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undefined_NaN_02-04-2025_12 (00:05):
Hey
guys, welcome back to another
video Today we are going to betalking about how to become a
magnet To your dream goalactually how to become the
magnet to your dream Goal Sowhat I want you guys to get from
this video Is really starttreating your dream goal as if
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it is your boo thing as if it issomebody that you are you know
working to attract to You andthe reason why I say this is
because As I mentioned before,your dream goal, it is your
masculine energy.
Your dream goal is inrelationship to you, is in a
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relationship with you.
We are in relationship to ourhair.
We are in relationship to ourclothes.
We are in relationship to money.
We are in relationship to everysingle thing.
And so learning to treat yourdream goal as if you're dating,
has been one of the mostbeneficial things for me and
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pursuing and achieving my dreamgoals and it has truly helped me
become a magnet to my dreamgoals and so I want to show you
how as well so number one andhow to become the magnet to your
dream goal is become the dreamGoal.
Become her.
So what I mean by this is, Iknow you heard before, if you
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want success, then you need tobecome success.
Right?
If you want to have riches, thenyou need to become a rich
person.
If you want to have this healthylifestyle, if you want to be
physically fit, then literally.
Become a healthy person, a fitperson, right?
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If you wanna become a magneticperson, then become the magnetic
person.
So this is like if you weredating someone or if you wanted
to date someone, right?
We want this dream man.
We want this dream woman.
to be this ideal person that wewant to have.
But a lot of times, sometimes wedon't become the person that we
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need to be to actually attractthat dream person.
The same thing with our goals.
How do we expect to receive ourgoals, the big dream goals that
we have, if we can't tap intowho that dream person is.
If we cannot tap into us as thatdream goal.
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And so this is a practice, Italk about this all the time, of
embodiment, of internalization,of simply just acting as if.
This dream goal that you trulywant to receive.
Who do you need to be to attractit to you?
Who do you need to be?
Do you need to be a person ofspecific habits?
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Do you need to be a successfulperson already?
Do you need to be an achieveralready, right?
How can you embody these things?
How would she act on a dailybasis?
How would she think?
How would she speak?
What would she do?
How would she show up?
How can you become the dreamgoal?
And that is going to allow you.
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to magnetize your goal to you.
You become the dream goal.
And so what I recommend doing iswrite out your goal that you
have, and then go and create alist of who you need to be to
receive this goal because youonly attract what you are.
You don't just attract what youwant.
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You attract who you are.
So attract who you are bybecoming the person.
number two, how to become themagnet to your dream goal is to
love yourself more than you loveyour dream goal.
This is so, so, so, soimportant.
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I've learned this the hard way.
I've learned this many times inmy pursuit and achieving my
dream goals.
There are many times that I'veaccidentally, I've I
accidentally love my dream goalmore than I love myself.
And how does that show up?
How can you tell that you areloving your dream goal more than
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you loving yourself?
You are burning yourself out.
You are tying your worth to thedream goal.
So if you haven't achieved thedream goal, maybe you feel like
you're not good enough.
You hate yourself when you makemistakes, right?
Who we all been there, right?
You hate yourself when you makesimple mistakes while you are in
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pursuit of your dream goal, feelsuper attached to this dream
goal.
You are in desperate energy, oryou're just simply burnt out.
And so what this does isactually repel.
Loving your dream goal isimportant, yes.
We have to love our dream goal.
We have to love it because loveis such a strong vibrational
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energy.
It's one of the highest levelsof, vibrations that you can
actually have.
And so it is so important tolove your dream goals, but
loving your dream goal more thanyou love yourself, it is just
going to repel.
Just like if we love a man morethan we love ourselves.
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Again, we probably are.
All been there.
What has happened?
That actually created more of awe chase than attract, right?
We're chasing them.
There is an imbalance there.
They're not really chasing us.
They're actually moving awayfrom us it is it creates that
imbalance or it makes them feellike you need them and it can
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cause them to take advantage ofyou.
Do not allow your dream goal totake advantage of you.
Your dream goal does not own whoyou are.
It does not validate your worth.
You don't need it.
You want it.
Yes, you love it.
And that is perfectly fine.
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Again, we should love our dreamgoals.
We should love it, right?
We're just not supposed to loveit more than we love ourselves.
The best way to Achieve andpursue your dream goal is to
pursue an achiever from a stateof love a state of happiness a
state of joy Right.
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Remember struggle love ain't it?
What's the point of pursuing andachieving a dream goal or a
dream relationship?
