August 3, 2024 • 53 mins
The QoS hot girl summer theme continues with Harmoni Kalifornia!
Harmoni Kalifornia, an adult film star known for her Queen of Spades cuckolding content is back on the show to share her incredible journey from meeting her partner Pip in a strip club to becoming a prominent figure in the interracial cuckolding scene. Venus and Harmoni discuss the intricacies of transitioning from private enjoyment to professional content creation, along with the influential role that Tumblr played in popularizing this niche lifestyle.
Listen in us as she delves into the complexities of maintaining multiple romantic relationships with balance, communication, and self-care. From ethical challenges in the adult film industry to the dynamics of a "side cuck" and the unique allure of black men within this lifestyle, this episode offers a candid look at what it takes to succeed both personally and professionally in this complex lifestyle.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Here's what's coming up on the show.
So this might be a reallystupid question.
Probably is, but do you eversleep with a white guy?
When you get sent a reallygreat or if you just happen upon
a really great BBC dick pic,what's the first thing that goes
(00:23):
through your mind?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
How it will feel in my pussy Like how, like that's
going to stretch.
You know that's going to goreally deep.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
This is the Venus Cuckoldris podcast A place to
learn all things cuckolding forthe curious, for the passionate
and for the sexually empoweredwoman who wants it all.
Let's go.
(01:03):
Welcome to the show everyone.
I'm your host, venus.
Thanks for joining me today.
Let's go event.
There's some really, really goodstuff in here.
(01:23):
She's so awesome.
I love really digging in withher and understanding her
incredible Queen of Spadeslifestyle and her marriage with
Pip.
Some of my favorite parts ofthis show today include what it
was like for her to transitioninto a Queen of Spades lifestyle
with her partner, pip and whatthat was like if there were any
(01:46):
challenges involved in that.
And we talked about what it waslike for her to go pro so start
to create content for a careerand the challenges around that.
We also talked about side cucks, friends with cuck benefits.
We hit on polyamory as wellCuck's Friends with Cuck
(02:07):
Benefits.
We hit on polyamory as well,and we talked a little bit about
bibles and cuckholding and whatit's like to have a pussy-free
cuck husband.
So we touched on a lot fortoday's show.
This one really goes deep.
It was free for people to beable to watch this live.
There is the video, uneditedvideo replay available to all of
(02:28):
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(02:53):
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on the events page and then ohyeah, before I forget, tuesday
(03:14):
August 13th, I'm going to bedoing a live chat in the Queens
Quarters community.
This one's free for anybody tojoin and the topic is going to
be interracial.
Specifically, what I want to dois ask people what is the
gravitational pull that blackmen have in the interracial
cuckolding lifestyle?
I know what it's like for me,and I've talked about that
(03:36):
before what the pull is forhaving black bulls as partners.
But I just really want to know,especially from Cucks and from
other ladies as well, butespecially from Cucks.
I want to know what do youthink is the pull?
What's so enticing aboutinterracial cuckolding?
So that's Tuesday, august 13th,mark your calendars.
(03:58):
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Now, before we jump into theshowa couple of things.
So yes, recently you may havenoticed on my socials I I went
(04:21):
on a trip to Las Vegas and itwas so fucking fun and I will be
going into detail about thattrip in an upcoming episode and
it was just fucking amazing.
So I have friends who theywanted to renew their vows and
they wanted to do it in a kindof lifestyle setting slash party
(04:43):
and I got the invite to go andit was pretty incredible.
And I went to the event withGrunky.
He's been on the show beforeand he's probably, like you know
, cuck level 3000.
But I went with him.
We had such a great time.
So I can't wait to talk aboutthis on a future episode.
(05:05):
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.
They are safe for work and theyare available in the Queen's
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So if you support the show andyou are in that supporter tier,
you can actually have a look atthose pictures.
But yes, I was also updating myweekend as it happened in the
(05:28):
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And yeah, like I said, it wasfucking really memorable.
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All right, let's jump into it.
So we're going to be talkingabout our fucking love for black
men, and I will just start outby saying that a long time ago,
(07:43):
when I very first started inthis lifestyle even before I
think it might have been evenbefore I started blogging
somebody I was talking to thiscuck and he was saying that,
like, harmony, california is thereason why he got into
interracial.
That's where his interest camefrom and that's why I was like,
oh, okay, um, I don't know whothat is, but I remembered the
(08:06):
name.
And so when I came across you,I was like, oh, she's a legend,
like she's been around since dayone, like she's the OG here,
and so I was like so excited toget to know you and to meet you
and everything like that.
And then we chatted for thepodcast and then we met.
We met in person in Houston at,of all places, splash Mocha
(08:29):
Hotel Takeover event, which wasso fun.
We met twice there actually.
You went two years, yeah, andyou went back a while like the
second time around.
It was so much fun.
So, anyway, we'll talk.
We'll definitely talk aboutthat.
Welcome to Pillow Talk, harmony.
(08:50):
Do you want to just do a quickintroduction about who you are
and what you do to the peoplewho are listening?
Speaker 2 (08:56):
For those of you not familiar with you Hi to
everybody and thank you, venus,for having me on again.
I'm Harmony California.
I am an adult film star.
I am strictly BBC and I am acuck dress or cuckoldress.
I like cuck dress, it just is alittle shorter.
(09:22):
So that's who I am.
I've been in this lifestyle man.
I've been in actually adultfilming since I'm probably about
10 years now, um and, but I'vebeen in the lifestyle for a good
20 years.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
So how did you get like?
What was it that got you intoall of this?
Speaker 2 (09:44):
It really it started out so Pip and I have never had
what you would, what vanillapeople would call a normal
relationship.
Um, we met when I was astripper and he was a customer,
so our relationship has alwaysbeen different.
It's just, it just has and youknow, from playing around at the
(10:04):
strip clubs kind of evolvedinto swinging, and then the
swinging evolved intointerracial, and then bbc only,
and then, uh, along came doingit professionally and then into
added the cuckolding to theinterracial and that's kind of
where we are now I did aninterracracial talk recently in
(10:28):
the Queens Quarters communitywhere I talked about the very
first time I fucked a black guyand I was like a teenager and I
was cheating on my boyfriend atthe time Whoops.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
But it wasn't necessarily memorable sex but,
like the, that scenario wasmemorable because I almost got
caught.
Um, because I was at a houseparty, I was fucking the guy in
the basement anyway.
Um, do you remember your veryfirst time with a black guy?
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Oh, absolutely Absolutely.
Uh, it was a friend of Pip's Umand I always noticed him.
He was very confident and veryattractive and very good at
sports, um, and so I alwaysnoticed him and just one night,
(11:24):
randomly, he made a comment topip that's, uh, something about
my ass.
I was, you know, ahead of themwalking away.
We were all going back to ourcars after a football game, I
think, and he made a commentabout my ass and I, you know,
when pip told me later, I said,oh, that's really that's
interesting.
And so I pursued him after thatand then, yeah, I remember the
(11:50):
first time it was at his house,a couple different places around
the house over quicker than Iwanted it to be, but I knew that
it was something that was goingto want a lot.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
How did you know what was it?
Speaker 2 (12:09):
It's something that's I don't know.
When you find the thing thatclicks, it just clicks.
You know, when you find thething that I mean he was tall
and very muscular and just thatair of confidence and the color
contrast on the skin, all of itjust made it.
You know, above and beyond.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
And did you know at that time that like interracial
was like a real thing?
No, no, I did not.
Do you remember when you foundout like like, oh shit, like
there's a lot of interest inthis?
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Uh, it was probably a couple of years later, I don't
remember exactly.
But we were, you know, we once,I, once I found this niche.
Um, we went that way in ourswinging lifestyle and then I
believe it was Tumblr wasprobably the thing that I was on
first, and then all of a suddenlike, oh, people are really
(13:14):
people are really interested inthis.
And and then, you know, I metDFW night and I'm like, okay, I
could actually like I could dothis, do this, I could make
money off of this and do thisfor a living and not only enjoy
myself.
But what do they say?
You know, if you do what youlove, you never work a day in
your life.
So, you know, I'm like, oh,this could you know I can, I
(13:37):
could do this.
So I did.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Oh, tumblr.
Yeah, pip says her picturesblew up on tumblr.
That's where I think that wasreally like, where a lot of
origin stories came from.
Because, um, that's, I doremember when, when I first got
into it was when tumblr wasstill a thing.
I and I know that because, likeI remember, when I was thinking
(14:02):
about blogging, that was theoption was did I want to start a
blog on Tumblr or did I want tohave my own blog?
And so I was kind of weighingthe pros and cons.
