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squadcaster-g01g_1_02-27-20 (00:05):
Hey ladies.
Welcome back to another video.
Today we are going to be talkingabout the importance of thinking
more highly of yourself becauseif you want to be a goal
achiever.
Then it is crucial for you tobegin thinking more highly of
yourself because as a womanthink of is what she achieve.
(00:27):
Yes, I just made that up.
However, it is so true.
Out of all of my years ofachieving multiple of my dream
goals, I always had to thinkmore highly of myself to help me
get to the next level.
And so why this video came totopic today is because I think
about.
Woman that I speak with, andoftentimes their mindset is, I
(00:50):
can't do this.
Like I don't have a high schooldiploma.
I don't have a college degree,or I don't have this, or I am
not that capable, or I'm not assmart, and it drives me crazy
because.
I see so much in others than Isee in themselves, which is why
(01:11):
I'm a coach.
However, I just want you guys tobe able to see more in yourself
because you are more than youthink you are, and you can
achieve so much more than youthink you can.
You can be so much more than youthink you are, and you can have
so much of what you think youcan have, if only you begin to
think more highly of yourself.
(01:34):
If you cannot think highly ofyourself, you won't be able to
achieve high.
Whatsoever.
If you can't create a highconcept of yourself the level of
your success is equivalent tothe level of how you think of
yourself.
so by the end of this video,hopefully you are able to
(01:55):
intentionally.
Start thinking more highly ofyourself in a daily basis.
so what I want you ladies tostart doing right now is to
stop.
Thinking you can't do something.
One of my biggest pet peeves iswhen people say I can't do
something that drives me up thewall.
(02:15):
Yes, you can.
You can do anything you put yourmind to anything you put your
mind to.
You can learn anything that youtruly want to learn.
You can achieve anything thatyou truly want to achieve.
If you just allow yourself tosay that you can learn
something, you can learn.
Anything you can learn a newlanguage, you can learn how to
(02:37):
make a million dollars.
You can learn how to build abusiness.
You can learn how to start aside hustle.
You can learn.
Stop thinking less of yourself.
it doesn't matter where you camefrom, it doesn't matter.
You know how much money you camefrom, it doesn't matter the
education you have.
You can always do more, be more,and have more.
And so I know that we were notall born thinking less than
(03:00):
ourselves, right?
These are the type of thingsthat were made into us over
time, right?
There's something that wasformed into us over time, and so
I know from personal experience,maybe for certain things like
this, oh, if you're gonna be asingle mom, if you're a single
mom, then you're doomed tostruggle.
That's something I've heard thatit's gonna be hard.
It's hard for single moms.
(03:21):
Or you may have heard, oh, ifyou don't have a college degree,
we probably all heard that ifyou don't have a college degree,
then you won't make a lot ofmoney, then you won't get a
successful career, or you don'thave a high school.
If you're high school dropout,then you're doomed for it to be
poor or you do to be brokeforever.
Or if you are person of aparticular race, then you are
(03:42):
again, doomed to struggle oryou're, you're not as smart, and
so things happen over time thatcreated you to have a certain
outlook on yourself.
However, who made the rules?
Who made the rules?
Who said this was true?
Who said that?
Just because you are a singlemom that you are doomed to
struggle.
Who said that?
(04:02):
Just because you don't have ahigh school diploma that like,
you're gonna be broke forever orbecause you don't have a college
degree, then you won't get ahigh paying job.
like, who made those rules?
And honestly, there's proof outthere to prove that these are
not true.
None of these are true unlessyou actually accept it to be
(04:22):
true.
You believe it to be true.
There are challenges whether youhave a college degree or you
don't.
There are challenges, whetheryou're a high school dropout or
if you're not.
There are challenges if you're asingle mom or you're not.
There's always gonna bechallenges.
However, what you want to agreewith, what do you want to be the
(04:43):
outlook for yourself.
Right.
Nobody made these rules.
And so these are the kind ofthings that I've heard.
