July 2, 2025 • 39 mins
Getting older doesn’t mean giving up the fun! We dive into what it’s like to still be “outside” in your 40s, 50s, and beyond—just with a bedtime. From day parties to early exits, we’re keeping it cute, grown, and well-rested. If you’ve ever pre-gamed with antacids, left the club before midnight, or chosen sleep over the afterparty, this one’s for you. We're talking nightlife nostalgia, grown-up fun, and why being home by 10 might just be the new flex.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You ever dance and you think you are killing it,
and you look in the mirror.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Oh, that look crazy when you look in the mirror.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
You feel like look crazy.
You know what I?
Speaker 3 (00:07):
was like.
I was like, oh, I thought I wasout here cold.
I'm in front of you lookingstupid.
Okay, Ellery's looking,probably looking real crazy.
This is Legra.
This is Stephanie.
This is Cherie.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
And this is Evania, and this is Timeless and
Unfiltered, where we arespilling the tea on midlife, one
laugh at a time.
What was that?
Why does she always?
Speaker 3 (00:47):
have something weird, because before the cameras
start rolling, we sing the song.
What was that?
I think it was a remix.
It's a.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Stephanie.
And this is Sharice Missing thevibe.
It's about to be her best liferight now.
Oh, best life.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Oh, that's right.
Oh, it's hard.
What was that?
Booty booty?
What did you say?
No, I was like boom, ticklyboom, tickly boom.
I used to love Dossifix.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
I used to love Dossifix.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
That was them, Okay.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
well, that actually kind of brings me to my
conversation today because I wason Instagram the other day and
I think it's Black Generation X,I think is the IG, but it's
just people, our age and just avariety of different stuff.
And there was this gentleman onthere who did a.
(01:41):
I was like what is that noise?
I've got my fan just going on.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
I'm so used to having hot flashes of the fan just on
by his damn self.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Hold on, let me turn that off, it's just.
It's just on.
It's just on because, and it'scold in here, y'all so it's not
cold, I don't.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
I'm sorry, I'm a, I'm a hot mama, oh okay okay, okay,
every sense of the word, everybaby, every sense of the word,
but yeah, but there was this uhgentleman on instagram and he
was talking about how um he madeplans for friday night and he
was so crunk all week.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
You know, he got his going.
Now he got his going outclothes ready, like oh, you know
, it's hump day, it's almostfriday and he said friday came
and he's like, oh lord, I gottago out tonight.
You know, he's like okay, I'mgoing, I got to go out tonight,
tona.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
You know, he's like OK, I'm going, I'm going, I'm
going.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
And then he got home, he took a shower.
You know that itis startedkicking in.
You start realizing, oh, and henever made it.
I say your friends is nottexting Like man where you at
you coming, you got me, you gotme, you got me.
And it reminded me of I wassupposed to go out with
Stephanie.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
To Ellery's, you know she keep talking about.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Ellery's and I was like, oh my God, okay, I'm going
to go to Ellery's, I'm going togo.
And it was after Du Bois' EPevent and I had already had a
long day.
But Stephanie was ready and Iwas like, okay, okay, you cannot
back out.
Come on, now I'm hyping myselfup.
You should stay up all night.
Yeah, you can come on.
Come on, go out, party allnight, get up in the morning.
(03:09):
You're like like I was tryingto hype myself up girl.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
She texted me and said no.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Ellery tonight when I tell y'all I'm so excited one
dive to the bed.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
She was happy I was so happy.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I was like when did I get home?
Very, very, and the only reasonwhy it wasn't in the Ellery's
cause.
We literally thought we'regonna get there at 9 o'clock,
yeah, and then she made it toget there at 9 o'clock.
We just pulled up at 9.01 andit was a line.
it was a holiday weekend downthe freaking block and we was
like, oh my god, and it's onlylike so.
Looking at all the people, Iwas like we're not going to have
(03:42):
anywhere to sit and but forshits and giggles we said let's
go in there.
And see, we walked right in.
I was like is there a seat?
It's reserved, it's reserved.
We was like alright, and wejust left back out.
So we was like, no, ellery.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I was so happy and we thought we was going to parking
lot pimp we thought we wasgoing to parking lot.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Pimp, they don't park in like pimp it was some
jellies outside in parking lotswith some jelly jelly, and they
just weren't saying.
Then they, they talked likelittle, like y'all going here
with y'all going, with y'allgoing here, and that was it,
just we was like I was just sohappy to have that text I was so
happy and I had to tell you Iwas like buying.
(04:21):
You know she's like whathappened.
Yeah, old people was thereearly.
I know people get there early,you gotta get there at eight.
I was like Vanya, you knowshe's like what happened.
Yeah, Vanya was up.
Old people get there early.
Old people get there early, yougot to get there at 8.
They are 30.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
We talking about old people, that's us.
Stephanie, yeah, because we wasthere at 9 o'clock.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
We should have been there at 8.30.
Because what?
Speaker 3 (04:40):
They don't even go out now time we were ready to go
to bed 12,.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
We were ready to leave and I was like, when did
we get old?
When did we get?
Speaker 3 (04:50):
old, I'd still be kicking.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
And then the other day I was in the bathroom, oh
goodness, I had my Spotifyplaying and just a little 90s
old school and stuff and I can'tremember what song came on when
I tell little 90s old schooland stuff and I can't remember
what song came on.
When I tell you if I couldtwerk, you were twerking I
bounced that butt all over thebathroom.
But when I tell you, my kneepopped and I was like, oh,
(05:13):
you're like what's going?
Speaker 3 (05:15):
on.
I was so tired, god, I was sotired.
Afterwards I was like when didI get old?
When did I get old?
I don't like it.
I've been telling my friendslately.
I was like I'm literally likescared you better be no.
Like like literally every day Iwait and I'm just freaking
scared because it's likesomething new, hurting, and I'm
(05:39):
like, oh my God, and I just fearlike stuff is just going to get
worse and I'm just I'm likescared, shitless, honestly at
this point.
Well, they say motion is lotion.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
I think the best thing you can do is to stay
active.
This is scary.
Exercise all of those things,Because when.
I tell you when that, when itkicks in, and when me being idle
for the last two years.
When I tell you my, I mean myjoints.
My hands hurt, my toe hurt,like my knees hurt my everything
(06:09):
my joints and stuff are sostiff, since I wasn't able to
exercise.
So, and trying to get back,into exercising is really hard.
And then in my mind, I'm at thelevel where I was before.
No, you're not I lay that yogamat on the floor and I stare at
it for a long time, yep.
Because I'm trying to figureout how to get down there.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Just for real, I'm serious, I still have a little
neuropathy in my toes.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
It's not bad, but it's more in my toes.
It was the whole front of myfoot and for neuropathy is when
you can't the nerves damage.
So chemo damaged the nerves inmy in my hands and my feet.
Now I have the feelings 100back in my hands, but my toes
are still tingly.
So when I've been down yournormal you know how you've been
(06:55):
down and your toes been I stilldon't feel my toes.
So it's really weird and it'suncomfortable.
I don't know why it'suncomfortable, because you
really don't feel it, but it'sjust.
I think this is so weird.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
So when I have to get down on the floor.
I'm like hmm, yeah, it's adifferent feeling.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
It takes me a minute because I got to think about it.
Okay, put that knee down first.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
And then your knees be hurting when they get on the
ground.
I'm serious, it's like, and youdon't unless you kids just stay
active your whole life, oh, myGod you have to stay active
because I was trying to help myfriend move something or roll up
an air mattress, and I got onmy knees and it just hurts.
And I was like why my kneesstart hurting.
It's bad.
I used to be able to just popdown and pop back up.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
We can't Everything pop, but it ain't the kind of
popping, it ain't the kind ofmother it's all like oh, this is
really happening man.
You wake up.
I don't like it.
You literally wake up and itjust happens overnight and
you're like when did this happen?
And we think it won't happen.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
We think that we're just invincible and it'll pass
us.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
We're not man.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
That's the old people who go through that, and then
you wake up and it's like ohgoodness.
And I remember the last timelike you know I was in the midst
of, you know, having relations,I'm like you know what I think,
my back started hurting orsomething I was like I was like
hold on, okay, like okay, or areyou trying to adjust your angle
(08:18):
at the yeah During the yeahDuring mid-stroke?
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Yeah, you're like You're trying to.
Just because I'm sitting heregoing, is my back hurting right
now Like what?
The what is going on?
Oh my Lord, when did I get old?
When did I get old Sharice?
Speaker 2 (08:32):
You're not.
This week we're going to getsome fish oil, some glucosamine
and get them getting down and upor something, but uh-uh.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
So I just had a homegirl's sleepover for
birthdays and everybody woke upin the morning and they all went
in the kitchen and had a bunchof vitamins and a bunch of and I
was like I'm sitting there overthe couch, I ain't doing that.
They be like Stephanie, you themain one.
I was like I ain't doing that.
I started eating some cupcakesand stuff.
I was like I'm not doing that.
(09:04):
I was like I'm not.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
But how was the sleepover?
Because y'all were talking.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
When you left, man, we thought we was going to kick
it.
We went on, we was going to, wewas going to drink, play games,
eat man.
We was all in bed at tea.
Oh my God, I ain't to the games.
We drink and we eat and we'lldance around and be tired of
(09:31):
dancing and be like oh girl, Igot to lay down girl.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
And then everybody just started falling asleep, I
said we just that's exactly whatwe just started this thing out
talking about.
Oh, my God.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
That's hilarious.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
Y' talking about.