But I remember, like at thattime, tumblr was like all the
guys were on Tumblr because Iwas like had just broken up with
my first cuck boyfriend and Iwas looking at dating and stuff
like that and like guys wereconstantly sending me stuff from
(14:25):
10 Tumblr Like, look at this isso hot, look at this so hot.
And I actually spoke to one oflike the guy I tracked him down,
this guy who is the guy whocame up with the word stag, the
label stag, and he said it wasback in the Tumblr days where he
(14:46):
found that the word cuckold wasreally hardcore humiliation,
depicted as that on Tumblr, andthat he himself and many other
people, many other guys on therewere kind of like, didn't
really feel like that resonatedwith them and and so he came up
with this word stay.
But that was back in the Tumblrdays.
So when Tumblr closed down, ohmy gosh, like this was really
(15:11):
hard for a lot of guys out therewho are, who are just like man.
I got nowhere to beat off tonow.
I got to go, you know, twitterand shit like, and it's never
quite been the same, becauseTumblr was like amazing, there
was some, you know, people hadsome really great collections on
there and I don't know if therewas that much discussion going
(15:32):
on, but probably not but lots ofbottles of moisturizer and, um,
okay, so you found out thatthis was like something that you
could do and something thatyou're.
You're just like, wow, this isyour pics were going crazy on
(15:55):
there.
People were loving it.
This was the beginning of youractual career in interracial
right, right, yes.
And then at some point youdecided, okay, I'm going to be
black.
Only Do you remember when thatwas, or was it kind of just like
a gradual thing?
(16:15):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (16:18):
Uh, I'm trying to think I don't, I don't know that
.
It was a gradual thing, causeafter the first time I was like
okay, like we're going to focuson that Um.
So it was just kind of a youknow, that's it we're going to.
We're going to focus on that Um.
And then that's just what wefocused on in the swinging world
.
And then eventually it turnedinto the, and once, once I was
(16:41):
gonna go professional, I wasalready way, way black, like
once I was ready to goprofessional, it was, I was way
done, there was, there was nonothing else going on.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
So so this might be a really stupid question.
Probably is, but so do you eversleep with a white guy?
Speaker 2 (17:01):
Nope, how long has it been?
I don't know.
That's a Pip question.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Why?
Because he would remember,because it was him.
Yeah, okay, so Pip iscompletely denied PIV sex, right
, yeah, okay, okay, and Pip isnot allowed to sleep with other
women.
No, that was another dumbquestion.
Oh wait, pip says 2008.
(17:32):
Of course he had that burned inhis memory, okay.
So how has your relationshipwith him changed?
I know you said you've alwayshad this very unique
relationship, which I love, bythe way.
Obviously you're very adaptabletogether and both enjoy this
kind of lifestyle that you havetogether of I don't want to say
(17:59):
negative effect on yourrelationship and any challenges
with your relationship when youdecided to like just sleep with
black guys, therefore not havePIV sex with PIP anymore.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
There's always challenges, right, always.
You can't take on something newwithout expecting challenges
and the challenges.
Really it just came down tofinding different ways to
connect.
I mean that's.
And really if you want likewe're going to go into a little
(18:33):
bit of psychology on healthyrelationships you should have
multiple ways to connect, notjust P and V and so that is just
.
You know, when you take awaythe P and V, it doesn't mean you
take away everything.
You know he's allowed sometimesto unlock and masturbate, and
(18:54):
sometimes it's just to my videosif that's what he wants to do.
Or sometimes it's me layingthere in his arms and touching
him and kissing him and tellinghim a dirty story or something
like that.
So you still have.
You just have to.
You just have to find differentways, different ways to get
that intimacy without the actualP and the B.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
I love that, yeah, because I mean, everyone thinks
of a sex life as PIV sex, right,and if you don't have that,
then you don't have a sex life.
And it's like fuck that man.
We are way more creative thanthat in this lifestyle.
How limiting is that that justdick and pussy is sex life?
Yeah, no, yeah.
(19:38):
And sexual fulfillment Peoplethink, oh, there must not be any
sexual fulfillment If hedoesn't get PIV sex.
People are so especially guysreally limited to that.
They're like, well, there isnothing else.
How could there be anythingelse?
Like how, how unfair and tragicis that?
It's like how unfair and tragicis that that you have such a
(20:01):
limited idea of what sexactually is.
Like you're missing out on somuch.
I fucking love clean up so much.
Like, oh, my God, to me that'slike the pinnacle of sex.
Like you're going to clean upmy stretched out, fucking wet
(20:22):
pussy.
Yeah, hello, yeah, absolutely,that's hot.
Like that is hot, that isreally hot for me anyway.
Um, clean up hells, yes, saysgrunky.
Oh, grunky's the king of cleanup that, that guy, I think he's.
He's eating more cum thanprobably anyone in the whole
world.
Speaker 2 (20:42):
That's off the ground .
Speaker 1 (20:45):
Yeah, I'm not regular .
It's like a whole diet for him,okay.
And then I also wanted to askyou about actually this question
came from Sean, one of myhelpful cucks, so he wanted to
ask about polyamory and ifthat's been a thing and I do I
remember we talked about this alittle bit on the podcast where
(21:08):
you said you had a bull, that itis like a polyamorous
relationship that you guys have.
Is that?
Do you still have that?
Is that still something thatyou are interested in?
What's the dynamic around that?
Speaker 2 (21:20):
Yeah, that is definitely still a part of our
lives, absolutely yeah.
It's just, you know, sometimes,and you know, men come and go,
lovers come and go.
You know, none of it ispermanent and none of them are
beholden to me by any means.
They also date other people.
(21:40):
You have to, you have to havethat balance, like they have to
have other people.
I can't be the only person forthem.
I don't have that kind of timeto you know, commit to them, so
it's, it's all.
It's all just a delicatebalance.
I mean, that really is what itcomes down to is just figuring
(22:01):
out what everybody needs andalso taking care of yourself,
and and that's how you do it.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
Yeah, I feel that I'm like how would I have time to
manage more than onerelationship, Like actual
romantic relationship, like shit, like maybe it'd be really
great if this person lived nextdoor.
That would be so convenient.
Or just like a bunch of peoplein my neighborhood Make it a lot
easier.
But let's face it, it's notreally like that.
(22:29):
Was that kind of like a bigstep for you to take on another
romantic relationship?
You?
Speaker 2 (22:38):
know when it happened .
It just it's not something thatyou plan.
You don't plan having thatconnection with somebody.
There's one thing to have, thesexual connection and the sexual
tension that I pretty much getwith all my lovers, you know,
(23:04):
connection that you cansometimes hit and it just
happens and it wasn't anythingthat was planned, it just sort
of happened.
And you know, and it'sdifferent, it's the falling in
love part of it, or that extrastrong feeling um is, uh, it's
something that can come and goand just I don't know something
(23:28):
to be treasured and something tohold on to and nurture it.
Just, even when it is thatlittle part, you know, even if
it is something fleeting andjust something that happens, and
you, you know it's part oflife's little joys and so you
enjoy it while you have it andeverything comes to an end,
(23:48):
everything does so it's you justtake that, take that little
moment when you get it, that'sall.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
I love that and I do feel like those kind of like
real I don't even know if Icould define it, but the
relationships that I've had withsome of my bulls have been just
so deep and so fulfilling and Iwouldn't necessarily say it's
falling in love, but likethere's a real platonic love
there.
Special for me is just likewhat you said like this is
(24:24):
temporary, this is not someoneI'm going to obviously be
spending the rest of my lifewith, not likely.
This person is around in mylife, contributing to my life
and contributing to theirs rightnow.
And there's something very likewhen you go into this
relationship, realizing thatyou're so much more present,
you're so much more appreciativeof this person and what they're
bringing right now, that it'sjust like makes it really
(24:46):
special.
And yeah, this person could begone tomorrow or next year or
whatever.
And it's fleeting, I guess iswhat I'm trying to say, and
because of that you kind of holdmore importance to it.
And, having said that, for a lotof cucks out there, this is
like one of their biggest fears.
(25:07):
For some, this is one of thebiggest turn-ons too is knowing
that, with that increased levelof affection and feelings and
intimacy, emotional intimacywith a bull.
It's like she might leave, shemight want that more than him,
and so this is like a big fear.
I don't, I don't want, I don'tknow.
(25:29):
You can't really speak for Pip,but like is this something that
you guys kind of like wentthrough where he was?
Like I hope she doesn't falltoo in love with this guy.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
Sure, sure, every.
I mean mean, you know, pip isstill a human being, we're all
still human beings, um, but thereality of any situation, no
matter what your relationship,is yes, he says yes, he's like,
yes, yeah, but the reality is,um, that can happen whether
(26:01):
you're swinging or not.