However, I'm not a high schooldropout.
I do have a college degree,however, I am a single mom.
I do come from a family thatdon't have a lot of money.
I was born in an environmentthat wasn't the best.
(05:04):
Right?
So how was I able to reconditionmy mindset to help me achieve
certain things?
How was I able to start thinkinga higher level of myself?
It comes with one thought.
One thought you'd need.
One simple thought.
And one of those thoughts wassimply.
I can do this.
That's a simple thought.
(05:24):
And the number one way that Iwas able to transform that and
actually reaffirm that thoughtwas through goal achievement,
was starting to give myself aliving proof that yes, that
thought is actually true.
How this simple concept work isyou take one simple thought.
And then you try it, you achievethe goal, and then that goal
(05:47):
reaffirms that thought, right?
And then you have another higherthought, oh, if I can do that,
then I can do this.
And then you achieve the goalagain, and you go, Ooh, boom.
So now that I achieve that goal,dang, I must be really smart.
Oh, I'm smart enough to do this.
Actually, I don't need a collegedegree to do this.
Oh, actually, I don't need ahigh school diploma to do this.
(06:10):
Oh, actually, I don't need tocome from a lot of money to do
this.
Ooh, actually, it is okay for meto be a single mom and still be
wildly successful.
I can do these things, right.
You keep proving to yourselfover and over and over and over
again, and that allowed me torecondition my mind to believe
(06:33):
that I can do anything, that Iam unstoppable, that made me
feel unstoppable.
it's the law of cause andeffect.
You have that simple thought.
That cause the effect of youachieving a goal and that you
achieving a goal.
Cause the effect of youreaffirming that thought and
(06:55):
also thinking more highly ofyourself.
There's so many things that youare capable of doing, but it has
to just start with one thought,one goal achievement, and then
keep going, and then keep going,and then keep going.
When you give yourself livingproof, it is going to keep
reaffirming the thoughts thatyou want to think of yourself
(07:17):
because you're proving that tobe true.
So think about this.
This is sometimes why someaffirmations don't work, is
because sometimes when you havean affirmation.
You don't believe it because youhaven't backed it up, right?
You haven't taken action to backup that belief to prove that
(07:39):
that is true.
So if you are telling yourselfthat you are a successful
person, but then you are notbacking that up by.
Achieving successful things.
It is not saying it has to bethis wildly successful things,
but actually achieving a goalthat you want to achieve, then
(08:00):
you're, you're not gonna believethat internally, right?
You're not going to believe thatwhatsoever.
Let's say you have a affirmationof you are a positive person,
but then you keep.
Acting in such a negative way,then you're not going to
reaffirm that thought, right?
An affirmation can only truly beback when you take action
(08:22):
towards proving that affirmationto be true.
So think more highly of yourselfis a starting point.
Think more highly, but then takeaction behind that to prove that
to be true.
If you wanna start thinking ofyourself to be a more valuable
person you have to take actionThat provides value.
(08:44):
That's the only way you aregoing to be able to reaffirm
that affirmation.
That's the same thing that didfor me through action, through
goal achievement.
So one of my affirmations, why Isay this was I am valuable and I
provide, I can provide greatvalue.
And so in order to prove that tobe true for myself, what I had
(09:07):
to do was actually start showingup online.
I had to, I created podcastfirst, and then I created
content, and then I createdYouTube, right?
Why did I do that?
Because I wanted to prove tomyself that I am valuable.
I wanted to prove to myself thatI can add great value.
I can be someone who isimpactful, but it has to be
(09:29):
action back.
So that is the number one waythat I recondition my mind to
think more highly of myself.
First, you start with a thought,and then second is to reaffirm
that, reaffirm that with action.
And so this is why I created theGoal Achiever program, is
(09:50):
because again, it helped mebuild, rebuild my self image and
self-confidence.
And I wanna help you do thesame.
I know you are an ambitiouswoman.
You want more for yourself.
You dream of more for yourself.
