Ever noticed how some people walk into a room and instantly change the atmosphere? Before they speak a word, you feel something—either drawn in by their magnetic presence or instinctively pulling back. That invisible force field is what Napoleon Hill called your "aura," and it's broadcasting your internal state to everyone you meet.
Your aura isn't just mystical concept—it's a powerful force determining your success. Throughout this episode, we dive deep into how your energetic broadcast affects everything from job interviews to sales meetings and relationships. Through personal stories and client examples, I share how my own frequency shift transformed my results in corporate sales, and how subtle energy adjustments helped a struggling salesperson overcome their desperation broadcast that was repelling potential clients.
The most powerful insight? Success doesn't come from chasing harder but from aligning deeper. When you operate from worthiness rather than lack, you naturally attract opportunities instead of pushing for them. I offer five practical steps to train your aura daily: morning gratitude resets, emotionally-charged affirmations, success visualization, careful input management, and conscious anchoring before important moments. This isn't occasional work—it's about shifting your baseline frequency through consistent practice. As Napoleon Hill taught, "No one can attract riches to themselves until they first convince their own mind that they are worthy of those riches." Where might you be playing small because you don't believe you deserve more? Transform your energy signature with our five-minute daily practice, and watch how life responds to your new broadcast. Ready to shift your signal and transform your life? Listen now and take the challenge to consciously train your aura this week.
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Episode Transcript
Welcome to Transformative Living Radio,
where we explore the power ofintentional change for personal
growth and fulfillment.
I'm Andre Flax, your host andcertified life and leadership
coach.
Have you ever noticed that somepeople can walk into a room and
instantly change the atmosphere?
I mean, before they even opentheir mouth, you feel something.
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You either lean in because theirpresence is so magnetic, or you
pull back because somethingabout their energy doesn't sit
right.
Now that's not coincidental.
That's aura.
Napoleon Hill, one of thegreatest teachers of personal
success, said, every person hasan aura, an unseen energy that
precedes them.
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It either attracts or repels.
So let me ask you, what is youraura saying before you even
speak?
Is it saying confidence,worthiness, and expectancy?
Or is it whispering doubt, fear,and insecurity?
In today's episode, we want toexplore how to train your inner
frequency to attract success.
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Not by chasing harder, not byforcing outcomes, but by
aligning who you are on theinside with what you want on the
outside.
So if you're ready to stoppushing and start attracting, if
you're ready to tune your innersignal to abundance, confidence,
and worthiness, then grab a pinand a pad.
And if you're ready, let'sbegin.
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Hello and welcome back toanother empowering episode of
Transformative Living Radio.
I'm Andre Flax, your host andcertified life and leadership
coach.
Have you ever been in asituation where a person walks
into a room and it changes theatmosphere?
I mean, before they even opentheir mouth, you feel something.
You either lean in because theirpresence is so magnetic, or you
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pull back because somethingabout their energy doesn't sit
right with you.
Now that was no coincidence.
That's what Napoleon Hill calledaura.
I remember when I first startedcorporate sales.
I thought success came frommemorizing my pitch, knowing my
product inside out, and hustlingharder than everyone else.
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But during that time I noticedsomething.
Two people could say the sameexact words, yet one would win
the deal and the other wouldn't.
Why?
Their aura.
Napoleon Hill put it this way.
He said, quote, your aura isyour broadcast.
It speaks louder than yourvoice.
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End quote.
I remember walking into earlyinterviews with a frequency of
insecurity that said, Do Ireally belong here?
Guess what?
The interviewers felt thatinsecurity and I didn't get
those jobs.
But when I walked in one dayowning my own story, the energy
shift.
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My aura got me the role beforemy resume did.
I had a coaching client who wasreally good at sales, but he
found himself consistentlylosing deals.
The energy he emitted was one ofdesperation.
But once we shifted his stateand coached him to breathe and
ground himself before meetings,he started attracting deals he
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never thought possible.
So let me ask you, what's thesignal you're sending before you
even speak?
