dance club bar, whateveryou want to call it, and, uh,
have some drinks and, you know,maybe maybe get lucky Not sure,
but try my luck at least um, so,anyways, I go there and have a
(11:12):
few drinks and after a while, um, I'd say probably two or three
hours being there, um, this verygorgeous woman comes up to me
and she looks to be alone aswell, and, and, um, she kind of
just starts talking a little bitfrom a distance but gets a
(11:32):
little closer after a littlewhile and you know, we start
talking a little bit more, quitea bit, and get a little bit
closer, get a little more touchyfeely and, um, you know, what
she's wearing is just killing medown there, because it's sure,
you know, breasts are basicallypopping out of her shirt.
You can tell she's not wearinga bra.
(11:54):
Anyway, it's just very gorgeous, very much a tease in a sense,
but we were kind of hitting itoff, doing really good and
anyways, um, obviously I knew mysize down there, which I'm.
I can say I'm well, well, wellbelow average.
(12:15):
Um, and some I've just learnedto deal with and, uh, have been
very rare occasions where I'veactually gotten a girl to bed
just because I'm actually gottena girl to bed, just because I'm
so nervous about them seeing it, and the ones that have seen it
(12:39):
basically not talk to meafterwards anyways.
So I'm always scared when itcomes to that part, but anyways,
so eventually she does kind ofreach down there, kind of get a
little grabby and you can tellshe's really trying to grab for
it.
Um, and I was wearing prettytight jeans, so it's not like,
(13:03):
you know, if I did havesomething really big down there.
Then she, she would have feltit right away, but she kept
reaching for it, kept reachingfor it.
Um, it was pretty muchunsuccessful, uh, anyway.
So a little bit after that,probably about 30 minutes after
that part, there's this blackman that comes over to our
(13:26):
little table at the kind of astandup table and, um, they kind
of start talking and stuff, andshe's pretty tipsy at this
moment.
So she kind of goes over to himand does the same thing and I
mean you can clearly pretty muchsee his down there.
He's wearing some light coloredjeans and yeah, it's, yeah, you
(13:49):
can clearly see it.
So, pretty much from that pointon, she stayed with him.
She told me multiple times togo get them drinks.
Um, basically, from from thatpoint on, like I knew I lost her
to the superior guy, um,something I've dealt with pretty
(14:10):
much my whole life.
And and, yeah, there was angerbecause I was like dang, I was
gonna score, but I was extremelyturned on, extremely excited,
knowing that she's probablygonna have some amazing sex that
I definitely couldn't provideher.
I, I was, yeah, I was angry,but I mean to what I am and it
(14:32):
made my night really, I lovedevery bit of it.
So yeah, here's my confession,thank you.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
Oh, I just love this story and you know what I think
a lot of guys out there canrelate the losing the woman to
the black guy thing who's got abigger dick and everything like
this.
So this is like the essence ofso many cuck fantasies not all
include the interracial aspect,but this, the the basis of it,
is definitely the cuck fantasyof missing out, losing out on
(15:04):
this potential experience withthis woman and that being such a
turn on.
Let me just say that what she'sdoing is such like a fun,
flirty thing and I'm glad thatshe feels safe to do that.
But like, if, like, let's justface it like it's not normally a
very safe place for women to dothat to random guys.
(15:30):
Like I think and this is partof the reason why, for me anyway
and for many women, this ishard for us to get into the
whole small penis humiliationthing because, let's face it,
it's a very dangerous thing toreject a guy based on the size
of his dick.
So if he's got a small dick, toreject him for, that can be
(15:52):
extremely dangerous.
Rejecting a guy just as it iscan be extremely dangerous for
women.
How many times do you hearabout this happening where you
know the guy really wants thegirl and she flirts with him and
then she, you know, says no, Idon't want to have sex with you,
and he goes into a wild rageand kills her.
This is like a thing.
So it's dangerous enough to dothat.
(16:13):
But to do it upon the basis ofhis dick being too small is is
especially hard for some guys toaccept.
Luckily, our lovely cucks outthere find it a turn on.
It's enjoyable, it's fun.
It hurts but it's enjoyable,and thank God for cucks out
there.
Thank you for not going into ajealous rage and flipping out
(16:38):
and trying to kill people.
So this is why I love cucks somuch.
I mean, I love the way thatyour mind works.