You think about all the thingsthat you wanna do, all the
things that you wanna have, butyou're stuck at thinking, right?
(10:10):
You're stuck at thinking formultiple reason.
It can be confusion, it can be,you know, fair embarrassment.
It can be limited beliefs thatwere placed on you.
It could be external validation.
You don't have that approval,but you want to move past that.
You wanna get out of that stageand you wanna actually start
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achieving the desires of yourheart, achieving your dream
goal, and you are ready to usethat to help you rebuild how you
see yourself.
You wanna think of yourself assomeone who is valuable, someone
who is creative, someone who isan achiever, someone who is
unstoppable.
You wanna feel those feelings.
(10:52):
You wanna trust yourself.
You wanna believe in yourself.
You wanna know you can doanything you put your mind to.
You wanna overcome impostersyndrome.
You wanna use goal achievementto.
Rebuild all of that that youlost.
You had it before, but you lostit and it's okay.
You can rebuild it, right?
And so if this is something thatspeaks to you, if this is
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something that you would love todo then I invite you to the goal
achiever is a three month dreamgoal achievement program.
That is gonna help you rebuildyour self-confidence and your
self-image.
Through goal achievement.
You will learn everything thatyou need to do to achieve a
dream goal.
(11:34):
From the inside out.
So if this sounds like somethingfor you, just click the link in
the description box.
also I did push back the launchdate.
The launch date is going to beMarch 29th.
This is the day that I'm goingto release the, some of the
modules.
However, this is going to be alive group.
This is gonna be live coaching,and the live calls do start in
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April.
so now that I went over that, Iam going to go over the dangers
of not thinking more highly ofyourself.
And so number one, the firstdanger is the risk of, is the
risk of living with regret.
I'm sure you have heard.
that, the richest place in theworld is the graveyard, because
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that is a place where mostpeople died with their dreams,
right?
They died with all the, all thedesires of their hearts sitting
within them because they werealways to scared to pursue or
achieve a dream goal.
Because they didn't think morehighly of themselves.
Then also I've heard, you know,stories of people who are on
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their death bed or in nursinghomes and they share stories of
how I wish, you know, I did thiswhen I was younger.
I wish that I had the courage toreally live life on my terms.
I wish that I didn't care whatanyone thought of me.
And so when I think of that I'msure these people are living
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with regret.
I heard this before, whatsomeone said, everything is a
risk.
You either risk winning or yourisk losing, but choose your
risk.
You're going to risk winning.
Are you gonna risk failing?
which one would you rather do?
And so in moments, right, thingsget challenging and sometimes
you wanna give up and sometimesyou think like, oh my gosh, can
(13:28):
I really do this?
But then when I have a thoughtlike that, I stop and think
like, oh my gosh, I can't evenimagine.
Not trying.
I can't even imagine riskingnever experiencing something
because I was too scared becauseI didn't think that this was
something possible for me.
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And so that idea, living withregret is a scary feeling and I
don't want that for you guys.
Right?
I'm sure you don't want that foryourself either.
So that is one of the maindangers of.
Not thinking more highly ofyourself is living with regret
of wishing that you didsomething, that you had more
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courage, that you thought morehighly of yourself, that you
were more capable, that youdidn't let things like oh money
or not have a certain degree andnot have a certain experience,
stop you from what you trulywanna become and what you truly
want to do.
Don't ever let that stop.
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You.
There's so much proof in theworld that shows you and prove
to you that limits are only inyour mind, doubt your limits,
right?
There's so many people who looklike you, who've came from
experiences like you, who'veexcelled and achieved their
dream goal, not because theywere different.
Not because they were betterthan, it was simply because of
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one simple thought.
They started thinking morehighly of themselves, and they
took action to prove that to betrue and is as simple as that.
So if you never take the risk,if you never think more highly
of yourself.
You may not ever realize yourfull potential.
You may not ever know exactlywhat you are truly capable of.
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The person you can become, thethings you can do, the things
you can experience and have.
