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Speaker 1 (00:17):
All right, what's
cracking y'all?
It's Trent at the Trophy Squadcoming back at y'all with
something new.
We're trying somethingdifferent today.
It's your boy, ant, coming inat that host position and with
my co-host, monte Corleone, andUnique Artistry, what it do?
We want to give y'all somedifferent content.
We want to talk about somebullshit.
Come off a little bit off thecuff.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Ain't nothing, I say
BS.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Shit.
But then we're going to go overdifferent topics, you know, and
, uh, hopefully we capture somea little bit different for y'all
, all right so let me ask thisquestion, because it just this
just popped in my head today.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
it's random, I guess.
Do we consider the year you'reborn or as the year you grew up,
or like the decade, what youmean up as like Like the decade,
what you mean you grew up as,like I grew up.
You born Mike.
You born in the 80s, mm-hmm.
Are you an 80s baby or a 90sbaby?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
80s.
Baby Grew up in the 90s.
That's what I'm saying, mm-hmm.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
So that's why I was
talking to somebody today.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
They was born in the
80s and they said if that was
the case.
But that's not the case with meBecause I'm born in the early
90s.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Early 90s yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
And grew up through
the 90s to the 2000s.
So what would that be, though?
So it's going to go out to thedecade you're born yeah, as your
80s baby, or 90s baby, or whenyou grew up, y'all agree.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Yeah, yeah grew up,
y'all agree yeah yeah, I ain't
gonna lie.
I've struggled with that,though, because them niggas who
be born in like 99 to us whenthey had 90s baby.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I'm like then you
never saw, I think, the cutoff.
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
You know what I'm
saying, like for the 97 97 right
that's the word cut off forthese niggas like how it goes if
your birth year ends in 90.
Whatever you were 90s baby, youknow.
I'm saying 91 through 9, youknow.
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So it's just.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
It's just just what
it is, you know he got a
rebuttal to it for real like 99disgusting like I think it's
more about how them niggas actand they created a separation,
because it's like I don't knowwhat it is, bro, but like, even
if you I don't care if youthere's got to be some
psychology facts out there orsomething niggas born between
like 90 to 95 decently regular,the niggas born after that I
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don't know what the fuck wrongwith that.
Look, man, they got some shitwrong with
Speaker 3 (02:43):
them all the time
that's the time when the young
they was, when they was young,fucking, that's.
That's them, that's the kidsthat really ain't had no
guidance and shit like that.
But they still 90s baby.
I don't get that how theyacting them niggas in your
generation See, hey, I don'tgive a if that nigga was born on
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December 31st at 1159.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
He's a 90s baby.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Right before 2000.
Boy, he's a 90s baby.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
That shit crazy
though.
So he was a 90s baby but grewup in the 2000s.
That's interesting.
I'm glad I ain't gotta overexplain Like I ain't gotta do
that shit.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
So, whoever you're
having that conversation with.
They're a little delusional.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
I ain't gonna put
them out there, cause that
individual definitely said don'tbe putting me out there in the
pocket, hey man, you know me,whoever you is, I'm just fucking
with you.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
That's interesting
though, bro, cause I don't
really trip off that.
Like I told y'all, I wastelling y'all.
The other day, I seen the videoAbout a bunch of college kids
Saying, like what year considersyou old?
And they was like Anything witha 19 in front of it.
Like if you say, if you getready to say, if they ask you
what year you was born, you getready to say uh, 19,.
They like stop you old.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Like period we were
born in the 1900s, yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Think about how that
sounds.
The 1900s.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
It sounds ancient as
fuck.
That's because you jumped tothe beginning of shit.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Yeah, like but just
thinking about that concept.
Well, it sounds.
It sounds like you.
Yeah, that's crazy anotherdifferent century.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
It was crazy we are
in the day.
It is but like it's out ofthere, like we.
Jurassic Park age or something.
Oh great grandparents and shit,these, this, these new bridge
niggas.
They don't have no like thoughtprocess, they just be doing
shit, they all instinct yeah,and then I can't.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
You can't talk to
them because you're going to
sound old, Exactly Like you needto learn something.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Listen to me, boy.
Somebody said that, bro,because they made a post talking
about, unfortunately, a youngdude got gunned down.
There was a baby in the car.
The baby died too, and they waslike damn nigga.
It used to be a time where I'mout for a word.
Yeah, it used to be a timewhere it was rules you know if a
nigga had a baby with him.
They got a pass type shit Yep,nigga, you sound old as fuck
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talking about shit like that.
Nigga ain't gonna catch them.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
In another time, like
this Right and patience.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
We was just talking
about that, though, like back in
the day.
Bruh niggas would wait years.
They'd catch you like Fiveyears later, thinking you got
away.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Type shit like Ay,
let me ask y'all this Real quick
At the age we are now, has thishappened to you yet, where you
sit back and analyze thetribulations you went through
and you've been like, damn, Iunderstand why I went through
that?
Now, yeah, it can be anycircumstance that you know what
I'm saying you think about.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
I mean, it taught
that, taught you something.
Sometimes it take aconversation or some shit to
happen.
Now that remind me of a timeback then, like like I go
through some shit with my wifeand I'll be like dang, that
thing I went through back thenprepared me for this
conversation, because now I canwalk through it with a little
bit like wisdom.
But back then I was like whatthe hell happened?
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Like I could have popped off,or you know I'm saying whatever
the case was.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
But now I'm like I've
been here before, you know I'm
saying then I had you sit backand you more calmly while you
deliver.
Yeah, what's up monte?
Speaker 3 (06:29):
shit.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
I think about that
shit every day yeah, I feel like
that's some old man shit.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
Sometimes I'll be
just riding in silence what's
the situation you want to speakon, where you feel like that,
like you just sit back andyou're like I mean I learned
from that so, like I alreadytold y'all this story, so my mom
used to always tell me, likewhen I used to get in trouble
and I used to do shit, she'd belike man, you know, when you get
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behind bars can't nobody helpyou.
She's like you need to stopdoing this, you need to stop
doing that.
So you know, don't nobody,listen to nobody.
You know what I mean.
Like it don't matter if youlook up to the person, you still
gotta bump your head on yourown so I learned when I was
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sitting in jail in the chair.
I remember I was sitting in ayellow chair, motherfucking the
steel legs.
I was looking down and I'm not.
I was on the phone with my momand I was like damn, ma.
You told me this shit was gonnahappen, like damn.
So that's when I realized Ineed to listen more.
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You know what I'm saying.
Stop always taking shit forgranted and being like, oh man,
that's, that's, that's cool.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
So take heed to what
people are telling you.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Um, yes, if it comes
with experience, you know what I
mean.
Like, wisdom.
Yeah, like when your father tellme things like I always, I
always listen to your fatherbecause it's always coming with
knowledge and love at that.
You know what I mean it mightbe like a bullshit, you're not.
One time my son he's my stepsonhis father came in the crib and
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my son allowed him to goupstairs, or or something like
that.
Bro, something happened towhere, no matter of fact, he
tried to come in the house andyour pops was there and he was
like hey, you don't just let noman walking Like.
He was upset at me Cause I lethim in.
You know what I mean Like.
And he was like walking like.
You know how he walk, like heown shit, right.
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So I was like I was looking atyour pops.
I was like all right, you know,that's cool.
So we had just moved in and gotsomething.
Pops was on his knee and he waslike hey, you don't know, fix
it.
He was like you don't never letno man come in your house Be
walking around like this, youdon't.
I was like you don't never letno man come in your house, be
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walking around like this.
I was like all right, cool.
So ever since then and itwasn't.
I didn't even think about it,bro.
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
I ain't even think
about it like that.
You're just thinking about itfrom a man's standpoint of you
just allowing certain things.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Because you're going
to open a door for people to be
able to put certain buttons.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Yep, so you got to
sit, dude do.
It said what boundaries it's.
Ever since then it's been likehey, bro, hold your horses, bro
at the door, we'll be back, youknow, man.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
Jamie.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Foxx straight up,
that's some interesting shit
though, like y'all ever thinkabout, cuz I know I know you
need, I know you rock with likeViking shows and like a lot of
like of medieval times type shit.
But when you think about it,bro.
That's how they used to protectthey stuff.
Like, bro, you wasn't allowedto just like show up at no man's
property if you did, he wasgrabbing something like.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
You know what I'm
saying he was grabbing weapons.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
He was immediately
like what you doing here like
you know what I'm saying, let mefind out that your wife let
them in the house like it was adifferent energy.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
You got him in my
house.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
See, I ain't never
really had no problem because
you know we got cameras.
So it's never been a situationwhere he's in my crib when I'm
not there.
So I ain't never really, youknow, I ain't never felt no type
of way Because you know better,Don't go in my crib when I
ain't there, type shit.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Boy, I'm like a
vampire.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
When I go visit
somebody, especially a female,
you gotta you gotta invite me in, like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
I gotta get an invite
right, because I I've been in
situations like even doing, youknow, my kids mom, uh, and you
know we wasn't in the best place.
But regardless, see, you know,I'm gonna do interactions with
my kids, dropping things off,stuff like that.
I'm at the door.
I wasn't even trying to assumethat I would be able to step in.
You know what I'm sayingBecause, also, we had boundaries
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in place.
We wasn't in the best place aswell.
I ain't want her to, you know,think certain things.
So I'm going to wait for thisinvite.
Now you can come in, okay, youknow I'm saying so, yeah, I'm
just also trying to make surethem boundaries is in place, but
yeah, but see you a differentperson, bro, like it's a sign of
maturity, though, you know.
Speaker 3 (11:15):
I mean, like you
ain't trying to prove no point,
I think.
I think bro been constantlytrying to prove that he got
bigger balls than me.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Probably, but that
comes from an insecure place and
I think that's what a lot of ushave to realize, even in other
spaces.
When somebody testing you, bruh, when niggas is pressing you on
some shit, it's because they'reuncomfortable.
You know what I'm saying?
They already in a space towhere they got to do or say
something to you because theycan't fucking take it.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
You know what I'm
saying.
