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squadcaster-3e48_1_01-1 (00:06):
ladies, welcome back to another video.
Today we are going to be talkingabout how to pursue, how to
boldly pursue your desires andunleash your dark feminine
energy.
This topic is so importantFollowing your desires and
unleashing your dark feminineenergy goes hand in hand.
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First let me explain why they gohand in hand and then I'm going
to show you how to boldly pursueyour desires and unlock that
dark feminine energy.
All of the tips that I'm goingto give you has been from
personal experience.
It has helped me unleash more ofmy dark feminine energy and I
hope that it helps you as well.
So, why does following yourdesires and unleashing your dark
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feminine energy goes hand inhand?
Is because.
Both of them are suppressed anda lot of them are hidden.
So desires, desires is somethingthat is deep within, right?
Is a deep inner knowing, isthose things that turn us on?
Is those things that gives uspleasure?
Is those things that things thatmakes us excited, and our dark
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feminine energy is Raw is thehonest parts of us, is the parts
of us that are hidden, the partsof us that are suppressed.
And how this goes hand in handwith pursuing those desires is
because when you really startconnecting to your true desires,
When you really start pursuingyour truest desires, your dark
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feminine energy is beingunleashed because now you are
stepping into the most rawestversion of yourself.
You are stepping into an honestversion of yourself.
You are unleashing all of thosethings that are suppressed.
So, our dark feminine energy, itis One of our most suppressed
things.
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And the reason why this happensis because we were taught to be
well behaved.
We were taught to, you know, notbe wild.
We were taught to, you know,follow the rules.
We were taught to stay in order.
We were taught to listen.
We were taught to do all ofthose things.
And that did nothing, butsuppressed our dark feminine
energy.
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Our dark feminine energy ishonest.
Our dark feminine energy is awow.
The wild version of us, thesensual version of us, the
playful version of us, thecurious version of us.
The one who is bold, the one hatwho doesn't follow the rules
version of us.
That is when our dark feminineenergy is unleashed.
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And when you begin to follow,truly follow your truest
desires, guess what?
You start going against thenorm.
You start going against therules.
You break rules.
You start doing what you want todo and taking ownership of who
you are.
So, this is why when you boldly,when you pursue your desires,
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you begin to unlock that darkfeminine energy part of you.
And I'm going to show you howI'm going to show you how I've
been able to unlock my darkfeminine energy by pursuing my
desires.
And I'm going to show you how tonurture and continue to build
and unleash that part of youthat is suppressed.
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Because the more and more youfollow your desires, your truest
desires, the more and moreyou're going to unleash that
dark feminine energy part ofyou.
Okay?
So let's go ahead and getstarted.
the first way to begin pursuingyour.
desires in a way that helps younurture and continue to unleash
your dark feminine energy isnumber one to be the villain.
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This is not saying intentionallybe the villain in someone's eyes
or be the villain in someone'slife.
What this looks like is youintentionally Owning what you
want, you intentionally pursuingyour desires.
And what that looks like is youmay be an inconvenience, right?
You may be an inconvenience to apartner.
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You may be an inconvenience toyour child.
Sometimes you may be aninconvenience to some friends.
You may become an inconveniencewhen you are in pursuit to
follow your desires and it'sokay.
So being able to unlock yourdark from an energy with this is
learning to be okay with thefact that you may be
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inconvenienced and you don'tbudge Yes, you may have to make
certain sacrifices or whateverit is.
However, being an inconvenienceis just part of the thing, is
part of the game and you mightbe a villain in someone's eyes.
I gave this example before inthe last video.
Maybe you want to stop drinking.
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Maybe you have a dream goal tobecome in the best health ever.
the best shape of your life andyou often go out for drinks.
You often go out for drinks withyour friends.
You probably drink very often,but you have this desire to
truly change your life and thenyou start doing so.
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You may become a villain insomeone, in your friend's eyes,
not intentionally, but they maylook at you as, Oh, you think
you're better than me?
Or they may think, Oh, you don'tthink I'm fun anymore.
You, you're changing up on me.
Sometimes these things happen.
You may lose friends.
You may lose partners.
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When you are pursuing yourdreams, you don't have to.
However, when you're pursuingyour dreams, you are leveling up
and you may become the villain.
The second way of how this maylook is saying no, setting
boundaries this may look likebeing the villain in someone
else's life, because again,you're saying no to someone
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else.
People take that personally.
Have you taken somethingpersonally?
I know if I've taken no'spersonally when someone is doing
something and I want them to dosomething else with me or for me
and they're like, no.
And have I taken it personally?
Yes.
In that moment, where did avillain?
Yes, it happens.
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You will become the villain whenyou begin putting yourself
first, when you start puttingyour desires first.
So say no, because when you sayno to other things that are not
in alignment with your Yourgoals, then you are saying yes
to yourself.
You're saying yes to your goalsIt happens when you are growing,
it happens when you are levelingup, it happens when you are
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changing and in order to pursueyour desires, you have to level
up.
You have to level up you have tochange your mindset.
You have to work on yourself Yousometimes you have to make
yourself a priority And makingyourself a priority will may
cause you to look like thevillain in someone else's eyes,
right?
And that's okay.
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Number two the second way toPursue your desires bully and
nurture and unleash that darkfeminine energy part of you is
to be Be honest, be honest, behonest.
So what this looks like is stoplying, stop lying about the
things that you want, right?
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Stop lying about you working onyour business or stop lying
about you starting to pursue acareer.
Your dream of becoming an artistor stop lying about wanting to
be a content creator, stop lyingabout maybe you wanted to pursue
a modeling career or career outthe box stop lying about wanting
to be a content Millionaire, youknow only working two to four
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days a week.
Just be honest be truthful.
Yes This is what I want.
This doesn't mean to go out andshare your business and just
tell your business to the world,tell everyone, you know, all of
the desires you have, what youaspire to be.
You don't have to tell anyonethat.
What I mean by this, if, ifsomeone has asked you a question
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that you've already told them,like, maybe you already told
somebody that you're buildingyour business and someone asks
you, are you working on yourbusiness?
Say yes.
This is, this is what I'm doing.
