December 21, 2024 • 50 mins
This is the ultimate list of great Christmas gifts for the cuckoldress/hotwife in your life, your cuck husband, or for the both of you! Have your notepad ready because there are some really fun and sexy gift ideas here.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is the Venus Cuckoldress podcast a place to
learn all things cuckolding forthe curious, for the passionate
and for the sexually empoweredwoman who wants it all.
Let's go.
(00:32):
Welcome to the show everybody.
I'm your host, venus.
Thanks for joining me today.
This is the special christmasedition of the venus cuckoldress
podcast, and I haven't donethis before, but this is so fun.
I'm definitely going to do itevery year.
This is a special list of greatgift ideas for cucks, for
cuckoldresses, slash hotwives,whichever you want to call
yourself, or for both of youguys.
(00:53):
I had so much fun putting thislist together.
You're just.
You're going to love it.
It's great.
Before I get into that, though,I do have a couple of
announcements.
The first is super cool.
I've been for the show.
The Venus Cuckold Just podcasthas been nominated once again
for an AVN award, yay, so I'msuper excited about that.
(01:16):
I'm super happy about that.
Um I there are so many nomineesin this category of adult
podcast, and so it's not justlike cuckolding related.
This is everything under thesun.
That's like r-rated, andbecause of that, there's some
like serious heavyweights inthis category, as there has been
(01:39):
for the last couple of years.
So I I really don't hold outany hope of winning um, but it's
fun to think about.
I mean, I think it's a plugtalk podcast has won the last I
don't know how many years in arow.
It's a huge show, and thenthere's Holly Randall on there
too, which is just a massiveshow.
(01:59):
Um, so I like it would be funto win, but, like, I highly
doubt it.
But the cool thing is is thatit's a viewer's choice award, so
you guys can vote on yourfavorite podcast.
So if you love this show, itwould be awesome if you can vote
.
I think you can vote like atleast once, twice, maybe even
like five times per day up untila certain date.
(02:22):
Um, I'll put the details andthe link in the show notes for
today.
If you want to go ahead andvote, that would be awesome.
If you want to make a post onBlue Sky saying, tag me at
Calculatorist V saying that youvoted, I'll definitely give you
a shout out.
So that would be super fun.
(02:43):
So that's the AVN Awards.
You never know, a miracle mighthappen, might win.
I doubt it, but you know what?
It would just be super coolJust to.
It is fun to be nominated, butit was so cool just to think
about possibly winning an award.
Doc Chocolate Bulls and Queensis on there as well, so you can
vote for him too, cause his showis pretty awesome.
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All right, and oh, I just wantedto mention, I'm going to be
chatting in the Queens Quarterscommunity online about today's
episode regarding these giftsand gift ideas and posting the
links and also asking for anyfurther ideas for gifts which
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could, because Valentine's dayis coming up.
So if you want to join in onthe conversation, you can get
free, limited access to theQueens Quarters community on
Venus cuckoldresscom.
The link is in the show notesfor today.
So, yeah, join me there.
All right, and that's it forannouncements.
Let's jump into the show.
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Here we go.
All right, here we go.
Best gifts for cuckoldresses orhotwives, cucks or both.
Here we are.
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So when I was compiling thislist, I put out there on social
media that I was, you know,wanting some ideas from people
like what do you think what aregreat gifts?
And I think it was all dudeswho responded.
Of course, think it was alldudes who responded, of course,
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but so take this as the maleperspective, but also from me as
well, but somebody by the nameof by Brian.
He was on Blue Sky and heposted this really important
note and I was so happy to readit.
This is what he said.
He said it's easy to focus onthe cuckolding part of the
relationship After all, it'swhat our horny brains want but
it's important to remember thatcuckolding is only part of the
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relationship.
Cuckolding is most intense andintimate when the relationship
is already strong and full inlove.
So to that I say focus on giftsthat reflect on or add to the
whole of the relationship.
A romantic dinner or a weekendtrip, splurge on gifts related
to vanilla hobbies and interestsand I fucking love that so much
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because he's right.
I mean, I feel like, as a woman, there's so much on our plate,
as it is like whether you'rejust like in a relationship or
you've got kids and family oraging parents or whatever,
stress about work, whatever itis that as women that we have
just a shit ton of stuff goingon and it gets in our head and
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it makes it difficult for us toreally think about the sexy, fun
, thrilling parts of acuckolding relationship as much
or as often as we would like toor as our partner would like us
to.
So, addressing those things,those aspects of our difficult
lives, and kind of like easingthe load, the mental load or
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physical load of all of thosethings is definitely a good way
to go.
So I love that advice Focus onthe vanilla aspects and the
romantic and the love giftsfirst, before you focus on the
cuckolding gifts.
And so this is a note to all thehusbands and boyfriends out
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there, or partners who are justsuper excited to listen to this
episode and think only about, oh, the kinky, the sexy, the
thrilling, the hot, the turn ongifts that you could buy for
your partner for Christmas.
Please, please, please, onlythink about those after you buy
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an actual love romance gift.
You got to fill that love tankfirst before it can spill over
into the bedroom into all thatamazing, thrilling, sexy, hot
stuff.
So some of those vanilla giftsare pretty like basic.
I would say these are go-togifts for your female partner,
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say, these are go-to gifts foryour female partner.
And so spa gifts are definitelyat the very top.
It is, you know, hard for us toreally let our minds, let go and
relax, and a nice spa gift cardwould be fantastic for that.
So, whether she wants to use itfor like a full body massage or
a facial or whatever.
It's up to her, but a gift cardto her favorite spa or to a
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really nice upscale spa for anamount that she can use well.
So don't just get like ahundred dollar gift card because
that's not going to do shitOkay, it's not even going to get
you a fucking massage.
You better be looking at theservices that the spa offers and
look at how much they are andmake the gift card for more than
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enough to get at least one fullservice, or maybe even two full
services, and to include a tip,hopefully, so that she doesn't
have to worry about that, and toinclude a tip, hopefully, so
that she doesn't have to worryabout that.
So there's a spa gift card.
And then there's my secondfavorite Guys this is like the
best gift it is for me anywayHouse cleaning.
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Okay, you can get a gift cardfor a house cleaning or maid
service.
You can get a gift card thatwould just be like a one-time
cleanings, which would be greatfor something like a spring
cleaning or whatever you knowstuff that she doesn't have to
do.
Then that's fucking fabulous.
She's going to appreciate it asa really great, thoughtful gift
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is paying for ongoing monthlyhouse cleaning, and so they'll
come in and do all the shit thatlike cleaning the fucking
bathroom and the toilet and allthat fucking shit that she
doesn't want to do, you don'twant to do, it's a pain in the
ass, it just takes up time.
And or like cleaning out theyou know full, full clean of the
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kitchen.
Clean out the fridge if youwant.
They'll wash your fuckingwindows if you want, like
they'll do all of this stuff.
And it is just huge when itcomes to eating, easing that
mental load for women andallowing her to focus more on
her sexy self.
So, house cleaning, yes, do it.
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There's also these likecompanies that offer
subscriptions for meal deliveryand what they do is like they
send you, I think once a week orsomething like that, a box with
all of the stuff you'll needfor a week's worth of meals and
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she gets to choose, like, whatshe wants in the box and it
comes with the recipe cards andyou just like it's basically so
she doesn't have to think aboutwhat's for dinner.
You both don't have to thinkabout what's for dinner.
It's already planned, it getsdelivered.
All she's got to do or allyou've got to do is just put
together, quickly, put togetherthis, like amazing fucking meal,
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and it's a subscription.
So it's like every week itcomes and it's just like a huge
fucking help for somebody who'sbusy, who is.
You know, it's a pain in theass to try to figure all this
shit out.
So, dinner deliverysubscriptions, do it.
She love it and it's healthyfood too, or it can be anyway,
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if you want that.
And then there's companies,there's florists, okay, that
offer subscriptions.
You guys this.
Okay, I personally, fucking Iwould love this.
Okay, I would love this gift.
I love fresh flowers and Irarely ever have them because
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you know they're expensive.
I buy them for myself everyonce in a while, but I feel like
I'm like I shouldn't be wastingmoney on that, but it's
something I do really love andas a gift that would be amazing.
So it's so for guys out therelistening yes, you can buy
flowers for your partner andthat's like so nice and whatever
.
But like, fuck off with thatshit.
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Like, get an actual subscriptionso she gets flowers delivered.
I don't know what it is once aweek, once every two weeks, I
don't even fucking know.