Like, that's usually what thatis so like you ain't even got to
, return that energy a lot ofthe time, like you know I don't
I mean, yeah, that was that, butthat's what we talking about
like you let him in the housebecause you wasn't even tripping
off that like you ain't evenyou know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
This dude
intimidating me, let me puff my
chest yeah, like I ain't littleman man, but see Like if it come
to that.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
You already know Like
, but but see, that's the thing.
Speaker 3 (12:05):
That's why people
that come from where I come from
ain't going to trip off,nothing like that, because I
know where you came from.
It's like I ain't tripping offyou, bro, like it's cool.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
You know what I'm
saying.
When you think about it, bro,kids realize shit hella late,
shit hella late.
So like with you playing things, how you play, that shit, he
gonna realize, you know, in fiveto ten years, like damn, like
he was solid, that wholemotherfucker.
You know what I'm saying.
Like they gonna realize shit ata when he when he get his girl
he you know I'm saying he in aposition maybe he have a son or
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something he gonna look backlike damn, okay, like now it
makes sense.
But I also feel like that's therole of a man, bro.
I've been reading so much stuffabout like fatherhood and shit
lately.
Like you know what I'm saying.
I'm glad you just went there.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
I was gonna ask a
question segue yes, sir, so with
you stepping into fatherhoodyou know I'm saying now that's
coming um what have been someparenting practices or tactics
you've seen other parents usethat you don't agree with?
Speaker 1 (13:16):
that's interesting.
So me and my wife talked abouta lot because we both had
different upbringings Mine alittle bit more, it had less
boundaries but it was a rougherupbringing.
She had a smoother upbringingbut it was a lot more strict.
So we able to talk about a lotbecause we had different results
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from that type of approach.
Right, but as far as specificthings that we've seen other
parents do, that we wouldn't do,I think the only thing that's
really popped out for us is likeleashes and just like who we,
who we let our people aroundlike we talked about when the
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baby's born, like cats, notfinna, be around like that.
Like you know, I'm saying if andfor what.
I told what I told her.
Right, because I know everybodygonna want to come see the baby
, but like the priority needs tobe her.
If you're coming to likesupport and help and see the
baby and all that stuff,understanding like that's gonna
come with you helping her,helping her rest, helping, you
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know, helping her, take care ofthe baby if that's what you're
here to do and all that funstuff, but you're not here to
just dance around with the babywhile she still has to work, and
you know entertaining her.
You're saying your wife, my wife, yeah, yeah, my wife, let me
specify but like that's, it'sjust like small stuff like that,
like the boundaries that we'regonna put in place once the
baby's born, like kissing thebaby and all these things that
people tend not to care about.
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Right, like I'm, I came fromlike like a lot.
I ain't have a lot oftraditions like growing up, but
me and my wife talked about likethings we want to make sure we
start and, uh, have go the rightway, you know, I mean, and like
I think that's really allthere's been outside of that,
just like we're not gonna gentleparent but we ain't gonna abuse
our kids, so we trying to findlike a middle ground.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
You know what I'm
saying like what about you?
Speaker 2 (15:08):
my tape with you
being a parent.
So and being what about youobviously being a parent, but
also um a stepfather, so, like,what are some boundaries?
I heard it was you had toadjust to what is you?
How'd you go about doing that?
Speaker 3 (15:25):
funny you ask.
So something that I've had toadjust to is the level of
discipline I give the girlversus the boy.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
So it's crazy because
the boy is so rebellious to his
father so you feel like yougotta be harder on him.
But what niggas don't realizeis your babies, your little
girls, be manipulating the shitout of y'all.
(16:03):
Mm-hmm, and that's what mydaughter's been like kinda doing
to me, mm-hmm.
But I be flipping it on thembecause they're a splitting
image of me, dog.
They do the shit that I used todo.
So I'm catching them doing itand I'm like bro, what the fuck
is y'all doing?
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Like stop.
You know what I'm saying andI'm trying not to be real hard
on y'all but, as I'm seeing it,I'm having to be as hard as I
was with the boy.
So that's something that I'madjusting to right now Because
one, I'm seeing the girls rebelagainst their mom, so I had to
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discipline that.
So it's just an all-around.
But as far as my stepson, Iknow a lot of fellas gonna hate
me for this, but it wasn't noboundaries with me.
You know what I mean.
Like at a point, all right.
So this for y'all.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Let me, let me ask
you this then so was it?
Was it?
Do you say it wasn't onboundaries because there is a
discussion you and her had, oryou just it wasn't not even no
discussion, it was just how itwas for you and your household
so I'm gonna paint the picture.
Speaker 3 (17:23):
I was in their
household first.
I moved in with them.
So when you step in as astepfather and I wasn't even a
stepfather at that point, I wasjust a boyfriend but when you
step in and you see, uh, thereisn't guidance from a male
figure like his father, you knowwhat I'm saying.
At that young of an age and youhave to kind of step up and you
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know what I'm saying.
Like at first that was mylittle partner.
You know what I'm saying.
Before it came my, before hebecame my, my stepson.
So we developed a relationshipand I felt like I was teaching
him certain things that hewasn't learning from what?
Speaker 2 (18:02):
should be his father.
You know, you know what I meanright.
Speaker 3 (18:06):
So and for for me to
speak on fathers that have
children that just aren't beingthere, and if you close by,
because in my situation thefather was close but didn't come
to see his son, so for me thatmeant no boundaries for me,
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because you're not even steppingup to come see him, so I ain't.
So people can't get mad at that, like, like males, that ain't
really stepping up.
They can't get upset at a manthat's that's actually stepping
up and trying to raise your kidshit that's just like.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
That's just like a
dude you getting a job that your
homie didn't get.
He bro, he pissed, he mad thatyou are able to do it
successfully, because most catsthat don't parent bro is out of
fear.
They don't think that they'regonna be good at it or they
don't think that they deserve tobe a parent, something deep
down, like that's usually whatthe hell it is.
You know what I'm saying.
So it's like they can't lookingat you at, uh, from a different
.
Oh god damn, perfectly smackthat like how you hit that thing
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.
I got good, aim hit that thing,you hear me?
Speaker 2 (19:13):
chill out bro.
Oh, I got.
It's funny you, you broughtthis up, but I want to.
I want to say what I don'tagree with as a parent real
quick, but I want to spend ablock on what you said as far as
being a boyfriend moving into ahousehold.
So I got a scenario, but but tosay I guess what I don't agree
with is something that I've beenseeing that parents do in the
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form of punishment, and it's noteven because this is my
occupation, but I don't beagreeing with parents be
choosing to cut their kid's head.
Yeah, yeah, you know what I'msaying, I've seen it numerous
times.
But what you think?
Cutting your child's head Ifthey not listening, they're not
doing this and that they actingup in school.
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You know what I'm saying andthey value.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
You see that they
value their hair um, I don't
really like capital punishmentin general.
I don't really like like thelike changing the appearance of
somebody in a way like that.
Like you know what I mean.
I think that's kind of strange.
I think that we have to be morecreative with how we punish our
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kids in ways like that, butalso I think that that's the way
we do it.
I feel like sitting somebodydown recording a Facebook video.
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah, it's different.
See, I'm like, yeah, yeah, yeah,yeah, it's different, but I
also think that, like if itcomes, let's say, let's say the
little kid got locks right, butthey don't do what they supposed
to do.
They don't.
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They don't uphold their side ofthe thing like it costs a lot
of money to maintain locks right, you know what I'm saying so,
if you consistently fucking up,I may not.
That's a reward for you.
You know what I'm saying.
So we're gonna have to, we'regonna have to figure something
out.
Either you're gonna have towork and pay to maintain your
own hair but, forcing you to cut.
Speaker 2 (20:57):
It is a different
story, like context, then,
because it's the thing, becausethen you got parents that they
choose to grow their child'shair out yeah, and then that kid
ends up loving their hair yougonna cut their hair a lot of
people.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
They don't have no
attachment to what their kids
have an attachment to.
They feel like they are theprogenitor of everything that is
that kid, so everything thatthat kid experiences or
possesses.
They feel like it's their doingand their influence and they
got you know what I'm sayingdominion over it.
So certain people, like, thinkdifferently.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
Look, hurt people.
Hurt people For sure.
So when you feel like your kiddone, did something wrong, you
know as, in a parent perspective, you upset, so you want them to
feel your pain.
You know what I mean.
but that's wow but, here's thething the punishment ain't
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supposed to be pain, it'ssupposed to be a lesson, correct
?
So you're not accomplishinganything by trying to cause them
pain or suffering.
You know what I'm saying?
Because that's going to makethem cry, that's going to make
them feel a certain type of wayabout you, and stuff like that.
You should, like I said, youneed to sit down, talk to them,
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but you need to figure out acreative way to make this a
lesson and not they feel theyfeel like their punishment fit
their crime or whatever it isyeah, I mean man I mean, I get
the emotional side of
Speaker 1 (22:26):
it like I get that.
You know I'm saying I get anemotional reaction, whooping the
kid, all that.
I understand the feelingsbehind it, but like, like he
said, like I feel like one thingthat I always rock with when,
um, when I think of like dadsright was michael kyle from my
wife and kids, like don't get mewrong, you need to be punished.
But it doesn't always have tocome in the form of like
violence or like rage, yeah,like this, this, like again
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capital punishment, likeembarrassment.
Sometimes it just has to be acreative way to get you to
understand what I'm trying toteach you.
You know what I'm saying?
Like that's because, at the endof the day, it's hard for
people to learn through thatsituation, because when you, all
they learn is abuse, all theylearn is like this is the
consequence of this shithappening.
They don't learn oh, I need tostop.
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They just know that I'm gonnaget my ass beat if I do this
happening.
They don't learn oh, I need tostop.
They just know that I'm gonnaget my ass beat if I do this.
So then you carry that intoyour next situation.
They know, okay, if my kid dothis, I know to beat their ass,
because that's what happened tome.
Like it's not a.
It doesn't fix the situation,it just gives a reason to why
you do what you do.
Yeah, you know what I'm saying,like, but we again, the
behaviors don't change you just.
Well, I whooped your ass whenyou did that when you was young.
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Well, why, why are we stilldoing this?