Instead of like turningsomething that could be, you
know, detrimental to your ego,you turn it into something that
is such a turn on and I fuckinglove that about you.
So thank you for that.
But it's a cute story.
(17:01):
I love how he said he could seethe size of the guy's crotch,
like through his jeans and yeah,this is definitely a thing and
how she was doing like the handtest.
I love that.
My friend Anne, she does thehand test every time she meets
up with a new bull.
It's part of her thing.
She just wants to make surethat he's packing what he says
(17:25):
he's packing, and that testworks for her every time.
So it is a thing that us ladiesit's a little trick that us
ladies use to figure out whatwe're dealing with.
Sometimes you don't even need ahand test.
You just sit on his lap andyou're like holy shit, like
that's a lot.
But I love how instantly thisguy felt defeat in the fact that
(17:50):
he knew that he was not, thatthis, this thing was not going
to happen.
But going back to what I saidearlier, I mean this is crazy
that like you're out thereflirting with women, you know
you have a very, very, very,very small dick.
Like you know you have a really, really small dick and yet
you're out there flirting aroundthinking that you're gonna have
this really fun wild night.
(18:11):
I think guys with small micropenises are like wildly deluded
in in what they think theirpossibilities are because like
what's gonna you, what's gonnahappen?
I know you're all horny andyou're excited in your mind.
You think, like you's gonna youwhat's gonna happen.
I know you're all horny andyou're excited in your mind.
You think, like you're gonnahave this nice fuck session with
this woman and stuff like that.
But like, what are you doing?
You know that at some point youhave to get naked and you have
(18:36):
to show what you have to offer,and it's not gonna be good, it's
just not.
The reaction is not gonna begood and you're gonna put her in
an awkward situation becauseshe is, like I said, this is
gonna be dangerous to to say tohim, to say anything to him and
(18:58):
be like, oh you know, I actuallydon't want to fuck with you
because your dick's too small.
Like you do that and you couldpossibly get killed like that.
And so what are you going to do?
You're going to put her in thissituation where she just got to
kind of like pretend that thisis OK and that's not cool.
So I had this friend, jay, andthis was way back when I first
(19:20):
learned about chastityno-transcript.
(19:49):
He was getting all these tinderdates because he's a good
looking guy and andunfortunately, like I, was just
like, what are you doing?
Like you know that this is notgoing to, it's not going to pan
out for you, and but he wouldstill go out and then he would
he like hooking up with thesewomen and stuff.
And he's like he's like I thinkshe liked it.
(20:11):
No, she was faking it justbecause this is an unsafe
situation for her to be in, tonot fake it.
And he was like just so guttedwhen I said that.
But I'm like this is the truth.
Like what are you gonna do withthis little, tiny little thing?
(20:31):
I mean it's not gonna be funfor her.
I don't think there's any.
I mean, like I said, smalldicks are one thing, but like
micro penises are really fuckingsmall.
So so anyway, I was like whatdo you think you're going to do
in this situation?
Are you really going to be ableto be going out and hooking up
and having this like great time?
(20:51):
You are, because she's going tofake it and she's not going to
have a good time telling youwhat.
You're going out there makingsome bad fucking memories for
these women and that's not cool,like that's pretty selfish.
Anyway, that part of this storykind of reminded me of that,
where he was talking about likeoh yeah, I thought I was going
to go out and hook up with thiswoman and have this like great
(21:13):
sex.
I'm like, after you just saidthat you had like the very
smallest dick.
I'm like what are you thinking?
This makes no sense to me.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
this is delusional.
Hi, venus, thank you for thisopportunity.
Um, my confession is that myobsession with interracial
cuckolding began when I was incollege, when I told the woman
that I was dating, who actuallyhappened to be my key holder,
that I was rejected by the girlthat I was obsessed with in high
(21:50):
school and that she chose todate a black athlete instead of
me.
My college girlfriend and I hadthis arrangement where, in
exchange for being released fromchastity, I would do something
for her, usually a bit degrading, and after I told her about my
crush, my girlfriend found thegirl's only fan page and, in
(22:15):
exchange for releasing me fromchastity, she told me I had to
pay for it and watch everysingle video along with her.
I absolutely fell apart andcried while doing that, and it
was the most emotional night ofmy life.