So the second danger of you notthinking more highly of yourself
is life giving you exactly whatyou think of yourself.
That is a danger because if youthink of yourself that life is
hard for you.
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If you think of yourself thatyou are a person that struggles,
then life is just going to mimicwhat you think of yourself.
Then life is gonna naturallyfeel hard because you have that
ingrained in you.
And our reality is really areflection of our perception.
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Our reality is our perception.
So anything that is going on inyour mind, what you think of
yourself is normally yourreality is reaffirming what you
think of yourself.
And that is a danger.
So the number three, danger andnot thinking more highly of
yourself is the likelihood ofyou not either fulfilling your
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purpose or you discovering yourpurpose.
The reason why I say either oris because you, it does say you
do discover your purpose inlife.
But you can think yourself to beable to fulfill it.
To be a person who.
Can live out your purpose, thenyou risk not fulfilling your
purpose.
Right?
Now why I say that you risk notdiscovering your purpose is
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because what I learned from myexperience is that your purpose
is tied to you becoming yourbest self.
When you become your best self,when you start thinking more
highly of yourself, startreally, really, really working
on yourself normally, yourpurpose.
It just kind of opens up becauseit is a reflection of you,
(17:07):
right?
When you start to get to knowyourself, when you start to love
yourself, when you start to pourinto yourself, you start knowing
what you want, you start knowingwhat feels good.
Now you feel like you have avoice.
Now you feel like you canimpact.
Now you feel like you can serve.
Now you feel like you havesomething to contribute to you.
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But if you cannot think moralhighly of yourself, then you
discovering that purpose isprobably not likely to happen.
How I discovered my purpose, oneof my purposes, right?
'cause we have multiplepurposes, but that's a career
like career purpose, right?
How I discovered that purposewas when I started to do.
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My inner work when I started tofocus on prioritizing my
confidence and my self-image andputting myself out there, and
then I realized that, Ooh, Iwanna help people do this as
well.
That only happened because Istarted seeing myself as a
person who has somethingvaluable to say.
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I started seeing myself as aperson who deserves more from
life.
Who wants more from life, eventhough wanted more from life is
a different from once and more.
And actually knowing that youdeserve more and that you can
have more.
And once I started thinkingthose things, then one of my
purposes actually came intofruition And there's no question
(18:30):
about it.
There's no doubt about it,right?
so if you don't start thinkingmore highly of yourself, you may
never get to that point in yourlife where you can actually
identify your purpose, right?
Or possibly fulfill it becauseyou can't get past a certain
point of thinking that you cando this because everyone purpose
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is different.
But some purposes requires more,right?
It requires you to be more, andso can you be more, you can only
be more when you think morehighly of yourself.
And so start thinking morehighly of yourself.
The more highly you think ofyourself, the better it gets to
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be.
The better life gets to be.
The more highly you think ofyourself, the more greater you
will achieve.
So as a woman, think of so sheachieves, right?
It works in a cycle you thinkyou achieve or affirms, you
think more, you achieve more.
It reaffirms, and that is mynumber one way.
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This is why I love goalachievement because it rebuilt
my self image.
It rebuilt my self confidence.
It rebuilt my faith in myself,my trust in myself.
It rebuilt how I saw myself andhow I saw my potential and what
I can do.
And ultimately now I feel sounstoppable, right?
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I feel.
Like I can do anything I put mymind to.
And it's all because I startedthinking more highly of myself.
And then reaffirming that goal.
And so in order for you to thinkmore highly of yourself, you
have to reject everything thatdoesn't feel good for you.
Everything that doesn't feel inalignment with the person that
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you wanna be.
Everything that you heard about,what you can and cannot do.
Rejected.
Rejected, rejected, rejected,and say, that is not true for me
whatsoever.
Not true for me.
You create that new identity andyou create new beliefs by
backing it up with action.
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And so that is it for today'sepisode.
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And that is it ladies.
Until next time I hope you beginthinking more highly of yourself
because now you see howimportant it is.
