🍸💔💞Revelations of the Spectrum of Intimacy

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So eventually the dick's hard and I'm like hold on
, y'all both gay, like what thefuck, wait a minute.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hold on, bruh, oh shit.

Speaker 4 (00:10):
Bruh.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
Yes, oh, my God, dude , talk about a twist, man.

Speaker 4 (00:14):
Shit.
So what are your thoughts onthat?
I have to go to.

Speaker 2 (00:20):
Sideshow first Broke the fourth wall.
Bro, 100% Bro, what are youdoing with that situation?
What are you thinking, bro?
What's on your mind right now?

Speaker 4 (00:30):
Jesus Christ.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
He's speechless.
He doesn't know what to say.
Hey, you don't want to fuckwith us.
You don't want to fuck with us.

(00:52):
And welcome back to theconversation that never ends.
This is Timeless Talk.
I'm your host, aj, and this isthe second to last episode of
season four.
You guys aren't hyped at all.
What is this like?
You're so focused over there.

(01:12):
What's going on, bro?
What's that?
You're just, you're just yeah,I'm just uh.
There's no cheering going on,there's no, there's no, we're
almost fucking done with thisseason over there.
Ain't shit, bro.
It's just zoned out like I'm,that's in right now.
That's a normal fury.
That's normal fury.
Yeah, bro, you are.
So you know what?
Someone told me that you'rereally tense over there, furious
.
So just like man why is?

Speaker 3 (01:32):
it do with the like.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
Like you just look like you're mad, like you want
to kill somebody.

Speaker 3 (01:35):
I was like it kind of goes with his name no, just
kidding.

Speaker 2 (01:41):
they just say you look hella serious, like they
wouldn't want to pick a fightwith you.

Speaker 5 (01:43):
Yeah, bro, you intimidated me bro, he's like
good shit.

Speaker 1 (01:45):
That's what I want to do.

Speaker 2 (01:46):
Hell yeah, I'm going to leave it in there.
All right, guys, let's do theseintros real quick, man, before
we get to our lovely guest hereon my left, I'm going to go
ahead and go left to right.
We got the man, the myth, thelegend Furious.
Yeah, bro, hey man.
So how you feeling today?
Pretty, pretty good.
You ready to do this episode,bro?
Yes sir, you feel prepared?

Speaker 5 (02:08):
yeah, you're excited.
I like how it's pretty goodlooks pretty angry okay, man.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
He sounded like it looks pretty, pretty angry.
He said all right, man, overhere to my right we have
slideshow.
Thank you.
How do you usually ask us howdo you feel after page show?
Thank you, how do you ask ushow do you feel after Paige?
Right, you know, I'm going toask our guest right now how she
feels once I properly introduceher.
So over here to my direct leftwe have the lovely Paige.

(02:35):
Thank you for being on the showwith us today.
Paige, appreciate it.

Speaker 5 (02:40):
Yeah, I want to get this out the way.

Speaker 2 (02:42):
Oh yeah, we have a shot in front of us guys.

Speaker 5 (02:45):
We're going to get this out the way.
Oh yeah, we have a shot infront of us, guys.
We're going to start this.
We're going to do it on camerawe're doing it on camera, bro
they don't know when we recordit, it's 5 o'clock somewhere
they

Speaker 2 (02:55):
don't know what time it is.
Let's take a little shot rightnow.
Start the episode off a littledifferent than normal.
You know what I'm saying?
Sinners ready.
1, two, three go, all right,okay, why don't you?

Speaker 5 (03:13):
drink your rubbing alcohol.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
Is that what it tastes like to you?
It's whiskey, man, is that what?

Speaker 3 (03:18):
it was Jim Beam, I mean.

Speaker 2 (03:20):
Beam, Beam, Beam with an M.
All right Anyway.
All right, guys.
So today's episode we're goingto have an interesting one.
It's going to be about monogamyversus non-monogamy
relationships.
You know, we have a female witha nice, you know, female with a
good perspective on the showtoday, so we're going to get
everybody's take on it, theirpersonal reflections on it,

(03:41):
share some of their experienceswith you know, either monogamy
or non-monogamy and theimportance of it, right, the
differences, the pros, the cons.
That's kind of what we're goingto go over.
But before we jump into thattopic, I want to let you
audience to get to know Ms Paigea little bit more.
So, Paige, I ask you what areyou willing to share with the
Timeless Talk audience?
What do you want to share aboutyourself before we actually

(04:01):
dive into the topic at hand?

Speaker 1 (04:03):
I'm a mom, I have a few kids.

Speaker 2 (04:05):
Well, I have two kids , but occupation I'm a security
officer okay, okay, so you're asecurity officer, you're a mom,
let's say that's a.
That's basically two jobs,right?
I know, I know how that couldbe.
I'm a parent myself, so I knowexactly how that feels.
Like, um, on this show page, weall, just so you know, we all,
we are open.
It's open forum.
You can ask us whatever youwant.
Okay, I hope you're okay withus asking you whatever we want

(04:27):
to ask.
Okay, we're hitting the login,all right.
So monogamy, non-monogamy,before we jump exactly into that
, are you willing?
Because every every female thatwe've had, every female we've
had on this show, I know thatfurious, wasn't around for this
but, but we always ask them howwas your first time sexually?

(04:48):
Did you, did you enjoy it, didyou hate it, how was it, how was
the experience for you and whatare you willing to share about
it?

Speaker 1 (04:56):
Um, I mean, I enjoyed it.
Okay, that's awesome, so yeah,and.

Speaker 5 (05:03):
I enjoyed it.
It's awesome.
Oh yeah, we actually get mixedreviews on that.

Speaker 2 (05:05):
We do Really.
Yeah, like we had a memory, wealready know what you want to
bring.
We had on the show, right, andher first time.
Furious wasn't here for this,but recap to those that are fans
of the show, that know what I'mtalking about we had a
relationship episode with her.
You're going to bring this up.

(05:29):
That's the thighs one, right?
Yeah, okay, dude went to workon her thighs and she thought
that she was having sex, but hereally he couldn't even find the
hole.
So he went to town on herthighs and finished in between
the thighs.
She was that good and she didn'tknow any better.
So she thought that's what itfelt like.
Like yo, because she didn'tknow what was in.
She didn't know what.
In felt like you know what Imean, I guess.
So when bro had his way withher thighs and was like yo, I
hit it.
Bro over to his homies, likeokay, bro, there was a breeze in
there, though I don't know why,but I felt a breeze at the end

(05:50):
for some reason, like yeah, yeah, so her situation was like that
and she's like when I actuallyfelt it, it hurt the first time
so she didn't really enjoy herfirst she probably had like yeah
.
Who knows, because then she'slike I went over here bragging
to my girlfriends too, and itturned out it wasn't even really
the thing either, so hopefullyyou didn't have an experience
like that, though.
Right, okay, that's good, youat least enjoyed your first time

(06:11):
.

Speaker 1 (06:11):
Well, like when initially, like when the cherry
pops, you're a bloody mess,you're blue.
I bled for like two days.

Speaker 5 (06:18):
That's not.

Speaker 1 (06:20):
Not everyone A lot of um.
I'm friends with a lot ofHispanics and they're like I
didn't bleed, like what cherry,and I'm like what.
Like I bled, that shit pops andI was like what the fuck, and
it was like a river.
Yeah, wow, I bled for two daysstraight.

Speaker 2 (06:36):
Two days straight.

Speaker 1 (06:37):
Yeah, so my first time was not enjoyable.
Okay, we'll get there.
It was not enjoyable it I bled,like, initially, like the
wiener goes in, and then it justpopped and it was like
floodgates so I bled for twodays straight.

Speaker 5 (06:51):
I've never heard that before.
I thought it was like a periodor something, but no, I've heard
of it like being a drop ofblood or like two drops, but
I've never heard of that.
That's crazy.
Yeah, that's wild wow, okay.

Speaker 2 (07:04):
Hey, you know what everybody's experience is
different.
You just explained how yourswas.
That's um, that's crazy.
Yeah, that's wow, wow, okay.
Hey, you know what everybody'sexperience is different.
You just explained how yourswas.
That's um, that's interestingtwo days, yeah, that's a first
for me to hear that too, wereyou were you worried or you
already knew what it was?

Speaker 1 (07:15):
I thought it was my period oh, but it was due to the
actual act, yeah, oh so then Iwas like oh, it makes sense so
what led up to it?

Speaker 2 (07:23):
Was it a crazy experience?
Did you guys plan it?
Did it kind of just happen?
Did you envision it in yourhead going down a certain way?
Or did it just happen the wayit happened and you're like oh,
I guess that's the first time.

Speaker 1 (07:34):
So I was young, young , I was like 13.
It was after my winter ball andit was to an ex I was, and it
was um to to an ex um, I waswith him for like 14 years but
uh, I didn't know what was gonnahappen.

Speaker 2 (07:54):
I mean you have hopes , but you never know.
Yeah, you know for sure.

Speaker 1 (07:55):
So that happened.
And then, um, I think he brokeup with me like two weeks later,
wow, and he got back with melike okay um two years after
that, but so with someone youwould say at least it mattered
they.

Speaker 2 (08:11):
They mattered to you.
It wasn't a random, which isgood yeah, someone meaningful?

Speaker 1 (08:14):
no, I, I definitely.
I grew up with them okay, allright, cool.

Speaker 2 (08:18):
Do you guys still talk to this day or no?

Speaker 1 (08:19):
you kind of just uh, we're in the middle of a divorce
oh hey, you know what, though?

Speaker 2 (08:25):
at least you actually tried it out with that person
all the way you went, all theway you guys got married.
You know it wasn't a beautiful,pretty picture, but you at
least you made it, you tried.
You can actually look back onthat, knowing that you know
you're reflecting that youactually gave it a real shot we
did that's good before we moveon.
Do any of you guys want to askmiss page before we jump in, or
you want to just go?
Just ask, go yeah, just as wego.
Okay, cool, sounds good.
All right guys.
So monogamy, right.

(08:45):
Monogamy, non-monogamy.

Speaker 5 (08:47):
Wait, hold on.
Remind me of the differencebetween the two.
I know, one is like single.

Speaker 2 (08:53):
Yeah Well, no, not necessarily.
You're never single.

Speaker 5 (08:57):
No single like single partner.

Speaker 2 (08:58):
Oh yes, yeah, monogamy is I use your loyal to
one, okay.

Speaker 5 (09:02):
All right.

Speaker 2 (09:03):
So non-monogamy is you have an open relationship.

Speaker 5 (09:05):
That's open?
Yeah, or just more than onepartners yeah.

Speaker 2 (09:09):
Okay, essentially, yeah, that's basically what it
is.
So I'm going to ask the panelfeel free, you guys, to answer,
jump in as if you want and goahead and go with our guests
first.
Actually, you know the showmanners.
We'll let you answer first andthen we'll go.

(09:30):
We'll go accordingly, but inyour personal experience I'll
start.
I'll start with the easier one.
We'll save the the grittier onefor a little later.
Monogamy have you experiencedit?
How, what, how is it?
Are you currently in it?
Did you do it in the past, andwhat do you feel are the pros
and cons?

Speaker 1 (09:46):
So I am in a monogamous relationship right
now.
Okay, I think it's been acouple months, but I was in a
non-monogamous relationship forlike a hot minute, and that's
just something I'm used to isthe non-monogamous relationship.
Like sleeping with other people, couple swaps, threesomes, like

(10:09):
all of that, so like I'm usedto that.
So like me now being in anon-monogamous relationship is
like a whole different entity.

Speaker 2 (10:19):
That transition, though right, yes, the
transition You're like what thefuck am I like?
What am I doing now?

Speaker 1 (10:26):
like oh you don't want threesomes, or oh, like
we're not like doing this coupleswaps and he's like no, like
not about it whatsoever, and I'mlike really like there's no
other girls you're trying tolike bang with me and no, and
I'm like what the fuck?

Speaker 2 (10:44):
like it's a whole different, it's just different
so you like him enough to givethat a try, though, obviously
man, I'm in love with this, I'min love with them okay.
So there's a part of you okay.
So I'm gonna ask the questionis a part of you happy that he's
like that, or do you wish hewould invite someone else to the
bedroom to kind of spice it upa little bit?

Speaker 1 (11:02):
you know what I I, you know how, when you have
someone else and you bring theminto the room like you have to
give them a certain amount ofattention, then your spouse is
given, or whomever is givingthem, a certain amount of
attention yeah um, like you knowyour role, so this man I all
the attention's on me.

(11:22):
It's nice.
It's a nice, it's justdifferent.
It's nice, I like it.
I don't mind it.
It's just something that I haveto grow accustomed to and I
have to learn to.
I don't fucking know.

Speaker 2 (11:38):
So, yeah, you're trying to find that adjustment,
you're trying to figure out.
She's like I'm trying to figurethe adjustment out.
Yeah, no, I get that.

Speaker 1 (11:44):
It makes sense that's crazy, you know how people's
like normality, it's like, um,it's just different.
So mine was a non-monogamousrelationship and, like everyone,
or some, most are likemonogamous, so this is different
it is no for sure.

Speaker 2 (12:02):
Yeah, we appreciate you sharing that with us.
That's, that's interesting.
So maybe in a way, I almost Iguess I probably should ask you
the non-monogamy first right,we'll get to that, you feel like
, but do you feel like you'rebeing successful in that so far?
Do you feel like maybe okay?

Speaker 1 (12:16):
so far, because even after, uh, like my marriage
didn't work out like god, Icheated on every single one of
them, but this one I have.
No like I don't want to cheat,I don't, I don't want to do any
of that.
I don't want to look at pornlike I'm.

Speaker 2 (12:31):
I'm the desire.

Speaker 1 (12:33):
Yeah, I'm content with him, so it's nice nice.
It's a different kind of it'sdifferent, it's so fucking
different wow, that's cool.

Speaker 2 (12:41):
Okay, you know I'm happy for you.
That's great that that's endedup being the case.
Yeah, for sure.
Other questions?

Speaker 5 (12:46):
yeah, according to, like you know, just human nature
, everything is like alwaysbetter when it's no rules or
when it's less rules, right?
So is it like from going from,is it non-monogamy?
To?

Speaker 1 (13:00):
monogamous yeah.

Speaker 5 (13:01):
Is that like?
Does that feel like the highwent down since there's more
rules, since it's justone-on-one, or you know what.

Speaker 1 (13:09):
So he never puts rules.
It's just kind of like you justknow, because the conversations
have been had Like oh, I don'tlike this, or this isn't what I
like to do.
So then you kind of just checkyourself.

(13:29):
You know what I mean.
Like I check myself because I'mlike, oh, he doesn't like this,
so don't do this.
Like, oh, I'm checking outthese women.
Like maybe I shouldn't don't gotalk to them because that's
disrespectful, don't bedisrespectful.
So it's, the high hasn't comedown, but I just checked myself

(13:50):
you know more than you used to.
Yeah more than I used to becausebefore I was like, oh hey, you
want to come to the room, youknow, or you?

Speaker 2 (13:57):
would invite who you wanted to.

Speaker 1 (13:58):
Yeah, yeah so well, it had to be okay with, like, my
partner but, um, for the mostpart, I don't.
I don't mind, Like I it's, ithas just been an adjustment.
It's just been adjustment.
Basically it ain't bad.
I don't.
I have no complaints, Okay.

Speaker 2 (14:19):
You know, I'm sexually satisfied so that's,
that's good.
Hey, that's important.
That's more important thanpeople let on to be sometimes,
right yeah because sometimesthey bring it like little
wieners and you're like oh wegotta invite somebody else.

Speaker 1 (14:32):
You know, yo, yo I don't know what.

Speaker 2 (14:37):
Are you guys afraid to laugh?
What is this?
I'm so reserved.
It's like just kind of likethis no, but you know what?
Are you guys afraid to laugh?
What is this?
I'm so reserved.