Y'all just had a smallsleepover.
Yeah, we went to sleep.
Yeah, we just all slepttogether and then everybody wake
up at the crack of dawn.
All right, take their vitaminsand all they can.
I said, oh, what is that's like?
When did we?
Speaker 1 (09:55):
get.
Oh, I don't like this for us.
Well, sometime I do a little, Igotta have little things that
kind of remind me like I stillgot it, Like first of all, I
knew this was the episode, so Isquozed myself up in this
hoe-ass dress.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Listen, listen it ain't hoe-ass.
Look, I'm not squeezed in it,it's sex, sex.
I'm squozed.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
It's sex, sex.
I'm squozed.
That's beyond squeezed.
I'm when you I dressed andsitting a bit too tight, sitting
trying to hold my stomach thewhole time.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
But anyway, there's certain little things that I do
to kind of remind yourself whoyou are, and it's that one song
that come on.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
It's that one song they put you in there, like that
.
That makes you say I'm thatgirl but you know what the funny
part is?
You know how you ever dance andyou think you are killing it
and you look in the mirror.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Oh, and look crazy when you look in the mirror.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
You're like look crazy.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
I'm like, oh, I thought I was out here cold.
I'm in front of people lookingstupid.
I'll be at Ellery's chicken,probably looking real crazy,
because you thought you waskilling it.
I still had all of my moves.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Yes, oh, looking crazy, yes, but I got songs that
kind of bring that out of me.
Let's talk about a little oldschool music.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
Because you put that question out.
Oh damn, Let me look.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Hold on a second, I put a question on Facebook.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
I missed everything you got to pay attention, girl,
you got to pay attentionAttention.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
That was a bone crusher.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Yes, I'm outside of the club.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Pick up my phone.
She had to dig deep.
I was like Okay.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
So I put a post on Facebook and it just said when I
find it Okay.
What's the one song that, whenyou hear it, it makes you act a
fool and forget your age?
Speaker 3 (11:52):
So make sure y'all comment and let us know the one
song that makes you act a fooland forget your age.
When you say forget your age,first of all we old, it's
because you're going to hurt.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
Is that what you're saying?
You're still trying to dance.
You're trying to twerk.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
You're like, ooh Jesus, what?
The that's what you mean.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
Whatever it is, it makes you forget you 50
something.
Speaker 3 (12:17):
So you guys comment and let us know what that song
is.
So let me give you a couplecomments.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Actually, we got quite a few.
We got quite a few.
Let me give you a couplecomments of what some of them, I
think, had said the same thing.
Somebody said anythingludicrous, anything ludicrous
yeah, that's thug.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
Really, all you got to do is throw some bowls and
stuff to ludicrous.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Uh-huh.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
Okay, so that's Cash Money.
Somebody said pop that coochie.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Pop that, coochie Pop that coochie baby.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Anything.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Janet or Bobby Brown.
Someone said Someone saidthey're ashamed to say, but it's
Trick Daddy and Trina.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
You don't know them.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
Reptile like me.
Now, you know, madison, loveanything, trina I love Trina too
, If she hear anything Trina,she just loses her mind.
Blow the Whistle came up.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Blow the Whistle.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
Blow, the Whistle came up.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
I don't know how many times that's a smooth song it
is.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
I don't see your age dancing off of that, like what
you doing to Blow the Whistlethat's going to make you hurt.
I mean, you know, but somepeople I've seen people like do
the Chicago Two Step and that'swhat in my mind with that song I
remember the people doing itand they be cold, but you don't
know, you don't know what memoryit triggers when they hear that
(13:44):
song.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
Cause I'ma tell you right now Put on.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
Nasty Girls by Vanity Fair.
Speaker 2 (13:52):
Look how I came out of it.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
Yeah, yeah, and he's heard some.
He's like who am I right now?
Who are you?
Speaker 2 (14:03):
You just went all the way back.
You called Vanity.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
Six, that was it.
And somebody said nasty girl byVanity Six.
See baby.
You put on Vanity Six right now.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
And we'd be waving, I know and we'd be waving and I'm
gonna be hurt tomorrow right upin here, but you think you
really killing it and you lookin the mirror and be like is
that?
What.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
I look like okay.
And then, as soon as I hearthat ding, ow ow, ow he loses my
shit, like right now.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
And for y'all that don't know that If we can not
make babies, maybe we can makethem.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
As soon as I hear that.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
And then you just say woo, because, baby, that would
make me forget my age and who Iam.
Because the way I be rolling,or think you rolling and be
looking like stone, look a wholestone in that mirror.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
And that's how I was, and I can't remember what song
it was.
I was in the mirror dancing andI think I was trying to put
five curls in my hair orsomething and I just had to look
up and saw myself Burn yourforehead Is somebody else in
this mirror.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
I know that it's not me.
It's not me anymore.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
I know that's not me.
Or when you think you're goinglow and you still standing up
straight.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
Yeah, no, no, no, no.
You are stuck in the block.
Drop down and get your eagle on.
I tore my meniscus.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
You tore your meniscus and.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
I tore my meniscus.
Yes, you have to do that inheels.
Oh, it don't matter.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
The meniscus is torn.
I don't know what.
I had on.
She's like I should have didnothing.
Yeah, yeah, girl.
Speaker 3 (15:42):
Is that woman tearing her nut trying to yeah Girl.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
That's when I'm going to know that's going to be the
end of your life.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
I knew when I looked in the mirror Because.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
I always dance, I always could dance, and you
can't tell me I'm still notkilling it.
Until I looked in the mirrorand I was like what?
You killing it in your way.
And other people will probablystill think you're killing it.
You know, you see them, aunties, that he's recording on video
At Ellery's.
At Ellery's.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
This was going around now.
That's why that line was solong, because we'd be in there
joking.
Yes, everybody, be out theredancing.
Oh my god, it's so great.
But I think it's young peoplein there trying to be funny,
like look at all the grand,don't, don't do us, don't do us.
I'm going to show y'allsomething they, but they be out
there giving it, they be.
We don't care who looking Ican't we all?
Speaker 1 (16:37):
I cannot look like that.
I refuse man the vanity in mewill not allow it.
Speaker 3 (16:42):
I'm going to be a liar.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
It will not allow it.
I cannot look like that.
No, everybody don't look baddon't look bad everybody having
a good time when I saw I'm surethey having a good time.
I'm not taking away from thegood time, but if you think you
still in there cutting up andyou know what?
Speaker 3 (16:59):
I went to another place called 1942 and some song
came on and this older man waslike hold on, he stood up and he
just started doing this.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Like a robot.
No, I didn't even know he waspopping.
I didn't he thought he waspopping.
He thought he was popping.
I didn't think he thought hewas, but he was like and what
Nothing moving.
Speaker 3 (17:16):
I'm like Lord Jesus.
I started filming.
I said, baby, you can't tell methat man don't think In his
mind he was, he thought he was,he was killing it, he was crazy
and he was just.
Oh, I was like I'm so proud ofyou, stephanie.
He didn't care.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
Stop, I can't take it .
Speaker 1 (17:36):
I love it Because I'd have seen it, oh yeah, and in
my mind I can still pop locksRight and that was cool.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
But my knees is popping.
Speaker 2 (17:43):
It's okay.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
Don't give up the dream, do you I?
Speaker 2 (17:48):
mean, but as long as the real key honestly is having
fun At, the real key honestly ishaving fun.
Speaker 3 (17:54):
At the end of the day , and that's what everybody else
can do.
You know what I?
Speaker 2 (17:56):
mean, I mean I wish they really wouldn't take so
much and make fun of them.
I know.
But it's still nice to be inenvironments where you can let
your hair down and just reallydance and have fun.
Because we did that.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
But it's time to start two-stepping y'all.
It's time to start two-stepping.
That ain't enough for me.
Just like that brother tryingto pop lock.
I have seen it many times.
I was like what is he doing?
Speaker 3 (18:22):
In your mind you are killing it, but you don't
realize you ain't moved yet.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
But he's doing like he said during the beginning.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
He's moving.
No, but he ain't moving, he'smoving.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
No, but he ain't moving.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
He's thinking moving I was like oh, I think you're
supposed to move, and thenthey're going to hit all that.
Speaker 3 (18:40):
Yeah, but he was just stuck in the block, he couldn't
get out.
I was like, oh, bless his heart.
You been going good.
I'm going to pump you up, sir,because I'm going to pump me up
even if I look crazy, because Idon't want someone to pump me up
.
Even if I look crazy, I lookcrazy.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
I saw myself and I said, oh Lord, please don't let
it be, it's official.
No, it's okay, I'm going to getit back, though I'm getting it
back, I got to when they saymotion is lotion.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
Yes, I'm going to keep working out y'all.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
I got to get back.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
I got to keep it, you so young boy it's coming, shoot
it's coming.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
But that's sexual too , though.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
What motion and lotion.
Well, they think in their mindoh they killing it.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
Come on, what you about to say that you killing it
, and they got some mood in.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Yeah, I'm tearing her up.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
Uh-huh, did you move yet, hey sir, when, when you
gonna start moving?
You don't feel that, you don'tfeel that.
Uh, yup, yup.
She said I don't know, justlike, um, yeah, I think, I think
.
I think yeah and it ain't noworse than us.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
I know you get two pumps on top.
Oh, that shit on top man theknee.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
That's where all my wait my leg don't open that wide
, no more.
What?
No, I let's roll up.
Speaker 3 (19:53):
Wait, my leg don't open that wide I didn't ask some
of those because they done gotwide, they done got wide.