(21:02):
And so until next time, ladies,bye.
Hey ladies.
Welcome back to another video.
Today we are going to be talkingabout the importance of thinking
more highly of yourself becauseif you want to be a goal
achiever.
Then it is crucial for you tobegin thinking more highly of
yourself because as a womanthink of is what she achieve.
(00:27):
Yes, I just made that up.
However, it is so true.
Out of all of my years ofachieving multiple of my dream
goals, I always had to thinkmore highly of myself to help me
get to the next level.
And so why this video came totopic today is because I think
about.
Woman that I speak with, andoftentimes their mindset is, I
(00:50):
can't do this.
Like I don't have a high schooldiploma.
I don't have a college degree,or I don't have this, or I am
not that capable, or I'm not assmart, and it drives me crazy
because.
I see so much in others than Isee in themselves, which is why
(01:11):
I'm a coach.
However, I just want you guys tobe able to see more in yourself
because you are more than youthink you are, and you can
achieve so much more than youthink you can.
You can be so much more than youthink you are, and you can have
so much of what you think youcan have, if only you begin to
think more highly of yourself.
(01:34):
If you cannot think highly ofyourself, you won't be able to
achieve high.
Whatsoever.
If you can't create a highconcept of yourself the level of
your success is equivalent tothe level of how you think of
yourself.
so by the end of this video,hopefully you are able to
(01:55):
intentionally.
Start thinking more highly ofyourself in a daily basis.
so what I want you ladies tostart doing right now is to
stop.
Thinking you can't do something.
One of my biggest pet peeves iswhen people say I can't do
something that drives me up thewall.
(02:15):
Yes, you can.
You can do anything you put yourmind to anything you put your
mind to.
You can learn anything that youtruly want to learn.
You can achieve anything thatyou truly want to achieve.
If you just allow yourself tosay that you can learn
something, you can learn.
Anything you can learn a newlanguage, you can learn how to
(02:37):
make a million dollars.
You can learn how to build abusiness.
You can learn how to start aside hustle.
You can learn.
Stop thinking less of yourself.
it doesn't matter where you camefrom, it doesn't matter.
You know how much money you camefrom, it doesn't matter the
education you have.
You can always do more, be more,and have more.
And so I know that we were notall born thinking less than
(03:00):
ourselves, right?
These are the type of thingsthat were made into us over
time, right?
There's something that wasformed into us over time, and so
I know from personal experience,maybe for certain things like
this, oh, if you're gonna be asingle mom, if you're a single
mom, then you're doomed tostruggle.
That's something I've heard thatit's gonna be hard.
It's hard for single moms.
(03:21):
Or you may have heard, oh, ifyou don't have a college degree,
we probably all heard that ifyou don't have a college degree,
then you won't make a lot ofmoney, then you won't get a
successful career, or you don'thave a high school.
If you're high school dropout,then you're doomed for it to be
poor or you do to be brokeforever.
Or if you are person of aparticular race, then you are
(03:42):
again, doomed to struggle oryou're, you're not as smart, and
so things happen over time thatcreated you to have a certain
outlook on yourself.
However, who made the rules?
Who made the rules?
Who said this was true?
Who said that?
Just because you are a singlemom that you are doomed to
struggle.
Who said that?
(04:02):
Just because you don't have ahigh school diploma that like,
you're gonna be broke forever orbecause you don't have a college
degree, then you won't get ahigh paying job.
like, who made those rules?
And honestly, there's proof outthere to prove that these are
not true.
None of these are true unlessyou actually accept it to be
(04:22):
true.
You believe it to be true.
There are challenges whether youhave a college degree or you
don't.
There are challenges, whetheryou're a high school dropout or
if you're not.
There are challenges if you're asingle mom or you're not.
There's always gonna bechallenges.
However, what you want to agreewith, what do you want to be the
(04:43):
outlook for yourself.
Right.
Nobody made these rules.
And so these are the kind ofthings that I've heard.
However, I'm not a high schooldropout.