Speaker 3 (14:44):
I'm laughing on this.
This is funny bro.

Speaker 2 (14:47):
No, but you know what , though I respect how honest
you're being about that, as alittle wiener you're like, oh
bro, this might be a problem.
You know what I mean?
The same it Yo.

Speaker 5 (14:56):
I don't know what this is, man.

Speaker 3 (15:06):
I think guys do the same thing comes in he's like
it's all right, baby, I'll putit down.

Speaker 4 (15:10):
He's like bro, you can sit over there and you can
watch.
Hey, man, that makes you a whatit makes you a cut.

Speaker 2 (15:14):
Yeah, we got sound effects on this thing, so I love
this thing, um, but yeah, oh,man, this time talk.
We don't have no filters here.
You guys already know how it is, man, so that's good, all right
.
So before we move on to thenon-monogamy portion, I got to
be fair.
Do you have more you want toadd to that?
Before we move on to these guys?

(15:34):
Oh no, go for it.
Okay, mr Furious, what aboutyou, sir?

Speaker 3 (15:45):
Your experiences with monogamy.
How do you feel about it?
Pros and cons.
What you got, I mean, I thinkthe cons of monogamy is that you
don't have like you can'treally exercise like your
freedom, you know, with likeoptions.
I guess that's that's a con, youknow, and I'll say it's only a
con if you're not satisfied.
Within that, that uh,monogamous you know of, I would
say that's a con that does popup.

(16:06):
I would say.
A pro of it, though, is thatyou can build on a connection
with an individual and as muchas you water it you can make it
stronger every day and there'sunlimited potential when it
comes to having another personwith you If you're doing it
right, yeah, right, yeah, yeah.

(16:26):
um, as far as like non-monogamy,of course, I mean the pros is
freedom, absolute freedom well,save that thought, save that
thought we're coming to thatnext?

Speaker 2 (16:33):
yeah, I'm gonna come back around for that he's like
oh, shit no, no but is thereanything you want to share
personally, though, with yourmonogamy situation that you're
like, because I know now you're,you know, ladies he's single
right now right now.
Right now he's not monogamy.
Ladies out there they're.
They're watching this.
My uh, what do you call bubbleshere?

Speaker 3 (16:52):
it's available cobra bubbles, cobra bubbles, right
here.
You know what I'm saying yeah,I mean cocky loaded.
I just saw the picture.
Yeah, okay, so what was the?

Speaker 2 (17:05):
so is there anything you want to like?
As far as you're since I knowyou're non-monogamous right now
what can you take from, at leastwhat do you feel like you've
learned, right so, from therelationship that you had last
that was monogamous, that failed.
What do you see?
What do you walk away from thatknowing now?
obviously you know eventually,maybe, right, you'd entertain
the idea of being with somebodyagain right in the future yeah
what can you say that you tookaway from that last relationship

(17:25):
that you're gonna apply to fixdifferently in this one coming
up in the future?

Speaker 3 (17:29):
don't rush anything and, uh, you know, keep your
feelings in check.
Like feelings come and go, it's, at the end of the day, it's
you know, if that person, if youguys click like I mean like if
you click even, like when thefeelings aren't there, like if
you guys can still, stilloperate listen to the vibes,
yeah.
You know Cause.
I mean like there's going to betimes where you don't like that
person.
You know what I'm saying.
So that's like inevitable witheverybody.
There's going to be somethingabout them at that moment where

(17:50):
it just doesn't, it just rubsyou the wrong way, you don't
agree with it.
Exactly.
You know what?
I don't click at all.
Then it's, it's, uh yeah, it'snot even a toss-up oh, 100.

Speaker 2 (18:05):
I even agree, if there's more fights than there
is pleasure there's no point.

Speaker 3 (18:08):
But it's like, honestly, it's like you got to
click on all three levels, likeyou got to click sexually, you
got to click mentally, you gotto click emotionally.
You got to.

Speaker 2 (18:14):
You know those things all have to align, because I
agree, because if you don't, ifyou have one or the other, if
you're suffering from one, Imean you can make it work with
just one, but it's going to be areluctant type of thing yeah
and then someone's going to endup cheating.
Let's be real, let's keep it abuck, you know, I mean someone's
going to end up veering off andtrying something different.
That's just what happens.
Is what happens if you'relacking on both sides, you know,
yep and say again that you know, with that being said, viewers

(18:37):
and listeners, I'm not sayinglike it justifies cheating.
It doesn't, but there's areason.
There's a reason, there's areason to the madness, you know.
I mean, there's a reason for ithappening.
I'm not saying that I condoneit, but I'm saying that this is
why it happens.
You know, people wonder why thefuck did they do this?
It's not necessarily your fault, but maybe you were lacking in
something that they should havecommunicated on before they went
and did it.
You know, in my opinion, youdon't think so.

(18:58):
I always heard it ain't better,it's just different it could be
that too, it could be that, andyou know what that's actually?
I I had a recent conversationwith somebody just last night
about that and I don't gotta sayany names, but he, he put it
into perspective.
I was like that's kind of true,actually.
Thank you, I appreciate thatyou're having a problem about to
happen.
I'll just appreciate that.
She would have spilled all overme like oh fuck bro, technical

(19:22):
difficulties anyway, um, yeah, Iknow, but he kind of said that
too.
He's like it's just that it'sdifferent and sometimes females
don't understand that you, we asmen, like we, we're capable,
because when women cheat, it'susually emotional, it's
emotional reasons, usually right, but when men do it it's kind
of like.
I just wanted to try that.
I don't love this woman, Idon't even give a shit about her
, which is true.

(19:42):
We can.
We even know how to shut it off.
We just wanted to taste it, tryit out and then make sure we
still nurture.
We have over here with family,with as messed up as that sounds
, but that's really what it isat its core.
If you want to look at it in ananimal I guess not animalistic,
but like if you want to say, um, what's the word I'm looking
for?
There's a word for it.
Hold on, uh, primal instinct,right, primal instinct tells you

(20:04):
that's what that means when theguy as cliche as it might sound
, I don't really care about her.
He really doesn't.
Nine times out of ten hedoesn't really give a shit about
her, but it's still fucked up,though.

Speaker 3 (20:14):
I would add if it's a dude's first chick that's not
the case he's going to love thatchick.
But if he has experience, thenyou learn how to how to like
detach.
You know I'm saying, butexactly if you've only had one
or two women in your whole life.

Speaker 2 (20:30):
Oh yeah, you're gonna be stuck on both of them.

Speaker 3 (20:31):
Yeah, that's true, that's true actually, no,
because you don't have that, youdon't have the experience.
So I think it's different forlike, it's different for men and
women, like, like for men it'slike, it's good if we have that,
if we have like that experience.
For some reason I'm saying like.
That's why, like, if you hearabout a dude who's like, who's
had like 100 girls, you knowyeah bro like that's what's up,
you know yeah because it's notlike like the odds are already
stacked against us, you know, Imean like we're already like in

(20:52):
competition with with othermales.
Yeah, you know I'm saying nofor sure fact that someone can
get that, oh shit, like so.
But on the opposite side, youknow, I'm saying it doesn't,
it's, it's looked at.

Speaker 2 (21:01):
Yeah, it's a game of life, like you said.
You talked about it the otherepisode, a couple episodes ago,
and you know not.
Just that, and just so for therecord.
So everybody knows.
We're not saying that that'snecessarily how we are here at
this table.
I'm just saying in general,right, in general, some men,
that's how they handle it, mostmen, that's kind of how we are,
how we're built DNA-wise.
I feel like the one, the menthat are able to stay monogamous

(21:23):
, they understand how tosuppress it, like myself, it's
hard, it's a challenge every day, right, but you have to
suppress it for the sake of yourrelationship, the respect you
have for your partner.
You're suppressing it.
That's just gonna keep it abuck.
Let's be honest.
That's what you're doing.
You're not gonna lie to yourgirl.
You're lying your fucking assoff.
Then let's be real.

Speaker 4 (21:43):
I was keeping it a buck right.
Everybody looks.

Speaker 2 (21:45):
Everybody fucking looks.
I look too, she looks tooExactly.
It's wired in us to do that.
I'm sorry to say.
It's just 100% biologically thetruth.
All you're doing when you'remonogamy to be fruitful, he's

(22:06):
like you're suppressing yourprimal instinct and your primal
right to do.

Speaker 3 (22:10):
That's basically what it is.

Speaker 2 (22:11):
It's a primal right.
I hate to say it like that butlike dude, I'm not going to
embarrass the dogs, but that'swhat dogs do.
Dogs like they multiply, bro.
They fucking, they're fruitful.
Whatever dog, my dog was a hoehe knocked up every dog on the
block, bro, and he picked.
It was weird because did I tellyou guys this thing?
I might have told them off therecord, but I'll tell real quick
on the record for miss pagehere.
Real quick sidebar story has todo with this.

(22:32):
This non-monogamous dog of mine, right bro, knocked up every.
I told you this off the record.
I told, I told, I told a fewyears this.
So my dog, rocky bro, was aplayer.
He literally smacked every dogon the block.
But there was this bordercolleague that he liked a lot
and I know this because hereturned to her house the most.
For some reason he had puppieswith her.
He got puppies with the otherones too, but he never went back
to their houses.
I would catch him at her house.

(22:54):
I remember one day my neighborcalled me.
I came home early from work.
I'm like where the fuck is thisfool?
He was in the yard, so Ifigured out his schedule.
Dogs are smart.
They don.
They can't look at the clock,but they can tell where the sun
is in the sky and they know whentheir owner's going to be back
home.
This motherfucker was back inthe yard behind the fence before
I got home because he knew whattime I'd pull up every day.
But the day that I got he wassmart as hell.

(23:14):
But one day I got home earlyhis ass wasn't back there.
I was like, yeah, there we go,I show up.
It was the funniest thing ever.
It was like a kid, like a deercaught in headlights.
Dude, I walk in there to seehim.

(23:36):
He's like he looks at me andhe's laying down with her in her
bed and look like a kid justgot caught.
Yeah, little puppies look justlike him and her.
They were cute as hell.
Yeah, we ended up splittingthem.
Long story short, I didn't tellyou this part of the story, but
we ended up selling the puppiesand they split half the, half
the killing with me, which wascool because you know you made
half the, but it was funny.
Man like I was like bro, you,this is what you're doing, I'm

(23:56):
at work, and he just walked out.
He did the walk of shame to thecar.
I'm like really this word, wowbro.
I was like, okay, so yeah, hepicked one.
So I was like I thought it wasfunny.
The reason why I'm telling thestory is I thought it was funny
how he had a human trait in away, kind of you know, it's kind
of like he had his favorite one.
Well, he fucked the block, buthe, for some reason, he had his
mane and he laid in bed with herbro.

(24:16):
He was in her little fuckingdoggy bed with the puppies on
the side, like it was pricelessman.
I was laughing.
It's just like that, you know.
I mean that moment of gettingcaught, bro.
When he saw me, his ears raised, he looked at me like, oh shit,
like my secret's out, he'snever.
You're not supposed to be herethis early.
But anyway, back to the topic,guys.
I thought that was funny.
I wanted to share that withy'all.
But, um, yeah, slideshow.
What are your thoughts onmonogamy, sir?

(24:37):
How do you feel about it?
What are your personalexperiences with it?
Are you currently single?
What's the deal, yo, with you,sir?
Um, why are you looking here,afraid to speak?

Speaker 5 (24:50):
come on, I was gonna say um well, first of all, I
think that term is differentwhen it comes to both
relationships well, boyfriendand girlfriend, and then when
you're married, I think, I thinkit has different rules oh yeah,
no for sure absolutely.

Speaker 2 (25:04):
I feel like when you have that bond, bless you, god
bless you.
When you have that blonde, areyou good?
I feel like.
I feel like when you have thatbond, man, it's different.
When I mean it is different butit's not because, like the, the
, the commitment should alwaysbe there right, even before the
ring comes.

Speaker 1 (25:18):
What I'm trying to say, I mean when you're dating,
yeah, yeah, essentially, whenyou're dating, you're dating.
Yes, because essentially, whenyou're dating, you're courting
them to marry them, right.

Speaker 2 (25:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (25:27):
But if you're just fucking like, that's different.

Speaker 2 (25:30):
Exactly, it's kind of detached, but I feel like when
you're just fucking, though itleads to eventual feelings right
, no it doesn't Never, well, so.

Speaker 1 (25:38):
I know you said like oh, most women are like act on
emotion.
But I feel like I'm a differentbreed because I was in a non
monogamous relationship for solong and like once you get past
like the cheating and all thatlike eventually you're just like
fuck it.
Then you start thinking like adude.

Speaker 2 (25:58):
So you're the outlier in a way, but not in a bad way.
She's basically the outlierbecause she was able to adjust.

Speaker 3 (26:04):
You can detach from all that shit.

Speaker 2 (26:05):
Yeah so when women are capable of doing that
eventually yes, yeah, 100 Ibelieve it okay, but it does I.

Speaker 3 (26:11):
But like it does take it takes trauma it takes uh
hurt.
You're crying like eventually,you're just like you're over it
you're just like you're over it.

Speaker 4 (26:23):
You're stagnant.

Speaker 1 (26:24):
Like all right.

Speaker 2 (26:27):
Now I'm a dude.
Yo, you know what, though I'mnot mad at you.
Hey, you're being honest,you're giving us some real shit.
Yeah, bro, I respect it, but goahead, sideshow.
I'm going to cut you off,though, sorry.
What were you going to say?

Speaker 5 (26:42):
No, no, no yeah you're gonna say something.

Speaker 2 (26:45):
Get you get your thought out, man.
I forgot it's a talk show.
Bros, it's timeless talk, comeon are you single or not?
Yeah, that's the question, oryou don't know?

Speaker 5 (26:51):
yet no, yeah, oh, you're single yeah okay um
you're talking to me now I wasgonna say that the thing is, I
don't really, I don't reallybelieve in the whole boyfriend
and girlfriend theory why, um,at least for me.
Um, okay, about to get good.

Speaker 2 (27:08):
Yeah, yeah, he's like let me adjust myself get
comfortable.
Oh shit, here we go well, ifwe're, you're diving into it.

Speaker 5 (27:15):
I want to say if we're going by the book, here we
go, and we not, we don't.
I'll be the first to say I don'tcompletely go by the book, but
I mean it's like one foot in andone foot out, because and when
I say by the book I mean thebible- oh, okay, you know yeah,
by the bible, like back then andI know it was a completely
different time, but it was like,uh, they had a system where,

(27:36):
like your parents chose who youmarried, kind of thing, kind of
like you didn't, you didn't, youweren't really able to venture
off like that.
So it's like kind of in a sense.
If I'm still looking at it likethat, it's kind of like if
you're not married, you kind ofyou kind of don't really have
anything.
But I mean, like I don'tbelieve in whole boyfriend and
girlfriend thing, but I thinkthe strongest thing you could

(27:58):
give somebody is your word, Ithink anything past that is kind
of like, at least for me Ithink.
It think is kind of likecontrolling, like you know the
whole, I need to see whereyou're at, I see what you're
doing, kind of thing.
Or like I don't know.
I kind of.
I kind of feel like it's kindof like a cause.
You could do all that at theend of the day.
You know put so much time, youknow money, all this and that,

(28:21):
but then just for that person toturn around and leave the very
next day.

Speaker 1 (28:25):
That's true.
So my logic is I'd rather haveloyalty than love.

Speaker 5 (28:31):
I've heard that.
I've heard that.

Speaker 1 (28:33):
Because, with loyalty , like they're always going to
be there for you.
And you know you don't needtheir.
You know you don't need atracker.
You don't need to know wherethey're going.
They don't have to say nothingbecause they're loyal to you.
You know that they're going tostick by you at the end of the
day.
But love like it can go andfuck you over, Fuck all your
homies, and then they're goingto come and kiss you on the

(28:53):
mouth.