But I got something in the mailfrom this like florist company
where they were advertising thissubscription and I was like
that's fucking brilliant, I lovethis.
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So I'm assuming that she'll beable to like, pick out the kinds
of arrangements that she likes,or specify what kind of flowers
are her favorites, or whatever.
And, like you know, on theregular she's getting these
beautiful, fucking fresh flowersLike hello.
It wasn't even that expensiveeither.
I was just like this is sofucking amazing, I got to let
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all the dudes know about thisout there.
So floral company subscriptionsdo it, okay.
And then this is another really,really great one.
I've heard of this only a fewtimes, but let me tell you,
fellas, this is it like, if youreally want to score some bonus
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points with your partner, youare going to arrange for, or
provide the finances for, her togo on a weekend away with her
best girlfriends.
This is like I know you'reprobably rolling your eyes like
well, I'm not involved in thisgift, why I don't get to go?
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Blah, blah, blah.
Well, suck it up, okay, becauseshe would fucking love this.
I'm telling you this right nowRarely do we get the opportunity
to go on a trip with just ourgirlfriends, and we're always
putting others first, and sothis is not prioritized in a
woman's life, and not usually.
Maybe once or twice in alifetime.
Like this is, this is a thing.
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Or if there's somebody gettingmarried or whatever, like this
becomes a thing.
But this is so therapeutic forwomen.
I will tell you that no amountof therapy can even come close
to the amount of therapeuticamazingness that you get from
spending a weekend away withyour bestie.
Trust me, she will come backfeeling like a thousand million
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dollars.
It is so amazing the effectthat it has for women.
Dudes probably not so much.
Yeah, you get to go out withyour I don't know, golfing with
your buddies for a weekend, butI don't think the therapeutic
effect is quite the same.
I just I'm guessing.
But it is really, reallyamazing for women and I would
highly recommend that.
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If you can afford it, fuckingdo it, even if it's just like a,
you know, it's like, I don'tknow, just somewhere where she
could drive, that both of themdrive somewhere, but I think
that it is definitely worthconsidering.
Ok, another one to like amp upthe romance and the love in your
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relationship.
This kind of gift is prettygreat.
It's basically just like datenight but amped up.
So it's a romantic dinner.
But it's kind of a trip.
It's somewhere further away andso you can just drive there and
then drive back home afterwards, or you can plan it out as an
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overnight trip.
So I live in Vancouver, canada,and so I would think that you
know, driving down to somewherelike Seattle for a night would
be really fucking amazing.
You can book a nice dinner,maybe something else during,
before or after that's a show orsomething like that, and then
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like a nice hotel to stay thenight, and that the thought and
and the effort involved in thatis just it goes a long way.
So how do you give that as agift?
I love this idea of creatingyour own little romantic gift
card.
I love this idea of creatingyour own little romantic gift
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card and you can just like cut apiece of paper, just write on
there nicely, or you can printsomething out on your computer
and your printer.
Just make something, a sweetlittle gift card from you, and
on there it can say thisromantic destination, dinner
trip, trip, date night, trip,whatever you want to call it,
and put it in a nice envelopeand give it to her.
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That way she will fucking loveit.
Yes, it takes a little bit ofeffort.
Yes, you can fucking do it.
Okay, you can do it.
It's worthwhile.
Okay, now for the sexy gifts.
These are fun too, um, and Ilove this list.
Coming up with this list was sofun because some of these are
my absolute favorites as well.
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Tops on the list is maisondenige.
I fucking love this company.
Okay, there's a lot of um queenof spades spades lifestyle
brands out there.
Um, I think nearly all of themare are made by dudes, which is
fine.
I mean, they've got their ownstuff, but it's really a like a.
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It's like a their own, I don'tknow.
It's like a type of a style,but maison danège is founded by
a woman and she has this likereally high commitment to good
quality and amazing fashion,like actual style, not just like
oh, here's these fucking bikinishorts with the biggest queen
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of spades symbol you've everseen in your life on it,
plastered on the front.
Okay, she actually put so mucheffort into what these clothes
look like and feel like, and andsome of her brand is kind of
like an in your face.
Um, she's even got like sissystuff on there, like she's.
Even she's like a bunch of cuckstuff on there, like just a lot
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of.
There's some of that, but she'sgot this brand that is like
more couture and is likeabsolutely fucking gorgeous.
The Queen of Spades symbolismis a little less in your face
and more like subtle, moredesign, friendly and beautiful,
and I fucking love it.
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I own so many pieces of MaisonDinesh Like it is definitely by
far my favorite brand out there.
One of my most recent purchaseswas this leopard print Queen of
Spades.
It's black and white but it'sfaded like through black and
white and it's a kimono robe.
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Oh my god, it is so fuckingsoft.
Like it is so soft and stretchyand like the cut is beautiful,
because it's cut like kimonostyle, but it's the length is
beautiful.
It comes like just right.
It's pretty high up on thethigh, so it's super sexy, oh my
god.
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And it's it's leopard print,but each one of the prints like
uh, the little leopard printlike thing has the spade in it,
so it is so fucking beautiful.
It's hard for me to describe,but I'll put a link in the show
notes for today, but it'sabsolutely beautiful.
I fucking love it.
Okay, absolutely fucking,absolutely fucking gorgeous.
Okay, I have a whole bunch ofother stuff from Maison Deneige
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and everything that she has isbeautiful.
Oh my God.
I have two bathing suits thatare just so sexy.
I'm going to be releasing somepictures of those soon.
Oh my God, so, so beautiful Onepiece, but super high cut, low
cut on the titties, and thislike metallic design, like, oh
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my God, it's so sexy.
So, maison Deneige, what you cando because you don't want to,
like, necessarily pick out stufffor her right, you want her to
be able to choose what she wantsyou can just.
This couldn't be easier for youguys.
You can just go on the websitethe link is in the show notes
for today and you could get ane-card and have it, like you
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know, give it to her that way.
So all she has to do is enterthe code from the e-card at
checkout.
It couldn't fucking be easier.
So, maison Daneige highlyrecommend yes, yes, yes, easier.
So Maison Deneige highlyrecommend yes, yes, yes.
Number two on the list is themotor bunny.
I have talked about this acouple of times on the show.
I do not own one.
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I want to own one, like, Ireally, really, really want to
own one.
I'm telling you this, you canhear it in my voice my pussy
wants one, please.
They're expensive though.
Um, so I don't have one, butthey are amazing.
They're one of these likewhat's the word of the other
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brand?
Um, fuck, I can't remember now,but anyway, uh, there's a few
different brands but they're allthe same kind of ride on
vibrator toy thingy, fuckingmachine.
No, it's not a fucking machine,it's like a ride on toy.
So basically you straddle itand it's like has this part that
like massage, that likevibrates your clit.
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But it also has attachmentslike different, like dildos that
you attach to it and, um, yousit on it and like it vibrates,
like it's got.
It's called the motor bunnybecause like it's got a motor,
like it is like it will vibratethe floor of your house, like
the neighbors will be likewhat's going on in there.
It is so intense and it's, ofcourse, got this like controls
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that either she can control orsomebody else can control it.
So the first time I came acrossmotor bunny was, I think, a
couple years ago at splash mocha.
They had.
They had this like demo roomthing where you can go try it
out.
I didn't go, I fucking missedit.
But but Harmony, miss HarmonyCalifornia, she went and she
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came back and she was just likeoh my, oh, my God, that fucking
thing, like loved it OK.
My god, that fucking thing,like loved it okay.
And then this a few weeks ago,as flash mocha, my friend ann
and her husband james they wentto go try it out again.
I missed the motor bunny demo,um, but I heard all about it
afterwards and was just like wow, mind blown, wow, mind blown.
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It's 10 out of 10, apparentlyrating Like 100% guaranteed
gonna love it.
So I would highly recommend theMotor Bunny if you can afford
it.
It's, I think, over $1,000.
It is something that wouldhopefully last like a decade.
So it's a bit of an investment,but it's something that you can
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take with you.
The first time I tried a machinethat was like that.
I tried it at a sex party andsomeone had brought theirs and,
of course, like cleaned andwashed all the attachments in
the machine, in between peopleusing it, of course, but it was
a hit.
When I went on that thing,there was a whole room full of
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people watching.
I lost my damn mind like Ilaunched into the fucking
universe, like I went todifferent planets Like I.
It was so incredible.
I've never, ever, experiencedan orgasm like that before in my
life and it was life changing.
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Okay, so that is definitely highon the list for a gift for your
partner.
She will fucking love it.
