"Conflict is always a bid for connection," says Meenadchi, a communication and wellness consultant, somatic practitioner, and author of Decolonizing Nonviolent Communication. But what happens when relationships are coded as unsafe? What if our nervous systems see relationality as a threat?
In this episode, Meenadchi joins neurobiology expert Rajkumari Neogy to explore the art of rupture and repair in relationships, offering a powerful reframe: conflict isn’t about winning or losing—it’s about discovering how much a relationship can truly hold. Together, they unpack why defensiveness is the antithesis of connection, how our bodies hold wisdom about safety and belonging, and why leaders must recognize power dynamics in every conversation.
Tune in to learn:
• Why conflict is a sign that someone is asking to be seen, heard, or held
• The role of the nervous system in shaping how we engage with relationships
• How to develop the muscle for repair—without burning out or overextending yourself
With insight, warmth, and practical tools, this conversation offers a transformative lens on how we navigate conflict at home, at work, and within ourselves. If you've ever struggled with giving feedback, holding boundaries, or feeling safe in relationships, this episode is essential listening.
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Then, Now & Tomorrow, an original podcast series by ibelong
Is it possible to feel safe at work? Neurobiology expert Rajkumari Neogy absolutely thinks so. Join us for conversations that will blow your mind as we explore what it takes to foster inclusive leadership and cultivate resonant cultures in the workplace.
Watch or listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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Credits
Produced by Flowship
Creative Director: Annabel Mangold
Original Music Composer: Dario Valderrama
Rajkumari's wardrobe styling courtesy of Gene Hiller (http://www.genehiller.com)
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Meet ibelong
At ibelong, we've developed a neurochemical approach that solves for workplace exclusion and conflict. We study workplace scenarios that lead to dissatisfaction and have built a framework to understand why people are feeling undervalued, and how to change it.
Learn more at http://www.ibelong.com.
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