From Restraining Order to Reconciliation: How One Man Rebuilt His Marriage

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What do you do when your marriage collapses so completely that it ends in a restraining order? Can a relationship that has broken ever be rebuilt?

In this powerful episode of The Voyage Cast, Eddie sits down with relationship coach Bryan Power to unpack how his marriage went from “pretty good” to total emotional breakdown in 2024 — and how deep personal work, therapy, and Integrated Attachment Theory helped him rebuild not just his relationship, but himself.

Bryan shares openly about growing up in generational dysfunction, carrying abandonment wounds into adulthood, and how those subconscious patterns shaped his marriage until everything fell apart. He and Eddie walk through the six pillars of Integrated Attachment Theory — core wounds, needs, emotions, boundaries, communication, and behaviors — and explain how each one becomes a practical tool for repairing relationships from the inside out.

This episode is for anyone who has ever wondered:

• Why do my relationships repeat the same painful patterns?

• Can a marriage survive betrayal, separation, or emotional chaos?

• How do I communicate without defensiveness?

• What does real personal growth look like when everything is falling apart?

Bryan’s story is honest, hopeful, and deeply practical. Whether you’re trying to save your marriage, heal from trauma, or break generational patterns for your kids, this conversation offers a roadmap.

Topics include:

• Surviving marital breakdown and no-contact periods

• Healing abandonment wounds and subconscious patterns

• When one person’s growth can change a whole relationship

• Setting boundaries without creating distance

• How to communicate without defending

• What emotional regulation looks like in real time

• Why generational trauma follows us — and how to stop repeating it

• Practical tools couples can use today

Connect with Bryan Power:

makeyourrelationshipfail.com

myrelationshipfail.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/bryanwpower/

https://www.youtube.com/@myrelationshipfail

https://www.instagram.com/myrelationshipfail/

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