Speaker 1 (22:33):
Ever since then, I've been obsessed with those videos
and the cold, dagger feeling ofhumiliation that just shatters
my composure and it makes me soaroused first let me just say,
like she's a mean bitch, likethat was pretty mean thing for
(22:55):
her to do, but I guess that'slike the dynamic of the
relationship is very much likethe power dynamic and the BDSM
kind of stuff, and so I get thatlike, I get that the mean tasks
are great for the guys whoreally love that kind of
humiliation.
But I don't know, every time Ihear about like a cuck going
(23:19):
through like the most intensecuck angst that he cries, every
time I hear about that I'm likeI worry, like is this, is this
something that's like hurtful?
Is this something that's mean?
Like I just is there a linethat's been crossed?
But then I always think, likeokay, maybe this is just tears
that represent like just animmense amount of emotion that's
(23:43):
spilling out and that I canunderstand.
But this is where, like, Ireally wonder about whether or
not there's a healthy balance inthis, in these kinds of
dynamics.
Like, is there a balancebetween?
I know there's a balancebetween like OK, this he said,
like it's it's very humiliatingas a dagger feeling in his heart
(24:05):
but is also an extreme turn on.
So I know that there's abalance between that but between
, like the real negativefeelings.
Is there a balance of happinessand joy in the relationship as
well?
Like I just wonder about thatbecause I don't hear about that
part of it.
So I don't really know, and Ijust hope that these kinds of
(24:29):
cuckolding relationshipsalthough you know both parties
are consenting and and that thisis something that each of them
enjoys, and she likes to becruel and he loves it when she's
cruel, and the more mean tasksthere are that, the better.
That I, as you know I, theneverything is okay.
But like I don't know, I just Iwonder.
(24:50):
It makes me wonder are arethese people happy still?
Like is there still some joy?
Is there still some love?
Like are we good?
Like do we need to check inthose kind of things?
I don't know, because, like I,I get that these like really
humiliating fantasies are so hotand like such a turn on and
(25:10):
whatever.
Like guys really fucking getoff on that, but at what point
are we starting to cause sometrauma or some damage and at
what point is it no longer funand games?
So I don't know.
I just feel like we need tojust have some caution around
that and recognize that it's hot, but still, this is a real
(25:33):
relationship, are we good?
You know that kind of thing.
That's going to be it fortoday's episode.
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Fuck Twitter.
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All right, that's it fortoday's show.
You guys, we'll see you nexttime.
Bye.
Here's what's coming up on the show.
This is crazy that, like you'reout there flirting with women,
you know you have a very, very,very small dick and yet you're
out there flirting aroundthinking that you're going to
have this really fun wild night.
I think guys with small, micropenises are like wildly deluded
in what they think theirpossibilities are.
(00:22):
Because, like, what's going tohappen?
I know you're all horny andyou're excited in your mind what
they think their possibilitiesare.
Because, like, what's going tohappen I know you're all horny
and you're excited In your mind.
You think, like you're going tohave this nice fuck session
with this woman and stuff likethat.
But like, what are you doing?
This is the Venus Cuckoldrispodcast, a place to learn all
things cuckolding for thecurious, for the passionate and
(00:45):
for the sexually empowered womanwho wants it all.
Let's go.
Hello everybody, thanks so muchfor joining me on the show
(01:07):
today.
I'm your host, venus.
Let's go.
When fans get to call into theshow with their comment, their
question or their confession andit is always tons of fun If you
(01:28):
want to send in your comment,question or confession to the
show, you just go tovenuscuckledresscom, click on
the podcast link and there is alittle, just a little button
there that you just need topress and you have up to five
minutes to record and it mightbe used on the show.
But before that, before we jumpin, I just have a couple of
(01:51):
things to go over.
I'm going to be doing a livePillow Talk event on Crowdcast
with my friend, doc Chocolate.
This is going to be December19th at 1 pm Pacific, that's 4
pm Eastern, and this is going tobe a special, fun year-end
review.
So come with your questions, ifyou have them, come to enjoy
(02:12):
the laughs that I'm sure you'llhave, because it's always a ton
of fun when it's myself and DocChocolate together.
And we're going to be talkingabout what this year has been
like for us.
So that is December talkingabout what this year has been
like for us.
So that is December 19th a liveon Crowdcast.
It's not recorded.
(02:33):
Well, it is, but it's just.