No, there's nothing, there isnothing keeping her with you
other than her desire to be withyou.
They can always leave.
They can always find a cocksomewhere.
I mean, cocks are everywhere.
They're just giving them out onthe street, so you can
(26:28):
definitely find it anywhere.
So it it doesn't really matterif you're in the lifestyle or
not.
Your relationship is what youmake of your relationship.
And if these other things comeand go and your relationship
survives, then you're thestronger for it.
You know how many people do youknow how many vanilla
(26:54):
relationships are great together?
They have great communication.
Maybe they've built a life, andthen one person cheats and all
of a sudden, oh, we're blowingup our whole world, everything.
We're blowing up everything thehouse, the kids, the cars, the
money, boom.
All of it's gone because of one.
Really, you couldn't talk, youcouldn't communicate, you
(27:18):
couldn't figure something elseout other than exploding
everything that you built yourlife on.
So it's you know.
Which way would you rather do it, I guess, is my question.
I'd rather do it an open waywhere he knows I'm always here,
I've always come back, I'vealways been with Pip and I
(27:43):
always will be with Pip.
He's the life partner, he's aperson I've chosen to have a
family with and have a futurewith.
Everybody else I love in theway I love them, and will they
be with me forever?
I don't know, Maybe, butprobably not.
You know, things come and go,people change.
You're supposed to change.
It's called growth.
(28:03):
So you just you know, how wouldyou rather live your life?
I'd rather be open witheverything and you know, let it
play out like that, andcommunicate versus, you know,
trying to keep it locked behindclosed doors.
That never works.
It just never works.
Either somebody's ignoring itso that they can get on with
(28:25):
their life, but it just it'spainful and that's not a way to
live life, in my opinionno-transcript.
Speaker 1 (28:57):
It's really not.
I mean, like you said, whenyou've built a life together,
you have all of these thingstogether.
You're going to be very awareof that and want to preserve
that, and I love the fact thatit's about being open and being
honest.
Pip, in the chat he said he wasvery honest when he said
neither of us were goodcommunicators when this happened
.
And if there's anything that'sgoing to teach you how to
(29:20):
communicate properly, it'ssomething like that.
Right, it's a, it's a probablya part of your life where you
learn more about yourself.
Like you said, you we change.
You're like we change as people.
We change as a couple, um, andthen you know, then you have to
learn how to navigate thattogether.
(29:42):
Let's not paint cuckolding aslike a gumdrops and rainbow
thing, because, let's be honest,a lot of couples are not able
to navigate through thesecomplexities and they, these
relationships, do crash and burn.
I've heard about it, I've seenit happen and it sucks, but you
guys were able to get throughthese different.
I don't want to cite hurdlesbecause it weren't really.
I mean, these were justdecisions that you guys decided
(30:02):
to make together and they hadtheir challenges that went along
with them.
Right when you bring insomebody for a poly relationship
, going from a relationship thatthat was not poly, you had open
relationships on one sideanyway, um, but not the poly
part.
I mean that can be reallycomplicated.
You guys were able to getthrough it.
That's pretty awesome, um, whatabout?
(30:25):
I wanted to ask you also aboutside cucks.
Like I know this, like sidechicks, everybody knows what a
side chick is, but is there sucha thing as like a side cuck in
in your, in your relationship,like have you ever had it?
Because I, because I had a lotof guys ask me over the years if
they could like just be likethe side cuck and so not like
(30:46):
you know, not the cuck thatyou're with, like you're married
to, but like your side cuck.
Is that a thing?
Speaker 2 (30:52):
yes, yes, that is a thing, that that is definitely a
thing I definitely look like.
Speaker 1 (30:58):
What is?
What is this all about?
Speaker 2 (31:01):
You know it's so I would say, my most long term
that I would call side cuck is aguy I call Pinky who lives in
Australia and he I don't know,he's a big fan of mine and so
you know there's a lot ofchatting back and forth.
(31:24):
The time change, you know, timedifference can make it a little
more difficult, but a lot ofchatting and pictures and then
we'll do Skype chats and, um,and yeah, it's.
I mean, if you want to knowwhat it really looks like, it
looks like a friendship.
I mean, that's what it lookslike, that's, that's, that's
(31:47):
what it is, um, that's cuckfriends with benefits.
Speaker 1 (31:51):
That's what I interviewed somebody for the
show before she had this she'scuck friend, cuck friends with
benefits.
I was like that's so cool, Ilove it.
Okay, let's get to thequestions.
The jump to being a hot wifeand a QOS, especially in your
first stages with your husband.
That's a good question becausea lot of women do struggle with
(32:19):
that.
But because I think, because ofyour the fact that you were
like not super vanilla, like notjust like some board house wife
somewhere, you were rockingyour life like to the 10th
degree.
Speaker 2 (32:32):
Yeah, yeah, I kind of already was, I mean, like
before we even got into thisswinging, like one thing.
Um, I went to Europe for amonth after I graduated from
college and this is before Pipand I were dating, but we
weren't married, um, and even onthat trip, I had carte blanche
to do whatever I want, as I know, partied across europe, uh, for
(32:57):
the summer and, um, so, yeah,it wasn't too.
It wasn't too difficult at all.
Honestly, you want to know whatwas harder is making the jump
from hot wife to adult film star?
Um, because as a hot wife, sure, pip would be in the background
(33:20):
taking pictures, taking video,waiting for his cleanup moment,
you know, and doing whatever pipdoes in the background.
Um, but I would just be havingsex.
I am just fucking, I'm justfucking, I'm just having fun,
I'm just getting off, um, butwhen you switch and you have to
be professional now it's now Ihave to know where Pip is,
(33:43):
because he's got the camera.
I need to be looking at thecamera.
So you guys know that I'mlooking at you, um, and I have
to know.
You know, like, I have to knowwhich way to tilt and turn,
twist and then twist this way,get the arm out of the way, you
know.
So that's honestly the biggestjump that took a lot of it.
(34:06):
Still, it still takes training.
I won't even say that itdoesn't because, you know, in my
, in my scenes, in my shoots, Iget what Pip has termed black
dick drunk and I forget whateverI'm supposed to be doing.
If I'm, you know, if there's atheme I'm supposed to be saying
something, or maybe we wentthrough positions and I'm like
(34:29):
you know, I was supposed toswitch here or something, and so
it's.
You know, I need to know wherehe is to get my directions, and
even beforehand he'll be like,okay, you, just, you know, you
say yes, yes, yes, a lot.
He's like try to say somethingelse.
I'm like, I don't like, are youserious you want me to think
(34:50):
while in the moment, like I'mjust like that's no, I can't,
it's hard.
So I'm just like that's no, Ican't, it's hard.
So I'm, you know, uh, that'sthe harder jump really was to do
doing it.
You know, screwingprofessionally, uh, it's
different than just screwing inyour bedroom.
Speaker 1 (35:07):
I just had this moment where I tried to picture
myself Like could I do that?
Like could I do?
I have the skills to be able todo that.
I I do not.
I would be so irritated, likeget the fuck out.
You tell me what to do, get thefuck out.
I just there's no way.
I'd be so annoyed.
Speaker 2 (35:25):
I'd be like stop telling me what to do it does it
, does it, can it can getannoying, um, and then people
get like a flash of my eyesthrough the camera and then
he'll be like, okay, that'senough for the directing.
I'll just, you know, she's gotit all now, um, but yeah it, uh,
it can be, it can be a lot, butI, I also don't always remember
(35:48):
like something you don't know.
But when you're writing notreverse cow, but regular writing
face to face, you are supposedto do shoulder opposite shoulder
, my shoulder to his shoulder.
So I'm at like this reallyweird twist here so that the
camera back here can see my face.
Yeah, these are things.
So anytime I'm like that, Ihave to, you know, twist and oh,
(36:14):
really limber up my back forthe day, and yeah, there's a
whole lot of work that goes intoit.
Speaker 1 (36:20):
Oh, this one got four votes for upvotes.
This is a question from CrystalWelch.
She said what are some of thethings people in the lifestyle
can do to get away from themisconceptions in porn, to
support a healthy, happy,alternative lifestyle choice?
Great question, Crystal.
Speaker 2 (36:40):
Okay, so there are a lot of misconceptions about porn
and about people in porn andpeople in the lifestyle, and
that is very true and often Ihave found the best way to fight
any misconceptions is education, is knowledge, um, that's
(37:04):
always always the best way.
Um, you know, I I get people allthe time that I run into life
who don't know me in this.
They just know the vanilla,harmony and um, and they'll tell
me about how all porn is badand how all the women are abused
and objectified and and I haveto slowly kind of give them a
(37:31):
different perspective of whatit's really like in this
industry.