If it is struggle love in themiddle of it because you are
choosing to love the goal lovethe person More than you love
yourself It is not it.
It is not it.
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because your goal is going torun away No goal Nobody wants to
run towards a person who hatesthemselves Unless they're jacked
up themselves, right?
Nobody wants to do that Nobodywants to run towards a person
who neglects themselves.
Nobody wants to run towards aperson who just simply do not
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love themselves or take time tolove themselves.
Who are we mostly attracted to?
We're attracted to people whoyou can see is, is radiating.
We're attracted to people whotakes the time to take care of
themselves, to pour intothemselves.
We love people like that.
Your goal Loves you like that.
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So love yourself more than youlove the goal.
So the third way for yourself tobecome a magnet towards your
dream goal, to become the magnettowards your dream goal is to
show your goal that you careabout it and that is a priority,
that it is a priority now.
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Who is not attracted to a manwho shows you that they care
about you, who shows you thatyou can trust them, that shows
you that you are a priority?
I don't think no one is notattracted to that person, right?
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No one is not pulled towardsthat person that just shows them
that they are safe.
with them, shows them that theyare cared for, that they are tru
that they can trust them.
No one.
Trust is one of the most sexiestmagnetic things that a person
can give to you.
Trust and showing that you arepriority and showing that you
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are cared for.
So how can you become the magnetto your dream goal?
show it that as a priority, showit that you care for it.
So how can you do this?
simple ways is one.
Show up for your dream goal.
Show up for your dream goal.
Show up on time.
Honor your commitment to yourdream goal.
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If you said that you are goingto work on your dream goals
between this time and this time,then show up.
If you say that I'm going towake up at this time to pour
into my dream goal, then wake upat that time.
If you say that you are going todo something towards your dream
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goal, then wake up.
Do it because the only thing youare doing is breaking your trust
within yourself and trust Trusttrust trust when you break the
trust of people What does thathappen you repel you start
pulling away when someone breaksyour trust when a man breaks my
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trust It is hard to get it back.
I don't even want to be present.
There is no Magnetic energy inthere.
What what?
So ever they have to work doubletime to get my trust back.
You don't want to do that toyourself, right?
You don't want to do that toyour goal.
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So become the magnet to yourgoal by.
Building that trust withinyourself.
You are your dream goal.
Your dream goal, you achievingyour dream goal, you setting the
structure, you showing up ontime, you building that trust
within yourself, you honoringyour commitments is your
masculine energy.
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It is just your masculineenergy.
We have both feminine andmasculine.
So you honor your commitments.
You have in structure.
That is just your masculineentity.
You build in that trust withinyourself.
So the more you do not show upand show that you care and show
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that your dream goal is apriority, your dream goal is not
going to be pulled towards youbecause you are your dream goal.
You are your dream goal andyou're breaking your trust
within yourself.
So that dream goal is not goingto be pulled towards you.
It's just, it's just, It's justnot.
So another way in showing yourdream goal that it is important
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to you, showing it that you careabout it, is giving it the focus
attention that it deserves andleaving distractions alone,
right?
When someone gives us attentionthat we deserve, that we
deserve, what do we do?
We are like, oh my gosh, he'sshowing me so much attention,
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you feel safe, you feel, again,that you can trust him the same
way, when you know that whenhe's with you, and he's not
dabbling on his phone, and he'snot being distracted by this and
the third, what happens, again,your guard is placed down, you
feel good in his presence, Isthe same way give your goal
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focus time and attentiondistractions is one of the
biggest things that makes us notachieve our dream goals is being
distracted And distractionscomes in many forms.
Distractions comes in forms ofyes, show social media, right?
Looking at seeing what otherpeople are doing, wasting time,
maybe watching TV or just layingthere doing nothing.
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That's simple distractions, butthere's also some hidden
distractions that you don't eventhink of.
Distractions like, okay,comparison.
Comparison is a distraction.
Your thoughts can be adistraction.
Your emotions can be adistraction.
Self doubt.
Perfectionism.
Limiting beliefs.
All of these things are simplydistractions.
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Distracting you from where youwant to be.
We can control those things.
It's just distracting you fromwhere you want to be.
So giving your dream goal focusattention and avoiding
distractions unnecessary ones isgoing to Magnetize your dream
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goals because if yourdistractions are just negative
thoughts negative emotionsAgain, low vibration.
Your dream goal is not going tobe pulled towards you.
It is going to repel.
You are not going to bemagnetic.