Yeah, we ain't nobody sat backand asked why the last four
generations are doing the sameshit you know, like, you know
what I'm saying, like, yeah, bro, like y'all seen that video of
the little girl, she got caughtor she got suspended or
something fighting yeah, and
Speaker 3 (23:52):
then the mom was like
telling the dad, come in here
and handle this.
And he was like all right, hewent in there.
He was like go ahead, Get outof here, I'm going to handle
this.
So he folded the belt up andwas like so what happened?
And he started smacking thebelt like he was giving her a
whooping and she was like ah,but she was telling him bro, bro
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, that is me.
I told I swear, that is me, bro,like I'm gonna be like yeah, I
ain't from the bro because Iknow, bro, I I'll be look when I
see, when I hear my wifetalking to the kids, it's like
an angry tone, like she mad.
Like because they ain'tlistening or something like that
.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Huh, that's what we
heard.
Speaker 3 (24:37):
I understand, but I
be trying to tell her like, hey
you, she had to learn.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
You see me learning.
Speaker 3 (24:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (24:45):
Because y'all have
seen how I am Got to interrupt
the pattern.
Speaker 3 (24:48):
You know what I'm
saying.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
And I've been working
on it, you know, hey, but I got
to practice what I preach,though, because I'd be like hey,
man, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (24:57):
But that's the thing,
bro.
It's different.
When you see, I teach that atwork, bro it's one thing to know
what to do, it's another thingto apply.
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
I think like that's what a lotof people do.
When we sit down and we talk topeople, we give them
information like they don't know.
They know, bro, they just gotmad or they got.
You know what I'm saying.
They got overwhelmed and theydid something out of character.
They understand the information.
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They trying to figure out howto control themselves.
Like that's really the problem.
Speaker 3 (25:23):
I get it these
fathers ain't doing nothing.
I know they matter.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
Fact, I'm into you,
I'm gonna call you out the other
day, bro, because you saidsomething about.
No, I didn't like that, butlike because it's something you
want to say.
It's something it's something Ilearned from you because I was
talking to my wife about it and,to go back, it actually answers
one of your other questions, uh, but in a different way.
So something I learned from youspecifically is actually like
how you treat your kids withtheir meals right, because the
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other day you were saying likeyou make sure that they finish
it and I was like I don'tremember that because when
because when I live with you, Iremember you doing checks right.
I remember you like qualifying acertain amount for them to eat
and then making sure that theyate a certain amount and then be
like, all right, cool, becauselike, let's say, you get them a
full plate of like chickenfingers and fries, you check and
make sure it'll be like eatanother chicken finger, then you
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could get up.
You know what I'm saying and Ithink that I like that approach
to it because it doesn't forcethe kid into like eating a whole
bunch of food because they maynot be hungry they may
legitimately like not be hungrybut you were like, hey, I was
eat this much because you needat least this much for energy
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (26:26):
the goal, yeah, but
the reason why I say like I give
a lot that you said that, didyou observe that?
But it's changed now, becausenow that they're older and I now
know your portions, is not asmuch.
Yeah, yeah, I know yourcapability.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
you know what I'm
saying of eating.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
So I'm not giving you
as much that you should be able
to finish.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
You know, so you're
not getting up.
Yeah, I was just about to saythat I was like all he did was
look, he said all, all right,give them smaller portions,
they're gonna eat all of it.
Save money.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
yeah, that's smart
though, but I just like the
approach because when I thoughtabout it I was like that's
something I'm gonna put in mykid bag.
You know what I'm saying as faras like when I'm gonna approach
that and I was like, yeah, Ilike, I like, because I remember
being sat at the table forhours and not being hungry.
Bro, I'm like I'm not, finna,eat this like I'm not you can
see me here all night.
Speaker 2 (27:16):
I'm not because then
it's like you're telling your
kid that and you're establishing, like I said, the goals of a
point, like all right nowthey're, they're seeing an end
to this yeah let me just getthis much or do this much.
Speaker 1 (27:27):
You know, I'm saying
I also think you create trauma
around food.
You know I'm saying you createa issue.
That's why kids don't likesitting at the table to eat, no
more.
They want to go in their room.
It's a comfort.
They want to run in their cave.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (27:38):
So it's like yeah, I
think about this point.
I just give my kids whateverthey ask for, and I see a lot of
people subscribing to thatmindset nowadays.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
Like somebody, a girl
made a video the other day.
People was on her, on her ass.
I do that all the time.
Uh, somebody was on her assbecause she was like people was
talking about not giving kidsribs at the barbecue, which I'm
going to talk to y'all about.
So people was talking about notgiving kids ribs at the
barbecue, but she was like nigga, if my kids want ribs and you
don't give my kid ribs, I'mgoing to drive to the store and
go put them bitches on the grillmyself to make sure my kids get
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some ribs.
She was like if they wanthibachi, they getting hibachi.
If they want Oxtails and riceand peas, they getting oxtails
and rice and peas.
And so she was going in Right,and then a lot of people Was
like that's why kids Spoilnowadays, that's why they don't
have no value system.
You get them anything they want.
They don't earn it.
Da da, da, da, da, da, da da.
So, with that being said, firstquestion how y'all feel like
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your kids deserve whatever theywant?
Like if they ask for something,do you feel like they should
just get it because they want it?
Speaker 3 (28:41):
all right, no and no
all right why the hell I can't?
Have ribs.
It's not that you can't haveribs, but think about our kids
bro.
Speaker 2 (28:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
I said I'd give them
what they want.
What they want Hot dogs.
Speaker 1 (28:59):
But let's say they do
.
Let's say Auntie spoiled themone day and gave them one, and
now they want a rib.
They see the rib and they wantthe rib.
You can have the rib.
Speaker 2 (29:07):
That's the thing.
If they're presented with achoice and they can see those
choices, I'll be intrigued towhat they want.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
So some people,
because they gonna want some mac
and cheese and sweet potatoes,but it's a lot of that.
You know.
Normally at a black person'sbarbecue it's two racks of ribs,
maybe three.
You know what I'm saying, andcats ain't.
You know what I'm saying?
Go ahead, bro.
Speaker 2 (29:32):
Y'all know.
Speaker 1 (29:33):
I'm just asking.
I'm a boneless.
Speaker 2 (29:37):
Boneless.
Hey, man Say what you want, fam, I'm a boneless.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
That's some bullshit.
That's some straight bullshit.
How you gonna, how you gonnanot get a kid.
I thought this was a differentconcept.
How you, you gonna not get akid.
Hey, I thought I thought thiswas a different concept.
How you ain't gonna get a kidno, real, because you ain't got
that many another argumentpeople said was they, they don't
eat them kids go especially ata barbecue or something like
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that.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
They're gonna pick
over it, they're gonna eat a
couple bites and be like I'mdone, or gonna run around and go
play or whatever right.
So now the ribs is quoteunquote wasted in their opinion.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
So the niggas that's
watching the motherfuckers not
eating.
Speaker 2 (30:23):
Don't eat that shit
then since you've seen the kids
nibbling on it.
Speaker 1 (30:28):
Why don't you go
finish it?
How about that?
I ain't even sure about that?
Speaker 3 (30:31):
how many kids have
you?
Speaker 2 (30:32):
witnessed niggas was
like I'll go another one,
motherfucker.
Speaker 3 (30:36):
Did not finish the
rim.
Speaker 1 (30:39):
Uncle Charles and
shit, look, look, look, another
barbecue and another rim heturned the plate over in a trash
can, so nobody see him droppingit in there, he folding it up,
look, look look, he ain't eveneat that shit.
Speaker 3 (30:51):
You see that, joe.
You see that Joe.
You see that Jerry.
Speaker 2 (30:54):
But look though you
got them parents that do be
eating their kids' last Littletwo chicken fingers, I mean, and
a lot, of, a lot of parents doLike clean up, like you know
what I'm saying.
They'll see what they got andclean up after Garbage disposals
.
Speaker 1 (31:04):
Oh my God, but it's.
I mean they like well, shit, Ididn't buy this for y'all, I
bought this for the adults.
Or I bought this for the grownfolks.
Speaker 2 (31:20):
To answer your
question straight up, I'm not
going to look at nobody crazy.
They getting their kids someribs.
I'm not going to, just off therip, give my child no ribs.
But y'all know how we rock bruh.
Speaker 3 (31:33):
Yeah, y'all know how
we rock bruh Like at a barbecue.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
Our barbecue is for
everybody, bruh Like we ain't
tripping off and the burgersgone.
You know what I mean.
You gonna be upset.
You gonna be upset.
You didn't eat yeah.
Speaker 3 (31:48):
You know I made a
whole pot of it.
Yeah, I was kind of a littleupset, but because it was fire,
Because it was good.
Speaker 1 (31:53):
Yeah, you know what
I'm saying.
But it wasn't because peopleate it, it was just because it
was good.
Yeah, I was like damn man youknow what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (31:58):
You should have made
your own bowl of the crib.
It's your fault.
Speaker 1 (32:01):
I mean.
Speaker 3 (32:12):
I was busy barbec
that bro, like you know.
I had went back to the cribafter our barbecue shower came
back and everything was gone.
Speaker 1 (32:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (32:19):
I ain't thinking
about it.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
It'd be like, but it
also depends on who you invite,
bro?
What about that?
Speaker 2 (32:25):
roast.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (32:27):
What about that?
Speaker 2 (32:28):
roast oh hold.
Speaker 1 (32:30):
Two and a half orders
.
Speaker 3 (32:31):
Hey man, hey man.
We had like 15 people in thekitchen with a two-person roast
Bro, the roast, didn't, bro, man?
It didn't last.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
And then it was
boneless, it was like shredded
roast, it looked like barbacoa,it was just a little and it
wasn't number six ounces inthere.
Speaker 3 (32:52):
You got a house full
of people and you got a half of
a Tupperware bowl full of cheeseyou like the bread from Outback
Right Bruh hey, half of it.
Speaker 1 (33:05):
Half of it.
Right there, definitely half Apiece, a corner piece, that's it
.
Speaker 3 (33:09):
That wild fan man.
Look at him.
Hey, nah, Let me spend a blockon that question.
Speaker 2 (33:14):
I was going to ask
y'all man, what's up, bro?
It's kind of, it's my take,kind of live this for real.