I mean, our lifestyle and theindustry are some of the nicest
people you're ever going to meet.
I really, when you have, youknow, good closed events for
(37:52):
people who are just in thelifestyle or who are in the
industry, you get nice people,you get cream of the crop and
because anybody else just reallyisn't invited back.
But education, telling peopleit's different but it's not
wrong, um, and that really Ithink is the best way is to get
(38:14):
the message out there at anypoint in time.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
Yeah, I agree.
Pip put a comment on it.
He said showing a healthyrelationship in other aspects of
your life is one way that youcan do that.
And then somebody else had acomment great question.
I think the focus should be onthe Queen of Spades pleasure.
I think it's about balance.
(38:39):
Really it's about balance andeducation.
Balance in that like, if youever, like I know, I've watched
a few videos that were reallyhardcore, that were like really
really extreme.
I don't remember exactly whatthey were, but I do remember
that in those videos what thepeople directing it do is at the
(38:59):
very end they'll show theselike after clips of the people
joking around and having fun andjust basically like this was
just pretend.
You know, this is us, justwe're having a great time, like
it's all good, like we're comingback to reality here, it's all
good.
This was just pretend.
This is not real.
And I I thought that was prettycool that they I don't know if
(39:22):
there's some legal thing thatthey have to do that, because it
was quite extreme, whatever itwas, but I thought that was
pretty cool and maybe that isabout a little bit about the
balance part like yes, this pornstuff, this is fantasy and
we're gonna fucking dive in andwe're gonna really fucking peel
it back and expose all thisfucking nasty hot shit.
But at the end of this we'regonna be like, hey, this is,
(39:45):
this is real, real life too.
Like, hey, we're just, you know, that was fun, this is, and
then this is real life, you knowthat's an excellent point,
because everybody knows thatKeanu Reeves is not John Wick.
Speaker 2 (39:57):
Keanu Reeves has never killed anybody.
Everybody knows this, right,and that really comes down to
education, and especially inthis country.
You know, sex is taboo.
So if we can't even talk aboutsex, then we certainly can't
talk about sex on film.
But if you could, then youwould know that that kind of
(40:21):
film is, for all intents andpurposes, a piece of art.
That is, that's a show, youknow.
You know that that 70s showwasn't filmed back in the 70s,
right?
You know that?
Of course you do.
It's TV, it's not real, andthat really comes down to not
talking about it and noteducating people about it.
Speaker 1 (40:44):
Yeah, okay, great question, crystal.
Thank you for that.
This one here is from Joe andit says what are your
perspectives on cuckoldrelationships for the next 10 or
20 years?
Is it going to be more common?
Is it going to hit themainstream?
So you said you got into thelifestyle 20 years ago.
(41:04):
You've been in the adult filmlifestyle for I think you said,
a decade.
Right, what do you think isgoing to look like on the flip
flip side of those two ranges oftime?
Speaker 2 (41:18):
I see no reason why it shouldn't continue to build
when it comes to the evolutionof sexual freedom and sexual
progress, and exploration ittends to just keep going.
Exploration it tends to justkeep going.
(41:39):
There's some part.
You know something about catout of the bag at some point.
You know you can't put it backin and you know the difference
I've seen in interracial when Istarted.
This is gigantic and cuckolding, you know, and it's thanks to a
lot of people like you whoteach cuckolding as love, um and
(42:02):
again, education, taking awaythe stigma of a cuckolding.
Uh, and that's really whatwe're doing.
That's what we're breaking downyou, me, pip Doc no-transcript.
Speaker 1 (42:46):
Harmony.
Do you see bulls struggle withtheir?
Speaker 2 (42:47):
sexuality when engaged in bisexual cuck holding
dynamics?
Good question no, I don't thinkI do.
Um, no, I don't think I do, Ihaven't.
Uh, because a bull, like a truebull, that's into the bisexual
cuckolding and is into it.
No, they know that they areinto it.
They're not struggling with it.
(43:08):
Um, they, you know, they, theyaccept it, and that's really the
best way to not struggle withwho you are, it's just to accept
it.
Um, and so I don't think Idon't think I have the ones that
are into it, they're just intoit.
Speaker 1 (43:26):
That's interesting because, like I see with cocks,
like so much of so much shameand so much um fear around being
found out and just acceptingthemselves even, they're like
hardcore stuck in the closet, acuck closet Not to say that this
has anything to do with beingbisexual, but just like that
(43:48):
level of shame.
And so I come across cucks allthe time who carry that.
They're very firmly locked inthe closet.
When it comes to eitherbisexual cucks or bisexual bulls
, you would think that you wouldsee some of that same kind of
thing of like feeling verycloseted about it, very scared,
very shameful about it.
(44:09):
But that's great to hear thatyou haven't come across that at
all.
I haven't either Not with thebulls?
Speaker 2 (44:15):
Nope, not with the bulls.
Speaker 1 (44:18):
Yeah.
And then the next one.
This is from Oliver.
Oliver says Harmony.
I heard you say in an episodethat was recorded during Splash
Mocha that you realized that youhad been making too much
content and too little playwithout cameras.
Have you managed to turn thataround somewhat?
I hope so, uh, but I imagine itisn't easy.
Speaker 2 (44:42):
You're right, it isn't easy.
Um, no, a little bit.
Um, I've kind of slowed down mycontent this year.
I'm trying to, I guess, maybemore condense it, like I'll work
for a month and then takeseveral weeks off, and then you
know, plan to work for a coupleof weeks and then, you know,
(45:02):
take a month off.
Um, so I haven't been doing thebest with that balance.
But I do have splash mochacoming up again in November, so,
um, are you going?
Speaker 1 (45:15):
I'll see you there.
Oh, absolutely, that was sogreat to see you in action last
time.
That was so fun, like you werejust so like enjoying yourself,
like just having it.
You know, as you're like fuckit, I'm going to go have so much
fun and you did.
I got to witness Harmony,california reverse glory hole,
(45:38):
taking it like a champ.
That was great, that wasawesome.
I had so much fun.
Oh, my gosh, I'm happy that youguys are going to be there
again.
That's great, absolutely.
Before we wrap this up up, whenyou get sent a really great or
if you just happen upon a reallygreat bbc dick pic, what's the
(46:02):
first thing that goes throughyour mind?
Speaker 2 (46:04):
uh, how it will feel in my pussy like how, like
that's gonna stretch.
You know that's gonna go reallydeep.
That's, you know that's goingto go really deep.
That's, you know, that's.
That's usually my first thought.
Speaker 1 (46:18):
Is it.
Have you ever seen a picturewhere you're just like, oh,
that's too big.
Speaker 2 (46:22):
Yeah, yeah, not like it's too big, like I'm not going
to try it.
I mean, mama loves challenge,but um, I it's like oh my God,
that's kind of scary big, that'sa challenge, okay.
Speaker 1 (46:42):
Have you ever gotten a dick pic?
Speaker 2 (46:43):
from a white guy where you had that same reaction
.
Speaker 1 (46:48):
No, does anyone ever send you dick pics of white?
Speaker 2 (46:50):
guys anymore.
Oh yeah, all the time.
Oh baby, you just haven't beenwith the right white dick.
Take a look at mine.
That's a.
Speaker 1 (46:59):
That's a fleshy pink noodle I have no interest in
yeah, I know, actually, like onfet life, when you see these
white guys who have, like these,that dick pic as their profile
pic and you're like, like, whatmakes you think that that's
going to be like yum?
Speaker 2 (47:18):
Yeah, I know I don't, I don't understand that.
I really I mean cause that'swhat they like, but it's like I
don't know.
I don't want to see that.
I definitely don't want to seeit.
Speaker 1 (47:29):
Yeah, yeah, I get it Okay.
Um, harmony, this has been somuch fun chatting with you.
Are there any other placeswhere, uh, you want to direct
people to learn more about you?
Uh, you know twitter's.
Speaker 2 (47:46):
You know I'm always there, but, yeah, only fans is
probably the best place.
I have two different uh.
I have a free site and a paysite.
Um harmony, california free, isthe free site and girl with
spay tattoos the uh subscriptionsite, and you can always find
me there.
You can always find me ontwitter.
I think I'm even on linkedineverywhere, harmony.
Speaker 1 (48:07):
this has been so much fun.
I can't believe you're going tobe going to houston again, and
I can't wait to see you and Pipagain in action, maybe, maybe
we'll have to double team thereverse glory hole again.
Well, you weren't there when wedid the whole wall of my lady
friends, but you have to bethere this time We'll.
(48:28):
We'll just coordinate it.
We'll get doc chocolate.