This is what I want to do.
a lot of times we lie and I'vebeen a person that lied or felt
uneasy with sharing.
Yes, I want to be anentrepreneur.
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Yes, this is what I want.
No, I don't want to work forsomeone else.
A lot of times we feel guiltyfor sharing those desires but be
honest, when you be honest, youare unleashing that dark
feminine energy.
A woman in her dark feminineenergy, she is honest.
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She is honest with who she is.
She owns what she wants.
She owns what she desires.
And so.
If you are in pursuit offollowing your desires, be
honest.
I've lied.
And it didn't feel good.
What happens is that it actuallyfeels shameful.
It feels like Your desires are ashame, And what that what
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message does that truly send outto the world?
What message does that reallysend out?
What vibration are you reallygiving off?
When you lie about your dreams,you lie about your desires, you
lower your vibration.
It makes it shameful.
It makes it hidden.
It makes it something that youshould feel embarrassed about.
And that is not the case.
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So be honest and pursue of yourdesires.
Again, not saying to go and tellyour business.
Cause I'm very big on silencewith pursuing your dreams
especially when you're in thebeginning stages of, of pursuing
something.
Keep your vision and keep thosethoughts to yourself.
Because it's going to help,limit a lot of people's advice,
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unwarranted advice that youdon't want.
However, if you've alreadyshared this, or you're doing it,
and someone asks you, oh, like,this is what you want to do?
Yes.
This is what I want.
This is what I'm doing.
Yes.
Yes.
Yes.
And yes.
No, that's not what I want.
Yes.
Yes, this is what I want.
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Be honest.
Alright, so number three.
The third way of Unleashing yourdark feminine energy as you
pursue your desires boldly is tobe unapologetic, like no longer
apologize for what you want,like don't apologize for it.
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Your desires are truly there fora reason.
We don't need to apologizeanymore.
I remember feeling so guilty,feeling so bad for, you know,
wanting more for myself becauseit didn't seem like a lot of
people around me wanted more forthemselves.
So I will feel bad for wantingmore for myself.
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And even though I wouldn'tapologize.
I would talk to myself like,damn, I feel so sorry that I
want this.
I feel bad, but it's there for areason.
It's there for a reason.
You don't need to apologize.
You don't need to say sorry thatyou want to go work out.
Sorry that you want to buildyour business.
Sorry that.
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You know, you want to travel theworld by yourself.
Sorry that you want to dodifferent things.
You don't need to apologize forit.
This is you and your darkfeminine energy.
She is bold.
She is true to herself again.
She is unapologetic.
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Unless she's really sorry aboutsomething, right?
But your desires, you shouldn'tbe sorry for one of your
desires.
They are there for a reason.
They are there for a reason.
And there's a lot of people whoare going to be thankful that
you decided to pursue yourdesires because they're going to
benefit from it.
When we pursue our desires, itdoesn't just benefit us, right?
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It's not just for us, right?
Like, yes, like we benefit fromit.
Right.
We benefit from it in multipledifferent ways.
We benefit from it.
Like with confidence, we benefitfrom it with feeling good about
ourselves.
We benefit from it financiallyhealth wise, relationship wise,
we benefit from pursuing ourdesires.
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And because of the way that webenefit and our cup gets full,
other people benefit from uspursuing our desires.
It literally happens that way.
Your children gonna benefit fromyou pursuing your desires, your
relationships, everyone benefitsfrom you pursuing your desires
because you are making yourselfhappy.
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You are doing what you want todo, right?
I feel like the, the people whoare like the least fulfilled in
their lives are the people whoare truly not doing.
What the heart desires, it canbe the smallest thing.
It doesn't have to be this biggrand things of following your
desires.
It could be literally thesmallest things.
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Again, our desires are thingsthat it makes us excited, it
turns us on, it gives uspleasure.
Those are things that ourdesires, small or big, whatever
it is, when we get those, we arebetter for someone else.
We are better.
So no more needing to apologize.
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So number four, the fourth wayto pursue your desires and
unleash and nurture your darkfrom an energy is for yourself
to begin to release andembarrassment When you release
embarrassment of you in pursuitof your desire, does this kind
of go hand in hand with beinghonest, but You free yourself.
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You free yourself from thechains of embarrassment.
You don't let embarrassment slowyou down.
You don't let the fear ofembarrassment slow you down.
I've been embarrassed so manytimes.
So many times.
However, There becomes a part ofyou when you're like, you know
what?
I am no longer available forembarrassment because for what?
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For what?
Like, you're changing your life.
You're doing the things that youwant to do.
Why should you hold on toembarrassment, right?
There's so much beauty.
There's so much of your dreamsand your desires are beyond the
embarrassment, right?
So when you allow yourself torelease embarrassment and pursue
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your dreams boldly and loudlyand however you want to, And you
say, I'm no longer gonna allowembarrassment to hold me back,
you nurture, you unleash more ofyour dark feminine energy.
Because again, a woman who is inher dark feminine energy, what
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does she practice?
She practice being bold.
She practices being unapologeticand living in her truth and
doing things that make herhappy.
Right.
Despite the fear ofembarrassment.
Again.
So.
If you want to sing in the carwith your windows down, sing in
a car with your windows downstart working out, go to the
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gym, right?
Start creating your content Thisis how you pursue your goals and
be able to unlock your dark fromenergy is because you allow
yourself to Release to setyourself free From Embarrassment
it should not be a thing thatholds you back Release yourself
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from embarrassment be no longeravailable for embarrassment.
And honestly, you are going tochange your life.
You are going to change people'slives around you because you
just let yourself do you.
You just let yourself be.
be yourself.
The fifth way to unlock yourdark feminine energy and to
boldly pursue your desires is tono longer seek approval.
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I say this all the time.
You do not need approval tofollow your desires whatsoever.
If you want to truly nurtureyour dark feminine energy and be
able to unleash it.
You are going to learn that youknow what is best for you.
A woman in her dark feminineenergy, she allows her desires
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to guide her, to speak to her.
You know what's best for you.
When you begin pursuing yourtrue desires, truly pursuing
them boldly, then you are actingin a way where you know what's
best for you.