My leg, don't open that wide, Ican't, I can't.
Speaker 1 (20:02):
I'm sorry, I can't straddle yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:05):
Just old love, baby Old love, what you say, just
roll over, just roll over.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Just roll over, just roll over, oh, just roll your
phone, dude, just roll.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
Oh bar, oh lord, but that's what I'm saying, you
think you still got it and withme being out of commission
really the last two years, andthen now with with chemo and my
joints and trying to get I'malmost getting that sex right
now, cause in my mind I'm, I'mgetting it.
Speaker 3 (20:33):
I'm still that bitch.
She's getting it in my mind,I'm getting it.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
I'm still that bitch, you still are and if he come
from behind I might fall asleep.
Hold on, oh, you're back therewhat's happening?
Back there, I'm sleepingflipping through the magazine.
Speaker 3 (20:49):
I'm telling you.
Speaker 1 (20:54):
I do.
I think this is stuff I thinkabout sometimes at night, like
do I still got it?
Speaker 3 (20:58):
you do.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
I'm sitting here looking at something on the
floor trying to decide if I'mgoing to pick it up.
Do I still got it?
I don't know if I can sit downto pick that up.
You're not going to tell me I'mnot that bitch anymore.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
I just think that you still have fear.
You still have fear becausewhen your feet were, you know
you really couldn't feel so.
You had to take care andtipping and moving over.
But you do.
It's like riding a bike.
You got to get the right person.
Yeah, and you'll be okay, it'sall going to be, the mind's
going to go there and it's goingto be right.
Speaker 1 (21:34):
Tell me no, you working out, and I don't care
what y'all say, I still like RKelly's music.
I've been playing him allmorning, you know.
Speaker 2 (21:41):
I don't like his actions.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
Yeah, but he has some jazz, but as an artist I like
his music.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
I've been playing him all morning Because I heard an
old song.
So Just keep doing what you'reexercising.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
You're doing all of the things you got to let the
right person roll up in.
Y'all you got it.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
You're going to be that sexy siren and you're going
to be like girl, I didn't knowI was getting any, because I'm
squozing this dress.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
You're squozing that dress that I was talking about
you got it yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
That lady ready I?
Speaker 1 (22:15):
don't think I got the moves.
No more.
Speaker 3 (22:17):
You don't, I don't know I'm trying to be that still
, you are never doubt that.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
Okay, I'm gonna put on erotic city or something,
because that that just breakseven if, even if I don't got it,
I think I do, I think I do thatand I'm telling you that, and
then the leg rod is not going toget into any situation and not
come out of it on top.
Speaker 3 (22:39):
That's just who you are, so you got it.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
How about that?
Absolutely yeah, I'm verycompetitive, Right?
So here you go.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
You ain't about to outdo me, sir.
Even in the band I'mcompetitive.
I know that's terrible to say,but I am.
You ain't about to outdo me,sir.
Even in the bed you hold on.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
I'm competitive.
I'm competitive.
I know that's terrible to say,but I am.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
I'm competitive in the bed I'm like oh you, oh,
you're showing out, you'reshowing out.
Oh, that's what we're doingOkay.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
I don't care if I throw this hip out right now.
Speaker 3 (23:10):
Hold on, you got it.
You're not going to break medown like that.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
What you look like when you come up.
I don't know if it's somethingdifferent.
I'm going to have to ice fortwo days.
Speaker 2 (23:18):
You got it.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
I'm going to have to ice for two days.
Girl Lord, have mercy.
What's your song, Cherise?
What's your song that brings?
Speaker 2 (23:27):
that Atomic Dog.
Really, you're just stomping itout.
It's just music.
No, it's just music.
Now, it's not just the stomping, because everybody's used to it
from the fraternities, but it'sjust something about the song
that just reminds me of acertain time in my life and I
just love the music.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
What was you doing at that time?
I probably got pregnant.
Speaker 3 (23:48):
I don't know, you know I think that song is sexy
because I love watching men step, but I love, but I love grown
ones.
As soon as I hear Tom McDowell,we like in a big setting where
I know it's grown people and I'mlike, please somebody be here
and I love when they start toLet there be a cue, let there be
a cue around.
That's sexy as hell to me.
Speaker 2 (24:06):
And even when the cap of me Come on.
Oh no, this it's so sexy to me.
Speaker 1 (24:10):
Any black man stepping that cap of stroll
makes me say girl, stop lookingat that young boy like that.
That's somebody's child.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
No, if they grown man , they're doing it wrong, I know
, but that's somebody's baby helook like he a baby, but the way
they do that stroll that shit'sso sexy, that's sexy as hell.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
And I don't remember them being sexy like that in
college.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
Now the cues always were I just liked the energy and
everything.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
Because it was something about them just being
huh huh, huh, and it reminded meof Kyle Blackness.
I love that, I love it, butmaybe because we didn't have a
lot of Kappas on the yard youknow, as they say, back then On
the yard we had a lot of alphasand whatever and uh whatever,
but it's something now I have.
Okay, hopefully eric brent doesnot watch this right now, please
(24:56):
don't watch my clients but Ilove to watch when uh, because
even grown men, because he's a,he's an omega and um, he does a
lot of different events and allthat kind of stuff, and I
remember I did a a trip for himand and some of his friends and
I guess I hadn't seen.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
Was that the trip where the people were trying to
kill me?
Speaker 1 (25:17):
Yeah, but you weren't on this one.
Oh, okay.
But you weren't on this one Ihadn't been around like grown
fraternity men in a long time.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
That's what I love, but I just hadn't seen it.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
And then I remember going oh, y'all still do that I
mean, I knew that young kids didit I knew that young kids did
but yeah, but I love to watchthem and when they do that
little, that little neck roll,I'll be like, okay, stop looking
at folks like this it don'tmatter if he a big boy, little
boy, it's just cold.
Oh, I, I love it.
I was like oh, so yeah, thatatomic dog, I try to that bring
(25:51):
a mind.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
I try to look away that bring them out I don't look
where I look, because I'mtalking about the grown men.
Speaker 1 (25:59):
Yeah, I'm talking about the grown men too.
I'll be like uh-uh, that's my.
I'm like dude where were y'allat?
Stop looking at folks like that, because I love when that song
it's just, it's just exciting,it's just fun.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
Yeah, what's the?
Speaker 1 (26:11):
nasty girl song though that brings out that in a
hoe in Charisse.
What's the song?
What's the song?
Because we all got one.
That song you hear in me going,I can't think of it.
I was like what's that song,charisse?
Speaker 3 (26:30):
I'm sure I have songs , I don't know, we both said mmm
, we did at the same time theydid yeah, that's why we said the
same thing.
Speaker 2 (26:44):
So so I do like.
One of my favorites is Till theCops, oh yeah, okay.
Speaker 3 (26:49):
So that's what I'm saying, like when you're trying
to get in the mood back in theday you know we used to put on
music.
Speaker 1 (26:55):
Oh yeah, put on the boom box, put the tape in.
Had a little tape Like whatlittle sixes got you ready for
your company?
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Prince of Dora.
I love that song.
That song just will mentallytake me there.
I think that's so beautiful.
Speaker 1 (27:07):
I got a couple well, old, old, old, old school.
This is 70s or whatever.
Even though I was a child, Ithink it was just hearing these
songs because my mother didn'tplay them.
Al Green, um, living for thelove, oh yeah, in between, oh
yeah, yeah, I remember that morewas
Speaker 3 (27:28):
at the Isley's.
No, that was between the sheetsis Isley's.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
Yeah, yeah and then I love Zoom.
Oh yeah, I love, zoom, mm-hmm,yeah, and then there was one
more, oh, ltd.
Speaker 3 (27:42):
Mm-hmm.
Oh yes, now, that's still greatsex music, that's yeah.
Speaker 2 (27:48):
That's sex music.
That's like my weddingreception.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
It's on my playlist from-.
Okay, yeah, wedding that I planthat's sex music.
Speaker 2 (27:54):
I'm like what is this future?
Speaker 1 (27:56):
I'm manifesting, go manifest it.
We're going to be my wedding.
We're going to just I don'twant to be a bridesmaid though
Me either.
I will come to the wedding.
Well, really no.
No, what I always said I don'twant to be at nobody's wedding.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
No, I'm not doing that.
Speaker 3 (28:12):
Okay, because.
I have way too, I'm in arelationship and I'm like I'm
having a party and whoever'sgoing to show up, that's who's
meant to be there and that'swho's at the wedding.
Speaker 1 (28:21):
Oh nice, yeah, just tell me where to bring the gift.
I'm going to have a little tagon Don't have me in these
dresses and stuff, yeah becauseI haven't had way too many.
My party be good, I don't know.
I just think if you get to acertain age, it's like, yeah,
I've been there, done that.
Yeah, let's just applaud you.
Speaker 3 (28:39):
We come and we dance, we're going to eat, drink,
dance and celebrate we gotmarried and just yeah, that's
what we do.
Speaker 1 (28:50):
Now I would love to do, I do want to say, if I ever
get married again, I do want todo the dress shopping, do you?
I do?
I want to say yes to the dressmoment.
Speaker 3 (29:00):
But you're not going to actually wear it.
No, I'm going to wear the dress, but I'm not having bridesmaids
.
Speaker 1 (29:05):
I'm not doing none of that, and I'm not wearing a
dress.
Speaker 3 (29:07):
I always want a jumpsuit.
Oh no, I just want to go.
Speaker 1 (29:10):
I mean, even if it's a jumpsuit.