Speaker 4 (28:55):
Like that's man, you can do that shit Love is just
emotion.

Speaker 2 (28:58):
That's why.

Speaker 5 (29:09):
Yeah, here is like, it's like the wisdom.
I would say it's like thewisdom aspect.
Guys, you know what?

Speaker 3 (29:11):
I'm saying, but it's like not everyone's capable of
that.
Oh, that's true.

Speaker 4 (29:12):
But then they also say true love never fails though
right but I think that's acliche you did.
It just sounds good.

Speaker 3 (29:15):
It sounds good because that's it, because on
the real bro, I think that lovecomes and goes, bro, there's
times that you that, that thatyou're gonna hate that person.
You're with them so much, bro,so much.
There's gonna be times, bro,where you're like damn, like you
always do this shit, like goddamn, you annoying, you know
what I'm saying, but you stilllove them.

Speaker 5 (29:30):
But it's like in that moment you're like fuck, like
you're fucking annoying but thenagain, like maybe that's not
true love, accurate, I was gonnasay, because there's been times
where, like I broke up withsomebody and like they got into
an accident and I mean weweren't, we weren't even talking
, and I'm like, okay, well, Isent my triple a and then I had
to meet them at their housebecause triple a person need to

(29:52):
see my information.

Speaker 3 (29:53):
So I went to their house okay, but that's a good
gesture that's a good that's anx, but no, yeah, yeah, yeah but
hey, but see, but look, but see.

Speaker 5 (30:04):
But just because you're max, I don't gotta hate
you, I don't gotta treat you badokay, fair enough, I ain't use
my triple a.

Speaker 1 (30:10):
What?

Speaker 2 (30:10):
no, she said, you're fucked.
She called an old person, callyour mama.

Speaker 5 (30:15):
No, but see, but that's.
But that's why, like, if I loveyou, whether we stay together
or not, I'm always do right byyou yeah, but that's not true,
love though you wouldn't havebroken up with them.

Speaker 1 (30:25):
If that was true love .
If you want to go by the cliche, of true love.

Speaker 5 (30:29):
But then, but there's , there's I love you versus I'm
in love with you, correct?

Speaker 3 (30:35):
Okay hold on, that is true but that.
But then where does true loveapply?

Speaker 5 (30:40):
then True love, I think that does apply to the
aspect of wanting to be with you, because I think that true love
no true love.
It's probably a bit of both,probably a bit about the in love
and also, you know, becausethen true love is like we could
still fall apart for maybe acouple years, but we'll, we'll
still always find our way back.

Speaker 1 (30:56):
I don't think so, man .
I don't think so.
That doesn't true.
Love sounds absolute.

Speaker 3 (30:59):
To me you said, that doesn't happen.

Speaker 1 (31:01):
Well, I mean, it shouldn't like.
Oh damn uh.
We drifted off.
Now you're fucking all thesedudes and we're gonna get back
together when you're ran through.
I'll say yeah, that's true love.
I'll say that that's more likea hell no, like a twin flame
type of thing.

Speaker 3 (31:16):
That's like a twin flame yeah that sounds better
where you're, just like you knowyou guys are.
You guys are very connectedwhen you guys when you guys are
together, but when you guysdrift apart, you guys do your
own thing.
You know what you guys are veryconnected when you guys are
together, but when you guysdrift apart, you guys do your
own thing.
But it's like you're better offtogether, but for some reason
you both want to just do thingsthat are not aligned.
Okay, but that's more like intolike that's a different type of

(31:37):
cult type of shit, you know twinflames and shit.
I just you know, what I'msaying, but that's how I
articulate it.
Because love is a tricky thing,man.
It's tricky, it is Because it'semotion and it's action, and
it's also like conviction.
It's also like belief too.
It's not just.
You know, it's so abstract.

(31:59):
The abstractness of thatconcept is so broad.
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Like sometimes we get lost andjust just figuring out like what
it is, what it is you know it'sso like elusive, but like we,
we can feel it, but like it'shard to explain it.
You know I'm saying especiallylike when you're in love with
somebody.
It's like I don't know, it'slike I just see something about
this person, you know I'm sayingI'll do anything for them.

(32:21):
You know I mean you'm sayingLike, but it's a lot deeper than
like what people can reallyrealize.
I think you know what I'msaying.
I don't think anyone can reallylike explain it.
You know what I'm saying, likeit's just one of those things
that you have to.
It doesn't have a cap, Likeit's like if you're experiencing

(32:47):
enough to feel that shit, youknow what I'm saying for a
fucking extended amount of time,cherish that shit for as long
as you can, because it will end.
Thanks, alma too.
It will end.

Speaker 5 (32:59):
Yeah, bro, you're saying 10 times out of 10, it
will end it will end.

Speaker 3 (33:02):
You think so?
Hell yeah, it will end, damn.

Speaker 2 (33:04):
Drop the gems, bro, it's going to end, bro.

Speaker 3 (33:06):
I'm like I'm going to know when I'm going to miss my
life.
Yeah, this is all going to end.
Cherish that shit, Whoa.
This whole season is going toend bro.

Speaker 5 (33:17):
Are you?

Speaker 3 (33:17):
talking about death.
Do us part, or are you talkingabout death?
It's so immediate too.
It's like, bro, like thinkabout it.
You're, you're in love withthis person, right?
Let's just take you and andyour dude, right?
yeah, you're in love with thisperson you're saying with
everything going on right now.
Right, like, like what if thelast time that you saw him was
the last time that that you'reever gonna see him?
Not to you know.
Knock on wood, right yeah butthink about it.

(33:39):
You know, I'm saying cherishthat shit you know I'm saying
like all the experiences thatyou have like yeah before that,
like that shit doesn't matter.
But the thing is is like, inthese days and ages, like people
are so like I got options, Igot this, I got that they don't
cherish like the experiencebecause, like one, it's like,
once you're, if you're luckyenough to make it to age 60,
right and and even like, evenlike, reminisce on, like what

(34:00):
you had, it's like damn.
Like you, you startedappreciating shit.
You know, I mean, even at thisage that we're at now, we're
like damn, like I could have didthis, I could have.
So, yeah, it's, it's a lot morethan it's we.
We don't give it enough creditno, for sure you know what I
mean.

Speaker 2 (34:15):
So yeah, I agree, it's one of those things like
it's.
I agree it's fleeting, so youhave to appreciate that shit it
is fleeting, yeah, very fleeting, you ain't wrong fleeting, you
ain't wrong.
Dang man, you know, this is agood little segment right here
man.
What's the word I'm looking for?
Not divisive.
That was very uh deep, no Ithought it was deep, deep.

(34:35):
No, I was trying, it's deep,don't get me wrong.
Inspiring but, there's.
No, there's a word I was lookingfor, damn it.
We'll just say deep andinspiring good job.
I'll give you flowers in yourhand.
Yeah, yeah, our audience lovesyou furious, even though you
intimidate a quarter of them.
They don't want to step out ofline when you're around.
How do I do that?

(34:56):
You know?
Someone told me they wonderwhat eye color you have, bro.
What's your eye color?
Make a quarter of them.
They don't want to step out ofline when you're around.
How do I do that?
Someone told me they wonderwhat eye color you have, bro,
what your eye color is, becausethey don't know.
Man, are you serious?
Yeah, someone asked me that.
Shit, bro.
They said, hey, what color eyesdoes a black Terminator have?
What color eyes does he have?
The black Terminator theyemphasize that man what color
eyes does he have?

Speaker 1 (35:16):
The black Terminator yeah, bro.

Speaker 2 (35:17):
They emphasize that too.

Speaker 3 (35:20):
Hey, james Cameron, black Terminator Right there bro
.

Speaker 2 (35:24):
We just gave you your next big blockbuster movie.
Sideshow.
Do you have anything else youwant to add to that, Any
personal experiences you want toshare with the panel and the
audience about your personalexperiences with monogamy?

Speaker 4 (35:35):
and what it did for you.

Speaker 2 (35:37):
And I ask you the same question.
We'll answer that first, and Igot one more question for you
sure.

Speaker 5 (35:41):
Well, I actually, I actually didn't, uh, I guess I
guess just just a one-on-onerelationship caused me to.
I guess just a bad experiencejust caused me to like think
about it.
Like that, like hold on therelationship don't really make
sense to me.
Then I started thinking, like Ifelt like we kind of made a

(36:02):
adult version of something wedid as kids, if that makes sense
.
Like you know, you got older,so the only thing that changed
is you know, you got to spendmore time together.
You got money now so you knowyou could.
You know disneyland, this that,that you could spend a night at
each other's house.
So it's kind of like.
Kind of for me it was looked atas like just playing kids.
And then you know if you'resomebody that, like I guess,

(36:25):
thinks ahead of the game, youknow you try to plan for the
future, but if not and you'rejust there with that person,
then you get kids involved andthen before you know it like
damn all these real strugglescome and you're oh, maybe I
don't really feel like how Ifeel with this person, but at
that point you're already tooinvested because you got kids
and all this on the way.
Y'all moved in, y'all livetogether, so it's like it's kind
of got to make it work.

(36:45):
I'm just speaking from somebodythat, like you know, don't
really have too much guidance onthat side of life.
So it's kind of like you know,just kind of test it out.

Speaker 2 (36:59):
I see how it works.
For sure I hear you okay.
So what?
What?
In my last question for you andmonogamy, and the same question
I asked furious what, what canyou take from that relationship
going forward?
So, when you're single, now,right, but when you do get in
the next monogamous relationshipyou have, if you choose to go
that route right, choose, choosemonogamy and not have four,
threesomes and and all the extrashit.
No, I'm just saying so.

(37:21):
If you choose that route, right, you go monogamy.
What can you take from thatrelationship that you, that you
know now what to avoid and what?
What have you learned from itgoing forward?
So, what are you gonna do?
What are you gonna dodifferently going?

Speaker 5 (37:32):
forward.
I think what I would dodifferently is, um, I think I
think one thing, one thing Ialways tried to do back then is
always, you know, try to make agood first impression, which is
okay.
But I think one thing I wouldtry is, um, getting all that
tough stuff out the way first,kind of like you know, hey, like

(37:53):
are you religious?
Cause you know, I'd get thosebig ones out the way they
usually like it's a killer lateron down the line, when we're
already a little invested.
So like, hey, you know, are youchristian or you know how
christian are you?
or you know like, or they'recatholic yeah or like, because
all that stuff may make all thedifference, because if you like,
if you like, oh, like, forexample, like, oh, like, like

(38:13):
she said, catholic iday Venice.

Speaker 1 (38:16):
Yeah like, oh, at least she's religious too.

Speaker 5 (38:19):
But then it goes deeper than that, because if
it's someone that's reallyreligious.
You know, my book says you knowy'all not supposed to pray to
nobody but God, but y'all prayto Michael.

Speaker 1 (38:29):
Right and Guadalupe.
Yeah, that conflict right there.

Speaker 5 (38:32):
What the?

Speaker 2 (38:32):
hell.
So, yeah, it is conflict,because it's like yo, the saints
they're in heaven, but theycan't hear your prayers or
praying to Virgin Mary.

Speaker 5 (38:38):
They're not omnipresent, they're not.

Speaker 2 (38:38):
God.

Speaker 3 (38:41):
So it's basically demonic.

Speaker 5 (38:44):
To a Christian yeah, To a Christian, yeah.

Speaker 4 (38:47):
Yeah, but then you also have a time limit.
You know what?
They don't celebrate holidaysor just like the Holy Witness,
they don't even celebratebirthdays, or just like the Holy
Witness.

Speaker 5 (38:56):
Oh yes, they don't even celebrate birthdays.
Oh shit, yeah, you're right.

Speaker 1 (39:00):
You can't multiply with that, because my kids are
having birthday parties, right.

Speaker 2 (39:05):
Hell yeah, they're going to enjoy those experiences
.

Speaker 4 (39:07):
Little things like that cause conflicts.

Speaker 2 (39:09):
That's just the little things like that cause
conflicts, yeah so you mightexactly Exactly, and if you're
with someone who's so damn youknow, gung-ho in that belief
we're not having a fuckingbirthday party today.
You're like, yes, the fuck, weare my kid's not going to be,
you know deprived of having agood time with their friends
because you don't want tocelebrate their life or
celebrate, and they're just asstrong as what they believe as
you are with what you believe,exactly.
So you're just going to clash.

Speaker 1 (39:37):
It's not going yeah, you know what I mean like when
you're first dating like thefirst date, like I'll ask you a
thousand questions, I don't fuck.

Speaker 3 (39:40):
Yeah, like it's like an interview, it's an interview.

Speaker 1 (39:41):
It is like if you don't meet this or there's any
red flags, I'm bouncing oh, butthat's great everything.

Speaker 5 (39:48):
Yes, man, huh, yeah, but that's a trick.

Speaker 3 (39:50):
That that's one of the tricky things about dating
is because people go intoalready knowing like, okay, I'm
gonna be asked questions, I'mgonna be do this, and I'm saying
so, some people, if they, ifthey're just trying to, like you
know, finesse their way to acertain objective, you know yeah
, but it's gonna be hard to likethat.
You're like, oh well no, yourreligion, no, I'm talking like
are you a christian?

Speaker 4 (40:09):
no, yeah, of course, and they're like really, seven
day menace no, no no but it'slike.

Speaker 3 (40:13):
But it's like, let let's say that that did come up
and you asked me in a different,more casual kind of way.
I might just answer it in a waythat's very ambiguous and it's
like you know what I'm saying,where I'm trying to, I'm still
keeping information from you.
Oh, you know what?
I'm saying but that's like amini question you get to that
root no, but I'm saying someonewho's, who's smart and and like

(40:35):
has a goal.
You're not gonna really get itlike that, bro yeah you're gonna
have to wait for them to likeslip up to catch it.
You know what I'm saying because, yeah, people, people know
people.
After you date a while, bro,you start knowing, like you know
I'm saying, the ins and outs ofdating.
You start knowing, like okay,this is okay.
They're gonna ask me this, this.
I'm saying, like you know thebasic layout of how it's gonna
go but it's someone who has ahas a motive to get a certain,

(40:57):
you know, distance in therelationship, for whatever
reason yeah they can foresee.
You know, I'm saying foreseecertain certain how to
manipulate exactly yeah, andthey can, you know, maneuver
around that.
You know saying so.
It's like as the person goinginto you have to be aware like
okay, like, just because I'mgetting the answers that I, that
I seek, doesn't mean thatthey're the answers that are

(41:17):
really there.

Speaker 1 (41:18):
The true answers.

Speaker 3 (41:19):
But I feel like it's what she said, bro.

Speaker 5 (41:21):
If I don't see any red flags or if I don't hear any
red flags, I know it's a redflag, yeah.

Speaker 1 (41:27):
But that's not necessarily true, because
nobody's perfect.
No one is perfect.

Speaker 3 (41:32):
But you still have to catch them.

Speaker 5 (41:34):
I feel like people like that.
They have signs that followthem as well.

Speaker 3 (41:38):
You have to be aware of it.
You have to see the sign,though you know what I'm saying.
If you can't see, it.

Speaker 5 (41:43):
you can't see it, but it's usually like a too good to
be true kind of thing.
You know that feeling.
Yeah, you know that feeling.
But if you can't prove it.
Are you just going to say it'stoo good, I can't do this I
can't do this, but you're notgonna say that, no, you're not
gonna say to them, right,because you don't give them the
upper hand, of course.

(42:03):
Yeah, so you look for the songs?

Speaker 3 (42:05):
no, yeah, but like.
But, bro, if you're not findingthem and they're just proving
you wrong every step?
Of the way no, I'm obviously,bro, unlikely, right?
Yeah, everyone, everyone makesa mistake, but I'm saying in in
those cases, bro, you're notgonna see it bro.
But all lies and allmanipulation comes to a dead end
at some point at some point,but it could be the point after
seven years, when you're alreadywith them.
It could be that that's whathappens it happens it happens,

(42:28):
though.