Nah, not for real, but I stillwant to know what y'all think.
So say, you moved in with yourgirl, your girlfriend.
You know what I'm saying.
Y'all dating Y'all, not you,girl your girlfriend, you know
I'm saying yeah, I'm not.
You're not still father, you'redating and you have.
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A son is in the household,about 25, between 20 to 25 years
old, and they supposed to bepaying rent and they didn't pay
the rent for them.
What is it okay for you to goholler at him, boyfriend?
No why not, let's say, givecontext you paying some of the
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bills too you moving into hishouse.
Speaker 3 (34:03):
He a grown man, even
though you paying bills.
That's his mama house.
That's not your responsibilityor your business.
That's his mama responsibility.
Speaker 1 (34:15):
I agree with that to
a degree.
I think that the most thatshould happen is mom should
holler at him.
He can beat her.
You know what I'm saying?
He can beat her to support her,to back her up, or whatever the
case is, to be a presence forher, but as far as him
initiating that conversation.
I think that it welcomesconflict.
Speaker 2 (34:32):
You know what I'm
saying and that's what I was
thinking ready to say I don'tthink there's nothing wrong with
, like you said, being apresident.
Speaker 1 (34:42):
Like I said, you're a
boyfriend yeah, I think.
If you're a stepfather yeah youknow what I'm saying?
Speaker 2 (34:45):
that's a different
scenario.
Go ahead, go ahead.
Speaker 3 (34:48):
No because hey, nope,
I'm 25 for y 25.
So y'all got to go back to 25.
In your mama house, what thisnigga standing here for Like
come on now.
His presence going to make youpissed off, just because he
right there and your mama tryingLike what he doing?
What?
Speaker 1 (35:08):
he here, for I get
you because you feel like you're
getting pressed.
However, you're late on therent.
You finna get pressed.
If it was, if you was in a andif you was at apartment complex,
they'd be fucking pressing you.
Bro.
Like you know what I'm sayinglike, unfortunately, that's.
That's the consequence thatcomes with that.
Is it uncomfortable?
Yeah, and I do.
I see what you're sayingemotionally.
Yeah, but do you have a rightto be that way?
Speaker 3 (35:29):
no, no, not at all,
not at all.
But see, we gotta turn thisback around on the one person
that could change this shit, thestepfather.
No, the mom.
She could tell him hey, if youhear things get out of hand, you
can go ahead, come out here,stand.
You know, just watch my back.
(35:50):
You know I'm saying make suremy son don't, but at this you
shouldn't even have to do that.
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
So you feel like that's anescalation point.
You feel like that's some.
Speaker 1 (36:02):
If I can't get to my
manager, go to HR type shit.
Speaker 2 (36:05):
Like he would be HR,
but isn't it a we ain't going to
say chain of command, but ahierarchy in the household,
right?
Even though I'm a stepfather,this is my house, right?
No, how come I'm taking thelead of the house Because he
came in late?
Speaker 3 (36:20):
because he moved in,
because you moved in.
So that means, no matter whatyou came in, you didn't invite
somebody in.
Speaker 2 (36:33):
And now this boy
ain't taking care of the
business.
Okay, that's the mama business,that's the mama business, but
I'm the one that's bringing inthe bread, I'm paying the bills
and you late.
Speaker 3 (36:43):
That's not your
business, bro.
Speaker 2 (36:45):
I come late, I'm
paying, okay, and you ain't
contributing bro, so you got togo.
Speaker 3 (36:51):
Nope, nope.
You should have bought your ownshit and moved her in and had
him get his own shit.
Speaker 2 (36:57):
That's how you do
something like that.
If you got that type ofsituation, now we finna move out
.
Speaker 1 (37:02):
The boy can't come I
think that's what he mean, like
he think that that's the onlysolution then you got the
scenarios with him, I'm pickinga son or the order.
Speaker 2 (37:10):
You know, I'm saying
our man but, and see, that's I
just.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
We just watched, uh,
some family, a fiance episode
and they was talking about that.
Let literally just happen, bro.
But y'all gotta understandsomething, bro.
So this is a thing that Ialways got an argument with.
Now, don't get me wrong,anybody can get married, right?
Y'all agree with that.
Anybody can get married yeah butyou know, the context of
marriage was created under uh, Ithink it's catholic law, so
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christian, like earlychristianity.
So if you don't believe in godin any context, it was a
religious format, right?
So if you don't believe in godin any format, any context, you
shouldn't be getting married.
Okay, right, because marriagesays that the man and the woman,
they can become one flesh.
Speaker 3 (37:50):
Right.
Speaker 1 (37:50):
Once they marry right
.
So technically, in that context, as the man now me and your
mama is one.
So what I come up with and whatwe do is one thing.
So that's what she say and whatI say is one thing.
So does he have to respect that?
No, does there need to be aconversation between the mom and
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the son?
Absolutely, but then there hasto be a separation.
You know I'm saying I thinkthat a lot of people uh, forget
that, like your kids aresupposed to leave you, bro, yeah
you know what I'm saying, likethey supposed to go be with
somebody else.
You know, I mean so that thatwhatever's clinging, why?
First of all he's 25, like dohe need help?
Or there's.
Like you know, I'm saying likewhere we at at this point like
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don't get me wrong, I ain'tsaying kick him out, I'm just
saying like where we at what wedoing even though you know, even
though he paying bills, it'slike what we doing why he's
stillhere it don't make sense.
Yeah, like progression, what'sthe plan, what's the end?
Yeah, like, even if he incollege or something like that's
cool when he graduates, likewhat's what we doing?
Like, what's the plan?
Speaker 3 (38:50):
but I also feel that
if the son had any respect
anyway, yeah he've alreadyhollered at his mom, so ain't no
need for him so even in agentle context.
Speaker 1 (39:01):
So let me paint the
picture for you.
Let's say let's say he 10 daysbehind rent, behind on rent,
right, mom's texting.
He said, all right, I got you,but he, he still ain't did what
he's supposed to do.
Stepdad, walk up, hey, realquick.
Your mom said, uh, she's stillwaiting on the rent money,
everything cool.
You straight like is that isthat cool, you know?
(39:22):
I'm saying because he checkingin, like hey yo, your mom was
telling me about the rent money.
It you got it.
When you plan on like you know,I'm saying like if he check in
on him, is that cool.
Or you feel like if a dude comein with some energy by himself,
that's what make it a problemit's the energy okay like,
because if, if, if a person itwas, it was a scenario right
there, so it was just so.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
You look, you can see
, dude, you know I'm saying yeah
, it's a little aggressionbehind how you coming on?
Speaker 1 (39:57):
I definitely yeah,
nah, nope, straight as a mug too
, bro.
Speaker 3 (40:00):
He flexed up like
yeah, that's, that's hey see,
remember we had thatconversation about looking a
nigga in his eyes and shit likelooking a man in his eyes and
shit Like that's the one I'd belike nope, it's like your mama
said you was late on the rent.
Speaker 2 (40:14):
Nope.
Speaker 3 (40:15):
Yeah, nope, you heard
me when I said the first time.
Nope, nigga, I'm moving outright now.
What you want to fight, what'sup?
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (40:25):
I, you want to fight
what's up?
I think that's the thing, bro.
Somebody need to do something.
25?
, because 25 is wild.
I get early 20s Again.
College or you just working onsome shit.
Maybe you a late bloomer,that's cool, I get that.
Speaker 2 (40:40):
25, 26, we at an age
now, but I ain't going to lie.
I said in my mind it all coulddepend, but I ain't going to lie
.
I said in my mind you know it'sall going to depend, but I
ain't going to lie.
I said in my mind my daughterI'm cool with her staying around
that age, I feel like you saythat until she's dating.
Speaker 1 (40:52):
You know what I'm
saying.
You got dudes pulling up to thehouse all the time coming to
pick her up, take her out.
Speaker 3 (40:59):
Or her trying to move
in because they trying to move
out.
Speaker 2 (41:03):
Come on bro.
Speaker 3 (41:08):
I'm just saying
because we're gonna get, but
that's the choices you're gonnabe faced with right because
because I'm hey, but look, I'mjust saying yeah look, because
I'm saying you gotta think aboutyou, gotta think us, you gotta
think about us getting older andbeing more lenient.
And then her meeting arespectable man that you like,
oh man, all right, you know, Imean like they ain't doing
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nothing in my house, you know,I'm saying like he actually what
if they do?
Speaker 1 (41:33):
because she grown,
she's 20 yeah but what if?
What if this man straightrespect you to the point?
Speaker 3 (41:38):
where he like I'm,
I'm not going I'm my father's
son.
Speaker 1 (41:43):
I'm a boy uh-huh, oh,
he's saying.
Speaker 2 (41:46):
It's different.
Speaker 1 (41:47):
He wouldn't let A
male wife have done.
She wouldn't have been able todo that.
Oh, that's what he's sayingLike, as a father, he wouldn't
have let his Daughter be in thatposition?
Speaker 2 (41:57):
Nah, I don't Nah.
Speaker 3 (41:58):
I mean yeah, so I get
.
Speaker 1 (42:03):
However, I want you
to understand this.
That's also unfair.
Speaker 2 (42:06):
It is what it is.
You know what I'm talking aboutand I realize that In this word
like, I'm, like, I'm just.
Speaker 1 (42:12):
My brother-in-law
told me the other day.
He was like you got tounderstand this though the girl
bring a different set ofproblems than the dude does.
The dude gets to come home byhimself.
That girl get bringing a babybring.
You know what I'm saying.
Now she's pregnant.
Now you got to deal with allthese other things in that
situation, so you do have totreat them situations
differently.
However, you also have to thinkabout when you have both kids.
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You got a boy and a girl.
They looking at you like.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
That's why I said
when you said stay in my crib
like it's different.
I've already thought aboutthose things and putting in
boundaries where it's gonna besimilar things I'm gonna be able
to do.
It's a lot of the same thing,but when you said letting the
boy stay in my crib, that's whenthey was gonna end if you said
she could stay there till she 30, bro, she 28, 25, oh, but you
know what I'm saying, like shegrown 24 like she all right.
(43:01):
So think about the 25 year oldwoman you were dating, bro we
had our own spot since 20.