No one else knows what's bestfor you.
You don't need approval.
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You don't need validation.
You know, what's best for you.
You know that your desires isthe map of you creating your
dream life.
So when you allow yourself to bein this position of like, I'm
not seeking approval.
I know what I want.
I don't need to ask anybody toshow me what I want.
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I know what I want.
My desires are telling me thatyou are living in your dark
feminine energy.
You are nurturing it.
You are unleashing it.
The more you do it, the more youMove at your own beat.
The more you stay in your laneand the least that you ask
someone for validation or forapproval, you become more in
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your dark female energy.
You become more magnetic.
You become more just delicious.
You become more sexy.
You become more grown up, moregrown woman, right?
It is so.
No longer seek approval.
So the number six way to followyour desires and unleash that
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dark feminine energy is To allowyourself to be a risk taker.
Being a risk taker is gonna beso good for you.
So be being a risk taker lookslike, you know, starting again.
If you fail, starting all overit.
That is a risk.
That is a risk to start allover.
It is a risk to go all in.
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You are risking feeling again.
You are risking beingembarrassed.
You are risking judgment.
You are risking you know, losingfriends or you're risking money,
you're risking so many things.
You're risking beinguncomfortable, right?
So you're risking so much whenyou are in pursuit of your
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desires.
But this is how you unleash,this is how you nurture your
dark feminine energy is when youallow yourself to be a risk
taker, to be that wild girl,that girl who, again, is not
caught up in following the rulesand being the good girl, is not
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caught up in following You know,listening to what everyone wants
for her.
She's not caught up in beingjust this pretty little tell me
what to do girl.
And I'll do it.
No, you are being a risk takerwhen you pursue your desires.
When you pursue your desires,allow yourself to take risks, to
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take more and more and more res.
Despite of failure, in spite ofjudgment, in spite of
embarrassment, in spite ofgetting in trouble, right?
What is the worst that canhappen when you follow your
desires?
So taking a risk while you'repursuing your dreams is going to
unlock so many things.
so much of your dark feminineenergy.
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It's going to nurture thatbecause it's going to create a
version of you who is moreconfident.
It's going to create a versionof you who is more courageous,
more bold.
It's going to create a versionof you who is not a
perfectionist.
It's going to create a versionof you who is just so connected
to herself and knowing that.
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Whatever it is that you pursue,you know that you can come back
from it if it doesn't work out,you start to learn what you are
capable of, you, you learn moreabout yourself when you allow
yourself to be a risk taker.
So, Take more risk while you arepursuing, or if you have not yet
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started pursuing your, yourdreams, your big goals, your
desires, if you have yet tostart pursuing that, then I
encourage you to take the risk,take the risk because you are
going to unlock a suppressedpart of you.
That wild, bad girl version ofyou, she is ready.
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She is ready to be unleashed.
She is ready to go wild with herdreams.
She is ready to not be tamedanymore and to be this perfect
person.
No, she is ready to share hercreativity.
to do whatever it is that shewants to do.
When you become a risk taker,when you take more risks, you
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will unleash, you will nurturethat dark feminine energy.
And so the seventh way to followyour desires and to be able to
nurture a stay and unleash yourdark feminine energy.
is to be silent.
Be silent.
Show them not.
Tell them.
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So the first reason why I say tobe silent when you are pursuing
your dreams and how this helpsyou stay and nurture your dark
feminine energy is because,number one, It helps you not
tell the wrong person becausesometimes when you tell the
wrong person about your desires,about your dreams, what happens
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is that maybe they shift yourperspective.
Maybe they tell you, oh, no, youshouldn't do that.
This is not what you should do.
And you start to questionyourself.
Remember, if you want to nurtureThat feminine energy, if you
want to nurture your darkfeminine energy, you know,
what's best.
You have to learn how to trustyour own intuition, your own
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instinct, your own desires, andknow that you know, what's best
for your life.
So if you tell the wrong person,it can throw you off.
It can throw you off and beginto make you question yourself.
Begin to make you come into yourhead.
And a woman who is in her darkfeminine energy She's going to
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move with her body She's gonnamove with her body and she's
gonna allow herself to figure itout along the way despite again
despite anyone's feedbackAnyone's feedback who is not
doing what she wants to do.
Let me just be clear about thatright?
You can definitely get feedback,but get feedback from people who
are doing what you want to donot people who are not doing
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what you want to do.
All right, so just being moreintentional.
So that's one reason why I saybe silent.
The second reason why I say besilent is because you want to
have a little miss out threeabout yourself.
You don't want to be tellingeverybody like, this is what I'm
going to do.
when you tell people this, it,it, it takes away from the
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mysteriousness.
No, you want to have a littlemysteriousness.
You want to have a little bit,you know, mystery about yourself
and about what you're doing.
Show them, don't tell them.
Right.
So come out one day, you'regoing to show up and you're
going to be like, boom, look atme.
Maybe like you haven't toldnobody that you are working out
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and you are.
Tone of your body.
You get all in shape and thenboom, you step out and you're
like, damn, like, who is this?
You don't change your whole lifeor you are heavily pursuing your
business goals.
You're building your dreambusiness and you are not telling
no body but then boom, you popup and you have this million
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dollar six figure company andyou show them versus tell them.
So that is something that isgoing to help you unleash and
stay in your dark feminineenergy is being able to move
forward.
with silence.
Move with silence.
Have a little mystique aboutyou.
show them, don't tell them, justbust out and show them that
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you're winning without having totell them that you are going to
win.
So number eight, how to pursueyour desires and be able to
unlock and nurture and unleashyour dark from an energy is to
pour so much into yourself.
Fill up your cup so much guyslike fill up your cup so much
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while you are pursuing yourdesires Truly like you're gonna
need to.
Things that I like to say is, Itake care of my mind, I take
care of my body, I take care ofmy heart.
I pour into those all the time.
Pour into those all the timebecause your desires is going to
be a reflection, the maximum,the level of your desires, the
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quality of your desires, thefruit of your desires.
Of your desires is going to be areflection of how much you've
poured into yourself, right?
Are you taking care of yourmind?
