You Are Not Waiting For Destiny; Destiny Is Waiting For You

What if destiny isn’t a fixed finish line but a series of doorways you can open on purpose? We take you into a practical, grounded exploration of how identity, assumption, and a redefined “normal” quietly write your future—and how to reclaim authorship right now.

We begin by reframing destiny, building on Neville’s core insight that consciousness is the only reality. From there, we unpack the idea of successive destinies: every breakthrough, lesson, and season becomes the launch pad for the next chapter. You’ll hear why repeating patterns aren’t proof of a fixed fate but a signal of an inner state you can upgrade. We connect the dots between the stories you tell about yourself, the expectations you carry as “normal,” and the results that keep showing up in your career, relationships, and wellbeing.

Then we get tactical. We share five tools to shift from wishing to shaping: listen for the whisper of desire, rewrite your self-story with aligned affirmations, practice assumption by feeling the wish fulfilled, upgrade your default normal, and move as the future you through embodied choices. These aren’t gimmicks. They’re a coherent method for aligning thought, feeling, and action so your outer world reflects your inner stance. Along the way, we highlight real-life moments—like the job you “unexpectedly” landed or the relationship that arrived right on time—to show how quiet inner agreement becomes visible outcomes.

By the end, you’ll have a clear path to move from passive hope to deliberate creation. Instead of waiting for destiny to arrive, you’ll cultivate the identity that calls it forward. 

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Episode Transcript

SPEAKER_01 (01:35):
Welcome to Transformative Living Radio,
where we explore the power ofintentional change for personal
growth and fulfillment.
I'm Andre Flax, your host andcertified life and leadership
coach.
Every one of us reaches a momentwhere we feel that quiet nudge,
that sense that life is callingus higher.

(01:56):
Not with fireworks, but with thewhisper that says, there's more
in you than you're living rightnow.
And here's the truth that mostpeople never hear.
Your destiny isn't waitingsomewhere out there.
It's being shaped right now bythe thoughts you entertain and
the identity you choose toaccept.

(02:17):
So in today's episode, we'repulling back the curtain on
personal destiny, how it forms,how it shifts, and how you can
step into the version ofyourself you've always felt was
possible.
So if you've ever wondered whylife moves the way it does, or
how to finally direct it towardswhat you truly desire, this is

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your moment.
Because your destiny isn'twritten by chance, it's written
by the stories you choose tobelieve about yourself.
So grab a pen and a pad, and ifyou're ready, let's begin.
Hello and welcome to anotherempowering episode of
Transformative Living Radio.

(02:59):
I'm Andre Flax, your host andcertified life and leadership
coach.
You know, most people talk aboutdestiny like it's a distant
appointment on a calendar.
Something set in stone longbefore we were born.
But Neville Godd flips thatwhole idea upside down.
He says, Your destiny is thatwhich you must inevitably

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experience.
Now that sounds big, right?
But then he adds something evenmore powerful to that statement.
He says, really, it's aninfinite number of individual
destinies, each of which, whenattained, is the starting point
for a new destiny.
In other words, you're notliving one destiny, you're

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living an unfolding series ofthem.
Every season is a doorway, everyrealization is a launch pad,
every success, every lesson,every moment of awakening
becomes the starting point forwhere you go next.
You see, your destiny isn't onepath, it's an evolution.
And the engine behind theevolution, your consciousness,

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what you think, what you acceptis true, what you believe about
yourself and your world.
Neville says, quote,consciousness is the only
reality, end quote.
Meaning that your outer world isthe all is only a reflection of
what's going on inside of you.
So your destiny isn't chasingyou, your destiny is expressing

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you.
Your destiny is shaped by theway you see yourself when no one
else is watching.
This is why some people repeatthe same patterns for years.
Not because destiny is fixed,but because their consciousness
hasn't shifted.
Once the inner changes, theouter must follow.

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Neville writes, quote, You arecreating your destiny every
moment, whether you know it ornot.
End quote.
Now I want you to let that sinkin for a moment.
We are creating our destiniesevery moment, whether we know it
or not.
Every assumption we hold, everystory we repeat in our mind, and

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every identity we step into isshaping what comes next in our
experience.
Now, the beautiful part, Nevillereminds us, is that much of what
is good and wonderful has comeinto our lives without us even
realizing we created it.
Yeah, let me say that again.