There is no magnetic energyhappening when you don't feel
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good about yourself.
When you are sitting in negativeemotions, when you are sitting
in negative thoughts, when youare sitting in comparison and
jealousy, when you are sittingin, you know, perfectionism.
There is no magnetic energy inthat.
So, get rid of it.
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It's going to help youmagnetize, or at least learn to
manage it.
Learn to, learn how to focusyour attention.
Just focus your attention on thegoal and give it what it
deserves.
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So
the fourth way that you can
become the magnet to your dreamgoal is to speak love, speak
life, speak gratitude over yourdream goal.
This is so, so, so important foryou to do.
So saying things like, you know,I love you dream goal, towards
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your dream goal, whatever it is.
I love you.
Thank you so much for beinghere.
Thank you for choosing me,right?
Your desire, your goal was givento you.
It chose you.
If it wasn't for you, you wouldhave never even received that
desire.
So thank you.
Thank you for choosing me.
I love you so much for choosingme.
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I love you because you love meback so much.
Thank you for wanting to takecare of me.
Thank you for wanting to give mea better life.
Thank you for being in my life,Showing that appreciation to
your dream goal for choosingyou.
Thank you for making me happy.
Thank you for bringing me joy.
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Thank you for bringing mepassion.
Thank you for wanting me backjust as much as I want you I
love you.
I want you You know speakinglife to it dream goal.
You are amazing dream goal.
You are such an inspirationDream goal, you are this dream
goal.
You are that Speak life to it isin relationship to you.
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What happens when you speak to aperson like that?
They want to be around you.
They want to do for you.
It's the same exact, Thing sospeak life into your dream goal.
It lifts them up.
It lifts your vibration up.
It lifts your dream goalVibration up it wants to give to
you it wants You so speak to itand watch it become a magnet
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watch you become the magnettowards your dream goal Just
showing it that attention givingit that love and actually
Feeling it.
Feeling it is so, so important.
Feeling is the secret.
So while you are saying thesethings, one thing that I love to
do is when I'm right, cause Iwrite these things out and I
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also say it.
What I love to do and this is soimportant for you to do it as
well especially If you want tostart visualizing especially if
you want to learn how to justReally bring your dream goal to
life really be able to achieveit Is there learn to get into
the feeling of having it thefeeling of the words that you
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are speaking So if you arespeaking, thank you for taking
care of me, especially if youhave a dream goal that is going
to provide you with Financesprovide you with income that
you've been wanting to have adream business, right?
Thank you dream business fortaking care of me feel as if you
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are You are provided for.
Feel the love that you aregetting.
Feel it.
Feel it.
Feel it.
Feel it.
Feeling is truly the secret.
Because if you can feel it, youcan experience it.
Because you're alreadyexperiencing it when you are
feeling it.
This is why.
If you've read, um, like, Thinkand Grow Rich, right?
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This is why he speaks about howlove, how sex is one of the
highest vibrations is because itis feelings, like, your feelings
is raised higher.
So if you can feel it, you canexperience it because you're
already experiencing it when youare in a state of love.
So, I'm going to be talkingabout how to express your
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feelings.
So, just feel it.
Because words that have nofeelings behind it, they're just
words.
It doesn't mean anything.
That's like when someone'ssaying, I'm sorry to you and you
can feel that there's no emotionbehind that.
It means absolutely nothing.
If someone says, I love you andyou can't feel it, it means
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absolutely nothing.
You can feel it.
Right?
So feeling is very, veryimportant.
All right, this actually bringsme to my next point Which is
number five and how to becomethe magnet to your dream goal Is
to visualize your dream goalvisualize your life With this
dream goal in it pretty muchwhat I was just saying before
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about speaking life, butactually feeling it but
visualization includes So, oneof the greatest things that you
can do as you are wanting topursue your dream goal or if you
are already in pursuit of yourdream goal and you are ready to
achieve it.
One of the greatest things thatyou can do is yes.
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Get a vision board.
The reason why I absolutely lovevision boards and I've had
multiple things come true, um,like becoming a peace speaker.
I remember looking at my visionboard one day and I was just
like, I achieved that.
Oh my gosh.
Why?
Because visual.
So, yes, we are supposed towrite things down.
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This is so, so important.
But when you can tie a pictureto something, your mind sees
things in pictures.
Your mind can really put thingstogether when there's pictures
tied to it.
