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Hey Ladies! In today's video you will learn the 3 things you must do to Achieve any Dream Goal You Want. 

This video answers these questions: How do I shift my mindset to achieve more? How can I become the kind of woman who achieves her goals? Why do I struggle to achieve my goals, and how can I change that? How can I shift from dreaming about my goals to actually achieving them? How do I overcome fear and take bold action toward my dreams? How can I build unshakable confidence in myself? What habits do successful women have? How do I turn my dreams into reality? How can I overcome fear of failure and go all in on my dreams? How do I create unstoppable momentum toward my dreams? How can I stay disciplined and focused on my goals? What is the secret to achieving any goal I set?

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squadcaster-fi05_1_03-27-20 (00:06):
Hey ladies.
Welcome back to another video.
Today we are going to be talkingabout how to become the woman
who achieves anything she wants.
Trust me, it is possible and I'mgonna give you.
Three.
Three main things that you mustdo to get yourself into the

(00:28):
position of achieving anythingthat you want.
It is so possible.
All right, so let's go ahead andget started.
I'm so excited to go over thesewith you.
These are things that has helpedme so much.
So number one, the first thingthat you must do.
Is that you must start seeingyourself differently.

(00:52):
Yes, you have to improveyourself image.
This is one of the first thingsthat you must do.
Why?
Because you can only achievewhat you see is possible for.
You for someone like you, right?
Someone with your capabilities,someone with your uniqueness,

(01:15):
someone like you, what ispossible for you.
So if you are stuck, you're notachieving any of your dream
goals because you're stuck infear.
You're stuck in overthinking.
You are stuck in self-doubt.
You have a fear ofembarrassment.
You have a fear of failure.
You have a fear of judgment.
All of this is due to selfimage.

(01:38):
That is it.
It is all due to self image, andI'm gonna show you why.
So if you have a fear offailure, this is why you have a
fear of failure, or this can bea huge reason or why you have a
fear of failure.
I.
One, maybe you failed before andit hurt you so bad.
It scared the living crap out ofyou.

(02:00):
And now you don't see yourselfas someone who can overcome
failure.
You don't see yourself assomeone who can bounce back.
That is why you have a fearfailure.
Maybe you haven't failed before,but you fear.
Potentially failing at achievingyour dream goals and you don't

(02:23):
know what it's gonna do to you,You don't know if you're gonna
be able to bounce back.
So your image of yourself isthat you don't see yourself
right now as a.
Victor, you don't see yourselfas someone who can overcome and
you don't see yourself as awinner If you were seeing

(02:44):
yourself as a winner, the fearof failure, yes, that can still
be there, but it won't keep youstuck.
When you are stuck.
It is because you cannot thinkmore highly of yourself to
overcome that failure.
to overcome that fear.
The fear of embarrassment, Youdon't see yourself as someone

(03:05):
who is.
Okay.
And worthy and good enough tomake mistakes.
As someone who can take up spaceand be seen as you are, as your
authentic self, as you, youknow, are putting yourself out
there, That is where the fear ofembarrassment comes from.
To get over that fear ofembarrassment, you have to see

(03:26):
yourself as a person who isworthy of taking up space as
someone who is worthy to beseen.
That is something that has to beovercome in order for you to get
over that fear of embarrassment.
Because that fair embarrassmentis keeping you stuck.
It is keeping you stuck fromachieving your dream goal.

(03:48):
You are worthy of taking upspace.
You are worthy of putting yourideas out there.
You are worry worthy of, youknow, showing up online.
If you wanna show up online, youare worthy of starting your
business.
You can overcome embarrassmentbecause you know that
embarrassment.
It's only you embarrassing ofyourself, right?

(04:09):
Because you don't see yourselfas someone who is worthy to make
mistakes and worthy to take upspace and be seen.
Okay?
You are good enough.
So anything that is keeping youstuck, self-doubt, you don't see
yourself as more than capable.
You don't see, see yourself as aperson who can achieve, You
lack.
That confidence.

(04:30):
You don't see yourself as aperson who is trustworthy.
If you're stuck inperfectionism, you don't see
yourself again as a person whois good enough.
If you're stuck in overthinking,you don't see yourself as a
person who is trustworthy, whocan make the right decision for
herself, right?
Everything that is keeping youstuck.
It's due to that self image.

(04:52):
The list goes on and on and onand on.
This is one of the first thingsthat you must do is work on
improving your self image.
And you can start small, right?
You do not have to have thishuge self-image, this huge
positive self-image of yourselfto get started.