You know I want to.
Speaker 2 (29:18):
You are not going to do all that.
I don't even know why you justdid.
I know my wedding song.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
I'll be like, yep, that's it right, there, I got my
wedding song you want to try iton?
Speaker 1 (29:25):
No, that's the one, Because you know I hate trying
on clothes.
Speaker 3 (29:28):
She just want to look at it.
I'll come back here.
I can get fitted later.
Speaker 1 (29:39):
Yeah, work that and we'll try it later.
But I do want the experience ofshopping for a dress, but I
don't want to do the whole bridespace thing, so my wedding song
when I'm walking down the aisle.
Okay, what's the song?
Speaker 3 (29:45):
At last with my cane.
My love's coming along.
Girl, you heard Baby last.
So much Cause I don't know whenit's gonna happen for me.
Shit, my love Baby.
Speaker 1 (30:02):
We might have to push you down.
Gonna, push that lady down.
Gonna, push you down now.
Oh, stephanie, it's okay.
Speaker 3 (30:11):
It's gonna happen.
Speaker 1 (30:12):
You keep manifesting girl.
I'm gonna manifest it in anaudience.
I'm just sitting in theaudience, y'all ain't got a
whole song.
I'm going to manifest it in anaudience.
I'm just sitting in theaudience, you ain't got a whole
song.
She like I mean she had hersensual song.
Speaker 3 (30:26):
Oh, you did.
Speaker 2 (30:26):
You did yeah, because that's her whole song.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
Yeah, that song is just.
That's just bring it out of me.
Speaker 3 (30:33):
I'll tell you You're a sensual lover.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
You know, you ain't got that one that just triggers
something.
Tell you, you're a sensuallover.
I, you know, ain't got that onethat just triggers something in
you.
Make you forget how old youwere, make you think you still?
Got good knees.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
Till the cops come knocking at Remix Chef's kiss
Gosh, Ooh okay.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
I mean I might you know I don't do good with on the
spot stuff you got to processthings.
You got to think I got aprocess thing, I got a thing.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
I got such a long list because I love music.
I love old school music.
I love old school music.
I got a bomb old schoolplaylist.
Speaker 3 (31:04):
I love all my old school, you know.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
I'm a Confunction LTD Lakeside.
Speaker 2 (31:09):
Which is so funny they coming in concert again.
I know, oh they are.
Speaker 1 (31:18):
Because I was just going to say I haven't heard of
their concert this year.
I think Stockbridge it might bethey're doing something.
Do you remember when we went tothe Lakeside concert and for a
minute the lead singer ofLakeside was replaced with the
young dude and he dressed as apirate?
Yes, I was like what is goingon?
I know, but everybody's likehey pirate, hey pirate.
That ain't the old man that'ssupposed to be.
Speaker 2 (31:38):
That ain't the old man that would leave Lakeside.
Speaker 1 (31:41):
I think everybody want that.
Fire honey, we was all coming.
Speaker 2 (31:43):
Oh, oh oh, oh y'all was gonna be walking around
Another patch on right, we sawthose honey.
Speaker 1 (31:52):
Ahoy there, ahoy, ahoy there.
I was like.
Yes, we love our old schoolconcerts and our old school
music, but yeah, those are songsthat kind of trigger make me
think I still got it.
I still got it.
I almost feel like the Tin manand the Wiz Aw To my slice of
(32:12):
oil.
Speaker 3 (32:13):
You're just loyal to me.
What'd you say?
Speaker 1 (32:15):
My stuff ain't cracking Motion is lotion honey.
Speaker 2 (32:18):
I got to get moving.
Speaker 1 (32:19):
I got to get moving.
Speaker 2 (32:20):
But you've been doing all of the things though.
I really are doing all of thethings I'm impatient.
Speaker 1 (32:24):
You know I'm all right now you want to nap.
I want to start working out andI'm slim and fit tomorrow.
You know I want to startworking out.
My knees feel good and you knowlike this is taking too long
and you know you're younger, youyou healed so much faster and
all that kind of stuff too, andit's like but this is part of
the realization like I am god no, live y'all life, but you know
(32:45):
what you keep saying.
Speaker 2 (32:46):
Okay, okay, but no, listen to me.
You keep saying that, right,but you're still younger.
I'm really sitting here lookingat us and she squalls in this
dress.
Okay, you can squeeze in it,but you in it and you look good
in it.
And I remember seeing women ourage.
Speaker 1 (33:06):
We see them every day .
Speaker 2 (33:08):
Well, I don't want to talk about nobody right now.
So I remember being younger,seeing people our age, and I'm
not trying to be smart, buttheir boobs sat all the way down
here.
The bras was crazy.
Still probably is the weightfrom just over the.
That's why I said you'reworking out, but you know, over
the years of just not doinganything like the age of the
(33:32):
same 50, I think the 50s we saw.
Speaker 1 (33:34):
Okay, we have push-up bras now my titties still hang
low.
Speaker 2 (33:38):
But even today, where we are, today, people, there
are still people our age.
We look damn great yeah.
Speaker 3 (33:47):
I agree, I think we do so.
Speaker 2 (33:48):
I'm just saying I didn't say I wasn't fine.
Speaker 3 (33:52):
I didn't say and I didn't say, you didn't say that
but what?
Speaker 2 (33:56):
I'm just saying is, I think, the terminology for me
you're not old, you're not old,you are fine.
You just went through a stagewhere you actually had cancer
and you had to do things andhave things in your body that
you didn't care for, and theydid some things different before
(34:17):
that happened, to be honest youdon't look like somebody you do
not look like somebody who wentthrough two years, or whatever,
of chemotherapy.
You look great.
You didn't lose weight.
Your, your skin is stillamazing.
You know what I mean you knowwhat I mean so everything about
(34:44):
Legra is still great.
You know what I mean and asyour friend friends, I am
telling you you look amazing, sodon't you might as well.
Where's nasty girls?
Speaker 1 (34:55):
put nasty girls on for me right now.
But you're not.
But look, I just don't.
Y'all might have been where'sNasty Girls?
Speaker 2 (34:58):
Put Nasty Girls on for me right now, you know, but
you're not.
We're not getting older, you'renot.
But look, we're still alive.
Speaker 1 (35:02):
I just don't Y'all know that.
You know, Sharice ain't goingto never get older.
Speaker 2 (35:04):
I don't accept.
No, I don't accept theterminology, I don't accept
things, that people I'm notrunning away from that because
people say you ought to be gladyou're here for another day.
Speaker 3 (35:16):
It's a privilege, yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:17):
I'm glad and all of that stuff.
Speaker 3 (35:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:20):
We're good with where we are right, but for me we're
better than most.
When I say better than most, Imean we're doing a lot, we're
active.
We actually travel from May.
We won't stop till October.
I went to Peru no-transcript,far away, all sides for the rest
(36:02):
of your life.
Speaker 3 (36:03):
Manifest me girl.
Speaker 2 (36:05):
You just got to get it in your brain that you're
good and you're there.
But you know you're not.
You're not old, You're not old.
We're going to progress in age.
That's just going to happen andwe're going to appreciate it.
But we're going to doeverything we can do to keep our
health, wealth, vitality andeverything and just be good
(36:26):
until we can't anymore.
And we still can.
So I don't accept any of thosethings until I really can and
that's a long time.
Speaker 3 (36:33):
Yeah, that's all it's way down the road.
Speaker 1 (36:35):
Well, ok let's say a prayer with our vaginas right
now too.
Speaker 3 (36:41):
Don't let her get old , be hunching and I want to.
Speaker 2 (36:47):
Amen.
Speaker 3 (36:48):
And you know what I've recently learned.
I had just recently found outthat the desire for sex and
intimacy never goes away.
It don't, I thought, and itcame from a my 80.
My aunt at the time was like 8085 and she was like contrary to
what people believe, she's likeI still want to have relations.
And I said what did she call it?
(37:09):
Relations, yeah, relations,okay.
And she said the desire nevergoes away, and I don't know for
whatever reason.
I just thought when people age,they just didn't think about
her or want it and she was likeno, it don't go nowhere.
She said it don't go nowhere.
She said no.
She said I might need somecream to help me out down there.
She said but I still want tohunch.
And I said oh, so it just doesnot go anywhere.
(37:30):
I'm trying to hunch over.
Speaker 2 (37:31):
She and her 90s still want to the general public
think, like when they thinkabout us and our age group, they
literally think you knowyounger people actually.
That's why they be like thatgrandma, she need to go sit down
.
I'm arguing.
Speaker 3 (37:44):
Because in their minds they think you're too old,
Because I thought that when Iwas, I always thought that too.
And it was.
Speaker 1 (37:48):
I was like I wonder if, when I'm about 88, 95 and
nasty girls come on, oh, yougoing to dance when I'm about 88
, 95 years old, if I'm gonna getup Grandma's on Instagram, me
getting the day be on.
Speaker 3 (38:09):
That came moving in.
Speaker 1 (38:14):
Still gonna get it.
I'm gonna go and my teeth gonnafall out and everything, don't
wonder if you go back gonna hate.
She missed this episode, y'allshe is we love you girl, I know
she'll what'd you?
Say what'd you say, she wouldprobably wherever I'm somewhere,
huh, say she hunting yeah, wehate I'm hating right now, I'm
(38:35):
low, I'm low.
Congratulating right now, kittygirl I'm hating, but get
something for me.
This is.
Speaker 2 (38:40):
Lurie, y'all the Timeless and Unfiltered.
This is Stephanie, this isSharice and we are missing
Evania.