Speaker 5 (42:29):
That's what I'm saying, bro but you gotta have
that discernment though yeah,but no, like you said, man, no
one's perfect, bro.

Speaker 3 (42:34):
You can discern up to a certain point.
If you miss a certain thing,you miss it.

Speaker 5 (42:38):
I mean, and that's true, granted, if you feel that
little, I feel like, if you feeloff a little bit, for example,
I think for a girl's point ofview if you feel off, even just
the slightest bit, don't, evenDon't open up your legs.
The slightest bit slide, youshouldn't open up your legs
right, but.

Speaker 3 (42:54):
But what do?
But what do?

Speaker 5 (42:56):
a lot do they just, they open their legs exactly
they want to get pleasure, butthey can't but they can't blame
anybody if they have that littleoff feeling and they still do
it.

Speaker 1 (43:05):
No, and then congratulations we have all
these like dichotomies right, wehave all these, like you know,
like like polar opposite oh doit like don't do it.

Speaker 3 (43:14):
you know, I like like polar opposites.
Oh, do it Like don't do it.
Fomo, we got that right.
Fear of missing out.
We got all that kind of shitgoing on.

Speaker 2 (43:21):
All that stuff is real.
Yeah, man, all that stuff.

Speaker 3 (43:23):
What's that word?
Sorry?
And the next moment you're like, oh, it's your holdup, Like
they're actually pretty cool andyou'll convince yourself that
it's.

Speaker 2 (43:39):
You'll find a reason to stay.
You'll lie to yourself.
You'll lie to yourself, butthat's not.

Speaker 1 (43:42):
I don't think that's good, like I wouldn't.
Right now, I'm in a too good tobe true situation and I'm like
where's the fucking, where's theflag?
You know what I mean, are you?

Speaker 2 (43:59):
prepared for it, though, or you feel like you're
just like, are you waiting?
So do you do you, do you thinkyou just, depending on what it
is you're prepared for how tohandle it, Like when it, when it
comes at you, like you knowyou're expecting something,
right?

Speaker 1 (44:11):
Well, comes at me, is going to come at me, but I, I
don't think I am fully preparedfor it because, like right now
it's, we've been talking since,like october.
We've been together sincejanuary.
We're at the end of march, so I, I don't know, I feel like it's
going to hit me like a ton offucking bricks if it does happen
?

Speaker 2 (44:31):
if it happens, it might not even happen.
Yeah, there's a, there is achance.

Speaker 1 (44:34):
So like that's why I'm keep like.
I just keep on, keep it pushing, don't rock the boat, you know
absolutely that's an old assthing.

Speaker 2 (44:43):
What?

Speaker 1 (44:43):
is it she's?

Speaker 2 (44:43):
saying though, because if you, don't know.

Speaker 3 (44:46):
You know because if you don't know and everything's
good, there's no reason.

Speaker 2 (44:48):
No, what you said, no what you said was good, but for
some reason, right when yousaid that, bro, you ever seen
you were the song don't rock theboat, baby.
It started playing in my headright now.
You ever seen um?
You heard the song Don't Rockthe Boat, baby.
It started playing in my headright now.
You ever seen um?
You ever seen?

Speaker 5 (44:57):
uh, fuck, Don't Tip the Boat yeah you ever heard
that song?

Speaker 2 (45:00):
It's an old-ass song, bro.
Don't Rock the Boat you neverheard it.

Speaker 5 (45:03):
If I hear it, I'll probably hear it, rock the Boat,
baby, don't Tip the Boat over.

Speaker 2 (45:07):
It started meme in my heart.
Yeah, he just said it.
He knows what it means.
What does it mean?
Rock the boat, bro, when yourock the boat you don't make an
issue if there isn't one.

Speaker 3 (45:24):
Yeah, so it's steady.
You're in a steady current,you're not gonna grab the sides
and do this.

Speaker 4 (45:31):
You know, there you go.

Speaker 2 (45:32):
That's shit.
I wish I was playing for youguys right now.
This is funny, man.
Anyway, yeah, that's doing toomuch.
Let's move on though.
All right, man.
So I think we're all prettydead set on the monogamy portion
of this right, so we're goingto switch over to the
non-monogamy and we're going togo right back to our guest here.
The time has come.
No, I'm just so what are yourexperiences with non-monogamy?

(45:54):
You said you had that firstright.
Yes, so what are you willing toshare with the audience and the
panel about your experiences,your personal experiences, with
non-monogamy?

Speaker 1 (46:01):
Like the pros and the cons.

Speaker 2 (46:02):
Yeah, pros and cons, yes I mean.

Speaker 1 (46:04):
So the pros is it's open and you can sleep with
whomever like girls, guys,whatever you want couple swap.
It was a pretty awesomeexperience.
My con was um so my ex wouldalways invite guys, so it would
be like mainly guys, and it's alittle weird you know for sure

(46:28):
that's not what most of us herein this panel thought, right so,
um, mind, there was a couple ofgirls too, but, um, I wrote.
I never like really thoughtabout it until this one time.
Um, he invited a guy and thenwe go back to the room Like, uh,
they were drunk as fuck and Iremember sucking the friend's

(46:50):
dick forever, Like it justwasn't getting hard and I'm like
, oh, like, can you just fucking, like I'm over this.
So then all of a sudden, the myex goes down and starts sucking
his dick and I was like, ohshit.
Like I sat back on my heels andjaw open and I just watched,

(47:11):
like for a second, like is thishappening right now?
Like what the fuck?
So eventually the dick's hardand I'm like, hold on, y'all,
both gay, like bro, what thefuck?

Speaker 2 (47:23):
wait a minute, hold on bro.
Oh shit, bro.
Yes, oh my god, talk about atwist man so what are your
thoughts on that?

Speaker 3 (47:36):
I have to go to slideshow.

Speaker 2 (47:37):
First, because this broke the fourth wall.
Bro, 100 bro.
What are you doing?
That's what are you thinking,bro.
What's in your mind right now?

Speaker 5 (47:46):
jesus christ, he's speechless, he doesn't know what
to say well, you would hopeyou're not in the situation,
because I mean you either got tobe the friend or okay, straight
up you're gay.

Speaker 2 (47:59):
There's no way around that like wait and the friend
let him do it the

Speaker 1 (48:02):
friend, let him do it .

Speaker 2 (48:04):
The friend didn't stop him that's a wrong sound
effect, bro.
Oh my gosh.
I wonder like that's terribleman Cause.

Speaker 5 (48:17):
Cause you know how, like you know how angels jot
everything down.
I wonder how, like, I wonderwhat they jot down in that
moment, Like, like God, you'renot gonna believe this.

Speaker 2 (48:28):
Oh my God, there's probably just a bunch of like
scribble, scrabble, bro, they hesaid yeah, we're going to skip
over that.
He said on the easel.
They're like they all stopwriting.
They look like it, bro.
What the fuck.
God, I can show you better thanI can tell you you see the
angel in the back shaking hishead.

Speaker 4 (48:46):
Just the bottom of his head, Like bro, really plain
.

Speaker 2 (48:50):
Bro, just walk out the room.
He looks at his buddy.
He's like, well, he lost her,she's gone.
That's the end of that.
That's a wrap.
So in that moment, paige mygosh.
What?

Speaker 1 (48:59):
were you thinking yeah, take us back to your.

Speaker 2 (49:01):
How did you feel in that situation?

Speaker 1 (49:02):
What happened?
I sat back on my heels and Iwas like oh shit, like it was
one of those like no fucking way, like this isn't happening.

Speaker 5 (49:11):
And then I'm like oh, no like y'all are both gay what
made him think that was okayeventually, like he didn't even
look at her for confirmation?

Speaker 1 (49:30):
literally I'm on my knees and I'm trying to get this
dick hardened and it's justfucking like and then, all of a
sudden, it was like, shoot likelet me show you and I'm like
what the fuck is?

Speaker 2 (49:44):
I know what he likes.
It was like 89.
Nobody likes, but it was sothen, so in that moment like.

Speaker 1 (49:51):
I got off my heels and I like left and I went into
the living room like I don'teven know what the fuck happened
after that.
But then, like everything, I'mlike, oh, he used to fondle his
friends, like you know like playaround.

Speaker 4 (50:03):
Like.

Speaker 5 (50:03):
Oh, but no, we don't play like that.
She walks out and they keepgoing.
You have sugar?

Speaker 1 (50:08):
in your tank and that the realization, damn yeah and
then like when I did bring it upto him and I was like yo,
you're gay.
No, no, I'm not.
I just like all sex things.

Speaker 2 (50:21):
But I'm like, no, no, you're a gay I think I speak
for the men at this table whenwe say we're conflicted.

Speaker 1 (50:26):
Well, we just heard like none of I'm sure none of
y'all would put a dick in yourmouth so no, no so when?
And there's nothing wrong withgay people, I love gay people
yeah, and that's my partner nahthat was, yeah, that was, that
was, that was.

Speaker 2 (50:44):
That was enough for you to exit from that after that
, right, of course that was my,that was my con, because I was
like oh, man like this is a wrapso the pros like okay, so it's
the freedom.

Speaker 1 (50:56):
Wow, the freedom was the pros to be honest.
The cons is damn.
You might end up with sugar inyour tank.

Speaker 3 (51:05):
Or STD.

Speaker 2 (51:08):
That too, but the fact that it was already was sus
to me when you said that hebrought more guys into the
Bedroom than women.
I didn't even think about ityeah, it's like she's probably,
like she's probably confused.
Like well, don't you want tobring a fine ass girl?
You see that you think would bedope for us to to check out

(51:31):
together.
Like yeah, yo, because, let'sbe honest, that every straight
guy's dream would be two girlstwo girls.
Yeah, bro, like laterally astraight guy would want two
women, or maybe even three.
You know what I'm saying, likeif you can handle it, but it's
like yo.
Another who's like hey, I'mgonna invite my boy.
Let's go, bro, you're gonnadive in this with me today, like
no one's thinking that at leastnot with their, not with their

(51:52):
girl no, not with their maingirl, no.

Speaker 1 (51:54):
We had couple swaps too, but it was mainly guys.
And and on top of it he hadlike he bought me a strap on to
like fuck him with, and I'm likeoh shit bro.
But, and I'm oh shit.

Speaker 2 (52:11):
He played himself.
I have to say it.

Speaker 1 (52:13):
I'm sorry, I'm so naive because I was like he's
like, oh, it's the man's G-spot,it's the man's G-spot, but like
Congratulations.

Speaker 2 (52:21):
You played yourself.
Oh my God bro.

Speaker 1 (52:23):
So I'm thinking like, oh, like, this must be the
man's G-spot, like I didn't knowany better.
Lo and behold.

Speaker 2 (52:37):
She's like no wonder I couldn't get you off, you
fucking weirdo.
You want me to play with yourass.
Why are we doing this shit?
Your little fruit loop, yourlittle fruit cake.
Yeah, again to all my gayviewers out there we have
nothing against you guys.
You guys can do what you gottado.
We're gonna get canceled afterthis episode.
No, we're not.

Speaker 4 (52:48):
I love gay people.

Speaker 2 (52:49):
I know, of course, we're not shaming nobody either,
so no, so no, you're justtelling us about your experience
, that's all yes, absolutelyyeah, you know for sure.

Speaker 5 (52:56):
So you was hitting bro from the back, he was
moaning and he was saying, yeah,you like that?

Speaker 1 (53:02):
huh yeah, what you actually?
Yes, I had a strap on, you didyeah bro, look at his face.

Speaker 2 (53:12):
I never do this, but either yo this is new to us bro.
What, oh my gosh, what the fuckYo I swear.

Speaker 5 (53:21):
Man Damn.

Speaker 4 (53:23):
Wow you know what that reminds me of a saying man.
What's the?

Speaker 2 (53:26):
saying I forgot exactly how it goes, but it says
something like he's baffled,he's trying to gather himself.
Go ahead, bro.

Speaker 5 (53:35):
I forgot.
I'm trying to remember how thesaying goes.
But it says like, it sayssomething.
Like you know, the ocean is funand deep, but it was saying,
but it was saying but eventhough it's endless, should you
go and venture and get lost?
Or something like that, but itwas basically saying like.

(53:56):
He was basically saying like, Imean and you know everybody's
different but it was basicallysaying like note your boundaries
, like just because you can't goall the way out there doesn't
mean should you don't mean thatyeah because, because it's like.
She said like and I and it's notthe first time I've heard it
somebody has said the guys youspotted, but I'm.
But somebody told me that andI'm like well, just because

(54:17):
something's edible, should youeat it?
And they said yes, and I waslike so you'd eat dog shit, it
is edible correct well, yeah,you can, but you shouldn't eat
it obviously yeah.
So it's like yeah, just becauseyou could you can yeah?
no, absolutely I agree with that, that's true, but I mean,
that's just, that's just me.
Everybody got it.
Hey, if you like it, I love it.
Oh my gosh bro, yeah, anyway.

Speaker 2 (54:40):
So so my next question for you, miss page.
Yeah, so, so it wasn't alwaysopen at first, right, what led
what led to the?
What led to the uh, thenon-monogamous uh part of
portion of the relationship?

Speaker 1 (54:52):
uh.
So he cheated like numeroustimes and then I found out I
think we were married for likefive years, we already had our
two kids and one day, um uh, hetold me he like admitted all of
it and I was like you,motherfucker.
So then from that point on Iwas like I'm gonna cheat on you
every chance that I fucking didwow mind you, he didn't know

(55:16):
this.

Speaker 4 (55:16):
He'll probably know now, but so any chance that I
got?

Speaker 1 (55:20):
I was.
I was sucking and fucking.
Like, mind you, I never got anstd, but I was on a mission
because, like I knew all hisfriends liked me, like I was
going after co-workers likewhomever, like I would have
fucked his dad if he wasn't dead.
That that's.
I was like on.

(55:44):
I told you, bro, I was, I was ona, a vengeance, you know.
So then, um, we, we kept ourmarriage, like we had the kids
we wanted.
To mind you, I should have left.
But we were like, okay, we'regonna just, we're gonna try and
see where it goes.
Um, eventually we opened it up,opened the relationship up, and

(56:05):
um, it was opened up for like ayear and then we're like, all
right, it's time for a divorce.
I dipped out, um, but duringthat year it was like free
forfor-all, you know what I mean.
Like go, do you go do this?
Like do whatever you want.
Oh, I'm out, don't ask noquestions.

Speaker 5 (56:25):
like yeah, I couldn't , bro.
I'm too.

Speaker 1 (56:28):
I'm too emotional for that I couldn't do that, bro,
but even before that, like evenbefore the cheating, like I
remember dating him and I wasfucking like 16.

Speaker 2 (56:38):
Like, uh, we had some threesomes with like girls guys
and then when we got married,like and there was something
spiteful you I remember you hadtold me about, but you mentioned
you mentioned a friend of yoursthat was in your, your room,
you know where you gave birth.
Like she was where you gavebirth.
She was in the room with youguys.
Oh, yes, yeah, so you told meabout that.

Speaker 1 (56:56):
I was like bro, but I didn't find out until later, so
I had my son and this girl wasmy best friend and it was also
his best friend's old lady, sowe were literally pregnant
together.
I remember helping her with herbaby.
She had colic.
Then she was pregnant with hersecond baby and she was in the

(57:19):
room with me when I had not myson, it was my daughter.
I was having my daughter andshe was in the room and I found
out that he fucked her and I waslike, are you fucking kidding
me?
But to top it off, his bestfriend like hit him up and was

(57:41):
like, oh, you fucked my bitch.
You had to pay her to fuck her.
And I'm like you're payingbitches to fuck.
And, mind you, she was alinebacker looking like big back
, dorito, looking back, and I'mlike that's like, that's what
you wanted, so that that likebut I was more hurt, not because
I lost my husband, because Ilost her, because she was, she

(58:04):
was my best friend, you knowwhat I mean.
So that fucking sucked, but it'sokay, because I fucked her dude
too.
Wow, yeah I told you I was on.
I was on like four.
I was coming from blood.
Everybody could get it.