(05:12):
Guess what's gonna happen?
You getting started, you takingaction despite.
Any of these things that havebeen holding you back, it is
what is going to rebuild yourself image.
It is going to start making yousee yourself as trustworthy,
start making you see yourself asa person who can make decisions

(05:33):
for herself and as a person whois confident and capable, and.
You know, deserving to take upspace as worthy to be seen as an
overcomer, as a person who'sworthy of investing in
themselves.
When you take action, your selfimage will improve.
That is one of the.
First things that you must do ifyou want to become a woman who

(05:58):
can achieve anything, anythingthat you wanna achieve, it is
possible for you, but you haveto improve that self image.
So there are two things that Iam going to offer you to today
because you are worthy to investin yourself.
One of that is that I'm offeringyou a free webinar it is called

(06:19):
From Stuck to Unstoppable, andit is my blueprint, my blueprint
in helping you finally takeaction on your dream goals.
That's my first offer.
My second offer for today is ifyou are ready, if you are tired
of being stuck and you are readyto achieve your dream goals, you

(06:44):
are ready to.
Rebuild your self image, rebuildthat confidence within yourself,
and ultimately you feelunstoppable, Then I wanna invite
you to the Goal AchieverProgram.
It's a three month program whereyou'll move from being a
dreamer.
You have this ambition.
You want more for yourself.

(07:04):
You wanna do more.
You have this dream goal, butyou're stuck in overthinking.
Fear failure, fear ofembarrassment, fair judgment,
self-doubt, all of the above,You're ready to move to
achievement.
all you have to do is go to thelink in the description box for
either one of these offers andyou can click on that link, book
a call so that we can getclarity on your goals, clarity

(07:29):
on your dream goal, and we canmove you into taking you from
being a dreamer to achiever.
Or you can click the link fromStuck to Unsavable webinar and I
will see you in there.
It is free if you just wannaknow how to get started, So that
is my two offers for you fortoday.
Remember, you are worthy ofinvesting in yourself.

(07:50):
So now let's get to number two.
So the second thing that youmust do, you must do if you
wanna become a woman whoachieves anything she wants.
Is that you have to adapt agoal.
Goal.
All in mindset.

(08:12):
You have to go all in.
There is, there's nohalf-assing, there's no baby
steps.
No, you go all in.
If you wanna become a woman whoachieves anything that she puts
her mind to, you go all in.
And what this looks like from myexperience, these are things

(08:34):
that I've had to do to achieveanything that I've ever wanted
to achieve is, one, deciding,deciding that you get to
achieve.
You give yourself permissionthat it is okay to go in and
achieve.
It is safe to go all in andachieve, and that you are
deciding that today is a day youprove this dream goal, you know

(08:58):
that is worthy of you.
That is good enough.
That is for you.
That it is right, that it isgood, and you decide that this
is it.
I'm going all in.
And so what this also looks likeis getting started immediately,
right?
Getting started Less thinking,more action.
Anything that I've everachieved, I've had to do more

(09:20):
action and less thinking.
Thinking is a part of theprocess.
You'll learn as you go.
You'll think throughout theprocess you'll get the
information that you need to getin the beginning, but you.
Go, you take action.
If I never did this, I will bestuck in overthinking
everything.

(09:41):
Stuck trying to be aperfectionist.
Stuck trying to get everythingcorrect.
No, you have to take actionbecause action is going to
create momentum.
When you take action, you aregoing to see some kind of
results, and that is gonnacontinue putting the battery in
your back another thing thathappens when you do less

(10:02):
thinking more action is that youdo not give yourself time.
You do not give yourselfopportunity to talk yourself out
of it whatsoever.
Right.
You don't give yourselfopportunity to do that.
We don't have time for that,right?
You wanna be able to move.
From your body instead of thelogic.

(10:24):
Again, logic is important andthat will happen throughout the
process of you achieving yourdream goal, but listening to
your body, allowing your body tolead you, to guide you,
especially in the beginning ifyou wanna move from being stuck
to actually taking action, ismoving from that body.
Take action.

(10:45):
This helped me achieve anythingI want.
So the second thing that goingall in entails from my
experience is.
Go on all in and investing inyourself.
Okay, so investing in yourmindset.
That looks like reading books,that looks like listening to
motivational videos.

(11:06):
This.
Looks like signing up for acourse or signing up for
coaching and guidance forsomeone to coach you.
paying the money, because wherethere's transformation, there
tends to be a transaction.
Most of the time when you aregetting something for free,
you'll not work as hard.
But when you put money intosomething, when you put money

(11:29):
into something, is an exchangeof energy.
When you put money intosomething, you are telling
yourself that you are ready toinvest in yourself and that you
are all in and you are notplaying.
When you invest in yourselffinancially, you leveled up
immediately becausetransformation requires

(11:51):
transaction.
The third thing that entailsgoing all in is learning to be a
student.
Be a student of yourself.
Learn how you work.
Learn what feels good.
Learn what doesn't feel good.
Learn from your mistakes.