Speaker 1 (43:07):
That's why I'm but so
we felt when you were dating
the 25 out here.
Speaker 2 (43:13):
Do you feel like
those 25 year olds?
Speaker 1 (43:15):
you could have seen
them still living with, living
with their parents my 25 yearold, no, but I also think that
again, that come with adifferent set of things, because
she had her own spot.
Speaker 2 (43:26):
Nah, I'm talking
about the ones you were dating
out here that you was having.
Oh yeah, you talking aboutthose type of women that were
around that age group.
Speaker 1 (43:33):
My bad, I had to
think Exactly, Look, I be
purging people from my memorydog.
Exactly, purge them, that'sdone.
I'm like who?
Speaker 2 (43:48):
Oh, okay, okay, okay,
yeah, that chapter closed we
done on that.
So nah, so a woman out herethat you were dating around out
here, yeah, you feel like thosewomen in that age group you
would have been surprised theywould live with their parents
still no, I mean, and they was,and that's why I'm saying like
for me.
Speaker 1 (43:56):
But I also think that
that's something to think about
, because those women have a letme.
Let me say this correctly theyhave a predisposition.
Most of those women kind of actor think the same.
You know what I'm saying.
Like when you see people inthat situation, when you see a
25 or 26 year old who stillstays at the crib, they normally
have a certain level of amindset, they have a certain
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level of maturity aboutthemselves.
Rarely do you see somebody whoexecutes at a high level, who
still stand with their parents,unless they're very well off.
Speaker 2 (44:25):
You know what I'm
saying and that's the thing too
because I, I just want them tobe able to be.
Uh, I want especially mydaughter to be handed off
correctly.
Yeah, yeah, you know what?
I'm saying so, give more leewayfor her to prepare herself for
life.
Yeah, you know, I'm saying topotentially be handed off
correctly that's what's correct.
Speaker 1 (44:44):
What do you want?
What?
Speaker 2 (44:45):
do you want your the
daughter to directly leave
pretty much your household tosomebody that you respect and
you and you feel that they'resafe with?
Speaker 1 (44:53):
I'm, yes, I feel
different ways, that'll be the
ideal thing that is the pointthat I'm making me personally.
Speaker 3 (44:59):
I'm gonna make it to
where he's comfortable.
So he shows me who he is.
You trying to scare niggas intothe point where they ain't they
going to be like you know what.
Speaker 1 (45:09):
I'm saying you ain't
going to realize.
Speaker 3 (45:11):
No, it's not even
scared.
I ain't mean to say it likethat, but your presence is going
to scare niggas.
Speaker 1 (45:19):
You telling the nigga
?
No, it's going to scare theshit out of the niggas?
Speaker 3 (45:22):
They going to be like
nigga?
Your daddy told me no.
Speaker 1 (45:27):
Your daddy told me no
.
Your daddy told me no is ahilarious statement, bro.
I don't know if I can rock withthat.
Your daddy told me no, me andPaul.
We got a bang, bro.
What you mean?
You told me no.
Speaker 3 (45:38):
I ain't mean it like
that, I meant it to the point
where you would say no, where Ipersonally would be on a
different level, where Ipersonally would be on a
different level, I'd tell a manlike hey, for real, the only
reason I'm letting you in myhouse is because I believe you
ain't doing shit.
Speaker 1 (45:53):
The moment that I
think you ain't doing shit, but
my wife, daddy, said that to us,yeah, I think when we stayed
out of state.
So when we go back to go visit,before we was married, I had a
different room.
You know what I'm saying.
I had a different room.
You know what I'm saying.
I had a different room.
I was on the couch and she wasin the bedroom.
You know what I'm saying.
We were in a different state.
So not until we got engaged andthe date was set, did they even
(46:14):
?
let us kind of get close likethat and even then they kind of
was still like on some, andthat's you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (46:19):
That's respectable
and it's honorable, yeah but
like I, ain't gonna be that thatpops.
They ain't letting no dude inthe crib.
Speaker 1 (46:26):
That's what I'm
saying.
Speaker 3 (46:27):
It's gonna be
stipulations.
Speaker 2 (46:29):
You and your brother.
Y'all can have Potentially haveBased on your behavior yeah,
potentially be able to havepeople over Both of y'all having
a door open you know what I'msaying yeah, definitely If y'all
in the room.
It's gonna be stages.
Yeah, yeah, first off.
Yeah, he probably can't come in.
Then, once I be able to allowhim in the crib, y'all going to
the couch.
Speaker 1 (46:48):
Definitely in the
living room you got to graduate,
big open space we have tograduate, you know what.
Speaker 2 (46:53):
I'm saying I'm
debating on if I want to be
intimidating or not.
Speaker 3 (46:58):
That's what I've just
been debating on.
It's going to be like that.
I want to play, you want?
Speaker 2 (47:03):
to be like Den of
Thieves.
With all the niggas In thegarage.
Nah, I just wanna.
Speaker 3 (47:07):
Like I wanna.
I wanna let him know that I'mserious, but I'm playing Type
shit.
You know what I'm saying?
It's definitely gonna be.
Speaker 2 (47:14):
A serious.
That's all in the eyes, though.
Speaker 1 (47:16):
That's all in the
eyes, but he may not care, bro,
so think about the situation.
Think about the situation, bro,duga, duga.
Speaker 3 (47:24):
First of all, I don't
know what the fuck that word
was, doogie.
Speaker 1 (47:26):
Howser.
Speaker 3 (47:27):
Niggas could Dooga
dooga Bust on Dooga dooga, Dooga
, Dooga Bust on Nigga, mymotherfucker.
Speaker 1 (47:37):
I could not get that
motherfucking word.
I don't even know what the fuckI was trying to say.
No more Booker booker.
Nigga speaking of next subjectnigga.
Nigga.
Speaking of Next subject nigga.
Why is it that niggas Makesound effects, nigga, when they
fucking swing?
Have you tripped off that?
Speaker 2 (47:52):
Yeah, they make it
seem like they're faster than
what they eat.
You hear me?
Speaker 1 (47:55):
But still I have a
nigga.
Speaker 2 (47:56):
Everybody got it
though nigga Say you ain't.
Speaker 1 (47:58):
Say you ain't got it,
say I'll jump in and say If you
go in the garage right now andhit a punching bag, nigga gonna
be like Definitely gonna.
Speaker 2 (48:09):
You know what it
really is though.
What it's you breathing.
It's supposed to be youbreathing out and you exerting
your energy.
Speaker 3 (48:17):
so I mean it's
healthy.
Speaker 2 (48:20):
Because you not
inhaling you not inhaling bruh,
it's all exhale.
Speaker 1 (48:26):
Okay, nigga, it's
gotta go the other way, nigga.
Speaker 3 (48:27):
It's all exhale, okay
.
Speaker 2 (48:28):
Nigga it's got to go
the other way.
Nigga, Nigga, all doing allinhales.
Speaker 1 (48:37):
Push yourself out,
nigga.
Speaker 3 (48:39):
Hey, that's how you
know we some fucking clowns bro.
Speaker 1 (48:40):
Goddamn clowns man,
all right, so check this out, so
I was watching.
You know a nigga be scrolling,so this nigga Kev on stage.
They had a motherfucking video.
They was talking about what areyour favorite white phrases?
And y'all probably thinking toohard.
That nigga said You're barkingup the wrong tree, buddy.
I was fucking rolling.
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I was like yeah.
Speaker 3 (49:03):
Yeah, I rock with
that one.
Speaker 1 (49:05):
You're barking up the
wrong tree, pal.
Somebody was like You'recruising for a bruising.
Speaker 2 (49:13):
I've heard it before.
It's corny as mother.
Speaker 1 (49:15):
Y'all got a Caucasian
phrase.
Y'all fuck with Nah.
Speaker 2 (49:20):
Not a phrase.
Speaker 1 (49:22):
I say cool beans.
Speaker 2 (49:24):
Especially if I'm
talking to one of them Cool
beans.
I always hear I'm talking toone of them Cool beans.
Yep, I always hear some likecountries You're like, well,
I'll be Right Y'all don't knowthey was talking about.
Speaker 1 (49:35):
Well, that's rich
coming from you.
Well, that is rich we need todiversify.
Speaker 2 (49:40):
You lit liquor, you
lit liquor Bro.
Speaker 3 (49:41):
Classic commercial
bro you lit liquor, you lit Bro.
Speaker 1 (49:47):
Classic commercial
bro.
You lit liquor Bro like thatdates you like a mug, though
Like if you know that,commercial bro, you gots to be
at least Talk about 25, you gotsto be at least 25.
Speaker 3 (50:02):
Remembering some shit
like that.
Yeah, you gotta be like 30,yeah maybe like 30 At this point
.
Speaker 1 (50:07):
At this point, have y
at this point.
Speaker 2 (50:08):
Have y'all ever had a
bad barber experience?
Oh yeah for sure All right.
So what happened?
Speaker 3 (50:13):
Shit, nigga painted
the shit out of me, bro.
Hey, shout out to my partner,bro, he painted the shit out of
me one day.
Boy, I bullshit you not.
I bullshit you not.
Speaker 2 (50:28):
Looked like bullshit
you not that bullshit?
You not looking like I had apaved?
Speaker 3 (50:32):
street on the top of
my shit.
The same one I'd have now, bro,he I'm talking about painted my
whole top of my forehead.
Speaker 2 (50:38):
I was like huh, how
long ago was this?
Speaker 3 (50:41):
uh, this is probably
like 2018, like right before we
came.
Yeah, right before we came downhere.
Speaker 2 (50:48):
What about you, Ed?
Speaker 1 (50:50):
I feel like it was
around.
This was 2019 for me, though,but I had.
This was back when the niggahad that little man bun, had the
little braided man bun on topof my head.
And I had like.
So I was at the place that thegirls who did it right.
So shout out.
I don't remember her name, butshout out to the lady who did my
little man button.
It was clean.
But I ain't had no barberbecause I was living downtown St
Louis at the time.
(51:10):
I ain't had no whip, so I wasjust like you know what?
it is.
I just had to do what I had todo, but it was a barber and
nurse.
I was like baby, I'll let himcut my hair.
Should not have done that.