He's going to be there too.
We're going to have to get himback in the glory hole,
chocolate he's going to be theretoo.
We're going to have to get himback in the glory hole.
Oh, I said yes, we will.
Speaker 2 (48:39):
Yes, that was great, oh my god thanks for joining me
today.
Speaker 1 (48:44):
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(49:05):
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You can also follow me onTwitter, or whatever the fuck
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My handle is at CuckoldressV.
That's it for today.
We'll see you next time.
Bye.
Here's what's coming up on the show.
So this might be a reallystupid question.
Probably is, but do you eversleep with a white guy?
When you get sent a reallygreat or if you just happen upon
a really great BBC dick pic,what's the first thing that goes
(00:23):
through your mind?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
How it will feel in my pussy Like how, like that's
going to stretch.
You know that's going to goreally deep.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
This is the Venus Cuckoldris podcast A place to
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Let's go.
(01:03):
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I'm your host, venus.
Thanks for joining me today.
Let's go event.
There's some really, really goodstuff in here.
(01:23):
She's so awesome.
I love really digging in withher and understanding her
incredible Queen of Spadeslifestyle and her marriage with
Pip.
Some of my favorite parts ofthis show today include what it
was like for her to transitioninto a Queen of Spades lifestyle
with her partner, pip and whatthat was like if there were any
(01:46):
challenges involved in that.
And we talked about what it waslike for her to go pro so start
to create content for a careerand the challenges around that.
We also talked about side cucks, friends with cuck benefits.
We hit on polyamory as wellCuck's Friends with Cuck
(02:07):
Benefits.
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So we touched on a lot fortoday's show.
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The next Pillow Talk event isgoing to feature a Mr Blaze.
So the last episode I had wasBrooke Blaze and her husband.
(02:53):
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Tuesday August 20th at 12pmPacific, that's 3pm Eastern.
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You can register atvenuscuckoldresscom Just click
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August 13th, I'm going to bedoing a live chat in the Queens
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This one's free for anybody tojoin and the topic is going to
be interracial.
Specifically, what I want to dois ask people what is the
gravitational pull that blackmen have in the interracial
cuckolding lifestyle?
I know what it's like for me,and I've talked about that
(03:36):
before what the pull is forhaving black bulls as partners.
But I just really want to know,especially from Cucks and from
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Now, before we jump into theshowa couple of things.
So yes, recently you may havenoticed on my socials I I went
(04:21):
on a trip to Las Vegas and itwas so fucking fun and I will be
going into detail about thattrip in an upcoming episode and
it was just fucking amazing.
So I have friends who theywanted to renew their vows and
they wanted to do it in a kindof lifestyle setting slash party
(04:43):
and I got the invite to go andit was pretty incredible.
And I went to the event withGrunky.
He's been on the show beforeand he's probably, like you know
, cuck level 3000.
But I went with him.
We had such a great time.
So I can't wait to talk aboutthis on a future episode.
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.
They are safe for work and theyare available in the Queen's
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But yes, I was also updating myweekend as it happened in the
(05:28):
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And yeah, like I said, it wasfucking really memorable.
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All right, let's jump into it.
So we're going to be talkingabout our fucking love for black
men, and I will just start outby saying that a long time ago,
(07:43):
when I very first started inthis lifestyle even before I
think it might have been evenbefore I started blogging
somebody I was talking to thiscuck and he was saying that,
like, harmony, california is thereason why he got into
interracial.
That's where his interest camefrom and that's why I was like,
oh, okay, um, I don't know whothat is, but I remembered the
(08:06):
name.
And so when I came across you,I was like, oh, she's a legend,
like she's been around since dayone, like she's the OG here,
and so I was like so excited toget to know you and to meet you
and everything like that.
And then we chatted for thepodcast and then we met.
We met in person in Houston at,of all places, splash Mocha
(08:29):
Hotel Takeover event, which wasso fun.
We met twice there actually.
You went two years, yeah, andyou went back a while like the
second time around.
It was so much fun.
So, anyway, we'll talk.
We'll definitely talk aboutthat.
Welcome to Pillow Talk, harmony.
(08:50):
Do you want to just do a quickintroduction about who you are
and what you do to the peoplewho are listening?
Speaker 2 (08:56):
For those of you not familiar with you Hi to
everybody and thank you, venus,for having me on again.
I'm Harmony California.
I am an adult film star.
I am strictly BBC and I am acuck dress or cuckoldress.
I like cuck dress, it just is alittle shorter.
(09:22):
So that's who I am.
I've been in this lifestyle man.
I've been in actually adultfilming since I'm probably about
10 years now, um and, but I'vebeen in the lifestyle for a good
20 years.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
So how did you get like?
What was it that got you intoall of this?
Speaker 2 (09:44):
It really it started out so Pip and I have never had
what you would, what vanillapeople would call a normal
relationship.
Um, we met when I was astripper and he was a customer,
so our relationship has alwaysbeen different.
It's just, it just has and youknow, from playing around at the
(10:04):
strip clubs kind of evolvedinto swinging, and then the
swinging evolved intointerracial, and then bbc only,
and then, uh, along came doingit professionally and then into
added the cuckolding to theinterracial and that's kind of
where we are now I did aninterracracial talk recently in
(10:28):
the Queens Quarters communitywhere I talked about the very
first time I fucked a black guyand I was like a teenager and I
was cheating on my boyfriend atthe time Whoops.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
But it wasn't necessarily memorable sex but,
like the, that scenario wasmemorable because I almost got
caught.
Um, because I was at a houseparty, I was fucking the guy in
the basement anyway.
Um, do you remember your veryfirst time with a black guy?
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Oh, absolutely Absolutely.
Uh, it was a friend of Pip's Umand I always noticed him.
He was very confident and veryattractive and very good at
sports, um, and so I alwaysnoticed him and just one night,
(11:24):
randomly, he made a comment topip that's, uh, something about
my ass.
I was, you know, ahead of themwalking away.
We were all going back to ourcars after a football game, I
think, and he made a commentabout my ass and I, you know,
when pip told me later, I said,oh, that's really that's
interesting.
And so I pursued him after thatand then, yeah, I remember the
(11:50):
first time it was at his house,a couple different places around
the house over quicker than Iwanted it to be, but I knew that
it was something that was goingto want a lot.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
How did you know what was it?
Speaker 2 (12:09):
It's something that's I don't know.
When you find the thing thatclicks, it just clicks.
You know, when you find thething that I mean he was tall
and very muscular and just thatair of confidence and the color
contrast on the skin, all of itjust made it.
You know, above and beyond.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
And did you know at that time that like interracial
was like a real thing?
No, no, I did not.
Do you remember when you foundout like like, oh shit, like
there's a lot of interest inthis?
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Uh, it was probably a couple of years later, I don't
remember exactly.
But we were, you know, we once,I, once I found this niche.
Um, we went that way in ourswinging lifestyle and then I
believe it was Tumblr wasprobably the thing that I was on
first, and then all of a suddenlike, oh, people are really
(13:14):
people are really interested inthis.
And and then, you know, I metDFW night and I'm like, okay, I
could actually like I could dothis, do this, I could make
money off of this and do thisfor a living and not only enjoy
myself.
But what do they say?
You know, if you do what youlove, you never work a day in
your life.
So, you know, I'm like, oh,this could you know I can, I
(13:37):
could do this.
So I did.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Oh, tumblr.
Yeah, pip says her picturesblew up on tumblr.
That's where I think that wasreally like, where a lot of
origin stories came from.
Because, um, that's, I doremember when, when I first got
into it was when tumblr wasstill a thing.
I and I know that because, likeI remember, when I was thinking
(14:02):
about blogging, that was theoption was did I want to start a
blog on Tumblr or did I want tohave my own blog?
And so I was kind of weighingthe pros and cons.
But I remember, like at thattime, tumblr was like all the
guys were on Tumblr because Iwas like had just broken up with
my first cuck boyfriend and Iwas looking at dating and stuff
like that and like guys wereconstantly sending me stuff from
(14:25):
10 Tumblr Like, look at this isso hot, look at this so hot.
And I actually spoke to one oflike the guy I tracked him down,
this guy who is the guy whocame up with the word stag, the
label stag, and he said it wasback in the Tumblr days where he
(14:46):
found that the word cuckold wasreally hardcore humiliation,
depicted as that on Tumblr, andthat he himself and many other
people, many other guys on therewere kind of like, didn't
really feel like that resonatedwith them and and so he came up
with this word stay.
But that was back in the Tumblrdays.
So when Tumblr closed down, ohmy gosh, like this was really
(15:11):
hard for a lot of guys out therewho are, who are just like man.
I got nowhere to beat off tonow.