Are you taking care of yourheart, your emotions, your
feelings?
Are you taking care of, what didI say?
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Mind, but your body.
Are you taking care of yourbody?
Your body, you need energy, youneed all of this.
If you want to say you're a darkfeminine energy and be a person
who is magnetic, be a person whois radiant, be a person who is,
who looks delicious, who lookslike she's glowing, take care of
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yourself.
Take care of your mind, yourbody, your heart.
Pour into those, especiallywhile you're pursuing your
dreams.
Because your glow Your radiance,all of that is what's going to
magnetize and attract yourdesires to you.
Yeah, we're taking action, we'retaking action in all of that.
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However, you also want toattract by just your energy,
right?
By you allowing yourself to havefun, by taking care of your
heart, taking care of your mind,your body, resting, reading,
working out, listening to thingsthat motivate you.
Eating good food.
All of these things are going tofill your cup and make you a
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magnet to your desires.
It's gonna make you look good.
Like that girl.
While you are pursuing yourdesires.
It's gonna make you truly be inyour dark feminine energy.
And be more bold.
Be more courageous.
Because the more you pour intoyour body, your mind, your
heart, You are going to bebuilding your confidence in
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yourself.
You are going to be continuingto get to know yourself, to
understand yourself and knowingwhat you want.
And the more you do that, themore you pour back into your
desires and you unleash again.
Those suppress desires.
And when you know, and youunleash more of those suppressed
and hidden desires, then youbecome more bold.
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You become more in your darkfeminine energy where you're
like, you're take control of theworld.
Yourself, you take control ofyour life, you take control of
your direction.
You take control of what youwant and how you want to feel.
You take control of that.
You know, you're not playinganyone else's rules.
You're playing your roles.
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So pour into your cup so much,fill yourself so much.
Up so much while you are inpursuit of your desires, and
this is gonna help you stay,nurture and unleash more of your
dark feminine energy.
and so if you are ready tobecome unapologetic To boldly
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pursue your desires and unlockyour dark feminine energy Pour
into your passions be a risktaker no longer seek approval So
that you can start pursuing yourdesires and stop thinking about,
you know, am I ever going tohave my dream life?
Or am I ever going to feel thesense of fulfillment in my life
and fear and regret for the restof your life?
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Then I invite you to sign up forone on one coaching.
All you have to do is click thelink in the description box
where you can sign up for a fewsessions, or you can go to
cleopatrawilliams.
com and sign up for somesessions From there, it is the
time for you to become bold.
It's time for you to pursue yourdesires.
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Be unapologetic.
Bye.
Be in your mystique, be in yourdark feminine energy and truly
own who you are, own what youwant for your life.
Be confident, be courageous, andI want to help you do so.
and so again, just click thelink in the description box.
So before I go, I'm going torehash all the ways that I've
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already shared.
Again, all of these tips comesfrom personal experience
experience of how I've been ableto unleash and nurture more of
my dark feminine energy.
And so just to go over again,because Why not?
So number one is allowingyourself to be the villain in
someone else's eyes.
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When you are pursuing yourdesires, bully your dreams.
You may become the villain insomeone else's eyes and
sometimes they may stop you frompursuing, but don't, don't let
that stop you.
Pursue it boldly.
And so this can look like,again, saying no to other people
so that you can say, yes.
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To your self, right?
Setting those boundaries.
You may look like the villain,but guess what?
You are stepping into yourpower.
You are stepping into your darkfeminine energy and you are
pursuing your desires.
You know what's best for you.
And you know what you want.
You are the designer of yourlife.
Number two is being honest,being honest with what you want.
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Like you don't have to keeplying about it and you don't
have to go out and share it tothe world, but you don't have to
lie about what you want anymore.
And no, Be honest a woman in herdark feminine energy.
She is honest again.
She owns who she is.
She owns her desires She knowswhat she wants and no one else
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is going to deter that if youjust allow yourself to be
honest.
Number three is to no longerapologize for your dreams, for
your passions, for your desires.
Why are you apologizing?
You don't need to apologize forwhat you want whatsoever.
Your desires are there already.
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for a reason.
Number four is to releaseembarrassment.
Do not allow embarrassment tohold you back.
Be unavailable.
for it.
What do you need to beembarrassed about?
What do you need to beembarrassed about?
No, create the content, show uphow you want to show up, go to
the places that you want to go,take up space, release the
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control of embarrassment and setyourself free while you are in
pursuit of your desires.
You don't need to beembarrassed.
So number five is to no longerseek approval.
No longer seek approval for whatyou want.
You know what you want.
You know what you want.
No one else.
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So no longer seek approval.
A woman in her dark feminineenergy, she knows what's best
for her.
She moves at her own beat.
Not anyone else's, right?
So no longer seek approval.
Number six is be a risk taker.
Be a risk taker.
Be more bold.
The more you take risks, themore you learn about yourself,
the more courageous you arebeing, the more imperfect you
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are, the more you don't play bythe rules, the more you be a
rule breaker.
The more you, you know, again,go to the beat of your own.
You don't follow anyone else'spath.
You follow your path.
So you be that risk taker.
And you take more and more risksevery day.
As you pursue your dreams, takethe risk to pursue your dreams.
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You deserve it.
Number seven is to be silent andbe mysterious.
Show them, don't tell them, justdo what you want to do and just
pop out, pop out and show them,okay.
You don't need to tell the wholeworld about what you want to do
because they Again, that canlead to self doubt if you tell
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the wrong people or it can leadto it just not seeming that
Magnetic anymore.
It's not seeming that alluringbecause you're sharing it so
much So just show them, don'ttell them.
And number eight is pour so muchinto yourself, pour into your
cup, take care of your mind,your body, your heart.
Because the more you do this,the more you get to connect with
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yourself.
The more you learn aboutyourself, the more you have the
energy to go after your, yourdesires, more boldly, more
confidently, the more you feelgood.
It's all about that inner work.
It's all about you taking careof yourself.
And the more you don't playabout yourself, nobody is going
to play with you.
Right.
And that's you being in yourdark feminine energy.
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And so ladies, that is it fortoday's episode.