I do have a college degree,however, I am a single mom.
I do come from a family thatdon't have a lot of money.
I was born in an environmentthat wasn't the best.
(05:04):
Right?
So how was I able to reconditionmy mindset to help me achieve
certain things?
How was I able to start thinkinga higher level of myself?
It comes with one thought.
One thought you'd need.
One simple thought.
And one of those thoughts wassimply.
I can do this.
That's a simple thought.
(05:24):
And the number one way that Iwas able to transform that and
actually reaffirm that thoughtwas through goal achievement,
was starting to give myself aliving proof that yes, that
thought is actually true.
How this simple concept work isyou take one simple thought.
And then you try it, you achievethe goal, and then that goal
(05:47):
reaffirms that thought, right?
And then you have another higherthought, oh, if I can do that,
then I can do this.
And then you achieve the goalagain, and you go, Ooh, boom.
So now that I achieve that goal,dang, I must be really smart.
Oh, I'm smart enough to do this.
Actually, I don't need a collegedegree to do this.
Oh, actually, I don't need ahigh school diploma to do this.
(06:10):
Oh, actually, I don't need tocome from a lot of money to do
this.
Ooh, actually, it is okay for meto be a single mom and still be
wildly successful.
I can do these things, right.
You keep proving to yourselfover and over and over and over
again, and that allowed me torecondition my mind to believe
(06:33):
that I can do anything, that Iam unstoppable, that made me
feel unstoppable.
it's the law of cause andeffect.
You have that simple thought.
That cause the effect of youachieving a goal and that you
achieving a goal.
Cause the effect of youreaffirming that thought and
(06:55):
also thinking more highly ofyourself.
There's so many things that youare capable of doing, but it has
to just start with one thought,one goal achievement, and then
keep going, and then keep going,and then keep going.
When you give yourself livingproof, it is going to keep
reaffirming the thoughts thatyou want to think of yourself
(07:17):
because you're proving that tobe true.
So think about this.
This is sometimes why someaffirmations don't work, is
because sometimes when you havean affirmation.
You don't believe it because youhaven't backed it up, right?
You haven't taken action to backup that belief to prove that
(07:39):
that is true.
So if you are telling yourselfthat you are a successful
person, but then you are notbacking that up by.
Achieving successful things.
It is not saying it has to bethis wildly successful things,
but actually achieving a goalthat you want to achieve, then
(08:00):
you're, you're not gonna believethat internally, right?
You're not going to believe thatwhatsoever.
Let's say you have a affirmationof you are a positive person,
but then you keep.
Acting in such a negative way,then you're not going to
reaffirm that thought, right?
An affirmation can only truly beback when you take action
(08:22):
towards proving that affirmationto be true.
So think more highly of yourselfis a starting point.
Think more highly, but then takeaction behind that to prove that
to be true.
If you wanna start thinking ofyourself to be a more valuable
person you have to take actionThat provides value.
(08:44):
That's the only way you aregoing to be able to reaffirm
that affirmation.
That's the same thing that didfor me through action, through
goal achievement.
So one of my affirmations, why Isay this was I am valuable and I
provide, I can provide greatvalue.
And so in order to prove that tobe true for myself, what I had
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to do was actually start showingup online.
I had to, I created podcastfirst, and then I created
content, and then I createdYouTube, right?
Why did I do that?
Because I wanted to prove tomyself that I am valuable.
I wanted to prove to myself thatI can add great value.
I can be someone who isimpactful, but it has to be
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action back.
So that is the number one waythat I recondition my mind to
think more highly of myself.
First, you start with a thought,and then second is to reaffirm
that, reaffirm that with action.
And so this is why I created theGoal Achiever program, is
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because again, it helped mebuild, rebuild my self image and
self-confidence.
And I wanna help you do thesame.
I know you are an ambitiouswoman.
You want more for yourself.
You dream of more for yourself.
You think about all the thingsthat you wanna do, all the
things that you wanna have, butyou're stuck at thinking, right?