The replays are available inthe Queens Quarters community
for the fan tiers if yousubscribe to those to support
the show.
So catch it live if you can, orbecome a fan tier member to be
able to watch the replay.
If you want to join for thislive event, you just have to go
to venuscuckledresscom, click onthe events page.
There'll be a little link whereyou can join and you'll get an
(02:56):
email reminder 10 minutes beforeit starts that it's about to
start, so you can join in on thefun that is Pillow Talk, the
last one of 2024.
And I just want to give a headsup to everybody.
I can't announce it yet becauseit's not quite ready, but it's
almost ready and I'm so excitedabout it.
So there is a big announcementcoming soon regarding the show
(03:20):
and I'm just like I can't waitto tell you guys but I can't yet
, so I'm just putting it outthere that there is something
exciting coming.
There is a new, excitingannouncement on the way, so stay
tuned for that.
Once I'm able to announce itreal, real soon, I'll announce
it on my social.
(03:40):
So that's Blue Sky.
My handle is at Cuckoldress Vor you can catch me on Instagram
, the Venus Cuckoldress podcast.
So yeah, that's where you'llhear.
I'm not on Twitter anymore.
I decided fuck Elon, I'm out ofthere.
So I joined the sexiness andwent to Blue Sky, which, by the
(04:01):
way, is fucking awesome.
I know I've talked about thison the show before, but, like,
went to Blue Sky which, by theway, is fucking awesome.
I know I've talked about thison the show before, but like,
what a great place so far.
I am loving it 100%.
Better than Twitter Overallnicer experience, great people,
lots of engagement.
It's just.
It's just got a vibe.
It's really.
It really does.
It's got a vibe.
Okay, that's it forannouncements.
(04:24):
Now let's jump into today'sConfessions episode.
Get ready, because here we go.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Hello, my name is Jeff and I'd like to know what
your thoughts on telling a womanthat you're small on the first
or second date, so that she'snot disappointed in the reveal.
I've had situations where womenhave accused me of letting them
(04:55):
fall in love with me beforethey actually saw my small dick
and thought it was dirty and abad move because now they had
feelings for me and they had todeal with my small dick.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Okay, first of all, let me just say, um, I know that
there's, like you know, bigdick energy that goes along with
it, like a nice deep voice, andit's very sexy with bulls and
stuff like that.
But there is definitely somesmall dick energy.
When it comes to Cox voices,you definitely have it, it's
like the Mike Tyson voice, butanyway, it's fine the way it is.
I'm just saying, I'm justpointing it out, like there's
(05:35):
something about your voice thatdefinitely just portrays the
small dick energy, which is,like I said, it's fine.
It's fine.
But I'm just saying, okay, do Ithink that you should come out
to your partner about your smalldick before she falls in love
with you?
Like, I think.
(05:56):
So I think that that would belike a good thing.
I mean, you know, if you have asmall dick, you know that
you're going to be lacking inthat department.
I mean, there's a lot of womenout there who are not size
queens, who don't mind a smallerdick.
But if you've got like a micropenis, like a little little
bitty, itty bitty dick, like alot of guys do, then yeah, you
(06:19):
need to, you need to saysomething.
It's not fair for you to justdrop it on her, like you know, a
few months into therelationship, pull down your
pants and be like here it is andshe's gonna have a reaction.
You know she is.
But for cucks I would say, likefor a lot of you small dick
(06:39):
cucks out there, you havelearned to compensate and learn
how to eat pussy like anabsolute champ, like learn how
to do outer course, basicallyeverything else to do with sex.
That's not dick in vagina ordick and ass, whatever, like
learning about all of the otherstuff.
I think having a small dick iskind of a good thing in some
(07:03):
ways, because it forces you toreally think outside of the box
of traditional, regular piv sexwhich, let's face it, a lot of
women are not getting off tohetero piv sex, but they are
getting off with other women.
So there are parts of our bodythat men need to learn how to be
(07:24):
good at satisfying and having asmall dick can make you do that
.
It can make you really good ateating pussy.
It could make you want to learnhow to do pussy massage or
sensual body massage.
It can help you learn how touse toys or a strap on or
whatever.
What do they call it?
Like a, a strap on or whatever.
(07:45):
What do they call it?
Like a dick extender orwhatever?
Like there's so many fun thingsthat you can learn if you have a
small dick that you have to belike OK, I'm going to learn how
to do this, you can learn how tobe a better lover.