So one of the things that I loveto do when I have my vision
board is cut my face out Ifthere's space then I print out
pictures um, and then If it is apicture of a person, right, if
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it's not like a material thing,like a car or a house, if it's a
picture of a person on it, justlike speaking, what I would do
is just cut my face out and postit on top of that person's face.
Because what does that do forme?
I can actually see it.
When I see my face, I can seemyself there.
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And so what I do, I have it onmy phone.
I have it on my computer.
What I do is I look at it everysingle day.
I open up my phone every singleday, open my computer.
I just take maybe five seconds,10 seconds to just look at it
and see myself there.
When you can visually seeyourself there.
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Your goal becomes attractive toyou.
Visualization your imaginationIs so powerful.
The first thing that god did wasimagine imagine us and brought
that imagination to life, right?
So imagination is so powerfulpowerful.
Anything that you can imagine inyour mind, you can bring to
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life.
Anything that you can imagine isgoing to magnetize you.
This is why they say thoughtseventually become Your
experience because maybe itwon't happen tomorrow.
Maybe it won't happen today Butin a few years or a few months
eventually they manifest So thisis why they always say manage
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your thoughts as well.
Not just your mouth because yourthoughts turn into reality your
thoughts Because they havepictures on it.
Pictures where you feel,especially if you are feeling an
emotion, can manifest intoreality.
So, You want to attract yourdream goal.
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You want to bring your dreamgoal to you.
Start visualizing your life withit.
Ooh, it's going to be so goodwhen I have this, right?
Get giddy about it.
Like, oh my gosh, like, think ofthat time of when how good is
going to be when you experienceit.
sit there and visualize it.
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one of my favorite visualizationmeditations is from, is from Bob
Proctor, is on the Mindvalley,YouTube channel, but it's by Bob
Proctor.
It's like a 20 minutevisualization, and it is super
easy.
So good.
That is one of my favorites tosit there and visualize.
So visualize your dream goal.
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Visualize your life with it.
Visualize yourself having it.
Visualize yourself experiencingit.
Visualize how it's going to feeland it's going to magnetize it
to you.
Thoughts create.
You want it to magnetize yourdream goal by just thinking
juicy thoughts of your dreamgoal.
So the sixth way to become amagnet, to become the magnet to
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your dream goal is to getexcited when you're working on
your dream goals and make it asfun as possible, and the reason
why is because there's so manytimes and I used to be a person
that do this is, uh, I have todo this, uh, I have to work on
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my business, uh, I have to workout, uh, I have to do this.
Who wants that?
Nobody wants to be anobligation.
Nobody.
Your relationship, your goal isin relationship to you.
Your dream goal, just thinkabout it as there's a man that
you are dating.
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How would he feel?
How would you feel if you feltlike an obligation to somebody?
You will not feel good.
You will actually pull away.
I know would actually pull awaybecause that doesn't feel good.
When you feel like anobligation, when you don't feel
like The person is excited tosee you, right?
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Nobody wants that.
Your dream goal can feel that.
Your dream is just energy,literally.
You do not want to be working onyour dream goal, feeling
sluggish, feeling burnt out,feeling bogged down.
What is that?
What is that?
Nobody wants to feel that.
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Your dream goal does not want tofeel that, and it absolutely
does.
So when you are working on yourdream goal, what can you do?
Get excited, trick your mind andthe most important way of, you
know, getting excited when youare working on your dream goal.
For me, here are my two ways isI mentioned one already is pour
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love on yourself.
Give yourself time and space,starving that goal a little bit.
So that when you come back, itcan be.
You can be excited.
You can be ready because yougave yourself.
time.
You gave yourself self care.
You gave yourself time to pouron yourself, but the second way
is to think of it as is to thinkof it as a gift.
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You are working on a gift thatwas given to you to you, right?
This desire, this goal, again,it was given to you.
We don't have the goals ofeveryone else.
Not everyone has the same goals.
And so if you have a goal thatwas given to you, it is yours.
It is yours to bring into.
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For a wish and it is yours tohave and so when we're not
experiencing any gratitudetowards it when we're
experiencing burnout andfrustration and negative
feelings towards it, it canreally start showing as a sign
of.
I'm not grateful for this goal.
I'm not grateful for this dreamgoal.
This dream goal maybe is not forme.
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Maybe I shouldn't been giventhis desire.
I felt that before.
I felt that many times where Ifelt why was this dream goal?
Why was this desire given to me?
Right?
That is not a good feeling tohave.
That does not magnetize yourdream goal to you.
It doesn't.
It does not.