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Much of what is good andwonderful has come into our
lives without us even realizingwe created it.
Think about the job you didn'tthink you were going to land,
but somehow you landed it.
Or that relationship that showedup right when you needed it.
Or maybe the moment ofbreakthrough that you didn't see

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coming.
You created that.
Not through force, but throughthe quiet inner agreement you
made with yourself.
And when you begin to understandthat you're not just
experiencing life, butgenerating it, you become a
sharper observer of your innerworld.
You start noticing the patternsyou've accepted, the beliefs you

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inherited, the possibilitiesyou've ignored, and the quiet
desires you've been pushingaside.
This is where life gets excitingbecause awareness is
empowerment.
Once you see how destiny isshaped, you can begin to shape
it on purpose.
Neville states, quote,regardless of the occasional

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experiences, to the contrary,it's your destiny to rise to
higher and higher states ofconsciousness.
I love that statement because itmeans your growth isn't a
gamble, it's your birthright.
Even when life feels heavy, evenwhen you face setbacks, even
when your past tries to speaklouder than your future, there

(07:07):
is something in you that refusesto stay the same.
Something in you that is alwaystrying to climb.
You see, your destiny isn't afixed outcome.
It's an outward movement builtinto your design.
You were created to expand, togrow, to stretch, to manifest
more of life's possibilities.

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You are destined to see more, tobecome more, to create more.
And the more aware you become ofyour own inner power, the more
the world around you will beginto reshape itself to match the
person you are becoming.
And here's how Neville bringsthis concept of destiny home.

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He states, quote, you aredestined to reach the point
where you realize that throughyour own desire you can
consciously create yoursuccessive destinies.
End quote.

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Desire becomes your compass,assumption becomes your
paintbrush, your inner worldbecomes your workshop.
Destiny stops being an accidentand becomes a choice.
This is where conscious creationbegins.
So let me give you fivepractical tools to help you
discover your true destiny.

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Tool number one is to listen forthe whisper of desire.
You see, destiny begins wheredesire speaks.
Not the loud ones, the quietones, the ones that feel like
home.
Ask yourself, what keeps callingme?
Even when I ignore it.
You see, your destiny, your truedestiny, is already trying to

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introduce itself.
Tool number two is rewrite thestory you tell about yourself.
You see, your identitydetermines your direction.
If you see yourself as limited,you will repeat limited
experiences.
So take five minutes each dayand affirm the identity of the

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person you're becoming.
Here are some affirmations thatyou could use.
Affirmations like, I am worthyof growth, I am capable of more,
I am creating my life onpurpose.
You see, the story you tellabout yourself becomes your
steering wheel.
Tool number three is practiceassumption, which is to feel the

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end before it arrives.
Nebulgadar's most famousteaching is assume the feeling
of the wish fulfilled.
It means to close your eyes andto imagine your desired destiny
already real.
When you close your eyes, youwant to feel it.
You want to see it and own itinternally.
When you do this, yourconsciousness will move

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mountains to make it true.
Now, tool number four is tonotice what you accept as
normal.
You see, your life alwaysconforms to your inner sense of
normal.
If struggle feels normal to you,you will continue to struggle.
If confidence feels normal, youwill rise.
If success feels normal,opportunities will meet you

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halfway.
You see, your destiny is builton what you quietly accept.
If you shift your normal, youwill shift your life.
Now, tool number five is to moveas the future you.
Let me say that again.
It's to move or to act as thefuture you.
This is embodiment.

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Ask yourself this.
How would the version of me whoalready lives my destiny think,
move, and decide?
Then begin acting from thatplace.
When your actions upgrade, yourdestiny upgrades with it.
Now, as we wrap up this episode,I want you to sit with this
thought.

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You are not waiting for destiny.
Destiny has been waiting foryou.
Waiting for you to awaken, toremember, to choose the story
you want your life to tell.
Everything you desire, everyversion of yourself you've
glimpsed, every dream that hastugged at your heart, all of it

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is a part of the infinite chainof destinies unfolding from
within you.
You're not chasing a future,you're revealing one.
Well, that's our show for today.
We hope that you found thisepisode both insightful and
inspiring.
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Standing in Your Own Authorityby using the link in today's
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