Only thing is is it vibrates soso loud that if you are in an
apartment, you're probably yourneighbors are probably going to
hear.
So it probably wouldn't workfor you, I don't think, unless
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you could take it somewhere else.
Okay, I'll put a link for themotor buddy in the show notes
for today.
Okay, the next thing I someonerecommended this a lifestyle
tickets to a lifestyle eventlike a trip to either Splash
Mocha or something like HedonismResort or something like that,
and I think that's wonderful.
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I think that's a great giftbecause it is like a vacation at
the same time, especially ifit's like a hedonism resort.
You're going to an actual likevacation resort.
It's super fun and sexy becausepeople are, you know, doing the
thing, but it's also like agetaway.
It's an actual getaway.
It's something you can lookforward to all year, so I think
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that's definitely a great typeof sexy gift.
Next, this was recommendedonline by a couple of guys.
They said hot wife jewelrywould be great as a gift.
Yeah, you can do that.
I've had some guys over theyears buy me hot wife jewelry
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and it's okay, like there's somedecent things out there, but
what I have found is that noneof them were made well, like,
with like materials that aren'tgoing to just tarnish and
degrade, and so they're reallyjust pieces that you could wear
once or twice or three times,maybe two something, and then
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they're going to start to fadeor like the paint is going to
come off or whatever.
They're just kind of cheap, uh,so it's fine as a gift, but
it's not going to last and, um,she may or may not like whatever
it is that you pick out for her.
I really do wish that there waslike a kind of a maisoneneige
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idea about jewelry, where youcould have stuff that's well
styled, well made and is notgoing to fall apart and it is
going to last, and of course, itwould be more expensive, but it
would fucking last and thatwould be important for me anyway
.
A perfume that she only wearswith her bowl I heard about this
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a few years ago where a husbandtold me my wife has this one
perfume that she will only puton and wear when she's going on
a date with her bull, and I'mlike, oh, my God, that's so hot.
I love that.
Hot, I love that.
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And he said one day she put iton by accident and she was not
going to see her bowl.
But she didn't tell her husbandthat she put it on.
But he's like I could, just Icould smell this amazing scent
all day long and I was justgetting really horny and I
didn't know why.
And then he figured it out.
He's like oh, you're wearingthat perfume.
I love that.
I think that's really great.
But of course you don'tnecessarily want to pick out a
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new perfume for your girlfriendor wife.
That would be stupid.
You don't know what she's goingto like, like you just don't.
You can guess, but you'reprobably not going to get it
right.
So I would definitely get agift card for her to go out and
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pick out a perfume that shereally likes that's fairly like,
you know, sexy and that shewould agree to only wear when
she's going out on a date with abull.
Okay, next up I have a boudoirphoto shoot.
This is a great gift.
There are tons of photographerswho do boudoir photo shoots for
women.
If you don't know what that is,it's just a sexy like beautiful
, very styled, kind of like sexy, sweet photo shoot.
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So just basically Google itwho's in your area and then see
if you can get a gift card orjust buy a shoot with that
person and then present her withthat as a gift.
I think it'd be really great.
These are people who areexcellent at making sure that
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the woman feels comfortable,feels pretty, feels sexy.
They pay attention to thelighting, to her hair, to makeup
, what outfits, all that sort ofstuff, and these are photos
that she can have forever andthey're beautiful, really nice
way, better than any pictureyou're going to take of her for
sure.
So definitely look into thatboudoir photo shoot.
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Okay, some of the okay, the mostcommon suggestion that cucks
have when it comes to buyingtheir hot wife or cuckoldress a
gift is lingerie.
Some of the women out there aregoing to be rolling their eyes
right now because this is likethe only thing that I feel like
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so many guys can think of.
That's it Lingerie.
She's I get it, I get it.
Lingerie, sexy yes, she couldwear it for her bowl.
It's basically lingerie, is agift for her, but it's also a
gift for you, because you'regoing to end up, you know,
seeing it and thinking about itand jerking off about it and
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it's going to be hot andwhatever.
I get it.
But lingerie doesn't do shit.
If she's so tired and sostressed and so fucking not in
the headspace to go out with abull, ok, lingerie is going to
do shit.
Ok, lingerie is going to doshit.
You have to make sure that youare taking care of her before
she can feel like she's going tobe able to go out and have fun
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and enjoy this lingerie with abowl.
Ok, so that goes back to whateverything I said before.
Make sure you focus on fillingup the love tank, the romance
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tank, easing the mental burdenof your partner, before you get
into fucking lingerie.
Because I have a closet that isfucking overflowing with
lingerie.
That's great and all it's superfun, but unless I have the
opportunity to go out andfucking meet these guys, then it
doesn't do shit for me.
Okay, and of all the things Ireally need and really want in
my life, lingerie is probablydown near the bottom of the list
of priorities.
But I do appreciate that cucksare so thoughtful and this is
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what they think of is lingerie.
There's lots of differentlingerie stores that you can
shop from, so Honey Burdette isone of my favorites.
It's beautiful, well-made, it'sgoing to last a long time, but
she's going to need to probablytry it on.
So go for a gift card insteadof just picking something out
for her, because, as we all know, once you buy lingerie, you
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cannot return it.
Sex toys sex toys, condoms, lube, vibrator.
Actually, none of the guysonline recommended a vibrator as
a gift.
They all said dildos.
And yes, there are some womenout there who really do enjoy
dildos, but I will tell you thatmost of them would opt for a
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vibrator any day.
But, yeah, sure, you can get adildo.
Whether she uses it.
I don't know Whether she wouldlove that gift, I don't know.
But Sex toys, sure, um, thereare all sorts of really
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high-tech sex toys now, and I'mjust learning about this.
You guys, it is fuckingmind-blowing.
I had no idea.
Okay, technology is definitelycatching up with sex toys.
It is not just about dildos andvibrators anymore, you guys.
This is crazy.
There are actual sex toys thatare controlled by Bluetooth or
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by apps, and it's just, it'scrazy.
I'm going to get into thosewhen I talk about gifts for both
people, but there are two morethings on the list for women
that are awesome.
And I will tell you, someoneonline recommended to get
tickets to a male strip showtickets for you and her to go
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watch a male strip show.
Well, I think that this idea isvery cute and it's very
creative and I love it.
I love it for that.
But let me tell you, male stripshows suck so bad.
I'm talking about male stripshows for women.
There's probably the male stripshows for gay guys is probably
fucking amazing, I'm assuming.
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But the male strip shows forwomen are not good.
I've been to like two or threein my life and it was.
It was really shitty.
So maybe don't get that for her, ok, so maybe don't get that
for her, okay, no.
But the last but not least, Ilove this.
You guys, this is such a greatidea.
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Okay, again, create your owngift card and on there you're
going to give her the gift ofblissful mornings for an entire
year, meaning that you wake herup by eating her softly, gently,
licking her pussy every morningfor as long as she wants.
Okay, you are her pussy alarmclock.
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I love this idea so much.
I know couples who are inrelationships where this is part
of their relationship.
This is how she wakes up everymorning and I'm like, oh my dear
God, like what I would think Iwould have died and gone to
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heaven, like if I woke up likethat every morning, I would be
the sweetest, most loveliestperson every day of my life.
It will be amazing.
I feel like that's what I'mmissing in my life right now,
and so that would be incredible.
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I mean, some days, maybe Ireally I wouldn't want that and
I could just basically, like youknow, push his head out of the
way and be like you can justlike go or whatever, but like to
have that every day.
Oh my God, yes, yes, please.
So do that.
That's easy.
You can fucking do that.
You don't have to buy anything.
Ok, you just make your ownlittle gift card, you put it in
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a little fucking envelope andyou give that to her, and if she
I mean, trust me, you'reprobably gonna love it, as long
as you're good at eating pussy,maybe you suck at it, and in
that case, you just really needto take some lessons and figure
that shit out.
Um, and make sure that youshave your face.
Please.
Shave your fucking face so it'ssmooth like a baby.
Okay, either that or have abeard, because that doesn't like
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.
That's okay, but anyway, okay,all right.
Gifts for him.
Um, there was a guy on blue skygoes by the name of sub toy.
Okay, he had this idea of as agift and, oh my god, you guys,
it's so good, it's so good, it'sso good, ladies, you can get
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your guy a soft personalizedseat cushion for the cup chair.
I love this, how you want todesign it, what color it should
should be, what it should say onit if it says something or just
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has his name or something, Idon't know, but like I love it.
A cuck chair cushion yes, thankyou, subtoy, for that
suggestion.
That was fucking awesome.