Speaker 1 (38:45):
But we still spilling that tea on Midlife.
Speaker 2 (38:48):
One laugh at a time.
Speaker 1 (38:50):
See y'all next week.
Y'all Thanks for watching, guys.
You ever dance and you think you are killing it,
and you look in the mirror.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Oh, that look crazy when you look in the mirror.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
You feel like look crazy.
You know what I?
Speaker 3 (00:07):
was like.
I was like, oh, I thought I wasout here cold.
I'm in front of you lookingstupid.
Okay, Ellery's looking,probably looking real crazy.
This is Legra.
This is Stephanie.
This is Cherie.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
And this is Evania, and this is Timeless and
Unfiltered, where we arespilling the tea on midlife, one
laugh at a time.
What was that?
Why does she always?
Speaker 3 (00:47):
have something weird, because before the cameras
start rolling, we sing the song.
What was that?
I think it was a remix.
It's a.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Stephanie.
And this is Sharice Missing thevibe.
It's about to be her best liferight now.
Oh, best life.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Oh, that's right.
Oh, it's hard.
What was that?
Booty booty?
What did you say?
No, I was like boom, ticklyboom, tickly boom.
I used to love Dossifix.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
I used to love Dossifix.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
That was them, Okay.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
well, that actually kind of brings me to my
conversation today because I wason Instagram the other day and
I think it's Black Generation X,I think is the IG, but it's
just people, our age and just avariety of different stuff.
And there was this gentleman onthere who did a.
(01:41):
I was like what is that noise?
I've got my fan just going on.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
I'm so used to having hot flashes of the fan just on
by his damn self.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Hold on, let me turn that off, it's just.
It's just on.
It's just on because, and it'scold in here, y'all so it's not
cold, I don't.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
I'm sorry, I'm a, I'm a hot mama, oh okay okay, okay,
every sense of the word, everybaby, every sense of the word,
but yeah, but there was this uhgentleman on instagram and he
was talking about how um he madeplans for friday night and he
was so crunk all week.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
You know, he got his going.
Now he got his going outclothes ready, like oh, you know
, it's hump day, it's almostfriday and he said friday came
and he's like, oh lord, I gottago out tonight.
You know, he's like okay, I'mgoing, I got to go out tonight,
tona.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
You know, he's like OK, I'm going, I'm going, I'm
going.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
And then he got home, he took a shower.
You know that itis startedkicking in.
You start realizing, oh, and henever made it.
I say your friends is nottexting Like man where you at
you coming, you got me, you gotme, you got me.
And it reminded me of I wassupposed to go out with
Stephanie.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
To Ellery's, you know she keep talking about.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Ellery's and I was like, oh my God, okay, I'm going
to go to Ellery's, I'm going togo.
And it was after Du Bois' EPevent and I had already had a
long day.
But Stephanie was ready and Iwas like, okay, okay, you cannot
back out.
Come on, now I'm hyping myselfup.
You should stay up all night.
Yeah, you can come on.
Come on, go out, party allnight, get up in the morning.
(03:09):
You're like like I was tryingto hype myself up girl.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
She texted me and said no.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Ellery tonight when I tell y'all I'm so excited one
dive to the bed.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
She was happy I was so happy.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I was like when did I get home?
Very, very, and the only reasonwhy it wasn't in the Ellery's
cause.
We literally thought we'regonna get there at 9 o'clock,
yeah, and then she made it toget there at 9 o'clock.
We just pulled up at 9.01 andit was a line.
it was a holiday weekend downthe freaking block and we was
like, oh my god, and it's onlylike so.
Looking at all the people, Iwas like we're not going to have
(03:42):
anywhere to sit and but forshits and giggles we said let's
go in there.
And see, we walked right in.
I was like is there a seat?
It's reserved, it's reserved.
We was like alright, and wejust left back out.
So we was like, no, ellery.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I was so happy and we thought we was going to parking
lot pimp we thought we wasgoing to parking lot.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Pimp, they don't park in like pimp it was some
jellies outside in parking lotswith some jelly jelly, and they
just weren't saying.
Then they, they talked likelittle, like y'all going here
with y'all going, with y'allgoing here, and that was it,
just we was like I was just sohappy to have that text I was so
happy and I had to tell you Iwas like buying.
(04:21):
You know she's like whathappened.
Yeah, old people was thereearly.
I know people get there early,you gotta get there at eight.
I was like Vanya, you knowshe's like what happened.
Yeah, Vanya was up.
Old people get there early.
Old people get there early, yougot to get there at 8.
They are 30.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
We talking about old people, that's us.
Stephanie, yeah, because we wasthere at 9 o'clock.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
We should have been there at 8.30.
Because what?
Speaker 3 (04:40):
They don't even go out now time we were ready to go
to bed 12,.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
We were ready to leave and I was like, when did
we get old?
When did we get?
Speaker 3 (04:50):
old, I'd still be kicking.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
And then the other day I was in the bathroom, oh
goodness, I had my Spotifyplaying and just a little 90s
old school and stuff and I can'tremember what song came on when
I tell little 90s old schooland stuff and I can't remember
what song came on.
When I tell you if I couldtwerk, you were twerking I
bounced that butt all over thebathroom.
But when I tell you, my kneepopped and I was like, oh,
(05:13):
you're like what's going?
Speaker 3 (05:15):
on.
I was so tired, god, I was sotired.
Afterwards I was like when didI get old?
When did I get old?
I don't like it.
I've been telling my friendslately.
I was like I'm literally likescared you better be no.
Like like literally every day Iwait and I'm just freaking
scared because it's likesomething new, hurting, and I'm
(05:39):
like, oh my God, and I just fearlike stuff is just going to get
worse and I'm just I'm likescared, shitless, honestly at
this point.
Well, they say motion is lotion.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
I think the best thing you can do is to stay
active.
This is scary.
Exercise all of those things,Because when.
I tell you when that, when itkicks in, and when me being idle
for the last two years.
When I tell you my, I mean myjoints.
My hands hurt, my toe hurt,like my knees hurt my everything
(06:09):
my joints and stuff are sostiff, since I wasn't able to
exercise.
So, and trying to get back,into exercising is really hard.
And then in my mind, I'm at thelevel where I was before.
No, you're not I lay that yogamat on the floor and I stare at
it for a long time, yep.
Because I'm trying to figureout how to get down there.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Just for real, I'm serious, I still have a little
neuropathy in my toes.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
It's not bad, but it's more in my toes.
It was the whole front of myfoot and for neuropathy is when
you can't the nerves damage.
So chemo damaged the nerves inmy in my hands and my feet.
Now I have the feelings 100back in my hands, but my toes
are still tingly.
So when I've been down yournormal you know how you've been
(06:55):
down and your toes been I stilldon't feel my toes.
So it's really weird and it'suncomfortable.
I don't know why it'suncomfortable, because you
really don't feel it, but it'sjust.
I think this is so weird.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
So when I have to get down on the floor.
I'm like hmm, yeah, it's adifferent feeling.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
It takes me a minute because I got to think about it.
Okay, put that knee down first.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
And then your knees be hurting when they get on the
ground.
I'm serious, it's like, and youdon't unless you kids just stay
active your whole life, oh, myGod you have to stay active
because I was trying to help myfriend move something or roll up
an air mattress, and I got onmy knees and it just hurts.
And I was like why my kneesstart hurting.
It's bad.
I used to be able to just popdown and pop back up.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
We can't Everything pop, but it ain't the kind of
popping, it ain't the kind ofmother it's all like oh, this is
really happening man.
You wake up.
I don't like it.
You literally wake up and itjust happens overnight and
you're like when did this happen?
And we think it won't happen.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
We think that we're just invincible and it'll pass
us.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
We're not man.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
That's the old people who go through that, and then
you wake up and it's like ohgoodness.
And I remember the last timelike you know I was in the midst
of, you know, having relations,I'm like you know what I think,
my back started hurting orsomething I was like I was like
hold on, okay, like okay, or areyou trying to adjust your angle
(08:18):
at the yeah During the yeahDuring mid-stroke?
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Yeah, you're like You're trying to.
Just because I'm sitting heregoing, is my back hurting right
now Like what?
The what is going on?
Oh my Lord, when did I get old?
When did I get old Sharice?
Speaker 2 (08:32):
You're not.
This week we're going to getsome fish oil, some glucosamine
and get them getting down and upor something, but uh-uh.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
So I just had a homegirl's sleepover for
birthdays and everybody woke upin the morning and they all went
in the kitchen and had a bunchof vitamins and a bunch of and I
was like I'm sitting there overthe couch, I ain't doing that.
They be like Stephanie, you themain one.
I was like I ain't doing that.
I started eating some cupcakesand stuff.
I was like I'm not doing that.
(09:04):
I was like I'm not.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
But how was the sleepover?
Because y'all were talking.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
When you left, man, we thought we was going to kick
it.
We went on, we was going to, wewas going to drink, play games,
eat man.
We was all in bed at tea.
Oh my God, I ain't to the games.
We drink and we eat and we'lldance around and be tired of
(09:31):
dancing and be like oh girl, Igot to lay down girl.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
And then everybody just started falling asleep, I
said we just that's exactly whatwe just started this thing out
talking about.
Oh, my God.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
That's hilarious.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
Y' talking about.
Y'all just had a smallsleepover.
Yeah, we went to sleep.
Yeah, we just all slepttogether and then everybody wake
up at the crack of dawn.
All right, take their vitaminsand all they can.
I said, oh, what is that's like?
When did we?