And until next time, bye.
ladies, welcome back to another video.
Today we are going to be talkingabout how to pursue, how to
boldly pursue your desires andunleash your dark feminine
energy.
This topic is so importantFollowing your desires and
unleashing your dark feminineenergy goes hand in hand.
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First let me explain why they gohand in hand and then I'm going
to show you how to boldly pursueyour desires and unlock that
dark feminine energy.
All of the tips that I'm goingto give you has been from
personal experience.
It has helped me unleash more ofmy dark feminine energy and I
hope that it helps you as well.
So, why does following yourdesires and unleashing your dark
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feminine energy goes hand inhand?
Is because.
Both of them are suppressed anda lot of them are hidden.
So desires, desires is somethingthat is deep within, right?
Is a deep inner knowing, isthose things that turn us on?
Is those things that gives uspleasure?
Is those things that things thatmakes us excited, and our dark
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feminine energy is Raw is thehonest parts of us, is the parts
of us that are hidden, the partsof us that are suppressed.
And how this goes hand in handwith pursuing those desires is
because when you really startconnecting to your true desires,
When you really start pursuingyour truest desires, your dark
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feminine energy is beingunleashed because now you are
stepping into the most rawestversion of yourself.
You are stepping into an honestversion of yourself.
You are unleashing all of thosethings that are suppressed.
So, our dark feminine energy, itis One of our most suppressed
things.
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And the reason why this happensis because we were taught to be
well behaved.
We were taught to, you know, notbe wild.
We were taught to, you know,follow the rules.
We were taught to stay in order.
We were taught to listen.
We were taught to do all ofthose things.
And that did nothing, butsuppressed our dark feminine
energy.
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Our dark feminine energy ishonest.
Our dark feminine energy is awow.
The wild version of us, thesensual version of us, the
playful version of us, thecurious version of us.
The one who is bold, the one hatwho doesn't follow the rules
version of us.
That is when our dark feminineenergy is unleashed.
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And when you begin to follow,truly follow your truest
desires, guess what?
You start going against thenorm.
You start going against therules.
You break rules.
You start doing what you want todo and taking ownership of who
you are.
So, this is why when you boldly,when you pursue your desires,
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you begin to unlock that darkfeminine energy part of you.
And I'm going to show you howI'm going to show you how I've
been able to unlock my darkfeminine energy by pursuing my
desires.
And I'm going to show you how tonurture and continue to build
and unleash that part of youthat is suppressed.
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Because the more and more youfollow your desires, your truest
desires, the more and moreyou're going to unleash that
dark feminine energy part ofyou.
Okay?
So let's go ahead and getstarted.
the first way to begin pursuingyour.
desires in a way that helps younurture and continue to unleash
your dark feminine energy isnumber one to be the villain.
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This is not saying intentionallybe the villain in someone's eyes
or be the villain in someone'slife.
What this looks like is youintentionally Owning what you
want, you intentionally pursuingyour desires.
And what that looks like is youmay be an inconvenience, right?
You may be an inconvenience to apartner.
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You may be an inconvenience toyour child.
Sometimes you may be aninconvenience to some friends.
You may become an inconveniencewhen you are in pursuit to
follow your desires and it'sokay.
So being able to unlock yourdark from an energy with this is
learning to be okay with thefact that you may be
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inconvenienced and you don'tbudge Yes, you may have to make
certain sacrifices or whateverit is.
However, being an inconvenienceis just part of the thing, is
part of the game and you mightbe a villain in someone's eyes.
I gave this example before inthe last video.
Maybe you want to stop drinking.
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Maybe you have a dream goal tobecome in the best health ever.
the best shape of your life andyou often go out for drinks.
You often go out for drinks withyour friends.
You probably drink very often,but you have this desire to
truly change your life and thenyou start doing so.
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You may become a villain insomeone, in your friend's eyes,
not intentionally, but they maylook at you as, Oh, you think
you're better than me?
Or they may think, Oh, you don'tthink I'm fun anymore.
You, you're changing up on me.
Sometimes these things happen.
You may lose friends.
You may lose partners.
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When you are pursuing yourdreams, you don't have to.
However, when you're pursuingyour dreams, you are leveling up
and you may become the villain.
The second way of how this maylook is saying no, setting
boundaries this may look likebeing the villain in someone
else's life, because again,you're saying no to someone
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else.
People take that personally.
Have you taken somethingpersonally?
I know if I've taken no'spersonally when someone is doing
something and I want them to dosomething else with me or for me
and they're like, no.
And have I taken it personally?
Yes.
In that moment, where did avillain?
Yes, it happens.
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You will become the villain whenyou begin putting yourself
first, when you start puttingyour desires first.
So say no, because when you sayno to other things that are not
in alignment with your Yourgoals, then you are saying yes
to yourself.
You're saying yes to your goalsIt happens when you are growing,
it happens when you are levelingup, it happens when you are
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changing and in order to pursueyour desires, you have to level
up.
You have to level up you have tochange your mindset.
You have to work on yourself Yousometimes you have to make
yourself a priority And makingyourself a priority will may
cause you to look like thevillain in someone else's eyes,
right?
And that's okay.
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Number two the second way toPursue your desires bully and
nurture and unleash that darkfeminine energy part of you is
to be Be honest, be honest, behonest.
So what this looks like is stoplying, stop lying about the
things that you want, right?
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Stop lying about you working onyour business or stop lying
about you starting to pursue acareer.
Your dream of becoming an artistor stop lying about wanting to
be a content creator, stop lyingabout maybe you wanted to pursue
a modeling career or career outthe box stop lying about wanting
to be a content Millionaire, youknow only working two to four
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days a week.
Just be honest be truthful.
Yes This is what I want.
This doesn't mean to go out andshare your business and just
tell your business to the world,tell everyone, you know, all of
the desires you have, what youaspire to be.
You don't have to tell anyonethat.
What I mean by this, if, ifsomeone has asked you a question
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that you've already told them,like, maybe you already told
somebody that you're buildingyour business and someone asks
you, are you working on yourbusiness?
Say yes.
This is, this is what I'm doing.