Speaker 2 (58:19):
Everybody can get it, man.

Speaker 1 (58:20):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (58:21):
That's, hey, that's.
That's something, man, I'lltell you.
Look see, so there's.
Everybody has their, theirversions of revenge, right?

Speaker 1 (58:39):
So I understand that you took yours that way, felt
like it was necessary, right.
You feel you needed to do thatand to send your message in
order, basically, to get across,right?
I mean, I didn't even have tosay anything, it was just for
myself.
Like I'm doing all this formyself, to know, like I went up
to you, like I I never told myhusband any of this, I was just
like fuck it, like this is forme is there anything that you
did that you feel like it was?

Speaker 2 (58:52):
it was a little too like you were.

Speaker 1 (58:53):
Maybe you spiteful like to the point where you're
like, okay, maybe I shouldn'twent, took it that far the whole
thing was spiteful yeah, that'strue, now I'm like calm, chill,
cool collective, but like Iwouldn't even think about doing
that shit now, but like prior tofuck, I was like a demon, like
I was on demon time damn youhave any questions you want to

(59:14):
ask page about that, sir whatwould you say?

Speaker 5 (59:20):
out of all your revenge and vengeance, what was
the worst thing you think youdid to him?

Speaker 1 (59:26):
yeah, that's a good question.

Speaker 5 (59:27):
Uh, probably fucked his best friend damn and the
best friend went through with it.

Speaker 2 (59:32):
That's great.
That's, by the way.
That is pretty the worst thing,because I mean he did that to
you, though it was basically.

Speaker 1 (59:36):
It was a tit for tat type situation like, oh, an eye
for an eye, I got you yeah, shewent biblical with it yeah I've
heard that she went oldtestament he said she went old
testament with it.

Speaker 2 (59:49):
Because I mean, there's people that have gone to
extents to do things wherethey've they've been with, been
with somebody, and then they goback to their partner after the
same day.

Speaker 1 (59:57):
Oh.

Speaker 2 (59:58):
Is there something?

Speaker 1 (59:59):
like that.
So oh, this right here, is theworst thing.
So there was a bit of abuse inmy marriage, right, and I
remember I went and slept withthis one dude and then I slept
with the second.
He nutted inside me.
I'm fixed right, no fallopiantubes.
Then I slept with a second dudelike hours later, so I had two

(01:00:23):
different like cums up in thereand then I went home and this
fool eats me out.

Speaker 4 (01:00:34):
Oh no.

Speaker 1 (01:00:39):
Yo.
So, besides sleeping with hisbest friend, I think that was
probably the worst thing that.

Speaker 2 (01:00:43):
I could have done.
Oh, that takes the cake.
Yeah, I'm glad I took a shotafter that.

Speaker 3 (01:00:46):
Yeah, hey, you want me to fill you up bro.

Speaker 2 (01:00:49):
A slide till you need another shot.
Yeah, okay, paige, you knowwhat that?
Definitely.
He said one more oh my gosh,hey page.
I mean as far as like beingcrazy enough to do something
like that I give you.

Speaker 5 (01:01:04):
You do a thing like one of the boys yeah, I was.

Speaker 1 (01:01:07):
I was coming for the soul.

Speaker 2 (01:01:08):
We love you, page we don't look at you any
differently.
Just know that, okay, we loveyou.
We don't look at you anydifferently.
It's just, you know, you'recrazy, you're bold, for that
I'll tell, that's not easy to do.

Speaker 1 (01:01:15):
And the fact that he didn't even notice, like he must
, like the taste to come,because this ain't your first
time.

Speaker 2 (01:01:24):
Yo, I think he did.
Did he look at you and be likebaby?
You taste good.

Speaker 1 (01:01:29):
He.

Speaker 4 (01:01:31):
He said I recognize that taste.

Speaker 2 (01:01:36):
Oh shit, that part, because you know he was already
sus.
So that's a good point.
So that's a good point.
He said he likes that taste.
Yeah, so bro's like yo.
I've done it plenty of timesbefore, oh my.

Speaker 5 (01:01:46):
God, I got another question.
Do you regret any of it?

Speaker 1 (01:01:48):
No, not a fuck.
Well, I regret not leaving himsooner.
I leaving him sooner, I shouldhave left, I should have been
gone.
But then I was like fuck it.
Like home mode activate, youknow after that I'm not going
back.

Speaker 2 (01:02:01):
I agree with you, bro .
I honestly paid.
You made the right move, girl.
You got the fuck out of thereshe's like I should have left
sooner yeah but I don't regretnone of it like for

Speaker 5 (01:02:11):
some reason like I'd be.
I think if I heard like anyother female tell me stories
like this, I'd judge themharshly.
But because it's you or justbecause, like you, had a harsh
background, I'm like damn, Ikind of feel that.

Speaker 1 (01:02:23):
Yeah, I kind of feel that I understand.

Speaker 5 (01:02:24):
It's like it's kind of like more like a legendary
kind of thing, like damn, likethat's something I'd ponder on
my deathbed, like I really didthat H.

Speaker 2 (01:02:32):
He just did that, bro .
He just dropped the shells atthe end, like that's a you know
what checkmate that's crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:02:38):
Yeah, that's definitely that takes the cake
for the craziest for sure.
That's a fatality, bro, that isa fatality Bro.

Speaker 5 (01:02:45):
you know what I'm glad you said that, bro, and the
fact that bro.

Speaker 3 (01:02:47):
Left right R2, left man.

Speaker 5 (01:03:00):
Bro, it was on a podcast, just watch it.

Speaker 2 (01:03:04):
Oh, I'm sure he's going to see Holy shit.

Speaker 1 (01:03:07):
I think he has social media.

Speaker 2 (01:03:09):
I don't really fuck with him.
Yeah, I don't understand whyyou don't fuck with him.
I get it.
If you see this, though, manFatality, understand why you
don't fuck with him.
I get it if you see this though, man fatality.

Speaker 4 (01:03:18):
There's no coming back from that one bro if you
want to come on, we can have youon next right.

Speaker 2 (01:03:21):
You can tell your side of the story.
Tell yours, give your side ofthe story.
Did it taste good bro?

Speaker 5 (01:03:25):
oh, yeah, we're gonna for sure ask about that.

Speaker 2 (01:03:27):
Yeah, yeah, man, we're gonna ask him why you
thought that was okay.
I mean, and the fact that hedid that weird act with you in
the in the right, it made youkind of wonder in that moment
where it's like what the fuckmade you think this would be
okay.

Speaker 1 (01:03:39):
He's not going to answer that though, right, I
can't believe he put a dick inyour mouth.
No, there was no warning.

Speaker 3 (01:03:44):
No, nothing you can explain that shit Like what you
can't.
No, you can't bro.

Speaker 2 (01:03:49):
I don't care.
What kind of moment do youthink you're in?
How do you?

Speaker 1 (01:03:53):
suck a dick better than me.
Oh what, Bro?

Speaker 2 (01:03:56):
that's what was going through my mind, but to be fair
, he could say you know, I don'tknow if he practiced on a strap
when he had it on.
No, oh, okay.
Or he might say some gay shitlike I know what he likes my man
baby, I know what he likes.

Speaker 5 (01:04:11):
Like ugh, because in his defense defense, you know,
if the lights was off he couldhave said he thought it was you
with the strap on oh no therewas a light still on bruh.
I tried to help him I believePaige?

Speaker 3 (01:04:29):
I do too, but I just tried to.

Speaker 4 (01:04:31):
I just tried to help his story, but there's really no
coming back from this he's done.

Speaker 2 (01:04:38):
Fatality, what's Ernie has said, bro, the
freaking Mortal Kombat voice andall bro.
Fatality, donezo, that's it.
You get four.
We're done.
Now I feel bad for bro.
I feel bad for bro, I do, Imean I don't, I don't either,
bro's disgusting bro you justsit there.

Speaker 5 (01:04:53):
It must be, it must be a mental thing it has to be
no, there's no doubt yeah, butof course, cause, yeah, cause I
don't know what would mentallyyou wanna do?

Speaker 3 (01:05:01):
he made a cognitive decision to do that.

Speaker 5 (01:05:04):
Nah it sound.
It sound like it wassubconscious.
He didn't think about it.
Oh no, he thought about it hethought about that shit.

Speaker 1 (01:05:09):
I don't, he was an alcoholic so you can't even
blame it on the liquor, becauseyou always are drunk.

Speaker 3 (01:05:16):
Yeah so no, that just seems Absolutely not.
It just seems too likedeliberate.

Speaker 5 (01:05:21):
Oh yeah, no Right, bro had toget on his knees first, it's
hella deliberate bro.

Speaker 2 (01:05:25):
It's like, oh fuck bro.
This is you know what I'msaying, Like why would you.
I, You're doing extra.
No facts, You're gay for sure.
No, there's no doubt.
There's no way to justify that,to make her give you a pass for
that.
No, you're gay, bro.
You're fucking gay the factthat she said it.
I love how Paige put it too,because, dude, she was sucking

(01:05:48):
it and it stayed flaccid.
Like you're gay, bro, youdidn't like a female's mouth,
Both of them mouth.
Come on, bro, both of them.
What?
Yeah, because how you getinflated when he started doing
it hard when you buy it, bro,he's gay too.
Yeah, because think about okay.
So yeah, you needed your homieto put his mouth on it for you
to get hard like he said oh,this is new.

Speaker 1 (01:06:06):
You can see that it's a man sucking your dick.

Speaker 5 (01:06:10):
Oh, I can't bro he said he's throwing a softer he
said.

Speaker 2 (01:06:13):
He said it's still the softer.
Oh my gosh bro, yo brocongratulations, you played
yourself, bro.
That's no, I'm good.

Speaker 4 (01:06:23):
That's what I mean bro some things, some things are
just not bro, he needs a mindreset.

Speaker 5 (01:06:28):
Bro, you could.
You could probably go stand atthe edge and look over like it,
metaphorically speaking, likeokay try this new try that new.

Speaker 3 (01:06:37):
But when you jump off like that's going too far.
Basically, it's almost like youknow.
I didn't even need to hear allthat.

Speaker 2 (01:06:43):
You know that's true, bro.
No, no, no, that was a little.
Yeah, that's actually.
That's actually that's like he'sactually convicted, you know, I
mean yeah at that point because, like, how else do you do?
I mean you, there's no way tojustify it right.
So obviously I mean you gottaadmit it to yourself like I'm
like what did he try to tell you?
Like to try to convince you tokeep, to try to keep you like,

(01:07:05):
well, baby, really wasn't likethat.
I was just in the heat of themoment.
No, you're fucking gay, bro.
There's no heat of the moment,I'm sorry, no one's exactly.
So you trying to cover it upthat way is just gonna make you
worse, like she's.
Like that doesn't make it anybetter.
So did it end immediately after?

Speaker 1 (01:07:19):
like you left immediately, right, did you just
pack your shit and then comeback, or no, because it's not
that hard, like when you havekids in the mix, like I was
working a piss pool I wasworking at a school district,
working on my teacher's degreelike it's crazy I had so much
invested in this, so thathappened.
I want to say it was likesummer, january, maybe like

(01:07:43):
December or January, and then Ididn't end up leaving until June
.
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:07:50):
Interesting, well as you know, and as open as you
guys were to like you know,trying new people and stuff like
that.
She even said to herself, saidherself, like there's still a
boundary, yeah, like, becauseonce he did that she was like oh
yeah, that's it like that, likeyou crossed that boundary, yeah
, so even then there's stillboundaries that's just.

Speaker 3 (01:08:09):
You crossed the boundary.

Speaker 2 (01:08:11):
Oh, 100 bro look the fact that it was an open
relationship right, so thatthat's it's okay to have.
But you still there'sboundaries, even within that,
right.
So it's okay to test theboundaries, but not test them
like that.

Speaker 1 (01:08:22):
That's right, I'm sure you obviously agree.
That was a bit funny.
What I mean by test theboundaries.
He's always drunk.
I don't know how he is now, butlike he was always drunk.

Speaker 2 (01:08:32):
But you know what I mean by that so what I mean by
that is, like you know exactly.
So what I mean by testing theboundaries, though, is like okay
, you can fuck another girl andI'll fuck another guy.
That's obviously for most of us.
It might bother you to see awoman getting racked by somebody
else right, or getting railedby somebody else.
That is already kind of pushingit right, but but it's an
exceptional push because you'regetting, you're doing the same
thing, you're great.

Speaker 5 (01:08:52):
Yeah, that's the boundary exactly you're agreeing
to that right.

Speaker 2 (01:08:54):
There's nothing gay about it.
He's fucking another female.
You're fucking another guy.

Speaker 1 (01:08:57):
There's nothing gay about it.

Speaker 2 (01:08:58):
That's what makes it okay If you guys are accepting
that those boundaries right, butwhen you go on, just the same
sex what the fuck?

Speaker 1 (01:09:06):
You're gay you crossed the border.

Speaker 2 (01:09:08):
You crossed the border now and now you breached
our contract of understanding.
Like what the fuck is this?

Speaker 1 (01:09:13):
you know right, you know so and you said and you
guys are swap partners, so youknow that was experience that
you and I'm sure if he wouldhave put another man's dick,
like if we swap partners, theyprobably would have socked him
out like imagine bro, it'sbecause his friend allowed it.

Speaker 2 (01:09:28):
I like that.
She's right, dude.
That makes sense.
So imagine a straight guy thatwas just was there for page.
I was like hell yeah, I'm thisgirl, I'm here for her.
He would have fought him.
Bro, that's fighting on sight,that's like imagine bro imagine
she stops you like oh, I don'tknow, let's try something
different.
What?

Speaker 3 (01:09:41):
the fuck are you doing?
Well, he wouldn't even let him.

Speaker 5 (01:09:43):
Get that close to her .

Speaker 3 (01:09:43):
Exactly.
I was he might look at Paigeand be like alright Paige let's
just try something different.

Speaker 5 (01:09:46):
Maybe I can turn you around, and then, bro goes in
what the?

Speaker 2 (01:09:58):
fuck are you doing?
You're jumping back immediatelylike, oh wait, bro, that's
gonna get kicked out.
I'm gonna have to fuck you upnow.
What is that?
What are you just trying to doright now?
Get out the room.

Speaker 5 (01:10:07):
We just put him on time out in the corner.

Speaker 2 (01:10:08):
Nah out the room he said you can go wait in the
hallway.
I'm going to continue this withher.

Speaker 4 (01:10:14):
But you got to get the fuck out.
You got to go over there andtake rocks.

Speaker 3 (01:10:17):
You can't even be a fucking cuck in this shit.
You can't even watch.
I don't want you to watch.

Speaker 2 (01:10:21):
Nah, you get the fuck out All the way out, like in
the hallway.
Don't think about what you didOutside With to the
non-monogamous you knowrelationship or what your
experiences were.
I mean, you pretty much icingon the cake there, already
nailed it yeah you nailed it.
I think you carried the episodeyou definitely did, paige, you

(01:10:41):
know what I'm saying, but anyway, yeah, no, it was unapologetic.
But now going over to Furious,what about you, sir?
Have you ever been in anythingsimilar to what Paige just
shared with us?
Did you ever find yourself withanother woman where it was not
monogamous and you guys had afree room to maybe even bring
and introduce, have threesomes,anything along those sorts, or?

