The What A Character Podcast

Not all families are born. Some are made by love, by choice, by showing up when it matters.

This Pride, I’m shouting out the ones who didn’t have to save me... but did anyway.

You didn’t have to. But you did.
And that’s everything.

Happy Pride Month!

This episode is a Letter to My Past Self.

This isn’t just a letter. It’s a reckoning.

To the child who hid.
To the teen who prayed to be “fixed.”
To the soul who survived silence, shame, and still chose to stay. This one’s for you.

You were never too much. You were always divine.

This Pride, we don’t just celebrate. We remember who we had to be to make it here.

They’ll call you selfish the moment you stop abandoning yourself for them.
But they never called you selfless when it was killing you.

Let them be mad.
You’re allowed to choose peace.
You’re allowed to fucking matter.

And no, you don’t need a reason!

This is your Permission to Be Selfish.

We always talk about change, but not the wreckage left behind from the shift.

The shift is ugly, but it’s where growth begins. And sometimes, it’s the only choice.

For the ones who burned it all down, how do you rebuild when the pieces don’t fit anymore? Let me know in the comments.

Took a sip of my own medicine.
Rested. Recharged. Ready to run my mouth again!

March was for my mind, my man, my people, and most of all, me.
The mic was off, but the growth was loud.

I'm back baby! Episodes kick back up next week!
Hope you missed me. 💛

Happy Black History Month!

They tried to bury the rhythm, but it never stopped beating.

The Rhythm That Remains is a story of Harlem’s pulse, Langston Hughes, Black resilience, and the echoes of a fight that never ended.

The struggle may have changed its tune, but the song still plays. Are you listening?

Have you ever felt like the person staring back at you in the mirror wasn’t you anymore? Like every choice you’ve made was less about what you wanted and more about what others expected?

This week we're learning how the silent thief of conformity chips away at our authenticity, self-worth, and joy.

Because staying true to yourself in a world that demands sameness is one of the bravest things you’ll ever do. 

Do you ever feel like you're one misstep away from being 'found out'? Like no matter how much you've achieved, it's never enough? This week, we’re diving into Beneath the Glass Ceiling, a story about battling imposter syndrome, finding strength in vulnerability, and learning to embrace your own worth. Because sometimes, the biggest battle isn’t proving yourself to the world, it’s believing you belong there in the first place!

What does gratitude mean when life feels messy? How do you find light in loss or stay present during the holidays?

This week, we’re talking about finding beauty in chaos, rebuilding yourself, and preparing for the life you deserve. Plus, what Pluto in Aquarius means for your future.

This is 'Gratitude, Growth & Gearing Up for Your Glow-Up.'

Happy Birthday to me!

This week’s episode is special—it’s my birthday weekend, and I’m reflecting on a year of growth, loss, and self-discovery. Join me as I share the raw journey of learning to love the unfamiliar parts of myself, embracing emotional intelligence, and finding strength in vulnerability. It’s all about

In this week’s episode, we tackle the brutal and messy reality of forgiveness after betrayal. When trust is shattered by those you love most, how do you find the strength to forgive, not for them, but for yourself? This story takes a look into the raw emotions of heartbreak, rage, and the difficult path to healing. Join us as we explore what it means to forgive while still feeling every ounce of the pain.