This is what I want to do.
a lot of times we lie and I'vebeen a person that lied or felt
uneasy with sharing.
Yes, I want to be anentrepreneur.
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Yes, this is what I want.
No, I don't want to work forsomeone else.
A lot of times we feel guiltyfor sharing those desires but be
honest, when you be honest, youare unleashing that dark
feminine energy.
A woman in her dark feminineenergy, she is honest.
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She is honest with who she is.
She owns what she wants.
She owns what she desires.
And so.
If you are in pursuit offollowing your desires, be
honest.
I've lied.
And it didn't feel good.
What happens is that it actuallyfeels shameful.
It feels like Your desires are ashame, And what that what
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message does that truly send outto the world?
What message does that reallysend out?
What vibration are you reallygiving off?
When you lie about your dreams,you lie about your desires, you
lower your vibration.
It makes it shameful.
It makes it hidden.
It makes it something that youshould feel embarrassed about.
And that is not the case.
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So be honest and pursue of yourdesires.
Again, not saying to go and tellyour business.
Cause I'm very big on silencewith pursuing your dreams
especially when you're in thebeginning stages of, of pursuing
something.
Keep your vision and keep thosethoughts to yourself.
Because it's going to help,limit a lot of people's advice,
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unwarranted advice that youdon't want.
However, if you've alreadyshared this, or you're doing it,
and someone asks you, oh, like,this is what you want to do?
Yes.
This is what I want.
This is what I'm doing.
Yes.
Yes.
Yes.
And yes.
No, that's not what I want.
Yes.
Yes, this is what I want.
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Be honest.
Alright, so number three.
The third way of Unleashing yourdark feminine energy as you
pursue your desires boldly is tobe unapologetic, like no longer
apologize for what you want,like don't apologize for it.
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Your desires are truly there fora reason.
We don't need to apologizeanymore.
I remember feeling so guilty,feeling so bad for, you know,
wanting more for myself becauseit didn't seem like a lot of
people around me wanted more forthemselves.
So I will feel bad for wantingmore for myself.
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And even though I wouldn'tapologize.
I would talk to myself like,damn, I feel so sorry that I
want this.
I feel bad, but it's there for areason.
It's there for a reason.
You don't need to apologize.
You don't need to say sorry thatyou want to go work out.
Sorry that you want to buildyour business.
Sorry that.
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You know, you want to travel theworld by yourself.
Sorry that you want to dodifferent things.
You don't need to apologize forit.
This is you and your darkfeminine energy.
She is bold.
She is true to herself again.
She is unapologetic.
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Unless she's really sorry aboutsomething, right?
But your desires, you shouldn'tbe sorry for one of your
desires.
They are there for a reason.
They are there for a reason.
And there's a lot of people whoare going to be thankful that
you decided to pursue yourdesires because they're going to
benefit from it.
When we pursue our desires, itdoesn't just benefit us, right?
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It's not just for us, right?
Like, yes, like we benefit fromit.
Right.
We benefit from it in multipledifferent ways.
We benefit from it.
Like with confidence, we benefitfrom it with feeling good about
ourselves.
We benefit from it financiallyhealth wise, relationship wise,
we benefit from pursuing ourdesires.
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And because of the way that webenefit and our cup gets full,
other people benefit from uspursuing our desires.
It literally happens that way.
Your children gonna benefit fromyou pursuing your desires, your
relationships, everyone benefitsfrom you pursuing your desires
because you are making yourselfhappy.
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You are doing what you want todo, right?
I feel like the, the people whoare like the least fulfilled in
their lives are the people whoare truly not doing.
What the heart desires, it canbe the smallest thing.
It doesn't have to be this biggrand things of following your
desires.
It could be literally thesmallest things.
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Again, our desires are thingsthat it makes us excited, it
turns us on, it gives uspleasure.
Those are things that ourdesires, small or big, whatever
it is, when we get those, we arebetter for someone else.
We are better.
So no more needing to apologize.
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So number four, the fourth wayto pursue your desires and
unleash and nurture your darkfrom an energy is for yourself
to begin to release andembarrassment When you release
embarrassment of you in pursuitof your desire, does this kind
of go hand in hand with beinghonest, but You free yourself.
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You free yourself from thechains of embarrassment.
You don't let embarrassment slowyou down.
You don't let the fear ofembarrassment slow you down.
I've been embarrassed so manytimes.
So many times.
However, There becomes a part ofyou when you're like, you know
what?
I am no longer available forembarrassment because for what?
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For what?
Like, you're changing your life.
You're doing the things that youwant to do.
Why should you hold on toembarrassment, right?
There's so much beauty.
There's so much of your dreamsand your desires are beyond the
embarrassment, right?
So when you allow yourself torelease embarrassment and pursue
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your dreams boldly and loudlyand however you want to, And you
say, I'm no longer gonna allowembarrassment to hold me back,
you nurture, you unleash more ofyour dark feminine energy.
Because again, a woman who is inher dark feminine energy, what
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does she practice?
She practice being bold.
She practices being unapologeticand living in her truth and
doing things that make herhappy.
Right.
Despite the fear ofembarrassment.
Again.
So.
If you want to sing in the carwith your windows down, sing in
a car with your windows downstart working out, go to the
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gym, right?
Start creating your content Thisis how you pursue your goals and
be able to unlock your dark fromenergy is because you allow
yourself to Release to setyourself free From Embarrassment
it should not be a thing thatholds you back Release yourself
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from embarrassment be no longeravailable for embarrassment.
And honestly, you are going tochange your life.
You are going to change people'slives around you because you
just let yourself do you.
You just let yourself be.
be yourself.
The fifth way to unlock yourdark feminine energy and to
boldly pursue your desires is tono longer seek approval.
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I say this all the time.
You do not need approval tofollow your desires whatsoever.
If you want to truly nurtureyour dark feminine energy and be
able to unleash it.
You are going to learn that youknow what is best for you.
A woman in her dark feminineenergy, she allows her desires
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to guide her, to speak to her.
You know what's best for you.
When you begin pursuing yourtrue desires, truly pursuing
them boldly, then you are actingin a way where you know what's
best for you.