This is going to be shockingThen, somebody who has a big
dick and just does PIV Because abig dick is great for a size
(08:07):
queen, it feels good andeverything.
It hits all the right spots andeverything like that.
But it is really a basic onetype of sex and there's so much
more out there available thatwomen desire we don't even know
it when, when it comes to sexthat you can be a much more
well-rounded lover if you justtake the time to explore all of
(08:31):
these other ways to have sex.
And so there you go.
I think that you should hintthat you are good at these other
things in bed, that you'velearned about all of these other
things like pussy massage andeating pussy and like toys and
all that you've tried all ofthese, that you're good at, that
you're very open-minded aboutlearning about these things, and
(08:53):
that her pleasure comes first,and but you should be saying
things.
Like you know, when it comes to, like, traditional penetration,
that's not been my strong suit,but I'm so good at all these
other things and that if you saythat that's going to make her,
oh OK, like I get it, you don'thave to just like flat out come
(09:16):
and say, like I have a micropenis, it's super small, I'm
never going to be able tosatisfy you.
I know that's like really hotfantasy talk, but, like when it
comes to a new relationship,it's probably like not the way
to say it.
So focus on all of the otherstuff that you've learned, all
the other skills that you'velearned, and drop those hints
(09:38):
instead.
Okay, next one.
Speaker 4 (10:04):
Hi Venus, first of all, I'd just like to thank, to
be involved in it, if they'renot already, and it just needs
to be more open, and I'm gladyou're able to do that on your
platforms.
But, that being said, I justhave a little story, a little
confession, I guess, that I wantto share.
(10:26):
It's probably the most.
I'll go with the most recentone.
I've had quite a few in my past, um, but this one I'll I'll use
just because it is the mostrecent, most fresh on my mind.
But, um, it was about six monthsago or so, um, so I had been,
you know, working all weekpretty hard and come Friday
(10:48):
night, uh, I figured, you know,I'd go out, go out alone to this
little dance club bar, whateveryou want to call it, and, uh,
have some drinks and, you know,maybe maybe get lucky Not sure,
but try my luck at least um, so,anyways, I go there and have a
(11:12):
few drinks and after a while, um, I'd say probably two or three
hours being there, um, this verygorgeous woman comes up to me
and she looks to be alone aswell, and, and, um, she kind of
just starts talking a little bitfrom a distance but gets a
(11:32):
little closer after a littlewhile and you know, we start
talking a little bit more, quitea bit, and get a little bit
closer, get a little more touchyfeely and, um, you know, what
she's wearing is just killing medown there, because it's sure,
you know, breasts are basicallypopping out of her shirt.
You can tell she's not wearinga bra.
(11:54):
Anyway, it's just very gorgeous, very much a tease in a sense,
but we were kind of hitting itoff, doing really good and
anyways, um, obviously I knew mysize down there, which I'm.
I can say I'm well, well, wellbelow average.
(12:15):
Um, and some I've just learnedto deal with and, uh, have been
very rare occasions where I'veactually gotten a girl to bed
just because I'm actually gottena girl to bed, just because I'm
so nervous about them seeing it, and the ones that have seen it
(12:39):
basically not talk to meafterwards anyways.
So I'm always scared when itcomes to that part, but anyways,
so eventually she does kind ofreach down there, kind of get a
little grabby and you can tellshe's really trying to grab for
it.
Um, and I was wearing prettytight jeans, so it's not like,
(13:03):
you know, if I did havesomething really big down there.
Then she, she would have feltit right away, but she kept
reaching for it, kept reachingfor it.
Um, it was pretty muchunsuccessful, uh, anyway.
So a little bit after that,probably about 30 minutes after
that part, there's this blackman that comes over to our
(13:26):
little table at the kind of astandup table and, um, they kind
of start talking and stuff, andshe's pretty tipsy at this
moment.
So she kind of goes over to himand does the same thing and I
mean you can clearly pretty muchsee his down there.
He's wearing some light coloredjeans and yeah, it's, yeah, you
(13:49):
can clearly see it.
So, pretty much from that pointon, she stayed with him.
She told me multiple times togo get them drinks.
Um, basically, from from thatpoint on, like I knew I lost her
to the superior guy, um,something I've dealt with pretty
(14:10):
much my whole life.