He only had clippers.
Speaker 3 (51:25):
So he lined you with
the clippers.
Speaker 1 (51:27):
Bruh.
First of all, he couldn't evenline me bruh.
And then the blades on that mughad to be gone because they was
like that shit my hair bro.
Speaker 3 (51:38):
He said that was gone
.
He was like yank yank, he waspressing that mug against my
head and I felt it like.
Speaker 1 (51:44):
It felt like you know
how you like have a few hairs.
You ever pulled out like a fewhairs yeah, you know that like
yanking feeling Like, you knowlike nigga, that's what it felt
like he was doing in my hair.
It was like scrape the groundthem.
Speaker 3 (51:58):
Motherfucking clip
was probably rusty as fuck bro
looked at them.
Speaker 1 (52:03):
They just looked like
they didn't have no blades, or
like they the blades was likeworn or something, like he
needed some new blades.
I was like bro bro wasstruggling and then he had like
a guard on it.
He tried to like use like a.
It was like a metal guard,though I was like what the hell
is.
Speaker 3 (52:15):
Oh, tell me you ain't
paying me.
Huh, tell me you ain't payingme pay that nigga nothing.
Speaker 1 (52:21):
And I I definitely
ain't come back when I was
messed up because I definitelyremember taking pictures and I
was like I was messed up becauseI definitely remember taking
pictures my hair messed up, butmy edge up is screwed that was
at a time I ain't care though.
Speaker 3 (52:37):
I had a stylist mess
up my hair a couple times
alright, so loud, let's speakanother thing so what y'all feel
about Taint.
Speaker 2 (52:44):
Who Taint?
Speaker 1 (52:45):
y'all heard about him
.
Speaker 2 (52:46):
Nah, bro Taint the
boxer'all heard about when him
Nah bro Taint the boxer.
Speaker 1 (52:49):
Oh, you talking about
Javante?
I'm talking about, I'm like whoI'm?
Speaker 2 (52:52):
like who nigga?
Nah, because y'all heard aboutwhat happened with the fight.
Speaker 1 (52:56):
You talking about the
jail shit, yeah, he took that
knee.
Speaker 2 (52:59):
Yeah, and he was
saying because he had guys from
jail.
Speaker 1 (53:02):
His eye which I feel
about this came on, said she
ain't put no gel in his hair umI do get getting like my locks
have put stuff in my eye but itdidn't have nothing on it
technically.
But getting your hair in youreyebrow long hair carry shit,
dust, dirt, whatever like, andif you've been sweating all
night and you have freshly doneher, it could have just been oil
(53:24):
about two days or whatever,like guess what, you a boxer,
you gotta fight through thatshit until the motherfucking
bell ring or you're gonna take aknockdown which is I.
I don't argue with that take aknockdown, but I will say, like
it didn't come off of a punch,which is why I was exactly
because he swung.
Speaker 2 (53:42):
I looked at the tape
and I watched the fight, but
then when he slowed it down, heswung, he missed, he didn't hit
him he didn't hit him.
Speaker 3 (53:47):
Oh well, in that case
you know how you dodge and,
like your hair, flip back yeahin that case no like cause I
seen you know, I seen clipsabout it and seeing the real
fight before the clips, youwould think that he got punched.
Speaker 2 (54:06):
Yeah exactly.
Speaker 3 (54:07):
You know what I mean,
so it's like I get it.
Speaker 1 (54:10):
But if you like, no,
y'all peep dude doing.
He got his legal team lookingat it.
I heard, I've seen somethinglike that on social media,
apparently he trying to get themto overturn the decision.
I feel, like Roach Roach, lamarRoach, yeah.
Speaker 3 (54:23):
Nah, why don't he
just fight him again?
I was just going to say, but.
Speaker 1 (54:26):
Javante said he might
fight him, but not next.
They talking about him fightingJake Paul.
Next what?
Speaker 2 (54:32):
That's a money fight,
but that's what it's about, bro
, it's a money game.
Speaker 1 (54:35):
That's the thing.
Boxing always been about thebread, bro.
So it's like they going tochase the.
Speaker 2 (54:42):
I really feel like,
as far as that fight, it
definitely could have wenteither way, either way?
Speaker 3 (54:47):
Yeah, because they
both was right getting in.
Speaker 2 (54:51):
So I'm not mad at the
draw.
You know what I'm saying I feellike it could have went either
way.
Speaker 3 (54:58):
All right.
So answer me this when you takea knee, they got to count,
right.
Speaker 2 (55:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (55:06):
That's a down to me.
It don't matter how you shakeit.
Yeah, if that man gotta startcounting for you to get your ass
back up.
You're down bro.
It don't even matter if thenigga punch that's on you.
Yeah, if you take a knee ifsomething happened, yeah, like
we would have to look at therules.
Speaker 1 (55:24):
But just speaking off
the rip, yeah like yeah,
definitely casual, what the kidsbe saying out there you know
what I'm saying one.
Speaker 3 (55:32):
I don't think he
necessarily should have how I
feel he shouldn't havenecessarily get like a, like a
knockdown, but he shoulddefinitely like get some points
knocked off like he should.
It shouldn't be, but that's thecase, but that's what they
saying.
That's what they saying.
So him taking the knee.
Speaker 2 (55:49):
That would have
changed it to not being a draw.
Speaker 3 (55:53):
Right.
Speaker 2 (55:53):
Okay, he would have.
Roach would have won.
Speaker 3 (55:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (55:55):
So that's what the
argument is that his legal team
probably gonna be looking at hiscount in that knee.
Speaker 1 (56:00):
You know what I'm
saying they trying to get it
overturned.
It's like a three-partcondition.
He said either overturn thedecision or do some other things
that happen.
I forgot.
Speaker 3 (56:12):
Hey man, I fuck with
Tank.
But when you out here tellingpeople you the best bro, you got
to prove it bro, the draw ain'tproving it.
I disagree, especially taking aknee and you probably been to
take an L your first L.
Speaker 1 (56:28):
But the only reason I
disagree is because the law of
the champion and we all feelthis way right.
Because I know you feel this wayabout other sports, even when
it comes to sports teams.
You cannot go up in there tyinga motherfucker or making it
close, bro.
First of all, you're notsupposed to let it go to the
cards period Decisions.
Like, yeah, you're not supposedto let it go to the cards
period.
Like, yeah, you're not supposedto let it go to the judges ever
, bro.
But in a championship fight,bro, if you do not clearly beat
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the champion, then you lost.
That's just the rule.
You know what I'm saying?
Like if somebody come close orthey like they almost get it,
it's like good, we're going toapplaud it.
Speaker 2 (57:04):
But you got to snatch
the crown.
What Richler say To be the man,you gotta beat the man.
Speaker 1 (57:08):
You got to, bro you
got to, and that's just what it
is.
Speaker 3 (57:12):
I just thought about
this because I'm going to take
it totally off topic.
Ah shit, you good, I do notfuck with Kanye West, bro,
correct.
Speaker 2 (57:21):
Had it for a while
now.
Ditto, we all have that.
Speaker 3 (57:26):
No, no, no.
I bought his little shoes.
Everything on his website, 20bucks right, bought his shoes,
bought a hoodie.
I go on the website, maybe.
First of all, I ordered thisshit in January it's March, this
(57:53):
shit in january, it's march.
I went on the site in februaryand all of the merchandise was
gone, except for a shirt with aswastika on it.
That shit was on there for aday or two.
Then the website disappeared.
Where's my shit?
Speaker 1 (58:05):
in the wind, my nigga
.
Speaker 3 (58:07):
Yeah, I ain't even.
I ain't even gonna sit herelike I'm straight tripping Off
the 40 bucks.
I'm tripping off the fact thatthis rich man Are her robbing
Motherfuckers.
You feel me Like you for real.
I was hopeful.
I was hopeful.
I'm like I bet you know whatI'm saying.
(58:27):
It's still In my little.
You was hopeful.
I'm like.
I'm like Alright, bet you knowwhat I'm saying.
It's still.
It's still in my little.
You know what I'm saying?
My little shop thing.
Look at.
Speaker 2 (58:33):
Kanye, send this man
his clothes bro.
Speaker 3 (58:35):
No, I'm good, send me
my money back.
I don't want your shit.
Speaker 2 (58:38):
I'm cool, no matter
of fact, no matter of fact.
Speaker 3 (58:41):
Hey Look, rest in
peace, my cousin Big Mason.
He always said this shit.
So in my case, right now, withKanye West, if $40 is all it's
going to take to get that manout your pocket, let him have
that $40.
You'll never spend with thatman again, cool.
(59:03):
So, kanye, you can have the $40.
You'll never get my supportEver again in life.
Middle finger up, real talk.
Speaker 1 (59:13):
That's a hell of a
way.
Mic drop he lying.
Speaker 2 (59:17):
He lying but nah,
like, yeah, I ain't with the
swastika for real, that was what.
That's honestly what got mewhen you sent that.
Yeah, I was disgusted you knowwhat I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (59:26):
So, yeah, I'm done
with it for that did y'all see
that thing that they were saying?
like you got to start checkingon a lot of these apps that say
that they're black-ownedrestaurants, that they're not
really black-owned restaurantsexactly you know I'm saying like
you got to start looking deeperinto that, because it is a lot
of white people that's justusing it for benefit yep, so
that they can get black beer, orthey might be paying a friend a
(59:48):
high amount to be a partner orsome shit like that, so they can
be the face Like.
Speaker 2 (59:52):
Popeye's yeah.
Speaker 3 (59:56):
I was irritated by
this.
Speaker 2 (59:57):
Louisiana commercial
they tried to do the other day.
I'm like but this dude, thisfake Louisiana accent, this
commercial man trying toadvertise this gumbo and this
Louisiana taste and Applebee'swhat yes, you know damn well
that shit.
Speaker 1 (01:00:13):
Coming in a pack
Applebee's, they got some old.
Speaker 3 (01:00:15):
Louisiana menu.
Bro, that's crazy.
Oh so, alright, I'll put thisout there.
I heard it on the breakfastclub shout out y'all the dude.
So so, basically, there's ablack man who owns red lobster
now yeah, and he's, he's tryingto revamp it and stuff like that
(01:00:38):
.