No one else knows what's bestfor you.
You don't need approval.
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You don't need validation.
You know, what's best for you.
You know that your desires isthe map of you creating your
dream life.
So when you allow yourself to bein this position of like, I'm
not seeking approval.
I know what I want.
I don't need to ask anybody toshow me what I want.
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I know what I want.
My desires are telling me thatyou are living in your dark
feminine energy.
You are nurturing it.
You are unleashing it.
The more you do it, the more youMove at your own beat.
The more you stay in your laneand the least that you ask
someone for validation or forapproval, you become more in
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your dark female energy.
You become more magnetic.
You become more just delicious.
You become more sexy.
You become more grown up, moregrown woman, right?
It is so.
No longer seek approval.
So the number six way to followyour desires and unleash that
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dark feminine energy is To allowyourself to be a risk taker.
Being a risk taker is gonna beso good for you.
So be being a risk taker lookslike, you know, starting again.
If you fail, starting all overit.
That is a risk.
That is a risk to start allover.
It is a risk to go all in.
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You are risking feeling again.
You are risking beingembarrassed.
You are risking judgment.
You are risking you know, losingfriends or you're risking money,
you're risking so many things.
You're risking beinguncomfortable, right?
So you're risking so much whenyou are in pursuit of your
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desires.
But this is how you unleash,this is how you nurture your
dark feminine energy is when youallow yourself to be a risk
taker, to be that wild girl,that girl who, again, is not
caught up in following the rulesand being the good girl, is not
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caught up in following You know,listening to what everyone wants
for her.
She's not caught up in beingjust this pretty little tell me
what to do girl.
And I'll do it.
No, you are being a risk takerwhen you pursue your desires.
When you pursue your desires,allow yourself to take risks, to
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take more and more and more res.
Despite of failure, in spite ofjudgment, in spite of
embarrassment, in spite ofgetting in trouble, right?
What is the worst that canhappen when you follow your
desires?
So taking a risk while you'repursuing your dreams is going to
unlock so many things.
so much of your dark feminineenergy.
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It's going to nurture thatbecause it's going to create a
version of you who is moreconfident.
It's going to create a versionof you who is more courageous,
more bold.
It's going to create a versionof you who is not a
perfectionist.
It's going to create a versionof you who is just so connected
to herself and knowing that.
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Whatever it is that you pursue,you know that you can come back
from it if it doesn't work out,you start to learn what you are
capable of, you, you learn moreabout yourself when you allow
yourself to be a risk taker.
So, Take more risk while you arepursuing, or if you have not yet
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started pursuing your, yourdreams, your big goals, your
desires, if you have yet tostart pursuing that, then I
encourage you to take the risk,take the risk because you are
going to unlock a suppressedpart of you.
That wild, bad girl version ofyou, she is ready.
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She is ready to be unleashed.
She is ready to go wild with herdreams.
She is ready to not be tamedanymore and to be this perfect
person.
No, she is ready to share hercreativity.
to do whatever it is that shewants to do.
When you become a risk taker,when you take more risks, you
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will unleash, you will nurturethat dark feminine energy.
And so the seventh way to followyour desires and to be able to
nurture a stay and unleash yourdark feminine energy.
is to be silent.
Be silent.
Show them not.
Tell them.
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So the first reason why I say tobe silent when you are pursuing
your dreams and how this helpsyou stay and nurture your dark
feminine energy is because,number one, It helps you not
tell the wrong person becausesometimes when you tell the
wrong person about your desires,about your dreams, what happens
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is that maybe they shift yourperspective.
Maybe they tell you, oh, no, youshouldn't do that.
This is not what you should do.
And you start to questionyourself.
Remember, if you want to nurtureThat feminine energy, if you
want to nurture your darkfeminine energy, you know,
what's best.
You have to learn how to trustyour own intuition, your own
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instinct, your own desires, andknow that you know, what's best
for your life.
So if you tell the wrong person,it can throw you off.
It can throw you off and beginto make you question yourself.
Begin to make you come into yourhead.
And a woman who is in her darkfeminine energy She's going to
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move with her body She's gonnamove with her body and she's
gonna allow herself to figure itout along the way despite again
despite anyone's feedbackAnyone's feedback who is not
doing what she wants to do.
Let me just be clear about thatright?
You can definitely get feedback,but get feedback from people who
are doing what you want to donot people who are not doing
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what you want to do.
All right, so just being moreintentional.
So that's one reason why I saybe silent.
The second reason why I say besilent is because you want to
have a little miss out threeabout yourself.
You don't want to be tellingeverybody like, this is what I'm
going to do.
when you tell people this, it,it, it takes away from the
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mysteriousness.
No, you want to have a littlemysteriousness.
You want to have a little bit,you know, mystery about yourself
and about what you're doing.
Show them, don't tell them.
Right.
So come out one day, you'regoing to show up and you're
going to be like, boom, look atme.
Maybe like you haven't toldnobody that you are working out
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and you are.
Tone of your body.
You get all in shape and thenboom, you step out and you're
like, damn, like, who is this?
You don't change your whole lifeor you are heavily pursuing your
business goals.
You're building your dreambusiness and you are not telling
no body but then boom, you popup and you have this million
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dollar six figure company andyou show them versus tell them.
So that is something that isgoing to help you unleash and
stay in your dark feminineenergy is being able to move
forward.
with silence.
Move with silence.
Have a little mystique aboutyou.
show them, don't tell them, justbust out and show them that
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you're winning without having totell them that you are going to
win.
So number eight, how to pursueyour desires and be able to
unlock and nurture and unleashyour dark from an energy is to
pour so much into yourself.
Fill up your cup so much guyslike fill up your cup so much
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while you are pursuing yourdesires Truly like you're gonna
need to.
Things that I like to say is, Itake care of my mind, I take
care of my body, I take care ofmy heart.
I pour into those all the time.
Pour into those all the timebecause your desires is going to
be a reflection, the maximum,the level of your desires, the
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quality of your desires, thefruit of your desires.
Of your desires is going to be areflection of how much you've
poured into yourself, right?
Are you taking care of yourmind?