And and, yeah, there was angerbecause I was like dang, I was
gonna score, but I was extremelyturned on, extremely excited,
knowing that she's probablygonna have some amazing sex that
I definitely couldn't provideher.
I, I was, yeah, I was angry,but I mean to what I am and it
(14:32):
made my night really, I lovedevery bit of it.
So yeah, here's my confession,thank you.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
Oh, I just love this story and you know what I think
a lot of guys out there canrelate the losing the woman to
the black guy thing who's got abigger dick and everything like
this.
So this is like the essence ofso many cuck fantasies not all
include the interracial aspect,but this, the the basis of it,
is definitely the cuck fantasyof missing out, losing out on
(15:04):
this potential experience withthis woman and that being such a
turn on.
Let me just say that what she'sdoing is such like a fun,
flirty thing and I'm glad thatshe feels safe to do that.
But like, if, like, let's justface it like it's not normally a
very safe place for women to dothat to random guys.
(15:30):
Like I think and this is partof the reason why, for me anyway
and for many women, this ishard for us to get into the
whole small penis humiliationthing because, let's face it,
it's a very dangerous thing toreject a guy based on the size
of his dick.
So if he's got a small dick, toreject him for, that can be
(15:52):
extremely dangerous.
Rejecting a guy just as it iscan be extremely dangerous for
women.
How many times do you hearabout this happening where you
know the guy really wants thegirl and she flirts with him and
then she, you know, says no, Idon't want to have sex with you,
and he goes into a wild rageand kills her.
This is like a thing.
So it's dangerous enough to dothat.
(16:13):
But to do it upon the basis ofhis dick being too small is is
especially hard for some guys toaccept.
Luckily, our lovely cucks outthere find it a turn on.
It's enjoyable, it's fun.
It hurts but it's enjoyable,and thank God for cucks out
there.
Thank you for not going into ajealous rage and flipping out
(16:38):
and trying to kill people.
So this is why I love cucks somuch.
I mean, I love the way thatyour mind works.
Instead of like turningsomething that could be, you
know, detrimental to your ego,you turn it into something that
is such a turn on and I fuckinglove that about you.
So thank you for that.
But it's a cute story.
(17:01):
I love how he said he could seethe size of the guy's crotch,
like through his jeans and yeah,this is definitely a thing and
how she was doing like the handtest.
I love that.
My friend Anne, she does thehand test every time she meets
up with a new bull.
It's part of her thing.
She just wants to make surethat he's packing what he says
(17:25):
he's packing, and that testworks for her every time.
So it is a thing that us ladiesit's a little trick that us
ladies use to figure out whatwe're dealing with.
Sometimes you don't even need ahand test.
You just sit on his lap andyou're like holy shit, like
that's a lot.
But I love how instantly thisguy felt defeat in the fact that
(17:50):
he knew that he was not, thatthis, this thing was not going
to happen.
But going back to what I saidearlier, I mean this is crazy
that like you're out thereflirting with women, you know
you have a very, very, very,very small dick.
Like you know you have a really, really small dick and yet
you're out there flirting aroundthinking that you're gonna have
this really fun wild night.
(18:11):
I think guys with small micropenises are like wildly deluded
in in what they think theirpossibilities are because like
what's gonna you, what's gonnahappen?
I know you're all horny andyou're excited in your mind.
You think, like you's gonna youwhat's gonna happen.
I know you're all horny andyou're excited in your mind.
You think, like you're gonnahave this nice fuck session with
this woman and stuff like that.
But like, what are you doing?
You know that at some point youhave to get naked and you have
(18:36):
to show what you have to offer,and it's not gonna be good, it's
just not.
The reaction is not gonna begood and you're gonna put her in
an awkward situation becauseshe is, like I said, this is
gonna be dangerous to to say tohim, to say anything to him and
(18:58):
be like, oh you know, I actuallydon't want to fuck with you
because your dick's too small.
Like you do that and you couldpossibly get killed like that.
And so what are you going to do?
You're going to put her in thissituation where she just got to
kind of like pretend that thisis OK and that's not cool.
So I had this friend, jay, andthis was way back when I first
(19:20):
learned about chastityno-transcript.
(19:49):
He was getting all these tinderdates because he's a good
looking guy and andunfortunately, like I, was just
like, what are you doing?
