What does it really mean to *outserve* your partner? In this deeply personal and honest episode, my husband Dylan and I talk about what it means to have a **servant heart** in a God-centered relationship—especially when life gets messy. From financial pressure to emotional needs, we share how service, leadership, and submission have transformed our marriage.
We’re not experts—we’re living it, learning it, and sharing the real and raw moments that help us grow closer to each other and to God. This one is for every couple who’s navigating love, faith, and selflessness in today’s world.
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📍 CHAPTERS
00:00 – The True Test of Service in Hard Times
03:00 – Why My Husband's Leadership Changed Everything
06:00 – What Real Servant-Hearted Love Feels Like
11:00 – Leading by Example vs. Leading by Force
16:00 – How to Outserve Without Resentment
21:00 – From Spiteful to Sacred: My Shift in Service
26:00 – Gender Roles, Love Languages, and Emotional Needs
33:00 – Fairness Is a Lie: Building a Love That Lasts
39:00 – What Inspires a Man to Lead Spiritually
45:00 – How to Start Developing a Servant Heart
52:00 – Final Words for Couples Ready to Grow
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