Stop ignoring your spouse at lifestyle events

Stop ignoring your spouse at lifestyle events

We see a lot of times where one half of the spouse is so into the lifestyle they forget they have a spouse with them and focus all their attention on the new friends.  We want to remind everyone that this can be a very dangerous route and you should never ignore or forget that your spouse is with you.

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Transcript

00:00:00:00 – 00:00:15:22
Tom
Hey, everyone. We’re Tom and Bonnie, and we got Bama here. Bama wants her stuffed animal. Hold on. Right here. Let me get her. If you’re watching this on YouTube, this is Bama. Bama bear right now.

00:00:15:24 – 00:00:18:04
Bunny
She doesn’t know that we have to work.

00:00:18:07 – 00:00:49:11
Tom
So we’re Tom and Bonnie from Tom and Buncombe. And if you are interested in pineapple topics, check us out on YouTube and on podcast on all the major podcast sites. Tom and Bonnie. And if you can, follow us on Twitter, Instagram, Tom and Bonnie and we work for Tom’s troops.com cheerleader and adult lifestyle travel to destinations all around the world with cruises, resorts and events.

00:00:49:14 – 00:01:08:18
Tom
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00:01:08:23 – 00:01:16:16
Bunny
And even if, you look at and you say, oh, well, they don’t have a group that week, I can still book you. Yes. If it’s available online, I can book it for you.

00:01:16:16 – 00:01:28:21
Tom
Yep. We can book hedonism all year long and we also book Desire and Temptation, as well as The Bluest blessed Desire and Temptation Cruises. Yes. And Nadia Nolan’s.

00:01:28:24 – 00:01:31:13
Bunny
Of course. And now splash parties.

00:01:31:16 – 00:01:37:00
Tom
And splash parties. So today’s topic is.

00:01:37:02 – 00:01:38:21
Bunny
Help you stay out of the doghouse?

00:01:38:21 – 00:01:47:04
Tom
Yeah, stay out of the doghouse because, Bunny, she brought this up a couple weeks ago.

00:01:47:07 – 00:01:54:04
Bunny
I brought it up and several months ago when I was first approached. I mean, we’re approached a lot with different things.

00:01:54:04 – 00:02:01:09
Tom
So let’s give the scenario what you’re up. I mean, what we’re saying is neglect.

00:02:01:11 – 00:02:11:07
Bunny
Yeah. Yeah, it is neglect on your spouse. Yeah. So basically what’s have basically.

00:02:11:09 – 00:02:13:12
Tom
Well what’s what’s written down up here.

00:02:13:12 – 00:02:20:18
Bunny
Let’s just start when you’re getting ready to go on lifetime vacation, to one of the great events.

00:02:20:18 – 00:02:21:05
Tom
The club.

00:02:21:05 – 00:02:36:22
Bunny
Even a club or a night out with another couple or a single, you want to talk about possibilities of scenarios, so you want to know where your partner is in line with you.

00:02:36:22 – 00:02:38:13
Tom
And where your boundaries are.

00:02:38:17 – 00:02:43:01
Bunny
You don’t want to be ten steps ahead of your partner.

00:02:43:03 – 00:02:46:24
Tom
And you got to make sure that you both like without.

00:02:46:24 – 00:02:48:00
Bunny
Your partner knowing.

00:02:48:02 – 00:03:24:21
Tom
Without your partner know. Yeah. Oh, our previous video, we talked about our boundaries and, we started off with a book of rules of what we couldn’t do. And then we created boundaries based on our actual real life experiences and activities because we talked about each scenario. Even still today, 20 some years later, almost 30 years later, we talk about every scenario as if it were a first time scenario.

00:03:24:21 – 00:03:57:15
Tom
And we want to know what we