Somebody else on Blue Sky saidused panties, her used panties.
Yes, I've done that beforewhere I gave a guy my used
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panties and he was just like, ohmy God, that was the best thing
in the whole wide world andI've only done it that one time
and it was a big hit.
So let me tell you you'llprobably fucking love it.
Or if you masturbate or use avibrator with your panties on
and then give him those pennies,or oh my God, yes, yes, yes, he
will love it, I'm sure of it.
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Okay, an engraved chesty cage.
I love this one too.
This is great.
So if you get like a reallynice metal chesty cage, have it
engraved with something and giveit to him.
I love that, that's wonderful.
He would probably absolutelyjust die for that.
It'd be great.
A framed picture of you and yourbull.
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Give that to him and have himput it on the bedside table.
I mean, obviously, if you don'thave kids that live with you or
other people who live with you,you can get away with doing
that and that would be like justreally fucking hot, really sexy
.
Or you could have some sort ofphotography done where you get
this like really nice picture ofyou and your bull and it's like
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it's, you know, safe for work,but it's kind of like body
scapes and there's no one's faceinvolved, so nobody would
actually know who it is in thepicture.
But it would.
You both would know that it'syou and your bull.
That would be fucking beautifulframe that put it next to the
bed.
Yes, um, this guy named uh,white shadow on fetlife.
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He said and I love this onethat you should get your cuck a
Brazilian wax for a Christmasgift and I'm like, yes, you
should.
I mean it makes me reallypissed off the inequity between
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how much women put effort we puttowards removing hair on our
bodies and how very littleeffort men put into it.
I think the only ones whoreally give a shit about hair
and their body are gay guys and,uh, porn stars and that's it.
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I mean guys can be hairy asfuck and they don't care, like
that you get in a hair stuck inyour teeth and it's like you
know, getting all fucking nastyin there, like, and they don't
give a fuck or the least, thatthe most, the most they'll do is
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take a little trimmer and like,trim the shit down there,
whoop-dee-doo.
Okay, it's still fucking hairymess.
And for cucks, okay, I had thiscuck friend and he got Brazilian
waxes and he had, he was inchastity all the time and it
well, it looked beautiful,absolutely fucking beautiful,
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smooth down there.
He was pretty muscular and solike it was just hot as fuck.
I think all cucks should getwaxed and I do not want to hear
all your bitching, whining andmoaning about it hurting so bad
and whatever.
I really don't give a fuck.
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Okay, the more you go get itdone, the less it hurts, the
more you get used to it andtrust me when I say this,
because I waxed for over 10years.
After a little while, thatlittle tingle that you get
afterwards, it's fun, let metell you it is good and I've had
all these guys enjoy my freshlywaxed pussy over the years and
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you can put in the same level ofeffort.
So, yes, brazilian wax, do it,I love it.
Okay.
And then there were okay, let'stalk about.
Okay, before I get into the sextoys, let's talk about gifts
for both people.
So I love this.
This guy, compersively onFetLife, he said journals for
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both people.
Now this can be journals for ajournal for her and a matching
journal for her bull, and thetwo of them write their
experiences in there or makelittle notes or, I don't know,
put little things in there toremember certain experiences.
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I don't know.
But I love the idea of journalsbecause it can be either it can
be a journal for Cuck and hishot wife and they, you know, put
their little thoughts andfeelings and stuff in there.
I just really enjoy the idea ofwriting things down and adding
that to your level ofcommunication between you and I
think that's just a great thingto do because you can write in
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it at any point in time and thenyou can make time each week or
once a month to go through andshare what you've written with
each other.
I just think that's like awonderful idea.
And then there's books, so I'mgoing to put the links to this
in the show notes, but the booksthat I would highly recommend
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for both of you as a gift.
The Tell Me what you Want byJustin Lay Miller is a great
book to read.
Okay, because he talks aboutall the most popular fantasies
of people in the United States,and in the end of the book he
talks about how to bring upthese types of fantasies and
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your desires and everything withyour partner.
Some of the best advice I'veever heard is in that book.
So, even if you share yourfantasies with your partner,
it's an incredible read becauseyou get to see what other people
are thinking about andfantasizing about, but also it
can help you to kind of bringyour relationship to the next
level when it comes tocommunicating, which I would
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highly recommend.
Then I have Insatiable Wives byDr David Lay.
This is available on audiobookas well.
Great for you guys to listen totogether.
Highly recommend that book.
It talks about the history ofwomen with insatiable sex
appetites that have, you know,had more than one lover, and
what's that been like for themhistorically, what that's like
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in today's world with cuckoldingcouples.
It's a fascinating read, highlyrecommend, okay.
And then I have two books by KeyBarrett.
These are excellent books, okay.
The first one Surrender, submitand Serve Her.
This is about female leadershipin a relationship.
It's not kink-based, this isabout real, relationship-based
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female leadership.
Okay, it is fantastic.
It blew my mind when I readthat book.
The other book is called Lockedin Love how Two Weeks in
Chastity Can Make you a BetterHusband.
This is by Key Barrett as well.
And, oh, my God, wonderful book.
I would definitely recommendthat one.
My God, wonderful book.
I would definitely recommendthat one.
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Okay, let's talk about the sextoys for both of you guys.
Like I said, wow, they've comea long way.
This is something like sofucking crazy High-tech sex toys
.
Okay, what these sex toys aredesigned for mainly is for like
well, mainly for like coupleswho are long distance, where the
you know, each sex toy iscontrolled by each of you and,
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like you, it's, you know,through the app.
So if she's fucking herselfwith her dildo, then it's
controlling the contractions onhis like whatever you call it
fleshlight thing, I don't knowdick sleeve or whatever you call
it.
Fleshlight thing, I don't know,dick sleeve or whatever you
call it.
Okay, so that's kind of likethat's hot and sexy and fun and
whatever.
For couples.
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Sure, I get it If you're longdistance, but I'm like this
could be so fun for couples whoare into cuckolding because like
the amount of like sensorydeprivation and like you could
really trigger the imaginationof a cock with this.
Because, like she could be inthe bedroom watching like bbc
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porn or something like that andshe's got her vibrator or her
you know, rabbit vibrator orwhatever dildo thing, um, that
she's playing with and at thesame time what she's doing with
it.
He's going to feel with hisdick sleeve thing, masturbator
thing, in the other room so hedoesn't get to see what she's
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watching, but maybe she's justlike on the phone with him so
she could.
She's telling him sort of whatshe's seeing and while she's
like using the.
Oh, my God, you guys know whereI'm going with this.
That would be so fun.
I can definitely have a lot offun with that, like I could
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definitely fuck with a cuck'smind that way.
But they also have prostatemassagers that are Bluetooth,
vibrating prostate massagers.
They've got Bluetooth or appcontrolled butt plugs so he
could go to work with this likebutt plug in and she could fuck
with him during the day with theapp and turning it on whenever
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she wants, or something like ohmy God, the possibilities are
endless, you guys?
Ok, for all the single cucksout there.
They also have this like dicksleeve masturbator thing that
works.
It uses AI to sync withwhatever porn video you're
watching.
So if you're watching like BBCporn, like it somehow syncs with
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it and you get to like fuckthis thing Like she's getting.
I don't even know how it works,but I just watched a little
video about it and I was like ohmy God, like what?
This sounds so awesome.
So, but I love the couples toys.
I would definitely think aboutsomething like that.
Ladies, you can get so creativewith what you do with these
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toys.
I'll post the links in the shownotes for today's episode For
all of these things that I havetalked about.
So there are a lot of options Ihaven't even got into, like the
gifts that you can give yourbulls, but let me just say do
not forget about these gentlemen.
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They are an important part ofour life, they are valued as
human beings and we are so luckyand fortunate to have them in
our lives and they bring so muchto to us and to our
relationship and to our wellbeing and and they're they're
worth everything.
So make sure that you give backto them some sort of gift, even
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if it's something small butsomething thoughtful.
I'm sure that they will be verygrateful for that.
Okay, that's going to be it formy little Venus's list of gifts
for cucks and for hot wives orcuckoldresses or both.
I hope you've enjoyed it and,yeah, I hope everybody has a
great Christmas and a happy newyear.
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I get to see my favoritefucking bull on New Year's Eve
and I'm so excited for this.
I cannot wait.
I am going to end this yearwith a big fucking orgasm and it
is going to be amazing.
So that's how everybody shouldbe popping off 2024 on such a
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high note.
That's going to be it fortoday's episode.
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Welcome to the show everybody.
I'm your host, venus.
