These Are The Gays Of Our Lives

These Are The Gays Of Our Lives

Drew and Sarah are college friends who share a love of pop culture from 80s music, old Hollywood movies, iconic closeted characters, and campy TV shows. Countless LGBTQ+ stories remain hidden in history, but deserve to be in the spotlight. Drew and Sarah explore the memorable and the not-so-well-known LGBTQ+ people that influenced both their lives and society. Peppered in every story are their hot takes and sass. Listen in, learn, and laugh along as they humorously and affectionately tell the life stories of the many gays of our lives.

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November 28, 2025 75 mins

Remember that movie, Xanadu? Of course you do! Drew and Sarah retell this magic tale of 80's love, singing, dancing and rollerskates. Were the writers high? Probably. 

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Drew filled in for Megan from "It's Always The Husband" and recorded some true crime with Sarah. 

From the show Deadly Women this is a story about Alice Mitchell and Freda Ward.  It's love turned into obsession in a time when this kind of love was "frowned upon." 

1892 in Memphis, Tenn saw two friends become lovers in a tale of love gone wrong. 

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November 14, 2025 98 mins

 This conversation explores the lives of two groundbreaking LGBTQ athletes, John Curry and Glenn Burke. John Curry, a figure skater, faced the challenges of fame and identity while navigating the world of competitive skating. His innovative approach to ice dance and his struggles with mental health and acceptance in the sport are discussed. Glenn Burke, a baseball player, made history as the first openly gay player in Major League ...

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October 30, 2025 120 mins

In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore the world of extreme athletes, focusing on LGBTQ representation in sports. They introduce a segment called 'Hey, That's Kind of Gay', where they discuss media and observations related to LGBTQ culture. The conversation shifts to the Proud Champions initiative, which supports LGBTQ athletes, and highlights the legendary Billie Jean King, her activism, and her impact on women&apo...

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October 12, 2025 67 mins

Listen all over again to Drew and Sarah discuss legendary actor and lover Cary Grant. 

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September 20, 2025 107 mins

In this episode, Drew and Sarah explore the intersection of athletics and LGBTQ identity, discussing their own experiences with sports and the representation of LGBTQ individuals in media. They delve into the story of Renee Richards, a transgender athlete who broke barriers in tennis, highlighting the challenges and triumphs she faced throughout her journey. The conversation touches on pop culture moments, positive news for the LGB...

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September 5, 2025 96 mins

In this episode, Drew and Sarah explore the intersection of sports and LGBTQ history, focusing on notable athletes and cultural moments. .' The conversation highlights Hobey Baker, a pioneering figure in American sports, whose legacy continues to influence the world of athletics today. This conversation delves into the life and legacy of Greg Louganis, one of the greatest divers in Olympic history. It explores his struggles wi...

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August 15, 2025 45 mins

We made it one year! How time flies!

In this episode, Drew and Sarah go over old episode and add any new information or information that didn't make it to the shows. We share more stories and interesting tidbits about the fascinating people we have learned about all year. 

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In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore the lives and legacies of influential LGBTQ+ writers and figures, including Audre Lorde and Gertrude Stein. They discuss media representation in films like Jaws 3D, celebrate Tom Daley's new swimwear line, and highlight the importance of community support for mental health resources. The conversation emphasizes the intersection of art, identity, and activism, showcasing how these themes ...

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*Last 5 minutes, Drew's voice disappears! You will just hear Sarah's nonsense. We will fix it for next time*

Join Drew and Sarah as they dive into the fascinating world of LGBTQ+ authors in their ongoing Writers Series. This episode explores the unique perspectives and creative processes of...

Hans Christian Andersen: The fairy tale writer whose life and works reflect his complex identity. Audre Lorde: A powerful voice in b...

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In this episode, hosts Sarah and Drew explore the lives and impacts of literary icons Emily Dickinson and Virginia Woolf. The hosts delve into Dickinson's family background, her struggles with mental health, and the societal expectations of women in the 1800s, drawing parallels to Woolf's experiences. This conversation delves into the life of Virginia Woolf, exploring her early years, struggles with mental health, relatio...

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June 20, 2025 94 mins

In this episode, Sarah and Drew dive into the documentary 'Pee-wee as Himself,' exploring the life and career of Paul Rubens, the man behind the iconic Pee-wee Herman character. They discuss their lifelong admiration for Pee-wee, the complexities of his character development, and the influence of his childhood and family on his artistic journey.

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In this episode of 'These Are The Gays of Our Lives,' hosts Drew and Sarah explore various themes related to LGBTQ history and representation. This conversation delves into the life and legacy of Walt Whitman, exploring his early challenges, innovative teaching methods, and eventual transition to writing. It highlights his struggles with alcoholism, his activism for social issues, and the profound impact of his experience...

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In this episode of 'These Are the Gays of Our Lives', hosts Sarah and Drew explore the lives of LGBTQ authors, focusing on Oscar Wilde. They discuss various media representations of gay culture, share positive news for the community, and delve into Wilde's literary contributions and personal struggles with identity. The conversation highlights the importance of representation in media and the ongoing journey of the L...

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May 9, 2025 112 mins

In this episode, Drew and Sarah delve into the life and legacy of Grace Jones, exploring her journey from Jamaica to becoming a disco icon. They discuss her relationships, the impact of her Jamaican roots on her identity and music, and the challenges she faced during her pregnancy. The conversation highlights Grace's unique persona, her influence on pop culture, and the personal stories that shaped her career. In this segment,...

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April 25, 2025 102 mins

In this episode, Sarah and Drew delve into the life and legacy of Grace Jones, exploring her early years, cultural impact, and the significance of her work in the LGBTQ+ community. They discuss her memoir, iconic status, and the representation of queer stories in media, while also engaging in light-hearted segments about pop culture. In this conversation, Drew and Sarah delve into the life of Grace Jones, exploring her roots in Jam...

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In this episode of 'These Are the Gays of Our Lives', hosts Sarah and Drew delve into the world of musicians, focusing on lesser-known figures like Sister Rosetta Tharp and the cultural impact of rock and roll icons. They discuss the evolution of media representation, particularly in relation to LGBTQ themes, and reflect on classic comedy's role in shaping societal norms. The conversation also highlights community re...

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In this episode of 'These Are The Gays of Our Lives,' Drew and Sarah explore the rich history of LGBTQ+ musicians, highlighting the importance of representation in music and media. The episode culminates in a tribute to Sister Rosetta Tharp, the godmother of rock and roll, whose influence on music is profound and often overlooked. This conversation delves into the life and legacy of Rosetta Tharpe, a pioneering figure in ...

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In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore the lives of LGBTQ musicians, starting with Bessie Smith and Josephine Baker. This conversation delves into the life of Bessie Smith, a pioneering blues singer known for her complex personality, turbulent relationships, and significant impact on music and culture. The discussion highlights her rise to fame, struggles with family and marriage, exploration of sexuality, confrontations with raci...

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February 28, 2025 94 mins

In this episode of 'These Are The Gays of Our Lives', Drew and Sarah explore the stories of LGBTQ figures, focusing on the legacy of Prince, the campy nature of Batman films, and recent positive developments for the LGBTQ community. They also share surprising experiences from Kansas City, highlighting its unexpected inclusivity and representation. This conversation delves into the life and activism of Bayard Rustin, a key...

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