Speaker 1 (09:55):
get.
Oh, I don't like this for us.
Well, sometime I do a little, Igotta have little things that
kind of remind me like I stillgot it, Like first of all, I
knew this was the episode, so Isquozed myself up in this
hoe-ass dress.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Listen, listen it ain't hoe-ass.
Look, I'm not squeezed in it,it's sex, sex.
I'm squozed.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
It's sex, sex.
I'm squozed.
That's beyond squeezed.
I'm when you I dressed andsitting a bit too tight, sitting
trying to hold my stomach thewhole time.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
But anyway, there's certain little things that I do
to kind of remind yourself whoyou are, and it's that one song
that come on.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
It's that one song they put you in there, like that
.
That makes you say I'm thatgirl but you know what the funny
part is?
You know how you ever dance andyou think you are killing it
and you look in the mirror.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Oh, and look crazy when you look in the mirror.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
You're like look crazy.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
I'm like, oh, I thought I was out here cold.
I'm in front of people lookingstupid.
I'll be at Ellery's chicken,probably looking real crazy,
because you thought you waskilling it.
I still had all of my moves.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Yes, oh, looking crazy, yes, but I got songs that
kind of bring that out of me.
Let's talk about a little oldschool music.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
Because you put that question out.
Oh damn, Let me look.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Hold on a second, I put a question on Facebook.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
I missed everything you got to pay attention, girl,
you got to pay attentionAttention.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
That was a bone crusher.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Yes, I'm outside of the club.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Pick up my phone.
She had to dig deep.
I was like Okay.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
So I put a post on Facebook and it just said when I
find it Okay.
What's the one song that, whenyou hear it, it makes you act a
fool and forget your age?
Speaker 3 (11:52):
So make sure y'all comment and let us know the one
song that makes you act a fooland forget your age.
When you say forget your age,first of all we old, it's
because you're going to hurt.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
Is that what you're saying?
You're still trying to dance.
You're trying to twerk.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
You're like, ooh Jesus, what?
The that's what you mean.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
Whatever it is, it makes you forget you 50
something.
Speaker 3 (12:17):
So you guys comment and let us know what that song
is.
So let me give you a couplecomments.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Actually, we got quite a few.
We got quite a few.
Let me give you a couplecomments of what some of them, I
think, had said the same thing.
Somebody said anythingludicrous, anything ludicrous
yeah, that's thug.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
Really, all you got to do is throw some bowls and
stuff to ludicrous.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Uh-huh.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
Okay, so that's Cash Money.
Somebody said pop that coochie.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Pop that, coochie Pop that coochie baby.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Anything.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Janet or Bobby Brown.
Someone said Someone saidthey're ashamed to say, but it's
Trick Daddy and Trina.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
You don't know them.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
Reptile like me.
Now, you know, madison, loveanything, trina I love Trina too
, If she hear anything Trina,she just loses her mind.
Blow the Whistle came up.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
Blow the Whistle.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
Blow, the Whistle came up.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
I don't know how many times that's a smooth song it
is.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
I don't see your age dancing off of that, like what
you doing to Blow the Whistlethat's going to make you hurt.
I mean, you know, but somepeople I've seen people like do
the Chicago Two Step and that'swhat in my mind with that song I
remember the people doing itand they be cold, but you don't
know, you don't know what memoryit triggers when they hear that
(13:44):
song.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
Cause I'ma tell you right now Put on.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
Nasty Girls by Vanity Fair.
Speaker 2 (13:52):
Look how I came out of it.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
Yeah, yeah, and he's heard some.
He's like who am I right now?
Who are you?
Speaker 2 (14:03):
You just went all the way back.
You called Vanity.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
Six, that was it.
And somebody said nasty girl byVanity Six.
See baby.
You put on Vanity Six right now.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
And we'd be waving, I know and we'd be waving and I'm
gonna be hurt tomorrow right upin here, but you think you
really killing it and you lookin the mirror and be like is
that?
What.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
I look like okay.
And then, as soon as I hearthat ding, ow ow, ow he loses my
shit, like right now.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
And for y'all that don't know that If we can not
make babies, maybe we can makethem.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
As soon as I hear that.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
And then you just say woo, because, baby, that would
make me forget my age and who Iam.
Because the way I be rolling,or think you rolling and be
looking like stone, look a wholestone in that mirror.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
And that's how I was, and I can't remember what song
it was.
I was in the mirror dancing andI think I was trying to put
five curls in my hair orsomething and I just had to look
up and saw myself Burn yourforehead Is somebody else in
this mirror.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
I know that it's not me.
It's not me anymore.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
I know that's not me.
Or when you think you're goinglow and you still standing up
straight.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
Yeah, no, no, no, no.
You are stuck in the block.
Drop down and get your eagle on.
I tore my meniscus.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
You tore your meniscus and.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
I tore my meniscus.
Yes, you have to do that inheels.
Oh, it don't matter.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
The meniscus is torn.
I don't know what.
I had on.
She's like I should have didnothing.
Yeah, yeah, girl.
Speaker 3 (15:42):
Is that woman tearing her nut trying to yeah Girl.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
That's when I'm going to know that's going to be the
end of your life.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
I knew when I looked in the mirror Because.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
I always dance, I always could dance, and you
can't tell me I'm still notkilling it.
Until I looked in the mirrorand I was like what?
You killing it in your way.
And other people will probablystill think you're killing it.
You know, you see them, aunties, that he's recording on video
At Ellery's.
At Ellery's.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
This was going around now.
That's why that line was solong, because we'd be in there
joking.
Yes, everybody, be out theredancing.
Oh my god, it's so great.
But I think it's young peoplein there trying to be funny,
like look at all the grand,don't, don't do us, don't do us.
I'm going to show y'allsomething they, but they be out
there giving it, they be.
We don't care who looking Ican't we all?
Speaker 1 (16:37):
I cannot look like that.
I refuse man the vanity in mewill not allow it.
Speaker 3 (16:42):
I'm going to be a liar.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
It will not allow it.
I cannot look like that.
No, everybody don't look baddon't look bad everybody having
a good time when I saw I'm surethey having a good time.
I'm not taking away from thegood time, but if you think you
still in there cutting up andyou know what?
Speaker 3 (16:59):
I went to another place called 1942 and some song
came on and this older man waslike hold on, he stood up and he
just started doing this.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Like a robot.
No, I didn't even know he waspopping.
I didn't he thought he waspopping.
He thought he was popping.
I didn't think he thought hewas, but he was like and what
Nothing moving.
Speaker 3 (17:16):
I'm like Lord Jesus.
I started filming.
I said, baby, you can't tell methat man don't think In his
mind he was, he thought he was,he was killing it, he was crazy
and he was just.
Oh, I was like I'm so proud ofyou, stephanie.
He didn't care.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
Stop, I can't take it .
Speaker 1 (17:36):
I love it Because I'd have seen it, oh yeah, and in
my mind I can still pop locksRight and that was cool.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
But my knees is popping.
Speaker 2 (17:43):
It's okay.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
Don't give up the dream, do you I?
Speaker 2 (17:48):
mean, but as long as the real key honestly is having
fun At, the real key honestly ishaving fun.
Speaker 3 (17:54):
At the end of the day , and that's what everybody else
can do.
You know what I?
Speaker 2 (17:56):
mean, I mean I wish they really wouldn't take so
much and make fun of them.
I know.
But it's still nice to be inenvironments where you can let
your hair down and just reallydance and have fun.
Because we did that.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
But it's time to start two-stepping y'all.
It's time to start two-stepping.
That ain't enough for me.
Just like that brother tryingto pop lock.
I have seen it many times.
I was like what is he doing?
Speaker 3 (18:22):
In your mind you are killing it, but you don't
realize you ain't moved yet.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
But he's doing like he said during the beginning.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
He's moving.
No, but he ain't moving, he'smoving.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
No, but he ain't moving.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
He's thinking moving I was like oh, I think you're
supposed to move, and thenthey're going to hit all that.
Speaker 3 (18:40):
Yeah, but he was just stuck in the block, he couldn't
get out.
I was like, oh, bless his heart.
You been going good.
I'm going to pump you up, sir,because I'm going to pump me up
even if I look crazy, because Idon't want someone to pump me up
.
Even if I look crazy, I lookcrazy.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
I saw myself and I said, oh Lord, please don't let
it be, it's official.
No, it's okay, I'm going to getit back, though I'm getting it
back, I got to when they saymotion is lotion.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
Yes, I'm going to keep working out y'all.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
I got to get back.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
I got to keep it, you so young boy it's coming, shoot
it's coming.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
But that's sexual too , though.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
What motion and lotion.
Well, they think in their mindoh they killing it.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
Come on, what you about to say that you killing it
, and they got some mood in.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Yeah, I'm tearing her up.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
Uh-huh, did you move yet, hey sir, when, when you
gonna start moving?
You don't feel that, you don'tfeel that.
Uh, yup, yup.
She said I don't know, justlike, um, yeah, I think, I think
.
I think yeah and it ain't noworse than us.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
I know you get two pumps on top.
Oh, that shit on top man theknee.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
That's where all my wait my leg don't open that wide
, no more.
What?
No, I let's roll up.
Speaker 3 (19:53):
Wait, my leg don't open that wide I didn't ask some
of those because they done gotwide, they done got wide.
My leg, don't open that wide, Ican't, I can't.