I got to go, you know, twitterand shit like, and it's never
quite been the same, becauseTumblr was like amazing, there
was some, you know, people hadsome really great collections on
there and I don't know if therewas that much discussion going
(15:32):
on, but probably not but lots ofbottles of moisturizer and, um,
okay, so you found out thatthis was like something that you
could do and something thatyou're.
You're just like, wow, this isyour pics were going crazy on
(15:55):
there.
People were loving it.
This was the beginning of youractual career in interracial
right, right, yes.
And then at some point youdecided, okay, I'm going to be
black.
Only Do you remember when thatwas, or was it kind of just like
a gradual thing?
(16:15):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (16:18):
Uh, I'm trying to think I don't, I don't know that
.
It was a gradual thing, causeafter the first time I was like
okay, like we're going to focuson that Um.
So it was just kind of a youknow, that's it we're going to.
We're going to focus on that Um.
And then that's just what wefocused on in the swinging world
.
And then eventually it turnedinto the, and once, once I was
(16:41):
gonna go professional, I wasalready way, way black, like
once I was ready to goprofessional, it was, I was way
done, there was, there was nonothing else going on.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
So so this might be a really stupid question.
Probably is, but so do you eversleep with a white guy?
Speaker 2 (17:01):
Nope, how long has it been?
I don't know.
That's a Pip question.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Why?
Because he would remember,because it was him.
Yeah, okay, so Pip iscompletely denied PIV sex, right
, yeah, okay, okay, and Pip isnot allowed to sleep with other
women.
No, that was another dumbquestion.
Oh wait, pip says 2008.
(17:32):
Of course he had that burned inhis memory, okay.
So how has your relationshipwith him changed?
I know you said you've alwayshad this very unique
relationship, which I love, bythe way.
Obviously you're very adaptabletogether and both enjoy this
kind of lifestyle that you havetogether of I don't want to say
(17:59):
negative effect on yourrelationship and any challenges
with your relationship when youdecided to like just sleep with
black guys, therefore not havePIV sex with PIP anymore.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
There's always challenges, right, always.
You can't take on something newwithout expecting challenges
and the challenges.
Really it just came down tofinding different ways to
connect.
I mean that's.
And really if you want likewe're going to go into a little
(18:33):
bit of psychology on healthyrelationships you should have
multiple ways to connect, notjust P and V and so that is just
.
You know, when you take awaythe P and V, it doesn't mean you
take away everything.
You know he's allowed sometimesto unlock and masturbate, and
(18:54):
sometimes it's just to my videosif that's what he wants to do.
Or sometimes it's me layingthere in his arms and touching
him and kissing him and tellinghim a dirty story or something
like that.
So you still have.
You just have to.
You just have to find differentways, different ways to get
that intimacy without the actualP and the B.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
I love that, yeah, because I mean, everyone thinks
of a sex life as PIV sex, right,and if you don't have that,
then you don't have a sex life.
And it's like fuck that man.
We are way more creative thanthat in this lifestyle.
How limiting is that that justdick and pussy is sex life?
Yeah, no, yeah.
(19:38):
And sexual fulfillment Peoplethink, oh, there must not be any
sexual fulfillment If hedoesn't get PIV sex.
People are so especially guysreally limited to that.
They're like, well, there isnothing else.
How could there be anythingelse?
Like how, how unfair and tragicis that?
It's like how unfair and tragicis that that you have such a
(20:01):
limited idea of what sexactually is.
Like you're missing out on somuch.
I fucking love clean up so much.
Like, oh, my God, to me that'slike the pinnacle of sex.
Like you're going to clean upmy stretched out, fucking wet
(20:22):
pussy.
Yeah, hello, yeah, absolutely,that's hot.
Like that is hot, that isreally hot for me anyway.
Um, clean up hells, yes, saysgrunky.
Oh, grunky's the king of cleanup that, that guy, I think he's.
He's eating more cum thanprobably anyone in the whole
world.
Speaker 2 (20:42):
That's off the ground .
Speaker 1 (20:45):
Yeah, I'm not regular .
It's like a whole diet for him,okay.
And then I also wanted to askyou about actually this question
came from Sean, one of myhelpful cucks, so he wanted to
ask about polyamory and ifthat's been a thing and I do I
remember we talked about this alittle bit on the podcast where
(21:08):
you said you had a bull, that itis like a polyamorous
relationship that you guys have.
Is that?
Do you still have that?
Is that still something thatyou are interested in?
What's the dynamic around that?
Speaker 2 (21:20):
Yeah, that is definitely still a part of our
lives, absolutely yeah.
It's just, you know, sometimes,and you know, men come and go,
lovers come and go.
You know, none of it ispermanent and none of them are
beholden to me by any means.
They also date other people.
(21:40):
You have to, you have to havethat balance, like they have to
have other people.
I can't be the only person forthem.
I don't have that kind of timeto you know, commit to them, so
it's, it's all.
It's all just a delicatebalance.
I mean, that really is what itcomes down to is just figuring
(22:01):
out what everybody needs andalso taking care of yourself,
and and that's how you do it.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
Yeah, I feel that I'm like how would I have time to
manage more than onerelationship, Like actual
romantic relationship, like shit, like maybe it'd be really
great if this person lived nextdoor.
That would be so convenient.
Or just like a bunch of peoplein my neighborhood Make it a lot
easier.
But let's face it, it's notreally like that.
(22:29):
Was that kind of like a bigstep for you to take on another
romantic relationship?
You?
Speaker 2 (22:38):
know when it happened .
It just it's not something thatyou plan.
You don't plan having thatconnection with somebody.
There's one thing to have, thesexual connection and the sexual
tension that I pretty much getwith all my lovers, you know,
(23:04):
connection that you cansometimes hit and it just
happens and it wasn't anythingthat was planned, it just sort
of happened.
And you know, and it'sdifferent, it's the falling in
love part of it, or that extrastrong feeling um is, uh, it's
something that can come and goand just I don't know something
(23:28):
to be treasured and something tohold on to and nurture it.
Just, even when it is thatlittle part, you know, even if
it is something fleeting andjust something that happens, and
you, you know it's part oflife's little joys and so you
enjoy it while you have it andeverything comes to an end,
(23:48):
everything does so it's you justtake that, take that little
moment when you get it, that'sall.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
I love that and I do feel like those kind of like
real I don't even know if Icould define it, but the
relationships that I've had withsome of my bulls have been just
so deep and so fulfilling and Iwouldn't necessarily say it's
falling in love, but likethere's a real platonic love
there.
Special for me is just likewhat you said like this is
(24:24):
temporary, this is not someoneI'm going to obviously be
spending the rest of my lifewith, not likely.
This person is around in mylife, contributing to my life
and contributing to theirs rightnow.
And there's something very likewhen you go into this
relationship, realizing thatyou're so much more present,
you're so much more appreciativeof this person and what they're
bringing right now, that it'sjust like makes it really
(24:46):
special.
And yeah, this person could begone tomorrow or next year or
whatever.
And it's fleeting, I guess iswhat I'm trying to say, and
because of that you kind of holdmore importance to it.
And, having said that, for a lotof cucks out there, this is
like one of their biggest fears.
(25:07):
For some, this is one of thebiggest turn-ons too is knowing
that, with that increased levelof affection and feelings and
intimacy, emotional intimacywith a bull.
It's like she might leave, shemight want that more than him,
and so this is like a big fear.
I don't, I don't want, I don'tknow.
(25:29):
You can't really speak for Pip,but like is this something that
you guys kind of like wentthrough where he was?
Like I hope she doesn't falltoo in love with this guy.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
Sure, sure, every.
I mean mean, you know, pip isstill a human being, we're all
still human beings, um, but thereality of any situation, no
matter what your relationship,is yes, he says yes, he's like,
yes, yeah, but the reality is,um, that can happen whether
(26:01):
you're swinging or not.
No, there's nothing, there isnothing keeping her with you
other than her desire to be withyou.
They can always leave.
They can always find a cocksomewhere.
I mean, cocks are everywhere.
They're just giving them out onthe street, so you can
(26:28):
definitely find it anywhere.
So it it doesn't really matterif you're in the lifestyle or
not.
Your relationship is what youmake of your relationship.
And if these other things comeand go and your relationship
survives, then you're thestronger for it.
You know how many people do youknow how many vanilla
(26:54):
relationships are great together?
They have great communication.
Maybe they've built a life, andthen one person cheats and all
of a sudden, oh, we're blowingup our whole world, everything.
We're blowing up everything thehouse, the kids, the cars, the
money, boom.
All of it's gone because of one.