Speaker 3 (01:10:58):
just, I mean at the time, because I was in my early
20s, uh, I wouldn't say I didn'treally ask about that.
So I mean, I was in nominate, Iwas, I was not monogamous
because I was dating multiplewomen, but I wasn't like, oh,
let's have a threesome.
I, for some reason I justdidn't think of that shit.
I don't know why.
I mean, at that time too, I wasvery like hyper aware of like
STDs and shit.
So I'm always, I was alwayslike getting checked and shit,
you know so, but I was stillmessing around, you know.

(01:11:20):
But I've never was like, oh,like, oh, like let me have this
girl and this girl come together, like I probably could've done
that shit, but I just never, youknow, like never, did it
understandable, so you could'vedone it one of those things.
I didn't think about that.
Yeah, yeah, I hear you.
You know no facts for sure, butwhat was uh?

Speaker 2 (01:11:37):
no, but I was to coin off that.
So the closest thing you had to, would you say, was just like I
mean, I guess that doesn'treally count though, like if
you're not really officialbecause of her situation, right,
it was an actual relationship,but they allowed.
They allowed it to take thatroute, almost to try to attempt
to save it.

Speaker 1 (01:11:50):
Right, it was an official instead of cheating on
each other fuck it, let's just.

Speaker 2 (01:11:53):
Let's just try this shit where we, you know, do
things together and see if wecan keep it or, uh, salvage the
relationship you're basicallysaying like it was.

Speaker 3 (01:12:00):
What you're saying is that it was.
It was officiallynon-monogamous so why?

Speaker 1 (01:12:04):
why it happened because we were just like fuck
it, like if you want to cheatand I'm gonna cheat like we
might as well open this bitch up.

Speaker 5 (01:12:10):
That's what you're saying, right like this is
what's happening.
We'll give it a go, just tryingto make it work, yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:12:15):
Yeah, yeah, but like, yeah, so like I didn't have.
I didn't have an openrelationship with him.
I was, but I was datingmultiple women.

Speaker 1 (01:12:22):
Of course, but it wasn't like an open relationship
with either.

Speaker 3 (01:12:24):
I mean, of course, I was playing him, so they're like
he's cheating on me, oneactually did.
She was like oh, and becauseshe that's my man?

Speaker 2 (01:12:41):
No, that's my man, because she only spoke.

Speaker 3 (01:12:42):
Spanish, right, like she only spoke Spanish and she
was like oh, like you have novia, you know, like because that
means girlfriend, yeah, but yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:12:56):
Man, you know, hey, you know what I just realized,
bro.
My shot glass.
Is that mine or yours overthere?

Speaker 1 (01:13:00):
That's yours, bro, oh shit, fuck.

Speaker 2 (01:13:02):
you've been drinking out of mine, bro, that's all
right.
You got no cooties, right.

Speaker 5 (01:13:13):
No, you're going to edit that out.

Speaker 2 (01:13:14):
You're the wrong man, I just fucked with you, bro.
I hope you never did that.
You're going to edit that out.

Speaker 3 (01:13:19):
What You're going to edit that out, what that part
right there Should.

Speaker 2 (01:13:22):
I.

Speaker 3 (01:13:23):
Did you just ask him?
Oh man.

Speaker 2 (01:13:33):
You can do whatever you want.
I know what.
I was just fucking with you,man, let's take another shot.
Man, this has been, this hasbeen a great episode you want
some more man yeah, he needs arefill well, that's your second.

Speaker 5 (01:13:42):
Huh, yeah, that's your third, ryan, that's your
third brother.

Speaker 2 (01:13:45):
You're ahead of the poll right now.
It's still a little early, soyou know yes, sir, for the books
, for sure we might get flaggedbut oh well, it's part of the
excitement, Thank you.
You know, all the time is talk,and YouTube knows this by now
too.
We don't, we don't, we don'tedit shit out.
What do we say?
Fellas, hashtag, leave it in,leave it in.

Speaker 3 (01:14:04):
Yeah, oh, I like that .
Now, man, what'd?

Speaker 2 (01:14:07):
you tell me and some girls, it's safe to shoot up the
club.
So, hey man, push and praymethod.
We live by the push and praymethod.
The hashtag leave it in andshoot up the club and shoot up
the club.
Yeah, there you go she's readyto take hers though All right,
let's do it, y'all ready, let'sdo this.
Wow, he said wow.

Speaker 3 (01:14:34):
All right, yeah so.
But yeah, I mean, are we stilltalking about like like pros and
cons of it?
Yeah, I'll say, the only kindof, or one of the kind about, uh
, non-monogamy is that you'rekind of like, I mean, if you're
with multiple, multiple women oror partners, you're like spread
almost like too thin, like youreally can't connect with one
because you're divided.
You know like you're spendingtime with all these people and

(01:14:55):
you, you know energies and allthat stuff.
So, and not only that, it getsaddicting too because you have
so much freedom Like you can go.

Speaker 2 (01:15:01):
you can come when you want, you can leave.
It's unheard of.
It's like yeah, and every man'slike oh shit.

Speaker 3 (01:15:14):
I mean it's a there's no strings in in essence, you
know, I mean in my opinion, no,yeah, so I'll say that's, that's
one of the uh, what?
One of the pros is the freedom,and there's that.
And the cons is that, you know,you just get spread too thin
you're spread too thin, you know?

Speaker 2 (01:15:29):
yeah, no, for sure you can't focus on one, because
they're so because there's somany, yeah, there's so many,
there's so many dynamic,different factors that are being
introduced all the time.

Speaker 3 (01:15:36):
And especially when you knowwhen you introduce sex and all
that, like there's a lot ofthings that you know change Like
sex is fucking powerful.
It's really powerful.
As much as people you knowthink it doesn't mean anything
like that, shit's a reallypowerful thing, like that's why
everyone's here You're all herebecause your parents fucked.
So it has a very big, you knowit holds a very big weight on it
.

Speaker 2 (01:15:56):
You know what I'm saying yeah, no, for sure, you
can't downplay it, it's life itcreates life.

Speaker 3 (01:16:00):
Think about it.
That's the ultimate thing, evenwhen it okay, when it comes to
cheating, when it comes tomaking a baby, when it comes to,
you know, showing someone who'slike the ultimate love of
somebody, like it's usually sex,yeah, that connects you.
That, yeah, and this is crazy.
Like it's, like it's it's, it'sdesigned like that you know
like god knew what he was doing.

(01:16:20):
Yes, he did.
Designing a vagina anddesigning a penis like he's new.
You know, I'm saying like hejust made it.
It's just, it's like you,because you can't, as a man, you
cannot recreate that and youcan't recreate that without a
woman.
No, no, you can't as a womanyou, you can't, you can't
recreate that without a man no,you can, you can't.

Speaker 2 (01:16:35):
No, you can't.
We're not going to get too muchinto it because that's a taboo
topic, but you can't reproducewithout one man and one woman.
That's just a scientific fact.
If your viewers or audiolisteners out there and viewers
that are a big offense to that,sorry, but that's just a
scientific fucking truth.
You know what I mean, whetheryou believe in God or not.

Speaker 5 (01:16:56):
Right, well, don't say scientific, because they
might change that I was asurrogate for a gay couple.

Speaker 1 (01:17:01):
I had twins five years ago, a boy and a girl.
It was one of each of theirbabies, but it took me To make
it happen.

Speaker 2 (01:17:07):
Yeah, to make it happen, so it's like yo resolute
.
There's no other option aroundit Like it's absolute.
That's just the way it is.
You know, don't hate,appreciate Yep, yep, 100%.
And then I was going to ask you, so that's all you had to add
to that, right, you don't haveanything else.

(01:17:37):
You wanted to add that.
But the situation of, you know,being in a non-monogamous
situation, like you know, with awoman and where you guys had an
agreement to be.

Speaker 5 (01:17:41):
No, no, no, I've never he said no I've never,
I've never desired a threesomeor like to be in two
relationships at the same time.
I I think the only thing thatI've done that's closest to that
.
Damn that shit is hidden Ithink, the only thing that I've
done that's closest to that is Iwas single, but I was dibbing
and dabbing over here.

Speaker 1 (01:18:00):
I mean, you know my story.

Speaker 5 (01:18:02):
They met up at my house, type of thing.

Speaker 2 (01:18:04):
Oh yeah, you want to share that or not.
Go ahead, tell them what's up.

Speaker 5 (01:18:10):
I was getting out of one relationship.
I can't confirm or deny whetherI was completely out already or
not, but I thought I was so um.

Speaker 2 (01:18:20):
So that you know I had a different understanding of
what over men apparently right,yeah, right, I mean, but that's
why, that's why, that's why Ididn't.

Speaker 5 (01:18:27):
I didn't really understand the concept of a
boyfriend and girlfriend,because it's like I love you, I
just can't be with you, I don'twant to be with you, whatever
the case may be.
So I thought we was broken up.
So you, I don't want to be withyou, whatever the case may be.
So I thought we was broken up.
So, you know, I didn't talk toher for like three, four days.
And then I was talking to thisother chick already and you know
it was, it was the, it was thehoneymoon phase or whatever.
She had came to my house, youknow, um, and then we went for a

(01:18:51):
little walk around myneighborhood.
It was like sunset and, um, youknow, I was, I was at the, uh,
I was at the park for a littlebit.
The park is like down thestreet from my house and I think
I think, uh, I don't know.
It's weird with, uh, boyfriendand girlfriends, because you
never know when you'recompletely like, detached from
that person and what the termsof conditions are.

Speaker 4 (01:19:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:19:12):
When it's like quote unquote bringing up.
So even though we weren'ttogether, we still had each
other's location kind of thing,so we could see where each
other's at, and damn y'alltrying to fuck me up you calling
out today sir.

Speaker 4 (01:19:27):
You know, the crazy thing is, bro, I might call out
with you.

Speaker 5 (01:19:29):
I'm just kidding, I could call hey, don't influence
me right now, it's a Tuesday.
You're going to work.
You're going to work, bro,drink some fucking water.

Speaker 1 (01:19:37):
Eat some rice, you'll be fine.
You call out on like a Fridayor a Saturday.

Speaker 2 (01:19:42):
You don't call out on a Tuesday.
She's making me get up.
Thank you for holding meaccountable.

Speaker 5 (01:19:47):
You're welcome, all right.
So then we was chilling at thepark for a little bit, and the
sunset turned into dark right.

Speaker 1 (01:19:52):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:19:53):
Shit sorry.
So then I started heading home.

Speaker 5 (01:19:55):
She parked her car at my house and then we started
heading back to my house andtell me why.
You know, we're just talkingchopping it up, this, that, that
, and then my house is like astraight away, like maybe like a
whole block just straight away,and then it's a corner house.
So you can, you can see it onthe corner, just walking
straight down, and you know whatit look like.
Yep, and then uh yeah, so we, we, you know everything is perfect

(01:20:19):
.
We're just like, you know it'squiet, we're just walking,
talking, she's talking, she'sexplaining something, and then,
um, I don't know why, I think Ihad turned off my location
because I'm like what would bethe odds of her just randomly
popping up, since I wasn'ttalking to her for like four
days straight?

Speaker 2 (01:20:37):
You wouldn't think she'd be crazy enough to show up
.

Speaker 5 (01:20:39):
yeah, so then, right.
So then you know, we're walkingback towards my house and tell
me why, like I just see a car.
It was a little dark so Icouldn't tell what the car was,
so I was like, okay, there's acar in front of my house and I'm
still listening to her talk,but I'm already my mom has
already got it.

Speaker 2 (01:20:56):
My boy's like wait a minute.
Oh shit, the heart dropped whenyou realized.
And then I'm like I'm like whatI?

Speaker 5 (01:21:04):
But I turned it off because I knew she was going to
pop up, but then so then I got alittle closer and then I see
somebody standing at my frontdoor.

Speaker 2 (01:21:14):
She got out of the car.
She was waiting for the door.
Yeah, she was waiting at thedoor, did you get snatched up.

Speaker 5 (01:21:19):
Who me?
Yeah, oh, no, I'm too big toget snatched up.
Oh, okay, okay.
So then I get a little closerand then I'm like and then she's
still talking.
At this point I'm like, yeah,you need to shut up right about
now.
Like it's crazy, because I'veseen it in movies but I didn't
know it was a real thing.
Like I went from like hearingenglish to hearing, like I like

(01:21:40):
my mind and I just hear one andthen like, it's because I scoped
.
And then the same time I seenher, she seen me.
So we was locked in and shealready seen who I'm walking
with.
And she's like, oh, that's thatbitch from the hospital.
And then my mind told me we waslike, yeah, bro, we don't know

(01:22:03):
what we're going to do, but Iknow, whatever we do, we're
going to remember this forever.
But I know, whatever we do,we're going to remember this
forever.
Here we go, and then I'm justlike, and then we walking up,
and then I'm like, all right,fuck it, we go.
Then this is this one for thebooks.
And then I told her I lookedover, I said, hey, this is, you
know, this is my ex.
You know, just go straight toyour car.
And then I hit you up.

(01:22:24):
She probably want to.
You know, I had to lie a littlebit.
I was like she probably want totalk about getting back
together or something like that.

Speaker 1 (01:22:30):
So then I quickly hugged her, got her in the car.

Speaker 4 (01:22:33):
And then I told her.

Speaker 5 (01:22:34):
I'll hit you up later .
And then she did.
And then she was like, oh,who's that?
And then I was like, oh, don'tworry about who that is, you
need to worry about what we gotgoing on and then I kind of like
from there I just kind of likesteer to the redirected
situation, yeah so, but I meanas far as like, as far as like

(01:22:59):
no threesomes.
But I like I was like one weekI was over here and then one
week I was over there, kind ofthing or like back one day here,
then three days later here'sand so, but never like.
But it's kind of messed upbecause and I take
responsibility for that becauseshe knew, I believe my ex knew
what was going on, but I don'tthink she wanted to call it out

(01:23:22):
until she actually did and then,confirm it?

Speaker 2 (01:23:25):
yeah, yeah, but that's at least for me.

Speaker 5 (01:23:26):
That's where I get confused and that's why I say
that's at least for me.
That's where I get confused andthat's why I say.
That's why I say there's no.
For me there's no pros, onlycons.
Because for me, when it comesto the aspect of women, I know,
I know, whatever I do, it's justbecause I'm trying to fill a
void of my father walking out ofmy life at a young age.
So I try to compensate for, Itry to make up for that love and

(01:23:48):
I just deeper, yeah, yeah.
So I try to compensate for,like, I try to make up for that
love, just deeper, yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:23:50):
You're looking for it .
Any way you can get it.

Speaker 5 (01:23:53):
Yeah, so I like in that sense, I try, like, not to
like.
I'm like oh, like you know,don't become a womanizer or
don't become like a I forgotwhat the other word is but it's
kind of like the same thing.
I'm like you can't do that, sothen, like that's why I'm kind
of tougher.

Speaker 1 (01:24:08):
That's why.

Speaker 5 (01:24:08):
I'm kind of tougher on myself why I said like, oh,
like it's either marriage orlike it's kind of nothing.

Speaker 1 (01:24:17):
Because I hold myself to.
That type of accountability youshould hold yourself
accountable.

Speaker 5 (01:24:18):
Yeah, because at the same time, you know, on the
other side of the token, I'mlike, you know I, you know I
respect the women that I likeshare those experience with.
So it's like I don't, I don'twant to, you know.

Speaker 4 (01:24:32):
I don't want to hurt them.

Speaker 5 (01:24:33):
Like I don't want my feelings to be hurt, but I also
don't want your feelings to behurt.

Speaker 1 (01:24:37):
Yeah, but you have to worry about your happiness.
At the end of the day, nobodygives a fuck about your
happiness.
So like, don't depend on yourhappiness with other women
because they it ain't it.
You have to make yourself happy.
You can't look for it in otherwomen or relationships.

Speaker 5 (01:24:55):
But that's the thing, yeah, that's the thing, like.
So that's why I was like youknow, I kind of I mean, you know
, but I kind of like, I kind ofused to be like you know, women,
women, women.