Speaker 1 (20:02):
I'm sorry, I can't straddle yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:05):
Just old love, baby Old love, what you say, just
roll over, just roll over.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Just roll over, just roll over, oh, just roll your
phone, dude, just roll.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
Oh bar, oh lord, but that's what I'm saying, you
think you still got it and withme being out of commission
really the last two years, andthen now with with chemo and my
joints and trying to get I'malmost getting that sex right
now, cause in my mind I'm, I'mgetting it.
Speaker 3 (20:33):
I'm still that bitch.
She's getting it in my mind,I'm getting it.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
I'm still that bitch, you still are and if he come
from behind I might fall asleep.
Hold on, oh, you're back therewhat's happening?
Back there, I'm sleepingflipping through the magazine.
Speaker 3 (20:49):
I'm telling you.
Speaker 1 (20:54):
I do.
I think this is stuff I thinkabout sometimes at night, like
do I still got it?
Speaker 3 (20:58):
you do.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
I'm sitting here looking at something on the
floor trying to decide if I'mgoing to pick it up.
Do I still got it?
I don't know if I can sit downto pick that up.
You're not going to tell me I'mnot that bitch anymore.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
I just think that you still have fear.
You still have fear becausewhen your feet were, you know
you really couldn't feel so.
You had to take care andtipping and moving over.
But you do.
It's like riding a bike.
You got to get the right person.
Yeah, and you'll be okay, it'sall going to be, the mind's
going to go there and it's goingto be right.
Speaker 1 (21:34):
Tell me no, you working out, and I don't care
what y'all say, I still like RKelly's music.
I've been playing him allmorning, you know.
Speaker 2 (21:41):
I don't like his actions.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
Yeah, but he has some jazz, but as an artist I like
his music.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
I've been playing him all morning Because I heard an
old song.
So Just keep doing what you'reexercising.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
You're doing all of the things you got to let the
right person roll up in.
Y'all you got it.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
You're going to be that sexy siren and you're going
to be like girl, I didn't knowI was getting any, because I'm
squozing this dress.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
You're squozing that dress that I was talking about
you got it yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
That lady ready I?
Speaker 1 (22:15):
don't think I got the moves.
No more.
Speaker 3 (22:17):
You don't, I don't know I'm trying to be that still
, you are never doubt that.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
Okay, I'm gonna put on erotic city or something,
because that that just breakseven if, even if I don't got it,
I think I do, I think I do thatand I'm telling you that, and
then the leg rod is not going toget into any situation and not
come out of it on top.
Speaker 3 (22:39):
That's just who you are, so you got it.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
How about that?
Absolutely yeah, I'm verycompetitive, Right?
So here you go.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
You ain't about to outdo me, sir.
Even in the band I'mcompetitive.
I know that's terrible to say,but I am.
You ain't about to outdo me,sir.
Even in the bed you hold on.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
I'm competitive.
I'm competitive.
I know that's terrible to say,but I am.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
I'm competitive in the bed I'm like oh you, oh,
you're showing out, you'reshowing out.
Oh, that's what we're doingOkay.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
I don't care if I throw this hip out right now.
Speaker 3 (23:10):
Hold on, you got it.
You're not going to break medown like that.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
What you look like when you come up.
I don't know if it's somethingdifferent.
I'm going to have to ice fortwo days.
Speaker 2 (23:18):
You got it.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
I'm going to have to ice for two days.
Girl Lord, have mercy.
What's your song, Cherise?
What's your song that brings?
Speaker 2 (23:27):
that Atomic Dog.
Really, you're just stomping itout.
It's just music.
No, it's just music.
Now, it's not just the stomping, because everybody's used to it
from the fraternities, but it'sjust something about the song
that just reminds me of acertain time in my life and I
just love the music.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
What was you doing at that time?
I probably got pregnant.
Speaker 3 (23:48):
I don't know, you know I think that song is sexy
because I love watching men step, but I love, but I love grown
ones.
As soon as I hear Tom McDowell,we like in a big setting where
I know it's grown people and I'mlike, please somebody be here
and I love when they start toLet there be a cue, let there be
a cue around.
That's sexy as hell to me.
Speaker 2 (24:06):
And even when the cap of me Come on.
Oh no, this it's so sexy to me.
Speaker 1 (24:10):
Any black man stepping that cap of stroll
makes me say girl, stop lookingat that young boy like that.
That's somebody's child.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
No, if they grown man , they're doing it wrong, I know
, but that's somebody's baby helook like he a baby, but the way
they do that stroll that shit'sso sexy, that's sexy as hell.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
And I don't remember them being sexy like that in
college.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
Now the cues always were I just liked the energy and
everything.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
Because it was something about them just being
huh huh, huh, and it reminded meof Kyle Blackness.
I love that, I love it, butmaybe because we didn't have a
lot of Kappas on the yard youknow, as they say, back then On
the yard we had a lot of alphasand whatever and uh whatever,
but it's something now I have.
Okay, hopefully eric brent doesnot watch this right now, please
(24:56):
don't watch my clients but Ilove to watch when uh, because
even grown men, because he's a,he's an omega and um, he does a
lot of different events and allthat kind of stuff, and I
remember I did a a trip for himand and some of his friends and
I guess I hadn't seen.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
Was that the trip where the people were trying to
kill me?
Speaker 1 (25:17):
Yeah, but you weren't on this one.
Oh, okay.
But you weren't on this one Ihadn't been around like grown
fraternity men in a long time.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
That's what I love, but I just hadn't seen it.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
And then I remember going oh, y'all still do that I
mean, I knew that young kids didit I knew that young kids did
but yeah, but I love to watchthem and when they do that
little, that little neck roll,I'll be like, okay, stop looking
at folks like this it don'tmatter if he a big boy, little
boy, it's just cold.
Oh, I, I love it.
I was like oh, so yeah, thatatomic dog, I try to that bring
(25:51):
a mind.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
I try to look away that bring them out I don't look
where I look, because I'mtalking about the grown men.
Speaker 1 (25:59):
Yeah, I'm talking about the grown men too.
I'll be like uh-uh, that's my.
I'm like dude where were y'allat?
Stop looking at folks like that, because I love when that song
it's just, it's just exciting,it's just fun.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
Yeah, what's the?
Speaker 1 (26:11):
nasty girl song though that brings out that in a
hoe in Charisse.
What's the song?
What's the song?
Because we all got one.
That song you hear in me going,I can't think of it.
I was like what's that song,charisse?
Speaker 3 (26:30):
I'm sure I have songs , I don't know, we both said mmm
, we did at the same time theydid yeah, that's why we said the
same thing.
Speaker 2 (26:44):
So so I do like.
One of my favorites is Till theCops, oh yeah, okay.
Speaker 3 (26:49):
So that's what I'm saying, like when you're trying
to get in the mood back in theday you know we used to put on
music.
Speaker 1 (26:55):
Oh yeah, put on the boom box, put the tape in.
Had a little tape Like whatlittle sixes got you ready for
your company?
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Prince of Dora.
I love that song.
That song just will mentallytake me there.
I think that's so beautiful.
Speaker 1 (27:07):
I got a couple well, old, old, old, old school.
This is 70s or whatever.
Even though I was a child, Ithink it was just hearing these
songs because my mother didn'tplay them.
Al Green, um, living for thelove, oh yeah, in between, oh
yeah, yeah, I remember that morewas
Speaker 3 (27:28):
at the Isley's.
No, that was between the sheetsis Isley's.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
Yeah, yeah and then I love Zoom.
Oh yeah, I love, zoom, mm-hmm,yeah, and then there was one
more, oh, ltd.
Speaker 3 (27:42):
Mm-hmm.
Oh yes, now, that's still greatsex music, that's yeah.
Speaker 2 (27:48):
That's sex music.
That's like my weddingreception.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
It's on my playlist from-.
Okay, yeah, wedding that I planthat's sex music.
Speaker 2 (27:54):
I'm like what is this future?
Speaker 1 (27:56):
I'm manifesting, go manifest it.
We're going to be my wedding.
We're going to just I don'twant to be a bridesmaid though
Me either.
I will come to the wedding.
Well, really no.
No, what I always said I don'twant to be at nobody's wedding.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
No, I'm not doing that.
Speaker 3 (28:12):
Okay, because.
I have way too, I'm in arelationship and I'm like I'm
having a party and whoever'sgoing to show up, that's who's
meant to be there and that'swho's at the wedding.
Speaker 1 (28:21):
Oh nice, yeah, just tell me where to bring the gift.
I'm going to have a little tagon Don't have me in these
dresses and stuff, yeah becauseI haven't had way too many.
My party be good, I don't know.
I just think if you get to acertain age, it's like, yeah,
I've been there, done that.
Yeah, let's just applaud you.
Speaker 3 (28:39):
We come and we dance, we're going to eat, drink,
dance and celebrate we gotmarried and just yeah, that's
what we do.
Speaker 1 (28:50):
Now I would love to do, I do want to say, if I ever
get married again, I do want todo the dress shopping, do you?
I do?
I want to say yes to the dressmoment.
Speaker 3 (29:00):
But you're not going to actually wear it.
No, I'm going to wear the dress, but I'm not having bridesmaids
.
Speaker 1 (29:05):
I'm not doing none of that, and I'm not wearing a
dress.
Speaker 3 (29:07):
I always want a jumpsuit.
Oh no, I just want to go.
Speaker 1 (29:10):
I mean, even if it's a jumpsuit.
You know I want to.
Speaker 2 (29:18):
You are not going to do all that.
I don't even know why you justdid.
I know my wedding song.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
I'll be like, yep, that's it right, there, I got my
wedding song you want to try iton?