Thanks for joining me today.
This is the special christmasedition of the venus cuckoldress
podcast, and I haven't donethis before, but this is so fun.
I'm definitely going to do itevery year.
This is a special list of greatgift ideas for cucks, for
cuckoldresses, slash hotwives,whichever you want to call
yourself, or for both of youguys.
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I had so much fun putting thislist together.
You're just.
You're going to love it.
It's great.
Before I get into that, though,I do have a couple of
announcements.
The first is super cool.
I've been for the show.
The Venus Cuckold Just podcasthas been nominated once again
for an AVN award, yay, so I'msuper excited about that.
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I'm super happy about that.
Um I there are so many nomineesin this category of adult
podcast, and so it's not justlike cuckolding related.
This is everything under thesun.
That's like r-rated, andbecause of that, there's some
like serious heavyweights inthis category, as there has been
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for the last couple of years.
So I I really don't hold outany hope of winning um, but it's
fun to think about.
I mean, I think it's a plugtalk podcast has won the last I
don't know how many years in arow.
It's a huge show, and thenthere's Holly Randall on there
too, which is just a massiveshow.
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Um, so I like it would be funto win, but, like, I highly
doubt it.
But the cool thing is is thatit's a viewer's choice award, so
you guys can vote on yourfavorite podcast.
So if you love this show, itwould be awesome if you can vote
.
I think you can vote like atleast once, twice, maybe even
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Um, I'll put the details andthe link in the show notes for
today.
If you want to go ahead andvote, that would be awesome.
If you want to make a post onBlue Sky saying, tag me at
Calculatorist V saying that youvoted, I'll definitely give you
a shout out.
So that would be super fun.
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So that's the AVN Awards.
You never know, a miracle mighthappen, might win.
I doubt it, but you know what?
It would just be super coolJust to.
It is fun to be nominated, butit was so cool just to think
about possibly winning an award.
Doc Chocolate Bulls and Queensis on there as well, so you can
vote for him too, cause his showis pretty awesome.
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All right, and oh, I just wantedto mention, I'm going to be
chatting in the Queens Quarterscommunity online about today's
episode regarding these giftsand gift ideas and posting the
links and also asking for anyfurther ideas for gifts which
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could, because Valentine's dayis coming up.
So if you want to join in onthe conversation, you can get
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The link is in the show notesfor today.
So, yeah, join me there.
All right, and that's it forannouncements.
Let's jump into the show.
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Here we go.
All right, here we go.
Best gifts for cuckoldresses orhotwives, cucks or both.
Here we are.
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So when I was compiling thislist, I put out there on social
media that I was, you know,wanting some ideas from people
like what do you think what aregreat gifts?
And I think it was all dudeswho responded.
Of course, think it was alldudes who responded, of course,
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but so take this as the maleperspective, but also from me as
well, but somebody by the nameof by Brian.
He was on Blue Sky and heposted this really important
note and I was so happy to readit.
This is what he said.
He said it's easy to focus onthe cuckolding part of the
relationship After all, it'swhat our horny brains want but
it's important to remember thatcuckolding is only part of the
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relationship.
Cuckolding is most intense andintimate when the relationship
is already strong and full inlove.
So to that I say focus on giftsthat reflect on or add to the
whole of the relationship.
A romantic dinner or a weekendtrip, splurge on gifts related
to vanilla hobbies and interestsand I fucking love that so much
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because he's right.
I mean, I feel like, as a woman, there's so much on our plate,
as it is like whether you'rejust like in a relationship or
you've got kids and family oraging parents or whatever,
stress about work, whatever itis that as women that we have
just a shit ton of stuff goingon and it gets in our head and
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it makes it difficult for us toreally think about the sexy, fun
, thrilling parts of acuckolding relationship as much
or as often as we would like toor as our partner would like us
to.
So, addressing those things,those aspects of our difficult
lives, and kind of like easingthe load, the mental load or
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physical load of all of thosethings is definitely a good way
to go.
So I love that advice Focus onthe vanilla aspects and the
romantic and the love giftsfirst, before you focus on the
cuckolding gifts.
And so this is a note to all thehusbands and boyfriends out
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there, or partners who are justsuper excited to listen to this
episode and think only about, oh, the kinky, the sexy, the
thrilling, the hot, the turn ongifts that you could buy for
your partner for Christmas.
Please, please, please, onlythink about those after you buy
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an actual love romance gift.
You got to fill that love tankfirst before it can spill over
into the bedroom into all thatamazing, thrilling, sexy, hot
stuff.
So some of those vanilla giftsare pretty like basic.
I would say these are go-togifts for your female partner,
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say, these are go-to gifts foryour female partner.
And so spa gifts are definitelyat the very top.
It is, you know, hard for us toreally let our minds, let go and
relax, and a nice spa gift cardwould be fantastic for that.
So, whether she wants to use itfor like a full body massage or
a facial or whatever.
It's up to her, but a gift cardto her favorite spa or to a
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really nice upscale spa for anamount that she can use well.
So don't just get like ahundred dollar gift card because
that's not going to do shitOkay, it's not even going to get
you a fucking massage.
You better be looking at theservices that the spa offers and
look at how much they are andmake the gift card for more than
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enough to get at least one fullservice, or maybe even two full
services, and to include a tip,hopefully, so that she doesn't
have to worry about that, and toinclude a tip, hopefully, so
that she doesn't have to worryabout that.
So there's a spa gift card.
And then there's my secondfavorite Guys this is like the
best gift it is for me anywayHouse cleaning.
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Okay, you can get a gift cardfor a house cleaning or maid
service.
You can get a gift card thatwould just be like a one-time
cleanings, which would be greatfor something like a spring
cleaning or whatever you knowstuff that she doesn't have to
do.
Then that's fucking fabulous.
She's going to appreciate it asa really great, thoughtful gift
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is paying for ongoing monthlyhouse cleaning, and so they'll
come in and do all the shit thatlike cleaning the fucking
bathroom and the toilet and allthat fucking shit that she
doesn't want to do, you don'twant to do, it's a pain in the
ass, it just takes up time.
And or like cleaning out theyou know full, full clean of the
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kitchen.
Clean out the fridge if youwant.
They'll wash your fuckingwindows if you want, like
they'll do all of this stuff.
And it is just huge when itcomes to eating, easing that
mental load for women andallowing her to focus more on
her sexy self.
So, house cleaning, yes, do it.
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There's also these likecompanies that offer
subscriptions for meal deliveryand what they do is like they
send you, I think once a week orsomething like that, a box with
all of the stuff you'll needfor a week's worth of meals and
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she gets to choose, like, whatshe wants in the box and it
comes with the recipe cards andyou just like it's basically so
she doesn't have to think aboutwhat's for dinner.
You both don't have to thinkabout what's for dinner.
It's already planned, it getsdelivered.
All she's got to do or allyou've got to do is just put
together, quickly, put togetherthis, like amazing fucking meal,
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and it's a subscription.
So it's like every week itcomes and it's just like a huge
fucking help for somebody who'sbusy, who is.
You know, it's a pain in theass to try to figure all this
shit out.
So, dinner deliverysubscriptions, do it.
She love it and it's healthyfood too, or it can be anyway,
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if you want that.
And then there's companies,there's florists, okay, that
offer subscriptions.
You guys this.
Okay, I personally, fucking Iwould love this.
Okay, I would love this gift.
I love fresh flowers and Irarely ever have them because
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you know they're expensive.
I buy them for myself everyonce in a while, but I feel like
I'm like I shouldn't be wastingmoney on that, but it's
something I do really love andas a gift that would be amazing.
So it's so for guys out therelistening yes, you can buy
flowers for your partner andthat's like so nice and whatever
.
But like, fuck off with thatshit.
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Like, get an actual subscriptionso she gets flowers delivered.
I don't know what it is once aweek, once every two weeks, I
don't even fucking know.
But I got something in the mailfrom this like florist company
where they were advertising thissubscription and I was like
that's fucking brilliant, I lovethis.
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So I'm assuming that she'll beable to like, pick out the kinds
of arrangements that she likes,or specify what kind of flowers
are her favorites, or whatever.
And, like you know, on theregular she's getting these
beautiful, fucking fresh flowersLike hello.
It wasn't even that expensiveeither.
I was just like this is sofucking amazing, I got to let
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all the dudes know about thisout there.
So floral company subscriptionsdo it, okay.
And then this is another really,really great one.
I've heard of this only a fewtimes, but let me tell you,
fellas, this is it like, if youreally want to score some bonus
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points with your partner, youare going to arrange for, or
provide the finances for, her togo on a weekend away with her
best girlfriends.