If you want to achieve yourdream goal, then Work on getting
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excited, do the things that'sgoing to help you get excited.
Like, make it fun.
Right be Playful, how can you beplayful as you pursue your dream
goals, right?
How can you make it a funexperience for yourself?
We're not always going to feelmotivated.
We're truly not But how can youromanticize this process?
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How can you?
Romanticize your goals.
How can you make it a funexperience for yourself?
for you.
There's multiple ways to make ita fun experience for you.
For me one of the ways that Ilove recording I love recording
sometimes what I lit candle Ilove Dancing right before I
start recording I love to playsome good ratchet music before I
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start recording sometimes somedance music sometimes it depends
on the mood some sexy musicsometimes because I want to turn
myself on.
I want to get myself excitedbecause when I show up, I want
it to feel fun.
I don't want this to feel likean obligation.
And so what can you do foryourself?
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Can you do a little twerksession before you start, you
know, working on your dreamgoal?
What can you do to make it fun?
Put on some lipstick, put onsome heels while you're working
on your business?
Like what can you do?
to jazz it up a little bit, tomake it exciting.
What can you do?
And that's going to truly helpyou become the magnet towards
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your dream goal.
Overall, what I want you to getfrom this is to really start
looking at this as arelationship, as a relationship.
You're dating as you are workingto, you know, to draw someone
into you.
What can you do to get this manobsessed with you?
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Right?
You want to get your dream goalobsessed with you so that
attracting it, achieving itdoesn't feel So hard it feels
easy It feels like it's rightfor you Maybe there's a little
challenge and that's okay,right?
We we have to grow we have tolearn but how can you make this
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one of the greatest experiencesthat you can have and that is
looking at it and making it aprocess of just dating, falling
in love.
And that's going to help youbecome the magnet to your dream
goal.
And so if you want to startpursuing and achieving your
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dream goals in a way that feelsauthentic in a way that feels
Like a romantic relationship ina way that feels good to you And
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Before we go, you know, I loveto rehash so that you can have
something to follow back up on.
So the first way to become amagnet to your dream and goal is
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to become the dream goal.
Become the dream goal.
You are your dream goal.
And so in order to reallymagnetize your dream goal to
you.
is to learn how to become her,become success, become an
achiever, become rich, becomeeverything that you want to
achieve, become.
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You become her first and thenyou have whatever you want to
have.
The second way is to loveyourself more than you love your
dream goal This is going to becrucial in your pursuit of
achieving your dream goal.
Love yourself more Yes, you loveyour dream goal.
It's important to love it, butNot at the cost of you
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neglecting yourself.
Number three is to show yourdream goal that you care about
it and that it is a priority.
Honor your commitments, honoryour time, build that trust back
within yourself, build thattrust so that your dream goal
can trust you with what it isthat it wants to give you.
That's how you show your dreamgoal.
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It is a priority.
Number four was speak love,speak life, show gratitude, show
that appreciation.
It's just speaking life.
When you speak life, youmagnetize.
When you speak life, you'rethinking from an appreciative
mode of gratitude.
Love and gratitude is one of thehighest frequencies there.
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So, lift your vibrations andattract your goal to you.
five was to visualize your dreamgoal.
Visualize your dream goal.
Keep it on your mind.
Mental pictures.
Yes, we write out our goals.
That is very, very important,but to take it a level up, this
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is why we do vision boards, isto put pictures of everything
that you want to achieve or yourdream goal that you want to
achieve.
Put your face to it if you can,and really see yourself there.
Look at it every single daybecause out of sight, out of
mind.
And when something is out ofmind, it doesn't get achieved.
So.
visualize and visualize as muchas possible, right?
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Because thoughts do createreality.
What you're experiencing today,you thought about years ago.
And so this is why it's soimportant to visualize what you
want most, visualize that dreamgoal, so that you can actually
attract this to you more thanother things that you don't
want.
And then number six is to getexcited about your dream.
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Go get excited about it.
Make it fun.
Don't make it feel like it'sthis obligation Make yourself
feel like this is a gift.
It's a gift to you It is a giftto others because the more you
pursue your dream goals Guesswhat?
You build more confidence inyourself.
You feel better about yourselfand that Benefits everyone else
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it benefits everyone else aroundyou Right because you can have
big dream goals small dreamgoals, but it can change your
life And so look at it as a giftto you.
You got that dream goal.
Not anyone else that dream goalwas given to you so it is a gift
to you, right, so Ladies, thatis it for today's video And
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until next time bye