Speaker 2 (01:00:38):
So you know hey, man,
bring back the applesauce,
random, I know hollering thisnigga, but yeah, I think man,
what about the biscuits?
Speaker 3 (01:00:45):
because don't judge
me matter of fact, I'm bringing
my sister down with it.
She this nigga.
Speaker 2 (01:00:46):
But yeah, I think we
talked about that on one of the
episodes, because Don't judge me, matter of fact, I'm bringing
my sister down with it.
She was eating it with me too.
We was eating the applesauceand the biscuits together.
Speaker 1 (01:00:54):
Oh, Cheddar Bay
biscuits With applesauce huh.
Speaker 3 (01:00:56):
So both of y'all was
pregnant.
Speaker 1 (01:00:58):
Discus Nigga shut up.
Speaker 3 (01:01:00):
Y'all eating.
Y'all eating Crisps, fries andice cream.
That's grim.
We was kids, bro, I was hurtwhen they took the applesauce
off of me.
Speaker 2 (01:01:09):
Hey, I ain't gonna
lie.
Speaker 3 (01:01:10):
Hey, nah, for real
though restaurant applesauce is
fire because Jason's roll housebe hitting.
Bro, I don't know what it is,because it's not the
store-bought applesauce, becauseit doesn't have as much
cinnamon.
Speaker 2 (01:01:24):
That hoe back there
in the back in Burroughs.
Speaker 1 (01:01:33):
Man cinnamon back
there in the back in burrows man
home a pound jars we probablyin somebody feet.
Speaker 3 (01:01:37):
Y'all need no back,
they back there, crunch.
You know, you need people feethey hey look, all you wine
drinkers, feet, feet feet.
Speaker 1 (01:01:49):
That's what that is
when you pop it open.
You smell that little.
Speaker 3 (01:01:52):
Yep, feet feet, feet
feet.
The good wine.
Anyway, you know what I'msaying, yeah, that French wine.
Definitely is feet, yeah boyDrinking that feet, feet Boy.
That feet feet juice Nasty, ohdude.
Hey they drinking that toe jamfrom uh house party dude was
straight spreading that shit ona cracker disgusting, bro,
(01:02:14):
disgusting all you kids, no morebro them high school definitely
looked 82 them niggas looked soold man so high I had to like
when we was kids I didn't tripoff of it because I knew them
was adults.
Speaker 1 (01:02:26):
Now, as an adult, I'm
looking back.
Like them niggas look olderthan me now.
Yeah.
In high school and I'm in my30s, them niggas in high school.
We're supposed to be playinghigh school cats, bro, ain't no
way.
Speaker 3 (01:02:37):
Nah, like all right,
so like kid could have passed.
Speaker 1 (01:02:44):
Don't talk about them
.
Muscular niggas?
Speaker 3 (01:02:46):
Oh no, hell, no, they
was not them niggas, them
niggas was 40.
Speaker 1 (01:02:50):
What had to be man
Even?
Speaker 3 (01:02:52):
the Kid and.
Speaker 1 (01:02:53):
Play.
They got yeah they pulled itoff.
Even Pee Wee, even MartinMartin definitely looked like he
might've been more.
Speaker 3 (01:03:00):
In his 20s.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (01:03:02):
But he was all.
He ain't go to the school, didhe?
But he was still Kicking itwith them.
Speaker 3 (01:03:07):
Cause he was the one
With the car.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, but I guessand I don't even think Play was
in the school.
I think Play was older andMcKee was the only one In high
school.
Speaker 1 (01:03:16):
Was it?
Yeah, I gotta go back and watchthat shit now.
I mean it been too long yeah it, have seen it, that's why.
Speaker 2 (01:03:24):
I zoned out.
I forgot about that movie.
Speaker 1 (01:03:27):
It's been so long,
bro.
What you think about it, bro?
Like a lot of 90s movies peopleain't seen, like I had to get
my wife to watch.
Like original White man Can'tJump, bro, classic.
Speaker 2 (01:03:38):
I feel like that's
because certain people have
watched certain things.
Their upbringing was a littledifferent.
But, like I said, I feel like,at the end of the day, everybody
in black culture should havewatched A Friday For sure.
Speaker 1 (01:03:51):
I agree with that.
I agree with that A Friday.
Speaker 3 (01:03:55):
A Friday.
Speaker 2 (01:03:58):
What else I would
like to say?
Like Boys in the Hood, but I'mnot going to put that on there.
Speaker 1 (01:04:04):
Yeah, because Like
Boys in the Hood Men in
Society's society.
Speaker 3 (01:04:06):
You know, I'm saying
stuff like that because some
kids, parents wouldn't even letthem watch that type of boy
maybe yeah baby boy.
Speaker 1 (01:04:12):
Like jason's lyric,
like love jones, like I feel
like them, like them was likeappropriate for everybody to
like have on tv other thanfriday crooklyn uh what else,
bro?
Speaker 3 (01:04:23):
no, what's other than
Friday.
What's that?
One movie Like.
Speaker 2 (01:04:29):
Soul Food All right.
Speaker 1 (01:04:31):
Soul Food, that's a
solid one.
Speaker 2 (01:04:33):
Yep, yep.
And then you know Love andBasketball.
Speaker 1 (01:04:36):
Love and Basketball,
for sure, for sure.
That's why I said them like Ron.
Combs the Wood.
That's my favorite movie, bro.
So yeah, for sure, for sure,For sure.
Speaker 2 (01:04:49):
If you ain't seen the
wood that's a problem, bro, bro
.
But I know one thing thisgeneration would never really
know how tyler perry startedwhere them plays was clad.
Speaker 1 (01:04:57):
I'm talking about the
boo legs bhs yeah, bro, or like
the, the dvd man that had it.
He printed his own cover in alittle thin little case.
Speaker 2 (01:05:08):
He started in the
church doing plays.
Speaker 3 (01:05:10):
Hey, but see, this is
the thing A lot of people don't
know.
Those are real trenches totrophies, definitions.
That man came from the bottomand made his way up.
Now, when people sit there andtalk about how Tyler Perry, this
Tyler Perry, that he got hisown studio, fuck you, nigga.
He did something right bro, soyou cool with him wearing a
(01:05:31):
dress then man, I ain't trippingoff of that, he rich, if that's
what he had to do to take careof his family, bro, like hey.
Speaker 1 (01:05:39):
So that's another
black movie.
Man Wanda, Big Mama's House,you know what I'm saying?
Speaker 3 (01:05:44):
You know what I'm
saying, martin Jamie Foxx.
Oh, you're talking about yeah,yeah, yeah, almost everybody bro
.
Speaker 2 (01:05:48):
Big Mama's house is
solid, you respect them the same
as the man, that who hasn't.
Speaker 3 (01:05:53):
Yeah, and you know
why?
Speaker 1 (01:05:55):
Because I don't know
them, keenan and Nick Cannon.
Y'all remember them lateversions of all that, when they
was dressing up as them ghettochicks in the grocery store.
Speaker 3 (01:06:14):
Bro, it's a lot of
people that dressed up as
females bro so it's like reallife shit, they were playing
characters.
Yeah, if my partner walked upwith a dress and was like, yeah,
what's up, bro bam's tried toslap fire with me, I'd be like,
hey, what the damn what you sayabout the people like, do like
young thug or something doing itfor Content and an album.
Speaker 1 (01:06:28):
I was finna say it's
a lot of comedians and stuff
that be having wigs and dresseson, and you know Right.
Speaker 3 (01:06:34):
I'm gonna say this.
His name is Jeffrey.
He's playing A character, youngThug, where he's rapping About
having A A A long gun Under hisdress.
That's okay.
Guess what, though?
He has, I guess, proof of himhaving girlfriends, wives,
(01:06:57):
whatever.
All that bay and all that they.
But it's bro you but I feellike you know how to be
obviouslyas be, and I don'treally care.
Speaker 1 (01:07:09):
To my thing is I
don't really care.
I think you should presentwhat's true to you.
I think that's the first thing.
So I definitely get like if mypartner walked up I'd be like,
hey, what you got going on.
Speaker 2 (01:07:18):
That's not who I know
.
You as you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (01:07:23):
I got too many homies
to like.
Speaker 3 (01:07:25):
You think?
Young Thug went on the blocklike that.
He probably would have youreally no.
Speaker 1 (01:07:34):
No, all right bro, so
I'm going to challenge y'all
thinking, bro, I'm going tochallenge y'all thinking so.
Certain niggas, bro, especiallylike in hood culture,
especially if they crazy, theydo shit.
And niggas, let them do shit,cause them niggas Is who the
fuck they is.
Like how you think?
Like pimp game and shit started.
Imagine the first nigga whowalked out With a fucking perm
(01:07:55):
and a colorful suit, like youknow what I'm saying.
But then somebody, that nigga,somebody, said some slick shit
and he slapped the shit out ofthem and then stabbed their ass
and left them in a motherfuckingalley somewhere.
It's just motherfuckers do wildshit bro, I don't know that
nigga was he's crazy enough toprobably have worn that shit
somewhere.
See I gotta, I'm challenging youthere why you?
(01:08:16):
Why you?
You see, these niggas out herechallenge challenge.
Speaker 3 (01:08:21):
Nigga said what you
got, do it, choose your weapon
we should have really had thisshit on camera challenge now
look.
So look you talking about theman who walked out first with
(01:08:44):
the perm Guess who he wasemulating James Brown.
So they saw a man who was beinga character and they wanted to
be like him.
Speaker 1 (01:08:53):
But that's my point.
That's my point, right,Ironically right.
Go back to when we was youngand Boondocks first came out.
Speaker 3 (01:09:01):
The whole.
Speaker 1 (01:09:01):
Gangsta-licious shit.
Right, it's the same shit thatnigga was playing.
Gangsta licious was technicallyplaying a character.
Yeah right, riling them copiedoff of them.
So my argument is gangstalicious is gonna be comfortable
enough to wear this shit on theblock because he know it's gonna
be little rileys that's gonnarock the same shit.
He gonna hit, they gonna amenit, they gonna be right behind
(01:09:21):
them doing that same shit holdon, hold on yeah, but hold on, I
ain't saying shit aboutanybody's sexuality because I'm
not aware.