This is like I know you'reprobably rolling your eyes like
well, I'm not involved in thisgift, why I don't get to go?
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Blah, blah, blah.
Well, suck it up, okay, becauseshe would fucking love this.
I'm telling you this right nowRarely do we get the opportunity
to go on a trip with just ourgirlfriends, and we're always
putting others first, and sothis is not prioritized in a
woman's life, and not usually.
Maybe once or twice in alifetime.
Like this is, this is a thing.
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Or if there's somebody gettingmarried or whatever, like this
becomes a thing.
But this is so therapeutic forwomen.
I will tell you that no amountof therapy can even come close
to the amount of therapeuticamazingness that you get from
spending a weekend away withyour bestie.
Trust me, she will come backfeeling like a thousand million
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dollars.
It is so amazing the effectthat it has for women.
Dudes probably not so much.
Yeah, you get to go out withyour I don't know, golfing with
your buddies for a weekend, butI don't think the therapeutic
effect is quite the same.
I just I'm guessing.
But it is really, reallyamazing for women and I would
highly recommend that.
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If you can afford it, fuckingdo it, even if it's just like a,
you know, it's like, I don'tknow, just somewhere where she
could drive, that both of themdrive somewhere, but I think
that it is definitely worthconsidering.
Ok, another one to like amp upthe romance and the love in your
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relationship.
This kind of gift is prettygreat.
It's basically just like datenight but amped up.
So it's a romantic dinner.
But it's kind of a trip.
It's somewhere further away andso you can just drive there and
then drive back home afterwards, or you can plan it out as an
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overnight trip.
So I live in Vancouver, canada,and so I would think that you
know, driving down to somewherelike Seattle for a night would
be really fucking amazing.
You can book a nice dinner,maybe something else during,
before or after that's a show orsomething like that, and then
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like a nice hotel to stay thenight, and that the thought and
and the effort involved in thatis just it goes a long way.
So how do you give that as agift?
I love this idea of creatingyour own little romantic gift
card.
I love this idea of creatingyour own little romantic gift
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card and you can just like cut apiece of paper, just write on
there nicely, or you can printsomething out on your computer
and your printer.
Just make something, a sweetlittle gift card from you, and
on there it can say thisromantic destination, dinner
trip, trip, date night, trip,whatever you want to call it,
and put it in a nice envelopeand give it to her.
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That way she will fucking loveit.
Yes, it takes a little bit ofeffort.
Yes, you can fucking do it.
Okay, you can do it.
It's worthwhile.
Okay, now for the sexy gifts.
These are fun too, um, and Ilove this list.
Coming up with this list was sofun because some of these are
my absolute favorites as well.
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Tops on the list is maisondenige.
I fucking love this company.
Okay, there's a lot of um queenof spades spades lifestyle
brands out there.
Um, I think nearly all of themare are made by dudes, which is
fine.
I mean, they've got their ownstuff, but it's really a like a.
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It's like a their own, I don'tknow.
It's like a type of a style,but maison danège is founded by
a woman and she has this likereally high commitment to good
quality and amazing fashion,like actual style, not just like
oh, here's these fucking bikinishorts with the biggest queen
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of spades symbol you've everseen in your life on it,
plastered on the front.
Okay, she actually put so mucheffort into what these clothes
look like and feel like, and andsome of her brand is kind of
like an in your face.
Um, she's even got like sissystuff on there, like she's.
Even she's like a bunch of cuckstuff on there, like just a lot
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of.
There's some of that, but she'sgot this brand that is like
more couture and is likeabsolutely fucking gorgeous.
The Queen of Spades symbolismis a little less in your face
and more like subtle, moredesign, friendly and beautiful,
and I fucking love it.
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I own so many pieces of MaisonDinesh Like it is definitely by
far my favorite brand out there.
One of my most recent purchaseswas this leopard print Queen of
Spades.
It's black and white but it'sfaded like through black and
white and it's a kimono robe.
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Oh my god, it is so fuckingsoft.
Like it is so soft and stretchyand like the cut is beautiful,
because it's cut like kimonostyle, but it's the length is
beautiful.
It comes like just right.
It's pretty high up on thethigh, so it's super sexy, oh my
god.
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And it's it's leopard print,but each one of the prints like
uh, the little leopard printlike thing has the spade in it,
so it is so fucking beautiful.
It's hard for me to describe,but I'll put a link in the show
notes for today, but it'sabsolutely beautiful.
I fucking love it.
Okay, absolutely fucking,absolutely fucking gorgeous.
Okay, I have a whole bunch ofother stuff from Maison Deneige
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and everything that she has isbeautiful.
Oh my God.
I have two bathing suits thatare just so sexy.
I'm going to be releasing somepictures of those soon.
Oh my God, so, so beautiful Onepiece, but super high cut, low
cut on the titties, and thislike metallic design, like, oh
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my God, it's so sexy.
So, maison Deneige, what you cando because you don't want to,
like, necessarily pick out stufffor her right, you want her to
be able to choose what she wantsyou can just.
This couldn't be easier for youguys.
You can just go on the websitethe link is in the show notes
for today and you could get ane-card and have it, like you
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know, give it to her that way.
So all she has to do is enterthe code from the e-card at
checkout.
It couldn't fucking be easier.
So, maison Daneige highlyrecommend yes, yes, yes, easier.
So Maison Deneige highlyrecommend yes, yes, yes.
Number two on the list is themotor bunny.
I have talked about this acouple of times on the show.
I do not own one.
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I want to own one, like, Ireally, really, really want to
own one.
I'm telling you this, you canhear it in my voice my pussy
wants one, please.
They're expensive though.
Um, so I don't have one, butthey are amazing.
They're one of these likewhat's the word of the other
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brand?
Um, fuck, I can't remember now,but anyway, uh, there's a few
different brands but they're allthe same kind of ride on
vibrator toy thingy, fuckingmachine.
No, it's not a fucking machine,it's like a ride on toy.
So basically you straddle itand it's like has this part that
like massage, that likevibrates your clit.
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But it also has attachmentslike different, like dildos that
you attach to it and, um, yousit on it and like it vibrates,
like it's got.
It's called the motor bunnybecause like it's got a motor,
like it is like it will vibratethe floor of your house, like
the neighbors will be likewhat's going on in there.
It is so intense and it's, ofcourse, got this like controls
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that either she can control orsomebody else can control it.
So the first time I came acrossmotor bunny was, I think, a
couple years ago at splash mocha.
They had.
They had this like demo roomthing where you can go try it
out.
I didn't go, I fucking missedit.
But but Harmony, miss HarmonyCalifornia, she went and she
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came back and she was just likeoh my, oh, my God, that fucking
thing, like loved it OK.
My god, that fucking thing,like loved it okay.
And then this a few weeks ago,as flash mocha, my friend ann
and her husband james they wentto go try it out again.
I missed the motor bunny demo,um, but I heard all about it
afterwards and was just like wow, mind blown, wow, mind blown.
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It's 10 out of 10, apparentlyrating Like 100% guaranteed
gonna love it.
So I would highly recommend theMotor Bunny if you can afford
it.
It's, I think, over $1,000.
It is something that wouldhopefully last like a decade.
So it's a bit of an investment,but it's something that you can
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take with you.
The first time I tried a machinethat was like that.
I tried it at a sex party andsomeone had brought theirs and,
of course, like cleaned andwashed all the attachments in
the machine, in between peopleusing it, of course, but it was
a hit.
When I went on that thing,there was a whole room full of
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people watching.
I lost my damn mind like Ilaunched into the fucking
universe, like I went todifferent planets Like I.
It was so incredible.
I've never, ever, experiencedan orgasm like that before in my
life and it was life changing.
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Okay, so that is definitely highon the list for a gift for your
partner.
She will fucking love it.
Only thing is is it vibrates soso loud that if you are in an
apartment, you're probably yourneighbors are probably going to
hear.
So it probably wouldn't workfor you, I don't think, unless
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you could take it somewhere else.
Okay, I'll put a link for themotor buddy in the show notes
for today.
Okay, the next thing I someonerecommended this a lifestyle
tickets to a lifestyle eventlike a trip to either Splash
Mocha or something like HedonismResort or something like that,
and I think that's wonderful.
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I think that's a great giftbecause it is like a vacation at
the same time, especially ifit's like a hedonism resort.
You're going to an actual likevacation resort.
It's super fun and sexy becausepeople are, you know, doing the
thing, but it's also like agetaway.