Like you know that this is notgoing to, it's not going to pan
out for you, and but he wouldstill go out and then he would
he like hooking up with thesewomen and stuff.
And he's like he's like I thinkshe liked it.
(20:11):
No, she was faking it justbecause this is an unsafe
situation for her to be in, tonot fake it.
And he was like just so guttedwhen I said that.
But I'm like this is the truth.
Like what are you gonna do withthis little, tiny little thing?
(20:31):
I mean it's not gonna be funfor her.
I don't think there's any.
I mean, like I said, smalldicks are one thing, but like
micro penises are really fuckingsmall.
So so anyway, I was like whatdo you think you're going to do
in this situation?
Are you really going to be ableto be going out and hooking up
and having this like great time?
(20:51):
You are, because she's going tofake it and she's not going to
have a good time telling youwhat.
You're going out there makingsome bad fucking memories for
these women and that's not cool,like that's pretty selfish.
Anyway, that part of this storykind of reminded me of that,
where he was talking about likeoh yeah, I thought I was going
to go out and hook up with thiswoman and have this like great
(21:13):
sex.
I'm like, after you just saidthat you had like the very
smallest dick.
I'm like what are you thinking?
This makes no sense to me.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
this is delusional.
Hi, venus, thank you for thisopportunity.
Um, my confession is that myobsession with interracial
cuckolding began when I was incollege, when I told the woman
that I was dating, who actuallyhappened to be my key holder,
that I was rejected by the girlthat I was obsessed with in high
(21:50):
school and that she chose todate a black athlete instead of
me.
My college girlfriend and I hadthis arrangement where, in
exchange for being released fromchastity, I would do something
for her, usually a bit degrading, and after I told her about my
crush, my girlfriend found thegirl's only fan page and, in
(22:15):
exchange for releasing me fromchastity, she told me I had to
pay for it and watch everysingle video along with her.
I absolutely fell apart andcried while doing that, and it
was the most emotional night ofmy life.
Speaker 1 (22:33):
Ever since then, I've been obsessed with those videos
and the cold, dagger feeling ofhumiliation that just shatters
my composure and it makes me soaroused first let me just say,
like she's a mean bitch, likethat was pretty mean thing for
(22:55):
her to do, but I guess that'slike the dynamic of the
relationship is very much likethe power dynamic and the BDSM
kind of stuff, and so I get thatlike, I get that the mean tasks
are great for the guys whoreally love that kind of
humiliation.
But I don't know, every time Ihear about like a cuck going
(23:19):
through like the most intensecuck angst that he cries, every
time I hear about that I'm likeI worry, like is this, is this
something that's like hurtful?
Is this something that's mean?
Like I just is there a linethat's been crossed?
But then I always think, likeokay, maybe this is just tears
that represent like just animmense amount of emotion that's
(23:43):
spilling out and that I canunderstand.
But this is where, like, Ireally wonder about whether or
not there's a healthy balance inthis, in these kinds of
dynamics.
Like, is there a balancebetween?
I know there's a balancebetween like OK, this he said,
like it's it's very humiliatingas a dagger feeling in his heart
(24:05):
but is also an extreme turn on.
So I know that there's abalance between that but between
, like the real negativefeelings.
Is there a balance of happinessand joy in the relationship as
well?
Like I just wonder about thatbecause I don't hear about that
part of it.
So I don't really know, and Ijust hope that these kinds of
(24:29):
cuckolding relationshipsalthough you know both parties
are consenting and and that thisis something that each of them
enjoys, and she likes to becruel and he loves it when she's
cruel, and the more mean tasksthere are that, the better.
That I, as you know I, theneverything is okay.
But like I don't know, I just Iwonder.
(24:50):
It makes me wonder are arethese people happy still?
Like is there still some joy?
Is there still some love?
Like are we good?
Like do we need to check inthose kind of things?
I don't know, because, like I,I get that these like really
humiliating fantasies are so hotand like such a turn on and
(25:10):
whatever.
Like guys really fucking getoff on that, but at what point
are we starting to cause sometrauma or some damage and at
what point is it no longer funand games?
So I don't know.
I just feel like we need tojust have some caution around
that and recognize that it's hot, but still, this is a real
(25:33):
relationship, are we good?
You know that kind of thing.
That's going to be it fortoday's episode.
You so much for joining me.
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That's where you can book aprivate chat with me and you can
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