Speaker 2 (01:25:12):
But I kind of like you know, know, I see, like the
more I do that, the more I makethings worse you become a pimp.
No, the more you become a pimp.

Speaker 5 (01:25:17):
But yeah, no, and then I hold myself.
You know like I always keep inthe back of my head, like you
know.
You know what god expects ofyou okay so it's like, that's
why.
That's why, like, I just try tohit my standard high okay, but
so you know better, you can't beno, I know, of course I know,
but but hold on wait.
He's still human though.

(01:25:37):
No, no, no, no no I don't wantto.
I don't want you to get thewrong idea.
I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:25:45):
I don't have a million women or anything, but
it's just like every time onedoes pop up he's a piece of
change or two, and you know Idon't mess with a lot of women,
but every time it does come up,it's just like as soon as it's
he's

Speaker 4 (01:25:59):
like, tell us, tell us how you he's like you, slay
him bro now I now I just seethat.

Speaker 5 (01:26:08):
I just see you know, just see, you know they're
beautiful, but I he's got thelooks to shoot right now.
Don't give me that look.

Speaker 4 (01:26:20):
I see like.

Speaker 5 (01:26:23):
I see, like you know, the more beautiful they are,
the more crazy they tend to be.

Speaker 1 (01:26:28):
I hate to say it like that.

Speaker 4 (01:26:28):
You're getting it tend to be uh, I hate to say it
like that you're getting itstarted though I hate to say it
like that that's kind of true,though, but but it's like now.

Speaker 5 (01:26:36):
I'm just trying to learn how to like condition
myself like I cry jokes with himlike out of that yeah I'm about
to you know there's a prettygirl right here, let me.
But but in reality you know, Iknow, I, I, I couldn't tame
myself.
In reality, you know, I know Icontain myself.

Speaker 4 (01:26:49):
In reality he does that for the most part

Speaker 5 (01:26:52):
for the most part yo, I behave myself, yeah, because
I know Jesus Christ is watchingbut, is that is that only
because he's watching hell?

Speaker 3 (01:27:02):
yeah, so then that's like is it genuine?
Get it started, bro.
Is it genuine then?
Yeah, but you're, you're stillliving your life.
It's why it's genuine.

Speaker 5 (01:27:09):
Get it started, bro.
Is it genuine then?
Yeah, but you're, you'resupposed to live your life.
It's like he said.
It's like he said.

Speaker 2 (01:27:13):
Bro, it's like he said earlier Don't follow me in
this shit, listen, don't followme in this shit.

Speaker 4 (01:27:18):
I am a sinner.

Speaker 5 (01:27:19):
Listen, bro, Bro listen, like he said.
Like he said hey bro, you sayearlier, everybody looks out of
respect, you don't?

Speaker 3 (01:27:28):
say nothing.
Is that what he?

Speaker 1 (01:27:29):
said yes, that's valid too bro, it gotta be from
the heart right, so that's valid.

Speaker 5 (01:27:44):
I can see that too, it's a catch-22.
For me it's a catch-22.

Speaker 2 (01:27:49):
God is still working on me.

Speaker 5 (01:27:50):
That's my excuse.

Speaker 2 (01:27:50):
We have fun we have fun.
We're all sinners here.
Right, we are all sinners.
Yeah, we are, we are.
No one here is better than theother one.
Honestly, we've allguilt-treated.
We're all equal, yep.

Speaker 3 (01:28:04):
We all.
Some of us are going to havemore fun on our path.
Some of us are just not goingto have more fun.

Speaker 2 (01:28:12):
That's true, bro.

Speaker 5 (01:28:15):
He said some of us is going off the far end.
Some of us is crossing theborders, others is just staying
on the other side of the border.

Speaker 3 (01:28:22):
We look at it, man Bro, you're only here once, man.
It's true.
Life is what you make it.
It is Regrets, and all you knowwhat.

Speaker 1 (01:28:28):
I bro, you only hear once man, and it's true life is
what you make it it is regrets,and all you know what I'm saying
it's one of those people, Idon't think you should have any
regrets though like I agree thisis why everything happens for a
reason.
So this is why, okay, no, no.
Everything happens for a reason.
Like people die, people getmarried, people divorce, like

(01:28:49):
everything that's true for areason.

Speaker 4 (01:28:51):
That's true there, you there's.
There's a reason for everythingso you shouldn't have regrets,
just like damn that sucks.

Speaker 1 (01:28:58):
I shouldn't have done that but I'm over it, like you
build a bridge and you get overit like everything's gonna be
okay at the end of the day.

Speaker 3 (01:29:05):
I agree to add to that.
You know, I mean I mean uhregret doesn't.
I mean regret is only regret,you know.
It's a reminder that, hey, Ishould.
I should have did better thatpart saying no so I'm not saying
that it's a I mean, it's anecessary thing, just like fear.
Even though as as useless aspeople think fear is, fear is a
very useful type of thing no,for sure so it's like it's all

(01:29:25):
there for a reason.
Just like you said, everythinghappens for for a reason you
know.
So regret.
It's like it's just a reminder,like okay, like don't don't do
the same mistake if you don'twant this result.

Speaker 2 (01:29:34):
You know that's what you want to say something I can
tell you.
No, you want to say something,all right, we're gonna take a
shot first with your chest.
Say with your chest, bro allright, come on bro.

Speaker 5 (01:29:43):
Well, see, the thing is is like and I don't know, I
just I just be tripping becauseI hold, I just hold God at the
forefront.
I just don't want to do likenothing stupid.
And then you know, die in thatsin per se.
I understand, regret it.
Well, no, not regret it.
Like you, die in that sin andthen, God was like bro, what was
that last thing you was doing?

Speaker 1 (01:30:02):
good, but what was that last thing you did?
Now you going to hell.
I get it.
I'd regret it, though at thatpoint I'd be like, damn, I'm
fucked, damn my bad, but youhave all this time to like,
you're a sinner so you canrepent for your sins but what
you're supposed to do is getbetter.
You know what I mean like youcan't just be like oh, I'm with
Maria and I'm gonna go over hereand fuck Felicia every night

(01:30:24):
and just Felicia.

Speaker 5 (01:30:25):
Felicia and I'm going to pray to God and be like oh
no, you're right, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:30:29):
Please, god forgive me.

Speaker 2 (01:30:30):
And you know you're going to do it again Because you
didn't mean it.
Yeah, you're not for real.

Speaker 1 (01:30:35):
Like be for real.

Speaker 3 (01:30:36):
Faith without works is dead, basically right.
Yeah, yeah.
You got to be true about thatfaithfully.
I heard somebody.
No, that's true.
Yeah, I heard somebody, bro, Iheard somebody messed up bro,
somebody messed up.

Speaker 5 (01:30:52):
I was listening to two people talking Somebody
messed up, uh-oh.
And the dude said why you notgonna repent?
And he said well, I'm gonnarepent for it if I'm gonna do it
again.
Oh shit, oh, he didn't mean itlike he meant it.

Speaker 2 (01:31:06):
He meant that shit yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:31:07):
No, but he's keeping it real.

Speaker 2 (01:31:09):
He was like I want to stop, but I don't know how.
No, but he's keeping it real.
Yeah, I'm not going to you haveto pray though.
Like, you know how to stop Likepray, pray, pray.

Speaker 1 (01:31:17):
Help me.

Speaker 4 (01:31:19):
But for some others for some it's fun.

Speaker 2 (01:31:30):
For in that cycle they are stuck in that cycle.

Speaker 3 (01:31:31):
No, I agree.
At the end of the day it's achoice.
It's a deliberate choice.
People are not slaves to theirdesires, don't get me wrong but
that's what addiction is no, I'msaying, desires are tempting.
But even if you're addicted, youare the ultimate decider in
whether you take it or not.
Whether your body hurts oraches or not, you can be like,
nah, I'm not gonna take it.
As much as it hurts, as much asmuch agony as you're in you,
you have the final say.
That's how powerful we are.

(01:31:52):
But people are fucking lazy butit's easier said than done.
No greed, sloth, sloth, uh-huh,pride, yeah, yeah, risk, yeah,
covetousness I think, there'ssome people struggle though.

Speaker 5 (01:32:06):
Yeah, people struggle , they do, but at the end of the
day, it's on the individual.

Speaker 3 (01:32:10):
It is.

Speaker 2 (01:32:11):
It is your circumstance is secondary.

Speaker 3 (01:32:14):
You are the primary agency in your destiny.

Speaker 1 (01:32:18):
In your journey in life, like this is all you, it's
your life.
You decide how it goes, whatyou make of it, what you do with
it, but sometimes would youguys agree?

Speaker 5 (01:32:31):
sometimes it takes like Everything in you.
I mean yeah, that way.

Speaker 3 (01:32:36):
Or it takes a turn, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:32:38):
I think I'm under the impression some things you just
can't shake, though Nah, it'sgoing to happen to you, you just
got to fucking learn Like damn,I got a knife in my back, let
me keep it pushing.

Speaker 2 (01:32:50):
I got to keep going, for sure.

Speaker 4 (01:32:52):
And it sucks.
You got to find a way to getover it.

Speaker 1 (01:32:54):
Yeah, you have all these traumas.
So you have traumas in life andyou can either Let them build
you up, so you can either learnfrom it or run from it, you know
you can make it wiser or youcan become wiser okay thanos,
yeah, okay thanos become wiseror let it um say thanos, let me

(01:33:15):
get in a glove, let me get in agauntlet.
You're the gauntlet real quick,the stones real quick or you,
you let it hinder you, but I Idon't know like I.
I I love life, so like I gottado he's about to go get the
glove.

Speaker 4 (01:33:30):
He's about to go get the glove.
Oh, there's a glove.

Speaker 5 (01:33:34):
Okay, so, metaphorically speaking, hip
replacement.
Your hip got messed up.
Get a little hip replacement,artificial.

Speaker 3 (01:33:42):
Yeah, okay, now you're cyber Fuck.
Yeah, sometimes you still gotthat little.

Speaker 5 (01:33:47):
No well, yeah, yeah, hell, yeah.
You got that little, you gotthat little metal plate.
I got kids man, he is the kidalright, man, let me get a
billion this is heavy duty, thisis legit you got Thanos with us
.
You gonna have trouble namingthis episode.

Speaker 2 (01:34:11):
I'm around the corner , like you better chill, I'm
going to snap you out ofexistence.
I'm over there, you betterchill and listen to me Before I
snap you out of existence.
But can you snap with it?
You can, oh, like so.
So it's a middle.
So how do you snap With yourmiddle finger?
Right, so she's my hand'sprobably too big for that shit?
No, you can do it my hand'spretty big bro.

Speaker 3 (01:34:28):
It's not going in, oh wow.

Speaker 2 (01:34:32):
There we go.

Speaker 4 (01:34:41):
He needs a magnum, need a magnum my boy oh, you got
it in.

Speaker 2 (01:34:44):
Oh, it works.
You got it in, oh yeah, so nowjust use two.

Speaker 1 (01:34:46):
Yeah, You're figuring it out.
Make it works.

Speaker 5 (01:34:49):
Oh, yeah, so now just these two.
Yeah, you're figuring it out.
Make that the pin.

Speaker 3 (01:34:54):
Make that the pin.
Yeah, hold up.
How do I snap it?

Speaker 2 (01:34:56):
I got that shit from Disneyland man.
So, yeah, you got to do themiddle finger and you'll hear it
pop.
Watch, there you go.
Watch, hold those two again.
There you go.
That was a snap.
You heard it.
Oh, it was.
What do you?
Let me see, I'll show you.
It's kind of like alright.
So the snap, from what Iunderstood when I read the

(01:35:18):
little thing, was you gotta dothe middle finger and the.
So, or is it these two?

Speaker 5 (01:35:22):
wait a minute you broke it, man.

Speaker 1 (01:35:26):
I heard it, though my bad he told you he had big
fingers.

Speaker 5 (01:35:29):
I heard it though, man, I heard it, though my bad.
He told you he had big fingers.
Fuck bro.
No, no, I heard it though.

Speaker 2 (01:35:32):
I heard it.
Yeah, I heard it.
That's right here.
Watch this here at least two.
You hear it.
That's a snap, alright, it'sjust dying, actually, the
battery's dying, the battery'sdying, okay.
So, yeah, that's that, we canput the gauntlet.
We'll put that over.

Speaker 3 (01:35:44):
For some reason, bro, I thought that my penis
actually went into the thing,but it's just a little pulleys
on it.
I'm all trying to fucking jabmy hand in there and shit yeah
bro, it's just funny, man.

Speaker 2 (01:35:55):
you know what?
Hey, you know what.
This turned interesting realfast, though she just snapped
people out of existence rightnow.
No, and Paige came real with us, man.
But anyway, man.
So this, this is a greatconversation y'all.
Thank you, bro.
You can hold on to it if youwant.

Speaker 5 (01:36:09):
You can hold on to it .

Speaker 2 (01:36:10):
if you want, put it on.

Speaker 5 (01:36:11):
You should have used this when they did that gay
stuff.

Speaker 2 (01:36:15):
Oh shit, all right, man, anyway, man All right.

Speaker 5 (01:36:20):
Undone.
Anything you want to add tothat, sir, before we wrap this
episode Nah, undone, he said,undone undone so you guys think,
like when it comes to thosetraumas, like we were talking
about that cause, like I waslistening to a pastor say, like
that whole forgive and forgetthing, that's not even biblical,

(01:36:41):
that's not even possible whatto forgive and forget yeah.
I mean, it depends on what thetrauma is you can forgive, but
you'll probably never forget.

Speaker 3 (01:36:49):
It depends on what it is forgive, but you're probably
never it depends on what it isif it's, if it's severe enough
to where you're like bro, I'mnever gonna forget.

Speaker 1 (01:36:55):
It's severe enough, like if it's enough to say like
this is my trauma yeah yes, butlike, my thing is, if you're
willing to forgive, yes, you'regonna remember it.
But like, forgiveness is awhole different entity.
Like, yeah, you're never gonnabring it up, yeah, you can't
like even though you remember,yeah, you can't, even though you
remember, even though youremember it like damn that sucks

(01:37:17):
.
It's in the back of your head.
Yeah, you cannot bring it up butyou have all these women and
you have all these men thatbring it up like oh my god, you
did this rub it in, but like no,you're supposed to forgive them
yeah, that's not forgivenesswhat you're doing?
You're bringing it up, you'renot forgiving anyone like.
You need to get over that shit.

Speaker 5 (01:37:35):
That's a grudge exactly but that's not to say
you can't feel like ouch anymore.

Speaker 1 (01:37:39):
Right, like dang they're really, but then, but
then, yeah, but you gotta getover that shit you're not over
it, you gotta get the fuck overit.
Like damn, shit happens, buteverything happens for a reason.
So essentially, like you'reliving in this, they don't give
a fuck, they're still getting onwith their life exactly they
did this and they're like, ohwell, I'm living my best life

(01:38:00):
and you're over here like, oh,that hurt, like I'm still not
over it after two years.
But you gotta build a bridgeand you gotta get over it.
Like, whatever the fuck it.
Like I've been through someshit in my time and I'm just
like fuck it.
You know, like let me keep itpushing, whether, like I have to
steer this way, I gotta go thisway on my journey, like I'm
gonna get the fuck through.

Speaker 3 (01:38:31):
It's almost as if, like you, know, in those days,
like you know, if you'redwelling on shit, it's like
you're asking permission to bein pain, you're hurting yourself
.
At the end of it, you're givingyourself a reason to, when it's
like, at the end of the day,you're the author of your story.
Thanks, fucking.
Just turn the page.
Fucking.
New chapter, that's it.
That's the hard part gettingover this shit, because the
consequences are so real.

