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February 18, 2025 55 mins

🤣 🤣  Get ready to laugh your way through relationship real talk! 

In this episode, we're joined by the hilarious duo from the "We're Not Fine" podcast - relationship therapist Dr. Talia Jackson and Doug Jensen - for an unfiltered discussion about those "Is this normal?" relationship questions.

Shanenn, Talia, and Doug dive into:

  • The great memorabilia debate: Is it okay to keep items from past relationships?
  • The Instagram thirst trap dilemma: When does looking become liking?
  • The workplace flirting fear: Where's the line between friendly and flirty?

Don't Miss Moments:

  • "We're all human. And one of the things I think we don't do well in our culture is allow humanness." - on relationship reality checks
  • "If you can't have fun and make light sometimes about serious things, you know, we just gotta lighten the mood sometimes." - on keeping perspective
  • The hilarious algorithm incident that has Doug mysteriously following muscular men cooking with pugs 🐶

Golden Nuggets: 

💎 Transparency and trust are more important than trying to protect your partner from difficult truths 

💎 Every relationship needs its own unique agreements about boundaries 

💎 Growth in relationships often means moving from insecurity to security through open communication 

💎 Sometimes the hardest conversations are the most important ones to have

Action Items from the Episode:

  • Have an open discussion with your partner about relationship boundaries and agreements
  • Practice distinguishing between secrecy and privacy in your relationship
  • Consider whether your social media behavior aligns with your relationship values
  • Remember that what works for one couple might not work for another

About Our Guests

Dr. Talia Jackson and Doug Jensen host the "We're Not Fine" podcast where they talk about relationships with no holds barred. Their combined expertise in relationship therapy and real-world experience brings both professional insight and practical wisdom to relationship discussions.

Find the Guests:

  • Instagram: @DouglaslJensen and @DrTaliaJackson
  • Podcast: We're Not Fine
  • Website: werenotfine.com
  • YouTube: We're Not Fine
  • TikTok: @werenotfine

Perfect for listeners who:

  • Want honest, unfiltered relationship advice
  • Need a good laugh while tackling serious topics
  • Are curious about what's "normal" in relationships
  • Want to build healthier relationship boundaries
  • Enjoy real talk about modern relationship challenges

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