As Hill reminds us, thedominating thoughts of our mind
give color to our aura.
Now we all chase things, wechase promotions, we chase
validations, and we chasesuccess.
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But here's the truth chasingcomes from lack.
And as Napoleon Hill says,nature abhors a vacuum, but it
will not fill a vessel that isalready occupied with fear.
That's why chasing repels.
People feel your desperation.
But residence, alignment, that'swhat attracts.
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Let me give you an example.
Earlier in my sales career, Iwould walk into sales
presentations desperate to closethe deal, and those situations
wouldn't go well.
But when I shifted my aura to,I'm here to serve, I'm here to
add value, I'm here to connect,my frequency changed, and
suddenly my clients would leanin.
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Napoleon Hill says it this wayquote, when you vibrate with
confidence and faith, the rightpeople and the right opportunity
are drawn to you withoutresistance.
End quote.
Remember, scarcity languagebroadcasts fear.
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Abundant language broadcastsconfidence.
Your words tune your aura.
This is why your baselinefrequency matters.
You see, anyone can feel goodafter a good motivational video
or working out.
But the real question is, what'syour baseline?
What's your everyday frequency?
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You see, your frequency or aurais not shaped by what you do
occasionally, it is shaped bythe repeated thoughts you
maintain on a habitual basis.
So how do we train our aura orour frequency to attract
success?
Well, the answer to thatquestion is we must condition it
daily.
Napoleon Hill said, quote, Wemust train our aura like an
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athlete trains his body.
Your aura is like a muscle.
It strengthens with use orweakens with neglect.
So let me give you fivepractical steps that you can
take to start training youraura.
Step number one is calledmorning resets.
Start the day with gratitude.
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You see, gratitude raises yourfrequency faster than anything
else.
So in the morning, write downthree things that you're most
grateful for.
Now step number two is to affirmwith feeling or emotion.
What I mean by that isaffirmations by themselves are
just words.
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But as Napoleon Hill said, athought mixed with emotion
becomes magnetized.
So don't just say affirmations,say them with emotion.
Step number three isvisualization.
Rehearse success in your mind sowhen it arrives, it feels
natural.
Step number four is to guardyour inputs.
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The voices you listen to coloryour aura, so choose wisely the
voices you let in.
Step number five is to anchor intough moments.
Before big meetings ordecisions, pause and ask, What
signal do I want to send?
This simple reset aligns youraura.
Now, this may be the mostpowerful lesson you get from
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this episode.
And that is, you must believeyou deserve success.
You see, without a trueconviction of worthiness, your
aura will sabotage your successor any other positive desire you
have.
Hill says, no one can attractriches to themselves until they
first convince their own mindthat they are worthy of those
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riches.
Now that's worth repeatingagain.
No one can attract riches tothemselves until they first
convince their own mind thatthey are worthy of those riches.
I had a woman come to me forcoaching after she landed her
dream job.
However, she almost lost thatjob because she told herself, I
didn't belong here.
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Her aura was emitting a sense ofinsecurity.
But when we shifted her innerdialogue to I am worthy and I
belong, everything changed.
Her boss began to entrust herwith more responsibility and she
became successful in her role.
So let me ask you, where in yourlife are you playing small
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because you don't believe youdeserve more?
That's the leak in your aura.
You see, you and I arebroadcasting every single day.
Your aura is either attractingor repelling.
As Napoleon Hill said, quote,you are a magnet and you attract
what you are in harmony with.
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So here's my challenge to youthis week.
Spend five minutes a daytraining your aura.
That could be journaling,prayer, affirmations, or
visualization.
Do whatever tunes your frequencyand watch what shows up.
Watch which doors open and watchhow life responds to your
broadcast.
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Because success doesn't comefrom chasing harder, it comes
from aligning deeper.
And when you shift your signal,you shift your life.
Well, that's our show for today.
We hope that you found thisepisode both insightful and
inspiring.
Join us each week for practicaltips, actionable insights, and
inspiring stories to help youtransform your life.
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