Really, you couldn't talk, youcouldn't communicate, you
(27:18):
couldn't figure something elseout other than exploding
everything that you built yourlife on.
So it's you know.
Which way would you rather do it, I guess, is my question.
I'd rather do it an open waywhere he knows I'm always here,
I've always come back, I'vealways been with Pip and I
(27:43):
always will be with Pip.
He's the life partner, he's aperson I've chosen to have a
family with and have a futurewith.
Everybody else I love in theway I love them, and will they
be with me forever?
I don't know, Maybe, butprobably not.
You know, things come and go,people change.
You're supposed to change.
It's called growth.
(28:03):
So you just you know, how wouldyou rather live your life?
I'd rather be open witheverything and you know, let it
play out like that, andcommunicate versus, you know,
trying to keep it locked behindclosed doors.
That never works.
It just never works.
Either somebody's ignoring itso that they can get on with
(28:25):
their life, but it just it'spainful and that's not a way to
live life, in my opinionno-transcript.
Speaker 1 (28:57):
It's really not.
I mean, like you said, whenyou've built a life together,
you have all of these thingstogether.
You're going to be very awareof that and want to preserve
that, and I love the fact thatit's about being open and being
honest.
Pip, in the chat he said he wasvery honest when he said
neither of us were goodcommunicators when this happened
.
And if there's anything that'sgoing to teach you how to
(29:20):
communicate properly, it'ssomething like that.
Right, it's a, it's a probablya part of your life where you
learn more about yourself.
Like you said, you we change.
You're like we change as people.
We change as a couple, um, andthen you know, then you have to
learn how to navigate thattogether.
(29:42):
Let's not paint cuckolding aslike a gumdrops and rainbow
thing, because, let's be honest,a lot of couples are not able
to navigate through thesecomplexities and they, these
relationships, do crash and burn.
I've heard about it, I've seenit happen and it sucks, but you
guys were able to get throughthese different.
I don't want to cite hurdlesbecause it weren't really.
I mean, these were justdecisions that you guys decided
(30:02):
to make together and they hadtheir challenges that went along
with them.
Right when you bring insomebody for a poly relationship
, going from a relationship thatthat was not poly, you had open
relationships on one sideanyway, um, but not the poly
part.
I mean that can be reallycomplicated.
You guys were able to getthrough it.
That's pretty awesome, um, whatabout?
(30:25):
I wanted to ask you also aboutside cucks.
Like I know this, like sidechicks, everybody knows what a
side chick is, but is there sucha thing as like a side cuck in
in your, in your relationship,like have you ever had it?
Because I, because I had a lotof guys ask me over the years if
they could like just be likethe side cuck and so not like
(30:46):
you know, not the cuck thatyou're with, like you're married
to, but like your side cuck.
Is that a thing?
Speaker 2 (30:52):
yes, yes, that is a thing, that that is definitely a
thing I definitely look like.
Speaker 1 (30:58):
What is?
What is this all about?
Speaker 2 (31:01):
You know it's so I would say, my most long term
that I would call side cuck is aguy I call Pinky who lives in
Australia and he I don't know,he's a big fan of mine and so
you know there's a lot ofchatting back and forth.
(31:24):
The time change, you know, timedifference can make it a little
more difficult, but a lot ofchatting and pictures and then
we'll do Skype chats and, um,and yeah, it's.
I mean, if you want to knowwhat it really looks like, it
looks like a friendship.
I mean, that's what it lookslike, that's, that's, that's
(31:47):
what it is, um, that's cuckfriends with benefits.
Speaker 1 (31:51):
That's what I interviewed somebody for the
show before she had this she'scuck friend, cuck friends with
benefits.
I was like that's so cool, Ilove it.
Okay, let's get to thequestions.
The jump to being a hot wifeand a QOS, especially in your
first stages with your husband.
That's a good question becausea lot of women do struggle with
(32:19):
that.
But because I think, because ofyour the fact that you were
like not super vanilla, like notjust like some board house wife
somewhere, you were rockingyour life like to the 10th
degree.
Speaker 2 (32:32):
Yeah, yeah, I kind of already was, I mean, like
before we even got into thisswinging, like one thing.
Um, I went to Europe for amonth after I graduated from
college and this is before Pipand I were dating, but we
weren't married, um, and even onthat trip, I had carte blanche
to do whatever I want, as I know, partied across europe, uh, for
(32:57):
the summer and, um, so, yeah,it wasn't too.
It wasn't too difficult at all.
Honestly, you want to know whatwas harder is making the jump
from hot wife to adult film star?
Um, because as a hot wife, sure, pip would be in the background
(33:20):
taking pictures, taking video,waiting for his cleanup moment,
you know, and doing whatever pipdoes in the background.
Um, but I would just be havingsex.
I am just fucking, I'm justfucking, I'm just having fun,
I'm just getting off, um, butwhen you switch and you have to
be professional now it's now Ihave to know where Pip is,
(33:43):
because he's got the camera.
I need to be looking at thecamera.
So you guys know that I'mlooking at you, um, and I have
to know.
You know, like, I have to knowwhich way to tilt and turn,
twist and then twist this way,get the arm out of the way, you
know.
So that's honestly the biggestjump that took a lot of it.
(34:06):
Still, it still takes training.
I won't even say that itdoesn't because, you know, in my
, in my scenes, in my shoots, Iget what Pip has termed black
dick drunk and I forget whateverI'm supposed to be doing.
If I'm, you know, if there's atheme I'm supposed to be saying
something, or maybe we wentthrough positions and I'm like
(34:29):
you know, I was supposed toswitch here or something, and so
it's.
You know, I need to know wherehe is to get my directions, and
even beforehand he'll be like,okay, you, just, you know, you
say yes, yes, yes, a lot.
He's like try to say somethingelse.
I'm like, I don't like, are youserious you want me to think
(34:50):
while in the moment, like I'mjust like that's no, I can't,
it's hard.
So I'm just like that's no, Ican't, it's hard.
So I'm, you know, uh, that'sthe harder jump really was to do
doing it.
You know, screwingprofessionally, uh, it's
different than just screwing inyour bedroom.
Speaker 1 (35:07):
I just had this moment where I tried to picture
myself Like could I do that?
Like could I do?
I have the skills to be able todo that.
I I do not.
I would be so irritated, likeget the fuck out.
You tell me what to do, get thefuck out.
I just there's no way.
I'd be so annoyed.
Speaker 2 (35:25):
I'd be like stop telling me what to do it does it
, does it, can it can getannoying, um, and then people
get like a flash of my eyesthrough the camera and then
he'll be like, okay, that'senough for the directing.
I'll just, you know, she's gotit all now, um, but yeah it, uh,
it can be, it can be a lot, butI, I also don't always remember
(35:48):
like something you don't know.
But when you're writing notreverse cow, but regular writing
face to face, you are supposedto do shoulder opposite shoulder
, my shoulder to his shoulder.
So I'm at like this reallyweird twist here so that the
camera back here can see my face.
Yeah, these are things.
So anytime I'm like that, Ihave to, you know, twist and oh,
(36:14):
really limber up my back forthe day, and yeah, there's a
whole lot of work that goes intoit.
Speaker 1 (36:20):
Oh, this one got four votes for upvotes.
This is a question from CrystalWelch.
She said what are some of thethings people in the lifestyle
can do to get away from themisconceptions in porn, to
support a healthy, happy,alternative lifestyle choice?
Great question, Crystal.
Speaker 2 (36:40):
Okay, so there are a lot of misconceptions about porn
and about people in porn andpeople in the lifestyle, and
that is very true and often Ihave found the best way to fight
any misconceptions is education, is knowledge, um, that's
(37:04):
always always the best way.
Um, you know, I I get people allthe time that I run into life
who don't know me in this.
They just know the vanilla,harmony and um, and they'll tell
me about how all porn is badand how all the women are abused
and objectified and and I haveto slowly kind of give them a
(37:31):
different perspective of whatit's really like in this
industry.
I mean, our lifestyle and theindustry are some of the nicest
people you're ever going to meet.
I really, when you have, youknow, good closed events for
(37:52):
people who are just in thelifestyle or who are in the
industry, you get nice people,you get cream of the crop and
because anybody else just reallyisn't invited back.
But education, telling peopleit's different but it's not
wrong, um, and that really Ithink is the best way is to get
(38:14):
the message out there at anypoint in time.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
Yeah, I agree.
Pip put a comment on it.
He said showing a healthyrelationship in other aspects of
your life is one way that youcan do that.
And then somebody else had acomment great question.
I think the focus should be onthe Queen of Spades pleasure.
I think it's about balance.
(38:39):
Really it's about balance andeducation.
Balance in that like, if youever, like I know, I've watched
a few videos that were reallyhardcore, that were like really
really extreme.