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You're stuck at thinking formultiple reason.
It can be confusion, it can be,you know, fair embarrassment.
It can be limited beliefs thatwere placed on you.
It could be external validation.
You don't have that approval,but you want to move past that.
You wanna get out of that stageand you wanna actually start
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achieving the desires of yourheart, achieving your dream
goal, and you are ready to usethat to help you rebuild how you
see yourself.
You wanna think of yourself assomeone who is valuable, someone
who is creative, someone who isan achiever, someone who is
unstoppable.
You wanna feel those feelings.
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You wanna trust yourself.
You wanna believe in yourself.
You wanna know you can doanything you put your mind to.
You wanna overcome impostersyndrome.
You wanna use goal achievementto.
Rebuild all of that that youlost.
You had it before, but you lostit and it's okay.
You can rebuild it, right?
And so if this is something thatspeaks to you, if this is
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something that you would love todo then I invite you to the goal
achiever is a three month dreamgoal achievement program.
That is gonna help you rebuildyour self-confidence and your
self-image.
Through goal achievement.
You will learn everything thatyou need to do to achieve a
dream goal.
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From the inside out.
So if this sounds like somethingfor you, just click the link in
the description box.
also I did push back the launchdate.
The launch date is going to beMarch 29th.
This is the day that I'm goingto release the, some of the
modules.
However, this is going to be alive group.
This is gonna be live coaching,and the live calls do start in
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April.
so now that I went over that, Iam going to go over the dangers
of not thinking more highly ofyourself.
And so number one, the firstdanger is the risk of, is the
risk of living with regret.
I'm sure you have heard.
that, the richest place in theworld is the graveyard, because
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that is a place where mostpeople died with their dreams,
right?
They died with all the, all thedesires of their hearts sitting
within them because they werealways to scared to pursue or
achieve a dream goal.
Because they didn't think morehighly of themselves.
Then also I've heard, you know,stories of people who are on
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their death bed or in nursinghomes and they share stories of
how I wish, you know, I did thiswhen I was younger.
I wish that I had the courage toreally live life on my terms.
I wish that I didn't care whatanyone thought of me.
And so when I think of that I'msure these people are living
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with regret.
I heard this before, whatsomeone said, everything is a
risk.
You either risk winning or yourisk losing, but choose your
risk.
You're going to risk winning.
Are you gonna risk failing?
which one would you rather do?
And so in moments, right, thingsget challenging and sometimes
you wanna give up and sometimesyou think like, oh my gosh, can
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I really do this?
But then when I have a thoughtlike that, I stop and think
like, oh my gosh, I can't evenimagine.
Not trying.
I can't even imagine riskingnever experiencing something
because I was too scared becauseI didn't think that this was
something possible for me.
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And so that idea, living withregret is a scary feeling and I
don't want that for you guys.
Right?
I'm sure you don't want that foryourself either.
So that is one of the maindangers of.
Not thinking more highly ofyourself is living with regret
of wishing that you didsomething, that you had more
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courage, that you thought morehighly of yourself, that you
were more capable, that youdidn't let things like oh money
or not have a certain degree andnot have a certain experience,
stop you from what you trulywanna become and what you truly
want to do.
Don't ever let that stop.
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You.
There's so much proof in theworld that shows you and prove
to you that limits are only inyour mind, doubt your limits,
right?
There's so many people who looklike you, who've came from
experiences like you, who'veexcelled and achieved their
dream goal, not because theywere different.
Not because they were betterthan, it was simply because of
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one simple thought.
They started thinking morehighly of themselves, and they
took action to prove that to betrue and is as simple as that.
So if you never take the risk,if you never think more highly
of yourself.
You may not ever realize yourfull potential.
You may not ever know exactlywhat you are truly capable of.
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The person you can become, thethings you can do, the things
you can experience and have.
So the second danger of you notthinking more highly of yourself
is life giving you exactly whatyou think of yourself.
That is a danger because if youthink of yourself that life is
hard for you.