Speaker 1 (01:38:46):
Your trauma is your dad right he left.
So you know real your trauma isyour dad right, he left early.
Yeah, man, fucking, make themost of it.
Like damn dad.
Look at me now you know what Imean.
Like watch this watch this I'mon this podcast.
Watch me do this.
I'm doing this at work.
I have this as my doing allwithout him.

Speaker 5 (01:39:02):
Yeah, bro, yeah like I don't even need you the thing
is is, like you know, I don't, Ithink, I don't even think of
him in the aspect of like youwant oh like I need my daddy in
my life.
Like like, no, I'm grown like,if anything, I'm ready to have
my own kids, right.
But the thing is is like Ithink it it breaks the natural
order and just for that reasonalone like you know, it's just,

(01:39:23):
it's just things that like fromthe past that we're talking
about that, like you know, thatlittle kid is still hurting.
Yeah, in a sense like now.
Like now I'm okay, like I'm.
What do I need from him?
I'm a grown-ass man, I make myown money, but it's just like
things back there there's a partof you that I couldn't deal
with.

Speaker 3 (01:39:41):
That would.
That would have benefited fromfrom his presence.
Yeah, and you would have beendifferent now, and it's just,
it's just something missingthere that you like?

Speaker 5 (01:39:47):
how do you pick?

Speaker 3 (01:39:48):
That's what it is.
I know exactly what you'retalking about, because I've been
through the same shit.

Speaker 5 (01:39:54):
And that's common in the black community.
That's like I don't even wantto say that's every other black
person.
That's probably like everyblack person.

Speaker 2 (01:39:59):
He said every other black person.
It's not.

Speaker 5 (01:40:05):
It's more, it is it's life, I know for sure that's
life, yeah.
But you gotta wear that shitlike a badge of honor, man yeah
but you, just you learn fromthat, though.
Like damn daddy wasn't there.

Speaker 1 (01:40:16):
I'm gonna be there for my kids.

Speaker 5 (01:40:17):
And that's how my brother took it.

Speaker 1 (01:40:19):
That's exactly, but me Okay well, not yet, but when
you do have them kids, you'regoing to be there for them kids.
Oh, you already know, Exactlybecause your daddy wasn't there
for you, so you're learning fromthat.
You know, like that's whatyou're going to take, that's
what you're going to benefitfrom that.
Because all these other dadsare like peace, like fuck all

(01:40:42):
them kids.
You know what not to do, yeahhe's going to be there for that
baby.

Speaker 5 (01:40:50):
Oh yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:40:50):
Yep To add to that no matter how crazy his lady is,
he's going to be there.

Speaker 3 (01:40:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:40:56):
I don't know them, but I'm just saying, oh yeah,
for sure, yeah, to add to that,you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:41:00):
Just, you know what I'm saying, like trying, um,
when I had my kids, likeactually I've really thought
about this shit going through.
You know like what I wentthrough and I forgive my dad,
like, like you know, you know,like, face to face, I was like,
hey, like I understand like whatyou went through.
I understand you had to do whatyou had to do.
It's just not easy, man.
You, you can only serve two, youcan only serve one master yeah,

(01:41:24):
and so it's like, when it comesdown to like, like survival,
it's like, okay, you can serveyour family, but you're gonna
lose out on this, or you canserve this, but you're gonna
lose on this.
You gotta make a choice.
There's no, yeah, there's abalancing act, but you're still
losing and gaining on both sides.
You know what I'm?
Saying yeah, no effects as longas you're willing to juggle
that you, you can probably dothat.
You know what I'm saying, butmost people choose one or the

(01:41:44):
other, yeah you know, what I'msaying, saying it's like but,
I think like you know, once youhave your, once you have your
little ones, you're going tounderstand fully like, and it's
going to it's going to bring itfull circle.

Speaker 4 (01:41:53):
It'll make sense yeah , it'll connect, for sure.

Speaker 2 (01:41:56):
Yeah you know, but you know even, even so like I,
you don't know, ill wishes.

Speaker 5 (01:42:00):
You know I had some anger issues, like as a teenager
, towards yeah, that's teenagerthough, yeah yeah, you know I
had that little.
You know I hate you phase, butlike now it was just like hey,
bro, like I just want, when youdie, to go to heaven.
I told you everything is justlike religious space for me like
I texted him happy birthday.
I mean no reply, but it's likedamn, yeah, that shit don't make

(01:42:21):
sense to me.

Speaker 2 (01:42:22):
That's not even hard to do, bro.
That doesn't even take anyeffort.
That takes a little.
That's the lightest amount ofeffort ever like.
Yeah, sorry, bro the only thing.

Speaker 3 (01:42:32):
Well, the only thing I'll say is just is like, if
there's no connection.
That's why, you know, I'msaying that's a big reason why,
because it's like, because whenyou don't have like, yeah, but
even then, though, it's kind oflike you know it's not right
like I'm a grown-ass man you'rea grown-ass man.

Speaker 1 (01:42:46):
Yeah, I'm not saying it's right's right.

Speaker 3 (01:42:48):
But I'm saying okay, just like, okay, just like where
we work, or whatever right.

Speaker 1 (01:42:52):
He's making sense.

Speaker 3 (01:42:53):
You know Some people okay okay, you give a fist bump
to who you're cool with, but yougive a hug to who you're really
connected with, right?

Speaker 2 (01:42:59):
Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:43:00):
It's a difference you know, who I'm talking

Speaker 2 (01:43:10):
about yeah you'll be like you get a head nod, I run
his ass over before I fist bumphim shit.

Speaker 3 (01:43:12):
It's the connection, though it's the connection.

Speaker 2 (01:43:14):
I know what you mean.

Speaker 3 (01:43:15):
It's, it's your vibe you know of course I'm saying
like we all fist bump each otherevery once in a while, but it's
like you know then you get ahug I'm saying but it's
different, you know.
So I think, like with that it'slike it's you know.
It's your whole, thecombination of you guys's.
You know experiences.
It's your whole, thecombination of you guys is you
know experiences together.
Up until now, you know what I'msaying Cause I go through the
same shit, the same shit whereI'm like damn, like how can you
not say but I think about it.
I'm like we just don't have thatconnection.

(01:43:36):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying,because with the, with the
other siblings, is when was thelast time you talked to your dad
, though Like on like we're goodterms yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:43:49):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:43:49):
I couldn't even tell you.

Speaker 1 (01:43:51):
See, I wouldn't even wish him a, I couldn't even tell
you, so you're doing your duediligence by like wishing him a
happy birthday.
I see why you did it though,yeah.
But don't get hurt when thereis no reply.
Of course not.

Speaker 3 (01:44:03):
But my mom be like oh , did your mama because that's
weird, because that's your mom,I'm gonna fight you but it's
your mama though, bro, he thinkabout it regardless, this is his
son, no I, I, I agree with you,but I'm saying the reason why
he he probably replied his momhe's been with he made his him
with with his mom.
So it's a different.
I'm not saying, I'm notjustifying it.

Speaker 1 (01:44:22):
You see a different connection that's his dad, yeah
that's the only dad he's evergonna have you know what I mean,
like you have one mom, you haveone dad.
These motherfuckers can go andbreed and multiply and have all
these other like mom and dadsthat they're with, but like I'm
your son, yeah, text me back,motherfucker you should do that,
you should be in, incommunication with him, but for

(01:44:44):
whatever reason, he's not youknow what and I don't want to
say in his defense, but I thinkhe lost his parents when he was
five I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:44:53):
But even even with, exactly even with fucked up
trauma like that, you stilldon't treat your kids.

Speaker 1 (01:44:57):
You don't you fucking build a bridge and you get over
it?
But here's the thing it's allabout mindset.
Right, you have to be strongerthan your mindset because, like
you have all these people ondepression, they're on all these
medications.
They're weak, their mindset isweak because they need all these
pharmaceuticals.
They need pharma to help themout.
Yeah, and at the end of the day, like that is, um, the reality

(01:45:20):
of these days, that's that'smost of the people, because they
can't.
They're going throughdepression, they have anxiety,
they can't battle their ADHD.
They need pharmaceuticals toassist them.

Speaker 2 (01:45:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:45:35):
Because their mindset is weak.
So that could be what's goingon.
Because daddy has a weakmindset, you can't text the son
back.

Speaker 5 (01:45:43):
It could be, but I mean, I don't know.
This is all too familiar forthe black community.
This is just what's been goingon for like since forever,
Unfortunately, but again I don'tknow.

Speaker 2 (01:45:51):
This is this is all too like familiar for the black
community.
Like this is just what's beengoing on for.
Like unfortunately.

Speaker 3 (01:45:53):
But again, it doesn't make it right.
Though it's a, it's a, it's alot.
The issue is a lot deeper thanyou know than what we're talking
about.

Speaker 2 (01:46:03):
It goes a lot deeper.
No, for sure, we'll get.

Speaker 1 (01:46:04):
I mean, I won't be involved in that, obviously, but
yeah, we'll make.

Speaker 2 (01:46:08):
We'll make that a topic.
You know, I appreciate, weappreciate that for sure.
We'll definitely make sure thatthat is a topic in the future
though, because, like you said,it's something we do, we should
dive into.
I'm glad you'd be here for it,as far as you know, watching it
and being a part of it so it'sjust you know we'll

Speaker 5 (01:46:24):
dive into.
Yeah, I know, for the sake oftime.

Speaker 2 (01:46:26):
Yeah, for the sake of time, bro, and the episode
itself.
I don't want it to be veeredoff too far from the original
premise that was still on it wasno, it was.
It had to do with your trauma.
That kind of led to some ofyour actions.
But we're still talking.
Well, because my parents were,they weren't married.

Speaker 5 (01:46:45):
Yeah, that's monogamy , right, that's non-monogamous.

Speaker 2 (01:46:49):
Non-monogamous.

Speaker 4 (01:46:50):
That's non-monogamous .

Speaker 2 (01:46:51):
So hey, man, it ties in though.
Don't worry, we're going tohashtag, leave it in.
We're going to hashtag, leaveit in, don't worry, we're not
cutting that out.
All right guys.
And on that note, we're goingto take a shot before.
Alright, alright, y'all.

(01:47:12):
So before we wrap the episode,I'm gonna go ahead and give the
mic over to pass it over to MissPaige.
Is there anything you want toleave the listeners and viewers
with before we head out of here?
Anything you want to tell them?
Leave them with a piece of youfor them to digest and take with
them on their way.
She's like I like how she'slike.
I don't I like.
I like how she's like.

(01:47:32):
No, she said she's like are youabout to say some deep shit,
but I mean like mic drop I hopeyou guys follow and you listen
yeah timeless talk appreciatethat thing is coming out soon
for.

Speaker 5 (01:47:46):
Timeless Empire, please buy and she said
vengeance belongs to the Lordyeah, yeah, yeah, I like that.

Speaker 2 (01:47:59):
Okay, thank you, paige.
You know what?
Thank you for being here withus.
Thank you for inviting me thankyou for coming have you had
back in the future.

Speaker 1 (01:48:08):
I mean, I have tons of stories, so I would have to
say this was the wildest it was.

Speaker 5 (01:48:13):
It was the wildest and most open.
I hear that all the time.
Episode.

Speaker 1 (01:48:16):
But I'm in, so in person, I'm an open book.

Speaker 2 (01:48:19):
She is dude, I'm telling you I just, I don't give
a fuck.

Speaker 3 (01:48:29):
Like oh, that's why I love and respect about her.

Speaker 2 (01:48:30):
What do you always tell me, unapologetically me,
unapologetically her?

Speaker 1 (01:48:32):
yeah, but I am Because it's your story?

Speaker 4 (01:48:35):
You don't got to apologize for your story.

Speaker 3 (01:48:37):
And I don't, that's good.

Speaker 1 (01:48:38):
So it's, I don't know .

Speaker 3 (01:48:40):
You're very transparent too.

Speaker 1 (01:48:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:48:42):
Yeah, which is good.

Speaker 2 (01:48:54):
At least you know what page.
She's going to give you a bucka hundred with what she has.
Yeah, that's it.
Experience, you know.
Yeah, you know my side.
Murkiness, no, clear as day.
Yeah, I respect it.
That's cool.
So you know one more for you.
Thank you again, appreciate you.
We do.
There's, uh, really coldstanding ovations, you know,
yeah.
So what about you, mr furious,passing it over to you?

Speaker 3 (01:49:05):
final tidbit final tidbit um shit, tidbit, shit.
Life is short.
You know, cherish, what you gotwhile you got it, it may not be
the tomorrow.

Speaker 2 (01:49:15):
Amen to that.
Cherish it while you got it.
Love on those that you havearound you while you have them.
Amen to that.
Oh yeah, good job, sir.
Thank you, appreciate that.

Speaker 5 (01:49:26):
Yeah, what about you, mr Slideshow.
I would say just take peopleserious, don't play with
people's hearts.
Be intentional with everythingthat you do intentional,
intentional and genuine.
So you know, don't have noexcuse.
If you do play with somebody'sheart, I would recommend that

(01:49:46):
you don't, but if you do, justlet them know what it is.
From the jump.

Speaker 2 (01:49:53):
At least that's what they know, and they can't say
you didn't, it's better to keepit honest, man, the lie has a
dead end at some point.

Speaker 5 (01:50:00):
At the end of that, keep it a buck.

Speaker 1 (01:50:02):
There's always a truth to the lie At the end of
that.

Speaker 2 (01:50:05):
Appreciate that, sir Passing the flowers out.
But uh, yeah, man, you know youguys.
You know this has been timelesstalk, man, you guys know where
to find us.
We appreciate all the viewersand all the listeners that come
in every week.
You know new episodes post onevery Friday.
We have one Friday, we havethis Friday coming up and then

(01:50:26):
we're done for a couple months.
We're going to take a littlebreak.
Yeah, season four.
It took a while to knock it out, fellas, but we did it.

Speaker 5 (01:50:32):
16 episodes man, this is the longest one, bro.
Yeah, man Pause Because thisepisode is all over.
I felt like the need to saypause when I said it.
It's a long season.
Why?

Speaker 2 (01:50:42):
did you.
It's stupid, it's a littlepossible.
Huh man, nah, but it wasdefinitely one for the books.
But again, you guys, weappreciate all of our Spotify
listeners, our Apple podcastlisteners, all the Apple music
listeners, the Deezer, all these.
We have people that listen tous from iHeartRadio.
I don't even know if people usethat still.

Speaker 5 (01:51:03):
I know, I get the statistics, I look at them Back
in Pandora.
I thought nobody used Pandora,no more.

Speaker 2 (01:51:09):
Pandora.
Hey, fuck, pandora, bro, theynever took our podcast.
They never did.
You know, that was the only,that was the only platform that
gave us the finger.
Everybody else took us.
Yeah, they didn't accept it.
Fuck, pandora, nobody usedPandora fuck.
I think they they caught on tous saying fuck them.
So they're.
So you know what?
Just block it, it's all right,you guys are barely relevant
anyway.
So fuck, you know, I'll sayfuck Pandora.

(01:51:30):
Everyone use Spotify or AppleMusic, exactly, exactly, and
we're on both of those.

Speaker 4 (01:51:34):
I don't even know.
We're on the ones that matter.
We're on the ones that matter.

Speaker 2 (01:51:37):
Exactly, we're on the platforms that matter.
Yeah, hashtag, hot, take.
Shout out to Spotify listeners.
The listeners are really wherewe get most of our streams.
So, you know, shout out to theYouTubers, the guys that watch
us on.
You know, visually we're goingto be on Rumble, probably most
likely next season.
Just because there's a fewthings, a few hoops, I got to

(01:51:57):
finish jumping through with thepodcast.
But you know, in the meantime,you guys, we really appreciate
the views, we appreciate thelove.
All right, guys.
With that being said, it's beentimeless talk.
We'll see you guys next weekfor the finale.
We got a nice one planned foryou guys.
We'll see you then.
Thank you, god bless.
You.
See you next week.
I got it, you.

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