I don't remember exactly whatthey were, but I do remember
that in those videos what thepeople directing it do is at the
(38:59):
very end they'll show theselike after clips of the people
joking around and having fun andjust basically like this was
just pretend.
You know, this is us, justwe're having a great time, like
it's all good, like we're comingback to reality here, it's all
good.
This was just pretend.
This is not real.
And I I thought that was prettycool that they I don't know if
(39:22):
there's some legal thing thatthey have to do that, because it
was quite extreme, whatever itwas, but I thought that was
pretty cool and maybe that isabout a little bit about the
balance part like yes, this pornstuff, this is fantasy and
we're gonna fucking dive in andwe're gonna really fucking peel
it back and expose all thisfucking nasty hot shit.
But at the end of this we'regonna be like, hey, this is,
(39:45):
this is real, real life too.
Like, hey, we're just, you know, that was fun, this is, and
then this is real life, you knowthat's an excellent point,
because everybody knows thatKeanu Reeves is not John Wick.
Speaker 2 (39:57):
Keanu Reeves has never killed anybody.
Everybody knows this, right,and that really comes down to
education, and especially inthis country.
You know, sex is taboo.
So if we can't even talk aboutsex, then we certainly can't
talk about sex on film.
But if you could, then youwould know that that kind of
(40:21):
film is, for all intents andpurposes, a piece of art.
That is, that's a show, youknow.
You know that that 70s showwasn't filmed back in the 70s,
right?
You know that?
Of course you do.
It's TV, it's not real, andthat really comes down to not
talking about it and noteducating people about it.
Speaker 1 (40:44):
Yeah, okay, great question, crystal.
Thank you for that.
This one here is from Joe andit says what are your
perspectives on cuckoldrelationships for the next 10 or
20 years?
Is it going to be more common?
Is it going to hit themainstream?
So you said you got into thelifestyle 20 years ago.
(41:04):
You've been in the adult filmlifestyle for I think you said,
a decade.
Right, what do you think isgoing to look like on the flip
flip side of those two ranges oftime?
Speaker 2 (41:18):
I see no reason why it shouldn't continue to build
when it comes to the evolutionof sexual freedom and sexual
progress, and exploration ittends to just keep going.
Exploration it tends to justkeep going.
(41:39):
There's some part.
You know something about catout of the bag at some point.
You know you can't put it backin and you know the difference
I've seen in interracial when Istarted.
This is gigantic and cuckolding, you know, and it's thanks to a
lot of people like you whoteach cuckolding as love, um and
(42:02):
again, education, taking awaythe stigma of a cuckolding.
Uh, and that's really whatwe're doing.
That's what we're breaking downyou, me, pip Doc no-transcript.
Speaker 1 (42:46):
Harmony.
Do you see bulls struggle withtheir?
Speaker 2 (42:47):
sexuality when engaged in bisexual cuck holding
dynamics?
Good question no, I don't thinkI do.
Um, no, I don't think I do, Ihaven't.
Uh, because a bull, like a truebull, that's into the bisexual
cuckolding and is into it.
No, they know that they areinto it.
They're not struggling with it.
(43:08):
Um, they, you know, they, theyaccept it, and that's really the
best way to not struggle withwho you are, it's just to accept
it.
Um, and so I don't think Idon't think I have the ones that
are into it, they're just intoit.
Speaker 1 (43:26):
That's interesting because, like I see with cocks,
like so much of so much shameand so much um fear around being
found out and just acceptingthemselves even, they're like
hardcore stuck in the closet, acuck closet Not to say that this
has anything to do with beingbisexual, but just like that
(43:48):
level of shame.
And so I come across cucks allthe time who carry that.
They're very firmly locked inthe closet.
When it comes to eitherbisexual cucks or bisexual bulls
, you would think that you wouldsee some of that same kind of
thing of like feeling verycloseted about it, very scared,
very shameful about it.
(44:09):
But that's great to hear thatyou haven't come across that at
all.
I haven't either Not with thebulls?
Speaker 2 (44:15):
Nope, not with the bulls.
Speaker 1 (44:18):
Yeah.
And then the next one.
This is from Oliver.
Oliver says Harmony.
I heard you say in an episodethat was recorded during Splash
Mocha that you realized that youhad been making too much
content and too little playwithout cameras.
Have you managed to turn thataround somewhat?
I hope so, uh, but I imagine itisn't easy.
Speaker 2 (44:42):
You're right, it isn't easy.
Um, no, a little bit.
Um, I've kind of slowed down mycontent this year.
I'm trying to, I guess, maybemore condense it, like I'll work
for a month and then takeseveral weeks off, and then you
know, plan to work for a coupleof weeks and then, you know,
(45:02):
take a month off.
Um, so I haven't been doing thebest with that balance.
But I do have splash mochacoming up again in November, so,
um, are you going?
Speaker 1 (45:15):
I'll see you there.
Oh, absolutely, that was sogreat to see you in action last
time.
That was so fun, like you werejust so like enjoying yourself,
like just having it.
You know, as you're like fuckit, I'm going to go have so much
fun and you did.
I got to witness Harmony,california reverse glory hole,
(45:38):
taking it like a champ.
That was great, that wasawesome.
I had so much fun.
Oh, my gosh, I'm happy that youguys are going to be there
again.
That's great, absolutely.
Before we wrap this up up, whenyou get sent a really great or
if you just happen upon a reallygreat bbc dick pic, what's the
(46:02):
first thing that goes throughyour mind?
Speaker 2 (46:04):
uh, how it will feel in my pussy like how, like
that's gonna stretch.
You know that's gonna go reallydeep.
That's, you know that's goingto go really deep.
That's, you know, that's.
That's usually my first thought.
Speaker 1 (46:18):
Is it.
Have you ever seen a picturewhere you're just like, oh,
that's too big.
Speaker 2 (46:22):
Yeah, yeah, not like it's too big, like I'm not going
to try it.
I mean, mama loves challenge,but um, I it's like oh my God,
that's kind of scary big, that'sa challenge, okay.
Speaker 1 (46:42):
Have you ever gotten a dick pic?
Speaker 2 (46:43):
from a white guy where you had that same reaction
.
Speaker 1 (46:48):
No, does anyone ever send you dick pics of white?
Speaker 2 (46:50):
guys anymore.
Oh yeah, all the time.
Oh baby, you just haven't beenwith the right white dick.
Take a look at mine.
That's a.
Speaker 1 (46:59):
That's a fleshy pink noodle I have no interest in
yeah, I know, actually, like onfet life, when you see these
white guys who have, like these,that dick pic as their profile
pic and you're like, like, whatmakes you think that that's
going to be like yum?
Speaker 2 (47:18):
Yeah, I know I don't, I don't understand that.
I really I mean cause that'swhat they like, but it's like I
don't know.
I don't want to see that.
I definitely don't want to seeit.
Speaker 1 (47:29):
Yeah, yeah, I get it Okay.
Um, harmony, this has been somuch fun chatting with you.
Are there any other placeswhere, uh, you want to direct
people to learn more about you?
Uh, you know twitter's.
Speaker 2 (47:46):
You know I'm always there, but, yeah, only fans is
probably the best place.
I have two different uh.
I have a free site and a paysite.
Um harmony, california free, isthe free site and girl with
spay tattoos the uh subscriptionsite, and you can always find
me there.
You can always find me ontwitter.
I think I'm even on linkedineverywhere, harmony.
Speaker 1 (48:07):
this has been so much fun.
I can't believe you're going tobe going to houston again, and
I can't wait to see you and Pipagain in action, maybe, maybe
we'll have to double team thereverse glory hole again.
Well, you weren't there when wedid the whole wall of my lady
friends, but you have to bethere this time We'll.
(48:28):
We'll just coordinate it.
We'll get doc chocolate.
He's going to be there too.
We're going to have to get himback in the glory hole,
chocolate he's going to be theretoo.
We're going to have to get himback in the glory hole.
Oh, I said yes, we will.
Speaker 2 (48:39):
Yes, that was great, oh my god thanks for joining me
today.
Speaker 1 (48:44):
make sure you go to venuscuckledresscom.
That's where you can bookaprivate chat with me, you can
check out any cuckolding eventsthat might be happening, and you
can even ask a question for theshow, as well as, of course,
join the Queens Quarters fanclub and get all the benefits
for that.
You can also follow me onInstagram, the Venus Cuckoldris
(49:05):
podcast.
I haven't been banned thereWell, I have, but not recently.
You can also follow me onTwitter, or whatever the fuck
you want to call it.
My handle is at CuckoldressV.
That's it for today.
We'll see you next time.
Bye.
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