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If you think of yourself thatyou are a person that struggles,
then life is just going to mimicwhat you think of yourself.
Then life is gonna naturallyfeel hard because you have that
ingrained in you.
And our reality is really areflection of our perception.
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Our reality is our perception.
So anything that is going on inyour mind, what you think of
yourself is normally yourreality is reaffirming what you
think of yourself.
And that is a danger.
So the number three, danger andnot thinking more highly of
yourself is the likelihood ofyou not either fulfilling your
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purpose or you discovering yourpurpose.
The reason why I say either oris because you, it does say you
do discover your purpose inlife.
But you can think yourself to beable to fulfill it.
To be a person who.
Can live out your purpose, thenyou risk not fulfilling your
purpose.
Right?
Now why I say that you risk notdiscovering your purpose is
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because what I learned from myexperience is that your purpose
is tied to you becoming yourbest self.
When you become your best self,when you start thinking more
highly of yourself, startreally, really, really working
on yourself normally, yourpurpose.
It just kind of opens up becauseit is a reflection of you,
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right?
When you start to get to knowyourself, when you start to love
yourself, when you start to pourinto yourself, you start knowing
what you want, you start knowingwhat feels good.
Now you feel like you have avoice.
Now you feel like you canimpact.
Now you feel like you can serve.
Now you feel like you havesomething to contribute to you.
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But if you cannot think moralhighly of yourself, then you
discovering that purpose isprobably not likely to happen.
How I discovered my purpose, oneof my purposes, right?
'cause we have multiplepurposes, but that's a career
like career purpose, right?
How I discovered that purposewas when I started to do.
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My inner work when I started tofocus on prioritizing my
confidence and my self-image andputting myself out there, and
then I realized that, Ooh, Iwanna help people do this as
well.
That only happened because Istarted seeing myself as a
person who has somethingvaluable to say.
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I started seeing myself as aperson who deserves more from
life.
Who wants more from life, eventhough wanted more from life is
a different from once and more.
And actually knowing that youdeserve more and that you can
have more.
And once I started thinkingthose things, then one of my
purposes actually came intofruition And there's no question
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about it.
There's no doubt about it,right?
so if you don't start thinkingmore highly of yourself, you may
never get to that point in yourlife where you can actually
identify your purpose, right?
Or possibly fulfill it becauseyou can't get past a certain
point of thinking that you cando this because everyone purpose
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is different.
But some purposes requires more,right?
It requires you to be more, andso can you be more, you can only
be more when you think morehighly of yourself.
And so start thinking morehighly of yourself.
The more highly you think ofyourself, the better it gets to
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be.
The better life gets to be.
The more highly you think ofyourself, the more greater you
will achieve.
So as a woman, think of so sheachieves, right?
It works in a cycle you thinkyou achieve or affirms, you
think more, you achieve more.
It reaffirms, and that is mynumber one way.
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This is why I love goalachievement because it rebuilt
my self image.
It rebuilt my self confidence.
It rebuilt my faith in myself,my trust in myself.
It rebuilt how I saw myself andhow I saw my potential and what
I can do.
And ultimately now I feel sounstoppable, right?
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I feel.
Like I can do anything I put mymind to.
And it's all because I startedthinking more highly of myself.
And then reaffirming that goal.
And so in order for you to thinkmore highly of yourself, you
have to reject everything thatdoesn't feel good for you.
Everything that doesn't feel inalignment with the person that
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you wanna be.
Everything that you heard about,what you can and cannot do.
Rejected.
Rejected, rejected, rejected,and say, that is not true for me
whatsoever.
Not true for me.
You create that new identity andyou create new beliefs by
backing it up with action.
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And so that is it for today'sepisode.
Today's video again, allinformation will be in the
description box.
If you've loved this video,gimme a thumbs up.
Hit the subscribe box.
And that is it ladies.
Until next time I hope you beginthinking more highly of yourself
because now you see howimportant it is.
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And so until next time, ladies,bye.
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