Uh, I don't I don't knowanything about it.
That was a character I don'tknow.
Speaker 3 (01:09:32):
I don't know guys, I
get it, but where I'm gonna cut
that short is that was a cartoonall I'm saying that wasn't real
.
Speaker 1 (01:09:41):
It was a lot of
situations.
Speaker 2 (01:09:43):
I get it.
It was based on things peoplewere doing and black culture.
Speaker 3 (01:09:47):
But y'all got to
understand black culture.
It don't matter, nigga, how youfeel you not walking around
here with that shit on withoutgetting your ass whooped.
It don't matter about nobody'sstatus.
At that point, the block goingto whoop your ass that.
It don't matter about nobody'sstatus.
At that point, the block gonnawhoop your ass.
Speaker 1 (01:10:04):
That's what I'm
saying.
It don't work like that.
It's as a joke.
It don't work like that youthink it still work like that.
You think those rules still inplay?
Speaker 3 (01:10:12):
Damn right, because
niggas don't play that shit.
Speaker 1 (01:10:15):
I think it depends on
where you at.
I'm not arguing with thatmentality.
Speaker 3 (01:10:19):
Them niggas got to be
down with that shit too, then
that's what.
I'm saying you ain't gonna findtoo many Blocks like that, bruh
, I'm just saying the one hecame from.
Speaker 1 (01:10:32):
I feel like he would
have been Comfortable enough to
wear that shit when he came from.
I doubt it, maybe not before hegot famous, but I definitely
think that at that time He'dhave wore that shit.
I'm standing on that Becauseanytime he going to get out and
go do that shit just because bro.
Speaker 3 (01:10:48):
Hey, if he did,
that's on him.
Speaker 1 (01:10:50):
He going to catch me
into this shit?
Speaker 3 (01:10:51):
Well, first of all,
he can't go back there.
He can't go back there forabout 15 years.
I mean you know what, butanytime that I've seen it, it
was on some LA photo shoot.
Yeah, you know what I'm sayingit wasn't on there, like that,
and then they played off the gayshit.
Speaker 2 (01:11:10):
That's what made them
more famous.
Yeah, I know we've been on fora minute, but look, oh yeah,
it's definitely been an hour anda half.
How y'all feel about how 50 andthe meat situation has been
playing out.
Speaker 1 (01:11:24):
That y'all feel about
how 50 and the meat situation
has been playing out.
That shit grimy because it's, Ifeel like it's a lot of unknown
information, bro.
But so my, my perspective andit's it came off uh, me doing
some research on social media islittle meat, specifically was
damned if he did, damned if hedidn't right because he sighed
with his daddy.
You stupid, you you cross 50.
He side with 50.
(01:11:44):
Nigga, you crazy.
That's your daddy, that's yourblood.
He'd have been.
He's fucked regardless.
You know what I'm saying.
So he was put in a difficultsituation.
Now the other niggas you got tounderstand them, hood niggas,
who feel like they name carrymore weight than a lot of niggas
because they niggas been sayingbig mitch name and songs for
forever.
So they got out with a bit of achip on their shoulder and you
know 50.
(01:12:04):
50 don't really do likeshoulder to shoulder.
You kind of like your son, youknow what I'm saying.
Like that's kind of how hemoved and I don't see them
niggas taking that shit verywell.
You know what I'm saying so, Ifeel like it was a lot of like
disagreement with how businesswas being handled, because they
wanted bigger pieces and theywanted to be.
Speaker 3 (01:12:22):
You know what I'm
saying more in charge of this
shit, but they had already tookover the show.
Speaker 1 (01:12:26):
They had, like, when
Big Terry got out they had
already took over the show, butthis was over them taking the
pitches with Ross right, this iswhere that came from.
You know what I'm saying.
As far as like, I mean.
But think about it, bro Likeabout it, bro, like love 50 to
(01:12:47):
death, yeah, you know.
But we know that though.
Yeah, knowing that, yeah, andalready being in business with
him, and knowing he's petty asfuck, why would you even you
know what I'm saying, like, whywould you?
Speaker 3 (01:12:52):
because, man, hey,
because all right, so look a
regular nigga's mentality withmoney is going to trust people.
You see what, what I'm saying?
And he been in the game a longtime.
He don't care.
He don't care about nobody'sfeelings, bruh.
Hey, i'ma be cool with orwithout you, cause.
Speaker 1 (01:13:10):
I'ma get money
wherever I can type shit.
Speaker 3 (01:13:12):
Yeah, yeah, yeah he
ain't tripping off of that, but
other people they like.
Speaker 1 (01:13:16):
oh man, I know he,
they didn't even.
You feel like 50 was justifiedor no Cause I feel like At this
point I feel like 50 had to.
This one thing Whether you feellike 50 Was right or wrong, bro
50 consistent, 50 gonna be 50and I feel like In that
situation.
People gotta expect 50 To be 50.
So if you you know what I mean,you gotta know what lines
(01:13:39):
You're crossing.
Like I feel like with Lil Meach, again he was fucked regardless
Because once people put him hewas put in that situation like
he couldn't do no right.
There was no right decision.
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (01:13:51):
That's what I'm
saying With me, lil Meach.
He was screwed.
Yeah, he was screwed Becausealso that boy 50, he live off
those, live by those, for theylaws of power.
So he was going to crush hisenemy and that his enemy was
Meech, so his son was going tobe collateral damage regardless.
Speaker 3 (01:14:10):
Yep.
Speaker 2 (01:14:11):
So go ahead.
Speaker 3 (01:14:14):
As we, as men, us
three.
If we have issues, what we tryto do, we try to have
conversation we have dialogue,right, yeah?
So why wasn't there dialogue onboth parties?
Speaker 1 (01:14:28):
we don't know meech,
meech, that's the thing.
Speaker 3 (01:14:30):
Yeah, it's a lot of
little meech, I don't know but
see, that's the thing withcelebrities a lot of shit be
playing out online exactly andthey be saying shit and deleting
shit.
That fuck you right there.
That right there.
I'm kind of like 50.
If I see some shit that youposted and it's kind of about me
or some shit like that, and Iknow it, I'm on your ass, boy.
Speaker 2 (01:14:54):
I'm on your ass.
Speaker 3 (01:14:56):
Yep, I'm on your ass
boy 51 of them people.
Speaker 2 (01:14:58):
Bro, let's say you
throw a little pebble at that
nigga, he gonna run you overlike he don't, yeah, he don't
play that shit like partners,yeah, yeah he, he gonna let you
know you gonna feel that withhis partners, what you think he
ain't gonna do it to you foramen but, that's what I'm saying
.
Speaker 1 (01:15:12):
You and you knew that
this nigga 50 been the guy we
not remember, buck.
We don't remember that wholesituation and how he treated
that nigga.
We don't remember all of that.
Don't remember that wholesituation and how he treated
that nigga, we don't rememberall of that.
Speaker 3 (01:15:22):
Nigga, anybody,
anybody he don't know, to show
up with.
Speaker 1 (01:15:25):
Nigga.
Don't nobody remember Fofty nowLike that nigga bro, it was a
whole situation Like weunderstand who that nigga is and
how he do business.
So when you get into businesswith that nigga, why you even
playing them types of games you?
Speaker 3 (01:15:37):
know what I'm saying.
That's the thing.
You know what I'm saying?
That's the thing.
Speaker 1 (01:15:40):
Whether he right or
wrong.
I don't understand why youwould play with that nigga and
50,.
Speaker 3 (01:15:44):
I ain't saying he
invincible, it's just he's not
going to stop, bro.
He's like one of them peoplethat like if you got beef with
this nigga and if you don't killthis nigga, he going to whoop
your ass every time you see him,bro.
Speaker 1 (01:16:00):
And he's not going to
kill you, that's the thing, bro
.
Speaker 3 (01:16:01):
He just gonna violate
you Every time.
He the joker bro.
Speaker 1 (01:16:04):
He legit the joker
bro, he show up.
He be like Ha ha ha ha, hegonna laugh in your face.
Kill me, nigga.
Speaker 2 (01:16:09):
You not gonna do it
though, are you?
Speaker 3 (01:16:11):
Ha, ha, ha ha, nigga,
you gonna be at the gas station
.
You gonna be at the gas station, this nigga coming again.
Speaker 1 (01:16:16):
That nigga is
definitely petty, but let's hope
we never owe that nigga nomoney.
Speaker 3 (01:16:19):
You know Ever Shout
out.
Speaker 1 (01:16:22):
Look, shout out to
Fofty, Shout out to all our
listeners, man.
Speaker 2 (01:16:25):
I'm trying to hey
I'll be in a power series.
Speaker 1 (01:16:27):
You hear me you hear
me Look, look, hey, if you need
some podcast, if you have apodcast, that's just featured in
the episode we set up.
Speaker 2 (01:16:35):
We bring all our own
shit you know what I'm saying
Shut up in the warehouse.
Make me a main character.
Speaker 3 (01:16:41):
Make me a main
character.
Speaker 1 (01:16:42):
I can do whatever
Nigga said.
I did.
He said, hey, hold on, I whackthese motherfucking locks off
what you talking about.
Speaker 3 (01:16:47):
I do whatever I ain't
doing.
No off the wall shit.
You hear me?
I'm a new actor, I ain't withall that.
Speaker 1 (01:16:56):
I got a wife and kids
.
You know that nigga got a sexscene Every episode.
Speaker 3 (01:16:59):
I be like I just
wanna play a gangster or
something I don't wanna do.
No extra stuff.
Speaker 1 (01:17:02):
Definitely.
We can definitely play SomeBlockboys.
That'll be cool.
I'll fuck with that, yeah yeah.
I'll fuck with that.
Speaker 3 (01:17:09):
I'll put in some fake
locks and everything Holla.
Speaker 1 (01:17:12):
Holla, bro, that's
probably just how you twist your
shit up.
For the time being, you just bethat nigga with twisties.
I play a bump.
It's always a nigga withtwisties on the show.
Speaker 3 (01:17:22):
I play a bump.
Speaker 1 (01:17:25):
You got chill, I play
a crackhead Alright y'all.
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