It's an actual getaway.
It's something you can lookforward to all year, so I think
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that's definitely a great typeof sexy gift.
Next, this was recommendedonline by a couple of guys.
They said hot wife jewelrywould be great as a gift.
Yeah, you can do that.
I've had some guys over theyears buy me hot wife jewelry
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and it's okay, like there's somedecent things out there, but
what I have found is that noneof them were made well, like,
with like materials that aren'tgoing to just tarnish and
degrade, and so they're reallyjust pieces that you could wear
once or twice or three times,maybe two something, and then
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they're going to start to fadeor like the paint is going to
come off or whatever.
They're just kind of cheap, uh,so it's fine as a gift, but
it's not going to last and, um,she may or may not like whatever
it is that you pick out for her.
I really do wish that there waslike a kind of a maisoneneige
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idea about jewelry, where youcould have stuff that's well
styled, well made and is notgoing to fall apart and it is
going to last, and of course, itwould be more expensive, but it
would fucking last and thatwould be important for me anyway
.
A perfume that she only wearswith her bowl I heard about this
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a few years ago where a husbandtold me my wife has this one
perfume that she will only puton and wear when she's going on
a date with her bull, and I'mlike, oh, my God, that's so hot.
I love that.
Hot, I love that.
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And he said one day she put iton by accident and she was not
going to see her bowl.
But she didn't tell her husbandthat she put it on.
But he's like I could, just Icould smell this amazing scent
all day long and I was justgetting really horny and I
didn't know why.
And then he figured it out.
He's like oh, you're wearingthat perfume.
I love that.
I think that's really great.
But of course you don'tnecessarily want to pick out a
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new perfume for your girlfriendor wife.
That would be stupid.
You don't know what she's goingto like, like you just don't.
You can guess, but you'reprobably not going to get it
right.
So I would definitely get agift card for her to go out and
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pick out a perfume that shereally likes that's fairly like,
you know, sexy and that shewould agree to only wear when
she's going out on a date with abull.
Okay, next up I have a boudoirphoto shoot.
This is a great gift.
There are tons of photographerswho do boudoir photo shoots for
women.
If you don't know what that is,it's just a sexy like beautiful
, very styled, kind of like sexy, sweet photo shoot.
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So just basically Google itwho's in your area and then see
if you can get a gift card orjust buy a shoot with that
person and then present her withthat as a gift.
I think it'd be really great.
These are people who areexcellent at making sure that
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the woman feels comfortable,feels pretty, feels sexy.
They pay attention to thelighting, to her hair, to makeup
, what outfits, all that sort ofstuff, and these are photos
that she can have forever andthey're beautiful, really nice
way, better than any pictureyou're going to take of her for
sure.
So definitely look into thatboudoir photo shoot.
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Okay, some of the okay, the mostcommon suggestion that cucks
have when it comes to buyingtheir hot wife or cuckoldress a
gift is lingerie.
Some of the women out there aregoing to be rolling their eyes
right now because this is likethe only thing that I feel like
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so many guys can think of.
That's it Lingerie.
She's I get it, I get it.
Lingerie, sexy yes, she couldwear it for her bowl.
It's basically lingerie, is agift for her, but it's also a
gift for you, because you'regoing to end up, you know,
seeing it and thinking about itand jerking off about it and
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it's going to be hot andwhatever.
I get it.
But lingerie doesn't do shit.
If she's so tired and sostressed and so fucking not in
the headspace to go out with abull, ok, lingerie is going to
do shit.
Ok, lingerie is going to doshit.
You have to make sure that youare taking care of her before
she can feel like she's going tobe able to go out and have fun
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and enjoy this lingerie with abowl.
Ok, so that goes back to whateverything I said before.
Make sure you focus on fillingup the love tank, the romance
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tank, easing the mental burdenof your partner, before you get
into fucking lingerie.
Because I have a closet that isfucking overflowing with
lingerie.
That's great and all it's superfun, but unless I have the
opportunity to go out andfucking meet these guys, then it
doesn't do shit for me.
Okay, and of all the things Ireally need and really want in
my life, lingerie is probablydown near the bottom of the list
of priorities.
But I do appreciate that cucksare so thoughtful and this is
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what they think of is lingerie.
There's lots of differentlingerie stores that you can
shop from, so Honey Burdette isone of my favorites.
It's beautiful, well-made, it'sgoing to last a long time, but
she's going to need to probablytry it on.
So go for a gift card insteadof just picking something out
for her, because, as we all know, once you buy lingerie, you
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cannot return it.
Sex toys sex toys, condoms, lube, vibrator.
Actually, none of the guysonline recommended a vibrator as
a gift.
They all said dildos.
And yes, there are some womenout there who really do enjoy
dildos, but I will tell you thatmost of them would opt for a
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vibrator any day.
But, yeah, sure, you can get adildo.
Whether she uses it.
I don't know Whether she wouldlove that gift, I don't know.
But Sex toys, sure, um, thereare all sorts of really
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high-tech sex toys now, and I'mjust learning about this.
You guys, it is fuckingmind-blowing.
I had no idea.
Okay, technology is definitelycatching up with sex toys.
It is not just about dildos andvibrators anymore, you guys.
This is crazy.
There are actual sex toys thatare controlled by Bluetooth or
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by apps, and it's just, it'scrazy.
I'm going to get into thosewhen I talk about gifts for both
people, but there are two morethings on the list for women
that are awesome.
And I will tell you, someoneonline recommended to get
tickets to a male strip showtickets for you and her to go
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watch a male strip show.
Well, I think that this idea isvery cute and it's very
creative and I love it.
I love it for that.
But let me tell you, male stripshows suck so bad.
I'm talking about male stripshows for women.
There's probably the male stripshows for gay guys is probably
fucking amazing, I'm assuming.
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But the male strip shows forwomen are not good.
I've been to like two or threein my life and it was.
It was really shitty.
So maybe don't get that for her, ok, so maybe don't get that
for her, okay, no.
But the last but not least, Ilove this.
You guys, this is such a greatidea.
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Okay, again, create your owngift card and on there you're
going to give her the gift ofblissful mornings for an entire
year, meaning that you wake herup by eating her softly, gently,
licking her pussy every morningfor as long as she wants.
Okay, you are her pussy alarmclock.
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I love this idea so much.
I know couples who are inrelationships where this is part
of their relationship.
This is how she wakes up everymorning and I'm like, oh my dear
God, like what I would think Iwould have died and gone to
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heaven, like if I woke up likethat every morning, I would be
the sweetest, most loveliestperson every day of my life.
It will be amazing.
I feel like that's what I'mmissing in my life right now,
and so that would be incredible.
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I mean, some days, maybe Ireally I wouldn't want that and
I could just basically, like youknow, push his head out of the
way and be like you can justlike go or whatever, but like to
have that every day.
Oh my God, yes, yes, please.
So do that.
That's easy.
You can fucking do that.
You don't have to buy anything.
Ok, you just make your ownlittle gift card, you put it in
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a little fucking envelope andyou give that to her, and if she
I mean, trust me, you'reprobably gonna love it, as long
as you're good at eating pussy,maybe you suck at it, and in
that case, you just really needto take some lessons and figure
that shit out.
Um, and make sure that youshave your face.
Please.
Shave your fucking face so it'ssmooth like a baby.
Okay, either that or have abeard, because that doesn't like
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.
That's okay, but anyway, okay,all right.
Gifts for him.
Um, there was a guy on blue skygoes by the name of sub toy.
Okay, he had this idea of as agift and, oh my god, you guys,
it's so good, it's so good, it'sso good, ladies, you can get
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your guy a soft personalizedseat cushion for the cup chair.
I love this, how you want todesign it, what color it should
should be, what it should say onit if it says something or just
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has his name or something, Idon't know, but like I love it.
A cuck chair cushion yes, thankyou, subtoy, for that
suggestion.
That was fucking awesome.
Somebody else on Blue Sky saidused panties, her used panties.
Yes, I've done that beforewhere I gave a guy my used
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panties and he was just like, ohmy God, that was the best thing
in the whole wide world andI've only done it that one time
and it was a big hit.
So let me tell you you'llprobably fucking love it.
Or if you masturbate or use avibrator with your panties on
and then give him those pennies,or oh my God, yes, yes, yes, he
will love it, I'm sure of it.
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Okay, an engraved chesty cage.
I love this one too.
This is great.
So if you get like a reallynice metal chesty cage, have it
engraved with something and giveit to him.
I love that, that's wonderful.
He would probably absolutelyjust die for that.