Are you taking care of yourheart, your emotions, your
feelings?
Are you taking care of, what didI say?
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Mind, but your body.
Are you taking care of yourbody?
Your body, you need energy, youneed all of this.
If you want to say you're a darkfeminine energy and be a person
who is magnetic, be a person whois radiant, be a person who is,
who looks delicious, who lookslike she's glowing, take care of
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yourself.
Take care of your mind, yourbody, your heart.
Pour into those, especiallywhile you're pursuing your
dreams.
Because your glow Your radiance,all of that is what's going to
magnetize and attract yourdesires to you.
Yeah, we're taking action, we'retaking action in all of that.
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However, you also want toattract by just your energy,
right?
By you allowing yourself to havefun, by taking care of your
heart, taking care of your mind,your body, resting, reading,
working out, listening to thingsthat motivate you.
Eating good food.
All of these things are going tofill your cup and make you a
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magnet to your desires.
It's gonna make you look good.
Like that girl.
While you are pursuing yourdesires.
It's gonna make you truly be inyour dark feminine energy.
And be more bold.
Be more courageous.
Because the more you pour intoyour body, your mind, your
heart, You are going to bebuilding your confidence in
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yourself.
You are going to be continuingto get to know yourself, to
understand yourself and knowingwhat you want.
And the more you do that, themore you pour back into your
desires and you unleash again.
Those suppress desires.
And when you know, and youunleash more of those suppressed
and hidden desires, then youbecome more bold.
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You become more in your darkfeminine energy where you're
like, you're take control of theworld.
Yourself, you take control ofyour life, you take control of
your direction.
You take control of what youwant and how you want to feel.
You take control of that.
You know, you're not playinganyone else's rules.
You're playing your roles.
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So pour into your cup so much,fill yourself so much.
Up so much while you are inpursuit of your desires, and
this is gonna help you stay,nurture and unleash more of your
dark feminine energy.
and so if you are ready tobecome unapologetic To boldly
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pursue your desires and unlockyour dark feminine energy Pour
into your passions be a risktaker no longer seek approval So
that you can start pursuing yourdesires and stop thinking about,
you know, am I ever going tohave my dream life?
Or am I ever going to feel thesense of fulfillment in my life
and fear and regret for the restof your life?
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Then I invite you to sign up forone on one coaching.
All you have to do is click thelink in the description box
where you can sign up for a fewsessions, or you can go to
cleopatrawilliams.
com and sign up for somesessions From there, it is the
time for you to become bold.
It's time for you to pursue yourdesires.
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Be unapologetic.
Bye.
Be in your mystique, be in yourdark feminine energy and truly
own who you are, own what youwant for your life.
Be confident, be courageous, andI want to help you do so.
and so again, just click thelink in the description box.
So before I go, I'm going torehash all the ways that I've
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already shared.
Again, all of these tips comesfrom personal experience
experience of how I've been ableto unleash and nurture more of
my dark feminine energy.
And so just to go over again,because Why not?
So number one is allowingyourself to be the villain in
someone else's eyes.
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When you are pursuing yourdesires, bully your dreams.
You may become the villain insomeone else's eyes and
sometimes they may stop you frompursuing, but don't, don't let
that stop you.
Pursue it boldly.
And so this can look like,again, saying no to other people
so that you can say, yes.
(30:00):
To your self, right?
Setting those boundaries.
You may look like the villain,but guess what?
You are stepping into yourpower.
You are stepping into your darkfeminine energy and you are
pursuing your desires.
You know what's best for you.
And you know what you want.
You are the designer of yourlife.
Number two is being honest,being honest with what you want.
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Like you don't have to keeplying about it and you don't
have to go out and share it tothe world, but you don't have to
lie about what you want anymore.
And no, Be honest a woman in herdark feminine energy.
She is honest again.
She owns who she is.
She owns her desires She knowswhat she wants and no one else
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is going to deter that if youjust allow yourself to be
honest.
Number three is to no longerapologize for your dreams, for
your passions, for your desires.
Why are you apologizing?
You don't need to apologize forwhat you want whatsoever.
Your desires are there already.
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for a reason.
Number four is to releaseembarrassment.
Do not allow embarrassment tohold you back.
Be unavailable.
for it.
What do you need to beembarrassed about?
What do you need to beembarrassed about?
No, create the content, show uphow you want to show up, go to
the places that you want to go,take up space, release the
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control of embarrassment and setyourself free while you are in
pursuit of your desires.
You don't need to beembarrassed.
So number five is to no longerseek approval.
No longer seek approval for whatyou want.
You know what you want.
You know what you want.
No one else.
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So no longer seek approval.
A woman in her dark feminineenergy, she knows what's best
for her.
She moves at her own beat.
Not anyone else's, right?
So no longer seek approval.
Number six is be a risk taker.
Be a risk taker.
Be more bold.
The more you take risks, themore you learn about yourself,
the more courageous you arebeing, the more imperfect you
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are, the more you don't play bythe rules, the more you be a
rule breaker.
The more you, you know, again,go to the beat of your own.
You don't follow anyone else'spath.
You follow your path.
So you be that risk taker.
And you take more and more risksevery day.
As you pursue your dreams, takethe risk to pursue your dreams.
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You deserve it.
Number seven is to be silent andbe mysterious.
Show them, don't tell them, justdo what you want to do and just
pop out, pop out and show them,okay.
You don't need to tell the wholeworld about what you want to do
because they Again, that canlead to self doubt if you tell
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the wrong people or it can leadto it just not seeming that
Magnetic anymore.
It's not seeming that alluringbecause you're sharing it so
much So just show them, don'ttell them.
And number eight is pour so muchinto yourself, pour into your
cup, take care of your mind,your body, your heart.
Because the more you do this,the more you get to connect with
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yourself.
The more you learn aboutyourself, the more you have the
energy to go after your, yourdesires, more boldly, more
confidently, the more you feelgood.
It's all about that inner work.
It's all about you taking careof yourself.
And the more you don't playabout yourself, nobody is going
to play with you.
Right.
And that's you being in yourdark feminine energy.
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And so ladies, that is it fortoday's episode.
And until next time, bye.
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