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Learn to think differently.
Learn to wonder, what if I didthis?
What can I do differently?
being a student of yourself isgoing to absolutely.
Help you achieve anything thatyou want to achieve because you
have to keep that studentmentality.
Always remember in my last videowhat I talked about a woman who

(12:35):
wanders.
She is unstoppable because it'sso true.
Because if you cannot wonder ifyou cannot be a student, if you
cannot think, if you cannot useyour nain to think differently,
to unlock your potential, todiscover new possibilities, you
will not be able to achieveanything.

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You have to become a student ofyourself.
All right?
And so the fifth thing thatgoing all in entails, this is
very important, do not missthis, is conquering those
distractions, there are manydistractions that we have.
There's distractions all over,right?

(13:18):
Anything can potentially be adistraction.
It could be good distractions,it can be bad distractions.
However, you have to figure out,depending on the goal that you
truly desire to achieve whatdistraction is worthy, what
distraction is worth it.
and which distractions that youneed to conquer immediately.

(13:39):
The third thing that you must doif you want to become a woman.
Who achieves anything she wantsis you have to expect to win.
You have to master or manageyour expectations, period.

(14:01):
You have to.
You have to expect to win.
Because if you expect to lose, Ipromise you, and I can guarantee
this from personal experience,if you expect to lose, your
actions will reflect that.
You will not go all in, you willnot give it your all.

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You will distract yourself by.
Things that are not moving theneedle for you, you will
self-sabotage yourself.
If you do not expect to win, youhave to expect to win.
If you wanna achieve anythingthat you want to achieve, you
almost have to be a littledelusional.

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You have to be, you have to be alittle delusional, right?
You have to be able to believein the unseen.
You have to have a certain kindof faith, a certain kind of
knowing that you will achievethis dream goal, even though you
don't have it yet.
It's not in your hands yet, evenif it may feel a little far

(15:04):
away, you still have to musterup a little.
D Lulu, you have to, This lookslike moving with expectation.
What I mean by this is acting asif moving with the expectation
that you just truly believe thatit is going to work out.

(15:25):
So taking that action.
So for me, let's say there'ssomething that I want to
achieve.
Okay?
I'm Gonna give you guys apersonal example about what I
mean.
I'm gonna talk about somethingthat I'm actually currently
working on right now.
So one of my dream goals is tohit a hundred K subscribers on

(15:48):
YouTube.
I want my 100 K plat, I want ithanging up on my wall.
That is a dream goal of mine, Iexpect that to happen.
So what I do is I producecontent every single week.
I show up.
Every single week, and I show itwith energy.

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I show it with a mindset that,Ooh, this is gonna be good.
Oh, this is gonna reach a lot ofpeople.
I do it every single time.
I don't care if.
I get 10 views.
I don't care if I get two views.
I don't care if I get a hundredviews.
It doesn't stop me fromexpecting that this video may be

(16:35):
the video that takes off.
This video may be the video thatreaches so many people, so I
have to show up.
I have to show up.
But if I had the expectation oflosing, if I expected that
because of my past videos, somedid.
Okay, some did.

(16:56):
Two of you, some did.
10 If I expected that.
This is going to happen all thetime.
I would just stop producingcontent, right?
But no, I expect to win.
So I show up, and I show up, andI show up.
That's what you have to do whenyou expect to win.
You still have to move with theexpectation, even if.

(17:19):
You don't see it yet.
I see it.
You have to see it in your mindfirst.
I see it in my mind.
I know for a fact that that 100K is coming.
I want that plot and I expect towin.
So I move with expectation.
So move with expectation.
You can achieve anything thatyou want to achieve.

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if the vision was given to you,then it's yours.
That's why you should alwaysexpect to win because it is
yours.
If the vision was given to youand you feel it and you see it
and you can see yourself there,expect to win because it is
yours.
So do these three things and youwill without a doubt, achieve

(18:08):
anything that you truly desireto achieve.
Work on that self-image.
Decide to go all in.
Literally just go all in.
And expect to win those threethings you'll achieve.
Anything that you want toachieve.
So if you are stuck right nowand you truly want to move from

(18:29):
dreaming and you want to move toachieving, you can either join
my From Stuck to Unstoppablewebinar.
It is free.
It's gonna give you my blueprintto helping you finally just take
action.
Just take action.
Okay.
Or if you are interested in theGoal Achiever three month
program where you will move fromdreaming to achieving where you

(18:53):
ultimately feel unstoppable.
I.
Then you can either go ahead andsign up immediately or you can
book a clarity call with me sothat we can get clarity around
your dream goal and how we canget you there.

squadcaster-fi05_2_03-27-20 (19:09):
And so ladies, I hope this video
helps you.
And until next time, bye.
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