It'd be great.
A framed picture of you and yourbull.
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Give that to him and have himput it on the bedside table.
I mean, obviously, if you don'thave kids that live with you or
other people who live with you,you can get away with doing
that and that would be like justreally fucking hot, really sexy
.
Or you could have some sort ofphotography done where you get
this like really nice picture ofyou and your bull and it's like
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it's, you know, safe for work,but it's kind of like body
scapes and there's no one's faceinvolved, so nobody would
actually know who it is in thepicture.
But it would.
You both would know that it'syou and your bull.
That would be fucking beautifulframe that put it next to the
bed.
Yes, um, this guy named uh,white shadow on fetlife.
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He said and I love this onethat you should get your cuck a
Brazilian wax for a Christmasgift and I'm like, yes, you
should.
I mean it makes me reallypissed off the inequity between
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how much women put effort we puttowards removing hair on our
bodies and how very littleeffort men put into it.
I think the only ones whoreally give a shit about hair
and their body are gay guys and,uh, porn stars and that's it.
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I mean guys can be hairy asfuck and they don't care, like
that you get in a hair stuck inyour teeth and it's like you
know, getting all fucking nastyin there, like, and they don't
give a fuck or the least, thatthe most, the most they'll do is
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take a little trimmer and like,trim the shit down there,
whoop-dee-doo.
Okay, it's still fucking hairymess.
And for cucks, okay, I had thiscuck friend and he got Brazilian
waxes and he had, he was inchastity all the time and it
well, it looked beautiful,absolutely fucking beautiful,
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smooth down there.
He was pretty muscular and solike it was just hot as fuck.
I think all cucks should getwaxed and I do not want to hear
all your bitching, whining andmoaning about it hurting so bad
and whatever.
I really don't give a fuck.
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Okay, the more you go get itdone, the less it hurts, the
more you get used to it andtrust me when I say this,
because I waxed for over 10years.
After a little while, thatlittle tingle that you get
afterwards, it's fun, let metell you it is good and I've had
all these guys enjoy my freshlywaxed pussy over the years and
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you can put in the same level ofeffort.
So, yes, brazilian wax, do it,I love it.
Okay.
And then there were okay, let'stalk about.
Okay, before I get into the sextoys, let's talk about gifts
for both people.
So I love this.
This guy, compersively onFetLife, he said journals for
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both people.
Now this can be journals for ajournal for her and a matching
journal for her bull, and thetwo of them write their
experiences in there or makelittle notes or, I don't know,
put little things in there toremember certain experiences.
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I don't know.
But I love the idea of journalsbecause it can be either it can
be a journal for Cuck and hishot wife and they, you know, put
their little thoughts andfeelings and stuff in there.
I just really enjoy the idea ofwriting things down and adding
that to your level ofcommunication between you and I
think that's just a great thingto do because you can write in
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it at any point in time and thenyou can make time each week or
once a month to go through andshare what you've written with
each other.
I just think that's like awonderful idea.
And then there's books, so I'mgoing to put the links to this
in the show notes, but the booksthat I would highly recommend
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for both of you as a gift.
The Tell Me what you Want byJustin Lay Miller is a great
book to read.
Okay, because he talks aboutall the most popular fantasies
of people in the United States,and in the end of the book he
talks about how to bring upthese types of fantasies and
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your desires and everything withyour partner.
Some of the best advice I'veever heard is in that book.
So, even if you share yourfantasies with your partner,
it's an incredible read becauseyou get to see what other people
are thinking about andfantasizing about, but also it
can help you to kind of bringyour relationship to the next
level when it comes tocommunicating, which I would
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highly recommend.
Then I have Insatiable Wives byDr David Lay.
This is available on audiobookas well.
Great for you guys to listen totogether.
Highly recommend that book.
It talks about the history ofwomen with insatiable sex
appetites that have, you know,had more than one lover, and
what's that been like for themhistorically, what that's like
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in today's world with cuckoldingcouples.
It's a fascinating read, highlyrecommend, okay.
And then I have two books by KeyBarrett.
These are excellent books, okay.
The first one Surrender, submitand Serve Her.
This is about female leadershipin a relationship.
It's not kink-based, this isabout real, relationship-based
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female leadership.
Okay, it is fantastic.
It blew my mind when I readthat book.
The other book is called Lockedin Love how Two Weeks in
Chastity Can Make you a BetterHusband.
This is by Key Barrett as well.
And, oh, my God, wonderful book.
I would definitely recommendthat one.
My God, wonderful book.
I would definitely recommendthat one.
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Okay, let's talk about the sextoys for both of you guys.
Like I said, wow, they've comea long way.
This is something like sofucking crazy High-tech sex toys
.
Okay, what these sex toys aredesigned for mainly is for like
well, mainly for like coupleswho are long distance, where the
you know, each sex toy iscontrolled by each of you and,
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like you, it's, you know,through the app.
So if she's fucking herselfwith her dildo, then it's
controlling the contractions onhis like whatever you call it
fleshlight thing, I don't knowdick sleeve or whatever you call
it.
Fleshlight thing, I don't know,dick sleeve or whatever you
call it.
Okay, so that's kind of likethat's hot and sexy and fun and
whatever.
For couples.
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Sure, I get it If you're longdistance, but I'm like this
could be so fun for couples whoare into cuckolding because like
the amount of like sensorydeprivation and like you could
really trigger the imaginationof a cock with this.
Because, like she could be inthe bedroom watching like bbc
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porn or something like that andshe's got her vibrator or her
you know, rabbit vibrator orwhatever dildo thing, um, that
she's playing with and at thesame time what she's doing with
it.
He's going to feel with hisdick sleeve thing, masturbator
thing, in the other room so hedoesn't get to see what she's
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watching, but maybe she's justlike on the phone with him so
she could.
She's telling him sort of whatshe's seeing and while she's
like using the.
Oh, my God, you guys know whereI'm going with this.
That would be so fun.
I can definitely have a lot offun with that, like I could
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definitely fuck with a cuck'smind that way.
But they also have prostatemassagers that are Bluetooth,
vibrating prostate massagers.
They've got Bluetooth or appcontrolled butt plugs so he
could go to work with this likebutt plug in and she could fuck
with him during the day with theapp and turning it on whenever
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she wants, or something like ohmy God, the possibilities are
endless, you guys?
Ok, for all the single cucksout there.
They also have this like dicksleeve masturbator thing that
works.
It uses AI to sync withwhatever porn video you're
watching.
So if you're watching like BBCporn, like it somehow syncs with
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it and you get to like fuckthis thing Like she's getting.
I don't even know how it works,but I just watched a little
video about it and I was like ohmy God, like what?
This sounds so awesome.
So, but I love the couples toys.
I would definitely think aboutsomething like that.
Ladies, you can get so creativewith what you do with these
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toys.
I'll post the links in the shownotes for today's episode For
all of these things that I havetalked about.
So there are a lot of options Ihaven't even got into, like the
gifts that you can give yourbulls, but let me just say do
not forget about these gentlemen.
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They are an important part ofour life, they are valued as
human beings and we are so luckyand fortunate to have them in
our lives and they bring so muchto to us and to our
relationship and to our wellbeing and and they're they're
worth everything.
So make sure that you give backto them some sort of gift, even
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if it's something small butsomething thoughtful.
I'm sure that they will be verygrateful for that.
Okay, that's going to be it formy little Venus's list of gifts
for cucks and for hot wives orcuckoldresses or both.
I hope you've enjoyed it and,yeah, I hope everybody has a
great Christmas and a happy newyear.
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I get to see my favoritefucking bull on New Year's Eve
and I'm so excited for this.
I cannot wait.
I am going to end this yearwith a big fucking orgasm and it
is going to be amazing.
So that's how everybody shouldbe popping off 2024 on such a
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high note.
That's going to be it fortoday's episode.
Thank you so much for joining me.
Make sure you go tovenuscuckoldresscom.
That's where you can book aprivate chat with me, and you
can also join the QueensQuarters community and get all
the amazing benefits, like theprivate podcast and the helpful
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cuck tier where you can get keyholding for the private Snapchat
group, monthly private chatswith me and weekly live hangouts
and invites to special liveevents.
Oh, and you can also submit aquestion or confession for the
show.
Just go to venuscuckledresscomand click on the link that says
the podcast.
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Make sure you follow me on BlueSky Social.
Yes, I said Blue Sky Social.
Fuck Twitter.
My handle there is atCuckoldress V.
All right, that's it fortoday's show.
You guys, we'll see you nexttime.
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