Speaker 1 (29:25):
No, that's the one, Because you know I hate trying
on clothes.
Speaker 3 (29:28):
She just want to look at it.
I'll come back here.
I can get fitted later.
Speaker 1 (29:39):
Yeah, work that and we'll try it later.
But I do want the experience ofshopping for a dress, but I
don't want to do the whole bridespace thing, so my wedding song
when I'm walking down the aisle.
Okay, what's the song?
Speaker 3 (29:45):
At last with my cane.
My love's coming along.
Girl, you heard Baby last.
So much Cause I don't know whenit's gonna happen for me.
Shit, my love Baby.
Speaker 1 (30:02):
We might have to push you down.
Gonna, push that lady down.
Gonna, push you down now.
Oh, stephanie, it's okay.
Speaker 3 (30:11):
It's gonna happen.
Speaker 1 (30:12):
You keep manifesting girl.
I'm gonna manifest it in anaudience.
I'm just sitting in theaudience, y'all ain't got a
whole song.
I'm going to manifest it in anaudience.
I'm just sitting in theaudience, you ain't got a whole
song.
She like I mean she had hersensual song.
Speaker 3 (30:26):
Oh, you did.
Speaker 2 (30:26):
You did yeah, because that's her whole song.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
Yeah, that song is just.
That's just bring it out of me.
Speaker 3 (30:33):
I'll tell you You're a sensual lover.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
You know, you ain't got that one that just triggers
something.
Tell you, you're a sensuallover.
I, you know, ain't got that onethat just triggers something in
you.
Make you forget how old youwere, make you think you still?
Got good knees.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
Till the cops come knocking at Remix Chef's kiss
Gosh, Ooh okay.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
I mean I might you know I don't do good with on the
spot stuff you got to processthings.
You got to think I got aprocess thing, I got a thing.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
I got such a long list because I love music.
I love old school music.
I love old school music.
I got a bomb old schoolplaylist.
Speaker 3 (31:04):
I love all my old school, you know.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
I'm a Confunction LTD Lakeside.
Speaker 2 (31:09):
Which is so funny they coming in concert again.
I know, oh they are.
Speaker 1 (31:18):
Because I was just going to say I haven't heard of
their concert this year.
I think Stockbridge it might bethey're doing something.
Do you remember when we went tothe Lakeside concert and for a
minute the lead singer ofLakeside was replaced with the
young dude and he dressed as apirate?
Yes, I was like what is goingon?
I know, but everybody's likehey pirate, hey pirate.
That ain't the old man that'ssupposed to be.
Speaker 2 (31:38):
That ain't the old man that would leave Lakeside.
Speaker 1 (31:41):
I think everybody want that.
Fire honey, we was all coming.
Speaker 2 (31:43):
Oh, oh oh, oh y'all was gonna be walking around
Another patch on right, we sawthose honey.
Speaker 1 (31:52):
Ahoy there, ahoy, ahoy there.
I was like.
Yes, we love our old schoolconcerts and our old school
music, but yeah, those are songsthat kind of trigger make me
think I still got it.
I still got it.
I almost feel like the Tin manand the Wiz Aw To my slice of
(32:12):
oil.
Speaker 3 (32:13):
You're just loyal to me.
What'd you say?
Speaker 1 (32:15):
My stuff ain't cracking Motion is lotion honey.
Speaker 2 (32:18):
I got to get moving.
Speaker 1 (32:19):
I got to get moving.
Speaker 2 (32:20):
But you've been doing all of the things though.
I really are doing all of thethings I'm impatient.
Speaker 1 (32:24):
You know I'm all right now you want to nap.
I want to start working out andI'm slim and fit tomorrow.
You know I want to startworking out.
My knees feel good and you knowlike this is taking too long
and you know you're younger, youyou healed so much faster and
all that kind of stuff too, andit's like but this is part of
the realization like I am god no, live y'all life, but you know
(32:45):
what you keep saying.
Speaker 2 (32:46):
Okay, okay, but no, listen to me.
You keep saying that, right,but you're still younger.
I'm really sitting here lookingat us and she squalls in this
dress.
Okay, you can squeeze in it,but you in it and you look good
in it.
And I remember seeing women ourage.
Speaker 1 (33:06):
We see them every day .
Speaker 2 (33:08):
Well, I don't want to talk about nobody right now.
So I remember being younger,seeing people our age, and I'm
not trying to be smart, buttheir boobs sat all the way down
here.
The bras was crazy.
Still probably is the weightfrom just over the.
That's why I said you'reworking out, but you know, over
the years of just not doinganything like the age of the
(33:32):
same 50, I think the 50s we saw.
Speaker 1 (33:34):
Okay, we have push-up bras now my titties still hang
low.
Speaker 2 (33:38):
But even today, where we are, today, people, there
are still people our age.
We look damn great yeah.
Speaker 3 (33:47):
I agree, I think we do so.
Speaker 2 (33:48):
I'm just saying I didn't say I wasn't fine.
Speaker 3 (33:52):
I didn't say and I didn't say, you didn't say that
but what?
Speaker 2 (33:56):
I'm just saying is, I think, the terminology for me
you're not old, you're not old,you are fine.
You just went through a stagewhere you actually had cancer
and you had to do things andhave things in your body that
you didn't care for, and theydid some things different before
(34:17):
that happened, to be honest youdon't look like somebody you do
not look like somebody who wentthrough two years, or whatever,
of chemotherapy.
You look great.
You didn't lose weight.
Your, your skin is stillamazing.
You know what I mean you knowwhat I mean so everything about
(34:44):
Legra is still great.
You know what I mean and asyour friend friends, I am
telling you you look amazing, sodon't you might as well.
Where's nasty girls?
Speaker 1 (34:55):
put nasty girls on for me right now.
But you're not.
But look, I just don't.
Y'all might have been where'sNasty Girls?
Speaker 2 (34:58):
Put Nasty Girls on for me right now, you know, but
you're not.
We're not getting older, you'renot.
But look, we're still alive.
Speaker 1 (35:02):
I just don't Y'all know that.
You know, Sharice ain't goingto never get older.
Speaker 2 (35:04):
I don't accept.
No, I don't accept theterminology, I don't accept
things, that people I'm notrunning away from that because
people say you ought to be gladyou're here for another day.
Speaker 3 (35:16):
It's a privilege, yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:17):
I'm glad and all of that stuff.
Speaker 3 (35:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:20):
We're good with where we are right, but for me we're
better than most.
When I say better than most, Imean we're doing a lot, we're
active.
We actually travel from May.
We won't stop till October.
I went to Peru no-transcript,far away, all sides for the rest
(36:02):
of your life.
Speaker 3 (36:03):
Manifest me girl.
Speaker 2 (36:05):
You just got to get it in your brain that you're
good and you're there.
But you know you're not.
You're not old, You're not old.
We're going to progress in age.
That's just going to happen andwe're going to appreciate it.
But we're going to doeverything we can do to keep our
health, wealth, vitality andeverything and just be good
(36:26):
until we can't anymore.
And we still can.
So I don't accept any of thosethings until I really can and
that's a long time.
Speaker 3 (36:33):
Yeah, that's all it's way down the road.
Speaker 1 (36:35):
Well, ok let's say a prayer with our vaginas right
now too.
Speaker 3 (36:41):
Don't let her get old , be hunching and I want to.
Speaker 2 (36:47):
Amen.
Speaker 3 (36:48):
And you know what I've recently learned.
I had just recently found outthat the desire for sex and
intimacy never goes away.
It don't, I thought, and itcame from a my 80.
My aunt at the time was like 8085 and she was like contrary to
what people believe, she's likeI still want to have relations.
And I said what did she call it?
(37:09):
Relations, yeah, relations,okay.
And she said the desire nevergoes away, and I don't know for
whatever reason.
I just thought when people age,they just didn't think about
her or want it and she was likeno, it don't go nowhere.
She said it don't go nowhere.
She said no.
She said I might need somecream to help me out down there.
She said but I still want tohunch.
And I said oh, so it just doesnot go anywhere.
(37:30):
I'm trying to hunch over.
Speaker 2 (37:31):
She and her 90s still want to the general public
think, like when they thinkabout us and our age group, they
literally think you knowyounger people actually.
That's why they be like thatgrandma, she need to go sit down
.
I'm arguing.
Speaker 3 (37:44):
Because in their minds they think you're too old,
Because I thought that when Iwas, I always thought that too.
And it was.
Speaker 1 (37:48):
I was like I wonder if, when I'm about 88, 95 and
nasty girls come on, oh, yougoing to dance when I'm about 88
, 95 years old, if I'm gonna getup Grandma's on Instagram, me
getting the day be on.
Speaker 3 (38:09):
That came moving in.
Speaker 1 (38:14):
Still gonna get it.
I'm gonna go and my teeth gonnafall out and everything, don't
wonder if you go back gonna hate.
She missed this episode, y'allshe is we love you girl, I know
she'll what'd you?
Say what'd you say, she wouldprobably wherever I'm somewhere,
huh, say she hunting yeah, wehate I'm hating right now, I'm
(38:35):
low, I'm low.
Congratulating right now, kittygirl I'm hating, but get
something for me.
This is.
Speaker 2 (38:40):
Lurie, y'all the Timeless and Unfiltered.
This is Stephanie, this isSharice and we are missing
Evania.
Speaker 1 (38:45):
But we still spilling that tea on Midlife.
Speaker 2 (38:48):
One laugh at a time.
Speaker 1 (38:50):
See y'all next week.
Y'all Thanks for watching, guys.
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