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March 13, 2025 9 mins

158. Choosing Likeability Over Respect

This episode discusses the critical balance leaders must strike between being liked and being respected. Explore the signs that indicate a leader may be prioritizing likeability over respect, such as avoiding tough conversations and withholding constructive criticism. The conversation delves into the challenges leaders face in decision-making and the importance of empowering team members. Sue emphasizes the need for consistent leadership and the impact of short-term harmony on long-term success. The episode concludes with actionable insights for leaders to reflect on their behaviors and create a visibility action plan for improvement.

In this episode:

  • Leaders often struggle with the balance of being liked versus respected.
  • Choosing likeability can lead to avoiding tough conversations.
  • It's essential to provide constructive feedback for team growth.
  • Leaders must make difficult decisions for the benefit of the team.
  • Promoting unprepared employees can harm team dynamics.
  • Withholding criticism does not help team members improve.
  • Praising subpar work can mislead employees about expectations.
  • Inconsistent leadership sends mixed messages to the team.
  • Empowering team members is crucial for their development.
  • Leaders should reflect on their behaviors and make necessary changes.

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